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5

Surprisingly I do, and he's an amazing partner. We're going strong for 4 years. However, I was very strict in swiping and let him wait for weeks before I agreed to a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 03:16 PM
19

Are they at least upfront about it or not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:51 PM
26

If you always put him first, you'll teach him you come second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:36 PM
39

If anything, here at FDS we learn how to take away power of an abusive man. So even if he reaches out to any of us it would only frustrate him because we're invincible to him. Block and delete. The only way he'd dare to talk to us is online, I'd like to hear him stutter a weak insult face to face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:22 AM
21

So where do we place the statue of Sandra?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:11 PM
31

In all honesty in my whole life I've only ever seen girls with uglier boyfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:42 AM
108

She's missing "I'm absolutely blind to any wrongdoing of my son"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:04 PM
67

If they actually were part Viking they'd respect their wives. Like Vikings do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:06 PM
51

So this behavior is what they call "king behavior"? They truly are looking to become the greatest piece of sh*'t, aren't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:41 PM
55

Noted! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:09 PM
225

Exactly, or we get compared to incells. As if being single is the problem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:42 PM
862

It honestly surprises me that so many people misjudge FDS. As soon as you've read 3 topics, you know pretty well we're just looking to protect ourselves and our female community. I guess we're just the easy scapegoat since pretending women are crazy is so common and socially accepted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:33 PM
1

I used to say I didn't like female comedians, until I realized that I do like them as long as they are themselves. So many female comedians try to use men's humor in their sketches in order to reach them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:37 AM
1

It isn't about being a HMM, it is about being more interesting. The OP was 30+ years old and couldn't figure out why he was still single because he brushed his teeth and showered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:35 AM
7

She feels loved? Seriously, by what exactly? This guy is as egocentric as it gets. The poor girl should feel used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:21 PM
7

I don't see much of the porn side I hear of in America at my school, perhaps because I live in a different country. We're not conservative but at the same time it looks like OF doesn't have the same influence over here as in America. It could be because people are less open about it. However, I do think that money (and easy earning, so perhaps porn) is getting more important for teens. Especially because expensive designer items have teens as their target audience more and more. At the same time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:31 PM
151

I feel like we are the last generation who massively does that. I'm a high school teacher and to my great joy I see a big difference in girls attitude towards men and feminist opinions. They are so much more outspoken about what they want and need in a man, and less scared to stay single for a longer time. Really proud of teenagers these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:08 AM
77

I'll spread awareness for male genital mutilation as soon as they amputate half the dick and their balls, even though that's not even close to the male equivalent of what's happening to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:01 PM
139

I hope so because I almost puked when I halfway realized it was written from a woman's perspective. No woman in her right mind would be proud of being queen of the garbage, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:29 PM
20

Great example of how a lot of men think about a discussion with women. You handled it very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:08 AM
24

Definitely. If someone talks to me like that I'll pick up my bags and leave. If someone talks to my child like that he has other things to worry about besides me calling him a little bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:20 PM
29

The difference is that they'll eventually stick their dick in literally anyone and everything, when given the chance. Even though they try to push and manipulate. Women tend to stick to their words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:38 AM
14

Everyone has their own journey and I'm more of the positive behavior stimulation instead of the tough love. So hopefully your post and my comment reach the women who need it. I don't disagree with your message, it's just the delivery I prefer differently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:09 PM
26

Girls, it's alright to take it slow and step by step. It can be very hard to radically change everything you thought was "how it should be". Take your time, and more important, take care of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:27 PM
36

"I'll sue you for child support" is now my favorite form of birth control 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:11 PM
22

Wear that warning with pride 😁. They heard you loud and clear and didn't like it, exactly what needs to happen. Perhaps it came a little too close to home for the reddit moderator in question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:03 AM
24

Keep calling them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:57 AM
21

I needed this so much! This morning I woke up and saw an instagram post of a woman talking about women safety while walking on the street (at night). Of course there was a man telling her how her post was wrong and unfair because "not only women experience this and everyone should be able to walk around at night safely". I mean he's right in that last part, but 1. Great way to minimalize the problem, and 2. We don't need a man to tell us. FDS feels so safe because of the moderators keeping it a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:53 AM
405

He sounds extremely prideful, selfish and high conflict. He's showing us a great example of projecting with this post. Besides that I just hope that he's boasting about "the door still being wide open".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:27 AM
34

