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The point of my data was to admit that men only find young women attractive. Settling isn’t finding someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:56 AM
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It’s not crashing out to call emotional abuse what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:55 AM
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The law isn’t your partner nor is it an excuse to emotionally abuse your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:54 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/yws75sqnci0g1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=636106c39bb74dee8fb41cab799df0b07b6f9c2c Right here. So we both agree that you and this guy don’t find your age match attractive. We also established that settling doesn’t mean you find your agematch attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:42 PM
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I am right. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:40 PM
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So you FINALLY agree after dozens of comments denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:56 PM
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And the example you chimed in on was a full blown panic attack. Not just disliking that your boyfriend follows a bikini model. Enjoying your girlfriend having panic attacks over leaving you because it makes you feel attractive is emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:56 PM
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It is emotional abuse. People should feel safe and that you aren’t going to up and leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:54 PM
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The point is that he statistically doesn’t like his agematch. Thats the point of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:55 PM
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Yet you chimed in and defended it as alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:44 PM
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No they aren’t. And no. I didn’t say direct threats. I said dread is emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:40 PM
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And now you admit that your girlfriend who was having panic attacks needed help, mental health help, and that it’s wrong to consider it some sort of ego boost that she had them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:36 PM
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Adult or not, it’s emotional abuse to constantly try to threaten someone (or constantly hint to someone) that you’re going to leave them. A woman who constantly tells her husband that she will leave him is also emotionally abusive, but it’s ignorant to claim almost every woman does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:35 PM
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Exactly. I am right. You were bullying, by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:34 PM
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You are a complete stranger on Reddit. But if someone they worked with, went to school with, etc etc made such a claim, I would believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:28 PM
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So why did you chime in and defend that he finds his age match attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:27 PM
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Now you admit that you were being willfully dismissive and flippant about the issues with the health insurance system. And no, I don’t condone Luigi. But I am explaining that he isn’t a wade wilson or nightstalker guy and to put women who like Luigi at their level is foolish and wrong. Especially, since you, in your other comments explained that you felt validated and admired by your partner having panic attacks about losing you. Which demonstrates terrible behavior and something even worse than…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:26 PM
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https://www.calmclinic.com/anxiety/causes/emotional-abuse Constantly giving someone dread that you will leave them if they don’t appease you is a form of emotional abuse. Knowing that they have panic attacks and that they are vulnerable to a heightened emotional state and even worse dread and anxiety than a regular person puts you in a position of even more power that you can take advantage of them. This means you can make them do things like sex acts or pushing boundaries that they don’t want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:24 PM
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Interesting how you’re only done when I literally took the definition of bullying and showed you exactly how your post is bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:40 PM
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So you agree that he doesn’t find his agematch attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:39 PM
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Do you want me to go through his post history, so that you can feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:44 PM
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Did you not read where I said that the issues with health insurance can be life or death for certain people? Luigi had severe back pain and that could have meant a messed up quality of life forever if his insurance didn’t cover something he needed or there was a lot of red tape. There are stories where kids with severe disabilities don’t get a wheelchair. People driving themselves to the hospital because they can’t afford to pay an ambulance bill, even though they need an ambulance. Yes, some ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:25 PM
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Having panic attacks is not normal jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:24 PM
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Having panic attacks is not normal. It isn’t normal jealousy to have a PANIC ATTACK over anyone. You are saying that he should feel validated over a PANIC ATTACK, aka a MENTAL HEALTH CRISIS. That is not healthy and leaves both partners vulnerable to manipulation. Her using her panic attacks as a manipulation tool and him using her anxiety to push her around and manipulate her back. This is a toxic dynamic that you are advocating for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:24 PM
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You literally described her panic attacks as a sign that she finds you attractive. That is you saying you get validation from her having panic attacks. Panic attacks are not normal and indicate mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:22 PM
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I meant an anxiety disorder. Not general anxiety from a life situation. Having a panic attack is not normal. Furthermore, you say that you need to “invoke dread to be attractive”. And women with BPD are notorious for using anxiety and mental health crises to manipulate men into doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:21 PM
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It isn’t a personal attack to say “she just isn’t that into you”. If a woman says no, she just isn’t that into you. You imagining a narrative where she is secretly in love with you and hoping you will push harder and ask her out again is just that: imagination. I never said women don’t send mixed signals. I said that if a woman says no, she isn’t that into you 99.99999999% of the time and for you to fixate on that 0.00000000001% possibility that she’s lying is foolish and naive, and most likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:19 PM
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I didn’t say he cannot be innocent. Don’t put words in my mouth. I said that everyone who is accused will say they were falsely accused unless they are in some unique situation where they want to say they did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:17 PM
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No you aren’t getting mixed signals. She just isn’t that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:47 PM
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Why are you so fixated on these women? FOR THE VAST MAJORITY OF WOMEN, NO MEANS NO. THE VAST MAJORITY OF WOMEN ARE NOT BEING COY AND PLAYING GAMES AND SECRETLY IN LOVE WITH YOU. THERE IS NO NEED FOR A MASS EDUCATION CAMPAIGN BECAUSE 99.99999999999999999% OF THE TIME SH IS GENUINELY REJECTING YOU. STOP TRYING TO QUESTION CONSENT.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:30 PM
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Since you’re going to be so confidently aggressive, perhaps read the whole thing. Verbal bullying is saying or writing mean things. Verbal bullying includes: Teasing Name-calling Inappropriate sexual comments Taunting You are taunting single mom by calling them a “negative” and making various negative and gross assumptions about their characters and their lives. Threatening to cause harm Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:21 PM
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It isn’t bullying of me but it is bullying of single moms. The intention of this post was to bash single moms. Aka bullying. And no. That isn’t the definition. By your definition, a group of teenagers laughing at someone and calling them ugly is not bullying because that person can walk away. https://www.stopbullying.gov/bullying/what-is-bullying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:27 AM
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I am not a single mom And yes it is. You posting an essay about how awful single moms are is bullying. You are free to not respond. This isn’t a “boxing match”. It’s me calling you out and you saying “nuh uh” because men don’t like accountability. You saying “nuh uh” over and over won’t change that. The purpose of your post wasn’t kindness. It was bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:13 AM
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Hold the fuck on. I reply to these posts and comments regularly too. I can voluntarily contribute to these conversation and voluntarily hold men accountable for being bullies. If you don’t want your public posts being publicly commented on, then don’t make public posts and get all defensive and cry about how you’re a victim because you were called out. It doesn’t matter how common this topic is. I commonly reply. I enjoy holding men accountable. You have ever right to, using your words, to “fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:06 AM
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IF SHE SAYS NO JUST TAKE THE NO AND MOVE ON. IF SHE IS BEING COY, SHE WILL QUICKLY LEARN THAT SAYING NO IS NOT A GOOD TACTIC. THIS ISNT THAT HARD TO UNDERSTAND. You aren’t a victim because you potentially missed out on some sex with a lady who said “no” when she meant “ask me later”. She quickly will learn that she shouldn’t say no when she means yes. She can either come to you later and ask you out herself because she realized that she sent rejection signals or say yes to the next guy and not d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:58 AM
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Then he should have taken a train down to any of the other major cities in Southern California
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:53 AM
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You did. And OP has a post history of focusing on younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:52 AM
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So then don’t get all huffy and angry and defensive an make a comment war when I say to men that they don’t find their agematch attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:08 AM
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Statistically most men prefer a 21 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:55 AM
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If a woman is guilting or shaming a man into sex, it’s sexual coercion. Why are you so defensive about this or acting like people dismiss it? And if a woman wants you to push past the no, that isn’t your problem. Just drop her. Why is this something that incites such a defensive response that you write a whole essay about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:54 AM
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The guy I am responding to is acting like California is rural Alabama or something. California is extremely diverse, and him living in a wealthy part of Southern California doesn’t magically mean it isn’t diverse. He likely knew tons of folks who were the same race as him. So that isn’t some sort of sympathy point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:52 AM
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No they aren’t. Luigi killed a corrupt CEO. The night stalker raped and murdered innocent people. Again, if you have ever dealt with health insurance even at a minor capacity (eg calling about being charged for something that you thought was covered, waiting to see if your insurance covers something, sending a receipt to your HSA/ FSA provider only for them to nitpick it and say you need an itemized receipt, not a regular receipt), you will see that it is a major headache. Sometimes these issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:51 AM
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I am not a court of law. So I am under no obligation to say someone is innocent until proven guilty in my own personal opinion. In a lot of these “false accusation” situations, the guy is saying that he was falsely accused because to say otherwise would mean he is guilty. No one guilty is going to admit to their guilt unless they are a unique and rare case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:45 AM
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No i am saying that a lot of men here like to claim that they or a friend or someone was falsely accused when the reality was that there was insufficient evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:33 PM
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https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/sexual-coercion Guilt: A person may try to make someone feel guilty for saying no to sex. For example, they may emphasize how long it has been since they last had sex, say that the person owes them sex, or that it is their obligation as their partner. So yes, it’s sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:30 PM
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But how do you know he didn’t rub her butt? Maybe he stood in a way where it wouldn’t be seen. I didn’t say that people can go to jail without sufficient evidence. I said that insufficient evidence doesn’t mean it didn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:25 PM
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Maybe your partner just has anxiety or was manipulating you. Why does it make you feel validated and hot to have a woman have panic attacks over you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:20 PM
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So you feel masculine, desirable, and alpha when your partner has panic attack about losing you. That isn’t a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:19 PM
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Asian folks tend to make good money, pick high paying professions, and live in nice neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:19 PM
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The women who like Luigi don’t have hybristophilia. They view him as a hero because health insurance companies are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:18 PM
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Anyone who has dealt with health insurance in any capacity knows how much of a headache it is and how corrupt health insurance companies are. They view Luigi as a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:16 PM
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From your friend. What specifically happened. I edited my comment to include a situation where a lady got a drink she didn’t want from a guy. He drank it and shortly after, ditched her mid date. He may have wanted to try to date rape her, ended up drinking the drugged drink, and left to wait out the drugs. But this would go nowhere in court and be extremely difficult to prove. Some people know how to put that stuff in a drink by just waving their hand over as if they are reaching for something a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:54 PM
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How do you know he actually didn’t do it? Lack of evidence doesn’t mean that it didn’t happen. Can you flesh out the specific details of the case? Also, things like sexual coercion or pushing sexual boundaries isn’t illegal. A guy who is whining to a woman that he didn’t get laid after paying for dinner is sexually coercive. But in court, this would go nowhere. A Redditor woman once posted that she went on a first date with a guy. He kept encouraging her to drink alcohol, but she didn’t want to.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:40 PM
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Sounds misandrist to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:49 PM
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Two things from this comment: 1) you resent that you aren’t an outlier. This bitterness permeates in your mind and got under your skin so profoundly that you don’t even bother trying to get to know a few women and asking them out. 2) you admit that all the misandristic stuff that guy listed out are true and men struggle with loyalty and monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:14 PM
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blackpill isn’t fringe. It’s mainstream. Especially amongst Gen Z and Gen Alpha. And yes. I admit that men BIOLOGICALLY aren’t loyal. Fathers are BIOLOGICALLY unnecessary. I repeatedly say this and get called a misandrist. But when a man says it you call it a biological truth and say I am anti science for repeating what he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:19 PM
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These are common things men say about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:52 PM
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<image> I literally repeat what men say about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:15 PM
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Just because someone who is super rich or super hot can cold approach strangers doesn’t mean you’re a victim. You’re angry that outliers can do outlier things. Meanwhile men describe themselves in a misandristic way. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:14 PM
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No because women don’t value youth the way men do. You aren’t a victim because you didn’t have casual sex and engage in degeneracy. I abstained from hookups, as did most of my friends, because we had a strong moral code.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:01 PM
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By default, any woman who is college age (18-25) is in the top 13% of women. https://www.keeper.ai/calc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:43 AM
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When I describe how men behave, I get called a misandrist. Such as the male passion for bullying women who don’t meet their standards instead of just saying no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:13 AM
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Bro do you have eyes this is not how LA and the Bay Area are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:07 AM
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Except for I wasn’t. You were arguing in bad faith because you don’t like it when I say most men prefer women who are 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:05 AM
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Men being willing to settle doesn’t mean they don’t prefer 21 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:56 AM
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So you also don’t find you age match attractive but felt defensive when your fellow man was called out. You also shamed me for not replying while at work when it took you ten hours to reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:30 PM
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About finding your age match attractive. And why did it take you ten hours to reply? You mocked the hell out of me for not replying while I was working.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:26 PM
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“I don’t feel guilty. I feel justified in insulting women who don’t match my preferences. Now I am going to describe them as users.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:11 PM
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Untrue. Women are less superficial about looks than men are. A man can win a woman over with romance or money or being a solid partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:03 PM
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Your examples aren’t good. Men are the ones who can’t take criticism. Off the top of my head, here are criticisms of men and solid examples of males not taking criticism. This is generally how the gender acts online. Single moms: men don’t simply say “I don’t want to date someone with kids”. That isn’t enough. They write an essay claiming she’s “alpha widowed/fucked by Chad” and “looking for beta bux”. They accuse her of being ran through, having commitment issues, being a burden, and being unwo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:02 PM
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You wouldn’t feel guilty if you were doing nothing wrong. Randomly posting that single moms are “a negative”, unworthy of commitment, unable to commit, and selfish, is bullying. You aren’t obligated to date a single mom. But writing a vendetta about how bad they are is bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:55 PM
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Using a woman as a placeholder is not being a workhorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:50 PM
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Why would you go out of your way to tell a stranger on Tinder that you realized that she was fatter than she let on? That isn’t criticism. That’s bullying. And women are taught to submit to men. Tolerate their bullshit. Lower their standards. An accept substandard treatment. And white girl wasted is exactly to describe a girl who drank out of her weight class. It’s a pejorative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:47 AM
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Yeah I thought he meant criticism of their gender. Not individual criticism. Which is even more foolish because he’s describing arguments with moms and girlfriends and not actual criticism. Criticism would be “I felt disrespected when you said that about me. It really hurt my feelings”. Or “I understand that you value your career but I also want you to spend more time with me and the kids.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:15 AM
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Making an entire Reddit post to bash on single moms is bullying. It’s good to know that men are the biggest misandrists and fail to recognize bullying and even advocate for it, passionately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:05 AM
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I have a job. I was working.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:04 AM
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I love it when men tell on themselves. Men hate their wives. Men are the biggest misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:04 AM
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Let me know how men criticize women as a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:03 AM
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You are bringing up individual examples and not general examples of how men criticize women as a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:03 AM
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I’m saying statistically you’re just virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:02 AM
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I didn’t say women date men based on reputation. I said women prefer to date men they kind of know. Stop twisting my words because you don’t want to just straight up say that you are afraid of rejection and putting yourself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:00 AM
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It isn’t the people here who don’t like cold approaching. It’s people in general who are uncomfortable with being approached by a total stranger. General wisdom is to join social activities and groups (like a hiking club) and get to know people over time then pick one from each group to ask out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:19 PM
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So don’t get all defensive and weird when I apply men’s research to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:34 PM
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So you’re changing the subject. And using an argument as an example. You keep bringing up examples of couples fighting. Most women don’t cheat on their husbands. I want to know what criticism of women he is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:32 PM
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Men. https://preview.redd.it/uls0un2cdnzf1.jpeg?width=636&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9129fa560eda7d588c59b52223624f8c05838437
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:30 PM
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I’m just pointing out male hypergamy. And you denied and denied and denied it so hard and now you agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:28 PM
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Women prefer their agematch, men prefer 21 year olds even when they are like 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:28 PM
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I am sorry to hear. I think that this is the case for most people. Also be grateful youre a man because men taunt women who didn’t have the best time in their 20’s. See pic related. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:27 PM
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Nope. You took 23 hours to come up with a good answer. And I was someone else. I also won the debate because you were trying to justify cruelty to single moms. Now you can’t. There is no excuse for bullying women who don’t match your preferences. Just say no and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:26 PM
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Other things absolutely did matter. You were in high school. It’s typical for high school girls to like the cute football player. But all of us who were adults at the time had different standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:20 PM
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Men should get a Nobel prize! They are so heroic for using women as placeholders
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:17 PM
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I am sorry to hear. I think that this is common for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:16 PM
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Oh ok so you dated her when she was attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:36 PM
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Don’t accuse me of being a pedophile. If you were a kid back then then you have an even rosier view of 2014/2015 and are no authority on what dating was like. Dating in high school is usually significantly easier than dating at any other time in life because you’re surrounded by your peers every single day. What a disgusting and foul way to word your comment. Don’t describe the children around you as “women” then have the audacity to accuse me of being a pedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:26 PM
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You took 23 hours to respond to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:23 PM
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Nope this is based on what men have said repeatedly and consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:23 PM
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Nope. You just didn’t like that I questioned virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:41 PM
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Bro I was an adult in 2014/2015 and you’re hella romanticizing it. You were younger and so were your peers. It’s easier to date when you’re younger because you’re more attractive, in better shape, and in better health. And more people are single. Also, if you’re in college there is a community of young and single people around you every day that you go to school. And most colleges have social clubs and activities where you can meet even more of your peers. And since they are all studying to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:35 PM
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Nope. It’s old people. He just doesn’t find his age match attractive. Why is this so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:29 PM
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Nope. I didn’t disappear. I just didn’t answer because the mods get mad if you talk too much about someone’s post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:28 PM
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You were witch hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:18 PM
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You’re rationalizing it. You have multiple comments and posts about how you prefer younger women and think that you look incredibly young even though you’re like 31. News flash: I am in my 30’s and regularly get told I look 25 or even like a teenager. Millennials age slower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:16 PM
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You’re rationalizing it. You have multiple comments and posts about how you prefer younger women and think that you look incredibly young even though you’re like 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:15 PM
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/u/akosgi you blocked me so I can’t see your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:13 PM
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He’s rationalizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:08 PM
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Ok but it didn’t exclude your ex so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:15 PM
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No literally. Men project men onto women. If a woman is hot enough, men will put up with a lot of mistreatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:15 AM
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Except for his history says otherwise. He doesn’t find them attractive. The entire post can just be summarized by “I am not preying on younger women. I just find them more attractive.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:14 AM
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And he isn’t attracted to women over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:13 AM
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Because it isn’t a personal attack. He’s saying that he just stumbles upon these much younger women when in reality, it’s just what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:12 AM
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Ok then don’t virtue signal about how your ex looked old and how open minded you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:11 AM
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Not if she is Stacy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:28 AM
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Multiple guys are saying he said he doesn’t find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:23 PM
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Because it isn’t an attack. He directly contradicted his point in his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:22 PM
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He isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:21 PM
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It’s okay to admit that you don’t find them attractive. Most men already admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:37 PM
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Then he should have said “people over 40”. He didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:36 PM
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You describe women over 40 as stuck in the past, having a bad attitude, and no longer young or full of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:01 PM
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<image> Well crazy kray, your post history indicates that you don’t find your age match attractive and that is why you don’t date them rather than just going to bars and happening to only meet younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:43 PM
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Because it’s a loaded question. Of course most people would prefer a childless partner for themselves or their kids. That doesn’t justify humiliating, insulting, bullying, degrading, or mocking someone who is a single mom You’re chiming into a conversation where a lady says that the language and tone of OP’s post is insulting and sounds like a vendetta. It does. He speaks of these women with extreme disrespect. Examples include calling them a negative, claiming that the women had children withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:39 PM
3

