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| 7 | How can you tell if "My ex was controlling, abusive, crazy..." etc is the truth from a guy?The times where my husband has spoken about his ex unfavourably because was he was hurt by a great deal of her behaviour and wanted to talk about it. He doesn’t dwell and doesn’t have anything nasty to say about any other exes. Her behaviour was corroborated by her best friend who not only grew up with her, but married my husband’s best friend and cautioned my husband about her behaviour when he became interested in her. My husband doesn’t claim innocence in the relationship, as he reacted in wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 07:21 PM |
| 27 | A simple trick to combat negging...A friend of mine told me a guy tried to neg her, she asked if he ever heard of Mystery (the PUA), and he walked away. Turns out Mystery is her uncle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 04:25 PM |
| 30 | 🎶Let's just dress up infidelity and terminal self-centeredness with trendy vocab!🎶Back in my early 20s I’d have loved to date around and be unattached and unaccountable to a partner, except, I wouldn’t declare myself a sexual minority in the process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 237 | Male Postpartum (or, how women cannot be allowed to have anything br about us)I can understand a man being overwhelmed with a new baby, this helpless little human that you have to keep alive, your responsibilities have tripled, I understand, I really do. Overwhelmed, yeah, depressed over massive changes, sure, anxious, totally... But to call that Male PPD is ridiculous. When I think of PPD, I think of Brooke Shields, who was suicidal and then told on a public stage by Tom Cruise that it wasn’t real and using drugs was reckless of her. I think of Bryce Dallas Howard who wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Remember no man can be "baby trapped" if he doesn't let it happenI was making the point of LVW lying about using birth control when they aren’t, I would put more blame on them for betraying they’re partner. That being said when a woman’s BC fails, a guy can easily accuse her of lying without proof to garner sympathy. But, like I said, I don’t have a lot of sympathy for men claiming to be “baby trapped,” if a man doesn’t want a child he knows how to avoid it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 10:36 PM |
| 130 | Remember no man can be "baby trapped" if he doesn't let it happenYep, men who don’t want children do have more options than they let on: condom, vasectomy, abstinence. Even vasectomies are reversible. No excuses for getting “baby trapped.” It’s one thing if a man is being lied to by a partner and barebacking in good faith, only LV women do that, anyway, but don’t let your judgement be clouded by your dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:29 PM |
| 69 | Cosby Documentary: "Sex Therapist" Sonalee Rashatwar Claims "Sex Negativity" Caused Cosby's RapesSonalee also believes watching fat porn helps people unlearn their biases toward weight and attractions (pReFeReNcEs), and compares helping children with their eating habits to sexual abuse. Sonalee is nutty and full of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:18 AM |
| 29 | Dirty Talk in the Sheets: Yay or Nay?Dirty talk has its place, “I want blank,” “give it to me, good,” hell, I’ve even used “fill me up” on more than occasion. Him talking dirty to me can be as equally good, maybe similar to what I’ve liked using, I want a man to enjoy having sex with me and feel free to share what he likes and what he wants, so long as he understands that him calling me a “€um dumpster” and me calling him “daddy” doesn’t appeal to me whatsoever and shan’t be happening. I don’t think it has to detract from a relatio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 01:00 AM |
| 272 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.I’m expecting a boy and have no plans on holding back my expectations of him growing into a HVM. He can play video games and indulge in the fun nerdy stuff too, but one day he’ll grow up and gtfo my house, I’m not sicking him out on the world and other women blind deaf and dumb. A friend of mine has an almost two year old and it’s so cute what she’s teaching him. She got him a play kitchen and teaches him how to do simple things like preparing snacks, washing fruit. She got him a toy Dyson and h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 05:23 PM |
| 6 | How quickly widowers move on from their wives shows that they don't see women as people, just bangmaidsThat guy was clearly an asshole who married the living “evil stepmother sending his kids away trope.” No good man would support such an idea, the thought of a father doing such a thing would not be justified at all. But I also meant my comment in terms of women moving on. A mother will be seen as selfish for putting herself out there when she should be doing nothing but working and wallowing for the sake of her children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 12:28 PM |
| 57 | How quickly widowers move on from their wives shows that they don't see women as people, just bangmaidsI think another issue is that women are often scorned for even dating after widowhood, for admitting that they miss and want sex. A friend of my mother’s who was widowed before meeting my mom didn’t remarry until her children were well into adulthood, my mom states that what you should do. She was also none to pleased when a long time family friend who lost his wife to brain cancer and was in a live in relationship with another woman a few years later, they’re still together, but my mom maintain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 43 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughShe also announced her pregnancy in the same day he announced his new album. Shady gal didn’t GAF. Then he has the gall to say how “I don’t fuck with u” was a mistake and he regrets it, conveniently after she was already dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 04:08 PM |
| 27 | red flag: "I can't cook"If you can read, you can cook. Some people enjoy it more than others, some have other cooking aptitudes, totally fine. But the rule is clear, if you can read you can cook. When my dad started working from home and would cook more, he’d pull fancy gourmet stuff online and go nuts, he was working from home for the first time in 30 years when my mom was commuting, he had no excuse, so he did something about it. He can read, plus having the time, so he can cook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:15 PM |
| 3 | One Tree Hill analysisFor me, it’s not so much that Nathan gets a pass for shitty behaviour, but in general he grew up. He had to face his problems, Haley being a good influence had a lot to do with that, which isn’t a bad thing, but it’s not the ideal way to getting to the bottom of your life. That along with being a teen father forced him to really look at himself and who he wants to be. Lucas and Nathan have the same dad, and I think the goal for both of them was trying to be better than him. The difference is, Lu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:14 AM |
| 40 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡It’s from a bio pic of Ike and Tina, Ike invites Tina (who’s real name was Anna Mae) to eat some cake, at a diner, she declines, and after badgering her, Ike takes the cake and shoves it in her face and says “eat the cake, Anna Mae!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:53 AM |
| 72 | Chris Pratt continues to be the worstUnfortunately, the start of her relationship with Pratt started emotionally while she was still married. She admitted to having the conversation with her husband to end their marriage and went directly to Pratt to have sex. It was assumed that with her history, it may have repeated itself. However, hindsight shows that he likely left her to “trade up.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 58 | Every LVM's apology ever, to a t. Bonus points: doesn't include an actual apology :)I’m sorry for “what happened” (what I did). I’m going through a hard time, and you’re making it harder by being busy and this is basically your fault… Come on, man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 02:49 PM |
| 26 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.He traded Anna for a KENNEDY, which is way more clout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:20 PM |
| 12 | "WIFE 💍"boymom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.2nd amendment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Pick-me glorifies female oppression & slavery in the third world under the guise of protection of women.Yeah, well when nine year old girls are raped by adults and called wives, I’m sure we wAhMeNs will just go looking for something to bitch about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 7 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsHow much you wanna bet, she Junior’d that kid they have together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:51 PM |
| 79 | Nick Cannon is a devoted father lolBut, but, monogamy is Eurocentric, it’s racist to have seven children with just one woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 4 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleI’m 7 weeks and early pregnancy gives me the hungries like no ones business, I’ve gotten take out, hit up a vending machine. I’m sure it’ll balance out eventually. Also food aversions are a bitch, I can’t eat an apple without my stomach feeling all acid-y, my last pregnancy, bananas made me gag. Sometimes the carb-y, high cal food are the only thing that can keep the sick at bay, so sue me. Anywho, my husband is doing his job at encouraging me to remain active and be mindful of my eating because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"So, #boymoms on steroids? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"So, #boymoms on steroids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 12:40 AM |
| 5 | He’s a “Philosopher…”https://youtu.be/pDK9rhWBUlg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?He didn’t choose the NEET life, the NEET life chose him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 24 | JUST A FRIENDLY REMINDER: If he’s a HVM and wants to be intimate with you he will get tested for STDs firstI know someone who had an FWB who she was barebacking, her sister and I insisted she use condoms. She wasn’t able to use the pill and she’s already been pregnant once, though she miscarried. She updates us later saying that she handed him a condom, he tossed it over his shoulder and said “I don’t think you’re dirty.” WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:58 PM |
| 10 | Strategy/ Mentality Shift Suggestion: How about we stop thanking men for acting like we’re the catch?His family is worth $2 billion, I doubt he’s after HER money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:14 PM |
| 24 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outHe’s NoT rEaDy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 10:45 PM |
| 12 | The “personalities” of the contestants on next season of The Bachelorette... I think I would just go home early.His was probably the best of the bunch, I’m just confused... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:21 AM |
| 66 | The “personalities” of the contestants on next season of The Bachelorette... I think I would just go home early.Wtf is a skin salesman? Jeff 31 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:11 AM |
