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DISCUSSIONKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:33 PM
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QUEEN SH*TKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:57 AM
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DISCUSSIONKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:42 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:41 PM
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RANTKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:50 PM
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NAH, SISKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:10 PM
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DISCUSSIONKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:50 AM
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DISCUSSIONKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:20 PM
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DISCUSSIONKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:53 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:51 AM
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DISCUSSIONKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:53 AM
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DISCUSSIONKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:37 AM
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NAH, SISKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:31 AM
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LVM LOGICKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:41 AM
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REMINDER 👑KnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:26 AM
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RANTKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:02 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:49 AM
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PICKME CULTUREKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:08 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:43 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:08 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!KnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:48 PM
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RANTKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:58 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:07 PM
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DISCUSSIONKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:19 PM
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STRATEGYKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:19 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!KnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:05 PM
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NAH, SISKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:42 PM
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RANTKnowledgeOk5995/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:25 AM
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I’m sorry but if a boob job or bbl will magically change your whole outlook on life then you need more than just surgery . You need therapy, and a self-love journey bc getting surgery shouldn’t have that dramatic of an affect if you already love yourself . I’m talking about perfectly normal, able-bodied people with no diseases, disorders or deformities . Cmon now y’all. I am also not talking about breast-reductions or surgeries that are actually necessary to improve overall function. We all know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:46 PM
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All I can think is get a new therapist....VET YOUR THERAPISTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:11 PM
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I’m disgusted. We have been so brainwashed that men can blatantly be pedophilic and yet we STILL want to question ourselves on if we’re in the wrong or overthinking it. THIS MAN IS A PEDOPHILE. And an incestuous one at that. It’s the way this shouldn’t even be anything to second guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:06 PM
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They WERE dating. Yes. She sent me this screenshot of their convo yesterday. They had a fling for like 8 months . My friend is super passive though and would overlook his problematic ways (homophobia, pure ignorance) just bc he was “nice” and talkative , specifically to her. He really played up the sweet and innocent guy role , but his mask fell off yesterday and hopefully she sees the light now. She can’t turn a blind eye to this one .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:25 PM
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We also have an Indian and Muslim friend that he had a problem with for literally nooo reason. Now we know why. Ughhh I’m just so disgusted . Then he tries to hide behind this “nice guy” persona and my friend thinks he’s sooo nice and sweet bc he’s bought her food and things and he was waiting for sex and stuff🤮🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:15 PM
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She simply called him out for something ignorant he said and he kept telling her it wasn’t a big deal and this was his response . Keep in mind this guy is 22 years old. There is no way to justify this . She’s black and he’s Salvadoran .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:10 PM
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I just really hope he stays this way permanently. Men do this and then 5 years later turn into garbage. I wish them the best though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:43 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:31 PM
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Even in a world where the odds are in their favor with the wage gap, they STILL manage to not measure up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:16 PM
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This right here. Back when I was on Tinder in my pick-me days I remember switching my profile to show me only women out of curiousity. I wanted to see what other women were posting/had on their profiles. I was super shocked at the amount of boobs and ass out. Girls in basically strings, twerking, very seductive poses, and even some saying they were DTF or looking strictly for hook ups . Even in my pick-me days I wasn’t wearing anything overly revealing. They give these men exactly what they want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:46 PM