They'll probably question you on why you didn't leave earlier. Or am I too cynical now? I mean it's good to collect evidence though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:38 PM
13

Me too, but I was talking about male attraction. Women are known for having a better taste 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:42 PM
205

Can we vote a shaved pubic area as out of fashion, starting today? At least until men start shaving their back and armpits on a regular base? It always amazes me how sensitive they are to body hair while they are literally indistinguishable from monkeys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:56 PM
238

When I was still dating, I used to tell my dates I wasn't on any birth control even though I was. I thought it was easier than to convince guys I wanted to use a condom (I wasn't experienced enough to trust myself to be stern enough). However, a little while ago I read a post on reddit where a guy was complaining that a girl 'lied' to him because she did the same thing as I did and he found her pill strip. Ever since reading that I strongly suggest ever girl to do the same, because it's such an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:45 PM
28

Being attractive is more a curse than a blessing in this society so good for you Billie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:29 PM
6

Yes there is! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:58 PM
48

Me too, and I only give the free awards away to FDS or guinea pig reddit. Nobody else deserves them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:48 AM
5

How lucky we are to speak up about rape and some people actually believe us. I feel so privileged. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:59 AM
19

Truth!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:08 AM
20

Seriously? My partner is in the kitchen with me every single evening. If he's not chopping up veggies, he's cleaning the mess I'm making. Don't accept less. Cooking can easily be a two men job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:54 PM
6

He's on drugs right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:49 PM
262

Of course they are, they are talking from their own experience. That's why women often advice others to stay single for a while and work on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:02 AM
36

Only truth, but the flashing colors makes it unreadable... Or am I getting old? The message was worth overusing the pause button though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:03 PM
10

Except he won't feel disrespect for his car after someone else drove it, and use it to control and blackmail his car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:24 PM
8

Every excuse is exactly that: an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:56 PM
59

After leaving my ex (6 years ago) I was so done with men and wanted to work on myself. I always wanted to learn how to figure skate so I did. Additional benefit is that there are barely any guys (only one at my rink) so it feels like a very safe space to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:29 PM
45

"I like" and "I want" is all he seems to say. What a gem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:57 PM
7

I'm not surprised to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:49 PM
4

You can lie about us and publish it, but it will function as a big neon light. It's insulting to their readers the way vice assumed they wouldn't think for theirselves. Welcome ladies, better times are coming 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:23 PM
56

I embrace the downvotes. Fair price to pay to at least be heard. I once got downvoted a lot at a relationship advice sub, but the OP sent me a DM and we had a very nice conversation. Some guy even "accused" me of being a FDS'er so OP got curious and had a look. I don't really care about up/downvotes, but if you do: collect your upvotes here at FDS and use them by speaking the truth in other subs ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:16 PM
103

I'm a history teacher. Here in the Netherlands people like to joke about female voting rights and how women should have never received them (1919). I like to remind my students that men who weren't extremely rich couldn't vote either until 1917. TWO YEARS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:09 PM
54

Jeez, I wonder why the data isn't publicly available. Perhaps it has something to do with privacy? How incredible stupid must you be to post something like this to your stories while thinking you're onto something? Luckily his female friends now know his true colors. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:05 PM
140

I literally just read a comment of a guy who would fuck a tree with a hole in it, but suuuuuure 97% of the female population is not attractive enough for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:02 PM
12

Thanks for asking, I needed this too. I honestly thought the girl went crazy because the guy did something horrible to her friend without understanding the context 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:58 PM
14

I'll document our history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:29 PM
19

"Independent rule of law" except when it's about women. Your comment really makes me sad and nauseous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:55 AM
87

It's VERY IMPORTANT to realize that even after 8 years, you're still better off single than being married with a men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:50 AM
67

This is so very common behavior for men. I really encourage to tell and publish stories like this. It's important for other women to learn that it's okay to leave and not accept this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:46 AM
84

Walk with your friends a demand a proper date from anyone who's interested in you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:01 PM
17

Good habit and good suggestion 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:06 PM
18

I'm only wondering how he's not single. Look at that disgusting chin hair not worthy to call a beard?! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:57 PM
102

I'm a high school teacher and I've never met a 13 y/o looking like she could be 18 as well. Never. Men who use this excuse are delusional by thinking it's an explanation for their gross behavior. The commenter is a pedo as well if he thinks 15 is more acceptable than 13 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:32 PM
26