| 24 | Reproductive control is the cornerstone of male violence. From one generation to the next.But if you’re old and want a baby, God help your kid, it’ll be a dud and you’ll be dead before it graduates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 24 | What kind of dumbass neckbeard neggs Azealia Banks online?! LMAO!Come at the Queen, you better kill her, Azealia Banks has no chill and DGAF about what she puts on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 12:58 PM |
| 53 | Men who take naked pictures of sleeping women, and men who use hidden cameras to secretly film their sexual encounters, are compelling reasons to avoid casual sex until you have thoroughly vetted his character.This happened to Ronda Rousey when she said she found out a boyfriend took naked sleeping photos of her. She beat the shit out of him, found the photos and deleted them. Apparently she was still the bad guy for "abusing her boyfriend." The moral of the story is, it's always your fault... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Mainstream "women's empowerment" is a lie.I tried pole dancing because I wanted to build strength and muscle and maybe try something fun. Turns out other than my lack of coordination and upper body strength made me a bad pole dancer. It was also far too sexual, I remember many years ago I did a Pole Fit class which was actually fitness oriented and focused on the workout, not the sexuality. A friend tried it too and entered classes with other instructors who were even more sexual in their instructions, that was the brand of the fitness … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:00 PM |
| 7 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.My husband is such a book worm that he went and order What to Expect soon after I was pregnant, if anything, he was going to make sure I read the books with him. He’s an anxious guy and is worried about being in the delivery, but when the chips are down, he does what needs to be done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 17 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.CONTEXT: This is a AITA summary posted by George Takei’s website. The pickme is speaking in a comment thread. AITA summary: Wife and MIL don’t get along, all of a sudden, wife is pregnant and MIL is getting nicer, she wants to be in the delivery room. Husband says his mother wants to see the baby’s first breath. Wife doesn’t want her to see her vagina. Husband yells at pregnant wife. Pickme in FB comment doesn’t care, says husband needs support, too, that wife shouldn’t be bothered about being n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:49 AM |
| 11 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.He posted the summarized AITA on his Facebook, which his website does often, this comment was in a thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:45 AM |
| 5 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.He posts AITAs all the time, this is a comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:30 AM |
| 3 | The reasons behind the myth of short men having a “hard time” dating is other men, their own insecurities and how vicious they are to a taller woman who dares to show any interest.Coming from a short family, I've considered what life would be like if I were a guy, knowing that I'd be short. I'd considered what kind of woman I'd want physically and how I could make my height irrelevant to the relationship. My dad, who is a short man, but carries himself like a big man, his height has always been irrelevant. What is relevant is that he's someone who people trust, depend on and a person who's opinion is valued in his profession. Any high's or lows with my dad has nothing to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Did this crusty just blame rapist on women??Ok, Wizard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:59 AM |
| 32 | Use actual conditioner, groom, shower, wear nice clothes, and utilize the treatments for baldness. Us women take care of ourselves you need to as well.My husband got a pedi for the first time last year and greatly enjoyed it, we don’t do it a lot, but if we can find an excuse to get it done we will. Nothing gay about it. My brother in law was told that it was gay that he enjoys a bubble bath to de-stress, who cares self care in men is good, we just don’t you prettier than us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:28 AM |
| 24 | Joss Whedon being a dick isn't new, take it from his ex-wife. Reminder, Out-N-Proud Male Feminists are NO FRIEND TO WOMEN.I’ve never thought of it that way, but it’s a great point. Red-Pillers are forthright about how they feel about women, which makes it easy to not take up with them. Male feminists are sneaky, they make you feel comfortable and then blindside you with their disrespect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:47 PM |
| 117 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessMy sister was diagnosed with MS early in her dating relationship, about 3 or 4 years ago. Her boyfriend has stuck around, he made it clear that her condition was not an imposition on him. We love this guy and are counting the days for them to get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 405 | Don't get it twisted; women didn't leave "in the good old days" because they were trapped, not because they were fucking ride or die. We literally had no choice but to put up with abuse and other myriad bullshit. Men cannot stand the fact that we are no longer forced to submit.My friend told me the story of how her grandmother was married at 16 (essentially sold) to a man who beat her up all the time, raped her and beat the children. When he died, long before my friend was born, she immediately sold their farm and all HIS stuff, bought herself some nice luggage and diamond jewelry. Which shows how she felt about him all those years. She’s not a hero or a “good wife” for sticking it out, she was a dependant child bride who had no choice in her life, until she was freed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:43 PM |
| 110 | So-called "petty" deal breakersI remember seeing an AskReddit thread about petty reasons for dumping someone and one person said “he didn’t like spicy food.” Thinking about it in terms of my own relationship, it wasn’t a petty reason at all, it’s symbolic of the life you will lead with this person, the dates, the foods you cook and the decisions you make, and you can either adapt and learn or not participate. My husband loves spicy food, me not so much, I understood the fun that can come with trying new things, building up a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:02 PM |
| 32 | I love this series on tik tokUnless you have some thick gams, men can’t get away with skipping leg day, no siree Bob. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:17 AM |
| 10 | simp = guy with basic respect for womenThat’s how I define “simp,” a glad-handing, male feminist who kisses our ass until we give them sex. Or the ones who give us everything they own because they think we like them, when we are using them. A HVM is a man who supports us, provides, who are proud of us and appreciate what we do in a relationship, they are our partners and they don’t kiss our ass, they are not simps at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?If the situation was other priorities, like work or just no time for a relationship, I would hope that he’d say “I want you to know that I have a lot on my plate, and it wouldn’t be fair to continue a relationship that I can’t prioritize right now.” Honesty is the best policy when it comes to a HVM break up, obviously there are so many variables to in relationships and even a HVM can choose to end a relationship with someone he doesn’t love or doesn’t see a future, but he ends it because he know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:43 AM |
| 17 | Having fun isn’t hard... when you stalk girls getting a library card.You’re welcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today:Such Alphas up in there. They just really soak my panties at the thought of how they can provide and lead in a family. Girls, I’m in love... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:06 PM |
| 6 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?He’s “diplomatically” dumping you via text. Date other guys, he ain’t your boyfriend no more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:35 PM |
| 20 | Some pickme from the New Yorker trying to sell us walk date as a romantic gestureI really enjoy walk “dates” with my husband. We walk throughout the city and talk about anything and everything and stay out as late as possible. When the weather is nice, it becomes an almost nightly tradition, when it’s lousy out, we miss it. But they aren’t date dates, they aren’t days where we dress up and have a meal or another outing, because we like those just as much as our walks, but they are in fact more special, because they involve more effort. I know a couple people who are pro walk… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:46 PM |
| 29 | Woman takes care of her child basically by herself while gamer/unemployed husband games all day. Asks for advice and gets told his video game habits are normal! This is not normal!Jee-yeezus. I have been open about my husband who is an avid gamer, he will play in his spare time, key word spare time. He has a job, does his share and enjoys cooking for me. Even if he spends his day off playing, I don’t care, especially if I’m not home, and there is nothing that needs to be done. Hell, even if I am home, bubbling up and doing my own thing and want to be left alone, he can have at it. If I came home to a messy house, no food and the errands I asked him to run aren’t done, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 26 | Your egg is chasing a sperm KM 🤡🤡Find HIS clit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:30 PM |
| 27 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlHe’ll probably dump her in a few weeks so he can say it’s because of something else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 17 | She seems so happy in this post but still I gotta say nah sis... have some higher standards for yourself please! Just sitting down watching someone play games for hours is lame.It’s never fun if you aren’t a gamer. My husband is a gamer, he’ll play in front of me, while I do my own thing, I don’t care, never have. He’ll pause and give me attention, though I’m not starved for it, he’ll turn it off when I ask. I do get extremely annoyed that he’ll often want to show me what he’s doing, because I’m also doing something, and I understand and appreciate that he wants to include me and not be a zombie, but let’s just say my headphones are not muted when he does that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.Rumour is that it could be one of lot of people. Jason Sudeikis, Matthew Vaughn (married), Bobby Flay (married at the time and accused of cheating w/Jones by his own ex-wife). January Jones isn't saying anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 13 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.It's annoying AF when couples who have children are "just not ready" to get married. Bitch, you're already tied for life, that "not ready" excuse is out the window. You wanna live the Kurt and Goldie life, fine, you wanna have kids in that, go ahead, but be accountable to them and each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 4 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.She only thinks she's engaged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:04 PM |