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I really appreciate you being honest and vulnerable enough to tell us. Some ppl would be ashamed but it really lets me know, CONSTANT VETTING WORKS. Never ever let green flags make you let your guard down . Men will do all that and STILL be trash in the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:11 PM
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Exactly. I can count on zero hands how many male “friends” I’ve had that genuinely wanted a real friendship. The guys I thought were friends only stayed if I could benefit them in some way or they thought they could get sex. Lots of men will keep female friends as placeholders if they get lonely or if something happens with their current gf. It’s never men wanting to be JUST friends. This is why I do not believe in Hetero male/female friendships .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:19 PM
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Literally reminds of the YouTuber Karine Alourde . She literally ALWAYS has to make a point that “WoMeN dO it ToO” and it’s beyond annoying. Especially bc he audience is like 90% women idk why she feels the need to be so fair and partial to men. Literally watch any video of her discussing women or relationships and she always acts like women are equally as bad and deprived as men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:55 PM
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And the scrotes that genuinely think this kind of stuff is romantic and cute to say to a woman. Like FOHHHHH. He really limited you to your vagina . That’s all he sees . I’m disgusted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:44 PM
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Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas tbh. Most of them have all their pics with their boyfriend or husband . I’m just like girlll do you really have to include him in this. This is supposed to only be YOU. A lot of them have “on here bc my boyfriend is my only friend “ and I take that as an immediate red flag. Your bf is your only friend probs bc you pushed all your friends away due to your relationship. Swipe leffttttt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:05 PM
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This is soooo funny bc it’s too accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:05 PM
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Make him move to YOUR country 💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:06 PM
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I love Chrissie !! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:35 AM
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Yeah because we don’t have allies lol. Nobody is an ally to BW for the most part. We can not trust anyone, even other fellow black women will turn on us since a lot of them are still brainwashed . We are truly lone wolfs. Even other women who are of color don’t experience the same plight as us. Let alone a WW .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:27 PM
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Yup. Black men quite literally do not see themselves in black women. (Yet black women can see their sons, brother and nephews in virtually any black male I.e George Floyd...etc.) They are too busy trying to gain white acceptance and be submissive to non-black people. There is a reason why they don’t defend us under any circumstances. Even slaves would write about how the black male slaves were the most resistant to fighting back while it was the black women who were the main ones wanting to rebe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:22 PM
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Exactly why I don’t date them. They try to use scare tactics to force us to solely date them and fear other races of men by using the racism excuse. Then so many BW are scared of dating non-BM bc they’re scared of facing racism . I’m like what difference does it make when black men have internalized racism, financially illiterate, major self hatred, are colorists, promiscuous, non-committal, and low earners . I’ve been treated the BEST by non-BM. Although some are racists (do not deal with racis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:18 PM
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The “stop trying to get your friends to set you up” part hit. I remember I used to do that alllllll the time not realIzing that if he’s interested he WILL pursue me. No tricks or setting up needed to be done but at the time I would be so desperate or think maybe he didn’t notice me or thought he didn’t have a chance with me. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:09 PM
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I’m fully aware of that, but you can have different opinions without being RUDE. You were just flat out rude and I’m sure you are aware bc it was intentional . I don’t tolerate that. You talk about how FDS isn’t an echo chamber yet you say my post is unproductive & unhelpful as though you speak for everyone. Byeeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:44 AM
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Omg. I’m sorry!! I wasn’t trying to make you feel bad or anything. :/// I think I just wasn’t expecting that response and when I read it, it came across humorous. Since you were serious, I do see how what you said is true though. My apologiessss 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:25 AM
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Competing where?!?! This is about mistakes we made PRE FDS. That was pretty obvious. You are reaching so hard right now it’s actually embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:15 AM
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Girl who tf are you. The FDS post police?!?! You are thinking entirely too deep into this. Not everything on this sub has to be extremely deep, meaningful and insightful. Some of us just want a little light heartedness every now and then. I posted this just bc I was looking back at my own previous mistakes and realizing how much I’ve grown. I highly doubt anybody will read this and think this is encouraging pick-me behavior in any way. We can work on ourselves and still acknowledge our previous …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:13 AM
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Omg why was this hilarious 😂💀 the trauma. This was the most extra and chaotic response and I mean that in the best way possible .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:02 AM
