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I agree. She saved my marriage with her advice. I took everything she gave me and ran with it. I listen to her often on her podcast and I am SO grateful someone mentioned for me to read her when I was in such a bad place in my marriage. She was literally a godsend and I can’t thank her enough.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 04:15 PM
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I understand how painful this must all be. My advice would be to move foreword. Since you are already divorced your worst mistake is waiting for him to come back. At this time it may be hard but you need to work on being YOUR best self. Do self care, make yourself happy do things you love to do. Maybe self reflect and read some books on marriage, if you haven’t already. Find out if you were inadvertently contributing towards some negative aspects in your marriage. Work on your attachment style. …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 04:06 PM
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Many woman use RPW as manipulation to get what they want from men they don’t genuinely care about. That is not what it’s about at all. Manipulation isn’t respect and respect is what we give our respectable men.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 03:05 PM
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Yes. 100% better. After reading the empowered woman and learning how to actually be a proper wife. Yes. He loves me so much now. I got sick and he took such good care of me, giving me vitamins and orange juice and checking in on me. He tells me he loves me all the time and is so grateful for me. He does the things for me now that he never did before, got me all my Christmas presents on his own and filled my stocking with no help from me at all. He has asked me on dates, and we spend time togethe…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 04:39 PM
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That’s where you say “ouch”.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 05:24 PM
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I was asking my husband why men would do this and he said some men in the red pill community will do this to show they have control in the relationship and so you know he has the freedom to do whatever he wants and he is in charge. My husband did tell me that he doesn’t agree with this tactic. And that by him being a respectful, strong man he would want to protect and take care of your feelings. Not test them.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 06:01 PM
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Thank you I appreciate your contributions to better my life.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 07:49 PM
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It’s been slow moving… he told me he doesn’t feel a spark with me anymore and it’s bothering him because he likes that feeling. He did say he loves me very much, thinks I’m attractive and beautiful and wants to take divorce off the table. But he also said that I’ve become too common place in his life. Almost like my attractiveness doesn’t even matter because he’s too used to me. If you have any advice onto how to rekindle the spark in our relationship it would be greatly appreciated. I am all ea…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 07:18 PM
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I was starting to feel like I may have. But I can’t begin to go down that road. My main drive is my family and I will always try my best and hardest to be successful even if one of us is faltering. Having said that I will not and cannot control my husbands actions. I can only be here to receive his love and strength and wisdom for our family and fix the things in me that are hurting him. I will stay, and this is probably one of the hardest things I’ll do. Because He truly has the freedom to leav…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 04:51 PM
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I am actively working on being fun, flirty, carefree and sexy in the bedroom our sex was getting extremely boring and I can see how it wasn’t fun or exciting. It wasn’t fun for me either. I have taken the role of being more submissive and cute and fun and it has done A LOT of good. This is one aspect we were never terrible at and something we both enjoy to do. It just became so dull and now I’m trying to do better!
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 04:21 PM
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I have told him my boundary. I will not be left again and if he does choose to leave he can not come back into my life and have all of the things that I’ve given to him. That I deserve a good man and will not tolerate being treated that way, and I will not allow our children see their father figure treat me as such.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 04:14 PM
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He has told me he doesn’t believe that monogamy is natural anymore. He thinks that men naturally want to impregnate as many women as they can and that monogamy can’t work with men. This is how he explains the feelings of him wanting to date and have sex with other women.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 04:08 PM
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Thank you so so so much. This is very helpful and fills me with hope. I appreciate your input and your experience. I did change. I was so worried and on edge all the time. I finally found peace in my femininity. And I realized I was over masculinized from all of the stress. I needed to take care of me first and then I can take care of everyone else but I am definitely at a low point. I got sick the week he got home and he has been helping take care of me. Which has given me some hope. He also te…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 03:56 AM
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This is absolutely beautiful to read. We have been looking at MC’s where we live. Just haven’t found the right fit yet. I agree about rekindling the flame. We are in the midst of trying to do that now that we are back together. It is refreshing to hear that you have been through something so similar to my husband and that you made it through. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your input. Thank you so very much.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 03:44 AM
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This is SPOT on what is happening. I had no outside help from family. He didn’t want everyone thinking he was weak. This is reading exactly the situation. I’m glad I could help clarify. Thank you so much for your response.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 02:50 AM
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Marriage is entirely based on mutual support.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 02:02 AM
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I’m starting to realize that the reason I was feeling all of those negative things is because I wasn’t feeling like I could be safe and supported in my marriage and I wasn’t trusting that my husband could take care of me. I’m sure this would be devastating for a man to feel like he wasn’t being given complete trust from his wife. I am working very hard to put my trust in his hands as I always should have. But as you said it may be too late. And it’s on both of us. I just don’t want to fail our c…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 06:57 PM
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I have been actively working on fixing all of these negative and harmful qualities in my life. When he was gone I had time to reflect on myself and wonder why this was happening and I came to much the same conclusion. Thank you for your straightforward advice. I appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 05:58 PM
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This is some sound, great advice thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 04:49 PM
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Not as often as we usually would. Like 3 times a week.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 04:49 PM
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Our sex life was not good. 3 times a week He told me why he is unhappy and he told me it’s because 1. I worry too much about things. 2. I have too much animosity toward things that upset me. 3. Health is important to him and he wants me to be healthier. 4. He’s afraid to open up to me because I get defensive. 5. I expect too much. 6. I stress too much about our children’s happiness 7. His out look on monogamy has changed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 04:44 PM
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This is pretty much what I’ve come to terms with. If he can’t be the man in my life someone else will fill the role. I just worry about our children. I don’t want them feeling abandoned by their father.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 03:36 PM
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