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That was my life till I finally left! FDS saved me from feeling like I was the insane one ☝️ for not wanting to put up with that crap. My sons father never said those sexist comments but he behaved exactly the same! Mind you I was also working a full time job and taking care of our 2 dogs. He’s been out of my sons life for 2 years. He saw him once and now he’s back. Always follow FDS and NEVER let anyone tell you your standards are too high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:04 PM
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As many wise queens before me have mentioned in this sub the bar is in hell for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:04 PM
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Oof. This one stings me. Is OP me? I never realized this red flag with my LVM ex till recently. Edit: I also am a very short legged person. I’m a very petite female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:27 PM
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Exactly. They’re usually single fathers because the poor woman couldn’t take it anymore. I said it out loud once and everyone stared at me like I had stabbed myself in the eye! I know my value and I know what I bring to the table. Why in hell would I settle for another version of my ex LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:19 PM
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Single mother here and I 100% agree. This is why even as a single mother I won’t date a single father. I mean I’m sure there are some exceptions where there can be a single father who is HVM but I feel those are rare. I’d rather be single forever than a date a single father. I just can’t why would I date someone else trash and bring him into my child’s life no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:07 PM
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Lmao Exactly! My mom is actually very FDS even though she takes on a traditional role. She always told me make moves and protect yourself so you never depend on a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:21 PM
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Omg yes queen! I wish I had done this in my early twenties. I gave away so much free labor. 🤦🏽‍♀️ it’s embarrassing. But to touch on your first point yes we never are unhygienic or actually sloppy. The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:20 PM
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Omg I hadn’t even thought of that horrible possibility that little queens are growing up thinking this is normal. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:05 PM
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Disgusting. I just can’t even express my thoughts on this. I feel bad for her she really thinks this is acceptable. Not even in my pickme days! This is why FDS is so important and hopefully she finds us one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:44 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 “You’re attracted to a horse’s ass?” Oh queen I needed that laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:33 AM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:47 PM
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Not all women though am I right? 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:17 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:31 PM
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It’s ok 👑 Queen I feel the same way. But now we know. Adjust your crown and hold your head up. We deserve so much more. 💅🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:27 AM
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I needed this 🥺 thank you. I love this sub so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:20 AM
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Thank you Queen! Took me some time my self esteem was in hell when I left but FDS saved me. All my sisters here have been so inspiring and incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:18 AM
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Unfortunately I don’t have to imagine. It’s ok it’s been almost a year. Best decision I ever made leaving thanks to FDS! I have so much peace now. Men are delusional. There are already men most even younger than me and my ex (who was younger than me) chasing after me.😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:31 AM
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Oh God what did I just read? 🤮 my eyes are burning I’m done with reddit today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:30 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:59 PM
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Me too sis. Sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:59 PM
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Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:41 PM
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Amen 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:33 PM
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It will get worse once the baby comes. He won’t help and she’ll still be treated this way and EXPECTED to work, cook, clean, watch the baby. Oh yeah drop the weight immediately even though her body has gone through trauma. If she can’t keep up the expectations he’ll neglect her and gaslight her. He’ll start projecting his insecurities because he knows she deserves better but won’t step up. Eventually she’ll be so insecure that she’ll think it’s her fault and have body image issues until she fina…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:06 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:11 AM
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Exactly 👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:52 AM
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Don’t forget if you get MARRIED and have a BABY but still end up a SINGLE MOM because the father is LVM. There’s a stigma. 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:15 AM
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🤣 I just laughed so loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:12 AM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:10 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:01 AM
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Ooof ain’t that the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:26 PM
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I’m triggered so hard right now 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:53 PM
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👑👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 good job queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:34 AM
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Omg and they are vegan too! What a great friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:39 PM
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One time and done! I wish I had implemented this in my 20’s it’s ok though we live and learn. All we can do now is move forward and help our sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:42 PM
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This is disgusting I can’t even think straight right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:08 AM
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Yes I watched this a while ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:42 AM
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Omg this made me tear up just reading it. 😭 We need to do this for each other more often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:22 AM
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Basically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:39 PM
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I just screamed 🤣🤣 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:39 PM
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I really love this sub. You all have helped me in more ways than you know. I found it just at the right time in my life. Now I’m focused on me and my son. 💪🏼👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:35 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:03 PM
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This is what makes my blood boil. Why is she with him? She’s raising two children. Please take out the trash. Thanks bye 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:45 PM
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I just laughed so loud omg 🤣🤣🤣 omg yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:12 PM
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Literally me now I can’t stop 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:31 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:34 AM
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Lol well if they do there’s some serious psychological issues there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:26 PM
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This can’t be real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:40 AM
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This 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:33 AM
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I love this so much! She’s an icon. I’m saving this to remind myself everyday. I create the life I want and I will succeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:07 PM
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I love that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:45 AM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:34 AM
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This makes me so happy. He’s a joke she’s been lifting 2 years and women naturally have more strength in their legs! Im so proud of her. He doesn’t even go to the gym. I’m glad she shut it down. What a 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:37 AM
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I’m sad for her she’s so beautiful it’s alarmingly damaging what it’s doing to her. I can’t imagine how her family feels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:34 AM
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This exactly! Before I had my son I’d go out alone all the time. Society is all backwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:50 PM
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I needed this ☝️👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:17 AM
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🤣🤣☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:03 AM
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S was/a see + o lo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:58 AM
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Omg 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:24 PM
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Yess 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 09:02 PM
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Exactly sis 👑👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:18 PM
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I know :( it’s ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:25 PM
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I know! But I tend to be calm and nice when I have my baby with me in public. I’m always wary when we’re out alone and I don’t want anyone to get violent towards me. I always feel afraid to speak up because I’m afraid of some violent person reacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:22 PM
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Being a single mom in these times is so difficult. I’m blessed to have my parents with me. I had one incident where I had no choice I had to take my baby with me to the store. He needed some things it was an emergency run and family couldn’t watch him. Everyone was staring at me in the store. I’m just standing there thinking “Do you think I wanted to bring a baby here?” I already felt guilty enough bringing him with me but I LITERALLY HAD NO CHOICE. He needed formula and food!! Like damn I didn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:16 PM
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Omg I love her now! Thanks for sharing such a queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:03 PM
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Truth!! So I can remind myself everyday. I took a screenshot. 😆👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 09:42 PM
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I love this so much 😭😭💅🏽👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:54 PM
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