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Well the only guys I've been put on a pedestal by are my family, so...Kinda alright, I guess?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 08:59 PM
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Someone who can be both a leader as well as a follower. He needs to know when to ask for help, and how to delegate. Family-wise, he needs to be able to take quick decisions for small ones, but bigger decisions need a discussion of the whole family. He needs to have his entire family on one page, happily. The way he presents himself also falls into it. I'm of a belief that usually how we look tends to say a lot about our characters. People who present themselves well and confidently are usually p…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 08:59 PM
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I'm someone who has a passion for writing too. If I'm in the zone, I can write for hours and I usually just zone the whole world out while immersing myself into a fantasy world. It's not wrong, and I've actually been told that this passion and focus is attractive. Just don't use it as a means of procrastination. If your other duties are getting put off because you "had a moment of inspiration", then there may need to be some mental reordering. You don't need to choose between the things you love…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 05:03 AM
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So you think it's like a phase, where we go from super conservative to super liberal and then the pendulum swings back? Interesting...
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 03:25 AM
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Like they say, RP is amoral. All it does is lay down gender dynamics that are ignored in the rest of the world, what you do with that knowledge is up to you. I did not attempt to judge this post, but I did find it interesting and hence I put it up for conversation. That's all I wanted, not to draw conclusions, but to spark debate. We need all kinds of ideas here, and that's what this post is bringing out, which is a good thing. Thank you for your views :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 03:24 AM
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Yes, everyone did have a part to play here, however small. The girl could be blamed, for not waiting until marriage, the ex, for breaking up with her, the girl's parents, for not allowing her to marry someone she liked and even the prospective groom can be blamed for putting so much importance on something as trivial as "purity". I do get these messages a lot, some more blatant than others that the concept of waiting until marriage is flawed and that free love is better. This struck me as intere…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:16 PM
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Both follow the principles of the Red Pill, which just states the reality of gender relations. Both have different end goals- TRP aims to get the maximum sex, RPW focuses on getting a lifelong relationship. Both agree with the same facts, they just use the information differently
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:03 PM
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I definitely agree with you. Just the fact that staying out after a certain time is literally life threatening to a woman is characteristic of what it's like to be a female in India. I'm just glad my parents preferred girls and I was allowed to be educated and well informed. I wanted to share this because of the connotations. I do agree that India needs a band of feminism, but is the answer bashing men, pretending they do nothing? Yes, more women in India need help. Yes, we need to bring to atte…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:00 PM
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It depends on how you see it, right? For some people it's just a biological drive that can and should be satisfied, for others it's an intimate action to be performed with someone who is your other half. The people who see it as biological might not get the fuss about waiting for a LTR or marriage, however, the people who put importance on it might actually be happy that they saved themselves for a person truly important to them. It's all a matter of perspective
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 02:48 PM
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This comment puts into perspective everything I was feeling reading this message. Granted, I come from a country that is more conservative, and premarital relations are generally frowned upon, even in urban areas for being distractions to the kids. I felt this post was going off the railings trying to make it look like women are martyrs. It's almost like they don't even cast a look at the fathers, the people who have to bear the burden of feeding two or three or more mouths with his limited inco…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 02:16 PM
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I do read reports once in a while of such instances happening in rural India, once even of a couple who were killed and paraded through the village for choosing each other over what their elders told them. So yes, rural India definitely needs a woman's lib movement. Some might also argue that urban India needs one, but it can calm the hell down and move onto the areas that actually need it. And I agree, only a couple of partners is better than having sex ten times a week with different men. It i…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 12:01 PM
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Just reported another. Had the urge to say "Good little troll, go back and have a cookie."
