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Ok. So you’re saying that a DINK lifestyle offers nothing to men because love is worthless. Meanwhile, you admit you don’t know why you want kids and only ever wanted them when you were in love. Do you see the hypocrisy here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:15 PM
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So you see no purpose in marriage for love, yet the only reason you can find for wanting kids is that you fell in love once. That’s not objectivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:40 PM
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See this? I don’t get why people have kids. Nothing is worth risks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:12 PM
2

Why do you personally want children?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:00 PM
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A lot of men don’t even like kids and balk at the idea of having to care for them even if they have them. So why would they want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:29 PM
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Love and companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:28 PM
0

Disagree all you want. Those kids will resent and leave their parents and rightfully so. Children don’t belong to parents. Parents belong to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:43 PM
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The best asset is money. Children are supposed to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:29 PM
5

Treating a child like an investment is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:28 PM
1

Why do you consider that person a roommate and not a friend? And why would you want more responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:21 PM
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So what’s the point of getting married? I’m in a relationship for love. Kids would ruin our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:20 PM
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If your goal is casual sex just tell them so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:24 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:22 PM
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Are we seriously pretending that a lot men here despise women that would have sex with them on the first date? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:20 PM
2

Umm yes? You’re not supposed to get sex from someone without their permission. They’d be relieved that dweebs can get sex bots and finally leave them alone. As long as the sex bots don’t look like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:07 PM
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What kids are most familiar with are what media and internet give them. Parents are hardly a factor compared to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:17 PM
1

That’s because those women are mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:16 PM
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Why would that be worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:13 PM
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Children don’t care what their parents believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:32 PM
1

That’s not fair to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:57 PM
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Women want to date attractive men. Most men are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:56 PM
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Not knowingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:56 PM
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The solution is not to worry about it. You can adopt any aesthetic you want regardless of sex or gender. Do what you want and don’t tell other people what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:13 AM
1

Well, they live here. And they’ve lived here for a long time. Longer than I’ve been alive in my dad’s case. No one should need anybody if they’re an adult. That’s pathetic. Like my dad for example. He wouldn’t even think for himself. It was too much effort. Just let his bang mommy tell him what to believe as he drifted from dysfunctional marriage to dysfunctional marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:49 PM
3

Women don’t want to marry cops and conservatives. Trade jobs are fine. Oh, are women condemning masculine hobbies now? That’s a new one. Last I heard, they were “infiltrating” them. Video games especially. Which is it? Nothing “lowers T” like sitting our one’s ass playing video games by the way. It sounds to me like men and women are evening things out at becoming equal and you’re mad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:25 PM
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Good. Masculinity and femininity don’t mean anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:18 PM
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It’s because don’t don’t care about sex all that much compared to men. They’d struggle more with the lack of friendships if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:44 PM
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Lots of adults are not self-sustaining and look for partners to parent them. My dad could not comprehend men living without a bang maid. My cousins could not comprehend not having a man to pay the bills. Granted, they are from Cuba not the US though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:36 PM
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Nowhere near enough. The non custodial parent has a responsibility to pay for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:24 PM
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Child support is for the child. A man can’t just abandon his kids because he gets divorced. Alimony is rare and equalization of assets can go both ways anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:22 PM
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The hell are you going on about? Women want to date men that are friendly and can talk while making eye contact. How does that taste and smell like drugs? The fantasy is reserved for porn. Sometimes the guys end up revealing their true colors when they have them trapped often with children. There are no red flags until then. A lot of these “good” introverts end up being abusive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:53 PM
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Excuse me? Women want to masturbate to rape fantasies. They don’t want to be with rapists. They want to be with friendly, extroverted men. And yes, some of them end up being manipulators. Women have every right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:30 PM
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People are aroused by things that are taboo. What a shock. Do you think men should be judged by the things they masturbate to? Because it’s no better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:15 PM
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What do you think women that didn’t marry could do with their lives? They didn’t have a lot of options. They could be a spinster if they were lucky. Or a prostitute if they weren’t. Maybe a nun if they had a wealthy family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:54 PM
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Only because a lot of partners tend to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:15 PM
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The desire to not starve?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:46 PM
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You want kids? Grow them in a lab. I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:38 PM
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Yeah, and those were awful. If there is no love, why marry at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:00 AM
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A 15 year old girl is a child. He is raping that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:17 AM
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That is personality. Being extroverted and fun to be around is personality. Morality is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:00 PM
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Being a good person is not having a better personality. Being charming and extroverted is. Morality and personality are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:58 PM
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Good luck. Don’t you think there may be a third type of guy? One that is genuinely loved and not treated as an object? And that love takes time to develop?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:57 PM
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Why wouldn’t there be different rules? If there is no attraction at first why would there be sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:40 PM
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So you say. But they don’t WANT to have sex with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:25 PM
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You’re the one calling it a market. If that’s the case then you absolutely are what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:59 PM
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Why should anyone want to have with someone that isn’t hot? What’s the point of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:57 PM
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Wait a minute. Are you talking about being valued by society and not about being loved in a relationship? You realize these are different things right? You are referring to male disposability theory. This theory does not take into account that women are disposable as well. Women are not valued as people for just having a uterus. Women are valued as resources for using that uterus for pumping out babies. It is the most painful experience a human can have and, historically speaking, just as deadly…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:40 PM
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They don’t. It’s the pleasure that men “love” them for. Not the children they produce. It’s a fact. Women were not allowed to live freely for that very purpose and it continues in many societies to this very day. The uterus brings women a lack of freedom not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:25 PM
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Women are loved on the condition of providing sex. Not on having a uterus. Women were oppressed and kept under control for having a uterus. It’s why they weren’t allowed in public life in the past and still aren’t in many cultures. To ensure their children belong to their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:59 PM
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Boyfriend prices?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:21 AM
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Not as often as men dump women that can’t have sex or clean because they’re too sick to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:46 PM
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Then how do you know women leaving men inherently means that their love is conditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:45 PM
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So men don’t love unconditionally then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:17 PM
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Just friendship? That’s a very worthy form of love. All romantic relationships eventually turn to companionate love. This is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:49 PM
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Men tend to dump women that get sick more often than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:37 PM
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What makes you say that? It takes time to find someone to actually love. Again, don’t confuse love with lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:34 PM
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Men see love as being later after And that is ridiculous. Someone can absolutely feel lust and no love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:31 PM
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How are women loved unconditionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:29 PM
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The upside is sex. Men don’t stay in sexless relationships unless they are ace or they cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:27 PM
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But that’s what men here want. That’s why you’re so willing to pay. What you are describing is not love. It’s lust. It’s a transaction. Wanting sex is no different from wanting money. You’re describing being horny. Not selfless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:23 PM
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It often really isn’t mutually beneficial. Sex from a man very obviously has less value than sex from a woman most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:16 PM
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Ha ha ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:15 PM
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Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:14 PM
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But they provide something don’t they? If they didn’t provide sex, they wouldn’t have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:13 PM
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How does love survive sexlessness but not the relationship? If you live that person you’d want to be in a relationship regardless. How is moving on due to lack of sex any different from moving on due to lack of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:10 PM
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Toxic masculinity is when men harm themselves or others in an effort to prove their manhood. It’s also the idea that men have to fit a certain ideal to be masculine. Also, why does a grown woman need to be led?
