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To follow your argument, if fatherhood is merely a social construct then there's no reason to be mad if your wife gets impregnated by another man and passes the child off as your own. That guy is not the father, you are. And therefore there is no point of doing paternity tests ever. It all evens out in the end, some guy raises your abandoned bastard, you raise some other guy's kid, it all works out just fine. Like cuckoo birds. Men can be like cuckoo birds 🐦 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:47 AM
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Same goes for men 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:26 PM
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Yes, it's a huge problem that so many women have to raise their children on their own due to absent fathers. I wonder how come girls raised by single mothers don't go around shooting people, hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:20 AM
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Yep! Find their absent fathers and put the boys in their custody. Then the boys will have a paternal rolemodel 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:18 AM
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Yes, absent fathers are the root cause of this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:17 AM
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At least I hope she made money from the TikTok views? Otherwise nah...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:18 PM
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Oh, the title made it sound like Rihanna was the one dumped for cheating. 🤔 Since ASAP is the actual name of the dude 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:16 PM
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This is such a scary case and the details are so gruesome, it's inconceivable that a father could do that to his children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:15 PM
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Waiting for the other shoe to drop is a trauma response. Not surprising considering the amount of garbage women have to wade through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:12 PM
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Where can I see this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:38 AM
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Don't let them win! Do your thing, continue sharing your passion with other women and putting out content that you love! No scrote should dim your light!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 12:18 AM
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Because the good ones are so few that the odds are like winning the lottery 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:31 PM
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It's so sociopathic of him to identify with the abusers and feel contempt for the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:30 PM
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My reply to this loser: Psychologically, it's because you have no empathy and see vulnerability/ past mistakes as worthy of contempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:29 PM
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A good compromise is when both sides are happy with the deal, not when neither of them is! 🤪 Male logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:52 AM
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Probably an underlying self-limiting belief like "I am not loveable, I am not good enough" which she tries to fulfill by seeking the love and validation of different guys. The key to healing is self-love, that is what she truly needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:19 AM
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But they don't have to go gay, they can also service any woman who'd like some extra action. If that means giving some attention to an old lady who wants to feel young again, it's also good. It's just honest work 😌👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:52 AM
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Indeed, thank you for sharing this story. It's also why many serial killers make their debut with sex workers, society and police overlooks these women as if they were worth less than other human beings. They get literally killed and nobody bothers to investigate what happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:49 AM
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It is okay for all men to watch porn, but it isn't okay for any women to be in porn. Trying to understand male logic is like trying to make sense of division by zero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:44 AM
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Even if he buys her new palettes, it's still money coming out of their budget that could have been used on something else. Also the waste of product is not good for the environment. It's just sad to see all that high end makeup end up like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 08:50 AM
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Good point about opening them! It's not so easy for small kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 08:47 AM
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Yeah, she's already subsidized a good chunk of his mortgage already over nearly a decade!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:12 PM
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Woman expects $70 dollar dinner = golddigger Man demands $140k to pay off his mortgage = financially savvy guy who helps you invest in real estate 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:09 PM
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Boyfriend wants what?????? Does he want some fries with that too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:04 PM
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I can confirm regarding vulnerability. Once I was walking down the university alley and crying and some older guy said he's studying there too and invited me to his car. I walked away but that was so creepy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:27 PM
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Uhm, won't that leave stains on pillows and bedding? I need an explanation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 11:45 AM
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I admire her kindness, empathy and good heart. She is an angel on earth. Sadly, women like her are like pearl before swine. Men do not deserve any of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:04 PM
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Golddigger alert! It's his moral duty and responsibility to take care of his family. It's a blessing to have a family, which he should infinitely appreciate and be ready to give his life for, if needed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:55 PM
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There is another article mentioning that there were many reports of men offering housing only to women. Fortunately most women turned down the offers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:57 PM
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Why just chemical? 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:56 PM
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You are NOT responsible in any way for what he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:58 AM
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Have you checked out the NarcissisticAbuse subreddit? I think you may find a lot of support there too, many are talking about the unbearable pain of breaking the trauma bond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 09:50 PM
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Haha, the golddigger played himself! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:12 AM
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The worst part is that she has to share custody with that freak! Ladies, never marry men who are mentally ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:13 PM
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Why??? That's horrific! Women prisoners deserve good health care too! Nobody needs a psycho as their doctor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 06:38 AM
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Where did you find this info? Did she speak out about what happened? Just curious 🤔 I was real surprised when I heard of their divorce since Bill had this real clean, nerdy image.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:58 PM
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Especially when it's convenient to be...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:09 AM
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Yes, 22k in 4.5 years is a bit under 5k a year. Okay, I did the math, she put away $400 a month. Cheap bastard. He didn't want her to even have that, he wanted her to have exactly 0, which now he achieved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:04 AM
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That's not an age gap, that's an age abyss, a gaping black hole. 50 years??? 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:47 PM
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The amount of men I've seen joking like "I can host some hot Ukrainian refugees, send them to me", "we'll be drowning in Ukrainian women" etc is just repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:38 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Many busy couples use such at home kits, no need to have actual intercourse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:31 PM
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Yeah, nothing traditional in sleeping with your wife's sister, wtf. What she means is "natural insemination". Even if they wanted to go the sister route (which isn't great, too problematic), there are insemination kits for at home use. He has no need to ever lay a hand on her. Oh, these depraved fetishists...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:29 PM
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Thank you for saying this. It made me understand a certain situation in my past. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:31 PM
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You don't deserve to be with someone who disrespects you so blatantly to your face by "cursing you out". That's scary and very worrying. Please please 🙏 dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:24 PM
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Dump him. He's dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:49 PM
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That she's even asking shows the state of dating in 2022. It's absolutely pathetic that he scoffed at paying $2 for a cup of tea, gimme a break. It's so pathetic there are no words. What a waste of time for her to post that and for us to read and comment on it. This kind of individual deserves no second thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:48 PM
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How is not Olympic Gold Medalist #1 on any list??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:23 AM
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I'd use a glove, but this is 100% fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:22 AM
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That's what happens when you're so beaten down by society that you can't see how your bf is abusing you. With that face he should be happy he's been given the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:20 AM
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That's unhinged of him to do. Please never open the door if you're not expecting a visitor. It puts your safety at risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:39 AM
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I understand. It just strikes me as something a copywriter would write, especially the last paragraph. I don't think it's genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:23 AM
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I hate to say it but I think she's just happy he showed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:21 AM
