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Red Pill TheoryKissTheBridesmaid/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:23 PM
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Women do seem to have a larger appetite for sex, but I think the point is that emotional conquest, not sex would be the primary reason for staying. Her not having achieved this would be a condition for her to even want to fuck you. A woman doesn't get tingles for a man she has completely emotionally concquered.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 08:01 AM
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Great Post. This is also why women need you to suffer deeply after the break up and will sacrifice even their own dignity if it will hurt you. To emotionally destroy you is an important form of validation for her.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/18 07:39 AM
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You are lacking outcome independence, this seems to weaken your frame. You are just getting started and the best way to practice is not to worry about outcome. Do shit just to amuse yourself. Say something outrageous or offensive. Make things awkward on purpose and you can embrace the awkwardness because you created it. See how far you can push it. You'll see that the limit is much further than you think. Have fun with it. If you aren't having fun, neither is she and it seems you were way too hu…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 08:46 AM
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Kinda surprised at how surprised people are. This is quite standard behaviour and not even that bad at all compared to shit I see on a daily basis. But I guess it proves that these kind of reminders are actually much needed.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 07:01 AM
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I used to be this guy. When you put others first, they tend to shit on you. When you put yourself first, pleople love you for it. This is one of the most important lessons I learned from this sub.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 08:55 AM
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Women throw up walls all the time because they love it when you break them down. Most LMR and 'we're not having sex tonight' statements, though also anti-slut mechanisms are mostly shit tests. They want to see that you have the backbone to not be phased by this and that turns them on. Shit tests are a good thing, because they gives you an opportunity to provide tingles. Don't take this out of context. Obviously unless you're an Idiot you will be able to tell if she doesn't want to do something. …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 08:33 AM
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Great post man! Really needed to be reminded of this. If women see even a glimpse of possible guilt, they will give it everything they've got. Fuck you, I don't owe you loyalty after one night because you begged me to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 12:16 PM
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Spot on. Women generally don’t try to improve themselves in order to achieve their hypergamous goals. They simply lose the ability to achieve these goals after a certain age and then It’s easyer for them to pull you down with them. And even then, there are still plenty of chowderheads around who will gladly take a fat middle-aged woman off your hands.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:29 PM
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Nah. Bipolar 1 is very specific and not a simple up/down. It used to be called manic / depressive. Often charactarized by long, lethargic periods and manic episodes in which the person acts COMPLETELY out of character. If you have never seen it happen to someone you know well, you can't understand what that shit's like. They are often extremely euphoric, like someone on molly and aengage in extremely risky behaviour without thought of consequences. Most common signifiers of a manic episode are: …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 12:58 PM
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Man I love Rollo. Dude hits it on the head every time.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:21 PM
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Great post, again exposing how every communication that comes to us has a specific hidden purpose. Often not even very well hidden. As for the presidency, a man will have to bend to the female imperative just as much as a woman, perhaps even more so, in an all-out white knighting effort to avoid being perceived as a misogynist. In order to get the entire female population on your side, simply provide some female privilege. This will get them ALL on your side, even if there are other issues that …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:32 PM
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Bin eigentlich kein Deutscher, blos Sprachbegabt :)
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 09:43 AM
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Klar, dies haben auch einige andere bemerkt. Ich glaube OP meint man kann diesen Satz anwenden in der beschriebenen Situazion, wo es keine gute alternative gibt... Wirkt warscheinlich nicht immer. Gute lieferung und geübte Einschätzung der Situazion sind natürlich wichtig. Ich habe es selber noch nie benutzt. Wenn Sie nichts anderes vorschlägt, bedeutet dies Normalerweise Sie ist (noch) nicht interessiert.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 12:36 PM
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'darum gehts doch gar nicht'
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:27 AM
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Thanks for the FR, very insightful. This shit happens. I am 35 now and I sometimes have phases like this. When I notice that things aren’t clicking with women, there is usually an issue in a different part of my life that needs resolving. It is then important to first and foremost identify and solve this issue. In the past, when I have ignored this or failed to identify the real issue, going out and trying to get laid would create a negative feedback loop. I was trying to solve an unrelated issu…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 09:32 AM
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Hear fucking hear! I was also a boyscout and my first day there I was shit scared and wanted to cry, but it ended up being one of the most important experiences of my life. I learned my strengths and weaknesses and to be ok with my weaknesses and proud of my strengths. I learned to stand up for myself and believe in myself. I Learned to give back in turn when someone takes the piss out of me, rather than over-reacting or running away crying. This is frame control training 101, there’s a reason w…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:11 PM
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If you read cinderella backwards, it's about a woman who learns her place. (Saw this as someone's flair on sosuave once I think)
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:16 AM
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Women are predisposed to ask for help. This means they will more often than not ‘attempt’ suicide as a cry for help. Men just act. They end it. Silently and without a fuss. This is exactly the same way men are opting out of marriage and the lifestyles associated with it. No explanation, no big social movements, no complaining on a massive scale, just a silent exit. No more providing, no more being productive for others. And yet there is a huge outcry from society, shaming men for not ‘manning up…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 08:11 AM
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Great post. This baffled me for a long time. Why has the world gone completely nonsensical? Why are women continuing to get all these privileges, many of which are actually pointless and they don’t actually really want, they just think they want? In a political system in which elected officials and agendas require the support, or at least ‘perceived’ support of the general population (popularity), pandering to the wants of women makes sense. Women like to be given things. They like privileges. T…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 05:39 PM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 03:51 PM
