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| 2 | Dating hack for menThis is the most useless dating advice for men, it trivilalizes our struggles and gaslights us. It's this lack of answers that pushes men to find actual (but wrong) answers in groups that at least validate our struggles like RP does. What does "human being" mean? Straight en are human beings and you can just ask them for sex or a date and they will say yes (even in the street, research on sexual offers from strangers proves it). Straight men are humans and are thrilled when a female friend wants… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Can men and women be friends?You are talking about it as it is a bad thing. Most straight men are in heaven when a female friend ask them to date or for sex, gay men usually have hookups or date most of their male friends. Research show we men would say yes to a date or sex to a random woman asking us in public even if the woman is considered unattractive, women of course say no usually (RP claims hypergamy, feminiss claim strangher threat) but it seems that the difference persists even when the woman feels safe. Aren't wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/23 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women be friends?That's not the point, you said this happens very often to most women - not just you - which means there's a huge assymentry in attraction even in the context of a friend when the woman feels safe. I'm sure this happened to you even before you had a boyfriend, tons of male friends wanting to date you and you feeling smothered by the attention even though you felt safe around most of these men (not all of course) as they weren't street harassers. Meanwhile not even ONCE in my life has a woman show… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women be friends?Why is it weird to make sexual or romantic advances on friends? You women say you are attracted to men you feel safe around, then you should consider it normal ONLY to feel attracton towards friends (as you can't feel safe around strangers). We gay and straight men are attracted to most people our age but we understand women feel unsafe around strangers, so we don't offer sex to strange women (except for the sociopath who catcall women). We forget about our sexual desire and make female friends,… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women be friends?You are talking about it as it is a bad thing. Most straight men are in heaven when a female friend ask them to date or for sex, gay men usually have hookups or date most of their male friends. Research show we men would say yes to a date or sex to a random woman asking us in public even if the woman is considered unattractive, women of course say no usually (RP claims hypergamy, feminiss claim strangher threat) but it seems that the difference persists even when the woman feels safe. Aren't wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Is women's attraction influenced by other things beside physical attraction, or do women just make exceptions for men with success and money?Don't you have that vibe with your best friends? What you expressed perfectly describes my relationshp with my best friends through life, we see each and understand each other immediately. I also have that with my brothers, my best friends are almost like my brothers anyway so it makes sense that I would feel the same. Have you ever had a best male friend? Didn/t you have that vibe? What is the difference then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Is women's attraction influenced by other things beside physical attraction, or do women just make exceptions for men with success and money?I edited the comment, now it better represents what I meant. What are the differences behaviors and traits that trigger romantic chemistry as opposed to platonic chemistry in you? At least for me there's no such difference, a good friendship personality plus being physically attractive trigger chemistry. This is apretty common form of attraction in men, men usually want to date seriously women they can be friends with. This is why many men love a woman who likes videogames (or plays soccer where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Is women's attraction influenced by other things beside physical attraction, or do women just make exceptions for men with success and money?I was with you until you said your experience applied to most women. Sorry, but if that was the case friend-zone wouldn’t be such a widespread issue. So many women complain that their close male friends too often end up also wanting a FWB or a committed romantic relationship, often these women feel hurt because they feel a deep connection with these men but don’t feel attraction, if deep connections mattered more than looks we would expect these women at least feeling some sort of attraction mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 12:02 AM |
| 3 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?I see, good for you! How do your approach women at bars? It's hard for me to imagine the scene given the age gap, yourg women look creeped out by me at first sight and I'm only 24. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?What do you sell? Drugs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?How do you attract such young women given your older age? How do you approach them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:13 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with?There are some male users who have thrown the same figure here. I think some people here - male and female - are just trying to shoot down the opposite sex here. I can't imagine finding less than 5% of people physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I humanise men again?It depends on what they say. Do they compliment more your looks? Do the make many sexual references? They have sexual feelings for you. Do they seek an emotional connection? Do they compliment more your character despite finding you attractive? They have romantic and sexual feelings for you which is at the basis of pair-bonding, the evolutionary strategy humans have developed to raise children. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I humanise men again?This is not based on failing at dating, if anything it’s the experience of men ”falling” very easily and wanting to be in relationships immediately. Why don't you just talk to the men who have romantic feelings for you? You have men who want a relationship with you, just date them. What should I say? No woman has ever found me attractive unless I use pictures of hot men, only gay men have not judged me for my low attractiveness level. I went into the RP because I had no irl proof of women actual… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The entire crux of every debate ever had in the pill ecosystem is rooted in the fact that women are looked down upon for having sexI've tried that, I still got 0 matches. Meanwhile with gay men I match with 40% of them and a lot of gay who look like male models message and compliment me. At bars women don't make eye contact. What the hell should I do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | To the men: Do you see women as humans?I try to at least remain acquintance despite the pain, I've never had a verbal fight with a female friend or acquaintance in my life, I don't hold hate against the women who reject me, it's just pain/sadness and I'm glad you can understand me, sometimes it feels like women can't experience unrequited love. What truly hurts me is that no woman has ever shown the slight romantic interest in me. It's cool to have drinks together with a female or male friend but I crave deep intimacy, romantic gestu… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | To the men: Do you see women as humans?Yes, I do see woman as humans but I see many women having a different idea of "humanity". One example among many, I've been told by a woman in this very sub that not remaining close to a female friend you want to be in a romantic relationship with after rejection means seeing women as "love objects", by that logic does the woman see the man as a"platonic object" in such a scenario? I would totally accept a woman taking distance from me after rejecting her romantic feelings, I don't see it as an … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Would living in Asia improve my dating life?I'd say go for it, don't let others judge you. Asian women genuinely find white men more attractive if we look at the evidence. Unless there's a large age gap I think there's little chance they find you unattracitve and are only using you. Of course you will have higher quality encounters in a rich asian country like South Korea since women aren't desperate there and will be more culturally similar to you. Korean women won't offer you marriage at first sight but that's not something you should l… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 01:25 PM |
| -1 | Would living in Asia improve my dating life?Because white men are considered as more conventionally attractive than asian men in Asia (well, it's the same in the West according to OLD data). A below average white man is equivalent to an above average asian man looks-wise in Asia, add that Western men are generally wealthier than asian men living in Asia and you are basically prince charming for those women. Money is only part of the explanation, whoever thinks that's the only reason behind the trend doesn't understand women's beauty stand… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?I read that your data concerns sexual behaviors in 2021, during the lockdown. Could the reversal in the distribution of sex between men and women be a consequence of women taking the lockdown more seriously? Studies show women are less risk-taker than men and took social distancing and the lockdown more seriosuly than men did, the fact that after years of women having more sex than men with the gap becoming larger and larger over the years, was reversed exactly during the quarantine is suspiciou… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 01:18 PM |
| -2 | Another Manosphere nutjob goes crazy and TAKES and RUNS the lives of Innocent peopleHow is he a RPer? He didn't subscribe to any RP tenet: hypergamy, 80/20 rule, female serial monogamy, AF/BB, PUA/Game etc. He is a sexist hyper-masculine guy with low impulse control and mental health problems, I know plenty of guys like him who don't even know what RP is, guys like this are often involved in criminal behavior and substance abuse. Calling him RedPiller is like calling a gym bro who sees himself as an "alpha male" for vlogging his PRs a RedPiller. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 12:12 AM |
| -3 | Best counter to: “A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.”I really do not see a counter to this argument. In the casual sex world, any woman can sleep with most guys but only hot or rich men can sleep with many women. People have a problem when this mindset is applied to relationships but, from what I've also read on this sub, it is generally agreed upon that consistent casual sex with many people is a privilege that only women - regardless of looks - and attractive men have. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | What are the destruction possibilities of misrepresentation and morality within the Red Pill dating and sex scene?OP has deleted her account after getting caught lol, she clearly used bots. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?With friednzone I only mean asking out a female acquaintance or friend and she telling you "I only see you as a friend", I don't mean hanging around afterwards with the hope that she will change her mind. It's basically the most common form of rejection in social circles and since cold approching is not allowed and dating apps do not work for men, friendzone is the most common form of rejection for the average man. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | What are the destruction possibilities of misrepresentation and morality within the Red Pill dating and sex scene?i've just checked and 110 upvotes for 1.7k views is A LOT. I can get 100 upvotes every 25k views at best with high-effort threads in communities that are also biased in my favour. This thread is very suspicious . Your personal subreddit has only one subscriber and your followers didn't even comment here which is uncompatible with the quite large following you supposedly have. It's almost like your large following is only goot at the kind of activities that reddit bots can replicate. Where do you… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | What are the destruction possibilities of misrepresentation and morality within the Red Pill dating and sex scene?I see, it makes sense. I was surprised since, as a daily lurker on this sub, I've never seen such a large influx of upvotes and the lack of activity in the comments seemed off. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/22 11:31 PM |
| 6 | What are the destruction possibilities of misrepresentation and morality within the Red Pill dating and sex scene?How did this thread get 110 upvotes but 0 comments in only 5 hours? The average thread on this sub gets a couple of dozens of upvotes at best in 6 hours even with hundreds of comments. Something is fishy here. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?Because FDS is a significantly more recent community, Reddit's mods ban communities only after these reach a certain level of negative fame and reports unless a community seriously breaks important sitewide rules. TRP and MGTOW have been out there for many years without problems, it took them a lot of time to get quarantined and banned in MGTOW case. One of the main reasons why FDS moved outside of Reddit was because they didn't trust Reddit mods to keep their community unbanned and for good rea… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/22 12:37 AM |
| 2 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?I see. By the way, even if you had been a FDS poster it wouldn't have been a problem to me as I find their takes interesting even though I think their community is as toxic as RP if not more as they refer to men with more dehumanizing terms similarly to how incels operate (without the violence and self-harm, fortunately). You said I drunk all the kool-aid and asked me to "join reality" while answering my first comment, I wanted to understand what about that comment was wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?Do you have a source? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?You said "I never posted on FDS" so I don't see why you keep arguing, your statement is untrue. Besides, if I want to share an article I do not post it only on r/whitenationalism unless I agree with them, especially if the article I post contains nothing that criticize their ideology and instead bolsters their negative views on non-white people (ie. a crime committed by a black person). You posted an article against men and porn on FDS, regardless of the validity of the article your post history… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/22 10:32 AM |
| 3 | An Important Step to Combating the Rise of The Red PillMen are more likely to face violent crime, men are more likely to be homeless. On the other hand, men are more likely to commit violent crime, men are more likely to be billionaires. I believe men are over-represented in both the most oppressed and most priviliged groups, you can't really make an "average". | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 03:19 PM |
| 0 | An Important Step to Combating the Rise of The Red Pill"I didn't choose to have tons of money so it's not my fault if poor people treat me better. The problem is poor people" Just because you didn't choose a privilege it doesn't mean that it's not real. Besides, do men really desire women more than the other way around? Or, maybe, men just desire more casual sex than the other way around? If it's the latter, it's not a dating advantage for women since most women do not want casual sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 12:10 PM |
| 4 | An Important Step to Combating the Rise of The Red PillI don't believe men are privileged, some men and some women are. Once feminists stop saying that men are priviliged maybe more men will be open to join the feminist discourse. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 12:06 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?A plate is a sexual partner, spinning plates means seeing multiple sexual partners | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 11:55 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?Yes, you did. It's literally the only thread in your post history. I'm open to being wrong on my previous statements and thus dialogue. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 11:52 AM |
| -2 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?As a FDS poster, what about my comment do you think is not based in reality? I'm genuinely curious. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenCould you please post the study? I'd be very interested in seeing it. Thanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 08:32 PM |
| -9 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?By the same logic, women shouldn't have close friendships with men where they share their emotions because men always catch feelings. So why do many women blame men who complain about being friendzoned? Are they brainwashed by FemalePill propaganda like I am? You are extending an amount of empathy towards women that they do not extend towards us. Nobody is entitled to other people's love and affection, including women. What am I wrong about? It's pretty accepted on this sub too that having regul… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 02:41 PM |