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Praying for you to detach from him. It’s time to cut any remaining ties and move on bc love just ain’t enough . He doesn’t deserve your love anyway. Re-channel those last remnants of love for him back into your daughter. She deserves it so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:53 AM
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I personally like talking about my previous stupidity bc it’s and indicator of how much I’ve grown and also a good laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:49 AM
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Oh nooooooo 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:44 AM
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On the next episode of People’s Court...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:41 AM
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Typical LVM behavior. Im glad you woke up because that is waaaayyy too much to deal with. Especially for the sake of your daughter .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:33 AM
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Dang. You were far gone . 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:31 AM
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Haha. 😂 Been there, done that as well. I thought I was really being sexy . Turns out I was just being a 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:30 AM
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Lmaoo. Did he notice?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:27 AM
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Oh trust me, I’m just as curious 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:17 AM
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Omfgggg. I hate how he probs really felt like the prize in that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:46 AM
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Omg I just remembered this one time when I secretly cyber stalked a crush, found out his interests and music tastes (really obscure,uncommon artists) , and the next day at school I played one of the songs out loud to try to catch his attention (pretended my phone just accidentally started playing it, but I’m a terrible actress) He looked at me mortified . I remember being so embarrassed for like 2 months straight bc we had Chemistry & Geometry class together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:43 AM
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This is the demon I saw out the corner of my eye during sleep paralysis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:25 AM
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“Men are not real, we need to stop perceiving them” I JUST CHOKWD ON MY WATEr SEND HELP ARDAKAYQVKk 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:51 AM
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What even is the context of this. What show is this?!? I’m disgusted...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:49 AM
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Just say you’re unattractive and have a little dick and goooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:46 AM
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Omg yes. Black men do not respect themselves. That’s why they stick their penis in anything with a hole. They do not care about getting tested or even getting women pregnant. It’s all about getting their dick wet. They are not commitment or marriage minded either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:08 AM
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And to top it all off, the amount of internalized self hatred they have. It’s disgusting. My attraction level to them is non-existent. Even the way they think turns me off. They are soooo promiscuous. They will stick their penis in just about ANYTHING. Wish more black women would wake up and stop coddling them. They have zero respect for themselves, let alone black women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:06 AM
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I know it’s a cartoon but it just further reinforces that men can look any kind of way and still get the most beautiful women and be shallow as hell while women are encouraged to accept men in ANY form they come, little dick, fat , bald and ugly or else we’re the shallow ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:41 PM
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I would’ve made him be in even MORE pain tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:43 PM
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Tehe. Yeah bc men are just soooooooo logical and reasonable while we are irrational and creating drama out of nothing 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:33 AM
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Yesss. This dude literally has girls constantly throwing themselves at him . He is accustomed to doing the bare minimum and pick-mes jumping for joy at his bread crumbing. He’s rarely had to pursue a woman and it shows. It’s just pathetic. I wish less women tolerated this bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:47 AM
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EXACTLY. I felt so disrespected. Like I’m supposed to wait hand and foot for when HE’S ready. Total bs . I know that when he realizes I blocked him his little ego will be hurt but idgaffff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:45 AM
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My thoughts exactly. Wtf even is the point. Just stick to circle jerking with the bros plz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:44 AM
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Yes. I can tell he’s absolutely used to women throwing themselves at him and chasing him. His guy friend told me and another friend that girls hit him up all the time. I was different bc I don’t chase men and this is how he chooses to “pursue” me...I’m offended and disgusted. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:41 AM
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Literally what my friend said when I showed her the messages. She said that at least he’s being honest and straightforward and that I should give it a chance since I’m not looking for a boyfriend, smh. She also said it was kind of cute that he showed “interest” in me because he’s really physically attractive. Gaagggggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:39 AM
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Yes. I blocked his ass!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:38 AM
