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[FIELD REPORT]LauraXVII/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 10:43 PM
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GIRL GAMELauraXVII/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 06:14 AM
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It depends how invested each person is in politics. Yesterday we had our general election here in the UK and myself and my fiancé voted differently and we had talked about it beforehand. Neither of us is that into politics, in fact we both think that the two main parties in the UK are dire, which probably helped a lot. One of my friends is incredibly into her politics and anyone who has a different view to her is wrong and she'll berate them non stop until they give up. I think in that situation…
/r/RedPillWives09/06/17 10:21 AM
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.... Is Grace really that bad of a name? There are some horrendous names out there and whoever made the picture chose Grace?
/r/MGTOW07/06/17 09:27 PM
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We definitely fall into the attached at the hip camp :) we both like gaming, cars and airshows... We're 3 and a bit years in and not bored of each other yet! The best thing about having the same hobbies is that we can have really in depth talks about what's going on and what we've heard/read/watched. Obviously we do separate things within those hobbies as well as doing joint things - we'll play different games when we're not gaming with our online team, we have our own cars that we work on etc. …
/r/RedPillWives21/05/17 06:14 AM
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It took about a year for me to know that my other half was "the one" but I think I'm an odd case as I started down the depression rabbit hole about 4 months into the relationship due to university
/r/RedPillWives16/05/17 05:34 AM
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We've always been honest with other about our appearances, but I think we're also honest with ourselves about it too which I think helps a lot with not getting offended. If I ask if he thinks that my bum looks big in something then it's usually because I think my bum looks big and that's usually because my bum looks big :(
/r/RedPillWives09/05/17 08:50 AM
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Myself and the boyfriend aren't engaged yet, but are planning on getting engaged in the next couple of months. I would be horrified of some skank tried to muscle in on our relationship and thought it was acceptable because I don't have a ring on my finger yet. It's rude, it's selfish and it makes you look like a sneaky entitled bitch to his current missus, her friends and family, but most importantly his friends and family. Not the best way to begin a relationship. Not only that, but if he'll ha…
/r/RedPillWives04/05/17 09:32 PM
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What in tarnation? 😂😂
/r/RedPillWives04/05/17 06:41 PM
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They look suspiciously similar to the dropshipped Chinese stuff from places like Sammy Dress which are cheaper and would be cheaper to ship over to the states.
/r/RedPillWives11/04/17 01:47 PM
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I use a sponge cloth for the sink & bath and then wet wipes for the toilet (which would probably work with damp toilet roll as well) and then flush them. Once the sponge cloth is getting old and dirty I just bin it. Don't have to wash it but it's a bit more economical than a fresh kitchen towel every day :)
/r/RedPillWives18/03/17 12:46 PM
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I have a part time work from home admin job, 24 hours a week. So I work 6 hours a day, 4 days a week usually 7am-1pm. Then I'll have a quick sweep around the house - tidy, laundry, load/unload the dishwasher etc, then I'll work on my online store until the boyfriend comes home at about 5pm We don't have kids yet, so I'm missing a hell of a lot more chores than if we had children, which means I have time to work on a business
/r/RedPillWives02/03/17 05:06 PM
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There's nothing stopping her from having a big lunch at work and doing her own laundry though
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 05:47 PM
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If he's agreed to help with the groceries and the laundry then leave them for him to do. Either he'll step up and take charge of it or he'll have nothing to wear and nothing to eat. That should be a light bulb moment for him hopefully
/r/RedPillWives13/02/17 09:43 AM
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Our anniversary is a week after Valentine's day so we don't usually participate, plus we're saving up for a house so we're being pretty strict with money. We'll do cards though I think we do have plans to stay in and do some co-op gaming, plus I've hinted at him getting me some flowers the day after Valentine's day when they're cheaper :)
/r/RedPillWives12/02/17 08:01 AM
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From another UK person, I usually wear two or three pairs of normal nylon black tights. I did air cadets for a while and they taught me that several lighter layers keeps you warmer than one thicker layer because they trap air in between the layers. Tried it with tights when I was in Iceland, and 3 layers of thin tights was a lot warmer than one pair of thermal leggings. Also putting a thermal vest underneath the dress and tucking it in to your tights will help, and I love a chunky cardigan over …
/r/RedPillWives05/02/17 09:35 AM
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I'm 24 and my other half is 29, we got together when I was 21 and he was 26. I'm the same as you, I got bored with guys my age cos I just felt they were immature. We're perfectly fine with our age gap apart from when we make references to childhood TV programmes cos there's a 5 year gap. I can deal with someone not understanding my Spongebob references though if that's the biggest problem we have!!
/r/RedPillWives18/01/17 06:40 AM
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Thank you all for making this community so lovely! It's done wonders for my relationship - we're planning on getting engaged and buying a house in 2017, neither of which I could have done if I was on the old path Hope you all have a wonderful new year xx
/r/RedPillWives31/12/16 09:09 AM
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I just got a couple of boxes of chocolates for Christmas from the doctors I work for, but by the time I got them, boyfriend had already gone to his parents for Christmas I've left them in the cupboard til we're both back after Christmas Definitely not as serious as some other replies in the thread but I really want those chocolates!!
/r/RedPillWives23/12/16 11:44 AM
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Too right. I recently left my PhD in Aerospace Engineering because I wasn't happy, and started a new part time job working from home, partly to gear up for when we have kids. Everyone just completely ignored the "I wasn't happy in aerospace" part and told me what a shame it was that it didn't work out, that there's plenty of aerospace jobs going and I'll find one soon etc etc It's like they couldn't figure out that I was happier being a stay-at-home girlfriend and that I needed a high flying car…
/r/RedPillWives21/12/16 08:31 PM
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I lost it at "fuck the patriarchy"... Doesn't sound very festive to me 😂😂
/r/RedPillWives08/12/16 04:29 PM
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Funny, but not sure I would regard it as "trolling"
/r/RedPillWives30/11/16 08:27 AM
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Yay congratulations!! :)
/r/RedPillWives20/10/16 04:43 PM
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I used to be on it when I was younger, it didn't agree with me, I has awful mood swings and depression, and I ended up getting pregnant and subsequently miscarried. Since then I've tried the injection and I'm currently on the implant and haven't had any emotional issues with either. I'm about to switch back to the pill however because on the other methods I have really heavy periods for 2 weeks every month which isn't ideal. I think everyone reacts differently to different methods but I'm not at…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 01:19 PM
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As a British lass who can't escape GBBO, I'd just like to point out that the guys are called smug - it's just that the word cunt is usually added to the end of it. This is the whole "guys aren't called bossy" business all over again. No, they're called assholes - would you rather be called that?
/r/RedPillWives23/09/16 05:07 AM
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I usually go for the "bottle it up" approach - I keep quiet and sane throughout most of the week and go out with a bang, which usually ends in tears and me sleeping for half a day. He just lets me get on with it and then I make sure I go apologise when I'm finished being a drama queen. If you're on some kind of contraception it might be worth changing it - I had zero PMS when I was getting the injection but now I'm on the implant I'm fierce during that week!!
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 07:37 AM
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As a RPW who's got 2 engineering degrees and is studying for a PhD, I certainly hope so otherwise I've wasted the last almost year on this sub!!
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 07:32 AM
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My Mum rambled on about the whole bossy thing and my counter argument was that no, guys who are bossy wouldn't be called bossy, they'd be called an asshole/wanker/twat etc. Bossy is not the same as being a strong leader. You can be a strong leader without rudely ordering people around - Bill Gates imo would be a strong leader without being bossy, Elon Musk is a strong leader and bossy, and he's been publicly called all of the above insults by previous employees. Women are jealous. I'm an enginee…
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 08:09 AM
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Yay I'm not alone!!
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:48 PM
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That helps a lot :) thank you! I'll try this next time she comes over
/r/RedPillWives12/08/16 07:22 PM
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I use YNAB (You Need A Budget) - they have it on sale on Steam sometimes, I got it for 75% off or something ridiculous. And it has a free mobile app so you can log your transactions on the move :) I've used it for years, couldn't recommend it enough!!
/r/RedPillWives12/08/16 06:59 PM
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Now all I have to do is figure out how to subtly give this to my mother without her taking offence at it!
/r/RedPillWives12/08/16 08:06 AM
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I didn't realise it was only a British phrase! TIL... EDIT: should probably explain why we use it - our waste disposal sites where all our household waste goes are known as "rubbish tips", or tips for short. If your something is a tip, then it looks like a waste disposal site :)
/r/RedPillWives09/08/16 05:44 AM
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The Good: Boyfriend turned round and said to me "you know, I actually properly feel that we're going to be together forever, that this is it"... He was half asleep when he said it, but I'm counting this as a win!! I had a work bbq on Friday afternoon which he came to, so now he's met all my work colleagues and it was one of his friends from work's leaving do on Friday and I joined for drinks after the meal, so now I've met all of his work colleagues. I feel like that's an important milestone rea…
/r/RedPillWives08/08/16 03:58 PM
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I love /r/entrepreneurship - partly because there's good advice, partly because it's motivation and partly because it's an interesting insight to how people behave when they're around successful people
/r/RedPillWives24/07/16 12:48 PM
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Firstly - I'm very jealous!! My hair is bust length and I've been trying to get it to grow longer for about 7 years now with no results :( My go-to hairstyle when I don't feel like having it down is a French plait - initially it takes a but of time to learn (YouTube is a godsend!) but when I'm in labs or exercising it keeps all my hair off my face which a ponytail doesn't, and it looks impressive
/r/RedPillWives20/06/16 12:50 PM
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I got really depressed while I was on the pill, it was pretty bad... I also put on a reasonable amount of weight. I've got the implant now and I feel a lot better but now my period is like a month long which isn't amazing haha I'm still on the hunt for something that works for me