| -16 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?If a woman catches feelings after sex it's her problem. I don't see the same empathy for men who get friendzoned so why should I have empathy for women who have FwBs? They purposedly go after the hottest men, these men do not even mention a serious relationship and want to have fun but many woman keep falling for these guys. How many below average guys do you see spinning multiple plates? Considering that 1 every 3 American men aged 18-30 is virgin compared to only 1 every 6 American women, you … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenNever in my life a woman has given me eye contact at a bar et similia, never, and I'm 25. Meanwhile, tons of gay men find me and other involuntary celibate males attractive. You said that real life is different yet women behave like on Omegle in real life as they don't like me as soon as they ssee me so we are back at the beginning. How can I not take it personally when I know that if I use pictures of hot men while keeping my real bio on Tinder women message and match with me en masse? How can … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenYou take this for granted but women never look at me back, only gay men did and old people do because I look foreigner. Also, I've seen so many women saying they find less than 1% of men physically attractive in their lives which, again, separates tham from gay men ie. r/askwomen: What percentage of guys loo cute to you? . So what am I supposed to do if everything starts with physical attraction just like on dating apps and Omegle with the difference that women have such unrealistic looks standa… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/22 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs women,Cold approaches are accepted by men as multiple peer-reviewed studies also replicated in different countries, show that more than 70% of men would say yes to a random woman asking them in public to have sex with them. Anecdotally, the same applies to gay men, for example there are threads with thousands of upvotes on askgaybros where almost all gay men agree that they love to be catcalled and can't understand why women do not like it (just search "catcall" on askgaybros). It's an issue exlcusiv… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenI didn't ask for that, I asked how feelings of a friend wanting a relationship with you and then abandoning you compare to being rejected for a realtiosnhip, not how being sexually harssed compares to being rejected for a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenit's literally what people - women particularly - suggest here since cold approaching is not accepted by women, the only way we have to get dates is to use social circles. Is this disingenous now? Should we ask women out as soon as wee se them if are looking for dates? Shoulld we tell strange women we want to bone them if we are looking for casual sex? This is literally what women force us to do since they call us creep if we cold approach them, we are literally obeying what women say when we tr… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenWhy do women value flirting without making a move? Gay men value honesty, if you like someone just tell them, Why do women value dishonesty? What are the social/biological reasons behind that? I'm confident when I ask out women in my social circle and when I make friends., I guess the problem is not being flirty enough. I usually compliment women's achievements and character traits like I would do with a male I really like as a friend, what should I do to flirt more? Or should I hit on women out… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenWhat do you mean with confidence? I don't have social anxiety, I can make friends. I only feel anxiety when I want to make a move on a woman I don't know well because I fear I will appear creepy and be judged by people, this is why I try to get to know women through social cirlces before asking them out. What part of my confidence should I work on? Should I start hitting on strange women too? How is that different from dating apps? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenWhen I ask them out they usually say "I only see you as a friend" or, one time, "I thought you were asexual". So what should I do? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenn the same way being offered sex doesnt mean youre getting good sex, a relationship doesn't mean you're offered a good relationship. Getting offerss of those things make u attracted to the offerer. You made a comparison but my point is most things are the same for both genders. You wouldnt want a gay man going after you if youre straight becausee ur not attracted to men (making a point idk if ur straight)I could argue men who feel lonely or desperate or sex or love should just have sex with and … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenI don't see how not valuing her friendship after rejection means he only see her as a sexual object, making friends before asking someone out is the basis of using social circles for finding dates and relationships. Most people I know do not have close friends of the opposite sex yet they got into relationships and look for relationships, it has nothing to do with seeing other people as sexual objects. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 07:26 PM |
| 0 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenAnd gay men are still capable of finding most men attractive, straight men are still capable of finding women without makeup on Omegle and dating apps attractive. Again, it's only women who seem very judgmental, not gay men. Besides, I do take care of myself: weightlfiting, colunt my macros, haircut every month, I shave my face every day, I go to the salon for my eyebows regularly, sunscreens every day, face cream and face wash for my skin type twice a day, retinol and Vit C serum every day, I d… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenou are assuming. We are in a time that loneliness is growing in our generation. In every movie/tv show you see friendless or low friend characters and lonely folks are portrayed as deviants, even in romance movies the main character always has a bestie because friendship is taken as a given. Being friendless is used as an insult. Friendship is absolutely at the exact level of family and romance in human social health, you wouldn't say "having no or being betrayed family has less impact than no r… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenBut I didn't talk about wanitng only sex, I talked about a friend confessing a crush on you or maybe asking you out on a date.If you want to go through that path, sexual harassment from a stranger is worse than being rejected by a stranger, it's obvious but it wans't my point. I was making a comparison between men's and women's relationship options, we all already know women are grossed out by sexual proposals from people they are not already intimate with. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenShe didn't talk about sexual violence, your premise is flawed. She talked about men abandoning her or bitching about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 05:24 PM |
| -1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenI base my arguments on what women say, notice how I didn't say anything about what straight men and RP say. RP is based on many wrong beliefs and misinterpreations of data, still rejecting RP doesn't mean I reject my ongoing quest for truth. EDIT: your history is full of references to evolutionary psyhology and JP-like arguments ie. women should only select for the best genes, the lead of the pack etc., I think you should reconsider your criticism against me. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenI don't see how it is dehumanizing to have someone confessing a crush on you, it doesn't mean they just want just to "fuck you" , I mentioned this trend literally to prove that women also have plenty of options who aren't merely sexual. I once confessed to a female friend, I felt too much pain being around her after rejection so I had to take some distance in order to protect my emotions, I didn't want to just f**k her otherwise I would have not cared about the rejection, the same way I don't ca… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 04:59 PM |
| -3 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenAre you homosexual? Go on r/askgaybros and search friendzone. Gay dudes get ""friendzone"" like anyone else. You have a view of the gay community that isnt true and you're projecting it on women. And 9 times out of 10 the man they fall for is straight. Friendzone still happens to gay men but it's just as rare as women experience it. To give you an example about gay men, my match rate is insanely high on gay dating apps (40%, the same as straight women) and I receive many messages while no woman … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenI agree with this. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenIs it just about sex? I hear so many women complaining that they can't keep platonic male friends because men always end up having crushes for them. This tells us two things: many many women have tons of potential options even among men they feel safe around (not just strangers); 2) many women also have many options who offer them relationships and not just sex. In comparison, how many men do you hear complaining that women keep falling for them too often? It's probably the top 10 % of men, basi… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 11:36 AM |
| 6 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenGay men I'm a heterosexual involuntary celibate male, despite this I was able to find two gay online boyfriends and countless potential dates with gay men whom I had to leave since my attempts at forcing attraction from my side didn't work. Finding a gay boyfriend is like making friends, there's not the barrier of attraction like there is with women, if you get along you have a boyfriend as attraction is there by default - it's extremely easy. With women you usually get friendzoned as attraction… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Men and women here, how many actual options do you have?Attraction starts with looks but it's not the only factor. One way to think my question is this: sexual object - someone who hits on you in the streets or tells you sexual comments at a bar non-sexual object - someone from your social circle who asks you out, a person at a bar who makes a move on you after having got to know you through conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:51 AM |
| -1 | Do secure men feel attraction to anyone?https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/shameless-woman/201301/cracking-the-code-female-sexual-desire tl;dr while men get aroused sponteneously, women get aroused by being desired. It's more complex than that since there aren't perfectly sponteneous and responsive sex drives but men and women skew towards theese two different aspects. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Do secure men feel attraction to anyone?I've never heard a RedPiller saying that attraction in men is rooted in the need for validation, I've heard RedPillers saying this about women. I even heard some people associating this idea to the fact that women - unlike men - predominantly have a responsive desire as opposed to a sponteneous one. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do all you guys care about finding a relationship/love instead of funding solutions to your sadnessWould you say the same to someone who couldn't make friends? "Don't focus on trying to make friends, just learn to be alone". You wouldn't because we are social animals thus we want to be recogniezed and validated by our peers. To a similar extent, the same applies to romantic/sexual relationships, we want to be validated by a romantic/sexual partners. I think it's significantly easier to be happy without partners if you have relationship experience or people who were attracted to in you in the … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Men and women here, how many actual options do you have?I'm really sorry, how did you internalize all of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Would you prefer to just sleep around with multiple women instead of a relationship?First of all, I don't shame women for sleeping around, I shame women for their unrealistic attractiveness standards. Second point ,there's a difference. I'd go to bed with most women and I don't lie by saying that I don't want casual sex but scretely give it to the hottest women, I don't enforce double standards. Women lie about not wanting casual sex and secretly give it to the hottest men, they are dishonest, not me, they enforce double standards around casual sex - not men. Chadfish can behav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 10:52 AM |
| 0 | Would you prefer to just sleep around with multiple women instead of a relationship?I'd like to sleep around until I'm established with my career, then LTRs and marriage. I have 0 options since I'ma below avreage looking man but this is what I would like to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:48 AM |
| 3 | How many of you had parents/guardians that abused substances?They did nothing of that stuff and I still have a good and close relationship with them, maybe they are a little bit on the strict side of parenthood. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | REDPILL in the Arab worldHow can RedPill work in the arab world? Isn't it a sin to shake the hand of a person of the opposite sex in islam? How can you even game women into casual sex then? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Do girls dislike vulnerability?This comment is completely absurd. Women always say that they do NOT want to be approached bymen they do not know men, thus men try to be friendly first but you say that's wrong now? Like, they are literally doing what women say. Don't women find most men attractive like straight and gay men do? Womne here that the only reason they are more selective on dating apps is safety, so why don't women find most of their male friends attractive like gay men and straight men do with people on dating apps… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Why up with the red pill hating on black women?It should be noted that black RPers usually talk badly about black women, not RPers of other races. The reason is probably because black RPers interact more with women who belong to their own race than other women, the same way white RPers and asian RPers talk badly more about women who belong to their own race, | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?There's no girlfriend-zoned or friend-zoned because real relationships involve respect and reciprocity. It's telling about women's relationship options, average men don't have plenty of women wanting to be their girlfriend, this shows women also have TONS of relationship options. it's simply untrue that women only have more sexual options which debunks your previous statement. Besides, you can ask out a friend or confess love thus "girlfreind-zoning her" without disrespect invoolved and that's w… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?Doesn't this thread prove that women get a girlfreidnzoned a lot too? Not just "f***-zoned"? Half of the comments are women saying they have been girlfriend-zoned and they do not report scary situation, just uncomfortable ones. This was the point of my thread, to measure women's "boyfriend options" as women - unlike men - often make a strict disction between "relationship options" and "sexual options". Only you did report a scary situation and it's not even clear if he actually got angry at you … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?It's not a fair comparison. People who join clubs to get dates are people who are already not successful with other more popular dating mediums like dating apps, bars and their social cirlce. In other words, these people are less attractive to begin with. Would people who are already successful at attracting mates have trouble with finding dates in clubs they specifically joined for dating purposes? From my expereince no, fuckboys are pretty succeessful everywhere and they definitely see sex as … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?Well, according to the female user above you are an entitled creep, read her last reply to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?Maybe, just maybe, you develop feelings over time? You don't just want sex from somoene you have liked for two years, you also like their personality but it takes time to like someone's personality. The rejection from someone you love is also 1000x more painful because she is rejecting the real you (not just a picture on a dating app) and you really like her, this is why many guys need space after rejection. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?No, dating apps mean 0 matches for average men, they are literally not a viable option for us, don't try to make it looklike it's equal for everyone. Cold approches are wrong too from what you say, now you are saying that making friends first to make the woman feel is safe is also wrong to find relationship. I'm shocked to be honest. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 10:33 PM |
| -1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?People in this sub often say that cold approaches and dating apps don't work, that one should make friendship with women at least a little bit first before showing attraction. is this wrong now? Situations like this often happen because of advice like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?Romantic attraction is not something one chooses, it doesn't have to be justified by rational reasons. You can't lie to yourself to feel acrush towards someone as people can't choose whom they are attracted to. Not compatible people can love (it happens often), bad people can love, good people can love. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 09:36 PM |
| 0 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?If I may ask, how old are you? You must be still in high school if this has never happened to you as a female. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?What did your female friends experience? Other grand professions of love? I'm asking because I only have one female friend and I've never had a girlfriend in my life so my perspective is limited. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 09:08 PM |