| 18 | WaLk DaTe??? 🥴🥴 💦One of my coworkers told me that she will insist on a walk date for one reason, so she can bring her dog. That way, she has a convenient reason not to go home with them and if her dog doesn’t like him, she doesn’t see them again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Life after finding FDS. (Art by @violetclair on Insta, makes FDS friendly art)I turned 30 yesterday, and I’m not broken up about it. I did fear it at first, but now I don’t. I feel good, I’m in a stable marriage, I have a new career, we’re on route to having kids and looking at houses, I look and feel better about myself than I did since high school and my 20s and still pushing on. Don’t fear the fourth decade! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 09:02 PM |
| 19 | Have fun, MegIt’s likely stunted her, but she’s sTiLl A sLuT apparently. Because when she separated from BAG the first time and got pregnant, she actually had to clarify that her husband was in fact the father. That her being in a 16 year relationship with a 30 something year old man who pursued her when he was 17/18. So I get her acting like a 19 year old experiencing a passionate relationship, she clearly left BAG for MGK, the timing adds up, but she’s 34, has three kids and needs to vet even more now. I c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Have fun, MegI do believe that people can change and grow and do better, but it’s because they want to be better. For MGK to say that Megan Fox was sent by the universe to make him better is ridiculous. He’s her fan, back when young girls were hoping to be Mrs. Kutcher or Mrs. Timberlake, they didn’t know these people, he’s now learning that maybe the object of his greatest fantasy don’t want no coked-out boyfriend. I could only hope that he truly desires to be better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 36 | Have fun, MegLiterally thinking that. When you pour gasoline on fire, it wears out eventually, she’ll get bored and likely sick of his shit. He’ll spiral and everyone of his fans will blame her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:25 PM |
| 22 | Our daily reminder that dating older men will get you absolutely nowhereOr the famous ones who actually contribute to the creation of drinks, gained a mass media following, write books etc. Bud, you’re 54, you’re a bartender and batting way above your average, you don’t get to be all huffy about your job when your girlfriend who’s time and youth you wasted decides she wants a better life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 19 | Our daily reminder that dating older men will get you absolutely nowhereSooner than she would if she was with a guy her own age... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:03 PM |
| 50 | Our daily reminder that dating older men will get you absolutely nowhereScrote: I’m a refined petrochemical distribution specialist. Her: what’s that? Scrote: I work the gas pump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 14 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.Don’t date a man who tells you what you don’t wanna hear! You think YOU can be the one to change him, that YOUR love is the best love and will inspire him to do XYZ and it’s not. She should have cut her losses years ago, but he provided something she couldn’t get anywhere else, she got great fame, opportunity. The irony is that her involvement with John Cena brought her on Dancing With The Stars, where she met Artem. He loves her, pampers her and proposed without hesitation and gave her a much w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:16 PM |
| 5 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.Who knows, she may have, I’m pro prenup regardless of sex, as an engineer, she was and will be very likely able to support herself. But time will tell, won’t it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:02 PM |
| 18 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.Nikki Bella chose to be the one who stuck around for six years, she refused to leave a relationship knowing he didn’t want to get married or have children. I remember as early as 2005 John Cena saying, “I love kids, but I don’t think they’re for me.” She moved in with him. Her being his girlfriend advanced her career beyond her wildest dreams. She was fired after a year or so with WWE and came back and hooked up with Cena, she and her sister would be nothing without John Cena. And guess what? Sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:36 PM |
| 21 | I don't understand male postpartum depression.Like when couples say "we're pregnant." No we ain't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:41 AM |
| 29 | I don't understand male postpartum depression.I can understand a man being overwhelmed with a new baby, this helpless little human that you have to keep alive, your responsibilities have tripled, I understand, I really do. I remember a pop culture example was the dad in OutDaughtered. Did he have PPD? I think he was just overwhelmed that he was now the sole provider for six children because they abused IVF so they could have a second baby, ended up with quintuplets (which was likely a mistake), one of whom became ill ... and it was all on c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 3 | If you've been so happy together for so long, then why not get married??It’s not even the issue of getting married after X amount of time, some people do not wish to get married and live the Kurt and Goldie life, which is totally fine, so long as they are both fine with it and take legal precautions to protect themselves. What’s pathetic is her thinking she’s engaged. I worked with someone like that, such a sweet woman. She had a child with a bum on disability who was “too sick” to work, but healthy enough to hunt, skidoo, while she worked to provide for the family … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.You're welcome. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 12 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.Like that episode of Seinfeld, where Elaine admits she faked for Jerry and he begs her for another shot. Meanwhile George is actually pleasuring his girlfriend and accuses her of faking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:47 PM |
| 17 | Swallowing a load is suuuper empowering, guys. Girls who think it’s not are just annoyingIt's not so much the swallowing, it's the belief that it's so empowering, what dos that even mean? I enjoy giving a good ol' beej, but it ain't empowering, it's just something I enjoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:35 PM |
| 13 | Swallowing a load is suuuper empowering, guys. Girls who think it’s not are just annoyingEmpowering is when you're being stunning and brave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 17 | Swallowing a load is suuuper empowering, guys. Girls who think it’s not are just annoyingSwallow and take it in the butt, it's Shhhhh-Amazining grrrls! OP started the thread about how awesome anal is... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:32 PM |
| 7 | Tattoos/symbols that remind you to be true to yourself first?“To thine own self be true” from Hamlet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾I’m more than happy to buy game gift cards for my husband, they’re cheap and accessible. But I’m not ever spending my hard earned money to buy him a console. If he wants one, he has to buy it himself, thank god he’s not in the market. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | How much do you think a man should spend on an engagement ring?My ring is about $2400 plus tax so just over $2700 which was fair for what he was making and was a price that I was comfortable with my husband spending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:53 PM |
| 8 | This pickme turn into a queen by dragging her scrote to court and won!She got lucky, because she took up with a millionaire, this wouldn’t work with middle class women. She made a choice to let her employment skills dry up and chose to be a do-nothing girlfriend who didn’t even maintain a legal residence with this man. The fact that the courts declared that they were equivalent to spouses is terrible for us and rewards LVW/Pickme behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:21 PM |
| 17 | Needy men.We are not the mothers or shrinks for men. I can support and love my husband till the cows come home, but I need to know that I am not the dumping ground for a male tantrum. He makes every effort to make sure that if needs to blow off steam, so that I am not that dumping ground. My husband is a more sensitive guy, he’s not a pussy, but he does take things to heart, but his heart is always in the right place. Recently, my husband and I had a misunderstanding, he got upset and acted somewhat irrat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 19 | This pickme turn into a queen by dragging her scrote to court and won!This woman is no queen, she’s a pick me looking for someone to blame for bad yet lucrative choices. She clearly didn’t want to live with him, and she didn’t want to marry him under his conditions, which is fair. When presented with a marriage contract, not a prenup, a queen with self respect would walk away, so, what does she do? She quits her job to be a pampered do-nothing GIRLFRIEND, not even a wife. I’d be more sympathetic to her case if they actually lived together, as unmarried spouses. Qu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:50 PM |
| 3 | The bar is in the ninth circle of hell.r/tihi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 18 | LVM only concerned with his wife’s exercise routine when it affects his physical attraction to her. The comments support the heck out of him (as if I’m shocked).I'm a fat wife and I don't care to be, my husband tells me I look great and that I'm beautiful as I am. He also encourages me to keep at it, go to the gym and my lifting classes, because he wants what's best for me and sees the positive effects on me. So my question to OP would be how is he actually encouraging her and supporting her in pursuing a weight loss she may want? He's observant enough to see that she's going on (likely crash) diets. I feel that women are more likely to diet w/o exercis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Why you shouldn't move in together before the ringThis is a tough one for me because I feel that the only way non cohabitation before marriage works is if you both have your own place. You can see how the other person lives, are they neat or responsible with their space, how will you fit in? Will you get stuck doing everything? Plus, will our personal goals (marriage) come to fruition if we live together. These are VERY IMPORTANT conversations before cohabitating or marriage. We moved in before we got married, we both lived at home and knew it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:31 AM |
