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I dont know how old he is , But he have also some good points being nice in general make people too comfy and step on some of your boundaries regardless the gender . which i learnt to solve it with communication And reset boundaries and sometime just stop being nice to them .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:41 AM
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If we talking only about women who age (25-35)here bcz younger than that is teenager for me and it dosent count . my experience: Abusive type attract very very small type of unstable girl you dont want to be with them in the first place . Honestly Being badboy wil attract more women . So if your goal is just sex go for that . Being a good person wil attract also women which you can have very healthy relationship with. Downside for being nice is will also attract narcissist women so if you are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:01 AM
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I'm pretty sure if most men could get sex outside of a relationship, they'd be happy being single I wil disagree I am happy being single without sex almost 2 years now. So much time for my self so much peace that i can work on my self and improve it . , i am not involving in casual sex, neither i wil jump in random relationship that i think its not gonna work . Also i think Casual sex wil distract me or make me feel unmotivated or make me miss my chance of finding a partner Yes i need a partner,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:30 AM
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i dont know if i understand you but ill answer any way if i picked a girl who and thought she attractive at that lvl i will not try to improve her or make adjustment on her in anyway except if she ask . trying to pick someone then change her/him to your preference is totally wrong . ​ some fitness guys and girls are jerks some of them are nice this is how it is . ​ also you have to know that the in fitness is full of manplanning even me suffer from that even i look fit and good some come to me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:23 AM
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Oh i got you .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:16 PM
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The incapable of cheating person doesn't exist. Why you think that?? I know its hard to not to cheat, but with right mind set Its possible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:31 PM
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Being nice I just like to be helpful in my capacity If i felt i can do this without getting any problem or getting in tiny bit problem i would do it why i would refuse to do as favor for other human being who need help . Its not attractive for many girls but i keep doing it . Dont come to attack me you know its true for many girls they just get the ick from it its just a fact not for all women tho .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:04 PM
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Lol not all people are the same . I never do casual sex or hookup . Or my friends who are gym bros It doesnt matter if the guy are handsome or not its depends on mentality in the end . Actually when you wil date an inscure persone regardless if it was women or men the tend to cheat and be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:46 AM
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So sad to hear that , i wanna defend the gym rats tho we are all not the same i am also gym freak i dont police anyone food but i wil keep eating my own kind of food (very strict diet) When i spend time with my ex she complained about my food and i start to eating normally then i start ordering alot of fast food then gain weight made feel depressed then gain more weight ,and then become very depressed then we broke up . I dont mind my gf to eat what she want ,i have my own diet she wil have her …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:39 AM
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When your biggest problem is no one wanting to have sex with you then you don’t really have a problem. Lol ,not all men are incel Many men have real problem Thats why i said not all men believes in redpill black pill concept. Some men have same real problems like what women have (domestic violence, abusive partner ,etc )
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:54 PM
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The red pill growth is the result of Toxic feminists and "All women are Wonderful effect ". Radical thinking is the result of neglecting and obressing type of people problems (its could be politics ,racial,realigon) Women were oppressed before ,then feminists appears to equal the rights and empower women . then later it was used by other women (Toxic feminism) later as victim card to manipulate and give an excuses for ugly deeds . Also men have also issues because (both gender have bad and good …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:59 AM
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True , also i know many women and men who look very good in my gym use steroids like and i dont think you pass those steriods muscle gains to your children . Also lets say your genetic is getting fat easily but you look good because of your strict life style. Your children if got those genetic they have to do the same strict life style or they wil be fat . They only thing that benefit children is natural good looking genetic and hight genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:03 AM
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I'm saying the quantity and quality of sex aren't as important if someone's looking for hookups, as hookups fail on these counts True They may however be motivated by getting validation or variety from sex i can see there me and people who hookup a big different look on validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:54 AM
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Yes no problem with that every one is having free to choose what good for them . What you gonna do if you were in relationship were sex is good like for period then it turn bad and its unfixable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:06 AM
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Okey There is many other way to connect with people But Everyone have free choice what good for them m
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:01 AM