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 02:59 PM
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Engineers have a tendency to be over-organised :P
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 03:04 PM
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I chat with 2 of my best friends over WhatsApp every couple of days I have lunch at university with my friend/mentor every weekday I briefly interact with people on Facebook if they post something interesting Once a month-ish we go to the pub with our group of friends for a catchup Once a month-ish we go to the pub with the aerodynamics/structures team of the project we're volunteering on and then once a month we have a team meeting which is more like a casual chat/catch up Every Monday, Thursda…
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 01:59 PM
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Definitely related a little too much to the 13 doughnuts/salad one...
/r/RedPillWives06/06/16 09:45 PM
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Boyfriend knows, he's a Redditor so he's aware of TRP, so I had to briefly explain that we're not aiming for the same goal as them. He doesn't really seem to care that much :)
/r/RedPillWives28/05/16 07:26 AM
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So I was in Paris last week for a workshop, and SO joined me for the Friday/Saturday/Sunday. We bumbled around Paris trying to squeeze everything in and I was getting tired, which in the past would mean that I would get grumpy. I successfully kept my cool and kept smiling, even though I injured myself getting off the train (clumsy doesn't cover it). When we got back to the hotel room he thanked me for not being grumpy even though I was tired. I even managed to keep my cool when we came home whic…
/r/RedPillWives23/05/16 02:09 PM
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Following on from /u/BeautifulSpaceCadet's heat protection tip - when you're straightening/curling your hair put a spray of leave in conditioner just on the tips. It stops the ends looking and feeling too straggly and straw-like :)
/r/RedPillWives13/05/16 09:42 AM
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I think it depends on the definition of spanking. My Mum used to hit me on the bum once, grab my wrist and tell me no, usually when I was running around breaking things. It was never hard enough to make me cry but it would stop me doing whatever I shouldn't. I think that's alright and depending on the situation I would possibly do that with my future kids. If we're talking about a proper bend over the knee and spank them til they're raw and screaming kind of deal then that's never alright and I …
/r/RedPillWives27/04/16 11:21 AM
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Follow the hope in your heart, not the fear in your mind My ex wrote that in my leavers book after secondary school (~age 16) when I was trying to figure out what I wanted to do with the rest of my life. It's stuck with me ever since :) Also You can never be over dressed or over educated - Oscar Wilde I think 2 degrees and a walk in wardrobe later I might have taken that one a little too seriously!!
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 09:19 PM
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I try and hold it in as much as possible but if something does slip out I just declare that "girls don't fart" as if we're physically incapable, and I don't ever admit otherwise. It became a running joke in my last relationship :)
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 06:51 AM
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Mature.
/r/RedPillWives21/04/16 12:42 PM
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I wish I could give more but I'm a broke student!! Hope you're both back on your feet soon Camille & M :)
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 04:01 PM
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Most of the garden centres I've been to have had some sort of cafe/tearoom, but this could be a different story outside of the UK!
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 06:10 PM
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So the UK has Mothers Day in March (no idea why it's different) but me and my sisters took Mum up to our local garden centre for afternoon tea and bought her a couple of plants and some decorations for the garden :)
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 05:39 PM
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I just use cheap remover from the supermarket but then I soak my fingers in soapy water for a couple of minutes afterwards and then use moisturiser afterwards. That way my nails are only in contact with the remover for a small amount of time :) I'm interested in a solution to the toenail issue too - my solution to that is to just keep them polished 365 days a year haha
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 01:33 PM
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What jackets/coats are you ladies wearing this spring? I have a Burberry Trench that got handed down from Mum, but some days it's a little too warm for a trench but not warm enough to not wear a jacket at all. Blargh. Any recommendations would be much appreciated :)
/r/RedPillWives18/04/16 07:21 AM
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Basically I told him after he'd brought me a hot chocolate while I was working in the computer lab. I said something along the lines of "Listen X, you're a really lovely guy but I'm only interested in being friends with you". He laughed and said that he only wanted to be friends too, and he was just being friendly. He did this for all his friends. It's one of those things that I replay in my head every now and again and cringe, and this was 3 years ago. We both graduated in July last year, and w…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/16 01:52 PM
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Congratulations, you're a sugar baby! Just a quick pointer - Red Pill Women is not the same as TRP, we want relationships, not to sleep around and bag ourselves a sugar daddy. You might have more success over at TwoX
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 06:51 AM
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I don't think anyone has mentioned this yet, but if you're still living at home and it's financially possible, you need to move out. Moving out matures you like absolutely nothing else in the world. I know several guys who have broken it off with girls because she didn't tell them that she lived with her parents, and they felt like they were dating a child.
/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 06:47 AM
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Don't tell your SO because then you have to explain why the best friend spent so long at your place when you were both drinking. Ignore the best friend, only talk to him in the presence of your boyfriend. If he asks why you're ignoring him, tell him that he overstepped the boundaries, he knows you wouldn't do anything because you're with boyfriend. EDIT: How old are all of you, just out of interest?
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/16 05:43 AM
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I know this is late, but I had a mortifying experience with someone who I thought was an orbiter but actually just wanted to be friends. Don't automatically assume that someone being nice to you is interested in you. Someone being nice might just be someone being nice. I'm in STEM too so I know how it feels and sometimes some guys act different to everyone else when they're around you but that might just be because they are different, if that makes sense
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 09:04 AM
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As a "woman in STEM", this comic always cracks me up
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 08:11 AM
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Awesome!! I'm working with Airbus on rapid prediction of loads at the early design stage. Catchy, I know haha... What about you? Love the username btw!
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 09:43 PM
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Just out of interest, where abouts are you in the UK? I'm in Bristol but I'm bumbling around the country regularly. If you ever need someone to properly talk or vent or cry to, let me know and we can grab a coffee or something :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/16 03:39 PM
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I'm not sure if they have this outside the UK, but going down the line of "classy magazine", I've been subscribed to Tatler for several years now. There are a reasonable amount of ads, but there's some good features in it, and it's usually about actually interesting people, like Princess Kate or people who own entire Formula 1 teams, rather than what Taylor Swift had for breakfast this morning :)
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 12:09 PM
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Awesome!! Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 11:07 AM
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Also if you're away for a couple of days, adding a little bit of hemming tape into the sewing kit has saved me several times. Last time I was away for a meeting part of the hem of my skirt gave up on life but I borrowed an iron from the hotel and it took me about a minute to fix :)
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 11:02 AM
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Yayyy another engineering nerd!! :)
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 09:05 AM
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Congratulations Ladies!! I'm Laura, I'm 23, and I'm a PhD student in Aerospace Engineering. I'm also a British RPW, which are pretty thin on the ground :( I'm currently in monk mode after a pretty traumatic on/off break up that spanned over six months, with the person who I genuinely thought I would spend the rest of my life with. I finally plucked up the courage to leave for good at the start of March I've been here for about 4/5 months now and even though I'm not in a relationship, the differe…
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 09:01 AM
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Yeah, definitely!! It's made me more concious about what I'm looking for when I'm finished monk mode as well... I need to choose someone who I'm actually attracted to rather than someone I'm just comfortable with. Another one of my downfalls haha
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 08:31 PM
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This is easily one of my favourite posts on here! My last two relationships have been dead bedrooms for the last few months of them, and it's definitely pinpointable(?) as one of the major reasons that both relationships ended. This is top of my "must improve" list when I eventually get into a new relationship, unfortunately it's a bit difficult to implement this advice when in monk mode haha Thank you for sharing again :)
/r/RedPillWives05/04/16 02:13 PM
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Thor's comment on Imgur is spot on... The problem is that women try to analyse men as if they're women
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 03:36 PM
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Happy Monday ladies!! The Good I've started swimming every Friday and joined a dance class that meets every Wednesday. When I was with the ex I never did anything for me, so this is pretty exciting! On a similar note I'm getting all my jabs done this week so that I can start volunteering at the local cat rescue centre. I love cats, but due to renting I can't have one, and I really miss that connection when I'm not at the family home :( I came back from a week up at the family home, and I'd done …
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 09:18 AM
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I like My Guy by Mary Wells :)
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 06:32 AM
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I'm not convinced... Having "dark triad" traits will probably influence several things such as social behaviour and posture, but the idea that being narcissistic influences your facial features? It seems pretty unlikely. Maybe their facial expressions, but not how high their cheekbones are or the thickness of their eyebrows. However, I don't doubt their findings that having such traits is typically more attractive, so less likely to experience dead bedrooms and hence have more children. Interest…
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 03:41 PM
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FUCK OFF, YOU HEADMATE-STARE-RAPING, GENDER-NORMATIVE SEXIST Can someone explain to me what headmate stare raping is?!