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 06:34 AM
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Her words. I seem to be the only one in my circle who thinks Trump is just a bit dumb, and not the Antichrist
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:50 AM
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I feel like a few things are similar across the attractiveness scale, but each person does have their own preferences, and there are a lot of cultural and soceital (where they grew up) factors involved in it. For example, a person whose been around Indians their whole life might find Indians attractive, while a person growing up in a multicultural environment might not have a lot of standards other than fitness or personality. Personally, I'm not a fan of heavy muscles. To me they look kind of d…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 02:27 AM
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Not in a relationship or in the army, but my cousin is growing up as an army brat, so I see this eventually coming up in her life. IMO, use the time apart to do something you like. Is there a specific thing you've wanted to try out? Any specific change you want to impart in your life? This is the time to do so. Hold down the fort while he holds it down there. That's the core of femininity. Make sure after his time apart with you, he comes home to the best present ever; a fully functioning househ…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 07:19 PM
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You'll get through it! One thing my father always told me is that businesses recruit attitudes.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 12:39 PM
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If more people were able to realize this, the number of divorces would greatly reduce :) Extremely sweet and moving story, OP
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 05:36 AM
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Depending on the financial situation, both spouses may be needed to work. That or live extremely frugally. That's why I said OP shouldn't throw working out of the window since she may need to get back into the workforce, or attract someone rich enough to support both her and her kids (since she expressed an interest in having children)
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 10:24 PM
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Could there by chance be an element of "you're trying to take our mom's place"? I know kids don't see divorce the way adults do. Most of the time, they're seeing their parents happy, but then suddenly coming to them and saying they're going their own ways. It really screws with their brains. Also, I doubt their father stepping in will have such an impact. Kids at that age learn different personalities for different situations. The kids at my school were the definition of thugs, but at home they …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 10:22 PM
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Speaking as someone not much older than the eldest, I would think there's a more deep seated issue here. Were they always like that? Or could it be a divorce (if he is a single father) that's causing these problems? Kids are the most affected by divorces, whether the parents put their all into them or not. Virtually since a dream they had has been shattered (parents are the kids models, if they break up, it has a profound effect on the child's psyche) and now they don't know what to do. Some kid…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 06:32 PM
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I would guess it's someone who is domineering, frothing at the mouth, growling at everyone and being a jackass. At least that's what I can get from it all. I seriously don't see what's attractive about being an entitled jerk. Domineering =\= Dominant! Dominance is not asked for, it is given by others around you. You are dominant because you exude calm benevolence, a type of energy that says you have the answer to it all.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 06:25 PM
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No makeup looks are amazing! They're light, and bring out just the right features of your face without it looking like you've put something on it. Definitely the best thing in the entire world! Also, eye makeup, amazing! Sometimes it's overdone, but a simple liner does so much for your eyes. And no one can resist a tastefully done smokey eye for the right occasion :) As for trends that can go away, Instagram and Tumblr looks. Instagram makeup just looks so heavy and there's so much I wonder how …
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 10:53 PM
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I would advise you not to completely throw out working, since in today's world it's required for both the people in the relationship to work in order to get by. Add kids and the need becomes even more prominent. Otherwise you'd have to work on attracting a man who has a high enough job that he can support two or three or more lives apart from his own. I'm saying this because a few cousins of mine got married thinking they could happily stay at home and be happy, but were forced into getting back…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 06:58 AM
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Honestly, it was one of the reasons I began to lurk on RPW. I was looking for a community where the thought of "having a family is really good" isn't shot down by everyone. In my surroundings, marriage is seen as an obligation if you're a twat. This community helped pull me through a lot, and I hope it'll pull me through the rest. It's hard to find like minded people in the world
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 04:09 PM
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I know it will definitely help me, but I tend to respect people no matter their worldview and I expect them to reciprocate. Every time something controversial between us comes up and I say "can we look at all sides?" she begins to open up Tumblr and show a few isolated instances or bring up her foreign friends to back up their claims. It would be great if we could have civil discussions as I love analyzing society and its various facets. Our problem is that while I give her respect, the second I…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 04:05 PM
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I do want to travel, it's one of my hobbies. The only problem is, going outside my country is crazy expensive, so we have to limit the exposure we get from outside the country. Ideally, we'd be travelling ever year. Hopefully in the next couple of years I made a couple of trips abroad to volunteer and put it on my resume. I think those can be good experiences for me to meet with people who are not of my culture (since that is mostly what I'm surrounded with every day). A problem I have is that I…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 01:17 PM
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I sort of had that view for five to six years, in my most gullible years. It didn't do too well on my mental health, and I've ended up with a condition where I seek trust but find it hard to trust someone. Should I just suck it up because it's a matter of a few months, or should I ditch it?
