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| 34 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?Seen a girl walking down the street I thought was cute I was walking up behind her saying “excuse me” about 3times, she had headphones in so I wasn’t sure if she heard me. I tapped her on the shoulder, she turned around with a very alarmed and scared looked, I should of probably just said sorry I thought you was someone else or something, but I had already got this far. I told her “I thought she was cute wanted to get her number” she looked at me with a look of complete disgust and shouted “NO F… | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I get over the social conditioning of cokd approach? Not afraid of rejection but worried what onlookers may think?Who cares ? Do you think there going point and laugh at you when you make the approach ? NOBODY cares bro. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 10:36 AM |
| 2 | 28 year old Virgin. Help me out guysIt does not matter how many books you read, put yourself out there, you see a cute girl in the street go speak to her. She might say no, but atleast you knew the outcome of the interaction instead of playing the “what if” scenario in your head. The more you do this the easier it starts to become. | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How do I find best location around me for a day game?City centres, university campuses, shopping malls, food halls | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Lets hear it. Whats the cringiest moment of you acting needy/desperate around a girl and losing her?Was working in a call centre a few months before the covid lockdowns, I seen a girl who was a new starter snd I would notice we would always catch eyes, it took me a month or 2 to finally get the courage to go over and sit next to her and chat to her. After this we would always sit next to each other and chat we was getting a closer and closer until there was a complete lockdown in my country and due to her being new she was let go by the company, I got her number as we planned to link up on a w… | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | A girl approached me at my apartment gym and said I look young, was she interested?Yeah man you missed out, I made the same mistake a couple weeks go quite similar to yours, where I was speaking to this girl and I didn’t end up getting her number. I kicked myself after it, but go for it next time. I mean there is a chance you may see her again but you gotta take your chance. Learn from these mistakes brother, we got nothing to lose! | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | The Best Way to Meet WomenHouse parties are a awesome place to meet women, but obviously once you pass a certain age there is a rare chance of one happening for a while. I’d say go to a few events your interested in that are in your city or even courses, then at least you know you have a similar interest or passion about something that interests you both and it can break the ice. I like watching anime and reading comics so I’m going to pay a visit to the comicon event in my city, I can hopefully meet some women that way.… | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Just did my first ever approach! I’m so happy.Yh were in this together man! You ever see a guy called Adrian gee ? He just does vids on YouTube where he cold approaches girls and asks for there number, I’ve been trying to get some social tips from him when approaching for next time. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Just did my first ever approach! I’m so happy.Also could you tell me what gjdm means ? | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Just did my first ever approach! I’m so happy.Yh as soon as I finished speaking with her, it felt like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. I guess I need to be more observing and make a comment about something I like, maybe her trainers or something like that. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Just did my first ever approach! I’m so happy.Thanks for the info, this helps a lot. As I look back I do understand that I should of made a initial observation about her, I was a little nervous approaching at first and that was the first thing that came to mind, I guess I need to improve on just saying something to crack her a smile or just to break the ice, thanks a lot! | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Just did my first ever approach! I’m so happy.Yh I will next time, just need to build my social skills more now. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Can’t f*cking approach (rant)You just hit me with that reality check, I got this, I know I can | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Can’t f*cking approach (rant)Totally agree, plenty of fish in the sea so I shall try again tomorrow | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Can’t f*cking approach (rant)“To start is it to do.So go for it” I like that quote, this is the first time I tried my seduction skills but hopefully I can come face my fears and try chat to a girl I find attractive. Good luck on your journey also man I know we can do it. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Can’t f*cking approach (rant)Just many thoughts racing through my mind like: what if I sound shy or scared, what if she has a boyfriend, what if I come off too serious, should I ask for her number straight away or should I try and start a conversation about something, why’s it so hard to go and talk to her. I was also super nervous and could feel my legs shaking, it was super frustrating. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I more likely to get laid if I lower my standards ?Could you please elaborate ? | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 02:01 PM |
| -1 | Am I more likely to get laid if I lower my standards ?this aint even a bad idea bro i cant lie to you | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Am I more likely to get laid if I lower my standards ?I agree with alot of what you say here, but alot of the 8-10s I go for love being put on a pedestal and want men to just bow down to them, and I don't feel comfortable doing that. | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Trying to get with a girl who’s just recently split up with her boyfriend who’s now in prison.He’s been in prison for about a year and a half now, and only recently she just broke up with him so I I don’t know if I should pursue or not. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Trying to get with a girl who’s just recently split up with her boyfriend who’s now in prison.Unfortunately the guy she dated was a complete asshole, but I guess girl like that these days... | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 10:40 AM |
| 3 | So there is this one 10/10 in my math class who is an actual diamond in the rough. Since it’s math class, it’s actually almost impossible to talk during class. That coupled with she is also pretty shy, I’m not sure what to do to get with her. Any advice?Try to just be around her, maybe sit next to her and spark conversation from there. Literally just ask her about the work, pretend you don’t understand. Just make sure you look good, put some aftershave on and talk loud and with confidence. All it takes Is one little interaction at a time for you both to become friendly with each other Also, if she’s shy your going to have work a little harder and try to keep the conversation going as shy people get nervous easily. Smile a lot, sound comforting … | /r/seduction | 14/03/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you say to a girl right before kissing them??Simply just stare into her eyes for a bit. You don’t really need to say anything, if she’s staring back into yours then that’s your queue, you’ll know when it’s right and she’ll also sense it also. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 04:49 PM |
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