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Violence is not bad. The initiation of violence is bad.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/12/22 03:34 PM
1

And that right there is why I'm leaving. I did contribute, hopefully I did help some guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/18 02:35 AM
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Pointing out someone has a problem is not disparaging other guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/18 02:24 AM
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Both of those videos are great but here's the problem. Do "scientists" have badges? What defines one person as a scientist and not another? That is a load of bullshit. Do you have any idea how many highly useful things have been invented by non-scientists (or non professionals)? More than the things that are invented by people who are experts. Secondly, I do not think the MBTI is definitive, I think it is the best theory that predicts the most outcomes accurately. That's the definition of the cu…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:56 AM
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I do not give a fuck what people think of me * I will give 0 interest to the women around me * I will be unaffected by the world around me * I will be unshaken by the world around me While Stoics may often appear like you describe above this is only a superficial result (that people perceive you like this) and not a tenant of Stoicism. Stoicism teaches us to be affected by the world around us, to get involved with it, in essence to be affected by it. This is why Stoicism advocates involvement in…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:14 PM
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The point was that being "cannon meat" and working at McDonalds are means towards and end, not end in themselves. Both are more productive than living with mommy and daddy and complaining about how daddy is an asshole, while you eat his food and live under the roof he provides. And I love your, "I'm gonna be handed a job and a house as soon as I get my degree attitude." Spoiler alert: You're not.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:07 PM
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I was cannon meat and I worked at McDonalds. Now I'm pulling down 6 figures. I went to college after the military. You're a fucking mooch. You live under his roof and you're an ungrateful entitled shit. No wonder he treats you like one.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:51 PM
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Move out or deal with it.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:49 PM
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^ This attitude right here is why it's turning to complete shit. Insulting people and claiming it's not hateful. Excellent. Generalizing about people is ignorance. Ignorance is not 'alpha'. Calling people names is juvenile, which is not 'alpha'. Being obtuse is not 'alpha'. Being inflexible and insulting to anyone who doesn't think like you is not 'alpha'. If you are so incapable of intelligently arguing your point of view, that you have to resort to those sorts of things (above); you are not 'a…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:46 PM
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Getting paid was always a consequence of TRP philosophy not the ultimate goal. This is half the reason it has turned to shit. Only people not getting laid obsess over getting laid. I remember about a year ago reading a post were the OP was talking about reading a book or two, having some culture and material to talk about besides 'how alpha you are', and even being familiar with pop culture (again so you can hold a conversation). But those days seem to be gone.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:35 PM
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Because a bunch of 'bros' took something positive and turned it into a 'how to get laid'/'do you even lift?' condescending circle jerk of the worst parts of masculinity. Basically a caricature of the greek culture on campus.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:33 PM
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The guy narrating this video is a moron. Men, support feminism, if a woman wants to fight you don't disrespect her by not giving it 100%. She wants to be equals. Fight as equals. If you choose to engage in a fight with a guy that is twice your size, everyone will tell you, "You got what you deserved. What did you think was going to happen?"... unless you're a woman, then you apparently don't have to be responsible for your actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/18 08:13 PM
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Reminds me of my favorite father advice to the young man taking his daughter out on a date, "Whatever you do to her, I will do to you." LOL
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:20 PM
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Liberals are victims, they have a victim mentality. What do you think? Don't get me wrong we could all be victims, quite easily; but when that is your defining characteristic you cannot be alpha.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 09:36 PM
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I was in the Marines and the Army. And I'll give you the advice I wish I had before I went in: Learn your job. Know how to do your job. Lives may depend on it someday. Even if you're a cook or administration, the guys in the field don't need to be concerned about getting paid or fed. Do you job. Nothing else matters. Your MOS is your reason for existing and you're a small cog in a large machine. Check you ego, and get the job done. You're command probably won't give a shit about any of that. The…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:28 PM
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My advice: have as little to do with her as possible. You're at work. So playing with fire is a bad idea. She will figuratively chop you're dick off if given the chance (IE take you down to make her feel better about herself). It's a question of risk vs benefit, what's the best that could happen? What's the worst? Is it worth it?
/r/askTRP16/10/17 01:55 PM
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Read up on Stoicism. I post this a lot. I think it's pretty amazing and could help.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 02:59 PM
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He is confusing causation with correlation. A common mistake. Or, he's one of those nofap fanatics who is trying to entice people to join.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 09:44 PM
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I would say it depends on your circle. Most people want an alpha around, and so they'll actually help you regain that status. However, if you're surrounded by alpha types it will be much harder.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:31 PM
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That lack of respect and deep hatred/distaste towards me is what got to me, and I felt like crap re-living that moment for the next few hours... That is your problem. You need to work on your 'aloofness'. And maybe your comebacks. If you just are the witty comeback type, you should have called her out. "Hey we're just joking here, no need to get all crazy, crazy". Again in a condescending, patronizing way. Think of a little kid attacking you. "Whoa there punchy. You're going to get your self hur…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 06:54 PM
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It's not super clear to me but here's my take. You suggested that she could give you a ride somewhere and she said all she'd do is run you over with the car. I would have responded, "Impossible, I would stand in a parallel parking spot!" I could think of more, but in an attempt to be genuine that was the first one that jumped out when I read your post, so that's what I would have gone with. If it was an attack, and you say it was so I assume you know better than anyone else (cause you were there…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:17 PM
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Can confirm: I thought the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:50 PM
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There are a few ways you can "stop" him: Take measures to ensure you are never chosen as a target: Manipulate him into liking you more (not alpha). Convince him that choosing you as a target is a bad idea. Subtle intimidation would be best, but even out right threats (that are genuine), however you're communicating that he's "getting to you" with this method. Mitigate being targeted: Punch back... hard. Find a soft spot and squeeze hard (figuratively). His mom died last year? Make a joke on him …
/r/askTRP11/11/16 02:30 PM
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First, someone slaps or hits me, they get a warning (if it at least has the pretense of being 'playful'), second time they get wrapped up in ball. If you're not capable of doing this you either need to shame them into stopping or lift more. Someone touching you without your consent is very beta. Made fun of for no apparent reason You have to sharpen your wit. People in my social circle know that if they start clowning on me, they asking for me to start clowning on them. I 'm not the best at it b…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 04:51 PM
