KnowledgeWorldly078 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
50	I still miss her...		KnowledgeWorldly078	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 12:27 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Help me out here guys This is spot on! Well put.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/24 05:10 PM
5	Dating to boost your confidence? I know when I first started to get back into the dating scene after 16 years, it felt a bit odd, but I found it informative. I took every date to learn something about myself. I had no intention of finding “the one” but understanding my attractions and turn-offs. I had never really dated before those 16 years, and I was now older and wiser. I understand that life is too short to deal with things and people that negatively affect me—having the courage to be honest with my date if I felt it wouldn…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/24 03:56 AM
23	Wife confessed to affair To be honest. The old saying “once a cheater, always a cheater” applies here. She will do it again, and if you're saying that it's been rocky for a few years, this makes me think she will do it again. Marriage is like a flower; if you don't water it, feed it, or give it sunshine, it will die. You have to work at it. It seemed when things got hard, she stepped out and made her choice. What happens when it gets hard again? She's shown you what kind of person she is. If you call it quits, get ready…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/24 01:29 PM
1	Is it okay to talk to another woman during 12 month separation & couples therapy? I felt the best course of action (at the time) was to jump right back into the dating scene. To get back on the horse, per se. Even though I hadn't dated in 16 years, I met some great women, but as I started to get deeper into the relationships, I felt something was off. I kept self-sabotaging them. I needed to step back and take a look at myself. I wasn't happy. I didn't know how to make myself happy. This is what started the self journey.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/24 01:18 AM
3	Is it okay to talk to another woman during 12 month separation & couples therapy? I would have to agree with Joocewayne on this. I would spend a good amount on yourself. Stay the course, do things you have put off, and find hobbies. Not sure if you have kids, but if you do, focus on them. Spend time finding what makes you tick. I jumped right into things after my separation, and I'm paying the price three years later. We all have our coping mechanisms. I wish I had taken the time to dig a little deeper into what I wanted and who I am. What makes me happy? Try to understand th…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 01:18 PM
11	Counseling I agree. When my ex-wife and I were separated (in the house), I walked by the door when she was in one of her Zoom sessions and overheard her therapist say, “Is he just not getting it? You are unhappy, and you want out of the marriage. Why is he fighting you on this?” I never told my ex that I overheard, but what in God's name was going on in her sessions? I'm not getting it because I'm fighting for my marriage. My ex's good friend also got divorced before we did, and I believe with a combinatio…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 10:18 PM
5	My D needs help! And me. This is 100% mental. I don't believe that pills will solve the issue but they may help after some time with a therapist.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/24 01:29 PM
2	My wife and I have been married for 6 months already but we have been arguing and recently she has told me bc she needs a break. I feel a divorce is coming or is needed. I'm sorry you're going through this. It sucks, and the kids are the ones that are going to feel it. Make sure that you keep the kids ahead of it all. They are the main focus while you and your wife navigate this. Not to be a Debbie downer, but my wife said she needed a “break” because she was cheating on me. So the word break triggers me to think that.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 01:53 PM
15	I still miss her... How true that statement is.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/23 12:48 AM
18	I guess it's about to be over. Sorry man. Sounds very similar to my situation. She disconnected and then cheated. I was the ideal husband and father and it was never enough. She was always on social media and always saw that the grass was greener on the other side. You’ll eventually see that this is for the better. It does suck and has its moments but focus on you.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/23 10:43 PM
1	My mom passed away two weeks ago. Feeling the need to share with my ex. First of all, I am sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one is something that takes time to heal. With that said, I understand you want her to feel sadness. To feel pain and feel what you feel. I've been there myself. We concoct what we perceive to be reality when, in fact, it is far from it. I believe you asked this question already knowing the answer. To me, it sounds like you want to be close to her. Whether it's for sadness or for the betrayal you have felt. Some part of you needs her to feel…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/23 04:04 AM