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FundamentalsLazlo25/r/seduction07/06/21 11:40 AM
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Field ReportLazlo25/r/seduction07/09/21 03:02 PM
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FundamentalsLazlo25/r/seduction04/03/21 08:57 PM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too BroadLazlo25/r/seduction23/03/21 09:08 AM
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ConversationLazlo25/r/seduction03/07/21 08:07 PM
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In my humble opinion it sounds like you’re doing everything perfectly bro! Especially if you already know she likes you, there’s no reason to make it more obvious. It’s about time you ask her out probably
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:51 PM
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Was gonna comment but this gmahogany dude knows what he’s talking about
/r/seduction30/09/21 03:18 PM
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So how did you go about improving your looks?
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:48 PM
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Sometimes by trying to be confident (“faking it till I make it”), I do feel like I’m pretending. And it does get exhausting. However, I’ll also say that acting in such a confident, flirty manner has gotten me into some cool situations with girls that my introverted normal self wouldn’t have. And as long as I keep doing everything I can to prove to myself that I’m an attractive dude (going to the gym, skincare routine, etc.), I think some genuine confidence begins to develop.
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:49 AM
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Lmao in my college apartment I room with my brother, so that presents it’s own issues 😂, but regardless, I kinda want to be open to the possibility of a relationship (thus I’ll try to wait at least a couple dates to fuck). Also I don’t know the area well enough for an instant date. It’s my first time on campus
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:58 AM
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One of them hit me up hours later, still waiting on the other one Edit: other one finally responded 😁
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:56 AM
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I wish I had the confidence to show you a picture of myself (and especially one from a few years ago) to show that I’m DEFINITELY not a chad 😂. Also, I’m in college (doing these approaches at college) if age plays any factor.
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:23 PM
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I said “Hey excuse me, what’s your name?” as I walked by, and we stopped and started the conversation (in both approaches). Almost immediately after introductions, I just said I thought they were cute and wanted their number. In my head I wanted to try to have a conversation before going for the number (to make them more comfortable with giving their number to a stranger), but in practice I ended up being too nervous to handle a long conversation, but luckily it worked out both times. I also ack…
/r/seduction07/09/21 06:40 PM
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I was with you till that worship shit dawg, ion know about that. Sure girls want to be desired, but not like that in my humble opinion. Kneeling before her? That’s the type of shit a chick will laugh about with her friends in the group chat. Maybe if it’s with a girl your super comfortable with I could kinda see it.
/r/seduction25/08/21 05:01 PM
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You’ve got to kind of “give yourself permission” to be the guy you want to be. Start adopting the habits and watch the personality follow. I’m not sure if you need to go as far as buying a motorcycle, but maybe just acting less goofy and instead more stoic and unapologetically sexual. Maybe also try to have a better social life (which will communicate the fact that your exciting, as bad boys are known and loved for).
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:07 AM
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You’re absolutely right in your thinking bruh. However, (and I’m not sure if it already is), but I like to think of confidence (or at least perceived confidence if you have to fake it) as part of SMV. Sometimes girls might be more attracted to you because of how sure of yourself you are in every action, and they’ll likely continue to be as long as you can deliver. I just like to focus on increasing my SMV however I can (fitness, style, skincare, haircut), and make sure I’m at the top of my “brac…
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:04 AM
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For me, I think the answer was getting more comfortable making my intentions clear (at least a bit through flirting and teasing) and building sexual tension. I used to be super awkward and nervous because I always thought I would come off as cringe or thirsty if I said anything suggestive or indicative of my interest in a girl. However, after understanding the idea that girls WANT to be desired, I started working on becoming “that dude” who can just occasionally throw in innuendos and shit like …
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:57 AM
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Lmao I like this but I don’t see how Homelander is motivating in this scenario 😂
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:22 AM
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So how did you specifically find the girls? Cold approach? Clubbing? Social circle?
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:20 AM
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Damn, so did you just cold approach ‘em or what?
/r/seduction11/08/21 02:43 PM
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So I read it and all but I’m gonna lose a whole lotta friendships and screw up a ton of otherwise good situations if I’m radically honest
/r/seduction25/07/21 02:38 AM
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A fade, stylish glasses / contacts, maybe sponge/dread/curl your hair, and make sure you don’t smile TOO hard, a slight grin is enough in most situations. You could also get some earrings too. Also, try getting some stylish clothes if you don’t have them already. You’ve got a good jawline and you definitely don’t look ugly, it just seems like you don’t really try to look stylish or cool.
/r/seduction25/07/21 02:05 AM
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I like this post. You definitely can’t be the same in the courtroom as in the club. Everyone with a professional job outside of the bedroom knows what it means to get into character. I’d venture to say that mostly everyone does this in fact
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:18 PM
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Lmao this is the dream 😂. This is where subtle flirting is your only option. You’ve gotta participate more in the joking around and suggestive remarks (assuming you don’t already). And definitely be on point with eye contact, talking slowly, and deepening the pitch of your voice when you two are alone and in close proximity. If you ever feel confident enough to make a subtle (but somewhat sexual) innuendo, I think that would be the furthest you can go to test her interest. And of course, her res…
/r/seduction18/07/21 02:41 AM
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How can I effectively begin to implement this? I’m used to being super friendly and enthusiastic to people in order to make friends, but now I’m noticing that no ones matching my energy, leading me t believe that I’m coming across as desperate or something. I’d like to have a lot of friends, but I’d also like to be an attractive dude
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:23 PM
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How can I be this way but still make friends? I’m used to smiling and excitedly greeting people. Should I just stop all of that? Should I stop making an effort to talk to the people I’m trying to become friends with when I walk near them? I feel like my friendliness comes across as overeagerness/desperation especially when no one matches my energy… how can I be both friendly and attractive in this way?
