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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:30 PM
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QUEEN SH*TChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:03 PM
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LEVEL UPChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:47 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:04 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:57 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?ChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:33 PM
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DISCUSSIONChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:18 PM
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REMINDER 👑ChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:16 AM
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LIES MEN TELLChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:36 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:53 PM
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REMINDER 👑ChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:44 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:55 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?ChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:04 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:29 PM
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LIES MEN TELLChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:13 AM
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QUEEN SH*TChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:18 PM
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LEVEL UPChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:25 PM
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LVM LOGICChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:01 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:40 AM
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REMINDER 👑ChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:34 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:20 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:06 PM
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DISCUSSIONChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:09 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?ChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:09 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:22 PM
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LIES MEN TELLChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:35 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:55 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:27 AM
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LEVEL UPChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:54 AM
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NAH, SISChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:23 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:44 PM
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PICKME CULTUREChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:56 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:23 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:49 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:59 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:40 PM
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NAH, SISChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:03 PM
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SCROTES MADChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:48 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:33 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:08 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:00 AM
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DISCUSSIONChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:32 AM
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QUEEN SH*TChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:20 PM
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LEVEL UPChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:01 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!ChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:18 PM
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LEVEL UPChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:01 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:46 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:15 AM
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FOREVER GF TALESChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:50 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:28 PM
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How-To High ValueChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:10 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:17 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:35 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:11 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?ChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:44 PM
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STAY WOKEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:54 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:10 PM
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#JustLVMThingsChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:11 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:15 PM
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How-To High ValueChristianGirl93/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:57 PM
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Alternate Portlandia episode?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:48 AM
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Raise them in a good school and have them learn about birth control and how it works when they are ready and what hormones do to us and the unfair advantages men in society have over us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:21 AM
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He ‘finds the smallest things in people and pushes them away’??? Like his dick? Lol. Wow he just openly said he only cares about himself and expected others to care about him with no effort on his part 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:18 AM
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Girl, we’re here for you!! Sometimes you gotta let them go- and just book a massage, get flowers, and go celebrate you being you! Get that thing you’ve been saving up for and don’t tell a soul that doesn’t care more about you. That’s an awful friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:33 AM
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Whutn’t that from Queer Eye where the man didn’t take her out to eat in years so they never had sex? 🙃 that episode
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:17 AM
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Pizza rolls lmao and BBQ... pfff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:04 PM
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Yes ma’am, I tell my girls all the time, if they can’t have you, they gone be sure to have you Mad, Angry, or any type of way as long as they think they got you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:57 AM
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They can also make you second guess your worth, intentions, and life decisions- but I think that’s a negative woops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:56 AM
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Ding ding ding! Here’s your answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:46 AM
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No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:44 AM
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Let’s be honest ugly guys are just guys who refuse to take personal responsibility for bare minimum looks and don’t take personal responsibility to be more interesting than the average Joe, because deep down, it’s not that they’re boring, they feel entitled to more than the average men who respect themselves and others. Period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:42 AM
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That’s horrifying. I’m so sorry. Thank you for sharing that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:50 AM
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I bet it was to the man behind him wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:46 AM
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Men are the effing prudes- ooh yes, come over Netflix and cuddle, touch my dick, suck me, love me, make me come, make me happy, oh, stttahp! No get off me, you look bigger than your picture, but you’re on your pErIOd, you need to be clean and douche, you have body hair, I don’t like your underwear, I only date Thicc chicks... they are a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:43 AM
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Throw the whole man away Ps: the women you call eMoTiOnaL were just trying to save face to not to get raped and didn’t want to date, you just couldn’t take a hint and keep your dick out of their business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:36 AM
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Fffffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:10 PM
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Riiiight?? So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:10 PM
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I’m a BIG giver... (30 dates later- may change your mind lol) give energy, not things, give attention and time and call it a day, there will be years later after they’ve proved themselves that you can give to your heart’s desire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:09 PM
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Claps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:33 PM
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And dug a grave while doing so- the one time they good at multitasking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:37 PM
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If you ever do, only do so if you have roommates, if you don’t have roommates, say you have them anyways and make up a name of a friend who lives nearby where you are meeting up at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:35 PM
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Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:32 PM
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Does he mean ‘ride or die?’ Or does he mean that after the death of the 2 people, he needs a new ride and a woman who can fit his needs? (Scratches head) his sentences don’t even know what he wants lol. Also, replacing ‘2020 has been hard for me with ‘it’s hit me on a personal level’’ doesn’t clarify anything at all. He’s NOT looking for a match, he’s looking to match your every move so that he can pretend to be someone just to have a girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:23 PM
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Without saying that he’s ‘the right person’ you are saying it by letting him continue to date you- if you want I’d say, ‘hey, I like dating you, and wanted to let you know that I enjoy your company,’ and kind of let him go from there and he’ll initiate the questions of exclusivity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:18 PM
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He must have been redpilling her is all I can say. You can leave trash in the moving van- or just leave him altogether
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:53 PM
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right??? A Christian redditor was trashed in the comments for making a post about how they don’t take commenters on the Christian page seriously if they had 18+ or NSFW Accts. But ofcourse it was all... ‘not all men, not all porn, it’s just bloody-graphic content’ yeah sure...🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:31 PM
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At least women had she-sheds because if women have a place for hobbies, we at least make it industrious- unlike playing video games, watching football, and living like a slob in a Neanderthal cave 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:25 PM
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Pickme-erella
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:18 PM
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Just write down all the bad things, when we feel loss we tend to dwell on the positives and what we think they could be. But deep down, there’s a lot of flaws that another girl will have to put up with and had to put up with him half time and not full time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:40 PM
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Oh, y’all ain’t wait long enough in the car then 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:33 PM
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Wow: they don’t even think for a minute she has Bluetooth headset to connect to her boss or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:36 PM
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Yes, even if it’s to de-escalate, imagine telling a friend ‘not to worry about something that it’s not That big a deal.’ Just sayin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:28 PM
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Exactly, if he opens the car doors and drives recklessly, yup and yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:27 PM
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Aren’t they supposed to? Lol but good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:21 PM
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Let him have the imagination, not you, he should be the real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:47 AM
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Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:43 AM
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Bc they think you low maintenance af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:37 AM
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Dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:32 AM
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Riiight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:32 AM
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The only multitasking he ever accomplishes is the 3 in 1 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:09 AM
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Honestly, you’ll be so happy every time you look down and see ‘wow, someone put a ring on that’ and ‘wow, I’m worth it,’ and when someone compliments you on your ring ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:59 AM
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The way these men sound: yeah, stop being upset that your football team lost and go play tennis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:57 AM
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A.....men! Or Awoman I mean Men: thinking money is a personality trait 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:09 AM
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I noticed this too, but we also have to realize that we aren’t their Mom’s and this is something you learn past your terrible 2’s 🙄 sometimes it ain’t worth explaining to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:06 AM
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Wow, girl, I can’t imagine- this guy prob put more creativity into dates with his dog- waste of time. But he knows he can’t pull that crap on you!!! Claps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:01 AM
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My ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:58 AM
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I only read a few sentences and have thought the same things. If there were just a few things that a HVM would do to make it work, he would- if he doesn’t, it makes him an LVM by default because they are just a few things he could sacrifice for you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:57 AM
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Umm... didn’t a Poster say those 11,000 women were murdered by their male partners, so yes, in that sense being unmarried would kill them because men kill women, married or not. But men are more stress so jokes on them to us singles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:54 AM
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Where all the blocked men go, this is their purgatory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:52 AM
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I don’t make it past the first sentence with these scrotes, waste of my brain cells. Honestly just trying to ignore and not ignite their backward arguments because it’s funnier to leave them with their ignorant final say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:51 AM
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Prayer for you. Also, one dumpster of an ex being compared to a wastebasket is still trash you shouldn’t have to lug around- the trash is out so celebrate! ❤️ the problem I used to have wasn’t that the ex treated me more decent than the last, it’s that I didn’t learn until later to treat myself better than a boyfriend could, and now, I own it and am kinder to myself- you should be too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:45 AM
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Someone said it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:42 AM
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Counter: ‘John Stamos insecurely covers his famous bulge on the subway’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:28 PM
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Right? Like maybe I’ve reached a new level but sometimes I get turned on thinking of myself alone feeling myself up. 😅 I think you’ll get there. Self love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:25 PM
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Right like tf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:23 PM
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Because ugly men are the best at lying to themselves and to women, and women have types and are willing to settle with a 6/10 of their type because they give them a fake emotional connection that gets them high (old me)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:21 PM
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And they can’t even lie for crap and be walking out here with a haircut from they mama; what can scrotes do again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:19 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:17 PM
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Wow, she out here literally just existing and these wild butt scroter boats really gotta treat her like meat 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:17 PM
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I don’t mind if they dislike them, at least they won’t be friends with them. ps: the ahem, penis jokes are a lie. Just sayin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:13 PM
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He won’t even notice these things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:10 PM
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A poster here pointed to an article on the misconceptions people have about fertility- it was on a show where the guy debunks myths who said the facts were a small study of French women in the 50s and that it’s perfectly fine to wait until you are 40 to have kids. Ladies, help her out if you know it! Also, age is nothing to feel bad about, as long as you take care of you, who the heck cares? An HVM will go out of his way to pursue you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:09 PM
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Stalkers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:05 PM
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Handbook and prayers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:18 PM
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Imagine a man who thinks his body is a luxury for you to earn 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:17 PM
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I agree, but just in general to all females and new potential partners❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:16 PM
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Good point, one of my exes bragged that all his friends were single and I started noping out mentally lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:14 PM
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5, 9 and 10!! ❤️ are a must
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:12 PM
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Girl, we’ve been there, every woman has a first, glad you saw him for what he was. Can’t wait til you find a real one 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:11 PM
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This... so much this. When someone’s actions make them a stranger, remind yourself that they are just that... a stranger, and you won’t owe them any attention that they’ve had numerous occasions to give you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:09 PM
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I’ve had a similar dating situation with someone with a similar disorder and I really had to break it to him, like a three day ordeal and then I finally had to block him because he wouldn’t take no. Anyone who doesn’t respect your boundaries, regardless of disability is not a healthy person to be around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:06 PM
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Hmm... still too early for sex but I would just tell him and see how he reacts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:04 PM
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Gonna go ahead and say, this a suave PUA move if I’ve seen one. A HVM would have asked if you had another male friend to help put it together with and not make you lift a finger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:47 PM
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Imagine being that low and not even checking to see if she got sick though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:24 PM
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Differences would be if you know everything about the other person within a week, and their words don’t match their actions. Like oh, I thought you loved that band, ‘oh yeah, I do...’ (turns it up to prove a point).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:42 PM
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But did you get dessert? ❤️ that would have been the cherry on top
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:40 PM
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Ooh, someone is outing themselves as only ever having one girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:38 PM
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TIL what GLTY means- thought it had to do with glitter and not illiterate or ill-glitter-ate men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:33 PM
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Aww hun, it’s charity work- but that on your resume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:30 PM
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Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:52 AM
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Yeah, a NVM’s Answer: they would say I’m smart, honest, polite and a good person 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:33 AM
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My Dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:29 AM
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The bar is low and the door is cracked open 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:28 AM
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Maybe he’s too boring to bring up things that will make you want to talk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:27 AM
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I’m learning now, that too many long phone calls are to cover for something else. 3-10 texts a day is good and then call like a couple of nights a week to actually have an exchange where you learn about him. This texting less and less is breadcrumbing, and you ain’t no bird! And vacation my butt, he’s conveniently telling all the girls he’s seeing that he’s ‘too busy to text’ so that none will text while he’s hanging out with the other girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:26 AM
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Embarrassing... for Him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:16 AM
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I am unimpressed by his inability to use the word ‘is’ and his use of sweeping generalizations like ‘decent human being’- which to him, is a cover for the word ‘perfect person.’ Ladies, Guys who use sweeping generalizations like: -not all guys -he’s a good/moral person -a good job -intelligent conversation -a nice dress -a nice necklace You get the point; these are all covers for ‘it means what I think it means’ meaning these guys don’t know crap and can’t communicate for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:52 PM
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I think of the time they waste if I’m not having fun. So yeah then I can delete him when he shows me that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:03 PM
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‘It doesn’t matter if you want sex with ‘fresh dick’ and want him to spend money and time and talk to you and have 4 dates a week, after all, “You’re a woman, let yourself be one,” (shoe on the other foot).’ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:57 AM
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Don’t spend more than 3 nights a week on the phone- too much talking is to cover up for his inaction and make you think he’s putting in effort. Nah, if he had 3 hours time to invest, he should have already planned a date, picked you up and had invested that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:54 AM
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Nah, because second first impressions are very seldom more impressive than the firsts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:49 AM
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Hell nah, if scrotes would pick about the food I used to make them, imagine giving them flowers, IMAGINE, “oh, these are okay, but you know I really love the color blue, if you could get all blue flowers next time.” The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:45 AM
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Off brand Expired Ryan Reynolds has some takes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:04 AM
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Good so far, but I 100% recommend trying on in store if possible. I came to the post for advice too though lol. Beats me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:09 PM
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First date, pinched his balls and said ‘I can help you get rid of this’ keyword ‘help’ 😏pssshh men ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:07 PM
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Wow, like men really don’t know how to hop over the counter, the 3 of them available, and lift the shelf that is crushing her and preventing Em Response team from getting to her, like all they did was stand. Idiots! Idc what y’all say about trauma.. blah blah, those men did NOTHING! also, props to the dude who jumped in finally, damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:00 PM
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Never seen one tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:46 PM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:45 PM
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Exactly, had a rando like this back in Feb and tbh if he goes out with people he isn’t attracted to, that confirms the implied notion that he sees sexual attraction And chemistry and character as 2 separate things making the inherent exclusion of such chemistry as a means to use women only for sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:44 PM
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Don’t let them know, they can’t tell if you are or not, trust me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:39 PM
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Edit: UN-civil engineer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:32 PM
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That would make such a cute print holy crap, I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:30 PM
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I end up buying crop tops in x-large even though I’m a XS-S and undo that tie at the bottom. I shop vintage and in places with natural fibers (more slow fashion) less trendy- (free people, Anthro, boutiques) and Etsy And then I get XL in kids section sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:03 PM
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As much as I love these two, I can’t with the self-deprecating humor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:49 PM
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They don’t cry because it gives them blue balls 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:48 PM
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I’ll tell you this from my experience. It is the same with kissing, you can kiss people, but it only matters if the person matters to you, now there’s no way that you won’t compare the two a little like hmm.. this position used to work different for me, or hmm, that looks different, but it’s never a black and white ooh no this is not the same at all, it’s usually more of a learning process. It’s totally fine unless there’s sexual dysfunction girl, good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:46 PM
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Claps for the hamburgers and he won’t eat anything unless it’s cooked with meat and no vegetables 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:38 PM
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Deadpool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:37 PM
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Thanks for clarifying; thinking of deleting since point is mute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:43 PM
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Idk. Ask spongebob how hard it is 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:13 PM
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Wym? Wyd? U up? Idc, idk, emoji-only... Level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:13 PM
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Do you think guys feel bad for ghosting you because you didn’t communicate on their terms? Heck no. So don’t see it as a loss. We aren’t starter girlfriends and he’s at the age where he should know better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:10 PM
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For men, it’s the difference between going to a cake decorating contest to look, and taking a slice home with him. You see, he could enjoy viewing you anywhere, but once you’re in his territory, he sees you as his to some degree and you aren’t anybody’s right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:08 PM
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I just can’t with these inhumane idiots 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:05 PM
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Google her, you will thank us later ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:02 PM
10

Oh you want to split the bill? I’ll say Bi- you say -ll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:18 AM
6

I bet she got out of making breakfast for typing that out, but she gonna he expected to cook the rest of the day 🤣 sad pickme. We try to tell y’all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:16 AM
6

Just say, really? Cause I don’t think I LOOK tired. Your eyes are looking weird, maybe get your glasses checked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:11 AM
6

Amazing. I’m so sorry to hear that but she would be so proud knowing this- men def need to live up to that example ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:07 AM
6

Had a guy who was pretty vocal during making out and it made it 10x hotter. Pornsick exes could never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:02 AM
5

Yes, I too have had ex demons lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:00 AM
23

Yeah, I mean the first review on commonsensemedia called it Porn for its content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:43 AM
4

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:27 PM
20

It’s not that he’s not interested in you- he’s not interesting if he’s got to retreat all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:46 PM
33

Slaves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:44 PM
17

Girl, I heard it all, and yes, they say, I DiDiNt kNoW- like boy, you went without sex for months because you were too self-absorbed to woo her or to work out your differences. Boy, you know, (claps) KNOW! That she didn’t just up and learn a new language in a day and move to another country- she’s been planning that for years but you didn’t want to keep her so she left. Guys ain’t as stupid as they are stubborn sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:28 PM
3

