Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...

paperbagskirt · 2020-08-21T11:58:38+00:00

I am so tired of delusional men interjecting their preferences and opinions of women. No one asked. No one cares. The fact that they think their opinion matters is a sign that the patriarchy is alive and well. And with his comments about her darkness - obviously, racism is alive and well.

WWisMyCo-pilot · 2020-08-21T16:15:05+00:00

Another thing to remember is that this isn't really about Lupita. He's doing two things here.

1) Broadcasting to dark skinned women that you could be as rich and successful and beautiful as Lupita, but you still ain't shit.

2) Dude version of PickMe. Signals to other trash men that "I'm a cool guy! Please like me. I desperately need attention."

Oh, and there is a third option. Signals to any woman from any race/culture/ethnicity to stay away from his NVM ass.

myousername · 2020-08-21T12:27:44+00:00

As a bi chick, if Lupita breathed in my general direction I think I would swoon. She is so objectively gorgeous and talented and I love her taste in fashion.

CatSweets · 2020-08-21T13:42:37+00:00

That reminds me of when a Brazilian right-wing journalist said that, after Scarlett Johansson cut her hair short, she was "ugly like all those feminists".

This is the guy. 😂😂😂

Pretend-Valuable · 2020-08-21T14:54:26+00:00

I would love to have even half his confidence.

It honestly riles me so much when there are beautiful, talented, strong women who think they're nothing, while neckbeards can sit at home thinking they're God's gift to women.

4E4ME · 2020-08-21T15:52:05+00:00

It is always stunning to me that some men have such a lack of etiquette and impulse control that they think it is appropriate to publicly express, uninvited, their thoughts on another person's body.

It's like being around a three year old: "You're fat!" "Your breath smells". "You're short". JFC, they've really never learned that we keep our opinions to ourselves? It's just plain childish.

WWisMyCo-pilot · 2020-08-21T14:41:08+00:00

Misogynoir strikes again!

There is a certain subset of black men who cannot go a day without shitting on black women in general and especially dark skinned women. Kevin Hart is a famous one. There are many.

Do not date anyone who trashes the women of their own race. This shows that they disrespect their mother/sister/aunties. More likely than not, they have boatloads of racist, stereotypical ideas about women of other cultures and races.

"Black women are too bossy." = Expects you to be a pushover and not stand up for yourself. Also unable to deal with someone calling him on his shit.

"Black women don't know how to take care of them men, like Latinas do." = Please be my mommy forever.

"I just don't find black women attractive" = Is in the Sunken Place. Has bought the idea that the white man's ice is colder. White will always be right.

lil_monstera · 2020-08-21T16:11:08+00:00

M*n have sex with an attractive woman who had low standards once and think they're some sort of gift to womankind

eucalyptusiscool · 2020-08-21T13:18:33+00:00

Her dark skin is such a rich and beautiful shade. She is stunning.

girlyispowerful · 2020-08-21T16:37:48+00:00

I will always say it: men especially average and below average men are the most entitled creatures on this planet. Imaging thinking that a gorgeous woman who is literally an Oscar winning actress, fashion icon and just a very beautiful person is not enough for you. If women thought like that we would be crucified as fuck.

rivkadidit · 2020-08-21T12:54:33+00:00

Delusional narcissistic woman-haters. Most of them.

Sea_Soil · 2020-08-21T16:27:35+00:00

I swear, no race of men hates woman of the same race more than Black men. Misogynoir is really something.

Leavix · 2020-08-21T11:16:34+00:00

No idea who lupita is, but I'm always surprised how opinionated guys are about women who are way out of their league.

GlobalDynamicsEureka · 2020-08-21T15:21:24+00:00

She is definitely one of the most gorgeous women living right now. This guy is insane.

Happylittleshadows · 2020-08-21T16:03:03+00:00

This actually isn’t a joke these men exist everywhere i’m half way across the universe and i see so many men say this exact shit fr

warinmymind94 · 2020-08-21T16:03:42+00:00

"Too dark" wow just... I'm at a loss for words here. But really I hope whatever women were thinking of giving him a chance see this and I hope they ignore his nasty racist self

daisy_0720 · 2020-08-21T15:51:46+00:00

Lmao I'm sure this beautiful and talented woman is crying into her millions because some basement dweller doesn't find her attractive enough to date.

ChristianGirl93 · 2020-08-21T14:05:04+00:00

I just can’t with these inhumane idiots 😒

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-08-21T22:03:13+00:00

How...she is literally the perfect woman.

fastidiousadipose · 2020-08-21T13:32:18+00:00

Ah yes, more AA female hatred from the guys who literally depend on their support. They really act like AA women ain't out here busting there assess raising them and fighting tooth and nail for their rights. And what do they do?

Title	Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...
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Date	August 21, 2020 10:46 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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