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Invite some friends, including other women. Don't invite her then post pics on Snapchat. Play the game, bro.
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:40 PM
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She doesnt mean intelligence only. It means being intelligent while also being a confident, flirtatious man.
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:39 PM
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If the woman will not look at me or refuses to make any kind of eye contact, I don't approach. I have in the past, but Ive found my success rate is considerably higher when I make and hold eye contact, so much so that it's become a waste of time to approach with no eye contact prior. I'd say my success rate is around 75% when I make strong eye contact. However, I would also factor in attractiveness here. I make a ton of eye contact regardless as women consider me to be a 8 or 9, and I lift weigh…
/r/seduction07/11/16 07:35 PM
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A caveat to this is approaching he right women. I'm picky in who I approach. If I see a woman I want to approach, I will try to make eye contact. IF she holds the eye contact and/or smiles, I approach and my success rate is well over 50%. The key here is having good self worth and believing you're definitely going to add value to the woman's life by interacting with her. Be funny, flirt, and show her what an amazing man you are.
/r/seduction05/11/16 06:56 PM
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"Hi. My name is Pennywise. I'm into eating the faces off people and living in sewers." Be yourself. Be vulnerable. Eventually you'll find a chick who is into blood-thirsty, shape-shifting aliens that murder kids and take the form of insane clowns.
/r/seduction02/09/16 03:53 PM
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Exactly. Reading the book didn't change my life. But the book opened up doors that allowed me to be the person I wanted. Essentially, it me on the right path and showed me the "light." It isn't the end-all-be-all and I had to put in a ton of work after I read this book, but it put me on the right. For me, my biggest issue was the childhood trauma that caused present-day emotional issues. "No More Mr Nice Guy" helped me tremendously and opened more doors regarding self-esteem emotional trauma.
/r/seduction16/08/16 08:39 PM
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Good post. All of your points are relevant and true, but you leave out the biggest and most critical mistake men take: -Addressing self esteem issues through therapy or self study. Because, what it boils down to, the root cause of any man's struggle with women (and, conversely, any man's success with women) is self esteem, a majority of the time coming from traumatic childhood experiences (divorce, death of a loved one, overweight, verbally abusive parents, being bullied).
/r/seduction03/08/16 12:53 PM
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I see some people asking what they should say after the initial "Hi." This always works like a charm: "Wanna fuck? I suggest you try it.
/r/seduction28/07/16 02:47 PM
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Good for you. However, you can still be her ftiend and make convo desoite her rejecting you. She may have single friends or she may turn out as an awesome platonic friend for you. Don't cut her off bc she rejected you.
/r/seduction10/07/16 02:00 AM
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Dress in a way that makes you feel the best, that feels right. Are you a preppy golfer, do you like cars, lifting weights, fishing, licking buttholes? Dress for the lifestyle you live (just make sure your clothes fit you appropriately and you dont look like you just crawled out of a dumpster).
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:40 AM
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If they had genuinely high self esteem, or even adequate self esteem, they wouldn't have a problem approaching. You logic is distorted. Maybe its because you call yourself a PUA and I upset you. A little nerves is normal, crippling social anxiety is not and obviously indicates a self esteem problem.
/r/seduction25/06/16 07:40 PM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction25/06/16 07:38 PM
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Good for you. Keep doing it. It will get easier and you'll get better.
/r/seduction25/06/16 04:28 PM
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Jesus christ. Fuckinh ask her. Just be honest. Youll get a lot further w honesty than the whole bullshit art of "pick up." Ya know what increased the amount of women I date by 100000%? An introspective and realistic look at myself, ehich, in turn, dramatically increased my self esteem, eliminating action based on the desires of others, being 100% honest about who I am, what I want, and my intentions. Im 33, and th older I get, the more I realize that "pick up," "seduction," whatever is actually …
/r/seduction14/05/16 04:35 PM
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No, you changed your life. Youre the one who went out and did it.
/r/seduction14/05/16 04:22 PM
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OP, listen to this guy.
/r/seduction08/05/16 02:11 PM
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Its good to see someone on this sub that truly gets it and isn't blind to the bullshit.
/r/seduction25/04/16 01:45 PM
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Based on your story, it seems you met her, hung out for an hour or two, then fucked her? God damn good pull for your first time.
/r/seduction19/04/16 09:38 PM
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You never get dis. You never get dis.