I bet he got mad at the computer for deleting his cookies too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:24 PM
2

Heck, they been lying about it I see 25 yr olds say (Really I’m 21) in the Bio like really dude? Am I supposed to be impressed that you have a job and no college education at 21, claiming to be 25?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:21 PM
3

I’d send him pics of random men I met while doing those activities and say, ‘sucks to suck.’ And since when do men consider brushing their teeth, showering, and slapping on ‘church clothes’ to be some big ordeal- this man has never seen a lash curler in his life I know that much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:18 PM
1

It wasn’t really that good, they just pretended to be great at talking and stopped being able to fake emotional intimacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:12 PM
113

Haaaah! That one threw me 😆❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:10 PM
2

This needs to be on shirts, hats and bumper stickers so people know how insane they sound
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:03 PM
3

If you single and want a baby and you don’t want to settle for a bad guy to get married-there’s a stigma. I swear, women get so much hate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:00 PM
5

Lack of morals is what it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:58 PM
2

Boo hoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:53 PM
6

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:51 PM
13

Do they know promise ring means they promise sex to they man until HE decides to man up and propose- that ain’t no special thing, that’s a cheap contract
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:50 PM
2

You must have dated my ex 🤣 I bet he played it in restaurants at dinner too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:11 PM
4

On wow honey, you okay? Oof that’s rough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:08 PM
48

‘Less painless?’ So he’s saying more painful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:44 PM
7

Get you some girlfriends who will compliment you better than them and applaud you for your body and your soul and you won’t see them the same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:08 PM
32

Oh men lose their crap if you ask them if they’ve ever had a girlfriend!! 😆 I joked with one once asking him how he kept a gf with his slow texting skills and he LOST IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:03 PM
30

Wow, seems like someone got possessed by satan himself, please protect yourself from this monster. But in all this, I’m gonna steal his excuse next time I need to get out of something, pulled my damn labia, no I don’t want to go to susie’s cousin’s drive up gender reveal next weekend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:00 PM
6

Well see, that’s what I thought, but I’m like ole boy is full ass grown and only wants to listen to his heyday music and I’m like... bruh, you an adult, you can’t be mad that you don’t fit in. Wake up, your plans aren’t just Simple Plan anymo 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:52 PM
57

Right, like why you bragging as a Christian about seeing a young girl’s vagina? Send that pedo to jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:43 PM
5

I thought it was Keri’s song 🙃 maybe cause she’s the only one I hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:40 PM
18

Candace is my fairy Queen-mother 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:39 PM
25

Yes Ma’am!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:37 PM
14

Yeah, it’s funny since I’ve been dating myself I don’t second-guess things men say now because I don’t just declare that I am a whole person- but I say it in my actions as well ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:36 PM
13

Depends on the guy honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:15 PM
9

Yeah, let’s not pretend to be satan’s friend or devil’s advocate, because why you want to be friends with evil to prove your point? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:15 PM
23

Damn girl, that’s legit. Also, date Koreans- they are hella good texters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:13 PM
6

I feel like an elder here, but by the length of your complaint, I’m guessing he’s not worth your time. You already do your part, now you have a part time job of making excuses for him and as long as you stay with him, that’s what your future is looking like. Forgiveness is one thing, but patterns are patterns and they don’t get better with marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:07 PM
12

But like I swear the number of men wearing sunglasses on OLD, and wear masks during Halloween, I’m just baffled because it would do a lot of them favors and not just health wise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:01 PM
13

Like Fergie said- we got reasons why we tease them, boys just come and go like seasons. If you are HVW and have the time, we make it work by having it work for us. We don’t spend all day on there or have high expectations for what we may find, we merely see if we can go have fun with someone who is interested and vet them at our own risk. It’s a gamble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:58 PM
49

How red pilled I was from my exes. The same excuses they use about ‘loving but not being in love,’ future faking with no punishment. How much time I can spend on myself instead of idealizing my vision of my exes that made me feel like they were something to lose in the first place. No losses, just experiences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:55 PM
2

Those of us with fur babies know the struggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:45 PM
41

I swear these men be clicking the skip on our dialogue boxes like a gamer and think that as long as words are coming out and we’re smiling that it’s going well 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:11 PM
9

Handbook. And ask them if they are so mad, why don’t they date him, damn. Lol. Also the “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” line must be a PUA or redpill thing because 2 of my exes had told me that like tf that just means you ‘have feelings but aren’t willing to put in the work’- that ain’t love homie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:09 PM
13

He invited me over twice in the same day when I said I was sick. I didn’t go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:06 PM
2

I love this but I’m low key stressing over the rose petals, like oof what if I get them in my hair, so messy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:54 PM
73

Do they not know how to keep internal dialogue to themselves? Also, ofcourse you met someone better THEN him, then Him, and now you’re off to meet someone even better than the first 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:38 PM
6

Be weirder, make more friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:55 PM
1

Why his glasses above his line of vision though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:52 PM
10

Think of them as doing their own charity work by taking themselves out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:34 PM
6

Try ‘fight the new drug’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:37 PM
6

Girl just make out with him and check the size if it really concerns you. Had a guy play this on me Big Time, and I was like fine, idc, I’m ready and I trust you. And then he whips out this giant dick and I’m like... why did you lie? He said he wanted to see if I liked him for who he was. But yeah, very awkward manipulation there. Now I just make out and feel around to get an estimate. If you guys respect each other, it shouldn’t matter. If he happens to be small and it doesn’t work out, just te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:35 PM
5

Well that’s not a healthy mindset since at least 600,000 are looking to find a healthy break from porn and whatnot on nofap. I’ve known men who are just not about it and it shows; they have a healthy concept of themselves and the women around them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:02 PM
36

They don’t know that when they do this, all races go, eww, and swipe him out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:56 AM
17

For OLD love bombing, it would happen after February or near March whether it was 3 months or 5 months in, they just noped out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:51 AM
17

They show their colors fast don’t they? Don’t feel like it’s any loss to you. My former pickme ways had my ex sexually spoiled and when he picked drama with me that he wouldn’t fix, then he had the audacity to demand pics while I was at his Mom’s house like.. boy, can’t you sneak over here or wait. And then he wanted to make a sex tape and I said maybe after marriage and then I said, second thought I wouldn’t want that if I was married. And he got so defensive. Like bro, I thought you learned in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:46 AM
106

How she supposed to apologize when he’s blocked and she got restraining order on him? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:08 AM
60

Girl, wait til you get one that when you are getting it he gently grabs your thighs and asks why you are ‘running away’ from him in a playful way, omg, too bad he was LVM and got away real quick. The flashbacks to the eye contact got me, but if he can, any man can. Whew, okay I’m good, but yeah he wasn’t committed to marrying me but he was committed to something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:02 AM
28

Telling me what he thinks I ought to do- what Job I ought to apply for, what outfit I should wear, what color I should dye my hair, yeah, I used to think it was like aw, I’ll be his favorite. And now I’m like, nah, I’m MY favorite, he doesn’t like me, Too bad! 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:09 PM
13

I love this! I am Beyond proud of you for reporting what happened. God bless you. You are living proof that you can go through hell and make decisions that your future self will benefit from even when it takes all that you got ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:07 PM
23

Has to be a joke, because if she was RP and Pickme, she’d believe cooking for him is keeping him from seeing other women 🤪😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:03 PM
7

Just to clarify oral on a man doesn’t have to be a choking, head-pushing, act- it can mean kissing, licking, etc. (but I know men who think it has to mean full choke) and yeah... gross. So I believe you can find those for sure, but during a pandemic, it’s really hard to find guys who haven’t had to jump ship career or education-wise to other places where they need to get their bearings before dating seriously and healthily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:01 PM
65

Umm... this is identity theft, pretty sure dude gonna get it Big Time. What a delusional creep. I’m so sorry, if it happened to me, I’d be paranoid. No man has a right to do that, keep us posted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:52 PM
37

This is so sad, I know this is gonna really leave scrotes shook, but I have tasted myself before and it’s like cookies and butter and some dick I’ve had tasted like sour tobacco from what he was smoking 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:42 PM
3

Yeah, I just realized he wasn’t the best fit for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:27 PM
13

He gone have to pay double the overtime too cause that’s her nightshift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:58 PM
13

Right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:51 PM
19

Avoidant attachment for sure. Had to constantly work through this with an HVM and I found out he wasn’t going to let my distrust of men stop him from being there for me and I eventually compared LVM to him years later and thought, damn why ain’t this guy texting me like my ex, I’m fine as hell 😌haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:49 PM
4

Okay what pisses me off more was the fact that he thinks 15 lbs overweight is a travesty- like FN look at Ed Sheeran, I mean damn, 15 lbs is not a deal breaker. 2nd that’s like asking a man who dances why he can’t get laid- he can, he just doesn’t want to damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:32 PM
27

I only made it 3 min in. Observations: He calls her “robotic” only because she’s agreeing with a majority of females. He’s aware. And robot is an attempt to dehumanize her before she speaks. ‘Sounds like she’s had some trouble...’ is a way he attacks her for something human like dating or breaking up. Thinking ‘she must be crazy’ because how can a conservative think of an idea that seems liberal? Meaning, you don’t fit in the box. The ‘Not all Men meets Just One Woman argument’ and they can’t st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:27 PM
5

‘But Babe... when one door closes, another door...’ busts down the door I came in. Damnit! These one way doors are trap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:16 PM
4

What happened was OP kept chasing white women he claimed were playing hard to get when really they just weren’t interested. On the off chance that an Asian girl is nice to him and is also attracted to him (he thinks oh, white women bad, other women good). This is why we stick up for all women- a man makes a blanket assumption because he can’t figure out the differences between being nice or interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:11 PM
2

Still waiting to be asked out by my locker in a musical montage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:40 PM
2

Wow, imagine the nightmare of having kids with him. Call his Mama gay cause she wiped his ass as a baby, and I guarantee you, he’ll rethink it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:39 PM
6

All I had to read was the title and damn you right! Like I’m so traumatized by my own actions that hurt you, like TF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:29 PM
11

Chances are, she already knows he effed up if he’s spending all this time away from his family, I don’t see how people make it to date number 2 without guilt. Just remember, you aren’t ruining a marriage, he is, you are just letting her know what her suspicions were
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:48 PM
36

I would just get some toxic fart spray and spray the scrote away everywhere I go, this sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:38 PM
34

I’ve seen this and laughed because in reality, if he saw the way she looked at him while doing this, he’d be flaccid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:27 PM
26

If roles were reversed you know you wouldn’t stay friends with the gf unless you honestly planned to hook her up with man who behaved better than your son, or your son because deep down you think he’s still something because he came out of your vagina. Just sayin’ the Mom should know her place and back off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:38 PM
5

That’s a damn cruise ship WTH?! Block. Also he probably a drug dealer or a trafficker or retired- who got that time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:23 AM
26

They really found out how to use copy and paste didn’t they? And I think they mean they made they Mamas cry cause they a disappointment. Last time I cried for a scrote was in Feb. and it was also because he wasn’t as cute as his picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:14 AM
48

He says ‘She done stuck up them standards on the wall and I can’t touch it because I aim low and only think at the level with my penis and that’s why I say she’s stuck up’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:10 AM
22

As an abused former pickme, the hell they do- it’s part of LVM and Narcs triangulation and discard plans. It takes time and trust but with patience and honesty you’ll grow stronger and more compassionate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:07 AM
45

Handbook and Holdup- girl, you are trying to be manipulated by someone who thinks he can get it from you, guys are dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:05 AM
26

Sorry ass LVM, they all do this when they are debating feelings for another pickme who’s willing to be told what to do. Good on you for having your wits about you. I used to think it was cause he’s ‘depressed’ or going through...ugh ugh UGH! We in a Ship, we go through this Together! He already gone and ain’t doin crap for you. He can at least be mature enough to talk to you- guarantee you ain’t a one of your girlfriends tell you she needs this much space and how she is ‘in love’ but doesn’t lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:01 AM
3

Different person, but yes I agree with the Jenna thing, I had heard stories but I hope she found someone or even herself because that relationship sailed fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:00 PM
15

Sounds super sketchy. Glad you did your research and noped out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:38 PM
17

Lol, when the door opens on its own. A building- still more structurally sound, cute and more open than a low value man will ever be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:34 PM
5

Wow. Imagine being so entitled that you think you get to pick and choose your partner’s past 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:39 PM
33

Baaaabe please... just sit with me through this hallmark marathon- I want to see if you are as ‘emotionally’ compatible as the other guy 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:58 PM
8

Haha 😆 I’d ask him if he meant a rapper named Lil’Bido cause idk what the fresh heck la-bido loca is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:49 PM
2

Beginning sounds like a 21 Pilots rap bout to pop off talking about a desperate Dad realizing his life better get back on track
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:47 PM
9

Curious: do they expect us to call them sweetheart too? 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:44 PM
16

Got them priorities straight 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:43 PM
53

I love how the hand gestures in these suggest how high the bar must be minimum for the lurking scrotes to listen to the video 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:16 PM
22

Y’all, I just skip past the mansplaining of these idiots. Had a full on convo with my HVM father and he said, that’s not right, yeah she isn’t a feminist but who wouldn’t want someone to plan things in advance and why are they so offended? He just frowned and shook his head lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:51 PM
5

I had no idea guys wore those when they got divorced... oh, wait, you mean women? Hell nah, no married woman would wear those ugly things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:48 PM
9

I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:47 PM
12

“..it doesn’t help. It only comes in handy once you’ve sealed the deal,” meaning my genitals are to be glorified for their size and not their action once someone is stuck with me. Size is def not a problem, and most normal vaginas can only be penetrated up to a certain depth. He must have imagined that a wife is some sort of build-a-bear type object that will mold to you, ugh... Ps: I guarantee you he is not 5 yrs in but half a year into marriage after a 5 year situationship where he was allowed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:44 PM
10

I would have snapped back to ask him how he would describe a ‘good guy, or a guy good enough to date his future daughter.’ His validating of ‘yes, ahem, those are good qualities... ‘ just makes it sound so dismissive of you and what you asked like this is something adults do to children and he does not need to treat a grown woman like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:38 PM
15

Kevin especially
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:54 AM
2

He’s trying to see if you prefer mundane jackhammering sex (pizza) to something that requires more variety (Netflix) lol. “...arguably better...” next reply: “iM nOt ArGUInG...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:52 AM
31

Ikr? Thing is, they have a hard time communicating because the first thing they’d say is, hey, um want to grab coffee and suck my dick- and they would go to jail 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:03 AM
32

I read through this thinking one of you Queens had me sent from joking around pretending to be the most exaggerated lowest form of scum on the planet, but no, this is a real person on the Internet. Let me break down his fantasy real quick: Although the emotional attachment is there after sex, all it takes is one female friend calling you out on your bullsh*t to make me walk away with no contact for years on end. Believe me queens, it gets easier the more boundaries you put up and the less medioc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:00 AM
32

Go ahead and make that fake Google Voice number just in case that a lot on here have been suggesting. And idk that just seems sketchy and an invasion of privacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:47 PM
35

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:30 PM
1

Be yourself. Talk to women. Talk to a lot of women. We will let you know if we like you- then you date. It’s really that simple
/r/RPChristians10/08/20 11:27 PM
2

I’m certain that following Christ will help you attract Christ-centered women. That’s awesome. However, that cat analogy is obscure and demeaning. God never said we were animals and although we have instincts, you shouldn’t use blanket statements to justify God’s divine providence in your life
/r/RPChristians10/08/20 11:23 PM
3

And wow, they really do try to make their own religion out of red pill (smh) when the first commandment is have no other gods before me. Ladies, don’t let the hypocrisy of these men prevent you from having a loving relationship with God, you have the right to choose if you want to, these men are out of their minds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:17 PM
9

In the Lord’s name, Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:36 PM
22

First off, don’t put words in God’s mouth. He said Adam needed someone; also Jesus didn’t bad mouth the woman at the well and tell her to ‘stay in her lane,’ He merely acknowledged that she didn’t need to keep chasing these husbands of hers that if she follows God by her choosing, she can find joy, not empty promises of a slave-run, male-dominated society. Correction Followership- he means ‘a Following’ The only submission that happens in Christianity is BOTH man and woman being submissive to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:23 PM
65

Smell comes from bacterial formation. Hence why sweat only stinks because of the bacteria that grows there as a result. There is this unique cure for it that has been groundbreaking for all relationships and it comes without a prescription. I believe the name is Wateeran Sope 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:21 PM
1

(Exhales violently) here we go again lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:54 PM
2

Block!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:13 PM
5

For me usually Bumble and Hinge but because I have religious preferences it asks me to ‘widen my preferences’ haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:24 PM
17

So I’m not the only one who gets that notification lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:07 PM
5

Hmm.. I guess I was asking specifically because dude showed all signs of HVM and after month 5 or 6 he started getting like that and I never knew better and he didn’t go down on me but like once. Meanwhile all the LVM PUAs would eat me out all the time and use it to manipulate me later. I think I would just straight up ask them about it when we invest enough energy in each other but I don’t want this double standard ever and 5 months is a lot to waste
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:59 PM
3

