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Inner Game Klutzy-Painting885/r/seduction16/04/26 10:27 AM
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Fundamentals Klutzy-Painting885/r/seduction25/03/26 02:50 PM
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LifestyleKlutzy-Painting885/r/seduction04/02/26 11:59 AM
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2

Go to singles events and find the dudes that are normal. There are always one or two.
/r/seduction17/08/26 10:24 PM
1

She’s not that interested. Girls are constantly on their phones. Sorry bud. You could possibly still win if you can manage to get her on a date but good luck.
/r/seduction11/08/26 03:43 PM
6

The chase becomes addictive… beware. But when you find the right one you’ll forget about all that.
/r/seduction08/08/26 03:11 PM
1

I got a nice strap for my Apple Watch. Having the full rings is quite a flex 😉
/r/seduction06/08/26 02:35 PM
3

Uh yes you have to ask them out if you want them to go out with you…
/r/seduction05/08/26 03:13 PM
1

The best dating advice I ever got: do whatever you want. That’s what men do. If you want her number then ask for it.
/r/seduction04/08/26 05:07 PM
118

Women change their minds constantly. People act like this is all skill but a lot of it is luck. Hence why they call it a numbers game.
/r/seduction28/07/26 02:16 AM
4

Of course they’re rare. That doesn’t disprove the theory. Most of the women are fighting over a small group of these guys in any particular locality.
/r/seduction20/07/26 11:14 AM
36

Dating is extremely difficult nowadays. Social media and apps have completely fried their brains.
/r/seduction19/07/26 04:44 PM
21

Yeah yeah yeah
/r/seduction16/07/26 08:55 PM
58

Stop listening to what women say. They also say they wants a nice guy who brings them flowers and shit.
/r/seduction16/07/26 05:10 PM
1

Make new friends. Having a couple confident guy friends that will approach groups with you at a bar or a social situation is a game changer.
/r/seduction13/07/26 06:10 PM
3

In my experience most of them like the thrill of the first couple dates then get bored. I guess that’s on me but they seem to be always looking for the next best thing.
/r/seduction13/07/26 11:20 AM
2

Occasionally. Usually I’ll go to events etc then we at least have something in common.
/r/seduction13/07/26 11:18 AM
1

She isn’t gonna plan a date with you. That’s the man’s job. If the reasons were legitimate then try again. Just don’t seem too available. It’s very possible she’s met someone else. You wouldn’t believe how many men are asking these women out. Best of luck.
/r/seduction13/07/26 01:50 AM
18

Getting dates is easy. Everyone is afraid to approach irl. Keeping them around is way harder :(
/r/seduction12/07/26 09:41 PM
6

I would consider joining clubs and stuff like that. Walking around by yourself in nightclubs sounds awful to me personally.
/r/seduction12/07/26 08:43 PM
3

Uber
/r/seduction12/07/26 05:12 PM
1

Yes, it can definitely happen.
/r/seduction12/07/26 01:56 AM
0

You need to play games. Don’t let yourself get obsessed. Give them breadcrumbs.
/r/seduction10/07/26 03:55 PM
2

$25 for a coffee date what yall ordering 😆
/r/seduction09/07/26 05:06 PM
1

I kinda went ham last year. Once I had 3 dates set up for one evening. Everyone called me an asshole but sure enough 2/3 flaked. Funny how they’re never the asshole for flaking lol.
/r/seduction07/07/26 11:22 AM
0

Yes they do
/r/seduction07/07/26 12:08 AM
-8

Then they complain men don’t approach them in public
/r/seduction06/07/26 11:44 PM
2

Another way to think about it: a few minutes of discomfort vs a lifetime of discomfort
/r/seduction06/07/26 02:01 PM
1

Girls like guys who are social and have friends
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:10 AM
1

Do ballroom or salsa or something. A run club, something. The only way to meet people is to, well, meet people.
/r/seduction03/07/26 11:30 PM
2

Join clubs. Start dancing. Make friends. It’s a lot of time and work and energy.
/r/seduction03/07/26 11:08 PM
6