| -1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?That's still not wanting to just have sex with someone if they loved an idealized verion of her, they clearly were very emotionally invested in her. Still, this does not make their actions right. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?If they professed their love clearly they didn't want to just have sex with her, still it's disrespectul regardless of whether they wanted only sex or not. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?He and the other ones. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"?Just curious, what did they do exactly? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 08:37 PM |
| 0 | No one has all the answersAnd most violence is commmitted against men accoridng to data, thus men suffer more according to your logic. Less than 0,1% of men commit violence, all the other men are victims adn they are victims more than women. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.How can you find out if someone is sexually compatible if you don't get dates let alone the first sex? Men here complain about not having ever been to a date and 0 likes, not dead bedrooms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results.This sounds like a troll post, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results.If you don't go out, guys can't approach you. Just go to a bar or post a selfie on a Discord server and then let us know how it went. A woman not getting approached doesn't mean whe can't get approached, actually it's even better for woman as many men choose to not approached women randomly and instead prefer to do it in appropriate or risk-free environments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Since when TRP suddenly became synonymous with Alt-Right fringes?TRP is not alt-right but many RPers are into the alt-right, this is probably because both groups share a zero-sum game view of group dynamics - gender in TRP case - due to TRP transactional view of relationships. Overall, I'd say RedPillers are more progressive than the average American just because of age but they are more conservative than the average young American. With that said, I couldn't read that article due to the paywall but i see a picture of Joe Rogan. If Joe Rogan is alt-right acco… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 10:42 AM |
| 2 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?40% regards the overall population, we can suppose that there's variation across different demographics. For example, I imagine that the figure will be significantly higher in a big college (and thus tech-savy) city, while it will likely be way lower in a rural and older-aged city; dudes here are generally young men who are pursuing higher education or have a degree - me included - so we are more likely to be in the first group. Yes, you are completely right, it doesn't make sense for us to cont… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?That's just one hypothesis, the methodology may as well be good enough, we can't know given the limited scope of the study - as you pointed out - so let's look at other studies. OkCupid seems to confirm the previous study I mentioned: we can see that women have more pursuers than men until age 26, but thereafter a man can expect many more potential dates than a woman of the same age. At the graph’s outer edge, at age 48, men are nearly twice as sought-after as women.Thus opportunities for dating… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?And, most 35 years old man/woman who want children are not interested in 50 something men/women nearing menopause/andropause. As a matter of fact, men are less attracted in 50 y/o women and menopause makes sense since these women can't coneive. Conversely, 50 y/o men are far from andropause so what are you talking about? Your claim is objectively wrong. .In fact, studies on traditional dating cites Zoosk, OKC, CMB shows that most couples matches with roughly around their same age within 1-3 year… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 06:19 AM |
| 3 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?As a former BlackPiller, you have to realise that BlackPill and RedPill are completely different ideologies that have only some beliefs in common. RPers believe in game,status and money. From Rollo Tomassi's words, father and main RP ideologist: "if one could choose between only having one among looks, money, status and game, game is the most important thing to have". BlackPillers believe only looks can generate genuine sexual desire in women. Common BlackPill quote "There's no life under 7/10" … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Should I keep being friends with her because red pill has my vision clouded?but usually women want to be seen as individuals, not "that one hot girl." In my life experience, this is a common reason why a woman will turn a guy down. Could you expand on this? I'd like to understand. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 06:40 PM |
| 0 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?But that's at least one statistical proof showing that 50 y/o men have more options than 18 y/o men. Meanwhile, there's zero proof proving the opposite so, if we have to apply the same standards of proof to both claims, the RP claim is more supported by data according to the limited evidence we currently have. Conversely, I only see weak anecdotes in this thread. Besides, 40% of people meet their partner through dating apps, it's the single most popular way to meet a partner in the US, which mak… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 06:17 PM |
| -2 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?But it's not a fantasy, it is true: Tinder and Bumble study: straight men peak on dating apps at 50, while women peak at 18 And the study was conducted way after RP made their claims about age, which means that some RP claims have actual predictive power, they don't only interpret reality according to their own biased views. Besides, men peaking at 50 and women at 18 doesn't mean that 18 y/o old women want to date 50 y/o men and viceversa, it only means that men have the most dating options at 5… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?RP made their claims on age way before that survey was even conducted. Tinder and Bumble data support RP claims more than non-RP claims, no evidence for the contrary. Besides, I think that success on Tinder and Bumble is a large part of being successful in today's dating market as Tinder is the most used dating app in the world and dating apps are the most common way to meet partners in the US according to surveys. It's not just a "dating website". | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | f*ck "bros before hoes"I've never been judged for my looks and status by a male friend, while it's the standard in dating women. Too many times I've been ghosted by a woman I was vicing with just after showing them my pictures, this has never happened with a male friend or gay men (actually, gay men become more interested after seeing my face!). This is from the perspective of a man who has never been on a date though, I can't speak for men who are in relationships with women. I can only say that - as a dateless strai… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?It's true: Tinder and Bumble study: straight men peak on dating apps at 50, while women peak at 18 Just because some RP concepts are untrue, it doesn't mean that all their claims are baseless. I think the end goal should be reaching a nuanced view of dating, not rejecting this or that ideology altogether. I think it's even hard to get everything wrong unless one purposedly tries to do so. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Clearly, some conservatives don't believe in that separation. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?American conservatives consider abortion murder, from a religious perspective it makes sense as Christians believe in the concept of soul and fetuses have a soul according to this view. As a comparison, Muslims consider blasphemy a very serious attack against all Muslims that must be punished since the Quran says it and the Quran is the ultimate law as it was written/inspired by God who can't be wrong. Different people have different philosophical views, I believe in the self-determination of pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Exactly, and I don't understand the downvotes. Do these people think that RP and non-RP dating advice for men focuses on the initial stages of dating (ie. seduction) for no reason at all? And do these people think it's a coincidence that dating advice for women focuses on the last stages of dating (ie. relationship maintenance)? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 08:30 PM |
| -6 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Men should be outraged by this decision, just like women. Why should I be outraged by the overturn of Roe v Wade? From what I've read the decision will only give more power to individual states to choose their own abortion laws, this sounds like more power to the people. I'm from Europe and I'm against most non-economic laws that force individual countries to adhere to what the European Union wants. I'm from the Western and more progressive block, despite this I don't want to force my views on p… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 07:34 PM |
| -16 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Empathie, kindness, wisdom and the capabillity to see the bigger societal picture in personal challenging times are of far greater importance. You are thinking under a female lense. Although those traits are certainly important for compatibility, they are way less important for attraction and that's where men fail. It's easy as hell to keep a woman after sex, from the accounts of my attractive male friends it's even hard to get rid of these women as they become attached, that's how easy it is. F… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?There are monolithic differences between male and female sexuality, trying to conceptualize them is not dehumanizing. The mere fact that you say that these tactics can work on low-self esteem women but not confident women is weird from a male perspective as every sexual tactic would work us, even literally catcalling us/asking us for sex immediately as studies show, and it's not because we have lower self-esteem than women. Some people say that safety is the main factor that explains gender diff… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why is everything about being so primal?Because attraction is a completely emotional reaction, we don't choose whom we are attracted to. Since attraction is completely emotional, it makes more sense to explore the instincts that drive these emotions, which means implementing an evolutionary logic as opposed to other forms of logic. If you want to understand compatibility as opposed to attraction, of course it makes more snese to implement non-evolutionary forms of logic as reason has a larger impact on compatibility than it does on at… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Are single women richer than married women?I think it relates to the topic of hypergamy. According to RP, higher income women supposedly can't find partners because they only want someone who earns as much or more than them. As a counter-argument, I've heard people saying that men are the ones rejecting higher-income women because they feel intimidated. Personally, I think the truth is in the middle. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/22 01:28 PM |
| 3 | RedPill’s dogma on Women’s OptionsHow is the that "a problem"? We are talking about dating options here, not friendship options, and you have them while we do not. Let's be clear here: if a man doesn't know you and approches "it doesn count" but if he tries to get to know you before asking you out "he's not a real friend" and it doens't count. Do you see the problem? Women do have plenty of options but make excuses to not count them, it even reinforces the RP point as you seem to have so many dating options that you can't have m… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | RedPill’s dogma on Women’s OptionsAnd how many options do you have among people you know? I always hear women complaining that they can't keep male friends because they eventually make a move, it sounds to me that women also have plenty of options among men they appreciate as people and feel comfortable with - not just strangers in the streets. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I don't see how porn is frying my brain, I still find most normal women sexually attractive, something that can't be said about women - maybe porn and movies are frying their brain? Who knows! | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?So no, men are not less aroused by ugly women by the mere fact that ugly women are in relationships. Again, you don't need to be with your ultimate sexual fantasy to be in a relationship. Everyone settles. As I said I'd ratther have sex with an average woman today than wait for the unlikely chance of bedding a woman wiht a pornstar body. I don't see the contradiction. you are trying to argue that hot women get more attention, then you are arguing a straw man because I never said otherwise. They … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?That's the point you were trying to make.My question had nothing to do with hot women vs ugly women. I wasn't asking which one men preferred.gain, I'm not comparing attractive to unattractive women. And I said ugly women are in relationships, what's your point? And what point are your arguing? This is my point: men are less aroused by ugly women (that is, non-ugly women turn us on more.). If you are arguing against another point, you are arguing against an argumnet I didn't make or a straw man. … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I'm not comparing hot women to ugly women. I don't know what's the point in you doing that..... This is the definitely the point. i said men are less easily turned on by ugly women, it implies that men are more easily turned on to non-ugly women (hot women). Porn is a fantasy, not real life, and again, I'm not talking about porn or masturbation. Porn is the ultimate male sexual fantasy, how are men's porn fantasies not indicative of men's sexual triggers? Do you think porn actresses skew towards… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I'm sure those men are very romantically attracted to those women but sexual attraction? That's different, I'd say they'd feel more aroused spending a night with the Nr. 1 top rated pornstar on Pornhub. Do I need a scientific study? Men don't masturbate to ugly women, pornstars are hot and they are chosen/selected for because they arouse us the most. Almost all the top pornstars, according to the Pornhub community rankings, have large tits and curvy butts for a reason. This sounds obvious to me.… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Fewer men that those who find hot women sexually attractive but still a very large amount. The intensity of sexual attraction is also different, we men can literally become hard down there just at the sight of a hot woman, on the contrary it's harder to stay hard with a less attractive woman and it takes more effort. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?If I may ask, how many dates have you been to? What does usually happen afterwards? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?To me attraction and hitting it off are different things, the latter is under the umbrella of compatibility and that's very different from attraction. With OLD you have the advantage of meeting people you are already attracted to and who have the same goal, to me this to me is the opposite of wasting time, it's saving time and, for an introvert, emotional effort too. If I were a handsome man, I'd mainly use OLD to meet women. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I may try that, I have nothing to lose after all given that my current approach is not working. How did it work for you? I've just checked out your profile, it appears that you post on ForeverAlone and ask people out like pharmacists without rapport. I'm not making fun of that, whatever you are doing is working better than what I do since you seem to have romantic experience at least, but you also seem to face problems. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Tons of time spent fantasizing about my HS crush, dreaming about having a relationship with her, gradually falling in love with her with no actual romantic relationship existing between us. I was releasing feel-good pair-bonding hormones without having ever touched her. Today, if I feel somwhat romantic towards a woman I ask her out, I don't wait. Since I've always been rejected I don't get to the level of emotional investment I had towards my high school crush in 2012-2013, that wasn't just rom… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Do women find those cues attractive? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I didn't talk much to her, meanwhile I do talk to the women I meet today. I know I vibe with these women on a platonic level, meanwhile I only admired my school crush a lot from a far witht some interactions here and there. I have a deeper bond with the women I meet today than my high school crush. Do you think my brain hasn't released pair-bonding hormones in 10 years? Of course it has, with the only difference that I don't allow these hormones to go too far by making my brain build myriads of … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?There are important traits I like about the women I ask out now though. The main reason I was crazy about my high school crush was because I spent a lot of time day-dreaming about dating her and having a relationship with her without ever making a move first. I had fantasies about marrying and having kids with her, they made my heart feel warm. My high-school diary has even a couple of writings about her. This is not healthy, people reach this level of emotional investment once in a relationship… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?10 years have passed since the last time I saw and talked to her, she moved away that year and from what I know she's in a relationship now. It wouldn't be appropriate to contact her even if she was single. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?My high school crush, she had traits I liked and I also spent a lot of time with ther since we shared the same classes so my romantic attraction built up to the point of becoming a crush. She was among the least sexually attractive women to me in my class when I first saw her, to my male peers she was a 2 but I saw her as barely 6 looks-wise, most others girls I saw in our classes were more sexually attractive to me. I started crushing on her only after two years of knowing her, she was the best… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I said that sexual attraction is based on looks and romantic attraction is based on personality. A woman being good at something I value can increase my romantic interest, not my sexual attraction. I don't see the contradiction. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?The same traits I'd want in a friend: similar humor, some common interests but not all and similar personality traits ( ie.. I'm introverted so I woulnd't see myself in a relationship with a very extroverted woman), similar values (I'm a liberal and a humanist). I think my list would be longer if I had relationship experience. I can't even imagine going on a date with a woman, let alone a wife or girlfriend. Not even my subconsncious can imagine this at this point, it got to the point that at ni… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Men find most women sexually attractive so even if a woman is less sexually attractive she will still have tons of options. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I used that phrase to emphasize the complete lack of attraction displayed by them. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Plus, even if you start out "treating them like a straight man," once they express interest you have to start acting more romantically and show interest back. How can I even show interest back if not even one of these woman has ever shown any romantic interest first? I talk to everyone, then there are some men and women I find more interesting and I talk to them more and have deeper conversations with them. What should I do instead of asking them out? Should I tell them they are hot first? I usu… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Ugliness can actually be a sexual turn of to men though, leadership doesn't as it's neutral to us. Ugly women have less dating options than hot women. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Men vary in physical taste, I'm more attracted to overweight women, it's not because I'm less shallow that other men, it's just how my body reacts to them. But generally speaking fat women have a smaller pool of men sexually attracted to them and morbidly obese women have even a smaller pool of men sexually attracted to them. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I'm open to both, either sex or a relationship. I don't ask women to be my girlfriend, I ask women I click with platonically on a romantic date, that's it. I don't think they perceive me as desperate as they don't see me hitting on other women and I don't ask them out without building some basic rapport first, I treat them like I would treat a man I found interesting and I wanted to hang out with platonically, with the different that my approach works on men I want to befriend platonically. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I'll try to frame it in a better way: being a leader is like preferring pasta over rice to us, it's neither sexually attractive nor sexually unattractive - it's neutral. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Because we find most women our age sexually attractive by default, leader or not. In terms of sexual attraction, being a leader is a neutral trait, being morbidly obese is an example of negative trait instead. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I don't see how it contradicts my statement. If an action is not sexually attractive, it doesn't mean that such action is sexually unattractive. A woman being a leader doesn't trigger sexual attraction per se, a woman being a leader and on top of that being sexually attractive (ie. having a nice body) triggers sexual attraction. Yes, sometimes being a leader as a woman may push a man away from pursuing her but it has nothing to with sexual attraction, generally men understand that women like lea… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Yes, he will say yes usually. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?No, it's a completely neutral trait sexually speaking to us, neither negative nor positive. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThis is about whether hypergamy is true, whether women truly find as many people attractive as men. This is not about should's and should not's. Again, this is NOT a precriptive thread, it's a descriptive one. You can do whathever you want with friendships, I'm using friendships to test the validity of hypergamy as a concept. I used those women's experience not to make statements about the validity of their emotions, that's not the point, but because thei are informative on the amount of dating … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manYou have used empathy, reflected on those past interactions and realised those men weren't mature enough since rejection is very hurtful to men (true) but they were after the whole package What you heard was different from what you said. You had tons of valid options in reality, as many average women do. How should I use empathy? The nth woman I'm friend with who rejects my romantic feelings or romantic date means what it means, she appreciates my personality but doesn't feel attraction at all. … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manI don't like the word "insult" because it implies that the woman is at fault for rejecting me and she is not, it's more llke she provided a negative feedback. You have said that you realized they offered the whole package, not only sex, after you thought about those past interactions in adulthood - this is the key point. And you also said that being friends with someone is not the same as pair boding with someone, it's less than the whole package. So you had tons of men offering to "pair bond" o… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Are platonic male friends for women the equivalent of f**k-buddies/ONS for men?We men prefer ONS and f**k-buddies over prostitution only for the validation, this is why we feel emotional pain when we don't have sex for a long time even when prostitutes are readily available We feel admiration and even envy towards men who are sexually attractive to many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a man. I'm older now and I understand better that these guys likely were interesting in the whole package So you now understand you did indeed have tons of actual options and that the average man is not a player, most of always knew that. .What do we realise growing up instead? That we keep not having any women after our whole package, most of us in this sub have and had ltierally nothing. I see too many women complaing that they can't have guy friends because they always end-up girl-friendzoning. It… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I think "turned on" is too ambiguous as a term, it can refer to attraction in general, be it romantic or sexual. "Horny" is better but it wasn't allowed by the subreddit anti-spam filter. Something like "What traits make you sexually desire someone?" would be a perfect question to make. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Im not a big fan of being a manI'm replying here because your last comments has been removed from the anti-spam filter, it's probably the Amazon link. PLATONIC VALIDATION As I said, yes we men can get platonic validation as easily as women, just making friends with our fellow men is an example. By definition, friendships and platonic validation (ie. being recognized as a good cook, good athlete, smart etc.) don't involve attraction, you can get them outside of dating as attraction and your sexuality are not factors. Men and w… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Im not a big fan of being a manTYPES OF VALIDATION Can't you get that type of validation outside of dating and men? I'm more flattered when my professor says I'm smart than when an attractive woman does it, I'm more flattered when a guy into sports says I'm good at sports than when a attractive woman says it, I'm more flattered when a chef says I'm good at cooking than when an attractive woman does it. This is platonic validation, you can get it from friends and by definition friendships don't involve attraction so you can ge… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Ok, I'll give it a go. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Exredpillers how do you hold onto hope not to rope?I have a similar experience to yours. I'm 25 y/o and no woman has ever shown even the slightest interest in me in real life and online, the only time I've talked to a woman romantically was when I used my chadfish for a couple of days on Bumble and Reddit some years and yeah, it was both shocking and depressing. I only had gay men interested in me, to this day I still pray to wake up gay or bisexual one day but I'm still waiting for such miracle to happen lol. Still, even though women now are at… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 04:00 AM |
| 5 | Im not a big fan of being a manIn what ways do women value being validated? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I've said I never cold approachesd a woman but I expressed interesin woman in the past, women in my social circles, female friends at simila. I've always been seen only as a friend. That's why I'm exploring PUA and cold approaches now. Why would someone find me attractive? For the same reason gay men already find me attractive, for the same reason women find me likeable and want to befriend me, for the same reason women find my personality hot when I use pictures of hot men on dating apps. I'm a… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?So how am i supposed to conceptualize female sexuality into practiCe as a man given that female sexuality is so different from straight and gay men's sexuality? I know how to find my way around in the gay dating world but with women I don't have such a compass. If I was already attractive I would simply ignore this whole debate but as a man who has zero success with women, how am I supposed to improve? I'd like to explore my sexuality with women and have an active dating life, just being friends… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 04:37 AM |
| 3 | RedPill, BlackPill YT channels.But then why are asians and indians so over-represented in incel spaces? Again, it's hard to generalize incels, they are too diverse in my opinion. Some incels are white supremacists, other incels are minorities. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Why is Mystery the best PUA? Because he claims to be and says he is? Your question should really be "Why does manipulation appear to work in the courses sold to me by my favorite PUA, but not in the real world? What is the disconnect?" I thought about this a lot, I couldn't believe that seduction could be learnt. Not knowing any PUA in person I decided to make my own reserach (I'm still doing ti). I think there are some good reasons to believe that Mystery and other top PUAs are not making up th… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I meant that there's no such thing as a common PUA belief, there's only a common purpose: get women seuxally attracted to you and bed them. Boxing is different from BJJ, they have nothing in common but both have the same purpose: fighting, which is what defines martial arts. This is what I meant. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 03:12 AM |
| 2 | RedPill, BlackPill YT channels.OP talked about mass shootings in the US, not Canada. I'm not from England, no incel attacks has ever happened in my country. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I don't use social scripts on men because I don't need to. if I want to have sex with a gay man I only have to ask (I'm not into men unfortunately), if I want to befriend men I just do activities with them. Doing acitivities with women has never led one to show any romantic interest in me, they just behave like straight men around me, no interest aside of platonic one. No, I've never used PUA tactics, i've also never cold approached a woman in my life. I'm in the process of learning their books,… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Yes, I would be creeped out if a guy approached me like that. And, as I said, there's no such thing as "what pickup artists say". For example, Mystery, arguably the best PUA, is explicitly against approaching women from the front side. According to Mystery you should approach women from the side, not only that but according to the Mystery's method you shouldn't approach a woman alone, instead you should approach her group as a whole and only after a while focus on the woman you are interested in… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?None of the people he mocks in the video is a recognized PUA. PUA means any dating tactic used to bed womenà, it's not a commom set of strategies. Think of PUA like martial arts, anyone can invent their unique martial art even though they all have the same purpose: fighting and self-defencse. Mystery, the master of indirect game (Neil Strauss, author of "The Game", was his student); RSD, the art of spontaneity; London Street Game, the art of directness. These are some of the recognized and respe… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?As a woman, you just have to ask a straight guy for sex and he will say yes most of the times. As a gay man, you just have to ask for sex to a gay guy and he will say yes immeditaly most of the times. try any gay dating app, you will have insanely high match rates and tons of sexual opportunities, dick pictures are even more important than face pictures on Grindr. Gay men are basically living the islamic heaven in some ways (except for the virgin part)! I and straight men consider ourselves as h… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | RedPill, BlackPill YT channels.I also see this tendency to associate anyone who commits mass shootings or is mysognistic to incels. For example, I've seen the Aztec High School shooting being classifed as "incel terrorism" in some online lists even though the shooter didn't self-identify as incel, idolized the Columbine shooters (not incel terrorists) and had nazi symbols tattooed on his body. Basically, any lonely and weird guy who kills is considered "incel" attack by many people. Sometimes people even associate any mysogyn… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?How would you word it? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | A Deep-Dive into Red Pill Claims, and why they are FalseJust curious, what do you think about David Buss and his research? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 11:06 PM |