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Any woman who is surrounded by puppy dogs who are at her beck and call and never call her out on her bullshit will develop a shitty attitude, but with some proper leadership and dominant treatment her behaviour can be adjusted and they can become great plates. This is why I love eastern European women. Left unchecked they are a nightmare and if you break frame they will have your balls and wear them as earrings. They need a dominant man. The difference is they are aware of this and seek them out…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 09:39 AM
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No matter how DTF a girl is, it’s easy to fuck it up, like the other guy did in this story. OP showed non-neediness and made it sexual by talking about his boner. Yes very basic, but getting laid IS often very basic in situations like these. Most guys just get nervous and fuck it up. Don’t be unattractive. It’s that simple.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:09 AM
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‘I don’t want to be in a relationship right now’ = ‘I don’t want a relationship with YOU’. What she is saying / communicating: ‘I’m really into you, I’m attracted to you etc. What her actions say: I am not attracted enough to you to want a relationship.' Maybe you were a rebound, maybe she needed to be validated after the breakup, who knows? It was just your turn. Move on. PROPERLY. Withdraw your validation.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 07:49 AM
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Nope. If she didn't propose another date, don't ask her again. If this is a girl you are generally around at school or whatever, you can still build attraction in your interactions. Especially if she sees that you are unaffected by the fact that she turned you down. She now knows you want to netflix and chill. If she is / becomes attracted to you, she will make it happen.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:01 PM
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Deleted and reposted in main sub. Cheers.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:29 PM
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Yeah, it's directed at askTRP becuase it mostly adresses a lot of the issues posted here but it's probably too basic for the main sub. Hope I didn't violate any guidelines here...
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:13 PM
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No need to ask her out again. You already showed your interest. Girls like validation and now she knows she can get it from you but don’t ask her out again just because she is continuing to give you vague IOIs. No need to seem butt hurt about it or anything, flirt with her if you want. Tease her a bit and be playful (‘Do I make you nervous?’). She knows you want to go out with her, you already told her. If she want to as well, let her bring it up this time.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:54 PM
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You are definitely over-analysing here. The only important question is: What do YOU want? If you want more out of this than friendship, you need to make a move. It’s the only way to know for sure. I assume this is the case, otherwise you wouldn’t be thinking about it this much.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 10:18 AM
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Always draw conclusions from her ACTIONS. She knows you want to fuck her. If she hasn’t fucked you, it means she doesn’t want to.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 09:54 AM
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You were trying to rationalize. This is what made you confront the girl and what made you emotional. You want to believe she likes you, maybe she says she likes you, but her actions are confusing. Logic is your friend, use it. If a girl ditches you and does not respond to your texts = she doesn’t care about you. No need to dwell on it, no need to confront her. Simply let it go, this will be a huge weight off your shoulders. As a bonus, sometimes (often) this has the effect of leaving HER confuse…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 09:44 AM
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Indeed. This is what the ‘happy wife, happy life’ mantra does to relationships. Married women can get away with treating their husbands as 3rd class citizens. They get whatever they demand, constantly berate him and belittle him and he still treats her like a queen. This is what relationships around me look like. Husbands are simply not holding their women accountable for their bad behaviour. They face no consequences. Why wouldn’t they think they can have it all? A husband who works and provide…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 09:14 AM
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I like this. But it still won't help when trying to explain to a woman or on PPD. They do not argue based on logic. Tried my hand at PPD recently and realized quickly it's pointless. Good post though!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 02:28 PM
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I fucking hate there guys who show up after a fight and act all tough like they were the ones who sorted it out. In the balkans there's a saying: 'after the war, everyone's a hero'
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 10:07 AM
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We all know how women despise weak men and your strong frame was a grim reminder of her boyfriends comparative weakness. Initially she took this out on you, but once you left her alone with the true subject of her disgust she fucking lost it. Great FR and good frame holding on your part.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 10:00 AM
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Who's complaining? I don't think there's anything wrong with it at all. This is why PPD is pointless. BP comments are always based on emotion and you can't comprehend that I am simply stating something without being mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 03:14 PM
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Thanks mods! That post felt like the classic ‘shaming me into marriage’ tactic that I experience all the fucking time as a 35 year old dude. I was wondering what it was doing here.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 10:12 AM
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As a response to u/Hackey23’s post this makes no sense at all. You are comparing rape, which is a horrible crime everybody accepts as despicable and that you get sent to prison for, with a situation in which a woman can fuck up a man’s life with no social or legal repercussions. In fact the law is on HER side. Do you really think anyone here finds the crimes in your example as in any way acceptable? I believe this is a troll post because I find it hard to believe you really don’t understand this…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 09:37 AM
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Acceptable to those who choose to treat anyone inferiorly/as a child Do you really think children get inferior treatment in society? Children are treated as the most precious demographic. They are to be allowed to have fun, to be loved, provided for and protected. They have value, they are much more easily forgiven and are not held accountable for their actions in the same way as adult men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 08:09 AM
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I don’t know of any studies. And I’m not interested in convincing you that the above is true. I’m simply answering your question as to why it is acceptable and what the logic is behind it. It’s quite simple really. When I adjust my behaviour according to above stated premise in certain interactions with women, they respond better and I am able to predict their behaviour more accurately. I don’t need a scientific study to show me why it works, I just see that it works. And so do countless other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 07:59 AM
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Of course nobody's perfect. TRP Identifies aspects of women's behaviour that is different to men's behaviour. Women and men simply don't respond to things in the same way. This is not considered 'bad', or 'flawed', it simply is. From the perspective of a man, their behaviour is simply more similar to that of a child than that of a man. Throughout history their treatment has been more similar to that of children. They have have always had inherent value. Society has a protective instinct towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 06:53 AM