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I cant mind my own business in process to choose what better for me (future partner) and i am allow to ask questions in this sub right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:50 AM
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I approve everything you say except I've met people who've had casual sex while single but are happy very happy with whatever their partner does sexually in a relationship If sex is not important for them why they are seeking it regardless the risk on future. and I've met people who only have sex in relationships but are not remotely forgiving. Also this true but i think i wil find more fitting partner for long term in this group than the other group. i cant trust that group because i dont think…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:22 AM
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You have to ask the individual person themself. I think people who do Hookup and casual sex outside of relationship cannot stand to stay in bad sex relationship. The opposite of people who dont do hookup" by choice "they can be way more patient more tolerant on bad sex relationship .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:26 AM
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so do you think they rather find a good person in sex to have relationship with and keep them ? bcz if sex dont matter for them why they keep hooking up ???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:12 AM
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i dont trust anyone and i dont want to spend my life time to experience with someone i think it wil not work with from first place so i thought she think the same as me bcz we have the same approach for sex 0 casual 0 hookup . i never heard someone saying i am not really good material longterm relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:08 AM
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Okey so for how long i can hide that i have my own house , my own car , my job ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:42 PM
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Its fine do you think people who involve in that, are people cannot be happy without constant good sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:40 PM
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From OD i meant online dating So how a man can hide their wealth and not flex it if those are normal day to day question ??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:35 PM
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Can i ask if you do casual hook up or involve in thing like that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:13 PM
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I'm beyond the wall. I asked just bcz i wanted to know if you had experience i dont mean offence. I've seen men flaunt their wealth and, as a result, attract women who seek their wealth Cmon lets be honest what women first question when dating someone totally new like from OD So what do you do for living? Its gonna be at least from first top 10 question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:08 PM
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I am not with AFBB theory but also i cant denied its exist for some extent. Did you saw ever a gold digger women ?? Do you think only models can be a gold digger ? When there is a gold digger she is not that beautiful and she cant have football player or top tier men she wil go down for avg male to buck for her Even if she is not attracted to him and maybe settle down with him mirrage or any thing wil guaranty her the resources. Which wil end of divorce or she wil end up cheating on him (AFBB) I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:40 PM
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And i just want to make sure that my spouse is always on my side .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:26 PM
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commitment is commitment . maybe you wil got burn,maybe you wil lose your sex drive ,maybe you go depressed and cannot work anymore ,or you wil be in wheel chair . do you want to get dumped when your life plan was to stay with this person forever (hopefully)?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:21 PM
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I am just referring to my reply
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:01 PM
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This is life all the time shit happened,what stay is just the person all the extras wil fade or can fade quickly we dont know ,if shit happend to you would you like to be dumped? "In sickness and health "
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:53 AM
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Yeah, Thats not my type of love and commitment anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:11 AM
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As someone who cares about your money indicates that they care about staying with you in the long term, Here the things what happend if the other person lost the money ? Or he/she could not participate financily in relationship anymore ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:58 AM
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I am just asking do you think you are that person? tbrmrldbrr ??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:33 AM
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In the beginning Many of the single men and women that I know are reasonable, flexible, sane, and stable people. At the end But so many men and women aren't right or reasonable dating options. I understand you have good circle of good people? For me many people are not fit for relationship People are becoming selfish which is fine for a degree but you cant be selfish inside relationship. You wil see after a time in any long relationship someone wil bail off from that relationship and dosent wann…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:31 AM
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I ll ask first what do you want in a partner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:12 AM
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I think good people are bailing or bailed out ,so thats why its becoming shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:52 PM
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Do you think finding someone in the end worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:35 PM
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Why HSMV guy like you Is with those LSMV Make me wonder ??
