LeChevalierRouge Archive

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4	Figured out something important about sexual withdrawal and the nature of women. Why you MUST not lose frame in the face of continual sexual denials.... I empathize with the position you, Archwinger and the other married red pill fathers are in. Leaving your wife would reduce access to your children and expose them to the increased risk factors associated with single parent households. A common theme I have heard from my divorced father friends is abuse of their children at the hands of ex-wives' boyfriends, which sadly has had little impact on family court decisions. I fell for "it's not a good time yet" for two decades before my wife declared …	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/14 04:21 AM
2	Guy's wife spits into his bedside water. When confronted by the guy she accuses him of insulting her. What is TRP's view of this? BPD is not a low functioning case of a DT complex. They are exclusionary pathologies. The BPD women that are usually encountered while gaming tend to be outgoing and fairly attractive. They are continually seeking engagement and attachment, so are often in social environments. Childhood abuse is at the root of most cases of BPD and when that abuse is sexual it leads to highly promiscuous behavior. Beautiful girls are at the highest risk of early sexual abuse, so many promiscuous BPD women are at…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 06:07 PM
4	Guy's wife spits into his bedside water. When confronted by the guy she accuses him of insulting her. What is TRP's view of this? The "zen" part is the active use of mindfulness to keep a non reactive frame, which can be challenging with BPD women. Often before a major shit test there is some characteristic sign, such as a heavy pregnant pause in the conversation that foretells the outburst. That gives an opportunity to become mindful of her voice and face, creating detachment so her words/tone/facial expressions do not cause emotional distress. This keeps me from being emotionally reactive in the face of her verbal attack…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 08:03 AM
2	Guy's wife spits into his bedside water. When confronted by the guy she accuses him of insulting her. What is TRP's view of this? This is a fitting script for a BPD woman, and works well for BP as well, but is not applicable to a DT woman. IllimitableMan has a few good posts on the latter. DT women exhibit psychopathy, and a resulting lack of fear, while BPD/BP are largely defined by a hyperactive fear response. A DT woman will not fear abandonment like a BPD woman will, but can go into a narcissistic rage if slighted. Do not mess with a DT woman. BPD women are the type of crazy we are warned to not stick our dick in, but …	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/14 04:06 AM
2	Found this on /pol/ - The Key Logger: A Forbidden Glimpse Into the True Nature of Women by Nicholas Jack And that's the best reason to take suicide attempts seriously: even when they look like cries for help they can be sincere. It is sad that the care most people will get in the US are antidepressants and some cognitive therapy if they are lucky, while an abusive environment will not likely be resolved. I empathize with your story, having grown up with an abusive alcoholic narcissistic single mother. I would have done much better living with my father but she had me terrified of speaking against h…	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/14 08:35 AM
1	Found this on /pol/ - The Key Logger: A Forbidden Glimpse Into the True Nature of Women by Nicholas Jack There is also the difference which many people confuse of suicidal gestures and suicide attempts This is the key difference. I agree that even suicidal gestures must be taken seriously. Even if it is a cry for help, it is its most drastic form and subsequent behavior will only get more desperate if the patient is not cared for. Regarding your initial point, the higher rates of successful male over female suicide attempts is often interpreted as men's use of more lethal methods. I maintain that i…	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/14 07:50 AM
6	Found this on /pol/ - The Key Logger: A Forbidden Glimpse Into the True Nature of Women by Nicholas Jack In the psychiatric world it is understood that many suicide attempts are cries for attention. My quote above is from an attending at a teaching hospital. It would be foolish however not to maintain close supervision of the patient. For highly self-destructive patients, such as those with bipolar disorder (type 1), it is rare to find a suicide attempt that is not successful, as they are not just seeking attention.	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/14 06:57 AM
10	Found this on /pol/ - The Key Logger: A Forbidden Glimpse Into the True Nature of Women by Nicholas Jack The only way I can describe it that their conciousness has any number of hermetically sealed "incognito" tabs open, each living a very different and contradictory lives... This is fundamental Red Pill truth. It was demonstrated for me when my little sister hit adolescence and began to demonstrate differing sets of opinions and self-presentations among groupings of her friends. A woman will say what is needed to preserve her image in the specific social context.	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/14 06:51 AM
1	Found this on /pol/ - The Key Logger: A Forbidden Glimpse Into the True Nature of Women by Nicholas Jack A suicide attempt is usually a successful suicide attempt and not a failed attempt at suicide.	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/14 06:38 AM
22	Marriage Statistics To get this data, one has to consider women over a range of ages, who were raised in different decades. The level of promiscuity in college recently is far above what is was even fifteen years ago. Marriage rates of people at the age of 30 has also drastically decreased recently. You need a longitudinal study of women in the same age-range to make this type of analysis.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 05:01 AM