| 91 | In Memoriam 💔😢His representatives specifically stated that he did films between and during surgeries and chemo. That lifestyle of filming and travelling could have taken a toll, or the fact sometimes people do everything right and it still gets worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 176 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.My sister was with her bf for a year or two when she was diagnosed with MS. She was having symptoms for about a year before she was formally diagnosed. He never made her feel crazy, or acted like there wasn’t an issue. He went to appointments or got all the info, even tried to give her ideas on how to deal with her symptoms before we knew what was up. Leaving was never an option, he has said that he would change her diapers, if she ever got so bad. He’s a keeper, because he’s proven himself befo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:18 PM |
| 29 | LVM speak in future tense "maybe in the future I'll be ready to commit" "someday I'll take you out somewhere fancy" etc... A HVM doesn't need to talk, he shows you. He doesn't promise, he manifests. If he doesn't fulfill you now, he won't later on either.The presence of “if” especially in already long term relationship, is also a sign of bullshitting. “IF we get married” “IF we have kids” and so on. If he’s certain about you, those “ifs” will be “whens.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 22 | Would this tattoo make you feel confident?The levels of confidence I would display with this tattoo is immeasurable, I mean it’d be low confidence... but the numbers will be off the charts. Like a tattoo on my vag that says “dick mitten,” which is on the body of someone I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:59 PM |
| 13 | Get a man who will show you off! If he's not proud to be with you and treats you accordingly, he ain't the one, hun!My husband is not a social media guy, but he’s a guy who loves when I get “extra cute” and will take any opportunity to get fancy so he can parade me around. Next week, I’ll be a bridesmaid and he’s friggin jazzed about seeing me all fancy. I do not even compare to the woman in this photo, but he will show me off as if, I were, just not online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:46 PM |
| 14 | Not mine, but what on earth?One time a guy asked me for dirty pictures, so I sent him a picture of dirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 37 | Such a shame“We laugh all the time.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:31 PM |
| 21 | Rewatching How I Met your Mother through fds eyes makes me so sad how women are portrayed in mainstream mediaThe Crazy-Hot scale Ted love bombing Robin on the first date Barney’s elaborate “Lorenzo Von Matterhorn” ruse. Tricking women into thinking he’s a billionaire in an effort to get laid. Ted breaking up with a woman via phone message on her birthday, that the guests of her surprise party heard while they were waiting for her. Reconciling with her and breaking up with her again, also on her birthday, but she kicked his ass after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:42 PM |
| 26 | HVM behavior — my friends bf has been watching YT videos during quarantine so he can trim her bangs and now they’re out of town so he made her a combIt’s not even just the thoughtfulness, but just the straight up resourcefulness. I don’t know anyone who would think to use a beer can to make a legit comb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:12 PM |
| 20 | Are my expectations actually too highI would be okay with less dinner dates if it meant my man showed me that he can not only cook, but cook well. I would recommend that any woman add that her list of expectations, whatever they may be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:03 PM |
| 5 | Is it okay to ask your boyfriend not to masturbate while you’re home?He’s just being disrespectful. Masturbation is natural, but we learn about privacy. You were violated in a very specific way, and your partner knows that, and he’s being super obvious. You gave him space, you offered suggestions and gave a clear reason for your request. He disrespected it and seems like he lied about it. I understand that one doesn’t need their partner’s permission to masturbate, but in this case, the least he could have done is said “hey OP, I need some privacy,” that’s suffici… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 32 | Dalma Heyn On How Women Change After MarriageIronically, I started on FDS after I got married and I've realized the utter importance of retaining my independence and prioritizing my own identity. I remember when planning the wedding, people were intent on making me "a bride," and the importance of tradition, I disliked it immensely. I wasn't a "bride" and I'm not a "wife," I can't be those things without being Lady_Schmoobleydong first and foremost, because that's the most important thing that I can be for myself, my husband, my career and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Don’t settle, you’re doing just fine.Play stupid games, even as a teenager, win stupid prizes forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:46 PM |
| 125 | Never underestimate the lies men will tell just to get sex. I hope this poor woman leaves.I know this girl is young and was manipulated by this boy, but she has also been failed big time by her parents and sexual education system. Love how he says he’s gonna cut himself, she did the right thing calling his family, even if he was full of shit. If a guy tells you that they are going to hurt themselves, tell them to “fuck off” and exit the situation. I sincerely hope this girl is able to reach out to her parents for help, she needs it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:38 PM |
| 29 | NICKI MINAJ IS A PICKME?!!!!He’s not just a sex offender, he’s at moderate risk to reoffend, which means the law doesn’t trust him enough to be “fully rehabilitated.” It clearly doesn’t matter that he was a teen when it happened, he’s a sex offender for life and now he’s facing ten years for failure to register. He also is responsible for the shooting death of a man and was charged with manslaughter. I feel bad for her, people don’t change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:23 AM |
| -4 | Are men really biologically hardwired to want to look at other women?It’s normal to look and fantasize, every one has a spank bank. I look at men and fantasize about men who aren’t my husband, but I don’t do it in front of him, because it’s disrespectful. My fantasies live in my mind where they belong. If your man can’t stop himself from leering at other women in front of you, you can drop him. If his socials are mostly women, specifically IG models who he doesn’t know, that is cause for concern, because he’s an absolute Jackoffasaur for all of them and isn’t eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 43 | Queen shittytIt was the fuck you of all fuck yous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Listen to me - you are under no obligation to live up to men's unattainable, ridiculous beauty standards. They have been changing them since time immemorial, and will continue to do so. You are original, you are unique, you are the blueprint. No one can be you, and that is your power. Be-you-tiful.Don’t be such an eye colour-ist, it’s a stain on our society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 42 | Listen to me - you are under no obligation to live up to men's unattainable, ridiculous beauty standards. They have been changing them since time immemorial, and will continue to do so. You are original, you are unique, you are the blueprint. No one can be you, and that is your power. Be-you-tiful.Hey! What about “Brown Eyed Girl”? Be grateful for that song! REEEEE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Don't let a loser ruin what should be a special time when you are at your most vulnerableIt’s one thing if neither of you believe in getting married, a la Kurt and Goldie, even then you have all sorts of legal stuff to that you should hammer out to protect yourself. But if your belief that you’re going to marry a guy is enough to have a baby with them, then may the odds be ever in your favour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:34 PM |
| -1 | Don't let a loser ruin what should be a special time when you are at your most vulnerableNot in Canada, at least we were never advised to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 01:10 PM |
| 30 | Don't let a loser ruin what should be a special time when you are at your most vulnerableThats the sad part, your “bragging” shouldn’t seem as such, it should be the norm. My husband and I don’t have kids, but we’re getting closer to that step and even though my husband is a nervous wreck (and I’m not even pregnant), I know that he’ll step up, because he knows how much I’ll need him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 11:36 PM |
| 16 | Don't let a loser ruin what should be a special time when you are at your most vulnerableSadly, the kid may be better off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:47 PM |
| 45 | Don't let a loser ruin what should be a special time when you are at your most vulnerableMarried men can screw women over too, getting blindsided can happen at any time to any woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 15 | Don't let a loser ruin what should be a special time when you are at your most vulnerableThat too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:38 PM |
| 5 | PickMeisha Shames Women for Not Fixing Their Man a Plate. The comments erupt.I don’t mind cooking or making a plate for my husband and I do sometimes, but he has a big appetite and would much rather make his own. But it’s true, he’s not a child and knows what he wants and how he wants it, and he can do it himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:50 PM |
| 18 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.A friend of mine missed the birth of his child by about 30 minutes. He and his wife lived in an isolated fly in community in Northern Ontario, when a pre natal checkup showed that she had preeclampsia, she moved in with his parents in the larger city, while he stayed up and worked. The doctor told her to take it easy, but she went Black Friday shopping and her water broke unexpectedly. He scrambled all day to get the on only flight out, he documented it on Imgur and made the front page, it gener… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Cohabiting before marriage?We were both living at home before we moved in, I refused to move in with him if he had debt. We really wanted to be together and build a home, but he was well aware that I expected to get engaged in short order, after ten months we were engaged, and ten months after that, we got married. It’s all about setting boundaries if premarital cohabitation is on the table. If you think you’re gonna move in to test the waters and be a “cool girlfriend” about it and think you’ll magically get engaged/marr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:50 PM |
| 68 | I’m speechlessCoughs Porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:41 PM |
| 13 | What Wall?? Heather Graham at 50!!My life goal is get foxier as I age. The wall is only hit when we let it happen. Never let yourself go. Don’t give scroates ammo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 45 | Wall for what?I believe that “hitting the wall” only exists for women who let it happen. Get your shit together, get in shape, invest in yourself, hold yourself in high regard, and don’t let yourself go. Beauty in youth is easy, beauty with age is earned. Don’t give greasy, basement dwelling scroates any ammunition against you, preserving yourself proves their arguments wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:36 PM |