Or even worse: they can afford one but think they are entitled to your free labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:23 PM
5

Sounds like he chose porn over women. Great! More should follow his lead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:50 PM
58

It was her first thought but she didn't act towards it. Anger can get the best of us but a true queen knows how to redirect those emotions and make the right decision. Like she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:51 PM
-1

We like things nice and smooth and now men feel entitled to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:48 PM
160

I love stories with a good ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:29 PM
22

I wonder why we're debating about the existence of an afterlife because I see a pretty clear piece of hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:46 PM
8

I mean today it's "girls/women in sports day". So much better than Valentine's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:22 AM
62

"Vag day"?! It's that supposed to mean what I think it means? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:46 PM
23

I had the same with ATSS. Still have to read Kite Runner. It's on my to-read-list though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:06 PM
25

I'm experiencing an identity crisis just watching this picture. Besides that: ew, nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:44 PM
61

It's alright, you couldn't know. When you're ready you can tell him to choose between the car or his marriage. Perhaps that will open his eyes. Take care!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:10 AM
121

Why are you with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:52 AM
10

I agree. Don't engage with LVM like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:51 AM
58

I can feel myself slowly turn into a lesbian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:54 PM
4

Well the saying "don't judge but marvel" comes to mind...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:26 PM
4

Thanks, I will! I decided to cut off the username for privacy but now I wonder if I shouldn't to credit her 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:05 PM
19

I immediately went to copy the URL for you, but I can't seem to find it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:21 PM
31

Improved ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:21 PM
10

Lovely! She'll use him for his money and dump him when he gets too old and poor for her. (Nothing against her. Always do the same if you're in the position. He's nasty for dating someone 20 years younger) She, however, looks freaking great and she'll find a better, more loyal husband in absolutely no time. I'd like to talk to him in 3 years and hear all about his regrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:44 PM
26

Maybe they have legal issues to bring it to the market?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:08 PM
27

Invite her over twice a month, just the two of you, and be her role model. She's already watching you closely and I feel like she's also looking up to you, so use it! Slowly build it up. She's not fully trusting you yet (according to the aloë Vera incident) so make sure you're the safe haven first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:51 PM
25

What the Fuck? Can we agree that men like this don't deserve a girlfriend? We should definitely publicly shame them so other women are aware of this behavior 🤮. Great tiktok for awareness, I'd almost activate my account again if it wasn't for the degrading half naked dances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:47 PM
117

Still? I remember seeing this for the first time AT LEAST 10 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:15 AM
477

I would be OK with splitting. ​ Splitting up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:12 PM
2

I love the pearly ring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:29 PM
2

Am I even a girlfriend because I do neither
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:52 AM
99

I'm here to tell you that you can block him anytime. It will be magical 🌈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:24 PM
9

Any photographers here at FDS willing to help her out? 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:17 PM
32

So he expects his date to have sex with him for $75? That's barely enough to spend half an hour just talking with an idiot like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:34 AM
19

This just screams "I'm ugly and single"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:46 PM
8

Do things for yourself only. The right guy will be impressed by that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:17 PM
88

I mean we're pretty much all better drivers than the aggressive way men drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:02 PM
146

That fried egg is just so accurate. Beautiful summary of my sexual history with my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:15 PM
49

"Waifu"? 😂 every guy who uses language like that should start a future in robotics because they'll need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:09 PM
175

Yes, his big words are devouring this conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:51 PM
21

I couldn't finish reading this. Such a loyal guy but he will not show his instagram to his girlfriend? Yeah... That sounds very loyal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:16 PM
13

Juan, your flirting will never count. It's never good enough to compensate a face like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:36 PM
12

Oh great, I'm not looking for real men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:38 AM
1

If her negative energy is so strong you would think he already should have died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:31 AM
7

Oh so now even the sick fucks are considered good guys. Great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:50 PM
575

This is so smart, why didn't I think of this before? Definitely will use this in the future. Can't wait to show this new move to my friends. Unwanted attention? "Hey by the way... What do you make? I'm looking for a guy to pay for all my bills and I have an expensive taste"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:14 PM
7

Girl don't downplay yourself! "Not gonna be a bitch"? You had all the rights to be a bitch. I'm offended you weren't more of a bitch. Good job blocking him though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:14 AM
71

If you read between the lines, you know he thinks she'll "overreact" and "create drama".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:14 PM
20