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 11:04 AM
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I hoped so too, we are compatible in the sense that we both share a love for English (my biggest facet), but lately I've started to feel like it's getting overpowered by her other views, especially since she got into a college in the US and now Hitler is the President of the world. I feel like she uses me to rant about how oppressed she is and how the world is doomed, and I have to just silently nod or else she'll back up her claims with random Tumblr posts from her friends in the US. Once I lit…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 11:02 AM
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That makes sense, but the reason I asked was because I've been alone all my life, and this has impacted my sense of self worth tremendously. I make sure whatever we talk about, it's only about the things we agree on. I show her my stories and run ideas through her, or we talk about animation. Apart from that, I tend to avoid having conversations with her about anything involving social issues. Just the other day, the conversation steered towards a direction I didn't want it to, and she was talki…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 10:56 AM
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Usually since they've been alive far longer than we have, and are mostly in good long term relationships with out fathers (those of us who have a good stable home life), I would say they have a way of objectively looking at things that we might miss because we get tunnel vision. I wouldn't say do everything she says, but I'd give her a listen and talk to her about why she finds him intimidating. Maybe she sees something you don't?
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 06:40 AM
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I should definitely try this. I have non existent eyelashes and I really want thicker ones. I also read that aloe vera and vitamin E is a good way to help. Is that correct?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 06:23 AM
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You're not alone, willow. I don't have social media either :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 06:17 AM
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There's never a thing as too late. If you've been on this sub, you can see so many women who've turned their relationships around, and they're likely worse than yours. As long as you've become aware of your shortcomings and strive to improve yourself, everything should be just fine
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 09:26 AM
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There's never a thing as too late. If you've been on this sub, you can see so many women who've turned their relationships around, and they're likely worse than yours. As long as you've become aware of your shortcomings and strive to improve yourself, everything should be just fine
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/17 09:25 AM
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Being positive is the furthest thing from annoying! In dark times, it helps to have someone who can see the light at the end of the tunnel when you're blinded by darkness. People who find it annoying are pessimists who just want to wallow in their sorrow. Walk away like a boss! I was looking for a place where I could discuss issues with like minded individuals since I'm surrounded by people who are either conversations to the point they're like "if I look at a boy I'll lose my virginity" or Uber…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 08:50 PM
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So if they start pursuing you you cool it off, and if they don't care you shrug and say "oh well"? (Putting it in a very weird way, but this is my brain on hours of study)
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 08:43 PM
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Haha, that sounds really cute! The two of you have an incredible dynamic. It just seems that he has trouble looking through and reading people well. Pretty common problem, at least he has you to help him out :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 02:57 PM
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I don't think it needs to completely stop, but there do need to be strict boundaries. In a way, partners can help vet friends to see which one of them is taking a casual friendship too far. Of course, this may not work out too well if they're jealous people, so it comes down to their dynamic and personalities. If you can explicitly state that you're already taken, I've seen that a lot of people tend to calm down after. Maybe they need to see that you are not, or ever, going to be available for t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 02:53 PM
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Is he by any chance an idealist? He sounds a lot like my brother, who has been told by girls that he's got his head way in the clouds, and can sometimes misinterpret signals from people. And that's pretty cool! Always good to make new friends. How does your SO feel about you being on good terms with his friends?