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I do agree with that she will have her cake and eat it. I have seen it over and over again. Even if she comes out the other side of the cock-carousel with several alpha babies, she can find a man to take her in, pay for her children’s education and give her the lifestyle she wants. But there’s a catch that you mention in your post, and I feel it’s worth expanding on it. The man who has both qualities combined no longer exists. The strong, stoic man who gives her tingles, sticks around and reward…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:30 AM
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Yeah we've all met someone like that. If you are not good at shutting him down or out-witting him verbally, the best thing to do is to pretend he said nothing. If he makes some condescending joke about you, don't laugh, don't get mad, don't even roll your eyes, just continue the conversation normally. Your goal is to expose him for the chest-beating wannabe alpha that he is. If you show that you are unaffected by his actions he will either stop or beat his chest harder. In contrast to your calm …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 02:49 PM
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Sometimes I forget how deep-seeded this socially inflicted shame of being male can be. Just think about this for a second. A man posting an article about how terrible men are, his main point being that manhood is not in crisis. The quadruple paradox of this article is mind-boggling. And yet, not very surprising... the whole 'look at those bad men over there' narrative is increasingly being used by men to try and set themselves apart and appear as the 'good guy'. Fuck it, let them strive for this…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 10:45 AM
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Dissatisfaction is their factory setting. They are programmed to complain.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 04:32 PM
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This is exactly right. And on top of that, the roles that feminism wants women to have are not the roles that make women happy. The career life, the rat-race, going to a job every day and sitting in front of a computer. It makes them fucking miserable. But of course, true to form, when women demanded to have careers ‘like men’ they were actually thinking of the 5% of men who have awesome careers that they love. Not the rest of the male population who don’t particularly like their jobs. On top of…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 12:53 PM
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Yup. Women’s advice is shit because it comes from a place of solipsism. When you ask them for advice, their answer will be based what they would do in a hypothetical situation of their own creation, not necessarily even related to your situation. So when you ask ‘I like this girl, what should I do to make her like me?’ Her answer will be based on ‘What would I like Brad Pitt to do if he was already my boyfriend’?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 09:01 AM
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Honestly I have rarely seen a woman who is this aware / honest about her own sexual attraction. Not even older women. They still give shitty advice. Possibly the fact that this one has somehow remained hot for several decades has given her a unique experience and insight...
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:36 AM
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You can't make them understand. You have to make them feel This is one of the most important things I learned on TRP and it has helped me so much. Always remember this when you are trying to reason with a woman!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:46 PM
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OK The chick is clueless and the comment posters even more so. But in all likelihood, so is the guy in this story. If he knew how to give her tingles or properly lead her / make things fun for her in the bedroom he would be doing all those things. Her ex knew how to turn her on. He was uninhibited (as she puts it) and kinky and shameless. She thinks it was a phase, it was not. It wasn’t ‘just experimenting’, it never is. She would do those things again tomorrow with the right guy and love it.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:35 PM
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This is true. I'm quite an attractive guy but I never use tinder. It's like skipping to the end of a good book. Meeting someone completely random, approaching, flirting, teasing etc. that for me is the funnest part. This is a process that you MUST enjoy if you want to be good with women.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:15 PM
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You have made it clear to your ex that you want to prioritize your own needs and not live the kind of life that women want you to live (which mostly involves you providing time and resources to women). When you have this attitude, due to confidence and abundance mentality (not frustration and incompetence with women), it makes you very attractive to women and you will be able to spin plates easily. However: • NEVER explain to women what you are doing. This nullifies the whole attitude and shows …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 10:42 AM
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I don’t get it. This shit really does happen all the time, ESPECIALLY with women who have married a rich provider type. The red-pill has opened our eyes to this fact. Why is it hard to believe? Sure, many stories are fake on the internet and this one might be, but I don’t understand why you would dismiss this on the grounds that this type of thing doesn’t happen. Women who don’t respect their SO will treat him worse than a dog. That swede is probably so hooked on her, she knows he will forgive h…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 10:12 AM
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Yup. Currently stickied post ‘Indecisiveness in women’ explains this quite clearly.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 01:35 PM
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I still believe this quote by Briffault has value in helping us understanding women. To me this quote Is simply another way of saying that Women’s love tends to be utilitarian and it is important to internalize this. We also know that men’s love tends to be more sacrificial. This does not just relate to relationships, but to overall interaction with society. Women tend to think in terms of ‘what can I get out of this?’ Men have always gained value by CONTRIBUTING value to society and this is usu…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:19 AM
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Agreed. MGTOW is a legitimate lifestyle choice that often gets a bad rep because INCELs hide their inability to get women behind it. There is a difference between deciding to not make women a priority and not being able to get one.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:05 PM
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Happened to me several times. Always turns out they are both complete nutcases and get angry at you for interfering in their business. If it's your business, do it at home. You can beat each other up for fun if you like but don't do it outside in my street. Fucking Chowderheads.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:14 AM
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Absolutely. 3 months before my 30th Birthday I got dumped by my GF who I’d been with for 12 years. After putting her through college, I had a period of studying and working part time. I found her a job as a secretary in an oil trading company and she left me for a trader. Best thing that ever happened to me. 2 months later I had my own apartment in town, a 23 Year old girlfriend and a new job with money to spend just for myself. I broke up with her 2 years later because she really wanted to move…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:51 AM
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True, but we must also acknowledge that public figures and notable artists have to option to stay away from this subject altogether. If Krakauer has written a book on the subject it indicates he has strong opinions about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 08:22 AM
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Thanks for the post. However, it seems to me that testosterone enhancing drugs are precisely the ones that are NOT pushed, in fact many testosterone enhancing methods are illegal. The drugs that are pushed in our society are the ones that make us nice and docile, such as Ritalin.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 02:46 PM