I guess I'll have to say "Snip Snip" underneath my breath now haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:01 PM
13

He's desperate enough to lure women who are at a low point in their life. His dick is definitely not worth mentioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:59 PM
54

We can also filter by size. If you see them post things like this, you know their brain size is small.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:41 PM
78

If this ever happens you play the "cool girl" until he unlocks and stopt the car. You get out asap, and on your way to the nearest taxi you block him everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:18 PM
21

This is something a lot of women deal with. You should know that there are so many women willing to do insane sexual acts and have bizarre kinks. If it's not your thing, you'll never be as "freaky" and "sexual" like they are. But most important: the type of guy looking for a girl like that, is probably not what you want as a boyfriend. Focus on your own qualities. If that means you'll be boring for 90% of men that's okay, because you aren't compatible with them anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:32 PM
2

Yeah girls, if you're ever in a situation like this then fight yourself free for real love please. Punch him in the face and run away. Some marriages only work when you divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:46 PM
19

Paying for half the groceries is bullshit. I'd like to meet a man who eats as much as a woman. Most men I know eat double or even triple the amount.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:30 PM
14

We degraded from human to item to experience 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:26 PM
2

See the second screen shot. "I didn't introduce them at first... ...but after they met last year"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:23 PM
1

I think they met when he was 19 and had sex at 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:08 PM
1

Why are you wasting your time talking to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:08 AM
84

The difference is that we actually can cook and clean and take care of the children and... Well all the tasks they want us to do. Men on the other hand forgot how to do their masculine tasks. It costs us money because we have to bring our cars to the garage when they are broken, we have to hire a handyman when the dishwasher needs to get fixed. But heaven forbid we want to hire a baby sitter for a few hours just to spend some time on ourselves. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:51 PM
26

I agree. However she might behave like a clown, he definitely is the village idiot. I hope she's still young with a lot of learning ahead of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:20 PM
14

Thank you, I needed to hear this. I had to bite my tongue real hard during a heart to heart talk with a good friend. Her fiancé waves with so many red flags and however she's slowly doubting him, she's not ready to leave him yet. I felt guilty but everyone has their own learning curve. I guess I'll teach her FDS lessons another way and hope it has some effect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:54 PM
97

I don't see the worst case pick me. I see a FDS queen being born.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:28 PM
11

I mean my boyfriend would definitely fail due to clumsiness but at least I know he'll protect me at all cost 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:19 AM
6

Have you met men? They don't take criticism as well. I barely have sex because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:19 AM
15

Have you met men? They don't take criticism as well. I barely have sex because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:18 AM
21

I understand it feels cool to say something like this, but I wouldn't feel safe enough with LOTS of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:33 PM
10

You tell them they are right, because you haven't found a real men yet as they all behave like boys 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:14 AM
2

I just get so mad when I read things like this, especially the comments. Top 3 comments are defending the guy, saying he "just is like that". Come on now, he doesn't even know her favorite food? Ladies, watch your man carefully. Especially in the beginning of a relationship. If he's only talking about himself, you're just there for his entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:57 AM
5

I hope they do and get stuck 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:42 PM
157

Haha my God, imaging having so little of a personality that you write down Walmart as one of your hobbies 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:23 AM
26

I don't know this dating app, but what do they mean with "if"? Delete that app as its obviously not FDS approved and way too male centered. HVM will pay the (first) date without you even noticing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:22 AM
14

Yeah, lots of reasons. None benefiting her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:20 AM
18

Well perhaps you never had a healthy relationship lastig more than 14 days, but I bet my life it wasn't your fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:19 AM
30

Just leave us alone and fuck your bottle of beer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:10 AM
11

Wasting food is definitely low value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:25 PM
78

It's also very important that you don't travel for him, especially not when dating. He travels to you or he arranges a safe way for you (to a date location, not his house).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:14 AM
11

Let's find the girl and talk her out of this engagement 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:06 PM
12

Perhaps I didn't have my share of LVM yet, but I don't get it! Why is there a blanket on the chair? Why would he think it's better to put in on the floor? I'm lost 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:17 PM
6

Exactly. It's manipulating yourself so you don't get in a relationship YOU don't want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:41 PM
59

It's fishing for compliments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:49 AM
47

I wonder if it's a requirement to be at least 20+kg overweight to join the team. Such a mystery why they are caught 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:51 PM
57

And here we see the trash taking out itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:26 PM
71