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Funny thing is I met this guy through friends and my friend gave him my number bc she said she was excited for me because he “SOoOo hOt”. I do need to download a text app though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:37 AM
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Block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:58 AM
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Yeah, I thought I was the only person that felt this way. I don’t see them lasting very long. The energy is very off between them. He seems to view her as a trophy, very lustfully but not lovingly . She on the other hand has given away her entire life to him. She puts him on a pedestal and acts like he’s so much greater than he actually is. I give them under 5 more years. He seems like the type to leave once she slacks off even a little bit with her appearance. She’s jumping through hoops for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:10 PM
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Omg I’m so glad I’m not the only person that noticed this.Nazanins husband seems pretty low value. What exactly is he even contributing. I see her busting her ass to do most of the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:28 PM
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My bicuriosity is tingling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:59 AM
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Awww 🥰. I love hearing that!!! Best wishes . You are so strong !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:53 AM
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Congratulations!! 🎈🎊🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:12 AM
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Omg tell me why I posted something similar today regarding this topic and so many people were getting offended lol. But this is hilarious bc it’s true . 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:17 AM
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Y’all. This is NOT common sense for everyone. Just because you don’t need to hear this doesn’t mean this post can’t help other women understand that letting go of pick-me habits comes before being with a HVM. What is the point of looking for HVM if you still have residual pick-me tendencies?!? I know everyone goes at their own pace and this post is not saying everybody should be perfect and just automatically know and do these things. I genuinely don’t understand how that’s the only thing some o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:10 PM
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And that’s perfectly ok. None of us are perfect. That’s not what this post is about. Everybody should go at their own pace but I believe the main focus should be about unlearning the pick-me habits first! It does no good to worry about finding a HVM if you haven’t even unlearned the pick-me tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:04 PM
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I agree 100% . You are absolutely right. Best wishes !! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:00 PM
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I’m so confused on how y’all are interpreting this post as me telling people to rush and not take their time. This was just a tough love post bc I’d hate to see some of us adopt more habits that can be hurtful/harmful later on. I’m aware everybody learns at their own pace but this post could still be helpful for some...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:59 PM
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And that’s perfectly ok. Go at your own pace and it’s good that you recognize your personal issues and are getting the proper help ! Best of luck!! 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:56 PM
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I agree lol. I just don’t want people taking this post personally or like it’s a drag when it was really just some tough love. I would hate to see us leave bad practices just to adopt more bad practices . I know it’s a learning process for all of us and some learn faster than others .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:55 PM
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I understand it takes time but I’d hate to see fellow fdsers unlearning other bad practices just to adopt more bad practices. This isn’t a drag or to put people down, but more so a little tough love . I know some of us need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:53 PM
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The “you owe me” ewww. I wish Topanga broke up with him right then and there. Instead they make her turn into a “cool girl”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:50 PM
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Yesss. Can somebody tell me?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:52 PM
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This is why I have divested myself from black men. It just hits different when your own race of men has so much internalized self hatred that they project it on to you and want to tear down your self esteem. Black men are embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:38 PM
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Yes!!! I’ve been mentally, and emotionally preparing myself for this outcome for almost a year now. I’m actually happy with it considering I don’t want kids and it seems like no men are worth all of the effort and trouble. I got my pepper spray, a taser and now I’m staying tf away from them. I deleted all dating apps and I don’t even entertain men in my daily life . Ever since I started this, it’s almost like a different world and I almost pity women that so desperately seek out men and throw th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:53 PM
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This is why I always say “nice for what?” Too many women feel they owe men a chance, the benefit of the doubt, honesty, care and love when they actually don’t and definitely don’t reciprocate all of those things to us. I’m tired of seeing other women be nice and get taken advantage of. BE RUTHLESS. BE JUST AS HARSH AND BRUTAL AS THEY ARE WITH NO REMORSE. BE SELFISHHHH. and never EVER love them more than they love you. Most are incapable of loving you the same way you could love them anyway. PROT…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:38 PM
