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My son was sexually assaulted by his mother. How stupid would I sound if I suggested this was somehow the responsibility of all women? Society as a whole failed him, though, despite the fact the police acknowledged that there was basically no doubt she was guilty, she was never charged because "juries don't generally convict women of sexual crimes". I guess this is axiomatic if the police elect never to press charges 🤔
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/23 06:09 AM
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It seems a total absence of morals was looked upon positively by Optus. I guess we shouldn't be surprised 🤔
/r/MensRights01/07/23 03:19 AM
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I guess I would ask if I said "current NSW" premier, would it have a different meaning? Referring to her as Premier of NSW is mildly ambiguous but, in no way, misleading. I think it is clear that you didn't like my post - good to know! Have a great night keyboard 🥋 🤣
/r/MensRights30/06/23 11:34 AM
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Actually, if you had bothered to do any research before commenting, you would realise this was about corruption while she was premier - it was big news but perhaps you don't follow current affairs or you are not an aussie? The reason I posted it here was because I found it so offensive that they blame a boyfriend for the crimes that were knowingly committed by one of our leaders. It is yet another example of how crimes committed by women are not taken seriously and even blamed on men, despite al…
/r/MensRights30/06/23 10:01 AM
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I am not sure it is a tough shell, but more that different ways of interacting were acceptable. I did something stupid the other day at work that broke a production system and one of my employees, who is about 40, called me a dickhead. We both laughed because it was an appropriate way for us to interact as older people who have known each other for a long time. Younger folks looking on world probably have been mortified to hear him use such pejorative term, particularly to his boss. So perhaps m…
/r/MenSupportMen10/06/23 06:00 AM
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I think there is a generational effect where each generation has different experiences and reacts in ways that are formed by their life so far. I run a software company, and I have seen over the last 20 years a real shift towards entitlement amongst university graduates. Getting a job should be a shared-gain experience, but the reality is that the leap of faith and the downside almost entirely sits with the employer when employing a graduate. Increasingly, I feel like graduates believe they are …
/r/MenSupportMen10/06/23 02:20 AM
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Great to hear you are doing well in a tough time. Not sure about this older men's emotions thing though. At 50, I have seen men freely express their emotions throughput my life. Perhaps there is some basis for this stereotype but I feel like maybe it is just a way for society to ignore make suicide rates and other men's issues
/r/MenSupportMen09/06/23 11:27 PM
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Perhaps you might focus on the bits that are "easier" to fix,.... and free. Have you spoken to your wife about getting your sex life back on track? Everyone is happier when they are getting a decent amount of sex 👍. Plus, if it's definitely a key point to having "closeness" in your relationship
/r/MenSupportMen06/06/23 01:57 AM
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Life is way too short to spend it being abused. But I know how the OP feels - it is hard to leave despite the abuse. That part is hard to understand unless you have been there
/r/MenSupportMen05/06/23 10:18 AM
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I was in the same situation, but my wife was also a profound narcissist (perhaps yours is too). I was concerned about leaving my son without me to shield him from her crap but, in the end, I left. After a while, her abuse of my son got so bad that there were police involved, and I ended up with 100% custody (with a drawn out court battle to wait for then to adjust their thinking to realise i wasn't the problem). I now have a new awesome wife (we have been together for about 10 years) and 2 more …
/r/MenSupportMen05/06/23 09:08 AM
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It is far more a hate group than MGTOW, in my opinion. Personally, I think both groups have some issues but feminism is moving progressively towards oppressive and exclusionary ideals. For what it is worth I don't think your comment deserves a downvote 🙂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/23 01:18 AM
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I run an IT company and employ mainly men. This is partly/largely because I employ lots of "neuro-diverse" individuals - because they make great coders. And, as we know, these different brain manifestations predominantly affect men. In my limited experience, blokes don't seem to mind all our oddball personalities and just take it as it is while the women tend to analyse it more and expect "typical" interactions. If you want chit-chat at the watercooler, don't work in IT!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/23 09:06 AM
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I always wanted to write a book, but I sadly have no talent. Hence, my friend, in my eyes, you farkin' rock! From this day on, you are a published author and that puts you in an elite group. No one can ever take that away from you 😎
/r/MenSupportMen17/05/23 08:41 AM
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Every school, sadly. Remember we BelieveAllWomen and KillAllMen - cool and normal
/r/MensRights15/05/23 09:10 AM
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I have a dad and he is pretty cool. My mum was somewhat abusive and so my dad was the stabilising influence in my childhood. My dad is very supportive and I talk with him about all sorts of other things in my life (I am now 50 and he is 76). He is definitely one of my best friends. Having said that, as a child, he often disciplined us and I am sure I hated him at times 🙃
/r/MenSupportMen14/05/23 04:48 AM
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It is tricky. Most likely, they will let you quit in the meeting. The easiest path for them is for you to quit because sacking people is hard (depending on the specific labour laws where you live). I live in Australia and run a business here, and there are lots of rules about termination. The "instant dismissal" rules here have a short timeframe, and you are outside that window. If it were me, I would go to the interview and politely defend myself. Obviously, the second incident makes the first …
/r/MensRights27/04/23 11:02 AM
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Definitely not with beating yourself up about. It was a silly mistake, but we all may silly mistakes. Just be respectful in your meeting with your boss and walk about a little wiser.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 10:30 AM
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Yes, it is. But I wouldn't beat yourself up about these events. The story was clearly a mistake that you should learn from 👍. But, life goes on and, in the scheme of things, this is all super minor. In the current zeitgeist, they basically have to sack you, but you are not an arsehole - just a guy who learnt a lesson the hard way.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 09:47 AM
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Maybe it was meant as sexual innuendo. More likely, it was just meant to be funny (a harmless and normal double entendre). There is literally nothing wrong with the word penetration used correctly in a sentence. Obviously, the second offence was a mistake, but without any me context, the first could easily just be someone who is so f'in uptight they can't deal with any word that could be related in any way to sex
/r/MensRights27/04/23 09:44 AM
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That sucks. If you are in the US then your crazy legal system might mean you can sue her..... but obviously the best option is just to run
/r/MenSupportMen26/04/23 07:25 AM
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I hope you grabbed your shoes from the bin brother ✊️
/r/MenSupportMen25/04/23 07:22 AM
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I expect he was too busy to show "love" in too many other ways. Working and looking after 4 kids would be an all-consuming activity. Good star for your dad from me!
/r/MensRights22/04/23 08:58 AM
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And then there is the virtue signalling that she is running the marathon to raise money for a cancer charity. BS - she is running a marathon because she wants to.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 12:23 AM
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And, if she hurts me - no one cares. If I hurt her I end up with an intervention order and a couple of days in jail (minimum) even though I was just defending myself. After all #BelieveAllWomen and #KillAllMen, right! I did speak to the police about the violence I experienced, and I was told not to report it because they would be obliged to investigate ME.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/23 08:23 AM
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I was in an abusive relationship for 10 years. My ex wife was violent at times and it is interesting to find yourself in that position as a man because you cannot fight back. As a bizarre aside on a couple of occasions, when my wife was pumching me or slapping me, I would grab her wrists as a way to stop her without doing any harm (she had tiny wrists and i have big hands). In these instances, she would go away and self-harm to bruise her wrists to then claim that I had assaulted her and threate…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/23 04:30 AM
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My son was sexually assaulted by a woman - it fucked him up terribly and he had been suicidal for the last 5 years. Hence, I think you are wrong and just buying into a stupid and baseless stereotype.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 09:20 PM
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Are there any men's groups where you live? In Australia, we have a few places that are called "men's sheds" where blokes get together and build wooden toys that they give away to struggling families. And if course they talk shit to each other as well and ask feel better as a result. If not, do you have a Rotary club near you? If so that might be s good way to meet some new people and myo keep busy with a positive purpose
/r/MenSupportMen16/04/23 09:04 PM
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That sucks buddy but it is definitely a win compared to a stroke, and will hopefully get better reasonably quickly. All the best for a speedy recovery 🙏
/r/MenSupportMen16/04/23 08:56 PM
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Thank you for your well researched and thorough response. Unfortunately, the law and its application are often at odds. The world is full of injustice, and, as you correctly point out, some of that injustice is illegally perpetrated by government agencies. Sadly, I have been around long enough to realise this is a fight that not only can I not win but one that is completely futile. If I were looking for a legal battle to make a stand, it would be against the family court, which is a far more egr…
/r/MensRights16/04/23 08:48 PM
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I probably should add that my ex-wife went on to sexually assault our son. She was arrested, after a drawn out investigation, but never charged because, in the words of the lead detective "there is a difference between knowing someone is guilty and being confident of a conviction" and "juries are reluctant to convict women of sexual offences". Interestingly, if she was convicted, the expected jail time was 12-18 months. For the same offence, the expected jail time for a man is 3-5 years (as seen…
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:34 AM
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I can tell you that I personally walked into a police station in South Australia to report the DV I was suffering. The nice copper informed me that I should not make a report as the required action would be to investigate me as the abuser. She was clear that I was the victim but had no way to act on the facts within their policy framework. So, when you see stats about offender rates by gender consider that, if I had filled a report then, I, as the make victim of female perpetrated DV, would have…
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:29 AM
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Ad Hominem - the logical fallacy of preference for people who can't defend themselves against a clearly argued point. YTA!