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Many companies pay for reddit posts that are just ads in disguise. This is one such example. Nobody talks like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:45 AM
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If you remember her name, look her up and reach out to her. She HAS to know about this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:54 PM
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He insulted her job right off the bat? Invited her to a cheap restaurant for a date? And did not apologize? Well, no wonder he's still single!! 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:26 AM
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This reply is for sure a deal-breaker. Good for dumping him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:16 AM
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To call it a losing game is an understatement. There's the average douche and then there's the N, which is orders of magnitude worse. With covert narcissists you never really know how deep their well of poison is. They are consummate manipulators and know how to hide the depth of their depravity. Don't walk away, run for dear life. You'll regret it if you stick around. Disengage completely from this kind of person, they bring nothing good to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:17 AM
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Oh boy, what's next, asking her out to shovel horseshit from the stables? Pull weeds in the garden? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:05 AM
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It's no loss for women that these creeps are boycotting marriage. On the contrary, who wants to be subservient to a rapist? What the hell do they bring to the table anyway? Boycotting marriage, bïtch please, not even the elevator wants to leave with you 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 09:46 AM
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What's with the hair curtain? Did his wig fall on his jaw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 09:30 AM
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Hahahaha I died! My ghost is typing this 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:26 PM
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👏👏👏👏 Exactly. With how they admire each other you'd think they'd date each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:23 PM
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She's helped him and his daughter a lot financially, the least he can do is show gratitude. It's just a cake or a dinner that she wanted, how much can that be anyway? Not like she wanted an airplane. Again, she helped out financially. The fair thing to do is to show that he's there for her. She asked for something really small compared to all the money she poured into his household. It was fine to accept her money to pay bills but when she asks for a nice gesture once a year, she's told to pay h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:12 PM
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Because being heterosexual is not a choice, otherwise we'd gladly switch teams RIGHT NOW. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:02 PM
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Temporal black hole? Age abyss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:06 PM
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This is so scary, please stay safe and never be alone with this freak. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 09:29 AM
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It's not like he's planning a wedding either. Just pick a location/activity, make a booking, how hard can it be? I'm sure he can plan for a job interview or an exam. So why not for a date? It's just as important 😌 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:52 AM
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Ahahaha "smooth-brained hedonist"!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:50 AM
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Manipulation. Next! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:48 AM
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As I understand this, he wanted to stay and tried to, but on his terms. It's not that he didn't like you, it's that he wanted you to fit into his plans of what a connection should be. Hear me out: you asked if he wants a relationship but he says no but maybe next year. What if you hadn't asked? Then he would have "played by ear". He still left the door open and tried to string you along with false hope. Maybe he can try, maybe he can feel ready, maybe not yet, or maybe now he's willing to work o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:29 PM
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Not that I am diagnosing anyone, but your situation reminds me of me and this guy who was also "nice", told me sob stories about his struggles, admitted himself I am much better than him. He also lived with his parents in his late twenties, working a crappy job, with no clear future plans. Like you, I tried to help him, nurture him and was really in love with his potential. I now strongly suspect my guy was a covert narcissist who manipulated me. You mention in other posts that you had too much …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:47 AM
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Love your username! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:02 AM
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Reminds me of that abhorrent interview with SIR David Attenbourough who is in the same situation after his wife died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:13 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience. Please don't be hard on yourself, we've all done something like this at some point, that's why we are here. 🤗 Back then we didn't know our worth. Now we know better and we do better. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:43 AM
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puts on scientist's attire The attached chart illustrates a positive reinforcement system in the form of assigned rewards for desirable behavior. For each task there is an associated reward that is chosen based on the individual's interests. This technique is very effective in educational accomodations for students with special needs or other developmental difficulties. I therefore suspect that her husband is either: 1) mentally challenged; 2) pathologically lazy and having the maturity level of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:11 AM
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Good catch! 👍 In both situations the word "family" is used to emotionally manipulate you and extract maximum value from you for minimum reward. This analogy illustrated perfectly how sacred words like "family", "love", "respect" become weapons in the hands of exploitative people. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:34 PM
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I have heard it exactly once from a dude I was getting to know. Our female friend saw on social media that I went out with him and she bragged in my earshot that he was at her house drinking and sleeping there, waking her up by playing the guitar. When I confronted him he said that she's just like his sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:39 PM
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What a piece of garbage he was. He's an insult to humanity, I am so sorry you met someone like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:39 AM
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International Man's Day? Isn't that... every day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:01 PM
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I wish to reach that enormous feeling of confidence someday. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 10:09 PM
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Thank you. I will tattoo this in my brain so I can remember it 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:47 AM
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Speaking from my own bitter, personal experience: emotional abuse in childhood. Trauma. The emotional side always overrides rationality in these situations. In plain terms, she doesn't know her own worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:51 AM
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Heterosexual, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:02 AM
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One can also scratch or dig nails into their hand. But in this fictional story, the dude enjoys every moment of it so ofc, he lets it happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:44 PM
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Sounds like a BS creative writing exercise, especially the part where she insults the group of people at the table next to them with zero worries. Who dares to provoke a whole group and be so brash? It's like a bad movie scene. Also Pakistan and India are different countries, so him saying "insulting my countrymen" doesn't check out to me. Someone so racist would not go on a date with a POC in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:40 PM
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"You've done pretty well for yourself, for someone who is born in small town X now working in big city Y" At the time I took it as a compliment, but now I have second thoughts...was it negging? "What is your opinion about morality?" Right after inquiring about my immigration status. WTF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:48 AM
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Or forward to his mother, someone whose opinion he cares about. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:21 AM
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He's a sick puppy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:21 AM
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Save the evidence for when you have the energy to handle this. It is never too late to f him over for this. Until then take care of yourself ❤ you come first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:20 AM
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I think you meant "stan", funny typo! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:33 PM
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Absolutely a narc, the text reeks of playing the victim. It's all "I" "me" "my", the letter is all about herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 06:40 PM
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I'm no expert but I sadly have experienced narcissists in my life. One is my mother, who is a malignant narcissist. She has always professed to love and respect me, she is convinced of it, despite her abusing me and treating me like dirt. My understanding is that she genuinely believes it 100%, it's perhaps the closest thing she experiences to maternal love. It's not what it's supposed to be, but there's a feeling there. It's more engulfing, like I am an extension of her, like I am part of her. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 05:50 AM
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I'm sorry you were treated like that. You deserve better. All of us deserve better. That guy sounds like a narc of some sort. Taking pleasure in hurting someone, using them, power moves, it's their signature. I've come to believe that there's the average douche, and then there are the narcissists of this world, most of which are men and part of which are covert (aka not at all the pompous, braggadocious kinda guy you imagine when hearing the word narcissist). They can hold up a facade for YEARS …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 05:43 AM
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That's so wild that so many would react like that. Not even prude shaming you, but jumping straight to assuming r@pe. What the hell happened to this society that this kind of thinking is so prevalent? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 05:17 AM
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It's damn awkward as hell because if he is literally my employee working on my property how am I supposed to know if he even likes me or is just trying to be polite? Or worse, that he feels obliged to date me so that he doesn't lose a well-paid gig. I'd feel like a creep hitting on a guy in those circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 05:06 PM