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:19 PM
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How can I make friends while not coming across as unintentionally needy or desperate? I feel like this phenomenon happens to me with more than just women
/r/seduction16/07/21 09:16 PM
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I just don’t understand how you can make friends while being like this. I want to be attractive to women, but I feel like if I’m not friendly and smiling when I talk to women (or even dudes), why would they feel comfortable socializing with me? How can I be both “the social guy who gets along with everyone” and “the cool guy who doesn’t need anything from anyone”.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:55 PM
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I feel you bruh. I kept waiting for something to just “happen”, but it never did 😔
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:31 AM
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Unfortunately, this is the advice I listened to all throughout my life. Thank god I woke up eventually
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:58 PM
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If I just planned to get really good at 1, what would you recommend?
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:31 AM
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Sometimes I feel like this, and I feel like just settling down with a nice girl who accepts me and shit. The thing is, more than that, I want to be the type of guy who can go fuck a new girl anytime I want. At that point, I won’t have to worry if my girl isn’t feelin me anymore or some shit. At that point, I’ll care less about the outcome of any interaction, and thus be more demanding and less compromising, which is the only way to get the best out of life
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:54 PM
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What martial arts do you take?
/r/seduction13/07/21 11:47 PM
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Nice work man
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:17 PM
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Dude what the fuck are you talking about? Niggas be getting laid in MIDDLE SCHOOL these days
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:45 AM
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If you’re going out to bars and stuff, you should always make your intentions clear from the beginning, because why else are you talking to the girl? However, if it’s like a social circle situation I understand. In that case, you’d want to find more subtle ways of flirting
/r/seduction06/07/21 04:59 PM
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For teasing just playfully disagree or disapprove of something (make sure to smile/grin to indicate you’re joking). “Yo how are you SO bad at this?” For flirting, it’s literally just making it clear that you like them. I personally like to do it subtly. That means with seductive eye contact, causal physical touch, slow speech, lowered voice, a slight grin. As for what you actually say, it depends on how subtle you want to be. I try make it a habit of saying ambiguous things like “when am I gonna…
/r/seduction06/07/21 05:33 AM
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How frequently are girls turned off by your enthusiasm? I feel like it would be difficult to switch into a more seductive intense vibe when coming from an excited and enthusiastic one
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:39 PM
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I really don’t understand? Why did you not just move on to another dude? What made you chase him?
/r/seduction04/07/21 04:40 AM
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So I’m guessing one of your friends fits this description? Would be great if you could give any insight on his game
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:22 PM
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I’m worried that low investment game only works if she’s already really attracted to you for some reason, but for those of us trying without even being average looking, we have to operate under the assumption that we don’t have that advantage.
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:19 PM
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I love 1, I’m interested in 2, I’m very interested in 3, I agree with yet struggle with 4, but I’m not really feeling 5 or 6. I could be convinced for 5. It just seems awkward not to open the date with a hug or something positive to get you off to a good start. With 6 though, I don’t agree with giving girls your number in the first place. Females don’t have the drive or the confidence to follow through many times. It’s not smart to leave it to such an unreliable carrier.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:54 AM
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I feel like a lot of the “confidence” to interact with girls comes from understanding that it’s normal behavior, and you’re not weird for doing it. That really helped me with approaching girls (though I’ll admit I still can’t approach groups and it’s difficult in highly populated areas). Like think about how people met before dating apps. It wasn’t always a high school sweetheart situation, or even a social situation at all in some cases. My own parents met because my dad approached my mom in a …
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:07 PM
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Unless the vibe is clearly sexual early on, never explicitly mention sex. Girls wanna feel like “it just happened” or “one thing led to another”.
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:26 PM
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Maybe risky was the wrong word for what I was insinuating. I’m not really talking about the danger of STDs or some shit, but if you don’t make a move towards sex, you could easily get labeled a pussy or boring, and it very well may be that she has some dick on speed dial while she’s stringing you along. Maybe that’s just me being too untrusting, but if you’re really looking for a relationship like that, why not go for a church girl? Or maybe a slightly nerdy girl from a library or some shit. htt…
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:53 AM
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I’d love to be updated on this situation man! I feel like holding off on sex until marriage is risky with most girls today, given how sexually liberated society is, they might just get bored with you (especially if she’s a girl who was grinding on you, which could very well indicate she’s had sexual experiences in the past).
