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Based on some of the guys that I know very well that get fine women regularly, the positive reinforcement bit goes a LONG way. I’m talking over 40 bodies before 23 years old. All of them have real boy moms. What I mean by that is you can tell that their mother’s have never let them second guess their self-worth and it carried into every aspect of their lives. Even if there are other things that they know they aren’t as competent at, it never changes their self-image and especially not when it co…
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:18 PM
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personally in a business setting i would say not to engage in a romantic relationship or any type as that can get messy very quick and the risk doesn’t outweigh the reward. outside of the workplace, i agree whole heartedly with #3. in college, tips 1 and 3 were the main ones that took me from having issues closing with women to feeling like the process was easy.
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:48 PM
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agreed. more than half of the women i’ve been with didn’t have any emotional connection with me
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:38 PM
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I don’t see it as having a number of women I want to talk to. Nor have I since my mindset changed. I go into it thinking they could potentially be a mate sometime in the future, but I’m not forcing it. The date is to see whether I enjoy her enough to have any level of relationship with her and that takes time. That time can span from 20 mins to 2 weeks (so to speak) depending on what type of relationship I eventually feel we could have. But regardless of that, I want to enjoy doing something fun…
/r/seduction10/04/25 03:24 AM
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Yes, it’s not easy. For most it takes reframing how they value women. Instead of only seeing them as a potential sexual or romantic partner, remember that they are people first. That’s why I always went on dates to places that I enjoyed going on my own anyway, just having a female companion makes it more enjoyable. If we click, then I may upgrade my expectations. If not, then it was just a fun time for the one time.
/r/seduction09/04/25 02:47 PM
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One of the earliest lessons I learned was to go into dates or links without expectations. I would go in with the purpose of having fun with a woman to add to it regardless of whether it turned sexual or not. Also, a secondary purpose was to genuinely learn about her too. Took some serious Ls to learn this and genuinely feel this way though, lol.
/r/seduction08/04/25 11:48 PM
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yes exactly. just tends to be a different level at the club in my opinion
/r/seduction07/04/25 08:34 PM
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I’m attractive but only 6’. All of these experiences are from college though, and I go to a Big Ten school. Thus, the D1 football players tended to also show up and are way taller than me.
/r/seduction07/04/25 08:33 PM
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In my experience, I usually was the one getting “picked up”. At the club, I never really liked cold approaching and didn’t have much success going in completely cold. As I became more experienced with women, I developed an understanding of how they were actually shooting their shot with me nonverbally. Either a certain look or repetitive looks indicated she found me attractive. Knowing this I would approach if I was feeling it. At that point, I would walk up and just talk to her about the enviro…
/r/seduction07/04/25 04:03 AM
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lol facts. their go to is to ask silly questions
/r/seduction05/04/25 01:02 AM
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In my experience, I’ve always been able to end up doing something sexual with the woman I was interested in as long as I mentally told myself not to expect it and that I didn’t care if it happened. If I was in a date with a woman I was more interested in her for who she was as a person. However, I also kept in the back of my mind that if I was looking more for a fwb situation, I was going to need to break the touch barrier and change the topic to something more suggestive by the end of the date.…
/r/seduction26/03/25 01:55 PM
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Well if you’ve made it to her that clear you don’t want her then you don’t have any obligation to maintain the level of communication she wants. Either you want her or you don’t, and it’s pretty simple what to do once you have that answer.
/r/seduction21/03/25 05:40 PM
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I’d say there are a few ways to go about it. You can say the friends one for sure, but the first thing that came to my mind was to use that question as a way to flirt with her. You could say that you heard that the girls that go to gay clubs are prettier (or you could say more fun) than the ones at the straight clubs. More simply, you could really even say that you like the music there better.
