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| 1 | Can’t pull girls to save my lifeWhat ive been doing recently that has given me success is playful banter. Just joke around and dont be to serious, it calms me down and makes me and the girl more comfortable. Id refrain from sexual jokes as they can be more creepy until you are more comfortable talking to girls. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Girls who seems to be happy talking about themselves but dont seem to be interested in learning anything about you.I feel like a guy that talks about himself is unattractive for women. Especially when it is unwarranted. I think its better for men to show a girl who he is through actions rather than words. In my experience women dont like a guy who is an open book. To the Contrary, women are more intrigued and chase a guy who is a bit of a mystery. If i had to speculate its because in the society we currently live in its widely deemed a masculine trait to not talk problems and issues you have experienced or a… | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 09:25 AM |
| 4 | College girls vs girls mid-late 20's girlsI'm down for whatever, I would like to have a solid rotation of girls to f around with and if one really knocks my socks off I would potentially be open to something more. But I would like to keep girls around faster than I lose them. I can attract girls for a minute but with my minimum contact rule they seem to move on faster than a non college girl. | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Having hot platonic friend while trying to attract other girlsThis is my point exactly why society refuses to accept a guy and girl can be just friends. Tbh it is odd to me too. Ive thought about it alot. I've never really known a girl personally who is clearly attractive but they for what ever reason, whether it's the way they act or whatever just makes me have no interest. (It's all subconscious) I don't have sisters but I'd imagine it's kinda like if a guy with a hot sister wont have any sexual desires.(hopefully lol). That being said I can be friends w… | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Having hot platonic friend while trying to attract other girlsIdk it's irrelevant whether she does or not. That ship sailed along time ago. Because she talks to or dates ugly guys and with bad personalities and/or my friends which makes things awkward when thing eventually go south. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Having hot platonic friend while trying to attract other girlsShe doesn't have hot friends. She doesn't have that many friends either. For whatever reason I have alway girls with ugly friends or lack of friends as a turn off and red flag. I believe that is one of the main drivers in my lack of attraction for her. Idk why but since I was a teenager I always found it so attractive when a girl has equally or even more attractive friends. | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Girls that just got out of a relationshipI hear ya | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?(In a bar setting) She will come around me, randomly start dancing next to me, grab my had, touch me in the arm, or leg if we are sitting down. Jokingly tell me I'm toxic, saying she has a feeling we are gonna get married one day, kiss me on the lips in a joking way(idk how that is possible but she pulls it off). Make heart symbol with her hands from across the bar.. The list goes on. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?Yeah I tried specifying in the op that just cus a girl heavily flirts with me doesn't means they have attraction or interest in me. One of my best (girl) friend is like this but we are strictly platonic. For some girls it's part of their personality but for others they flirt and lead guys on for multiple reasons like they are bored, it's fun for them, they like attention, they want to get free drinks...the list goes on. And yeah I still stand by that statement. I don't hate girls I just understa… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?That's besides the point rn. I'm trying to get the girls that I normally would just let go. because why not? Don't get me wrong I'm not spending money or an extensive amount of time or resources on her just trying to figure out the best approach... more for future reference than anything tbh | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:43 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?Literally pulling her close? | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?Thanks for reading them. Got forbid I responded to a few others. Doesn't take away from the fact that yours was the dumbest response | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:20 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?If I had to use a direct quote in order for you to realize I was summarizing your dumb advice then you should have said that from the beginning.... and for what it's worth it's not one specific girl as mentioned in the title of my op... its the type of girl that I wanted advice to escalate. And your original advice of "just talk to her instead of post on reddit" is just stupid even by reddit standards | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?I aint hating, just wondering how to turn that around in my favor if I know that is how a girl is like. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?And you sound like you have no intelligent advice to be commenting on this forum and that's why I specifically commented on your response out of the 50+ others. Congrats on winning the dumbest comment on this post | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:04 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?"If the potential was really there you wouldn't be writing this post you would be talking to her" As previously stated im trying to get advice on the overly flirty girls and not the ones who show interest and aren't trying to play games. What basically you are saying "oh just talk to the girl who flirts with you along with everyone else... be like everyone else" problem solved | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?"Just buy her flowers and bring her chocolates" lol | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 09:48 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?No other explanation | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 09:45 AM |
| -1 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?Because you are basically saying if I just hold this girl on a pedestal then she will be attracted to me which is the dumbest advice. Hollywood pretends that guys are suppose to wait on girls hand and foot but if a guy ever did that in real life a girl would be instantly repulsed and be like wtf is wrong with that guy. He is so needy and must never get laid | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 09:44 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?Yeah... in all honesty that is amateur advice. Lol... confess your love and she will be instantly attracted. Give me a break. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 09:30 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?If u feel like girls(or guys) don't play games/lead others on then there is no reason for you to be on this reddit forum. "Just treat girls like they do in the movies" | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 09:19 AM |