A lot of men are losers and shame women for having financial standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:03 PM
6

I think it’s clear that you want to neg and put down single moms. It sounds like you’re jealous of the kids’ fathers and perceive them as extreme alphas. The thing is: they aren’t here. The single moms aren’t reading this and they aren’t saying “oh woe is me I am so sad this random Redditor hates me”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:56 PM
2

That’s disgusting. You can choose to not be with someone in a relationship without stringing them along and using them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:46 PM
3

You don’t have to go out of your way to call someone else’s mom a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:43 PM
9

Having a preference doesn’t mean you have a license to degrade and humiliate those who don’t meet your preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 05:23 PM
2

This does not say that most early 20’s Gen Z women are dating men who are over 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:18 PM
3

People who go to the doctor every year get blood tests every year. It’s part of a routine physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:11 PM
1

No it’s just mental gymnastics. Men never tell each other to date less attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:58 AM
1

Why are you invested in what zoomer women are up to if you’re married?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:53 AM
2

A lot of people like Luigi, both male and female, because dealing with health insurance in any capacity is a massive headache. For me, who sees a PCP once a year, it’s not a big deal. For someone who has a medical issue or disability, health insurance can be a matter of life or death.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:53 AM
2

This sounds more like wishful thinking for men about aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:50 AM
1

Except for the only criticism of women you could come up with is that moms sometimes yell at their kids. Let me know what your criticisms of women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:49 AM
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This is for your health, your family, your well being, and your decision making skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:46 AM
1

Your criticism was an argument with your mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:27 AM
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This sounds like exactly what I have been saying and exactly what I have been called a misandrist for saying. Men are the biggest misandrists. It’s horrible to use a woman as a placeholder because you find her quite attractive enough. But here we are. And men have the audacity to claim that means they are nonjudgmental an virtuous about how women look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:18 AM
-1

Give a better example. Unless you admit that you don’t have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:07 AM
1

That’s an odd non answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:05 AM
-1

Not a good gotcha because your example involved a kid being bratty to his mom and saying “stop yelling at me”. Give me a better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:11 AM
1

Men never give this advice to each other. Men tell each other: Women are valid and superficial and don’t love you for who you are Be an asshole to women. Women love assholes! Feminism has ruined dating for men Be a passport bro Go MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:59 PM
0

It’s extremely disrespectful to talk back to your mom or dad. Why do you think that a father, when his kid says “stop yelling” will say “oh I am so sorry son, I won’t yell at you anymore, give daddy a kiss”. Men are very notorious for yelling at their kids as a form of discipline and if the kid says to their dad to stop yelling he will take it as an attack and yell even louder or tell the kid to pipe down, he is the parent. Come up with an actual example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:57 PM
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What sort of criticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:46 PM
1

I’m talking about biology and history not the modern western era.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:38 PM
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Unfortunately, I would personally pay my whole salary for the daycare and continue to work. I would also limit myself to one kid. Everyone is different so I am just sharing what I personally would do. I know too many women who messed up their lives by being a SAHM an were never able to fully become independent but were stuck with a crappy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:12 PM
1

Throughout history, the many wives of kings usually did not have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:12 AM
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Yes but that is reserved only for the top 20% of women. The rest and their offspring (bottom 80% of kids) don’t get those benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:11 AM
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Nope. You made it clear that you found her unattractive. As evidenced by: You saying you only want a woman who is at minimum 6 years younger than you Saying your age match “be looking old as hell” Saying she looked a full 10 years older than you Say if she had wrinkles, skin issues, and more signs of aging Those aren’t the words of a man who found his ex very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:10 AM
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That was what you implied by putting down her appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:34 PM
1

https://preview.redd.it/2bad5v1e5wyf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a0a8bf27fa2458ea75292c05abc15fd1bb4de6d3 This is describing women as valid bitches. Furthermore, it doesn’t matter if you think you are criticizing women. You are speaking disgustingly and with bigotry about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:58 PM
1

But they are unnecessary by your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:57 PM
1

The polygamous man should only date polygamous women. Or else he’s a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:56 PM
1

Yep. He is useless. Also you’ve spent this entire discussion describing men as biological sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:03 PM
1

You keep saying it in a roundabout way. He’s biologically unnecessary. If only his favorite kids get chosen to get benefits, that means biologically he is unnecessary. You also have continuously described men as sociopaths who hate their own children if the kids are illegitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:03 PM
1

How virtuous that you considered your girlfriend to be old and unattractive and that you used her as a placeholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:02 PM
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Men of actual substance, loyalty, and strength of character do not hate women. And yes, calling women superficial vapid bitches is hating women. Even if you add a disclaimer like “modern women” or “western women” or “many women” or “some women”. Being kind and respectful and loving is not being a pathetic doormat who is like a puppy. And refraining from trash talking women doesn’t mean you are a pathetic doormat like a puppy. It sounds like you associate hating women with masculinity and strengt…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:00 PM
1

Married men are capable of being bad people. Marriage isn’t some kind of uno reverse card that magically makes a man a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:28 AM
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No they don’t. Most of them are responding to the disgusting stuff that men here say. See pic related. https://preview.redd.it/9htt3j9a2ryf1.jpeg?width=1168&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5d4950ab3b07b07bce10910421d780442e15d788
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:51 AM
1

My point is that most of the men here hate women and offer nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:54 PM
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Hypergamy and Stacysexual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:50 PM
1

Not a good comeback. A lot of the men here claim to be victims of superficial and stupid women. Yet they don’t explain what they offer to women or what wholesome characteristics they embody that makes them victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:08 PM
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Stacysexual is very real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:50 PM
10

So what’s wrong with your agematch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:49 PM
1

The men here aren’t rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:47 PM
2

So the guys offer looks. A lot of these men don’t offer looks. So when a guy is ugly and bitter and mean, what does he offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:04 PM
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Why aren’t you answering what these guys offer???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:36 PM
1

And yet you refuse to tell me what men with this mentality offer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:00 PM
2

and I am saying men who insist women like this behavior aren’t good relationships to be in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:26 PM
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Also, just because women are willing to stay with an abusive man due to trauma bonding doesn’t mean the man is high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:25 PM
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I save comments like this and when men disclose that they have experienced abuse, remind them of how women are spoken to about their abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:24 PM
1

But you insisted that he didn’t do this behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:54 PM
1