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:56 PM
56

If they have a weak ass bio If they drink or smoke frequently If they aren’t into having kids 2nd stage: my friends are more impressive- unmatch No solid plans for the future- unmatch If they talk about physical touch- unmatch If they don’t give me plans or act invested the first week- clear unmatch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:09 PM
10

Yes!! Clouds for the win! There’s such a wealth in that book alone. Guys and girls be looking to get into scam-ships just to prove they can and feel upset when they don’t like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:05 PM
2

Ohh snap haha yes! Or Science how a woman’s body can orgasm without penetration- that’s science I want him to carry with him. And that’s dope as eff how nature can be so captivating. Crows be my next form of birth control, ‘he say nah, we seen that boy before squaaawk! Yeets boy out of the way’ 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:54 PM
3

‘Horrifying amount of work’ to describe growing a relationship and caring about another person (seeing them as perfect just because they have good intentions) is not as much wOrK as being a perfected sex doll devoid of emotion. If they can’t get that, they’ll die and early miserable death
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:20 PM
2

Idk but ‘death science sex’ just doesn’t sound appealing to me. If men are so into outer space you think they’d know that people want to talk about a vast variety of subjects and not ones limited to his own ‘planet’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:10 PM
5

I would have agreed with him; but what about men in muscle tanks. And as long as she doesn’t feel objectified by them, I don’t see the issue. Although if nipples are that visible, it usually makes the wearer more uncomfortable than the people around. He should have been more concerned for her comfort cause Lord knows the girls be thriving in Qtine because no need to pick out which bra fits or doesn’t and it’s one less hassle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:54 PM
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Yeah that sounds good but we also need: -a timeline to see if you can trust and hold off sex for a while. Does he go down on you? -period of 6 month trust where he claims his exclusivity before you post online. Did he completely earn trust before this? And good job if he did the writing songs part is cute but very much PUA, are they generic or specific to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:47 PM
1

God bless. I was about to say, started doing more core and I’m needing way more magnesium and calorie replenishment than I once thought- Thank you for sharing! If you have advice on foods, make a post, I’d be interested!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:27 PM
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Yeah, this is why I’m glad I don’t work with men. You are so right. Also, idk why they are so quick to be like ‘wHy yOu sTaLk mE?’ Like bruh, I asked if you were wearing that hoodie because I was chillin at the mall with my homies, maybe you the one who’s following me cause last I checked you can’t stay in a place like that more than 10 minutes! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:23 PM
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Fake sick and see who comes through- if they’re really pervs, they’ll ignore you for a time trying to get action from other girls if they are LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:14 PM
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I’ll be honest: some guys will ask how long was the last person you dated- and I’ll lie and say 1 year because the other ones ‘don’t count’- you’d be amazed at how they’ll continue to date you if you say something long term. New habits- say you were with them 3 weeks, men who ask how long only want to know how long you’ll put up with their trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:07 PM
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I’ve heard this from plenty of LVM on dating sites, most younger white guys don’t pay but older ones will. As for Asian-Only 2 American-born Vietnamese, really came through. Surprisingly, both Chinese-born Americans let me pay but one was willing to go 50/50 so we could try more foods in a tourist area of town. Very common, just depends on the area. I’d try to set my preferences away from University areas to meet guys who are willing to pay Side note: I hope that guy was just being sarcastic- bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:00 PM
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Def narc and psychopath behavior- mine finally admitted after the doctor appts and body washes and douches and all that he was upset and wanted me to be upset as he was. He was truthful about it but he really did want me to feel bad and probably because he couldn’t have sex with me yet because I wasn’t physically ready. Didn’t lose virginity to him though thank God
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:00 PM
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If you get in and his car is so noisy that you can’t hear yourself talk- he’s doesn’t want to listen. If you get in and something is broke or missing and he has yet to fix it, he doesn’t know how to prioritize and thinks he’s above the law. If the ceiling is falling through, he will drop you in a snap. If it has no ac (he has no way to vent) he’s depressed, underachieving and wants you to be as well. If it’s a brand new truck, that he washes too often he just wants to prove he’s interesting- he’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:55 PM
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will make you tacos *loves to go on adventures my Mom thinks I’m special Yes, that’s my daughter, and she comes first looking for a dog mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:43 PM
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Last LVM used it- but Tit-ies is what makes me 🤢 idk why but it just sounds childish. Ooh let me see yow scwoty woty and your bawsy-wawsies blughhh! Imagine if roles reversed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:50 AM
10

If we said, babe! Your penis is leaking! Can’t you just ‘hOLd iT iN?’ 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:01 AM
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Am I missing something? He ‘puts’ the baby to bed? Like fr, ain’t that something a 12 yr old can do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:04 AM
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What the living F*ck?! 🤣 I guarantee you his friends didn’t want him to have a GF so they made this shit up to keep him single since they couldn’t win girls over either. Also, can we point out that regardless of gender, you don’t actively leave someone for the sole reason of not ‘getting wet’ or ‘getting hard’ the first time and assume they are going to cheat, if it becomes a pattern, then you work on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:59 PM
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That’s a high value trash can, you must be talking about the trash bag next to it haha, and I assume yours wasn’t the upgraded ‘voice activated’ scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:51 PM
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If someone doesn’t ‘get’ sarcasm- it’s usually a sign. Maybe he meant to say someone I can make orgasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:43 PM
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Yeah, imagine being so heartless and spineless that you have to fill your down time with doing nothing because you don’t like yourself or other people you’re just projecting to get something from them so you can feel a brief glimpse of hope for not giving an ish about anyone else on the planet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:08 PM
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If he doesn’t have any personality, friends, hobbies or life of his own outside of yours, he’s probably codependent and you’ll end up feeling more guilt-tripped into staying with him so that he can idolize you. But a man who respects you will have self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:28 AM
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Damn we really do be needing a body cam for our first dates to make sure we don’t second guess ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:17 AM
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Been there, squeezed that. I honestly don’t care too much about body type but boy I mean when we hugged my fingers didn’t touch 😁I hope he’s gained the weight in sensibility since
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:15 AM
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Low key me. I’ve been afraid to marry down looks wise, because it’s true, once they piss you off, my clit just went female-Ed like woop, never again. Meanwhile, a hot dude who you find out trying screw you over, at least you got some cute pics out of it and ain’t near as mad about it!!😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:13 AM
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Balding and a beer gut- ugh, it really did help knowing I could hard core make out with 2 of my crushes from university and one that he was jealous of. Pickme days thought I was badass for getting keanu-esque man driving me back at 2 am after a massage and staying up talking and listening to music. But damn, sometimes you gotta remind yourself what kind of guys are worth it for you- appearance goes a long way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:09 AM
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Can we agree? Ghosting is the act of ignoring online or irl for 2 days or more without explanation and from someone you’ve already established a relationship trajectory with for more than 3 days. In this case, you were still fair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:00 AM
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Tf, Sending Hey, and sending Hey after 10 pm is effing immature!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:54 AM
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Men really do be like this though- Scrote: Oh, sorry you have cramps. I remember the time when my sister got her period, it’s like kind of bad but it’s okay, I once had a stomach ache after eating too many Fritos. Want to hang out 😉🧴 Also, holy crap, blowing an effing eardrum sounds traumatizingly painful, how are you coping OP?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:49 AM
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Look, rules aside: I know I wouldn’t lead a dude on for more than a week if I wasn’t sure I could do an LDR- if he isn’t sure after almost a month, that’s bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:43 AM
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Holding himself and other men accountable 👏 respecting your interests while having his own 🎾 ability to disagree without arguing 🧘🏽‍♀️and can show love for his sisters and cousins without being a straight up mama’s boy 🤹🏻‍♂️ *and trust me, a scrote can use his thirst for knowledge and determination to see their ain’t a man in your big picture and have a growth mentality that he can grow his own pickme bangmaid- only time, respect, and boundaries will tell Queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:36 AM
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Thanks, I’ve got the keychain alarms and gave also found my car alarm will work well in range. Interested to learn more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:24 AM
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I like that you appreciate him, but if you don’t draw a line, he will. Meaning if you want a situationship, that’s all it’s going to be- If you develop feelings, he may not want a committed relationship so you’ll have to cut ties. Also, glad that you think he is thoughtful, but if someone looked up nonalcoholic beer it’s like saying, I don’t smoke, but here, I found some menthol and peppermint herbal cigs. I would be pissed! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:21 AM
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online dating= OLD 😆 I had to google smh years ago it happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:12 AM
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I get that. This is also someone who said he barely even knew so that’s why I was concerned that if he needed so much silence for something like this (a death of someone he barely knows and hasn’t seen since grade school) that passed weeks ago, then it wouldn’t work for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:38 PM
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Google
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:31 PM
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Wow the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:14 PM
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Men are such hypocrites- he was obviously interested enough to text you all that. Andddd... tell him he couldn’t respect you enough to keep YOU interested but he should know that for himself, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:04 PM
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Thanks, I mean close by as in they don’t need to offer to pick you up in their car to take you there 😉 I usually drive to meet them where it’s fewer miles and more for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:38 AM
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You’re asking the wrong questions lol. Look, if you want an HVM, go put a coworker through the process. But from my experience, it’s never pretty. If it’s a job, it’s a job, but if it’s a career, even married couples have to make it known in the workplace because it causes a lot of problems for legal reasons and that men and women who seek them at work are usually* (not always) involved in cheating. Men know this so that’s why they steer clear. Even an LVM refused to tell a coworker that she was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:39 AM
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Damn girl! Yes haha! Get you a man who can ‘go through stuff’ with you, not act like a scared little boy and leave. Excuses they make!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:31 AM
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Well I’m that chick so I’m takin notes for later haha 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:28 AM
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They eyes and the ‘wym’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:27 AM
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Prioritize you- whatever that means to you. Time is money, and you’re worth not having your time wasted. Save, invest, go minimalist, do what you gotta do- take advantage of freebies, and girl, you will get there, just don’t be hard on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:26 AM
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Without reading fully, you have to ask yourself why would a man not put in the effort to seek a female outside his place of work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:22 AM
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Thank you, random gifts are the worst if they don’t even know your taste
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:19 AM
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Right, like your friend can go get fast food with you, but they ain’t gonna hype you up to go there. I feel ya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:20 AM
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Yes, price strategist: instead guys just ignore what season things go on sale, that you don’t have to pay full price, that you can buy some things in bulk, but you don’t have to cheap out on dates just because you spent all your money preordering a game and buying prepackaged drinks and snacks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:18 AM
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Y’all, Tesla’s still need someone to hold the wheel, he’s asking for a blowjob in a car and that don’t sound nice for anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:15 PM
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Oh girl, this guy got freckles if he’s the same one who did this to me after he stood me up for a date- Handbook! And he’s trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:13 PM
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First off, you’ve known this guy for years. Don’t mistake comfort with potential- because we tend to let one override our judgement about who he really is. Second, if you really want to date him, ask yourself if a man like him would value a woman who rejected him for years but kept her hanging just in case he wants to have sex with you? Next off, if a man just like him came rolling into your life the next 6 months, would you let him string you along for years waiting to date as well, or do you h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:08 PM
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I mean I’d rather go on a date with Air-Bud and he’s shorter and more impressive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:00 PM
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FDS says don’t invest like this until 6 months in. As giddy as I am for you, an LVM divorced ex was already selling his ex’s ring and asking me about preferences. Here’s my 2 cents- If he loves you, I mean really does and knows you, he’d straight up talk to you, and not go behind your back to do this I think he was being sly, he probably ignored the notification so that you’ll see it and be hooked. And why does he need to figure out how much to save, it sounds like he’s looking at cheaping out o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:57 PM
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As someone who’s dated someone in his 30s and very secretive about pictures- he still had a LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. This is just weird, because employers even need to know you are credible and if you don’t have any of these things you might as well be a spy or something I mean, he should know you aren’t comfortable with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:50 PM
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Hmm.. In this once instance he is being exclusive, showing effort, saying he wants a future with you, and reaching out to you in novel ways, and saying he loves you in ways I never thought possible- he’s just not vocalizing it. To me, this would be a problem only if it’s a problem for you- I would tell him he needs to vocalize a flexible plan for the future just so that you know you two are on the same page- if that’s what you need. But he’s literally doing the opposite of LVM without saying wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:43 PM
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Putting this is my back pocket
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:35 PM
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Yes, this is so important. The high earning guys I’ve dated still somehow didn’t understand the concept of making a space for your hobbies or for making a home seem more inviting, and it doesn’t take too much money to do that and I agree. Like you can be minimal and thriving and be able to relax in your own cozy atmosphere. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:32 PM
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Once sentence in and I say handbook girl, one year is too long for excuses you know what to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:57 PM
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Damn if that wouldn’t have been me with enough courage- love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:55 PM
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Let me tell you how I do it: so me and my girlfriends found some kick ass authentic restaurants- one of my choosing is a family-owned and predominantly female staff. They have seen me in there with 3 guys now and they know what I like to eat. The closer by, the better It’s food you’ll love You can judge how they treat the wait staff They’ll be on their best manners knowing it’s closer to where you are; none of this, let’s split the bill mess. Any moment you don’t like him, say you don’t feel wel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:54 PM
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Okay, ay-men, but this is so often overlooked. I hear women praise their husbands for less and I have never felt so good being single! Like legit same scenario and women were like awww, like beech, I did 3 loads of laundry + hand wash, cleaned my dishes, meal prepped for the week while cooking some dishes for my family yet wives got the audacity to praise they husbands for loading the dishwasher and folding clothes, like homie could never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:35 PM
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Yess! ❤️ now you have energy to give to those that really matter and can step up to your level and respect you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:29 PM
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Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:26 PM
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Nah dude, she just lost all the extra weight that man put on her. Ngl though she’s hot in both pics that guy needs to shut the hell up And they wonder why we embrace body positivity? Of course we don’t want to look good for you. But when we embrace it, they threaten us saying we can’t get any. Bye boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:23 PM
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Not at all. Next time they throw lies at you, just say, oh well all the other guys drove to see me and brought flowers and cooked me dinner, but I bet you’re not like most of those guys either, are you? Since I’m not like other girls, what would you add to make the date more perfect than these other lousy guys? Just to establish value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:20 PM
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This is a joke, it has to be!! Circling though? Fr? It’s like all he knows is how to rub the belly and pat the head trick he learned in kindergarten and can’t even do that at the same time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:13 PM
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There are more women than men, if a man has such bad “luck” with women after all these years that he had to be on a dating app, it might not be just luck after all. I’ve had a few nice ones but enough long-term future fakers that wasted 2 years of my life that I ain’t afraid to drop em when they don’t act right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:06 PM
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He did this on purpose because of flawed male logic- she asked if I was seeing someone, well no, but now I should, I should change a picture to show her I have potential. He’s insecure and is playing you- pretend not to have noticed and don’t invest if he’s not invested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:02 PM
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If his neck look like a ballsack I’m scared to imagine...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:58 PM
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Long walks to ourselves mean exercise- saying it to someone else usually implies a breakup or murder. Do these guys even have a clue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:55 PM
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Silly men, we don’t want a ring we want the man behind the ring, and it’s not gonna be you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:44 PM
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As reputable as managers are, I would never throw my son under the bus by saying the name of the place. She’s just looking for you to say no I hope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:35 PM
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Because life is ‘kinda tough’ for men sheesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:32 PM
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Upvote if you would be able to clean this in just a 5 minute hold on the phone. Meanwhile it’s been sitting like that for 5 days at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:12 PM
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It’s not hard to say, ——— restaurant at 7:30, does this work? If I have to plan how I’m surprised I might as well go eat alone 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:08 PM
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Just from your title- I say cut- trust me- this is a process for us all- you’ll feel better in no time ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:04 PM
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Like it’s one thing if you got your goods hanging out, but even then, he don’t pay rent to live there, then her and her bf can go somewhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:01 PM
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I mean you get the same dick, might as well have a new ring? It’s only fair 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:58 PM
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If we’re queens, anywhere we sit is a throne ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:56 PM
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Love the analysis btw- my NVM’s Dad had a sick sense of humor and I could tell the way the dude would retell stories like, sorry, but your sister almost snapping her neck from falling off a boat is not something to laugh at. Beautiful, scrote-free days ahead. My Dad is the reason I don’t settle, we gonna have ice cream and watch murder mysteries as soon as I go to visit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:38 AM
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My Dad had an NVM father and he wasn’t a Mama’s boy thank God, so Orange flag turned green but if they love they Mama’s too much- you betta run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:09 AM
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Girl he ain’t got no bio but I mean shoot. I watch the Office and I don’t remember this. I almost swiped on milksteak from Always Sunny in Philly but that’s cause he had a bio too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:02 AM
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Yup, get you some butter out, cause he’s toast- and because you want a late night snack that ain’t him lol. Sounds like the guy I matched on Hinge with- does he have that one pic with him and his cousins too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:58 AM
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My Sister ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:56 AM
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Tell him you are going through something, work on yourself and if he’s High value, he’ll be waiting for it to work out and be supportive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:40 AM
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Pretty spot on but I’d add: try to trick him into saying something sexual- these guys will make anything sexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:38 AM
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Not sure, but one who assaulted me couldn’t keep his mask up (narcissism) for date 4. Until then, stay public- do not even trust the bottle of water you bring with you, and don’t even kiss a guy so soon. Him, along with another frat guy have tried to slip something under my tongue and then play it off as bad kissing. Just don’t take your chances. Mine wasn’t violent or rape but because I was so clueless I had no idea after looking at my symptoms years later that I was drugged and out of my damn …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:35 AM
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*where are the damn baskets 😂lmao my kinda girl, and girl no, but next time pretend your alter ego is super busy and unavailable or made up bf name until you get the confidence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:27 AM
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Okay, so congrats on getting food and all but the reason you’re a little too late now is you’ve already set the standard that you’ll be impressed by sandwiches and walks and you are telling him by your actions that as long as you get food and are treated right, he can get more physical with you. Drop some boundaries, and busy yourself up. I doubt someone like him has much time so I’d also be doing some investigating. Wish you well girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:23 AM
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I love how most of our batteries are about drained when we snap these because we ain’t got No energy for scrotes! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:19 AM
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Damn the effort they put in to not put in any effort at all is excruciating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:17 AM
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Since Covid: yeah, unfortunately, one was a scroterboat who didn’t like being corrected. While another was fine as mess but we were in a virtual meetup thing so we couldn’t actually talk bc it was for training. Advice: 1. Be patient, with and for yourself 2. Don’t quit them all unless you want to; set aside a day or hour to swipe 3. Invest in hobbies and try meetups- virtual or otherwise depending on circumstances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:04 PM
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Haha I know one that wouldn’t let his wife wear shorter shorts because she’s now married 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:53 PM
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WHAT IF: we lived in a world where women prioritized their sexual satisfaction over everything the way scrotes did. Baaaabe I know you’re at work but I can’t survive without 2 hours of foreplay, if you don’t, I’ll need to get someone else to, and if they don’t I’ll just have to tie one up- I have to because I’m more important than you and what you want. Meanwhile: guys be treating sex like they’re f*cking bleeding and need to go to porn to clot it. While we’re the ones bleeding and treating sexu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:47 PM
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Yeah every girl gets that first Hi and in our head we immediately picture Micheal Cera but it either goes North or South from there. No offense to Micheal Cera though, bet he got some good game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:40 PM
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I bet he bows down to biker dude too and doesn’t think they’re easy- the hypocrisy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:32 PM
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As long as he’s putting time and effort into you, you should be good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:30 PM
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Thank you, I’ll add mine and see if we can draw conclusions: (you were right about the team oriented jobs) Good communication: (not all are dates some were just talking experiences) retail/ management/ bartender food service/ management construction teachers underwater welder (team-driven) interior design *surprisingly IT doctor reporter tech guy who did yoga Overtalkers: - military, mathematics part time service (front desk) directors PUA alert (mental health) Bad communication: website/ app de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:27 PM
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Wish I could be as entitled as some of these assholes- like he obviously thought she was gorgeous, if not he wouldn’t have commented. Also men who measure makeup in pounds clearly don’t know the weight of their own wraparound shades and unkept beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:42 PM
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Okay: engagement, timeliness and time spent is key. LVM: doesn’t say what is wrong, acts cold towards me, turns family against me, and stops talking to me because he is upset. 5 days later brings it up out of nowhere- still doesn’t address the issue and breaks up because it’s something he is going through and can’t live up to what I want from him (basic connection) and later find out that it may have just been him checking my phone because I said a coworker was cute when I wanted to set said guy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:32 PM
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That’s why we don’t date Momma’s boys, I swear he could shit in her shoe like her chihuahua and cook him food for having a rough day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:15 PM
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Personally remind them of their value and they’ll start to second guess why their Bfs and Husbands don’t see what you do and then ask for advice- and boom you send them memes and links. Prayer works too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:13 PM
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All bald men-I have a great sense of humor-means please sleep with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:10 PM
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Had to stop it at 2 min in: Hi, I made a video that women didn’t like, so instead of thinking I may be wrong and changing my view- here are two men I’ve presented to validate my ego, and they too don’t know shit about women, and that’s why you should listen because we’ve earned titles and never learn. Asks porn sick socially awkward guy to the right. Men, yes, they are too lazy to get to know you and why do they test you again gay man to the left? Right, they are too scared to ask you things dir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:05 PM
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Tells Boss: “aheammmm, tell me what to do, (voice creaks) or tell me how to do it, but not both! Dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:52 PM
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They should do us a favor and take their own advice- don’t hint that you think we’re annoying and don’t deserve your respect or time of day, just say it and don’t give us this laundry list of trash excuses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:51 PM
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Yesssss Girl, get it!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:42 PM
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I’ll never have sex with a man who says sammich
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:38 PM
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Yeah, if they want to go deeper they should go slow at first and not hit it with force
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:35 PM
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Yes. Like how did I justify that just because he had a massive dick that (boo hoo) ‘I just don’t feel anything near the last half of my dick because you won’t let me go deeper,’ feels thrust that kicks your colon up to your rib cage and makes you say Hell noooo! Like damn bro, you couldn’t fEeL it but you like tight ones, take your pick and let me be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:31 PM
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So true. I even complimented a guy once for vocalizing while I was making out with him. LVM guys during sex: erm........ugh.......ehh.......mm.....F*ck I’m coming! I’m coming holy shit! Ueughhhh (Upvote if they all sound the same 😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:25 PM
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Oh yes, I agree. I should have prefaced it with the difference between actions-based authenticity and love-bombing. I was trying to integrate and keep the focus on the multi-faceted transparency and accountability that happens in multiple avenues of his life- like his family, friends, community, strangers and what not (makes it harder for him to lie).Thank you for pointing this out though, I have had some occasions where the above applied in love-bombing scenarios as well: Distinctions between t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:17 PM
6