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Never watched him. Always found him to be obnoxious and never understood the hype around his videos. Not surprised by any of this. People will still support him unfortunately and I’m sure his “apology” was just damage control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:17 PM
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This is exactly why hooking up and the whole fake sexual liberation thing will never work. There is power in a woman’s sexuality. Harness it! Protect it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:15 PM
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Forgiveness is one thing, but Why support him after what he did to you. Nice for what?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:18 AM
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I’m black and have dated Asian men and I have to agree although I’m not Asian myself. (I relate because this exact same thing is happening in the black community except on a larger scale. Colorism, featurism...etc is rampant and so many black women are choosing to no longer date black men or have anything to do with them) When I was dating this one Asian guy, his Asian friends would openly say how they wouldn’t date anyone darker than them and I was just disgusted. I live in the U.S and the Asia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:17 AM
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Nah. I totally had to cut out pickmeisha friends. They will literally drain and suck the life out of you and it will never change. Especially the ones that center their entire beings around men and male approval/validation. When you grow as a person, your circle has to change as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:06 AM
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Don’t do this . All you’re doing is keeping hope that he’ll have a reason to come crawling back to you. He probably will, bc men are notorious for breaking up just to come begging later on to see if he still has control over you/boost their ego. When he comes back don’t let him back in either. Block him on everything , including his phone #. Don’t worry about his stuff and what he’s doing because he certainly wouldn’t be concerned about your stuff or what you’re up to. Stop being nice and caring…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:38 PM
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I agree !! I had to step back a year ago and look at what my motivation was on a subconscious level. I would go out to have fun with friends , yet secretly hope there would be single guys there for me to hopefully engage with. For a while I went out alone with the hopes of meeting men easier than when I went out with friends. If I met a guy and he added me on social media, I found myself wanting to post more or caring about how cute I looked to impress him. I abruptly stopped this thinking, dele…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:22 PM
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Yes I agree ! They know if you think he’s your “soulmate” or “twin flame” you will tolerate a lot more bs, and unfortunately many women do. “But he’s my soulmate/twin flame, and we have a karmic debt to pay” . Alllll bullshittttttt. Also men telling you that you’re so special and unique and he’s never met any woman like you. Run!! Men love using Astrology, Love languages, twin flames/soulmates, spirituality such as angel numbers and such against us. They know it’s the easiest way to manipulate u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:42 AM
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Same. This is why I’m not sure if I could do marriage. Men are habitual liars & cheaters. I honestly feel like the stats are skewed. They say women cheat just as much as men and I’m just like there’s no way in hell. It’s just a huge liability and heartache .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:40 PM
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Girl what are you even talking about ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:19 PM
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Girl this isn’t about being morally correct anymore. Unfortunately it’s just not how the world works. In a perfect world, yes you could tell a man your flaws, shortcomings, and trauma you’ve experienced at the hands of other men and he’d be accepting and comforting to you, but WE DO NOT LIVE IN THAT WORLD. It’s truly start playing, get smarter, and be a step ahead or get played, chewed up and spat out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:03 AM
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I agree. Men value more what they think other men value. If they think other men have treated you like a queen then they will more than likely be more inclined to. Lie lie and lie again. This is the one area I feel like lying helps you more than anything. I only tell romantic interests that I’ve been treated like gold. Stuff like “Im so used to being taken out on really nice , and planned out dinner dates” . It’s harmless , but it works wonders. Even on “HVM” . They will value you even more .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:57 AM
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How am I supposed to find a sisterhood when so many women think like this and are so male centered. Why why why must everything be about catering to men and making men happy. Why can’t women just support other women .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:21 PM
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I was thinking the same. I’m like is this the wave everybody’s hopping on now?!? If so, this ain’t it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:09 AM
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Omg I didn’t even see that video and now I’m seriously convinced this dude is a manchild and is clearly not serious about her . I feel bad for her bc she needs FDS so bad but she’s in way too deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:03 AM
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Yesss, I saw that and I was just like omggggg this is horrible. He’s obviously not serious about committing to her at all. He clearly doesn’t care. She’s given everything to him including kids and he knows she’s not going anywhere no matter how much he hurts her and no matter if he proposes or not. He just sees it as optional, NOT a priority. She seems down baaaddddd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:01 AM
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Please do!!!! Its time for the world to see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:09 AM