| 12 | Never let a man tell you what to do, it can turn out very badly. When you less expect, you can't even go out of your house without his permission 🤷♀️A guy I went to high school with dating a woman (who I met years later) and according to her that’s how it started. He told her, “you look so beautiful without makeup,” so she stopped wearing it, and one night, she’s going out with some girl friends and puts on some makeup, he then asks her, “you workin’?” At some point in the relationship, she got pregnant, had an abortion and when he found out he was furious with her, to make it up to him, she allowed herself to become pregnant again and had h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 01:15 PM |
| 17 | A r/sex post we can get behind ;)My husband and I tried it, didn't hate it, but we haven't done it since. He will joke about doing again, but if there is one thing I know about him, is that he doesn't say something he doesn't mean and when says "you can peg me," I can peg him. Men who are obsessed with giving to a girl in the butt, need to put up or shut up, last I checked, we have a magical hole, that if we aren't bleeding or pushing a human out, it's for sex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:00 PM |
| 39 | Called. Out.Hamburger Helper is quick and idiot proof, sometimes we don't have the time to fix you the duck à l'orange that you so obviously deserve. Yeah, mastering HH doesn't make you a gourmet cook, but at least a lot of women are willing to learn, unlike the men who complain about having convenience foods put in front of them, when they could have easily gone online, found a recipe and cooked something for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Beware of men who call themselves feministTBH I was pretty baked when I wrote my OP, so everything in my head came out. When you’re with someone who makes you feel like you’re the most beautiful women woman in earth (because they tell you) it can make your head big, especially if you were me, a fat girl who had no experience in dating or guys noticing you. At the time, I was certain that these women who were also fat, were gross looking, mainly because I wanted to elevate myself. The idea that I wasn’t good enough for him in comparison … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Beware of men who call themselves feministCan confirm. I was easy for two of them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:56 AM |
| 14 | Beware of men who call themselves feministI fell for the feminist man in university, about eight years ago. I thought the sweet, sensitive type was more enlightened and would be a better fit for me. I was introduced to my ex by a mutual friend. He was liberal, supportive of women's issues, he joined us at Take Back the Night and came to see me perform in the Vagina Monologues and mostly, he was liked by other women because of his kind nature (non-threatening). We were "best friends" and (non-sexual) snuggle buddies for almost a year bef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Everything the #MeToo Movement Fought For is Being Threatened by LibFem Hypocrisy on Tara Reade. No progress will be made if powerful women immediately rescind their principles for capitalists interests and personal political gains. Liberal Feminism is feminism for me and not for thee.Pick me! Pick me! I’ll be the best Vice President and let you do whatever you want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Should you tell your partner what your timeline for the relationship is?Once things start to get serious, say after a couple months, it’s good to discuss your personal goals specifically regarding marriage. Make it clear that you are not one to wait around like a chump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:29 AM |
| 7 | What do you think about guys that say that women are more beautiful without makeup and that they prefer "natural" women?I do find that the heavy makeup trend is too much for me and in the IG/ Kardashian era, it often feels like the default setting. I feel like we as a society are moving toward the idea that a woman must be painted to be beautiful, that we must practically change our bone structures with makeup, which is a sad, double-edged sword. Women are told that the effort to be beautiful is deemed vain or vapid, but without beauty (especially the effortless looking kind), we're worthless. When I was getting … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:33 PM |
| 2 | OMG yes YTA for giving a fake $300 ring and a half ass proposalA lab diamond is a real diamond, if her standard was a diamond, that's not a betrayal if that's what he got her. As I've said, he likely took a lesser quality stone like CZ and chose not to tell her, he's TA in that case and frankly, his OP is too vague and he conveniently leaves out the specific stone he chose. I would be just as upset if I found out that I got a low quality CZ in my ring, when my husband knew that I expected a diamond. I know that it would set the tone for our future, and I ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:57 PM |
| 6 | “LoVe YoUr HaIr If ItS yOuRs” me and my hair will be ignoring you. Half the shit black women deal with. They try to tear us down by any mean necessary yet men still fall at my feet and that won’t stop.That's the kind of negging that would make Mystery proud... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:05 PM |
| 2 | OMG yes YTA for giving a fake $300 ring and a half ass proposalLike I said, if it’s a real diamond, albeit manmade, I’d say she’s being unreasonable. But in actuality, he likely passed off a CZ as real and used a political argument to silence her. I’m on her side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 12:18 PM |
| 17 | Just because you had a baby with an LVM, doesn't mean you need more of his sperm!Steph Curry and LeBron James, who didn't leave their pregnant baby mama, excuse me, wives, who don't have multiple children with multiple women, or cheating scandals. I understand having the father in the child's life, especially if he is a good father to your child, but he also has another child, does he see him, does little True know her brother? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:55 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, please raise your expectationsMy proposal wasn't elaborate, we planned on a hike, but it was rain was coming, but he wanted to propose anyway, so he did the day before. It was kind of funny, and it made me happy after a long day of work. But you know what he had? A plan that wasn't a convenient epiphany and A FUCKING RING (that was properly sized and he knew I liked). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone received hatemail from commenting or posting in this sub?Don't get me wrong, I'm fat, not a great beauty (unless you ask my husband), I looked a little goofy in the picture, which was pointed out IN THE CAPTION. But dude, what the fuck indeed. I quite enjoyed leaving a sniping reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:41 AM |
| 13 | Has anyone received hatemail from commenting or posting in this sub?My involvement in FDS and Vindicta has been used against me when responding to a rude comment on a photo that I posted. I posted a wedding photo, and I was asked if I had Down syndrome (FFS). So I posted a link to r/DecidingToBeBetter, to which he responded along the lines of "I thought it was an inspirational story, but I guess you could use that sub too, because you're a bitter woman on FDS and Vindicta." He since deleted those comments. It's funny because he could have checked my profile to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:30 AM |
| 43 | Just because you had a baby with an LVM, doesn't mean you need more of his sperm!Never bring up the wronged woman's family to a mistress... that won't go over well :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...Boo him. Is this a common occurrence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:51 PM |
| 24 | A real winnerOr gross low production value porn... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:00 AM |
| 14 | A real winnerBy the looks of him, a cell phone porn production company... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...It’s all good, it’s just like pulling teeth to get him to watch a movie or take a walk more than once a week... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 09:09 PM |
| 106 | Choices... The Pickmesha and Corona Virus editionI hate this game people play the essential “Sophie’s Choice” scenario between the husband and the child. People will invent any horrifying scenario and ask the mother the choose who to save, it’s a trap, either way and women shouldn’t take the bait... and they sure as hell shouldn’t advertise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:58 AM |
| 4 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...That’s the power of vague booking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...I don’t know the whole story, or anything about babymama. She’s portrayed through her, clearly there is a bias. I know that according to her, babymama tried to withhold access to the kids and they went to court. Like I said, she seems to adore his kids, and visitation has been put off again due to COVID19, once again making her sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:38 AM |
| 15 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...She’s no prize, but seems to adore his kids. She’ll often post the “I want to help, but poor me, I’m just a stepparent,” bullshit. It seems he stuck his dick in crazy, had two kids and she’s putting up with the aftermath of his issues with his babymama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:45 AM |
| 49 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...I thought they were all about men and what they want... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:03 AM |
| 29 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...Yep, and she often vaguebooks about baby mama drama, too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:28 AM |
| 43 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...She loooves her dogs, whenever she vaguebooks about drama or “being tired,” I’m assuming it’s not about the dogs. You who else she loves? His kids... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:22 AM |
| 13 | So I was conflicted with the flair for this post but chose this one because I personally 10000000% disagree with her statement. What do y’all think?I’ll admit that I love sucking dick, it legit does get me going. But guess what, I expect his face to be available for sitting regardless of whether or not I initiate with a blow job. There is no formula to have a really good sexual behaviour encounter, as long as there is a healthy amount of reciprocation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 12:03 AM |
| 6 | In Dhar Mann videos, LV, abusive men learn lessons way too quickly and pickme wives forgive and accept scraps way too late...He’s ripped off viral videos and memes too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:32 PM |
| 7 | In Dhar Mann videos, LV, abusive men learn lessons way too quickly and pickme wives forgive and accept scraps way too late...The only time women are assertive is when they are “evil gold diggers.” Men in these kinds of videos always learn their lessons from other men who don’t see putting an effort to make their wives happy as a big deal... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:51 PM |
