| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 142 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women | Debate | KyleKingman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 01:12 AM |
| 25 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors? | Question For Men | KyleKingman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 06:35 PM |
| 12 | Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? | Question For Women | KyleKingman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade? | Question For Women | KyleKingman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Why do some women struggle with dating when they don’t have any excuse not to be a perfect dating candidate? | Question For Women | KyleKingman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excuses | Debate | KyleKingman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:53 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025I’m a relatively young man (24) and I actually do care a lot about women’s rights. Because I have a mom, sister and niece. I’m single right now but I still have women in my life that matter to me and I want them to live in a society that makes life better for them. I don’t get anything from it but some things are just bigger than yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:06 AM |
| – | Woman look bio too?The best way to be hot to women on dating apps are the shirtless gym selfies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 09:44 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Rejecting men because they doesn't earn enough is not "shallow"How is anyone supposed to change your opinion on this? It’s just a statement that you feel is true. There’s no evidence that someone can point to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 04:38 PM |
| – | Why is there such a deep discrepancy between the type of man some women says they want, and the type of man they actually engages with?I mean, I’ve heard my own mother have an opinion about a topic and then have the exact opposite opinion about the same topic literally just a few weeks later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 06:27 PM |
| – | Why is there such a deep discrepancy between the type of man some women says they want, and the type of man they actually engages with?I think it’s because women are more emotional than men and have a menstrual cycle. So their opinions on what type of man they like changes all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade?So basically, it sounds like women often times pick partners that look a certain way because they expect a specific outcome based off their appearance. I’m not totally sure but I think that’s why some women say they are more attracted to a dad bod than a guy with a six-pack. The six-pack objectively looks better but there is also a stereotype through media that shows guys like that are often douchebags since they oftentimes see themselves as the prize. Whereas the dad bod guy is more likely to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade?That women care about looks more than personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade?Why do I get downvoted then when I say the obvious fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do women try to keep a non-shallow facade?See in this I acknowledged that men and women are the same. Women don’t only care about looks. But they do care about looks more than personality. But yeah I see what you’re saying, men don’t like to be judged for their looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 03:39 PM |
| -2 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?They are pushing them into the red/black pill I believe. I think all of this red and black pill stuff is mostly men taking things the wrong way. It’s perfectly normal to be angry when you don’t have success in dating, but use that anger to self improve so that you can get what you want, don’t just wallow in your own misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 08:00 PM |
| -11 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?I think women don’t pick these men before they become red or black pilled because they’re just gonna choose who’s the most attractive the only way to increase attractiveness is by the gym and losing weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 07:43 PM |
| 13 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?Yeah women are very cruel when it comes to judging men’s bodies that’s very true. If I had an experience like that I’m not sure how I’d handle it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Men make women miserable. When given the choice, women will always walk away from men and be happily single. Men should realize this and live their lives accordingly.I think this is true. It’s probably best for women not to associate with men but they’re somewhat forced to because we’re half of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 10:46 PM |
| – | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.The bar for men is actually in the clouds. You need to be muscular, have a six pack, make six figures and have a 8+ inch dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | For those who have dated a girl from a different culture before dating someone from your culture. Can you please answer my question..I don’t even like those types of songs that go too extreme anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 04:40 PM |
| – | For those who have dated a girl from a different culture before dating someone from your culture. Can you please answer my question..I wouldn’t say mislead. I never say that I hated or didn’t like those things. They were just topics that weren’t brought up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 04:38 PM |
| – | For those who have dated a girl from a different culture before dating someone from your culture. Can you please answer my question..When I dated a white woman before I was just extra cautious about being overbearing with my culture. I am a black American so I made sure not to play hip-hop or R&B around her for the first couple of months because I waited for her to communicate that she was comfortable with it or until she played it herself. Basically I was trying to leave a good first impression so that I wasn’t negatively stereotyped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 04:32 PM |
| 50 | Online dating really isnt that bad.Yeah only a woman would ever say this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?”It’s not that it’s impossible for attractive guys to be loyal it’s that it’s just more difficult for them because they have more options. So your chances are probably lower but I think this applies to attractive women as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 06:31 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesI also said women don’t need it and listed women who are attractive with small breasts and butts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesYeah I disagreed with them initially but when they called that guy a baby dick that was really gross. He’s already been through mental hell and they just piled on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:24 AM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesNo he didn’t, he said that he was mocked for his size. It could’ve just been used as a way to demean him. And even if he is small, there’s no excuse to continue to pile on and say he has a baby dick. You’re just a simp who makes constant excuses for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:01 AM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesPersonality does matter for sure, everyone can work on that so no excuses to have a bad personality or be a jerk. At least you’ve acknowledge what I was trying to say. Women have it easier in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:00 AM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesWow so you just body shamed him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesHeight and money only matter for men when it comes to attractiveness. Hence why I also named Sabrina Carpenter who’s 5’0. Women don’t need to be tall or rich to be considered a 10, that’s a man’s issue. You’re right about personal trainers and chefs making it easier for her to become fit though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesAll they need is to not be overweight, have nice hair