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This reversal thing just kills me. It's not impolite for you to insist on splitting the bill. It's impolite for her to expect you to pay for everything. So the answer is it's polite to say just what you said, "I don't pay people to spend time with me." I might even toss in there, "It's a little offensive that you expect me to."
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:48 PM
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OK, I see.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 04:37 PM
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I have a guy at work that loves nothing more than to point out how my knowledge and experience are sub-par, it started in a playful "here let me help you" kind of way. Then it slowly turned in to a contempt/competitive 'shot taking'. He has had a little more experience than me, but I am no slouch. I stopped participating in his little game and fed him rope. He hung the shit out of himself big time. Looking back it was fucking dangerous, he convinced one of my bosses that I wasn't a valuable empl…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 02:46 PM
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That makes no sense at all. It sounds like "<random object> is beta!" With absolutely no reasoning behind it. I could understand, tree-hugging, or 'crying for the trees', or even if you considered environmentalism to be beta, but a tree is neither beta nor alpha, it's a fucking tree.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:16 PM
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Trees and LoL (I assume laughing out loud) are not RP? I would say that's highly subjective. Please explain.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:41 PM
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I'll tell you something that I have verified works. I don't remember where I heard or read this but it was someone elses' discovery. IIRC an actual psychopath came up with the idea, but the object is to go out with your friends (or even on your own) and get as many rejections as you can. Maybe in the next town over away from your usual hunting grounds. Have a competition to see who can get the most rejections. But don't try to get rejected just use a normal approach. What will happen is you will…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 01:43 PM
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Meta!
/r/askTRP31/10/16 07:41 PM
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I was in the Army and my battalion Command Sergeant Major fucking hated me. I made the mistake of saying irregardless in a conversation with him and he made me write a fucking essay on why that's not a word how it's misuse had spread. I didn't care for him too much either, but as a side effect, I've never used that word since. Until today. BTW I was joking with my comment as nonconsequentaul is not a word either.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:10 PM
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That's nonconsequential.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 04:05 PM
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If I was you I'd change my name to "DoubleAgent", LOL.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 01:05 PM
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I would make it clear that if she'd like to be with him she is free to do so; however that's a one way door.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 03:20 PM
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I have close family relatives (not a wife) that I don't get along with, in fact we've done some shitty things to each other over the years. I could care less if they are in my life or not. When/if they visit they know there is zero tolerance for BS in my house. Pop off and you're leaving, I literally don't care if they're around or not. That being said, if they died, even the worst of them, I'd experience grief for the loss of that person. Even wanting the experience of dismissing them if nothin…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/16 06:26 PM
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Right, but it's more than that. I live in Texas. I called the police because my drunk wife was preventing me from leaving my house (to avoid an escalation). I have no history with the police and neither does she. They showed up, moved me to the street, searched me and proceeded to ask her if she wanted to press charges. When she declined they actually tried, unsuccessfully, to convince her to press charges. They asked "did he hit you?", she said, "no". "Did he threaten to hit you?", she said, "n…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 03:42 PM
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Right because the purpose is for women to be able to define who can hit on them, who must help them, and who must ignore them. That's the goal.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 03:37 PM
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Sleeping with married women is a good way to get shot.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:36 PM
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You seem to have a bullet deficiency and you've stumbled upon the best way to fill it.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:46 PM
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1984 is way better, and a little more on point.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:38 PM
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"Incidents against women that are motivated by an attitude of a man towards a woman and includes behaviour targeted towards a woman by men simply because they are a woman." This literally describes every action every man has ever taken when interacting with a person he knows to be a woman. Example: Saying "Good morning, ma'am". It is an "Incident against women" (a comment directed at a woman) It is "motivated by an attitude of a man towards a woman" because it doesn't specify a negative attitude…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:29 PM
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One of my favorite quotes: If you want to build a ship, don't drum up people to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea. -Antoine de Saint-Exupery
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 02:42 PM
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I did not mean you could be legally guilty or not and be acquitted (I meant in common terms not legal). I meant you could have committed the crime, even having admitted to committing the crime and still be acquitted. In the common law tradition, an acquittal formally certifies that the accused is free from the charge of an offence, as far as the criminal law is concerned Notice the glaring omission of the words "guilty" and "not guilty". Because it has nothing to do with acquittal (or at least c…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 06:26 PM
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Anecdotal describes the source of the information. Acquittal being perceived as innocence has nothing to do with that. You can be guilty, even admittedly so, and still be acquitted. That's why courts don't pronounce people innocent, either guilty or not guilty. If more Americans knew how the courts (justice system) works, maybe we could fix some of the really messed up things about it. Read a civics book people.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 02:53 PM
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Do want 'common misconceptions'? Because this is how you get 'common misconceptions'.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 01:06 PM
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Jury instruction is BS, the jury may do it chooses, including disregard all instructions from the bench. Acquittal means the jury refused to convict. There is guilty and not guilt, not guilty and innocent. This is important, because our justice system is supposed to let guilty people go free to ensure no innocent person gets convicted. It is supposed to be hard to convict someone of a crime.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 01:04 PM
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Damn it! #2, I never win anything!
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 08:37 PM
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Acquittal is not innocence. Come on. I expect more from a litigator.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 08:32 PM
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I think you read that wrong. He is saying 80% of the people who testify lie. They are mostly women because the men usually (being defendants) don't testify. In other words, you can infer that if an equal number of men and women testified, they'd probably lie about the same; but you cannot know that from what he said. Pissed off people who perceive themselves as victims will exaggerate and embellish, particularly if they don't see the kind of concern they expect (which a court is not supposed to …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 08:29 PM
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...it's good to be captain.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 02:39 PM
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Good thing Angela Landsbury never went on the Enterprise. Just sayin'.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 02:32 PM
1