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 04:22 PM
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I’m a man. It’s a well known fact that the majority of assaults men experience are the result of involvement in criminal activity. It’s not mostly men minding their own business being attacked for no reason. And yes, a lot of black on black violence is a result of criminal activity as well. That’s not a secret or even a controversial statement. This tragedy affecting men can be reduced by first reducing income inequality. Can we get back on topic? Why is it so hard to accept that women see cat c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:30 PM
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That is mostly a case of criminals attacking other criminals. And in any case, it does not change what people are trying to tell you. Women don’t see catcalling as a compliment. They see it as a very real threat from a much stronger person. It’s not awesome for them. It is frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:00 PM
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It’s not about being attracted. It’s about feeling that you might be under imminent threat of assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:16 PM
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Willfully disrespecting someone is an act of malice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:15 PM
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You understand that women take being catcalled as a threat to their safety, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:12 PM
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I’m not gay so I guess I’m biased in that regard. But I just don’t see how most men can be attractive to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:39 PM
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The difference is woman are fine on their own if they don’t get what they want. So why settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:37 PM
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I have. Maybe it depends on where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:31 PM
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Do you think this what different in the past? Relationships were business transactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:24 PM
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No. Try meetups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:23 PM
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If that makes her sexually attracted to you then yes. There is more to sexual attraction than immediate physical attraction. If you’re waiting for that instant lust then most men will be virgins forever. Most men are not attractive and never will be. If you want women to be shallow in your favor. Sucks to be you. As an aside. The elders of my family saw relationships as purely transactional. Women got money, men got sex and chores. The men saw that as a great deal. The women had mixed feelings. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:18 PM
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People can be sexually attracted to people for reasons other than immediate physical attraction. Do you want women to be shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:25 PM
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Does it? I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:44 PM
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It’s not about deserve. It’s about what someone wants. They’d rather have no one than settle and that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:41 PM
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Someone’s level of attractiveness does not change who they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:38 PM
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Why would anyone commit to an unattractive partner unless they are paying? My Boomer dad understood that deal and didn’t resent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:37 PM
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No. Bisexual women experience the highest rates of domestic violence. More than 80% from male partners exclusively. Lesbian women report slightly high rates than heterosexual women. But a significant portion comes from male partners they have had before realizing they were lesbians. Lesbians are less interested in frequent sex on average but report higher satisfaction from their sex life. They’re having the amount of sex they want. The lifetime prevalence of severe physical violence by an intima…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:43 PM
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You have it backwards. If it’s ok for Thai women to like your money and status then why are western women talked about like demons for liking money and status?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:10 PM
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Lesbians don’t have sex as often. But when they do it is for an extended time and they are reportedly quite satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:54 PM
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Like every actor ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:15 PM
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Please answer the question. Why are past partner’s such a sore point for you people? If you’re not insecure then what are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:30 AM
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You say as you hold back tears imagining the partners your crush has had in the past and convincing yourself that they are all better than you. Why is a partner’s past such a sore point for you people?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:10 PM
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This may surprise you, but it is perfectly doable to talk to a partner’s ex without bursting into tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:29 PM
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I think it’s more likely that people that have never had something are more resentful and feel that they deserve it. Just look at the entire manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:24 PM
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Because those men love the idea of the woman they’ve invented in their heads. Not the woman herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:46 PM
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That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:34 PM
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Lesbians and older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:26 PM
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When people say they want you to open up and be emotionally vulnerable, they typically don’t mean to vent about your deepest fears, darkest fantasies, and most horrible traumas. Yeah, a lot of women want to hear about how much you love them, how you feel about the relationship, your dreams and aspirations, what makes you happy. They also wouldn’t mind normal problems and issues occasionally. It sounds like a lot of you guys see it as permission to unzip all your trauma and this surprises them. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:59 PM
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Because women give birth, breastfeed, and end up doing most of the caregiver work even when the couple agrees to share duties. Do you really want to be the primary caregiver of a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:01 PM
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Men are likely to get custody if they ask for it. If the woman alleges abuse by the father, then the father is still more likely to get custody. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths https://wamu.org/story/19/08/19/fathers-are-favored-in-child-custody-battles-even-when-abuse-is-alleged/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:52 PM
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Chad refers to an attractive man. By definition they cannot be attracted to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:52 PM
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That’s what people used to say about all queer people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:20 PM
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They have a sexuality. It’s a sexuality uninterested in sex with other people. Sure, that man is straight. The asexual is not. It is unlikely that’s man’s only fantasy is lesbian porn or that he would be uninterested in sex with the actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:18 PM
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So women SHOULD chase Chad and not lower their expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:24 PM
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They do experience sexual arousal. There is nothing physically different about them. They don’t feel sexual attraction to the point that they desire sex with other people. They don’t see someone attractive and desire sex with them. When they do fantasize, they themselves are often not involved in the fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:24 PM
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That’s called aesthetic attraction. OP wants lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:06 PM
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Lust is a big ask late into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:00 PM
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But most men are objectively not attractive. Should women lower their expectations and date physically unattractive men or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:58 PM
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Never heard of asexuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:55 PM
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No one has ever said looks don’t matter. It’s just not the only thing that matters. Other factors are important too. No one says that guys should love women if all sizes. They say women of all sizes should love themselves and not be bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:30 PM
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That’s not what we’re discussing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:07 PM
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That’s an unrelated topic. Fat acceptance is about not bullying people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:07 PM
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That’s about not bullying them. Not about being obligated to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:37 PM
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That’s not mainstream advice unless you go by cartoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:35 PM
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Good personality means being extroverted not necessarily being nice. Why is this so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:32 PM
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It really doesn’t. Trauma makes people less able to deal with adversity. And frequently starts cycles of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:28 PM
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I’m talking about men abusing and raping other men. Not to mention boarding schools for boys that were basically trauma factories.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:39 PM
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We’re not talking about the existence of communities. Convents and women’s shelters exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:39 PM
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Military camps are full of rape and abuse. Hardly utopias.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:04 PM
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One can only really avoid bad experiences by never dating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:49 AM
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I don’t see how it’s a moot point considering they all have misogyny in common. And isn’t it strange that there have been so many shooters motivated by misogyny but hardly any motivated by misandry? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:20 PM
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It seems to me that you’re twisting yourself into knots trying to prove something that is only there if you manipulate the data to reach your desired outcome. Edit: Wait. I may have misread. Are you saying that the less attractive men received more reply messages not less? And you think that’s a bad thing? Don’t you think these women are having actual conversations with these men in an effort to get to know them because they are interested in them? Doesn’t it make complete sense that if someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 01:18 PM
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It doesn’t. The article is about terrorism motivated by misogyny. I was just including a not so fun fact. The majority of US terrorism is done my white supremacist and other far right groups. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/10/24/us/domestic-terrorist-groups.html White supremacists and other like-minded groups have committed a majority of the terrorist attacks in the United States this year, according to a report by a security think tank that echoed warnings made by the Department of Homeland Secur…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:16 PM
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Of course men are going to receive lower reply rates. Why wouldn’t they? It looks like women actively looking for partners went for average to below average guys, but women passively checking their account replied to attractive men more. Again. Of course. Why wouldn’t they? How is this a problem especially considering men tended to message attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:42 PM
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How do you figure that? How can fewer replies result in more dates? Especially how can you say women are more shallow than men when overwhelmingly preferred messaging the most attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:59 PM
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https://www.secretservice.gov/newsroom/releases/2022/03/secret-services-latest-research-highlights-mass-violence-motived-misogyny Most acts of terrorism in the US are committed by white supremacists by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:39 PM