| 5 | In Dhar Mann videos, LV, abusive men learn lessons way too quickly and pickme wives forgive and accept scraps way too late...So Dhar Mann can make money, peddling things that are common sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:38 PM |
| 4 | In Dhar Mann videos, LV, abusive men learn lessons way too quickly and pickme wives forgive and accept scraps way too late...The lessons are decent, but cliche, people should already know. Also, can they illustrate these lessons in a better way? The women in relationships are always so weak and clueless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:47 AM |
| 4 | Do not build a man's career, do not marry young (under 25). EVEN IF HE'S A REALLY GOOD GUY!Exactly, Tom Hanks has also said that being a young father was good for him, he grew up, didn’t party and was responsible and that being a child of divorce, he never wanted that for his family. A lot of guys don’t step up or rise to ANY occasion when they’re needed. It’s never going to end well if the main reason to marry someone is because you have a child or you got her pregnant, I’d be very hurt if that’s why a man married me and resentment is sure to set in because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 8 | Do not build a man's career, do not marry young (under 25). EVEN IF HE'S A REALLY GOOD GUY!He had one child with her when they married, a daughter was born years later. In the seventies, he may have felt obligated to marry someone with whom he shared a toddler, which is never good. Clearly, there was unhappiness in the marriage, hence the divorce. There is no evidence whatsoever that Rita Wilson was a mistress in any capacity, sometimes people leave their marriages for another person even if they never stepped out physically. We’ll never know for sure, especially because his children … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:05 PM |
| 63 | I’m sorrycough Joe Biden! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Pickmeshia wants some Tinder rando to deflower her, this’ll go well...BuT hE wAs NiCe DuRiNg SeX.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Pickmeshia wants some Tinder rando to deflower her, this’ll go well...I like the part where she can't finish and NO OFFER is made to finish her off... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:22 PM |
| 22 | Pickmeshia wants some Tinder rando to deflower her, this’ll go well...Yep, I'm sure this didn't just "pop into her mind" either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:13 PM |
| 10 | Pickmeshia wants some Tinder rando to deflower her, this’ll go well...That pisses me off so much, the obvious implication that you'll bareback anything just because you're on birth control or have ben together for X amount of time. I'll admit my husband and I went condom-less after a few months, but I chose that, and he never complained about condom use, unlike a certain FWB I once had *gag*. I enjoy and prefer sex without a condom, but trust is a big part of that. These girls need to understand that you can't afford to do something stupid one time when others are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:09 PM |
| 21 | No to drinks/coffee... but what about lunch?Lunch as a first date is a-ok with me. I wouldn't want breakfast to be a first date, morning is my time especially on the weekend. If I'm in a relationship with said person and he wants to take me to breakfast, that's fine with me, but he needs to respect my morning routine time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:02 PM |
| 4 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?I love an uncut dick, it's natural and it's how men are supposed to look. They feel better inside me, hand jobs are easier and it's no issue with blow jobs either. My only uncut partner has been my husband, but I always wanted one and that first time he pulled his pants down... dude, I was so excited, also I felt that he had an uncut vibe to him and it felt good to be right. I personally think that male infant circumcision is a form of genital mutilation and I will not allow it to be done to my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 6 | Gamer GuysMy husband will often point out what’s going on so that he can specifically include me and not just video games. Even though I don’t really care about vidya, I do appreciate it because he’s not some zoned out zombie hopped up on Mountain Dew and Doritos. He is very unselfish with it, he always offers up to go to into handheld mode and takes an interest in what I’m doing on the computer. Even if I’m watching a Shallon or ASMR video he always ask if I want to hook it up and watch it on the big scr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 12:50 AM |
| 25 | Gamer GuysMy husband loves video games and unless it’s Mario, I don’t play, care or pretend to care. When he’s playing, he makes a point to check in with me, and asks me what I want “hey babe, you want the TV? I can switch to handheld,” he doesn’t zone out and he’ll turn it off if I ask, and he doesn’t get stingy with me to compensate for his video game wants. Don’t enable your partner if they participate in something that is harmful to your relationship or that you hate. You wouldn’t buy them cigarettes … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 26 | Gamer GuysDuuuuuuuude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 6 | Beware the Minefield of CaddishnessBecause it’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 40 | Enough stories about LVM! Tell us a good experience you had with HVM :)This past Christmas, I had no idea what my husband was going to get me, he’s good at keeping things a surprise. Anywho, on Christmas Day, I saw that he got me a sketch pad and pencils because a few months before I told him that I wanted to get into drawing again. I actually forgot about telling him that. It made me really happy and it’s a reminder that he remembers and continues to listen especially when we get caught up in our own lives. He’s always been supportive when it comes to me trying ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 05:16 PM |
| 15 | AITA post, I’m speechless.When his thoughts are cheap, he thinks you are, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:45 AM |
| 13 | AITA post, I’m speechless.That’s only an example, you don’t have to date a broke man who is good. As I said, a man with little money can still be generous and still has the ability to build himself up to a higher cash bracket, it’s a matter of his values. A man with money can be stingy and disrespectful and spend $3000 on himself and $5 on an “engagement ring.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:43 AM |
| 11 | Can you still expect a quality partner if you have chronic health problems?My sister has MS and her boyfriend stuck around and has been great. My mother hopes they get married soon, because his choice to not run for the hills has made us love him even more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 63 | AITA post, I’m speechless.Pickmes will use the “I’ll accept a $5 ring because I love him” nonsense to show their desperation. Pointing out that $5 ring is a symptom of the problem in this situation, isn’t really a Pickme trait. An honest broke man who is generous is very different than a stingy, lying man with money to burn on himself. When a man spends $3000 on himself and $5 on a gift for his girlfriend to treasure forever and lying about it and where it came from that shows his selfishness and deception. He expects co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 12:18 AM |
| 47 | AITA post, I’m speechless.Oh my god. Dump that guy. I’d rather wait for a ring than get a $6 piece of crap. Knowing where your ring was purchased is not unreasonable, especially if it needs to be sized. I’d be livid if I found out my ring was so cheap and my husband spent an egregious amount of money on things we DON’T need like a TV and wine fridge. Nothing would make me feel so demeaned and undervalued if I were given a gift I’m supposed to treasure forever was fake and made me look like a fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Still praising men for doing the bare minimum.And if he does either, make sure he buys you a purple diamond ring... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 7 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!Exactly, I know I certainly didn’t want my husband to spend an egregious amount of money on a ring, so I looked at different price points that I felt comfortable with him spending. When I found a ring I liked, my friend took a picture and sent it to him and he bought it, though I chose it, I was still surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:57 AM |
| 200 | Still praising men for doing the bare minimum.Kobe totally respected his wife, countering his rape accusation with a confession of adultery when he was already having tons of affairs with women who he enjoyed choking. But he never choked Vanessa, because he totally respected her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:20 PM |
| 21 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!That also goes without saying that they may wear their original rings for special occasions and she could very well be afraid of losing her nice rings. Silicone rings are about practicality, not sentiment. I wouldn’t be mad if my husband lost or broke a $40 silicone ring, but he’d be mad at me if I lost or damaged a set worth almost $3000. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 93 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!Silicone rings are great for those who want the sentiment of a wedding ring but don't want ring avulsion or can't wear jewelry for their jobs/hobbies. THEY. ARE. NOT. ENGAGEMENT. GIFTS. Even if my husband wore a silicone ring for work, I have a beautiful set that I want to wear. If I wanted a silicone ring for work/hobbies, or didn't want an engagement ring at all, I would make it known because it was true instead of me being desperate to bag a husband. I had a hand in the ring I got, because my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 28 | Hayden Panettiere’s Boyfriend Arrested for Punching Her in the Face on Valentine’s DayOf course he did. He spoke to the press several months ago telling them how they have such a good relationship and how there is nothing to worry about... not a peep from Hayden. It's a good thing that her child is far far away from this whole shituation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:10 PM |
| 19 | Shower Thought: We Actually Don’t Have A choice but to like Tall GuysI’m 5’1 and my husband is 6’4 and I come from a short family, I’m adding height to my gene pool 🤪 One day he asked me if I’d be into him if he were closer to my height, I didn’t answer that question, but the answer is no. I want to be with a big man, a teddy bear who is big and cuddly, and can reach stuff for me, not someone who would have a Napoleon complex. Every short man I’ve met is either super jacked to compensate or just really insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:28 AM |
