LaPirata9 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
552	Tips, hacks and universal lessons for verbal and non-verbal communication.	LaPirata9	/r/seduction	01/04/14 02:43 AM
277	The thirteen things I have learned about attraction so far in life.	LaPirata9	/r/seduction	14/03/14 02:50 AM
3	Why I believe Tinder has become fundamentally broken.	LaPirata9	/r/seduction	14/03/14 08:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Why girls like guys who don't give a shit about them The best description of this topic I've ever seen. Great clarity to it. I'd just like to add something if I may. I agree totally that today's love is a selfish love and most people tend to only think of the power of their own love. But to bring it another logical step, the emotions associated with a long term relationship, projected by the man and woman need to be of a similar level before it will really lead to anything more. And I don't see the problem of needy love as being wholly felt by the…	/r/seduction	13/04/14 12:57 AM
5	But I just met you tonight/You seem like you do this with a lot of girls I have fucked up before a few times when being called a "player",or as "saying charming things to all the girls" etc. One particular time, I actually denied being a player so strongly that I was calling female friends over to vouch for me. I like to use that idiocy as a trigger now to never read too much into what a woman says that early in an interaction. Most likely she is just trying to gauge your reaction to a challenge or an involuntary response to how smooth you seem. She may be trying to …	/r/seduction	11/04/14 12:48 AM
2	Tips, hacks and universal lessons for verbal and non-verbal communication. 1 I wholeheartedly agree with. No doubt both men and women do that in group situations. Throwback to pack mentality and keeping in line with the alpha. 3 Talk to female friends about this and they'll tell you they absolutely do this with men they are attracted to. Its about as far as most women will go in terms of non-verbal communication of attraction. 2 and #4, the feet pointing and slight touching I am more sceptical on recently. Don't read into it too much and never rely on it as a strong IO…	/r/seduction	02/04/14 02:23 AM
2	Tips, hacks and universal lessons for verbal and non-verbal communication. I encounter this sometimes as well, especially if I'm not feeling super confident that day. Think of it like this. You are creating a shared reality for the two of you. In it you can do or say anything you want and she will be receptive to it. That is the level of confidence you should have in yourself. Create the frame the two of you are interacting in. Don't feel like everything has to happen 'naturally'. You can create sexual tension whenever you want because you are dictating her reality. If…	/r/seduction	02/04/14 02:11 AM
2	Tips, hacks and universal lessons for verbal and non-verbal communication. I'm not sure exactly what you're saying in relation to backing up compliments. You can tell a woman you like something about them for a specific reason. To clarify, when I say qualifier I mean strictly in the context of vocabulary. As in "I think you and me might make a good couple" or "Maybe we should go out sometime". Those are qualifiers and dilute the strength of the meaning you're trying to convey. Being categorical eliminates sounding unsure of yourself.	/r/seduction	02/04/14 01:45 AM
1	Tips, hacks and universal lessons for verbal and non-verbal communication. Well since an elbow nudge or a hip bump is innocuous enough in terms of the scale of physical contact, its not really continuing escalation too far, say from hugging her hello. But that is not to say avoid using it once you've escalated past that level of contact. I will always use it in conjunction with teasing her, as I said above, so that could be at any point in the interaction and you could use it 2-3 times without it seeming repetitive to her. It is one of the best stepping stone actions. …	/r/seduction	02/04/14 12:55 AM
1	Tips, hacks and universal lessons for verbal and non-verbal communication. Just look for interview skills consultants on the Web and there should be a lot. Try and find one that comes recommended though. The guy I saw was actually someone who trains interviewers in his day job, and the interviewee prep was just something he did on the side.	/r/seduction	01/04/14 09:48 PM
5	Tips, hacks and universal lessons for verbal and non-verbal communication. Yes, it would be classic push/pull to say one thing and show another with your body language. I think its over-complicating things for most people, though. Guys need to know first of all that folding their arms is defensive body language and then use it accordingly. I have only ever seen quite handsome men who were approached by women, succeeding with that type of 'standoff-ish' attitude. I think having a more open or neutral posture allows you to get into more interactions because it shows more…	/r/seduction	01/04/14 07:18 PM
2	The thirteen things I have learned about attraction so far in life. I'm in Ireland. Would love to go to the US and use my irresistible accent! If the reactions of aussie girls are anything to go by, I think it'd be a good trip ;)	/r/seduction	14/03/14 08:53 PM
2	The thirteen things I have learned about attraction so far in life. Thanks for the comment and the compliment. I think its much more important for men who want to attract their perfect woman to focus on the deeper framework of attraction rather than going for a quick fix in tried and trusted PUA methods. I'm not saying they're not successful but I think every guy would agree that in the long term they're looking for someone they really connect with. If you don't break it down to its psychological building blocks then you can end up becoming jaded and consider it…	/r/seduction	14/03/14 07:46 PM
7	The thirteen things I have learned about attraction so far in life. Yes, you're absolutely right.	/r/seduction	14/03/14 02:02 PM