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 10:02 AM
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If I'm asked about it, I'll always answer honestly, but I don't usually go around dropping it casually into conversation where it's not relevant. To me, age is not an issue. I can't change it, so there's no point fussing about it or trying to hide it
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 02:47 PM
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If you're going to lie about something, at least make it something interesting rather than your age, like the fact you're a millionaire or you have a herd of miniature donkeys. Lying about your age is ridiculous, it isn't going to get you anywhere and at some point you're likely to get found out and all your credibility goes down the drain.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 02:16 PM
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Ooooh I've never heard of this before, I'll check it out... Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 11:44 AM
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I'll have a hunt around, thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 11:43 AM
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Unfortunately not - Im in the UK and the only one we have here is London, which is ~100 miles away... I do like the idea of women's organisations though, I'll have a look into it, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 05:48 PM
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I used to just give it a quick wipe daily with a cloth. It's a pain in the bum but I always thought the other option was bristly kisses and then I didn't feel as annoyed!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 05:06 PM
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I'm not quite sure how to phrase this so bear with me... I'm looking for somewhere/something where I can find the same kind of close knit community as a church. I'm an atheist so any kind of religious community is out of the question. We have the Women's Institute which is where groups of women get together to sew/make jam/do various activities together but from what I gather it's mostly over 60s and I'm 23... I hope this makes sense but I figured seeing as most of you ladies have more life expe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 05:04 PM
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Ish - both inside and outside... My car is old and has rust on it and there's a reasonable amount of scratches and scrapes on it As for the inside the back footwells are currently full of a spare wing mirror, water, oil, a tool kit and I have a bag of plastic bags in the boot (we get charged for them in shops now). There's a bit of compost in the front passenger footwell where one of my plants had a bit of an accident. It's clean enough that I don't have to rearrange the entire car if I wanted t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/16 07:26 AM
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My personal approach is to be friends/friendly with them (as apparently we have different definitions of "friend"!) But keep them at arms length. I meet up with my male friends probably once/twice a month and we don't usually talk in between. If you were looking to start dating someone who spent all their time with one girl, you'd likely end up getting jealous, or you just wouldn't bother because you'd feel like you can't compete. It's a red flag to guys to be so close with a male friend.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 08:15 AM
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Everyone's been there, it's a requirement when you start drinking! It could have been a hell of a lot worse, you could be posting on here about having drunk sex with him... I would send him a text as well, if you haven't actually said the words "I'm sorry" to him. As for the touching, I would try a playful dance out of the way, or if his hands are wandering upwards, grab them, put them on your hips and then kiss him. Some of the more experienced women might have better ideas about this though :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/16 12:40 PM
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Have you apologised? Just fire him a quick text saying "I'm really sorry about last night, I'm never drinking again lol/haha/laughing face" If he wants to talk about it, which he probably won't, then you're giving him an opportunity. If he texts back saying it's fine or whatever then drop it and move on. Only time will tell whether you can save the relationship, just try not to make it weird :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/16 12:02 PM
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That plot twist at the end though!! In the UK the same kinda thing happens, but the guys are up to no good equally as much as the wives are... Generally a good rule of thumb is avoid anyone who's involved with the military!
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 07:51 PM
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Coming soon to a Buzzfeed near you... Top 4 things the Red Pill Women subreddit believes
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 10:51 PM
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Miss Victorian England needs a lot stronger corset...
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 04:41 PM
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Weighing up what you said, I think we have different definitions of friends... For me, a friend is someone who I will see reasonably regularly and act friendly towards when I see them, rather than an acquaintance who I'll see at a conference maybe twice a year and talk exclusively about our research
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 10:20 PM
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I'll admit I chose my hobbies, you're not wrong there. But I've been in the situation where I've stopped doing hobbies or following interests because of a partner and it just led to me becoming unhappy and resenting them. There's a big difference between deferring to a partner, letting them lead the relationship and completely losing sight of who you are because your relationship completely consumes you
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 10:03 PM
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Normally I'd agree with you without question because you're one of the senior figures in RPW and that's what we're supposed to do. However, when I typically see maybe one or two females a day for less than a couple of minutes, what would you suggest that I do? Ignore everybody else around me for the other 23 hours and 56 minutes for fear of insulting/offending my OH? If I was a SAHM and was actively seeking a male friend then I could understand but when I'm around males for 60-70 hours a week am…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 10:00 PM
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I think it depends on the situation with those friends. I work in Engineering, which is male-dominated, and my hobbies are primarily male-dominated too - I volunteer at airshows and help restore old aircraft, I play video games like GTA and COD, I go karting etc. It's near on impossible to do any of these regularly without having any guys taking part (there's only one other girl I know in my city who karts regularly) so the idea of not having male friends at all seems absurd to me. The friendshi…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 02:37 PM
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I'm not sure a lot of guys are like that, I've never experienced it that badly before with other exes, but he didn't input into anything - what games we would play, what we were having for dinner, what we were going to do that weekend/evening... It got very exhausting after a while!! I did ask him about it once and he was like "I just want to do what makes you happy", which is nice but doesn't make it less infuriating!!
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 01:34 PM
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My ex was the classic beta, nerdy, good job, good bux, etc. The relationship didn't work because I ended up taking charge and that ruined the attraction for me and for him. I know that's my fault and my problem but all he would ever come out with is "I don't know, it's up to you" I couldn't see myself marrying him or someone like him, I would prefer to go for the classic alpha style male that I'm attracted to mainly cos I want kids and it's pretty difficult to get pregnant if you're only having …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 12:36 PM
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I'm now going into monk mode til at least October
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/16 07:02 AM
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No but yes if that makes sense... He's a really good friend and I didn't want to offend/hurt him but actually what his reply was was "alright, take as long as you need, I'm a friend first and I want you to be happy" So alls well that ends well :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 09:43 PM
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I had the same issue with university - I was going to go straight after school and do a 3 year degree and join the armed forces and blah blah blah. I ended up taking a gap year because I wasn't ready and I watched everyone else go to uni while I stayed home and got an office job. Most of my friends dropped out and now I have two degrees and am working on my PhD, while telecommuting to the office job I took during my gap yah to get extra money. Sometimes when you're looking at things that aren't …
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 06:09 PM
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Just to piggy back on the idea of a fitocracy group - I think a My Fitness Pal and goodreads group could be interesting/motivating too :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/16 10:28 PM
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actively fight mainstream ideas of gender equality. Some ideas. Not all. I'm an engineer and the idea that someone would downgrade all my work just because I'm female I'm a male-dominated industry horrifies me. RPW is about becoming more feminine in the appropriate situations, not all situations.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/16 01:39 PM
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Yeah he did, and we were officially back together in Iceland... When we discussed getting back together he lied and said there was no one else which I think is what I was most angry about. I definitely think you're right about it being too soon, I'll tell the other guy that I think I'm not ready for another relationship yet and see what the reply is. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/16 05:47 PM
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So last time I posted I'd got back together with the ex and we were about to go to Iceland. We did end up going to Iceland.... Where he spent the entire time texting another girl that he'd been seeing that I had no idea about. I was 100% right about him being a crappy captain, ex is very much an ex again. And this time no being friends afterwards. So.... The Good I went to Iceland! We saw the northern lights and got some lovely pictures and it was amazing! When me and the ex were discussing gett…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/16 10:44 AM
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Just out of interest, how many girlfriends do you have who you talk to reasonably regularly?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 08:38 AM
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I 1000% understand where you're coming from... I'm doing my PhD in Aerospace Engineering having done a bachelors and then getting sponsored through my postgrad masters. I'm not going to lie, it is tough but they have to make the course tough to make you into a better engineer. The way a bachelors was explained to me was the first year was making sure you wanted to do engineering, second year was properly pushing to see if you have what it takes to be an engineer and third year makes you into the…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 09:47 AM
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Finally someone gets it! I hate people who talk about the wage gap. I'm doing my PhD in Aerospace Engineering, and I'm paid the same as all the guys who are doing a PhD. You know why? Cos we're doing the same job. My best friend however works in Boots and is constantly complaining about the wage gap, how little she's paid etc. There are only women who work on her store. Then if you think about Admins, Secretaries, HR, they're usually female and will obviously be earning less than the main workfo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 07:01 AM
2