Girl, I gave up on that the past 3 years and it got to a point where I kid you not I ran into an ex date while on a date with a new guy from a whole different state just because it’s a cafe closer to me 😂 no shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:54 AM
2

Thank you, and I agree. I’ve dated an HVM with ADD and he didn’t let it get to his actions, except legitimately forgetting his wallet mid-drive so we’d have to turn around lol. I just have had a close friend who had lost job opportunities recently because they mixed up the dates of the interview and I was feeling for their disability during this time is all. You good girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:50 AM
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Maybe she wouldn’t take so long, if she had help? Ngl though: I’d be chillin with my gfs with wine, music, and 90 Day Fiancé if this was Lowe’s 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:10 PM
3

Right because on the flip side: men will be like: I made bacon, she gives me a blow job, but she graduated college, here’s a $30 necklace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:03 PM
4

The reason we point this out is because like comments state: we can do it all on our own, we can go to movies and buy our own snacks and food and all. It’s the part where women be actin like they are already married and share and sacrifice to try to win him over when a real man would sacrifice for his woman and take care of her, not because of a sexual or monetary benefit for him, but just because he cares. This doesn’t mean you can’t do nice things for him but dating should be top notch behavio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:00 PM
2

Well, the only logical answer is to rest and invest while being single. OLD is exhausting if you make it. Set preferences, limit the days you swipe (maybe one day a week). But trust me, if you take a break and come back, they’ll still be as much junk to filter through. I’m personally, waiting until the pickmes snatch the LVMs and the HVM start investing time to look for women organically sometime next year. What you are tired of is making a dating a job and expecting men to be workers when most …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:51 PM
1

Wanting a dream job that isn’t mine right now, doesn’t prevent me from focusing on the jobs I have now. So if I want to get the attention of someone I can’t just spend time dreaming without doing, or I’m missing out on myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:44 PM
3

What helps: journal what you are feeling vs the truth: ex: your best friend picked up extra hours this week, your other friend is out of town and everyone else is on vacation. Feelings- overwhelmingly lonely. Truth: they will be back again, let me listen to a podcast or dance to some music and call that one person who I never get the time to call. It’s the illusion that everyone is sitting at home that makes you feel as though you are alone when the reality is, people go through seasons of busin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:32 PM
3

Yeah some dude said congrats and kept going and I’m like... you someone’s old grandad wth you hittin me up for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:22 PM
12

This is why LDRs can help vet too, he was only excited that you were 3 miles away. Damn these guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:15 PM
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While you make an interesting point, please clarify that you aren’t equating disability with LVM behavior. Yes, the meds should have helped her, but disabilities are no joke. But yeah, at 30, you shouldn’t be so codependent and I think she has issues different from ADD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:12 PM
2

Umm Uber?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:16 AM
4

Mentality change: aim for pleasing you and for taking time for you- aim for intimacy in thought, mind, and soul, but wait for the body to catch up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:14 AM
5

Depends if it’s between good conversation or not- but if it’s not going anywhere I just don’t respond and he’ll usually reply with a more interesting question later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:08 AM
15

Surround yourself with high value people- watch plenty of them on YouTube and Netflix for starters. I’ll tell you a secret I learned, if a man doesn’t have a chance with you, and he can’t ‘Get’ you, he’ll try to get you whichever way he can- he may ‘get you angry’ he might ‘get you annoyed’ but he can’t get anything you don’t give him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:04 AM
14

Meet up ASAP is code for- shit I didn’t think I could score with a girl this hot, let me take her out before I have to go get drinks with Debra
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:00 AM
4

Girl, hear me out, if you saw this man arranging flowers for an hour you’d think it was cute right? Like maybe he’s giving some to you and your Mom. But you find out that is all homie doing every day in his free time and not expecting to profit or to grow from this, not even being social with it, you’d think he was insane. But because “all men” 🙄 play, we don’t think it odd to spend hours escaping life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:59 AM
6

That’s my ex honeeeey! 😆 I am beyond proud, I would have wanted a back rub but thinking about getting a heated massager from Amazon. You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:53 AM
4

Yeah I got a family member who does stuff like this to me and if I’m not crying I’m lashing out like a psycho so I have to keep my distance- even mentally- try headphones, it really does give you a bit of peace back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:48 AM
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I stopped reading at 2-3 days, girl he hitting someone else up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:44 AM
5

Yeah, just be there for him more than the whole flowers thing. When he’s having a hard day later it will pay off. I have no sympathy at this point because among my many family losses, my NVM would never be there to talk to me and used (not-as-close death in his family) for an excuse to not talk to me and for expecting free, sympathy pussy- I’m not saying be wary, but yes, be wary that he won’t turn this into something else- similar guy had to tell me about his uncaring, crazy ex gf as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:39 AM
12

Why you keep staring at me? Why you always so clingy? Gets divorce in 3 weeks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:14 PM
2

Dickmatized 💕😆 God bless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:38 PM
9

Holy mess. The fact that men don’t know that assuming not only makes an ass out of him but also makes him a criminal. Dis-Gus-ting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:31 PM
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Fact: WOMEN who are happily married never said, “Thank God I fixed him.” Fact: LVM MEN who marry women are unhappy because they can’t change her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:23 PM
1

Nah sis, only if it took them this long to finish a game. But unfortunately, they value games more than girls cause even characters don’t get played as bad as we do because they are their ploys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:56 PM
4

Okay lies: since when do we go barefoot, smoke, and man spread?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:52 PM
15

Jason, he wears socks with sandals, has moderately toned body and you stay with him because he cleans up well and respects you slightly more than your abusive ex; but wants to wait 10 years to get married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:46 PM
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Yeah it came off weird but I just meant like my family in general should be open to judge his character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:35 PM
3

Me: what’s a fiancé? Oh, when a girl gets a ring and walks away... Leave him in tears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:53 PM
9

Might be too low Queen. You need to factor in sick days, tragedies, periods, and accomplishment dates. Mine I’d add: Communication: -original memes, pictures, voice memos -some texts (check in) -FaceTime once a week Date additives: - monthly (things I love about you lists) - flowers for bad days - congratulatory dinners for accomplishments like graduating, new job, promotion: with ring that I choose - period treatment: movie night, food, chocolates and cuddles - sick days: bring medicine, make t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:49 PM
8

Nah scroterboat, at least prizes can be exchanged for cash value and women don’t even want to pay for you like that bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:13 PM
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Why you gonna be mad about a girl who sticks with a guy who don’t bring anything to the table- including commitment. Like what you missing? A bath bomb, wine, and a nice dinner? Girl get it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:11 PM
2

You’re in love with the idea of who he should be not who is Really is. Love yourself and the idea of a future mate and you’ll be good as new
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:09 PM
4

I love the differences between HVW and LVMs like: HVW: he does everything right... oh and the sex is fantastic LVM: the sex is amazing But....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:08 PM
8

No lie, just blast Kpop, and have them hand write how they feel before entering, and the scrotes will disappear by the minute 😂 it don’t take much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:43 PM
5

Sprinkles his ashes into to the fern 😅 (I kid)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:40 PM
3

Yeah, let’s face it- plenty of good women compared to men so if you find yourself around a single male friend for more than a year without him finding a girlfriend and still coming to your side and respecting you, then he’s LVM trash anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:37 PM
2

Justin Bieber epiphany- he would have said “What do you mean?” 😐 the brain cells
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:33 PM
5

Wow. That’s so terrible. I now take it as men who are friends and single must think we want to marry them if we talk to them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:30 PM
2

Wow!! Honey, put that shit on your resume- therapist, life coach, head of organization, and charity service at (use his last name). I’m Fr though. (Sends virtual hug) You are amazing and just laugh to your self when you think an LVM 16 years in the dark is gonna be able to figure out how to give another woman what she wants (he won’t). But you have yourself back! Hallelujah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:22 PM
1

Yes Queen, let guys energize you with their conversations, if not just ignore them it’s so much easier. Like I don’t even feel guilty anymore- it’s him vs me and if I do better, he gotta go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:18 PM
4

Damn, so in conclusion: straight single guys who are friends without dating are manipulators. Got it. F*ck him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:14 PM
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Boy has time to waste hers, write a paragraph and edit a sentence but DoEsNt know how to have FeElinGs what no I’m allergic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:26 AM
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A male friend gonna stay around that long he obviously valued somethin 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:25 AM
1

I’ve read some pretty violent books about how people groups have fought against oppression but comics seems harmless unless it’s hentai stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:38 PM
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Actions over words- if you tell him not knowing if he’s LVM, he will future fake himself into your bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:33 PM
3

Damn, that’s rough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:41 PM
1

Thank you, like one LVM manipulated me into hating sex and my body and I’ve decided to personally forgive him because he’s just stupid, admitted he lied because he was upset and porn addicted and I didn’t want to care anymore. But recently, my NVM threatened the security of me having a home and the trust I had when the condom broke on a bad day so it’s harder for me to forgive someone who could have been kicking out two people at the time. Sadly, I’ll never know, I was too much in fear not to ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:37 PM
3

I’m sorry but I would have pinched his dick who pinches someone’s boobs? The bare skin thing- 100x yes. It took an HVM almost 3 years after to make me enjoy sex again and go to a movie without being groped or kissed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:28 PM
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Yes, and just realized- ‘the faster he puts moves on you, the faster he moves on.’ Only slower moving HVM’s would take their time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:12 AM
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Yess! Seeing this more lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:09 AM
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Since when is it the woman’s job to say yes or no to a marriage for a man who can’t think for himself- I mean most of the time the man proposes so don’t tell me it’s all a woman’s idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:06 AM
1

Handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:43 AM
2

Dude invites me over for a group thing but I was nice enough to ask if I can help by bringing something, instead- he tells me what to bring and says- thanks 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:41 AM
5

I doubt it’s genetic; in my experience it most def porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:35 AM
11

Right? Like why do we need a man for wine and a movie. I swear men who just want a movie be lookin for an excuse to keep women quiet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:31 AM
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-hold on, I can get it to, just wait, it usually gets hard -no one ever talks about my feelings -okay, and so? I have to deal with... all the time -(me: hey, saw you at Chipotle) omg stop stalking me (OP’s are spot on)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:28 AM
5

(Shudders) the ‘hey babe’ in a separate thought bubble just makes me ill, like when parents used to call you downstairs 3 times and then you say, what and they won’t tell you what they need 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:13 AM
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Yes! Would post in Christian subs and this guy had a knock-down-drag- out with me over not expecting women to forgive their abusers and instead let God forgive in the interim. His reply started with, my wife and as a pastor with a wife, like???? You aren’t a woman bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:57 AM
2

Thank you, like I guess they don’t need 1st grade grammar mechanics for the jobs they’re getting hired for? Beats me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:53 AM
7

Not a gentleman, not hard-working if he treats you like this and if he ignores you like this while prioritizing his dick on Tinder, then no he probably doesn’t come from a family what wants to be involved with him. You already know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:24 PM
2

