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Red Pill TheoryLaughing_Jelly_Bean/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 04:35 AM
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1

That's fine. Much better than getting a loan for a new car.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 07:05 PM
1

MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 04:46 PM
2

Marriage. Not even once.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 12:39 AM
1

will likely never experience this neuro-chemical high having taken the red-pill at such a tender age You will. You can meditate, relax, and learn to control your mind, but in a car accident, you will feel that rush of adrenaline. The dopamine and oxytocin of love are no different. How you handle that rush of neurochemicals is up to you, however.
/r/MGTOW26/02/14 04:23 PM
1

He goes through all this to get his revenge on her, then he just rolls over in the divorce? He just "wanted to be done with it"? That doesn't make sense. Also, with such a sort marriage, she shouldn't have "gotten half". They would have simply divided up the community property, and how much could there be after only two years?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 04:07 PM
-2

What does this have to do with RedPill? Nothing. That's what.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:23 AM
1

OP, I don't understand why you're bothering with Red Pill in the first place. What brought you here?
/r/askTRP21/02/14 03:59 PM
1

It is the same for everyone, just not to the same degree. Nobody will have the same sex drive at 70 that they did at 22. Nobody.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 02:03 PM
3

You stupid bot!
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 07:10 PM
18

No recovery necessary. She flaked. Next. Doesn't matter if you played it right or wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 06:24 PM
4

Just laugh. Take it as a joke. It probably is anyway.
/r/askTRP19/02/14 04:50 PM
2

I couldn't agree more.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 12:09 AM
1

Hate from me? No hate here. I actually think he'd get a pretty insightful response there.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 12:08 AM
12

I've pegged you for a chump. I don't think you have options with other women, and I don't think you're willing to walk away, so I'm going to frame this relationship on my terms. In my experience, the women are definitely worried that you'll walk away, but that doesn't change anything. Walking away still won't get you sex. They'll call your bluff. It's a relationship that can't work, but neither the guy or girl can see that. It's sad really, both can waste years and years of their lives on this t…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:56 PM
6

I would never date a woman if I knew she had 30+ partners.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 04:25 PM
2

I'll pass on the dick pic, thanks. I don't know what to tell you. Maybe try asking in /r/bigdickproblems. shrug
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 08:08 AM
6

I'm an average, maybe above average sized guy at ~7.5 inches length and good girth. Oh please.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 04:31 AM
1

Holy Hell! What kind of bullshit is this? And why post this in RedPill? This is more suited to /r/seduction.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:48 PM
4

Doesn't sound like you screwed up. Bang her next time.
/r/askTRP16/02/14 07:39 PM
-1

I would wait until he showed up at my house, and I would brain him with a baseball bat as soon as he walked in the door. Tell the cops I thought it was a home invasion.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 11:36 PM
2

See, this is how much feminism has colonized the male minds in the West. The greatest thing many men aspire to is being an unpaid prostitute to the most attractive women they think they can get. Can you imagine what would happen if we lived in a culture where guys like your cousin, even if bachelors, would disdain ever touching a divorcee? Excellent point. I wouldn't ever get involved in a situation like that.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 06:19 PM
0

Hmm...this is likely a troll.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 08:35 PM
1

Thanks! I was just going to ask your height and weight. I don't think you've mentioned it before. /s
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 07:33 PM
1

Steroids? If he wanted to pick a username related to steroids, you'd think he'd fine a better one.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 04:04 PM
5

I was hoping your origin story would explain your user name, GayLubeOil. So what's the deal with the username?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 02:48 PM
5

What's with all these Dictionary Police? If I was talking about a very fat person, and called them an "elephant", nobody would say "Well, it's actually just a fat human, not an elephant. You're using the wrong word." If OP said, "She's literally a whore", then I would understand the correction.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 10:25 PM
-1

Do kino. She'll get the hint pretty quickly, and she'll either accept it or reject it.
/r/askTRP12/02/14 06:32 PM
9

so what do women do when they don't get what they want? They become angry.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 05:25 PM
14

Hmm... It doesn't sound like these people are your friends.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:50 AM
1

Wait. You're saying that there's no sexual tension with orbiters? How can a woman string a man along without flirting and sexual tension?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 11:50 PM
1

These types of stories are great as cautionary tales. Beware of women, and don't give anybody the benefit of the doubt. But this guy is an idiot. He could have fought in various ways. He could have pressed charges for fraud and sued for damages or had her imprisoned. I would definitely have insisted on partial or even full custody.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 11:36 PM
4