Yeah definitely!! I'm not sure if this is a thing in America but we sometimes have bookshops which have a coffee shop inside them, and that's usually a higher calibre of people than your average city centre Starbucks
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 02:06 PM
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I'm from Bristol in the UK, some of our coffee shops can be pretty hipstery but generally they're not :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/16 07:39 AM
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Oh boy do I have an update this week.... The Good Me and the ex are almost back together after a six month break. I'd somehow managed to convince myself that this guy who I have so much in common with and who I was almost inseparable from even though we'd broken up wasn't Laura's captain material when actually it was me that wasn't first mate material. I've been thinking about it for a while and we've discussed this in great detail for the last couple of days and we're almost at the point where …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 04:04 PM
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Coffee shops!! Get all done up super cute and hang out in the coffee shop near an area where you suspect the type of guy you're after would be (for me that was the financial district during work hours), then wait... It's almost foolproof. Almost! EDIT: doing something like reading, or knitting etc. No laptop/tablet/phone and no headphones, it doesn't give off an inviting vibe. Also if you look around every now and then and smile at guys you find attractive that makes you look more available than…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 03:52 PM
2

So absolutely non-rpw related, but I'm listening to Chris Hadfield's An Astronauts Guide to Life on Earth atm and it's great :) On a more RPW note, I saw this link posted somewhere on here/on the IRC, you could see if any of these are on audible: http://www.thefemininewoman.com/2010/01/50-must-read-books-for-women-by-renee-and-melina/
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 05:43 PM
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I'll be more careful in future :) thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 10:08 PM
1