Haha! I tell my boyfriend he's okay all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:45 PM
212

Absolutely! I suspect he's a piece of shit AND poor though. Double negatives don't work for NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:17 PM
4

I don't fully agree with you. Theres nothing wrong with asking critical questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:34 AM
10

I'm not American so I'm not familiar with this, but it looks like a big health scare. Like eating a bag of chips for dinner but worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:14 AM
13

Haha okay I really want to support women but I do have some questions for this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:11 AM
2

How can I learn this by myself, without help of a man? (I lost my dad last year at a young age so j have no safe option). I just don't know where to start. I'm definitely paying for being dumb when there's something wrong with my car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:07 PM
12

Don't you dare, you owe yourself better than this. You will throw alway all your growth if you get back with him. Block him EVERYWHERE out of your life. It's harsh but for your own good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:32 PM
23

Yeah, who knows if he inspires a dumb enough kid who doesn't realize it's a crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:29 PM
105

Too sweet for her own good... Like most of us in our younger years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:27 PM
77

Exactly! I lost it when I realized this was IN HER OWN HOUSE!!! Change the damn locks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:46 AM
136

As long as men keep saying "I'll meet my future son in law with a gun" I'll be a misandrist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:52 AM
113

Going to steal those lines for emotional labor requests
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:06 PM
8

It's okay as long as they're open for advice. Although 99% of the time the advice is "block and never look back" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:06 PM
113

We'll assume your account is hacked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:05 PM
35

What kind of brainwashing propaganda is this? "My man is the equivalent of a very lazy toddler but I'm happy with it! Be like me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:04 PM
3

That's right! A lesson we could all live by
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:52 PM
9

You can't mess up. I see you are sweet and caring just from those few messages. The ball is definitely in his court, let him do to the work. He is a very lucky guy that you give him a chance, and you should see it like that. I also see that you like him a lot and that you want things to progress soon. I recognize a bit of myself in that. I like to have control so it's also my weak spot to give "subtle (not so subtle) hints" and try to provoke the response I want from him. That's just not the way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:48 PM
17

I think your energy is a bit high for what you're getting back. He's very short in his reactions and not really keeping the conversation. That worries me. Could be the jetlag but carefully watch his behavior to you. I understand you like him but put aside your pink glasses every once in a while 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:40 PM
23

I don't know how to interpret the first face other than "manipulating you by only saying what I think you want to hear"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:54 PM
8

And hoping you can change it to gold 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:12 AM
8

Done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:56 PM
27

That's the flair. Sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:29 PM
95

Exactly! What kind of beast reacts like that? I'd bet money he wanted to "teach her a lesson" and is very afraid now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:32 PM
15

He knows himself so well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:24 PM
18

I hope that guy being her boyfriend is also a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:20 PM
4

Haha even from his point of view, your side sounds more truthful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:06 PM
20

I wholeheartedly agree. These days you see people say things like "he cheated on me, definitely a red flag". A red flag is a warning sign. Proving you're a piece of shit is much more than a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:14 PM
32

Just practice saying "do not talk to me like that " every now and then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:51 AM
16

Well she shows a lot less cleavage in real life, perhaps that's his problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:17 PM
14

There is some truth in every joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:34 PM
38

Ladies, higher your standards RIGHT NOW. A guy like this should be single for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:03 AM
5

It looks like a pimple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:02 PM
13

Omg no I'm a figure skater. I won't accept this negative connection with LVM behavior. If anything, I'll use my blades in MY advantage. 🔪😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:57 PM
52

Great FDS uniform, where do I order one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:05 PM
111

Good for her. I think this will be reality for much more people. Women are climbing the success ladder hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:13 PM
30

I agree. Great message, cringy delivery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:16 PM
26

Yeah... Don't get back with a man who puts you aside for any reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:38 AM
88

Yeah. Take a good look at your friends. If any of their boyfriends is prettier than they are, I'd like to know. Perhaps my gorgeous friends are just in bad luck. And still their men have an attitude like they aren't risking losing the best thing they'll ever have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:31 AM
10

Yes. Your first paragraph is exactly my point of concern. I wouldn't call it a FDS book either because she makes some good choices but her reasoning behind is just off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:40 AM
17

I'm reading it right know. I'm about 2/3 into the book but I'm not sure if I agree with everything. I feel like she still has some learning to do. What's your opinion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:51 AM
9

