So I’ve looked into game and seduction for a while now, and It’s well ingrained into my brain not to simp or excessively validate.

However, one thing I’ve always heard that I’ve never understood is how when you “stop caring”, she “starts chasing”. In other words, If you don’t invest much and essentially “don’t try”, she becomes more interested in you.

The thing is, I’m not a particularly attractive guy, so I feel like I need game more than ever to communicate my value, which is kind of hard to do when trying to be low investment. So I was always under the impression that yes simping is ineffective, but so is low effort (unless you have a ton of social proof, preselection, or attractiveness).

So I guess what I’m asking is, does low investment game work for average to below average looking dudes? I can’t help but feel like a girl will think there’s nothing particularly impressive about me at all if I embody the whole “not caring thing” with short messages and long response times.

Have any average to below average looking guys had success with this (specifically in a situation where the girl was dry or didn’t express much interest in the beginning)?