/r/MensRights09/04/23 07:17 AM
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And, your point is? There is a good chance that OPs position is 100% factual and the world is crap. There is also a chance he shares some blame (and perhaps significant blame). Not enough facts here to tell. But, for many of us, there is lived experience that suggests he might be entirely (or almost-entirely) the victim.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 07:11 AM
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My ex-wife is a profoundly abusive sociopath (in the end, she was arrested for sexually assaulting my son and i have had some custody and sole parental responsibilitysince then). Years before the final assault I went to Relationships Australia to get some advice about how to protect my son. I unemotively explained some of the behaviour I was concerned about, and the psychologist I was speaking to said "do you expect me to believe that a mother would do something too deliberately hurt her child".…
/r/MensRights09/04/23 05:29 AM
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You complain that my analogy is ridiculous despite the fact I was trying to provide a more representative analogy than the ludicrous one you had offered. I understand the earlobe segue but it doesn't make you premise any more reasonable
/r/MensRights07/04/23 10:56 AM
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In some countries. Similarly, girls are circumcised in some countries, too. There is often outrage about one and acceptance of the other. Many, if not most, female circumcision options do far less damage than the common male circumcision which makes it all the more ridiculous the way world behaves
/r/MensRights07/04/23 09:15 AM
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Actually removing the earlobe is a far smaller mutilation than taking the foreskin - there are no comparable body parts. Perhaps it is like cutting off all your fingernails - life goes on, but it comes with lots of problems
/r/MensRights07/04/23 09:07 AM
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28 is really young - you have lots of years to achieve the goals you set yourself. Think about what you want to achieve and look to tick some things off. I would suggest small goals to start with (check out Tim Minchin's 9 Life Lessons speech). For what it is worth - I am 50. I got remarried at 43. I have a 6yo and a 3yo. At 45, I earned my black belt in taekwondo. I was almost bankrupt at 40 due to a divorce and some business hiccups - now, I am looking to build a new house. You can't change th…
/r/MenSupportMen04/04/23 06:22 AM
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Herstory really is the premise that defines you as a fool who knows nothing about the etymology/history of the word. The Greek origin is the word for knowledge and the related verb related to research and discovery. The word carries the FEMALE gender and is in no way related to the Greek word for man (andras)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 11:28 PM
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I had a violent wife and so I have considered this on a few occasions. I am a black belt in taekwondo and was significantly larger/stronger than her. Obviously I could technically keep myself she but in practice I basically had to let her hit me and hope she didn't hurt herself because in Australia (particularly 10 years ago) men were assumed guilty is all cases I spoke to the police about DV and they told me not to report it as it would have only resulted in me being investigated because that w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 08:55 AM
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Ah yes, America's terrorist campaign that they cleverly called a "war on terror". War of terror would have been more apt (credit Borat)
/r/MensRights29/03/23 08:48 AM
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There are people (the minority) in the menright sub who blame everything on women. I think that sub did a pretty good job of sticking to items where men have lost basic rights. I also note that the Cassie Jaye Red Pill style had nothing to do with hating women (or even the oft hated figures like Paul Elam who actually just deftly highlights hypocrisy with click bait headlines that polarise people against him when they are to lazy to read the article to the end). The idea of conflating red pill w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/23 07:40 AM
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Best of luck. Sometimes, even having a chat about what is going on can help 👍
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 10:33 AM
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NLP - neuro-linguistic programming, CBT - cognitive behavioural therapy. If you have specific trauma then EMDR - eye movement desensitising and reprogramming - can be an almost miracle fix. There are lots of therapy options that work well either with or instead of meds. But they are all things that need to be learned from a trained practitioner
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 10:30 AM
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There are lots of useful things to try before meds. I have lived in the US, so I know a bit about how bad health care is there. I am lucky enough to live in Australia where mental health support is available relatively cheaply. Even still mental crisis is a tough road to walk. Keep your chin up brother ❤️
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 08:50 AM
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I am sure there are lots of blokes here who would be interested in your playlist. The song on your original post was awesome. I am an old bugger so sharing play lists is not something I know much about. Are you interested in playing guitar? They can be pretty cheap and are relatively easy to teach yourself with online content. Plus, the cognitive load is really high, which is good for distracting your mind when you are anxious. Perhaps you need to mix some happy/uplifting tunes in your playlist?…
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 08:44 AM
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That sucks. Have you been to the doctor? Might be something they can do to help
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 08:38 AM
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I understand that - there is so much systematic hatred of men now that it does get tiring. Do you play an instrument? Perhaps you could join a band? Writing grumpy music is a great outlet 🤘
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 07:24 AM
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She might just be a narcissistic too, and you might be her supply. Sadly, one of the problems of growing up with a narcissistic mother is that you tend to get drawn to (or perhaps just put up with and be open to being exploited by) other female narcissists. Unfortunately, it took me a decade-long abusive marriage to realise that this was what I had done. Do you have any hobbies or interests you could return to to meet more people?
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 07:11 AM
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Why, what's up bro?
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 05:44 AM
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Sounds brutal, brother. I married a narcissistic sociopath and lived in that world for 10 years so I know living with one takes an enormous toll. Sounds like you might want to lose your feminist friend because she is not what you need at the moment. Do you have any other friends to talk to? I used to find that going for long walks was a good way to get some peace and clear your head.
/r/MenSupportMen25/03/23 05:41 AM
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Give it a shot - you might find it is not that hard. I patch my own drywall and have replaced all sorts of parts in my toilet (plus done pressure and stormwater plumbing repairs). The first attempt is always tricky, but you'll get more handy with every job 👍 Also, see if you have any handy friends who will support you for a beer (or two).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/23 12:41 PM
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A little off topic, but a related experience with bias in the mental health services: I went to a service we have in Australia to try to get advice/ help for my son who was being psychologically abused by his mum. I ran through some of my/his experiences and then the psychologist said, "Do you expect me to believe that a mother is doing something to intentionally hurt her child?" I was gobsmacked. A year later, she sexually assaulted him, and the police finally stepped in. If the stupid psycholo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 08:16 AM
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I run a software company and all my best employees are well on the spectrum. It sucks that our school system makes it hard for autistic people to "do well" but in real life, it can be a blessing as well as a curse. I hope it all works out well for you and your daughter it sounds like you have a bit on your plate ✊️
/r/MenSupportMen11/03/23 11:01 AM
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How old is your daughter? I have an 18 year old with acute PTSD - thanks to his mum - and it had been a 5 year roller coaster. One thing I have learnt is that people are profoundly resilient. Kids, in particular, are amazing at dealing with whatever life throws them (I also have girls who are 3 and 6). Keep your chin up brother, everyone has their strengths, and being an intellectual is just one option ❤️
/r/MenSupportMen11/03/23 09:22 AM
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Or, "probabilistically, no men you ever meet in your entire life will be a rapist"
/r/MensRights08/03/23 11:18 AM
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I married a BPD / NPD sociopath first time around. I learned my lesson and married a wonderful woman. I met her through a friend when I was still in the "I will never date again" phase. Obviously I did date again and it was a good move. Keep you chin up brother, every shitstorm is a good chance to learn life's hard lessons ✊️
/r/MenSupportMen08/03/23 11:07 AM
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The idea that engineering is high paid is a bit of a misnomer - it is a good middle of the road career where you work hard and you get ok pay (I am an engineer, running his own business, for what it is worth). Hours are generally inflexible and hard work is required to be rewarded. Feminists focus on the top few percent to claim engineering is a goldmine. Medicine is a career where you are well paid across the board, and it is,..... dominated by women. Business courses are similar to engineering…
/r/MensRights25/02/23 11:08 AM
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Time to talk to a GP and get some help. EMDR is really good for PTSD - which sounds like something you might have from the rescue event. Knee sounds like ligament tear.... good thing to have checked out as they can fix them pretty well but it isn't great for your joint if you leave it unstable. Time to look after yourself, I think ❤️
/r/MenSupportMen25/02/23 09:04 AM
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My wife met me when I was broke, too. 10 years on and 2 kids later we still look after each other any way we can. If i lost my job, she would support me without question. My first wife was a narcissistic sociopath - I learned my lesson.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 10:03 AM
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It did sound a lot like his wife is a manipulative person. I would hazard a guess she had narcissistic personality issues.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 09:59 AM
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Women are twice as likely to kill their children as men, and the rate is even greater for killing sons. Of course, this stat is rarely the focus of any attention
/r/MensRights19/02/23 02:16 AM
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Looking at statistics is misleading because no one cares when women commit a crime. My son was sexually assaulted by his mother. The cops were happy to acknowledge she was guilty, and they arrested her but didn't press charges because "it is really hard to get a jury to convict a woman of a sexual crime". She still teaches music to children because the child protection agency thinks their job is done of the hand it over to the police. I was assaulted on many occasions by the same woman. When i s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/23 02:13 AM
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What field are you in?
/r/MenSupportMen11/02/23 11:00 AM
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Have you managed to get some sleep yet, brother? I hope things are travelling better for you now ✊️
/r/MenSupportMen11/02/23 06:36 AM
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Any luck with a call back?
/r/MenSupportMen11/02/23 06:35 AM
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I helped a girl at the gym the other day who had put some dodgy crossfit weight on an Olympic bar and got it stuck. I felt really uncertain asking if she needed help, even though she obviously did. I couldn't help but think back to 20 years ago when everyone in the gym used to chat, and it was a friendly place. Back in those days some nice person would have helped her is an instant and no one would have thought anything of it
/r/MensRights06/02/23 11:09 AM
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You must be new here!