| -1 | RedPill, BlackPill YT channels.There has been only one mass shooting committed by a self-identified incel in the US, the 2014 Isla Vista shooting perpetrated by Elliot Rodger which led to the death of 7 people, 5 men and 2 women. Incels haven't contributed significantly to the total amount of casualities caused by mass shootings in the US in the last 10 years. I'm not American but I'm surprised by the amount of attention and blame put on them, every week there's a mass shooting in your country committed by "normal" men. I'm f… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I’ll never get out the redpill.Interesting, did game work for you? How did you implement it exactly? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Sure, here. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | I’ll never get out the redpill.If I may ask, how old are you? Have you ever had a woman interested in you? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I chose to post the title of the thread, not the link, because many subs automtically remove or ghost comments containing links to other Reddit threads. I hope this comment won't get automatically removed/ghosted but this is the AskWomen post if you can't find it. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?A biased question attracts biased answers, particularly because these are self-selected samples. Asexual men exist, demisexual men exist, men with particular submissive fetishes exist. Yes, we can take these men in consideration but their contribution is statistically small. On average allosexual men, a talent adds on romantic attraction and very little to nothing to lust/sexual desire. Humans are complex, maybe talent and confidence add 1% to male sexual desire? I don't know, Of course having s… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Yes, it would be interesting to include talent and confidence in such experiments. That study is very limited. If you want to differentiate between sexual attraction and sexual desire (which to me equals lust), I find most women my age sexually attractive by defautl so just existing is neough. After all, multiple replicated studies show that more than 70% of men would say yes to a random woman asking them in public to have sex even if the woman is rated as unattractive by the researchers (if she… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I don't know what you are looking at but the gender differences are clearly very signficant, I fail to see how anyone could call this (from the study) insignificant. Besides, Garth Fletcher coauthored both the textbook (he directly authored that excerpt I quoted before) and the study I posted, you are literally saying that he "sucks" at understaning his own study. I've never said safety didn't matter, I said that alone it doesn't explain women's pickiness. Women are pickier than men for sex even… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Also, is your argument that men would (on average) prefer a hot but stupid woman over a hot but smart woman? How does this make evolutionary sense? I'm not talking about pursuit, but if two women who are equally attractive both want to have sex with you, and you can only choose one, you would prefer the stupid one? I made the comparison between women preferring a smart/confident but avrerage men and men preferring a hot but stupid women for short-term mating. Of course being both smart and hot w… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?I did in the comment I posted after that one. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?No, I'm talking about sexual desire here, not LTR. You can replace willigness to have casual sex with sexual desire if you think casual sex holds too many barriers to women and thus doesn't allow for a fair comparison, I want to understand what turns men and women on. I'm focusing on gender differences in sexual attraction, not LTR. In the studies I've seen intelligence and status are factors in men's attraction but their relative value is way lower than the value they hold to women, their relev… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?That was an example of talent, I used it because Mystery - the best PUA according to most - was a magician and used magic tricks to meet the talent sexual switch, it was a reference to him. You can replace magic with knowing how to play an instrument if magic is not considered a talent in your circles. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Talent and confidence do not trigger sexual attraction in men. A woman doing magic tricks doesn't appear more sexually attractive to men, she would be definitely interesting but her talent won't inspire desire. The same applies to confidence, a woman being he leader of the group doesn't trigger sexual attraction in men, it might even lead to the opposite as the man might end up thinking he's not enough for her and thus invest more time on a lower level woman in the group who triggers just as muc… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Negging, canned DHVs, push/pull, fake frames, shared conspiracies, Bait-Hook-Reel-Release, auto-disqualifiers etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?The reason usually given for why women are more selective is safety, non inherent piciness. From this premise it is a non-sequitur that PUA tactics would work as they have little to do with making oneself appear safe, they also include that but it's such a small part of the whole strategy. PUA tactics aim at highlighting qualities that are very far from what would turn on a man, thus this question can help in understanding gender and sex differences. As a man, it's bizarre to me that a frame wou… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?This is a question about differences in sexual attraction, it's not about which gender is more moral. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?This is the type of answers I was looking for. It's not stupid to try to understand gender differences, particularly because too many people deny that they even exist - even on this sub. To me that's a truly stupid position but I respect it. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?No PUA tactic involves promising a woman a LTR or buying her dinner. PUA involves tactics like negging, canned DHVs, push/pull, fake frames, micro-tactics like conspiracies et similia. PUAs bed women the same night with these tactics, they inspire sexual attraction through this. As a man, I can't fathom how this would inspire the desire to have sex with someone, just ask me for sex and it will be given but with woman this stuff can work. I don't think it's stupid to highlight and try to understa… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 01:11 AM |
| -5 | Fresh and Fit fanbase write off woman who was raped saying they don’t have time for a woman’s emotional baggage. Is this how the red pill community feel about rape or is it just that fanbase?We can't know why the husband in the story behaves like that, he's at least immature and at worst a rape apologist, but I don't see anything wrong with those users' comments. They say that the problem is not rape but her party life, if we take their comments as genuine I see their point. Most men I know wouldn't marry a person who does drugs and slept around and they don't even know what the Red Pill is. Would they befirend or casually date such a person? Yes, of course they would, but marriage … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 10:42 AM |
| 0 | Got posted on IncelTear, am ugly, misogynistic, my Mexico trip is ruined, what do I do?r/IncelTear is a bullying sub, ihe former mods closed r/IncelTears because they understood what it had had turned into. Most IT users also seem to be edgy teenagers, I wouldn't put any weight on what they have to say. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I fantasize about guys but I have no real attraction towards them IRLI'm like you. i can't say I fantasize about men but I wish I was gay. At night, I've not been having romantic dreams about women for years now, today I have dreams about dating men because having a woman attracted to me sounds so unrealistic even to my subconscious. It's just so hard to meet women's harsh standards, I'm trying to exit the red pill but it's a fact that if I were gay (or had an attractive face as a hetero male) I wouldn't be involuntary celibate, I wouldn't even know what the red … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillMen only become "friends" with attractive women to gain social access to them and wait around on the sidelines for their chance. That's what I mean by pretending to be friends with women for the chance it leads to sex. This is why I never bother befriending men anymore. No? We men find most women attractive in general, there's no selection bias. in friendships replicated studiesshow that more than 75% of men would say yes to a random woman asking them in public to have sexb even when the woman i… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Should I take dating advice from men at allI've found dating advice from women often useless, I think it's because a) Women assume finding dates is as easy for men as it is for them. For example, most women think most men get a good amount of matches on dating apps just like they do unless they purposedly learn about the men's experience. Men do the same, I was very surprised when I first created a fake female dating profile at the age of 13 and saw the amount of options women have. I only did this because I was into TRP at that age. T… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | History of the Red Pill community?Rollo Tomassi started the Red Pill movement with his blog posts then turned into the best selling book series "The Rational Male". He coined all the common RP references:: blue pill and red pill (inspired by the Matrix), AF/BB and others. Many of the terms used by Rollo Tomassi for his Red Pill theory were taken from PUA lingo as his first intention was to understand why PUA tactics worked on women. This question led him to take a dive into evolutionary psychology (David Buss mainly), from this … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 10:29 AM |
| 4 | How much can you blame having too high of standard for having trouble getting women?Hot women may not have higher value per se but they display higher value to people who prioritize shallow traits in a partner. If you are an unattractive man and want hot women, don't be surpised if you get judged the same way and end up rejected. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How much can you blame having too high of standard for having trouble getting women?For many men there's literally no option, you can't lower the bar if is already on the ground. I find 95% of women my age physically/sexually attractive, I find less than 1% of women my age romantically attractive but that's only because I have to know a woman to have some sort romantic crush on her. Among my female friends, I'd date 80% of them. Guess what? I've never been on a date in my life and no woman has ever liked me for more than friendship in my 25 years of life. I don't have this prob… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillIt's not just me, it's men, gay men find average men attractive unline your gender. If women have such harsh standards even among men they feel safe around, then why is it wrong for me to expect that women accept evo-pysch and the takes of people like Jordan Peterson? You clearly (are and seem proud of your pickiness, I only expect intellectual honesty. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWhere's the confirmation? I'm never denied that women face sexual harassment, it's a fact, I just said it wasn't the point of the thread. You seem to want to turn this into a victim contest when the point of this thread was just showing that women also have way more safe options in dating, not just men catcalling and sexuallt harassing. This was the point of the thread. We already know women face dangers and sexual harassment, everyone knows it, this is why those threads struck me, they didn't h… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThis thread is not about catcalling and social media harassment, netioning them is off-topic too just like menionting violent crime. This subreddit is about dating dynamics, not who faces more crime. Some women get murdered and assualted, some men get murdered and assaulted, Rape, muder and assdault weren't topics in the threads I quoted in the opener and not even in the comments from women to those threads. eople value friendships but when that happens, people and especially women feel betrayed… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI'll watch it, it sounds interesting. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillYou're so into the red pill ideology you're unable to see girls as whole human beings. Why do they have to care and force themselves to like someone when they don 't feel like it? They don't owe you anything. No one owes anyone anything. You see girls as this panacea for all your problems but the truth is it has to come from you. You're self-victimising. Imagine, the thing you're upset about is not finding someone, and that is painful. But the things girls have to worry about is bodily harm and … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Dangerous Black Pill YouTubersWe should look at the emotional messages of such contents and their audience characteristics and emotions to understand why these contents are so popular. When you are sad and feel down, you want to feel heard, you want to feel heard more than hearing someone telling you how to fix the problem. This is why channels like Wheat Waffles are so popular. Imagine being a teenage boy or young man who feels unattractive and lonely, someone telling you that it's over can be the most comforting thing in c… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI meet people through my hobbies and the friends I have. My social circle is quite small so it's rare that I meet new women in real life and when I do they are clearly out of my league and not interested. I use dating apps. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWhat do these male friends do to these women you know that is so disapponting exactly? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThanks, I've been following since the beginning of the channel. I like his interviews a lot. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI know your take, I respect it and I think it has high explanatory power. I'm referring to what the other user said, she conceded that men and women faling for their friends can make someone feel hurt. I'd like to hear their take too. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThey are priviliged in the dating market, clearly it's not true that they only have more perverts and creepy sexual offers thrown at them. They also have more real options. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:20 PM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThis is completely off-topic, I'm talkjng about unrequited love vs receiving a love confession from a friend. How can you even think that the latter is worse? I din't talk tabout catcalling, sexual harassment on social media and sexual violence. Men face more crime than women according to data, including murder, you mentioning catcalling is as releveant as me mentioning this. Data on murder against men and catcalling ays nothing on whether being rejected by your love is better or worse than bein… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:14 PM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThat's completely off-topic, and I did say sexual harassmen leads to anxiety disorders when it's very serious. Not a guy being upset over unrequited love and dumping your friendship, you mentioning that episode would be just like me mentioning that mne face more crime, it's true but off-topic in this thread. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI don't go to BDD subs to tell them that there are other people without BDD who suffer more than them though, which is what the other user did with the addition of her constant ad hominem attacks and off-topic dehumanizing commments against me. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillHow does one "pretend"? You need to know a person to want a relationship with them, you need a basis of platonic relationship. There's n rule that forbids frinds from catching feelings and maybe date each other. What struck me is the amount of options women have even for relationships in safe contexts and how few people they find attractive , while the social hypothesis points at safety risks and causal sex as the only reason why women are more selective. This is relevant to the Red Pill debate … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:49 PM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThank you for the insight, pretty interesting. What do suger babies offer more than prostitues from your experience? Are they able to mimick the emotions of a real relationship? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI wrote in those comments the implications of women not being able to find more men attractive. if women don't then something is clearly wrong with the explanstions currently given by the blank slate hypothesis. If they can't, maybe women and feminists should stop saying that evo-psych and people like Jordan Peterson are wrong about them. In a sense, i feel entitled to intellectual honesty, consistency. You can be as picky as you want as a group but then accept or at least accept that others can… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 07:16 AM |
| 3 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI appreciate your commentt and respect your position as I'm pro-choice. Yes, TwoXChromsoms has been very bad in the last years. I really like r/AskFeminists though, I learnt many things on that sub, I think it helps that they have more stringent rules and welcome dissenting voices as long as they partecipate in good faith. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 07:02 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillYou have a sexist approach, meanwhile I report data from government sources. If you can't have a mature debate without one or the other having to be the victim, I agree that it's better that you don't continue. I never mocked you for constantly trivializing my suffering due to rejected, I respect different views and don't throw ad hominem attacks like "grow up". | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 06:53 AM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill1 in 5 raped This has been debunked so many times. Reality? Less than one percent of women reported that they had been sexually assaulted in any given year, the rest was researchers labeling as rape experiences women had. For example, having had sex under the influence was automatically considered rape in the survey but many many people have consexual sex under the influence. According to that survey, most of my male friends would have been raped because they had had sex under the effect of alco… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWhy didn't they survey men too? Your survey has 0 value if they don't compare men and women. I'd prefer being sexual harassed over facing violent crime and being murdered, wouldn't you? What do you think causes more mental health damage? I think the response is obvious here. As I said to another other user, we are going way off-topic as we were talking about suffering due to rejection, not violence which is a rare exception that doesn't apply to the threads I quoted in the opener. Do we really w… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 06:23 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillAlso violence is the exception, rejection is the standard. Of course the latter will affect more people, your argument applies to asmall minority of people. Not to mention that according to data men face significantly more violence than women and despite this it isstill pretty rare to us men, I feel more hurt by rejection than my higher risk of faing crime than you as a woman. Rejection destroys continually, violence almost never happen to most people. The incidence is completely different. I'd … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThank you, I'm shocked that there are people that think rejecting someone is mentally worse than being rejected. It just show how priviliged some poole are in dating and they seem to be mostly women, coincidence? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:52 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillIf you come to a sub where many people struggle with dating to tell us that having people falling in love with you is worse than being rejected all your life by people you love, expect a serious response. I hope you will grow your empathy. Nobody will bring my best friend back to life, nobody will bring back the teenage yes I spent crying over my looks due to constatn rejection while other men got dates and sex immediately. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 04:49 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillAs a person with a disability, this is fucking gross. Being a decent human being is not charity, you've basically just said you only want to be friends with women who you find attractive. You don't need to be friedn with someone to be nice, it's a non-sequitur. I'm nice with everyone but I spend my perosnla time with the people that make me feel good, how is this not normal? I hope you understand the feelings of utter betrayal when you realise someone you thought was your friend was only spendin… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillAm I incapable? You are the one who feels sad because men need space from you to process your rejection and their unrequited love, you are feeling sad over something 99% of people would process without problem. You need threapy more than me. My problem is instead a common cause of depressionl: feeling physically unattracitve and romantic loneliness. I feel worthless, you don't since those men literally took distance from because they liked you more than you like them. You lost a friend, so what?… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWhy should I befriend someone if they don't make me feel good? I cut off people that trigger negative emtions in me, men or women, no discrimination. I deserve someone who makes me feel good and likes me as I like them. Friennship is not a duty, you have a strange idea of it. I don't want to force women to change, that's why I take space to focus on myself. Disabled people and poor children deserve charity, not full grown women who don't find me attractive at all. Again, is dating really that ea… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 04:11 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillSo, let put things clear, you had men falling in love with you constantly? What happened exactly? How is that hurtul as being rejected by your love? Romantic love implies both liking someone personality and attractivness, sexual loves implies only the latter, platonic love implies only the former. Romantic love is thus more flattering. How can someone be hurt because one literally loves them? How can you hate someone who felt so hurt? They really like you and need time and space to recharge Seei… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:48 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillDo you think that non-sexist communities like the ForeverAlone community, that haven't produced any mass shooter, don't have levels depression symptoms comparable to the incel community? I don't have studies but I constalty see them mourning that their life doesn't make sense and feel worthless, to me there's a direct link between rejection, feeling unattractive and depression but I respect your opinion. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:27 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillIn the threads I've quoted, men didn't want only sex from women in ther life, they fall for them or "girlfriend-zoned" them, or otherwise asked out on romantic dates. This is what the women report, it's not my interepretation. I know women have an adversion to casual sex and that's why these threads struck me. It would be the greatest day for my self-esteem if a woman fell in love for me, I still rememver those two times a gay man had a romantic crush on me and I cherish them in my heart even th… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:17 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI see, how do you think those two are related? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:09 AM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillAgain, entitlemetn alone doesn't lead to depression, in Muslim theocracies women are also forced to marry and face the death penalty if they commit adultery, the state has basically ownership of female bodies in these places yet men don't have higher depression symptoms in these countries. Entitlement doesn't lead to depression, it's a complete non-sequitur. Rapists and murdereres don't show high depression symptoms as incels yet they are literally entitled to people's bodies and lives, while mo… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:02 AM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThen you disagree with the other female users. What assumptions about men are wrong? Mutliple replicated studiesall over the world show that more than 70% of men would say yes to a random woman asking them in public to have sex even when the woman is classified as unattractive. Studies on opposite-sex friendships published on reputable jounrals also show that the man most of the time finds their female friend sexually attractive, not differently from strangers. One male redditor saying that they… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:42 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI responded to them not fuliffling my wish by asking them to accept evo-pscy as an explanation. In a sense, i feel entitled to intellectual honesty, consistency. You can be as picky as you want as a group but then accept or at least accept that others can formulate theories to explain your difference from the other group. Evo-psych and people like Jordan Peterson have explanations for why women would be more selective even when safety is not a factor. The current expalanations provided by femini… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:35 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillEntitlemetn doesn't lead to depression. Radical Muslims think women must wear a burka and submit to their husband, yet depression rates are not higher in conversvative muslims countreis than other countries. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:30 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWIshing that a group was more similar to me is not entitlement. I wish I had 100.000 bucks, does it make me entitled to thoese money? What kind of reasoning is that? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:27 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillMisogyny doesn't lead to depression. Red Pillers are misogynystic, radical Muslims are even more misogynystic but they don't have higher than average depression symptoms. Incels are different from these groups only because they feel rejected | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillLet's look at the extremes of the spectrum then . Studies show that 70% of people in the incel community have depression symptoms, I don't think that 70% of women who have many admirers who love them and hit on them contantly have depression symptoms. Do you think so? There's not even sadness in the threads I quoted, there's frustration and sometimes even surprise rather than frustration. Do you need a study to see that completely different emotions are at play here? Unfortunately, I don't have … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 01:59 AM |
| 3 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI have different sets of self esteems: My career-related self-esteem is good, this is based on my previous results as I have a good GPA and I'm pursuing my dream career. My platonic self-esteem is good, I know I can have friends and befriend people since they usually appreciated my company in the past and currently appreciate it. My hetero dating self-esteem is low since no woman has ever shown any interest in me. I'm not basing my entire worth on that but by dating worth is determined by my pas… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 01:47 AM |
| -6 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillSexual harassment rarely leads to major depression, it leads to forms of anxiety which have less debilitating symptoms than major depression. When it does lead do anciety, from the cases i've read, it's very serious harassment like trauma in early life or very dangerous situations repeated over a long period of time like stalking or abusive realtionships, not a male friend being upset and dumping you as soon as you reject them. A male friend asking you why you rejected them or confessing their l… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 01:18 AM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI think you should look at the context of my reply. I was replying to the user saying that being rejected is worse than someone falling in love for you. I just replied by saying that there's no clinical case of somone falling into depression because friensd kept falling in love for them. I can prove this by posting many clinical cases of people falling into depression due to rejection, not Reddit posts, and the utter lack of clinical cases about people suffering depression due to the opposite pr… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 01:03 AM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillAnd you missed the point of the thread. Who said women have to change? This thread is purely descriptive, not prescirptive.Besides, if evo-psych is right about women, it's a biological issue, I can't change biology so it wouldn't even make sense to force someone to change. Entitlement is a ompletely out of context concept here. I'm asking for descriptive consistency and I'm consistent in my ideas as i recognise homosexuality. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:56 AM |
| 9 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI agree with you, your points make sense. I suspected confirmation bias may have been a factor as i pointed out but you put into words perfectly. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:49 AM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillDo you mean this comment (the one you linked)? Dude, I understand your desire to find some sort of order in this chaotic world, but you have to stop trying to look at people as monoliths. No one can actually tell you what women want or how women operate because, in the real world, every single woman operates differently in millions of different ways. Men are also not monoliths, and neither are gay men. The only reason the RP is the only place you can find a “concrete” answer is because they are … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:46 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWhat did he dubunk? I replied to that guy before and refuted his point .You just have downlaod any gay dating app and try it yourself, women do not find so many men attractive EVEN when safety is not a factor. I llterally had gay men offer me money for sex and having crushes on me in real life. On gay dating apps I match with gay men who look like male models and send me cute compliments. Every average-looking and below straight guy can get this, I'm not hot, this is what I've seen other straigh… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:40 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThank you for confirming my point, pretty shocking that women find so few men attractive. Shocking. Who said women owe me attraction? This thread is purely descriptive, not prescirptive.Besides, if evo-psych is right about women, it's a biological issue, I can't change biology so it wouldn't even make sense to force someone to change. Entitlement is a ompletely out of context concept here. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:37 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillYou missed the point. I do recognize homosexuality eixsts so it's perfectly consistent for me to say that I can't be attracted to gay men. Y You deny evo-psych and hypergamy which would explain why female sexuality is so different that they can't find many men attractive but do not want to provide an alterantive explanation for why women find so few people attractive in comparison to men. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:34 AM |
| -7 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI've never said depression and suicide can only be caused by dating, I don't know where you are getting this. I only said that this aspect of dating is easier for women as as it's better to have people you are close to falling in love with you than being rejected for one's mental health, you said that having too many people faling for you was intead worse than being rejected. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:29 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillDo you think this is just casual sex or applies to relationships? I know women have an aversion ro casual sex because of lower orgasm rates and higher STDs risks and of course pregnancy. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillIt's hypergamy because average women date up if they have so many options for sex and relationships (high SMV and RMV) but average men do not, average women have a similar SMV and RMV to top-tier men who are the only men who have so many options and women coming after them. Average men have way less pursuers than average women for both sex and relationship so most women are aiming above these guys, otherwise these average men would have as many people falling for them as average women but in rea… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:23 AM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillIt's not just me, read this thread (I linked it in the opener too) where I provide the studies. https://np.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/uhpcmd/if_the_reason_women_are_more_sexually_selective/ | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillYou should readthis thread I linked the opener. The amount of men women find attractive per se doesn't tell anything, it's stricking the amount of people they find attractive in comparison to men whether the context is safe or not. Most men find most strange women and their female friends attractive, most women find most strange men and most male friends unattractive. A man must be very hot for a woman to accept having sex with him without knowing him according to studies mentioned in the thread… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:13 AM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWait a second? So women really don't find many men attractive even when they feel safe around them? Do they find very few men attractive? So what is the point of you debate till this point? This is literally hypergamy. This si the reason why so many men join foreveralone and redpill subs, they provide support for an harsh reality they face, different roads but similar cause. Maybe you are new to this sub but the common explanation for women's selectivity is safety reasons, the alterantive is bio… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:05 AM |
| -4 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillIt's not just me, gay and straight men also find most people attractive. if women don't even among people they feel safe, then the current expalantion provided by the anti-manosphere crows to refute hypergamy are not valid or sufficient. This is where evo-psych provides an easy explanation. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 11:50 PM |
| -4 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI llterally had gay men offer me money for sex and having crushes on me in real life. On gay dating apps I match with gay men who look like male models and send me cute compliments. Every average-looking and below straight guy can get this, I'm not hot, this is what I've seen other straight celibates experience on gay dating apps too. A hot woman looking for casual sex wouldn't EVER give me a chance. You need both attraction and compatibility for a relationship to happen. Women feel sexual attra… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 11:28 PM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillYes, I literally wrote it. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 11:21 PM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThen provide an alterantive explanation. The common explanation here is that women are not more selective than men, they just face more risks which has been debunked here, they also have many safe options and noteven just for sex. Otherwise my point still stands, I recognize the existnece of homosexuality but you didn't provide any explnation for the difference in how women see most men and reject the explanations currently available like the one provided by evo-psych. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillAnd obviously things like abortion domestic violence etc are more pressing issues, but I don't see why you get to be the judge of what issues are important enough to be discussed on women's subs. We can talk about abortion and less important topics simultaneously, believe it or not You can talk about whatever you want and I can make observations about it. THose threads show how easy getting relationships is for women, not just sex or attention from weirdos in the streests and social media. This … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI'd be upset because they know I'm not gay. If I were gay, i think I would have sex with them or date these guys since I would probably feel attraction towards most men and gay men are open to casual sex usually. In my currecnt situation, If they were women confessimg to me I'd be extremely extremely flattered and totally understand if they wanted to end the friendship. Like tons of men, all my life I've struggled with being undesirable, if a woman found me attractive - even if I didn't find her… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 11:00 PM |
