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| 1 | Please un-ban Me | #KickHimOut2020 | LadyDraconii | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:40 AM |
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| 9 | Caught a man filming me yesterdayWashington State in the U.S. has some pretty solid laws regarding recording others without expressed consent ON the video, if any one is interested is some argument fuel. Enforcement of those laws may be a problem, but worth a look none the less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:06 AM |
| 4 | Vanilla is a word created by men to shame women for not wanting to re-enact porn and be degradedJust stoping in to stress that vanilla is extremely delicious. This post is a lot, but it has a good underlying question: "How do you find a vanilla guy?". Vanilla beans are extremely valuable. Even vanilla paste, made from those not so pretty vanilla beans, is rather profitable. Not to mention vanilla oils. That is a Whole class of a subject. A class people would pay $$$ to sit in too. Because vanilla is widely regarded as extremely delicious. Take whipped cream for example. Whipped cream may b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 09:42 AM |
| 2 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceYou have every right to feel violated. You were violated! No, I mean seriously. This dude is has committed a Bonified crime. Futhermore even without considering the world changing sick, spitting on someone is very serious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 09:13 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Creating Non-Approved FDS Spinoff Subs will Result in a Permanent Ban on all FDS related subs.That is a great question, I will have to look into it. Thanks for letting me know. Have a lovely week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Creating Non-Approved FDS Spinoff Subs will Result in a Permanent Ban on all FDS related subs.Hi, I checked to side bar, and other than an empty, to me, page found under Sister Subs, I did not see a list of approved Spinoff Subs. The side bar of the one page listed under Sister Subs,, FemaleDSVerified, had an error loading message. If I may request, what are the FDS approved spinoffs, if any? Edited: Removed the / and the r that created a reddit link to FemalDSVerified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:51 AM |
| 11 | NVM destroyed meThey are likely "in a dream". Daydreaming is the textbook method of the type of disassociation targets of narcissist find themselves doing. The mind can only take so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:35 PM |
| 16 | NVM destroyed meI can confirm this. There is no hope with him, do NOT try to communicate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:31 PM |
| 11 | Why waste an award to say this?I just don't get it, what is so bad about "dieing alone"? In death are we not, and I mean all of us, alone? As opposed to what? Having my ex, soon‐to-turn serial killer, stab my clean through with his "super sharp" kitchen knives death? Yes, I'll take the alone old age death, or the alone but also super awesome way to go out death, thanks. (Like death by GMO lab made dragon or something.) What is so wrong with being alone? Am I just weird? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:09 AM |
| 56 | 'You never give nice guys like me a chance'Yes, that blob fish is actually dead. It's like posting a picture of dead Disney Thor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:25 PM |
| 12 | Like notify your girlfriend???"Visible Girlfriend/ wife items" needs to be on an FDS bingo card. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:47 AM |
| 3 | 😭😭😭😭Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:18 AM |
| 7 | 😭😭😭😭This is in line with my greatest fear, falling down the steps and breaking my hip. So many women I know have had this happen to them. I have had too many surgeries near my hip; I feel like I would never recover. Plus I am tall, so it would be a super long fall down the steps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:15 AM |
| 53 | How would you get out of a hostage situation?(stay at home mom)I haven't read the other replies, but I have lived through this. 1) Do NOT Say Anything To Your Spouse. 2) As soon as you can get a head start, Leave. Just leave. If you can pack a bit or legally take the children, sure, but you must Leave. You won't make progress with baby steps, he Will Just Sabatoge You. Leave now, sort it out later. I say this because there is a monster hidden in him, and I don't want you or anyone else to witness that kind of horror, ever. 3) Call for help. In the States🇺🇲,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Found on IG, thought I’d share. Stay safe and be aware ladies.And reproductive coercion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 6 | Oh the duality of straight men.. one month they're telling one guy they'd never date someone over 30 "because 18-20 year olds are just hotter" and the next month they're crying to a bunch of other straight men about being bald and unattractive at 31.Hey now, we 30+ don't want those crusty dudes. Look, they still have their gross boy cooties. We are to old to be dealing with cooties! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:14 PM |
| 21 | Quick Survey - How Did You All Find FDS?I looked at my then-husband, while he was screaming at me, and thought to myself, "Self, I wouldn't be taking this shit if we were dating. How did we get here?" That question led me to really Looking at my now-ex-spouse. I wasn't happy with what I saw; I started "re-vetting" him. The thing was, that I didn't know the term vetting, or even what I was vetting for. I mean clearly screaming at your wife is a Big No-no, but surely there was more that I was missing? So, anyway, I goggled "what to look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 11:45 PM |
