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I don't claim to be a master by any means, but what's worked for me in the past: It usually feels more like a hookup at the beginning. It's been with girls I met at parties, or from dance classes. Sometimes we've hooked up on the same night or sometimes I've taken them on a light hearted date. Escalated physically and we had sex. Since the chemistry was good I kept messaging them and we kept meeting up afterwards. Some were in an open relationship - open to casual sex with others. Another was qu…
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:08 PM
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Totally dude. There are girls out there who are looking for basically anything (within reason). I've had several FWB type relationships. In fact, I just hooked up with an german girl that is more into a FWB type situation. My intention right now is for partnership - and it really helped me to clarify the situation with myself and to realize that her and I are not aligned.
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:56 PM
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Sweet :)
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:44 PM
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Awesome
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:44 PM
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Thank you. May it be.
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:14 PM
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My intention is to find a woman that I can develop a partnership with. Going beyond the casual and the physical. Someone with which we can be be deeply vulnerable with each other, connect emotionally and spiritually. Support each other and help each other grow.
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:13 PM
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Love this approach, thank you. I like the reminder about going after girls that indicated interest - often they are not the absolute hottest girls there but plenty cute.
/r/seduction30/12/21 03:28 PM
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Golden, man. As someone who has dealt with depression, your advice is absolutely spot on. It has also helped me get back to the roots of what really matters in life.
/r/seduction25/05/16 05:39 PM
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Damn brother that's pure gold. Thank you. Also, what do you think about head vs chest voice? Is that even a thing? Should I be putting conscious effort into "speaking from my chest"?
/r/seduction16/03/16 10:12 PM
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Yes, I can relate entirely. I've been working on improving my voice as well, speaking louder and more clearly. I got tired of hearing "what?". I took some singing lessons and those did help, but I want to have mastery over my voice. I'm thinking maybe of taking some private sessions with a vocal teacher. Could you share any resources that have helped you? Especially with regarding vocal volume and projection.
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:49 PM
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What kind? How many sessions? Please tell me more, I'm interested.
/r/seduction16/03/16 06:36 PM
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Sure. I'm pretty fit, do cool stuff, have a really silly sense of humor. Would definitely have fun.
/r/seduction05/12/15 03:17 AM
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Try hydrosal, works well for my armpits.
/r/seduction15/09/15 10:05 PM
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Thanks man! Your advice resonates with me well, I found the best nights I've had in clubs was when I was enjoying the music and dancing. That being said, I would like advice specifically to make my voice clearer and louder so that others can hear me in loud environments. Having to repeat myself is very frustrating.
/r/seduction15/09/15 12:17 AM
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I did not know that. Solid stuff man. I actually thought that girls would be more hesitant to meet on the first day - it's too sudden, you know?
/r/seduction27/08/15 02:59 AM
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Yeah they agree to the date, give me their number. Then I try to text a day before to remind them, but usually on the day of I get some excuse / they don't answer the text.
/r/seduction26/08/15 08:53 PM
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I'll definitely try building some more rapport. Thanks for the advice man!
/r/seduction26/08/15 12:59 AM
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Usually I say it in a silly context, like "You like eating food too? You're officially my new girlfriend". Thanks for the input though, I guess I gotta keep trying. I'll put more effort in OKC as well.
/r/seduction25/08/15 08:13 PM
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Great advice man. For the second question, I meant that it's not a good idea to drive back home after drinking. Just got back from the date. It went well, we had fun. I teased her a lot and took her to a park where we played on the rides. I tried to sneak in some kino here and there but that's definitely something that I can work on. Never felt like I had an opportunity to kiss her. Either way like you said I learned from this and if we go out again I'll definitely turn up the kino.
/r/seduction27/07/15 02:22 AM
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I was half kidding. I'm not sure that it's a good idea or not. Either way, the most likely reason is your pictures. You look too friendly/unassuming IMO. I would recommend removing the second pic as well. Maybe try a different profile picture where you're looking away from the camera and not smiling.
/r/seduction27/06/15 11:38 PM
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Putting height in description. Too tryhard.
/r/seduction27/06/15 11:24 PM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction17/06/15 12:53 AM
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Start taking Salsa classes, be friendly with everyone. Soon you will go go practice classes /parties with your classmates and then eventually head out to hit some salsa clubs together. Easy way to meet lots of women and acquire a fun and attractive skill.
/r/seduction10/06/15 01:28 AM
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I agree, it's a lot of repetitive stories. There's a summarized pdf out there.
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:40 PM
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Models
/r/seduction21/05/15 07:10 PM
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The most alpha baboons have the reddest butt cheeks. This is a primal ape man level of alpha that you are experiencing. Rock on brother!
/r/seduction01/05/15 11:49 PM
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Big advice.
/r/seduction01/05/15 11:46 PM
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I stopped since Tinder put a limit on swipes.