Doesn't matter; got laid.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 02:32 PM
1

Well maybe to that green chick...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 02:31 PM
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Funny, this is the plot of Horrible Bosses 2.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 01:26 PM
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I think that you're confusing the methods and tactics that are used to change a relationship with the attitudes in a relationship after the ship has righted itself. Change is difficult and people resist it. The measures that are used to change the relationship dynamic are easily misinterpreted as 'mean' or demeaning, suggesting women lack value. However, if the goal was to simply to subjugate women like objects or land, why would people expend all this effort? A hooker would provide that same th…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/16 02:03 PM
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How to win friends and influence people is awesome. And it works. One thing I've found to be extremely useful is this: E * R = O Event * Response = Outcome The only part of that you have control over is the response part. I wish I could remember where I saw that so I could give credit but I don't recall.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 07:21 PM
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The point of redpill is not to 'control' anyone. The point of redpill is to make yourself so great that she values your presences in her life so much she would never do anything to jeopardize it. I have never told my wife to avoid any man. I have let her know that it would displease me to find out she was flirting or worse. My displeasure would result in me not spending time with her or even leaving for good. So the choice is hers, she can have a relationship with me or she can ride the carousel…
/r/askMRP20/01/16 07:19 PM
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Ever seen a general drive a tank? Sure they can do it, but they are not the best at it. The PFC or CPL that's been the driver for a couple years is much better. The general doesn't drive the tank, he tells people where the tank needs to be. You should do things that remind her that although she's at the helm she's following your plan. Example: Ask for a 'status report' on tasks she's taking control of. Don't make suggestions, or give orders, but ask a question like "Is that the best way to do it…
/r/askMRP20/01/16 07:11 PM
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I had an immediate response. It was awesome. The backlash... not so much. Then again, I am always trying new things, experimenting. So she may have thought this was a fad that would pass. The backlash was her trying to figure out what the deal was, why I had changed so much so quickly. It was a bad idea. I recommend changing things slow. It would have helped in my situation. Ninja not Viking. However, things improved and are always getting better.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 07:04 PM
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I missed that last question. There isn't normally women with higher SMV at these 'events'. Although there has been. However, she has an issue with any other women. She feels threatened unless they are extremely hideous. There is no doubt it creates dread in her, while I would not cheat (personal choice), other guys in the club have been caught, or had it get around that they do this sort of thing. The 'club' is an MC. So I am pretty sure her idea of what the meetings are like are based on TV sho…
/r/askMRP20/01/16 06:58 PM
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You're right, I drop down to her level and try to argue my point. I need to stop that.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 05:15 PM
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Anything that's a competition to her attention will be something she'll pick at. That is so true, it's exactly what she's doing. And your advice is spot on.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 05:10 PM
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The problem with WISNIFG is it assumes the person that you use it on has the slightest desire to maintain some semblance of reason and logic in their argument. When I back her into a logical corner, and her contradiction starts to become glaringly obvious, she just embraces her illogical (emotional) position and doubles down. It is affective with her, but not very much.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 05:08 PM
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Good point, we've been having talks about how she can get what she wants. Namely by making me want to give her what she wants. I have a choice, go out and hang around with my friends or stay in with her. If she made staying in with her awesome for me, why would I want to go out with friends? She seems to understand that idea but is reluctant to admit it.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 05:04 PM
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Thanks. That helps. No new information in there but I lose sight of the basics sometimes. I need to read the material again. I get so eager to keep moving forward.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 05:01 PM
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I do this. It's what I've been doing. Problem is she complains, whines, etc. I leave, go do my thing. Come back it starts up again.
/r/askMRP20/01/16 04:58 PM
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I think it happened when the nurse lied to the doctor.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:09 PM
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I have a permit. I think all the time about if/when I have to use my weapon. I like to think I've prepared myself mentally for the aftermath. Perhaps she's done the same. Regardless, you should encourage her to talk to a therapist who has dealt with this sort of thing.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 08:46 PM
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Appears to have been delted.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 02:11 PM
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If she's a Juan of a kind, then she might have Juan too many digits.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 08:00 PM
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Jaun's ring to rule them all?
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:51 PM
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Juan pun at a time!
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:25 PM
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LOL, "why can't I quit you, Jaun?"
/r/askTRP28/12/15 02:47 PM
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And avoid golfball babies! LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 02:18 PM
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First, I think the pregnancy is definately affecting the situation (her re/actions). But I think you're confusing the time aspect of things. You're seeing he initial responses to RP (atleast from what I'm reading). She's applying pressure to return things to the status quo. She is going to do the same old things that brought your ass into line before, only ramped up to deal with you new foud stubbornness. She has to learn that your frame is immovable. Once she accepts that being a pain in your a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 02:16 PM
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You made the case in your post then asked for help? So first, you're in high school or college? Cause if you're in high school why the fuck are you in a LTR or even serious relationship? If you're in college... It's simple. The relationship is not working for you. The time constraints of both your lives are incompatible. Everyone in a relationship is in the relationship to get something from it. You're not getting what you need from this relationship, so say that.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:50 PM
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I was exposed to TRP for the first time 10 years or so after I was married.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 03:11 PM
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It's not, "I don't care about you enough to jump through this hoop", it's "I don't care enough about your childish game to jump through this hoop". Whether you care about them (RP/MPR) or don't (RP), you should never show your cards in this respect. If you care about her, and believe it or not you should at least on some level, you'll both know it. She probably will never admit she knows it, and neither should you (dread and all). But I think, and this is just my opinion, that weather you jump t…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:26 AM
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I think your conclusion is correct but your interpretation is wrong. While I think some women probably do exactly what you suggest, I think a lot of them are just insecure and seek to assuage that insecurity with the methods you describe. In other words, I think women constantly hold a flaming hoop up and demand you jump through it as a test of commitment; not because of some logical reasoning, but because they constantly want reassurance. I also think a lot of women confuse passion with veracit…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 09:46 PM
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I'd say women expect men to be beta. They deal with beta guy all day long. When they greet you they are just defaulting to that type of interaction. I would deal with it with amused mastery. Think about if you had a daughter or niece, and she had some friends over. And they (the friends) greeted you like this. You'd be nice but aloof. Obviously your actual daughter or niece would be different.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:41 PM
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I know, right? LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 03:20 PM
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In this case, I'd say you know enough. The details are what you're missing and they are inconsequential.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 02:10 PM
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Yep. Can confirm. It was common knowledge at Fort Bragg that a woman who was looking while her husband was deployed would put a mop on the front porch (in on-base housing).
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 02:07 PM
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I would tell them, I'm a man, I'm not going to play your woman games. But I'd do it in a joking shaming way. Something like: Oh, you're all very special, just like everyone else. You're all the prettiest... when the lights are off. Or reverse and amplify... I'd be more concerned with who the ugliest is. (But don't say who, obviously). Or... Is this the female version of comparing dick size? Cause it kind of seems like it.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 03:20 PM
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This is called "The Apple of Discord". The ancient Greeks (men) realized this was a trap almost 3000 years ago. Then the movie 'War Games' revisited this lesson in allegory, resulting in the quote "The only winning move is not to play".
/r/askTRP26/10/15 02:20 PM
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Sounds like maybe your the milkman's son, and your dad knows it. Also, if I was you (I am actually not you) I would drop the proverbial hammer. Start acting alpha, and treat him like a beta. Se if you can get him to lose his temper and throw you out of his house. I think you need to go full asshole and skip right over alpha. Shock and awe. "You treat me like that and you will reap the whirlwind old man".
/r/askTRP20/10/15 05:59 PM
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I can't make it so you win.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 12:37 AM
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LOL just found this nugget in your history (on /r/fitness 6 days ago): Pick up your weights after you're done using them. Don't take sips of water in between sets from the water fountain. Don't get completely naked in the shower (swimsuit or underwear is fine). Also don't be that cheap fuck who doesn't tip the receptionist.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 11:12 PM
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Well I am not coming alone, but they aren't going to get involved. See you there.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:48 PM
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Oh at the parks mall.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:31 PM
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There's no razoos at 20 and cooper.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:29 PM
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See you there. How do I know who you are? I'll be the guy on the harley wearing the cut.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:28 PM
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I just realized you're a fucking kid. Which razoos?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:24 PM
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How convenient.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:56 PM
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So I thought you were leaving the weights around, making dudes eat chalk? I'm at cooper and 20 right now. Let's meet.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:40 PM
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I'm out of town this weekend. Pick another time. Or how about this, what gym do you go to?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:31 PM
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No actually I'm headed to Austin Friday afternoon, how about Thursday?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:19 PM
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We should meet. I'm in DFW area Texas.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:09 PM
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Well, truth is we'll never know. But I can tell you this, there is always someone out there who won't put up with your shit. And one day you're going to run in to that person and learn a very painful lesson. Maybe it'll be me, but it probably won't.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:40 PM
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Doesn't sound so much like an experiment as it does like you just want to be an asshole. I'd say something. Right to your asshole face. And to the OP, here's the thing, you challenge that guy you better be ready to win. If he out weighs you by 100 lbs, that means you're not winning hand-to-hand. Take that for what it's worth. You need to suck it up and drive on. Keep lifting and someday that guy won't have the balls to act like that towards you.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 06:17 PM
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Then you leave yourself at the mercy of your friend's interpretation. So guys will not be willing to admit they don't know and make shit up.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 08:36 PM
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Easy way to grasp complex writing. Read a sentence you get lost in. Identify the subject. Eliminate all subordinate clauses. Eliminate all prepositions. (optional) remove all adjectives and adverbs. Read what's left. Add the parts you removed one at a time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 08:13 PM
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Some people enjoy the hunt, the pursuit. The uncertainty of the score. "Why don't you get with the team and come on in for the big win." -Full Metal Jacket
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:53 PM
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If I got busted for protitution, and knew my shit was going on the news, I'd have a huge smile on my face in the mug shot. Fuck embarrassed. "Yeah I got busted tryin' to score some poon, but man you should have seen this trick!" -the suspect was over heard saying.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:51 PM
6

I think the "it's too much work" crowd simply aren't getting it. TRP is about making it easy. Self-improvement, is not easy. Getting ahead in your profession is not easy. Handling women once you got everything else locked down should be easy. If you're doing right, if you're making shit happen and not fucking it up yourself, you should be able to handle women. Don't get me wrong, shit will get hard, and come at you sideways occasionally, but over all it should be pretty easy (handling the women …
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:48 PM
1

Yep, you may have the right of way, you might be 100% not at fault, but that doesn't put your body back together.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 02:29 PM
1

I saw a video once about a woman that trans-gendered into a man. She commented on how the hardest part of the transition was walking around in public (she/he lived in a rough part of New York). She/he would inadvertently communicate threats and confrontation with other men, by doing things we (men) learned in school yards. Staring too long, 'squaring' up, and on and on. I think men learn to put out and pick up on threats and intimidation as part of communication. Let's face it, it's important to…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 01:54 PM
1

As a motorcycle rider of 25+ years I want to tell all of you a prime rule: Always ride like you're invisible. My father told me that years and years ago, it has saved me countless times. I take it a little further: Ride like everyone is actively trying to kill you. Sounds like a joke but when I'm riding I always look at the situation and think 'where am I going'/'what am I going to do' if this car stops, if that car merges into me, etc. Stay out of wolf packs on the highway. Always give yourself…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 12:46 PM
2

So I'm in a social group with some pretty alpha guys. I wasn't alpha at all until I happened upon RP. One guy in particular is very alpha. He takes responsibility for the 'protection' of the group, he teases other guys (in public), and dominates just about everything. I knew he would be my biggest obstacle and I had to start to challenge his claim to the AMOG (for no other reason than I need to be alpha). It was a strange experience. At first I started with teasing him back. Which he was amused …
/r/askTRP16/09/15 02:27 PM
1