/r/TheRedPill21/04/23 10:24 AM
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As i said the studies dont cover all type of narcissist. But you can see from the symptoms and my questions ? Why you dont answer those questions? Why women have many narcissist treats? She almost check every symptom on checklist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:06 PM
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I think i read it somewhere i wil look for you . Actually i heard it directly from my Psychologist. I am dealing with narcissist siblings (sisters not girlfriends) i have 6 sister btw and its fucking suck to have narcissistic siblings you lose your family .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:56 PM
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those studies did only mentioned one type of narcissist There also covert narcissist,and dark empath (where most of those female narcissists tend to be from those 2 )
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:02 PM
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Also you you didnt answer any questions related to the symptoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:15 PM
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Just observe out side no need for rocket science .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:00 PM
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Signs of Narcissistic Relationships 1. They Were Charming They Crave Constant Focus 3.They Expect Special Treatment They Act Important 5.They Need Compliments They Dismiss Your Feelings 7.They Focus on Appearances 8.They Don't Have to many Friends They Abuse Their Charm They Hate Criticism 11.They Manipulate Others What gender do you think have more of those symptoms? Who want caonstant attention and being admire in relationship? How many female partner dissmis thier men feeling just they are me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:29 AM
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I mean Did you write this whole newspaper To explain to men what we already know? Or to convince women who wil never admit this ? But thanks for the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:04 PM
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Yeah that the point if you are not cheater you wil not be bother by it . some baby also get mixed in the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:42 PM
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Thats the things if you are not cheater why you have to worries let the doubt vanish . Guys and girls have to understand if you are not a liar or cheater there is way to many cheaters So people have to work on removing any worries or doubt ,so you can build healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:20 AM
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On point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:57 PM
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you are such a miss grow up or dont date til you become mature enough or know what you really want . So You are so in love with guy never treat you bad and provided for you as much as he can and how rare the connection is Another thought you are worried if you should date an older guys so he can provide you more bcz older guy can provide more . Another line you are only seeking true love and you dont care about money . I wil not even mention "not build man up " Grow up
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 12:23 PM
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i wrote about it here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12npl2j/comment/jgfhrv5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 yeah i know it is hypocrite strategy and immoral from both genders i also wrote about the 2 type of women to men https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12npl2j/comment/jggu2yo/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 ​ but let me tell you this from a man perspective beautiful(cute) women can be sexy if she want ,sexy women cant be beautiful…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:29 AM
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I honestly think a lot of guys will immediately try to date someone they think they could brag about to their friends. Like the girl wil date someone who cant or wil not brag about ???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:06 AM
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I honestly think a lot of guys will immediately try to date someone they think they could brag about to their friends Like girls wil date guys who wil not or cant brag about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:57 AM
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think they could brag about to their friends. Like the girls dont want brag about ?? Or you are just projecting ??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:21 AM
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Everyone hate to be manipulated me included They have to apply fair 50-50 as solution Dont buck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:37 PM
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Any stragety wil not work if you have no option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:00 PM
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But Sluts are good in bed and they are sexier. Sexier does not mean more beautiful Sexy is a thing and beautiful is another thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:43 AM
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But 35 is the prime any male
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:41 AM
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I rather stay fucking alone (single and no friends) than have no real friends and no real love So i wil keep on staying alone til i find real connection Ps i am socialy active and have 0 to socialize and i have very big social circle but i rarely felt that i belong to any group except with my long distance friends .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:05 AM
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Why 180 why not something in the Middle There is douchebags and there is nice guys And if u r a nerd it dosent mean you are nice Mostly they wait for the party guy to start balding and marry You mean they wil wait til he become unattractive and old?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:58 AM
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IIts not wrong as redpill theory ((but in my eyes its wrong moraly )) but its not exclusively to women also men do it in other way aka sex zone and wife zone .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:53 AM