Now you all we say it will all change, but you don't know me. If him and I where ever to get a divorce, which I hope never happens, I would never take what is not mine, I wouldn't strip in dry. I would only hope that if we divorce it was mutual and if not we I would still treat him right, because that is what he did all those years, before he decided to pull the plug. I couldn't rip him of everything he has, just not right. You should sign a legal document (pre-nup) to that effect.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 05:58 PM
2

Don't think for a minute she wouldn't leave you if the situations were reversed. Definitely true!
/r/askTRP31/01/14 12:57 AM
3

You come off as somewhat jaded. A lot of this stuff comes off as somewhat jaded actually Jaded seems like an appropriate adjective. I'll agree with that. Why not just be a real person and hope to meet another real person that you click with and want to spend your life with? Because that person truly doesn't exist. Why not hunt for a unicorn? Because you'll never find one.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:31 PM
1

It gives you access to her friends, but you should never let her know what you're doing or she will cockblock for sure.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:18 PM
9

He's 6 ft 225 lbs. He mentions that in almost every post.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 01:55 PM
2

Don't get married.
/r/askTRP28/01/14 06:50 PM
3

But I want it to only be open for me, and for her to be loyal to me. Why?
/r/askTRP28/01/14 06:49 PM
6

Exactly. And purposely upsetting women is not very different from avoiding them, is it? Ignoring women is "sad", but antagonizing them is what, heroic?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:34 PM
1

So, just like the client now told me how they are no longer going to do business with me. So, by not providing them with an entitled laden refund, I am going to lose their thousands of other dollars that they were going to use (and no doubt find ways to be a pain in my ass the whole time when they didn't do their part). 100% agree. It's best to drop customers like this ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:30 PM
-1

I would have said, "No dignity? Oh my God, I just meant a sexy smile or something. You got a dirty mind, girl!"
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:28 PM
1

Just tell her to knock that shit off.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 03:11 AM
6

That's some pretty sweet concern trolling, OP.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 03:05 AM
16

She tells me it's her birthday, so I bought her and her friend a beer each (I know this is against TRP, No it isn't. Not like that. The problem is buying her a drink just because she asks. I do a quick reality check: Imagine the person is a guy. Would you buy him a drink in the same situation? If so, then you're ok. The problem is buying someone a drink for no other reason than they are female.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:28 PM
1

The final necessary step to Redpill is taking charge. Have you taken charge of the relationship?
/r/askTRP25/01/14 07:57 AM
0

There's nothing to explain. You have a misconception about the Redpill. You think we are saying that all girls are sluts and hypergamous. But what we are actually saying is that all girls can be sluts and/or hypergamous. It's not that a woman can't be faithful, it's that a woman is only faithful until she isn't. Not that a woman can't love a man, but that she only loves him until she doesn't anymore. All these romantic feelings and love are fleeting. Do not put your faith in them.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 03:51 PM
4

Abby's basic advice: Beat the women over the head with the fact that you'll never marry them.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 04:36 AM
3

I've experienced this a few times over the years for whatever reason: busy, in a relationship, didn't like the girl even though she was attractive, ...etc. If you start out ignoring her, she'll just ignore you back. The game hasn't started yet, you're just two strangers. She meets strangers every day - you don't really enter her consciousness even if she's attracted to you. If she throws a couple of flirty signals your way and you ignore them, she may get a sour look on her face, but she'll just…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 01:55 AM
4

I think their motivations are more complex than just whiteknighting. First and foremost, this whole thing is a publicity stunt. For all they care, they could have set fire to the money, as long as it brought new viewers. Secondly, I think they are trying to send the message that they are not misogynists. They like having sex with women and women like having sex with them. Third, giving the money to an individual woman was kind of a fuck you to the breast cancer charity. Whiteknighting or just ma…
/r/MGTOW23/01/14 01:39 AM
9

What the fuck is this crap? This is a great way to never have sex.
/r/seduction22/01/14 07:24 PM
6

Don't do any of those things, just let the budding relationship quietly die, and find another girl.
/r/askTRP22/01/14 02:42 PM
0

That's actually not bad advice, although it could have been said better. If someone tried some obscure insult on me, like "OMG, your middle toe is too long", I'd just look at her like she's crazy and shrug.
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:38 PM
4