Nothing happens out of the blue. As a man, we have to make everything happen. Act accordingly. No one cares about experience you need to start now though.
/r/seduction03/07/26 11:00 PM
3

It’s never been fair. The majority of men throughout human history of never reproduced. But social media does make it worse.
/r/seduction02/07/26 05:29 AM
1

Well, I’m gonna still try to not die alone
/r/seduction02/07/26 01:31 AM
1

Just touch her leg or her shoulder
/r/seduction01/07/26 10:03 PM
13

Creepy can’t enter your mind. If you’re worried about what she thinks of you, you’ve already lost.
/r/seduction01/07/26 10:01 PM
2

Yep you essentially rejected her
/r/seduction01/07/26 01:58 PM
4

Getting banned from the apps was the best thing that ever happened to me
/r/seduction30/06/26 11:30 PM
2

She wanted you, man. Should have touched her or ask if she wanted to try the lollipop.
/r/seduction30/06/26 01:44 PM
1

If they’re actually making fun of you then they’re assholes anyway. I do a lot of social stuff and there are some truly weird or awkward people and we never make fun of them. You should ask yourself if it’s all in your head though.
/r/seduction28/06/26 07:06 PM
1

Clearly this person needs help and is struggling to make friends or make any connections. I think therapy is often a waste of time but I don’t know what else they can do if they can’t even talk to other men.
/r/seduction28/06/26 07:05 PM
7

It’s a chicken and egg thing. You think people hate you and so they do. You need to assume everyone likes you. You also might need therapy.
/r/seduction28/06/26 05:27 PM
10

Sometimes you just lose
/r/seduction25/06/26 03:44 AM
17

Another tip - assume they like you until you realize that they don’t. So much of this is in your head. If you assume they’re attracted to you then they actually WANT you to ask them out. If they say no then you were wrong and you move on.
/r/seduction19/06/26 05:54 PM
1

Doesn’t count for dating apps obviously
/r/seduction19/06/26 11:29 AM
3

Texting should only be for setting up dates
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:58 PM
3

Where do you meet them? Just anywhere and everywhere?
/r/seduction17/06/26 10:49 AM
4

Girls love being hit on. The caveat is that they only like it if they’re attracted to you. Good luck. If you’re worried about what they’re gonna think or if you’re bothering them then you have too much respect for them and you’re gonna end up losing.
/r/seduction17/06/26 02:37 AM
11

Sometimes they were just never going to like you
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:12 PM
1

Uh buddy they invented a drug that removes social inhibitions like 6000 years ago
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:11 PM
-10

Just because you don’t like the ideas, doesn’t mean they’re “toxic.” You can think that women are of equal dignity but to consider them equal, ie, the same as men, is utter folly.
/r/seduction15/06/26 11:58 AM
27

Kiss her you absolute dunce
/r/seduction13/06/26 05:22 AM
1

lol it ain’t that deep bro. literally just go on a date with a woman.
/r/seduction11/06/26 10:32 PM
1

They’re absolutely real. It’s a biological defense mechanism. Poke the bear and see what happens. Not even a “bad” trait or anything.
/r/seduction11/06/26 09:40 PM
5

Not OP but i noticed myself saying “but I don’t know” after a lot of my statements and opinions. Basically not being confident in what I’m saying and leaving the door open to other thoughts and ideas. Not a bad thing intellectually but girls want you to be self assured so they hate this.
/r/seduction11/06/26 07:12 PM
14

What women want and what they say they want are two completely different things.
/r/seduction10/06/26 08:41 PM
3

Missed your chance sadly
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:30 PM
41

“She said she didn’t want sex.” She did want it. A tough lesson is that what women want and what they say they want are often compete opposites. For example, most women say they want a nice, caring guy. But when they date those men they find them boring.
/r/seduction09/06/26 02:11 PM
3

“Hi, I don’t think we’ve met before. I’m filthy asswipe, what’s your name?”
/r/seduction09/06/26 12:57 AM
1