Oh, this... just this. When the old pickme would have just been happy he sent a paragraph instead of a 2-word text; I would love for someone to try me like that he just digging himself a hole- ladies, remember, if a trashcan can message this much about about himself, you can find someone who can talk to you who isn’t a complete asshat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:08 PM
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Imagine having so much of a self-control issue with your dick that you find a flesh light and packaged meat a turn on. And men complain that vaginas look like roast beef sandwiches compared to their lumpy sausages, first off, vaginas are beautiful, and second, why you scrotes so obsessed with sandwiches anyway? Hypocrites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:00 PM
3

Ladies, if men ask for a coffee date, tell them to ask their local grocery store to help them find the isle with tea and fruit as dry as their crusty attitude (coffee + dried dates)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:50 PM
2

All y’all had me fooled I was wondering about that banana-shaped shadow lurking in the corner! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:46 PM
1

Girl, don’t even get me started!! Haha! That is amazing of you that you can creat things like that. 1. Men claim they know how to cook just because they can throw a piece of meat on a fire or stir ground beef in a pan. I need one who knows how to chop vegetables, steam, sautés, broil, bake, fry, whisk, use spices, crack an egg, and properly use defrost on a microwave. And 2. Do men not think we don’t use tools to assemble furniture, to hang drapes, and not just to put new batteries into the back…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:45 PM
3

I call it crazy-making as it may not make you look crazy like gaslighting does: but makes you feel crazy. Have had a couple OLD use crazy-making tactics on me- my favorites are: what is that? Um okay? WYM? It’s like the terrible twos toddlers asking Mom but why do you do that, why do we have to go? Why can’t I stay longer? Don’t explain yourself, wait for them to ask a specific if they really need it- like, sorry, I just needed to know if that was your favorite piece or if it was just the one yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:34 PM
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That is so traumatizing. No should have been enough. And men wonder why we use the line ‘sorry, I have a boyfriend’ and sometimes it’s true, sometimes a lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:26 PM
2

Hol-hol hold up! Did he actually want her to NOT enjoy it? The actual F*ck? Not even close to I took my bf to a spa day and he didn’t enjoy it but took him to play video games with a friend and he enjoyed it so I want to break up- men would go livid for that story but this just gets overlooked? Nah, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:19 PM
5

‘Babe, you need to see a doctor, every time I finger you this weird Cheeto dust comes out’ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:10 PM
14

Maybe I’m cruel but I believe men should have to get a kick in the balls and have to try and yank a dry tampon out of their ass just to get permission to talk about women being raped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:08 PM
1

I’m dead. That’s so true. And usually the good qualities are things I could find in my dog tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:04 PM
14

Heaven forbid a game start at 7, those men would be off work at 5:30 to pregame, like the hell? Men, get it together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:57 PM
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Exactly, I just want women to know there is no end all be all to wanting to be a motherly figure to someone, whereas men take it more dramatically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:56 AM
3

I feel that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:26 PM
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Virtual handshake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:46 PM
14

Men: the only gender okay with having the opposite sex as slaves. Like we don’t even want male slaves we just want decent human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:43 PM
3

Do what I did- re-write the story: say I broke up with you because... I broke up with you because you never did.... I chose to give up on you because you never put in the effort and I deserve more. You just dumped me because you gave up on yourself meanwhile that means I dumped you far ahead of your time bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:05 PM
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Tf if we could have as messed up a logic for them to follow too. Like oh, if you don’t do oral, the clit just disappears for days until you can stimulate me more but only in the presence of a hot bath and a impromptu destination vacation or else it closes up for a whole year. Or if you don’t text back within 20 minutes and can not initiate conversation my brain sends chemical messages to my brain that you are a threat to my offspring and I will stop talking to you forever. Oh wait, both kinda tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:22 PM
24

Night driving? What are we 16?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:16 PM
13

Yes, it just annoys me how little effort it takes to do the bare minimum and yet they expect to get some second of attention from us just because they like our photo- that’s not how this works, that’s not how any of this works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:14 PM
2

If he’s a dick and makes a scene about you paying-pull a pad out of your pocket and say, sorry I forgot my wallet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:13 PM
2

It’s a daily struggle. Just don’t ‘feel’ rejected by people who put more time into themselves than into you- because that’s just competition (against what you do for you) and for what gain, you know? Women are visual and are creative and are planners: we imagine things to be a much greater loss than they are. Meanwhile, if your gain was bigger than your loss be happy he added to, and if it was opposite, be glad you got rid of trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:03 PM
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Did this before with one of my girlfriends. We both got dressed up for the heck of it and both bought expensive dinners and went shopping for makeup bags later. I even offered to pick her up- and she’s my friend. If a man can’t get it, he just thinks too high of himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:56 PM
15

Damn, praying for you and the family. Take it easy and don’t take shit from anyone right now, you deserve peace to deal with such a tragedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:52 PM
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Implying that there are strawman arguments here without addressing why they believe it is negative- is a strawman argument in and of itself. Sure, sometimes we make fun of dudes living in a basement and trying to bum cheap sex off a dating site. If the poster looked further: we don’t make things up to prove a point. Half the time it’s pictures. As for RedPill, half the time, they have 2 sentences of lies they live by and 6 paragraphs of them trying to defend their stance. One promotes qualities …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:49 PM
2

Why they gotta say “Hey” like they tappin on the glass at a zoo, they’re the animals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:36 PM
1

Yes! It definitely does. I think what I said may have been close-minded- since my approach could have been to just read, have patience, and decide whether or not to reply. We aren’t robots that have quick fixes and it takes time to meet someone where they are at. I love the diverse group of people here and hope to improve my responses in a more gracious manner in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:29 PM
3

Be more afraid of losing yourself than losing him and you’ll be set
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:47 AM
1

It’s because us HVWs are out there and we’re not picking up what guys like him are putting down 🤭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:38 AM
1

“How to make it work for her” 🙄 why? Cause the man don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:35 AM
1

Have more going on in your life, dreams, goals, etc. and then have something bad happen and see how they react, I’m not saying lie but I like to know how my guys respond and see if they are emotionally mature to handle things that come up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:27 AM
1

Oh hell no, I thought you meant the two of you hang with a couple and crash in their spare bedroom, but alone? What. I can’t imagine how
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:20 AM
1

Keep it like an interview for your dream job. Don’t say a thing about your insecurities until trust is established waaay down the road. Men cannot tell if you are virgin or not, they won’t be able to know if you haven’t dated, if they are caring human beings- they won’t bring up your appearance except to compliment it. In any scenario (just say, I prefer not to discuss..) and then boom, insecurity gone. Look, we all have them, but don’t let your shadow dim your glimmer. Men aren’t mindreaders so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:04 AM
2

Fantasize and idealize yourself Queen, what’s he got that you need? Also take up reading, and being social, heck we’re here for ya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:52 AM
1

If a man were going to change, he’s got to take a year off to do that. There’s no 30 step shortcut. Like a job, you wouldn’t kiss up to your job like this to get it back, why should he get anything in return? He did the exact same thing with you because he thought he didn’t have to put in effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:47 AM
2

Handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:44 AM
7

Men went to war and sent letters and kept it going back in the day- these other guys, have zero excuses not to FaceTime or plan virtual dates- if not- he’s just into ‘physical touch.’ I can’t tell you what runs through my head when a guy says I’ll have to visit sometime soon but I’m also thinking if he lives near his parents helping them out- it’s a no brainer for us not to put them at risk. If both of you are in no contact with sick or elderly or plan to, I say it’s your call
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:40 AM
2

oNLy God cAn JuDGe mE- ie I do what I want and screw everyone else. Like God does judge, but change ain’t possible if you don’t give a damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:31 AM
1

Like oh no, I need a ride to the hospital... (side-eyes the ‘bike’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:24 AM
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Been doing it for a year straight now. Empty and replace vase with cool water as needed. Trim the ends on a diagonal for more hydration, mix flower food separate in warm water before adding to. Swear it keeps them for a whole week or longer ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:22 AM
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Tf you know it, and they’d still have the audacity to say seeing you cry gives them a boner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:17 AM
14

How are men still so immature: like how is this a compliment? Like you want me to think I’m desperate, why? Just so I can rethink the convo?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:15 AM
52

Ones a cute selfie, ones a mugshot. Are men blind too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:11 AM
22

Men: don’t know that both wants and needs require sacrifice. You can get free sex from a woman and a free bangmaid therapist too without doing something- the entitlement knows no bounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:09 AM
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Girl... you are not his teacher or his tutor or therapist GTFO next time. 4 years old is way too young; no one should be violated like that and you have every right to get angry and stand up for what you believe. Go spend time with some HVWs and get yourself in a good headspace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:04 AM
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I second this out of love and respect for your sanity. Tbh, this sounds like you’ve had some sexual trauma or abuse from entitled LVMs and reading the handbook will help you get to where you can start leveling up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:58 AM
21

Um, boys ‘hit people up’ for ‘sex’ men contact professionals via email
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:51 AM
15

I made a similar point in unpopular opinions- So true how men rarely get a cleaning, cooking, reading, addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:49 AM
8

IMO promise rings were given to help keep the woman but I honestly would rather have a regular ring as a gift, and then a real engagement ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:42 AM
15

I’ve hit almost all those flags but not the whole golf course in one go! Girl you need a picnic by a lake and some flowers and human decency who happens to like anime- they exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:39 AM
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Yeah, I did, but the spacing didn’t transfer- let me know how to edit* much appreciated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:35 AM
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Make it a rule: if I can’t stare at it while we’re having sex, it needs to go. We’re not having them look at a room filled with my little ponies and Disney princesses while going down on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:34 AM
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Girl, that scale though, I had a 6.5 with good qualities (later turned out to be a PSLD-pornsick) and he went to a soft 2 real fast when he would get mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:45 AM
15

This is going to sound bad but, one of my HVM exes I thought was gross the first time I met him- I thought I had gotten the other guy’s number when I asked them in a group for study help. All I remembered was his smile. Then I learned he was just lookin rough that night and he cleaned up and looked fine as a model with a beard. I got to know the real him and the sexual attraction was a combination of knowing him for 3 weeks and seeing him for who he was. So... if you don’t feel the urge or curio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:40 AM
6

There needs to be an app just for guys’ penises just so we don’t have to have it advertised elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:19 AM
9

Is she measuring it 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:14 AM
1

Perfect! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:17 PM
3

Girl if that wasn’t me years ago- what I found, just one hour outside any limited area is an area full of men who meet your criteria and it’s enough for an HVM to come meet you 💕 prayers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:50 AM
3

Texting until the sun goes down, does he not have a job though? Just curious I know some are students but.. quality over quantity. It’s good he’s interested; but if he’s texting you a lot without progressing- he’s just confused if he hasn’t made a plan to make it work. Am I wrong? Second: do not move for a man and don’t dare tell him until you know where you want to move and have worked there and love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:46 AM
30

Omg I thought he meant like a #10 meal 😭 I can’t ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:42 AM
6

A whole day is really too much, but a long day is to your advantage to see how he really is and to see if he’s still hitting up other girls on his phone. Question is: where are you guys going that you’ll spend a day there? There will need to be plenty of time for snack breaks, time to use the restroom, so factor that in. Other Thing: if you go somewhere nice for a planned afternoon of several locations, offer to drive yourself to a meetup close by so that you can always say had a call to go home…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:38 AM
3

Guess ole dude uses LinkedM instead too, how hard is it to spell me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:28 PM
17

Yes. Had a conservative couple tell me what my NVM said while I had gone to the restroom. It helped me go from, oh, he’s going through something that I can help him work on to, dang, I’m going through something and I don’t need this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:24 PM
1

Sounds like my ex who 5 years ago said he wanted to wait 10 years because of fear of divorce. So you know what that means- he wants to get married at one certain age and that’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:21 PM
6

Crazy making and circular reason if I’ve ever seen it- he wants you to come over and is so focused on that aspect (despite being able to see you tomorrow) that he’s going to convince you that falling in love isn’t an option so you might as well break your boundaries to come see him for frozen pizza 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:38 PM
5

If it’s 3 messages with no response from you -eager -2 msgs with no response from you=cute but if you are responding to 3 messages in an hour that’s just normal. Am I reading this right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:32 PM
2

Why does it matter what she did on a break they both mutually decided that and it’s her fault that he feels hurt? and doesn’t want to see a therapist? Really. Lies men tell. He could if he wanted to! She ain’t stopping him 🤪women get tired of having to be a man’s microphone he can speak up for his own feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:21 PM
1

Is your ego that big or you just pretending to be a dick to make up for yours?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:57 PM
65

... the vacuum and throw you in the garbage 😏 yes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:53 PM
8

Ooh that’s too much! Boy must be insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 12:03 AM
23

First, know there is hope. Be kind to yourself as this takes time. When you said you dissociated, that hit hard. Had one of my first bfs manipulated me and had made me feel so awful about my body that he so desired months before. I went to doctors, I looked at forums, I even called a help line to see if it was normal that I needed to change my appearance, diet, taste, etc. It took years, years of friendship, trust, prayer, and loving me for who God made me to be. Only a year shy of coming out of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:57 PM
3

Similar age here and believe me I want that- I want someone to take care of me the way their husbands do or to have as awesome of kids as they do, but I want my own and my own future. People really shape your future as a child; but as an adult, you have more choice so if I have an unplanned pregnancy with a guy who is cute, nice, and willing to commit I can choose what future I have in that whether he stays or goes and same for any bad exes of mine; Lord knows I wouldn’t want kids with them but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:44 PM
3

Oh, don’t forget the ‘physical’ part to touch- guys gotta love being specific 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:34 PM
5

He digging his own grave- how responsible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:07 PM
2

Must have taken him a years worth of planning to get you to sit through the first date 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:49 PM
5

Oh my God... okay so 1. We are upset about guys we friend zone? Really? In what Universe? (The entitlement) 2. Homeboy is 37 and just has -one blog- (not even a book, not a study, not a new design or a charity) -has traveled- but for what? Did he learn anything about other cultures, make new friends, or new hobbies? NO -has skydived (I’ll let y’all read my mind here) -so... In 37 years this man has had no growth mentally, emotionally, socially, or at all- he is merely like bad wine he hasn’t cha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:45 PM
3

Yes!!! Y’all know how freeing it is to see everyone get engaged and having kids when you realize you no longer have the expiration date the world puts on you- Life-Changing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:34 PM
5

This; tried it recently and got an honest answer- keywords are (bad) (not good) (dont). He recognizes it’s not good and actively keeps away from it. Instead of LVM response: Yeah, I was afraid you’d ask that, I don’t do it but once in a while, and I don’t need to, and I started watching at 9 and watched when I had a hard time with my last ex. She just led me to it, we didn’t have sex in months. Or diversion: some guys watch it but I don’t because I don’t need that but I’ll watch if you want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:29 PM
2

Sounds like she needs more than advice rn, tell her the simple truth and move on. This is far too deep a rescue mission if you aren’t friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:23 PM
1

Just why... While I have dated many races before I don’t openly say I like-, -, and - because it’s just rude and inhumane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:17 PM
7

Do you hear yourself? Girl, it’s been 5 months. If homeboy moved closer to you, would you start getting flirtier all of a sudden? I’m just saying. A HVM is one that makes his intentions known regardless of how many miles (think of married couples who have to travel for months at a time). If he hasn’t made things clear in 5 months, that engagement might be 5 years. We got Zoom, we got FaceTime, we got letters, we have social media, and he can’t make something official? Just say you are talking to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:11 PM
21

I’m shocked that guys think this is what asexual means; stand by your principles. I tend to lean more aromantic but that’s just what I consider normal in my past relationships (no trust=no sex) (shrugs)- if you have to explain it at all they aren’t worth your time, Google isn’t just for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:05 PM
36

Also, can we just have a moment of meditation for the guys who forgot they hit you up and you rejected them after getting to know them- BUT they STILL like and try to match with you again 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:49 PM
16

Don’t act interested. You are simply expensively available and curious. He is interested- he initiates, you pick the topic, he makes attempts to get to know you, you tell him what you expect and he follows through. He is relying on approvals from you before he proceeds, you rely on no one 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:50 AM
3

Man cant even take his own dick seriously, unless it EvOlveS 😂 which won’t be happening any time soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:25 PM
83

Like fr though why scrotes always got a 2 hour window? If they gave me even a 3 hour window I might at least be able to replan my off day enough to get lunch, get dressed and make it back in time not to be rushed- and that’s IF I knew them, was dating them LT, and maybe was a husband but if not, No. why is getting to know people BS? His employer must have hired him on the spot too for him to get this impression
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:21 PM
25

Don’t grieve the man he never was. You are always 100 so don’t give him half your time when he was only pretending to be invested. You don’t suddenly lose interest in your friends after so long do you? Nope, so the only thing he lost interest in was his plan to play you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:17 PM
157

Come at him with Wanna come hang and do mani pedis while you bring me food? I mean it is 2020, it could def be a date if you want it to be 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:14 PM
5