/r/seduction21/03/25 01:56 PM
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I have a decent physique, have gotten the “you should be a model”, but I’ve also heard very mixed reviews on my facial attractiveness over the years so idek at this point
/r/seduction24/12/24 08:08 PM
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Of course waiting for a story is ideal, but another trick I used to do is like a few pics (not her most recent one) and if it’s reciprocated I would go straight to the dm. I would then probably say something like “Is your vibe in person as good as I see on your profile?” or if there was something interesting in a particular post I would send it to her and ask or comment on it
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:19 PM
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I’ve been approached much more than the average man. Some of them have been more forward than others depending on the setting. Some of the approaches can definitely be attributed to me being in a relationship, but I’ve been approached quite a bit outside of that during the day and in night game settings. You are absolutely correct about the “framed man” getting approached/seduced by women more because that’s essentially what my current girlfriend described me as. She along with other women said …
/r/seduction20/12/24 03:53 AM
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One memorable cold approach success story was my junior year of college when me and my homie cold approached these 2 friends at a party. We both immediately agreed on which ones we wanted and walked up to them and started talking. It started as a group conversation but then both of us eventually isolated with the girl we wanted and went a deeper into conversation and flirting. Eventually some twerk music came on and both of danced with our respective girls before getting their numbers. Funny par…
/r/seduction20/12/24 02:11 AM
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I have a few different times before. But as another commenter said, it was better when the approach was kind of indirect. For instance, I asked a girl a question about the workout she was doing (that i already knew the answer to) just to start a conversation and let it flow from there. A different time i playfully teased another girl about how she wasn’t getting any work done by texting on her phone through half the workout and she laughed, her eyes lit up then started a conversation. I have dir…
/r/seduction17/12/24 03:03 PM
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then do it
/r/seduction16/12/24 07:15 AM
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Your friend got game😂
/r/seduction14/12/24 04:58 PM
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As to what I was asking for, your background was sounding similar to what I experienced moving to Indiana for a few months, and I’m an only child, so I was asking from the social standpoint but you said you’re good on that. As to the dating apps, your pictures are the most important and trying not to screw up your presentation. Find a style that’s congruent with you, as a business owner the real cut and clean business suit attire can work if you max everything about your look that can be done na…
/r/seduction13/12/24 11:14 PM
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Might sound like a random question but the answer might help me to help you, are you an only child but have a bunch of cousins? Or just big gap in age between you and your sibling?
/r/seduction13/12/24 10:45 PM
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I see. So in the times you have tried to spice it up, if you have already, did he make you feel confident at all? Because from my experience and what I’ve learned most people have their own style of sexiness and it just takes either the right person or using their own imagination to unlock it. A lot of it us self image too
/r/seduction13/12/24 01:34 PM
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Reading this, I only see 2 solutions, either you would have to become very introspective and figure out what mentally about trying to be sexy makes you squeamish and what does turn you on or make you feel sexy if anything, or going to relationship therapy with him or to a therapist that specializes in opening up repressed sexuality or something of the sort. As another commenter said you should also ask him what specifically he means by sex appeal, tell him that you’re working on it, and ask him …
/r/seduction13/12/24 01:22 PM
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If they don’t feel enough confidence from you they might go out of their way to embarrass you in rejection. You have to exude some confidence to succeed
/r/seduction13/12/24 05:25 AM
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Go to the hood and copy paste their style/slang until it becomes who you are. Otherwise you’re cooked unless you throw/flash money at them
/r/seduction13/12/24 03:32 AM
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Be friendly but don’t overthink what to say. My favorite openers were either something playful on how they might be using their phone too much or doing some exercise wrong. You have to frame it and speak it in a tone that makes it obvious that you’re joking and just teasing. If they open up to conversation from that proceed, if not tell them have a nice day and move on. The other way I’ve liked yo do it is asking them a “dumb” question so as to frame it as though they are teaching me something e…
/r/seduction12/12/24 10:36 PM
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Okay well I’m a believer that if you improve your physical appearance, social skills, style, and confidence then you will attract more higher level women in general. However, to attract a specific archetype of woman you most likely will need to change your style to match what your desired group of women is usually attracted to. Like if you wanted gym girls you would do well to dress like the gym bros who are getting the most attention from women in the gym
/r/seduction12/12/24 05:07 PM
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Well I feel like a lot of women wear tight clothing or athletic wear. The jewelry part may be not as much of a big thing but I definitely see women who wear a lot. Although, “a lot”, is subjective. Also, large hoop earrings tend to be a thing in the Black community which I am apart of so🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/seduction12/12/24 04:38 PM
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If you took away the music taste this sounds like 80 percent of women tbh. Unless you get more specific, I would say just improve everything about yourself then walk outside
/r/seduction12/12/24 04:18 PM
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Dude I literally got my first ex because she loved how I interacted with her friend who I was already flirting with/trying to date. Then when I got my second ex, she had literally watched me making out with another girl at the club. I have many other examples, but having women around me has always attracted more women.
/r/seduction11/12/24 03:17 PM
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Where’s the question.
/r/seduction11/12/24 03:24 AM
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To differentiate oneself from the onslaught of people who use a never ending shower of validation to flirt or communicate interest. It can also be used to gauge just how “needy” the target of the negging is for you.