You've heard "Lead, follow, or get out of the way"? That's how that works out.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 05:47 PM
1

IF it's a girl you're interested in you should non-answer. Return a question (preferably a joke): "That's kind of a personal question, isn't it?" "I though you were my girl-friend!" (emphasize the joking nature of it) "Why do you know someone that meets my standards?" Or the serious route: "I'm keeping it light. I date."
/r/askTRP14/09/15 05:39 PM
1

I'd say a mix is the best way to go. Somethings may need to be set in advance. Explicitly stating boundaries that may not be obvious or typical, should be a no brainer. Then you deal with transgressions as they come.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:41 PM
1

Yes 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' will help. But nothing will produce the lasting effects you seek until you decide that people (non-famliy/friends) are not worth your suffering. I had the same issue you do, shit I still struggle with it. I want to help people. I like helping people. The problem is people. They take advantage. Three things are paramount: 1.) You are not an asshole for refusing a request. They are the asshole for making the request. Particularly if they are taking advantage or making an…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:34 PM
1

If it's explicitly about sex, it takes the very long road approach. As I mentioned, deception is a much quicker and easier way to get sex than TRP by far and away. And if sex is all your after, then this thread should be about bargaining successfully with hookers and a database of hooker ratings and which ones have diseases.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 06:15 PM
1

That one statement lends itself to that interpretation but if that's all TRP is then why not just get a nice car, keep some money in your pocket, have a profile pic of you wearing a lab coat in a hospital, and scam women? Seems a lot easier.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:52 PM
1

Sorry I don't see it. Can you be more specific? ...and not trying to be an ass but: (LOL "an ass but") I started that post with "I take it as...". Sex is great but it's not what my life is about. Although I might add that if it wasn't available when I wanted I'd probably be a little more focused on it.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:51 PM
2

Or some dude at Black Mesa, LOL
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:48 PM
6

I would say, if you have seriously deficient areas in your life, then you need to cut out the games and TV and work on those areas. If you're not in shape yet, but you have a workout schedule you're good. If you're not making 6 figures, but you're close and about to finish your masters, you're good. If your house is not squared away, but the chores are done and the repair man's coming tomorrow, you're good. If you would just rather play video games than workout, you're not good.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:43 PM
1

I take it as, TRP is about being the best man you can be, oh and a side affect is sex, which is awesome. PUA is about sex, explicitly.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:37 PM
3

So... All work and no play? Golf is a game. Game is a game. I don't think cutting out "play" is going to make anyone the best they can be. I think it comes down to balance and appropriate-ness.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:36 PM
1

I cut out a lot of entertainment a while back (way before RedPill). I just lost interest and wanted to pursue other things (like classics in books, and computer programming). The result was isolating because a certain amount of pop-culture knowledge is necessary. Although I don't usually watch popular TV shows it's important to have a minimal knowledge about them. Try staying the AMOG when a discussion breaks out about the current popular TV show/video game/whatever. If you're lucky people just …
/r/askTRP14/08/15 01:33 PM
1

I'm a He-bitch man whore, baby!
/r/askTRP11/08/15 01:02 PM
1

I was in the Army. Field Artillery. You are very welcome.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:29 PM
2

... and zips me back up So fucking terrifying. I just can't let a woman zip me up. Jesus! I'm having a fucking anxiety attack just thinking about it. Que: "Son, how'd you get the beans over the frank?" <Angry sideways glance and wife crying in the corner.>
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 03:56 PM
4

I am a disabled vet. I have a tight group of fellow veterans that know my issues (and I know theirs). Outside that I rarely share any of it. If someone tells me they have this condition or that one, my first thought is "sooner or later they'll use those conditions to justify bad behavior".
/r/askTRP10/08/15 03:45 PM
0

In my mind its mostly MGTOW with red pill ideas aiding. Exactly it's not Red Pill. Have fun with that.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:42 PM
0

No shit! Your comment and his story makes me think of the guy from True Lies that pretends he's a secret agent.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:34 PM
-6

None of that seems very Red Pill. It all seems PUA as hell. Have fun pretending to be an alpha male. You're a Gama male, and interloper, and it's funny how you left out all the time's you've been burned. "Oh you're that guy my friend told me about with the old Corvette and the wad of one's".
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:27 PM
6

TRP is like sausage. Everyone likes sausage, but no one wants to see it being made. Tipping your hand in TRP is like showing people at a restaurant how sausage is made right before they're about to eat it (and they're vegans). Life is full of unpleasant truths, just watch a 'reality' show about a farm and you'll see they sensor a lot of things. Activities we depend on to live, that we all need, but no one wants to see it. In the same sense women interacting with a TRP practitioner know exactly w…
/r/askTRP10/08/15 01:01 PM
0

Sounds like a great primer for monk mode.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 07:49 PM
1

Exactly. Easier to fake tall, harder to fake short. So if you see a short alpha, you can bet your ass he's genuine. My point.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:26 PM
1

Nope. Taller guys get a kind of 'benefit of the doubt' about being alpha. Most (obviously) fail, most shorter guys fail too.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:24 PM
1

Being short affirms your alpha status because you can't fake-the-funk. A woman walks into a bar, one guy is owning the place, he's shorter than average. She instantly knows it's not his looks that people are flocking to.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 07:36 PM
-1

I'm not a tall guy, I'm not saying I'm the alpha male either, but I learned a long time ago, tall is as tall does. And here's a thing a not-tall guy can do that tall guys can't. Take down a tall asshole in public and the not-tall guy gets the glory. "Take down" can be verbal or physical. And, Tony Montana, so your argument is invalid.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:59 PM
8

Because bullets. That's why.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 05:58 PM
-6

He's probably not tall. Tall is not and alpha trait.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:43 PM
1

It's not negativity and it's not tearing down women. It's data that contradicts a stereotype.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 12:13 PM
2

I read it, completely and carefully. Here is the significant data: “This was an interesting finding,” Dr Bates says. “Previous studies have sought to explain male violence towards women as rising from patriarchal values, which motivate men to seek to control women’s behaviour, using violence if necessary. ... “The feminist movement made violence towards women something we talk about.”
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 07:54 PM
1

Really? I said I read parts and skimmed the rest. Are you telling me this post has no value at all?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 07:33 PM
2

The part I read was the raw stats. I thought it contradicted the prevailing 'Dr Spock' mentality. ie conflicted with the 'turn boys into women' philosophy of feminism.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 07:32 PM
0

Must be honest. I skimmed it and read some parts. I'll read it all the way through when I get home.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 07:27 PM
1

Just interesting. Flies in the face of the media narrative we've all been spoon fed for 3 decades.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 07:17 PM
2

WISNIFG worked great for me as a transition into MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 12:06 PM
1

'standing up to me' thing? Because if you are I really don't like it." What's wrong with me standing up for myself? Boom! Thank you WISNIFG!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 04:05 PM
2

First off, when I went full red pill on my wife I had the same issues. I just let her run our house because I didn't care, that lead to her running rough shod all over my life. It was a huge shock for me to change things, but I did. You need to remember, her approval or disapproval of your actions is inconsequential. She doesn't like it? That's nice; continue on. She is going to try to confirm that you are in control. She isn't going to do that through the good (easy) times. She'll create a shit…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 04:03 PM
1

I saw that episode. Pretty amazing.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 02:28 PM
1

I think I'm a few weeks (maybe a few months) ahead of you in implementing MRP. I went through something exactly like this. I used to be a really passive guy, not a door mat but I just kind of went with the flow. When I took the reins it was a serious shock to my wife. I went from a stand answer of "I don't care" to just about any question to not giving her an option fairly quickly. The thing was (at least as far as I have gathered) she sensed a huge change in our marriage. Not sure yet if it was…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 02:02 PM
1