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I want A good caring loyal person who have same goals and same perspective on life as me kinda and same mindset those are Not negotiable they have to be in my partner If you are 4 and have those you wil be 10 in my eyes If you're 10 and you miss on from above i know it wont work and i wil not even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:27 AM
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you cannot be happy without woman in your life Its not redpill related but Or you are not man enough if you are not fucking This pushed alot of guys just to take anything as gf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:53 AM
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AFBB As female strategy But there also guy strategy Slut for fuck and good girls to marry Everyone just want to have some fun then settle Which is not good because its always come with baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:32 AM
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ah you are right in this , and i am guilty of this but i dont see alot of other guys on this sub reddit about girls are dumb and irrational , i see only they complain about women go for handsome guys or chads
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:39 PM
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A lot of guys here just say the same shit. "Women are dumb and irrational. Look how dumb this one girl was. Aren't all women stupid? They don't know what they want!" Etc. I mean by saying shit is generalize over the whole gender like all the guys are or all of girls ,etc... that what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:28 PM
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A lot of guys here (me included) say like this shit But also alot of girls (you included) say shit about guys too. Most people would get defensive if you started slandering them about their immutable qualities What do you mean here by immutable ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:59 PM
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but also girls need to understand this,because also girls become defensive when guy try to speak something about girls on his experience ,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:26 PM
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2023 and those podcast /and men rights movments/ start to blow up maybe 2 or3 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:39 PM
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In an attempt to depedestal women, this sub has thrown them in the trash. The ‘women are wonderful’ effect is an oft criticized position here, but there appears much bitterness in realizing that women can suck pretty hard. There is a lot of hypocrisy on this subject and i think those attempt only bcz women are on pedestal for a really long time ,and until now people wil go against you if say women are not . If i say all men are trash Alot of people wil not even bother If i Say the other way arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:07 PM
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Put this in mind Men are loud in thier bad act Women are quite in thier bad Act
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:40 PM
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I want guys and girls to understand this point GIRLS ARE NOT WONDERFUL THEY ARE ALSO HUMAN They are the same as guys some like sex only ,some like only money, some like romance they also cheat minipulate they wil also get bored like any guy and they also abuse other .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:46 AM
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My view on dating is to find someone i can spend my whole life with (of course i ll be happy with that partner) I think what OP mean by dating for pleasure its just spending time with someone ,not the dating to search for" the one " Like relationship just becoming friends with benfits .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:23 AM
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love knowing that my partner likes spending all their time with me Even if your partner like that its not healthy to stay all the time with them, all people need some alone and me times 1)life is about up and downs so you cant be happy all the times 2)things that you like is changing while growing up But goals and values dont change 3)now days there is only a few decent people who really can trust about creating family So i rather find someone who i can trust and have the same end goal and same …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:05 AM
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,😂😂😂😂 i am so shit texter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:32 PM
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If a woman has a serious disease which affects her life so she needs somebody to take care of her or if it's a deadly disease, the chances that man will leave her in such state are way heighter then if a man had it. I dont think so and i ll explained it in 2 point why i think its not true, but also i wanna point that i didnt live that experience and also i didnt witnessed anything like this i only know one story that my ex told me when we start dating about some women who had accident And after …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:01 PM
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The problem is that the men is lowering thier standards like alot they worshiped pussy so much that any girl have just to exist . Smart girl ,stupid girl, slutty girl,girl with morals Good mother potential . All it dosent matter So why the hell girls have to put the effort to be better . i dont believe we are product but i will say in sexual market its always give and take not only give
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:39 AM
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If men sacrifice life trying to protect his gf not even his wife not deep enough for you Which you wil never see the other way around . How the hell i can explain for you . Most of the time if women felt just uneasy or unhappy they leave .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:01 AM
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Men love deeper . Only men who was in love know .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:37 AM
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More important Where is those people that saying what you will protect me from polar bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:56 AM
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On point 🙃 joking . Just Diffrent type of love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:50 AM
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Wil i want to organize something but only for good minded men that they seek and want to solve real men problems. i dont wanna to be in the same group as the men who thier problems only that they are not getting sex or dates from girls and they are complain why they are not getting it .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:49 AM