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The chemical war on men is more calculated than we realize. It’s not just accidental. Governments, pharmaceutical companies and the medical professions are working together to cause this. Testosterone is feared by those who’s job it is to control the population. They want nice, docile citizens. Most of the legal, approved medication has the effect of making you calm and to accept your mediocre place in society. Repressing that innate male need to excel, to reach your potential and to dominate. A…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:52 AM
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Vulnearbility can be valuable, but only if coming from a man who is percieved as strong and is choosing to be vulnerable.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:09 AM
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The current social climate minimizes men’s importance and contributions and this is why legally and socially we are getting the short end of the stick. Men are starting to opt out of Marriage and the productive lifestyles that are required for it (including education). People are already concluding that society cannot function if this continues. The misandry bubble will pop, and this will happen sooner if men are opting out of marriage rather than playing along with it. Opting out is far more li…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:04 PM
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The article touches on the real issue several times, almost accidentally, but still does not show a true understanding why men are opting out not just of marriage but out of education and the general lifestyle required for matrimony. Still, these are the first signs that the Misandry bubble is floating dangerously close to a sharp object. Edit: And yet, auto-correct is still underlining the word misandry...
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:26 PM
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Purchased. Looking forward to reading it! Thank you for continuing to provide quality material Rollo.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:17 PM
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For anyone to imply that RedPill observations and advice are and have always been mainstream is simply bullshit. We would not be growing this fast if this was the case. TRP would not have changed our lives this much if it was the case. And most of all, I look around me at a generation of men who are helpless against the manipulations of women and unable to properly manage relationships because they have been handed a fork to eat soup with. The hate we get is not because we express anger. It is b…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:25 PM
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Absolutely, they do it to sons as well, but it seems that with girls it’s generally worse due to the added jealousy, especially if she’s attractive. My stepmother tried her best to destroy my relationship with my dad, but it seemed like she would actually be willing to commit murder to prevent my sister from ever spending a minute with him alone.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 10:04 AM
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Spot-on with the Step-Mother comparison. They are capable of the most despicable kinds manipulation to separate the father from his biological child, especially if it’s a girl. This is a phenomenon that is well known and documented throughout history, and I have repeatedly observed it with my own eyes.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 10:45 AM
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Agreed, this is just a scare tactic. Another strategy alongside the usual shaming, to get us to commit our resources. If I look around me at men who are 50+ and married, they are mostly miserable. On the other hand, guys who got divorced, even if they lost a shitload of their resources in the process, just seem happy to be out of a shitty situation.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:42 AM
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Eastern European girls will indeed eat a timid man for breakfast.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 10:09 AM
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Welcome to TRP mate. One bit of advice: Make sure your journey is not just about the theory. You need to see this work in practice for it to really click. Go forth and fuck with your environment. Behave differently. Observe, learn and internalize.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 10:49 AM
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Just been watching some of the footage and back-story of the Dalia case. Surprise, surprise, turns out before they met she was an escort. Don't wife up hookers people! Jeez
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 06:58 AM
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Yup. Nobody likes to hang out with just girls. Not even girls. Every single girl I've met says something along the lines of 'I've always preferred hanging out with guys' as if that makes them a tomboy or different or special. Send two best girlfriends on a one week holiday together. By the time they return they will hate each other.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:25 AM
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Start seeing women as children and your anger will start to fade.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:34 AM
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Yup, this is blatant bullshit. ‘Everything was great, then my boyfriend found TRP and now he beats me and cheats on me’. If you hate us stop drawing attention to us! Have these idiots not noticed that most people who actually check this sub out end up staying?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:53 AM
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Honestly, if you can make 10X what you would otherwise make, working only 1 night per week, I don’t think that is necessarily brainless. Not saying it makes her LTR material, but most girls any girl who's been riding the penis go round isn't in my opinion. At least she’s making bank from it. And she will still not have any problems getting hitched by either hiding her past or finding a ‘sex positive’ idiot for divorce rape material. The only man she won’t end up with is one with standards. (if s…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:22 PM
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This is actually a great walkthrough for any date really. Covers the main points that maximize your chances. Simple as hell, but most things that really work are.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:42 PM
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Think back to when you used to do this and I'm sure you'll find that you were doing it because it was fun for you, not to gain anyone's attraction or approval. That is the main point. Do it to amuse yourself, not her.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 06:53 PM
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Yes. Pranking / Teasing is an essential part of game that I feel is often overlooked somewhat. Girls love it, they become like excited little children when you are fucking with them like that. It shows that you are relaxed around them and that you want to have fun with them. It’s helps reinforce the daddy/ daughter dynamic that they crave. They fucking love it. Always have a few things that you consistently make fun of about her. She includes way too much irrelevant details in her stories. She’s…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:42 AM
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It might be a better idea to create an alt per location that you talk about so people can't see the combination of places you have visited. Still not perfect but would definitely make it MUCH harder to doxx you.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 07:52 AM
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Agreed! Rational Male should be required reading for posting rights on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:39 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OiAtlrgnWdU
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:37 AM
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Agreed. I started writing yet another post to explain the whole thing but decided to just use the report button instead, might be more helpful for the mods (mods: correct me if I am wrong).