and maybe some good makeup skills really. What does Taylor Swift have that you don’t looks wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:39 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesYes, women have much higher standards than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:31 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesIt’s not that, but being perfect ensures dating will be easy for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:30 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesI feel like if you acknowledge they’re ugly they’re not a 10. But I will acknowledge that men can do things to help themselves however they don’t have the capacity to become perfect in all areas practically or safely. Whereas becoming perfect for women is easier because all they need to do is get in good shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:27 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesThose surgeries are very risky and not practical. Women don’t need surgeries to achieve a 10. That’s why I even named all the women with small breasts and butts that are considered 10s by society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:20 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesThose are averages, that’s not really the point of my post. That’s why I summed it down in the TLDR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:18 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesYeah but in their place it just comes from laziness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:16 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesI’m talking about being the “ideal” those are the standards needed to become the ideal man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:15 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesYes but my point in the TLDR, is that they’ll never be considered a 10 or an “elite” man. Everything women need to become a 10 is achievable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:10 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesNice karma farming comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:05 PM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesWhat if you’re under 6 feet and have a dick under 7 inches. Those guys will always struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | UNPOPULAR OPINION: MEN REACH THEIR PEAK BETWEEN LATE TEENS TO EARLY 20S, JUST LIKE WOMENYes but that’s rare. Also I said 40 year olds are old fat losers COMPARED to their 20s selves. Even 40 year olds that look good don’t look as good as they did in their 20s. That’s important to note. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | UNPOPULAR OPINION: MEN REACH THEIR PEAK BETWEEN LATE TEENS TO EARLY 20S, JUST LIKE WOMENThat’s true actually. Combat sports it doesn’t matter as much. I think mentally people also slow down though because even positions like quarterback which aren’t physically demanding they struggle, something weird happens to the body when you turn 35 I don’t get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 12:01 PM |
| 3 | UNPOPULAR OPINION: MEN REACH THEIR PEAK BETWEEN LATE TEENS TO EARLY 20S, JUST LIKE WOMENI agree. This is the physical/biological peak, which is why when you see athletes. Early 30s is when they begin to decline. By the time you’re 40 you’re essentially an old fat loser compared to your 20s self. Unless you’re LeBron James. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 11:45 AM |
| – | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...I agree. I’ve always felt men and women are the same. They both care about looks more than behavior for the most part. Not that looks are everything but they matter more. I do think women care less about looks as they get older mainly because they have fewer options. But when they’re young they’re just like men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:11 PM |
| – | “Women are wonderful” effect…You’re right, you shouldn’t expect women to be a source of pain and suffering. It’s best to view them as an inherent neutral. Women are not wonderful however they’re not evil either. They’re a neutral and you should expect nothing from interactions with them be it positive or negative. Once you view them as a neutral you’ll possibly have more positive interactions. View women as the same as you view men. Who tf cares what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 02:26 AM |
| 2 | There are enough single men that women never have to beg for orgasm.I think because less of them are single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 07:23 PM |
| 0 | There are enough single men that women never have to beg for orgasm.It’s not that far from the truth with dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 04:38 PM |
| -1 | Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women?That’s not what I was getting at at all. I was saying women are more logical than many think because they’re willing to divorce men so easily. It was a neutral comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:45 PM |
| -3 | Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women?I think it also has to do with women having higher expectations for visuals than men who are willing to settle for less sometimes. Women are more selective with who they match than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 05:23 PM |
| -1 | Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women?It’s from online dating statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 05:22 PM |
| -1 | Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women?Which means we’re both visual. Thats my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 05:16 PM |
| -5 | Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women?Women find 80% of men unattractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 05:09 PM |
| – | Attractiveness is more than just a number on a rating scaleAttractiveness just allows you to have a first impression. After that it’s all about the type of person you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 08:24 AM |
| – | Women are less of liers than expected but still have a long way to go. Only 45% of PPD women lie about loving their partners.What does PPD mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:13 AM |
| 12 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?Yeah I don’t really care if they do. I don’t watch porn but that’s their business, better than cheating on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:43 PM |
| – | Am I Wrong for getting stuck in my Boyfriend's Past?No you aren’t wrong. Leave him, he’s for the streets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 12:33 PM |
| 10 | The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards.I wish the anti-woke crowd would do that but too many times I see them try to argue that systemic racism doesn’t exist anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:07 PM |
| 7 | The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards.The problem with acting like color doesn’t exist is that you cannot fix systemic issues because you won’t acknowledge that they’re real. You can acknowledge color exists without being racist. Not acknowledging it is living in fantasyland. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 03:03 PM |
| 13 | The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards.Agreed, being anti-woke is being asleep. It’s also a key word for “I’m a racist white person, who is uncomfortable with minorities getting rights and equal treatment.” Stay away from anyone who says they’re anti woke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenIt’s mostly the latter. I don’t have relationship experience but this is what I’ve heard scrolling through reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenThey chase women because of their hormones, not because it’s a logical decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenElaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:07 AM |
| 4 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenYou’re basically agreeing with me that men work harder in relationships and dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:06 AM |
| 4 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenEvery woman has 5+ men courting her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 05:05 AM |
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