/r/MensRights05/02/23 08:43 PM
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Internet laws tend to be applied universally. When California implemented its online cold safety legislation every major site in the world had to implement them. Similarly for GDPR - all our Australian sites still have to comply with an EU law
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:35 AM
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Someone banned MGTOW.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 09:50 PM
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I wonder if this will be the excuse that reddit uses to close down this sub. No doubt there will be a nebulous definition that allows this law to be abused to further silence anyone who questions feminist dogma. After all, I am already banned from lots of subs for thinking men deserve rights.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 12:12 PM
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Life with too little sleep is tough. Hopefully, soon you get a chance to catch up and reset 🙏
/r/MenSupportMen04/02/23 12:29 AM
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That sucks brother - can you let them know you misread the email? Everyone makes mistakes, so all might not be lost and it might be too early to write it off. If not, all you can do is learn from the mistake and do better for the next time around. Try to stay positive and pick yourself up for the next round ✊️❤
/r/MenSupportMen04/02/23 12:26 AM
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Definitely not learning from users but being trained from the woke BS that litters the internet. Hence, my initial comment that it is reflecting societal bias. Of course there is a process of garnering the information to train it and this can introduce bias either intentionally or by accident.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 09:46 PM
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That is pretty much the definition of this type of AI - feed it lots of stuff and try to have it generalise its knowledge to provide cogent responses across a broad range of unstructured topics.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 09:53 AM
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With the sophistication of the AI, having it learn what topics to avoid is not a very hard problem. There is clearly still the possibly of inductive bias from the RL and SL training phases but there is no concept of a predefined response. Of course, OpenAI have misrepresented their previous offerings on occasion and so there is the possibility that they may have pre-programmed responses despite all claims to the contrary. But, it is hard to see why they would do this - particularly in this insta…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 10:54 AM
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The ENTIRE point of ChatGPT is that the programmers don't give it any behaviour - it learns its behaviour from the Web. Hence it happily regurgitates feminist dogma because that is the pervasive view on the internet
/r/MensRights02/02/23 09:21 AM
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It only has the internet to learn from, so it naturally reflects societies prejudices. Hence, this is just a truly impartial example of prejudice against men
/r/MensRights30/01/23 10:20 AM
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The whole menstrual products is a joke. I buy most of my wives pads because I often go shopping for bits and pieces and she never buys them in her weekly shops. I don't imagine I am alone so it may be that this cost is actually "shared" quite often. I also work a lot more than my wife so when she buys these products it is worth "our" money, which I earn the majority of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 03:38 AM
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Women like sex as much as men - correct , obvious, well studied and proven. All the rest bollocks. Women are just as promiscuous as men, probably more so. And, this may be because they have less risk since the control contraception and termination. The concept that sex is more personal for women is just feminist dogma that is not supported by any analysis of human behaviour nor that of apes, monkeys or, indeed, any species.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 01:48 AM
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That is certainly the unchallenged dogma we are always fed. Personally, I think it is complete bollocks and completely unsupported by lived experience
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:40 AM
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Yes, 100%. My ex-wife had profound narcissism issues and so almost everything she did was manipulative. Using sex (or lack of / promises of) to get what she wanted was one of her favourite plays
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:38 AM
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A lot depends on where you live but, if you are in the US then I expect you can sue the surgeon and get more than enough to cover some surgery to improve the outcome. If you live in a developed country with a proper health care system then I would expect there should be a lot of good medical options available. It is a terrible shame that this has happened to you and you have every right to be pissed off and nervous about more surgery but, without all the details, I would be surprised if there wa…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 09:01 AM
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But if course these stats are invalid because the police don't bother taking reports from male victims or in situations with a female perpetrator unless someone is seriously injured.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 08:23 PM
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Nothing wrong with a little venlofaxine (or quite a lot actually). If these people don't support you then that reflects on them a lot more than you. I know a lot of people (more men than women, but plenty of each) on antidepressants who are well supported by their partners and family, so don't think it is impossible - indeed it is pretty normal. My boy is on a few ADs at the moment (including venlofaxine) and I see lots of different responses even within my close family. Some people are just wei…
/r/MensRights15/01/23 08:52 AM
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Yikes. You would have to hope that is a crafty piece of click bait created by selecting 60 seconds of footage from his of interviews. Of course, no one actually mentioned a single thing women are good for - hence, the whole thing shows a rather disturbing dogma of women good / men bad where that is now an axiom that doesn't need to be questioned
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:09 AM
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Ah yes.... got my UFC men confused. I will update, thanks
/r/MensRights08/01/23 11:17 PM
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Dana White was a case in point. She slapped him unexpectedly with everything she had. He responds with a reflex short-arm slap. He's the bad guy. What was he expected to do? The obvious answer is "take it like a man" whatever the f#ck that means. Anyhow, he had to apologise profusely and no one mentions the fact she assaulted him Edit: updated Jie Rogan to Dana White. Mea culpa.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 08:34 PM
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340k support you here and know your pain. Don't give up brother. The feminazis are a relatively small bit extremely vocal minority. Attitudes shift slowly but soon enough there will have to be some push back against all the hate and society will start to support men a little more. Until then, you have your brothers here ✊️
/r/MensRights04/01/23 09:09 PM
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I feel your pain, brother. I married a woman with NPD and I was brutal (of course I do take some of the blame for hanging around but, as is often the case, my childhood was not quite normal and it set me up a bit). Anyhow, fast forward, and I am married to an awesome woman who also happens to be an MRA. Don't give up. There is a lot about society at the moment that is totally crap for men, and no one cares, but don't let the bastards drag you down! There is still lots of good around, so surround…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:37 AM
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The short answer is probably 'no' that they can't just take the house. In a longer process i expect a guy could get duped out of his house in a situation where the sums are relatively small. Australia has gone mad on the "supporting women" thing - it is like living in a parallel universe. Plus our legal system is our of reach of most people (except "poor" women who get to use it to their advantage basically for free)
/r/MensRights01/01/23 12:14 PM
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Unless it was in her name - which might be the case if he is a tradie and looking for asset protection if sued. Or, a judge can sign on his behalf if there is a claim of domestic violence, although this would normally require an AVO (which a judge issues) rather than just an intervention order (which police issue based on a well told story).
/r/MensRights01/01/23 10:32 AM
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Good point. Go King 🤴. Not sure where the downvotes are coming from as this seems to be on point for the thread. Although perhaps the statement of fact makes it less of an insult?
/r/MensRights31/12/22 01:47 AM
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Go King 🤴
/r/MensRights31/12/22 01:44 AM
2

Admittedly mine did come from Brazil
/r/MensRights29/12/22 07:02 AM
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No one blinks when men are denigrated? I think all the people here blink. And, when we behave the same way don't we just complete the circle and the same argument we use to justify making pointless demeaning characterisations can be used to justify women doing the same. One of the things that is best about the MRA movement is that we don't debase ourselves with purile name calling like feminists often do.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 04:03 AM
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I absolutely agree with you though, that this sort of vitriol does nothing to help MRAs. Cherry picking posts like this can be used as an excuse to sit down this sub despite the fact it is one of the most inclusive and respectful subs anywhere on reddit. Of course the description may well be correct which goes some way to exclusion why she is such a sour person - because I am sure we all have experiences with this sort of feminist. Anyhow, not sure why you are getting down votes as I think your …
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:20 PM
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It might have been a parody of the whole incel idea that feminists love so much at the moment?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 09:42 PM
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Nothing is ever certain but we have been together 12 years and things are going strong. We have 2 kids, plus my son from my first wife who lives with us 100%. She is more level headed than most guys I know and she is an MRA 👍
/r/MensRights28/12/22 09:37 PM
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My first wife was a narcissistic sociopath and I swore I would never do it again. I did it again. My wife makes me feel safe, loved, cared for and protected at all times. Perhaps i should buy a powerball ticket 🤔. Don't give up gentlemen there are still plenty of awesome women out there.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 12:15 PM
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In the 1970s boys out performed girls in school in Australia. It was well known that you could send your daughter to an all girls school and statistically she would perform as well as a boy. Now it is all reversed. Where the expectation was that boys would do better and so all the subjective grades reflected this bias now the same applies to girls. Many teachers don't expect academic performance from boys and so they are ignored in class. We have seen both sides now but, at the moment women are …
/r/MensRights24/12/22 01:10 AM
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Someone had to say it, right?
/r/MensRights22/12/22 05:44 AM
3

Boning my wife 🤣
/r/MensRights22/12/22 05:24 AM
3

Almost like blaming all men when one-in-a-few-million commit a murder 🙄. Feminism will mean that these girls don't get prison time. And, if they were in Australia, they would get a record either - not sure about Canada.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 12:21 AM
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Two things: 1. In the period you talk about initially, men died in factories on masse. Life was hard for men and women - they had different challenges, and they worked together to overcome them. Looking at the life of women with a modern lens is disingenuous (and frankly a little stupid). 2. The Ukraine situation is yet another proxy war between the US and the "east." As such, the Ukraine is very much empowered, which is why it chose to join NATO in contravention of the treaties put in place whe…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 09:04 AM
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A guy giving commentary on how bad it wad for a bikini clad chic in a beach to be asking 14/15 year old boys what they find attractive in a woman and how they rate her body. She had a whole channel devoted to this. He was posing the question of how it would look if the gender were reversed and then pointing out that maybe women would be unhappy if they were actually "equality"
/r/MensRights17/12/22 12:35 AM
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You don't have to know basic grammar to get published anymore
/r/MensRights16/12/22 01:45 AM
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Or they want some supporting evidence to use in later arguments against fools who deny the obvious and want facts to back up the statements. Of course these facts are self evident but, having suffered a lot of feminist rants, we ask know that there are many parts of the feminist dogma that are plain wrong but are still held as truth that does not need to be substantiated.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 09:42 PM
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Don't come to Australia - this sort of crap is the m.o here
/r/MensRights15/12/22 10:19 AM
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Of course a man can't remove a hijab so that firm of protest is only available to women
/r/MensRights14/12/22 09:13 PM
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In Australia, he had a chance to get the child. Of course it is an epic battle and it will take some serious undeniable event. If he leaves with the child immediately when something big happens, goes straight to the cops and files in family court,... he had a chance. He will likely get treated like a piece of shit in his first court appearance but judges do eventually listen to facts most of the time. This had been my story and I have 100% custody and sole parental responsibility for my son.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 09:09 PM
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Women-led revolution - what a pile of bollocks. Iran is a troubled country for men and women. The overwhelming number of protesters are men and the majority of arrested and deaths are men. How is it women led? Is that just because the western media only care about women 🤔
/r/MensRights14/12/22 04:16 AM
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It is ironic (in the modern misuse of this term) given that human rights world tend to be a left-wing concept,.... until those humans are men
/r/MensRights12/12/22 12:01 AM
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It is a quiet thread if the top comment has 200 votes. As a cherry-picked example it doesn't really create a particularly damning case against this sub. When you look at the outright hatred espoused on r/feminism this really seems pretty moderate and considered (albeit I think it is a very poorly formed contention)
/r/MensRights08/12/22 10:08 AM
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Indeed. The second worst example of institutional child abuse after the Catholic Church - and it seems the church is improving so maybe the family court gets the title now
/r/MensRights08/12/22 09:05 AM
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As a skinny guy (183cm and 60-odd kg) I have always found blokes in the gym to be quite open and friendly. Particularly the serious lifters. In my experience, the stereotype does not match the reality. I have seen over the last 15 years that women at the gym have gone from being generally friendly to generally hostile.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 11:57 AM
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This puts women at 9% (first paragraph) but again we don't know what their "sleeting rough" definition was. Doctoring the definition is the new way to doctor the stats https://www.statista.com/statistics/382196/rough-sleepers-england-by-gender/
/r/MensRights19/11/22 07:30 AM
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The stats are hard to find nor because the definitions have been endlessly muddied for political reasons. I am old enough to have been around when the accepted figure was 98% of homeless people are men (when homeless meant sleeping rough, in the modern definition). Looking at people who need accommodation for great of spring rough it is about 30% women but there are lots of support services for women and almost none for men - which was where the 98-2 split comes in. There are lots of sources on …
/r/MensRights19/11/22 07:26 AM
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97-98% of people "sleeping rough" are men. The 75% figure takes into about the number of women living in houses that are funded by the government (who might actually be seen to be a very privileged group)
/r/MensRights18/11/22 10:45 PM
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I love the logical fallacy where she claims boys are not persecuted based on the idea that some groupings of boys suffer worse than others. She neglects to mention that all grouping of boys are worse off than all groupings of girls
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:36 AM
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Their decisions are contrived and blatantly sexist. However, beyond that, I don't give two hoots about them because I don't see why this discrimination will make any difference (because the logic behind it is so flawed). Hence I am offended by the blatant sexism and nothing else.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:21 AM
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This article provides decent evidence that it controls UTS and the anti-descrimination tribunal. So that is 2 from 2 on the institutions involved 🤔
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:07 AM
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Except that there is no demonstrable evidence of a patriarchy. There is overwhelming evidence of feminist bias
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:00 AM
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As an engineer who employs engineers I can tell you that a tendency towards the Asperger end of the personality spectrum is prevalent in great engineers. What percentage of Asperger's are men. Plus, if you don't think there is a difference between what bits and girls tend to like you clearly don't have kids.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:53 AM
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What women? This statement is total bullshit.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:50 AM
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Just about every institution is a feminist institution in Australia. From the article we can deduce that the anti-descrimination tribunal is as well!