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 01:44 PM
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Well, this worked out better than it could have. Keeping boundaries in relationships is extremely important, and it is a good thing that your SO slammed it down. Going through your approach was one I'm not very aware of, but now that I think about it, would definitely be something I would do. Even though we all know it could definitely lead to him cheating happily with her on the side while you're there to patch him up. Of course she wouldn't have taken him putting his foot down well. She's just…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 12:03 PM
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So nice to read stories like this! Your positivity will most definitely be a massive factor in your relationship, if you can see the great things. It's often related to gratitude, which is a cornerstone of a successful lifetime relationship. Honestly, I'm glad you found RPW before TRP. I found TRP first, and let me tell you, it turned me off at once. This sub is definitely more the speed of rational conversation between like minded ladies who also dish out great advice
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 11:57 AM
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I have mixed feelings about this issue. On one hand, I do understand why guys fall behind, on the other, competition based education is in my opinion the best for both. I'm still in schooling, and even though I don't get distracted from my priorities, I do see lots of people who do. For me, it would come down to the parents. Teach your kids focus and how to prioritize until they completely internalize it, and I guarantee it won't affect their studies. If you don't have the time to do that, you'r…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:38 AM
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I just had the image of actual ram butting in my head, pretty funny. I did once get hit with the wooden part of a duster on my forehead when some guy threw it randomly. I wouldn't say that impressed me very much
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:28 AM
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I think I may have misinterpreted that since so many posts on here have the Captain-FM relationship. I apologize for making a newbie mistake. Even I find myself to be pretty rational and logical (sometimes too logical, I think I made a friend cry while objectively analyzing her crush) so in a relationship I may be more comfortable with a "partner is crime" dynamic. Is this the one you have?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:02 PM
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This dynamic isn't something that relates specifically to physical attraction, but other facets of attraction as well. I recall seeing a post on here about a quick survey done that found that women were more sexually attracted to men closer to their own age. The wall differs from person to person, from gender to gender. The wall for women is not the same as the wall for men, because both sexes desire different things when coming to relationships. For men, it is sex, for women, it is stability. A…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 06:25 PM
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That makes sense. So it isn't about holding the fact that you're good at something over someone's head, and it also isn't about wanting to do everything yourself because you feel that nobody else can get things done. Is that correct?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 09:23 AM
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I'm not so sure about cats, but from what I know, a dog humping random stuff isn't a very healthy thing, usually it can be traced back to dominance or restlessness. You think the humping is normal?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 08:02 AM
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Then was he owned by a backyard breeder of sorts? And there was that much of a change? Oh wow, I can't wait till mine's old enough so we can get him neutered too
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:45 AM
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The hair doesn't grow out fast? Is he by any chance a particular breed? Fluffy kitties are the best! Except for all that white hair on your chest when he gets up and moves away. I think we may just need to buy a roller to get his hair away. And he's not even a year old!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:40 AM
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SO FLOOFY! All that fur must have been a pain to maintain, huh?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:18 AM
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As someone with a passion for writing, I don't really like Fifty Shades of Grey since it didn't have much of a plot. I've read the summaries online, and I may read the book in the future, but I keep feeling like there are other, better romances out there with much more fleshed out characters. But it definitely seems like something that slides in well with RPW principles. At the end of the day, a highly accomplished man who can take control and call the shots is extremely attractive. That is some…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 06:43 PM
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My cat licked my cheek for the first time on V-Day. I call that progress. No! I'm not lonely at all! Like, at all! (nervous sweats)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 03:47 PM
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That's a really good list. It sounds honest and well thought out, like you aren't hyping yourself up. Thumbs up from me! I'm pretty sure I'd be having my parents help me out ' But I would definitely put that I have strong family values, in that my husband and kids would always come first. I offer loyalty, support, understanding. I offer to take over minute tasks so that you can focus on the major decisions. I will not make any rash decisions without first consulting and getting the opinion of my…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 03:40 PM
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This! Even though India is a very family oriented nation, I am starting to see bits of unfavorable western influences seeping in. Many of my own age see marriage as a burden, or want to marry someone who'll roll over and shake. I did once comment that they wanted a dog, not a man, and that did offend them even though they eventually agreed. The mentality of gratitude and giving is slipping away, being replaced by the mentality of wanting the world to conform to your whims. We do have tons of jok…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 12:41 PM
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That sounds bad! Maybe your cousins just need a bit of MRP in their lives?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:59 AM
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TRP is amoral, like another user has said. All it does is lay down the reality and give information, what you choose to do with that information is up to you. What is your endgame? That's the most important. Where do you see yourself in ten, twenty, thirty years? And yes, that amount of foresight is needed, it is what is going to separate you from your cat/ dog. Spend a while not to think of the short term happiness, but long term happiness. The community here on RPW is very different from what …
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 05:50 AM