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:43 AM
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I can’t believe you walked up to a girl and said you were looking for a girlfriend so clearly and immediately! I don’t think I’m confident enough to do that (as I’m worried it would scare a lot of girls away), but your post is really inspiring man
/r/seduction30/06/21 10:24 AM
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I wouldn’t be too direct if it’s at your job. Just hold good eye contact and try to do more than just complement. Maybe implement a little flirting or teasing with a grin. Honestly this is pretty standard advice for getting a girl in any situation. I guess the hard part is coming up with exactly what to say…
/r/seduction27/06/21 08:33 PM
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I don’t really like the phrasing “see yourself as the prize”, but if that’s just to convey the point that you should NOT see her as the prize. Then I agree. What I like to say is “Extend her an invitation into your life, but don’t try to sell yourself”.
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:26 PM
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I feel like that just doesn’t have the same “umph” to it. Like that sounds more like a complement a girl would give to another girl. I assume you recommend that because it’s a more unique complement than the standard “you’re cute”, but when you’re approaching a random girl, you really only need the basic “I thought you were kinda cute” to establish intent. Like saying “I thought your boots were kind of cute” isn’t gonna give a girl butterflies the same way a guy saying “I thought you were kind o…
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:23 PM
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I completely disagree. “Cute” is such a low value complement that it’s not gonna boost her ego too much, and if you don’t explicitly make your intentions clear the tone for the conversation isn’t set from the beginning. Of course girls know why you approach them deep down, but especially if you’re not good at giving her “the eyes” or sparking attraction in the interaction at all, she’ll start to question why you’re talking to her. Calling her cute is a great way to show intent, and that in itsel…
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:13 PM
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I have a few questions! So would you consider yourself an especially attractive dude (trying to rationalize how you get the hookups so easily)? Also, where exactly are you finding the women who are down to hookup?
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:48 AM
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If you don’t mind me asking, do you think you’re a particularly good looking guy. Or maybe you have top quality pictures on tinder? I wonder how people can get matched so easily
/r/seduction22/06/21 06:03 AM
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Lmao I expected a guide or advice 😂
/r/seduction22/06/21 03:51 AM
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Bruh this is awesome! If she wasn’t 15, you were IN!
/r/seduction22/06/21 02:10 AM
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I think that a low investment complement like “I think you’re kinda cute” is perfectly fine as long as you don’t repeat it over and over again. Especially if it’s not an obvious “hot girl” who probably gets validated on Instagram 24/7.
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:20 PM
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If you’re that desperate, heavily lower your standards on dating apps and when approaching women. Otherwise, you’ve gotta stay on the grind, learning game and becoming an attractive dude
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:13 PM
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Well you could always channel that desire into improving your own attractiveness (through skincare, a hairstyle, clothing choice, muscle, etc.) at which point talking to a lot of girls will hopefully give you enough validation. Honestly, you might as well channel the desire into improving your game overall, and your success with women. Once you obtain success with women, and their validation is no longer a scarce resource for you, you’ll probably give a lot less of a fuck about it. Alternatively…
/r/seduction18/06/21 09:13 AM
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Deeper
/r/seduction13/06/21 10:54 AM
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Alright so, I’ve got 4 things for you Talk about sex casually. At first, not between you 2, so maybe in the third person or about an experience you had or something. Eventually, she might be open to discussing her own preferences / experiences. 2.Lower your voice, speak slowly, and hold eye contact. These things establish a sexual frame regardless of what your actually saying. Make sexual innuendos or vague statements that aren’t explicitly sexual. For example, if she says something that could b…
/r/seduction13/06/21 06:17 AM
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It sounds like Online Dating is your best option then man. If you’re good looking, it should be all good.
/r/seduction12/06/21 11:53 PM
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Lmao bruh what do you mean by “hooked up”?
/r/seduction12/06/21 08:10 PM
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From what I’m hearing it just seems like you care too much about pleasing her. I’m impressed that you managed to fuck despite all that, but you’ve gotta make your own decisions and not try to impress her so much (otherwise she knows that she has you wrapped around her finger and the excitement and mystery is gone).
/r/seduction12/06/21 07:53 PM
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I feel like most people would react like you did in this situation. You’d already been rejected by the girl, so you didn’t want to deal with the pressure and awkwardness. If those were 2 random girls, the answer would simply be to work on your confidence and/or not give a fuck, but in your situation I don’t blame you. Next time, just approach some other girls instead of leaving. It’s a numbers game after all
/r/seduction12/06/21 09:03 AM
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You’re doing something wrong man. Maybe you don’t look attractive enough (change up your style and get in the gym). Or maybe your game is off (use resources on this sub and YouTube to better your flirting, sexualization, escalation, etc.)
/r/seduction11/06/21 10:43 AM
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Parties and bars are great if you’re that type of guy. Although I’m more of a fan of dating apps and the good old fashioned practice of chatting up a cute girl I see on my way to class.
/r/seduction11/06/21 01:34 AM
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To be honest, college is where a lot of girls are looking to have fun, so it could be a better opportunity. Of course, some level of experience in high school would have been great, but all you can do now is fake it till you make it man. And remember to be subtle with the flirting and especially the sexualization because that way you don’t overdo it.
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:53 AM
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Luckily girls don’t automatically know all of that backstory. Every new person you meet gives you the opportunity to be whoever you want to be in their eyes. If you’re insecure about that stuff, there’s no obligation to mention it. Besides, you should try not to worry about whether or not girls will like you once they get to know you. Just try to keep a fun, flirty, and sexual vibe. Other than that, all you can do is continue to push each interaction forward, and she can choose to hop off the ri…
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:34 AM
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I agree with the idea of being “unapologetically sexual”, but it’s supposed to be done in a subtle way. The groping and staring at her tits and shit should probably be saved for after he gets her to his place.