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That’s what I’d like to know. How is someone shallow for rating someone as unattractive and then being interested in dating said unattractive person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:12 PM
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How are they shallow? They message unattractive guys whereas the guys focused on the most attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:24 PM
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How? The women tended to message the unattractive guys whereas the men focused on the most attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:16 PM
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If dating is against one’s cultural beliefs, then befriending an unchaperoned woman probably is as well. I’m neurodivergent. It’s one of the reasons I like to be direct and have people be direct with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:24 AM
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That’s what the date is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:09 PM
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Why wait? It won’t get easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:23 PM
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A lot of women out there are masochists and that’s sad. Not anywhere near as many that like good old fashioned lesbian porn but still. Porn is often violent though. Even the regular stuffs and it’s messing everyone up. On an unrelated note. There’s a lot of incest porn out there too. I wonder what’s up with that. Didn’t used to be so common.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:57 AM
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You’d be surprised how much sex goes on in retirement homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:24 PM
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Around here that is very obviously not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:09 PM
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A woman with cancer can get a man with an app? And you’re abandoning your original argument that men love unconditionally. They do not. The only people who should be loved unconditionally are children anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:03 PM
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Well that’s how it is. Equity makes sense. Equality is meaningless without taking circumstance into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:57 PM
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And that’s a condition. Therefore conditional. Men have control over taking care of the house and kids. Then are surprised when women leave them for not pulling their weight. Men stop loving their wives when they age or get sick too. She doesn’t have control over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:46 PM
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I’m speaking from a legal standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:43 PM
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Dude, everyone who talks about equality means equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:37 PM
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To have more money. In a marriage there is only our money. Not yours and mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:35 PM
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How would it be equality if he earned significantly more but she paid just as much? The women were asking for equality. You’re asking more of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:33 PM
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Anger is a emotion. And it is well known that many men have trouble controlling it or understanding or accepting it likely comes from fear and shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:27 PM
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Would a man love a woman that stopped having sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:21 PM
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I’m sorry. I meant “for you certainly”. I didn’t mean to downplay your skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:18 PM
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sucking dick is a very easy job For you maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:10 PM
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And you think these women in Latin America have those opportunities? You think sex trafficked women have these opportunities? They don’t. And what you’re describing is not nearly as common as sex workers being murdered as an outlet for someone’s rage and nothing more. It’s a miserable position to be in and often not any kind of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:49 PM
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Your anecdotal evidence of going to vacation and getting a warning does not change the fact that sex workers are FAR more often victims of violence than perpetrators of violence. The data is clear on this. It does not change the fact that many women are in these situations because they’re being trafficked or abused. And for the record, I feel bad for gang members too. We need better opportunities and a reduction in income inequality to reduce crime. And sex workers (drug addicts too for that mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:35 PM
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Sex work is one of the most dangerous professions. https://www.publichealthpost.org/research/sex-work-amid-the-pandemic/ https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2021/nov/21/selling-sex-is-highly-dangerous-treating-it-like-a-regular-job-only-makes-it-worse https://www.lshtm.ac.uk/newsevents/expert-opinion/sex-work-still-most-dangerous-profession-data-suggests-so But if you think they’re so dangerous, great. Leave them be. Less demand results in less sex trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:58 PM
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Sex workers are frequently murdered. They are targets of violence. This is well known. They aren’t all women either. You are warned to stay away from them because of STDs. You were warned about drugs too. Do you think drugs are going to murder you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:51 PM
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They are the worst people alive? Not pedophiles, mass shooters, or dictators? People who are so desperate they have sex for money and live in constant danger are the worst people alive? Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:37 PM
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Are you saying victims of sex trafficking aren’t victims? They can be male as well by the way. And cops arrest them all the time. Even children. https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/interactive/2021/vegas-child-sex-trafficking-victims-jailed/ That’s why people want to decriminalize sex work but arrest johns. To allow sex workers to go to the police but keep demand low to keep sex trafficking from skyrocketing. And excuses for what? There is nothing wrong with being a sex worker. There is some…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:03 PM
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I just saw the segment. Putting down? He was talking about how men these days need help. Speaking about men in crisis does not mean you are a pariah for being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:50 PM
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So that they’ll lock up the victims and give them no help?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:22 AM
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You mean incels? They’re not just single men and you know that. They’re followers of an ideology. No one cares if you’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:21 AM
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The existence of sex trafficking and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:31 PM
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A lot of prostitutes have no choice. Sex trafficking is very much a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:16 PM
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You say this, and then you guys seethe when women make you wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:12 PM
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Are you seriously arguing for fathers leaving their kids without financial support? The custodial parent pays more anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:05 PM
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Why would they include divorced men in the study? They’re not married. Is there pressure on happy single men? Maybe? Less than there is on happy single women. Definitely less than on miserable single men. Push against that pressure the way women have. Do it without the “women are inferior” garbage bleating of MGTOW and you’ll gain more traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:59 PM
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Tinder isn’t dating. It’s just a scam really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:57 PM
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And then women will choose not to marry at all rather than put up with less.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:14 PM
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How so? Liberals love capitalism. Even conservatives and moderates are technically liberals in that regard. Leftists hate capitalism and all other unjust hierarchies so of course we are progressive. I’m really just trying to figure out what you guys’ problem is. Why are you so obsessed with this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:13 PM
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Scratch a liberal and a fascist bleeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:38 PM
1

Why are conservatives so sexually repressed? Have you considered that women would be more interesting dating you if you weren’t one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:32 PM
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There clearly is reciprocation or there wouldn’t be a relationship in the first place. No one is trapped here. Pardon me for being attractive enough that I have had a couple of casual sexual partners. I far prefer my current gf. Your problems are yours entirely. Responsibility for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:00 PM
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The reality that if you want sex you need to put up the work of a relationship instead of living the Chad fantasy. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:11 PM
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The closest we have to this ideal is social Democracy and they have the highest standard of living. And people in the US were certainly happier when unions were a thing and before Reagan ruined our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:54 PM
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Of course they have the most sex. But people also have sex in unmarried but serious relationships. They also have some sex is not so serious relationships. Making those forbidden obviously results in less sex and worse sex overall. How would it increase the sex you manage to have? If people aren’t willing to be in an LTR with you then they certainly won’t want to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:50 PM
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This utility thing you seem to be hung up on is projection. You guys call all marriages BB. People marry for love and the guys are completely willing participants. They are there because of their feelings. Not everyone has this weird obsession over this impossible Chad ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:46 PM
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The part where you guys obsess over some lifestyle you’re never going to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:42 PM
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They get lots of “affection”, but that naturally decays over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:36 AM
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All I’m hearing here is that you guys really want casual sex and not to have to put up with the ups and downs of a relationship despite not really being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:48 AM
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Wow no. Everyone is miserable. Our generation can’t even retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:45 AM
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People don’t know what they like in a partner when they’re young. Nor is there any guarantee that someone with BBs trusts would be in her life back then. Especially since like women, men are less stable when they are young and unlikely to have mature or responsible traits. They don’t get less or pay more, they get a relationship. Either way, with no AF in the equation he gets exactly the same thing. So why the distinction? It’s absolutely the case that you guys are focused on relationships as tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:37 AM
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You were responding to a post about how men are more likely to remarry after divorce while women prefer to remain single. I responded to your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:31 AM
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So what do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:29 AM
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The post was about what women do after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:23 AM
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We are. Women don’t remarry because they often find relationships with men to be a drain. They are not comparatively speaking more interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:55 PM
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So less sex for everyone. How does this help you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:53 PM
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This has less to do with lack of stigma than the fact that women don’t really need to settle for providers anymore since they can make their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:52 PM
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Does BB want a relationship or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:50 PM
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Dude, whom ever has more money has more power. Money is absolutely social status. It’s everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:48 PM
