how do you answer how many people you slept with? I messed up with my current bf and i told him the # & he included himself in that #. ended up coming out there was one guy that we hadn’t talked about. he said he didn’t care but was just mad i lied and i was upset bc i didn’t feel like i even had to tell and he was pressuring me so much to talk about it. but he put in his head that i lied to him and it became a big fight. now he is asking how many guys i’ve given bjs too. and saying stuff like “what else have you lied to me about” & “you just want to look innocent” etc. i’m really not a hoe, and have only slept with either bfs or a guy i had talked to for over a year, and each one was 2 years a part. i’m wondering if i actually have to answer the bj thing or how to answer it that doesn’t make it seem like i’m trying to hide or don’t want to talk about it bc it’s a high #. most of that happened before i knew about red pill and i live in a very liberal area so looking back on some of those experiences i realize i was trying to get validation or those guys didn’t really deserve that and feel gross about it now, even tho i didn’t do anything wrong. i have a low body count but i really don’t want to go over every guy i’ve done anything with. esp since he has hooked up with 5x as many people as me. how do i answer this?