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It all boils down to a personal choice, right? No two people find the same thing empowering. What I saw were extremes all around me, where the career women had nothing else to their identity, not even their families, and the home makers knew nothing outside of the kitchen. The balance I craved to see was absent everywhere, and that was what I was trying to say. Neither of the extremes is good
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 05:04 AM
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And also, I also live in Asia, where education is seen as an endgame for all. I guess there's also that cultural factor in it :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 05:00 AM
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Does it? I still don't see the point. Providing for a single mother will cause a drain in resources that they could be using to further develop the country. Why not just leave them? Or better yet, train them to make better decisions so that they don't get into a divorce?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:40 PM
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It's also interesting to me, since a lot of young people also come from single parent households and broken families. Maybe there's a psychological aspect to this, where the kids are seeing what their parents are going through is what is taught in colleges, and that there is a significant different between fantasy and reality?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 04:18 PM
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That's very well said. Our strength as women isn't overt, but without it, things would fall apart. After observing so many people in my life, I soon came to the conclusion that a very important role women play is the glue in the family. That's our strength, and it's something which so many of us aren't taught to understand or even use. To them, strength only involves masculine strength, there's never any mention of a feminine strength. I didn't really have that problem where I resented that my m…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 04:05 PM
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That was definitely part of it. During the early years of marriage, my father worked in an oil company, and trained my mother to be self-sufficient in case anything ever happened to her or (much much later) me
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 08:14 AM
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Thanks a bunch! Even though I'm surrounded by aimless and confused people, I still hold out in the hope that there are focused people somewhere out there.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:29 AM
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My father is a big supporter of female education. It may seem senseless, but the degree she pursued helped grow her because she understood herself, and so was more ready for marriage when the time came. The choice was hers, she could always have taken up a career, but she didn't want to. From what I know, my grandfather (mom's father) was also involved in this decision. My mother wanted to study a bit more because she loved learning, so my grandfather told her to study while he set himself up at…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:13 AM
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You and I must be long lost twins XD But yeah, my mother had a choice whether to marry my father or go to work with UNICEF in Sudan, and she chose my father. I've asked her whether she ever thought about taking the offer, but she always told me that the choice she made was the best, because of my father and me. It really made me appreciate her, and since then I've held mothers in the highest regard
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 05:57 AM
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If I can form enough coherent thoughts to put it in a way that isn't "sex before marriage is BAD!" then I might definitely do it. Agreed, and also, what people qualify as downsides can differ from person to person. That's precisely why I think we should be looking at every single side, because what one considers a downside can actually be an upside for some one
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 03:32 PM
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I know I'm incredibly lucky to have such parents! The world would definitely be a much happier place if we had more stability starting from the family
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 01:32 PM
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I know I'm incredibly lucky to have such parents! The world would definitely be a much happier place if we had more stability starting from the family
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 01:31 PM
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Well said! Work or partners aren't your entirety, they're just facets of your being! Your work, your family and your partner together make up your identity as an individual, not just one
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 01:30 PM
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He seems to be regularly betraying your trust. With no trust, no relationship. Yes, it may be time for you to go your own ways
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 09:21 AM
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That is one thing that I loved about TRP since I found it. It never judged anyone, all it did was offer a helping hand to those who wanted to change their situations. I'm also curious, is there a thread on here about the downsides of being a SAHW/M? I've read a lot about the downsides of riding the CC, but not enough about the downsides of staying a virgin till marriage. And according to me, both sides need to be fully explored so that the person can make a completely informed decision
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 09:05 AM
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I don't think working on yourself is punishing yourself for your flaws. Even I struggle with crippling low self esteem that it actually stops me because I see myself as inferior, and not as other people see me. I still do believe we need to have our heads on straight, especially in today's times, where the concept of sticking with someone for life is non-existent. For the loneliness, have you tried substituting a relationship for animals for the time being? From what I can get from your post, if…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 09:02 AM
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I think Tinder is a lot more of a hookup app now than ever, so you might want to try a website like Ok Cupid or something. I heard it's better to find people there. Also, I would highly suggest you not get into a relationship right now, focus on yourself and your problems. A person with self esteem issues can be a big turn off for guys, and who also enjoys being in that state of mind? I'd suggest you take some time off to work on yourself before looking for a relationship. Third thing, meeting p…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 07:23 AM
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I think it comes down to choice. There are some women who'd prefer riding the CC their entire life, since they're too focused on a career. Others may want to settle down and start a family. I saw this with my mother, who gave up a life changing career opportunity to marry my father and have me, and the woman who took that opportunity now has a flying career and happily has casual sex. I don't see it as wrong, it was her choice, and she knew the consequences of the actions she was taking. My issu…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 06:05 AM