| 8 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?Yeah thats why I specified in the op that for some girls thats part of their personality and for others they use it to get things from guys | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Initially before you ask to meet up you should try to gage their upcoming schedule with just small talk. "A simple how you doing any big plans this upcoming week" they say "just working" "oh where do you work, what days you work...." then when you get a gist of their schedule, you can say "oh well since you don't work or didn't mention anything going on Saturday let get some dinner at xyz or do xyz.... i have this going on (make something up) but after 7pm im free does that work for you? Most im… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up.My point is it is irrelevant for the situation I'm trying to explain. The main point was. Some girls will show high interest in me when alcohol is in their system but the next day when I go to hit them up and try to make plans to hang out. I can tell they are not as interested as they were the night before. I've experienced this both via text and snap. I just don't believe getting her number instead of snap is going to magically maintain her interest for another 24 hours. I dont believe that is … | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 2 | How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up.Ok... so don't post shit on your story that will get her lose interest. Lol that's no different than saying don't text her shit that will get her to lose interest. I'll do you one better. Don't do shit or say shit in her presence that will get her to lose interest. Btw u turned the original point of this post to be something that it's not. Now we are debating if snapchat or texting is better. You honestly believe a girl lost interest in me in the span of 12-18 hours because I hit her up via snap… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up.What do you mean by Hail Mary's. I get the reference but like what I'm imagining is being "hey u wanna come over" after they are showing lack of interest lol. I guess I have nothing to lose but do you have examples or details of what goes into a good hail Mary. Also what do you mean by women are not picky about who they like? I haven't heard that before so if u can elaborate. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 3 | How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up.I've heard this rebuttal a million times and fundamentally I just disagree. So again I'm asking your demographic because this is standard practice for people my age at my current location. Snap and ig are completely different. Through snapchat I'm not talking to some girl through her dm's. I'm not "following" her. You can't judge someone based on their following, likes, or comments on previous post through snapchat. Sure you have a snapscore but that's pretty irrelevant imo. So I don't see how h… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up.Yeah I know all the signs of girls who are like that, they are pretty easy to point out. Those are the overly flirty ones. I steer clear from them. I also rarley buy girls drink and if I do its only after along time has elapsed. The part I'm trying to stress is that they definitely show all the signs of interest when they are drunk but alot of them lose it by the time I text them next. I'm not one who believes too passionately that drunk confessions are sober feelings but at the same time I'd ex… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 12:03 AM |
| 3 | How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up.Idk why people are against exchanging snaps. 1. It's much faster to exchange. 2. Don't run the risk of putting in the wrong digits. 3. You can see when a person opens a message 4. You can delete something before they see in case u make a mistake. 5. You can indirectly show someone what you are about, instead of telling them what you are about and you can see what they are about at the same time. 6. Sending pictures and video has better quality. 7. Maybe the most important is that imo, is that me… | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you text a girl who initiates texts and responds but doesn't do much to keep a conversation going.None taken. I don't think ive made an excuse. I'd admitted she lost interest somewhere, not sure exactly what I did but admit it was either my fault or she pursued someone else. I'm only asking for advice of how to message a girl who seems interested, initiates contact, responds quickly, gives lengthy responses but doesn't do much to continue a conversation. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you text a girl who initiates texts and responds but doesn't do much to keep a conversation going.I feel that, but I'm always hesitant of just ditching girls because why not? If I'm not spending money on girls or investing hours of my day talking to her then why not see what could happen. I'm talking to other girls so I'm not completely invested but at the same time I'll put some effort into seeing if I can get laid or at the very least learn to communicate with these types of girls. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you text a girl who initiates texts and responds but doesn't do much to keep a conversation going.Yeah I get that. It would be one thing if I was the one reaching out and she was taking forever to respond and only giving like 1 word response, but it's the opposite of that | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you text a girl who initiates texts and responds but doesn't do much to keep a conversation going.All girls want attention. I feel like she wants to talk to me though because she is the one who does 80 percent of initiating the conversation, responds quickly, and gives substance with her text I just feel like I am the one who is keeping the conversation going. Idk if that is a red flag or what | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How do you text a girl who initiates texts and responds but doesn't do much to keep a conversation going.I have tried 2x already. I feel like if I only contact her to schedule a date w/o having any conversations in between it comes across as needy. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Does having attractive friends actully attract other girls.I think you hit the nail on the head. I never really thought of that until what u just said. Although this friend of mine is a great friend, she has red flags which is why I never considered being more than friends. She has very few friends in general, especially girlfriends. That being said, I don't know what she exactly does wether it's intentionally or subconsciously that repells other girls from me. | /r/seduction | 03/07/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Does having attractive friends actully attract other girls.Yeah I get that. But we are great friends and we have a great time when we are out. Only problem is that she acts like a invisible force field for other girls with me. | /r/seduction | 03/07/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Low Investment GameI have been here before. You don't want to be seen as a try hard and hit on any girl with a pulse. This comes across as creepy and low value and no high value girl will ever go for it. One thing I realized if you are trying to just get laid you will have more success if you just put yourself out there and have no fear of rejection. But in a bar setting you will probably only get girls with low confidence, daddy issues, or recently single. It's a numbers game after all. In reality, a ugly guy who… | /r/seduction | 03/07/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | How should I use snap chat to build attraction with women.I get what your saying and I agree for the most part but I also feel snapchat is different than other social media apps and can be used as a tool to build interest, mystery, and attraction if used properly. I understand as a man I don't want to post a selfie on my story all day every day and document every aspect of my life but I feel like there can be a way to get girls attention. | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 08:24 PM |
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