| 0 | HVW makeup, what is the right amount of makeup for a HVW that doesn’t look like a pick me?I’m not a fan of heavy makeup or ridiculously out there enhancements. I think that’ll be a sentiment many agree with. Even super heavy “no makeup” makeup is too much for me. Ruling our surgery, subtly enhancing what you have is the best bet IMO. I like a light coverage foundation to balance out my face, Kat Von D True Portrait is what I use. I like NARS Orgasm blush, it gives a nice rosy flush with a little bit of shimmer and transitions from day to night really well. I’ll use a brow gel to tame… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:54 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with situations where the ex really IS "crazy?"My husband’s ex did a number on him, he admits that he wasn’t perfect and reacted in the wrong ways but he admits it. When he moved to her hometown to be with her, her mother was already very sick and died while he was there. He tried to help, but she refused and projected quite a bit on him. Everything he did was something, she was overtly critical, she fought unfairly. She nearly stranded him two towns over which teddy bear to buy for a friend, she would disparage his looks when he was losing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:37 PM |
| 6 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"Oh yes, I am sausage fingered lady, so it was important that I found a style that would flatter my hand, that I liked and didn’t break his bank account. Luckily, I had a friend who sent pictures to him. However, I got really annoyed when a few weeks after the engagement, my ring went on sale. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 109 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"It’s true, I needed to like my ring. I’m the one wearing it. Granted, I didn’t want him spending an egregious amount on it, but when I saw the ring I wanted and was happy with the price, that’s the ring my friend sent him. I get so many compliments on it, and part of why people compliment me on it is because they can see how much I like it. I agree with the sentiment of “you’re marrying the man, not the ring,” but I like knowing that he was willing to make that purchase, because it’s a big one. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:19 PM |
| 393 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"Well, he only got you that Claire’s ring that’ll make your finger green, because green makes your eyes pop. You should learn to appreciate the effort, you allergy faking gold digger. 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:03 PM |
| 9 | Do people ask to be bad/gf as adults?You can approach it casually just be like: “what are we doing? I’m enjoying myself, but is this something we want to move forward with?” Says what you want and need and get a decisive answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:40 PM |
| 10 | How Did YOU discover FDS, and what convinced you to follow its principles?I found this sub via r/GenderCritical and I found so many posts that aligned with my own experiences and beliefs I already had. Often I see women devastated by the behaviour of the men in their lives. I was not a part of the popular crowd in high school, I was fat, awkward and never even had a date, I was even told "beggars can't be choosers," when I had the gall for having some standards. But there were many pretty, popular girls who had boyfriends that I was not jealous of. They dated wiggers … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:49 PM |
| 13 | Both of those desserts taste eager, stupid and devoid of self respect...Ron Howard voiceover: it wasn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:49 PM |
| 48 | Both of those desserts taste eager, stupid and devoid of self respect...LNV for LMV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 63 | Both of those desserts taste eager, stupid and devoid of self respect...The man can be the Twinkie, in the wrapper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 16 | Can’t keep it up with a condom- sign of porn sickness?Is he used to barebacking? He may not be used to them. The first time my husband came in a condom was with me and he barebacked his ex for two years before me... He could just be making excuses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 43 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendMy husband and I moved in after three years. We both lived at home, and refused to live with him if he had student debt. I told him to take a bit of time, that if cohabitating for a few months was going well, I expected to get engaged. He knew this well before. After 10 months of cohabitating we got engaged and 10 months later we were married. Boundaries need to be in place before any premarital cohabiting is considered and discussed. “I will not share finances,” “I won’t adopt an animal,” “I wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:18 PM |
| 43 | On Moving in with a BoyfriendBut a lot of cohabiters, usually women, automatically assume that they’ll get engaged because “it’s the next step,” when in reality they’ve tried so hard to be a “cool girlfriend” that it’s approached casually. They think it’ll “just happen.” The man they move in with isn’t even held accountable beforehand, so he drags his feet, because we let them. So after x amount of time a gentle nudge turns into a push which results in a “shut up ring” and a “shut up wedding” and god forbid a “shut up baby”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 17 | LVM family membersYour mom seems to be a big part of the problem here if she babies him this much. How does your father feel about your brother’s behaviour? Would you consider your dad to be a HVM or no? A domineering coddling mother is one thing, but couple that with an LVM dad and that may never give your brother incentive to change. Also call your brother out, use the words “low value male” to his face, preferably in front of your parents. Shame him for being such a loser, the kind of man that dumps his girlfr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:52 PM |
| 6 | HV boyfriend wants to take care of me while I’m sick, should I let him?As long as he knows your boundaries, go for it. It’s a great way to see how cares for others who need him. If a boyfriend takes good care of his sick girlfriend, he’ll likely take good care of his sick wife and kids. I’m a huge baby when I’m sick, my husband will make me tea, rub my feet, snuggle, tuck me in, and I love it, granted he does that stuff when I’m not a sick whiner. He also gives me space when I ask for it, he respects when I need quiet or need to bubble up and do my own thing. That … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:02 PM |
| 10 | 4 kids & 4 baby mommasFour baby mamas!? Like, why? Seriously, why? In my dating days, if a guy had a baby mama who he got along with and who I got along with and was a good and responsible father, maybe. But one only, because I would hope that a man would learn to be more responsible after this happens once, not four times. I’d be weary, even if he has good relationships with these other women, they may not have good relationships with each other and the kids have to suffer. Why would I want to be a part of a mess li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:36 PM |
| 30 | Women bleed, good men understand.I feel like when have our own hang ups about our bodies and especially our periods, it’s refreshing when we find a partner who understands. Women are socialized just as much to find our periods disgusting when it’s just a normal part of womanhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:57 PM |
| 25 | Check Out His Medicine Cabinet to See If He Has Any "Red Flag" MedsI’m a creeper too, if I can sneak a peek I will. If I knew that the man I was seeing had something like herpes, I would either leave or avoid sex until he told me what was up, so I can play dumb and use it as an excuse. I’d be really concerned if a young man is using Viagra. Anti-psychotics are a no go as well, I don’t think I could handle that, especially if they decided to get off the medication. Hubby isn’t on medications though he thinks he has undiagnosed ADHD, but it hasn’t been confirmed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:32 PM |
| 11 | Let’s talk about HOBBIESMy hobbies: Hitting the gym, Olympic weightlifting, On and off knitting, Hiking/ leisurely walks (weather permitting), Sometimes I like to draw, Cooking. His hobbies: Indoor biking, Reading, Podcasts and documentaries (films or series), Hiking/ late night walks, He enjoys cooking and finding new recipes. He’s the one who got me into long hikes/walks and we’ve discussed trying other new things like rock climbing together. He is a video game guy, but I literally give zero fucks about them and he k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:37 PM |
| 52 | Woman (F27) deals with hubby (M31) who can’t keep a job. He smokes weed, plays video games, and doesn’t help clean. She begins to resent him. How is this worse than being single?? DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!! ZERO SHIT!The FDS is leaving him. Severing ties to someone actively ruining your life is a strategy. If she’s doing okay, and has the work ethic she says she does, she’ll get back on her feet and be smart enough to keep his hands off spousal support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:10 PM |
| 170 | Wife permanently alters appearance for husband, he hates it and she thinks she should now apologise??? Wtf.Getting giant tattoos, heavy makeup and a septum ring as a Valentine's surprise to satisfy a FETISH is idiotic. Maybe he could have been more tactful in his delivery, but HVM like their spouses for who they are, not what they can become. I've been losing weight, I know my husband loved me and what I looked like when I was 240 and just as much now, he does like that my efforts make me feel better, but my efforts have nothing to do with him. Never make permanent changes to your body to cater to a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:20 PM |
| 16 | You’ve heard of Big Tech and Big Pharma, now we gotta worry about BIG CONDOM.I had a friend who had a long history of barebacking and as her sister put it “playing Russian Roulette for years,” when she met an assumed HVM, she offered a condom and in a “fit of passion” threw the condom over his shoulder and said “I don’t think you’re dirty.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:20 PM |
| 70 | You’ve heard of Big Tech and Big Pharma, now we gotta worry about BIG CONDOM.I know a woman who was married to a guy who I’m assuming talked her about not believing that “condoms don’t really work” and that they “don’t really protect against STDs that much.” Also her: pregnant with baby number two when baby number one is six months old. She ended up dumping him at a later date because he was perma-stoned bum who did fuck all with the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:26 PM |
| 5 | AnalI've tried anal once with my husband and we haven't done it since, we were also both hella stoned. I enjoyed it, but when it started to feel weird, I asked him to stop and he did. He's said many times that "if you let me, I'll let you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:31 PM |
| 6 | I took out some piercings yesterday.I think I’m going to make the commitment to getting my tattoo removed. I had one treatment three or so years ago, it faded quite a bit but hoooweee, did it hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 14 | Pickmeisha’s Valentines DayLooks like a painting easel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:57 PM |