This. This is the vibe I got from a dude recently the entitlement and lack of respect for your humanity. 1. Uh oh... like because you’re drinking wine, you plan on getting wrecked? Don’t see the correlation here big boy 2. Entitlement: like you think that your opinion belittles mine, and that your opinion even matters so much as for me to change my taste in wine, and you actually think I exist just so that you get something out of me for what?! Being nice and messaging? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:57 PM
7

Applause for the girls who be doing that 10% and keeping it there until time ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:52 PM
6

Yeah, even for the ones you don’t want to drop- they will drop you. It’s bad when an LT Friend messages you only when there’s a problem but your new coworker only has positive messages to send and respects your time and schedule. Update: I thought a week ago I would never be able to take another convo about Thumby McThumbster who is just soooo great but has her second guessing herself because he doesn’t message to hang out and stuff. She stopped coming to me for advice: she only brags about him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:47 PM
5

If he dislikes the statement, either he is trash or he doesn’t know that trash exists. Living under a rock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:36 PM
5

Wow the logic- still blaming women for their own actions and yes the sperm does. As much as I detest my LVM exes, I will never criticize their mothers, they been through hell trying to teach how to learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:33 PM
82

Even better is someone telling me good morning by bringing me breakfast and coffee late on a Saturday morning 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:49 AM
70

Man sweats on robot and shocks himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:45 AM
1

Yes, had one say this after asking if he was flirting as friend or interested because of his emojis and he says wym
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:09 PM
4

“Did you meet someone already...” translates to- “I’ve had this app for a year and you’re the first girl who has matched with me, but I will tell you I just joined so that you’ll think I’m not as desperate but I want to believe you are desperate enough to date me and if you say you haven’t met anyone yet, I must be a real catch that can demand more from you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:02 PM
4

Guys: shut up Girls: Sista preach! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:51 PM
2

Hey, next time he types, maybe he shouldn’t pick and choose what makes him happy the way he picks and chooses the correct contractions for you’re. Homie had it right on the first two times but the last he put ‘your’ (your gonna need it) just shows how lazy and entitled he is. If there’s no chemistry, you should at least give her dessert to go for you wasting her time like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:36 PM
3

*This is the one thing I’m biased on because let’s say a man asks me questions, it would be on football and fly fishing and what are you eating prompts which make the man more in control talking about mainly what he likes. However, if he leads you to ask in depth questions like what do you think of this politician, this challenge, or this scenario.. he will do one of 2 things that separate LVM from HVM. He can 1. Mirror and say, oh yeah I hate that politician too (which means they dont want you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:26 PM
3

Girl... truth comes first. First off, what you want in an HVM isn’t perfection- but it is respect and communication which is not what I’m getting here. If a man is sensitive about something going on, he doesn’t wait days to tell you, he tells you as soon as it happens. Even then, if you honestly have to take off a whole day every time someone gets hurt- maybe the job ain’t for him. There are many careers where you have to set aside your emotions in order to be a team player. Secondly, the gettin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:08 PM
7

Here’s why you should see how a man behaves when you are at your worst because being wanted and respected by your SO should be enough to make you feel loved. So much for the saggy boobs comment- I’m sure they’re beautiful- don’t put yourself down just to fuel his ego. Sounds like he got into a social media driven competition or a red pill fest from his buddies. Cut him out completely. You do so much to help yourself and he is doing Nothing to help himself- mentally and that is not your job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:00 PM
8

First off, the keepers will keep pursuing while the other 30 are just spewing (hey beautifuls and what’s ups) because they not invested, didn’t read your bio and are LVMs casting their net wide only to ignore you or send one word replies until they choose their finest pickme. So be patient and gauge genuine interest by showing how patient you are with yourself 👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:51 PM
20

You know it’s funny that the trope exists of women believing in princess stories and all but to the same degree, men be playing with fantasy years after grade school with dragons, planet wars, pokemon, and transformers, yet women played grownups when we were younger. We played ‘house’ we had dolls, we had easy bake ovens, we built things, and read stories about Queens and princesses who actually exist unlike male fantasy which is about escapism. Porn is just fantasy and escapism. So it’s never w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:44 PM
5

That’s so messed up. You should never have to be someone’s third. I’ve never had anything close to this experience other than a pickme friend setting me up with a blind date- like hello I’m here to hang out with you. This is beyond rude of both of them, they need to grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:36 PM
5

Someone call in the Fab Five cause that night stand be suffering! It’s bad when the night stand bring more to the table than his one night stand 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:25 PM
11

It’s all a front- he can’t keep it up for long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:13 PM
5

Hey, don’t be upset with old you, you just needed something. You know better now. Stay awesome! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:58 PM
4

I second this. And as far as dating apps the 2 cautions are 1. All the needy scrotes (and the thousands dumped by their HVW gfs) are flooding the market (not the best time to vet a keeper) 2. Coronavirus has us in a vulnerable positions, moving, job loss, loneliness coupled with uncertainty can make even the most HV of HVM shy away from entering too serious of a relationship right now 3. Try Hinge (friends of friends) help keep the guys/girls accountable- can’t like about your drinking habits or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:14 PM
3

Shift your thinking for a moment- you said the sex was good but you are normally good at sex. What is this guy even bringing to the table? Are you more curious and like the idea of what you two could be? If so, he’s not taking you seriously enough to respect you no matter how much he adds to your life. Ask if you can watch it with him, and then find where he keeps it and ask if he can delete it, if he doesn’t, get authorities involved because he has no obligation to keep it against your will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:08 PM
6

You were drunk and he asked if you wanted to go further- consider that he may only be interested in sex. Men will be very protective towards their bang-maids at first so don’t overthink what his intentions are toward you. On the other hand, just gauge his interest by checking in, if it’s met with excitement-good, if not, he’s just making you a backup. Ps: HVM would also text to check to see that you are feeling okay the next day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:03 PM
2

Fr though it’s either the high school football guy turned loser-ish or the creep the back of the class that thinks he’s hot stuff because he has white teeth and hair despite a receding hairline. Meanwhile, the gentlemanly guys who were low key to straight up hot will ask the day before the date to make sure your plans haven’t changed. Will show up lookin nice and drive to your place and back, won’t let you get out of your chair for refills (I chose fast food before I knew better) or extra sauce,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:47 AM
3

Caught me 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:27 AM
3

🙄like this guy thinks we run to the toilet to let go of our blood? Ya so we just shove tampons up there and sit on a wad of paper all day just for fun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:18 AM
9

Girl yes! Throw in some nice kitchen aid grip gloves, a stool, a pull-up bar, and sling the glove around to pat yourself on the back- oh wait, only men need that approval, no you Gucci ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:12 AM
5

Tf you mean if I was sitting in a straw hut because of a man, burning up in building I’d crawl out with heels because he gaslighted it too, and the power went out when I stopped letting him have control and while not only are women smarter and more capable than above portrayed, the light from my heart will burn brighter to lead the way where God takes me and is no match for some down electricity- plus, we have more than just the singular nightstand crusty Scrote-scented candle to keep us running
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:06 AM
3

Somebody say ‘unpaid internship’ what punishment is this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:58 PM
49

Funny how guys will joke they won’t suck a dick for even 10 million and yet we should be the ones demanding $10 an hour for just the messages they waste our time with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:47 PM
48

Right? Like guarantee you these guys will drive hours for concerts and job interviews but can’t give us the time of day, like sorry, this ain’t Grub hub you need to go somewhere else for a snack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:01 PM
34

He obviously never had to travel for a real job before. What an embecile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:51 PM
44

Tttk.. I click sir, just not with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:46 PM
2

Imagine if this were just between friends- your friend says she misses her old friend and you say, I’m sorry that’s sad, have you reached out to her? And your friend says, well no I hate her, and it’s okay I have you now. See? Having guys first adhere to friendship standards before all else, helps the vetting process. His loss when you go bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:39 PM
23

If we used the same excuses they did- “I’ll try to stop, I can’t promise because I’m not perfect.” Imagine us saying that to our friends when we get called out on something disrespectful 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:19 PM
22

Girl, imma use this line next time! Boy betta pay my Uber! 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:15 PM
2

Why do I see him making out with his inner arm though 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:36 PM
8

Advice: seek the things you are interested in, hobbies, languages, cultures, communities, experiences and have a guy not even come second to that. Even thinking about marriage one day, I don’t want to be ‘that girl’ who took up video games and hiking and fishing just to win a husband. You are the prize. Let those that invest in you, be the ones you pay attention to, but if you aren’t attracted to a guy, let him go. There’s no time limit on living your life unless you are dying to settle. *also, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:24 PM
5

I feel like a woman had to have made this, like an ex, because I don’t know how a guy could so creatively sabotage his chances with anyone in less than a paragraph 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:16 PM
6

Thanks for this 😌like why do guys think they’re entitled to pictures? I recently got unmatched for asking a guy for his bio as a joke because he didn’t have one. The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:14 PM
21

Remember to fall in love with the idea of you succeeding without him and he will follow suit ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:09 PM
1

Right, and it’s worse when doctors give you expectorants and they work overtime trying to get that cough reflex to happen every minute. I’ve tried some homeopathic throat teas and I swear by them. Can’t imagine what that guy would be like when HE’s sick. Drop the baggage ayyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:01 PM
3

Yeah and I don’t want a NVM telling me about how his mother makes a better cook, or how much he enjoys fapping to women being raped either, kind of more than just a ‘turn off’ at that point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:18 PM
6

This makes me feel so much better, I had sought to make my pictures more natural and easygoing before because I thought the guys I wanted were just too intimidated by my more high maintenance photos. Now I realize that even at my model best I still get 2s if I swipe by accident like dude how you even? 🤣 when the hot girls can’t find someone who is both hot and has values 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:41 PM
21

Yeah, but I want to be sexy in a puffer jacket too. Men should go skimpy if they want to, wear a kilt, go shirtless in shortalls, Regina George their workout tank (jk). But yeah, we can change the standard 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:28 PM
3

Props for the female that lives there that cleans the toilet, it’s immaculate 👌🏻😅she better be movin out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:25 PM
7

This...😅what gets me even more is guys who say follow me on .... or on Snapchat...in their bio. Like bro no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:15 PM
8

Girl nah, I’d be out. That’s too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:23 PM
3

True, like what girl can’t pick out a picture of a ring in 3 years with her friends help. Friend did not have to come over to help pick something out. Imagine your bf being spotted with your best friend jewelry shopping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:21 PM
6

So rude of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:16 PM
9

Am I crazy, or are the commenters? Why would a dude flip out on a gf he’s about to propose to after 3 years just because she claims she was with her best friend? Like any of you guys use this excuse to get out of saying that you were working on something, had a doctor Appt, or needed to go shopping for pants that fit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:15 PM
10

Imagine if LVM were as wishy washy at drive thrus as they are on their bios: yeah, I’m here for a good time but not a long time I like nice buns but I don’t have any with me, no extra sauce cause I got that yummy sauce. no drink, that’s too much commitment, I want fries, skinny but not too salty as I don’t want it to remind me of my ex who talks too much. Sir, what do you want? I’ll have the thicc burger, extra buns. Okay your total will be $10 at the next window, speeds past window to Taco Bell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:53 PM
4

Nothing deters HVM from pursuing an HVW except for a ‘no thank you’ and a pickme attitude. You Gucci
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:44 PM
5

Queen, remember that boys spend a lot of money on gaming systems, they wouldn’t pick you to play with if they didn’t think you were the shit. Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:42 PM
3

This!!! So I saw something similar to this on a relationship sub- a guy wanted to know the difference between ‘friend zone vs not’ with a girl who was talking to him at work. He approached her, he invited her to hang out with a group of friends, he makes all the first moves and can’t understand why she was ‘too busy’ and couldn’t make their next hangout. The audacity that a commenter stated if she friend zones then she is cruel and ‘lost feelings.’ Like no my dude, talking to someone is what we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:31 PM
1

Been here, and it really does suck. However, there is so much hope! Take heart, pray to God, get to know yourself and your dreams more. I’ve dated so many people but I also didn’t meet my ex HVM without taking almost 2 years being off the dating scene. Meaning I was focusing on school and didn’t think it was worth the risk to ‘put myself out there’ as they say. Listen, you don’t have to put yourself out anywhere, you already are stepping out and achieving things and it will enable HVM’s to see y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:04 PM
3

I’m so proud of you. You have every reason and excuse in the book, and yet you knew you deserved more, that’s not only a reflection of your value, but of how deeply you care for and value others as well. God bless and keep up what you do ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:32 AM
7

It’s okay queen, put it on your resume as charity work- I respect it 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:58 PM
2

Wow, so I just did some research on this, and not to shame her for doing what she does but shame on the guys because they could easily find a girl who looks like her if they just put some time and effort into it. I get that she is older but I just get weird pedo vibes from the whole thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:25 PM
6

Only to LVM though, my ex HVM didn’t mind when mine was grown out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:35 PM
3

Nah, it’s just one of the only personal things that they use as leverage to gaslight you and make you feel inadequate. Think of it, they can’t tell you you’re ugly if they date you or it would insult them, they can’t say you are dumb because you have proof of your grades and degrees and have to be smart enough to have ‘educated’ (barf) conversations with him, but weight is the part that they can say, ‘too skinny, I need big butt, eat more’ or ‘too chunky, lose more weight because I ‘personally’ …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:32 PM
3

What a HVM would say is I want a woman- the Smart, confident, humorous, sexy, kind, equal and has goals for herself is already kind of implied. Only the LVM have to ask for the women “who do... who are...” because they’ve never met a real woman or because the only ones they found are dependent pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:27 PM
0