Unfortunately it’s just a fact of life. Men also have be fit, good looking, funny, wealthy, exciting/interesting, romantic. We just have it a lot harder in dating.
/r/seduction09/06/26 12:56 AM
6

1 date per year is way way too low. For context, I go on at least 1 per month. Also you need to be meeting people in person.
/r/seduction08/06/26 10:58 PM
1

No you don’t. That’s the whole point.
/r/seduction30/05/26 02:27 AM
2

Some wise dating advice: do whatever you want. You wanna kiss her? Just do it.
/r/seduction29/05/26 09:11 PM
14

Yes. This is why you need to act fast and be decisive
/r/seduction28/05/26 04:16 PM
1

You can find small places to meet people at coffee shops, etc.
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:56 AM
11

Probably obvious to you, but if you really wanna meet women then getting a job and moving out of the house are better first steps than downloading a dating app
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:03 AM
67

Sometimes you just lose. Sorry man.
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:51 PM
1

Yes you fumbled that night. No that doesn’t mean you can’t reconnect. Text her and make some plans.
/r/seduction25/05/26 09:24 PM
4

Profile doesn’t matter if you get age filtered.
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:07 PM
25

Apps are about useless over 30. Go talk to girls in person you’re a grown man.
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:47 PM
17

It lessens. The key is to be able to use it as fuel.
/r/seduction24/05/26 07:33 AM
5

How can you practically get better?
/r/seduction21/05/26 11:38 AM
8

No need to rush it. Get to know them and build trust. Tell them you’re doing X this weekend and ask if they wanna join. Easy.
/r/seduction20/05/26 03:05 AM
27

Practice doesn’t hurt. Also divorcing yourself from the outcome or “goal.”
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:13 AM
4

She wasn’t into you. The perils of dating apps.
/r/seduction17/05/26 03:47 AM
1

Just talk to her irl. No need to talk online
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:07 PM
1

If she looks more than once, just go talk to her. It ain’t that complicated.
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:32 PM
18

if it’s any consolation men have to do all the hard work in life, too
/r/seduction10/05/26 10:04 PM
12

You spun the roulette wheel and lost. Sorry bro.
/r/seduction06/05/26 11:41 PM
3

You gotta work on your mindset, man. You’re not ugly.
/r/seduction06/05/26 12:05 AM
1

People love talking about themselves. Start there
/r/seduction05/05/26 08:23 PM
2

The most important thing is to have confidence. If working out is gonna give you confidence then do that. I personally felt like I needed to work on my social skills more to gain confidence, so that’s what I’ve been focusing more on. You can only do so much in one day. People saying to do both are kind of oversimplifying things.
/r/seduction04/05/26 03:38 AM
42

The only thing I’ve been able to do is exposure therapy. Social anxiety is somewhat innate but you can overcome it to an extent.
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:19 AM
6

I have the same problem. Too logical and cold. Not fun, romantic, or emotional enough. Something that can be worked on but it’s hard.
/r/seduction02/05/26 09:53 PM
35

Something like 50% of all men in human history never reproduced. Act accordingly.
/r/seduction02/05/26 07:23 PM
2

Dancing
/r/seduction02/05/26 01:01 AM
6

The number one thing I’ve ruled about all this stuff is just to do what you want. If you wanted to kiss her, you should have.
/r/seduction28/04/26 03:48 AM
1

Find a fun event for that night or come up with some kind of fun plan. You need to solidify your plan for Friday night.
/r/seduction27/04/26 09:00 PM
1

Sometimes I just be liking them
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:51 PM
24

Biology
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:43 PM
1

Dumb but true. This is such a great way to explain so many facets of modern dating.
/r/seduction20/04/26 02:53 AM
2

Bingo. Just about every girl is easy with guys that she is into. The real question is how picky is she?
/r/seduction20/04/26 02:23 AM
3

You’re still young man. Start working on yourself. Work out look on your work on your appearance and your style. Put yourself out there and get to meet new people and work on your personality. If you do this for 2 to 3 years, you can tear it up, especially at your height.
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:54 PM
1

I had to learn this one the hard way. I now basically don’t text the other person except to make plans. Kills all mystery.
/r/seduction15/04/26 01:11 PM
0