And he said he engaged in that behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:26 PM
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Nope. Women didn’t care about incels until they got loud and mean. I have been participating in incel spaces for like 16+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:24 PM
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First, women (and society as a whole, tbh) already don't take abused men seriously. So what is really the point of you saying you will somehow change how you talk to them?... Yes they do. Society does take abused men seriously. Men taunt and berate abused women and claim the abuser was a Chad. I will now do the same and show them comments like yours as my logic as to why I provide them with equality. Verbal abuse?... LMAO Give me a fucking break 😂. I said I was following your logic, not mine. ht…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:05 PM
1

Ok so you are literally saying that it’s genetically advantageous for a father to be useless beyond sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:17 PM
1

Ok but you keep making it clear that the father is biologically unimportant because the bastard children are left behind in massive numbers and still survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:16 PM
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I have been on PPD and pill forums for ages and I have heard tons and tons of men say basically what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:13 PM
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Not anymore. You can thank them for internally changing the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:08 PM
1

and he said that he acted that way around them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:07 PM
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First of all, thank you for the evidence. Anytime a man discloses that he has been abused on Reddit, I provide him with equality and remind him that men taunt women for the abuse they have experienced. Second of all, why does my response trigger you? You have a guy saying that men have to withdraw themselves from dating women to punish them and try to force them to be more compliant. Which sounds quite vindictive and mean. So these women aren’t missing out on kind, gentle, sweet man who treat th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:07 PM
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No I understand jt. What are these women missing out on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:02 PM
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So it sounds like you want men to punish all women to get revenge on a select few, and that the only options women have are nice guys who treat them well (who you throw insults at by calling “simps” and “white knights”) or bullies who berate and degrade them in the name of “grow[ing] as people”. If the bullies who berate and degrade them are the ones going their own way, then I think these women are not missing out on much besides heartbreak and suffering. The men who you throw insults at who tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:56 PM
1

Men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:33 AM
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What exactly are these women fixing themselves for? A vindictive and bitter man who is angry that they aren’t into him and aren’t swiping on him on tinder? What are they missing out on? These guys are clearly bitter and angry and mean. They seem like the type who would carry that into a relationship and make the woman’s life horrible. So what are these women missing out on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:26 AM
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He literally says STARTED ACTING THAT WAY AROUND WOMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:24 AM
1

https://preview.redd.it/6qbtgko9zkyf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6728d698e054567f2966ea1fc5d7613f8c665a39 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:24 AM
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He said he acts that way around women! You insisted he didn’t! Most women aren’t attracted to these men! The ones who are dysfunctional! Stop picking dysfunctional women! What do men with this mindset offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:47 AM
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So the only thing stopping him from being a degenerate and producing a bunch of children he never talks to is his inability to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:46 AM
1

OK then men shouldn’t have the biological urge to spread their seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:45 AM
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Nope. I call out the men. I don’t comment on height or appearances the they claim women do. I don’t date abusive “chads” the way they claim women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:45 AM
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Wow. Lots of mental gymnastics. You guys assign moral value to the women who reject you and say that they are doing a bad thing. But you never specify what good you guys offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:40 AM
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Nope. Incels = men who hate women, celibate or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:39 AM
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<image> Reading comprehension is key. And what do we gain from a man who thinks that it’s true?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:37 AM
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Deflecting again. Men act like these women are evil for rejecting them. What goodness are these women turning down?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:36 AM
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It’s not your decision whether or not i belong in this sub. Now since you admit that these guys offer nothing, then why do they assign moral value to the women who reject them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:34 PM
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Yes. I reflect the attitude of the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:20 PM
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Because you guys never answer. What do these guys offer that’s so great that these women are ignoring?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:19 PM
0

He literally said he acted that way to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:07 PM
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Personal attack!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:02 PM
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Ok so you guys call women vain and superficial and evil for ignoring you. Then you admit that you offer them nothing. The hot man offers his looks. The rich guy offers his money. The good guy offers self sacrifice and hard work. What does the bitter and vindictive guy with anger issues offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:59 PM
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I need said that virgin men are the worst. I said a lot of men who happen to be virgins, but many of them are not, are bitter, mean, vindictive, whiny, and vengeful. Many men clam that they are victims because they don’t get enough attention from women who the believe they deserve attention from. Whenever I ask them what glorious things these women are missing out on, I get met with dodged non answers and deflections.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:57 PM
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I want men to answer and be accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:22 PM
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Were they fat and old
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:22 PM
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You literally call yourself a bottom 20% man and complain women don’t want you. You get a chance by not being superficial and pursuing unattractive women. The bottom 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:15 PM
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Ok providing for some but not all means he isn’t necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:56 PM
1

Biologically most men weren’t policed through most of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:53 PM
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Ok if they are so superficial there must be some great underlying wonderful traits that they are missing out on. What are these traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:50 PM
1

I understand that. But none of you say what virtue these women are missing out on. You all just seem mean and terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:47 PM
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You are. I am so sick and tired of these men talking about how all women just want Chad but then not saying how they compensate for not being Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:46 PM
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Men want something too. I suggested to a lonely incel that he date fat women and he accused me of trolling. Men value looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:29 PM
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That’s the behavior he attributed to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:28 PM
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I didn’t say that. I said the men here insist women are superficial and bad and that they are rejecting good men. But they fail to say what exactly makes these men good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:28 PM
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What is she missing out on? Are you trying to say that the bitter and vindictive men here have great personalities and are loving and self sacrificing people?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:27 PM
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Nope. I didn’t say good people are more likely to get partners. I asked what exactly the men here offer. They claim to be cities and that women are superficial and bad. What are these women missing out on? A great guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:27 PM
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You’re deflecting. Why do the men here act like victims? What are these women missing out on?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:26 PM
1

But what exactly are these women missing out on? Why is it so hard to answer? They are so superficial and vain, so what great things are they rejecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:08 PM
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You literally said repeatedly that men only care about their legitimate offspring and the rest are only recently being forced to take care of them. https://preview.redd.it/le6p16n2xhyf1.jpeg?width=1130&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7c84a62f5ec41e6f31c985fb012282462783649c That means that a bunch of kids are just kind of left to rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:06 PM
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You said that child support is a modern phenomenon. And that in the past, men just had sex and left their babies abandoned because of biology. And the legitimate kids got privileges but the rest didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:03 PM
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Useless to many.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:34 PM
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Nope. What dit the guys here offer in exchange for being all weird and mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:33 PM
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No. It’s on topic. The men here do not have personality. They are cruel. Why do they get all tense and nervous about personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:14 PM
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Notice how you do a bunch of mental gymnastics instead of saying what these guys offer exchange for being cruel, vindictive, and bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:14 PM
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I didn’t ask that. Men here get all vindictive and bitter that they aren’t getting the women they feel they deserve. They constantly act like these women are lacking some sort of virtue for not dating them. And missing out on something special. But what are they missing out on and what exactly is not virtuous about rejecting these guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:10 PM
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I didn’t say looks don’t matter. But personality compensates and the guys here have mean and nasty and cruel personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:09 PM
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Because he is deflecting. I asked first, and he doesn’t provide an answer. The uniquely hot guy can say “I am so uniquely hot that I provide my looks.” The rich guy can say “I am rich so I offer my money.”. The romantic can say “I charm these women with romantic gestures and words of affirmation and gifts and that is what I offer.“ The kind soul can say “I am a kind and self sacrificing soul who will worship the ground my wife walks on. This is what i have to offer” The high value man can say “i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:57 PM
-3

What do the bottom 20% of men offer to make up for their undesirability?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:43 PM
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What do you offer to make up for being bitter and angry at people who volunteer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:42 PM
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So you aren’t romantic to make up for being not the hottest guy. What do you offer to make up for not being the hottest guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:42 PM
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What do men like this offer to compensate for their bitterness and anger? How exactly is not picking a lack of virtue?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:42 PM
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I didn’t say they need to show off those qualities. I asked what they have to offer to compensate for their lack of physical attraction. How exactly is it more virtuous for these women to choose you (royal you before mods get mad). What exactly do you offer to make up for lack of looks that these women are flippantly rejecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:41 PM
-1

Saying that be enjoys being obnoxious, bitter, noisy attention whore, vain, and full of himself because he believes that it attracts women and permanently losing respect for women is misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:39 PM
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No you guys don’t. You guys think most women are disgusting and hideous and lying about their beauty with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:18 PM
1

Again, you’re repeating what I say. “Useful when they choose” means “biologically unnecessary”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:11 PM
1

And if she isn’t, he will prove that fathers are useless and abandon their offspring for greener pastures and other children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:10 PM
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A lot of men are hostile and bitter and insist that women are somehow lacking virtue because they pick men who are handsome and tall. But these men don’t have ANYTHING to offer which indicates that they are a more virtuous choice. They aren’t kind. They aren’t self sacrificing. They aren’t romantic. They don’t have the characteristics which indicate that they are poor, kind, lonely souls that have a wonderful gift of love to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:01 PM
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You’re changing the subject. This isn’t the biology of friendship. This is the biology of men and dating and relationships and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:13 PM
1

So you agree that the father is biologically useless because men biologically are driven to impregnate as many women as possible regardless of their presence in their kids lives. (Except for the handful of legitimate children from his preferred Stacy sex partner).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:12 PM
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It’s very wrong. It reflects a scathing bitterness and belief that women over a certain age are worthless and undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:06 PM
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“Be realistic” and “aim for someone more on your level” and “that guy is WAY out of your league” means “you’re not attractive enough for these men. Date less attractive men”. And I have been on forums like this one for something like 16 years. I have been reading the red pill for a long ass time, and I never ever hear men advise each other to date uglier women. I do hear men advise each other on how to get hotter women or to get the hottest women. The premise of the passport bros movement is men…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:06 PM
1

fighting tooth and nail You mean swiping on tinder and getting ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:54 AM
4

Men will get angry that she wasn’t a virgin and that she gave her “best self” to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:08 AM
3

Men would say she gave her “best self” to that random guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:07 AM
1

And it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:46 PM
1

Yeah I just don’t have casual relationships and I make the guy wait a year or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:44 PM
1

A woman’s social class is determined by her appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:50 PM
1

It is virtuous to be a man who isn’t hypergamous yet most men struggle with picking women who aren’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:46 PM
1

No I think it’s a vocal minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:45 PM
1

you got called out. It upset you. Rich billionaire who loves you is much more wholesome than weird AI anime girl with fetish proportions humiliating herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:25 PM
1

Yeah but not as many as men imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:24 PM
3

Swiping right on everyone then going through your matches and DM’s to see who you actually want to date isn’t being genuinely attracted to every woman. Also, settling for the only thing you can get because “some is better than nothing” and “no one else likes me” and then using the girl as a placeholder or for casual sex because you don’t find her attractive isn’t genuine attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:46 PM
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It’s totally stupid because she’s 19 and should have just listened to her parents instead of secretly dating a rando on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:40 PM
1

Most college students aren’t in fraternities or sororities. Why do you say “career oriented” and not “young adults in fraternities and sororities who enjoy partying and hooking up”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:37 PM
1

However men need to stop pretending it’s some kind of virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:36 PM
-3

Men are the biggest misandrists. They describe men as these monster sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:35 PM
1