Yeah I'm very concious of us hanging out one on one, usually it's in a group when we go to the pub so it's less of an issue!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 09:38 PM
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We're still friends :) we only broke up because he wasn't a particularly good captain (not that I knew what a captain was back then) but there was no hard feelings so we still keep in touch
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 09:22 PM
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My ex came round for a chat on Sunday and he said "this place is so clean - what happened to you?" We used to live together and I was such a slob and it was awful, but that reaction when he stepped in the door really made me feel like I'm on the right track :) unfortunately there's no relationship related compliments to report cos I'm single but baby steps!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 06:24 PM
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Oh god, I feel you on the nootropics there... I tried them a year ago but the best method I found was waking up to study at 3am when there was no one to distract me and just drink lots of tea to keep me going :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/16 09:12 PM
2

So this isn't specific to your desired look, but I changed my entire look a couple of years back from frizzy greasy hair, hoodies and baggy jeans to the "classic" style (think breton stripe top and trench coat) so I thought I'd pitch in with some things I've learnt This is going to take a lot of time. You're not just going to be able to put on the dress in the picture and look the same as her - it'll take hours of wardrobe planning, a lot of analysing your best and worst features, analysing what…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/16 11:08 PM
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Daily Brush teeth morning & night/floss night/mouthwash morning Make up Shower (not necessarily in that order) Every 3 days Wash Hair (I cycle through using John Frieda blonde shampoo & conditioner//Tresemme whatever was on sale//Aussie colour mate) Shave Remove make up with cleansing wipes Moisturiser Weekly Check eyebrows - pluck if needed Check fingernails/toenails - cut if needed If there's a guy in the picture, lady gardening Every 2/3 months Hair highlighted and cut I think mine is pretty …
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 10:21 PM
1