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Damn. I know that Britney has been in a hostage situation all these years, so it could be that's why she bonded with her personal trainer but I hope she has the wherewithal to dump him. I want her to do whatever the hell she wants, ofc. But it'd be great if she could date some rich guy, someone that is financially a peer, where you don't have to worry about him playing the long game for a monthly allowance. He could still be trash ofc, but at least he wouldn't be a golddigger. That would be new …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:37 PM
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Ew. Thank you for including the kitties at the end. I needed to rinse my eyes after seeing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:23 PM
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Ugh, can't imagine a 42 year old speaking about me in that way (the part where he says he hopes it lats another 2-3 years). He should be grateful she gave him the time of day. He should be kissing the ground she walks on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:07 AM
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Exhibit A: my woman doing my personal hygiene, being literally at my feet while I look down on her like a deity Exhibit B: my woman carrying my child 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:03 AM
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I sadly don't have any legal or life advice to contribute, but I just wanted to say how happy I am that we have this space where we can help each other strategize and get out of bad situations. Our female ancestors didn't have the opportunity to gather and ally together, but we can and we are doing it! We should have more of these kinds of posts where we use our hive mind and life experiences to help each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:55 PM
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I cackled. 😆 Thank you. I needed that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:01 AM
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You responded to her perfectly. 🥰 Great job, queen! takes notes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:35 PM
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I am convinced that I also met one of those covert narcissists, despite having had a malignant narcissist as a parent. It's so insidious, isn't it? Chilling how they pretend to be so kind, sweet and caring, while all the time they are just collecting information about you, learning what makes you tick and mirroring you so that they can get under your skin. One good thing about our malignant narc parents is that you can recognize their sadistic, empathy-free ways from a mile away and you can deci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:45 AM
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Wishful thinking on their part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:51 AM
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"Captain" refers to the guy being the boss in the relationship, the leader for "his" woman 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:48 AM
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Sad but true. 😆 I am guilty of having thought that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:34 AM
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Good!!! Every abused woman should do that. Fight fire with fire! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:24 AM
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Ah, the rage bubbling inside of me thinking about how we are socialized to be this way as women. You've provided thousands of dollars in value, sister! Academic writing services are soo expensive, therapy is soo expensive, career help is invaluable because it can literally change your life by putting you on the right track. To think that we provide all of this ➕ being able to give them a lineage and uphold their status in society. And some men still think they are the prize, haha, give me a brea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:18 AM
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Even if he phrases it as a joke, the fact that he utters such a statement shows that deep down he believes it on some level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:56 PM
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This is my experience too. It was most scary being 13-18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:17 PM
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Which one? 🤣 Too many cases...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:14 PM
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Thank you for posting this, it is really terrifying to read about but extremely important to have awareness. I think this should even be its own post, if you ever have the time to go deeper into these issues and red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:06 AM
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Jessica Simpson's book tells it all. He used to break up with her and then take her back just to get material for his songs. It was so revolting..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:36 AM
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Yes, boy, the vagina is really close to the anus. That's where you came from, that's literally how you came into this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:59 AM
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Your comment is proof that mEn gEt AbUsEd too!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:42 AM
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Can you please dm me the website 🙏 I wanna see new depths of male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:28 PM
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Wow. Damn. Which one of her books should I read first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:27 PM
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Right. Like the r.pist in Sweden who was recently awarded $98k in compensation because he could prove that he was "only 15" at the time of committing the attacks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:59 PM
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I'm proud to say I have been here since September 2019 (lurking, reading, learning, growing and re-evaluating my experiences as a woman).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:13 AM
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It was banned because of misandry. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:12 AM
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He sounds really childish, whiny and exhausting. You correctly identified his manipulation, that's awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:27 AM
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Do you know how to identify them, how to tell the difference between someone genuinely shy and with low confidence vs a covert narc?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:53 PM
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Amazing idea, I will be tuning in for each episode!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 12:13 AM
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... Can it be any more obvious? It's as clear as day what's going on: either he's doing something to his daughter or he is fantasizing about it and hasn't followed through yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:03 PM
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They protect their gfs the same way they would protect their house, their car or any other piece of property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:36 PM
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I fully agree with your post, well said! I was always baffled by why someone so gorgeous, rich, successful, famous and young as Britney was back then, would resort to asking out some loser and proposing to him. In this interview they even say that first he wasn't sure and didn't say yes immediately. I still can't wrap my head around why that thought of making the first move and proposing would even cross her mind. Especially when she could have picked anyone she wanted, or someone on her financi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:34 PM
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Hahahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:05 AM
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Omg, yes! You are so right! I never saw it that way! But yes, by that logic, if 25+ is old and we live to at least 80, then we basically spend most of our lives being old 😆😆🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:39 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story! Solid advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:55 AM
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Just a word of warning: iodine works fine for totally healthy people, but it will aggravate low thyroid function if it is caused by Hashimoto (autoimmune condition) and I think it even should be avoided if you have Graves disease. So insist and find a doctor to test you for anti-thyroid antibodies and other conditions before you take iodine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:15 PM
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Thank you 😊 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:34 AM
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Wow, what a POS. Good riddance!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:26 AM
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Vomit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:18 AM
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Yes, sister. I've been there done that too. It's heartbreaking to think how little I could be happy with..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:55 AM
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Does anyone else think Sailor Moon has such a wholesome feminist message? The theme of female superheroes fighting bravely together, supporting each other in this important mission, it's so amazing right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:42 AM
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He hates having to prove his worth and pretending he has anything to offer. He just wants to reap all the benefits of being with a woman straight away. It doesn't matter which one, any warm body will do. I don't want to go to job interviews. I just wanna get the job right away. Preferably as CEO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:01 AM
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Love to see that some of us are into astrology! I also love astrology as a tool for self-knowledge, it's too bad many people write it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:09 AM
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Quick way to start is to get in touch with translation agencies and have a LinkedIn profile. It's a tough market though, lots of hacks doing it on the cheap and clients who don't want to spend on translation. I don't recommend getting into this field, but I am sure some people can make it work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:05 PM
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Or if they know we don't have family near, they might assume we are lonely and vulnerable around a major holiday, so we'd be more likely to entertain them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:15 AM
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Oh yes! I get regular FB friend requests and messages from strangemen in less developed countries. RE-Gu-Lar. Each time I comment on something it is a given that strangers will try to make contact. They are probably trying to hook their claws into someone with my citizenship and move here. Men are the biggest golddiggers, I never had any doubts. Imagine trying to connect with a complete stranger online and build a bullshit relationship only for money and citizenship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:52 AM
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They also say that the guard fortunately took action in time and helped her out. He wouldn't have had to heroically retrieve her from under the train if he had reacted to the harassment and yelled at those sociopaths to leave the girls alone!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:13 AM
8