Honestly if you’re normal and good looking you’ll probably be better off than half the guys there. Just be chill and fun and funny. It helps to bring some friends too for social proof.
/r/seduction15/04/26 03:34 AM
1

Dude the apps are the lowest of the low…
/r/seduction15/04/26 03:32 AM
4

Kiss their neck
/r/seduction14/04/26 02:52 AM
2

All this stuff only works if they’re already attracted to you btw
/r/seduction13/04/26 03:52 AM
3

Don’t do it. Typically the hardest things in life to get are the ones that are the most worthwhile. It’s actually not that hard to learn how to get one night stands. The harder part is actually finding a decent girl that you can build a life with.
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:04 AM
1

This is always the dumbest rule in my opinion. Girls never wanna text first so if you follow this role, you just basically never get anywhere
/r/seduction12/04/26 04:33 AM
2

Men do what they want. Therefore, do what you want.
/r/seduction11/04/26 12:41 PM
1

You didn’t turn her on enough to get to yes
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:12 PM
0

She wanted it, bro.
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:37 PM
3

She either actually wanted sex and you didn’t provide, or she decided she doesn’t like you. Women change their minds constantly. Sorry. Tell her you don’t need another friend and reach back out in 6 months or so.
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:25 PM
2

It’s worked for me. If she likes you she’ll make you wanna stay.
/r/seduction10/04/26 02:17 PM
1

Just say “it was nice meeting you but I deserve better than being ignored.” There’s a 90% chance it’s just over. Women are extremely fickle /emotional and change their minds constantly.
/r/seduction10/04/26 11:14 AM
6

Last summer I was firing on all cylinders. There was at least 1 occasion I triple booked dates because I knew my flake rate was about 67%. It’s just part of it. They change their minds multiple times a day.
/r/seduction10/04/26 03:24 AM
1

Such a weird question
/r/seduction09/04/26 11:20 PM
1

Yea if you like being unhappy
/r/seduction09/04/26 01:35 PM
-11

For the weak, yes
/r/seduction08/04/26 11:14 PM
3

What’s SR
/r/seduction08/04/26 04:00 PM
44

Yes. Stop dulling your sexual desire. Also delete dating apps.
/r/seduction08/04/26 12:43 PM
1

That’s in your head. Girls literally want to be approached. Every time a girl gets prettied up and goes outside she is seeking attention Z
/r/seduction07/04/26 11:19 AM
1

Try and find things you enjoy that can also Help you get girls. Example: dance class. You go and have fun. You might meet a girl, you might not. Either way you went and had fun and have a fun hobby to talk about
/r/seduction06/04/26 10:13 PM
1

Unless you’re hyper attractive you’ll have to spend a lot of money on the apps. I’m pretty attractive and I have no luck without premium features. I get tons of dates just meeting girls irl. It’s just much harder to distinguish oneself online. Totally different skill set. It’s mostly a waste of time in my eyes, especially if you want a real and meaningful relationship. OLD is thankfully dying.
/r/seduction06/04/26 02:56 PM
1

You don’t. You just do it anyway.
/r/seduction06/04/26 05:06 AM
0

He’s not attracted to you. There are many women I’d just as soon not get a blowjob from. And the fact that he’s turning you down is making you want him even more.
/r/seduction06/04/26 04:56 AM
2

Parlay is just that apps filter out certain things. Height, age, etc. I have way more success in person, just cause I typically get filtered out by my age. The point being, women don’t actually know what they want until they see it. That being said, lack of success on dating apps can sometimes indicate that you don’t know how to deal with women or think about what they want
/r/seduction05/04/26 07:54 PM
-1

If she is a woman then she is playing you
/r/seduction05/04/26 03:28 PM
12

Yes women want men to approach them. It’s funny how you can just interrupt their conversations and stuff. They are always thrill seeking and a man coming upto them is thrilling.
/r/seduction04/04/26 11:34 AM
1

Ask her out. Texting should only be used for planning dates.
/r/seduction04/04/26 11:16 AM
1