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You do realize that every relationship in history has been BB right? Our parents and grandparents didn’t marry for love. Nana had to secure whatever guy she could get to pay bills and pop pop needed a bang maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:47 PM
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I’m sure that the unrestrained capitalist nightmare we live in has nothing to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:45 PM
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How could she pick BB guy if she hadn’t even met him yet? So it’s fine if there were no AF? So from what I understand, you guys are just salty that there are men that have more sex with younger women than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:43 PM
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Women often choose celibacy. They are fine on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:39 PM
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So you guys don’t party? I thought red pill guys were supposed to party all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:38 PM
-1

Go ahead if that’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:36 PM
1

The reward for suffering for your child is your child’s happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:06 PM
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Quality of life is absolutely everything and progress is the point of existence. Powerful states can exist with a life full of horrors. Yes I know. It’s a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:53 PM
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Yes, I’m well aware you from a backwards country.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:00 PM
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That is as corrupt and immoral as anything I’ve heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:46 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:32 PM
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Why do you want kids? Do you think you have way too much time and money on your hands? I’m vasectomized and proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:32 PM
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No, they’re a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:30 PM
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Seriously, one guy is talking about Amazons like they were real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:28 PM
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The Amazons never existed. They were from mythology. There have never been female only societies. Unless you count that one place in Africa that is basically a women’s shelter village.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:25 PM
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It will still take a while for them to sort themselves out. And once the boomers finally die off, that supposed crisis you’re taking about won’t be so bad. Our big issue is the system itself. We have more than enough resources for everyone. We don’t need workers to support retirees. We need to redistribute wealth. Long term, our future will consist of either complete climate devastation or massive automation anyway. In the former case, we won’t want more people in the latter we won’t need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:20 PM
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Something is only elite if it controls and acquires capital. The billionaires are the elites. Spiritual world? Oh please. Do go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:11 PM
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We do have immigrants from China. I work with several Chinese immigrants at my job. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:10 PM
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Eventually, the 2nd or 3rd generation will settle down. But the countries the new immigrants are from will take a very long time to develop in that direction. If the government wants people to have more kids they’ll have to make it worth our while. Cut working hours. Increase standard of living. Increase parental leave. Recognize healthcare, housing and food as human rights. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:09 PM
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They could always do what one of the people in this thread did, partner up with another single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:32 PM
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Honestly, these situations should be more common. Partnering with a romantic partner works for a lot of people. But it doesn’t work for everyone. More options like this are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:26 PM
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You think a school board is an elite institution? You are a live one. Tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:23 PM
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That’s what immigration is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:20 PM
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A lot of people don’t want kids. And what you’re saying applies to men just as much. So why aren’t more men more interested in women with good paying jobs if the situation is as dire as you make it out to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:12 PM
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They’ve already made their intentions known. Unless otherwise stated, they want to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:24 PM
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Fear of being rejected Only this one is real. I see only one side being a problem here. They willfully put themselves in the friend zone. They should get themselves out. What should women do? Tell every single one of their male friends, “I know you like me and are lying about being my friend. Get lost, creep!” There is no way out of this without labeling him a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:27 PM
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Regardless, I have no patience for indirect people. I don’t get why anyone would bother implying or hinting at anything when they can just say what’s on their mind. Much more efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:12 PM
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What? Men want this too. Of course we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:41 AM
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What a strange question. Love is not guaranteed. But so what? People strive for it anyway. You date and date until you find someone to love. Divorce? So what? Nothing lasts forever. But for a while, you have a best friend to share your life and intimacy with. That’s the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:40 AM
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A lot of people are oblivious to body language. But that’s irrelevant anyway. They should just ask her out and stop playing games. Their own fault for wasting time. Why wait? If someone wants something they should be honest and go for it. I haven’t never played at this and don’t see the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:55 PM
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This has never happened to me. I’ve only ever asked her out or had her straight up tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:38 PM
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I don’t see how it’s possible to tell the difference between friendship and romantic interest without being told. He is pretending to be a friend and is a manipulator and a liar. He should just ask her out and the take the rejection instead of wasting his and her time. Cowards get no sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:33 PM
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How? And even if they did, Orbiters are manipulative idiots and cowards who deserve to be shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:27 PM
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How would anyone ever know for certain without being directly told? Before that happens all we have are assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:16 PM
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Why would anyone just assume they are interested? That’s awfully presumptuous. Orbiters deserve no sympathy. Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:08 PM
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Everything he said is true. You are coping. You refuse to understand that women are ok with being alone if their standards are not met. Why should they adjust their expectations then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:00 PM
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You: I’m sure tired of all these fires Me: here’s some water You: STFU Yes. I am a commie. Alienation is explicitly a product of capitalism. We cannot receive healthcare because it is privatized. We are overworked and underpaid to make more money for the rich. And we turn to drugs and self harm to escape the pain. What else would you call this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:05 PM
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There are no countries that aren’t capitalist. Maybe only Cuba, but they are under embargo. And even then have managed some great breakthroughs in medicine despite this. Democracy existed before the end of mercantilism. The United States is nowhere near as nice a place live as the Social Democrat Nordic countries. We need economic democracy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:26 PM
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Children should not have access to the internet in the first place. I’m not angry. Just stating facts. Andrew Tate is a sex trafficker and abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:25 PM
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Everyone knows only incels like Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:56 PM
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Sir, you are literally scared of internet titties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:33 PM
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All the time. What do you think he was advocating for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:24 PM
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You think endorsing rape and violence is ok but titties are bad? What’s wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:13 PM
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The solution to almost all of these things is the end of capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:02 PM
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Andrew Tate is a sex trafficker. He should be in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:58 PM
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The term, pumping and dumping, implies contempt. There is no no need to regard sexual partners with contempt. Don’t lie about intentions, be reasonably respectful, and one night stands are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:34 PM
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https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths It depends on the applicable definition of “never,” but generally, this is untrue. The most recent available Census statistics show that fathers represent around one in five custodial parents—an improvement over the 16 percent of custodial parents reported in 1994. However, studies indicate that dads simply do not ask for custody as often as mothers do, and courts generally do not award what is not asked for in that rega…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:35 PM
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How are we supposed to have real discussions when you pretend that there is such a ridiculous thing? Not every person that most people would consider attractive is everyone’s type. People disagree on attractiveness all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:26 PM
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Well I was lowering the stakes to lighten the mood. But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:42 AM
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If you were given a bowl of chips and told that 5% would give you diarrhea would you eat one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:45 AM
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No it really isn’t sketchy and the fact that people with allegations of sexual abuse are more likely to win custody than those who don’t is appalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:13 PM
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That doesn’t change the fact that most fathers decide staying with the mom is what is in the best interest of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:07 PM
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That’s when they don’t go to court. Most fathers just let the mothers have custody because living with the primary caregiver is less of change for the kids. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:03 PM
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I’m saying alleging abuse is not the winning move you think it is and makes women less likely to win custody in a dispute not more likely. And yeah, most of these cases have evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:01 PM
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Was he the primary caregiver? I either case, this example is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:32 PM
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So how is it a shit show when they usually get custody when the court actually gets involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:13 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:12 PM
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men’s rights forums Mmhmm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:32 PM
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Mothers tend to lose custody when they claim abuse. https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/aug/14/courts-fail-mothers-children-abuse In 2019, Meier looked at 200 cases in which mothers alleged child sexual abuse by fathers and found that courts sided with the mothers in just 15% of cases. In the same study, she found that, of 1,137 cases where mothers alleged domestic violence, courts credited the claims in just 517 cases. Mothers who accuse their partners of abuse can be seen as the “les…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:30 PM