Should I just avoid contact? Yes.
/r/askTRP19/01/14 04:47 PM
4

I've only slept with two people in the past seven years, That's the answer you should give the next time.
/r/askTRP17/01/14 06:10 PM
1

Oh, I didn't know that. How many diamonds have you found?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 12:00 AM
6

"Of course they exist. I have one, and so do most of my friends. I'm friends with a few single ones. My mother is one." (an actual comment). Yeah, I saw that one. That's like saying, "Diamonds aren't rare. Every pebble I pick up is a diamond." Too funny!
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 02:57 PM
1

Should I just never bring it up again, and hope it just works out? Yes. This.
/r/askTRP15/01/14 10:24 PM
6

Well, I think your problem is that you made a big decision. You don't need to commit to it so hard. Just tell yourself that you're waiting for the perfect woman. And since such a thing doesn't exist, it'll all work out.
/r/MGTOW13/01/14 04:21 PM
3

Never in the face. I'd probably slap her back if she did that. But I often get a punch in the arm, or a slap on the ass. That doesn't bother me. I usually laugh.
/r/askTRP12/01/14 09:18 PM
1

Is perpetually avoiding a LTR a bad idea? No. Why would it be?
/r/askTRP12/01/14 09:16 PM
5

If a chick did that to me, I'd consider it flaking, and I'd expect an apology or for her to make it up to me somehow.
/r/askTRP12/01/14 09:11 PM
5

The reporter didn't say anything wrong. Apatow and Dunham are putting words in his mouth.
/r/MGTOW11/01/14 05:26 PM
3

Don't shit where you eat. Don't hit on girls at your place of employment.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:26 PM
1

I second this. Cut your losses.
/r/askTRP10/01/14 06:35 PM
1

I had decided to end all contact with her and ignore her texts but now I am unsure. I think that's a good decision. Now you just need to find the willpower to stick with it until you forget about her.
/r/askTRP10/01/14 06:29 PM
1

You just want to cuddle? Isn't that where your relationship is going with her anyway? Sounds like you don't have to do anything, just let it flow.
/r/askTRP10/01/14 06:27 PM
3

Good analysis. I think you got it 100% right.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:03 AM
8

When I was 17, I was locked in a classic male power struggle with my step dad. Ah. That explains a lot.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 03:35 PM
1

I predict that things will not end well, and that's why he should have avoided sex with his ex. These kinds of things get very messy very fast, and you can't just "next" your ex-wife and the mother of your children. No bitterness here. I wasn't suggesting it as a way to punish her, but rather as a way to protect himself. Of course, we'll never know, because I doubt that OP will keep us updated.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 02:27 AM
5

The entire situation can be explained by her solipsism. Even if the divorce is amicable, it still takes its toll on the Ego. She's feeling a little down on herself and need a pick-me-up. The ex-husband was the easiest to get sex from, I'm assuming she is trying to (or is) bed many men. Once her Ego bounces back, she'll drop him like a sack of potatoes. After the divorce, he should have refused her sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:32 PM
1

That's true, including MGTOW's. Yet you do not seem to be accepting of that.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:14 PM
1

Well, I'm happy for you then, but I don't think the average redpiller would consider your marriage situation to be ideal, or even desirable.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 05:28 PM
2

Oh? You found your Unicorn, did you?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 06:58 AM
4

Like the others said, it doesn't matter if she is playing hard to get or if she is just playing mind games or if she's doing something else. If things aren't going your way, just find another girl.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 01:34 AM
1

is that it is about, among other things, what a woman uses her vagina for? What? No. That's quite a strange conclusion to draw from all this. It's about picking a suitable mate. (it's about other things too, but this is what pertains here.)
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:23 PM
2

The more partners, the more likely she is to cheat, and the less likely she is to stick through the tough times.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:19 PM
1

Ha! Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 03:29 PM
8

So much for enlightened, intelligent women in the redpill movement. I've stopped looking for unicorns long ago. You should too.
/r/MGTOW03/01/14 04:46 AM
1

She sounds like a ballbuster. Not my type of woman, but hey, some guys like that.
/r/askTRP03/01/14 04:41 AM
2

Is it some sort of test? Most definitely. But exactly what she hopes to accomplish is unclear. Maybe she doesn't even know herself; she's just tossing chum into the water and watch the sharks feed.
/r/askTRP03/01/14 04:39 AM
11