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Yes, yes, and yesssss to this list! I noticed all of this as I was watching the video. I was immediately able to see this dude is full of shit and she suffers from pick-me disease and seems to let him get away with it. I low key want to send her a link to FDS but I’m sure she’d just deny deny deny. I just hope she gets well soon. 💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:07 PM
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Also yes. They literally get the same ones and end up baby mothers . These men only put them on a pedestal long enough to breed out their genes . Then they start treating them the same way they treat black women eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:22 PM
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Right!!! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:20 PM
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Yes! I agree. I can already tell by his attitude and mannerisms that he will absolutely stray again. He belongs to the streets , and she knows that but chooses to turn a blind eye bc he proposed and they So iN LOvE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:19 PM
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The sad thing , this is actually how MOST black men are. Super internalized hatred of BW and themselves. It’s best for black women to open up their dating options to other races of men for a better chance. Only like 2% of them are HVM. The other 98% are LVM or NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:15 PM
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Yes! Divest please! They don’t deserve any more caping from black women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:12 PM
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Exactly! I give them maybe two years. He def seems like the type to eventually easily cheat again with a younger woman. This will not last . Also he gaslights her and makes jokes about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:01 AM
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Spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:00 AM
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Exactly, with no hesitation. Men’s ego will not allow them stay with a cheating partner. Women need to collectively get on board with that mentality. She forgave him and they still have a video titled “We almost got a divorce” and I’m just like well no shit?!?? I give them another two years tops before they call it quits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:28 AM
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This dude has a very punchable face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:05 AM
121

Thanks for this reminder why I’m celibate. It’s so powerful not giving men what they want. Love to see them throw tantrums like the big babies they are bc they think they deserve free sex so they DoNt HaVE TO WaTcH pOrN lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:04 PM
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I feel you, as I was once a hopeless romantic. I have a Pisces moon but you can’t let it consume you. I’m 22, but when I was younger I would daydream and fantasize about crushes and boys..etc. I loved the idea of love. That was until I started experiencing life and realized the true nature of men. I quickly snapped out of it. I made a promise to myself that I will never fully devote myself or commit to any man under any circumstances, even HVM because some of them are only “High value” as long a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:00 AM
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The whole idea of needing dick is played out. Get a vibrator and dildo and call it a day. Channel that sexual energy into something creative. I mean all sexual energy is creation waiting to happen.Instead of birthing a child, give birth to a business or a creation like a painting, drawing...etc. anything to re-channel that energy bc men really aren’t worth it and we can definitely survive without dick. Especially when you think of all the heartache that comes attached to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:10 AM
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Also gamer dudes are walking red flags omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:09 AM
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Right! No amount of gymnastics and bedroom skills will keep these men loyal. Pornsick men can’t be healed. Their brains have been fried and waaay too accustomed to that imagery. It’s almost impossible to change once they get addicted. The scariest part is how little research there is on how digital porn truly affects the brain. It’s still so new but the affects are obviously damaging . Im happy to hear you are no longer with him! Men like that will drag your self esteem to hell and back if you l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:09 AM
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Lol. Same. It gave me “I’m better than you” vibes. The main women saying it acted like it was a badge of honor and were so proud to tell stories of how many men they pull just based on their p*ssy alone. I’m like stfuuuuuu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:05 AM
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Oh my goodness love. I’m so sorry you went through that but I’m glad you’re still here with us! Sending my love 💫💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:01 AM
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That’s not even a good comparison though. 99% of men do not have real access to porn stars. It’d one thing if most men could easily go bang a porn star in real life but they can’t. This is digital world vs. reality. Obviously they can say the best sex they’ve had is with women they have been with irl lol. Plenty of men still choose porn over reality all the time and it shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:55 PM
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Wow, thank you for typing that out. You’re right about how even porn stars aren’t what they seem. It’s way too glamorized . The women are in pain themselves .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:12 PM
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You can be the “perfect” woman all around with exceptional qualities and they will still leave and cheat. More women just need to know their WAP can’t save them from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:10 PM
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Ughhh. That makes me sick to hear. I can’t wait for more documentaries and research to be done on the reality of digital porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:08 PM