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I can take a closer look at the study later on, but it does bolster my point. They asked for custody and got it. But let’s assume you’re right. Who says the fathers wanted more than that? Honestly, I would think being the fun parent that gets the kids every other weekend is better than being the dreary one that has to do all of the weekday work. It’s what I would choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:03 PM
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90% of custody cases are settled out of court.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:06 PM
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Sometimes. And sometimes they think the kids are better off with the primary caregiver. Sometimes they think they can’t get custody thanks to myths spread around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:01 PM
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It is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:40 PM
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So you’re saying he got custody and that the court ruled in his favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:39 PM
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https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths A Massachusetts study examined 2,100 fathers who asked for custody and pushed aggressively to win it. Of those 2,100, 92 percent either received full or joint custody, with mothers receiving full custody only 7 percent of the time. Another study where 8 percent of fathers asked for custody showed that of that 8 percent, 79 percent received either sole or joint custody (in other words, approximately 6.3 percent of all fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:37 PM
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It is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:36 PM
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Yes they do. But a lot of fathers believe they don’t. And that’s because people spread myths like they do here. Stop doing that, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:35 PM
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Yes. If fathers ask for custody they usually get it. But they don’t usually ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:13 PM
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Yeah. Most fathers are not accustomed to being the primary caregiver and both parents decide it’s better for the mother to have custody for this reason. In cases where there is no marriage, obviously the one that gives birth is usually the one that keeps the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:56 PM
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I see a lot of guys answering so I’ll just go ahead. Yes, women killed chivalry on purpose because it’s infantilizing and awful. Putting women on a pedestal is objectification. No one likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:21 PM
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Are you aware that Reddit is anonymous? How would anyone be able to cash in these virtue points you think they are earning? Why is it so hard to understand that people disagree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:16 PM
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Most incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:10 PM
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That’s because lesbians tend to rush into marriage. That’s been explained earlier in this thread. Gay men tend to marry later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:07 PM
3

So a stalker?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:39 PM
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Toxic masculinity does not mean masculinity is toxic. Please don’t pretend that you really think that.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 04:55 PM
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How can you make such a long post and not get a single thing right? Antifa is concerned with opposing fascism and attending counter protests. The 3 second gaze thing you’re describing isn’t real. I’ve never even heard of it. The Me Too movement was concerned with expelling people that harassed both men and women from positions of power. Almost all of them were well known abusers not falsely accused at all. Toxic masculinity is a term invented by the mythopoetic men’s movement. It refers to the g…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 04:45 PM
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Yes. Because caring for children makes a career very difficult. Women sacrifice their careers and financial well being to care for their children. They shouldn’t be punished for this. That’s a good point. Men commit suicide more whereas women attempt suicide more because men tend to own guns. Suicide is usually an impulsive act. Guns make it that easy. If women owned more guns, their suicide numbers would sky rocket. https://www.futurity.org/handgun-ownership-suicide-risk-gender-2380842/ Men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:11 PM
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Getting anywhere in a career is really difficult with a resume gap for childcare and kids at home. You keep talking about repercussions. These are repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:01 PM
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And? Why does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:38 PM
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Nah. Most people get tired of that and want love eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:33 PM
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No repercussions? https://www.finance-monthly.com/2021/04/how-will-divorce-affect-your-finances/ While both men and women tend to suffer financial difficulty after a divorce, the burden upon women is often much higher. This discrepancy is more prevalent when the divorcing couple has children About 20% of women fall into poverty after a divorce, while approximately 25% temporarily lose their health insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:31 PM
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On average, women take a larger financial hit after divorce than men do. Children are outrageously expensive even with child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:23 PM
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Only modern marriages are about love. Traditional marriage is nothing but a business contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:20 PM
3

That’s horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:19 PM
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The assets are split in half. You both get half. These guys are assuming women bring nothing to the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:16 PM
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It’s not half of YOUR stuff. It’s half of the combined assets. Don’t marry someone without financial assets. And alimony is rare. But I agree. Marriage is an outdated contract. Just give everyone a UBI, especially children. This frees people to join or leave at will. That said, no fault divorce is definitely better than what we had before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:02 PM
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Forced to? In your view, are men ever responsible for the harm they cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:42 PM
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This thread is hilarious when compared to the previous thread about guys who throw a tantrum when their wives are too busy taking care of a baby to take care of them. Thread 1: Our wives should still be wiping our asses and cleaning up after us even though we have a literal infant in the house. Thread 2: Don’t be ridiculous. We don’t need wives to be our mommies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:08 PM
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People used to have kids to work on the farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:45 PM
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That’s some projection right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:43 PM
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No. She’s sacrificing her own happiness and her husband’s comfort for the child’s comfort. Would the wife be happy if he made the kid a priority and ignored her needs? Yeah. I think so. It’s undoubtedly better than what she’s getting now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:09 PM
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Adults can take care of themselves. The kid is the priority and parents need to understand that. I legitimately can’t understand why people who aren’t rich have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:11 PM
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But why wouldn’t you expect that? Children absolutely torpedo people’s lives. Never mind the physical changes or post partum depression. You’ve got a little helpless person that needs constant attention. That’s unbelievable stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:05 PM
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Do nothing? She’s taking care of the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:43 PM
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It really doesn’t. It’s just hyperbole. Incels really mean what they say. We have the mass shootings to prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:12 PM
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It’s not. It’s just absurd to say it’s the ONLY thing that matters.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 02:20 AM
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My bad
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 05:04 PM
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Modestly dressed women are preferred targets because they are seen as submissive. A Federal Commission on Crime of Violence study found that just 4.4 percent of all reported rapes involved “provocative behavior” on the part of the victim. (In murder cases, it’s 22 percent.) It also found that most convicted rapists could not remember what their victims were wearing. Studies show that women with passive personalities, who tend to dress in layers, long pants and sleeves and high necklines, are act…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 04:45 PM
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Predators admit to preferring women wearing modest clothing because they see them as more submissive and less likely to fight back as well as women wearing pony tails because they are easy to grab onto. Maybe we should warn about that and less on revealing clothing because that’s a red herring. They also prefer clothing that is easy to remove. Tight jeans may be safer. Skirts are less safe no matter how long they are.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 04:38 PM
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Some people find the opportunity to break taboos fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:47 PM
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Oh yes. Women shamed for having sex at all. Men shamed when they have abusive sex. Exactly the same. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:33 PM
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You are referring to this trope. Stalking for love https://youtube.com/watch?v=rZ1MPc5HG_I&feature=share This trope also influences women to believe this type of behavior is romantic and it’s absolute dog shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:23 PM
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innocent love 🙄 Teenage “love” is based on social status and showing off to your friends.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/22 05:40 PM
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Telling people you have the reasoning ability of an animal is not the flex you think it is.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/22 05:36 PM
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Don’t bother with this guy. He’s big mad that women think he’s gross for having sex with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:48 PM
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It’s not. It’s just simple patriarchy. You’re still avoiding the question. So I’m done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:11 PM
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They usually didn’t have premarital sex. They do now. And it does not lead to debasement of their sexual partners. Because in our culture (most cultures really) taking the D is considered debasement but giving the D is not. That’s why there is a double standard between sluts and studs. So you admit it? This whole thing is you trying to grapple with the idea that men that visit prostitutes are still disliked, but sexual women are increasingly pushing against the stigma against them. Meanwhile, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:43 PM
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“Transgress the prohibition on sexuality” refers to premarital sex. No one is denying that women engage in premarital sex. Nor does premarital sex in and of itself lead to debasement. I’m going to take your continuing evasiveness as a yes. This is about your predilection for prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:24 PM
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I don’t see how I’ve been ridiculing you. I have been exasperated by your refusal to give direct answers though. Can you please answer? I’m honestly baffled by your perspective. Edit: I took a look at your search history. Is this about people not approving of men who visit prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:21 PM
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Sometimes. A lot of people are just like that for no particular reason though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:03 PM
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Ok. Do you think all women love hypersexual Chads and disrespect virgins like most people on this sub believe? If so, how do you reconcile this with your view that sexual men are viewed with contempt?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:01 PM
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Plenty of unattractive introverts and extroverts also manage to get spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:57 PM