/r/seduction11/12/24 02:09 AM
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negging isn’t always to deflate ego
/r/seduction10/12/24 11:58 PM
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There’s no chance of having a healthy relationship with her again. I understand if you wanna smash or something again, but just know that it would be smart to leave it at that if anything. If you’re actually concerned about your self-respect and confidence you should leave her completely alone and close that door. Then, level yourself up and be the best you that you can be on your own.
/r/seduction06/12/24 05:48 PM
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move on to the next
/r/seduction30/11/24 03:07 AM
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I wouldn’t say that there needs to be a seduction subreddit for women, as the vast majority of women don’t have trouble seducing who they want. Obviously there are outliers which sounds like is you, but as someone else has said, maybe a subreddit for getting guys to commit. But, from what I’ve read from you in the comments, I don’t see a clear end goal. I saw you said “i want to meet more men” in response to somebody, but if you are getting matches and you’re actually attractive that shouldn’t b…
/r/seduction26/11/24 10:54 PM
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I’m ngl, some of the suggestions in the comments are gas
/r/seduction18/11/24 10:56 PM
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Sorry it’s hard to give concrete examples when I just react situationally. The jokes and innuendos only really work when used organically and not planned.
/r/seduction17/11/24 05:43 AM
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Obviously innuendos are very situational, but as someone who goes to the gym and eats a lot, most of the ones I’ve used revolve around that. With the gym you can use things like being/getting sweaty, the heavy breathing, stretching, or being strong enough to throw them around or put them in certain positions. With food, you can play on being a messy eater, saying they look delicious, talking about licking or eating certain things that tend to have sexual undertones to them. Just have fun with it…
/r/seduction17/11/24 03:48 AM
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On instagram, the best method on ig for MOST people in my experience and from what I’ve seen, is to make a witty/almost negging comment or an open ended question to a story post the girl makes. If she responds with more than a one word answer, then keep that energy in the conversation as long as it’s light and fun. Maintaining that energy is the number one priority as long as she reciprocates. As others have said, try to work in flirty innuendos, and if she responds positively to them, lead the …
/r/seduction16/11/24 08:05 PM
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I promise you that I know people who do, unfortunately.
/r/seduction15/11/24 01:53 PM
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Growing up I was never the guy who was lusted over at all. But in a few different periods of time in my life, I had/have experienced the raw lust of women and there appeared to be 3 overarching reasons. Before I even get to those reasons, I will say that improving yourself as a man mind, body, and soul is the real answer to maximize women’s lust for you. But more specific to my experience, I first started getting lusted after a noticeable amount my last 2 years of high school and I can attribute…
/r/seduction12/11/24 01:23 PM
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Don’t think of it as bothering them. Think of it as introducing them to the opportunity of having a fun, enjoyable time with you. Women love to be wanted and approached as long as you aren’t overly pushy or immediately sexual.
/r/seduction08/11/24 06:05 AM
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What I used to do is start off talking to girls that I considered no better than a 7 as practice. I told myself that I had to practice during the summer so that I would have the confidence and game to approach once i got back to college for the next semester. I only talked to a few that summer and just had conversations with them so I got more comfortable just talking to above average women in general. Once I got back, I made it a point to talk to any attractive women that I seemed open to me an…
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:35 PM
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I’m 23 years old, and last week I ran into a woman that was a 35+, probably over 40 woman. I was walking into a store and she was walking out with who I’m assuming was her husband. When she looked at me she held her gaze well into the “choosing signal zone” of time as I’d call it. She started smiling overly hard too and said hello to me in front of her man as well. I have other similar instances to this too over the past couple of years, but they definitely look a lot.
/r/seduction04/11/24 11:32 PM
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Of course, but assuming you’re not purposely being obtuse, you learn skills by DOING them and practicing until the skills are perfected. Unless you pay someone to teach you how to talk like someone else, it’s up to OP to try and learn through experience what works for them. For something like this that is dependent on individual personality, the “how” is just trying until you find what works - which makes it a “when”.
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:26 PM
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He said when and not how because the how is simply to try and learn until it’s automatic
/r/seduction01/10/24 04:26 PM
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When I met my ex gf I had just got finished making out with another girl at the club. My ex told me that was the reason she went to the bathroom briefly, but she was still extremely receptive when I approached her. In general though, I have never gotten as much attention as when I have been in a committed relationship. Women have never been more bold and willing to approach me first. My other ex basically told me that girls definitely want you more if they know you are with another woman already…
/r/seduction25/09/24 12:03 AM
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You don’t have to tell them in the approach what you’re looking for unless it comes up, and if it does don’t lie. As someone else mentioned, looking like a fboy will likely solve your problem without you having to say anything. Otherwise you’re most likely eventually gonna get the “what are we” or “what are you looking for” question and you shouldn’t lie. Lying just leads to a lot of crap in the future and you have to be okay with some women not trying to be on the casual wave. If you have a pro…
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:14 PM
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I think you would find it more helpful if you approach the first date thinking less specifically about what you want to say and more about how you can make it enjoyable for both of you. In my experience you can do this either by getting her to tell you who she is in a lighthearted, fun way, or you can get her to connect with you on something you find so enjoyable that she gets absorbed into your vibe. An important thing you will have to do is listen to her and read what you can about her. If you…
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:51 AM
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Yeah. All I did was be okay with it not happening and they eventually wanted it more than I did. All I had to do was be myself and it happened.
