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I just think you found the medium that works for you. Apparently you couln't communicate the same things over text that you did communicate over video. Those things might be you physical appearance, your apartment and thereby and implied social status and maybe most importantly your vibe and your energy.
/r/seduction11/05/21 07:15 AM
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If you're interested in a girl and you sincerely want to meet her again, taking her number is the most natural thing on the planet. Even more, it is a necessity if you want to re-connect with her. The sh*t you received in the other group sounds like projected disappointment to me. They may have experienced meeting a guy who took their number and then didn't get in touch or got in touch and wanted something else. Never ever ever let other people tell you that you shouldn't go for what you want. T…
/r/seduction07/05/21 06:11 PM
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Streets Malls Trains Stores At work at the gym in hobby groups dating apps social media social circle parties coffee shops Generally: Everywhere. Just be among people and learn to make a move.
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:08 PM
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Sounds to me like he has been disappointed in a few concrete situation and now generalizes his experiences to a general world view. It won't help his dating life. In a way it's a victim mentality. "I have been working so hard to raise my kids, I am such a good worthy guy but I don't have dating success. The world is bad." Hard to pinpoint what his real problem is. But that mindset he's communicating here definitely contributes to his failures in the dating world.
/r/seduction05/05/21 08:21 AM
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You're right, bro. Every woman is different is there is no immutable progression of steps you have to run through. I still added a progression to the post to give guys with less experience as much detail and orientation as possible. I thought about things I have done on quite a few occasions and put them into the post. Sometimes you just kiss and start having sex, other times you go on five dates and still haven't slept with each other. Every attempt to write down a model is just that, a model. …
/r/seduction05/05/21 08:17 AM
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This post was about getting to sex from kissing not about what comes before or next. ;)
/r/seduction05/05/21 08:09 AM
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Nice stuff! How old are you? And how do you typically meet girls. I haven't been to NYC but definitely wanna experience it once it's possible to travel again.
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:16 PM
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Why would they delete it?
/r/seduction04/05/21 11:15 PM
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Well probably there there is one. But I haven’t written it yet ;)
/r/seduction04/05/21 08:36 PM
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If I wrote it as I'd explain it to a buddy they'd probably take down the post. :)
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:05 PM
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Actually that's a great thing! Imagine the opposite was true and you couldn't get excited.
/r/seduction03/05/21 09:27 PM
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I also wrote about it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/n3vd1o/guide_from_kissing_to_sex_how_to_build_tension/ You desensitize with time You can always go slower, stop or change positions in order to cool down again Keep breathing Don't do any bullshit like visualizing your grandma. That's gross and you wanna enjoy your time with that lady, don't you? :D ALSO women taught me that sometimes they prefer you to come quickly vs suffering to extend the sex.
/r/seduction03/05/21 06:31 PM
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Either you touch and make it more intimate or you don't. There is not COVID-safe way to get intimate with each other. I also followed all the safety measures closely. Always wore my maske, maintained my distance etc. Dates were my only exception. Here in Germany women implicitly understood that. If it's different in your country maybe try to set the expectations at the beginning of the date.
/r/seduction03/05/21 03:16 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/n3vd1o/guide_from_kissing_to_sex_how_to_build_tension/
/r/seduction03/05/21 12:59 PM
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yeah, I'd enjoy writing that guide. I'll see if I can do it at some point in the next days.
/r/seduction02/05/21 04:45 PM
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It's called a "freeze". It's a natural response to a new and potentially dangerous situation that occurs in front of us. We get the same response when someone attacks us. Typically we overcome the freeze within a second or two. If a girls is quite insecure or has been deep in tought when you approached her, the freeze might take longer. One simple way to break it is to call it out: "You look like I caught you a little off guard here and you don't quite know what to say. I'm Michael, what's your …
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:15 AM
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I don't think there is a conflict. You can be empathic and not compromise your own needs at the same time. Empathy means first and foremost understanding and respecting what's going on in the other person. I highly recommend "Non-violent Communiation" by Marshall B. Rosenberg. I found the title so unappealing that I didn't read it for year even after some of the most impressive people in my life swore by it. I finally read it this year and it might be the single most powerful book on communicati…
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:10 AM
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Just do at night what you're doing during the day then? There is an adjustment in energy of course. But I think the key is to be kind and respectful. No high value guy is a jerk.