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 08:36 AM
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You guys telling people to ask women: SERIOUSLY read the fucking sidebar. Asking a woman is the LAST thing you should do when you want to find out what attracts them. Not disagreeing with your point, being short is a disadvantage.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:35 AM
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Nevertheless, what women say in a poll or in any other circumstances will not be accepted as evidence or even any kind of indication in this sub. I believe that is his point. Agreed though being short is a huge disadvantage. I would, however, like to point something out. If you are tall, you must live up to the expectations, otherwise this advantage backfires quickly. You are expected to have certain personality traits. If you don’t it just makes you seem even more awkward. On the other hand, if…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:32 AM
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Yup, agreed that misandry bubble will likely pop sooner than the stronger collapse I described. However, although the current climate of misandry is exacerbating and to an extent driving the above mentioned forces, the predicted pop of the misandry bubble will not stop them and they will continue to lead to a stronger change, more global and pronounced, a change characterized by a return to a much less comfortable and safe environment. It will bring into strong focus the fact that women really a…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:59 AM
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Of course people can do whatever they want with TRP, but I responded to a comment that says making sure sluts don’t get their beta bucks is in line with TRP. IT IS NOT. It should not be our collective responsibility or concern. Furthermore, this comment implies that if you don’t do that you are not in line with TRP. Making sure sluts don’t get their beta bucks is not the goal of this sub and it is not in line with TRP, though you can learn how not to end up as one. I care about this community en…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:28 PM
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WishIhadMyOldUsername replied to a comment by JACKDOGBOB who said that TRP should not help get you laid at the expense of your fellow man. This is an irrelevant comment about his personal opinions about what our moral obligation at TRP should be, which makes it in it’s very nature anti-TRP, as TRP is AMORAL. Therefore his comment is misrepresenting what TRP is about. It does not appear to me that WishIhadMyOldusername is objecting to the issue itself. His or your stance on the matter are irrelev…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:50 PM
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I wish people would stop acting like TRP is some kind of movement or collective male mission. It isn’t and it shouldn’t be. It is simply learning about how things really work and how to get what you want in light of these truths as an individual. TRP is not about changing the world it is about changing yourself to get what you want out of the world.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:10 PM
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I find it baffling that there really are so many men in relationships where they are the supplicant when it comes to sex. But then again, I guess roughly 80% of guys are in relationships with women who aren’t really attracted to them. Only the top 20% of guys really make the pussy tingle. There is so much male hamstring surrounding this. How many times have I heard things like ‘she doesn’t have a very high sex drive’ or some Bullshit. Trust me with the right kind of guy she will turn into a porn…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:28 PM
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Give a woman half a second and she will turn you into someone she despises. This is not her intention though, she will try to change you but she is really testing your strength to make sure she can trust to have a strong spine so you can be the solid rock in her world of constant emotional turmoil. The problem is that too many men have forgotten this and think that the woman really wants them to change. She does not want you to change but she needs to make sure you can resist change, this is why…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:11 AM
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Gender relations will crash sooner than we think and for entirely different reasons than we think. Overpopulation, resource scarcity, Massive Debt, climate change, Geopolitical rebalancing and a few other megatrends are going to change the world sooner and more massively than any of us here think. Just because global communicators don't mention them often does not mean they aren't happening. If you really look into it you will see that we are on the brink of massive change. We have a harsh futur…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 08:49 AM
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It is chubby. If you're a pregnant walrus.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:20 PM
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I just did Well excuse me your majesty Don't get your panties in a twist it's a simple question Playfully though, don't seem insulted or taken aback.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 03:54 PM
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I used to do a fuck ton of LSD and let me tell you, If you don't have a solid state of mind to start with that stuff can really get you low. I would not advise anyone to ever do LSD. It can fuck up your life for good no matter what you do. If you absolutely must do it: -Make sure you are at a point in life where you feel relatively free, and are not questioning yourself too much. -Make sure you are on a mission. You have to be going somewhere or doing something. If you sit on a couch and do stro…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 03:56 PM
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She’s still describing a situation that absolves her of any blame and kind of portrays it like she was forced to do those things. I have seen girls rationalize this way so many times. In reality it is much more likely that she was following around these frat boys like a puppy dog waiting for a chance to get some dicking, which probably only happened when there were no hotter girls around.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:48 AM
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Nah, look at how she is rationalizing her past behavior making it look like it was completely out of her hands that she sucked dicks and fucked around. Throwaway or not, this woman is not volunteering any info that would make her look bad.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:43 AM
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This is exactly why this post is so important. I see too many people here talking about sex like it should never be pursued, like it is something dangerous that will damage you and keep you from your true goal. Guys, we are biologically hardwired to want, no, NEED sex. And let’s not pretend like we are not all here for this reason. The only reason why people are saying to not chase women and focus on yourself, is because we know that that is the best way to get women. We all want sex, fucking ad…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:57 AM