Arnold Schwarzenegger James Bond (actors, all but one I think) Archer (obviously) Kevin Costner (whatever) Silvester Stallone (Italian, but not Jewish) Travis Fimmel Clive Standen Hugh Jackman Sam J. Jones (cause fuck yeah) And on and on, white guys still got it.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 07:17 PM
-2

WTF? I don't hate or love Jews. Don't really know any (that I know of). What is this racist crap? I honestly don't get it and I think it degrades TRP to associate it with racism.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 07:11 PM
1

My first thought when I read the headline of this thread was, TRP does not need reddit. So, I agree completely.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 06:07 PM
1

How do I register my username on there? After a cursory I didn't see any method for doing so.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 06:05 PM
1

Freedom of speech only applies to the government and it's agents, not to private persons, corporations, or anything else private. Unless a company tries to suppress your speech (expression) designed for consumption by the general public, except in this case where it's on their private (servers) property.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 06:04 PM
1

Sounds like the guy is pissed Mrs. Pao was fired and is now going to take it out on redditors. It also sounds petty and condescending. If this is the future of reddit, I won't miss it. I have a webserver (of my own) and I wouldn't mind hosting a reddit style alternative for TRP. I think a lot of people on here are probably in the same position. You can't let an online community build itself with user-generated content, then say "mine, mine, mine" when it's not to your liking. That's totalitarian…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:59 PM
1

So she took that task herself and felt that maybe she isn't your boss... Funny. Out of the blue last night she told me she realized that she had been trying to 'be the boss' and she apologized. She also made some comments about masculine and feminine roles. It was completely out of left field. Then I read your comment this morning and man you hit the nail on the head. Kudos.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 12:04 PM
1

I think you're right. This is an area I'm working on.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 12:09 PM
1

Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 12:07 PM
2

Yep. If she's doesn't want to go then she can stay. No skin off my back. And hopefully she'll see that she just missed a good time.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 06:43 PM
1

Makes sense. I see it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:51 PM
7

As an IT professional, I particularly appreciate this response.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:51 PM
1

One thing life has taught me (in my arguably few 41 years) is mental health problems are the realm of mental health professionals and the responsibility of the person with the mental health issues to address. Stop pretending you have any influence over people with mental issues or deep emotional issues. You wouldn't stay with someone because they had a broken spine. You'd take them to the doctor.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:45 PM
1

a lick of comfort. LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:39 PM
1

Wow, I just wanted to say, that was insightful. A real man would have said nothing and made a sandwich or told bitch to hurry and do it for him. I realized that to a hammer everything looks like a nail. Women use words and attitude to convey subtly. When men use words to simply communicate they can take it as passive aggressive and shitty. At least in my marriage this used to be a big issue, I think you just explained why.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:37 PM
2

Thanks. I kind of thought that but I hadn't read anything about it being done in a systematic way, just as isolated incidents.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:33 PM
1

I've heard... Lift heavy weight with less reps to get bigger and Lift lighter weights with more reps to get cut? Is that right?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:20 PM
2

I shudder to think about the repercussions of the next serveral generations, where men are woman-like. Can you imagine a country where feminism reigns in a war against a country where it has very little to no influence at all? Steel sharpen steel, no woman made me a man. It's not women that instill the courage and fear of ridicule that makes men step into combat. They may inspire men to protect them, but not to aggressively attack threats.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:55 PM
1

The PC term is "African-American" feelings.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:16 PM
1

Since that movie, whenever I hear or read Socates, in my head I hear "So Creates". Damn you B ill and Ted!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:14 PM
2

I was referring only to your quote about non-combat personal "not amounting to jack shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:56 PM
0

For every guy who gets sent off all over the world, racks up a kill count, and has an unbelievable story to tell, there are over ten more who sit behind a desk and don't amount to jack shit. Go fuck yourself. I was a 13E (artillery) in the Army (Combat Arms). If you think the 9 out of 10 guys in the military who are not combat arms 'don't amount to jack shit' you have no fucking idea how the military works. Any grunt/red leg/et al worth a shit knows they can't do what they do with out support un…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:05 PM
-1

Amazing, I have an ass only I can ogle! How do you stop all the other guys from looking at it?
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:57 PM
2

Best advice I've even gotten regarding therapists (of any type): Discuss the treatment plan and how long it should take. After a couple visits they should have an idea of what the issue is and what the plan is to address it. Therapy in perpetuity is a scam. 2nd best advice: Shop around. If a therapist just isn't working for you find another that does.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 02:31 PM
6

This is an inappropriate conversation to have at work. I would say as much and if the person presses the issue inform HR. This is your job, it's not a social interaction. This conversation is a trap. This person is baiting you into saying something that they can get you in trouble over or they're wanting to force you to publicly endorse their politics. In social situations the rules are different, at work there are rules and she is breaking them. Never discuss politics, religion, or relationship…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:06 PM
2

"How do you know I haven't?" "My other wife said the same thing yesterday!"
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 08:00 PM
1

To use your vagina like a rented punching bag.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:25 PM
2

It's should have been funny. Example: Same as you're intentions with the check, to screw the other person.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:20 PM
6

The ONLY answer to "What are your intentions?" is: To crush my enemies, To see them driven before me and, To hear the lamentations of their women.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 06:49 PM
2

You are looking at this from the completely wrong perspective. You did her a tremendous favor by giving her the chance to go out with you. If you offered someone a $1000 and they said no thanks, would you be worried about how your mutual friends would view you? When/if they bring it up you should act like you were stunned that she turned down your charity, poor girl.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 06:34 PM
1

OK. In that context I see why'd you respond harshly, although I don't think it should have been so personal (unless she persisted).
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:06 PM
0

I see what you're saying but previously it was in no context at all. Just be cruel, as an art form.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:00 PM
6

They use the christian cross also. What does that have to do with anything?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 07:31 PM
-9

This is total BS. If you want to be a dick, then just be a dick. Don't hide behind TRP or being alpha. If your alpha then you'll have plenty of justified opertunities to be cruel. But being cruel just to be cruel is fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 07:30 PM
-2

Totally disagree. Even with your Bill Hicks example. If the story is true, the waitress wasn't attacking him or insulting him. And he just strait up insulted the shit out of her. Insults should be all you suggest, but just like punches, they should be reserved for people who deserve them. Using insults like this is a lot more work than just putting an "I'm a huge dick!" sticker on your forehead.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 07:25 PM
1

I am a disabled vet and I am working on MRP. I think you might be expecting too much too soon. Like a lot of military guys you probably find a goal and push relentlessly until you achieve it. MRP is probably the same thing. However, you're talking about changing yourself and how other people see you (people who've know you for a long time). That takes time. A lot of time. During that time and even long after you will make mistakes, lose frame, etc. Try thinking of TRP/MRP as a race you can't win…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 03:20 PM
1

Excellent.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 01:47 PM
1

I was just pointing out that your comment crosses the line between being alpha and being a duche. Nice (weak) psudo-attack, shutdown attempt, you just got even more douchey. Can you not defend your point without insults? Or is blatantly insulting people how you make yourself feel good (ie because your'e so shallow)?
/r/askTRP12/05/15 12:36 PM
3

Going to get shit for this but here goes... If you want a lazy, stupid woman with 0 self control and 0 self respect than a fat ass is for you. IMO - Being alpha does not mean being shallow and superficial. Maybe we should round them up and gas them, huh? What about guys that have a thing for fat chicks? I bet your the kind of guy that laughs at fat people in the gym. Hypocritical bonus point - If you said something like to me in person I'd think about as highly of you as you do of them. Pride in…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 02:04 PM
3

My mother was a cop, my father worked at a liquor store and went to night school (she made more than him). When she divorced him, he got my brother and I, and she got my sister. My dad had to pay her 500 per month in child support, and she constantly went to court to get it increased. By the time my sister turned 18 my father and mother both made good money and the child support payments were outragious. BTW - tl;dr - Fuck you, I read the whole thing. LOL
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:56 PM
1