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My father, the most important man in my life, has always been an inspiration to me. When my mom was pregnant with me, they took a conscious decision for her to stay home and him to work. I've seen him working long hours, dealing with bosses and clients and he's often exhausted when he comes home. So whenever I hear talk about "male privilege" I look at it as an excuse. If men have so much privilege, then why do they bear the burden of feeding a family? It isn't easy, and even today I have no ide…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 09:01 PM
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I'm 17 and a student too! I'd say don't be in a rush to knock down a man. We're still young! Take this time to instead up your SMV and develop your skills. At this point in time, priorities should be yourself and your career/ education.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 08:55 PM
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Student, but planning to study Psychology and then go abroad to study Animal Behavior. I seriously don't see why you can't understand RPW and have a job as well. At the end of the day, doesn't it all boil down to personal choices? Last time I checked, there was never one size fits all
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 08:46 PM
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As a spiritual person, I do believe that there are some people much more suited for you than others, and I do believe in the concept of a person right for you. However, from the moment God puts that person in front of you, it's on you to make that relationship work. The spirits and deities only help cross the right paths, it's up to the people themselves to decide whether they want to change that path or not. I have met people you describe, who stop working because of some higher power, not real…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 08:16 PM
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This sub is for self improvement, isn't it? I also love how everyone tries to support each other to be the best they can be. As for the skirts thing, I will admit I don't wear skirts and I haven't worn them in years. This is linked with the fact that I have to commute an hour and a half one way to get to my college and jeans are the best to manage and also with my self esteem, where I feel like my legs show a lot of spots so people don't want to see them. But I do commend you with trying to wear…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 04:08 PM
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I definitely will! I have a list of products I need to buy all ready
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 05:12 PM
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I definitely do this a lot. Of course, the on stage personas are amazing, but I always tend to watch a group's variety shows after I've found them, preferably one where they just have cameras and fool around without any makeup or anything. I feel like their inner guys come out and that's the person I could be meeting anywhere
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 12:25 PM
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Animals never grow up! My own cat is a handful for the three of us (but we still love him)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 12:22 PM
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I second this! Maybe if you have a thing for animals you could be a dog walker? I wouldn't just recommend going out and getting a dog because it's a life, and life is hard to care for. But walking other people's dogs gets you out of the house, gives them some well needed exercise and the owners a load off their shoulders. A person walking with a group of sled dogs is always an awesome person in my opinion. You feel awesome when you have some crazy ass huge dogs all happily walking beside you
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 06:50 AM
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I do hope I can enjoy it! I've been looking into herbal toners and moisturizers that I can use, since I already use a cleanser
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 06:05 PM
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I'm actually pretty aware that they do. As far as I know, most of the members of EXO have had it (and more number of groups as well) But does double eyelid surgery actually count? I'm curious. I probably should start on a proper routine
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:42 PM
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I do understand that for girls it can be plastic surgery, but I meant the guys, since they're also what I listen to the most. I am so freaking jealous of their skin! There's so much pollution here in Mumbai that if you even try to do a "multi-step" your face will say "stop, I can't breathe!" My skin also seems to hate me; I can only use herbal products or I get massive breakouts
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:28 PM
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That is still something feminism propagates, isn't it? "You don't need a man!" "Staying single is great!" "I feel so sorry for the people who are stuck in relationships!" Either way, I see that women already rejected men and called it a branch of feminism
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:13 PM
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Love and peace is something propagated by every religion (even though some have gone off the rails) coughcoughHinduismcoughcough Qualities that are in every religion are the same: peace, love, know your role, everyone is equal, they just have different roles to play in the fabric of the universe. Of course, now with all the anti-religion stuff going around and us ourselves not knowing our own religion, these ideas have gotten a bad rep. However, when you look at them, TRP and all are imbued with…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:11 PM
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You do!!!? Cool! What groups do you listen to? I used to think the same thing, but I've found that isn't always the case. There are quite a few groups who are natural, and are still in their teens too. I have tried comparing myself to my classmates, but I've never found the same interest as when I'm looking at a picture of any random Asian person. I'm starting to think I may have a preference towards Asians, but whether or not preferences exist or not is a completely different matter.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:06 PM
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Haven't women already gone their own way? Last I recall, second wave feminism really contributed to the high divorce rates and single motherhood
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 04:38 PM
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Best way? Remove all talk of anything. I mostly am on r/aww because you literally cannot have a bad discussion if there's a cute animal doing cute things. I also post in pet related subs because those types actually care about the animal more than the human. Well, I prefer them, humans are weird (not saying animals aren't, they're the right kind of weird :))
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 08:23 AM
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Oh, I loved that show so much! Of course, I don't subscribe to every single one of his techniques, but his philosophy actually resonates well with me. When i get my dog, my motto is going to be "Run the shit out of him first and then give him rules before you snuggle him."