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:47 AM
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Again, what does this have to do with ATAR bonuses? Your logic here is fine but it is a complete non sequitur from the contents of the article.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:37 AM
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And lowering the ATAR would help how?
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:13 AM
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And? Maybe the women would, on average, rather be doctors? Or perhaps they want an arts degree because society doesn't expect them to fend for themselves financially. Either way, the reality is that girls do better in school so dropping the ATAR makes no sense - the whole idea is just bizarre.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 09:58 AM
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I guess 60% female enrolment is not enough. Do we need 60% across all courses. Did they ever stop to think that perhaps women chose not to be engineers because they preferred other options? After all that seems to be the outcome of all research in this area.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 08:15 AM
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Seems like you were being a bit of a smartarse after her stupid initial post but you opened the door for her to own it. The first post makes her look like an idiot. The second is comedy gold so well played her!
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:18 AM
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The books you are reading are probably just reflecting the current societal norms where women have to be viewed as awesome. As many others have said: there is no gender to reading. Indeed, it used to be a very masculine thing to do. Perhaps this shift is related to the general decline of male academic performance. Regardless, if you want to paint pock narwhals all day then that is entirely up to you. Don't let "society" tell you how to act ✊️
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:14 AM
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I see your point but I think the fact he is a man would have contributed greatly. When my mum first picked up my daughter from school no one asked any questions. When my dad did the same thing we got a call to check it was OK. Both were registered as guardians who could pick her up.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 10:17 PM
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Abu Ghraib - 7500 detainees who were systematically abused including various sexual perversions. Of these I believe 7 were women
/r/MensRights30/10/22 07:15 AM
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I think perhaps it is more a case of virtue signalling from the very same people who happily pushed those young minds into profound eating disorders
/r/MensRights29/10/22 07:45 AM
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Truly the stupidest concept ever. We have 8 billion people on a planet that might cope with 1 billion. The idea that the government might need to step in to keep people procreating for the survival of the species is a special kind of moronic
/r/MensRights24/10/22 07:07 AM
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She is being punished for wasting the police's time as much as for what she did to the poor guy
/r/MensRights23/10/22 03:54 AM
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In Australia marital state makes zero difference
/r/MensRights18/10/22 08:48 AM
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Likewise - I have lots of female friends who fit your description. Perhaps we should refer to it as toxic femininity (or maybe completely normal human behaviour)?
/r/MensRights17/10/22 10:11 AM
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Load of crap! Looks like a thinly veiled ad to get her more followers. And perhaps a lame attempt to get a bunch of simps to tell her how pretty she is.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 10:08 AM
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My mum is the same. I am a victim of DV (which she is still aware of) but she is sure that is a one off. She used to keep bringing up various topics and I would always point out the facts to her - which led to her getting angrier and angrier. After a while she would pick a contentious topic and I would suggest it was not something we should discuss until she made some effort to inform herself of some basic facts. She learnt that she was better to keep her (bigoted) opinions to herself
/r/MensRights17/10/22 10:05 AM
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I think it is like toxic masculinity- some sort of nebulous bollocks that women define at their own whim to ensure that men are to blame for everything they don't like in their own lives
/r/MensRights16/10/22 08:36 PM
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Actually in many countries (the UK in particular) when women were fighting for the vote men didn't get to vote either. In the UK men and women received suffrage on the same day (with a different age - which was aligned 8 years later)
/r/MensRights16/10/22 12:01 AM
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https://postimg.cc/VJxkZLrY Unless the information was claseed as "too unreliable" because it doesn't fit with the current dogma
/r/MensRights15/10/22 12:21 PM
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My son was sexually assaulted by his mother. She was arrested but never charged. The lead detective said to me, by way of explanation, "there is a difference between knowing someone is guilty and being able to get a conviction" and "it is really hard to get a jury to convict a woman of a sexual offence". Hence, I can say with some confidence, the stats are bullshit because the pussy-pass kicks in before they even get charged. I expect they arrested her to see what she would look like on the stan…
/r/MensRights15/10/22 11:52 AM
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Of course "child support" doesn't necessarily end up supporting a child. The money I paid simply supporting my ex-wifes drinking problem. I paid that money (which was A LOT) and paid ALL my boys expenses. Plus it created a tension where her drinking/ilifestyle money was tied to depriving me with time which my son. In the end things got so bad at her house she was stripped of all custody and parental responsibility.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 09:01 AM
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Of course the leave should be paid the government by it is generally met by the employer. Here, in Australia, the government treat companies like a bottomless pit to fill the shortfalls of government social services and the cost presented to employers for maternity leave is extreme. There is the tendency to present companies as all being multi-nationals with buckets of money but actually there is a lot of small businesses that suffer when these sort of entitlements are added into the endless mix…
/r/MensRights10/10/22 10:16 AM
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And, it is worth noting that the overwhelming majority of men didn't have the vote either during the period of suffragette terrorism in the UK
/r/MensRights09/10/22 07:10 AM
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Simpler solution would be to apply the same social norms to women as we do to men. Make their entire worth be based on their ability to earn money and leave them in the streets is they can't support themselves. Then, the whole driver for the "wage gap"will disappear because women will have the same pressure to earn that men have
/r/MensRights08/10/22 10:20 PM
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If she is pretty then she'll basically get off. If she is ugly she might do a little time
/r/MensRights08/10/22 10:23 AM
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Too true but this is a case where the popular story does not match the reality and guys should be encouraged to pay attention as, one might expect that the poor outcomes for men are correlated with poor information and education about the risks. Naively one would expect far better outcomes for men as the lumps are so much easier to identify
/r/MensRights04/10/22 10:56 AM
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Seems that men make up 1% of the fatalities looking at the Australian numbers. And the survivability is actually lower for men!
/r/MensRights04/10/22 09:52 AM
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Geezus, that is a terrible survivability- seems I had fallen for the feminist propaganda!
/r/MensRights04/10/22 09:50 AM
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1-2% but it is generally caught earlier because the lumps are more obvious and so the mortality rate is lower
/r/MensRights04/10/22 08:20 AM
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What? It's not ok for a woman to hit a man! Someone should tell the police and the courts
/r/MensRights04/10/22 08:16 AM
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It is "natural" if you are a vengeful feminist looking to justify your hatred of men
/r/MensRights03/10/22 11:02 AM
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Equal opportunity not equal outcome - that is what is required. Quotas are for morons but politicians and feminists seem to love them. I don't think it is any secret why male college enrolment is falling but it is curious that so few people care
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:39 AM
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I guess this same logic applies to women who have had their clitorus removed. At least they have an undamaged vagina so on a nerve-for-nerve basis they are better off, right? Since they never knew what sex could/should be like, who cares? Perhaps you had your clitorus removed so you are an expert on how that feels, hmmmm, but wait, that would be illegal right? Maybe that is the point the guy in the picture is making.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:33 AM
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Because they are 98% of the homeless. So they cover "half the population" for 2% of the spending. And, as a bonus, it is the favourite half of the population
/r/AntiFeminists30/09/22 10:09 AM
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Actually the original crash test dummy was an androgynous model based on the averagrs for the population at the time. It is not actuality closer to female than male form due to people being taller than 50 years ago. The biggest factor that decides injury in a crash is how far you are from the steering wheel. Hence the "women get injured" idea is a secondary correlation. This is a simple consequence of sitting closer to the steering wheel and there is nothing you can do about it
/r/MensRights29/09/22 09:53 PM
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No alimony in Australia. Just a one off split. Except in special cases. If he wasn't on disability when they met there would be a slim chance of a short period but not likely
/r/MensRights28/09/22 12:22 PM
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That is a fair point. Albeit men rarely get to just split the part made whilst together which is the really raw part of the deal. Splitting mutually accumulated assets is fair from many perspectives - they did decide to get married and it is not all about the money you bring in.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 12:20 PM
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Marriage is a team game and so assets accumulated during the marriage get split. That is what society thinks makes sense and it is how things are in Australia. There is some consideration of who brought what to the marriage but that gets forgotten if you have kids or if lots of years have passed. Otherwise it is meant to be 50/50 or if there are kids then for some reason the woman gets 60-70%. Whether you agree with it or not that is the way things are handled and this is an odd case when the "b…
/r/MensRights28/09/22 12:13 PM
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The idea of marriage is that you are working together. Assets accumulated during marriage get split. Pretty simple. Not sure why I bothered to respond though because your comment is puerile even by reddit standards. You might fit in on 2x
/r/MensRights28/09/22 12:00 PM
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Hmmmm,.... because that is the law would be one reason
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:54 AM
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If the roles were reversed then the wife would get at least half. Hence I am not sure whether you are being sarcastic or not?