| 6 | These are the people that young men look up to now on twitch.Well, you kinda nailed it all there. I did slip down that cliff, becoming a Barb the Builder, but never enough of one to appease my monster. (Yay?) Each boundary that was broken made the next one harder for him to get past, as I would fight harder for what remained. Then I did my best to climb out of that tar-y mess. When I started making progress on life improvement, the situation got very, very bad, and by bad, I mean unsafe. Down right life threatening. Then I left, and that is the begining. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 11 | These are the people that young men look up to now on twitch.I have been called "the laziest clean freak" one to many times in my life. Like, yes, I embrace chaos, Chuck, but no, I am not cleaning up after your dirty manchild self. I have things to do! And this sweater is on the back of the chair because it is airing out! I used to leave notes in sharpe, but never again! (Things like "Do NOT drop dirty cloths on top of this air vent. Not only does this make the room cold, but also stinky.") | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | This is sweet props to this mom!Okay, but from experience, the police WILL be brobro with the monster dude and women fighting off these monsters will end up in jail, even if they don't use "physical violence" persay. Like I fell on a dude; was paralyzed with fear (my core gave out and I crumpled). I went to jail because "he has marks". While in jail, nearly half the women who had the same basic story. SURPRIZE! So, please teach them about public defenders, and how crap those are, and "bail reduction" request. That is all I rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:18 AM |
| 31 | When a LVM sabotages the relationshipWe must understand that a good portion of the bridges we are told we burned never existed to begin with And this hurts so much. Like, here we are, trying to build a community of friends, love, and happiness, but noooooo. Can't be having all that beauty and loveliness in this world, can we? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | This was the image that flipped the switch in my brain. I can’t overstate how pivotal this simple message was in the way my thoughts on makeup changed, on how disenchanted I became with liberal feminism and how quickly it happenedI am not sure; I hypothesize that it has to do with the True Self. It was recommended by another, and it does seem to help though. I want to stress that I am still trying to build myself up and develop defenses against these sorts. I won't be ready to date until I have done all that work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:51 PM |
| 19 | This was the image that flipped the switch in my brain. I can’t overstate how pivotal this simple message was in the way my thoughts on makeup changed, on how disenchanted I became with liberal feminism and how quickly it happenedI just want to remind everyone that you can do what you want. If you want to wear makeup: okay. If you do not want to wear makeup: okay. Be the Queen you are. I wear makeup. Not because I feel "ugly". I wear makeup as a first line of defense against narcissist, and because eyeshadow is fun. Plus, my sunscreen is my base layer (basically tinted zinc oxide), soooo I kinda need that part. In fact, many of my repeat purchases are women crafted / owned items that benefit my skin. The fact that you La… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:10 PM |
| 3 | If Eve would have met FDSI think this is a depiction of Lilith too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Cliterati Down Under (Australian Doctor Explains the Clitoris + medical sexism)I only had 30ish minutes. I got this far: https://www.magonlinelibrary.com/doi/abs/10.12968/bjom.2017.25.11.724 Hopefully the key terms help toward the search. Note that this is not the full 7 page literature review. This is "what I can link". I am able to read scholarly articles from my County's Public Libraries web page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Cliterati Down Under (Australian Doctor Explains the Clitoris + medical sexism)Let us know what you figure out? Quick edit to add: I am pretty sure the baby exit, and thus the vaginal placement, is pretty spot on. Naturally born babies are inoculated just at birth by being pooped & peed on. I know that sound gross, but we are learning more and more about the human body's relationship with microbes. Turns out, without this microbial inoculated at birth, a person will likely get pretty messed up as they age (health wise). Iirc, the first two years of life are critical for ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Cliterati Down Under (Australian Doctor Explains the Clitoris + medical sexism)How about incontinence and prolapse control? What exactly do kegals work out? What makes self-massaging so productive in fighting incontinence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Just a friendly reminder for those of you who, like me, have struggled with thisI wish I could take credit, but the term is in the handbook (or one of the beginning post to read.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:51 AM |