It’s okay to text her
/r/seduction31/03/26 05:49 PM
2

Throw in something unexpected. “Hey let’s go for a walk.” See something interesting on the walk. Or go get some chocolate or something. Give them a little adventure and something unexpected. If they’re bored at all it’s a no go.
/r/seduction31/03/26 04:33 PM
10

I know that’s gotta hurt but remember dating is mostly a roulette game. All the little games we play are maybe 20% of the story. 80% is just if they like you or not. And that involves timing, place, her mood that day, her energy that day, your energy that day, and all kinds of other unseen forces. This is why it’s a numbers game. But yeah it hurts when you find one you like. I get it.
/r/seduction31/03/26 01:45 AM
2

I fear you’re deep in the friend zone
/r/seduction27/03/26 09:34 PM
26

Nope. Just say something like “wait it’s laundry room girl.” You have to get the “creepy” thing out of your head. It’s a label applied by women. If you care about what women think then you’ve already lost.
/r/seduction27/03/26 10:25 AM
2

So how do you do it?
/r/seduction26/03/26 07:51 PM
1

Unfortunately that’s the bare minimum. Actually converting from dating to gf is where the real work starts.
/r/seduction26/03/26 09:58 AM
1

Wild take
/r/seduction25/03/26 10:34 PM
1

I’m good at sex but I don’t do it until we know each other better
/r/seduction25/03/26 09:27 PM
1

I mean I’m doing that too. But I see your point. Just a difficult mind shift. Usually if they make it past my filter then I’m relatively interested
/r/seduction25/03/26 04:54 PM
1

That is my worry. It gets a little worse every time because I have anxiety and pain from the last time. Just hard to avoid especially if you’re really into the person. I do tend to keep it pretty cool especially once I’m actually with them so it’s hard to say. But it’s a theory for sure.
/r/seduction25/03/26 04:47 PM
1

1 was a compatibility issue. The rest just weren’t feeling it.
/r/seduction25/03/26 03:49 PM
0

Well it’s hard to tell because they’re receptive to physical and romantic escalation. I guess you just don’t know if they’re attracted if they act like they do.
/r/seduction25/03/26 03:15 PM
7

No thanks
/r/seduction25/03/26 03:13 PM
1

The main thing that helped me in getting fit was my own confidence. Women pick up on that. Here’s what you’re gonna do, find your total daily energy expenditure. You’re gonna start tracking everything that you eat from a calories perspective. You’re gonna start eating 500 calories, fewer than your total daily energy expenditure. 500 cal a day is 3500 cal in a week or 1 pound per week. At your weight, you could actually do 2 pounds per week if you want. People will try to tell you you’re starving…
/r/seduction21/03/26 11:53 AM
10

She was on the fence (which is why she didn’t take the number) and decided she wasn’t interested after the date. The date going well is typically a prerequisite but it doesn’t necessarily mean she is going to be interested/attracted. Time to move on. Sorry bud. It’s a painful game. Only those that can handle obscene amounts of rejection survive in modern dating.
/r/seduction16/03/26 10:32 AM
1

You only hate it when you’re not attracted to them
/r/seduction14/03/26 05:27 AM
1

Fear mongering
/r/seduction14/03/26 05:26 AM
1

Get a new hobby. Join a club. Start reading. Go on a trip.
/r/seduction12/03/26 10:54 PM
1

Yeah, it’s pretty much all just vibes based. And the vibes can change from day-to-day. The things you do can’t influence the vibes, but only to some extent.
/r/seduction12/03/26 11:05 AM
0

I’m always surprised by how many people have terrible breath. This is caused by decomposing food in your mouth. Brush and floss 3x a day. Drink lots of water and chew sugar minty gum. It’s not that hard.
/r/seduction11/03/26 02:35 PM
17

Good. They’re awful for society. At some point you realize that a woman even being on a dating app is a red flag. It means they can’t draw a man to ask them out irl.
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:03 PM
1

Excuses.
/r/seduction07/03/26 06:19 AM
3

18-20 is perfectly fine for a 27 year old man. If they’re in church they probably want an older man who can provide for them anyway.
/r/seduction06/03/26 06:48 PM
2