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:52 AM
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If he had earned it then in Australia, if they have a kid she would get 60-70%. After 10 years of marriage I gave away 70% of what we had which was basically the assets I already had when I met her. Maybe this guy can have a win for the underdog. If he is unable to earn a living then he will/should get a bigger cut the way the law is written
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:51 AM
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Then they have incorrectly labelled themselves. Althoigh , this logical fallacy is sometimes called the rainbow unicorn argument. The premise is posited on the existence of a mythical creature that might exist - we all know it doesn't but....
/r/MensRights27/09/22 09:02 PM
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It is an interesting strawman which depends on your definition of "feminism". There was obviously a corner of feminism that was looking for equality but the very term should imply misandry to anyone using it based on the etymology. Hence, from one perspective your statement could be compared to "not all wife-bashers are violent" - tautologies are still tautological. So, all literal feminists are misandrists it is a logical tautology
/r/MensRights27/09/22 08:56 PM
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Simply not true. These are taken from an algorithm that tries to find the most representative result from the body of information on the internet that matches your search terms. Plus, google is highly curated based on the political biases of the organisation. As an organisation that has been called out for their blokie culture this is a great way to prove how woke they are and do a bit of virtue signalling
/r/MensRights27/09/22 08:43 PM
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Of course the UK had been talking about handing the Falklands to Argentina a few years earlier. Both Galtieri and Thatcher had similar motives for the war - they both wanted to build nationalism as their hold on power was faltering at the time. Since Galtieri had a US-backed puppet government it might well have been relatively easily deescalated.... but we'll never know because Thatcher proved that the once-global-superpower that is now the UK can still annihilate an enfeebled third-world countr…
/r/MensRights25/09/22 10:48 AM
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In America health care is generally inaccessible as it is run by big business for the benefit of the few. Hence for the US free is really a requirement. For the rest of the developed world (where abortion is generally free anyway) then free would be less of a necessity
/r/MensRights24/09/22 10:52 PM
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It is a little surprising she was convicted to life as these sorry of lame excuses usual work for women. As ridiculous as it is, I expect the fact she is not pretty, probably played a key role in her conviction.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 10:49 PM
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Men have it worse in that they are 98% of those sleeping rough in Australia. Men are also 28x as likely to be killed in Australia in acts of random violence. Plus there are lots of shelters, support services and free housing that is only available to women who are homeless or at risk of being homeless. So yes, in this case it is hard to not consider that men have it worse.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 10:15 AM
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With you brother. I had an abusive mum which played into me marrying and abusive wife. Thankfully I got out. Don't give up hope - I was sure I was done with women but in my forties I met a beautiful woman and we have two perfect little kids (well in all honesty they are kind of monsters but generally in the good way that kids should be 🙂). My partner is a stalwart MRA having seen what I have gone through. I hope you work through all your traumas and heal quickly and well ❤️. I am a bit of a lazy…
/r/MensRights24/09/22 03:25 AM
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In Australia it used to be 98+% of homeless were men. Then they redefined the stat to include people with state-provided houses which got it up to 1 in 4 women. The new definition is "sleeping rough" where men are still 98%
/r/MensRights23/09/22 11:31 PM
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Ironically, statistically it is far safer for women. About 28x in Australia for murder stats but a far greater multiplier got random violence
/r/MensRights22/09/22 06:34 AM
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And then there was Hillary Clinton- one of the modern era's greatest war mongers.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 05:20 AM
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Sorry to hear you are struggling brother and it sounds like you have had to deal with a lot of shit. As the father of an acutely suicidal son I can tell you it is hard to know what questions to ask when and how to support people with complex PTSD. Without knowing what might have contributed to your issues all I can offer is an internet hug and, perhaps, a recommendation for EMDR if that fits with any of the causes of your PTSD. I know a few people who had almost-magical results from EMDR ❤️
/r/MensRights21/09/22 09:34 AM
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Explain the precedent for the extradition of Assange. That completely flies in the face of all existing car law. Hence, ipso facto, judges have the option to ignore precedent. On appeal another judge may overrule their judgement. But, each new interpretation creates new case law to argue about. Hence, as of a few weeks back journalism is now a crime if you expose the crimes of powerful people. The week before that people like Assange were protected by decades of incontrovertible and consistent p…
/r/MensRights20/09/22 10:22 AM
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Well that would be a defensible position since men are overwhelmingly the victims of violence. Looking at homicide stats actually masks the magnitude of the divide. I slay love her crime stat model for DV stats. Since it is nigh on impossible for a man to make a DV report we can assume everyone of the reported cases were seriously injured otherwise the police wouldn't bother with a report.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 10:30 AM
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Maybe she's correct as there is no societal support for male victims of female-perpetrated DV. Perhaps she is campaigning against female privilege /s
/r/MensRights18/09/22 12:06 PM
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"Never let him see you cry". I couldn't help but think that crying when your boss is "mean" to you will be far more career limiting for a man than a woman. On the whole I liked the article but that line made me think: if you want to be treated like an adult you have to act like an adult.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:28 AM
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Healthy relationships work in the simple physical cues not essay questions. If both partners are "in the mood" then things escalate to intercourse and otherwise they do not. It really isn't that hard! Taking natural cues and trying to make them aberrant behaviour is just silly. Reading this article I think every woman I have ever dated qualifies as a sex pest on some level. The whole idea is just so stupid in the context of a normal healthy adult relationship.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 12:43 PM
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I thought the same thing.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 12:37 PM
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I think the answer to the question is: "no, I have not experienced any sexual harassment. Indeed, I live in an environment of such privilege that I cannot even imagine what sexual harassment looks like. But, I once sat in a room where there were more men than women - does that count?"
/r/MensRights11/09/22 03:06 AM
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Perhaps. I think he lost because he is a first class moron. I expect his position on the draft had minimal impact.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 09:49 AM
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In a modern context your take may not be wrong. However the old testament in particular is very big on enslaved and/or murdering people with different views. Both slavery and genocide seem to please God on many fronts.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 12:39 PM
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Indeed Islam, Christianity, Catholicism, Judaism have the same God. But, alas often their common value is a keen desire to murder each other over petty differences in their dogma
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:25 AM
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A female MRA voice carries a lot of weight because many of the simplistic feminist responses don't apply. They can't say a woman doesn't know what it is like to be a woman, for example
/r/MensRights30/08/22 10:26 AM
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I got to virus hoax and felt like the voice had lost some credibility 🙄
/r/MensRights29/08/22 08:42 AM
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Look at that. Research performed properly is consistent with what we observe in our every day lives!
/r/MensRights15/08/22 09:09 AM
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Does that actually make my point less valid. It makes me look foolish from a certain perspective but the comment is no less valid. Imagine mistyping a number on a phone keyboard
/r/MensRights12/08/22 10:57 PM
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👍🙃
/r/MensRights12/08/22 10:52 PM
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From one perspective discrimination is often "positive" for someone (the group not being discrimination against). But the reality is right there in the term - it is just discrimination
/r/MensRights12/08/22 11:31 AM
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That is a very "fox news" tale on Islam. As a well travelled atheist who has an academic interest in religion I think it its is dangerous to conflate Islam with a few specific regimes that claim they are based on Islam - kind of like using the KKK as the basis for your views on Christianity. Historically Islam has been massively progressive for women. Read up about Mohammed's provisions for women and you will see that 700AD Islam had a lot of provisions that didn't exist until 1800+ in Judao-Chr…
/r/MensRights12/08/22 11:07 AM
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There is the example where the mum is a sociopath and the dad therefore gets custody (which is my case and I even ended up with sole parental responsibility). Unfortunately before I could protect my boy from his mum he suffered a lot of abuse and so his life is pretty complicated with PTSD and related issues with anxiety, depression and suicidality. Hence the gender of the custodial parent can be just a small part of a big picture when the child's outcomes are observed
/r/MensRights12/08/22 10:50 AM
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Men ARE far more likely to be the victims of crime so it makes sense that they would be more scared!
/r/MensRights08/08/22 10:21 AM
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I don't understand why she wouldn't call a policewoman? It would be beautifully ironic if she wants a man to show up because their inherent physical superiority is useful in her situation
/r/MensRights01/08/22 09:51 PM
1

Do you have any supporting examples that relate to topics that you understand or have relevance to you?