First of all, anyone in the west is pampered and privileged. Both male and female. A man isn’t being coldly treated by the world because he asked out a few women who said no. Or he went on tinder and didn’t get matches. And hateful and bitter men make nasty and mean partners. And it’s not “lecturing men on how to be honorable” to say that inability isn’t virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:32 PM
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Lack of ability isn’t a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:17 PM
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Can you provide me with statistical data that less educated people are less promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:17 PM
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Why does male advice towards women always always always boil down to “date less attractive men”? As if unattractive men somehow are virtuous and grateful humble creatures that will love and appreciate a woman for giving them attention while attractive men are all entitled chads who treat women like crap? And why is the overall message always “men’s morals are only limited by what they can and cannot do” as if the only thing keeping men from being absolute degenerate sociopath monsters is that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:02 PM
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Ok but what about all the others? Why is it so difficult for you to say this in a straightforward manner when you repeatedly keep saying it in a convoluted way? The dad just gives sperm. Beyond that he is useless. He may have a select group of legitimate children that he provides for. The rest of the time, the mother is the one providing, taking care of the kids, protecting them, etc You keep saying exactly this. But when I say it you say “nuh uh” and then say exactly what I said again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:36 PM
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You’re comparing elaborate and graphic AI porn of women with giant bellies to a romance novel where a guy loves and adores his girlfriend/ wife. You can’t claim men aren’t prioritizing sex when you indicate that you prioritize sex. Why aren’t you talking about the women’s careers and hopes and dreams in your NSFW posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:33 PM
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Even if she is his equal, he only values her offspring if she is the best he can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:32 PM
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That’s only for the legitimate children. Aka the children of the hot women. The rest don’t survive because of male provision. For monumental amounts of children, the only value the father provides is sperm. Such is biology. You keep saying what I say but in an indirect way because you don’t like that I am being straightforward an making men look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:32 PM
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Exactly. If she isn’t the best he can get then he will have illegitimate children with her and be useless beyond sperm. Biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:57 PM
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If they are going to survive, and he isn’t going to be present, then he is only useful for sperm and nothing more. Why do you keep saying exactly what I am saying but in a roundabout and twisted way? Why do you keep trying to act like legitimate children are the only children that matter when determining male nature? Men say men like variety, and want to spread their seed to as many women as possible. This means that he has a bunch of children with a bunch of different women. Often abandoning hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:56 PM
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I didn’t say the guy sues. I said the guy goes about claiming it’s a false accusation. When it wasn’t. They just didn’t have enough evidence. Or he was coercive but didn’t rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:24 PM
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No it’s vanishingly unlikely to happen both to men and women for CPR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:23 PM
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https://www.keeper.ai/calc It’s usually less than 1% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:23 PM
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No they don’t. The other children have to survive somehow without their biological father. Unless you’re trying to say that men biologically let their “illegitimate” children die and those kids completely need them for survival. So you’re saying men don’t even reproduce with random women to produce bunches of children. Biologically. You’re saying they do this simply for sexual gratification and all the kids they don’t provide resources for are left to die. For sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:22 PM
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No they don’t. The exceptional few children aren’t all of the children. The other ones have to survive somehow Unless you’re trying to say that men are willing to let massive amounts of their own children die so that they can satiate their need for variety with the 5’s and 7’s they’re willing to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:22 PM
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A man who is a. 7 Will prefer and adore a 9 Use a 7 as a placeholder Pump and dump a 5 And then virtue signal about it the way you are. As if using people is somehow noble because you’re willing to stick your dick in them. Royal you btw so you don’t falsely accuse me of personal attacks. <image> Attached is how a male 7 treats a female 7. He ruin her life and the life of his biological kids because she isn’t his preferred mate. Then they virtue signal and say that it’s somehow morally superior b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:20 PM
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Birth is life threatening. You’re doing a lot of mental gymnastics and saying fathers are biologically useless in a roundabout way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:19 PM
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A man who is a. 7 Will prefer and adore a 9 Use a 7 as a placeholder Pump and dump a 5 And then virtue signal about it the way you are. As if using people is somehow noble because you’re willing to stick your dick in them. Royal you btw so you don’t falsely accuse me of personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:18 PM
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It’s a common sense strategy. The guy behaves as if most men aren’t into waiting and that it’s a strategy with his terminology of “If YoU tHiNk It’Ll WoRk”. Men are the biggest misandrists. That guy behaved as if it’s a strategy yet you get all huffy and offended by a woman responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:17 PM
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I don’t have a library of porn in my history and then walk around claiming that men don’t want their balls empty and bellies full.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:15 PM
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Yes you guys absolutely do. I have minus 5 downvotes for literally repeating what men say about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:14 PM
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A lot of women do this. But most don’t. The statistic average n count for women is 4 and men is 6. That means mostly relationships with a possible 1-3 hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:14 PM
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Men. Men tend to insist that hypergamy is a female characteristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:25 AM
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You describe yourself as a sex crazed (having a rotation of random women who your stringing along for sex, sleeping with multiple women at once, seeking sex for the sake of it) immoral (sleeping with different women at once, refusing to wait, admitting that you use women for sex) person and seem to heavily imply that this is how most men are (“If you think it’ll work”). Men are the biggest misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:25 AM
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They gaslight Get offended Downvote Throw tantrums Name call Over these expectations then their words and actions speak entirely otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:22 AM
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So you’re admitting that you use women who sleep with you fast as some kind of ammunition in arguments and as an ego boost and don’t exactly value them beyond sex. Meaning I am right. If a woman wants a man who values her, she should expect him to pay for dates and pursue her and wait an extensive amount of time for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:35 AM
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None of this is an excuse for bashing women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:29 AM
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Why do these men want the most attractive women if men aren’t hypergamous!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:24 AM
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This is why women should expect men to pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:23 AM
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This is why women should expect men to pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:22 AM
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Bro I am not going to expose your post history but it isn’t exactly supporting your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:17 AM
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Plenty of women feel the same way. Just not the hotties you are “vivacious, passionate, and picky” about. It’s going to be the 4’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:13 AM
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Men say this stuff then virtue signal about how they are willing to pump and dump or string along a woman as a placeholder who they don’t find all that attractive. And they gaslight us and tell us that we shouldn’t expect them to pay for dates or pursue us or propose to us or we are spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:12 AM
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That was the implication. And you posted a one off story. It’s much more likely someone may try to sue over broken ribs during CPR and not sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:04 AM
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How many women get raped and it didn’t get prosecuted because of not enough evidence? And in that case, how many women get raped, try to prosecute, but can’t because of not enough evidence, then the guy goes off and says she falsely accused him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:03 AM
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Literally that’s the interpretation you produced. If multiple people are interpreting what you wrote in the wrong way, then you are the one who wrote it incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:02 AM
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And not just that. The father is a biological burden and life risk to the women he impregnates. Oh except some of them. Some of them are okay! But the rest suffer and have a hard time. You’re describing men as a massive biological liability. Except for some. Some are okay! The top 20% of women and their children aren’t impacted! So it’s okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:58 AM
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I don’t know why men get so uppity about this. Even you admit that he’s only there for some of his children, biologically and genetically. He is unnecessary. Men are the biggest misandrists. Men admit, loudly and proudly, that fathers are biologically useless beyond sperm. Why does saying that straight up make men tense but then saying it in a roundabout way is suddenly palatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:55 AM
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Exactly. He’s useless. He can only provide for some of his kids. Biologically and genetically he is UNNECESSARY.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:54 AM
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Not if they have multiple children with multiple women. Then those resources are useless and scant. Plus it’s odd that men complain about gold diggers and being a walking wallet then describe resources as their main value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:12 AM
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How many men are getting falsely accused of rape because they held the door open at a public building?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:11 AM
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CPR isn’t holding the door open for someone. CPR isn’t asking someone whose car is broken down if they are okay. CPR isn’t grabbing something that fell on the floor. The lady who falsely accused him is getting charges and jail time. And women do get falsely accused too. Women get yelled at constantly. Women get told to go away constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:10 AM
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Everyone risks getting insulted, yelled at, or falsely accused. If they insult or yell at you, just leave. If you’re worried about false accusations because you held open a door or asked a woman for help, have a friend with you or do it in a very public area.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:07 AM
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It’s heavily implied, especially since you cite it multiple times times as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:06 AM
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No one is going to accuse you of sexual assault because you held a door open.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:18 PM
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women have lived experiences too and we hold the door open for everyone behind us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:17 PM
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These are all things everyone should do for everyone. You dont just waltz in and help though. You say “do you need help?”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:17 PM
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That’s the implication. That these men are noble for holding the door open and are punished because they aren’t getting dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:13 PM
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Human men genetically want variety. Human men want to impregnate as many women as possible. Human men consider it “alpha” to impregnate then dump the woman and have a “beta bux” take care of their kids. Human men can’t possibly be there for a bunch of kids from a bunch of different women. Genetically, they just are sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:35 PM
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Popular porn titles if male sexuality reflected virtue: Man and wife lovingly try for a baby Elderly couple continues to show tender love and appreciation for one another after 40 years of marriage Woman says intercourse is too painful so couple does oral and cuddles instead
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:33 PM
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A woman who is young and beautiful has extremely high SMV. Unless the guy is wealthy then his SMV is lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:56 PM
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Settling is not a virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:55 PM
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Wait so you’re comparing basic courtesies like holding the as door for someone or picking up something someone dropped, to noble acts of kindness? What? These are things I do for everyone and most people do as a common courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:45 PM
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I have never heard a woman complain about a man holding the door open for her. And to act like this is an act of nobility and not common courtesy is very self victimizing and weird. From my experiences, everyone holds the door for everyone most of the time and letting the door slam in someone’s face is rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:39 PM
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What exactly are these noble deeds that you are doing? Feeding the homeless? Both genders feed the homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:38 PM
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Not getting matches on tinder is not a “punishment”. There are only so many women on tinder and they can’t date every man there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:37 PM
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Why do you conflate wearing lipstick with lying that you want a relationship when you don’t and intentionally stringing someone along?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:34 PM
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From a genetic standpoint, fathers are useless beyond sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:33 PM
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It’s amoral. Men don’t have strong morals. Moral would be going for your agematch. for men, this is a huge struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:30 PM
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<image> And she got married in a Cheetos hat. Why are you comparing this to being vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:28 PM
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<image> Here is an image from one of your articles. Why do you conflate emotional vulnerability with wearing a dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:26 PM
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Plus the population is aging lol so there are less and less young 18-25 year old women to impress the men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:46 PM
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Old man wanting a young woman is hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:32 PM
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You repeatedly describe men as hypergamous and anti age match.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:16 PM
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I doubt those professors were old though. When I went to college, I had a few handsome professors. They were in their 20’s and 30’s. Mayyyybe 40’s. Or TA’s in their 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:10 PM
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They would be wanted mainly by their agematch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:08 PM
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Your 28 year old roommate is a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:04 PM
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I’ve been saying it for a long time and they get mad whenever I say it. Most men want the top 10% or so of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:03 PM
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There was a guy who DM’ed me here who wrote a short story on Reddit about having so much sex with a lady that he gave brain damage to (that she didn’t want) that she died from the sex then he continued to have sex with the body. Considering that disturbing short stories by men are so popular here, men need to stop shaming women for 50 shades of gray and booktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:56 PM
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Not a good rebuttal. First of all, most women don’t read erotic novels. Second of all, to compare all that stuff to a story about a lady who falls in love with a tall billionaire who adores her is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:51 PM
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If he has children by multiple mothers and he isn’t a widow, no. He’s betraying them. Half siblings fight all the time for inheritance. And women aren’t children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:50 PM
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The top videos on the front page.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:49 PM
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You said that they are weaker and worse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:38 PM
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Again, Why are you comparing women who get off to a story about a tall handsome man who loves them to men who watch videos about their stepfamilies, having rough and painful sex, and being cucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:37 PM
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For every woman that’s into that sort of stuff there is still 100 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:19 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:12 AM
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So you’re saying men are not loyal by nature. When I go on porn hub right now, as someone with zero history on that website besides being nosy about people who go viral on social media once every year or tow, I see videos of cuckolding and stepfamily porn. Based on this, you’re saying that men are into cuckolding and their stepfamilies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:56 AM
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Men: get outraged over 50 shades of gray Meanwhile, here is a SFW summary of the top 10 videos on porn hub: Stepfather! Hard sex! Anal (women don’t have a prostate!) Multiple guys with one woman! Stepsister! More hard sex! Stepdad! Cucking! Stepsister! Cucking! And these men have the audacity to get mad that women liked a mild BDSM story about a billionaire who adores this woman and eventually marries her! At least women aren’t fantasizing about our stepfamily and being cucked!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:46 AM
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You literally admit in the other comment that you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:37 AM
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So you agree you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:36 AM
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And you’re deflecting from the fact that men call SAHM’s gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:36 AM
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I’m pointing out reality. Men are meaner Crueler Bigger bullies. Due to testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:11 AM
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When I point out reality about men I get called a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:10 AM
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Again Men call stay at home moms gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:09 AM
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Race baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:08 AM
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complains about women mocking short men claims that most women don’t want feminist based on 50 shades of gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:13 PM
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complains about how mean women are to short men insinuates that women over 40 are desperate and seeking sex in nightclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:11 PM
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For every woman who bullies short men, there are 100 men who buy old/fat/ ugly/ high body count/ single mom women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:09 PM
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No I am saying being a stay at home mom isn’t gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:50 PM
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Men call being a stay at home mom gold digging so I am lenient about the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:38 PM
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So you’re only saying the only thing keeping men from being degenerates is their inability to be degenerate. Not a moral compass. Just inability. And no, i am not just talking about pumping and dumping. I am mainly talking about “placeholder”. Dating a woman because she’s the only one who likes you. Dating a woman because she’s there. Maybe she asked you out and you know you won’t be able to find anyone else. Keeping her around until someone better comes along. If no one better comes along, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:29 PM
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IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT YOU CAN OR CANT CHANGE DONT BE A BULLY ABOUT YOUR PREFERENCES. ITS NOT HARD TO NOT ANNOUNCE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT WOMENS BODIES TO THEM OR TO STRANGERS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:25 PM
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The issue isn’t the preferences. The issue is that they are massive bullies about their preferences. I don’t want a single dad. I don’t berate single dads the way men berate single moms. I just quietly move on with my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:24 PM
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No I am saying you’re being a bully and are trying to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:09 PM
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Tho video only proves that men don’t like fat women. Which I have been saying for ages. Men bully the fuck out of fat women. Go on any slightly famous fat woman’s instagram page and it’s filled with men berating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:09 PM
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They straight up tell women that the reason they get hurt in a relationship is because they didn’t pick an ugly dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:06 PM
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So you’re using another account to try to justify yourself…. You also aren’t taking the moral high ground
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:54 PM
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I didn’t say he is remotely bad looking. I said he isn’t so mind blowingly hot that I would expect a bunch of women to give him money based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:53 PM
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First of all, these aren’t outliers. This is common practice. The men just date a woman because she is there but they know that if someone they truly like comes along, they will drop her. Of course they broadcast it; not in their words, but in their actions and their history. Agreed. This is why women should only date men who pursue them, and not the other way around. This is also why women should only date men who pay for dates. Men who drive to see them. Men who are willing to wait an extended…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:50 PM
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see? As I said, men constantly taunt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:46 PM
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Men constantly taunt how women look. Men call women over 25 or 30 “post wall hags”, bully women who are overweight, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:45 PM
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What percentage of women? And what percentage of women use these filters regularly versus just browsing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:45 PM
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Anything more than 10 or so years isn’t very healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:25 AM
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Why are you coming in with the assumption that women only want a 6’ blonde guy who makes $100k+ year? Why is the start of your conversation to be on the offensive and make a sweeping generalization about what women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:25 AM
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Tell him to pay for a university degree and allow you to build a career for a few years before you have children so that if you don’t entirely financially depend on him. Once you have kids, you can go down to part time so that you still have current work experience but will have time to be with the kids. Get a prenup that says you get a chunk of money and acquired while married assets in the event of a divorce. If he isn’t on board, then dump him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:23 AM
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So you agree with me. Men use women as placeholders. And your response is to blame the women. These men don’t announce that the women are placeholders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:31 AM
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Standards about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:30 AM
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Participate in what? This is what men tell women about how men interact in red pill and adjacent spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:12 PM
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Yes. Liberal feminism is different from radical feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:07 PM
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The tone of your comment is bitter and a wish for revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:20 PM
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![img](7h7kykr8qpxf1) I’m not the one downvoting, sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:18 PM
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<image> I’m not the one downvoting, sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:18 PM
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Usually bitter and angry men with a vengeful streak who think women over 30 are old and ugly aren’t exactly not misery to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:30 PM
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You literally have a history of boasting that you use women for their money. You don’t have a shortage of women nor are you some kind of father Teresa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:28 PM
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<image> Gentle reminder that this is what the tinder swindler looks like and while he’s attractive he isn’t attractive enough that I would consider him a hot Adonis who dazzled women into giving him money. I actually consider this a testimony to how low women’s standards are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:26 PM
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That isn’t a radical feminist take, it’s a liberal feminist take. Liberal feminism and radical feminism are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:20 PM
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They don’t because men tell us that younger men use older women for sex when given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:02 PM
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Whoops! I forgot! Men are willing to pump and dump those of us who they find unattractive but we are also supposed to be grateful for the opportunity. Or even better, string us along as placeholders. And we are supposed to appreciate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:02 PM
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Yeah they should change their preferences. And only date the men willing to marry. Make a young man marry an older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:16 PM
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You also argued that these women gave these men their primes. They clearly didn’t. They went with other men too. At least Grimes did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:14 PM
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Christian isn’t the only religion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:11 PM
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I thought being used for sex was the ultimate alpha moment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:09 PM
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Sex should only be within the confines of marriage. Even if a woman isn’t a virgin, she should wait once she realizes she should wait until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:43 PM
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Moving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:42 PM
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And? They aren’t with him because he’s hot. And per Google she has had at least 2 boyfriends before Elon. Those are the public ones. I am sure there were more. And the other ladies aren’t as famous. I am sure they weren’t chaste virgins either. I think the most recent one was already a single mom to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:42 PM
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No I am saying we should go for younger men who are in their primes because our age match is settling for us and we don’t want to be settled Ron
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:41 PM
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So I am saying that women should date only young hot men because older men are settling and women don’t want to be settled for either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:41 PM
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But you’re moving the goalposts. If she wasn’t saying that would you magically enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:40 PM
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And I am saying women who are older should date younger men who are in their primes so that they aren’t being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:39 PM
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Yeah because religious men pray away their temptations and urges. Also very religious Mormons and Muslims practice polygyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:39 PM
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That wasn’t me. But what I do know is that women generally don’t get horny from crying. By generally, I mean over 99%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:38 PM
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Moving the goalposts. Elon got that music producer’s leftovers! Shame for Elon! He should have gotten with 20 year old virgins from Eastern Europe like Andrew Tate!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:28 PM
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You literally repeatedly question the idea that women don’t get horny from crying by saying “how do you know for sure she doesn’t get horny from crying”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:26 PM
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<image> See? Grimes was with this guy before Elon musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:25 PM
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Musk got with her in her 30’s. I hiiiiighly doubt that she was sitting around chastely for 30 years until he came around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:24 PM
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<image> See? Grimes with a non Elon musk man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:21 PM
5