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Yup. Crazy how you can try it all and you think he’s grateful for the effort but naaahh. Porn stars,only fans,and ig models win lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:06 PM
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I’ve been there and it’s horrible. I would have sex whenever he wanted to because I wanted to prove I could love sex just as much. He bought an 8 inch dildo once and wanted to use it on me. I was off put by it but I still allowed him to try it bc I wanted to make him satisfied . It hurt every time and he still left me bc he wanted to try out other women and felt like he was missing out on better opportunities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:04 PM
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True. They usually have to learn the hard way on their own which is unfortunate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:00 PM
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Hmmm. I’ve always been a girls kind of girl although I was once an extremely hopeless romantic, but I do understand we all start somewhere and have our own individual journeys . It’s like once you come out of that, you just can’t unsee it. It becomes harder and harder to be around people that haven’t seen the light yet lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:35 AM
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That’s so unfortunate. Giving her youth and best years to LVM. I hope she sees the light one day. Sooner rather than later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:40 AM
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omg once again another case of women getting the blame for men’s terrible behavior. It’s not our fault. The most “ideal” women (fit, feminine, pretty,smart, funny, charming) still attract LVM and dusties. What do they have to say to that?!? This is why women shouldn’t feel like the amount of LVM they attract is a reflection of themselves. I see many women putting themselves down on their level up journeys because of this. To an extent, yes the men you attract can be an indicator of where you sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:39 AM
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Some of the spiritual girlies are just flat out delusional, have their heads so far up their ass, and live in a bubble. “YOuR ThOuGhTs CrEaTe YOuR rEaLiTY” head asses. And this coming from someone who’s fairly spiritual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:34 AM
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Ex: my ex best friend was constantly gassed up for having a nice butt and she let it get to her head. One day I invited her and her bf over to hang with me and my ex and she wore some tight leggings that showed off her ass. I thought it was sus but let it slide until she literally did a fully on squat out of nowhere right in front of my ex bf, more than likely to see if he would check her out. I knew she got a high off of that. Needless to say we are no longer friends and thank god I’m not with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:31 AM
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Yessss!! I cut my best friend of 10 years off last year. I couldn’t take it anymore. I kid you not, we’d hang out and she’d spend 5 hours talking about her boy drama. I’d give her advice and she’d never listen or even bother to put her foot down and the cycle would repeat. I noticed how mentally and emotionally draining I was becoming being her therapist and emotional dumpster. My mental health significantly improved IMMEDIATELY after cutting her off. I finally felt peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:27 AM
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Literally my ex best friend started doing that as early as middle school. I’d tell I her I have a crush on a guy (huge mistake) and she’d go ask that guy if he liked me behind my back. Then would pursue him if she knew he already found her attractive. This continued until last year when I cut her off. 10 years of friendship down the drain over some dusties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:25 AM
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That’s disgusting. That’s why I put in the women that have that “I bet I can take your man” mentality. Those types are insufferable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:23 AM
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Literally how my ex-best friend was. Couldn’t even enjoy the friendship because she was so caught up being boy crazy. It’s an endless cycle and those types never learn unless something extremely traumatic happens. I had to cut her off and move on with my life because she barely even tried to come to her senses after I would explain and give advice to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:23 AM
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I am disgusted...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:26 PM
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If anything, it’s the self hating fathers lol. The moms are aware that they are “tokens” to the father and only go as far as the father allows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:20 PM
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https://youtu.be/yeVeWfA3DfI[my other video ](https://youtu.be/yeVeWfA3DfI)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:50 PM
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YAYYYY!! I AM HAPPY FOR YOU. WE ARE ALL ROOTING FOR YOU! YOU ARE INDEED FUCKING RAD!! 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:32 AM
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I’ve been celibate for a while now and I realized that it is my super power. I feel way more powerful celibate than I ever did when I bought into the hook up culture “sExUallY LibErAtEd” bs . The longer I’m celibate the less and less I want to give it up. The less I am willing to give my body to anyone. 98%of people are undeserving . The amount of power I hold over men now because I’m celibate is truly astonishing. I thought I was powerful by sleeping with whomever whenever bc I wanted to prove …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:05 PM
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That’s awesome and how I felt when I first got my braces last year!!! Enjoy this journey love!! 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:15 PM
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