From the Havamal (Norse Myths) 83. The speech of a maiden should no man trust nor the words which a woman says; for their hearts were shaped on a whirling wheel and falsehood fixed in their breasts.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 01:54 AM
2

I read this a little different. I was in the Army. I got wounded and had a very hard time adjusting. Either my wife handled it better or I did but we made it through it. I am not making excuses for this guy but this is a fairly common thing in 'on base housing'. A lot of guys get married before they get deployed so their girl friends can have benifits/access to the base while they're gone. Then you head 'over there' and you expience shit you can't talk to your wife about. She feels, ignored/isol…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 08:20 PM
2

Just have to add, while reading this, I was listening to "the times they are a changing" by bob Dylan, LOL half way through it ended and "the sound of silence" started up as you go to the jail part. Appropriate sounds track is appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 06:48 PM
2

Years go by fast, it's the days that take forever.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 08:30 PM
4

A person is smart, people are dumb.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 08:29 PM
1

Thanks man! That's awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 01:01 PM
1

Never worked out before. Working on establishing a habit first.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 10:20 PM
1

I've been going light. Not to failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 09:21 PM
1

Not that bad but I'm not a german arm wrestler.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 09:08 PM
1

Shit, I'm left handed. I don't think this'll work. Any other ideas?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 08:09 PM
1

Thanks. This is what I thought would happen but wasn't sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 06:57 PM
2

I said I was lifting, not discovering the internet for the first time. LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 06:57 PM
1

Short story to re-enforce this. I make damn good money. I don't manage people, but I am concidered an expert in the field. My SMV seems to be higher than I giv emyself credit for, but I used to avoid any flirty women (out of what I thought was respect for my wife). Few weeks ago, my group of friends found a bar centrally located and started going there. Been there a few times and wife comes with. Young (big tittied) waitress walks up to me 12 feet in the door, hands me my brand of beer and says …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 06:53 PM
1

"I'm not mad. I'm doing what I like doing." This is what I've been doing sort of. If she asks "are you mad?", "why are you ignoring me?" etc, I explain that I do what I like doing, and if she wants attention she needs to make that enticing for me. Not like catering to my every entertainment whim, but in more of a 'don't do things I dislike' sort of way.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 06:24 PM
1

You solution is right in your example: "a kid is troublesome, and if he/she comes from a single mom situation, people say "there's no father in the picture" " Kid is messed up because there's no father. Father = good influence. Also, there are lots of reasons a father wouldn't be around that are not bad reflections. If the father passed away for instance. I think this trend of delinquents without fathers shows how beneficial men are to society. I heard a quote once from someone who said 'if we d…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 06:18 PM
1

I'm balding, top back and widows peek. I fucking owe that shit. Full beard and psudo-ramp-hawk about 5/8 inch high. Hard to describe but looks like an intentional style all my own.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 06:01 PM
1

I think you're doing great (as much as that matters), but if I might make a suggestion... Like the Captain and First Officer analogy, I would focus more on "This is our destination, and we (or I if you're not onboard) are going there". The 'why' is the part you could leave out. Being prior military, the officers in charge (the good ones anyway) would not offer 'why'. Sometimes you got the 'why' but it was a reward for past perfomance or an incentive.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 06:21 PM
0

Been (imperfectly) implementing MRP for a few months. My wife pulled this twice now. My marriage is not your marriage but... I was at the point where I knew something had to change and if that meant the marriage then so be it. Needless to say, I 'called her bluff' both times and when she saw that I was serious about ending it she stopped both times. Each time she 'calmed down' I thought she was coming back to up the ante, but instead she appologized and submitted to my frame. It was scary, the p…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 07:12 PM
1

have you thought about asking this in /r/marriedredpill ? Still pretty new to MRP, about 3 months, I thought this was the forum to ask questions for both. Is that not the case?
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:25 PM
2

I agree and I think she tossed a little dread in there to boot.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 08:20 PM
2

Thanks for your quick response. I think you're right, on all counts.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:27 PM
1

Very Dune-esque.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 06:19 PM
1

If Happy Fun Ball begins to smoke, seek shelter and cover head.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 03:01 PM
1

If Happy Fun Dude begins to smoke, seek shelter and cover head.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 03:00 PM
1

I don't feel like posting details about my childhood on here but I have every excuse to be a serial killer there is (except sexual abuse). This is my prime struggle with being assertive (not just TRP). Don't get me wrong I was an assertive person. I could stand up for myself, and I sometimes would, but only to strangers. I devoted myself to learning things and skills so I could be more helpful to people around me. Carpentry, landscaping, computers, auto-repair, HVAC, and on and on. I wanted to b…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 01:00 PM
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Perfect.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 09:00 PM
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This has occured to me as well.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:59 PM
1

Right on. Appreciate it. After reading a few posts I think I get it. It's about the method and not begging or persistiing until she 'gives in'.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 07:53 PM
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She'd be willing but she's basically just going to lay there.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 07:38 PM
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"Not romantic? I took a shower and everything! How's that not romantic?" That was joke - preempting the backlash.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 07:33 PM
1

You ever chase a pussy cat? she runs away and hides. never chase pussy in any way shape or form. what you do is walk off and take a seat like a king in your throne. have a drink. watch some TV. read. dont look for or expect pussy cat...then when kitty comes and rubs against your leg you smile and say "why hello little girl? whatcha been doin? Come sit in my lap and give daddy a kiss" Please clarify. I shouldn't initiate sex? I am supposed to wait for her to want it?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 07:28 PM
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It helps me (still pretty new to TRP as well) to remember, she didn't make you this way. You allowed yourself to slip into this. It's your fault. You have to fix yourself. Don't be agree at someone you allowed to take adavntage of a situation you created. Not trying to be harsh but it is what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 07:04 PM
1

Started eating better, looking for a weight set. Doing burpee's, push ups, leg lifts, until I find one. Just started TRP about 2-3 months ago.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:52 PM
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This is what I was thinking. Glad to get confirmation. FYI: I am sure this is exactly what will happen (I'll stop, she'll ask).
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:50 PM
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I did not tell her about it.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:33 PM
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My first thought: She wants to move to the next level without having to discuss it with you.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:52 PM
1

I love the saying "Burn me once that's on you, burn me twice that's on me."
/r/askTRP23/03/15 01:50 PM
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Well, lets say you're right. How could you tell the difference? If less decendants fom certain males survived to be entered in to the study or never existed, how would the study be able to differentiate? I know the people who produced the study are saying that but I'm saying the data is more ambiguous.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:21 PM
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It may have been an automated message. There are apps that do that.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 07:10 PM
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That's not what I think the study says. I think what it really says is that of people living today they descemded from less males. This doesn't mean 17 time more famles reproduced than males.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 07:02 PM
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Although, you can at some later point decide the fire burned you retroactively and have the government force fire to pay for you burn treatment.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:03 PM
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I think what it really says is that the people surviving today are decended from a limited number of forefathers. Think about this, probably most guys reproduced. But if you have one wife and only have a few kids they could die from all different causes and not reproduce. Illness, war, lack of resources, the list goes on. They may not reproduce for no reason at all. But if you're a king and you do a differnt chick at each meal; you're going to have a lot of offspring. Chances are more of your de…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:33 PM
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By this dumbass logic how could a guy ever have sex with a woman (assuming he didn't want to rape her)? The premise here is even if a woman comes on to me, is all hot a bothered for my special attention, and I want it, she can decide at any point in the future that it was rape? This is mental illness. Not trying to be funny. Edit: I bet there is a relation between the "I now think I was raped" and the "rapist' beig seen with a new girl.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:22 PM
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Learned the idea a long time ago, someone here said it poetically. Same concept, but I repeat to myself: Regret hurts more than rejection (or failure). Regret (to me being) on my death bead thinking about all the stuff I missed out on because I was too scared.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:08 PM
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That's what I thought this was. I heard about an app exactly like this that does that. Can't remember the name though.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 02:40 PM
1