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 03:00 PM
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The sheer number of INFJs here is heart warming!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 05:34 AM
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This is cool! Thank you for making this thread! I'm really good with animals. All too often, dogs that are supposed to be "biters" are all too happy to come and wag their tails at me. Other animals also seem to respond very well to me. I'm very good at writing. I've been writing since I was little, and it's nearly as easy as breathing to me. I'm also open to expanding genres, and I've been complimented on my storytelling. I'm a fast learner. I tend to pick up things quickly, and if I'm intereste…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 05:27 AM
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Very early in the feminine game, but so far, it's been putting on eyeliner. I love trying out new styles and trying to get the best one that suits me well
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 05:22 PM
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I think we need to be objective about ourselves first, because if we can identify certain things within ourselves, it'll give us the chance to improve ourselves :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 02:26 PM
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That is a pretty good point. From my own experiences though, not a lot of people are psychologically aware of all of their faults. They may say "I need to loose weight" or "I need to wear more makeup", but they may not know that they have crippling low self esteem or may also be struggling with the starting points of depression. I made this post sort of as a list for myself too, to put into words what I knew about myself, all my flaws that I needed to work on. The point was to see what I could c…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 12:50 PM
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Doesn't it depend on what "feminine" means? As far as I know, it's not restricted to just sitting quietly and wearing makeup. The concept of femininity differs from person to person at least slightly. For example, me sitting calmly and quietly may be seen as feminine, whereas my mother making happy conversation may also be seen as feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 12:48 PM
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So many of us!!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 12:46 PM
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in Kenya, Tanzania, Ghana, Italy, China - the young generations strive to be different and special and achieve their own goals - and they are not contributing to their community anymore. Then again, serving the community entirely can have deep impacts on a personal mind. Both are needed, we need people to be individuals, but also respect the community. Extremes either way will have disastrous effects. This is why feminism declined society. Women are given freedom but we were never taught true re…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 12:45 PM
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INFJ here! Nice to see another person who shares similar issues! Best of luck to you too! I feel like I need to do these things to prove to myself that I can. I can be pretty, I can be good with makeup, I can have a good body, I can be a good conversationalist
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 07:25 PM
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INFJ here! Nice to see another person who shares similar issues! Best of luck to you too! I feel like I need to do these things to prove to myself that I can. I can be pretty, I can be good with makeup, I can have a good body, I can be a good conversationalist
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 07:25 PM
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I have ridden horses before, not only at vacation sites, but I also attended a week long horse riding camp (I did get myself a lovely hairline fracture but that's another story) I remember during one of my first lessons I saw a horse literally just flip onto its back to roll around in the ground, its rider just barely jumped off. All I could think of was how lucky I was that my horse was listening to me ><
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:37 PM
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I think I'm one of the lucky ones, I've always known that I'm meant to work with animals, it just took a few years to decide that I finally wanted to be an Animal Behaviorist. All the other things are my hobbies, and I don't even have a lot. These are my top 5 (or 4 or 3 how long the list is) Writing (Fanfiction or general stories) Graphic Design (Designing covers and concept graphics for my stories) Video editing (Making trailers and other small stuff) I'm also hoping to add Horse Riding to thi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 04:02 PM
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Heh, that's funny. Everyone who comes to our house likes that our kitten is a bi-colored one, but then they see how he runs around and runs into Windows. After spending just a few weeks with him, I realised he was perfect for our family because we were all insane as well. And of course, people interacting with animals always adds another level of attractiveness. I'm pretty sure "has a dog" is one of my standards 😂
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 07:03 AM
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If I may share my thoughts on the decline, I believe it has a great many factors, including feminism, not just feminism. I would also say the rise of individualism and over hype of the speciality of everyone has contributed to a generation who can't take responsibility for their own actions. The difference between us and our parents is that they lived in a world where opportunities were few and chances of failure were more. They got into so called "mundane" work because they needed money, money …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 06:38 AM