Do as much as you can possibly handle. What’s the alternative? Sitting on your phone at home?
/r/seduction04/03/26 11:32 PM
4

Girls hate apologies
/r/seduction04/03/26 11:47 AM
2

Once you become attractive enough the legions of girls you’re not attracted to show up. It’s a confidence boost but doesn’t do you any real good. Goes to show how the lower tiers of women are all shooting for the higher tiers of men
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:38 PM
14

I’m never dating a dog person again. Their houses are always disgusting. You can’t go anywhere or do anything without getting back to let the dog piss. It’s awful.
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:37 PM
-2

It’s ultimately feminine and kills mystery
/r/seduction02/03/26 03:49 AM
1

Honestly posting on instagram can only hurt you I think
/r/seduction02/03/26 01:33 AM
6

When you pursue they pull away. She’s too far away now and if you try and pursue she’ll only move further. Unfortunately no contact is the only way but ultimately you need to accept there’s a 95% chance she’s gone and move on. I’ve seen them “come back” before but very rarely
/r/seduction01/03/26 11:35 PM
1

Unfortunately this is next to impossible
/r/seduction01/03/26 09:36 PM
6

No. Go talk to her irl and build rapport. Eventually ask her to do something with a group of friends so it’s not a date. Tread carefully but pursue.
/r/seduction26/02/26 05:37 PM
1

I think it’s something with the cycles of the moon or something. There are definitely hot and cold streaks.
/r/seduction25/02/26 11:55 PM
1

That’s not what I said
/r/seduction22/02/26 02:37 PM
1

Getting what you want is masculine
/r/seduction22/02/26 02:40 AM
1

Just try it
/r/seduction20/02/26 12:04 PM
1

That’s all BS
/r/seduction19/02/26 01:45 AM
18

What makes a much bigger difference is the confidence that YOU gain.
/r/seduction17/02/26 12:20 PM
1

Make small talk. Find a mutual common interest outside of the gym. (Eg art). When it comes up, ask her to do something pertaining to that interest. If she says no then let it go.
/r/seduction17/02/26 12:19 PM
3

You’ll only know once you’re on the second date ha ha
/r/seduction17/02/26 12:00 AM
1

Take a dance class. $10/lesson. And there will actually be women there you can meet and talk to. Win win.
/r/seduction16/02/26 11:38 PM
2

Dancing. Run club. Church club. That’s enough to keep me plenty busy. I also go to Singles events.
/r/seduction14/02/26 06:07 PM
1

Just join a bunch of clubs. I do something almost every night of the week. I treat it like a second job. It’s truly a numbers game.
/r/seduction14/02/26 04:21 PM
4

No one is gonna call the cops on you 😭
/r/seduction14/02/26 04:20 PM
2

This is a cop out. It’ll be fine.
/r/seduction14/02/26 02:48 PM
22

Smart phones will be the death of us all
/r/seduction13/02/26 11:37 PM
16

It’s much easier imo.
/r/seduction13/02/26 10:00 PM
1

Yep. I’ve done the same thing. Just pick one and roll with her.
/r/seduction12/02/26 12:33 AM
9

In my experience, it’s actually much easier in real life than on dating apps
/r/seduction12/02/26 12:32 AM
3

Sounds like you already know what you need to do. Nut up.
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:28 AM
21

Excuses. Don’t be a coward.
/r/seduction10/02/26 01:46 AM
2

This is what I did last year and I’ve gotten more dates than ever before. Do something every night. Talking to strangers becomes second nature.
/r/seduction07/02/26 10:31 PM
275

People confuse simple with easy. Something can be simple but also be hard. Becoming jacked is actually very simple but it’s not easy.
/r/seduction06/02/26 06:58 PM
1

Naive take imho
/r/seduction05/02/26 03:32 AM
26

It is kinda funny. They also don’t know how to get rejected gracefully. Need some reps!
/r/seduction03/02/26 12:41 PM
2