I can't imagine anyone signing something like that. There's no leverage to make the man sign.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 02:44 AM
1

No offense OP, but I think you came to the wrong place for advice. Our Worldview is very different from yours. But since you asked for advice, here's what you should do: follow your own path and don't be afraid to let the girl go.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 05:05 PM
1

Now, I'm not all too butthurt if it's over; but what's the best way to deal with this situation? Why are you asking us? What do you want to do?
/r/askTRP30/12/13 01:42 AM
0

That's the way it is. You are correct. But few will listen.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 08:16 AM
7

Sleeping around is fun for about a year or two. Then, casual sex becomes predictable, uninteresting, and one slowly begins to embrace MGTOW I'm pushing 40, and I agree 100%. Thanks for posting this. I was just about to post something similar.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 07:34 AM
1

I didn't really do anything to mess with her. It's like this: Picture your situation as a movie and you're watching it. You can relate and you're involved. Now watch that same movie for the second time. You can now laugh at certain scenes for the dialog rather than the emotions. It's like that.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 07:31 AM
2

Really? Red Pill Women endorse this point of view? ...or am I missing the sarcasm?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/13 05:35 PM
2

I would have loudly stated I was a feminist and believe women can stand just as well as a man. Awesome! I probably would have said something similar like "Oh, do you want the glass ceiling back too?"
/r/askTRP27/12/13 11:30 PM
3

The short answer is to next her. All the comments are correct. I'm quite a bit older than you, and I had a similar thing with a woman recently. However, I knew exactly what was going on, and I stuck around for the entertainment value of it. You can do that to, if you enjoy her company. But if you start feeling any disappointment or mind-fuck, then it's best for you to just break ties to preserve your sanity and dignity. You'll never get what you want from this girl.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 11:14 PM
5

Finally, you need to internalize that women and sex are not the answers to your happiness. Sex is good but it is a means of instant gratification, true happiness comes from finding peace from within and that only comes from achievement, self-worth and self-improvement. Working on inner-game and overall attractiveness for the sake of women defeats the purpose of TRP because the happiness you seek is not a satisfactory one. Striving for more/better sexual partners is an egotistical endeavor wherea…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 04:09 PM
7

I don't see there being anything you can do with this girl. She next-ed you, right? In the future, don't spend so much time with any given girl. That'll help you avoid oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 06:51 PM
1

Yes. This guy gets it.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 06:31 PM
2

If he's not saying these things in front of you, then it's just gossip. Don't react to gossip. If you do hear him say these things, do whatever you want. There's no right answer here.
/r/askTRP25/12/13 06:05 PM
3

This is the best answer. True redpill.
/r/askTRP25/12/13 06:00 PM
0

Since when do you need a reason to get blackout drunk?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 01:59 AM
2

Follow your bliss. Sometimes we have to be reminded of that. Sometimes we think a girl IS our bliss. But happiness can only come from within. I think you might be on the right path!
/r/askTRP12/12/13 05:39 AM
2

I know, I know. I have oneitis. I put a girl on a pedestal. See, here's the thing. You glibly acknowledge these things, but these are very important, very core things. Oneitis is a painful disease. Do not get oneitis. It's like you forgot to wash your hands in the airport and caught the flu, and you're asking us what you should do. You say "Yeah, yeah, I caught the flu, but it sucks. What should I do?" We can't help you. We can only tell you to make sure you don't catch it in the future. The onl…
/r/askTRP12/12/13 05:17 AM
1

I agree. The only thing he could have done in the moment was entertain himself. Get another drink from the bar. Walk around the bar looking at the decor, talking to people, watch the game, play pool. Or even take a walk around the block. Or he could have stayed at the table and checked his phone. Anything besides waiting for her to return.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 06:21 PM
8

The MGTOW path is essentially the rejection of the artificial system that our current society attempts to impose on male adults -- rejecting the indentured-slavery and loss of agency that cultures in their current manifestation are attempting to impose -- we refuse to take the culturally defined "paths" and instead choose to make our own path through the proverbial woods. Well said.
/r/MGTOW09/12/13 12:56 AM
6

Well, that's part of the redpill theory. Behavior patterns are instinct in many animals. Mating dances in birds, rutting in sheep and deer. etc. Redpill believes that humans are not exempt from this, and traditional gender behavior roles are as genetic as in any other animal.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 09:01 PM
10

