Kombuchaaddict Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	How To Be More Safe Online & How To Protect Your Devices What password managers would you recommend?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/22 11:17 AM
13	Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens. Not “ I help her periodically open a jar of pickles in return” 💀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/21 02:15 PM
13	What are some red flags about men’s cleanliness? Not greasy ears 💀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/21 01:06 AM
1	Got the proposal just shy of our 1 year anniversary! Cheers to never settling 🥂 Congratulations 🍾	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 03:05 AM
138	The ONLY acceptable 50/50 That’s a provider man	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 12:01 AM
8	Don’t fall for pick-mes pressuring you. Misery loves company, so keep your standards high to avoid the drama. I had a friend try to guilt trip me into going on a ice cream date with a guy. When I simply told her I’m appalled a grown man would ask me out to a drive through ice cream shop, I wouldn’t enjoy it and prefer to be wined and dined. She then suggested I meet up at a frozen yogurt place, and when I told her I’m not in HS, she said I was bougie. Keep your standards high, I will never understand why women aggressively try to assert their will for you to settle for cheap low effort dates that have n…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 08:43 AM
2	What are some professions, industries or hobbies that are likely to have a higher percentage of HVM? This is spot on	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 01:46 AM
2	Tea Facts	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 09:37 PM
5	Tea Hell has no fury like a woman scorned	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 09:35 PM
37	‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’ Good thing you’ve learned, being that emotionally close to a guy while he’s dating or in a relationship can sometimes be extremely dangerous. You mentioned him having screaming matches with his gf about you and im suprised that wasn’t enough to scare you away. Some girls get really territorial and it can turn violent i have a friend who works as a cop and have shared stories similar to your situation. She mentioned a girl that was extremely emotionally close to a guy friend while he was dating a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 03:11 AM
14	‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’ It’s never just a “friend” if you find yourself in this situation leave as fast as you can it only gets worse	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 02:52 AM
16	‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’ It is for the best, I’ve recently gone through a similar situation and it only gets worse there invalidatation of your needs and feelings grow.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 02:50 AM
1	Ladies, when you hear a "I did nothing and she suddenly went crazy for no reason" type of story, rest assured it's complete bullshit and the guy is omitting a lot of things to make the girl look insane Exactly	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 12:25 AM
1	Ladies, when you hear a "I did nothing and she suddenly went crazy for no reason" type of story, rest assured it's complete bullshit and the guy is omitting a lot of things to make the girl look insane Same.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 12:24 AM
1	Anybody ever have an ex still obsessed with them years after the breakup? I believe you can get a restraining order against him	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/20 04:02 AM
2	A “HVM” in his late 30s who has never been committed is a blaring red flag. Its very spot on I experienced the same!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/20 08:14 PM
3	The Male Pick Me: Nice Guys Can Be Just As Low Value as Chad This is so accurate!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/20 07:07 PM
13	The audacity of a confident black woman 🖤🖤🖤	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/20 05:10 PM
12	Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally. Can relate❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/20 01:51 AM
52	Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally. Wow that’s so F’d up, makes me so mad hearing that 🤬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/20 01:48 AM
45	Because of this amazing group I no longer feel jealous of my best friend from high school being married I’m getting more “Frenemies” than “best friends” vibes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/20 11:53 PM
25	Advice regarding handling potential cheating avenues He’s disrespectful, if he had any respect for you he’d block her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/20 02:29 PM
3	Hypergamy or love? Idk 4 years to go till he reaches you’re level and he’s talking about marriage??? In the event you guys get a divorce you’ll be on the hook to pay him alimony since you out earn him and will for many years. I say go with your gut, do not marry him. I’m hypergamous as well, and would feel resentful going against my values. Finances is one of the top reason for divorce so it’s good you are factoring that in. Also, my personal opinion I don’t think men do well with women who significantly out earn …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/20 04:13 AM
24	Thoughts? She probably has lots of family support from parents, or can afford a nanny.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/20 12:16 AM
51	women aren’t attracted to money I’m definitely attracted to resources as well as looks. I can be attracted to a good looking guy but if he’s broke, cant provide, etc, his looks alone wouldn’t do much for me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/20 10:42 PM
2	Shiiiiit, doesn’t matter the sign. Checks ever box for a LVM. Fucccck that Aquarius men	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/20 09:34 PM
2	Reciprocate and that’s it Facts	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 09:23 PM
2	Positive note! Wish posts like this got more upvotes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/20 11:28 PM
1	Using netflix of my ex? Depends on the guy, I broke up with my ex over a year ago, he still pays my Netflix account, he wouldn’t dare pull such a thing. In the case he does try to pull a move such as the one you stated then I guess you could cut it a loss.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 06:51 PM
3	Using netflix of my ex? Same lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 06:49 PM
1	Using netflix of my ex? It’s not a big deal really , I still use my ex’s Netflix account. In fact he opened a new account and is now paying for two accounts and doesn’t mind letting me have the old one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 06:49 PM
3	[Discussion] what's your opinion on having male friends, even if you know they just want to fuck you? I think it’s of value to have some male friends to better understand the nature of men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 04:41 AM
2	Anyone here dealt with their issues relating to emotional neglect? I have a friend who has had a similar upbringing and as result also has had relationship issues and had emotional neglect trauma. I gifted her a book called, “Running on Empty” by Jonice Webb PHD. She said it’s been extremely helpful in he healing journey. I highly recommended it! It’s incredible you are able to acknowledge this, I wish you all the best on your healing journey.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 04:22 PM
9	When should I expect to meet his female friends? I would try to meet them as soon as possible if he hangs out with them do you can gauge the dynamic between them before you get to invested.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/19 02:46 AM
6	Is it a red flag if a man has absolutely 0 female friends? I dated a guy who had a very close female friend and he had the lowest emotional intelligence of any guy I ever dated including those who didn’t have female friends	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/19 10:50 AM
3	Advice on how to proceed with a guy you’re into but he’s now pulling back.... Yeah he seems inconsistent already, and immature. If he isn’t interested why not just text you and let you know, instead of slow fading. Consider it a blessing and block him and move on. Getting further involved with him, questioning, etc will only kill your self-esteem. Run for the hills before you get too emotionally attached.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/19 03:03 AM