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Well duh. That’s what TRP or incel types don’t get. They think women all love bad boys but really people are just attracted to extroverts and extroverts get more chances because they’re out there. Similarly, TRPs and incels aren’t good men, they’re just introverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:43 PM
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It’s pretty clear from your inability to answer questions or make a clear point. Let me ask you this. Men seem to have contempt for sexual women. Do you see any evidence of women having equal contempt for sexual men? People on this sub seem to think all women love Chad and disrespect virgins. Do you believe this? If so, how do you reconcile the two perspectives? Please, be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:10 PM
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No. She clearly kept the secret because it was too heartbreaking to speak of him. Are you making the claim that Rose has the self debasement pathology? Because she clearly doesn’t. If she did, she would have stayed with her abusive fiancé. The article brought her up as an example because the the writer believed the audience found the secret aspect to be romantic. But I don’t think that really mattered to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:10 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:09 PM
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And of course you’re a Jordan Peterson fan. You can’t make a point to save your life. Dodging answering questions just like Mr. Lobster does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:08 AM
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If feminine sexuality derives from male sexuality then Freud did believe that women just react to male sexuality. The idea that male and masculine are distinct is a modern feminist idea. No. You are claiming that Freud would say that women have a Madonna whore complex just because you are jumping to that conclusion all on your own. The opinions that people here have of women with any n-count above one or single mothers are perfect examples of debasement. They see them with contempt. As if they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:45 AM
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Actually I take it back. Titanic is a terrible example. Rose was interested in Jack not because he was a thrilling secret. She had every intention of marrying him if he had survived. The writer of the article did not even say Rose was a good example herself. The writer said that the secret made the romance appealing to audiences. But that’s nonsense. If Rose had said that she had told her children about her lost love it wouldn’t have impacted the popularity of the movie one bit. The best example…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:39 AM
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That is exactly what he wrote. The frigidity he was talking about is a consequence of the original complex. Women internalize it. That is what corollary means. And secrets are not debasement. If you want an example of debasement look no further than the opinion this sub has about high n count women and single mothers. Do you really think there was any distinction between masculine and male or feminine and female back in Freud’s time? There wasn’t. You are being anachronistic and interpreting it …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:45 PM
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No one said he did. Jack does not have that particular complex. Are you under the impression that when people internalize something it comes directly from other people? It comes from our culture. Secrets are not debasement. Secrets are romantic. She loved him and longed to be with him in the afterlife. Yes she did return to his grave and thanked him. What do you think dropping a priceless diamond into the ocean was about? You do remember that the original plan was to leave her upper class fiancé…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:37 PM
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It’s a perfect example. Rose romanticizes her affair with her forbidden lover Jack. She loves him and desires him. She doesn’t debase him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:21 PM
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Freud also didn’t say that women debase men the same way men debase women. You are coming to the conclusion entirely on your own. Why quote the paragraph about frigidity and secrets if you’re going to ignore how different it is from the male pathology Freud is discussing? You could have simply stated that women suffer from the Madonna whore complex exactly the same way as men do without citing anything at all. And please don’t protest at my use of the term. You used it in your first post. Of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:18 PM
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Because they don’t. They debase themselves. That’s where the rape fantasies, interest in hardcore porn, and attraction to men that hurt them come from. Women with sexual pathologies have learned that female sexuality is debasement the same way men with these pathologies have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:11 PM
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What 180? I’ve been trying to figure you out the whole time. Edit: Do you think that women with sexual pathologies debase their partners the same way men with sexual pathologies do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:50 PM
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I want to understand what you’re seeing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:32 PM
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I’m trying to understand how you interpret the text. In your own words, why do they debase them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:02 PM
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Why do they debase them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:58 PM
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Ok. Why do the people you are talking about hate people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:54 PM
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Why do you think the women you are talking about hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:44 PM
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You realize I’m a man, right? And no. I don’t think penis envy is real. Or the Oedipal complex either. And the Madonna whore complex is highly overstated especially in a modern context. I don’t know why you take so much issue with the term itself considering you are the one that brought it up in the first place. Freud was interesting and pointed us in the right direction. Some of his work still has value as far as treatment goes, but mostly it’s a historical curiosity like alchemy that lead to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:37 PM
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Oh yes. That’s exactly what someone with a perfectly sensible pet theory would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:36 PM
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That is not what I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:59 PM
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I’ve read it. Can you please explain your take on it? Because you make no sense. At least explain why you’ve come to the conclusion that these women hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:54 PM
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Let me sum up the article. The Madonna whore complex is an attitude that some men have because they see sex as debasement for women. This disgusts men. So women they have sex with are whores whom they hate. And women they love are madonnas whom they can’t imagine in a sexual relationship. As a consequence of this “sex is gross when you’re a girl” line of thinking, women see sex as something forbidden. So some women develop a complex where they are only aroused by secret affairs and not aroused b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:53 PM
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You know what else is a hot bed of sexual misconduct? Religious institutions. It really does seem that most fundamentalist groups were created so the male leaders could have sex with underaged girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:27 PM
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Again. You’re projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:15 PM
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Dude. We had this same conversation weeks ago. You posted the same link weeks ago. The article you quoted straight up says you are wrong. The Madonna whore complex is a male issue. What is described here is a female tendency to view sex as something forbidden. The Madonna whore complex is a male tendency to view sex as debasement. It is related but it is not the same thing. There are no Madonnas or whores in this case. Women do not hate men over this. (Though I suspect women with this issue may …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:09 PM
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still counting non-offending I don’t see why anyone would.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:02 PM
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That doesn’t make sense. The Madonna-whore complex as defined by Freud is a male affliction. Edit: oh you’re the same guy I talked to before. This matter was already settled. You were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:46 PM
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Fun fact: The term toxic masculinity was created by a men’s movement. The term internalized misogyny refers to women who have accepted female stereotypes. These stereotypes label them as inferior. That’s why it’s called misogyny. Feminist literature does refer to this as toxic femininity interchangeably though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:35 PM
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No. That’s is still called toxic masculinity. What gave you the idea that it wasn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:33 PM
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No. Bestiality is more common among men. And there is a huge difference between fantasizing about raping someone and being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:21 PM
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From what I can see here, the guys they’re passing over aren’t any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:19 PM
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You mean deadbeat dads?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:16 PM
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Armie Hammer’s career is over because of his cannibalism fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:11 PM
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Why shouldn’t he? Parenting is hard work. In the situation that she’s doing all of it, the least the non custodial parent could do is pay all the expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:42 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:40 PM
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A big tip off is if they are conservative. There are liberal and leftist redpillers out there I’m sure. But they are fewer in number. Never date a conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:38 PM
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It was invented on Reddit in 2012. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/the-red-pill-reddit-2013-8%3famp Your weird meetups are offshoots of that. I’ve watched this nonsense unfold since the beginning, sonny. Marriedredpill was particularly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:35 PM
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Getting off to the idea of hurting someone is messed up regardless. And your John Wick example just supported the idea that women don’t actually want the rough sex they masturbate to. I hope you realize that. They sure do prepare for anal in porn. Then they act like it hurts anyway. Because that is the point of the anal sex scenes in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:11 PM
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Not in porn. That is not the point of those scenes at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:03 PM
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Yes. That’s exactly what I’m saying. Masturbating to self degradation is kind of sad. Masturbating to degrading another person is much, much worse than that. Also, how many men watch anal sex porn specifically? Without a prostrate involved, how is that not just a pain and degradation kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:53 PM
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Enjoying being degraded and enjoying degrading someone else are entirely separate things in terms of how harmful they are. Also, you’re ignoring that by far the most popular category was lesbian, porn for women, and solo male porn. And the sample size was drawn from the mere 10% to 30% if women who are interested in porn at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:22 PM
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The only people who have ever heard of TRP are Redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:12 PM
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Putting women on a pedestal and looking down in them are both bad things for both men and women. Seeing them as equals is a good thing. Also, some people learn to hate themselves. It happens.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 07:32 PM
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Oh, I see. What you’re describing is not the Madonna-whore complex. That is a male phenomenon in Freud’s view. It’s supported by the article you just posted. Men with this condition can’t separate sex from debasement. What you are describing is a similar phenomenon he wrote about. And women with this “frigidity” cannot separate sex from the prohibited/forbidden. It would seem that the only way to solve this is to end our obsession with sex=bad/dirty. But it looks like Freud thinks this isn’t ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:13 PM
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Freud’s writing were about men not women. Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love." Women do not have it according to Freud. They respond to it in men. That’s why they delay sex. To be cautious and avoid being dumped. Yes, “high n count” women have one night stands. That’s where the n count comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:46 PM