2	You have demonstrate higher value without being a douchebag. everything given is amoral Some people confuse amorality with immorality. Facts and concepts are amoral in that they do not address personal values or proscribed actions.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 03:09 AM
36	All the pain of years of betahood unloaded on my dad. I feel terrible (drunk, sorry for grammatical errors) and I just dropped a bomb on this old man's fucking manhood and pride After tearing it to shreds and burning it down. You are his son and you cut at the core of his masculinity. Although he has a reason to stay in Canada, consider that he might also need you right now. Swallowing the red pill is hard. It is easy to see how your life could have been better with this new perspective and feel rage against those you feel wronged you. This is a stage of grief you have to go through. But you will not …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 02:59 AM
4	The Red Pill ideology works to achieve our goals, but is it defeatist in the grand scheme of things? I could not see a full correction either, rather a dampening of the most toxic effects as people's viewpoints shift. RP knowledge can be used to strengthen and stabilize LTRs. In the case of a man who has given up on women, an RP perspective helps in becoming more attractive and cementing a relationship that would drive him to be more productive. We are too quick to discount the possibility that positive change can occur by RP discussion in open forums. The criticisms levied against the MRM are …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 02:04 AM
3	The Red Pill ideology works to achieve our goals, but is it defeatist in the grand scheme of things? The Red Pill is just a perspective based on gender psychology, game theory and the experiences of PUAs. What you do with the knowledge is up to you. Red Pill knowledge, combined with the "marriage strike" that has been growing over the last decade may actually help society become productive. The Feminist narrative and political correctness did not start to become this toxic until the 90s and the narrative is not taken as fact by many born before the 80s. Luckily most men make up their own minds …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/13 01:03 AM
25	Wife Cheated on me with friends 16 years ago These desires are deep and are not rationally expressed. Men feel a deep disgust that they cannot rationalize when they learn that their woman has slept with another man. RP is about understanding our inner nature. Our deep impulses do not always lead us to the best decisions. If you are looking for marriage, a woman who has had fewer sexual partners is a better choice, all else being equal. CDC data shows a strong correlation between the number of extramarital partners of a woman and likelihood…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 10:00 PM
43	Wife Cheated on me with friends 16 years ago Their viewpoint is misapplied empathy, of women thinking that men should want what they want. Men want to be your first sexual partner. Women want to be your last relationship. Men care about who their women have slept with before to an extent that women do not think is "fair". Women will resent a man's new relationship while justifying their own.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 08:50 PM
7	Creating a parody of Erectile Dysfunction videos, to question their true purpose? This fits well with the recent article correlating erectile response to the age of a woman. If you are going for the reaction, the above approach would work best. Cast a woman in her 50s that looks like she was once very attractive but has not aged well and a man of the same age that is not that handsome but has a strong presence and charisma. His SMV has gone up while hers has diminished over the years. "For the erection you had when she was younger" Or more subtlety: "Make her feel beautiful a…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 07:42 AM
1	Is sex relevant when defining alpha or beta? This is one for the glossary. Alpha/beta: over generalized terms that have no use other than egotistical posturing, denigrating others, and the creation of blue pill strawman discussions.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 07:12 AM
2	"The Talk" if you start mentoring them early enough In our society we have a stereotypical notion of there being a single parental talk about sex/relationships. For many this is all they receive from a parent, if that. Approaching this as an ongoing mentorship helps guide someone rather than just give an initial trajectory. It is harder with a girl, as this is the one area where understanding from empathy breaks down. At the very least I can see fostering traits in her that are traditionally instilled by f…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 06:44 AM
6	The harmful effects of early sexual activity and multiple sexual partners among women: a book of charts If the girl has not yet had sex I definitely would. Waiting a while will strengthen the relationship. This would be in opposition to my general advice, to have sex as early as possible in a relationship. Consider it a "shit test" for women to assess their promiscuity.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 06:07 AM
1	Updating the Glossary Hamster: Rationalizing nonrational behavior after the fact. The hamster runs furiously on its wheel as a rational explanation is sought for emotionally driven behavior. As the same emotional state is no longer present, the hamster grasps for any rationale to justify the behavior.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 05:54 AM
3	Updating the Glossary It is not possible to have a relationship to another human without frame Definitely true. It is also the case that your behavior and outlook in the absence of people is set by your frame. Sociology is concerned with the interpersonal aspects while cognitive psychology is concerned with both. your thinking of "frame" as a result of "how you act" where it's really the source of how you act That is not my position at all. We are in agreement that frame is upsteam of behavior. I would go further to …	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 05:37 AM