/r/seduction02/05/21 11:03 AM
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There is no one big move, you take it step by step. The good news: When you're making out, you are already halfway there. The key is to turn her on and make her want to have sex with you. Also it's really important to always be very aware of what she is feeling and be very respectful and understanding when you feel like she is not ready yet. Here are some things that can lead you from kissing closer to sex: Kiss her on the neck. You can also gently bite her and just generally caress that area. S…
/r/seduction02/05/21 08:42 AM
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I wrote an extensive post on the topic. Take a look: https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/n2kysa/the_ultimate_social_circle_guide_how_to_meet/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction02/05/21 08:18 AM
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I think you did the right thing in approaching the guy first but what value did you offer to him? Why would he have wanted to have you in the conversation and "offer" his girls to you guys? Did you compliment him? Did you bring any drinks? Did you bring a fun energy they didn't have without you? Always look at it from that angle. How can you enrich their night? If you can't, why would he be interested in chatting with you?
/r/seduction01/05/21 04:08 PM
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They are not contradictory as long as you are not going after something that doesn't exist. You can still have abundance of something that's rare like a very specific type of woman. Abundance in this case is relative of course. If there was only one woman you liked on planet earth, then abundance would be having that woman in your life. Not magically having ten women of the type appear.
/r/seduction01/05/21 06:39 AM
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You can still get her out if you want. One thing on dates: If you're looking for something sexual, don't do dinner dates. The dynamic is way too tense and distant.
/r/seduction30/04/21 11:19 AM
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There is a simple dynamic going on here: If you invest more than she does, she will lose interest because you come across as too eager. If you invest less than she does, you will become more attractive to her because you're subcommunicating that you have options and don't rely on her. In your specific situation. If you agreed on a date and she's no fun to text with, stop texting! Why do you feel the need to "carry" a conversation?
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:47 AM
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Actually you can be very direct. But it has to be done in the right way. How to leave the safe topics? By just introducing them. Instead of asking her about her hobbies, ask her about her passions. Instead of talking about someone else, ask her what she is looking for in a man. Instead of talking about work, talk about male female dynamics. Choose the right topics and just introduce them. Go step by step. If you set the right tone from the beginning, you can slowly maneuver to alle the topics yo…
/r/seduction30/04/21 08:21 AM
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Experience, patience and knowing that it doesn't really matter what happens with this one person because there are millions out there.
/r/seduction30/04/21 08:15 AM
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Nice man! Flirting is a beautifuly way of interacting. Just make sure it comes from a place of giving value and appreciation and not validation seeking.
/r/seduction30/04/21 08:09 AM
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You don't know if no woman has ever been attracted to you unless you asked every single one you've met in your life. You don't mention your age. How old are you? ;) Do people find you physically attractive? If not work on that one first. As a man it's not so much about your genes but you can develop most attractive characteristics. Look into fashion, style, grooming, hairstyle, body hygiene. If you got all of this checked, great! Your mindset and energy is the single one most attractive factor f…
/r/seduction30/04/21 08:08 AM
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The good thing: You are already a guy who is really good with girls. Otherwise you wouldn't have those situations in the first place. You're problem is purely in your mind. How do you solve it? By being patient, removing the pressure and trusting yourself. First remove the pressure. There are billions of girls out there. You got what it takes to attract them. Just realize that and there is no more need to care too much about one particular girl. I'm not saying "Don't care about girls". Just get …
/r/seduction30/04/21 07:57 AM
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You're welcome mate. If I can help in any way, let me know.