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:03 AM
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It seems like you just need to understand that it’s normal, and perfectly okay for you as a dude to express your interest in a girl. If you’ve ever told a girl that you thought she was cute, and had her blush and smile, then I’m sure you know (as long as you’re an okay looking dude who takes care of himself), they’re usually flattered, comforted, and sometimes even attracted to you putting yourself out there. If I understand correctly, what you’re saying is that you have difficulty being direct …
/r/seduction10/06/21 11:57 PM
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This was big for me in the past. The best advice I can give is to give yourself permission to be “that guy”. Like, the guy who’s unapologetically sexual, the guy who doesn’t take girls too seriously. I feel like “be yourself” is such bad advice, because if you’re not happy with your results, you’re missing something. So you don’t have to become a full on fuckboi, but try to adopt some of the mindsets and things they do that bring success. I’m really not sure how severe your style or habit change…
/r/seduction10/06/21 11:32 PM
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Proud of u man
/r/seduction08/06/21 09:06 AM
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You’ve got to fake it at first man. Fake being a cocky, confident dude who can talk to chicks easily. Then you’ve gotta take action and start talking to them. I’d start with cashiers and girls in customer service because they are “primed” to be nice and friendly if that makes sense. After a few successes, you’ll see that confidence works, and it will become real.
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:16 PM
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I’m glad you’re motivated bro. I started out by just acting like I imagined a fuckboi would act. That means chill, slow speech, almost uninterested eyes, with a slight grin. At that point if you keep your voice deep and speech slow, as well as kind of looking at her like you want her, it won’t matter too much what you say. Like you can have a normal conversation with that seductive masculine frame and be straight. However, if you know specific subtle sexualization and flirting techniques you can…
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:05 PM
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You have to get comfortable doing it when you’re not on a date. That’s why it has to be “subtle” so you leave her thinking “Oh, did he mean it like that?” And if you do it enough, you’ll start to gauge her receptiveness. Flirtatious and sexual conversation is exciting to a girl, and that’s the most important part in not coming across as boring. Like, if whenever she talks to you, the things you say can make her blush and feel butterflies, you’re golden man
/r/seduction07/06/21 07:02 PM
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Learn to flirt and subtly sexualize conversations bro!
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:48 PM
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This is more so aimed at girls who don’t get validation on the regular, and thus they don’t have overblown egos, so they genuinely appreciate a complement and shown interest. If a girl looks like a model, maybe don’t complement as heavily, but if she looks like an average girl, it won’t hurt to gas her up a lil bit to make her feel flattered and comfortable, and even a lil attracted. I’m just making this post to let guys know that there are attractive girls out there who respond well to just sho…
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:36 PM
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I’ll try: So, instead of being overly mysterious and non validating or overly technical with pickup techniques when you approach a girl, sometimes it’s enough to just be a normal dude who calls her cute, hopefully makes her blush, and simply gets her number. It would also help if you came across as confident and smooth which you could do by speaking slowly and at a lower pitch (to sound more masculine). This happens because not all girls are egotistical ones to whom complements will validate the…
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:30 PM
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If you can get fit, get your style on point, and learn to be a smooth, relaxed talker, you’ll be good man! Also try to fake confidence a bit until you get it for real. A big part of all this is not being too timid to put yourself out there.
/r/seduction07/06/21 03:26 PM
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Unless you’re talking about a Night Club type situation, in my honest opinion, I wouldn’t bother. I feel like even if you conduct yourself appropriately, the perception of the situation as strange, awkward, and thirsty will be amplified among the friends after you leave. Also, you’re more likely to be perceived as a bother as well.
/r/seduction07/06/21 01:52 PM
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I wouldn’t make it a habit, and honestly it’s not even completely necessary in order to show your intentions, but complementing a girl when you first meet her can make her feel comfortable, flattered, and even a bit attracted
/r/seduction07/06/21 11:51 AM
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Flirt with them, subtly sexualize conversations, look at them in a way that gives them butterflies… Be an exciting person and entice them with danger (taboo or “forbidden” things), and give them good, dominant sex. Honestly I think a lot of it is having the capacity to give them dominant, rough sex, and conveying that ability through subtle ways (what you say, how you look at them, how you touch them).
/r/seduction07/06/21 11:00 AM
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He’s definitely not as good as he claims, and he gives some shady tactics, but I guess it could work if your willing to employ them. I found Occam’s Razor for like 70 bucks somewhere, do not spend 600
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:52 AM
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You’ve gotta excite them my dude. I don’t think girls like to be “treated badly”, but they put up with it because of the way bad boys can make them feel.