Right, sorry about that! I need to remember to use the correct term!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:18 AM
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That's hysterical. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:40 AM
16

This is so disgusting and infuriating... what's next? Wiping his ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:37 AM
13

That's one gorgeous rock! 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:35 AM
9

I'd feel the same way, it's not cute at all to be addressed that way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:59 AM
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Thank you for the book recommendation, I am really curious to read Men who can't love, the reviews sound great! You have a great point: we should acknowledge that men who aren't good in relationships have their own issues, which women aren't responsible for. I totally agree with that. That is completely on them: the lack of empathy, the take-and-take attitude. However, as I understand the book Women who love too much, the main idea is that some women get caught up in these bad relationships beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:17 AM
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If she really loves cleaning and working for free, that's great! But why not use those skills to help 🤔 disabled women, single mothers or older women who struggle? Oh that's right. Because they don't have a penis. So she doesn't have to give unsolicited free labour, they aren't worth that. But this male totally deserves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:29 PM
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Ho boy, they should scan the brain of a narcissist looking at people around him 😆 "no humans detected on my radar, only objects to be used and thrown away"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:54 AM
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That's also a big factor, in my opinion. You need emotional connection and intimacy doubly more than anyone else in order to relax and enjoy that experience. None of those guys would have made the cut, just based on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:07 AM
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If that doesn't scream "she deserved it"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:35 AM
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You'd think he'd own a house at the ripe age of 37, given that he has been living in a patriarchal system that benefits him at every step. Where is gonna take the trad wife and 4 kids? He'd need a big ass house for all of them to live comfortably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:31 AM
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He's been riding the pu$$y carousel for more than a decade and now he wants a traditional wife?? What does he offer? Nothing, apparently. All he has is: goals, expectations and a lot of audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:29 AM
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I mean, yeah, sadly that's part of the maladaptive mechanism. Martyrdom, giving your all, self-sacrifice beyond anything that is reasonable...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:26 AM
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Wow, he's amazing! Thank you for the tip! He really breaks it down in a way that makes it so obvious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:42 AM
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Would you please share more about what it is like to date the tortured artist type, if it's not painful for you? I am ashamed to say that I have been attracted to that type before, but I never got to see what they are like because they wouldn't "pick me" 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:20 PM
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No, I don't think you want to. What has been seen cannot be unseen 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:03 PM
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In your original post, you said "females", but then "guys". You meant to say "women", I guess. Therapists are not all-knowing, but we rely on them to help us make sense of our traumas in our most vulnerable moments. I think we should be really selective and careful with who he choose, they are in a position to do a lot of damage. I think that many therapists have the immediate impulse to say: "well why don't you see it in this way" or "what about his perspective". That's pure gaslighting. You ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:58 PM
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Codependency at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:53 PM
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Stronger - Britney Spears I dont need a man - Pussycat Dolls The power - H-Blockx Unstoppable - Sia The Greatest - Sia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:53 AM
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The list is so damn long, it's terrifying! You just scroll and scroll and it never ends. All those young, loving women taken away in such brutal, indignity. All those families destroyed. Some had children that won't grow up with their mother, others had their whole life ahead of them and so many dreams, so much potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:18 AM
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On detecting lies: "Lies are easy to spot too. If it doesn’t add up or seems to be too good to be true, it likely is."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:18 PM
15