Elon musk pays each of his baby mamas millions of dollars. And Grimes has a new boyfriend now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:19 PM
7

This is a weird and defensive response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:18 PM
1

This sounds tuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:18 PM
1

You’re describing a 5-10 year age gap as if the guy is dating a 21 year old. The 40 something year old divorced woman goes for the 50 something year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:18 PM
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I know a lot of divorced middle aged women, and out of those who wanted to remarry, ALL remarried. All of them. Those who didn’t want to remarry, didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:16 PM
1

We have a bunch of men here being outraged about women settling, yet here you are, advising women to settle for a man they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:16 PM
2

These are the exceptional ones who want to have sex with a guy in his youth because they missed out on it in their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:15 PM
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No they don’t. I have met plenty and it’s because they choose to not remarry. Those who want to remarry ALL do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:15 PM
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Most women in their 40’s or 50’s expect a guy who is in his 40’s or 50’s. Which, newsflash, isn’t his prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:14 PM
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So what you’re saying is that when date their agematch, they are settling, because if they had money and establishment, they would pick someone younger. And we women are supposed to be grateful. Settling for thee, but not for me. Hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:08 PM
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The only reason men don’t have harems en masse is because they can’t. But almost all men want a harem. It’s in their biology. And we women are supposed to be grateful that they reluctantly settle for and have a daily battle with monogamy. Even if he can’t be polygynous, he will watch porn to replicate the fantasy of polygyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:03 PM
2

So you’re saying that if you’re married and your wife is a SAHM you view yourself as a utility and resent her for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:02 PM
1

So you’re describing men as jealous sociopaths who want to coerce their girlfriends/ wives into sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:01 PM
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Men virtue signal all the time about how they are willing to settle for women they find unattractive and we women are supposed to be grateful for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:00 PM
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Why are you passionately defending the concept that a large number of women get horny from crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:06 AM
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He wants to humble women. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:51 AM
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Men complain about gold diggers then get mad when women want a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:08 PM
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They are fine. Stop projecting your insecurities onto me because you have a bigoted narrative about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:20 PM
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I understood that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:08 PM
1

Teacher or nurse is a reasonably good job for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:06 PM
1

Now you’re moving the goalposts from introverted to neurodivergent. Men only want young women and that’s it. People don’t bitch about a 65 year old man dating a 50 year old woman. They only bitch when it’s a 65 year old man with a 20 year old woman. Yet we all quietly know the 65 year old man would pick the 20 year old if he could.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:05 PM
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No it’s limited to income and job stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:01 PM
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And men have a lifetime to develop their social skills an charm a young woman into dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 05:51 AM
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And an introverted man has a lifetime to work on displaying indicators of interest and asking out women in a way that suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:20 PM
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Having a reasonably good job is a basic expectation for everyone. It’s not gold digging to expect your partner to have a decent career. Life is expensive and a guy who dos not have a decent career or who isn’t in school/ training for a decent career will just be a financial strain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:55 PM
4