Does this sub, subs like it, and it's supporters support traditional gender roles? If so, why, and why are other forms of gender roles invalid? Why should gender roles exist at all? Gender roles are instinctual and biological. Going against biology will just cause dissatisfaction. Does this sub have a problem with lesbians and transgendered people? No.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 08:31 PM
1

Why did he censor out the guy?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 05:16 PM
2

Why would you bother? Just forget about her as more than a study partner. Spend your efforts on the next girl.
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:09 PM
5

that wasn't dread game. it was throwing a hissy fit and making demands. I think it was a little bit of both.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 04:44 PM
2

Oneitis. One. If he has two of them, it can't be oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 04:43 PM
0

All 3 want to distance themselves from the other two.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 07:19 PM
1

In my experience, these "will they or won't they" situations never end up going anywhere. They're fun to watch on TV and in the movies, but in real life, they're just a pain in the ass. The moment you realize you're in that situation, get out. You'll have the least amount of regret if you do it that way. Don't burn bridges, because something might happen later, but for now, it's a no win situation.
/r/askTRP30/11/13 06:17 PM
1

blue pill
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 05:16 PM
2

Absolutely. You need to set firm rules for her behavior and enforce it.
/r/askTRP27/11/13 07:11 PM
-1

I think the linked post is probably a troll. Many of the comments talk about how mad they get reading the post. I think that was OP's intent. Troll.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 01:21 AM
3

Why can't you say exactly that to her?
/r/askTRP22/11/13 08:11 PM
2

Wait, you already had sex with her? Then who cares if she likes you or not?
/r/askTRP21/11/13 06:34 AM
10

Just keep doing what you were doing and pretend she never said anything. There's a good chance she'll leave. Let her.
/r/askTRP21/11/13 05:43 AM
1

I've tried that. It doesn't work. The girl said no to me dating her friends, but still just wanted to be friends with me and nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 03:11 AM
-5

The whole situation you described is dangerously close to one-itis.
/r/seduction13/11/13 05:11 PM
1

This is kind of an odd request. I think the answer is related to what this small group will be doing. With such small groups, the leader is often the one who puts in the most work with planning activities, etc.
/r/askTRP11/11/13 07:54 PM
1

I saw that thread earlier. Very entertaining, even if it is an obvious troll.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 05:39 PM
0

Seddit is more than 'working' on women alone. It’s about self development. It really isn't. It's about picking up chicks. Seduction.
/r/seduction05/11/13 03:32 PM
2

Exactly. Seddit. I was going to say the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 05:12 PM
3

This is one of the few true redpill comments in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:47 PM
1

You have just confirmed what I always knew deep down. It's good to be reminded every now and then.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 05:20 AM
2

Drunk sex =/= rape.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 05:36 PM
6

everybody who has something to lose by this accuser's identity being disclosed is swearing up and down that this is the wrong woman. LOL Exactly!
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 03:15 AM
0

I agree. OP is trolling.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 06:46 PM
38

Always deal with it the same way, relationship or not. If it's really important, she'll tell you and not play that game.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 04:27 PM
1

It's not her fault. I hope you're joking.
/r/seduction20/10/13 03:33 PM
-5

OP, did you tell your friends about it? Because if you didn't, it seems to me that you can pull the "wasn't me" card. Just say, "wow she doesn't remember the evening? I wonder who she went home with because it wasn't me. Poor girl."
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 05:08 PM
3

I've experienced this same pattern at least twice. One girl who did this, I continued to pursue, and she would just repeat this pattern again an again. That one was just playing head games. I think she like teasing too much, like to an insane level. The other might have had a boyfriend. I suspected and asked, but she always denied being in a relationship. shrug Who knows?
/r/askTRP09/10/13 12:20 AM
1

Here's what I do: I don't quite ignore her. I don't give her the cold shoulder. Instead, I pretend it never happened. She never flaked, but I also never made plans with her. We're back to square one. I'm friendly, but the intimacy level drops back down. This always results in the girl becoming very angry. LOL
/r/askTRP08/10/13 12:28 AM
2

IMO, he should have taken 25 minutes and never returned with the drink. Said he forgot and she's a big girl. I agree. He could have said, "Oh, I thought you just wanted me to leave so you could talk about how sexy I am with your friends."
/r/askTRP06/10/13 10:30 PM
5