This is so true! Keep your selfworth ladies 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:56 PM
28

It's wishful thinking. Be careful with posting selfies though. I do not think of myself as ugly and have a nice dose of self confidence, but no doubt they'll try to bring me down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:37 PM
34

Oh he's sick... He needs someone to take care of him. Suddenly you are useful again. (Perhaps I misunderstood this because English is not my native language, but it works for his mental health as well.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:23 PM
111

So what exactly makes him believe in God? Because he communicates with God in other ways? Perhaps he should try that too with his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:46 PM
197

Men might be a little bit stronger but they are definitely not smart enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:21 AM
11

What the Fuck? Talking with an attitude like he isn't the saddest thing I've seen in days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:02 PM
7

I love being alone. From the beginning of my relationship I made very clear that I practice my hobby three times a week and I will NEVER cancel practice, except for birthdays and emergencies. I'd like to add: if you feel like you are never alone, make a difference. We need time for ourselves to improve and grow, or just to have a break from the bullshit we are dealing with every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:32 PM
453

Yeah.. Most men are perfectly comfortable in their marriage. They are usually not the ones who are used and abused until a divorce looks like the only solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:55 AM
6

They will fuck their brand new car up in no time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:29 AM
25

I wholeheartedly agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:13 AM
4

You are right. Stand alone acts are hard to judge, it's the whole picture that counts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:26 AM
70

It's coming from a 2 at most, he's negging them to have a chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:28 AM
41

It bothers him? His whole paragraph disgusts me and hopefully any other woman. Is it justified to post this with his full name and URL of his social media, just to protect others?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:26 AM
99

I think it's not about having shampoo and conditioner now. It's more about wanting to make a good impression so he even fixed small things like that BEFORE they even had a date. I wouldn't call him a hvm yet, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:12 AM
68

Yeah I vaguely remember her, wouldn't know her name though. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:28 PM
128

Hahaha I can't stop laughing, imagine my mother telling this to new people she meets 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:15 PM
73

Imagine bragging about slapping your own mom. What a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:42 PM
22

The downvotes speak words. But it's alright, you can wear those downvotes with pride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:56 PM
26

Yeah i noticed that too. Great way of presenting yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:44 PM
21

I couldn't read past "I don't know, you're there" YOU'RE THERE?! ARE WE FREAKING SERIOUS RIGHT NOW? What do you mean breaking up is not an option? If a guy would ever tell me something that humiliating, breaking up would be the least to be scared of! Where's the bar again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:41 PM
16

Sooooo where's the lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:37 PM
66

Yeah, and don't forget about the mysterious painful incident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:59 AM
53

As a history teacher: you are right. It was not rare to have a Korean ""girlfriend"" (or more)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:07 PM
16

My brain automatically thinks "staaaaaged"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:06 PM
4

I'm tempted to use this as a reply on every comparable topic right now. I'll wear the downvotes with pride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:14 PM
20

Oh she is! This is a mental Rollercoaster for me. I thought you'd make fun of me if I asked it this is Cruella de Vil 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:07 PM
21

I feel like an idiot but who is she?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:04 PM
21

Yeah... As in "they don't ever see any problems in their own problematic behavior"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:58 PM
38

And she was soooo happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:11 PM
26

Yeah, that's definitely manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:37 PM
9

So what's the problem here? I only murdered 1 person. Big thing! There are still enough people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:23 PM
7

Hahahahaha “want to make me dinner"??? He's asking for her to end things, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:22 PM
9

I would love to read it. I often struggle to talk about the lessons I learned as an adult, when I speak with a teen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:19 PM
2

He probably bought the necklace pre sex and this text conversation is after sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:12 PM
7

You are probably predicting the future over here. I'll scan the newspapers in 5 years 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:33 PM
18

Well this is an interesting read. I somehow get a MLM vibe from him, the way he promotes polyamory. You called him out great - he is trying to justify his cheating. He's desperately trying to straighten out what is crooked. I feel unsafe just by reading those chats. I can't imagine what a horrible night you had. I hope you never end up in a similar situation again. If you do though, don't hesitate to call the police. That said, your comments are amazing. I usually don't like it when women take t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:17 PM
5

And let's not forget knock 'em out Love this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:56 PM
25

Hahahaha, well at least you informed her right. Your comment was pretty clear in the first place though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:48 PM
16

Your comment is appreciated over here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:35 PM
6