Boy. A girl scoots over for a guy in high school and his ego is boosted for the rest of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:50 PM
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Kind of like how women over 30 are considered unworthy of love but men over 30 are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:47 PM
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Because it’s an honest criticism. Whenever a boy gets SA’ed by his teacher, men go running around claiming that they wish it was them and straight up say that the boy “is not a victim”. Notice how you completely derailed the topic to launch a personal attack crusade? Why aren’t you addressing the elephant in the room? Why do so many men, a seeming majority, dismiss the severity of a teacher sleeping with a student?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:26 PM
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No. They are happier because they know how bad men can be and are happy to not be in a toxic situation. This forum is an example. A lot of self proclaimed good guys who are in this forum are actually incredibly toxic and bitter people who would make awful partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:18 PM
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Oh would you look at that, it’s just a personal attack because you can’t stand an honest criticism of men. Men loudly and proudly, and in the majority, claim they wish that a hot teacher would have slept with them and even get angry when you say it’s abuse. Women don’t. There’s a tiny minority of women who glaze on Chris brown or the Boston bomber. The fact that you have to look at people who were popular in like 2006 and 2013 and are most likely looking at tweets from that era says everything w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:15 PM
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I am a millennial and I don’t remember a massive number of women begging Chris brown to beat them. I understand there may have been a handful of women, but not anyone I knew or followed. That said, ANY TIME a teacher is attractive and sleeps with a male student, ARMIES of men (not just a handful of crazy men or a loud and tiny minority) come out and “joke” or seriously declare that they wish that it was them who were the victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:09 PM
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That doesn’t mean they aren’t victims AND it doesn’t mean you’re justified in saying “he’s isn’t a victim” and “joking” that he’s lucky over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:07 PM
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He also says “whatever you consider it to be”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:06 PM
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You can also acknowledge that the 15 year old enjoyed it without repeatedly saying “he’s not a victim” and “I wish my teacher did that to me” and “high five to him” and “this is like eating delicious steak and lobster”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:06 PM
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Well that’s your problem. You’re being incredibly rude. You can have a preference without calling someone a turd. Or comparing them to poop. You can just say “I am not interested” and move on with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:06 PM
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<image> Men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:43 PM
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He also said “it’s whatever you consider it to be”. Some people may not think that it is bad treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:42 PM
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That’s a stretch though. Being conventionally attractive and exceptionally tall and in their 20’s puts someone in the “exceptionally attractive” category. Not the “decently attractive category”. The average age is old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:09 PM
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Either he’s decently attractive or he’s tall and handsome and hot. You’re describing him as exceptionally attractive, not decently attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:56 PM
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So the moral is: Don’t go for an ugly guy because he will resent that his ego is bruised.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:32 PM
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lol you just made another comment that all a man has to be is “decently” attractive and now you’re insisting that only an elite group of hot men are attractive enough for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:31 PM
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So the goalposts have moved. For years men insisted that women expect men to be exceptionally attractive and hot. Now you’re saying men have to be decently attractive and just kind of attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:30 PM
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Why would you look at her like a giant turd? Why aren’t you more respectful? That isn’t exactly a sign that you are going to be a kind partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:26 PM
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Exactly. He was just decently attractive and yet he got a ton of sex. Men insist you have to be model tier to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:24 PM
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Why do I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:22 PM
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Yes because biologically men lack loyalty and crave variety and have an inclination to cheat. See: pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:40 AM
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That isn’t a good rebuttal. A man isn’t attractive to just one woman in the entire world and no other woman will ever find him attractive and they will be soulmates forever. Women can be attracted to multiple men at once, and then pick whoever they feel is most compatible for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:40 AM
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He described the guy as decently attractive which is not extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:37 AM
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The policy started in 1979 and ended in 2015. The next generations may not be affected but the current one is and will continue to be affected for many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:37 AM
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He described him as decently attractive. Meaning he wasn’t really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:35 AM
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Men always shame women for not picking the marginal dudes and say that women get cheated on or mistreated for picking the men they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:35 AM
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Most don’t. The vast majority of women hate sharing a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:34 AM
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Pick new women to socialize with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:32 AM
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You gave a non answer. You said “it’s whatever you consider it to be”. Say what it is. Someone may consider bad treatment to be kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:31 AM
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Lmao you’re moving the goalpost. You said that women enjoy sharing a man. They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:12 AM
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Ok then spell it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:12 AM
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No it’s a male issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:11 AM
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Which women are you trying not to attract and what is wrong with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:08 AM
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It only works for attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:06 AM
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and the women who like you are fat and ugly Men have options Just not the options they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:05 AM
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Because they don’t want to date the same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:03 AM
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Most women who were concubines throughout history were either forced or doing it to try to get an heir to the throne or desperately trying to improve their finances. The vast majority weren’t there because they found the king ridiculously hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:03 AM
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No they don’t it’s all about looks to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:00 AM
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Spell out what bad treatment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:59 AM
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Honestly he just shows that Rp is wrong and women have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:58 AM
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Spell it out if it’s so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:57 AM
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She was agreeing with you, adding a point, and you got defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:57 AM
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Why are you ignoring the fact that China had a one child policy for many years and many people were killing their daughters or sending them to orphanages so that they could have a son? And you have the audacity to claim that they are privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:56 AM
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No they aren’t. Thats a male issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:26 AM
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It usually is. Hyper fixation on height. Rage about feminism making dating harder for men. Belief that women are superficial, conniving and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:02 PM
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Yes it’s okay. When a guy writes about “foids” and “chadsexuals” then he’s unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:00 PM
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Most dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:44 PM
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That’s because their posts are riddled with outraged anger against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:31 PM
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You find women your own age attractive but believe most of them don’t take care of themselves so it’s just a few elite ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:13 PM
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She was sending mixed signals. She could have been flirty by nature (either intentionally or unintentionally), liked you at first then changed her mind, liked you but had a boyfriend, or not into you at all. We will never know. What I DO know is that a woman had an experience similar to yours on Reddit- where she thought a man was into her but then he went cold later- and a bunch of other Redditors shamed her and said she was “chadsexual” and accused her of disliking her looksmatch and hyper fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:08 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/0gp13a7dygvf1.jpeg?width=1320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=88104cb0cfe3a07a7959d89ad98b7771e2ac1b81 This is what I am addressing. This dude is saying men don’t shame women for having approaches that go unsuccessfully. I am saying he uses shaming language about these women. If a woman approaches multiple men and they all just want sex and not a relationship, guys like OP will pop out and say they have personality problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:41 PM
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You’re moving the goalposts. Most people find it insulting to hear that their personality is so bad that they can’t get a good partner. Even if you add “you can still be a good friend though” at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:38 PM
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Yeah but you also went out of your way to say how women above a certain age just so happen to not take care of themselves and look attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:37 PM
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No this isn’t semantics. You’re trying to virtue signal but failing. It’s more virtuous to be honest and just say you don’t find your agematch attractive unless she’s uniquely hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:37 AM
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If they can’t get a healthy relationship due to their personality it means they have a bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:37 AM
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“I don’t care about age because I find a few exceptionally attractive women my own age attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:35 AM
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This is a roundabout way of saying age matters. Unless the woman is exceptionally attractive for her age, you don’t want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:27 AM
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Yes you do. You say that they have personality problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:25 AM
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And then he has the audacity to say “men don’t care about age” after saying he would go with a woman 20+ years younger than him if his wife and him divorced 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:07 AM
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You literally just said one comment ago that you’re 50 and if your wife left you, then you’re going to date a 25-30 year old. Get real. Men care deeply about age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:06 AM
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Literally you’re a man shaming women who approach men and get used for sex by saying they have personality problems. You’re not a woman, are you? So why do you falsely claim that women are the ones who slut shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:57 AM
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Oh I know them. Their audience is male. And Candace Owens doesn’t hate women. Pearl does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:54 AM
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Men blame women no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:38 PM
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No comment because you know I am right. It’s a step to pick better men. If I was dating a guy and saw him posted there as a cheater , I wouldn’t slander him or accuse him. But I also just wouldn’t date him. Especially since if I were to get cheated on, men would say it’s my fault for ignoring red flags and claim that women deliberately go on these apps because they want to share a “high value man” who is a loser who cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:32 PM
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It isn’t a disconnect. You guys have a tantrum when women pick bad men and screech that women need to pick better men. Then, when women search to see if a man is better and take protective measures, you get deeply offended that she didn’t do it the “right” way by catching vibes and making sure he’s too ugly to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:11 PM
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It was a clapback and weak trap. I pointed out that you can quietly avoid dating someone without berating them, and you consider it a “disconnect”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:14 AM
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This isn’t a good rebuttal. You think you clapped back, but you didn’t. You can choose to avoid whoever you want. Quietly avoiding someone, or quietly ending a relationship is not the same thing as bullying and humiliating a woman that you don’t like. Men have a tendency to belittle and berate and humiliate single moms. Instead of simply not dating them, they repeatedly tell these women that they are worthless, especially unannounced. Go on any meta post about single moms and there is always at …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:51 AM
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Oh no I understand. It doesn’t change the fact that if a guy is posted there and labeled as a cheater, it’s generally a good idea to avoid dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:24 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:25 AM
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Source on how 80% of women view men as sub5 creeps? Because if it’s the OKCupid study, which is millennial and from like 2008, I have dissected it and have rebuttals for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:25 AM
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People generally don’t announce if they have cheated before and men can’t stand “are we dating the same guy” groups
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:18 AM
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Peace. He literally calls it being spoiled. And it’s a personal attack for you to call me spoiled and make assumptions about my father or family. I reveal nothing about my personal life. It’s male nature to attack though. You can’t help it. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:28 PM
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Except that isn’t his world view. A lot of men are bitter and angry that a good father sets high expectations for women. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:54 PM
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Literally romantic love is not familial or friendship love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:53 PM
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Because “spoiled daughters” usually means “woman who had a loving dad who worked hard and made sacrifices for her, and now she expects men to work hard and make sacrifices for her an that’s too hard. You making personal attacks repeatedly indicates to me that you’re trying to be provocative and a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:45 PM
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No it isn’t. Not romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:41 PM
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You’re making personal attacks, it’s obvious. Get back to the original point. He’s mocking women for having a loving dad when men commonly mock and insult women for having a shitty dad. You’ve completely derailed the conversation by making repeated personal attacks because you know you can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:40 PM
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That isn’t what “fall in love” means. Bad faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:27 PM
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Accusing me of having trauma is a personal attack as well. Again, the mods don’t care because you’re a man attacking a woman. Speculating on my personal life and history is a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:21 PM
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The two go hand in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:20 PM
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Nope it’s a taunt. It’s okay. You’re male and it’s male nature to taunt when proven wrong as an attempt to save face. You proceed to make personal attacks because it makes you feel like you won. You didn’t. I pointed out a valid criticism of male hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:14 PM
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They absolutely favor men here. The men here get away with saying disgusting shit. You proceed to continue to make personal attacks. You lost the debate. Making personal attacks means you can’t come up with anything better. You’re basically proving that I am right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 01:04 PM
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Making personal attacks violates the rules. Luckily for you, the mods selectively enforce the rules and don’t like women. This isn’t about my trauma or me at all. This is based on what men have said here. If you would like me to tag you in the post where a guy made a 20 comment debate about how women should split housework based on income and not hours worked, even if the woman is a medical resident making $60-80k a year working 60-80 hours a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:25 AM
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You didn’t. I am holding you accountable. You’re just responding with snark because I called you out and you don’t have a good answer and you want to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:22 AM
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Men consider a spoiled princess daughter to be a woman who says housework should be split on hours worked and not income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 02:21 AM
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Do you want me to tag you in the 20+ comment debate I had with a guy who insisted that whoever makes more money should do less chores even if the one making less money is a medical resident?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:26 AM
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Literally that is the message he is sending.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:25 AM
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To men, spoiled means expecting your husband to share the housework based on hours worked and to give you gifts on birthdays and holidays and special occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:52 PM
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What kind of answer is that? I am pointing out a discrepancy in male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:51 PM
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Men: “lol im gonna degrade this girl and call her ‘fatherless’ when she does something bad. If she says something I disagree with I will accuse her of having daddy issues.” Also men: “lol im gonna taunt this girl and put her down for having a dad that cherished and loved her. How dare her dad make things harder for me and make it so that I have to actually put in work to be a good partner. I want a woman I can be lazy with who has low expectations and tolerates abuse”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:37 PM
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Men say stuff like this then have the audacity to complain that women don’t trust them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:58 PM
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I understand you don’t say you hate western women. You just believe that they have delusional standards! That is still hate! This isn’t elementary school. Strong word or not, it describes the emotion you convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:44 PM
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Op proceeded to respond to me about how entitled western women are about looks and how they want a celebrity. As a wester woman, why would I want a man who assumes that I want models and celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:19 PM
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No we dont. Only the women you pick because you’re attracted to women with problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:14 PM
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Did you read what I wrote? Women don’t quite like it when men talk about how bad “western women” are. It’s just hatred of women with an “as long as she’s western!” Snuck in as a disclaimer to say “I don’t hate all women! Just the western ones!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:13 PM
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Women are capable of falling in love with someone oofy goofy who worships the ground they walk on. Men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:21 AM
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Bro if you look through them most of them are ugly lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:20 AM
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First of all, thank you for proving my point. Second of all, a LOT of women are happy with unattractive man who loves them. Off the top of my head, I think of Selena Gomez and Benny blanco, Arianna grande and that weird guy who is unattractive, Adrianna lima’s ex, woody Allen, etc. Third of all, being handsome is not a precursor to being a bad person. Adrianna Lima’s ex was ugly and he cheated on her. Woody Allen is a predatory mess. Men always tell women to avoid handsome men as if this will pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:36 AM
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I agree. It’s a manosphere type thing. But I see it exploding in popularity amongst men and when I say it is exploding in popularity, I’m gaslit with things like “only a tiny minority of men are like this” and “stop reading things online”. I don’t know who holds these beliefs and who doesn’t. A lot of these guys claim that they have wives and kids. Often you can see them in the metaverse and they don’t always use alt accounts. I remember a guy married to a fat woman making fun of a fat woman for…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:11 AM
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Yes. Throughout my 15-20 years on social media and web forums, I have seen men say all sorts of things to indicate that they are bitter, mean, vindictive, and resentful towards women. Just recently I had a multiple comment debate with a guy insisting and insisting that housework should be split on income and not hours worked. When I pointed out that plenty of people like nurses, resident doctors, night shift workers, etc may not make a huge salary but still work long and brutal hours, his respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:19 PM