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Men's rights movement is mostly just backlash to the hypocrisy in feminism. The idea of equality is great, but it requires that feminists themselves actually make an effort to dismantle the restrictive gender roles in men. Otherwise expect young men to notice the hypocrisy and for anti-feminist sentiment . I ll just add when men try to express an feeling or somewhat of complain almost always he get judge and blamed by other women who is defending the other women blindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:11 PM
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you win the internet, women are going to use you for all your resources while being OF models with makeup, congrats. Yeah please tell them i am waiting on reddit to answer all thier questions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:11 PM
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Okey as you wish ,but u just proved op point for me Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:02 PM
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How many women in your life are using men? Not internet women you don’t know, women you know? I am from big family (6 sisters 2 they all are older than me i am 27 btw also i had 3 gf the last one was 2 years ago ) of course there also friends of my sisters and my females friends So yeah i have fucking big social circle I can hear stories from everyone of my friends or sisters and I witnessed my self couple of stories of, cheating, deciving and using from both gender men and women In my experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:15 PM
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I think a lot of criticism I see about women that get pushback is unrealistic and based on a small subset of women. Majority of women don’t use OF, This is True they don’t excessively use makeup How much is exccessive for you ? they surely don’t use men Lol,women are not angel niether the men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:20 AM
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We are happy single or we can be happy with a decent guy who shares our interests. + There are tons of women just like me who have interests beyond hair and makeup. honestly from my experience i have good circle of female friends i dont think its tons but a few amount .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:29 PM
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hello its my/her preference have problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:16 PM
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Its very good keep on it 💪. actually i like girl with less makeup the less is better 0 is good . To much makeup is a turnoff for me , especially extended eyelashes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:18 PM
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You put no makeup ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:05 PM
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Is sex a byproduct of you seeking a relationship/family or is relationship/family a byproduct of you seeking sex. Sex is fun and nice but its only like make 5% of the time spend in the relationship so if i have let it go for some reason l let it go . So if i have to choose one ofc i ll choose the wife and kids(my kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:45 AM
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Its very Important to focus on your self and to build your self and to do things that you like to do , BUT it is also good to learn how to attract a partner and have some what game . So if you bumped on potential partner you know how to interact and initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:42 AM
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thanks a lot also value that honesty as a form of protection i like that an education in the truths I face. Men and women are so different, and each has their strength. i believe that came from our physical nature and women is the gender that get pregnant and breastfeeding the child (the roles).
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 04:24 PM
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There is many sugarcoatting types and i understand the one in the side bar But NO that not the truth. you can be honest and not rude in the same time You cant draw the life for someone in rainbow and flowers when its not . Women als have to stop sugarcoatting thier gender (Thats why i am disappointed in this rediit but it stil better than others tho ) Women=men=people Only diffrent conditions. It seems a lot of Guys dont know that or got to think somewhat its not like that (i was one of them ) s…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 03:56 PM
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I am also not 100% redpill guy and i like this sub more than the redpill But i have to say in my opinion here also there is alot of sugarcoatting and bs and i dont mean disrespect thats my view
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 02:37 PM
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indeed they can sleep with 100 men everyday And some women stil have low n count dont you consider that very good ? As for women dont need to sleep with multiple people men also they dont need to have sex with different people to prove that they are interesting
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 02:30 PM
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Sometimes women get seen as desperate for making a move, it shouldn’t be that way, For me i respect making a move way more than expecting a chase .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:16 AM
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if you had 2 date with her and she is still like this drop her ,drop every women if you feel she like this i assure you its not worth to date any women that sort
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:09 PM
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if you feel that or actually your girl is marketing herself seeking another guys you should dumb her dont fight toxicity with another toxicity its so energy draining for nothing .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:55 PM
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Just wanna know how so i try to be creative with mine , But its joke right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:44 PM
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Phone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:42 PM
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How to have the flair like you have (long term fwb) Its funny 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:36 PM
