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This is a good refresher, but it’s a lot more situational than you make it out to be. Going into the non-essential shutdown in my state I had 4 plates that were down for texting logistics only... once the shutdown started 2 had no interest in hanging until after everything blows over... fine by me, they’ll reach back out after if they want. As for the other 2, they still like to come over when I ask... usually once every 7-10 days... if a girl wants to fuck you, she will. From our(my) standpoint…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 07:58 PM
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Yeah I don’t go through my doctor. I order it myself through health testing centers for $99, and goto a local labcorp and get results within 2 days usually. I recommend this if you have issues getting it done
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 04:47 PM
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Not enough people lift, eat clean, and monitor T-levels. It’s a shame because those 3 things can turn your life around. I got my levels checked 2 weeks ago and total T is 939ng/dL, which is quite high (24M) all natural. This gave me so much motivation to continue hitting the gym and eating clean every day to maintain as long as possible..... people with low T should consider TRT, which illimitable men has a great article on...
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 04:02 PM
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I think you were fine with the texts you sent. BUT adding her on Snapchat was essentially a double-text. You showed more interest than her by doing this.. Pull back. If the sex was great for her, and she wants to hang again, she’ll hit you up. Start looking for another girl in the meantime.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:18 PM
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Give her less attention. You like her more than she likes you... don’t ever let this be the case. So, pull back a bit, and talk to other girls because you’re getting a little too invested for 2 months in.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:41 PM
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Intimidated, nah. Vetted for LTR, failed. Plate would be fine, but she has some other issues not worth dealing with(see comment above). That’s not the point of my post. I’m not looking for feedback on this, idgaf what people think of her or me in this situation. It’s just for context. I’m honestly curious what numbers guys personally think is too high I.e. makes them a “slut.”
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:15 PM
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Yeah, you clearly don’t know what you’re dealing with. Read this: https://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:10 PM
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No, I said that was part of it. She has a minor drug problem, and tried killing herself a few months ago. Edit: “plate,” why give a fuck if I drop a plate? That’s why we have options man, not worth the hassle with a potential BPD
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:03 PM
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I’m going to assume you’ve never fucked or dated a BPD girl, because you would have learned something about them. You’re making excuses and trying to convince yourself about a girl that could ruin your life. Even if it were only a “bad period in her life,” these girls can flip switch at any moment. If you care about self-improvement, fucking run.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:52 PM
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This girl seems BPD. Run bro, and do not fucking turn around. Never ignore red flags because she’s “hot.”
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:42 PM
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Yep. Big turnoff for me... plate was dropped (some other red flags too)
/r/askTRP21/02/20 05:42 PM
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This^ Subconsciously if you get cut off, it’s a loss. If you’re the one to cut it off, it’s a win. Use the experience to learn, and improve your frame for the next girl.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 04:50 PM
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She’s trying to prove to you she’s not a slut by saying she stopped. Any girl that sends nudes to guys online is a slut. Therefore, even if she did stop, her inner slut still lives regardless. I’d take it as a red flag, and plate her for now. Try not getting too emotionally invested in this one.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:16 PM
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This. Especially if she hasn’t sent any to you...