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Why are you so bitter? She doesn’t need to do chores to make him horny. She still does chores anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:50 PM
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Some men will go up to their wives and scream “I VACUUMED!!! AND YOU STILL DONT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME???” And get all coercive and mean about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:49 PM
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First of all, all of these are think pieces by women who liked casual sex after a divorce. Most women aren’t into casual sex. Second of all, a man who refuses to emotionally connect with you or who refuses to household chores, has deeply hurt her. It’s hurtful to no other level to be betrayed by a partner who is arrogant and weird about chores or spending time with their wives. A stranger hasn’t hurt her. A stranger is just a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:47 PM
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Nobody says that? Bro you’ve engaged in like a 20 comment debate with me insisting that the guy who makes more money is exempt from housework because of his income and that housework should be split based on income, not hours worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:35 PM
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And the guy isn’t worth more because he is bringing in more income. He is bringing in more income. Women in marriages where they earn more money still manage to do more housework statistically. Only men seem to have a problem with sharing housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:11 PM
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I did answer your question. Even if he makes more money, it is nasty and mean spirited and disgusting to not split the housework based on hours worked and not income. Any guy who thinks it’s unfair that he is making more money, but is splitting the housework based on hours worked, is not a good person. The fact that you have spent like 20 comments insisting and insisting that housework should be split on income and not hours worked and insisting that most men feel this way shows that men are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:09 PM
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Stop trying to do mental gymnastics. Split housework based on hours worked, not income.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:03 PM
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I fully understand that and that is what I said. Men are the biggest misandrists. You, a man, are saying that rather than splitting housework, the typical man sits around saying “what an entitled cunt. How dare she say that we split housework. I am making more money. She should get her money up”. That’s a sociopathic description of men and male nature. Men always talk about men this way. and YES. It is an equivalent exchange if they are both working full time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:00 AM
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It isn’t a strawman. This is the way you describe men. In a misandrist way. You describe a man married to his wife. Both have difficult jobs with long hours. But because he makes more, he believes he has the right to neglect the housework. That is how you describe a typical man. Not just that, if the wife expects him to share housework, the typical man, by your words, mutters to himself that his wife is a bum who should have picked a higher paying job if she isn’t going to be a homemaker in addi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:36 PM
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And you are describing how men view their wives in these hypothetical scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:08 PM
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I understand. You’re being a misandrist. Any man who thinks this way of his wife is a bad person and lazy about cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:52 PM
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You are describing men that way. You’re insisting that just because a man brings in more income, he’s both entitled to do less of the work in the house, but unwilling to. That is laziness. That is being a slob. Again, you dismiss that residents and nurses work their ass off, and are both filled with women who work. Housework should be split based on hours worked outside the home, ability, etc. NOT ON INCOME. Any man who gets offended or victimized by this is portraying men as LAZY and SLOBS
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:59 PM
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No. Stop twisting my words. Wanting sex to the point of manipulation and using others is wrong. Aka how you portray men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:54 PM
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Yes. It is. You describe men as either covert or overt narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:14 PM
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Why are you asking this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:28 PM
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And you seem like a misandrist. You portray men as monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:28 PM
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It may be reality to you, but it is still misandry. Men are the biggest misandrists. And you describe “sigma” men as degenerates who use women for sex because they believe that is all women are good for. Meaning that men admire that sort of behavior. It’s misandry through and through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:19 PM
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That’s still misandry. You’re saying the only thing keeping men from neglecting basic hygiene is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:18 PM
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I don’t know when its not gross. I just know it’s gross if it’s a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:17 PM
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That’s a cop out answer that makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:48 PM
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Men are the biggest misandrists. You describe men as too proud to clean up after themselves. And not just that, too lazy and slobbish to do something as simple as doing their own laundry or cleaning the toilet after use.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:47 PM
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Saying you want to have sex with a random stranger is creepy. Saying it on Reddit is a whole other level of silly because you’re basing this on the little emojis that are our profile pictures aka nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:40 PM
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Men are the biggest misandrists. A resident doctor works like 70-80+ hours a week. They work extremely hard and make a relatively low salary for a while (like $60-80k) because even though they are doctors, they have to spend like 3-5+ years in training to be fully able to work in their specialty. There are also jobs like nursing which make pretty good money, ($80k+), but oftentimes involve extensive periods of time night shift which takes a toll on your body. You describe men as incapable of und…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:39 PM
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No it isn’t. If you’re both working full time, then you share those duties. You got all emotional earlier about how assets are shared within a marriage and how income earned while married is shared income. Meaning women should earn their own income in a marriage and never trust that their husband will truly share finances with her. But then you describe men as these lazy slobs who drop all hard work the moment they walk into the house and who expect their wives to just clean up after them. Men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:33 PM
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Once again, your misandry is showing. You’re saying that the only reason why men get into a relationship is not because they love their girlfriend/ wife and enjoy spending time with her and want to build a good life with her. Oh no. To you, men only go through the trouble of getting into a relationship to have access to convenient sex. You describe men as these conniving and manipulative degenerates who use someone who is trying to be a good and loving partner just to have access to sex. And the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:30 PM
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It doesn’t matter. There are still daily chores and tasks that you need to do. And second of all, selfish people can be polite. The two don’t exclude each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:27 PM
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visual stimulation You mean jacking off to videos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:22 PM
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Bro. This is how old school traditional women think. This is how things have been done for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:22 PM
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Because the toilet doesn’t clean itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:21 PM
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It’s gross because I am a stranger and you’re basing your views on Reddit snoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:20 PM
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It’s gross because you are a complete stranger and all you’re basing your opinion on is a reddit snoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:20 PM
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That doesn’t mean he’s allowed to just come home and do nothing when his resident wife is also working extremely hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:41 AM
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If you’re married, then everything you earn while married is shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:40 AM
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Women aren’t grossed out by men wanting to have sex. Women are grossed out by men who: Lie to get sex Cheat Watch porn Say things like “the only thing women are good for is sex” Men who brag about their sexcapades where they manipulate and string along women who they don’t have any intention of being in a relationship with Men who bully women over rejection Men who taunt women who have been hurt by a man in the past Men who envy abusers because “he’s abusive and he got sex therefore women want a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:39 AM
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/u/DietTyrone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:39 AM
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Sorry about your mom women get screwed over by their dads all the time and get taunted and told they have “daddy issues” and are “fatherless” or engage in “fatherless behavior” by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:38 AM
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It’s not beta to put families and children as your top goal in life. That is quite a bitter and strange take. And yes. For years I have been saying men hate their wives but I get called a misandrist for it. /u/DietTyrone Here’s the quote you asked me for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:37 AM
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Ok I’ll tag you my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:35 AM
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No you’re misandrist. You portray men as bitterly hating their wives. If I said men think that way an army of men would say I am a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:22 AM
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As I said. She’s the mother of your kids. Screwing her over screws them over. Male virtue signaling is just that. Virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:31 PM
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Then you’re violating the subreddit rules and proudly admitting it The good news for you is that the moderators selectively enforce said rules and don’t care if men make personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:27 PM
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I get called a misandrist for saying what men say, but men are the biggest misandrists. Op is describing men as sociopath monsters who enjoy stringing women along for sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:18 PM
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The guy literally goes on to say that he uses the nice and quiet women for sex too because that’s all they are good for. He also says prioritizing a family is beta and that many men dislike their wives for being evil bitches but they are beta and put up with it and still love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:49 PM
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So you’re a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:20 PM
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Why is that your response to Stacy treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:06 PM
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That was the gist of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:05 PM
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This is just a disgusting view of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:05 PM
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Whatever makes you feel validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:48 PM
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Then it isn’t a false report.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:47 PM
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Sounds like a personal attack to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:47 PM
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So some women get Stacy treatment and others don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:46 PM
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It’s not beta to put families and children as your top goal in life. That is quite a bitter and strange take. And yes. For years I have been saying men hate their wives but I get called a misandrist for it. I guess for all your bitterness you can feel validated and Chadly by using various nice women for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:38 PM
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It’s that admirable for the average man because the average man is lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:36 PM
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So you never even dated this woman? Bro. And you just use weird women who are mean for sex to kind of assuage yourself for feeling hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:36 PM
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It’s a dumb illustration though because it’s a gross exaggeration. Plus, you’re just admitting that you think that the lady making $30k is worthless and just having fun when married to a guy making $90k.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:35 PM
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You made a grossly unrealistic and unreasonable example. I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:29 PM
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Where did I say “force your kid to be a lawyer” 🥱 I said “pays well that they enjoy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:24 PM
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Then just leave. Take the advice men give abused women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:55 PM
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Most men get all huffy about cooking and cleaning and say that because they take out the trash
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:55 PM
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Most men can leave at any time too and royally screw their wives over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:54 PM
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It is shared. It should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:54 PM
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How disgusting that you assume most women who are breadwinners are married to prisoners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:53 PM
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It’s even sillier to think that in a marriage where the wife makes $30k and the husband makes $90k that she isn’t contributing financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:41 PM
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It was an example. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:53 PM
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Everything is shared. If you work alongside your husband you money is shared too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:53 PM
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It also includes households where a nurse making $100k is married to a doctor making $350k. Both are working hard. One makes a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:38 PM
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As I said. Multiple times. Men want to screw over their ex wives. Your comment is just a lot of twisted verbiage to say “it’s my money”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:37 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/20/2023/04/Breadwinner-wives-full-report-FINAL.pdf From your source. Only 23% of men are sole breadwinners. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:32 PM
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And men HATE those laws and actively want to overturn them! And will fight tooth and nail in court to leave their ex with nothing. You aren’t accomplishing anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:30 PM
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Then clean and cook. Usually that stops the nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:29 PM
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Why do you assume higher income = longer hours or more stress? Let’s say a doctor marries an engineer. The doctor is still a resident and making $75k. The engineer works from home and has a cushy job making $150k. The doctor is working longer hours and dealing with more stress than the engineer, but the engineer is making more. It’s nasty as hell to be married to a resident doctor and resenting them for wanting to split the housework because “I earn double”. Let’s say a nurse marries a software …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:28 PM
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Usually the woman is nagging when the guy isn’t doing his share of housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:25 PM
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Trad influencers who make an income by posting on social media aren’t “fak trad”. They are trad with a side income. In Christianity the proverbs 31 woman works from home. So if a trad woman can find a way to make a side income while working from home at a job that doesn’t take time from her family (eg being an influencer), then she isn’t breaking the traditional trad values. It doesn’t matter what services she does. Income and assets are shared in a marriage. Women pay alimony to men who don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 02:24 PM
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You’re mistaken. A lot of married men don’t believe in alimony, child support, or splitting assets earned while married. They believe that the money they earn, especially with a SAHM, is theirs and not hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:48 PM
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Almost no relationship in most people's lives do they care what other people do for a career besides women with their partner. Parents, brothers, sisters, friends. That's the normal way to be. The career doesn't matter, you're loved regardless. Women are weird for caring what their partner does to pay bills. First of all, a good parent cares about their kid’s career and income. A good parent will encourage their child to pick a career that both pays well and that they enjoy. No good parent wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:47 PM
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It isn’t abuse to want your husband to do housework after you both get home from a long day of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:27 PM
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It isn’t false reporting to say her interpretation and offer a criticism of it. Also, doing housework and chores if you’re both married and both working outside of the home is not comparable to working in a sweat shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:26 PM
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Men always say women want slaves that pay for their shit without complaint. If you’re married and both working, you both have to do chores, childcare, and errands. This isn’t a “laundry list of demands”. It’s just how life and marriage works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:25 PM
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Traditional gender roles focus on women being less of a negative to a man's life. To be quiet, to be reasonable, to be mature, to focus on the family etc. Is she adding little in regards to power, status or money? Yes. But is she also providing with other things that are just as valuable, like work, love and affection? also yes. Add that to the lack of serious negative traits and you have a preferable partner. The only price you pay is having to pay for their living expenses and your odd extrava…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:23 PM
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Because these guys just HATE women and are vindictive against them. Thats it. They will do a bunch of mental gymnastics to try to rationalize and defend their self contradictory stance. They insist that they don’t hate women and are just giving a “criticism” of women. But they hate women. Point blank period.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:08 PM
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What else does it mean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:43 PM
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It’s because cheating is a display of lacking commitment. But some men aren’t attractive enough to cheat with real women so they get into porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:25 PM
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Yeah That’s CHEATING Not the woman saying “I’m unfulfilled” and abandoning her husband to fuck strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:08 PM
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I have a maid You don’t value the labor. I don’t want a maid. I want YOU to do it. Plenty of people have maids who come like every 2 weeks. Laundry, dishes, cleaning the toilet, cooking, and cleaning are chores that happen more than every 2 weeks. Unless your maid comes daily and caters to everything, she likely isn’t keeping things clean enough. If you don’t want you ex to get railed by a new dude, then perhaps don’t leave? It’s a simple solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:17 AM
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No it is about domination. Men consider a wife asking her husband repeatedly to clean the toilet when he doesn’t to be a “nagging bitch” with “ocd hygiene standards”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:31 AM
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List out these specific elusive things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:26 AM
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The man who has money isn’t “royally screwed over” because he has to pay alimony and child support. He is not the one experiencing homelessness. The ex wife is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:14 AM
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I tagged you in it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:11 PM
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Not according to Forbes. Most Common Reasons for Divorce Couples report many different reasons for ending a marital relationship. Usually there are multiple reasons for the demise of a marriage. These are the most common explanations cited by divorcing couples. Lack of Commitment Is the Most Common Reason for Divorce. In fact, 75% of individuals and couples cited lack of commitment as the reason for their divorce. This was the most common cause of a marriage ending, exceeding even infidelity.15 …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:00 PM
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Literally another man is saying what I said men say. He was outraged that marriage means financial ties and that earned income is shared income.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:09 PM
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Women have always worked shitty jobs. I am not sure why you have the idea that women historically were luxuriating all day. Women have always been servants, factory workers at shitty and abusive factories, nurses and CNA’s (work all night and clean up poop), etc. I think women as a whole should stop doing any and all housework and put that load onto the men since men seem to think it’s easy, luxurious, and fun. And you are financially tied in a marriage. Instead of cute signaling about how you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:09 PM
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Women divorce for reasons like: Husband cheated Husband has a pornography addiction Husband makes awful financial decisions and refuses to work Man having anger and rage issues Sexual coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:06 PM