So /u/cakeforallofyou brought up earlier that she was thinking about buying random stuff for Lent and it's such a good idea that I'm stealing it :) I'm so awful at budgeting, it's definitely something I need to improve on - I have £6.05 to last me 2 weeks because I spent my money on a holiday to Iceland at the end of February. Which is super exciting but realistically I can't afford it... I think as part of that I'll start bringing lunch into uni/work as well to save some pennies, not that I hav…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 10:12 PM
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I gave up my Facebook in January - I just needed a couple of weeks where I didn't feel like I was playing catch up to everyone else... I haven't been back on apart from to stalk my friends ex at her request because he'd blocked her. I just feel so much happier in general which is stupid because it's just a website but it has such an awful affect!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 10:05 PM
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If you're feeling lonely I would recommend joining a couple of societies - I currently do a yoga class and go to a weekly astronomy group meeting. It's really interesting, and it gets me out of the house and talking to new people, otherwise I'd just be sat alone watching YouTube or Netflix every evening!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/16 11:15 PM
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How to do basic housework - 19 year old me moved away to university not knowing how to use a washing machine and not knowing how to cook, so for the first semester I ate microwave tv dinners. Blech. Also a lot of ladies have said lead by example - I love my Mum to the moon and back but she's messy and she's a hoarder. I think she's almost lead by anti-example here but I never ever want my house to reach the state that hers is in!! EDIT: This sounds like my mother is useless, she did teach me a l…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 10:14 AM
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That entire article was so cute I thought I was going to vomit! But in my opinion yes, Dee would be a great example of a RPW :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 09:53 AM
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My ex bought me a graphics card for my birthday last year (hear me out). I'd just spent a reasonable amount of money building a desktop computer that I could run my engineering programs on but also that I could game on. GTA V was about to come out and I was gutted because I couldn't afford both a graphics card and the deposit for my new flat... Birthday rolls around and I realised he hadn't asked what I wanted so when he handed me the present I was a little worried!! When I opened it the box was…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 03:29 PM
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How do you plan to raise your "theoretical" child while working enough hours to be able to afford having a child?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 10:42 PM
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The Good Visited my best friend in London this weekend and we did touristy things and binged watched chick flicks and drank wine - as part of my monk mode I'm making more of an effort to visit my friends I've cooked actual real food all week and it's been amazing and not as time consuming as I thought it would be The Bad During previously mentioned wine drinking I decided it was a good idea to message my ex-friend with benefits. Luckily it was only "Hey :)" and he didn't respond, but his number …
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 06:56 PM
2