You never see women with shy guys but you always see women with egotistical dudes. The thing you have to consider is, they’re not worried only about how you will treat them, but also treat the people that you and your family will interact with. If you’re a pushover with her, you’re likely to be a pushover with everyone else and your family will get taken advantage of.
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:38 PM
1

It’s over. Sorry. Women are wildly unpredictable
/r/seduction01/02/26 05:21 AM
1

Oh yeah I routinely double or triple book dates because my cancel rate is so high. Women are deranged.
/r/seduction25/01/26 01:29 AM
5

It’s not 100% but it’s low. I have great success irl and only mediocre success online.
/r/seduction19/01/26 06:04 PM
3

Talking to her in person is better but DM if you must
/r/seduction15/01/26 12:09 PM
1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
/r/seduction10/01/26 05:20 PM
1

Then you tell them. Also you can’t think about “what ifs.” Just send it.
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:51 PM
1

I cannot express this strongly enough: never ever use that line on a woman.
/r/seduction31/12/25 09:44 PM
1

Do you ever see her irl?
/r/seduction31/12/25 09:05 PM
53

“I don’t think we’ve met before, I’m _____” Works every time. Then you start making conversation. It doesn’t have to make a ton of sense because most people (especially women) are not rational thinkers. If they like you then you can say just about anything for an intro.
/r/seduction31/12/25 06:54 PM
-2

ChatGPT lol
/r/seduction30/12/25 06:12 PM
6

My advice is get yourself out into the real world. Dating apps can be used in the “background” but don’t rely on them. I’ve been surprised the increased attention I’ve gotten as I’ve aged… girls like money stability and maturity.
/r/seduction30/12/25 06:12 PM
5

Could have gone worse. Keep nurturing the relationship. Never hurts to have girl acquaintances or friends. They have single friends.
/r/seduction30/12/25 06:10 PM
2

It’s common but it helps to bring a girl
/r/seduction30/12/25 01:00 AM
2

Run clubs. Dance classes. Church events. You’re welcome.
/r/seduction29/12/25 04:39 AM
16

Bringing up not only an ex but also their race? Very weird
/r/seduction28/12/25 03:54 PM
1

Your first problem is thinking that anything women do “makes sense.” It’s all irrational, emotional, vibes based. There are certain things you can do to increase your odds or get your foot in the door but generally after that it’s all dumb luck.
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:40 PM
10

I get more college women now than I did when I was in college 😆
/r/seduction16/12/25 01:40 AM
1

Find an event going on around town and invite her. Get dinner or drinks before or after. Have a plan if she says yes. Friend zone is code for being rejected and the nice thing is it’s mostly about luck and not skill once you actually land the date. Good luck.
/r/seduction15/12/25 04:01 PM
1

She’s not interested
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:45 PM
1

Time + finding someone new. Every time I think it’s not gonna help and then it does. You’ll be okay.
/r/seduction04/12/25 05:05 PM
4

People are never bored when they’re talking about themselves. They only get bored if they’re not attracted to you. If they’re talking about themselves and seem bored then move on. If they seem interested then keep talking and asking questions z
/r/seduction02/12/25 04:42 PM
1

As of now, it’s extremely easy to avoid fake profiles. I never have this problem. Generally they do waste a lot of time though because you’re competing with so very many men. Irl you’re competing with just a couple who are actually brave enough to talk to her irl
/r/seduction24/11/25 10:33 AM
11

Google Nike’s slogan
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:41 AM
12

Ask about them about themselves. It’s everyone’s favorite topic!
/r/seduction13/11/25 05:33 PM
13

This happens to me a lot. Basically we’re in the middle of the pack but not at the top, when it comes to our position among other men. Women are just sort of awful, generally speaking, and get bored easily. Unfortunately what I’ve found is you have to settle a little bit to find one who will actually stick around.
/r/seduction12/11/25 03:16 AM
1

Yeah increasingly I think this is all bullshit. If she likes you, she likes you.
/r/seduction11/11/25 11:12 PM
45

Their schedule clears up real fast when they’re actually into you.
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:55 AM
1