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:03 PM
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Never stop gaming. It’s even more fun in different countries. Enjoy it brother
/r/askTRP07/02/20 07:02 PM
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This^ I’m 24 and whenever I got out with a 19-20 year old Dave and Busters is the move. You can get a drink or two if you want, and just play all the dope ass games that you enjoy (or used to enjoy if you haven’t been there in awhile). She’ll catch on to you having a great time which 95% of the time leads to her following you around the place doing whatever you want to do. Easy place for subtle kino escalation too
/r/askTRP07/02/20 03:06 PM
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The simplest answer: Sure, it’s possible. No, it’s 100% not worth it.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:06 PM
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You mention that “life can get pretty lonely.” Everyone experiences this to some degree, it’s natural. The thing is you don’t mind your day to day, and seem okay with that lingering lonely feeling because you’re used to it. Which is fine, props to you. For meeting people, I’d take the advice of the above comment about finding groups based on common interests. Training, car meets etc For meeting women, since you really dislike going out at night, I’d hop on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble and try going on at…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 06:56 PM
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I caught slight feelings for a plate last year, and it was strictly because she was so fun. She loved party drugs and raves, and I was super into that at the time myself. After a few times together I was thinking *fuck this chick is cool* but I found out she was BPD, and taking anti-deps and still doing party drugs. Cut off contact completely once I slapped myself in the face and realized investing anymore in her is fucking STUPID, when a girl like that can only withhold your personal growth. An…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:38 PM
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"The coach had mocked me sometimes and I despise him" I stopped reading right there. No, do NOT play for or practice with this team. If you have no respect for your superior/mentor, you'll never grow/learn. Try to find a local club outside your college to play/practice with. You'll improve 10x more this way. Good luck
/r/askTRP01/02/20 10:25 PM
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If you continuously enjoy the job, then sure. I work for a Swiss bank making as much as the professions you mentioned, and don’t really enjoy it. So I’m not settling. Settling is for the weak
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:36 PM
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Don’t let the golden handcuffs keep you from exploring... I realized I wanted to leave my job earlier this month, but I have a big compensation package I’ll lose if I don’t stay until July. When I leave in July they’re going to try and tighten the handcuffs, but I’m done. Self-discipline and exploration. Remember: Journey Pleasure > Destination Pleasure
/r/askTRP30/01/20 07:00 PM
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When talking to your CLOSE friends, they already know right? So who gives a fuck. If you're playing the game, and trying to meet new people/women you can simply talk about what you do for a living without mentioning your father in any sense. Keep it broad, while making yourself sound successful, because you are. Mysterious triumphs truth within the game of women. Don't disclose more than you need to. You're a hard worker. No one deserves more detail than that. Good luck with your game.. I mean c…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 01:25 AM
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^ THIS!!! (what leftajar said). Ignore the comment below that says "you dont need an emergency fund for $10k." Wow, that is the worst advice I've ever heard. I'm a licensed financial advisor, and the #1 most important thing is having liquidity in case of crisis (loss of job, loans, etc). Rule of thumb is usually 6mo if you're independent of any other person. If cost of living got cut off, make sure you have $X amount to cover the remainder. Investing? You don't have enough capital to play the ma…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 01:19 AM
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If fired I'd be eligible for 6 months worth of unemployment paid by the firm based on my previous quarterly comp averages. I'd be getting a nice fucking check from uncle sam for 6 months, that's for damn sure. The % that gets deducted from my gross pay (not taxes, but revenue withheld by the firm) is quite drastic, I do not mind taking a little chunk back believe me. It's not so much about money though (well, it's always about the money), from the perspective I'm trying to look at it.. My side b…
/r/askTRP29/01/20 11:15 PM
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I’ve considered your first point. Financially speaking, it’s the smartest approach. Thanks for the link... detachment is definitely the approach. I’ll have to dive into that a bit more to learn ways to emphasize other areas without putting more “time” into them (obviously still have to be present at work lol) but the concept makes a lot of sense
/r/askTRP29/01/20 10:03 PM
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More charm and comfort. Once I mentally "disqualified" her as a plate my game changed to being outcome dependent on getting laid THAT night. Turn this around into outcome independence, and I would have walked away with a second date scheduled, and she would have felt more comfortable and relatable. Overall, everything in hindsight seemed "forced." I could have closed on the second date 1000x easier, but I was dependent on one outcome.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:38 PM
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I 100% agree with this. Thanks for the input, I think it was the nail in the coffin