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How to have the flair (alumni etc.....)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:34 PM
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I didnt say it is the truth but i just highlight why some low n count women want or feel high n count man is a good choice Unfortunately this has been shown to be the opposite case. In general, (obviously not 100%) both men and women with high N have a higher difficulty in being satisfied in an entirely monogamous relationship. This is true for both hetero and homo people too I actullay some what agree with that .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:30 PM
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Some low n count women do want guy with high n count, because they think that high n count guy is less likely to cheat when he commit because he had he share and now he want to settle, Also it goes like high n count guy have option but he choose me .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:18 PM
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N count is just a way to tell something about the person ,like the way you dress or the way you handle thing , i cant look inside people head or see the future but i ll use the information that i have to try to predict it But High n count is high lets its should be considering for everyone. There should be not so ever double standerd in it if your self are hooking or TRYIN to hookup you should not be judgy about girl who hookup. Also guys should consider its easier for women to have more n count…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:46 PM
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since he has hooked up with 5x as many people as me. how do i answer this? Hypocrisy is a huge redflag that people igonre . ended up coming out there was one guy that we hadn’t talked about. he said he didn’t care but was just mad i lied and i was upset bc i didn’t feel like i even had to tell The best thing i advice all girl is the complete honesty about any concerns. Lets imagine that you have only 3 relationship and lets say you had no sex in those relationships, you forgot to tell about one …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 12:39 PM
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Dont worry I spoke to her about it and she honestly the reason which i appreciate and have ton respect for .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:54 PM
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Good teamwork 💪. I hope for both of you and your coming child the best
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 06:50 PM
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Personally Being kind is very important moral for me . Nice it is kind but on easy mode you can use it while walking on street meet people for the first time or with people who you dont meet on regular But Being nice in close circle is tricky thing because most of the time just being nice wil make you people pleaser without realizing it.(my experience) So i start train my self to be kind man Being kind is harder because its including being nice to your own self , Because of that you wil have man…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 11:29 AM
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I think there is a HUGE difference about being nice and being kind. Being nice looks like making people feel good/not saying controversial things that may make people feel bad. Being kind, on the other hand, is about genuinely wanting what's best for the other person, even if it's hard for them to hear. Personally, I think being kind is FAR more important than being nice (although, like, don't be a jerk unnecessarily...) Being kind is much harder, because people don't always want to hear the tru…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 10:39 AM
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And if she was the initiator?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:07 AM
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Are you a women or a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:14 AM
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Can i ask can women check out and stil have sex with her partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:13 PM
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Men in general have fewer emotionally intimate relationships outside of their romantic ones, I thought people who are monogamous have one emotional partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:01 PM
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Thats personal preference, For me i have no issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:29 PM
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Generally no you dont you , Man love deeper thats why it takes him so much time to heal but eventually he wil be healed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:28 PM
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my life will go on because life does. Ofcurse but thats why deeper it is harder to move on for man Thats why as guys because we love deeper it take longer time to heal from last relationship. It took us years to able to love agian.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:22 PM
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I didnt put specific number either , The love I have for my boyfriend now is the deepest What if the relationship broke-up how you wil imagine your life after regardless the age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:15 PM
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This isn’t true. There’s no limit to the number of people you can love truly Thats prove my point . when you love deeply you wil be exhausted and drained after 1 or 2 true love .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:01 PM
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Nice ,i owned fleshlight when i met my partner and later on i bought her the virbrator i never used the fleshlight tho ,but we used the vibrator for few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:35 AM
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I think sex dolls are weird and slightly creepy Anyway fleshlights are normal, i had one and a girlfriend (ex) for 2 years Would you not date a women who own vibrator? Its the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:29 AM
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From my experience and my social circle around me If men loved a women for real His love love is waay deeper than women love for real I heared many of guys who get dumped the first thing they say : if she is happy i am happy or i wish her the best , even after many years stil care about her well-being. On the other side i never fucking heard a women says something nice about her bf when get dumped (always cursing and crying talking shit about him) . Easy sign to spot deep love that is someone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:32 AM