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:54 PM
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amazing
/r/seduction11/06/24 07:22 AM
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I think the way to enjoy talking to women and people in general is to change your mindset about why you’re talking to them. Don’t think of it as you’re talking to them with hopes of escalating to something sexual. Think of it as talking to them just to enjoy a conversation with the opposite sex because it’s fun. Flirting is fun and that feeling of approaching despite the nervousness feels so rewarding regardless of the outcome. If flirting doesn’t seem fun to you then you can also frame it as ta…
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:48 PM
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It would help if you provided more context, but it sounds like she’s just put you in the friends category not the sexually attracted to category. You probably didn’t make the romantic moves she expected of you also.
/r/seduction27/01/24 06:57 PM
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This.
/r/seduction27/01/24 03:29 PM
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You actually couldn’t be more wrong in almost literally every part of this post. It’s never been easier than it is now to pull ANY kind of woman as a Black man. You simply are too insecure and have no game or lack the effort. Being from the midwest I could almost say that being up here makes a noticeable difference, but it doesn’t. Since I’ve been in college I haven’t had any problems attracting or dating attractive women of any race from different places in the US. I know multiple other Black m…
/r/seduction18/01/24 01:22 AM
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Everyone else has pretty much told you what you need to do, but I do have to say that the City Girls aren’t trash at all. Nor is modern day hip hop.
/r/seduction06/09/23 02:10 PM
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Sorry I meant “can”, and it will be but you got it.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:38 AM
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Mine are the same way and I struggle with risk taking too even now. What helped me is surrounding myself with people who take more risks than I do and throwing myself into those things I was afraid of taking risks in.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:02 AM
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Creepy would be something too overly sexual. If I were joking about a woman’s appearance I usually like to aim jokes about her forehead being big or her ears being small. I wouldn’t do personal life until you ascertain what things she’s very sensitive about. You have to know your place with her.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:59 AM
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Personally I wouldn’t joke about her at all until you sense she’s comfortable with you, and until you know she can take the joke you have to make a very light joke. Also be careful of HOW you say it because that matters a lot. The line is also different for different girls. For instance an extremely religious girl has a line that’s much more sensitive to edginess that’s a much more “out there”. It takes reading them and maybe even getting to know a little bit about them to find the line and the …
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:56 AM
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I’m in college too, and I believe in college it’s imperative that you get over that fear of social rejection. What about it scares you? I know I used to as well, but what I did to break out of it was when I felt afraid to say something or be assertive I just pushed myself to do it before I could think about it or second guess myself. Definitely got embarrassed a few times but when you get used to it and it works a few times it becomes easy.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:50 AM
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Just say the straight up truth. If you want to be a little funny you can say you break backs on the side.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:44 AM
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I just ignore everyone who isn’t adding to my life. Also, if a woman tried to hit me with the “you changed yourself for women phrase” I would respond by saying “And so what if I did? Jenny, Rachel, and Mary fell in love with me anyway and you’re next.” You really just can’t care about what other people think or say about you. That’s how I’ve dealt with it.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:43 AM
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As long as you don’t give off creepy vibes and you remain confident in yourself, you will be fine in 99% of cases. Learning how to read women will also help you to sort out which of them are uncomfortable about your jokes and behavior. So as long as you can sift through those type of women and you don’t do anything creepy, you should be fine.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:22 AM
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Having a good looking face is only a part of the attraction equation with women. If you have a good mouth piece and a strong frame you can go much further than men with handsome faces. As for lifting, you shouldn’t be lifting just for women in the first place. It’s essential for your health and it will help in other areas of life. However, if you have a good enough body, there are many women that will look past your ugliness if you have good frame to go with a good body. The confidence you gain …
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:17 AM
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Subtly suggest that you can’t get those things you want from elsewhere (or actually get them from elsewhere) and subtly get her to feel like she needs to compete with the other women. Then stroke her imagination so she can visualize herself doing those things with you. Finally like someone said before me, lead her to it.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:12 AM
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This. If you don’t have any other plates it’s time to go get some, and move on. Can’t sit around waiting on her to come back around, and you definitely can’t chase after her either. If you can’t find some new plates, use the time to put extra work into something important to you or find new hobbies.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:06 AM