IMHO online doesn’t even count as seduction
/r/seduction04/11/25 08:37 PM
1

His paid course, probably
/r/seduction04/11/25 05:15 PM
1

If that’s the case you may need to move. I live in a relatively small city and there are dozens of events through the week
/r/seduction04/11/25 05:14 PM
1

That’s because the skill sets rewarded are completely different. The apps are mostly about marketing and texting (which are BS skills anyway). I’m okay at apps but way better irl.
/r/seduction03/11/25 09:26 PM
1

Like every interaction with a woman: you spun the roulette wheel and you lost. Time to spin it again.
/r/seduction03/11/25 09:20 PM
62

I force myself to go out and do something every single night. I got tired of sitting on my sofa wasting time on the apps. Otherwise you’ll probably die alone.
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:16 PM
1

Man it fucking sucks. I don’t like to do the dirt unless we know each other well and I’ve had multiple girls turn me down for this. I think they feel rejected and unlike men, don’t know how to handle it because it so rarely happens
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:52 PM
3

Calorie counting is the only thing that works. Cardio doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction20/10/25 10:21 PM
1

Well, yeah. This is very obvious. Girls actually want boyfriends. They do not want sex friends.
/r/seduction02/10/25 10:30 PM
3

Because it’s a roll of the dice for the guy. There were probably 10+ other guys in contention. Meanwhile the woman has a 100% chance of getting laid.
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:56 PM
2

Once you learn to stop applying rational thinking to the decisions of women it all makes a lot more sense.
/r/seduction20/09/25 02:43 PM
1

You can set expectations to some extent by doing small things like opening doors for her and buying her coffee. Show her how you’ll treat her if you’re in a relationship. You can also go for an extended hug after the date. Otherwise yeah it’s just an initial “get to know you” type of deal.
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:05 AM
12

Happens about 80% of the time. It’s just really hard to keep their attention. There are probably 10 men pursuing them all at once.!
/r/seduction14/09/25 02:14 PM
2

Good. Dating apps are terrible. We need to return to meeting people irl.
/r/seduction02/09/25 12:38 AM
0

Loser mentality. You’ve lost before you’ve even begun.
/r/seduction27/08/25 08:18 PM
4

No matter how attractive or skilled you are, a really big portion of all of this is just luck. For instance, the menstrual cycles of women are literally a giant roulette. They are attracted to different things at different times of the month. You picked red and it landed on black. Time to move on. The good news is it has nothing to do with you, most likely.
/r/seduction26/08/25 11:31 AM
3

Get a better job
/r/seduction25/08/25 04:41 PM
3

In some ways, this actually makes it easier because there are far fewer men actually hitting on women irl making those of us that do more valuable
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:00 PM
56

Depends on where you’re looking. If you’re masculine acting but have leftwing politics then you can be very successful.
/r/seduction28/07/25 07:07 PM
1

Just do it
/r/seduction18/07/25 04:10 AM
2

I pick up plenty of girls while wearing a hat. Once they like you they don’t mind the receding hairline. Don’t listen to the people here
/r/seduction25/06/25 03:29 PM
1

You’ll want to use the paid plan. Also be VERY careful. It’s easy to get banned for life.
/r/seduction17/06/25 02:00 PM
1

Have an idea of what you want to do (dinner etc) and throw out a couple days/times and let her pick one. Need to make it seem like you’re busy and only have limited free time.
/r/seduction09/06/25 01:12 PM
2

Practice makes perfect
/r/seduction09/06/25 12:58 PM
1

Get an std test first…
/r/seduction08/06/25 08:32 PM
2

He’s definitely right about that. If you’re not blocked and they’re still responding to you then you have a shot.
/r/seduction08/06/25 02:10 AM
5

If this is what you want then seek help brotha. This is just sad.
/r/seduction08/06/25 02:07 AM
7

lol they’re not gonna ask you to not come back. This sort of fear is way overblown.
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:17 AM
0

Then they wonder where all the “real men” are
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:49 AM
2

My picture of me with all my plants is far and away my most popular and comment on pic
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:17 PM
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