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I made a post with a long list of what I provide. The mods get offended if I link a comment, so you can find it in my post history. Men say it isn’t enough though. One guy went out of his way to write multiple essays about how it was worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:05 PM
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It doesn’t matter what the laws are. You say that women aren’t doing that, but plenty do. And there you go. Devaluation of the role of mothers and homemaking. This is why I refuse to cook, clean, take care of the kids, etc etc in the event of a marriage. Any financial sacrifices I make will be worthless in the eyes of a husband, as evidenced by what you say. And you would get alimony if you were a homemaker. Women pay alimony too. And any assets or income you earn while together is SHARED.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:32 PM
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I hear myself. You’re getting defensive because I am repeating what you say and you don’t like that it makes you look less virtuous. Literally as you say repeatedly: Men aren’t dating down due to virtue. They are dating down because they don’t give a shit about screwing over their wife and kids in the event of a divorce. You keep saying this repeatedly but with different words. If she devoted years of her life and financial independence to being a homemaker and managing the home OR took a lower …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:33 PM
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Saying some people do anything makes sense. There are some people who do all sorts of things ranging from murder to becoming monks/ nuns and devoting their life to charity. The problem is when men generalize women as a whole as being extremely superficial about appearance and money. Usually, men aren’t saying “some women are entitled”. They are saying “women are entitled” and proceed to write a rant. I have been called entitled for saying that I want a man who is taller than me, even though stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:16 PM
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I am also talking about men who don’t marry but have LTR’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:49 PM
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He is just a single example of one man, but he is saying what multitudes of men have said and continue to say. You said “goodbye” but make two responses. That is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:48 PM
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I project it onto men because I repeat what men say about men. Even you evade saying that you would pay alimony and child support. Also; what happened to “goodbye”? You proceeded to make 2 responses after saying bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:46 PM
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You proceeded to reply two more times despite saying “goodbye”. If you do not wish to engage, then don’t answer. Replying indicates that you want to continue the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:45 PM
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As I said Men love to virtue signal about how they marry down when in reality they do not give two shits about what happens to their wife and kids in the event of a divorce. People can work 2-3 jobs at minimum wage and they will still be in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:45 PM
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Here. This guy is saying exactly what I said. They just don’t care. Straight from a MAN’s mouth. <image> And he is from this thread so I am not witch hunting because you can scroll two comments to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:37 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/sq2c67095wtf1.jpeg?width=1190&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=836584fb2b710e1e2ac723b9f59a296445604817 Your fellow man on this thread basically saying what I said that triggered you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:36 PM
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Thats exactly what i said and it triggered a guy to make multiple personal attacks against me. Men aren’t virtuous because they are willing to “date down”. They simply don’t care about screwing over their wife and kids in the event of a divorce. Even if they cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:36 PM
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Then don’t virtue signal about how willing you are to date down. Divorce would lead to homelessness for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:32 PM
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And you made repeated personal attacks and made no claims that proved me incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:31 PM
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Moving the goalposts. If you don’t want to pay alimony, then don’t virtue signal about how happy you are to date down. No matter how happy you are to date down, she will be screwed in the event of a divorce, or in your case, a breakup. And you not wanting to get married is even worse. You want to acquire assets and life with a woman for years, presumably with her doing housework and childcare, yet you consider the assets you acquire while together while she puts her career aside to be yours and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:06 PM
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Bro just answer the question in two parts the question format doesn’t force you to answer a certain way. And if you’ve been married for years to a low income earner or housewife who put her career on the back burner for you and the family, then it’s pretty nasty to be okay with her becoming homeless because you’re bitter about alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:04 PM
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If I have been married for years and suddenly decided to cheat then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:01 PM
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Men know you can divorce him and take all his money and yet he hopes you don’t. First of all, they don’t. It’s really hard to take “his money”. That said, if you’re married and you guys acquire assets and money TOGETHER, then it isn’t HIS MONEY anymore. It’s SHARED ASSETS AND MONEY. No one goes into a relationship looking to get fucked over. Yet in a marriage, you consider shared assets and money earned while together to be “HIS MONEY”. Men are “dating down” (stupid term anyway) because more wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:00 PM
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I didn’t say I was “hurt bad and blame men”. That’s a personal attack. I don’t discuss my past hurts of lack of hurts online. Women initiate divorce because men are too lazy to do the paperwork themselves. And even you have expressed that you just don’t care. You just get snarky. A good man will say “I want you to be taken care of and the kids to be taken care of in the event of a divorce. I am willing to sign a prenup that says that if I cheat, I’ll give you more money”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:53 PM
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Aziz was being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:44 AM
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If you actually read the Aziz Ansari story, she doesn’t accuse him of rape. She accuses him of being sexually coercive and aggressive. Which he was. You have an entire post whining about how women who have been abused are undeserving of sympathy. Yet when a woman nips that behavior in the bud, you falsely claim item’s false rape accusation and get all weird and defensive. You get all this “righteous” rage about abuse victims not standing up for themselves but when a woman stands up to coercion, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:43 AM
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And I said my answer already. Men date down because they don’t mind fucking over their ex wife in the event of a divorce. They have zero issue leaving her impoverished. Even their kids have to struggle. Men aren’t magically more romantic like you claim they are. They. Just. Don’t. care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:30 AM
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Men date down not due to virtue, but because they don’t mind destroying the life of their ex wife if they grow bored and decide to have an affair or experience a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:23 AM
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Are you willing to pay alimony and child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:12 AM
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So despite virtue signaling that you don’t mind “dating down”, the reality is that if a woman isn’t at your level or higher, you will royally screw her over and leave her to the poor house if she doesn’t make a robust enough income to support herself and to match yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:11 AM
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Yet you also don’t want to pay alimony or child support. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 05:05 AM
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That’s a male activity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:13 PM
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I don’t care what you label me as. It isn’t a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:28 PM
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Why were you sending her your nudes if you were in a sextorsion scam?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:07 AM
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Mine hits harder, is more accurate, and applies to the men of Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:42 PM
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Why would you contact her at all? I say this with kindness. Talking to her is just going to make you feel like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:18 PM
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Why would you contact her at all? What exactly was so important? Leave the past in the past instead of dwelling on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:10 PM
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It sounds like you were both incredibly immature and if it was 15 years ago you need to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:43 PM
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It sounds like this was just normal kids being childish. 18 is still very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:45 PM
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How was she a woman if you were in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:32 PM
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It doesn’t happen that frequently but it is their expressed preference. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:31 PM
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Because she made it extremely clear that she was into you, and you likely just communicated rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:14 PM
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And asking someone if they want to have sex with you is extremely blunt and clear. “Not a single soul told” you because not responding or saying “yes” is a pretty clear way to communicate rejection and they likely just assumed you were rejecting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:13 PM
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Your wording is confusing and unclear. Don’t be condescending and say “oh you didn’t read both sentences” when you were unclear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:11 PM
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Every man on earth wants an average 20 year old woman. Your grandpa does. Your great grandpa does. Your dad does. Etc. also this is a rhetorical “you”. Men don’t want their age matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:08 PM
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Stroking your dick is SA and she shouldn’t have done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:06 PM
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Wait so you discussed your CSA history (sorry to hear) and their response was to ask you if you wanted to have sex? That sounds hella toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:05 PM
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Someone straight up asked you if you wanted to have sex, and you’re resentful that no one told you that this person was attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:04 PM
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Why do you brag about being a sociopath back? If someone asks you for money then LEAVE. And the OF creators who are advertising their OF pages on dating apps aren’t exactly going to meet with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:04 PM
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For men it is, hence the obsession with submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:02 PM
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Both are sociopathic and both are the same thing. I don’t have a special hatred for either or. I hate both equally. It’s not sociopathic if you both know it isn’t going to work out but you decide to have a short term relationship just for fun because you’re mutually attracted to each other. It’s not sociopathic if you both know that you’re with each other just to gain experience but you don’t realistically see each other long term. It’s not sociopathic if you thought things would go long term an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:54 PM
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But so are placeholder gfs, so what's the issue with practice gfs? It is a massive issue. Anyone who has a practice gf is a sociopath monster. Oh right, it's because women also do placeholder boyfriends and keep some men as backup options in case they don't find their ideal man, so it's not as bad huh? But because women don't do practice bfs (they don't need to), that makes practice gfs uniquely evil I guess. Knowing that a guy would say yes if you asked him out isn’t the same thing as intention…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:29 PM
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First of all, they aren’t realizing that the average man can get some benefits. Nope. They are realizing that they are being taken advantage of. Second of all, they are practically the same thing. A guy can fall in love with his placeholder and be content with her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:04 PM
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Men already do this so I am not sure why you’re acting like this is some newfangled solution. The term is “placeholder” and a lot of women are becoming more and more aware that guys use them for convenient sex and their presence until they find someone they actually want. This is why it’s so important for women to not pursue men, and to only date men who pay for the first dates and to withhold sex for an extensive period of time or until marriage. Also it’s important for women to be supportive, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:50 AM
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But what exactly are thy coercing the man to do? I already established that women can sexually coerce men, but you made it clear that isn’t the point you were making.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:39 AM
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So you’re comparing sexual coercion to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 04:16 AM
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And you say most YOUNG women are “attractive enough”. But most women aren’t young. The average age for women is nearly 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:58 PM
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No it’s because most men think they deserve someone thin, ages 18-25, and conventionally attractive even in their old age and even if they are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:58 PM
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That isn’t the biggest lament at all. Even ugly obese non sexy guys are entitled and demanding and believe they deserve casual sex. The biggest lament is usually that most men are losers and struggle with things like basic homemaking. Women already are hella realistic about looks. I think we should encourage men to be more realistic about looks. News flash: most women aren’t beautiful, slim, and in their 20’s and men should adjust their expectations accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:57 PM
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And that isn’t what she said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:22 PM
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Oh I completely agree. The vast majority of men hyper fixate on the skinny young (18-25) year old women who are pretty then have a tantrum when they get burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:22 PM
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Are you trying to dismiss sexual coercion as not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:19 PM
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Exactly. Most men don’t want most women and most men don’t find most women to be beautiful. Most men view being a polite and kind partner as degrading and to be “bullshit” and only see value in dominating a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:18 PM
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In summary, it these women aren’t attractive enough. Most men don’t find most women attractive enough to be relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:17 PM
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If he isn’t hitting on you, he thinks you’re beneath him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 07:24 PM
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Yes it does. It shows women love their agematch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:33 PM
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It’s from the OKCupid study and it directly contradicts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:23 PM
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It proves that women prefer their agematch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:28 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/px6knk3yn4tf1.jpeg?width=1410&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=08401cd508984c2e0861e286520c8a971671fa2d Statistics prove you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:11 PM
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So? Most men only ever get asked out by girls below their league. Men have options. Just not the options they want. Also, you’re proving me right. Women shouldn’t make a move on men because most men view the women asking them out as beneath and below them. If he isn’t asking you out, he views you as beneath him. It means that women know that they are unattractive. Yeah that's ~social media~ MEN for you. Be thankful that they're taunting you for being fat and not for being short. Women don’t taun…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:05 PM
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Didn’t you make multiple comments trying to claim that calling women “cum dumpster” isn’t an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:47 PM
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And women quickly get a reality check when: A) they don’t get asked out, meaning they are no guy’s first choice B) when they see everyday men online taunting and ridiculing women for their appearances or when they overhear “locker room talk” and they hear how much men mock and degrade women who don’t look perfect. See: men mocking fat women on meta. C) when the media shows women who look nothing like them as the standard of beauty D) when men aren’t very nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:37 PM
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Men can’t stand their agematch and want women who are young, slim, and attractive. There are only so many of those to go around and most men aren’t young and fit and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:33 AM
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Why is your lot’s solution to everything to encourage women to date less attractive men? And why does your lot seem to think that only attractive men tend to be flakey and hurt women? This forum and other redpill style forums reflect that a lot of bitter and insecure mean spirited bully men with a vendetta are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:15 AM
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They aren’t. It’s dehumanizing because of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:14 AM
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No. I think that casual sex with men dehumanizes women because men tend to view women who have slept with many men to be less than human.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:14 AM
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It’s still 75% of women who don’t. Lmfao. You aren’t proving anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:13 AM
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Most women aren’t into BDSM. https://gitnux.org/kink-statistics/ About 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in the U.S. have tried BDSM activities at least once A survey found that about 25% of men and 20% of women who engage in BDSM also identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:54 PM
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Clearly those women are not immensely advantaged if mountains of men just view them as cum dumpsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:37 PM
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So when I say that most men don’t find most women attractive, I am not a misandrist because I am repeating what men say. Most men being willing to have sex with most women doesn’t mean they actually find those women attractive, or at least attractive enough for anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:37 PM
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Do you dehumanize women who have casual sex then get all weird when these women feel dehumanized 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:33 PM
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Literally you have OP and multiple other men dehumanizing and devaluing women who have had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:29 PM
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Ooooooh most women understand this standard the problem is that you guys express it in the most degrading and offensive way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:27 PM
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Good for you that you wouldn’t get insulted by something insulting, but most would. It doesn’t take a degree to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:26 PM
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Almost hateful? It’s very hateful! But otherwise you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:24 PM
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No they generally don’t. Women are a lot more realistic about who they want to date than men are. Men tend to over inflate themselves and what they deserve. See all the men claiming that they will have harems of 18-25 year olds when they are 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:20 PM
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I mean it’s pretty parallel to what I said and what you said. You’re offended by the statement “men ain’t shit” yet you’re openly proclaiming that if a man doesn’t find a woman attractive enough (aka bottom 80% of women), then he will use her for sex. That’s pretty degenerate and manipulative and gross and sociopathic. I’m not sure why the conclusion of “men ain’t shit” puts you off when you’re basically saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:24 PM
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By saying uncomfortable truths that ruin the facade of virtue that men try to portray. Most men don’t find most women attractive. Most men just want to use women for casual sex. If a woman is the one pursuing a man, he just isn’t that into her, and will use her for sex just to get sexual pleasure. Let the man be the one pursing you. Even if she didn’t wait for sex in the past, women should wait for sex to avoid being used and pumped and dumped. Men should pay for dates in the beginning stages in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:47 PM
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“I call women degrading names and it upsets them. Why are women like this?”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:36 PM
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They aren’t taunting the men though. They are just saying facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:35 PM
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Why are you so passionate about taunting women who have bad casual sex in the meanest and nastiest way possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:34 PM
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Because you’re using it as a way to taunt and insult an humiliate women. Just because being used for casual sex is bad doesn’t mean that it’s justified to taunt and insult and hurt women who have had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:33 PM
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People generally don’t have in their vows things like “I’ll stay with you if you abuse me” or “I’ll stay with you if you refuse to work”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:55 AM
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That doesn’t sound like she was playing hard to get. It sounds like she liked the guy, then liked someone else, then decided she liked him. Instead of being weird, she can unblock him and say she was dating someone else and didn’t want to date multiple people at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:08 PM
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Why couldn’t she just unblock him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:07 PM
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