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i’m no i haven’t? i’ve kissed more guys. i was trying to not give a specific # for bjs. i’ve had sex with 3 guys. he said he’s slept with over 20 girls
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:20 PM
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how do i set this boundary? do i say “i’m not going to be talked to like that, i think we need to break up” my mom to me i need to break up with him weather i want to or actually do continue to date him in the future or else he will think it’s okay to treat me like that. i know it’s weak but i do love him and would want to continue to date him. i’m kicking myself bc my ex did something shitty (never like this but other stuff) and i stayed with him and looking back on it i would’ve had more self …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:03 PM
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how do i not panic when i know pretty much anything i say is going to end up like this. i know some of it is my own guilt from being raised religious that i feel uncomfortable talking about that. he hasn’t broken up with me but i don’t know how to say “it’s fine if you don’t want to be with me, i am a good girl - you’re not going to find someone who hasn’t kissed someone you know in our social circle, but i’m not going to be treated like that” etc or set a boundary like that. i feel like he was …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 06:59 PM
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he was going off of that i lied previously. and i said i’ve never hooked up with any of his friends, this guy is not a close friend just someone he knows. i feel like he’s created this narrative that i am a liar and he even said “you try to appear innocent, and you’re not which is fine, i’m not but just don’t try to act like you’re something you’re not.” and i was confused because i’m not trying to appear innocent. it makes me uncomfortable and he pushes for answers and i am probably evasive. no…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 06:53 PM
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omg this crazy bc he literally said “you make too much eye contact with guys, it makes me look crazy” and i was like ?? it’s not like i’m giving guys fuck me eyes and he was like “you notice every guy that looks at you”
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 06:46 PM
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what do u do when they push & push for an anwser
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 03:54 PM
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i’m not lying?
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 03:54 PM
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idk but i just got a uti so maybe he cheated and is making up problems? or does he just not trust me bc i messed up & lied before
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 03:53 PM
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how could i fix it now? i was trying not to lie & i didn’t bc of last time but any info i give made it worse (which was going to happen)
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 03:53 PM
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okay so what do i do now? i was purposefully telling the truth and not lying since i fucked up last time and didn’t want to lie to him again.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 02:37 PM
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3 since i broke up with my last ex. i have def not kissed less guys then i’ve give bjs too. what would be your advice moving forward?
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 02:36 PM
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i don’t understand what is happening, this is like my biggest fears coming true
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:41 AM
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UPDATE - he asked me again & i just said under 10, i don’t think this is a healthy convo, i’ve o ly ever done that with guys i’ve gone on dates with and had a real connection - i don’t want to go into specifics. i reminded how long i made him wait and he said “just bc u waited with me doesn’t mean that’s how u acted in the past” i said well, that’s how i acted. he then asked if i had done that with any guys between my last relationship and him - i said no. which is true. then he asked me how man…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:39 AM
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this wasn’t an issue with my last bf and he honestly never asked
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 06:30 AM
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thank you. & thank you for your response. i feel like having sex with him for the past 2 years had scrambled my brain a bit. i can totally see us having a difficult marriage. i also feel like i will have a difficult time finding a new partner & getting us emotionally to the same place me and my current bf are at. how do we do this? how do i make sure i don’t waste 2+ years on the next guy trying to figure things out too? i know there’s girls that are able to date for long periods of time multipl…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 05:09 PM
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but now i’m so deep in! 2 years!! & my life is tied to him in so many ways. thankfully not marriage & kids but lots of other stuff
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 05:06 PM
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i agree. stuff he did in the beginning even 23 year old me now would not put up with.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 05:05 PM
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it wasn’t physically just emotionally - but yeah they lying sucks. a big part of staying is where i live, we have wayy more girls & way less guys & are surrounded by instagram models & i don’t know if there’s a guy that wouldn’t entertain them. & now we’re at a point where he doesn’t.. so. maybe i would be able to let it go if there was more reason to stay but since the only thing holding us together is that i feel loved so i put up with all this shit.. & that’s a big red flag reminder of he can…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 05:05 PM
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thank you for your response. i’m scared i’m not thinking right, i am so happy when i’m with him but i think i’m starting to resent him for all of these reasons. i’m worried i won’t find someone else that loves me like he does- that sounds silly to even type. but it’s true. for 1. he tries to say he wants all the things i want now but i think he knows that’s just how to keep me. 2 & 3 are spot on. 4 is my current problem… 5. yes. it wasn’t physically (just texting but it’s hard when he’s typing t…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 05:01 PM
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maybe i tell him - we can still be sexually exclusive, but i want to go on dates & he can talk to other girls bc i really won’t be getting THAT different of an amount of loyalty it seems - (although he did say he had a gf & did block her - it still is tearing me a part) & bc he obv still wants attention from other girls. & worst case - i will be able to get attention from other guys & not come off as controlling & i really won’t be as worried about what he’s doing if i’m doing the same thing plu…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/21 08:14 PM
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I have talked to him about liking their photos and he actually has stopped liking them and commenting publically on instagram models photos. yes he does have a following. the girl he is thinking about hiring offered to work for him for free and she is def not an instagram model but does post mainly in her underwear - he said she is a lesbian - i think he just said that so i don’t get upset. i think we might have some different values. i don’t think he’s cheat on me but i do think he might do thi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 09:40 PM
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