Unfortunately the landlord has decided the cat situation for me :(
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 06:43 PM
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To do lists :) nothing makes me feel better than completing it! Also I live on my own so if I don't cook/clean/do the washing then it's going to be me who ends up with nothing to eat or living in a pigsty or not having any trousers (which has happened a couple of times)
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 06:39 PM
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Just a warning - 18 year old me was also using the pull out method rather than condoms and got pregnant and subsequently miscarried even though I was on the pill. You gotta at least use one method of contraception and even then it's not 100% sound. Since then I've had the injection and I'm currently using the implant. I started having the injection because I was getting breakthrough bleeding on the pill and they were worried about it. It was alright, I had to have it once every 3 months and I ha…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 09:59 PM
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I think the main difference between a house and an apartment (judged by my apartment vs the family home) is the cleaning/tidying of the outside - which is normally done for you in an apartment block. Things like keeping the outside clear, gardening, window cleaning, making sure that the paint isn't flaking off etc. Also because houses are larger, you'll probably have more bathrooms and just rooms in general to clean and once you have children or pets the list of things to do just explodes!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 05:44 PM
2

My go to is either biscuits or cheese scones with butter, I live for them!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 05:40 PM
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True, there was this huge uproar in the UK when some chick got her boobs done on the NHS but paying for someone who has no self control to get a gastric band? That's perfectly fine!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 07:37 AM
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If you look at fatties as zombie fodder then it makes you a lot less angry about them, just a tip :)
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 07:35 AM
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Haha that's a good tactic!! Unfortunately my friend has no other hobbies or interests and has no kids and doesn't work so it's either boyfriend or whatever crap she's seen on TV or the Internet... I'm seeing it as an opportunity to increase my patience 😂
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:47 PM
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I like that idea!! Although I think actually the reason my friend is with this guy is because he's really manipulative and she's really insecure and that's a rabbit hole I'd rather not go down!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 03:44 PM
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I hate it so much! One of my friends phones me every week for over an hour to man bash, and when I ask why she doesn't find a new man the response is always "but he's really nice"... But she's never mentioned one nice thing about him to me. Lucky guy!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 02:29 PM
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Absolutely! Picking wisely is one of the things I'm very concious of as I've chosen badly in the past... It is lovely to hear you ladies saying nice things about your SO though, what I'm used to is my friends complaining about theirs!!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 02:10 PM
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I suddenly feel very single :( haha
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 02:02 PM
2

Wait a second. Do Americans get their own room in hospital?! In my head this was a UK hospital and it was a row of beds in a ward and they were going at it in front of that poor 14 year old girl 😂
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 10:57 PM
2

I love the judging your own SMV idea, it'd be interesting to see what the results are for that!
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 10:48 PM
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I fully relate to number 25, except I don't have a cat... Yet....
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 10:45 PM
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I feel like I'm listening to my Dad trying to be "down with the kids", this is so cringy!!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 01:24 PM
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Those pictures are pretty terrifying, it looks like a cult who ends up murdering anyone who doesn't look like them in an X Files episode or something 😂
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 04:32 PM
3

Oh god I've just painted mine neutral beige, brb gotta go take this off now!!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 08:38 PM
3

You're alarmingly angry considering it's just a post on the Internet 😂
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 04:26 PM
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Very well put! I think this post would go down well in RedPillWomen as well, a lot of the women on there don't tend to read TRP but it's definitely a beneficial post. Although maybe minus the "be the man in the relationship" bit at the end!!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 02:55 PM
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Much to learn you still have my young Padawan
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 02:54 PM
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Mine is blonde, but purely because I feel more comfortable as a blonde and it suits me best. Before I've been chocolate brown, red, ginger, auburn, black, that weird blue shade of black, I had turquoise tips for a bit too... I think it's a matter of trial and error. There's an alarming number of different shades of red so if you and your OH are pretty set on red then there's still a reasonable amount of experimenting you can do until you find a red that clicks :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 04:15 PM
1

That made me feel absolutely disgusted, I love it!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 03:47 PM
1

Is there any kind of situation where you notice this the most? I feel like people who are on their daily commute are less likely to make eye contact than a girl sitting in a coffee shop for example Also I've noticed that guys do this to me as well, and I don't think I'd describe myself as relatively attractive. I think in general people just keep to themselves when they're out and about, unless you're in a clubbing situation
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/16 06:33 PM
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It was actually OP's tip to have no women in pictures - I was following on to say no kids either
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 10:20 PM
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Thank you for hunting out that comment! Even though that's possibly confused me more than before 😂
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:09 PM
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As an additional tip: no pictures of you with young children, similar to the pictures with other women point - it doesn't help, even if it's a sister/brother/niece/nephew/grandchild. They will also only do harm. Even if it's your own child women who are only after hookups don't want to see that! EDIT: Another tip - if you're in the forces then get a pic up of you in uniform. Combat stuff and dress, we love that shit!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:53 PM
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Don't LTR a girl who has casual sex, she's a slut Start off an LTR with casual sex Can we come to one solid conclusion here?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 05:34 PM
3