Quote showcasing female socialization to be nice: "We were 20 minutes in and I knew this wasn’t ever going to be a match but I always like to give people an hour. I wish I hadn’t now. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:17 PM
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You can have whatever opinion you want. Side eye me all you want, I don't care. Service workers should be smart enough to make less confrontational and invasive small talk. Asking about your political views isn't small talk. Asking about your nationality and ethnic origins should be off topic. Asking about where you work and your job title should not be part of small talk. Trying to argue about delicate issues isn't small talk. Questioning you for being in the US is not small talk. These people …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:49 AM
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Well done for ignoring him! That is such an invasive question and really none of his business! I will certainly simply ignore nosy people like this when they ask too much. They don't need to know your country of origin, why you came to this country, where you are going, where you work etc. That is really so unwanted and problematic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:17 PM
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A question like "where are you from" is really not welcome, especially as a starter. We are tired of explaining ourselves during our whole lives to every stranger about our origins and how we came to be in a certain country. It is exhausting and none of their business. Not replying may be rude, but they were rude first - by asking stuff that is none of their business!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:14 PM
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There are a lot of Nvm and Lvm in academia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:57 PM
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50k???? Damn, what a racket! Ain't no dick out there worth 50k 😂😂😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:53 PM
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"I was forced to lie in my resume because if I were to say that I lack the qualifications they are looking for in a candidate, I wouldn't get the job. I can't say the truth because the unfair employer will ignore me. The fact that I want the job qualifies me for it. I should have it because I want it. I deserve it because I decided so. Why is life so hard?" Robert clearly knows what he wants: sex. Only that and nothing more. In his selfish mind, he wants his needs met and can't care less about w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:07 AM
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Did you try using your customer service voice? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:23 AM
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Whack-an-a-hole 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:15 AM
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It's great that you reported him, but LinkedIn won't do anything (ask me how I know.. the number of losers I reported and I always get an email saying they broke no rules) 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:14 AM
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Well said! Isn't the male form "wizard"? Not offensive at all, in fact, it is a compliment 🤔 Funny how that works 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:40 AM
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I am not surprised to hear this. As much as a toxic NPD parent can be damaging to your self-esteem, there is one silver lining. They are keenly attuned to what is convenient for themselves and are incredibly assertive. They also smell bullshit and manipulation a mile away. If you want a good example of how to be a woman acting in her own self-interest and having rock solid boundaries, observe your N parent. (I'm not saying copy their lack of empathy or any other pathological things) My Nmom's vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:58 AM
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Y'know, being dumped FIVE times is an awful lot of disrespect. Surely from all the men on this planet you can give a new one a chance? Or simply be single for a while, anything is better than disrespect. Aren't you angry at him for doing for doing this over and over? Connect with that anger, feel it and listen to it. Anger protects your self-interest, anger wants what is best for you, anger tells you that you've been wronged. What will help you reject him now and until the end of time is choosin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:57 AM
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Your mom is that way and you cannot change her, just remember it's not your fault. She probably carries her own pain and unhealed trauma that she expresses through abuse. It's normal to hope she would be different, that's what every abused child has to grieve and overcome. Someday you will move on from this stage in your life and heal, surrounded by your new family and loving friends ❤ stay strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:47 AM
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I know the feeling, I've done the exact same thing. I also tried to take back a gf who ghosted for 4 months and she went back to her usual selfish behavior. They don't change, they don't learn anything and they don't appreciate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:43 AM
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I mean, yeah, your time is valuable and if they are 1) liars, 2) below your minimum criteria, that's a reason to abort mission immediately. I'd just set an alarm 20mins into the date, if they are too short I'd excuse myself saying something came up and I would leave. Once I met up with a guy who added a whole 4inches to his height (that's 10cm for European queens) 😆😆😆 Imagine my shock when he's my exact height!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:39 AM
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You are totally reasonable and you were already outrageously kind to give her another chance after her ghosting you for such a long time. She seems very self-orientated and doesn't provide any value in the friendship. So I suggest you let her go without any trace of doubt or regret. You'll make space for people that deserve you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:28 AM
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Ugh. He is: 1) a piece of shit devoid of empathy 2) not worth being called father 3) a bad husband 4) perving after a 20 year old 5) perving after his half brother's partner 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:24 AM
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Yeah, if he were a good father he would bending himself backwards trying to alleviate her discomfort and pain. He'd be literally waiting on her hand and foot trying to figure out ways to help out and make these weeks more bearable for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:21 AM
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He says that he's been sheltered in his early 20s, which gives me pause. I wouldn't blame someone who was sheltered as a teen because as a minor you have no choice. However, as a young man in your 20s there is nothing stopping you from moving out and becoming independent from your parents. So he's already playing the victim and placing blame on someone else. If he wanted to party and have fun, he could have stood up to his parents or moved out/decided for himself. Not seeing one's role in that s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:45 AM
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You're welcome, sis! It's thanks to all the wise women here that I improved my self-worth and understood so much about life and men. FDS helped me a lot, I am happy to be able to help whenever I can! I forgot to mention one more horrible red flag: he gave her the silent treatment🚩 after she expressed disagreement. This is literally emotional abuse and a sign of immaturity, inability to communicate and dealing with disagreements. It's awful to be with someone who behaves like that. And it won't g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:22 AM
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It's not good. This is an LVM. I understand that you saw some positive qualities in him, but there's a lot of negative stuff too: 1) he doesn't know how to/dare to turn the situation romantic and go beyond the platonic level. This is someone insecure, doesn't want to get his feelings hurt by risking rejection so he lets things drag on and fizzle out. A man with even an ounce of confidence and common sense would try different ways to move the relationship to a romantic level (flowers, a kiss on t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:38 PM
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At least he didn't have to pretend he's stupid, cause he really is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:52 AM
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So the logical, rational response to being lied to about owing no less than 100k, of nothing other than child support, is to immediately combine finances with that individual? Not divorce? Not an annulment? That is such horrible advice. You know they wouldn't suggest that to a man if the woman had student loan debt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:51 AM
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Wow, he did what?? I don't even know what to say!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:48 AM
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"Should I confront him about it?" Should she????? Confront him?? About him physically hurting her body?????? Ya think she should??? I'm not the most assertive person in the world either (though I am working on it), but what the hell? When did women become so feeble and subdued? When did girls lose touch with their intuition and common sense? When did it become okay for a man to do whatever the fuck he wants to your body? Since when do you need to poll strangers' opinions online to get confirmati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:31 AM
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Put it on the top of your list, sis! It's a very good book and a must-read for women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:09 AM
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The Gift of Fear is a book explaining why we need to listen to our fear and our gut feeling if we want to avoid dangerous situations. Our mind subconsciously picks up on things that are warning signs and we will feel uneasy in a certain situation or with a certain person before we can articulate why we feel that way. The book emphasizes the importance of being in touch with that feeling because it is our survival instinct kicking in. The author also describes many ways in which predators try to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:08 AM
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I agree. There's something off about her reaction and about the fact she keeps in touch. As a woman if I knew that I was involved in this kind of situation, that the guy did something so heinous to be with me, I would be horrified, traumatized! To think that even if I didn't know or expect or imagine it, that my affair led do something so reprehensible... it's unfathomable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:29 AM
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Yes, Shannan's parents had had enough deaths around them and opposed the death sentence. The worst part of him being in jail is that he can continue to talk shit like "he is still a dad" and other infuriating nonsense to get attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:19 AM
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I can believe that she said that but it's factually incorrect. Cindy Watts openly defends him and she has always disliked Shannan. If anything, their relationship is unhealthy, emotionally incestuous and messed up, but not bad in the sense of her being disapproving or unsupportive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:16 AM
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Yeah, I see things in the same way. She was driven, outspoken and active, she was pursuing her goals and she knew what she wanted. Meanwhile he was passive, weak-minded, lacking in drive and ambition. Of course she had no choice other than to take control and lead. What else can one do? Watch everything fall apart, while nothing gets done and life passes you by? That's what happens when your partner lacks initiative and energy. Someone has to make sure that the household is being maintained etc.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:13 AM
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Chris was a stranger to her. He sent her a FB friend request which she ignored several times until she finally gave him a chance. At the time he approached she was sick with an autoimmune condition flaring up and she was vulnerable. Chris' parents didn't even attend the wedding; they didn't like her. When they got together he was out of shape and probably insecure in his masculinity. However, once he got in shape and found a new passion in his mistress, he was ready to dispose of his family. Als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:06 AM
