Dear men of RP,

This will be short and sweet. I don't and never have pursued numerous women at the same time. I tend to concentrate my efforts on one girl and if that arrangement doesn't pan out, I switch my focus onto someone else. This strategy currently works for me because of numerous time constraints and because I believe into diminishing marginal return of a pussy (i.e. the cost of pursuing different women vs getting laid). It wasn't always like that; previously this was the strategy of choice due to my minimal exposure to women. As you can guess, I used to develop oneitis quiet frequently in the past. Thanks to the abundance mentality, which plays a crucial role in this FR, I don't have that problem anymore .

Now, I have been seeing this girl on a frequent basis over the last month or so as a FWB. On Friday she flaked on our plans for the first time and didn't reschedule. I told her to have fun with whatever she was doing and left it at that. Being proactive, I switched my focus towards this Russian chick that added me on FB a week or so ago. I know that she is relatively new to the city and that she also added a whole bunch of my other friends from the same social circle as I (male and female). Nonetheless, I assumed attraction, engaged her in a convo, teased from the get go, but didn't push for a date until my FWB bailed. On Saturday I put in a bit more effort than I did before - got her number and arranged for a date this week. Will see how that goes.

In the meantime, I go silent on the FWB chick since I only have that much time in a day to pursue women. She texts me on Sunday to see if I want to hang out. I tell her I will be at her place at 11pm. I bring a bottle, we fuck, I cum on her tits. Good Sunday night overall.

There are always other fish in the sea. Always assume attraction. Be bold and upfront (especially with Russian chicks - otherwise they will shit test you into the oblivion).