I'd like to know too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:30 PM
91

I disagree. A man can be yes and yes, but still a NVM. It's a good first selection though. I had an ex who wasn't a typical bad boy. I could definitely drink two beers with him and I would trust him with a puppy. He still used me as an accessory, was 11 years older and tried to change who I am. He's definitely a NVM. You can use those two questions as a check, but do not trust it blindly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:24 PM
5

The lessons in love quote is also a strong message! FDS is timeless. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:09 PM
30

No self-respect over here*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:15 PM
2

Is he trying to marry a toddler?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:50 AM
4

So your parents want you to find a guy who only cares about your appearance? Or do they think so little of you that you have nothing more to bring to the table than being pretty?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:45 AM
21

They never are better in real life. Acting better than you actually are is so fucking easy over text. If they can't even do that.... You handled it very well! Just a little tip: I see you use "lol" a lot. I feel like you downplay your strong responses by using "lol" because it softens the tone of your messages. Try to avoid it next time you talk to a true idiot. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:18 AM
45

Fucking gross. He has nothing to show off, Wtf is wrong with his upper body?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:14 AM
33

This is not hate speech, it's censorship. Instagram has no problem with silencing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:08 AM
16

95% what? Recommended to you? That's a fucking insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:29 PM
8

Exactly. Lessons in love are a hard pill to swallow but we all have to take them in order to grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:00 PM
26

Of course he shows no love. He doesn't love her. Nobody falls in love with someone half their age. He's just glad he found a young fuck doll with a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:58 PM
70

I assume he has a hard time finding any girl of any age, the way he presents himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:50 AM
5

Yeah but if the new girl is rich enough she can pay for the divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:05 PM
22

She isn't taking the relationship seriously? Please enlighten me. What is there to take serious after 7 months?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:19 PM
25

That sounds familiar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:07 PM
133

I'm glad she did though because she sure inspired me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:51 PM
5

I'm a history teacher but I recommend you look to the future instead of looking back. Everyone makes mistakes, you are allowed to do so. See it as a lesson in love and let it strengthen you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:50 PM
39

25, right when I was wondering why me and most of my friends had so much bad luck with relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:32 PM
17

I agree. At the same time she's putting herself in a submissive/childish position towards the men she's 'dating' this way. She's looking for life advice and experience, something her parents should offer, but her parents only make her insecure by not letting her become independent. She's letting her love life intertwine with her parents task and that gives way too much power to her 'dates'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:31 PM
23

He's criticizing you yet still trying to get in your pants as the same time. It's almost impressive if it wasn't so transparent and nauseating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:51 PM
11

How tasteful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:14 PM
87

Wow she is gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:25 AM
156

No idea who lupita is, but I'm always surprised how opinionated guys are about women who are way out of their league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:16 AM
51

Wait for it, he'll see you as prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:27 AM
66

Let me translate this for you: I'm spending the next months to figure out if anyone else is interested. If not, I'll come back to you. You solved this great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:00 PM
7

This is not a red flag. This is just wrong. Only 7 words and he described himself perfectly as worthless. Must be a record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:40 PM
50

I'm sorry but this really makes me question her own behavior. I never had a boyfriend like that because I simply refuse to act like their personal maid. Dump your man instead of covering everything for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:41 PM
48

Oh no, this is going to hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:20 AM
113

I agree, this is made up to make women afraid of losing their man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:16 AM
10

Dm her with a FDS invite please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:39 PM
137

I agree. Losing control of the bladder is a sign of extreme stress and fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:31 PM
16

Hahaha this reply made my day. I love your energy and I feel exactly the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:10 PM
40

They are to my pleasure. It made me a little less mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:43 PM
46

AITA for letting everyone we know find out about the details of the prenup I was asked to sign? “Dan” and I were introduced by mutual friends two years ago, and lived together for one. Always a great, really equal relationship. This was super important to both of us because his ex fiancé was kind of a gold digger, and my ex boyfriend was really controlling of our money. So Dan and I always split all our joint bills down the middle, even though I’m a teacher and he’s in tech, which worked for us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:31 PM
4

You can swipe for part two! But I also posted the full text in a comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:30 PM
4