8	Conservative columnist tries to explain to NYTimes audience the downsides of liberal sexual conventions for women Yet so many posters here keep trying to explain women's actions / reactions as rational, it's mind boggling And in turn the critics who drop in take the same view and can readily dismiss RP gender psychology because it is not consciously observed. We all have hamsters. Our behavior is dominated by our subconscious, our autopilots, with only the occasional course corrections by our prefrontal cortex. Men tend to exhibit a larger degree of future-orientation than women, overriding our hamsters by …	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 04:13 AM
4	Updating the Glossary Frame is not necessarily in relationship to another person. It is the perspective you use in engaging the world. If your car breaks down, how do you handle it? Is the world unfair to you? Is it a humorous event? Holding your frame is more difficult in relation to others, as we will have a tendency to be pulled toward each others viewpoints unless we are hostile to another person.	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 02:51 AM
2	Updating the Glossary BPD = Borderline Personality Disorder. Substantial overlap with bipolar except that BPD is reactive while bipolar is cyclical	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/13 02:36 AM
5	We preach the TRP is a life style... Yet focus so heavily on Women? Given that The Red Pill is fundamentally about sexual psychology why is it odd that the focus is on women?	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 11:57 PM
2	The Friend Zone and The Slut Zone Evolution is the force behind genetic change. The fundamentals of our social interactions, especially sexual dynamics, are largely biological. Evolutionary psychology may only be a social science based on game theory, but genetics, developmental biology and behavioral psychology establish significant sexual dimorphism in the brain and in behavior. Human female normative behavior is to desire sex with men based on perceived fitness and to find a committed provider. Cultural forces largely determi…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 11:53 PM
4	The Friend Zone and The Slut Zone How many relationships have you observed over a ten year or longer span? Do you have enough of a sample set to get a sense of commonality in those that have worked and those which have not? Given your username I would assume not. My experience is the exact opposite of yours. Red pill concepts are taken up the most readily by those with the most experience in relationships with women, for which many observations during their lives suddenly make much more sense. They have been the most readily dis…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 11:42 PM
24	Red Pill is hitting real hard right now. You actually are paying with your time and commitment that could go toward a relationship which is more likely to work. You do not get your time back in life. Listen to nporwal, work on yourself and start meeting new girls. Resist becoming attached to her. Do not financially support her during grad school. You will likely be subjected to guilt from her and shame from her social network if you split. Depending on the state you live in you may still be on the hook for supporting her if she lives w…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 11:14 PM
2	A must read! "Meat Market Economics" Thank you for the link. A downloadable pdf is at the end of the article and the quotes from the blog are great. With a number of good blogs shutting down or reformatting I have found it useful to save useful pages in pdf format.	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 10:52 PM
1	Do men want to be fathers anymore, or has society conditioned men to avoid fatherhood like the plague? Ask Reddit There were statistics posted here a few months back. Here is an excellent overview. A couple teacher friends have been recomending a book "The Trouble with Boys" which gives a good picture. However the authors are women who greatly understate the profound effect of an actual father vs. a male role model on a boy's development.	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 10:34 PM
2	How To Learn Game In One Week There is no "fast progress" to game Just like any other skill you need to put in the time as you are learning to change your behavior. People have differing inclinations and competence in different learning styles. Some people learn best from a wrote PUA formula and over time start to learn from variants on their approach. Some people learn best from watching a master in action, in person or in video. Some of us can acquire skills much more quickly once we understand something conceptually. Pers…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 10:26 PM
1	Wife locks in beta provider with marriage. Still fucks alpha under premise of polyamory (notice how alpha treats her, and her reaction) Studying the the sexual behavior of primary-return hunter gatherers and looking at both the commonalities and variations is fascinating. Most of the useful literature was written a while back before cultural relativism became the norm. The largest correlate with female lifetime monogamy is a reliance on hunting over gathering, whereas the latter correlates with female hypergamic serial relations or nonmonogamous relations in cases of material abundance. My experience as well has been that most "…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 05:34 PM
2	How To Learn Game In One Week The Selfish Gene is a great to read before getting into evopsych. I like that he puts it as his intro book. It can help you understand that you are not only only the product of successful genes, but also of a set of successful cultural elements (mimetic behaviors or memes, before the term began to refer to captioned cat pictures), which lead your lineage forward to you. It may as well make clearer why some of the rp bloggers are decrying the influence of feminism and why many traditional culture…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 05:07 PM