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Ok…? Then what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:35 PM
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Now this is an interesting perspective. You think, as you call them, high n count women have been burned by misogyny during one night stands. And because of this, they are more likely to wait in a relationship. Whereas, as you call them, low n count women will have sex on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:24 PM
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he is a man to be despised No. Men are rarely hated for that. I don’t think you understand how common misogyny is. So common that it becomes background noise and people don’t even see it for what it is. Madonna-whore complex That’s exactly what we’re talking about. But women don’t have it themselves. They are responding to the Madonna-whore complex in men. Or a mild version if one anyway. It’s more like a girlfriend-whore complex. It doesn’t come from being oversexed. It comes from being raised …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:59 PM
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What? Why would someone despise anyone just for inhibiting sexual gratification? That makes no sense. Waiting is no big deal. They can have lots of sex later. edit: Wait. Do you guys hate women that delay sex just because you have to wait? And do you think women do the same? Seriously? Fascinating. The point the OP was making is that women are not attracted to their boyfriends. If they are, they’d have sex with them right away. That’s not true. They just want them to respect them and are willing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:10 PM
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Right. She was attracted to him but he wanted him to respect her so she waited. This completely goes against the OPs ramblings about women not being attracted to boyfriend material. Maybe she despises the fuckboy. I can’t read her mind. But most likely, she just doesn’t care what he thinks. Men have sex with women they hate all the time after all. I don’t see how people having little to no consideration for hookups should be surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:20 PM
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This is some absolutely bizarre logic. You don’t seem to understand. Women are taught that men DESPISE women who have sex right away and respect women who make them wait. Boyfriend material does not mean lack of attraction. Far from it. It means someone is the whole package. An attractive guy with a personality they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:15 PM
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No. They come from a time where relationships were entirely transactional. When women settled for men to avoid poverty.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 07:04 PM
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Patriarchy = gender roles. Specifically named for the idea that men have been given more authority than women by these roles. Are you denying that men and women have been forced into different gender roles? And yes. Women are oppressed. Men are oppressed too.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:29 PM
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Used like what? It is a term specifically used to call out unfair and restrictive expectations that harm men. Gender roles for men should expanded the way that feminism has expanded roles for women.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:27 PM
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Toxic masculinity does not refer to men. It refers to the toxic expectations placed upon men. A men’s movement invented the term. Toxic femininity is an acceptable term. It has been used in academia. It is not used as often because the concept is interchangeable with internalized misogyny which is older and more widely known.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:21 PM
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If you think gender roles aren’t needed then you’re a feminist.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 01:15 PM
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These guys don’t really want to go their own way. They want women to come crawling back to them. That’s why they are eager to recruit. They think if they get enough guys on board, women will behave the way they want just to get back in their lives. It’s not going to happen.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/20 08:35 PM
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No shit. Tinder is about 80% male.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/20 01:36 AM
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An insult based on the “hurr durr you’re not enough of a man” bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 02:19 AM
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You think hyper masculinity doesn’t exist and yet you insult people by calling them a “cuck” thus proving that it does. Your lack of self awareness is astounding.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/20 05:37 PM
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That’s tough talk from someone who claims to be his daddy’s bitch with no identity of his own.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/20 02:26 AM
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How can it be your father’s identity if your grandfather had it first? So you’re saying she should make up her own name?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/20 02:17 AM
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No. She inherited the name the same way her father did and his father before him. It’s her identity every bit as much as it is theirs. It’s also her aunt’s name, her sister’s name etc. Tell me. Is your name just your father’s identity or is it yours? Is your father’s name his identity or is it your grandfather’s?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/20 02:09 AM
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Her name is no more her father’s identity than his name is his father’s identity. She was born with that name. It is hers every bit as much as OP’s name is his. Your reasoning does not scan.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/20 01:59 AM
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No. That is just this data point The data - which was analyzed by the Washington Post -- revealed that an average of 23 percent of Millennials aged 18 to 30 (almost 1 in 4) said they haven’t had sex in the past year, Being misquoted. That’s a poorly researched article. The average age of virginity loss has remained rather steady We can begin, as most discussions of sex in America do, with data from the Kinsey Institute. The Kinsey Institute repurposes and discusses 2017 data from the CDC, which …
/r/ExRedPill26/11/19 02:57 PM
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Did you read the actual report? 30% of young men haven’t had sex in the past year. It doesn’t say they haven’t had sex ever.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/19 11:37 PM
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MarriedTRP has 101 members with 2 online...Impressive MRP was a popular subject back in the day before incels become the biggest conversation topic. They were always guys who got into TRP after marriage. Almost invariably, they had a baby or toddler at home and were furious that their wives weren’t giving them as much attention as they used to since the birth of their child. They turned to red pill to manipulate their exhausted wives to give them more sex or to learn to spin plates on the side. …
/r/ExRedPill11/07/19 01:09 PM
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All love is conditional. Male love is just as conditional if not more so than female love. The men you are describing yearn for unconditional love because they are insecure, immature and desperate for their mommies.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 06:51 PM
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They really don’t have much success. That’s why redpillers usually become incels or MGTOW(sour grapes incels).
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 06:49 PM
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All that “improvement” is simply based around accepting that women are eeeeeeevil. It’s just “it’s all their fault” framed in a different way. Hence, it’s what narcissistic men want to hear. “It’s ok to be terrible because women are sub human monsters.”
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 06:37 PM
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Narcissists. This includes Vulnerable Narcissists too, of course.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 06:30 PM
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Coming to the conclusion that women aren’t sexual just because they’ve never shown sexual interest in him is, to use a word red pillers throw around without understanding, solipsistic.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/19 12:42 AM
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Insecurity is irrational. And that is all this post is about. All of humanity is emotional above all. Our decisions are emotional. Our drives are emotional. Our reasoning is emotional. Logic is only for math.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/19 05:19 PM
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If you got a first date then appearance is not the issue. They would have just moved on without responding. Did they say anything about why they didn’t want a second date?
/r/ExRedPill13/05/19 12:43 AM
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If you’ve managed to go on 40 dates then the problem is obviously not your appearance. As for the guys who claim they’ve had sex with 50-100 women, have you considered that they are lying?
/r/ExRedPill12/05/19 04:19 PM
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How do you figure? Your appearance isn’t relevant to making friends. You had several first dates. You admit to displaying autistic traits. Why the focus on appearance?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/19 01:55 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that, but if you have trouble making friends then why are you blaming your appearance for your dating problems?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 09:47 PM
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Yeah. That could be Asperger’s. Your therapist has never noticed anything though?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 06:00 PM
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What do you talk about? Have you noticed them reacting oddly to anything you say or do?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 03:42 PM
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Controlling who a partner is friends with is a TRP trait.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/19 10:57 PM
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There are more male narcissists then female. https://www.google.com/amp/s/observer.com/2018/03/studies-show-men-are-more-narcissistic-heres-why/amp/ The Stanford Prison experiment was a fraud. https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2018/06/14/famed-stanford-prison-experiment-was-a-fraud-scientist-says/amp/
/r/ExRedPill17/02/19 10:54 PM
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Started reading: Wait why is the wife the only one taking care of the kids? What does intelligent ENOUGH mean? Why does personality not matter for the wife? Kept reading: Oh. You’re one of those. Get out.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 10:26 PM
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Staying with him when he is treating you poorly would reinforce his beliefs. Leaving him because he is treating you poorly would negate them. For both of your sakes I suggest you leave.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/19 05:39 PM
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The burden of proof is in you to prove your claim.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/19 06:17 PM
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Everyone is always going to be attracted to other people. Men and women alike. This does not mean that everyone is going to cheat on their spouse. And if you are concerned about women in particular, they become less and less likely to cheat compared to men as they get older. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america If you must look at it in purely pragmatic terms, cheating is high risk low reward behavior. Most new relationships are unlikely to last. Why…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 01:50 AM
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When someone a person loves starts to distance themselves, the first reaction is to try to understand said person and attempt to fix the relationship. What a shocker! Red pillers really want credit for figuring this out, huh?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/19 04:15 AM
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Do you really believe it’s possible to be happy with someone who is willing to hurt you on purpose? Because that is what he is doing. Just out of curiosity, would you describe your husband as conservative or traditional in any way?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/19 03:57 AM
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Putting a woman on a pedestal is objectification. What you’re looking for isn’t anything vaguely similar to red pill. Just the common sense of having healthy self-respect and the feminist idea of treating women like human beings.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/18 09:55 PM
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What an enormous waste of time. A sex charity? Really? Incels don’t want sex. They want to be miserable and they want to spread that misery. Even the ones that claim they want sex say they won’t be satisfied with anything other than an underaged virgin.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/18 11:02 PM
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That pain you feel is the pain of insecurity, champ. Let it go. Just because she’s had sex before does not mean she’s not innocent, calm, or pure. Sex does not make anyone filthy.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/18 12:00 AM
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No one lives unconditionally. The concept of unconditional love is really unnerving. How does someone favor an orgasm in a selfish or unselfish way? The fuck even is that?