/r/seduction01/05/15 10:49 PM
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Yup. Life is a lot easier now that I'm more honest and vulnerable. I've been working on building the best lifestyle that I can and my core confidence has improved. I no longer worry about girls realizing that I'm a loser and that all I do is play video games... Because I'm not that person anymore. Crazy right? Basically, Models is not about attracting women. It's about becoming an attractive person. What a life changing concept.
/r/seduction01/05/15 09:26 PM
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Ok, I think I will. I'm just torn between the whole "a man's gotta have values and be abundant" vs the "I want to fuck" thing.
/r/seduction01/05/15 09:14 PM
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Congrats OP. Age?
/r/seduction22/03/15 07:47 PM
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It was random and funny. What's with all these people criticizing this guy? The whole point of the video was about self-amusement. The most important part of game is to enjoy yourself and putting out a good vibe. The details don't matter nearly as much.
/r/seduction29/11/14 03:19 AM
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Nice talk. However, you do speak quite fast which makes you hard to understand at times. Do you have a link to your website?
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:56 AM
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If you don't mind answering this question, do you ever feel depressed?
/r/seduction02/09/14 07:32 PM
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It's not weird, I do it quite often and have a blast. You have to force yourself to approach and socialize as much as possible.
/r/seduction17/08/14 07:36 PM
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I doubt it's an issue with Android. It's probably the picture. I use a black and white picture of me in sunglasses and a santa hat. I thought it wouldn't work but it gets a fair number of matches.
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:42 AM
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Beautiful and motivating.
/r/seduction05/08/14 02:41 AM
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Outcome independence and giving value is a very important concept in game (look at RSD's stuff). You seem to be all hung up on the terminology when it is simply a tool used to describe certain behaviors or actions. Imagine two guys walk up to a girl. It doesn't matter how they would label their action if they are both coming from that positive, "higher-vibrational" place.
/r/seduction31/07/14 10:42 PM
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I can't believe you just recommended an escort. Blew any credibility you might have had earlier in the post Wow, way to treat someone that took his time to give you honest advice in an effort to help you. I'm giving you my advice, you are free to take it or leave it. The only thing that will make you more comfortable with sex is actually having sex. An escort is an easy way to do that. If you personally believe that it will make you lose value as a man then that's on you. Plus, everyone says, bu…
/r/seduction16/07/14 10:15 PM
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The best frame of mind to come from is to do everything for your own amusement. Say things that you find funny and do things that you find funny. If you're not having fun then you're doing it wrong. Fuck trying to be attractive. If you're doing things for the sake of being attractive then you automatically become needy and unattractive. Just have fun instead. For your own sake. This mindset is very powerful because it teaches you to be outcome independent. Who cares how the girl reacts to what y…
/r/seduction16/07/14 08:57 PM
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Do you find that you become dependent on taking kava to be able to approach women?
/r/seduction16/07/14 08:35 PM
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If the stripper thing works out for you then great. Personally I find it easy to be completely casual with strippers because I know they're gonna act friendly/interested no matter what. When interacting with a "real" girl, that's where outcome dependence comes in and it's harder to express myself freely.
/r/seduction16/07/14 08:35 PM
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Thanks for the comment. You're right about the meditation, I definitely feel better after a session. I just have to make it a habit to meditate as soon as I wake up so that I can remind myself to not buy into the bullshit my mind sometimes tells me.
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:55 AM
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Thanks. Sometimes you can't trust the way your brain thinks. I like this!
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:53 AM
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I didn't take anyone home. I just get a general feeling on unease the day after. As far as my game goes: I just go out and have a good time. I don't take anything very seriously, I try to approach a lot and fuck around with girls. I also try to push my own envelope and try new things to improve my game (moving the girl around, walking girls out of the club, etc).
/r/seduction12/07/14 09:07 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I plan on doing it.
/r/seduction09/07/14 04:47 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I've been working mainly on just being happier in life. Meditating, taking up new hobbies, and being productive. I have been much happier lately and intend on continuing to do this.
/r/seduction09/07/14 04:46 PM
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I can't imagine someone actually saying this line in real life.
/r/seduction05/07/14 09:59 PM
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Do it enough times that you don't care anymore.
/r/seduction05/07/14 04:47 PM
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It's gonna take a very long time to completely get rid of approach anxiety. The trick is to approach anyway. Just view approaching as the only criteria for success, and no matter what happens after you'll emerge victorious because you approached.
/r/seduction05/07/14 04:46 PM
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I know why you did it, I'm questioning the morality behind that decision.
/r/seduction03/11/13 02:45 PM
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What's with the lies and deception?
/r/seduction03/11/13 02:50 AM
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I was thinking about this the other day, and I realized it has to do with some of my insecurity. When I show my "true" personality, in a way, it is me at my most vulnerable. That takes a lot of confidence and comfort to overcome. Thanks for the advice man.
/r/seduction15/04/13 07:25 PM
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Bizzarely, sometimes alcohol actually makes me pretty quiet and low-energy. Not always, there are times when it helps with losing my inhibitions, but I guess everyone experiences it in different ways.
/r/seduction15/04/13 07:19 PM
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