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She's clearly a doormat to him, that's why he knows he can get away with this. If this were an assertive woman that stands up for her child, he'd know and be afraid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:31 AM
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Yeah, I'd fucking drop him off a cliff! Scary how this mom's maternal instinct is blinded by love for this trash husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:26 AM
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Basically, she should be selfish but only in ways that benefit cheating men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:25 AM
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The video linked above in which he chastised the woman who sent the letter to a married man is such a great illustration of micro facial expressions. It's like a crash course in reading a person's face! If you care to watch the first 2 minutes, his face is like a poem. He tries to hold back his visceral reaction, but you can see the anger instantly welling up as his face gets tense. His brow furrows, he covers his mouth trying to hide his disbelief and disapproval. He tries to hold back the abso…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:20 AM
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That is awful! I commented the exact same thing above: if the guy really loves you, he would make sure you are protected in case anything happens to him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:46 AM
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This "marriage is just a piece of paper" phrase is such raging bullshit! 😤 it's said to mean "his love for me is so huge, it doesn't need the validation of a paper". If his love were so huge, he'd not want to risk to leave you in the street if something happened to him! What would happen in her case if he hadn't kicked her out, but simply died? Maybe some other relatives would have rights to inherit the house. They could sell the children's home from right under them and there's nothing she coul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:42 AM
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It really sounds like you should read the book "women who love too much", it is written by a woman in a really compassionate way and it will shed light on such relationship patterns. I understood a lot about myself by reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:33 AM
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The logical gender strikes again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:53 PM
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Yeah... good observation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:53 PM
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This form of gaslighting is so irritating and insidious it makes me want to flip a table over! The woman doesn't like it, she's not into it, she doesn't want to. It's her right to decide and say no. He can find a kinkmeisha that would enjoy it. So tired of society telling us what is okay to feel! If a woman wants to be vanilla or celibate or whatever the hell she wants, that's her right and nobody should have anything to comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:43 PM
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Being busy is such horseshit. As if these dudes are doing anything important. Haha. Queens, take it from a workaholic freak like me (I literally used to be that person who would book work and activities all day and be totally exhausted in the evenings), even then I would text back many times throughout the day or call the people I care about. It's only natural to keep in touch and share your thoughts with others. He is not busy. He's just a self-aggrandizing, pompous, lying douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:42 AM
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Perfect moment to quip back: "wow, that's awesome! You are also in my top 15 🥰🥰"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:37 AM
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Age is just a number, jail is just a place... 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:25 AM
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You know, when I think of all of the problems on this planet, I feel sad. But when I hear about men who are horny but can't get laid, gosh, it just breaks my heart! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:36 AM
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Aren't women lining up in front of the house to get a chance to satisfy his needs?? How stuck up of them!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:34 AM
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Yes, I can confirm, that's a key phrase that they use. It's right out of their textbook, lol. They are so transparent and easy to spot. Also, zero empathy for women's struggles and what thsy go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:29 AM
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I listened the first link already, damn that was creepy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:19 AM
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He is just extracting attention and ego stroking from her. How degrading and sad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:55 PM
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We believe you, we know what men are like. Chances are, we've experienced something similar or had a friend who did. Tw: rape During the past years as I got closer to my female friends, each confided in me that they had been raped. One friend was molested by an uncle when she was 6, another was raped at 14 by an old man who locked her into a room, another went through marital rape for a whole year until she threatened her husband to go to the police, then he never did it again. These are all wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:39 PM
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Women who love too much by Nobin Norwood. This book explains why some women have this pattern of choosing men that are wrong for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:10 PM
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Wow, what a loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:09 PM
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It's tragical and funny! It's not like the sons can "continue their line" without a woman!! They need women to carry the descendants to term. Actually, logically and biologically speaking a woman can absolutely continue the lineage by many means (sperm donor, marrying her off to whoever), all she has to do is have sex and the bar is low, whereas the man really has to be worthwhile if he should be selected by a woman to carry his offspring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:01 AM
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Damn, 27% that is unreal!! That's basically 1 in 4!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:51 AM
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So many of these words are based on the male point of view. If they want to infantilize us, they call us "girls" even when we are 35. But if they feel sexual attraction to minors, they call those children "women under 18".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:46 AM
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Good that he noticed! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:44 AM
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Dr. Jessica Taylor is amazing, I recently started following her on Youtube. I can't believe her channel is so small, she should have a lot more followers! She truly gets it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:19 AM
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Yes, stationery and bullet journaling communities are rife with misogyny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:44 AM
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Lol, what a retard, he can't mind his own business!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:48 PM
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😅😅 right...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:52 PM
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I will watch Ana's video, even though I anticipate what she will say. Monotone voice, absence of all inflection and intonation = EPITOME OF LOGICAL, RATIONAL THOUGHT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:43 PM
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Notice how they say "bodies"? It's surely WOMEN'S bodies. Nobody would pay to have sex with men, dead or alive. Also, not physically possible I'd suppose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:39 PM
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I agree with everything you've said! Also, what he is doing has nothing in common with the scientific approach. I guess the takeaway is that, on a societal level, according to people like this guy, women can never expose anyone famous or rich, because then the obvious excuse comes up: what if she is after the money and fame? Wants to spoil his reputation, destroy his career? So as a woman you are never to be believed then. The doubt is always there over your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:33 PM
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He is NOT a therapist, he has a phd in counseling. That's a world of difference and a lot less effort to obtain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:28 PM
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I never liked anything about this individual: he talks like a robot and never really says anything of any value. He willfully ignores common sense and statistics that contradict him. I perceive him as just a hack making a grab for money by churning out quick videos without any real expertise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:27 PM
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This guy is just making video after video analyzing and diagnosing people he doesn't know and has never met. He is NOT a therapist, nor a psychologist. He just has a phd in counseling from a low rank university, that's all. He's the typical male misogynist that equates being logical with talking in a monotonous, flat tone, devoid of any semblance of human emotion. Behold, the rational male 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:24 PM
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He has a phd in Counseling, but he is NOT a therapist, psychologist or psychiatrist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:21 PM
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They are celebrating and high fiving each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:30 PM
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You are welcome, it's not a lot I can do, but I am giving you my perspective so that you can feel validated and strong again. Meeting narcs or other cluster B types can make us feel very confused and lost. Remember that: you deserved better. And he is Mr. Nobody, just some douchebag, sleazy, gaslighting lowlife. He can say whatever and pretend all he wants, that doesn't change the truth. You know what happened, you were there and know what went down, nobody can take that away from you. Nobody kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:35 AM
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War and Peace? 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:36 AM
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Thank you! I will read the info with great interest! That's such a classic story, that they are looking for a relationship. They really have no shame. And ofc after the woman "gives it up" they are like, "actually, you are not the one" It refers to Kylie Minogue 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:53 AM
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This is why as women, as a collective group we need to strengthen our boundaries and make them impenetrable. As soon as she learned that the phone conversation is about this guy/subject she should just click hang up. No need to be one the phone explaining yourself. Just shows how much society has brainwashed women into being agreeable, nice and protective of others' feelings at the expense of their own safety and comfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:33 AM
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Some males are like a Fiat Panda, but think they're worth as much as a Lamborghini Aventador. Like this? 🤣😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:36 AM
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Care to share any of the info with us? That some males do it consciously, with intent, is just so repulsive. We need to be aware and recognize the signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:22 AM
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I think taking back your power is first of all believing in yourself, in your reality and seeing his words for what they are: the defensive strategies of a deranged person. He's a rapist ffs, what value does he or his opinion have? Exactly zero. He's a lowlife piece of shit. So work on not giving any importance to what he says or thinks about you, it does not matter. We are beyond that. Of course you are hurt over all that he did. That's a perfectly normal reaction. He doesn't decide shit here, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:35 PM
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Hoo boy.. she's this alt right youtuber, white nationalist ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:26 AM
5