FULL TEXT AITA for letting everyone we know find out about the details of the prenup I was asked to sign? “Dan” and I were introduced by mutual friends two years ago, and lived together for one. Always a great, really equal relationship. This was super important to both of us because his ex fiancé was kind of a gold digger, and my ex boyfriend was really controlling of our money. So Dan and I always split all our joint bills down the middle, even though I’m a teacher and he’s in tech, which work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:30 PM
83

I swear tiktok is pure poison for children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:27 PM
37

Imagine bragging for having a rotten personality and also not being able to satisfy a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:33 PM
32

Guess I'll proudly call myself a golddigger from now on, if that means I expect my man to be able to keep himself alive. The word 'gold digger' loses it's negative connotations for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:03 AM
34

Imagine having such a low self esteem that you say yes to a man like that. I bet at least half of all men would be single for life if women love theirselves a bit more and aren't afraid to be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:59 AM
241

Don't call any boyfriend daddy. You have a father and even if he doesn't behave like a father, you sure don't need a replacement. Especially not with a sexual connection. That's fucked up and gives them some false superiority feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:30 AM
15

Yeah, change your whole self and lose all your dignity so you can be with this wonderful piece of a man. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:22 AM
18

I get so mad when I read things like this. Since we are 12 (perhaps even younger) we have to deal with men talking about our ass and tits, but heaven forbid we state a preference ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:55 AM
33

You can recognize them because they have no healthy relationship with alcohol and/or drugs and still prioritize parties and festivals on their late 20s/30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:54 PM
9

Both. Brother and commenter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:00 AM
16

Definitely. If you ever feel like your partner is hiding you, he's cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:21 PM
-5

I see your point but I'd be willing to give him the benefit of the doubt on the 'teaching other skills'. I also don't think he's negative about other women but about lifestyle choices. I also hate alcohol and party culture and men with Peter Pan Syndrome. I openly talk about that and don't exactly see that as a problem because it makes my intentions more clear. I'd personally talk a bit more with this guy and see if those orange flags turn into reds, but you do you! If it doesn't feel good, bloc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:56 AM
2

English is not my native language so I might be missing something... Is he saying something suggestive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:17 AM
9

I hope an extreme religious father wouldn't be too pleased with his first two requirements
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:20 AM
16

No. A red flag is a little warning. This guy is straight up telling you he's just not that into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:44 AM
102

Depending how dumb/intoxicated they are I just tell them I don't have a phone. It works like a charm, even when I had my phone still in my hand accidentally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:57 PM
128

If I'm correct there are lots of hospitals/gynaecologists who heavily question multiple pregnancies short after each other because it could be a sign of sexual abuse. I don't have children yet but I can't imagine you are fully healed after 3 weeks. Let alone be in the right mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:35 PM
8

My local library also has a lunchroom. I like to go there for a few hours by myself to read and enjoy a drink. I also make sure I have enough time to practice my hobby's by myself (I'm a figure skater) and my boyfriend knows this is 'me-time'. He only joins me if I invite him specifically or if he asks me to go together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:31 PM
35

This is exactly why we should be able to take care of ourselves before we engage in a relationship. (Living together, marriage etc.). If you ever feel te need to leave you should be able to! That's how you take away their power. Besides that, do not make up excuses for them. If you need to leave you gotta leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:44 PM
2

? I personally don't see dick as something worth staying in a shitty relationship for. Not even a day. Not even when I was 20 and a horrible pickmeisha. Is this seriously a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:41 PM
21

Swipe all guys left you suspect the average woman swipes right. I don't need a man with a huge ego. Too much party/alcohol pictures? Swipe left. I'd like a guy without Peter Pan Syndrome. Pictures of tasteless hobby's (like fishing)? Swipe left. Not being able to identify (because of sunglasses, only multiple people in pictures...) swipe left. He's ugly. No shirt pictures (even beach/pool pics) swipe left. He probably has a questionable personality if he needs to be half naked to get attention. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:18 PM
35

I want to delete all my social media because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:14 AM
12

I'm sorry this happened to you. Just to check on your safety: did you have an STD test after him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:29 PM
30

Good. It's much easier and less risky for men. I don't trust any man who sends his wife off to get her tubes tied instead of getting a vasectomy himself. Fragile ego's. I'm glad this woman got talked out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:03 PM
5

Yes and no are perfectly acceptable answers? Are they sure? Also for us? Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:38 PM
1

He'll either realize his mistake in a few years and hopefully be embarrassed, or (my favorite) he'll believe no women ever is really turned on by him. I'd love to witness this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:09 PM
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