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I dont get it why people are upset my comments I know that guy is huge red flag But Imagine being another guy who is nothing wrong with him except his size and girl are rejecting him for that and he is wondering whats wrong with him. Thats just a pure horrible gaslighting. Telling the truth is better choice even if its hurt
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 06:44 PM
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. I personally would prefer a person that was once promiscuous and realized it wasn’t all that (current husband), than be told after 7 years that they had no intention of marrying the only person they ever had sex with (my ex). Ymmv Do you think that its not all women view? Are promiscuous your self?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:45 AM
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But your original post suggested it’s damaging Sometime the logic behind 1 point can met from different perspective and i just followed your reply. I do agree that damaged people are more likely to be promiscuous, But emotionally healthy people able to form strong bonds aren’t necessarily damaged by going through a promiscuous phase. Important distinction I agree on both point And I agree that not everyone is the same . Also as person who cant see what inside people head I just dont want to take…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:21 AM
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But the n count good indicator And look how to know if the person not interested in variety ? Someone had 3 n count or person had +10?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:46 AM
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Low n count people who wanted to in the first place to have high body count but couldn't for some reason, tend to sleep around later in life , formerly promiscuous people can get bored , Because when you have to much sex ,sex becoming getting boring , and when you get in relationship and have sex with one person you wil miss those variety exactly like my barber and either cheat or lead to deadbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:27 AM
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Idk i think its better that she was honest about that you know maybe he could do some surgery to enlarge it or what ever ppl do Think about it it wil hurt one time but he wil survive and maybe solve the problem its better than to keep falling and he dosent know that his size is the reason
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/23 07:00 PM
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Yes. Better than daying next to someone who dont appreciate or appreciate to you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:16 PM
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. I think the OP meant to go and socialize with people, get to know women, learn to be comfortable with them first, improve your social circle. Take a break from trying to force your dating life, get comfortable around women. Then try again, maybe not with your friends though. This Also not all women "know within the first 5 seconds All the women who say this have no idea what they ralk about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:00 PM
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Look this scale What is not that important is Attractiveness So if she is 5 or a 10 dosent matter but its start from 5 What is matter : We have same humor type Caring,nice,and respectful for herself and me Lovely,and kind to me loyal (sickness and health) Some ideology and goals in life Lets say i have option to choose: and a girl who is a fucking 10 but she lacking what matter to me ,simply i ll not be interested But if she is 5 and have what matter ,now its i ll be interested and maybe that gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:12 PM
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Yes indeed thats why i am single , i wil not settle for less what i want to the long run Also i wil not accept women who settleing for me Settling could be very dangerous, it is technically ticking failure relationship. And the problem is that between settling and finding out what is really important for you there is only thin line ,which it make it very tricky. Edited :i wil not settle for less*
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:46 PM
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No one should ever lower thier standards But also they have to consider no one cant get everything they want in partner so they have choose what is better for them in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:38 PM
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I got banned there ,for joining the purple pil then i angry and joined redpille
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 01:47 AM
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No worries ,Thank you also for teaching me a new perspective on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:54 PM
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True, but it’s generally the ones who are waiting who would even admit to there being a problem True . I have the option of just not pursuing a relationship so if a woman decides she wants me it’s on her to convince me to give her a chance. You have the right to do what ever you want , But when some women or men say i give someone chance i just find that toxic and i dont care who they are. If women i am dating say that i ll just walk away .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:24 PM
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I mean if sex is not that important ,why people are having it as casual or hooking up and take some serious risk? I find sex sacred and i personaly only do it in serious relationship, that wil make me choose a partner based on personality rather than sexual attractiveness, and i ll be patient with my future partner about it ,like for example your case (your low libido) hold and wait wil make me more tolerant , and its fine if sex was not that good or just bad, and i l not leave my partner not sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:19 PM
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I'd say that if someone holds sex to that standard, they're only having sex with people who they are confident that they're in a long term committed relationship with. If that relationship ends, they should be beating themselves up a little bit and questioning their own judgement about why they misjudged the other person or their own capacity to keep a relationship so much. this is me and almost to some extent all people around my circle (women or men). From my last serious relationship(1 year a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:08 PM