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:49 AM
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r/useless_information
/r/seduction05/06/21 07:39 PM
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Lmao what the fuck you leave this here for
/r/seduction05/06/21 07:04 PM
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Lmao “or some shit” = “or something like that”. And thanks
/r/seduction02/06/21 11:18 PM
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I disagree with the guy who said “treat her like any other girl”. Most girls who don’t have huge egos will be flattered and comforted by you flirting and showing intent (as long as you do it in a smooth way). For hot, popular girls, they’re used to that and tired of that, so you’ve gotta be a lot less direct in what you say. Ideally you’ll have social proof in some form (socializing with everyone at the party, or having a solid Instagram) and you can let that do most of the work, but when it com…
/r/seduction02/06/21 11:05 PM
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Try to talk and move slower Also speak with a slightly deeper voice if you can manage. Lastly, try to give off that “I don’t give a fuck” vibe to some degree. I do this by leaving my eyes only half open and sometimes chewing gum. It might sound a little stupid, but hopefully these practical methods work for you as they have for me.
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:57 PM
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Especially if she’s shy, I don’t imagine you having much success if you just ask for her number “as quickly as possible”. You’ll probably want to have a few flirty interactions with her, eventually hitting her with the classic “we should grab drinks sometime” or some shit.
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:49 PM
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Try to talk more slowly, and keep the pitch of your voice at a low level. Allow your facial expressions (especially your eyebrows and mouth) to handle conveying your interest in conversation, so you don’t come across as boring.
/r/seduction21/05/21 03:44 AM
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Just treat it as if you’re friend is playfully joking on you and say some shit like “Ay shut up bruh” or something (in a friendly, dismissive way). This is probably how you should react to it regardless of if a girl is there or not. If he continues though, you might take on a more serious tone and say something like “Ay bruh, chill out” or “Alright bro, you doin too much now, relax”
/r/seduction21/05/21 12:39 AM
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Coach Kyle has a good video lecture on Social Circle Game. It’s called picking up girls at the gym, school, work, etc. Lemme know if you find any other resources cuz that’s something I’d like to polish up as well!
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:10 AM
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If you have a class with her you could use that as an excuse to talk to her, and transition that into a normal conversation. Ideally you’ll find out some shit that she likes, and maybe ask for her Instagram or Snapchat to continue the conversation or occasionally send her stuff related to those things. You might wanna take it slow with a quiet girl as it’ll take some time to build enough comfort.
/r/seduction13/05/21 08:22 PM
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Look up videos about flirt and teasing. That’s the best way to keep the conversation exciting. Also, never expect girls to make the first move. Some do, but a lot don’t and more often than not they want you to express your interest in them first (which shouldn’t be too hard if you’re good looking).
/r/seduction13/05/21 01:00 PM
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I don’t wanna completely discredit being indirect though. It has its place. Like if you’re at a grocery store and there’s a cute girl next to you , you can open with something like playfully saying “Oh no, don’t get that one” (referring to the item she’s lookin at). It’s never good to be indirect to the point where you make some scenario up like asking for directions or doing a survey though.
/r/seduction13/05/21 12:57 PM
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I feel like direct is the way to go when you’re never gonna see the girl again. Although, I’d specifically word it like “Hey, excuse me. I know this is random as fuck, but I saw you and thought you were kinda cute, so I was thinking I’d flirt with you a little bit, if that’s cool”. Maybe even leave out the “if that’s cool” if you don’t think she’s busy. The most important thing I’ve learned when cold approaching is try to have a flirtatious conversation before asking for her number. That way, yo…
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:29 AM
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I don’t think you have to be a touchy person. Just make sure you make an effort to touch the person you’re dating. One big worry I’ve always had when touching has been making the other person uncomfortable or the touching being unappreciated, but if you ask someone on a date and they agree, it’s kind of an unspoken agreement to at least some form of light physical contact. At that point you just wanna implement casual touches in safe regions like her knee, shoulder, and maybe her hand or back if…
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:25 AM
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Bro ur post reminds me so much of past me. I personally think waiting for signs is dumb as fuck, and instead what you’ve gotta do is the following: Be unapologetically, but subtly sexual from the start (within reason of course, and ideally when you two are alone). This means make sexual innuendos and jokes and see how she responds to them. Break the touch barrier with casual touch (hand on shoulder, hand on thigh, hand on small of her back). Once you do this (and you’re dating the girl), it won’…
/r/seduction09/05/21 11:31 PM
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While I agree it’s not usually a good idea to “shit where you eat”, If you’re gonna do it anyway, definitely move it out of the office before you escalate/sexualize more seriously. Personally, I would do this by inviting her out or to your place in the form of a casual suggestion related to something you were discussing. For example, if you’re discussing a particular type of wine: “...yeah, I’ve got some at my place. I should have you over sometime.” Maybe try to look at her seductively while yo…
/r/seduction09/05/21 04:37 AM
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With dating, you need to make it clear that your interested in a girl romantically/sexually. You need to flirt whether or not you think it’s cringe. It’ll only end up being cringe if she doesn’t reciprocate, otherwise it’s normal. Maybe look up flirting techniques if your not sure what to do.
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:48 PM
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That’s the thing, confident people don’t care what other people say, but you could say the same thing about proudly weird people. The difference is that people who are called confident in a good way are staying far enough within social norms that they aren’t thought of as weird. Loud and obnoxious people are a perfect example. You could call them “confident”, but they’re so unaware of how annoying they are that they constantly turn people off. I feel like a big struggle of introverts is fearing …
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:50 PM
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I see what you mean, I’m sure there are people who get too comfortable in the theory and don’t actually approach. However for me personally, understanding some of the theory has allowed me to be more confident in my approaches, because I have an idea about what to to at every step in an interaction.