3	Should I unsub from TRP? This "community" is not a collective. There are a few elders in this sub who have achieved recognition through merit, but no one speaks on behalf of the sub without being shit on. If you seek collective action or agreement you should go elsewhere. If you feel you have the need to make pronouncements of how others should think, such as when you "think that people do have an obligation to act morally, or at the very least should feel the need to try", you may find your contributions unwelcome here…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 04:48 PM
5	Wife locks in beta provider with marriage. Still fucks alpha under premise of polyamory (notice how alpha treats her, and her reaction) Do not think that it is easy for your ex to poison your son against you. People tend not to give children enough credit for their intelligence. A friend went through a horrible divorce a few years ago and has been in the same situation. His sons readily see through their mother's and their stepfather's vitriol. The children catching her in lies sours them against her. If your ex is still stalking you, that is a sign of instability that your son will pick up on. If you maintain a strong alpha fra…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 04:17 PM
8	Wife locks in beta provider with marriage. Still fucks alpha under premise of polyamory (notice how alpha treats her, and her reaction) It gets even worse in some of the swinging communities. There is actually something known as a chaste cuckold. What is past moron pill? If their relationship is truly poly he would do well to pick up a girlfriend or mistress. Stay with her when his wife is distraught by the alpha boyfriend.	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 03:59 PM
1	Wife locks in beta provider with marriage. Still fucks alpha under premise of polyamory (notice how alpha treats her, and her reaction) Absolutely. Whatever your relationship strategy, you will maximize your sexual enjoyment by becoming really good at sex. Plates spin longer, hookups come back more often and LTRs are happier. This includes not only physical technique but emotional game, with the latter being far more important.	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 03:46 PM
16	Woman tells "nice guys" to politely wait until shes done with the cock carousel and hits the wall. This sounds as if it is being written to her beta orbiters. One of the easiest bits of redpill knowledge to feed someone is the concept of a beta orbiter. The friend-zone is an actual thing that is useless to stay angry at and best to avoid. Since the term friend-zone has been popularized it is easy to impart this extra bit of perspective without using redpill terminology. This perspective is becoming increasingly common among college-age men, which may be why we are seeing a rise in articles te…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 03:34 PM
1	I feel like a Purple piller. I'm so confused and torn between TRP and TBP. Please help. Best of luck to you. If I may give you one piece of advice before entering an LTR it would be to understand your needs and desires on your own terms and not let anyone guilt or shame you for how you feel or what you believe	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/13 01:50 AM
3	I feel like a Purple piller. I'm so confused and torn between TRP and TBP. Please help. PUA = pick-up artist. Your primary goal is to have sex with many women spinning plates = having nonmonogamous relationships with many women. Also known as the soft harem when you hit journeyman pimp status LTR = long-term relationship. Usually implies monogamous MGTOW = Men Gone their own Way. After breaking down the false narrative of gender relations some just say "fuck it" and decide women are best ignored and avoided	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/13 11:52 PM
5	Do men want to be fathers anymore, or has society conditioned men to avoid fatherhood like the plague? Ask Reddit Actually TRP has inspired me to reconsider fatherhood, after having given it up for my wife's career aspirations. Reading statistics on boys raised by single mothers here resonated with my own upbringing; if not for a couple strong, present male role models in my life I would not have had any desire for achievement and become a successful professional. Boys reaching adolescence without their fathers are at a significant disadvantage in life and I want to pay the favor forward and teach a couple …	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/13 11:39 PM
15	A Woman tells Hamsters: Why You're Not Married. most of the comments knock her for being married three times and trying to give advice Yet her advice is on how to get married, not to stay married. She has been successful three times with her approach.	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/13 06:15 PM
2	I feel like a Purple piller. I'm so confused and torn between TRP and TBP. Please help. The Red Pill is about absorbing information and ideas that will give you a new perspective on sexual/gender psychology. It is not necessarily about becoming a PUA, spinning plates, having an LTR, going MGTOW, or any other path. Read the material on the sidebar, it will bring you a useful perspective whatever your choices may be.	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/13 04:19 PM
18	A Woman tells Hamsters: Why You're Not Married. This woman grew up in foster care and seeks "traits it turns out lead to marriage a surprisingly high percentage of the time". Much of her advice involves actively resisting hypergamy and seeking men with provider/beta traits. Having a child is horrible advice, but "makes sense" from the point of view of the article, in that it will likely result in a woman more likely to want to get married. A rude surprise awaits when a woman finds afterward that while her SMV doesn't decrease her appeal as an…	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/13 03:58 PM