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:22 PM
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Not necessarily more but the right one. Think sexual, playful, masculine, calm, confident.
/r/seduction29/04/21 05:19 PM
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Great story, thanks your telling, mate! Don't worry about her. Sometimes we tend to attach but there are a few billion girls out there, so don't worry. Also the fear you have experienced is quite normal. I had it quite a bit in my 20's. Now I just let it flow to the kiss and take it step by step. I focus more on enjoying her beauty. Everything else will come. Oh and for a first date ever, this went f*cking amazing bro! You went on a date with a girl you really like and she wanted to kiss you. Go…
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:48 PM
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Don't worry. It will come as long as you don't give up.
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:33 PM
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I learned it from Hayley Quinn. Just type in "Hayley Quinn text game" on Youtube and you'll find some of her videos.
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:32 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story with us, brother! First of all: You were obese and obnoxious, now you're in better shape and calmer. That's some serious progress, don't lose sight of that! Often we want it all it once and forget about what we have already achieved. It's a process that you have to embrace. And every improvement will come step by step. Also you're only 20 years old. Don't worry what you might have missed when you were 16 and focus on all the great experiences you will still have …
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:30 PM
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Good job brother. You approached, you got a number, you got a date. That's the only foundation you need. The rest will come with experience, consistency and patience. Some advice for your date. I used to be quite similar, talking about safe topics not really connecting with the girl. Here's what happens and what you can do about it: It sounds like you kept it very safe and unpersonal, not revealing much about yourself and trying to find out more about her. Learn to become vulnerable without feel…
/r/seduction29/04/21 12:17 PM
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There are a few things at work here. First you make generalizations based on some of your own experiences. Obviously you had a few ones you didn't like and now you're forming a world view based on those experiences. Don't do that. The kinds of views you're presenting here won't help you. Notice that these are just a few select experiences. Your second story wouldn't even be a negative one if you weren't looking for outward approval. Secondly, you don't take responsibility. That girl rejected you…
/r/seduction29/04/21 11:59 AM
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The situation is quite clear and you already give all the answers. From what you’re writing, this is what happened: At first she was attracted to you. She showed that by talking to you, connecting on IG, taking a selfie together. During your conversation the attraction diminished. Obviously this is due to what happened in the conversation. The words are a factor but typically a minor one. Let’s look at them first. You mention asking her lots of questions which she doesn’t properly reply to. Two …
/r/seduction29/04/21 07:09 AM
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I agree. One of the most powerful books on the planet. It reveals the simple truth that kindness and appreciation are by far the most important skills you can learn when it comes to dealing with human beings. Whether you want to get laid or strike a business deal.
/r/seduction26/04/21 08:51 AM
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What's the weather like? I have 90% outdoor dates. By the lake, the beach, some nice viewpoint. Bring pizza, drinks and blankets if it's cold and that kinda setting beats every bar.
/r/seduction24/04/21 02:30 PM
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Recognize that it's just an assumption that the other girl will try and sabotage you. It's a liberating realization that most people don't give a sh*t about you. Maybe she doesn't even care NOR is interested in taking the effort to sabotage your efforts. If you really do think that someone wants to harm you, make them your friend. Be kind to her, pay her a random non-amorous compliment. Tell her you liked how she handled a specific situation for example. If she reacts negatively, don't let it im…
/r/seduction24/04/21 01:00 PM
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Take responsibility brother. What I read in your post is frustration that you didn't get the (friendly, attracted, agreeable) reaction from her that you would have desired. Be aware that the reactions you get are largely affected by the energy you put out. And your post contains a lot of negative energy. So maybe have a look at that. However, there are certainly instances where someone else simply doesn't treat you well, no matter what energy you put out. In those instances I suggest you react w…
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:32 AM
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That's like saying "Never use a computer when you learn programming." ;)
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:44 PM
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Say "Thank you." and continue. Don't make it a big deal and take it as a compliment.
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:43 PM
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