KnottyOwl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
368	I've been awakened!	LEVEL UP	KnottyOwl	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/20 10:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Awwww 🥰 they’re adorable What does this have to do with FDS?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/20 10:19 PM
36	This book I’m reading has an interesting part on classic pick me behaviour. Written by a clinical psychologist. Right!? This has literally been me, and so many of us! What’s important is REALIZING it now and changing aka leveling up 👌🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 01:28 AM
17	No lies detected. Block. Delete. Move on. Thanks! One of the biggest motivators for me to fully end things with him was knowing that I was wasting my time with a guy who was never going magically transform into a committed partner. The time I was spending investing in him was time I could be spending working on myself or finding a partner who actually wants to be a partner.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 12:18 AM
20	No lies detected. Block. Delete. Move on. Thanks! Definitely a lot of projection going on. I feel slightly embarrassed because I totally lost my cool on him after he called me manipulative but...fuck it. The trash has been taken out. Hoping for better and more beautiful things ahead. 🦋	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 10:18 PM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020) How long have you guys been broken up? Dreams like that are so annoying!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 10:04 PM
52	No lies detected. Block. Delete. Move on. Just went through this with a guy I was seeing for the last couple months. We were spending a lot of time together and the chemistry was there. I asked about being official a couple times and he sidestepped it. Never wanted to commit or progress the relationship. I tried to end things early on because I was starting to find his behavior disrespectful and it was making me feel bad, but we ended up talking it out and I ended up staying with him for another month or so. I finally broke things off y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 09:58 PM
11	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 So true! So extremely self-centered and wanting the “relationship” to function in their terms in a way that benefits THEM, all the while avoiding real intimacy and vulnerability. I am definitely sad/disappointed with how things turned out with him because I did really like him. But I also am doing my best to remember what I need and deserve in a relationship. Someone willing to prioritize me, meet me halfway, consider my needs/feelings, be consistent, allow the relationship to progress, commit, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 09:52 PM
20	90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡 This literally just happened to me. Was seeing a guy who was blowing hot and cold, sending mixed signals, not wanting to commit, etc. I tried to end things early on but was sucked back in by our “chemistry”. Finally ended things the other day and we were having a breakup conversation over text and he’s like “I don’t need to be walked out on again like my last relationship”. BRUH. You didn’t want to commit to me, send me hella mixed signals, won’t make me your girlfriend, treat me as low priority…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 08:43 PM
64	So he goes and uses a naive girl for sex, ghosts her and brags about it!! Can’t imagine how she must’ve felt once she realized what he’d really done! Ladies, do not be some douche bag’s brag tag!! Why the hell would he be telling you, a woman he’s presumably interested in, about this?! Disgusting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/20 07:04 PM