/r/seduction19/04/16 09:37 PM
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Self esteem. General confidence in the person you are and who you are trying to become. Confidence and self esteem are not one in the same.
/r/seduction18/04/16 03:01 PM
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Every time I grace this subreddit and see shit like, "I was going to open her," I cringe. How about just going up to her and talking to her by being yourself? "Opening" implies you have some set plan or strategy to seduce this chick. That mindset is completely wrong and will never work over the long term.
/r/seduction18/04/16 02:40 PM
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Jesus. Christ. What the fuck is this? Are you 12? Good God.
/r/seduction31/03/16 02:08 PM
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Good read. Very mature, level-headed, and rational logic you've implied here. Impressive and you're exactly right.
/r/seduction19/03/16 05:59 PM
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When youre looked at and touched in a certain way by a girl, you just know it's on.
/r/seduction18/03/16 10:40 PM
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You better send her that Facebook message!
/r/seduction13/02/16 07:07 PM
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Great article and so true. Prolonged eye contact and the "I know" belief, combined with great body language is all the game you need (assuming you have your self esteem on lock). Forget pick up lines and this PUA bullshit. This is the holy fucking grail.
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:36 PM
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You need to work on your self esteem. Its been re-hashed here so many times, but I think "Models" by Mark Manson would help you tremendously.
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:30 PM
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Ahahaha. Who's the idiot? Jesus.
/r/seduction13/01/16 11:33 PM
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Winner! Ignorant post of the day!
/r/seduction13/01/16 03:46 PM
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What I say: "Cool. Good luck with your relationship (not condescding or defensive, but said in a pleasant, friendly, and sincere way). Nice to meet you." I mean, is there anything else that needs to be said? Becoming defensive or hurt by the rejection will show the woman you aren't' confident. I've said this to women in the past, and ended up dating them after they stopped the "boyfriend" based on my reaction by not being defensive or aggressive about them telling they me they're in a relationsh…
/r/seduction11/01/16 09:54 PM
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Yep. The only way to truly get this "women and game" thing down, is to raise your self esteem. Like you said, easier said than done, and you'll likely need the help of a good therapist.
/r/seduction11/01/16 09:51 PM
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Spot on. To dig a little deeper, if you're here or struggle with women, you likely have a self esteem issue and an issue rejection. I found a good therapist, put in hundreds of hours of personal time researching self esteem and psychology, and eventually worked through my self esteem issue and found the self esteem I had been lacking. No, I'm able to laugh at myself (in a non-degradation kind of way, which is important w women), and let any rejection roll off my shoulders. Essentially, self este…
/r/seduction11/01/16 09:50 PM
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You're right, I did. But I also realized once I addressed and fixed emotional problems and issues, all the skills I learned came forth naturally. "Flirting" was easy and came naturally. If I knew then what I knew when I first started, I wouldn't even bother with PUA stuff and "skills."
/r/seduction21/12/15 01:31 PM
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Props to you for going for it. Maybe you should try to establish eye contact prior to moving in. Eye contact always allows me to gauge how attractive I am to her. If she holds eye contact with me for even just a fraction of a second longer than what would be "normal," you can establish attraction on the front end. Its much easier to approach a girl you've already attracted through looks, body language, and strong eye contact. Based on what you wrote above, this chick's reactions to you sounds li…
/r/seduction19/12/15 08:56 PM
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In a nutshell, you've hit the nail on the head.
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:16 PM
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Life, bro. Life.
/r/seduction14/11/15 05:32 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:14 PM
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There's also a difference in the "nice guy" pushover and the "nice guy" manipulator. Many NG's are "nice" trying to gain acceptance and validation through others, essentially manipulating others to gain their acceptance. Does a nice guy do something bc he seriously wants to help the other person, make them feel good, or bc he's trying to gain acceptance from them?
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:13 PM
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Great write-up. I love seeing success stories like this. You took responsibility for your own shit, owned it, and fixed it. Good for you. Not many men can do that. Only caveat I'd add: I prefer the same wake up/sleep time on the weekends as well as during the week. But that's just me. Good luck to you!
/r/seduction10/11/15 07:47 PM
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Read this book: "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Dr Robert Glover
/r/seduction10/11/15 07:16 PM
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I've had several relationships and quite a few hook-ups from chicks in the friend group. Flirt. Escalate the sexual tension. Once there's attraction there (assuming you didn't fuck up and put yourself in the friend zone), be direct. Once she's attracted and given she's most likely comfortable with you having initially been a friend, really doesn't matter what the fuck you say.