/r/ExRedPill08/11/18 02:25 AM
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And which of these tendencies are preventing you from just talking with women? Do these tendencies block communication? Do you have any examples?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 06:18 PM
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"clean your room" and "be responsible for yourself" is good general advice. And it's also common sense that no one should consider brilliant or need to have explained for them.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/18 12:20 AM
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I think you're getting these messages confused. If you want casual sex, fun and confident is the way to go. Being a redpill asshole is completely unnecessary. It is possible to be a good person and get laid all the time. Approaching strangers is fine depending on how and where it is done. Casual sex is fine as long as you are honest about what you want and respectful towards your partner. Being yourself is more about LTR and finding someone who is actually compatible with you.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/18 05:01 PM
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I don't know about religion or altruism, but love songs tend to be sad stories about love lost. Movies usually depict the protagonist having to prove their worth or overcoming negative traits before finding love. Far from anything unconditional there. I'm just trying to understand where this point of view comes from.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/18 05:54 PM
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When has mainstream media lied to you about unconditional love? I've only ever heard of it when referring to parental love and I doubt that is what is concerning you specifically.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/18 05:14 AM
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Because what you are describing isn't AF/BB. Beta bux implies that the women doesn't really care for the man at all and is only interested in his money. How do you describe BB without even mentioning the bux aspect? What really happens is A) she is looking for the right guy and eventually finds one. B) She is shallow when she is young but as she matures personality becomes more important to her. C) She wants to sow her wild oats when young then looks for an actual companion when she is older. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 06:57 PM
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Yes. His post has nothing to do with ex red pill. I agree. But you said he didn't understand redpill. He clearly does.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/18 03:48 PM
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He seems to understand it better than most.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/18 10:49 PM
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Except they never go for the "nice" chubby girl and focus all their efforts on the unattainable, popular girl. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 01:00 AM
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But that's not who we are talking about. We are talking about simple, honest fuck boys. The guys you just mentioned are bad too, but at least they don't play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:23 PM
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Not necessarily. There are a lot of ok guys in frats. And we're not talking about guys who are into casual sex hooking up with women who are into casual sex. It's all fine and above board. Nice guys are assholes. Your hamster is running like crazy trying to convince you that you are not the bad guy, but you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:18 PM
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Nice guys lie to girls about being their friend in hopes that they will fuck them. You know that is what the entire thread is about. Are you saying men would like for an unattractive girl to pretend to be their friend and then demand a relationship? Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:14 PM
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It's a reply to your post. No one likes to be deceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:05 PM
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See there you go again. Casual sex is not misogyny. Low value guys can be misogynists. Those are the guys on reddit spewing bile and turning into literal Nazis with memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:04 PM
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It's not terrible if they know it's a one night stand. It's not terrible if no one is being lied to. There is nothing wrong with casual sex between consenting adults. Nice guys are not at all nice. They have no real interest in her as a friend. They are trying to trick her and then act like victims when the scam doesn't work. They are horrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:01 PM
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No one appreciates being lied to. No one appreciates a long con. Whether you are a man or woman who wants a relationship or casual sex just ask someone out. You get a no? Ask someone else. That isn't misogyny or misandry or isn't red pill or anything like that. It's simple common sense. The fact that so many people need this explained to them like it's some kind of strategy is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:18 PM
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Casual sex is not misogynistic. Where does it say that the fuck boi looks down on women? It is completely possible to have casual sex and respect your partner. It is impossible to respect a woman who you are trying to attract with lies. The one applying mental gymnastics is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:13 PM
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Well that explains a lot. You have disordered black and white thinking that I hope you grow out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:08 PM
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But no one is being used here. He wants casual sex and so does she. They are both just looking for a good time. In this scenario the guy is being completely honest and there is no reason to believe that he emotionally abuses or despises women like a red piller does. So how is he being in any way misogynistic? Do you honestly believe that all casual sex is inherently misogynistic? Why? Of course lying to a women is worse than honest casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:51 PM
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Nice guys are misogynists. They wouldn't be trying to con women if they weren't. They wouldn't lose their shit when their scams fail if they weren't. The alt-right, red pill, MGTOW and every other horrible community is made of failed nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:20 PM
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Ok. I'll bite. You seem to get the nice guy perspective, rage and all. If he was really her friend and not just lying to get in her pants then why doesn't he want to be friends anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:45 AM
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IF the guy does not still continue being friends They don't want to be friends because they were never friends in the first place. They were lying. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:40 AM
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RESPECTS UR DECISION AND SEEKS RELATIONSHIP ELSEWHERE Why can't he do that while remaining friends with the first girl? She could help him out!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:36 AM
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If they lie about being someone's friend. Absolutely. Liars are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:33 AM
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No. The nice guy is the one that hates you when you won't fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:31 AM
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Nice guys are part of rape culture. They believe they are owed sex and that they are severely wronged for not getting it. Therefore, rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:30 AM
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Because they aren't hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:28 AM
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Why is your grammar getting worse with each post? And I'm not following how I'm a red piller. Is it because I played basketball in high school? You do realize that weak low value men are misogynists right? Not just anyone that gets some exercise every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:19 AM
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Liars are creeps. Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:15 AM
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No. You don't hit nice guy level until you give a sweet rant to pin up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:14 AM
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I'm a bluepiller. Why do you ask? Jocks are not synonymous with red pill. Red pill is made up of desperate nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:10 AM
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I'm not woman. I said jocks not misogynists. There are lots of good jocks. But yes. Anything is better than a nice guy. Obviously. Who, by the way, are way more misogynistic than any jock they just pretend they are not. Because they are so nice you see...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:02 AM
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Right. Stalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:01 AM
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Ghosting the friend after you make a move and get rejected is pretty standard operating practice recommended to men in these situations. Yes. Because he was never her friend in the first place. She had a friend? No. She didn't. That's the point. So then they can ask a girl out on a date like the rest of us do instead of playing a game they know they'll never win. Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes. Don't lie about being someone's friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:50 AM
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I would still without her knowing keep be updated with what she's upto and look out for her well being. Wow. Stalker tendencies acknowledged. And no. You would not be fine with her behavior. Because now she LOATHES you for not giving her what she feels she has earned. She will be screeching to everyone that can hear what a piece of shit you are who deserves worse than death and she is a nice girl who no one appreciates. She is so different from those other girls! Why can't men see how wonderful …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:48 AM
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Let's say you make a friend. The friend seems pretty cool. You hang out you have a few laughs. But then one day the friend drops hints that he would really like you to lend him a large sum of money. You initially brush it off as a joke. He eventually gets pretty insistent. You make it quite clear that you can't lend him the money. He is furious! He never speaks to you again and acts like he is the victim in the entire arrangement even though he has been lying to you about being your friend and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:43 PM
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This is one of the best posts on this topic that I have ever read.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/17 01:46 PM
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Some precious angels Gross now: I can see how she is "calculating" in her head when she asks me what I do for living.. how she wanna be dominated and not carried.. how she needs to be lead and not taking big decisions.. how one raw good fuck is 100000000x more than romantic evening with flowers and hand made food Also gross. Women are not either if these things. They are people just like men are. They are just as noble, flawed, and diverse as men. Why can't you see that? What is keeping you from…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/17 04:55 PM
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What a stunningly pointless tangent. Please tell us more about the book that tells us slavery is ok, but wearing a mix of different fabrics is wrong.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/17 02:41 AM
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There isn't a single positive thing about TRP that isn't basic common sense that all well-adjusted people already know. It's useless. It should be replaced with a helpful list of tips for living a normal life.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/17 04:00 PM
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Did you even read here post? She didn't say that. Her Dad did. She said she didn't believe him. Read the post again.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 10:03 PM
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WOMEN GET NEARLY ALL CHILD CUSTODY Men usually get custody if they ask but they usually don't bother. WOMEN GET TO CHOOSE ABOUT ABORTION/KEEPING CHILDREN MEN Yes, of course. The fetus grows in their bodies so it is their choice what they do with their bodies. It's none of our business. PAY 95% OF ALL ALIMONY Because women are the ones who tend to give up work to care for children and the home. And alimony is rarely awarded anyway. Only about 8% of divorces result in alimony payment. And even so,…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 05:40 PM
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WOMEN GET NEARLY ALL CHILD CUSTODY Men usually get custody if they ask but they usually don't bother. WOMEN GET TO CHOOSE ABOUT ABORTION/KEEPING CHILDREN MEN Yes, of course. The fetus grows in their bodies so it is their choice what they do with their bodies. It's none of our business. PAY 95% OF ALL ALIMONY Because women are the ones who tend to give up work to care for children and the home. And alimony is rarely awarded anyway. Only about 8% of divorces result in alimony payment. And even so,…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 05:40 PM
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What's wrong with divorce? Unhappy marriages SHOULD be ended not put up with until they get even worse.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 05:25 PM
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Therapy can help people learn social skills, which is what incels are really lacking in. Most are just normal looking guys why have no idea how to carry a normal conversation.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/17 01:58 PM
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And how is that wrong? You are obviously not a very pleasant person to be around.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/17 05:08 PM
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Red pill by any other name is still red pill.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/17 04:20 PM
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