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:44 PM
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Bruh I need a get into this shit fr
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:31 PM
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Take the time to research and learn about game and talking to women before you throw yourself into the fire. People always say the only way to get better is to gain experience, and while I agree on some level, I feel like learning about how to flirt, how to sexualize, etc. (through YouTube, books, and subs like this) and only then practicing putting it into action is a much better approach. It might sound a little nerdy and overly technical to go to such lengths as “researching” this shit, but s…
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:28 PM
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People don’t wanna come off as weird or autistic. Sometimes what is considered socially acceptable wasn’t made completely clear, so we kinda live life winging it. And if you’re confident with no self awareness (and what you’re saying is objectively strange), that makes you cringe/weird/autistic. When it comes to talking to people, I feel like for a lot of introverts, there’s the fear that you could say/do something uncalibrated or just odd at any moment that could mess up your reputation in that…
/r/seduction25/04/21 06:21 PM
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Bro have some sympathy, damn. Weren’t we all there once?
/r/seduction25/04/21 04:08 AM
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How? And how do you respond to them?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 04:01 PM
1

Why the fuck are so many people saying negative things? This is fucking solid
/r/seduction23/04/21 01:01 PM
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My advice is to do things to increase your attractiveness. That could be skincare, haircut, a beard, style, cologne, etc... If you’re an average looking dude or even a bit below average without deformities, doing this and learning some game is all it takes. Beyond that, it’s a numbers game. If you think you’re really ugly or none of that stuff works for you, then the last option is plastic surgery. Not ideal, but it’s better than being miserable.
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:48 PM
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This man knows what’s up
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:45 PM
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Bruh this sounds like a blessing, the fuck? Give every girl the full experience like damn
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:42 PM
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Someone else mentioned paying for some, but I think it would at least be better to learn some game and bedroom skills before then. Read books, watch YouTube, watch fucking amateur porn. Learn what you can and then attempt to put it into practice with real women (whether they’re escorts or normal women from your everyday life).
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:41 PM
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I think somewhere on this sub there are good resources to start out with. The goal is to learn as much as you can about game (seducing women) and then start trying it on as many women as you can until you can implement the stuff you learn properly.
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:38 PM
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Of course bruh, I’m sure we all feel like that sometimes. That’s why you’ve gotta constantly work to increase your attractiveness (through working out, hygiene, facial care...) and your game (ability to sexualize, flirt, and generally talk with women).
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:30 PM
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Before you’re in a committed relationship
/r/seduction20/04/21 07:34 PM
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Because you only talk to others during the talking stage, before you’re actually dating...
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:53 PM
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You can practice cold approaching at the mall or flirting with cashiers at stores if you want. My best decision at the end of high school was practicing being the person I wanted to be in college. This is gonna be your last opportunity to be a different person for a while, so prepare for it well. There are a ton of resources on YouTube for learning to be social and getting good with girls.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:31 PM
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Bruh PLEASE tell me you didn’t actually give her flowers, that’s some simp shit dawg. But anyway, the only way to not be so invested in one girl is to talk to multiple. Like I’m not the type of dude to need multiple girls to fulfill my desires, but the only way I can realistically have an abundance mindset and not care so much about a specific girl is by talking to more than one before anything becomes official
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:29 PM
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With people in places you frequent (like your job and school), I would usually try to establish a flirty vibe, and at least some decent comfort (more than a few conversations worth) before making a move, because if they say no, unlike in cold approach, you’ll have to deal with the awkwardness for the rest of your time there. Of course if you want to ask her out anyway, you want to make the request seem as casual as possible.
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:01 PM
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I feel like there is some truth in that mindset, after all you have to express your interest somehow. However, you’ve gotta be subtle and casual with it. Maybe don’t say stuff like “I can’t keep my hands off you” and “I really wanna kiss you”. Instead, to signify those things, you might want to use a lot of physical contact, or purposely get caught staring at her lips. Being in character as a male is pushing the interaction forward towards more intimate things like kissing or sex (because you wa…
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:55 PM
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Believe me bro, it’s not a good idea to do indirect cold approaches. The only exception would be if you’re doing your own thing next to someone and you just make a casual comment about the surroundings/situation to start the conversation. When you cold approach a woman, a million thoughts are going through her head all centering around “what does this guy want?”. If you are indirect, it’s going to be very awkward if you try to slip in a “Oh can I get your number by the way?” at the end, and she …
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:32 PM
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I learned about something called “conversational threads” which is essentially just small talk, but when either you or her mention something more interesting as a side note when focused on a boring small talk topic, I would branch off and direct the conversation toward that thing instead. Then just rinse and repeat, being sure to frequently give my own input to keep conversations from feeling interview-y.