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For me, it depends on the girl and her vibe. If I know that’s all I want for one time I don’t really pay attention but I make the conversation anyway so she feels comfortable. If I’m messing with a girl that has a vibe that interests me and that I’d want to dig out consistently I would actually get to know her some. Don’t want to be doing that consistently with someone that I don’t know their motivations and how they think because they could potentially be a problem. Also, you definitely can’t h…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:26 PM
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No problem. And yeah you’re probably just overthinking it. You really just need to hop in and do it. Can’t worry about making mistakes; it’s natural and they’re going to happen.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:15 PM
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On a date rely more on the moment and what’s going on around you. I personally think that more active dates are a little better until you get comfortable relying solely on your mouthpiece, and even once you are confident in your game they can still be good for making a lasting impression on her. No matter which route you choose, I think it would be beneficial to choose a date in which you already know the lay of the land, what’s on the menu, and how you want things to go so you feel more comfort…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:07 PM
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In the beginning I’d ask where they’re from so you can get a little insight on how they are and loosen it up a little bit. But you need to focus more on how you talk so you sound calm, confident, and in control. Try not to talk too fast. If she opens up about where she’s from and adds more detail then it should be easy from there. If she opens up automatically I’d ask her something that sounds a little cocky like “so why were you looking at me so hard?” Here you have to note her body language an…
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:49 AM
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No. For instance, if you want them to be a part of your rotation you should ask them about how busy they are or what their schedule is like so you can know if you’ll have time in your own schedule to deal with her consistently. Another question could be if she’s clingy or not since if she is that could obviously be a problem. More practical questions for whatever your goal is.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 10:15 PM
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Then the questions you need to ask and things you need to discuss with women should be pretty simple then. Just can’t lack confidence when you ask/say something about it
/r/askTRP10/02/21 07:38 AM
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Like I said, with girls it takes a lot of trial and error before you get to that level where you’ll feel comfortable. Another things is to think about what your goal is when you talk to them. Ask them questions based on what your goal is for your relationship with them. You’re just ultimately going to have to throw yourself into the deep end and figure out how to swim.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:56 AM
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You gotta try more things and find some hobbies. Try doing things until you find something you like and/or good at and immerse yourself in it. Depending on what that thing is, you may also find an outlet to women through it. Whatever it is you decide to do, grind to be the best you can be at it. When you get good at it that should help your confidence along with the other things people before me have already said. Another thing to do is force yourself into interactions with others to practice ta…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:16 AM
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For me, I’m in an all male group at my college where we talk about stuff that all men talk about, and they recommended some red pill youtubers. However, I didn’t really fully internalize it until I had a fwb turn into a relationship and it went south after some months. When she started tripping and left me, I reacted emotionally and made things a little worse. Before her I really just tried to follow the “rules” to pick up girls and practice game without fully understanding why they said to do t…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:53 AM
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You gotta let her go G. I promise you there’s plenty more girls like her or better than her, but you’re never going to get them if you’re still worrying about a girl who isn’t even thinking about you. Stressing over her isn’t good for you bro.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 05:37 AM
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This is the master blueprint right here
/r/askTRP18/01/21 09:58 PM
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Some ways to limit/eliminate oneitis are to always talk to multiple women and never give one woman more attention or view her a higher than the others, and make sure you limit your time with the women you deal with. Also, find something like a hobby that you love more than women and invest more time into that. Personally for me, just reminding myself of female nature and seeing how things are happening in the world around me help to discourage me from getting stuck in oneitis.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:52 AM
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L-Arginine and L-Citruline should help. I’ve also heard that horny goat weed is good too.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:28 PM
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Don’t fall for the crying and her falling in love with you. As soon as you give in to the guilt she’s trying to put on you she’ll then proceed to try to change you and mold into a beta. You already handled it much better than I did when this happened to me. I’d definitely tell her that things can either stay how they are or she can bounce.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:15 PM
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That’s why you need to have a relationship with God. It’s only through God that you’ll have the strength to resist that temptation. Also, my father always reiterated this piece of advice: “never put yourself in a position where you have to no.” This is basically saying that if you feel yourself getting sucked in to the point where you feel like only answer you’ll be able to say is yes, you need to remove yourself from the situation. Another thing that helps is to limit absorbing any of that ener…
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