| 5 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThank you! It looks very good from the post I've just seen. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 10:12 PM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI agree with you, maybe I was biased here and overlooked relevant information. It still leaves more than half of the the threads I quoted unexplained and in line with my theory, thye also got way more upvotes than the ones you mentioned. Still, maybe I'ma victim of confirmtaion bias here, maybe there are more other threads that I misinterpreted. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 10:10 PM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillBut I'm not talking about sexual harassment and assault here, I'm not even talking about polite sexual offers, I'm literally talking about women getting tons of safe romantic attention from people they know. This is why i said your point is off-topic, just as much me talking about men facing more violnet crime. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI see, I respect your view on the metaphor. Personally, I've seen the "salt water" metaphor used to describe how women only supposedly get more sexual offers and creeps at them than men, in order to refute the idea that women also have more safe romantic options (fresh water) than men. Do you think itpplies to relationship too? So women have way more options than men even in roamntic relationship? It seems that women have the same dating power of top-tier men, this is hypergamy or at least a goo… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 09:26 PM |
| -1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillHow did we get on the topic of murder? I thought this post was about dating. You just want an excuse to feel persecuted so you’re bringing up violent crime stats. You’re a victim of female dating choices, you’re victim of mens body standards, you’re a victim of the world. Get over it.Try being a woman, you can’t defend yourself from the half the population and are faced with unrealistic looks standards from the time you are born. No one has sympathy for you because you completely lack self aware… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 09:16 PM |
| -8 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI said those threads get posted every week and get hundreds if not thousands of upvotes, not every day. I go to those subs for the feminsit topics that get posted every day just like I go to MRA for male issues too, both genders face problems. The fact that trivial threads like this get upvoted show that dating is easier for women, it's an insight that is relevent to red pill and thus why I posted it here. Yes, it upsets me that instead of being angry at the serious issue they also complain abou… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 09:00 PM |
| -7 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillYour argument is generally used to describe the over-amount of sexual offersn and creeps women face, this is not what the thread is about. These men want a romantic relationship, niether sex nor sexual harassment. This is why I was struck by these threads, they are so common, finding a romatic relationship seems easier for women since they have so many romantic admirers but find very few of these men they feel safe with attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 08:49 PM |
| -6 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThese men want a romantic relationship, nether sex nor sexual harassment. This is why I was struck by these threads, they are so common, finding a romatic relationship seems easier for women. Have you read the threads? Women are complaining that these men dump them after getting rejected because they feel hurt, this is the opposite of entitlement and violence. As I said to ther other user, we are going way off-topic, we were talking aboiut hypergamy here. Do we really want to go off-topic? Ok, I… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 08:30 PM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThese men want a romantic relationship, niether sex nor sexual harassment. This is why I was struck by these threads, they are so common, finding a romatic relationship seems easier for women. Have you read the threads? Women are complaining that these men dump them after getting rejected because they feel hurt, this is the opposite of entitlement and violence. You are going way off-topic, we were talking aboiut hypergamy here. Do you want to go off-topic? Ok. The vast majority of violent crime … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 08:24 PM |
| -4 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI've came here for the alternative explanations, if you have one post it. I want to leave the red pill completely, not just the community (which I've already done) but also the ideas if there's compelling evidence. It's not debunked, evolutionary pscyhology is more popular than ever. Way more papers in the field are being published every year and social scientistis often test evolutionary hypothesis in their papers, they didn't do this in the 80s. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:59 PM |
| -7 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI don't have to prove why homosexuality is not a choice as I accept that homosexuality exists, you are the one who thinks evo-psych and hypergamy are not valid. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:49 PM |
| -10 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI've never said depression can only be caused by dating, I don't know where you are getting this. I only said that this aspect of dating is easier for women as as it's better to have people you are close to falling in love with you than being rejected for one's mental health, you said that having too many people faling for you was intead worse than being rejected. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:41 PM |
| -3 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThank you, I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed this. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:30 PM |
| -23 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillNo, I think it's a form of privilege in a sense. Feeling attractive is associated with higher self-esteem and well-being in people. On the other hand, many people have committed suicide or fell into depression due to romantic loneliness and rejection. One of my close friends died due to this. I don't know even one clinical case of a person falling into depression because their friends kept fall in love with them. A quick tour on any depression board will give a quick anecdotal look at the common… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:26 PM |
| -5 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillSo if they can't change who they are attracted to, they should accept junk science? Yes, they should, otherwise they would find as many men attractive as gay men after controlling for the social factors they present for their pickiness - but they don't. There's clearly problem with the current explanation they commonly give. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:20 PM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThis is factor that I've considered in the thread, that's why I only focused on romantic relationships and romantic opportunities in the opner, women seem to have it as easy as top-tier men here. I know that book, I picked it at an online library but got bored since it's clearly targeted to a female aducience with too much gendered and generic self-help talk couple with the actual science that I already knew about from the book "She comes first" by Ian Kerner. As a consequence, I've listened to … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:14 PM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI'm more attracted to overweight women, it's not because I'm less shallow than others ,it's just how my body reacts to them. I should point out that in my country (Western Europe), most people are fit, not because they train but because we eat better than most Americans do on average. I'm also fit and I weight train but I'd prefer a fatter woman than me, it's not a requisite, just a preference. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:04 PM |
| 3 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI agree with you. Do you know any alternative to MensLib and MensRighs? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 06:56 PM |
| -3 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI don't think women should find everyone attractive for evo-psych to be wrong, not even straight and gay men find everyone attractive after all. I think women should find a similar number of people attractive as gay and straight men do after controlling for the common reasons evo-psych detractors present for why women are more selective (stranger threat, adversion to casual sex), if women don't then something is clearly wrong with the explanstions currently given by the blank slate hypothesis. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 06:44 PM |
| -5 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillWho said women owe me attraction? This thread is purely descriptive, not prescirptive.Besides, if evo-psych is right about women, it's a biological issue, I can't change biology so it wouldn't even make sense to force someone to change. Entitlement is a ompletely out of context concept here. EDIT: Concerning your second question, I still think we should wait before making assessments, women only recently have gained economic indipendence, women couldn't freely express their true sexual prefernce… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 06:32 PM |
| -18 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI find 99% of women on dating apps sexually attractive to be honest, if you are my friend and thus I like your personality too I like you romantically most of the times. Basically, the only women I don't find attractive are those who are almost my mother's age (I'm 24) or teenage girls. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 06:30 PM |
| -52 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI would like women to find more men attractive just like gay men do after controlling for the usual gendered social factors I pointed out in the thread. If they can't, maybe women and feminists should stop saying that evo-psych and people like Jordan Peterson are wrong about them. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 06:16 PM |
| 7 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillMensLib doesn't allow personal stories, all personal threads get removed. I've also noticed that many comments get silently removed even though they don't break any rule, it's sad to say it but I felt way way more free on r/feminism or r/TwoXchromosomes than r/menslib. The only thing we men have simialr to TwoXChromosmes is unfortuantely r/MensRights . | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?a) You can't build a relationshp without sexual attractionnì. Compatibility alones leads to friendship. b) And what does determine sexual attraction towards men? d) Attraction and compatibility are different things. There are many women who have sex and get attached to men who are not compatible with them and even make them suffer, otherwise see the many Tinder experiments of hot men impersonating murderers or sexual offenders getting way way more matches and converations than normal men. That's… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 09:02 PM |
| 6 | PSA - r/BlackPillRehab is just black pill “cope”That subreddit has been dead for 2 years, I don't see a reason to bring it up. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?Gay men also get tons of attention on dating apps regardless of their looks levels but this doesn't make them pickier. If you are average or below, you can still easily hook up with gay men of all looks levels - including very hot ones. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?Gay and straight men also find most random strange people sexually attractive. It's not about being friends or not. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?Ok, let's ignore data analysis for a minute as you propose and let me ask an anecdotal and subjective question. Let's say I'm a man, you know me , feel comfortable around me and you know I have a reputation of not causing conflicts with anyone. I tell you about all these books I've read on female pleasure and sexuality like "Come as You Are" by Emily Nagosky or " She Comes First" by Ian Kerner which basically teach "listen to women" , "don't ignore foreplay" "porn is far from reality" and how mu… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?The attractivness gap doesn't explain why average men have the same match rate as straight women on gay dating apps, I had tons of gay men who look like male models messagin and complimenting me for example and hundreds of other men matching and messaign me. Besides, obese women without make-up can still find plenty of male sexual partners on dating apps as OLD experiments show. Gender is clearly a way more important factor than attractivness. Also, women have more risks when it comes to sex in … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?That doesn't surprise me at all, straight women actually choose opposite sex friends for reasons of friendship, most straight men won't bother having opposite sex "friends" unless they're trying to fuck them. Nope. Studies show most men would have sex with a random woman in the street regardless of her attractiveness level, most say yes even to an unattractive woman. Female friends are not selected for attractiveness in any signficant way as they are on same level of sexual attractiveness as ran… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?Oh I see, i read that article and the original paper not long ago. The results of the Finkel study failed replicication , still the change in roles had a signficant effect on female selectivity but not enough to cause a reversal. This is mostly because of factors they didn't take into account in the study. Finkel and Eastwick (2009) had previously demonstrated that males’ tendency to be less selective disappeared when females—and not, as usual, males—were rotators during a speed-dating event. Pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?The article you posted has nothing to do with approaching making someone more attractive, it concerns changes in sex drive with age. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 11:18 PM |
| 8 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?Another thing that might factor, there are many friends where I feel enough attraction to want to kiss them but not to have sex yet. I never saw a guy with the same mindset but I do know other women. This could distort the data a little bit, as I'd say that I have physical attraction towards them but not (yet) sexual attraction. That's interesting because it came up in the data. There are three major studies I've found on attraction in opposite-sex friendships, Bleske et al. , Hall and Koening e… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Not only are women biologically less horny than men, but they are significantly less interested in meeting men even for genuine connections and relationships, regardless of how attractive he isIf I may ask, what are your triggers? What about your brakes instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Not only are women biologically less horny than men, but they are significantly less interested in meeting men even for genuine connections and relationships, regardless of how attractive he isIt sounds like they were your friends, thus people you felt safe and comofrtablea round so why didn't you find them sexually attractive if you have a high sex drive as men? Women always say that the reasons you are so selective on dating apps are safety concerns, not because you find few men sexually attractive like evo-psychologists and people like Jordan Peterson say. Do you want to know about men's sexual drive? Multiple studies in social science show that more than 70% of men would have sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Not only are women biologically less horny than men, but they are significantly less interested in meeting men even for genuine connections and relationships, regardless of how attractive he isMaybe you are in the top 1%-2% of attractiveness, that's why those women were so much into you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | What are the dating prospects for the bottom 20% of men?Where and how did you meet the women interested in you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality'?What are the specific actions that covert narcissists make that trigger attraction in you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Why do redpillers and incels believe asian women want white men?What's wrong with being fetishized when it comes to physical attraction? Why isn't it considered fetishization when women on average prefer white men on dating apps?Men on average prefer asian women according to dating apps statistics, people shame this because they think men want submissive women but forget than indian women and MENA women are not as preferred even though they still come from conservative countries. White women are at the second place in men's preferences according to data. Bes… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 09:02 AM |
| 6 | Why do redpillers and incels believe asian women want white men?Why would a person living in South Korea, one of the richest countries in the world, want to live in Greece? Schengen visa maybe? Then you can set Russia as your nationality if you want to avoid any doubt, a country with a low GDP per capita and outside of the Schengen area, and you will see the same results. Try it. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Why do redpillers and incels believe asian women want white men?Create a dating profile, move your location to a rich East Asian country like South Korea and see the results. Even if you say that you are from poor European country like Greece you will still get way way more matches than an asian or black guy from a rich country like Switzerland or the US, and definitely more than an asian living in South Korea. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 09:27 PM |