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I would be interested to hear more about this. At no point in your life should you organize your life around getting pussy. Good life decisions = pussy, therefore focus first on yourself. This should be the case no matter your age, but in your 30s is often where this starts to pay off big time and therefore this is a great time to be single and get laid a lot. I have heard this theory around a lot, that if you are chasing skirts in your 30’s and 40’s you probably didn’t get any when you are youn…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:41 AM
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'Was resistant to taking personal responsibility for mistakes'. First of all: No surprise there. Second: When you are training someone, this is the most annoying behavior ever. Shifting responsibility of your failures to external factors. It is the one clear indicator that the person has no intention of learning or improving. In my work, if I notice this behavior in a new employee, I guarantee they will not last the test period. Edit: 'Continued to be hesitant in decision making'... good lord th…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 10:55 AM
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I really wish people wouldn’t go around talking about TRP too much, for 2 additional reasons: I personally do not want TRP to become something widespread that everybody knows about. I love the fact that I know certain truths that are completely hidden to others. At times I feel like a fucking magician. This is just a guess, but I’m thinking those who have recently discovered TRP are more likely to get all excited and go around babbling about it. This is understandable, discovering TRP is excitin…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 01:41 PM
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I agree with the points made in your post. But I would like to address the issue of the spread of TRP. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think it is a bad thing, but I don’t think it should be part of our mission, in fact there is no collective mission, TRP is not a movement. What do we really stand to gain from everyone in the world unplugging? (This is acutally a serious question, I don’t see any myself, but of course I may be overlooking something important). On the other hand, will we not lose a c…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:02 PM
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It’s actually very simple. For a man, there should be no such thing as an open relationship. Either she is a plate, or you are exclusive. If she is a plate, she has no right to your resources, protection, commitment. If you are exclusive, you have deemed her worthy of these things, thus also to your sexual exclusivity. Women are not polygamous nor monogamous, they are hypergamous. They generally only want to be fucking one guy. Until a better guy comes along. If she wants an open relationship, t…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:48 PM
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Great post. Just a few words to those who appear very unhappy with this and want to pour out their emotions unto their SO like they do with their mothers. Nobody says you can’t do that. This is TRP. We observe realities of the world. This is one of them. We simply observe that if you do X, the result will be Y. Whether or not you decide to do X, depends simply on whether or not you want Y to happen.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:11 AM
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Wait, these comments are from TRP? Initially found this surprising. But I see some comments in this thread are similar. I honestly don’t see why there is a problem with coming down harsh on a threat of divorce rape. Also, there seems to be a consensus that if a woman wants to divorce, the man had a weak frame or whatever. This is easy to say until it happens to you. Women become dissatisfied for so many reasons, and non-reasons. For most of them, dissatisfaction with the status quo is simply the…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 09:55 AM
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More like finding a piece of hay in a giant stack of needles.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 10:41 AM
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Great post, thanks! I decided a while ago that marriage is not for me. I live in Europe where divorce rape isn’t as bad as in the states, but it’s still not a wise gamble, and getting worse by the day. More importantly for me it’s just not the lifestyle I want. I do not want to spend all of my spare time with a woman, and unfortunately in marriage this is what they demand. My life is much better when I spend the majority of my time with other men. It makes me productive, relaxes me, helps me imp…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:33 AM
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Honey stop it with this. This kind of attention seeking makes you look very insecure and that’s not an attractive quality.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:25 PM
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That would be the 75% of the female population that are themselves fat and unfuckable.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:00 AM
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Point is she's the ONLY one wearing white. Her groom's outfit is the same color as every other man there.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:53 PM
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It's actually Sane, Sexy, Single. Choose 2. That's the dilemma.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:35 AM
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If this chick only knew the extent to which her turd is being analysed on the internets...
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 09:50 AM
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She was trying to use this technique to increase his attraction to her. To me this is not a situation that shows she has no respect for OP, it’s just a common mistake of plate (stupidly) assuming this technique will work on OP because it would work on her. If she really was interested in this guy, why would she insist on OP coming with her? Also the LTR thing was her idea, not Ops. This was likely just a mate (or Friend zoned guy) helping her out to make OP jealous and commit to LTR. Wouldn’t be…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:26 PM
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I’m not sure about girlfriend post-sex shit-tests, but I have gotten a lot from fuck-buddies / one night stands. Examples: -I thought you would be rougher / more dominant than that. -My ex had a bigger dick. -Your dick is not THAT big. -Why did you stop, I didn’t cum (some variation of this). -It wasn’t as good as I heard it was. Quick disclaimer: Because of chit chat amongst girls, I know that many have heard good things about me, about the fact that I am dominant, about dick size. Also, they k…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 11:53 AM
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It puzzles me that there are men in this sub who find this kind of story hard to believe. I’m not saying this happened or didn’t happen, but to those who are saying this is far-fetched : You’re not doing it right.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:45 PM
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OR maybe he's broke because he is for her living and possibly this holiday. Just a wild stab in the dark...