Wow I thought it was insane to have 5 hours of game time a week but it’s not bad at all considering that’s abt 1 hour a day, compared to requesting at least 4-8 hours every, single, day! 😟 my friends sometimes want to part ways after 3 hours 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:19 PM
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Imagine if you felt all these things about yourself before he decided to treat you with the decency and kindness you deserve. Wouldn’t knowing that he chooses everyday to put you as a priority be enough to make you feel like a queen? If he were in it for valuing only the hottest models, the most successful women entrepreneurs, or the most emotionally stable he would have left long ago. The fact that he has seen you at your most vulnerable and still keeps after you is proof enough that you are wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:13 PM
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Religion wise- get emotionally attached to God or get attached to yourself. Anytime thereafter, someone will try to pull something like not texting me back for days and I’ll get straight up defensive with myself like, girl, no! You don’t need this, how dare they do that to you, grabs own hand- lets get some coffee and a donut and text the friends who do care and let it go ❤️😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:03 PM
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Imagine wanting someone else to clean your shat? Idk how she got this one but I’d love to mess with him like oh, you want me to scrub your shat stains? Here, come change my pad then, I don’t want to get blood stains on your nice shirt. Sips wine in queen mode
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:00 PM
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Yooo fr if this wasn’t me several years ago before he jumped states for a new job. But I would make him get the food so I wasn’t a total pickme I was like a pick-wait-and-see, getting guys to love-bomb me before I realize they ain’t it so I gotta nope out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:55 PM
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This is so true, I went from wanting intimacy and connection with the ex NVM to something else. You see, when I knew I was being discarded I didn’t have sex out of love. I had been abused before so I did it out of control. I knew he was watching porn again so I flooded him with sex one week (damaging pickme mindset I know, but the bit of pain was worth it thinking he’d never get that again). When he became worse and we ended things, I smiled and walked out on him confidently knowing he had been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:48 PM
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The audacity is so real because LVM being with an HVW is a fantasy. But in real life all us women see everyday awesome women scoring men who treat them well, for us, it’s an achievable reality, for men who watch porn it’s just a damaging spiral of defeat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:39 PM
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Death grip?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:36 PM
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Thanks but no thanks, I don’t plan to have a husband to ‘watch’ like some dog that goes and eats someone’s sandwich at the dog park. I don’t blame the person who left the sandwich, my dog should just know better and a human male should have more decency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:34 PM
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Experience at what? Cheating!? Nah dude. What is with these guys and valuing sexual experience? Imagine us telling men we are ‘experienced’ with having intimacy as something he should be turned on by. Women are not impressed that you have convinced pickmes to sleep with you and stick your dick in. Us women want to hear about the ‘experience’ of you taking your ex’s to concerts, buying flowers for, supporting her- not ‘can you use her’ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:29 PM
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When his chin squirm to the shape of an upvote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:24 PM
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Right?! 🤣 I literally just said that in my head had to double-take- dog licking the Cocoa powder off of his 5 minute hack face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:20 PM
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It’s like Buff Squidward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:19 PM
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You’re not alone. All the LVM coming out of quarantine on dating apps are putting in bare minimum while being told there is an abundance of pickmes who will be their maid. It will get better when the men start going back to work. It’s enough to make you question your sexuality if you don’t have HVM examples to study
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:16 PM
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South Korea 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:13 PM
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His rent?! Ooh girl God bless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:05 PM
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-claimed I made a killing from my artwork that it wasn’t fair for him; somehow creating pieces was compared to the unfair grunt work he did. You know, instead of just complimenting me on having skills he’s gotta make me look less than him -this one is for the books: so... handsome dude at work recommended a church to go to, he has a fiancé, and cooks for her and they watch (my favorite tv show) together. Well, because I text my friend (while I’m dating my bf) that this guy is cute- meaning to tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:01 PM
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Wow, this is why even the term partner is good for equality because why do men assume marriage is a business deal where you secretly sabotage each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:49 PM
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This is awful! I would never look down on someone whose parents pay for their children’s college- because oftentimes it is a lot worse because you have this huge pressure from them to succeed. But that is awesome that you got a degree because it’s still a lot of work, and your parents must have worked really hard and instilled a good work ethic and trustworthy relationship with you and believed in you. A LVM doesn’t like good family or ones that believe in their daughters. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:44 PM
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He’s playing mind games with you. Play mind games with yourself- by doing this. Convince yourself that someone hotter is more interested in you and it will be easier to treat him the way he does you. Ofcourse cutting contact is a priority, but I’m offering a plan to help men see we don’t have to cut them off to ‘cut them off’ socially or grey rock them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:15 PM
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Sexual attraction is mention in the Bible yo. F’able just doesn’t have a nice ring to it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:41 PM
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It’s not so much a ‘strategy’ unless A: you are using it to get something- which never does unless you are genuine and show action not just words. If on the other hand you B: demonstrated this behavior all the time, just out of your way to compliment people then yeah it’s cool. But, like some of the people said, we’ll ignore you if you give disingenuous compliments to every woman. I personally love it when men compliment both sexes it shows he’s a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:38 PM
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Truth bomb! Would rather stay single my entire life knowing I’m around friends and family that value my own mind ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:30 PM
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They have to be at least a 7/10 (for me) for any sexual attraction to happen. To me it’s not so much about how attractive you think you are so much as if you fit my type. Lots of Chads are gonna get passed up for dudes with long hair and nice eyes just because women’s types are as varied as any. Women are very visual, so we may date a 7 (to us) and not act attracted until we know and trust the guy and his actions, then we can show attraction, but someone who is a 6 to us with whiter teeth, level…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:16 PM
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What if women didn’t want an over-experienced (your word: ‘slutty’) guy? Women are more affected by stds and sti’s so we should be more cautious for our own health. But far less often does a guy ever reject a woman for how many people she’s slept with, at least in the world I know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:07 PM
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Cool, I have my own freedom to choose who I subjectively find attractive to me personally, lets replace George Clooney with Adam Driver 🙏🏻 sure, people may think he’s ugly but I’d rather have ugly to else, and fine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:51 PM
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It’s like saying, I’m a Major Tech company: how do I prevent inexperienced guys from applying? You don’t. LVM will still come to you because they have nothing left to lose, But, that doesn’t mean you can’t drop them on the first walk-in or phone interview. The less we put up with LVM behavior the more time we have to recognize HVM behavior and respond accordingly 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:39 PM
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Nah, if a guy respects you, he won’t keep score like a video game or the stock market. If he’s an LVM he keeps score- he will get mad when he has to pay dinner next time. The last time I tried the 50/50 I paid twice and told him- it’s your turn to pay, either you pay for dinner tonight with friends or I’ll pay for my own and you pay your own. He reluctantly whined about how I wasn’t going to finish my food at all, and how it’s so unfair how I stay skinny, but like I stay active and eat right so.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:51 PM
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Just spoke with a HVM friend recently and he’s not super active on dating sites, and has not had luck with it. So my assumption is on both High value fields we are being fed the LVMs and pickme profiles until covid recovers. Tbh, I found 3 HVM before this virus started- and despite one being extra touchy, they all dressed nice, were fit, would call and talk decently. Meet me and take me on dates, would work around my schedule and we’d have an awesome time! And would follow up often with a plan t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:41 PM
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Y’all be careful cause I have proof that men make accounts being women just to be manipulative. My NVM ex made 2 fake accounts of his ‘feminist’ ex girlfriends so that when the mask wore off and I messaged them for help with this crazy mf it was all threats toward me, and I’m like... nah bro, this even sounds like my ex- disgusting. I found their real social media and it was nothing like the stuff he had made
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:32 PM
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Description: my phone at 20% trying to coerce the wall outlet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:26 PM
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Ohhhhh😂nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:25 PM
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Well, y’all provin me wrong but hey, I’m learning the facts 👍🏻💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:28 PM
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That’s horrible. I’m so sorry. Also, I know a close friend who ate a lot of food to stay healthy it was all just whole grain healthy fresh foods. The misconceptions around that are toxic and men just need to quit bullying and lying to themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:27 PM
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Un-groomed jungle 😂 so bad that Tarzan done swung out and left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:11 PM
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I’d give him 5 small but interesting conversations before I mention a fake guy I’m talking to so he can cut his losses. He may just be using you as practice to work up courage for another girl. Don’t get in the habit of giving too much attention to someone who doesn’t get your number and make a move
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:49 PM
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Yes. As someone who has dated a divorced man, keep it. Also, one of the guys said he was really working towards his ‘degree’ and only worked part time but I would see him on there so much and he was not studying. I know FB isn’t real life but you can tell a lot especially when it comes to friends, family, and exes. This same guy who never actually finished his degree I found a post where he tags a female friend in a comment about a vibrator- it had been pretty recent and everyone in his workplac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:44 PM
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Talk to him about this and set boundaries. What he may be doing is enmeshing his identity with yours as a means for control- like look what I did for us, what I made for us, look how far we’ve come. Now it is good to be together and have a companion mindset, but what’s not healthy is when you have your own problems they will get neglected because it’s ‘our’ problem, or your dreams together neglected because it’s ‘our’ dreams that matter. You see what I’m saying? Now, couples should take on and s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:40 PM
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Nope, never believe a man who says stuff like this! If we were to tell guys, my ex used to love eating me out, 2 hour foreplay and giving me a back massage and foot rub after a steak dinner, they would be all, nah, that’s just not my thing boo. But a guy will be like, oh, my old coworker used to Beg me to suck my dick, would even offer to pay me to suck it, like, at work so why won’t you come do it. Why don’t you suck my dick more often? Hurrdurr. (Eyeroll) But yeah, if a guy sticks anything up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:28 PM
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What the hell? This is awful! I hope you reported him. What is so rare is that he looked? Like was he not looking before 🙄 and why tf does he have to be assertive- that’s what gets me, like my friend snatched her up a fine white man but he would Never.. this guy needs to go home and get raised to be a respectable human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:19 PM
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Shut.. up! 😂 if this ain’t my porn addicted ex’s car. He prolly joined military for extra-marital pussy and this is what the other woman must have done to their car!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:14 PM
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Awesome!! Not to appropriate to any ethnicity, but an Indian girl in my class wore shorts and she had hair that showed and after a couple of days I thought, eff this, why am I shaving my legs, she looks normal, and beautiful. I also tried a no shaving month with my only long term ex HVM and he didn’t say a thing about it. Do what makes you confident and feel good! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:57 AM
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Oh, so it’s wrong for women to have their own goals and be able to achieve them without men? Wow, someone sounds jealous- at least they could be the supportive guy friend but nah, they stay bitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:50 AM
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Hey girl hey! 🤗❤️ welcome to sanity Queen! We are HVWs and work towards our own goals and dreams and we reject pickme and LVM culture which promotes irresponsibility and sexual objectification. Feel free to read the handbook and have him lurk as much as he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:45 PM
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What helped me: get off social media (except Reddit). Imagine that there are no good men left and realize that you can be that for yourself. You have find respectable friends, you can help out in the community, you can have goals and dreams and still give yourself grace for vacations and road trips alone. Find good books, music, and hobbies to take up. The mindset will make you think, wow, I’m glad I didn’t waste any more time with these losers. Also, Covid means almost ALL guys are on dating si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:18 PM
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Nah dude, not when Dora the Explorer offers me more excitement than coffee and moobs. Why would he think this behavior is rewarded with seeing me naked, nah dude, efffffooooorrrtt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:59 PM
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If only a guy would promise respect and a nice dinner if I wore mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:56 PM
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Yeah, the truth is both are bad if he’s indulging and objectifying. Not really an argument
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:39 PM
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Lol, when their exes said ‘Eat sh**’ that’s not what they really mean.. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:40 PM
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Exactly, thank you for your honesty 💕 I hope you don’t mind my boybye stance in this instance, I just don’t want to have to be the person to teach him when there are so many sources is all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:37 PM
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Please don’t get intimidated 🤮 why would I be? And why would you assume the people you attract as a future wife would be intimidated unless you are the one doing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:23 AM
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What the actual hell nah, sis. That’s wrong of him. And to think I had it bad when I blocked a dude when he kept saying you don’t smile, you need to hold your head up more, and you don’t look like your pictures- brought it up over and over. I never mention cultural differences unless it’s a positive difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:10 AM
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NVM logic: It’s not cheating as long as we don’t talk to them. Oh, because talking to porn stars would make them human and that would make you feel some type of way about fantasizing about your fake relationship with them. Okay, scroomer. But heaven forbid we talk to a guy, oh we may as well have had sex with them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:03 AM
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The only reason a friend would get into a rush to find you some cheap dick rather than support you in your quest for a real man is because she’s secretly jealous and thinks you’ll steal her man. I asked my female family members and it’s true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:52 AM
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Not weird at all, sometimes it’s a first, most of the time I wait until the 5th one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:50 AM
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Here, here, here... you doin it right if you are bored. Listen, a high value man will pursue- but... he won’t lovebomb or suffocate you. If you are getting a lot of attention, weed em out and wait. The most patient guys pursue and want to keep you interested but aren’t trying to secure you by incessant messaging. Be patient and wait for the HVMs to rise to the occasion ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:38 AM
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Next time, send him a picture of Lee Young Ae, and tell us his reactions. Tell him you didn’t know he was into women pushing 50yrs old 😎 also tell him you only date hot guys because ugh, hello, women have eyes too moron
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:33 AM
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Same issue when I worked hard in college and didn’t spend all this extra time with Bf and he called me a try-hard, like wth even is that? And it’s not like I didn’t earn good scholarships for my merit. This guy would piss me off- what he says is a slight jab at your work ethic in order to inflate his ego- when he compares you with another woman, it is to manipulate you and get you to de-value your self. Screw him. Tell him oops I worked so hard this week, I forgot all about you, but this one guy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:26 AM
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Good, so if I wait until I’m in MY prime, house, nice car, peak of my education and career, then... I have less of a chance of alluring the scrotes that want me just for sex. It’s all lies but it’s a win in my book for me to know if I focus on me for a few more years, I have a better chance of weeding out these idiots. Imagine if we said, well, I want an 18 yr old boy because I need him in his sexual prime tf kind of post-pedo mindset is that? Stay woke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:15 AM
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Amen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:24 PM
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On the curtain 🤣😳oh no. There may be an underlying mental disorder here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:17 PM
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Right, if you were to get him back you’d have one of your girl friends message him to meet up, and text 4 hours later and say... “actually, I’m running a bit late.” The audacity. Like it better have been a dang emergency that a man bothers to call that late after ditching. Also, I’d be rethinking my ‘friends’ too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:13 PM
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Y’all ever notice how when you were at a low point, in school, working a crap job, your pickme family members be trying to set you up with doctors and lawyers or an ugly dude that... owns a home? (Just for ‘Security’) But come time you level up, they shut up about it? As if I was only a mouth to feed and not someone working on myself and healthy habits and education
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:06 PM
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Well dang, that’s freaking awesome! Thanks for the clarification ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:57 PM
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Hole- E-Crap, reminds me of my pickme days but thank God I lose all attraction if a guy won’t offer to pay for my food. Lol, because you ‘talked about work,’ like what 12 year old immature mentality to have about a Woman. Dodged a bullet like this that a pickme roommate tried to get me to date. Yall, don’t let Pickmes give you dating advice! This guy went out of his way to be there early for class so he could talk to me, even me listening to music he still would try to talk when I didn’t want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:41 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:38 PM
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Right? I’m like show me your degree, the real one. Saw one on OLD who as 28 about to leave military to go to PA school like? Bruh, I don’t want to take on your loans, former nerd my a**, what you been doing this whole time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:29 PM
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Omg, can we please invent a secret app of body count on men so that they are required to meet for testing, and required mandatory training with the gyno on safe sex and keeping his penis to one person for a while, this is so awful! Prayers for testing clear of stds and if not, you still have your dignity- idk that we wouldn’t have fallen for the same thing girl. Wear that crown with your head held high. Gonna check with friends and family of HVMs in the future. He lost a good one and idk how he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:25 PM
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One of my friends is thicc and she has a thing for skinny- she can get with all the tall, hot skinny guys. Guess this guy you met with was just a dick and nothing else, better to get the good ones with a NORMAL expectation of people when they are sick and a normal desire for women uninhibited by the fake-ness of filters and porn. When I was 115 and called chubby by a skinny guy ‘I’m like the eff that’s what skin is you dimwit, you just jealous.’ Left that pornsick man mid-fap fam. Sorry this hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:14 PM
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Yes, and after lurking there I found that they are so unhappy to see a woman they let go of, be happy- one guy had to rant that this girl he was seeing left and that it’s okay because she was a dance teacher and that he’d be making better money soon (like wth?). He also didn’t think that just maybe she wants respect and love and to do what makes her happy, no, he thought oh all the men that she was getting to have sex with. Literally all they want are sex objects that they can overpower. That da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:54 PM
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Gary say Mow- back to bikini bottom you bottom feeder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:31 PM
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Can’t wait 😄 maybe they’ll learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:29 PM
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If only I remembered this from my pickme days- I had two exes and 3 more dates that asked me this. At first it’s kind of a compliment, but also a weird double standard- they get my number and they text me and I should be asking pictures of them. It def indicates 1. A lack of their trust/trust issues with women 2. A very elementary understanding of women- so skewed that they can’t tell real from fake and may have porn issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:24 PM
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What I recommend to myself- wear what makes you feel the best- some days- full face- somedays just a little self-tanner and false lashes and lip balm, or brown eyeliner a little mascara and concealer- but I only avoid going without any unless my face is tip top because otherwise I just don’t feel as peppy. (Primer, spf, concealer, and mascara are my necessities)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:19 PM
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Oh, my, God!! Get this man a life. Must be a programmer and a bad one at that, does this do this, well If not the only logical answer must be this... wth? And what does clean even mean? Is he implying that the people most girls allow to sleep with them are full of permanent dick cheese? Not how that works dude. I would make the inference that he’s 12 and hasn’t had sex ed and then block him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:45 PM
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Girl, you and me both 😇 I got a revenge certification to spite one of my exes who told me it’s not as easy as people think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:38 PM
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Me imagining a psycho talking to his coffee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:32 PM
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So we got a kid who never grew up, likes to drink and smoke and be a grown baby ‘socially’ and yet doesn’t want kids. Hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:31 PM
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What’s the 1.67m? Is that the cost of his house? Or is he implying he’s got a 65 inch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:29 PM
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The reason he is doing the self-deprecating thing is so he can win you like a prize of an object he can later discard- he can’t communicate well, so he’s trying to make up for it by being around you often rather than slowly earning your trust. You see what I mean? A real HVM respects himself and you, he doesn’t need to like all of your OLD pictures (creepy), and doesn’t need to convince you or manipulate you. A real man will make you feel at ease- if he is awesome, he won’t be acting like a cree…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:25 PM
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That’s like saying boring commitment to your job will set you up for being fired- not sure I follow the scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:20 PM
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Right? I swear Bios are the equivalent of us girls going out without makeup- sure we can! But if we’re willing to put in effort- have a bio, or look nicer than these guys, you dang well sure imma make sure he got a Bio for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:18 PM
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Financially literate 🤣 like me watching HGTV, yeah I know that house is $370,000, pats back, you know that financial literacy told me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:16 PM
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My bf once got offended that I said he would look good bald because his Dad does- compliments work both ways don’t put up with him calling you a hippo- that’s just like calling him a whale
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 11:40 PM
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Adulterer became the word ‘players’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:30 PM
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I tell the men I talk to where I’m going in life and what I’m doing for myself- that way, the LVMs back off and the HVMs step up and think, ‘wow she even treats herself like a queen, I gotta give her a top notch date that works around her schedule not just mine’ 😚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:29 PM
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Better edit: me sleeping alone, feeling queen as heck, falling asleep reading, catching up with the girls for a night, taking myself out to eat, cooking nice meals, keeping my body in top shape, loving who I am and staying around good high value company, doesn’t mean I want to get married, it means I’m committed... to myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:23 PM
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Ladies, don’t get yourself involved with a guy who says, ‘now this, us hanging out so many nights a week, talking, getting dinner; that’s not gonna happen once I start working and we live together, because that’s not how life goes- we may get to eat together and talk some but, don’t expect us to have much time...’ what the heck kind of logic is that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:15 PM
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Wow. Nah, sis. Separate houses. I swear a guy should show how to keep a house for a year before you go into it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:03 PM
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If females did this: nice vag, 9/10 guys said would revisit, I have no WiFi at home, got books aplenty. Not sure what I’m looking for anyone who got abs and nice hair. Wants kids: NOW, Looking for marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:46 AM
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Yes, one of my friends dated a guy in HS- his pickup at a pool party was, ‘Don’t you look like a whore with all that eyeliner?’ 🤨 she thought he was sarcastic and he may just have been that bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:38 AM
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The ONLY thing he has is a sense of humor if he actually believes a girl just wants dick and free nudes, sad if he thinks this is a way to a woman’s heart and not good food and free dog cuddles 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:36 AM
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Praying for you. First of all, give yourself a pat on the back for standing up for yourself and having the strength to want to find freedom, you are more than amazing and deserve every resource you can get. You need to find an excuse- I’m working on a ‘gardening’ project so that you can leave the house momentarily. Second, use this ‘gardening’ to find a trusted friend/ counselor/ church member who has a phone and computer as you will need to look at these things in private in order to protect yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:27 AM
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Skrrrt... okay, so you been talking to this guy, if he don’t hit you up with solid plans after 3 weeks, not swooning you and taking you on virtual dates, then he ain’t interested- and let’s be honest here, we ain’t interested in him either because if he has enough time on his hands to get to know you on his watch, how he know another man ain’t tryna do the same thing! Ooh he knows you are a backup plan and you know you might be one too. If he calls ‘every night’ that’s lovebombing. Actions baby,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:11 AM
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Right, the show is low key displaying what it looks like to demand what is necessary in a healthy relationship- even without the expense of kids, this guy has to be able to afford $200 a month to at least buy a new car with AC. He looks like the type who would threaten police on their ex- don’t ask how I know 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:01 AM
19

