Knightrider319 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How long did it take you to get over a divorce? It takes two to be in a relationship. You have to rewire your brain. Take time to grieve. Make sure you’re eating and do something to take your mind off it. Walk, workout, see friends, work on hobbies. Find a healthy outlet. It all just takes time, everyone is different, you’re still young. Hang in there and be kind to yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/24 04:45 PM
1	What can I expect? Can’t put a price on happiness, good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/24 02:44 PM
5	Please help. Never easy, hang in there man. Focus on your kids and yourself. Be civil when meeting them, you want them to be nice to your kids as well, no one will ever replace you as your children’s father.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/24 02:56 AM
8	Wife originally told me she wanted a divorce because she is not “feeling” it anymore now she is saying she wants space and wants to hold off on the divorce Once they check out man it’s the beginning of the end. If you do try to make it work, and I’m all for it because this process fucking sucks. But if you have to sacrifice your happiness and walk on eggshells you’ll always have that doubt in the back of your mind that she’ll just pack up and leave again when things get tough. There are plenty of wonderful women out there, life is too short to not be happy. Hang in there man.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/24 01:47 PM
6	Got married See you in the gym soon!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/24 11:24 PM
6	How old were you when you get divorced? 3rd times the charm!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/24 08:33 PM
5	Update on life after divorce Keep focusing on your kid, you sound like a good Dad. Keep it up!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/24 02:21 PM
6	Did you date during your divorce? How did it go? I’m choosing not to, not until it’s final and I move out. To me it feels like cheating even though I know it’s over. Just a mental thing for me I guess. Plus I’m not even close to being in the right headspace to date, wouldn’t be fair to the other person.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 05:37 PM
5	Do I leave? Fight like hell, rekindle the love man. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 10:08 PM
7	I need to talk with someone Hang in there man, the first stage is fucking rough. No way to sugarcoat it. If she’s not willing to work on the marriage, you need to shift your focus from her to yourself and your son. Don’t do anything to jeopardize that. Don’t look to drugs or alcohol. Reach out to friends or family, find and build a support system. Use the services available to you within the military, there should be counselors or therapists available, use them. It’s a lot to process, take things one day at a time. Eat and…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 06:35 PM
3	Thinking of leaving I’m glad you’re doing better. It takes a long time to heal, be kind to yourself. You’re welcome, I’m always available!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/24 10:45 PM
3	Thinking of leaving Hang in there, you got this. Just one foot in front of the other, one day at a time. Reach out if you need someone to talk to.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/24 10:15 PM
14	Thinking of leaving If I had the chance to fight like hell for my marriage I would do it every time. I wouldn’t wish this shit on my worst enemy. Plan something fun and focus on each other now that the kids are older.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/24 06:46 PM
9	Waking up to the nightmare I know the feeling, and it’s awful. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy. Find a healthy escape, go for a walk and put on some calming music. Find a project or task that you’ve been wanting to do and just take your mind off it just even for a little bit. It goes in waves but it does get better. I have a hard time trying to stop my mind from racing too worrying about the same stuff. Just focus and be there for your kids always. Everything will work out. I’m a month in and I’m still a fucking me…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/24 03:59 PM
7	Can cheating help? Cheating is for weak minded people. Either work on your problems together or split up before you move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/24 12:33 AM