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:57 PM
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Also this happened http://www.news.com.au/entertainment/celebrity-life/russell-brand-says-no-to-katy-perrys-fortune-in-amicable-divorce/story-fn907478-1226266542490 Saw it in TIL
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:23 AM
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This is a very good explanation. I should add to this that this ‘betafication’ process as you call it is not primarily to avoid other women becoming attracted to him. Women do this to check if their man’s spine is intact. The example: ‘why play Poker with the boys, stay home with me’ is a subconscious fitness test. Remember, women do not want to win arguments, they want to be with someone who wins the argument and refuses to be a puppy dog. Most men fail these tests. We are taught that to make a…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:24 AM
1

I prefer responding with ‘understood.’ Like this I am simply saying I understood her text, not that I am necessarily ok with it. I always booty text or call a week or so later and most of the time it works.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 12:04 PM
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I actually think this describes a very specific type of woman. Yes many women show the above behaviour to a smaller degree, but I can think of one or two that perfectly fit this description. They are like a different breed. Nothing works on them. You can hold frame and pass shit tests all you want. They have a certain level of psychopathy. Unlike most women who’s bad behavior and shit-tests serve the purpose of testing your spine so they can become attracted to you (if you pass), these women onl…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:55 AM
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It strikes me that these emotional no-go zones are so often created by women and about issues that affect women. Not that this is surprising, women have a naturally higher propensity to complain and portray themselves as victims. This is simply an evolutionary adaptation. The Problem is that as a society we have recently forgotten to take their complaining with a pinch of salt. Yes, you see men enforcing this but it is usually by proxy. Look at the comments. The main guy who has a problem with D…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 08:55 AM
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More groundless complaining to claim victim status. ‘Look at these women complaining, but I have even MORE cause to complain. I’m a TRIPPLE minority and therefore a TRIPPLE victim! Feel sorry for me and give me stuff!’ Seems like anyone who can claim minority status will play the victim card just to get attention. Complainception!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 02:57 PM
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Are you sleeping with this girl?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 12:03 PM
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That's not the problem. Women tell us the shit in that list all the time. The Problem is that it's not actually what they want.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:56 PM
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FUCKING Frank.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:18 AM
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Hmmm its seems despite the hate we get, some red pill knowledge is starting to rub off on people...
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:12 PM
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Mate, if you are basing anything at all on stories you read on reddit then you seriously need to get out more. I know the principles of TRP are truth because I observe them every. Fucking. Day. In real life.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 06:36 PM
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'Sometimes I think the surest sign that intelligent life exists elsewhere in the universe is that none of it has tried to contact us' -Bill Watterson
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 02:57 PM
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She’s trying to make sure you are committed to her and not just to fucking her. If this is a plate you are trying to spin, you are going about it all wrong. Make it about sex and only sex and make her realize that sex is what she brings to the table. You fucked up when she first expressed her fears. A potential ‘plate’ tells you she’s in love and scared you will break her heart, that is when you should be honest and tell her what you really want out of the relationship. This will either get the …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 04:54 PM
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I believe this is made up, not because I think this shit doesn't happen, but because of the way it is written. Shit like this happens all the time. But he would not know the gory details unless he found the video. This was written by someone who gets turned on by the scenario.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:51 PM
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This is almost certainly broscience, but since I started eating loads of celery, my jizz loads have tripled in volume.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:35 PM
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Not gonna go into details as I'd pretty much be re-writing what drrrrr said. One useful thing I have learned though is how the shape of your dick affects the likelihood of orgasm through penetration. Mine curves upwards slightly, so I am a lot more likely to hit the g-spot when I am facing her (missionary or her on top). If your dick curves down it is more likely to happen if you are behind her. This is just a little technical thing I figured out though. Some girls will cum either way, some neve…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 08:56 PM
1

The difference between the manosphere and feminism perfectly represents the difference between men and women: Feminism is Women campaigning for others to make things better for them, while the manosphere suggests that men better themselves to make a change.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 02:20 PM
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Yes, you ended up being the guy listening to her problems, but It doesn’t sound like this was her intention. Sounds more like she was begging for it, you didn’t make a move. Your story quite clearly demonstrates the paradox that is most women. She complains about being used, yet this is exactly what she wanted you to do. You didn’t (props) and now she’s not interested.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 01:54 PM
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No. I live in the real world, where men and women are different. I asked a simple question, there is no need to call me arrogant and ‘inconsidered’. ‘do some research’ I’ll tell you what, my opinions are based on observations and experiences over 34 years which I have put to the test over and over again, always yielding the same results. From your comments it is obvious that yours are largely based on what you have read in books or some bullshit useless college degree, but guess what spewing all…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/13 08:02 AM
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Are you seriously suggesting that men and women have the same needs in a relationship? Men and women are attracted to different traits. It is as simple as that, and it is not politically incorrect to say that. Seriously I have never a man who is attracted to a woman mainly because she is: Physically Strong Big Assertive Rich Funny Have you ever met a woman who lists vulnerability or innocence as the top traits she is looking for in a man? EDIT: formatting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/13 04:22 PM