I stand corrected.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 01:43 PM
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Right, but a standard deviation can be any value (theoretically) it could be 5, 27, 452, depending on the sample/population size.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:48 PM
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fi You forgot 'fi'. LOL
/r/askTRP18/03/15 12:45 PM
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Ah, I see.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 09:18 PM
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I don't have one. I saw a post on here I was going to follow. But now I'm thinking I may need to hire someone who can help make a routine that'll work under my circumstances. That's a good point. I think I need to change my paradigm. I look at it like a chore I need to do. I think I need to look at it more like a challenge.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:52 PM
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I did. The damage to my leg is crush damage and I had to have surgery on my ankle (never regained full/painless use). I go to the VA and I've seen civilian doctors. It's a good as it will ever be. Thanks for the comment.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 08:48 PM
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If she wasn't your only plate you wouldn't be asking this.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 07:55 PM
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!bang vs bang
/r/askTRP17/03/15 07:49 PM
2

Wouldn't that depend on the standard deviation?
/r/askTRP17/03/15 07:49 PM
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I have noticed a huge difference in how people react to me since I've started maintaining eye contact. I am not shy or self conscienious but I I think a lot. I have a very cerebral job and I noticed after reading about eye contact here that when I'm thinking and walking through the halls I looked down. Now, I make eye contact right up until it get uncomfortable, then I hold it a little longer. I've been at my job for about a month and a half. My manger asked me the other day why the executives s…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 07:34 PM
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Just my 2 cents: It seems like what you're saying is you want women to be attracked to you for your looks. Sorry, not going to happen anymore than it does now. I am in nearly the same boat as you, I don't win beauty contests. But I have never had a problem with women once I get a chance (which I make [or made I'm married now]). I can't count how many women who've told me "I wasn't even attracked to you at first". Yeah we know what that means. Here's the deal: So you're not the best looking guy, …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:11 PM
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Thanks man. It was hard for me to wrap my brain around the responses(fogging, negg’ing, etc) without engaging in the argument. You illustrated it well.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 07:24 PM
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Found it "How to build boundaries during your transition". Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 07:20 PM
1

That's right, Ice...man.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 07:16 PM
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Yeah that was the big "ah ha!" moment that the whole post was supposed to be about. I guess it got lost in the details (or my less than professional writing abilities).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 07:05 PM
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Excellent idea. Her: What is it about my wanting to stay that is bad for our marriage? !?! I'm tired, not having a good time. You know I didn't want to come (she actually suggested we go). You're going to stay here and do god know's what (never given her a reason to think I would cheat on her but she likes that one) while I go home? Note: Recently she started working out of town. So she'd undoubtedly throw this on there too... Her: We only have the weekends together and I want to spend time with…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 07:03 PM
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What's so funny about Biggus Dickus? I have a very good friend in Rome named Biggus Dickus.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:40 PM
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Don't know why, but this just made me think of the scene in TopGun where Goose says "No, man it's true, I got a great polaroid of it". LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:35 PM
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Link?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:32 PM
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I have ordered some of the books. I am pretty sure WISNIFG is in the list of ones I orderd. They're in the mail. "It's true. My staying here has nothing to do with working on our marriage. But I still want to stay". (Fogging and broken record) That's the golden ticket right there. That's exactly what I should have done. "What is it about my wanting to stay that is bad for our marriage? I would really like to stay." (Negative inquiry and broken record). That would not work in my situation. My wif…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:32 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:07 PM
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Of course I meant if this sort of story was appropiate. Like talking about camping, leads to someone else's 'I almost died scaling a cliff story', to 'hey you ever get in trouble in the wilderness?'. Not just, "so how's you day?", "Oh, man, this one time in Brazil...". I done some stuff, and seen some things. I have some stories that are true and have had people call bullshit. I'm just saying, in a group of my friends that know they're true (or were there) the reaction is different. Women notice…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 06:04 PM
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I suppose I mis-represented the 'fight'. I will expand. Last couple years we've been on the verge of divorce. She would use this as leverage in fights. On this occasion she returned to the table and asked "So, you're staying here? How is this working on our marriage?" I responded with, "And how is you're leaving working on our marriage?" I didn't enter the fight, I wasn't angry. I had this "stay, go, whatever" attitude. The shaming was in her attempt to embarrass me and my being aloof actually m…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 05:58 PM
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I was saying the advice was not saying "women are evil". And that you wouldn't treat dangerous things irresponsibly. Allowing a woman's emotional storms to dictate the status of your relationship would be treating a dangerous thing irresponsibily.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 05:49 PM
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Sounds like you're reading that advice like "she's evil, and she'll destroy you", when you should be reading it like "Nitroglycerin is dangerous, and it'll kill you". Nitroglycerin is not evil, exploding is just what it does.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 03:13 PM
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I like the Han Solo reference.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 03:08 PM
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I have to disagree (kind of). I think women pay very close attention to bravado, but what they watch is if other guys let you get away with it. If you're in a mixed group and you're talking about that time you were stalked by a leopard when you visited the Amazon and how you had to out smart it and eventually 300 style kill the shit out of it (AND ITS TRUE), and guys around you accept it you get points. If someone calls you out and calls bullshit you lose points. EDITS: Typos
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 02:31 PM
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Alpha hunting: https://huckberry.com/journal/posts/man-kills-grizzly-with-hands-and-teeth Just kidding but I'd buy that dude a beer.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 02:28 PM
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Exactly what I thought, as well. Thing/activities don't make you alpha. You make your things/activities alpha things/activities. New so, just my opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 02:25 PM
1