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If you tell me that your value about sex is that it's always in a committed relationship, I do I'm going to be exceedingly interested in why those past relationships didn't work out. I thought we should always do that when we are dating with new person And it's going to make me wonder if these former partners are still on your mind and "very special" to you. Trust me its shared fear with everyone that thier partner stil love thier ex .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:23 AM
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Younger me absolutely made some mistakes that lead to not being virginal Also you should expect other people to do mistake all ppl do mistake I can’t just take a woman’s word that she’s affected any differently than I am because Yeah that also true Why, then, would I want an LTR with someone in the same boat? If she/he already in the same boat ,and wanna work with you about it ,its better than someone with low n count that dosent admit there is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:13 AM
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To be able to fall in love with someone who respect me and appreciate me and loyal to me . I empathize women for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:07 AM
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Yeah true, but stil its damging, My issue with n body count is putting more risk on future commited relationships Then the 2 partner should be working on that . i also dont wanna get easily bored from sex with my partner like i dont want my partner to get bored from me .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:02 PM
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I had a conversation with my barber last week about women and relationships and he apperrantly was a promiscuous playboy . well long story short he miss the old days and according to him sex in relationship(mirrage, )dosent feel that good comparing to the hookup or casual ,he enjoyed the thril and the variety So yeah its damging for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:43 PM
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Good i hope best for u both
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:19 PM
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Can i ask what if love gone lets you are not happy but also you are not sad in the relationship anymore for some reason you dont feel it anymore what you gonna do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:50 PM
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I have diffrent experience, for me the amount of people who just want that are minor, and its diffrent if you only wanted that or you just settled by that .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:05 PM
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Maybe very extreme minority ,but no worries because its just need one to know one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:48 PM
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They can't imagine it ,bcz they dont think that way in first place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:38 PM
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Fuck high value people Just find a really good carring person and spend your life with if you dont want or you couldnt find you can also stay single which is better than being in a bad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:28 PM
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i am a man who find most women attractive and fuckable . For me its a good thing i can use it to my advantage to be more picky ll put those point on personality and morals (If im turned on by both i wil move to the other box quicker personality,morals,intelligence etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:54 PM
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I think you are right . I think i am very delusional bcz i want a woman who a little bit attractive, care about me ,and loyal , (and some what is not hypergamic .) Let me tell you that it is very delusional .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:32 PM
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Sorry to put it like this Undateble women is from 3 to 1 on over all beauty scale (size ,face ,etc) i think most of the guys are undateble on 5 to 1 scale . Saw many girl with more handsome men . And i assure you its very tough when you date person who is inscure about his/her look .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:16 PM
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Actually it is a very good idea why you dont make a group about toxic females and cheaters and you make dating desirable and enjoyable again ??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:45 AM
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Not in the post its one if his responds for the girl that i said she is right , to many comments i lost where it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:06 PM
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I think I speak for everyone that isn't a teenager, you're overestimating how important sex is That sex is not everything in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:11 PM
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I'm also a 27 years old virgin, fairly high libido When you start to have sex ,you wil come back to here to say she is right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:48 PM
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Men need women ,women need men For me as a man the problem is that the women tend to think they are the prize and sort of superior over men So they tend not to try to work on relationship or be patient in the hard time of relationship (simply they have option ) so they rather end it and find new partner to start over (NO MORE SICKNESS AND HEALTH ) So next girl eventually wil come and you start the fucking loop again . So yeah what benfit i ll get with women who have this mind set ? So We dont tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:18 AM
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I am redpilled guy And this is my opinion I dont care about purity(body count ) if it was inside relationship Ofc if you had to many relationship i will be consider (yellow flag or eventually redflag) For me guys and girls who is involved in this hookup shit , mostly they are risky for long term relationship Every guy tell you thats thats its okey for men to do so but women not is a hypocrite .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:00 PM
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