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Disagree. Becoming unattractive could backfire as she then might regret sleeping with you. Although if she falls for you she might get pissed if you don't want to do it again.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 09:50 AM
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Just be sure to fuck her REAL good.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 09:47 AM
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The main purpose of TRP is not to get laid, but it provides the understanding and tools that make it possible or even inevitable.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 07:00 PM
1

Unfortunately all it takes these days to be considered an asshole is having a backbone, being assertive or dominant and not taking shit from women. Especially this last one. This makes women call us assholes because we just won’t do what they want us to and just won’t validate them like they want us to. So they call us assholes to guys like you (who give them their validation) and fuck guys like us (who make them tingle). Most guys then also see us as assholes because that’s what they have been …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:56 PM
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'a girl who is 10 in both ' When this girl is born it will create a paradox and the universe will implode.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 03:22 PM
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Good lord... she'll have someone's eye out with that chin.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 10:24 AM
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My friend, this will never fully click until you experience it first-hand. Yes, you will understand the concepts and inevitably agree with them because it is about truths that we all know deep inside as they are part of our nature as men and as humans. Start using the things you learn here in your interactions with others. Don’t hold back. So far you have observed. The fun part starts when you are the one taking action and making it work. You will come to realize the extent of agency you have in…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 10:27 AM
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This reminds me of the way overly spoilt brats treat their weak and lenient parents. That's what this is. Kids who have daily tantrums about nothing and are never put in their place.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 12:18 PM
1

Women only hate being hit on by unattractive men. If you are attractive / have attractive behaviour, there is no place where a woman ‘hates to be hit on’ by you. Also women use this phrase to brag about how much they get hit on. Actually bar maids are my number one targets. Something about a women handing me drinks I guess. Also I can’t stand drunk girls, so barmaids are usually the most sober. Also they are always hot / decent and everyone is trying it on with them so it’s a fun challenge. They…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 03:00 PM
1

Usually on nights out in clubs or in Bars. 2 of the 19 year olds were bar maids. Third one was celebrating her Birthday with friends at my local pub, that was a cold approach. Fourth one was introduced to me by a 28 year old female acquaintance who goes to the same music school as her. But yeah that was in a bar as well.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 12:10 PM
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There are WAY fewer single guys in their mid 30's than early twenties. This is why you see more younger chaps getting poon. Trust me those in their mid 30's that are single are cleaning up. Problem is most men are told late twenties that they should hurry up and commit because they are 'no spring chicken' so by mid 30's they are married and getting sex twice a year. From a 35 year old post-waller. I am 34 and sinlge. 90% of my plates this year have been under 25, 4 of them under 20 (2 of those a…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 12:28 PM
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Reddit should have a 'marriage counselling' bot that auto-posts in any relationship related sub. The answers are so predictable. why even ask. Edit: She's likely getting some strange.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 12:00 PM
1

Watched Original Sin last night. Also interesting Beta bucks movie. Ending is unrealistic though.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 07:19 PM
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Somebody from this sub is obviously starting threads with made up scenarios. Seriously guys, leave the trolling to TBP, this is pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 04:57 PM
1

For me the RP was like a weight off my shoulders. I see a lot of people say that Red Pill is for betas who want to become Alphas. Of course this may work, but it is obviously more difficult (as in OP’s case). I believe RP is especially for naturally dominant and assertive men who have been shamed into suppressing their true nature. You might say a naturally dominant man would not so easily be shamed, but here is my answer for you. Children who show dominant behaviour at a young age are handed an…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 01:03 PM
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-You didn't make a move on her which kind of turned her off. -So she shit-tested you with LJBF. -You passed that test. -She gave you another chance with the Cinderella message. -You fucked it up by becoming too defensive, insecure and giving too much of a shit about what she said before about being friends. Just be sure to make a move next time you see her. Don’t discuss what you want, just go for it. What girls SAY doesn’t matter, they rarely mean what they say. What matters is how she reacts t…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 12:37 PM
0

This clip deserves it's own thread.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 03:19 PM
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'I have seen studies that show the opposite' It is painfully obvious she made that up on the spot. Her argument consisted of making shit up and directly / indirectly shaming him. She doesn't actually have a point. How can you argue with that?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 01:12 PM
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Yup. This is why you coming back didn't fix it. It made it worse. She was testing your strength and you failed. She didn't want to win, she wanted you to win.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 09:07 AM
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We are also not counting the couples that stay married and are miserable or at least unsatisfied or cheating. I think the the % decrease you are talking about would at the very least be offset by that.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 11:00 AM
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I drink often but not excessively. I am always in control of myself and less drunk than most people around me. The problem with this is that I am extremely turned off by women who are drunk when I am relatively with it. Solution: Barmaids. Also, everyone is hitting on them, so it's a fun challenge.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 03:53 PM
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'Jesus woman, would you back off? I need my space!'
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:29 PM
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It doesn’t matter if men or women look better at age 35. The point is that when it comes to attraction physical appearance is less important to women than it is to men. Also from your comments, you are implying that the only reason your fiancé is not cheating on you is because she is not young and hot. Must be comforting.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 10:12 AM
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