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:33 PM
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I'm not sure. They were all just within 2 blocks of each other so it was nice being on the move... usually only do 1, but it flowed for some reason (at least it felt like it at the time)
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:31 PM
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Wasting time? She was shy and nervous, no kino at bar #1, just good conversation and typical C&F conversation. I think you misread personality of this girl described, otherwise I would have taken this route as it was consciously determined within the first 15 mins. I'm not the type of dude to make aggressive sexual progression until I know she's comfortable... which was halfway through bar 2. I understand your thought process, it could have been covertly initiated sooner to set the tone.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 04:21 AM
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That's a good perspective... At the point of inviting her over, intentions we're completely on the table without overt communication. I thought it was a guaranteed close, so that's an issue too. It took the natural aspect out of it, and gave her "yes or no" option. Thanks brother, better luck next time.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 11:30 PM
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I agree. I think the second I disqualified her as a plate, I had the mentality that I was going full PUA for a first night slay. She didn't want that, but I went full asshole anyway. She was submissive the whole night, that why I guess I didn't change my behavior. Good lesson to learn. Fake it until you make it....only works if you make it Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP25/01/20 11:26 PM
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"Mistake three, you didn't match her mental imprint. If you see her as a clingy plate, then she needs to see tha you can accommodate that or are empathetic to that. Clingy people have self esteem issues. " This hit home to me. I knew she wasn't going to be a plate, and then I acted as-so instead of readjusting to the type of girl she is. She was extremely submissive the entire date, that's why I describe that I personally felt she knew I was higher value (she asked for permission to do anything,…
/r/askTRP25/01/20 11:23 PM
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It seems ridiculous. My body count is around 75 and that’s primarily from college and working on Wall Street. I’ve probably slept with 4 girls in the past 8 months(shit compared to my previous lifestyle) but whenever an option like this passes without sealing the deal, it fucks me up. That’s why I’m asking my dude
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:21 AM
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Open to all opinions
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:17 AM
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I recommend a Push/Pull/Leg split. If you’re eating a lot, incorporate cardio at least 1-2 times a week. Here’s a pretty solid guide to what I’m talking about: https://www.muscleandfitness.com/training/build-muscle/winter-bulk-how-gain-muscle-4-weeks
/r/askTRP14/01/20 02:17 PM
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Still need to let the no contact ride out for a bit after such a fucking long time being together
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:20 PM
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I’m 24 she’s 23 I was going to stay no contact until early next week then try going for the kill. She’s crazy, I agree, but has a stable job just a fuck ton of personal issues. Also, I’m definitely not the only guy on her plate, so that’s another reason.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:19 PM
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Thoughts?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:18 AM
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To be honest, you already have a frame ready to be shaped. I'm 24, 5'10 and have been working out for 10 years now. I consider myself shredded with an athletic build. Im 160 all muscle and like 6% body fat. I should be closer to 175 but I cant put down the calories. Your routine needs to incorporate a clean diet, and steady workout regimen. Focus on destroying specific muscle groups with prop 48hr rest before hitting that group again. On top of that, depending on your how fast your metabolism is…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 02:39 AM
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I agree. It was just a lot mentally for a second date without closing... wondering if I take the party girl approach and recommend another party night or disappear completely
/r/askTRP14/01/20 02:06 AM
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The crazy pursuit is fun sometimes... next her as potential LTR, yes. But I’m looking to see if RP mentally has the potential to turn this into another casual hangout to seal the deal. Lmk your thoughts
/r/askTRP14/01/20 02:05 AM
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Both escalating honestly. That’s the twisted part. Thinking my best bet is to keep her on as a side “party” girl. Not sure how to proceed unless she reaches out
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:45 AM
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I feel you on that, overthinking because of the amount of alternating in serotonin and dopamine levels. Like I said, trying to play it out so I get another shot, but cheers for the reality check as well.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:43 AM
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That’s the thing, I’d enjoy a next time but really thrown for a loop with all the shit that transpired. Are you recommending taking the route of trying to bring her on as a side piece, or completely letting it go and putting it in her court?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:41 AM
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