Or when guys provide girls with answers and solutions to their problems, instead of providing emotional reassurance. Guys can be just as clueless as women. I'm well aware of this fact, but I still provide answers and solutions because the are a means to improvement, while emotional venting is not. I'm not going to give someone what they want, I'm going to give someone what they need.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 10:56 PM
3

I agree with both, but I think #2 is a bigger factor than #1.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 02:44 AM
7

Well, if he got a blowjob, then I have to give him some credit.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 02:43 AM
3

Eventually, you're going to have a bad time. It may be fun at first, but it won't end well. And it will end in a worse way that your average girl.
/r/askTRP23/09/13 07:52 PM
8

100% agree. I think this is the best response in the thread.
/r/seduction19/09/13 02:39 AM
3

What do you mean by "progress"? Getting laid? It's a numbers game. In the beginning, you have to approach 100 girls to get 3 (real) numbers. As you get better, you approach 100 girls to get 10 numbers. But you always do many, many approaches. It's not magic. It's persistence.
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:27 AM
1

I think you were right to leave. I don't know why you bothered answering her texts. She does not sound like a quality woman.
/r/askTRP16/09/13 03:50 PM
5

I always assumed that there's some level of prostitution involved.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 10:26 PM
3

I don't know how old you are, but sex drive decreases with age. That should be some comfort for you. If you see a beautiful woman and you find yourself uncomfortably attracted to her, just look for her flaws, both physical and character flaws. That should temper your attraction to her.
/r/askTRP10/09/13 10:17 PM
5

As an aside, I wonder how many of those men regard themselves as her "ex-boyfriends". LOL. Good point!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 08:12 PM
1

He said he would give up an update, but instead he [removed] the thread. I'm guessing it didn't go well.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 03:34 AM
4

One last thing, you do not have to explain the details of why or how this works with her. You do not ever need to explain, rationalize or defend how you arrive at your behavior. Telling her something like well these guys on reddit said this.. yeah, not so smooth. Act according to your own wisdom, you do not need to explain. Exactly. I was going comment with the same advice.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 02:49 PM
6

I've always taken it as a warning sign. Never regretted doing so.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 07:42 PM
2

so it would be nice to find someone who can challenge you intellectually, I don't recommend that at all. Over time, intellectually challenging becomes argumentative and contrary. Better to find that elsewhere, not from your wife.
/r/askTRP27/08/13 08:47 PM
3

I'm always open to fashion advice, but I just can't believe that an outfit like this would impress women. http://masculine-style.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/IMG_3896.jpg
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 10:39 PM
4

Good call.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 02:51 PM
1

You're asking a very broad question. We don't have any information on your relationship. I think you'd get a better response with a more specific question. But in general, my advice is the same for everything. Start small.
/r/askTRP13/08/13 09:26 PM
1

And I have no idea why I was playing fucking mind games with her, I hate that shit personally too yet I was doing it and rationalizing my weak behavior under the guise of having fun. But it is fun. You get to play "super-spy" for a while. Personally, I wouldn't have played it as mean or heavy-handed as you did, but I would have taken the opportunity to mess with her a little, too. Just for laughs.
/r/askTRP11/08/13 04:48 PM
5

If I break up with a girl, I make sure it sticks. Nothing more beta than going back to a girl after you broke up with her.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 05:36 AM
-3

I think she will either change her mind once that biological clock starts ticking, or she's lying.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 04:22 AM
2

Sounds like this guy's standards are too high. I can relate to his situation, but I think it's more accurate to say: No woman that I'm willing to date will date me.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 04:04 PM
-2

Move on to an easier target. Who wants to spend time with a girl like that?
/r/seduction25/07/13 01:45 AM
15

What about make-up, high heels, hair-do's?
/r/seduction03/06/13 06:33 PM
1

Poor guy is probably just forgetting to hit the shift key. It's a typo, that's all.
/r/MensRights30/05/13 02:57 PM
8

Two partners a year for 25 years implies that she is not suitable for a LTR. If I were hiring an employee and his resume showed that he was at each of his previous jobs for less than a year, I would assume that trend would continue...
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 10:57 PM
2

Good tips. I've found the same things.
/r/seduction09/05/13 10:43 AM
2

She's just not the type to respond to push/pull. It's ok. The next girl will be.
/r/seduction08/04/13 09:22 PM
2

If you are attractive, don't bother with negging. You'll just seem like an asshole.
/r/seduction08/04/13 08:55 PM
1