/r/MensRights25/07/22 06:37 AM
1

"Muslim women for example"? Do you know anything about Islam or do you just trust CNN? As a religion Islam looks after women more than any other and women in the time of Mohammed had rights under Islam that didn't appear in the west until the late 1800's. For what it is worth I am an atheist who couldn't give two shits about Islam or Christianity but the comment was so stupid I had to say something.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 06:34 AM
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What country are you in? In England men got the vote at the same time as women.... that is the bit they left out of you history course. For a 50-odd years before that only nobility got to "vote". In Australia there was actually a few decades between men and women getting the vote and then more than half a century before the Indigenous peoples were afforded a vote
/r/MensRights25/07/22 06:28 AM
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And, my experience suggests that women would troll women as much as men do. Certainly a lot of the body image problems are driven by women's expectations as much as men's. Hence the whole premise is off-base from a variety of perspectives. In Australia we have these weird ads about boys treating kids in school leading to DV. I find them particularly odd as the father (and uncle) to a tribe of boys and girls where I feel it is safe to say that girls at primary school tease kids WAY more than boys…
/r/MensRights22/07/22 11:26 PM
11

Got the response "they understand it may be offensive to me but it does not breach their community guidelines"
/r/MensRights22/07/22 09:55 AM
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Good plan. Done 👍
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:54 AM
7

Not yet 🤣
/r/MensRights22/07/22 01:51 AM
72

I just hit a few of their Facebook posts and politely pointed out how sexist their anti-sexism campaign is
/r/MensRights21/07/22 10:25 PM
75

My ex wife threatened to kill me and my kids on many occasions. She fantasised about mutilating my new partner in front of our son (which obviously left him traumatised). I can't believe an ad like that gets approved (well I can, but it is so wrong)
/r/MensRights21/07/22 10:00 PM
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I see your point. But it does cover the overt failings of feminist dogma and, having done it from a female point of view, makes it an interesting reference piece. Since modern feminism is one of the key drivers for social failings that erode men's rights I think this makes the cut based on the "enemy of my enemy" model
/r/MensRights21/07/22 06:09 AM
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It is a country with some tricky politics and we get a few Mauritanian asylum seekers in Australia. Every Mauritanians i have met have been really friendly and interesting people (albeit I only have s small sample size). Lots of hate everywhere for people who challenge feminist dogma but hopefully one day people's eyes will open. With respect you raising your son - it is a tricky question. If it is anything like Australia there is man shaming everywhere. All you can do it set a good example and …
/r/MensRights20/07/22 04:08 AM
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Ok Mauritania and Benin are my last two guesses. I live in Australia and I met a new arrival from Mauritania a couple of weeks ago. He was a really nice guy 🙂
/r/MensRights17/07/22 05:27 AM
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Ok Mauritania and Benin are my last two guesses. I live in Australia and I met a new arrival from Mauritania a couple of weeks ago. He was a really nice guy 🙂
/r/MensRights17/07/22 05:20 AM
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Ok, I'll play. Guess 1: Cape Verde , guess 2: Guinea-Bissau, guess 3: Burkina Faso 🇧🇫 (even Android knows the flag,... does that make it a bad guess?)
/r/MensRights17/07/22 04:07 AM
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Yoir whole premise is stupid. Yes, let's agree men are badly treated in many parts of our society. How does that make them toxic. The fact the blokes are carrying society is an argument for the term "positive masculinity".
/r/MensRights17/07/22 12:25 AM
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No, I don't believe it. The toxic behaviour of "toxic masculinity" has nothing to do with gender and is, at times, stereotypes that are more appropriate to women. It is a classic misuse of language designed to denigrate and disempower.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 11:31 PM
5

Have you ever noticed that hole between your urethra and anus? It is a sexual organ known as the vagina. It's male equivalent is an organ known as the penis.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 10:46 AM
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Read my original comment. Or, do some research on this internet thingey. You might learn something 👍. From an obtuse and irrelevant perspective you are of course not 100% incorrect..... from any practical point of view your position is incontrovertibly ridiculous to the point that I wonder if you are just baiting me with a stupid contention
/r/MensRights15/07/22 10:30 AM
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I think you need to read my comment. There is no quantitative comparison between clitoral removal and male glands removal. Removal of the male glands is worse than circumcision and infinitely worse than clitoral removal. All genital mutilation is insanely barbaric but, for anyone who is actually informed about male circumcision they world realise it is far worse than the overwhelming majority of FGM which is why it is surprising that so few people care.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 10:24 AM
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No it isn't. Analogies are tough on this area but it is really most analogous to having the nexus of the glands removed. It is the highest nerve centre area but you are still left with nerves (for women they have the vagina and the labia, for men they have what is left of the glands and the foreskin inner surface). In percentage of nerves lost it is pretty similar. Both gross and indefensible. Looking at male circumcision you lose the 30% of nerves that are in the inside of the foreskin (which m…
/r/MensRights15/07/22 10:15 AM
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I think this is a western (post-Elizabethan) myth. Men have a relatively-constant drive. Women tend to vary based on their period. I think both science and my personal experience suggest that, at the right time of the month, the female sex drive is significantly stronger than the male drive. This is also readily observable in cattle and dogs.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 01:05 PM
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Never charged - in the words of the lead investigator 'there is a difference between knowing someone is guilty and being able to get a conviction' and 'juries don't tend to convict women of sexual crimes'. Hence no charges were ever laid. 5 years on my son is 18 and still suffers acute PTSD and suicidal episodes from years of abuse at the hands of his mum. When people on this sub talk about "female privilege" then there is a prime example. Interestingly if she had been tried and convicted she wo…
/r/MensRights27/06/22 12:30 PM
1

In Australia the child support payments are so skewed that many women drive the men away to maximise the payment they receive. My ex certainly tried this on,.... before she molested my son and was stripped of all parental responsibility! I tried to protect my son from her but alas the system made that basically impossible.... until finally things got so bad that there was no option but to arrest her
/r/MensRights27/06/22 11:32 AM
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I, sort of, understand the point for are making but I think you are delusional if you think a man will find it easier to get a vasectomy than you will to get tubiligation. Unless you have a tribe of kids it is basically impossible. I am 49 with 3 kids and I had to put up a bit of a fight!
/r/MensRights26/06/22 11:58 AM
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There are a few. I think if you looked at it with an unbiased lens you might see that this is actually one of the most positive and inclusive subreddits. And, as such it could not be less like a lot of the feminist subs
/r/MensRights25/06/22 04:34 AM
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Actually this subreddit is about men having rights not being right.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 04:18 AM
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This was my life for about 10 years. Even though my mum saw the evil side of my ex in the end she still seems incapable of seeing me as a DV victim - despite having expressed concerns that my ex might kill me! Hence it is clear that the social indoctrination is so intense that people just can't except realities they see with their own eyes.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 03:26 AM
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No doubt she could have done better but he is the arsehole. If genders were reversed perhaps more people would accept his behaviour but I don't this this is a good hill to die on. Even when written from his perspective he comes off as a self-absorbed knob. And, I spent 10 years married to an abusive and manipulative narcissistic so I want to see his side and, sure he had a right to be a little upset but his response and behaviour was crap
/r/MensRights11/06/22 02:12 AM
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Indeed, in the occasions where one mum or dad wants to opt out then they can just agree on that. The logic of it forcing unwilling parents is preposterous
/r/MensRights05/06/22 05:27 AM
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The whole definition is actually an interesting insight into how we view the value of men in society. Are we to believe that any time a man does not have an intimate female partner he is "broken" and deviate in some way? How many days can you be single before you are an incel? And, as a related thought process, is a woman with no male partner broken?
/r/MensRights31/05/22 10:56 AM
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Do you use the same logic to explain away the patently-misadristic killallmen tag as well? Perhaps we need a slogan of "believe all white people" and you might see how gross the whole concept is as it might help you see past the feminist dogma that let's you explain away slogans like this
/r/MensRights15/05/22 11:53 PM
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The position of many people in this sub is that, based on the way all existing similar laws are defined and applied, this law will be something only men are subject to (and perhaps it will be applied in a guilty-until-proven-innocent model,... like intervention orders). Your premise, I presume is that this prima facie reasoning, MAY be wrong. You may be correct,.... but it is profoundly unlikely. Only time will tell
/r/MensRights11/05/22 01:02 PM
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The law is not yet written, right? Wasn't that your first premise? When the details are fleshed out there are many ways in which women might be precluded from being charged under this legislation just like penny of current legislation
/r/MensRights11/05/22 11:35 AM
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Righto. My psycho ex-wife did all these things. Lucky she was not a man or out works have been criminal!
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:15 AM
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One obvious answer is that the definition may be such that only men can be perpetrators - like the UK definition of "rape". The other, less prescriptive reason is that the zeitgeist might mean the police never charge women this offence - like indecent assault (or any sexually oriented crime) in Australia (speaking as a father of a boy who was indecently assaulted by his mother - noting that he was raped except that he had the wrong gender to fit the definition). In my boy's case the police were …
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:14 AM
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I am a male victim of female-perpetrated domestic violence. There are lots of us around! As an unashamed survivor other blokes talk to me but many are too embarrassed to talk about it publicly. I live is Australia - when I went to the cops they encouraged me not to report the violence as their rules meant that they would be forced to investigate me and probably make things worse! The situation is crap.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 10:20 AM
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Explain what? I think you are now arguing my point?! Kids helpline helps kids who call. They are funded to pick up the phone. They don't know if it is a boy or a girl calling - they are just there to help kids. Hence, I am not sure how you think this fits in with any of your contentions but it is at the crux of everything I have been taking about.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 12:56 PM
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My son was molested by his mum - that is why he suffers from PTSD and all the shit that comes with that. I may be no expert on children's mental health but it is quite likely I know a little more about it than you. Perhaps I didn't make it clear enough that my original comment related to children but it is interesting that you use the word "women" in all your comments and, for women, I agree. For kids you are, well, wrong.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 11:57 AM
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Not for under 18s - all the services are shared and equal access. Very different for men, as you say
/r/MensRights02/05/22 11:03 AM
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In Australia, in the public mental health system there is no "focus on girls" for funding. There are many things that focus on girls, but this is absolutely not one of them. Secondly, no one gets admitted to the psych ward for self harm. I honestly think, even from my experience as the father of a suicidal boy, that teenage mental health may be even worse in girls. In some ways that might present an opportunity to figure out why, despite this, suicide rates are worse in men. I am guessing all th…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 04:42 AM
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It might be but I don't think so. Having spent a lot of time around adolescent psych wards, 90% of the kids are girls. The reasons they are in there are often gender or body issue related but girls suffer their own mental health issues. The big difference I expect is that girls attempt as a cry for help, boys just top themselves. It is possible that the girls feel that help is there but don't know how to ask for it and the boys feel genuinely helpless? As to the original post, I would be surpris…
/r/MensRights01/05/22 09:27 PM
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It is my story. And, my son's story.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 12:06 AM
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I know it seems like lame advice but you just need to relax. Over think it and things just get worse. I don't expect circumcision will help you. The issue is in your head (on your shoulders) not the other one. Talk to a GP (and or councillor) and they will give you some tools to calm your mind down and get you back on track. I think all guys can empathise with your issue - sex can be a high pressure time.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 12:25 AM
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Actually not a fact. Men make up the majority of police crime statistics. We don't know about the level of female crime because reports are rarely taken and charges are rarely filed
/r/MensRights04/04/22 11:27 PM
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If a woman kills another woman (which as we ask know, happens) is the victim somehow irrelevant because she was killed by another woman? When a man is killed by a woman (which I expect accounts for more than 5 of the 140) does his death somehow have more relevance?