Should have worn the shirt she didn't like then insisted you take a poll of the ladies at your destination on what they thought. Don't think I'd really do that but seemed funny.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 02:19 PM
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Can you prove the name of the source material so I can reference: Fogging, Negative Inquiry and Negative Assertion? Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/15 04:06 PM
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I am still pretty new to MRP, so others may correct me on this, but... My marriage had gotten to the point where it was just tollerable periods between fights. Pre-RP I had identified that she had very little respect for me. I had stated as much several times. After implementing RP she actually asked about it in a round about way. I told her that she did not respect me and I had blamed her for it, when in fact her not respecting me was actually my fault and something I needed to fix; thus the ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/15 06:52 PM
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Absolutely. That is the key. No one likes second prize.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 09:26 PM
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I agree. My situation is that if I told my wife about any of this she would view the changes (that have had great results) as some kind of game to win at. She would read the material and try to find weak areas to test/take advantage of. I make it a point to frame the changes as 'I am changing as a person', which is true.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/15 07:46 PM
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I heard a guy suggest one time that if a woman falsely accuses a guy of rape she should have to server the sentence. I think this should be the rule for any false allegation. And it shouldn't matter if the accused is imaginary.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 07:41 PM
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The money phrase: "The court also ruled that a mother's potential culpability under criminal statutes was of no relevance in determining the father's child support liability in a civil action." <-- "civil action" being the child support case.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:58 PM
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You seem to have a lot of excuses for everything. Second TRP is not about getting laid, it's what happens as a cosequence of being Alpha. Did you think you could be alpha wihtout changing a single thing in your life? You sound really comfortable. <- Hint that's a bad thing.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:51 PM
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"I want to get laid" <- That. That, right there, is your problem. Get it over with (the hooker 'nuclear' option) or find some other way to get it off your priority list. Every guy here knows what this is like and it's killing every aspect of your game. I think women can smell this a mile away.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:48 PM
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Join the morom church.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:44 PM
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Sounds like you want to get back with her but don't want to admit it. Like you want TRP to endorse it. No one here can possibly judge your situation even if you wrote volumes about it. If you follow TRP then you know the answer is 'shes demoted' and there's no coming back from that. Sorry to be so direct, it's just my opinion, but I'm an asshole. Edit: typos
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:40 PM
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Or invite her to join...?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:24 PM
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Or fill her time with introductions. Friday 8pm: This is Lisa... Friday 11pm: This is Monica... Sat 1030am: This is Jenny... Sat 2pm: This is Betty... Sat 5pm: (rest for god sakes) Sat 8pm: This is Stacy... Until she gets tired of it.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:23 PM
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Totally agree with the above. However, I would add that any compromise you're willing to make to accomodate your roommate should come with a comment stating that although you have/feel no obligation to conform to her expectation you are will to do so as a favor. I would also state that favor are not free and you at some furture time will expect something in return. This way you are not verbally renegotiating your rental agreement.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:20 PM
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It just occured to me that this insight on my part is probably due to the fact that I am married. So it's MRP. Had I been single that may have been my take on it.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 03:50 PM
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I am pretty new here and I saw almost immediately what you're talking about. When I was first exposed to TRP it came off as male focused self-improvement and women were just a benefit that came with the improvement. But reading the comments (not the source material) turned that on it head. Then I realized these were people missing the point.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 03:02 PM
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I never had a mother. Well I did actually for a short time (it's kind of required). But she left when I was 4. There are downsides to losing either parrent for whatever reson. But here's the rub: it's not how you suffered but how you overcome it. You can change your circumstance and grow as a person. I know you can.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:55 PM
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Reminds me of (well-known) body builder I heard doing some self-improvement show and he asked, "Why would you mock a fat guy in the gym? He's actively working on changing the very thing you're mocking him for." I immediately thought this doesn't just apply to the gym but to everything.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:06 PM
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Sad fact #217. Had you called the cops on her for hitting you, you'd probably been carted away in cuffs anyway. There's a youtube video that lists the extra benefits women get in our society and among them they state this with references. Men are usually arrested when there's domestic violence even when it's perpetrated by the woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 01:50 PM
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Not RP related but I'd like to offer some advice on this one statement: "have 2 kids a girl in high school and a boy in elementary So she says I’ll take the boy and you keep the girl so she can graduate with her friends and then I’ll come back for her in a year" This happened in my family when my brother, sister and I were young. The kids were split up and never lived together again. Everyone involved has said to me at one point or another that this was a huge mistake. It damaged the relationshi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 09:15 PM
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If I retroactively withdrawal my consent before she does, does that mean she raped me? <Joke>
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:49 PM
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I agree with some of the other people here, I don't think you need to go out of your way to be a dick to over come social anxiety. Except maybe once to shock the system, maybe. I have a little rule I follow (maybe this will be a little more practical). If there's something you're not supposed to do, but there is no rule or more important, law against it, do it. I have done this for a while and at first (even sometimes now) it's very uncomfortable. People around you will shit when you do it, then…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:26 PM
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Actually this is true from time travel. If time machines were ever invented then we should have already been visited by future travelers. We'd know before we attempted it that it works or not. Synopsis: Your logic is flawed because I found a single instance where it is untrue. Total sarcasm, just thought that little premiss fit so perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:40 PM
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Why would you think a beta with a little power would suffer an alpha? A beta with a little power gets to play alpha, but even the threat of a n actual alpha can potentially threaten to expose him.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:36 PM
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The title is right on the money. Awesome title. He wants to punch Morpheus for offering him the truth. Morpheus: [offers red and blue pill] Neo: [reaches] Morpheus: "Remember, all I am offering is the truth. Nothing more." <his versio> [Neo recoils. Then punches Morpheus] Sounds about right.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:31 PM
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If TRP was truly not a logical, intuitively correct idea they wouldn't need to censor/suppress it. The Westburrough Baptist church had no spike after being on every news channel for weeks. You don't have to suppress stupid.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:24 PM
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My take on the book and my limited (new) take on MRP is that they are pretty incompatible. The book wants men to engage women in communication by using their methods or 'language'. And the reverse, which is why it seems reasonable. Which it is, reasonable. But reason is a purely Martian quality according to TRP. Two additional points: 1.) In my experience, my commitment to ideology in "Men are from Mars..." was absolute, her attitude was more like 'This is an amusing game, to be dropped at the s…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 03:51 PM
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I was just like your friend. In fact, I let my wife ruin my friendship of 30 years in some serious next level blue pill shit. My friend, I realize now took the red pill (naturally or he may be on here now). His advise to me and interactions with my wife were really RP (he took no shit from her, at all, period). I couldn't see it or I wouldn't see it. I thought: "well his wife's very different than mine." "He's an asshole to people who aren't his friends (I can't be like that)." "I don't want to …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 03:16 PM
1

I see, it's not focusing on yourself, it's focusing on yourself first.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 02:25 PM
1

I think you need to dread her hard. She clearly isn't behaving. What does this mean? I can't find a definition for dread in the glossary, but I've seen it used several times.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 10:08 PM
1

Ok, I'm new to RP but... How do you know when you cross the line of healthy self interest to down right selfishness? ie How many aspirin can kill you?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 09:53 PM
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Depends on you circumstances, but I'd go with "try it". Just as dry and matter-of-fact as you can, then stair her down. Treat it like a verbal threat. Or go the complete other way and treat it like a 10 year old threatening you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 09:41 PM
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Because it doesn't support their view/agenda. It's cognitive dissonance, and confirmation bias.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 08:44 PM
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I meant subconsciously. As in "his time and attention are mine, thus I am jealous". But even more so, as in, all of his resources are mine, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:41 PM
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Thank you, that's what I was looking for. An abusive guy would probably approximate Red Pill qualities like 'not putting up with her shit'. Without putting to fine a point on it.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:38 PM
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Both, but based on a lie. Confidence can be 'faked until its made' because it's subjective and basically an opinion. The lie all his SMV and confidence was based on was a verifiable (false) fact, so it was going to unravel at some point. No one can ever prove you are not as confident as you act (unless you let them). I don't think the 'bitch' was necessarily lying. It may have been that she remembered it incorrectly. There's a psychology experiment where they made up childhood memories for peopl…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:58 PM
1

You're comments made me think (and look differently) at domestic violence. The idea that a woman would stay with a guy who assaulted her is completely beyond me. Yet I hear about it all the time. Perhaps, it is viewed [rationalized] as a sort of defensive response to a shit-test by women. Like in older movies, a hysterical woman, being slapped back to reality, but taken to an extreme. Just a thought... Just so you know after several edits, that doesn't sound like I intended. Oh well fuck P.C. Ju…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:51 PM
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Very new to this whole forum/concept but sounds to me like a valid complaint wrapped in a shit test. ie It sounds like she should have handled it better.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/15 08:56 PM
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I love the line "anything other than enthusiastic consent means no". Conversation, guy - "Hey baby lets make love", girl - "OK", guy "Can you say it a little more enthusiastically?" girl - "You're into some weird shit aren't you?"
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:55 PM
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Heard it somewhere else but found it really interesting. If a drunk girl cannot give consent, why can I be convicted of a crime while I am drunk? Am I able to make rational decisions while intoxicated and therefore responsible (legally) for them? Then why is she not? Just pointing out the hypocrisy/double standard.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:49 PM
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Wow, your comment, taken to it's logical conclusion means the GF actually (literally) sees her BF's resources as belonging to her and the little sister is stealing them from her.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:35 PM
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Goddamed right. Friends, dates, whatever. This needs to be taught in school. If you invite someone out to eat you pay.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:17 PM
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I agree completely and wanted to add, I am immediately suspicious about any thing "the media" or the government tries hard to convince people is dangerous (and has absolutely no merit at all). Drugs (including steroids) are a good example. Also, I tell my son all the time, when someone tells you something obvious (particularly when they tell you more than once), it's because they are trying to convince you. If it was true they wouldn't need to state it.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:13 PM
1

So does this mean that there is no domestic violence in gay (male) couples, or that it's all domestic violence?
/r/MensRights24/02/15 02:25 PM
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