Like Lauren Southern in her latest video? She just repeated all the "safety tips" we've practiced for an entire lifetime and derided women's outrage at having to constantly take all these precautions. She aaaaaaaalmost gets it, she comes real close, but never quite makes that final step: if men didn't behave violently we wouldn't need all those safety tips. Don't watch her video if you haven't seen it. It will ruin your day and make your blood boil. How someone can be such a handmaiden is beyond…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:17 AM
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Good riddance, when a crap person leaves they do us a favor. They free up space for someone by far better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:03 PM
11

Perfectly said!! 🥰 I would never employ one either! I would always, always choose a woman !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:10 AM
11

Love the way you worded this! I need this on a poster! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:01 AM
14

That is horrific!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:00 AM
2

Thanks for recommending it, sounds like a must-read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:18 AM
71

He looks like the creepy town drunk that would leer at me as I pass by and yell some sexually deviant comment after me, while I cringe in disgust and continue walking away. This!! This schmuck got filthy rich by promoting the abuse and degradation of countless children and women worldwide, while destroying the relationships of millions others. There's no justice. This is the world we have to live in as women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:28 AM
15

Oh gosh, I feel bad for laughing but wtf, that dude is just comical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:52 PM
19

You did great! Congratulations 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:00 PM
12

No, I am not. I am Caucasian and nothing on my profile suggests any connection to Asia. He was Chinese and expecting to pick me up anyway, despite not speaking English. Go figure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:40 PM
9

Yeah, I empathize. Same thing happens on FB, I sometimes get randoms friend requesting me. Like, bitch please, you live on a different continent, what do you even want from me? I think they just feel entitled to our attention. They feel like it's their birthright, as obvious as the right to breathe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:45 AM
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It's totally true. I get and send lots of invites to expand my network of contacts. Recently I decided to only send invites to other women from now on because it's just not worth it and I don't want to inadvertently boost any male's ego. Let me tell you, I get inappropriate messages on a weekly basis. They don't know from my profile if I am single or not or if I am perhaps married with 5 kids. But they love to attention seek in my private messages: saying " hi🌹" 🤣🤣 , asking random questions abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:28 AM
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WOW! He looks after his own child???? 😲😲😯 Quick, girls, let's build him a statue!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:10 AM
11

The meeting isn't secret and it is called RedPill/manosphere. Rolemodels are PUA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:49 AM
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Abusers see vulnerability, genuine human emotions, expressions of affection as a weakness, as something disgusting and repugnant. Our vulnerability inspires contempt in them, it only leads to derision and them looking down on us. It's messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:32 AM
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Right, this happened to me back in the day. He was trying to get you to open up to him. By sussing out your vulnerabilities he can get under your skin, collect information and later use it against you to manipulate you. It is also a way to quickly establish a feeling of intimacy and create the illusion that he is there for you, that he listens to you and supports you. He is openly stating he likes women when they are showing their vulnerable side so that he can exploit them. Just think about it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:16 AM
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That's healthy! On the other hand this girl is sadly lying to herself. She doesn't really know if he's actually going to ever marry her. She is doing herself a huge disservice by giving "wife benefits" without any real commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:04 AM
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Ugh, that's so sad. She is gaslighting herself at this point. You cannot be "like" a wife, you either are married or you are not, and she is not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:54 AM
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Have they not heard of plastic surgery? Jawline, bone structure, all can be changed, even dramatically changed. Anything is better than going out and hurting or killing people out of incel fueled rage. I also don't think being short is the end of the world. Cultivating kindness, a warm, honest personality, building a strong, admirable character, cultivating intellectual pursuits and career development, improving your face and style... these are all things men can do to improve themselves not onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:49 AM
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She says it like it's a good thing. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:40 AM
13

It's funny cause it's true 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:38 PM
20

I mean at least the consequences won't last a lifetime 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:37 PM
21

The original ring was truly stunning and special. I can't believe she turned it into such a generic piece. It's heartbreaking. Imagine destroying your female ancestor's jewelry in this manner! 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:34 PM
9

Interesting. I never thought of that angle. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:08 AM
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Yes, plus the side chick doesn't have to wash his dirty underwear and be his slave 24/7!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:11 AM
25

It's Spanish mostly but he mumbles so bad it's very hard to understand anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:12 AM
19

She explains in the comments that he is a "mumbler", so it appears like that's just the way he speaks? If sounding like that is the result of a disability I apologize and I will delete my comment. But if that's just his way of talking, he needs to go to a speech therapist and practice elocution, dear God, how does she ever understand anything he says.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:06 AM
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That was aaawful to see. He's so damn ugly too 😒 You should never degrade yourself for anyone, but the fact he's not even attractive makes it even more depressing. He said "I have been planning this every day for months" LOL... what, he's gonna fly her to the moon on SpaceX? How much can you plan that you have to put work in daily for months? Bitch please, it's not a plan for establishing world peace ffs. Such utter horseshit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:03 AM
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Watching that was terrible, I could barely cope. I have degraded myself too in the past, but still this would never cross my mind. Did you girls notice how he speaks? He mumbles, I could barely understand what the hell he was saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:45 AM
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Yeah, I don't get it either. Surely if they knew it from the start it would have happened by now? In 6 years??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:41 AM
9

Stumbled into asshole territory? Girl, you live in asshole territory. So many years dating an ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:53 AM
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Good call! Wow, I hadn't even thought about the possibility of her making comments in front of your bf, but I totally see it happening. The audacity she had to talk to you like that, I bet she'd be capable of a lot more toxic crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:49 AM
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Keep them away from porn, please. I worked in a school and most boys by the age of 10 have already watched porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:12 AM
8

Oh gosh, that's horrendous. Sure, there is artistry in nudity presented tastefully etc etc, but porn isn't that. It's just violence and pointless degradation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:10 AM
13

Your friend is kinda disrespectful actually. Calling you a golddigger? Saying she hopes you won't exploit her too? Perhaps it's time to let her go, I would if I were you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:08 AM
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Ugh, how depressing. Then the dude truly has nothing to worry about, that is a sure way to make sure he never has to worry about putting a ring on it!! He has no reason to worry that she could ever leave... What a way to gaslight yourself as a woman..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:05 AM
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Therapists have such a huge responsibility and need to be so careful with the advice they give because they can literally mess with people's heads. Storytime: I also had one therapist who made me feel like she was gaslighting me. She was also questioning me a lot and making me second guess myself even more, when what I really needed is to learn to trust myself more. Once I told her how it bothered me that I arrived at a meet-up and before I even get the chance to sit down, some guy in the group …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:18 AM
18

Hahahaha, how embarrassing! And it was $35 ffs!! Bitch please...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:47 PM
12

Big effin compliment that he'd like to f her, give me a break, men would f a hole in the ground!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:36 PM
11

That guy was an absolute loser, lying, deceiving POS, congratulations for gwtting rid of that trash! 👏🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:57 AM
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Hahahaha, love it!! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:17 PM
8

Ugh, this literally happened to me in my early twenties. Storytime: I was at a social reunion she organized with other friends and classmates. Days earlier there was a picture on social media showing that I went out with a mutual friend. Maybe she saw it? At some point during this reunion she started to say real loud in front of this tribune of people that this guy (that I went out with) had slept overnight at her place and he drank all her alcohol and woke her up early morning singing a song fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:54 AM
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Your comment was accurate, eloquent and very reasonable, there was no reason to get banned. "Your kind", how incredibly rude and condescending. It honestly sounds like a male writing that. It sounds like a slur, the kind of phrase a blatant racist or a misogynist (bingo!) would use. I can't imagine a woman expressing herself in that manner towards another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:06 PM
5

He helped conceive them, it sounds like he already did his part? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:34 AM
17