/r/MensRights04/04/22 10:55 AM
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In Australia 5 women a year are killed in random acts of violence. 140 men are killed in random acts of violence. I am not sure what explicit protection women get walking alone, but it sure is working!
/r/MensRights04/04/22 06:39 AM
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ALL rapists are men - the definition of rape was changed to exclude female perpetrators. Women who take men weighs be charged with indecent assault (if they were ever charged). My son was raped by mum (ahem, indecently assaulted). The detective in charge captured it perfectly when he said "there is a big difference between knowing someone is guilty and getting a conviction particularly since juries NEVER convict women of sexual offences".
/r/MensRights26/03/22 07:16 AM
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The other point that is important is that women aren't convicted of homicide because they can do no wrong in the legal system. Hence the convictions and the murders tell a very different story. Plus if a mother kills her child but the father is involved in any way, he will likely get convicted and jailed of the major crime and she will plead down to a smaller crime
/r/MensRights26/03/22 12:55 AM
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Look at the US stats. 65% women. The aus stats they include step dads and "children" over 18 to level up the numbers. Actual parents of children mums are still more likely to kill them and at under 14 (where the kids are really kids) the difference is significant. This is always the thing about stats - small details can be used to tell whatever message you want. The raw numbers always reveal the facts but they are often not included and rarely will referenced in the "take away" that the writer i…
/r/MensRights26/03/22 12:53 AM
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http://www.breakingthescience.org/SimplifiedDataFromDHHS.php
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:29 AM
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https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/parenting/kids/why-arent-we-talking-about-abusive-mums/news-story/629b48b93abd22be2b63f1344c0c5de6
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:29 AM
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https://childprotectionresource.online/mothers-are-more-likely-to-abuse-children-than-fathers-fact/ Interestingly, since this topic stated being discussed it seems there is a focus on trying to claim the numbers are equal based on different studies. Seems the abc has run a bunch of stories to this end. The last actual crime stats I saw for Aus had 63% of parental infanticide by mothers. I couldn't find the Australian numbers again but the link above has a similar result for the US
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:18 AM
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It is very sad. Unfortunately I have discovered just how hard that sort of childhood trauma is to deal with. My boy is now 18 (the worst abuse happened when he was 13) and he still has acute PTSD and anxiety which has lead to suicide attempts, self harm, etc. It is tough to see your kids suffering and not be able to "fix it" 😢
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:49 AM
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Google it. There are lots of studies. About 65% of infanticide is committed by women. Boys are more likely to be killed. Doesn't get a lot of press 🙄
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:15 AM
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The bible encourages murder in at about half of its lessons. It is also big on slavery and stoning adulterers. Not really a book to pull your morals from. Of course not many people bother to read it
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:12 AM
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Male infanticide is more common in Australia and infanticide is twice as likely to be committed by women. Perhaps the book should include some facts if it wants to crap on about convenient and emotive stereotypes
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:07 AM
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I think it is foolish to be proud of anything that you do not earn. Being proud of your gender, country, skin colour, sexual persuasion is the height of pointless hubris. Hence, I think both genders look foolish when they are proud to have happened to have been both with one of the two options for genitalia. Being an outspoken MRA, despite the stigma it might bring, is more something to be proud of.
/r/MensRights20/03/22 10:33 AM
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I think it is more about experience than gender. My ex-wife molested my son and my new partner witnessed the efforts of the police and the family court in the matter and, from lived experience, she became a vocal MRA. I absolutely expect my two daughters (5 & 2) will also be champions of the cause in the future because they will grow up with their eyes open to the reality that most are taught to ignore.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 12:00 PM
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My partner is as much an advocate for MRA as I am. And, I have seen that it is a lot easier for her to be a champion of the cause being female!
/r/MensRights19/03/22 11:53 AM
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You captured it perfectly - all the people in Ukraine are suffering, but a great many people (you included it seems) only care about the women. Let's not forget the guys being shot don't have medical care either and their outcomes are generally a lot worse than those for the pregnant women. The people on this thread (generally) also care about the women we are just gobsmacked that people can be so f#cking callous as to ignore the men.
/r/MensRights12/03/22 10:20 AM
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It lasts a year here in Australia 🇦🇺
/r/MensRights12/03/22 10:15 AM
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You answer really does highlight the sort of baseless dogma-style mantra that detracts from the real concerns that underpin the positive elements of feminism. That "superficial piece of skin" is made up of two parts. There is the outside section that serves a protective function but there is also the inside of the foreskin (the part that is normally against the glands) which forms the top of the shaft of an erect penis. This section has a similar nerve density to the glands and is roughly TWICE …
/r/MensRights08/03/22 11:24 PM
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Except that women are not more frequent victims of domestic violence. Every decent study I have ever seen suggests that the numbers are pretty equal (as life experience shows us). The ludicrous way in which crime stats are collected can be used to put forward a different view. The reality is that no one cares when women assault men. I also don't agree that masculinity is about being aggressive and assertive.... I would suggest the overwhelming characteristic of masculine behaviour is about prote…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 11:26 AM
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It is hard to judge how many violent and/or sexual crimes are committed by women since (in Australia at least) they can't be reported (in most cases) and, when they are, nothing happens. My son was sexually assaulted by his mother (I could/should say raped, but that weird word had been redefined to exclude male victims). She was arrested but never charged because, in the words of the lead detective: "there is a difference between being certain someone is guilty and getting a conviction" and "it …
/r/MensRights08/03/22 11:17 AM
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That works for women in Australia (as a general rule). Of course, the ways things are now in Oz, if a girl changes her mind a week later you might just end up on charges
/r/MensRights05/03/22 05:53 AM
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This is the slippery slope that leads to morning-after-second-thoughts false accusations. If you consent you consent. If you change your mind about whether it read a good idea subsequently or doesn't change the fact you consented. Of course the fact it was not an assault doesn't change hope terrible the subsequent events were
/r/MensRights05/03/22 05:41 AM
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That might be true. As a male victim of domestic violence it is clear to me that my ex-wife chose me as her target based on parts of my personality that made me susceptible. However, the OP isn't looking at relationships necessarily - this can be a colleague or any woman who wants sex. If you say no then they feel justified in ruining you socially as a result. I think that is the point that is being made and I believe it is valid
/r/MensRights27/02/22 10:37 AM
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It was thought that it helped. There is, nor was ahygiene reason for circumcision. The paradox is that vaginas are harder to clean and more prone to infection and so removing labia, clitoral hood etc makes more sense than foreskin (but is still super-stupid)
/r/MensRights19/02/22 08:44 PM
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OMG. Woman treated like a criminal..... because she is a criminal. What is the world coming to?
/r/MensRights16/02/22 08:42 PM
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How old are you buddy? I have a dad (and he is generally pretty awesome) so I can't truly empathise. But, I am a dad with a dad so perhaps that gives me a perspective to help in some way?
/r/MenSupportMen12/02/22 02:25 AM
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Actually 28x. 5 women and 140 men murdered each year here (outside dv murders which are split 55 women 45 men)
/r/MensRights12/02/22 12:32 AM
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It would have been at least 130F in the car. The outside temp was around 100F. In the car might even have pushed towards 150F. It is pretty amazing the kid was alive at, but Melbourne does have crazy weather so it might have been warming up or cooling down later in the day
/r/MensRights12/02/22 12:11 AM
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It is like the thing we have in Australia at the moment about "making women FEEL safe at night". I mean they are safe.... at least relative to men who are 14x as likely to be murdered and at least 100x as likely to be victims of violent assault (albeit that the crime stats are not collected in any consistent fashion here). But how do we make them feel safe? 🙄
/r/MensRights12/02/22 12:07 AM
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Firstly 30 is young so you have time to change the way your life turns out if you want to. I am 48 with a 5 year-old and a nearly-2-year-old. I am an ugly bloke with a small head and a large nose that is crooked and bumpy. I am 6' tall and weigh 60kg,.... so I am a weed! But, I am a nice guy and reasonably confident. As dopey as it sounds if you figure out how to love yourself your life is likely to pick up a lot. There are lots of ugly blokes with great wives (me, for example). Hence, I'd be lo…
/r/MensRights06/02/22 08:44 PM
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They were offended by the question because it is a good question that they could not answer. And, to consider the answer would likely break their brittle and poorly considered belief system.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 02:58 AM
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I am a dad with 100% custody and sole parental responsibility of my boy. He hasn't seen his mum in 4 years cos she is a sociopath 👍. Now you have chatted to a "single dad" online. I do have a new partner though and two little girls. Their mum is half Negro so they have curly hair. I do most of the hairstyles!
/r/MensRights04/01/22 09:16 AM
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Depends on the woman. My life loves sex and, if anything, has a stronger sex drive than me. Perhaps the stereotype you talk about exists or maybe it all harps back to Victorian times when women were meant to not enjoy sex?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 09:22 AM
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14 years older than my wife. We've been together more than 10 years and have 2 beautiful kids together. Ideally our ages would be closer but it hasn't caused any issues so far. I was abused by my first wife (same age as me). There is no chance at all that my second wife has any alterior motives.... apart from anything else, when we met I was broke!