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:20 PM
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Yo u a lil hostile tho bruh. I agree with everything you’re saying, but have some compassion for this old fashioned romance lovin dude, gawd damm
/r/seduction20/04/21 08:04 AM
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I feel you with the “just go for it bro” and “focus on yourself” man, it’s always annoying to hear. In reality however, there are girls out there who just “being yourself” will work with. Although, in the modern dating market, the majority of women you’ll encounter are kind of harsh with their expectations (shouldn’t be surprising because modern women have so many options). But more often than not, the solution isn’t to “improve yourself”, but it’s to learn to do what we’re all here to learn: “t…
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:46 AM
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I wish this had more likes because this is how it’s done
/r/seduction18/04/21 09:49 AM
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Only real way is to ask some of your friends to hook you up or join some random clubs and start flirting
/r/seduction15/04/21 06:15 PM
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Maybe start out with more safe dominant things like leading a girl to a location, deciding on a date spot, or possibly even ordering her food for her (if you talk about her food preferences ahead of time). If you do a lot of these things in a single interaction, then it makes it a lot less weird when you escalate to something like pushing her against the wall before sex. I feel like society conditions guys nowadays to be scared of being dominant with females because of sexual assault and being “…
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:59 PM
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Was about to comment this myself
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:40 PM
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Ima be real with you bruh. I read a few of the other comments telling you to “be honest about your inexperience” or “accept yourself” and all I’m gonna say is that in the 21st century dating market, things might not go so well with mindsets like that (especially in America if you live here). One of the biggest teachings in seduction is to “be confident” and in the beginning a whole lotta that is “faking confidence” until you get it for real. I mean think about it, no girl wants some guy who does…
/r/seduction14/04/21 07:16 AM
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I feel like the only way to get truly confident is to have success and experience, but to set yourself up for success in your experiences you shouldn’t just go in blind as some people will say (trial and error). Instead, I would say do a bit of research on things like flirting and attraction techniques in general (so at least you have an idea of what you should be aiming to do in your interactions with females). Also a lot of your natural confidence can come from you’re overall attractiveness. T…
/r/seduction14/04/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah you probably should have flirted beforehand to avoid this situation, but all you can do now is treat it as a date, and only clarify if she asks
/r/seduction13/04/21 03:41 PM
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If you’re already going out with her, surely she knows what your intentions are already right? If not, you’ve just gotta flirt, tease, initiate light physical contact, and sexualize occasionally. Of course there are more specific ways to do each of these things, but you can look into that yourself
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:38 PM
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I agree, the best way to get out of the friendzone is to stop treating her like a friend. That involves talking to her less often, flirting with her more, and shit like that. Honestly, unless you preface all this with an “I don’t wanna just be friends” conversation, she’ll probably be weirded out by your sudden advances. However, you always run the risk of ruining the friendship, but if you really wanna get out of the friendzone, you have to be okay with that.
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:35 PM
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Facial hair (especially a good beard to hide a weak jawline)
/r/seduction07/04/21 08:25 PM
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For me it was showing intent. Even if it’s just through subtle flirting, showing intent is the only way to avoid the friendzone
/r/seduction01/04/21 08:20 PM
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You’ve basically gotta have basic small talk, and latch onto different conversation threads that come up. Like if she mentions something interesting as a small part of her response, steer the conversation in a direction about that interesting thing. However, you also have to be able to make your own answers to those basic questions more dynamic and interesting, and sometimes you can latch onto a topic that you mention yourself. Lastly you want to be as flirtatious as possible (assuming you’re tr…
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:26 AM
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Make sure you optimize everything bruh. Do everything you can for your looks (through skin care, fitness, style), and do everything you can for your game (text game and in person seduction skills). After that point, it’s just a numbers game.
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:19 AM
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Assume she was flirting and proceed accordingly. Everything will become clear once you ask her on a date. If she says no, you'll probably never see her again anyway so it's no big deal.
/r/seduction24/03/21 10:27 PM
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This comment 100%
/r/seduction23/03/21 08:46 AM
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I definitely used to use the type of “indirect approach” you’re describing. However, I feel like if im not especially attractive, with this method, I’d just get friendzoned quickly. After all, if you’re not expressing interest, aren’t you just being her friend? Of course I’m not saying that we should come out and say explicitly that we like a girl, but I truly feel like subtle flirting mixed with smooth sexualization and maybe eventually physical escalation is what puts butterflies in girls stom…
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:07 PM
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I feel like this has always been a known truth, that women want you more when you stop chasing them. However, what I don’t understand is if you don’t show your interest, why would they waste their time on you as opposed to the tons of others in their dms. Specifically, how do you build comfort, have conversations, etc. if you don’t take it into your own hands, and instead wait for her to chase. Essentially, how do you “approach them as if you’re not interested in them one bit”. Maybe if you coul…
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:47 AM
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I feel like I overstated how much I “laugh at my own jokes”. I really just smile really widely, both because I find it funny, and to indicate that I’m joking. Maybe I kind of chuckle as I say something but it’s not really a laugh. I’m worried about cutting any of that smiling out because I dont want people to take me too seriously and form a reputation for myself as a wierd kid. Also, saying “I’m just joking” kind of kills the humor I think.
/r/seduction16/03/21 05:28 AM
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How did you meet the guys? You approach them too?