And you were always 100% red pill and never had any problems with swallowing it, right? I think you're missing the idea of having a "community" here
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:38 PM
1

We do shopping and films (cliché I know!) We went on holiday together last year and we did aqua aerobics and that was the most fun thing ever so some fitness classes like yoga might be a good way to not only meet new girlfriends but bond with them too :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 10:25 AM
2

Monk mode isn't just about looking better, it's about developing a personality (which might explain a lot in your case) If I'm talking to some guy and ask "so what are you into?" literally the worst answer you could give is "oh just hanging round bars trying to get laid"
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 09:36 AM
1

Hi Ladies :) I've just got back to my little flat this weekend after spending 3 weeks at my parents and it is so nice to have my own personal space... The lack of cats is less nice though :( Anyways. The good I made an actual real life pie and it doesn't taste like I made it! I went shopping today and got a whole load of veg Tonight I made my own mashed potatoes instead of the microwave stuff I've also pre-boiled eggs for sandwiches to bring into work this week I bought myself a TV, so now my so…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 11:07 PM
2

I love Victorias Secret's silky pyjamas and their silky robe... They look really sexy but they're soooooooo comfortable!! I prefer their cami sets over their nighties though because when I sleep in nighties they somehow manage to turn themselves around or strangle me, just as a side note!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 08:14 PM
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As someone who marks undergraduate programming coursework - everyone has a unique programming style and it's incredibly easy to see who's worked together on a project. I wouldn't worry, they'll get caught out soon enough
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 06:26 PM
2

The HR girls obviously think needing to keep up female numbers isn't so important that you'd hire any female, and just stick to lower-SMV-than-HR females. Which would make sense considering some of the "women" that I work with!!
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:24 PM
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I'm not sure if this is a thing in the states, but I have the implant - it gets put in on the inside of your non-dominant arm and it just gets left there for 3 years. I've never liked condoms, the pill gave me awful awful mood swings and I forgot to take it sometimes, and I'm a wuss so after a couple of the injections I had to stop 😂 I've never had any mood swings or acne problems with the implant, the only downside is that the periods are completely random - you could have none, you could have …
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/16 05:17 PM
1

Fantastic, thank you!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 09:08 AM
5

I had a Pinterest board for my gifts (Dad and two sisters very inconsiderately have birthdays around Christmas) then in the comment for each picture write who it's for and how much it costs. You can move the pins around so you can have the soonest present at the top of the board, and you can also make a secret board as well that isn't visible to the public which is handy :) My friend swears by One Note, in the past I have used Google Keep and WorkFlowy which is like a bullet list that has differ…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 10:56 PM
2

Thank you :) I'll probably do some reading for university tbh... Not incredibly cute but useful!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/15 10:01 PM
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I think I'm going to monk mode for the first part of this year so can I set half year goals? Lose Christmas weight Finish off decorating my new flat Squats!! My bum is my main bodily feature so might as well make it look good rather than just wobbly Yoga a couple of times a week. Currently can't even touch my toes so getting a bit bendier would be nice On my half day Fridays I'm going to spend the afternoon sitting in Starbucks in the financial district looking cute 😂 Save up £5000 to start off …
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/15 05:42 PM
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That was real entertaining Ladies, thank you!
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:28 PM
1

There are no fat people in Asia Like all those skinny sumo wrestlers...
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 01:20 PM
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I honestly don't think it would be a good idea... I've never given advice or recommended things to people that haven't asked for help. You could maybe drop in conversation that you've been reading X book and it's great, but forwarding things is very obvious that you think they could do whatever it is better. Think about it this way - if someone forwarded me a weight loss article I'd be incredibly offended, if someone had lost weight and mentioned that they were doing X program I'd be more inclin…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 11:24 PM
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Happy New Year everyone!! I haven't really posted a lot on here, so I'll very quickly introduce myself. I'm Laura, I'm 23 and I'm a PhD student in Engineering in the UK :) Relationships In July I broke up with my then-boyfriend of 18 months, because we hadn't slept together in several months. I'm now realising that this is my fault because a) I wasn't making ANY effort and b) I had rushed into the relationship because I was lonely and there wasn't really any attraction there to begin with. We're…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 04:15 PM
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Coming from a female perspective, she's probably either cheating on someone and got cold feet at the last minute, or she's had some kind of traumatic sexual experience in the past that she hasn't got over. I doubt that you're going to have a rape case brought against you, especially if it turns out she was cheating. I would text her or something to ask if she's alright, you might get some kind of proof, and you'll certainly come across as a nice guy which would make her less likely to accuse you…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 11:40 AM
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I'll have a look and see if I can find it again :) EDIT: This is the comment I read which prompted me to read TRP Just because you wouldn't LTR a woman you met on tinder, doesn't mean other men would do the same. Spend some time on TRP so you can really see how RP men view women who have a Tinder profile. It's great that it worked for you, but it will not work in general. And this is the thread from TRP that really hit home for me
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/15 10:36 AM
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It was very much just casual sex, we never talked/texted between, only to make plans to meet again, and I know that he'd slept with another girl since we'd started sleeping together. Honestly I'm not even sure that he'll notice that I'm not going to text him to make plans, and I certainly don't think he'll text me. There were an awful lot of pointers to the fact that he was only looking for sex :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/15 10:36 AM
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Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 11:41 PM
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