/r/MensRights22/12/21 08:26 AM
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I actually met with the head of Google in South Australia (where I live) last Thursday to talk about a project that they will be involved in with my company. I think your idea is a great one and I'll definitely raise it with him. He's a pretty decent dude so hopefully we can get some traction on from the inside too
/r/MensRights12/12/21 06:04 AM
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That is one of the funniest (ahem, stupidest) arguments I have ever heard. The school administrator thing is patently untrue. All men who want to be nurses are employed at the same pay as women. Your argument is a collection of spurious syllogisms
/r/MensRights24/10/21 05:02 AM
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She killed a fair number of people with her research, herself included.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 10:28 AM
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Whilst I agree with your comment I am not sure this is the hill I would choose to die on. The laws in America are truly mind boggling to those of us who live in the free world.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 06:08 AM
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It is already legal in most of the developed world, right?
/r/MensRights21/09/21 09:13 AM
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In many models for arranged marriage the woman often has an option to veto. Forced marriage and honour-based marriage can affect men and women and particularly when it relates to pregnancy the woman had more options than the man. It is a many-sided puzzle where sweeping statements are not wise.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 06:00 AM
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America or the local crew that the Americans installed when they left? And, oddly enough, the group America left in power are the same ones they put on power 5 years before they decided to invade - how wonderfully symmetrical. Ally, enemy, ally. Of course China is the enemy now (and we have a new AUKAUS alliance to prove it). We can start calling them terrorists now so no one asks questions when we start performing extra-judicial murders. Yay America the world's top terrorists ahem, I mean, "pol…
/r/MensRights19/09/21 05:46 AM
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Arrest only requires allegations. In Australia the only probably cause they need for a dv arrest is an upset woman. Was he charged? If not then he definitely did nothing. They'll charge a guy with the flimsiest evidence. If he was charged and not convicted then more info is required.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 01:00 PM
1

I had a vasectomy about 5 weeks ago and still have significant discomfort. The whole 48 hour recovery is a crock. My GP said "if you are back to 90% in 2 weeks that is good". I was one of the 5% (yes, 1 in 20) that ended up with an infection so my healing was a lot slower. Turns out 2% end up with chronic pain. My sister, who is an anaesthetist, commented that for elective procedures, it is the one with the highest risk of complication.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 03:34 AM
1

Not useless..... but not perfect either
/r/MensRights11/09/21 02:05 AM
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If she found it so hard dealing with the kids maybe she should have let the dad have 50% (or 100%) custody. Also, how convenient the end of her marriage was all his fault. Turns out my marriage ended and it was all my fault - I made her sleep with that other guy behind my back for a few years,..... it all makes sense
/r/MensRights05/09/21 01:31 AM
1

Indeed there are hundred's of thousands of Afghanis killed in this "war". Whether it should make a difference or not, most of them were men. And, seemingly, no one cares. No one asks how to stop the murderous US war machine. Every single death in the US invasion of the sovereign state of Afghanistan - on both sides, men and women - was a pointless tragedy. Obviously there are all the tawdry stories about fighting for freedom but actually it is just one more country that is worse off because of t…
/r/MensRights04/09/21 11:14 PM
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Life is full of lessons. You made a decision based on the best information you had at the time. It sounds like it was the wrong decision but life goes on. Just because it was a bloke didn't mean the situation was OK either so you were right to check on things (whether it was a woman or a man) sounds like you just went in a bit hard which is understandable if you are tired and grumpy. You learned something and I expect the guy isn't sweating it too much. Time to move on and do a little better nex…
/r/MensRights04/09/21 10:37 PM
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4 years on he still has acute PTSD and is often suicidal so, as you say, the impacts are profound 😥
/r/MensRights28/08/21 06:53 AM
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Exactly- you are basically warned off making a report as the only likely consequences are that the male victim will find themselves in trouble. My ex-wife went on to molest our 13 year old son. She was arrested but no charges were ever laid because, in the words of the police "it is too hard to get a conviction against a woman for a sexual crime"
/r/MensRights28/08/21 06:15 AM
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That idea existed in Australia until recently too. Endless carry on about GST on pads. Pads and tampons are now GST exempt because apparently otherwise it was "a tax on women". Oddly I physically buy most of my wife's pads and all the shopping is done with money I earn.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 04:40 AM
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I am a guy living in South Australia. I went to the cops to report DV. They told me not to report it as it would only end up with me be investigated and so the police would basically just end up enabling the abuser in cases where the is a female perpetrator. At least the cops let me know, I guess.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 04:36 AM
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Was the worst Margaret Thatcher - she was a genuine fascist with some of her views. And the Falklands war still ranks as one of the greatest political crimes of our era (even with tough competition)
/r/MensRights28/08/21 02:16 AM
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And Australia and the US
/r/MensRights28/08/21 02:13 AM
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It is a lot better than Australia on all fronts! Your chance of getting a false rape claim in Brazil would be relatively low. Of course a lot of foreigners get in minor trouble because the girls are so friendly they think they are in with a chance.... often, it is just that the girls are friendly so they can get a fright when the guy makes a move
/r/MensRights28/08/21 02:13 AM
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I am married to a Brazilian and I so I spend a lot of time in the Brazilian community in Adelaide. Their culture treats men a lot better than we do (in Oz) Seeing the shit that goes on here made her an MRA!
/r/MensRights28/08/21 02:10 AM
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And most forms of Islam
/r/MensRights27/08/21 04:14 AM
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A short life in that they are overwhelmingly more likely to be killed..... but otherwise a normal life/death
/r/MensRights25/08/21 05:53 AM
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That does sound like shite and completely fitting with the state of things in Australia. Of course, Malcolm Turnbull hasn't been our prime minister for quite a few years now!
/r/MensRights23/08/21 09:35 AM
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I think you've had too much of the tabloid kool-aid. All the EVIDENCE showed was a minor bruise on her pubis. Have you read her texts? If she wants to be choked that is her business. If both parties are happy they can do what they like. In this case it seems both parties were happy and then one changed their mind.
/r/MensRights20/08/21 06:18 AM
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The murder had nothing to do with MRA. It is just a useful tool to smeer a valid movement with legitimate concerns based on the actions of one individual. When a feminist murders her husband no one writes an article about feminism. Indeed no one writes an article at all because our society sees men as disposable.
/r/MensRights20/08/21 02:03 AM
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Plus one. Male victim - not believed
/r/MensRights18/08/21 10:21 AM
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I am guessing it is hard for sometime who had grown up with the indoctrination to understand. Israel is a poster child of discrimination and self-righteous subjugation of others. It had nothing to do with men's rights (and so I will accept any downvotes for that) but it is a glaring blight on human rights. Yes, I have been there but who cares,..... you don't need to be the to be aware of the atrocities. If you are looking for relevant parallels then your "you haven't been there" line looks a lot…
/r/MensRights17/08/21 09:44 PM
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Hard to know if you have been to Israel - it is a country that had no defined border. But yes, I have been to both counties, as best they are currently defined.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 12:37 PM
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Of course in Israel the apartheid system persecutes the indigenous Palestinian population whether they are men or women 😥
/r/MensRights17/08/21 10:15 AM
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Actually it is the common observation that abuse needs breeds abuse. People get uptight when people produce any stats that show women are overrepresented in something bad. But, ignoring facts perpetuates the issues. In Australia we obsess about the one woman who dies every week from DV but oddly don't care that there are very nearly as many men (54 vs 42). Surely we should worry about the 96 PEOPLE and looking at the whole problem is far more likely to produce a good result.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 07:55 AM
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World: Of course she tried to stab you, she felt threatened! Man: Why would she feel threatened? World: I don't understand, why should that matter?
/r/MensRights24/07/21 06:57 AM
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New study finds the blatantly obvious. Who would have believed men's emotions were so devalued that this comes as a surprise to anybody. But, here we are.
/r/MensRights06/07/21 11:50 AM
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Of course it could also be that women actually have better options and just choose not to do computer science? Why take up such a mundane profession when you are a woman and the streets are paved with gold?
/r/MensRights02/07/21 08:40 AM
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Australia is totally lost. Brazil is still pretty sensible so I am guessing south America might be the place to go.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 06:03 AM
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Looking at this another way perhaps it does women can have acute mental issues as well! Even without context, I think we can safely assume there is no sane reason for her to have the gun
/r/MensRights14/06/21 05:35 AM
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Not if it is anything like Australia. Here "equality" resources are the most anti-male initiatives we have 😪
/r/MensRights09/06/21 09:07 AM
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All the arguments apply equally well both ways. In Australia the media often say male judge, male police officer, male teacher, or most of all - male offender if it suits the stereotype they want to push. And the whole relationship to animals obviously is completely symmetrical for male and female. The reality is that, in the modern day, the user of these adjectives is, more often than not, negative. As for the female dog idea that is just wrong - a dog IS male, a bitch is a female canine. Just …
/r/MensRights30/05/21 01:20 AM
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He is lucky he wasn't jailed for bleeding on her!
/r/MensRights12/05/21 08:56 AM
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Australia has 25 million people and no help for male domestic violence victims. But then the world has 8 billion and basically no support for male DV victims. Great effort from Toronto to lead the way!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/21 12:58 PM
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On the face of it I would expect this to be true given the extraordinary circumstances that are required for a dad to have some custody (speaking as a dad with sole custody!). But I think this was be a correlation not a causation for the same reasons. I can't imagine this sort of research being funded. And, even if this result were found I can't imagine it would get published anywhere. The reality is that two decent parents are what you want. Unfortunately our western society is supporting crazy…
/r/MensRights29/04/21 12:35 PM
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I pop a red pull every morning. Happily married with 3 kids (2 girls). The world is not a dichotomy! For what it is worth my wife thought the red pill movie was one of the best documentaries she had ever watched. You can gain knowledge and enlightenment without becoming an obnoxious radical 👍
/r/MensRights24/04/21 12:50 AM
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