/r/seduction14/03/21 06:52 AM
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Nice work man, keep pushing
/r/seduction07/03/21 06:59 PM
1

I’ve personally never invested in boot camps, but John Anthony seems to get beginners crazy results on his
/r/seduction07/03/21 07:07 AM
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I feel like it’s not about displaying yourself as more interesting, but it’s about being more active and conscious about your flirting. If you want, do some online research about flirting techniques, and make a habit of implementing them to some degree with the women you talk to
/r/seduction07/03/21 07:05 AM
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Bruh make sure you look into upping your game specifically. I’m talkin through things like looking at some pickup artistry stuff on YouTube to show you techniques for talkin to females and shit. A lot of people make the mistake of blindly self improving without looking into the stuff specifically geared towards attracting women
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:40 AM
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I wouldn’t recommend lying. Just maintain frame and be cool about it. Honestly there’s not much else to do in that situation. Continue doing your best to aim for girls who look your age
/r/seduction06/03/21 06:19 AM
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Maybe say something like “I know this is random, but do you know what the fuck is going on?” (In reference to understanding the material). Or you could just comment on something funny the teacher is doing. Either way, after she responds, you introduce yourself, and maybe have a small convo. Then after a few similarly started conversations, say something like “You seem cool, we should talk over text instead” or sum shit.
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:44 PM
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Alright bruh, that definitely doesn’t seem like any good quality game on your part, but cool story nonetheless 😂
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:30 PM
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Could you elaborate? Like how did she “come on to you”?
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:24 PM
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Do tell sir
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:22 PM
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Yo send me that shit too
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:59 PM
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I always say this, but for people in your social circle or class or something like that (where you see them often), I feel like you should try to flirt with them and build comfort over multiple interactions before attempting to go for a casual close. Otherwise, you’ll have to deal with the awkwardness for the rest of the semester, and odds are she won’t say yes if you haven’t talked to her much (unless you’re just really attractive).
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:48 PM
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There are multiple things you could do, just look it up bruh. I personally like to use the “me-you” or “we” frame a lot. That means I’ll say things like “don’t miss me too much” when I leave or sum shit
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:48 PM
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Shit tests can be seen as just a normal part of flirting and banter, but they most definitely do exist. Like there is a clear distinction between when a girl is playfully teasing you with something like “Oh, you’re so stupid”, and when she seems to just flat out insult you with something like “What are you gay?”.
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:42 PM
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I feel like you should be more direct when you’re cold approaching out of nowhere (and it’s someone that you’ll otherwise never see again like on the street). Even in these times however, I would mix in a bit more conversation before going for the number, to give yourself the opportunity to flirt and to build some comfort. If you’re in a situation with people in your classroom, at work, or even in a gym (where you’ll likely see them again), I would go kind of indirect, but still introduce yourse…
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:17 PM
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I feel like a better go to than “agree and exaggerate” is just “reframe positively”. It’s like what was done in the shirt example. Honestly most insult shit tests can be handled with something like “Yeah, but I know you love it 😏” followed by a playfully dismissive “Yeah, okay😏” or sum shit when she inevitably shuts down the reframe. P.S. I included the emojis to kinda show the mentality you should have when dealing with shit tests. Kind of just assume that she’s playfully teasing you with every…
/r/seduction04/03/21 03:46 PM
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I feel like it’s the dude’s responsibility to move it forward. Like the girl is afraid of rejection just as you are, and she’s also afraid of looking like a slut, so you’ve got to be the one who (smoothly) escalates and takes the risks because quite frankly, the girl doesn’t want to, nor does she have to in this day and age. As for how to go about it, there are things you could look up yourself about escalation and sexualization and shit. But basically, you just want to make your intentions clea…
/r/seduction04/03/21 03:27 PM
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I would say, only cold approach when you’re reasonably sure you won’t see the girl again, like if you see her walking in the mall. However, if she’s in your gym or something, then you’d want to just strike up normal (non cold approach level of directness) conversation if she’s working out next to you or something. In the latter situation, you’d still wanna be flirty to some degree, but you’ll kind of want to chill out, and build attraction over a few interactions.
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:13 PM
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Same thing happened to me bruh, keep pushing
/r/seduction03/03/21 01:36 AM
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I feel like the danger could be mitigated if you didn’t explicitly promise them money. Maybe say ambiguous things like “I want to take care of you” and let your (hopefully good) Instagram and tinder profiles speak for themselves.
/r/seduction02/03/21 08:41 PM
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I used to think this way too, but here is my counter argument. Think of the guys that you knew in 10th grade, 8th grade, 6th grade who were good with girls. The fuck did they bring to the table? Same thing with girls who go for the deadbeat “bad boy”. Of course, I’m not saying “It doesn’t matter what you bring to the table”, but the main thing you need to do is put yourself into positions where you can be selected. Whether that be by going out to bars, getting on dating apps, or just actively fl…
/r/seduction02/03/21 08:35 PM
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I feel like you really only need to have eye contact long enough for you to give her a smile and maybe a nod. But don’t look away awkwardly, just look back in whatever direction you were before, continuing whatever your doing. However, another option is to approach the girl (especially if she returns your smile).
/r/seduction28/02/21 06:31 PM
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I agree the John is definitely a sociopath. But I feel like his moral ambiguity is part of the appeal. In his product he’s not afraid to give “dark” tactics to get girls that may involve lying or bending the truth a little bit, but at the end of the day they work. I think it’s good to have the knowledge even if it’s not the type of stuff you’d actually do personally.
/r/seduction28/02/21 06:26 PM
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You can find it for cheaper online if you look around. Please do not pay the full price. There’s nothing sensational inside that’s worth 400 dollars, but it’ll probably do the job if you follow his guidelines
/r/seduction20/02/21 04:15 AM
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