| 13 | Why do redpillers and incels believe asian women want white men?I'm not from East Asia but still from Asia and white beauty is worshipped here, Create a dating profile in Asia and you will be swarmed by matches. A black guy, asian guy, indian guy, a non-white latino guy won't get the same results. In the US, dating apps stats show that Asian women have a preference for white men and asian men while dislike other races. Asian men are instead significantly less discriminatory and basically like every race. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality' to women?Physical factors are significantly important, though probably not as as they are for men. Women respond to visual stimuli as well, in fact in sexology tests women showed physical arousal to a wider variety of sexual images than men. Are you referring to this study? Women responding to a wider variety of sexual stimuli doesn't mean they are as visually aroused as men. To give you an example, bisexual people aren't more sexually visual because they find more genders attractive.Women respond even t… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptionsDid you read my OP? Or do you know another study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptionsMaybe you misread the article but Vox is saying that marriage is not bad for women, it was the Guardian that said marriage is bad for women and then such notion was refuted by Vox. Vox even included a link to the Guardian article to badmount them. Yes, Vox is leftist but their journalism is very good - unlike with The Guardian. The Guardian has a good news section but their opinion section is a mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptionsI don't want to intrude in the debate you two are having but where are you getting this information "most women out-earn men today" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Woman users of OLD apps; how many matches on average a month do you actually get?Personality is communicated though actions, what actions or set of actions do you think inspire attraction in you and women in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriendsYes, he had regretted it for the sex but then he found another woman and stopped thinking about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriendsI don't know, he later broke up with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriendsSure, you can find it here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 6 | Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriendsMy experience matches yours. I have a lot of former "incel" friends (not actual incels, just guys who were virgin, not by choice and insecure about it), once they got into relationships they all ended up complaining about the neediness and clinginess of their partners at some point. There was a very "incel" friend of mine who even hated just spending 15 minutes at the phone with his girlfriend every day, I remember telling him that's part of being in a relationship and he replied by saying that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:22 PM |
| 11 | Study shows needy girlfriends really area turn-off, but the same can't be said for clingy boyfriendsWell, PPD is not a very representative sample for average guys. For example, according to PPD surveys 75-80% of guys here are single while only 50% of men aged 18-30 are single (Pew Research data) and only 30% of men aged 30-40 are single. 40% of PPD men identify as incel but only 22% of guys aged 18-35 didn't have sex in 2021 (GCC data) and even less among older men. I think insecure and thus men with anxiety-attachment styles are over-represented in this sub, thus why they seem to prefer needy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Men’s worship of women is a MAJOR problem in dating, and it goes well beyond social media likes and can honestly be seen in every facet of human interactionWhat makes an attractive man at a bar attractive? What makes an appealing man appealing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?That's very interesting. If I may ask, do you fall in the asexual-demisexual spectrum? Your way ot feeling attraction is almost unique even among women. Things would be easier if traits we consider compatibie were the same as the traits we find attractive like it seems to happen in your case, unfortunately for most people compatibility and attraction are different things. For example, the second guy you didn't like due to the behavorial traits I assigned to him has been used on multiple Tinder e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsI'm not condoning cheating, I would advise the female coworker to leave their partner if she felt the need to pursue something outside the relationship - even with me - due to lack of attraction towards their partner. If my partner no longer felt attraction in the relatiosnhip and felt the need to confide this to others, I'd conside the latter the lesser of the two problems. Maybe a good time to end the relationship. The point is, people are talking about attraction in this thread. No man here i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelingsDo you realise this post is about attraction? Not making friends. In all your examples, the men confiding to you their vulenrabilities in order to attract you repulssed you instead which kinda proves OP's point. If a female boss or female coworker confided me her probles to build sexual intimacy, I wouldn't be repulsed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?Thisis the guy meeting al those standards, smash or not smash? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:12 AM |
| 3 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?So, if someone like him met all those standards would you be physically attracted to him rather than this other guy with bad body posture and anxiety in certain environments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?We are absolutely capable of carnal desire from an emotional connection, just like you. No, we are not. Would you be more turned on by a woman with the same body of you favorite pornstar and who's a lot into you but only sexually or a plain Jane with whom you an emotional connection? Emotional connection is definitely an appreciated plus but the bulk of sexual desire is detrmined by physical appearance for us. We know immediately if a woman turns us on or not, it's like a light switch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 08:19 AM |
| 3 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?What does physical attraction in women encompass exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction?How do you mantain attraction in your relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:30 AM |
| 4 | Opposite-sex friendships: study shows males are significantly more sexually attracted to their female friends than the other way around but males are romantically attracted to their opposite-sex friends as much as femalesProbably the data concerning sexual attraction was obvious but I don't think the data concerning romantic attraction was obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Opposite-sex friendships: study shows males are significantly more sexually attracted to their female friends than the other way around but males are romantically attracted to their opposite-sex friends as much as femalesLike you I don't actively think about it if we're not in a relationship, still it doesn't take me much to get turned on by passive inputs when I'm sexually attracted to someone - including a female friend. For example when I see them at the beach I feel aroused, if they sit on my lap I feel aroused, if they post a sexy picture on social media I feel aroused by looking at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Opposite-sex friendships: study shows males are significantly more sexually attracted to their female friends than the other way around but males are romantically attracted to their opposite-sex friends as much as femalesI wanted to point that out too, thanks for reminding me that. The data from the study does indeed shows that women feel more romantic attraction than sexual attractio towards their opposite-sex friend while it's the opposite for men as they feel more sexual attraciton than romantic attraction towards their opposite-sex friend. The confusion is mutual, as a man I can't fathom having romantic feelings for someone wihtout sexual desire but this seems to be common among women instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality'?What percentage of men pass that phsyical attraction threshoold? 90% like with gay men? Or more like 20%-15% of men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality'?Thank you for the answer. As a visual person, what's the percentage of men in your age bracket that you feel physically attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality'?I see that you value compatibility a lot in your actual dating life, what traits make you just desire someone instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality'?That's pretty specific, haven't you ever felt sexual or romantic desire for someone who didn't care about nature/fitness/feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Where to find Mystery's infields?Could you send me them? | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inThe vast majority of crimes are committed against men, try being a short man: women are repulsed by you and you can't defend yourself fromviolent crime which, as a man, you are more likely to face - murder especially. So no, men face both problems, especially some categories like short men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as menWhat are those things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 6 | The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as menThen you are less visual and horny than men. If I see a pair of big tits I get aroused, I don't have to actively want it, the same applies to gay men and my dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Do you have an above average face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Where did you find those women to hook up with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:00 PM |
| 4 | The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as menSo if I sent you pictures of my dick with my body you would get aroused? Gay men always do, I don't think women would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Where to find Mystery's infields?Why do you think they are better than Mystery? | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Where to find Mystery's infields?Why do you thnk that? What alternative would you suggest? | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:22 AM |
| 2 | How would you design a dating app catering to female sexuality?Exactly, many dating apps have even gender ratios if not more womes. These apps often do not have the classic swipe format and are targeted more towards people looking for more serious relationships. Tinder is mainly a hook-up app, I don't think it's a coincidence that it has one of the worst gender ratios (4:1 men to women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 06:54 AM |
| 1 | How would you design a dating app catering to female sexuality?What is the reasoning behind your idea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | How would you design a dating app catering to female sexuality?That's interesting. Living in a very small city in italy, I've always been fascinated by these American style dating formats. What is the gender ratio in speed dating events? Do they actually work in making people connect to each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?Do you have wingmen? How do you do the approaching? | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?How do you approach women? Do you have wingmen with you? | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?That's a very high success rate, good work. What does your approach look like? What do you talk about? | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?Great info, bud. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?How do you approach? Do you have wingmen with you? | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?That's exztermely high. What does your game/strategy look like? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?Good job, bud. What do your approaches look like? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 5 | 21 Rules of WingingThis is good stuff, good job sir! | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?That's useful information. Do you approach alone or bring wingmen with you? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?That's very high, what does your game/strategy look like? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Men who approach women at bars, what's your success rate in terms of dates and/or hook-ups every x approaches?What percentage of the women who give you their number are actually responsive once you text them? | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?No, I'm not. From the APA dictionary of psychology: romantic love: a type of love in which intimacy and passion are prominent features. Although the loved party is often idealized, research indicates that the lover’s sexual arousal is an especially important component of this type of love. In some taxonomies of love, romantic love is identified with passionate love and distinguished from companionate love; in others, it is seen as involving elements of both. See also limerence; love scale; trian… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?There's a difference between romantic love and caring about someone, are you sure you are not misatking the two? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | "In women, we find no such effect."...It's just an hypothesis like your hypothesis, you can't prove either that lack of emotional support explains higher infiammation rates in single men or men after a break up. I find my hypothesis more convicing than yours because lack of emotional support - unlike diet - should also predict higher depression among single men than single women but this is not true. Most studies show that women are more likely to have depression, of course these studies suffer what what every cross-sectional study … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | "In women, we find no such effect."...The study OP posted is about averages, the study I posted is about averages. Nobody here is talking about "all" or "no" men/women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | "In women, we find no such effect."...Coupled men are more likely to eat what women eat and thus cook, it makes sense that on average they would eat less healthy after a break up or when they are single. I'm talking about eating healthy and it's not just an hypothesis that women do this better than men. Studies show that women tend to have higher intakes of fruit and vegetables, higher intakes of dietary fiber and lower intakes of fat. This is the definition of eating healthy. Several studies have described remarkable differences in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | "In women, we find no such effect."...Women are usually more obsessed with dieting than men are and thus eat healthier food, you can clearly see this in gender-based advertising . Studies also show that women tend to have higher intakes of fruit and vegetables, higher intakes of dietary fiber and lower intakes of fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:26 PM |
| 4 | The TRUTHI'm not self-sacrificial towards women, if one punched me I'd punch her back just like I would do against a man (unless he's way bigger than me). I don't sacrifice myself for women. The only thing I need more from the opposite sex due to biology is sex, the thirst is strong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | "In women, we find no such effect."...Studies show unmarried men eat less healthy, could it be just a consequence of men being worse cooks? This study is not about depression, it's about physical infiammation after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:13 PM |
| 5 | if your partner did gain a lot of weight and looked significantly more chubby, would that be a deal breaker ?Romantic love is not unconditional and a big component of it is attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | What average man can do to become attractive ?This made me genuinely laugh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What average man can do to become attractive ?It can definitely happen in a social circle for an average man but not at a bar, this thread is specifically about picking up women at bars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | What average man can do to become attractive ?I think this is more of an advantage when you get older, like +35. I have 5-6 steps daily skin care routine plus weekly exfoliation as I'm into skin care since I was 12. Yes, my skin is good but at my age (mid 20s) a lot of guys naturally have good skin thanks to their young age. The average guy in his 20s won't get casual sex from this, I've never even had sex and not by choice lol. Skin care is a good way to be more attractive 20 years from now though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | What average man can do to become attractive ?Are you sure this would actually attract women sexually? Or would this attract women asking for a fee after intercourse? It's an important distinction, the latter can be achieved even by an obese janitor if he has a hundred dollars to spend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 10:44 AM |
| 8 | What average man can do to become attractive ?Average men don't receive IoI and this thread is specifically about average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 10:12 AM |
| 3 | What average man can do to become attractive ?Did it work for you? How many more matches or interest from women did you get by standing tall? I often read this advice, it's hard to believe that it works but maybe I'm wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 08:35 PM |
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