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This is something I've observed a lot around myself. Whenever my mother playfully chastises my father, she does it as a joke. My dad takes it in stride, because he's the joker in the family, and I love him for it. But even then, she makes sure to always praise him in front of people, or simply doesn't talk about such topics. Why should other people be interested in her married life? Besides, at her age, the conversation is more about the kids, and at our age, adults go on a "one upping" spree, w…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 07:37 AM
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It's like my dream life!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 07:27 AM
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Fighter dogs are a whole different ball game from most of the dogs in shelters, animals who are there just because their owner couldn't afford to keep them anymore. Many shelter dogs hold the stereotype of fighter dogs, but they're normal and just a bit confused. Actual fighter dogs need a level of help which most people can't handle. Anyone who can properly rehabilitate a fighter dog has my respect
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 07:26 AM
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Are there also signs that show they're too lenient? Like the animal not bothering to listen to the owner, or a sign of possessiveness, where he looks unsurely at you coming into his territory?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 07:24 AM
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This. I've always been biased to large dogs, even though I now have a cat, and now the strays that I thought were medium sized now look like giants to me 😂 What's your opinion on a dog getting possessive of his human? I recall the first episode of Dog Whisperer that I watched long back where a tiny dog got possessive of his owner, and when Cesar was attempting to discipline him, the owner actually burst into tears
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 07:22 AM
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This. I've always been biased to large dogs, even though I now have a cat, and now the strays that I thought were medium sized now look like giants to me 😂 What's your opinion on a dog getting possessive of his human? I recall the first episode of Dog Whisperer that I watched long back where a tiny dog got possessive of his owner, and when Cesar was attempting to discipline him, the owner actually burst into tears
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 07:22 AM
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It may depend on how long you've had him 😁 You only need to watch a dog help show to know that good intentions are always there, but the kind of help the animal needs may be slightly different. How long have you had him? And do you have any idea of his history? That may help in isolating the problem. And also, trainers and behaviorists are there to help!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 07:13 AM
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It definitely would be, if someone can beat up a defenseless (are they really defenseless? My arm would like to differ) animal, then they might have the penchant for hurting other life forms as well. Do you also take the discipline of the animal into account? How the animal acts around him, how it acts around YOU?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 01:23 PM
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So you've got a lot more experience in this sense then! Are there any certain signs that you observed that made you feel "this person is good with animals"? And this may be off topic, but what all animals do you have? I was raised a city girl, and my only pet is my family's new kitten. I've only visited a farm a couple of times before, but then again, farms where I'm from and farms elsewhere are pretty different.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 01:19 PM
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That's a good list! Regarding the aggressiveness, don't you think there's actually quite a fine line? I know and have seen actual animal abusing, but then there's roughousing, which is something they do with each other as well. I also think it becomes hard for an uneducated person to differentiate between abuse and play. I guess whether the dog is enjoying it or not becomes the line. I can also think of another one along with your third point. The dog does whatever he wants and doesn't listen to…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 01:12 PM
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There are quite a few things with this, and I'll also be giving one from my personal experience. One, people seem to prefer dogs and cats today because they're easier than children. You don't have to go through the entire labor pains and dealing with newborns; the earliest you can get a dog is eight weeks old. They also grow quicker. If you have a human child you'll have to spend 18 years of your life raising them to be functional human beings, a dog or cat would have died by that time. Two, unc…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 07:18 PM
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Hello from India, I'm turning 18 in two months and I've been lurking on this sub way longer than I've had a reddit account. I really love the advice on this sub, and I find that it fits a lot of my beliefs regarding successful relationships. I'd say I'm currently in monk mode, with no desire for any relationship for the next few years as I spend that time getting amazing grades in college and building my resume to study abroad
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 09:15 AM
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