| 15 | Just a friendly reminder for those of you who, like me, have struggled with thisSame. I didn't want to be the one to say "Well, yeah, the crows will really make a mess of things if I don't!" and bring down the energy, but yeah. My ex though, nah. Shopping is work. I have no desire to make extra work for myself, especially by pain shopping. I mean, I'm not even in the market for pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 5 | What’s a pick me man called??The "I'll take the question under this topic labeled for x dollars" is from a show called "Jeopardy!". The name of the host of Jeopardy was (is?) Alex Trebek. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alex_Trebek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Imagine, your country found your gender so worthless when you were born, your peers were left in ditches to die. Now there's a surge in single lonely men in China & it's your fault for not settling. Oh and a red pill moron is making an example out of you. 😡Oh, this is superb! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:03 PM |
| 23 | Imagine, your country found your gender so worthless when you were born, your peers were left in ditches to die. Now there's a surge in single lonely men in China & it's your fault for not settling. Oh and a red pill moron is making an example out of you. 😡If you have a link, or even a vague idea of the title, place, or name you read / saw this, pretty please let me know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 21 | LVM hate to be treated the same way they treat women.Same. Only real complement he ever gave me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:31 PM |
| 10 | If only men would be more “natural”Pretty sure that human parthenogenesis would result in a female child, so that adds evidence to your statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:27 AM |
| 32 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020I reported a corporation to the Better Business Bureau (BBB) It was easy, and yielded results. I had a problem with a major corporation (in the States). I called the corporation help desk and tried to communicate and resolve the issue. A call that took 4 workday hours. Turns out that call was a waste of time. I went through some angry mental processing, got all flustered, when I found my polite efforts yielded nothing. Then FDS popped into my head and saved the day. I realized that I don't have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 5 | This is what I’m saying next time a LVM interrupts meDue to "winner take all", these "other options" are an illusion. Don't get me wrong, I normally like to entertain the views of all parties, however this is Not the Time. We truly have only two options. If you would like to learn more about our "winner take all" system, look into the Wigs. On a much grander scale, that is the reality for small political parties, because "winner take all" is system of replace, not coexistence. (Note that I personally feel that little things like winner take all an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020You know, setting up a stool with a clown hat might be just the thing. It can provide a place to "be angry with My Self". Once time is served, the anger, now properly validated, and the slight, now properly atoned for, will stop trying to pop-up when my self-happyness is growing? Idk, but it's an idea to mull over! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 40 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkI find it suspect that he specified female (really "female", how dehuminzing). What has the done to boy children? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:18 AM |
| 24 | I’m dying....Dude really thinks a lesbian wants to have a threesome with him, lesbian tricks him into just letting her bang the girlfriend insteadHe knows, men aren't stupid they just play stupid to get ahead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Stay the course.Noone else mentioned it, but please be mindful that your nutritional needs are being met. Iron deficiency can bring about depression and the super weird depression / anxiety mix. Iirc, iron is the only thing women need more of than men, even after menopause. (I think we need more than double the iron that men do?) A Gastroenterologist is the type of doctor that handles dietary things. Not that a general practice doctor can't, but if you want to be vegan or something, GIs are the ones that will t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:02 AM |
| 6 | I recognized a rebound and love bombing situation, stood up for myself and ended it!That sounds really scary! I am so glad you are alive! Thank you for sharing your experience with the rest of us; it helps keep us alert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | I'm just focusing on myself!I saw Boobs, Test, and Beach. Considering my goals, I am going to get that breast reduction surgery, and have way less back pain. In class college classes will restart, and I will learn lots! And of course I will be near / at a beach, I always live that beach life (I was born to). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | When people ask me why I'm agitated of men.In writing, Idk. I know because of woman's therapy. For me, a male bigger and stronger than myself attempted to murder me, and he got a but scratched up in the process. Since he was an ""adolescent"", one taller than 6ft, I was charged with DV. I never got to go to trail, the state just kept me in jail (and took away my humanity). Note that I was exiled from my own home after the commissioner heard literally 5 minutes of hearsay, as it is defined legally. I never got to see my home again, as my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | When people ask me why I'm agitated of men.Unlike Washington state, where YOU, the woman, who was in your own home, will be charged with assault, kept in jail without trial (until you serve your time or plead guilty), and then discriminated against for being a "criminal". Oh, and you will loose said house too, that is the cake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Please keep this in mind, marrying a man should be a choice, not a necessity!Maybe White Town, I Could Never Be Your Woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:22 AM |
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