Texted a bit that night but I decided I would lay off of her a day or two before talking about meeting up for something more private. Why did you do this? I think this is what turned her off. Then when you contacted her again, you didn't bother to explain your absence. Not all game works on all women.
/r/seduction08/04/13 08:47 PM
0

Perfect!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/13 06:05 PM
1

Hmm...Is this a shit test? Or you haven't built enough attraction. I would say you should continue to flirt with her without mentioning the date. Then, earlier on Friday, confirm with her.
/r/seduction27/02/13 12:19 AM
1

If it's a pure cold approach, then maybe you might get a number 3 times out of 10. If there are obvious signs of interest before your approach, that number might be a little better, but you won't be doing as many approaches. *edit: In a bar, doing cold approaches, personally, I'd be happy with a 10% success rate.
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:12 AM
1

What do you mean? The sedditor should give some indication of their own attractiveness?
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:49 PM
0

tl;dr? I read the post, but I don't know what the question is. What's the problem? OP wants to sex an attractive girl? Yeah, no shit. So do we all! Or does OP have approach anxiety? Read the FAQs and the sidebar!
/r/seduction26/01/13 12:39 AM
0

Sounds like one-itis. Find another girl.
/r/seduction25/01/13 10:48 PM
1

It's a numbers game. Rejection happens at every step of seduction. We gotta be used to it, that's all.
/r/seduction25/01/13 06:38 PM
0

As interesting as this is, it smells like SPAM.
/r/seduction19/01/13 04:05 AM
1

Intimidating is a good thing. Play up the "badass" persona!
/r/seduction17/01/13 06:36 AM
0

Start approaching people you aren't attracted to, people you don't care about. Try to open a 90 year old lady. Try to open a woman with 3 kids. Get used to the mechanics of it. Get used to thinking of something to say. Get comfortable talking to strangers. When you're good at that, try with an attractive woman.
/r/seduction17/01/13 05:35 AM
3

I have never had trouble getting or talking to women, Then what's the problem? Why do you want women to look at you? Usually, people regard eye contact as an invitation to approach, but if you have no trouble getting or talking to women, then you don't need the eye contact, right?
/r/seduction14/01/13 05:53 PM
6

Eye contact. Smiling. Standing up straighter/sucking in his gut. Preening, grooming. etc. It's basically the same as female IOI's.
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:34 AM
1

Nothing went wrong. You'll probably have sex with her next time.
/r/seduction07/01/13 05:52 PM
2

To me, it sounds like everything she told you is bullshit. She's an attention seeker. You won't get what you want out of her. Run.
/r/seduction06/01/13 11:06 PM
0

I really don't exactly remember how he interrupted because I was drinking. I think they may have spoken for a little before I opened her. Could it be possible that you're misinterpreting the whole situation? Maybe you stepped on his game?
/r/seduction01/10/12 03:40 AM
3

Isn't this a strong hint that she's not interested romantically?
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:39 PM
1

Can't you just masturbate?
/r/seduction30/09/12 06:41 PM
1

Short answer: no.
/r/seduction30/09/12 06:38 PM
1

This happens to me all the time.
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:03 PM
-1

obvious troll is obvious.
/r/seduction18/08/12 06:46 AM
2

If you're not having a good time, just fucking leave. Yes. If I don't like a movie, I walk out.
/r/seduction18/07/12 01:32 AM
1

Field Report. It's in the glossary in the sidebar. GLOSSARY OF TERMS A-G
/r/seduction06/07/12 02:52 PM
2

If you pick her up, you're stuck with her. If you meet her somewhere, you can leave if the date doesn't go well.
/r/seduction22/05/12 02:30 PM
19

A successful first date gets you a second date.
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:05 PM
1

I think things went reasonably well, based on your story.
/r/seduction06/05/12 08:26 PM
1

You can try asking her again. If she flakes again, move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction06/05/12 08:21 PM
5

Just re-read this whole thing. I do sound like a total douche. Yeah, kind of.
/r/seduction18/04/12 01:41 AM
15

It starts off with good advice, but goes off the deep end... No sudden head movements. You're not going to impress anybody when you get hit in the face with a frisbee or tennis ball. LOL
/r/seduction08/03/12 04:57 PM
1

Maybe telling you that she was "seeing someone" is just a shit test.
/r/seduction25/02/12 05:17 PM
1

In my opinion, you are texting her too much. She might be feeling a little smothered.
/r/seduction16/02/12 10:22 PM
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