/r/seduction02/11/15 02:15 PM
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Good for you. I love hearing stuff like this. "Models" is the best "pick-up" (and I use the term loosely, given its more life/confidence building than anything) literature out there.
/r/seduction30/10/15 05:17 PM
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I'm 32. Been in a few long-term relationships, was married for 5 years. I've noticed that times when I've been in these relationships, it seems I get bombarded with women chasing/flirting/ect....
/r/seduction23/10/15 02:32 PM
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Depends on the context. For example, I had a girl say this to me a few weeks after I had repeatedly rejected her. I fucked her, but would not date nor entertain a relationship with her. Out of her desperation to be with me, she asked if we were both still single at 40 if we could get married. "NO!"
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:59 PM
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Exactly. I'm 32 and divorced about a year ago (was married at 27). I have neverEverEver gotten this much ass and attention from women of all ages. I've always been good with women and have always gotten 8-10 HB's consistently. But now..... yeah, another level.
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:58 PM
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Hey man, its a process. Forget about her and move on. Dont stop approaching. Like anything, you have to fail to learn. Keep it up. You're on the right track. Swing those BIG BALLS, SON!
/r/seduction06/10/15 10:02 PM
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Great story. Great job and good luck to you.
/r/seduction03/10/15 08:49 PM
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Sometimes. I go out 1-2 times per month, and I usually meet at least one. Tinder has worked well for me. Mainly, however, I've been approaching random hot females I see, whether its at a store, bookstore, grocery store, gym.... I've met the most at the gym. I also started taking a cross fit type class at the gym where I've met quite a few. Read "Models" by Mark Manson. It changed my life.
/r/seduction29/09/15 01:08 PM
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I went back and re-read your original post. When I first divorced, I felt the time anxiety as well. But, then I realized, ill be able to get women in their twenties while im well into my forties. So theres no rush, and I feel no pressure.
/r/seduction27/09/15 03:56 PM
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Yeah, 34 fucking 16 & 17'year olds? Hes a creep.
/r/seduction27/09/15 03:40 PM
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Im 32, divorced about a year ago. Ive always been good with women, and I consistently got laid, even in high school. Now, however, im on another level. Im a man, im confident in that, and I have an outstanding career. I meet women from 21 to 40. I can say, without a doubt, ive gotten more hot ass in the past 4 months than ive ever gotten. I could easily find a serious relationship w a hot gal, but why? When im ready to settle down, ill find an awesome 25 - 30'yr old. My thirties have been my bes…
/r/seduction27/09/15 03:37 PM
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In addition to what JRAlpha and Tjodleik said above, many of the women on Tinder are there simply to seek approval, gain attention, and to make them feel better about themselves; a large majority of these women never actually have any intention of meeting anyone off the app. That said, I've had good success with Tinder, but I prefer to meet women in RL, rather than through the fucking internet. Many of the women I've dated on Tinder look nothing like their pictures, are nuts, or have serious emo…
/r/seduction27/08/15 12:52 PM
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my True. Was being an asshole. Good for you.
/r/seduction27/08/15 12:29 PM
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She gave you a fake number to make you go away.
/r/seduction26/08/15 08:51 PM
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My question to you is, why put up with immature, mentally deranged woman who pull these "shit tests." Women who do that shit scream mental imbalance. I wouldn;t have wasted my time. If some woman is going to play fucking games, I'm out. I will walk the fuck out. My time is more valuable than that and I will not be disrespected by a crazy.
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:12 PM
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Great read. Very motivational. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction23/06/15 08:53 PM
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Good post. Reframe your expectations. Dont approach a women with the sole intentions of getting pussy. That kills your frame of mind and places expectations on you shoulders, which you obviously have a tough time dealing with. Look at it like this: "I'm going to talk to this chick, make her laugh, and see if she is a cool enough person to be worthy of my time." At the very least, you'll meet new people,a nd you'll make women laugh, which is a direct route to the panties (assuming your not self d…
/r/seduction19/06/15 03:06 PM
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I've picked up several women on te cardio machines in my gym, in similar scenarios to what you described. I looked at them, smirk, and say, "Wanna race? Ten bucks I kick your ass." They always laugh. It has never failed me, once.
/r/seduction19/06/15 02:59 PM
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And that's called being a man. Good for you.
/r/seduction19/06/15 02:57 PM
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