He looks like the grim reaper on holiday 😂🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:10 AM
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Yeah, astrology is in fact a good tool for life coaching and speaking about the twelve signs archetypes is always done with a focus on what you can improve. Being X starsign doesn't mean you resign to the worst qualities of that archetype, but that you work with your flaws and try to remove your blind spots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:10 AM
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I was deeply moved, she spoke with such maturity, emotional intelligence and self-awareness in her video. She is kind, stunningly beautiful and young, she will be fine and she deserves sooo much better ♥ Aaaaand in case the man of her dreams never comes along, I'm sure she can always find another ugly, fat, unkempt porn addict that ignores her and puts her down. She didn't lose anything, males like that are a dime a dozen. Instead of crying she should congratulate herself for being so brave and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:49 AM
12

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:38 AM
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I agree 100%. They definitely care. True story: back when I was a student but unemployed I could tell men were kinda wary of that. When I started working and making a good income, they were like "wooww you're amazing". They are either: 1) scared of the woman being "a golddigger" (even if they are an average joe) 2) not willing to date someone they perceive as inferior. That's also why if you look at long-term successful couples you usually, in general, see they have a similar level of education …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:29 AM
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Damn... deep truth perfectly summarized in 3 words. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:07 AM
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Why does she even say "to normalize"? They ARE damn normalized, most of them, especially the "LTR" and the "go with the flow" type of situations 😒🙄 And poly is also gaining territory fast. I find many psychologists unbearable and obnoxious in their preachy open-mindedness where anything goes as long as you weren't blatantly coerced, everything is healthy exploration on the journey to self-discovery. Give me a break! It really rubs me the wrong way how they literally try to gaslight people into b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:00 PM
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Yep, in some countries they are still a novelty, being literally called "love marriages". In a number of countries this idea that you marry based on love and attraction is a new way of doing things in 2021.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:47 AM
19

Wow, I am literally taking notes! What is Inside Out, a movie or ..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:13 AM
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Damn, this really hit home. 😳 I will save this and read it every day to remind myself that anger is my body's way to signal that I am being mistreated and that the message comes from a part of me that loves me. I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:26 AM
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I'm concerned that you want to make things easy for him by already asking to split on dates and worrying about how soon is too soon to be intimate. You should make him wait as long as you need, until you are sure that he is totally invested and asked you to be his exclusive gf. Let him pay, let him make the effort to impress you, don't give him a discount on your standards. So what if he earns less? You're already doing him a huge favour by considering him given his situation. You could be datin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:39 AM
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If only it were applicable only to India... 😆😒😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:28 AM
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Yeah, walk dates in the park are something you can do when you are 16, I can't believe it's ever a thing between adults, much less when they are at a comfortable stage in life. I'm both amused and embarrassed to witness the transparent ways in which these men avoid costs related to dating. What a cheap bastard. You'd think a man at that age would not bat an eye at spending on dinner for two or a fancy lunch somewhere lovely, yet here we are discussing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:55 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this. He sounds awful, this is not someone suitable to be in a long-term relationship with. He cannot communicate, he is rude and dismissive, he wants to control you and the situation, he is critical of you and is generally not fun to be around. Please do what is best for you and remove yourself from this situation, it can only get worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:56 AM
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You're not feeling it and he doesn't meet your basic requirements so don't be afraid to cut him off. See it like this: men wouldn't bother giving a woman a chance out of niceness. Also: you will be saving yourself time and energy. If you think cutting him off is hard now, later it can be even harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:51 AM
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Their thinking is so flawed that they participate in gaslighting other women and shutting down their legitimate worries. Her last sentence is literally what a guy would say when caught liking a picture. Because she chose to believe that bullshit, now she has to preach it to others. To admit she's wrong would imply that her relationship is useless and that she accepts trash behavior. So her strategy is pure cope: by trying to convince others she is trying to convince herself that she is making th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:46 AM
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Good that you rejected him! If you would've compromised your standards that could have been you! Scary, right? She should have left him at the first red flag, I agree. Now she's too invested and with each passing day it gets harder to leave because of sunk cost fallacy. 😕 Her boundaries and standards weren't so high to begin with, but now I think they are lower than ever and they get lower by the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:35 AM
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Interesting article!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:59 AM
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I admire your energy and the firm adherence to your standards! I love sweing a queen who knows her worth! LOL @ the 52 year old who invited you for a walk in the park 😂 it's pathetic at any age, but moreso after you are mature and established in life on a professional and financial level. Gosh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:50 AM
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Oh, yeah, you're right, she probably thinks a reminder would help. When in fact he is probably like "shrug" That's society's brainwashing for you: be happy you got picked and don't rock the boat! Yuck. Even if she were 60 years old she should not have to settle for scraps. F that noise 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:26 AM
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I love her energy and sense of humour. She knows how to give shade, oh yeah!!! Reminds me of this interview she gave after she broke off an engagement and she got asked if she returned the ring. She was like, "what?.... I mean I had my own jewelry way before this but.." 😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:06 AM
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I'm also shocked. They are all so ugly and speak in such an uncultured, crude, disdainful manner that I don't know how anyone would give any of these guys the time of day, much less call to ask about valentine's day plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:01 AM
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I absolutely agree. But notice how confident he is and how he talks like he's hot shit? Imagine if you and I were that confident!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:56 AM
57

Depressing. A young, caring, beautiful soul lost because of a violent animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:55 AM
79

That's depressing. Why would she specifically point out that he didn't even say "I love you" on Valentine's Day? Doesn't she see she's exposing her lack of self-worth in the most public way for all to see and feel sorry for her? And this is before marriage... ugh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:52 AM
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I'm so sorry that this rapist piece of sh|t put you through this!! (I consciously refuse to say "this happened to you" because it's not some natural catastrophe that has no perpetrator, like getting hit by lightning or something). You did everything right by reporting it and you were so brave!! It's bullshit that sexting for a while equals "consent for any and all sexual acts until the end of time" in the mind of those POS police officers, way to fail at enforcing the law! What if it's someone y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:47 AM
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I'm so sorry that bastard put you through all that grief and affected your education! It enrages me to read about the police officer's attitude!! The only comforting thing is that the would-be rapist didn't get his way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:45 AM
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What a dumpster fire of a conversation... and they are all too ugly and vulgar to be talking about anyone at this level. Simply repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:49 AM
2

Lol, it's like talking to a 3 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:05 PM
93

Damn, she's right. I never saw that angle, but it totally makes sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:03 PM
9

You're so brave for getting out of there! He sounds absolutely deplorable, what a piece of sh!t. I really see no redeeming qualities with this guy. Let his mother and grandma have him. ❤ You chose yourself and that's amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:00 AM
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Love it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:14 AM
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You didn't know, it was your first relationship so you were learning certain lessons. Now you know better and you will do better. You forgive yourself because you deserve peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:23 AM
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Social media is only for show, what you are seeing is the image he wants the world to have of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 05:22 AM
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