| 9 | Why Men with a High N Count are Low Value“But men are soooo much drama, I hate guys, women are much better friends anyway. I’m not like the other guys.” JK, but seriously, I agree. My first boyfriend was one of those 200% Woke male feminists and most of his friends were women, he was charming and many women just loved him for how sweet and genuine he was. Turns out any one of us could have been picked from his fuck Rolodex if he expressed any kind of feelings for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:48 PM |
| 30 | Another ‘Protect Your Finances’ Post“Took money out of our shared account.” More like “I gave him my money to put into an account I was never able to access or monitor.” Never ever share finances with someone you are not married to and even then, tread lightly. I have never once given or loaned my husband money when we dated. The only time I give him money is when I give him my share of the bill payments and when he does an errand for me and I pay him back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 11 | Keep finances separate!We keep our money separate. He sends me his half of the rent and I’ll send him my half of the internet and hydro bills. We did put all of wedding money in a joint account, but we haven’t touched it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 25 | Celebrity Pickmeishas and HVW. Who are good examples of each, to you?Nikki Bella was such a Pickmeisha, she knew that John Cena did not want to get married or have children. She still moved into his house and waited for a ring and hoped that things would go her way. When she finally got engaged to John Cena, see told TMZ “John would make a great dad, but he doesn’t want kids, so we aren’t having any.” It was super pathetic. Now, one may say “Total Divas/Total Bellas” is a reality show, you don’t know how authentic it is,” just remember, if it was a fictional show… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:11 PM |
| 10 | Can we let the FWB‘s go please?I had an FWB for a couple months, it was only a few times and we were quite frankly using each other. But it was something that I needed, I needed a man to touch me, and then it was done and I was better for it. He tried to contact me a few years ago but he didn’t know I was in a relationship with the man I’ve since married. If you are both sure of what the consequences of an FWB relationship and wanna risk it, go ahead, but if you think it’ll be an issue in the end, don’t do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what do you expect in an engagement ring?My best friend brought me to the mall under the guise of “push present shopping” for her. We went into the store and browsed. Initially I wanted yellow gold, but I saw a beautiful white and rose gold swirled band, with a halo around the centre stone, that just jumped out at me. When I tried it on, it was so pretty and being sausage fingered, the ring didn’t make my fingers look fat, yay! My friend took a picture and texted him and he went and got it. The ring was about $2100 plus tax, which I th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:43 AM |
| 4 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡Not to mention that he reneged on having kids, Charlotte was trying to come up with solutions, and he completely changed his mind. At least when he gave her the apartment and stood up to his mother, he did it as an act of good will to Charlotte after all his bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:06 AM |
| 4 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄Yeah because releasing a dating/relationship manifesto geared to men and women must mean that it’s encouraging us to be demanding, entitled bitches... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:16 PM |
| 49 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡Harry worshipped Charlotte. He was honest about what he needed (a Jewish wife) and Charlotte made the choice and converted, whether that should be encouraged is another story. Charlotte tried to rub his nose in her conversion and got pushy and said something she shouldn’t have “you should be lucky to have me!” He walked out, he did miss her and they both apologized. Harry’s been nothing but stand up since. He married her despite knowing her fertility troubles, supported her through her miscarria… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:41 PM |
| 21 | News about my ex...It was told to me, we still have mutual friends, and it confirms things for me. For a long time I thought his actions and my feelings about it were my fault. I didn’t see how damaging his actions were and how much time I wasted fawning over something, when I could have been doing better for myself. Hindsight is 20/20. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 13 | Take note ladies!My husband is an avid gamer but it doesn’t effect his household chores or work or his paying attention to me or our quality time. He knows I don’t care for the games he plays, and I don’t pretend to, though I know his sharing them with me is his way of including me. He does use games as a way to blow off steam of a long day or enjoying a day off, if he had a real issue or if it or if it caused him to neglect his duties or future duties, we’d have a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:39 AM |
| 23 | “Women’s interests are stupid”Not other girls: “Those aren’t women’s “interests” those are women’s jobs. Because RedPill Life” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 02:38 AM |
| 9 | Do better. It's your fault he cheated. NOT!I can come out it if being cheated on a better person and accept that I have shortcomings that he used to justify his behaviour. I just won’t use my shortcomings in a relationship to justify his behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 12:34 AM |
| 101 | This is how men actually thinkWorst part is that men can smell low self esteem from a mile away... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 12:14 AM |
| 63 | “Women’s interests are stupid”I’d like to know what “women’s interests” are and why they are so stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 12:13 AM |
| 23 | I’ve always suspected this: Men with beards carry more germs than dogs, according to studyStill love beards, a hairy man for this gal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Guy strong arms GF into an abortion and blames her when she’s still struggling/waking up to his bull shit. Wish I could pick more flair...If you wanna make your girl have an abortion or keep a baby, tell her parents on her and ruin her life... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Guy strong arms GF into an abortion and blames her when she’s still struggling/waking up to his bull shit. Wish I could pick more flair...Dump His Ass Roast a Scrote Lies Men Tell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 08:05 PM |
| 13 | Guy strong arms GF into an abortion and blames her when she’s still struggling/waking up to his bull shit. Wish I could pick more flair...I think men who make that threat know that they don’t want to be with the woman and think hope that they won’t get their bluff called. That way if the abortion happens, they have no legal ties to her. Two birds one stone... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Guy strong arms GF into an abortion and blames her when she’s still struggling/waking up to his bull shit. Wish I could pick more flair...This also applies to sooo many active flairs but we can only pick one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:32 PM |
| 29 | Guy strong arms GF into an abortion and blames her when she’s still struggling/waking up to his bull shit. Wish I could pick more flair...Or they’ll be honest, “I’m too young to be a father” “A baby will ruin my life” These are fair arguments and should be said, but with a grain of salt because men know what they’ll have to do if a baby is born. Some are “kind” “It’s the wrong time, the wrong baby” “I’ll make it up to you” “You have my support” A friend of mine heard this, she knew an abortion was the right choice regardless, but she was so happy that he was supportive and kind and honest. He broke up with her the day after it was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:26 PM |
| 62 | Update: he still wants to be with me even though after 2 years he doesn’t love meBlock him on everything and tell your landlady that he is no longer welcome in your life and ask her to block him as well. Tell your friends who support you that you’d appreciate if they cut off all contact with him as well, so he doesn’t try to weasel into your life through them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Should you reinforce good behavior in men by thanking them?I think it depends on what’s being done. When we clean the apartment together, I will acknowledge a job well done and how teamwork is great, but not really a “thank you.” I will if I had him for help. But when he does something, say I come home and the apartment is looking really good, I do notice and thank him. Recently, my husband had a day off and didn’t to the laundry, I knew I wanted to tell him to do it, but I also forgot. I usually ask and he says “already planning to do it” and it’s done… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:23 PM |
| 24 | Girl who desperately needs a lecture not looking to be lectured.What I told her: Maybe he’s a good person and has a good heart, and you love him very much, but because of him and him alone, you’ve lost your home. You need to really think about what his gambling problem will do to YOUR future. Do you want to live with his mother? Do you want to put up with his lying and continued breaches of your trust? Do you think that you should live in squalor because of his clearly unresolved problem? Can you trust him to prioritize your financial future together, how ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:45 PM |
| 8 | It's okay to not want to "try new things" in bed.I’m a generally uptight person sexually, so I do need to work on that part of myself to really let go and get lost. I did try anal, I kinda enjoyed it, we were also stoned, but I haven’t done it since. One thing that my husband said is that “I don’t want you do anything you aren’t comfortable with and something I wouldn’t be willing to have done to me.” A lot of guys want something and are so unwilling to return, sometimes that’s the question you gotta ask before you say yes to a certain sexual … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What would you objectively rate yourself?It’s hard, but I’m working on it. I fell off the wagon a bit. I don’t think I’ll ever be a ten, but like I said, I look better now than I did when I was younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | What would you objectively rate yourself?I was a cute kid, so so teen with lots of fat and an awkward phase. Still fat, but I look better now than I did in high school. Right now 6.5 seems fair, I have a nice face and a nice ass, but losing weight had been my saving grace. I’m not stupid, the more weight I lose the more that number will go up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Is masculinity fragile?Standard masculinity, no. Hyper masculinity, yes. It's really easy to set yourself up for failure when you are forcing yourself to be hypermasculine. Men may feel the need to over compensate in an effort to feel less beta, using steroids is a good example. Character and behaviour is more indicative of healthy masculinity, allowing your male instincts to come through, without using them to intimidate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/16 10:53 PM |
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