Christmas- I got him a Zelda Ocarina (whatevs you call it), a frame with us in it, some cool gaming accessory, and a painting wall art for his room- he got me- (he said it took him forever to pick out...) -a stuffed pickachu- some struggling kid is getting cuddles from it I donate that ish Recent ex: he said name all the scents I like; for a candle ofcourse. And I named maybe 5-10 notes to make sure he had it. He did legit with the other stuff, but gave me a batch of some off brand mini candles …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:56 AM
26

But I need to swipe right for FUN 🤣 must be that trap door where no strings are attached, maybe he tryna throw some chick down a well 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:43 AM
2

He lied, tell him, ‘sure, I’ll think of it- and come to think of it, I’m bored with you too. Go have fun’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:38 PM
1

Cohabitating is not practice period, it’s merely a grace period- men get to halt commitment (interest free) for months until you convince them that you’re worth getting married and having a wedding. Sure, it may be a good thing, but I see living with myself as a privilege and if he doesn’t act interested enough to call me his forever in a great celebration where he can show me off, then no dog, that’ll be a no from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:36 PM
2

Yes girl! 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:12 PM
1

Like it’s not even as much work as a job interview- if these guys would put that much work into getting a job maybe they’d have some practice. This is just sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:12 PM
1

Options: Abstinence, lots of foreplay and manual stimulation from him without need for penetration, birth control that you’ve been on for at least a month- take it same time each day or night- an hour off can make it less effective at preventing them, and condoms with that as double protection, and my goodness do not use the bare skin ones (have had 4 break over the years). Stay informed and don’t feel shy asking a gyno for help or having your bf go with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:09 PM
3

Don’t fear it, embrace it- it will actually keep a lot of the LVMs away from you because they are too scared, all the pickme’s will be jealous and won’t want to be friends, and the HVMs you meet will be challenged by your appearance to step up their game. No worries 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:02 PM
1

He can’t even communicate what he wants- all he had to say was, I want to earn your trust as a friend, get to know you through good and bad while not expecting anything, and then properly date. That’s it, not hard dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:58 PM
3

I hate to hear you are going through this- a friend of mine had an engagement end after 5 years. I thought up and down about why my ex picked out a ring with me or why he didn’t propose in December, I rationalized after all these years that it was a random alarm I set to get ready- I kept 30 alarms that all read different things from years past- so a 10:30 alarm said pick _____ up from class (name of ex bf) (could have been my cousin I mean gee). Well I got up that day and over the span of a wee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:49 PM
3

HVM material. Imagine if we left men the moment their balls started sagging a bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:36 PM
3

FDS standards focus on growth so yeah, I mean I’ve had side jobs a lot but I was going to school or interning. If he doesn’t like his job, what is he doing to show that he can improve? -is he getting to know his coworkers more? -is he applying for other locations? -is he taking management courses? -is he looking to quit to go back to school full time? That is what we mean. Not someone who is LVM who hates his job but does Nothing to change it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:34 PM
1

Yes!! 😁 but why does this look exactly like the syllabus papers they hand out on the first day of grade school? Obviously, this is just the bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:30 PM
14

Here’s the thing, you shouldn’t have to set up ‘boundaries’ with an HVM until time- whenever he’s proven himself after weeks, months even, I’d dare say 6 months. Any time he brings up something that is not HVM behavior, block and cut him out. Men have Moms and sisters and aunts- they know better. The whole point of FDS dating is not to become some guy’s teacher telling him why talking about your breasts on a first date is wrong. Also, check the FDS handbook 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:28 PM
3

Anyone else sound like a robot 🤖 trying to make it through that paragraph?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:23 PM
22

Caption : me, years ago when my jaw was sore from dick sucking- dick sucking ain’t the same as clit-licking and they know it, any real man would be happy to oblige 🙋‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:22 PM
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The irony is if they attack her looks that’s the only place they see value. The porn-addicts think an ugly guy who is alive and breathing is of more value than a pretty girl with no potential to manipulate 🤷🏻‍♀️ as far as I see it no men are even in a league until proven HVMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:12 PM
1

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:07 PM
3

Two days, think what an HVM could do for you in two days- boy bye 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:06 PM
1

I’m thinking, what if all the dating sites were made to attract LVMs so that they’d be constantly distracted by pickmes on their phone and will ignore us in public so that the HVMs can approach us 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:01 PM
2

I survived tinder 2020- only lasted a day, but it’s something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:55 PM
1

Legit thought said and he likes pirates- big diff too 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:45 PM
2

Wow, this. Thank you for standing up for you. Lie and tell her you found someone who likes these things just to shut her up. Can confirm things that guys do talk about: -babies -kids and teaching kids -shopping and their style -helping their sister through a breakup -HGTV -cooking -gardening -TED talks and podcast -skincare as it pertains to health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:43 PM
2

This is when you casually bring up your new security camera and the strong Uncle Joe who happens to live there that no one sees 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:33 PM
9

Yasss!!! ❤️ I never understand why LVM think that if they insult you and tell you what to do that it’s going to warrant a good response. Had a guy tell me I shouldn’t be drinking protein drinks? Like, what makes you an expert homie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:29 PM
14

Yes! When I moved for my ex last year my best friend would be on the phone with me helping me adjust while LVM was like HurDur but my job is hard too and I just have to deal with it. Like nah bro, back then my Bar was low- feed me, talk to me, and tell me I’m pretty- he couldn’t even sustain that- thank God for good friends telling me I didn’t need that ish in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:24 PM
3

Yep, last one I ranted a paragraph to back in January about racial sensitivity, he thanked me and said he would take a year off to grow with God and I found that son of a mother on Hinge 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:18 PM
22

Girl, when his excuse was long story, I would have straight up blocked him 😆 you ain’t gettin paid to school him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:15 PM
10

Well, he’s screwed. HVW won’t ‘come over’ again- she’s gonna want an actual date, (in public), where he should meet her parents if he thinks it’s gonna move any faster 😆 (grabs popcorn) y’all give us updates I swear this is better than 90DF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:03 PM
3

So he’s looking at cam girls? That makes him the insecure one. I’d bet he’s the type that sees her being nice to Timmy at the grocery store and calls her out for emotional affair 🙄. Insecure my peach cheeks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:55 PM
3

Right, the Holy Spirit gives us ‘fruits’ of the Spirit which HVMs have in abundance- peace, patience, kindness, goodness,...self control! But I do love the little snippet where he says sorry for what you’ve been through- as if I’m being compared to a kid who fell and has an irrational fear of riding bikes. Like how about sorry on behalf of us men for not taking a second to imagine what it’s like to fear physical harm- to have to run from mental harm and manipulation from an ex wanting to ruin ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:17 PM
6

😆Girl! That name though, you’ve dated one too I bet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 09:07 PM
7

Yes! That is awesome- may I ask where you met him? Need inspiration on HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:51 PM
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To be forgiven too many times for the same thing expecting a different result is called... insanity, right? Heaven forbid I had a cheating problem he would have explained Grace a little different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:43 AM
11

I bet. I don’t even think it’s the abundance mentality that makes them this way anymore, you look at certain countries where men step up their looks and they do it because women won’t take any less than the standard. The resistance of LVM must continue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:52 PM
3

Awesome read! I can def tell there is something stronger in all of us. So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:40 PM
1

Tf you’re right, that’s why when I left I didn’t let him watch me cry, I couldn’t give him the satisfaction and he wouldn’t feel any empathy just lust. I let him see me walk up those stairs one last time in my ae jeans with the firmest of booties and let him compartmentalize that in the back of his head so that when he can’t find anyone to listen to him he’ll realize I’m not there, that he exhausted the last chain of supply that will tolerate any of his crappy excuse for being a human being. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:44 AM
1

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:39 AM
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Right, and heaven forbid us women have any insecurity about what we can’t control like breast size or butt size or curves. Like dudes can lift weights, we can’t lift our way to a bigger cup size or run our way into a new booty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:36 AM
3

😡🙄He’d make the same argument that: children who work in sweatshops aren’t abused, they are just dominated and that hello they get paid to work there- the audacity of scrotes knows no bounds Lord please change their ways and their sick demonic hearts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:26 AM
21

Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:20 AM
11

Oh hell no! A must? A must for him yo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:40 AM
61

Right? Like as a woman I have seen women carry extra weight, like plus size max and look sexy as hell. I’m straight but damn, he’s def not High libido if he doesn’t want it after this long, he’s just having trouble getting it up and was probably too boring and sad to be with anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:39 AM
52

More like chasing bedskirts for dust bunnies he can f with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:35 AM
2

I was trying to say good job girl since you got so much hate in the other comments, dang 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:29 PM
2

Well, if anything, I see both sides of the coin here and can gladly tell you I’m happy to see you have found someone. I know you are smart enough to be cautious- keep us posted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:07 PM
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Genius! And I have seen it the other way around too- like guys giving me bad advice (back when I would listen and trust them lol) about how to reach out to a guy I liked and they said go for it and it backfired. Def could be because why would they give out info for what helps them in good faith unless they were doing it in a fatherly approach towards other males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:05 PM
9

Yes. This. Because if he thinks this is a flower...? He must not have taken sex ed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:56 PM
2

Yes, it means he wants to cook you his favorite gourmet specialty as a treat for you for your birthday- aka “Tacos”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:49 PM
0

Lol girl!!! Imagine y’all... If these were personality traits imagine how special they’d feel knowing they had the same traits as Spongebob 👻beyond dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:46 PM
1

Learning disabilities- as long as he doesn’t act like it’s crippling or use it as an excuse. He’d forget little things like stopping half way to check to see he had his wallet but always remembered the important things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:45 PM
11

Jaw drops. This is why, even though I respect military and the women especially, but if I had the option for my kids to be left at home with me while the Dad tours I’d just be pissed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:38 PM
2

I do like that he has a lot of the qualities I just want to ask you, if he knew you all this time, why didn’t he pursue you while getting these things together? It reminds me of Great Gatsby when he’s looking from afar like, I threw you these parties and I’m finally enough, come look at me. The truth is, it wasn’t that he wasn’t enough in the first place, it’s just that he’s trying to rewrite history on a relationship he hasn’t even shown interest in until now. If y’all had dated up until now, y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:31 PM
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Patient, has personal growth, and whose actions speak louder than words. Hard to fake patience, growth, and actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:17 PM
3

Not at all. I would never name names or mention something that would make a guy feel compared so he shouldn’t either. The furthest comparison I ever made was, ‘sorry, I’m just frustrated, times before this position has worked with other people but it’s okay, there are other ones that work just fine, I’ll just try a different angle.’ See? That’s not being specific or making someone feel inadequate. There should be a feeling of excitement and trust to make it work with someone you care about, not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:13 PM
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His sperm done got a walking cane! 🤣☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:07 PM
9

Haha Looooool! Like nah dude, if I wanted someone his age I’d be looking for Paul Rudd 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:05 PM
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Ikr? Like may as well praise the babysitter more than the Dad if he’s only ‘cool Dad’ for taking time out with his kids 3 days out of the month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:02 PM
44

Right? I had to pause because I thought he was using that as his bad example, not his good one 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:00 PM
13

I second this. He would have ‘hypotheticals’ and mention if his exwife came back, what would I do and I said well it shouldn’t matter, you should protect me and get a restraining order- he never did- he was the Narc- he did me dirty and he just wanted us to fight over him. Honey, it ain’t a fight if we aren’t in the same country anymore, moved on and long gone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:47 AM
2

Lol, I wish, but like for shame I hope his Mom never has to use his computer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:17 PM
18

Pink starburst 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:15 PM
50

Pretty sure these are all old coworkers or guys that bag the groceries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:33 AM
20

Sounds like my exes. These douchebags do have feelings, when you catch them before their 3 month trial is up haha- good thing we have enough self-respect to cut them off before the 2nd date- he’s gonna have a lot of 1st dates and that’s about it lol. And endless steam of candidates he’ll have to prove he’s good enough for- not what he signed up for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:58 PM
10

Yeah, nothing sexier than a black tube sounding like a baby burping every time it goes in to its empty, soulless void excuse for real “intimacy,” lol. Waiting to see when a guy posts that his flesh light burns his peepee because it needs all that soap up there to clean it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:52 PM
25

They’d probably call her a fat, ugly, dumb **** (regardless of how stunning she was) and say how dare you make a schedule for when you want to have sex, I thought my Peepee decides that. And if you can’t handle my family then you are an awful nasty person and a bully my Mommy and Sisters are the only women who are the best and they say you should be okay with me treating you like crap- said every LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:42 PM
10

Options? Yeah, we’re clearly not jealous of the pack of socks your Mom gave you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:35 PM
6

You know this is the equivalent of what those Wish try-on Hauls are: guys need to watch that- like when I order something that is not what it looks like, do I take it to get it hemmed and altered and say, well, at least it works! Hell nah! We all get pissed!! We gotta make a public service announcement why our prom dress doesn’t look like this and roast the crap out of it. Why the mess do these guys think we won’t do the same if we find out they lied? 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:28 PM
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You may love him, but you gotta love yourself. You gotta love being respected, listened to, appreciated, you’ve got to love not needing to hear a single thing from him. You have to love seeing your future as investing time and money and effort into yourself as you pursue your dreams. You have to love coming home to your apartment that you consistently pay for, and work for. You have to love listening to music and buying yourself dinner and flowers and not listen to any arguments. You have to lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:20 PM
34

Don’t point your finger at me! -how about you don’t point yours at me, or Rose, especially when you look like a big thumbs up lol. I mean honestly I don’t want to roast his looks, if he just knew how to listen, that’d be a big step up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:12 PM
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Love your transparency girl! Much love ❤️ Here’s what you do: Ask him what his download speeds are (at work, at home, etc. and see how he responds) if he knows it to a tee at work, he probably is watching something- ask him what he watches at work- valid question. If he’s too, “Ooh, look see? No problem here?” Hands you the phone all the time (when you didn’t ask) to see his phone- could be it- happened with mine. Gross: but check his keyboard- unfortunately, I’ve seen what got smeared on there.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:06 PM
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Yes, realized I hadn’t blocked one of them who came crawling back to me in text. He couldn’t even answer my question, let alone apologize or try another approach to make it work this time. Blocked. Then I found he can see my profile and thought well, good, he should see the way some of the HVM comment on me and he’ll learn. LVM never learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:21 PM
3

Boundaries by Cloud for the win! So happy for you right now, Keep it up! Also, journal the things you love about yourself because in a pinch in helps to be reminded. Also y’all ladies buy yourselves flowers, legit made me feel Queen as heck (cut them diagonally on the bottom, they last for a week that way)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:16 PM
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This is why I love Fight the New Drug. They are not religiously-affiliated and genuinely work with couples affected by porn use in order to bring facts to the table in order to free them from pornography and its hold on sex trafficking of victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:04 PM
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Did he quit on his PHD because it was too negative of energy for him? No. Did he ask his boss to hire another coworker to ‘fulfill his dream’ or to finish a project? No. Did he publicly challenge his buddies’ political stances and not just yours? No. Did he pursue you sexually in a way that should satisfy him to not look at porn. No. All the HVM things he put energy and patience into are things that he finds worth in. You deserve someone who sees you beyond worthy of putting this dedication into
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:48 AM
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Here’s my deal: you are CEO, scratch that Boss of your own business, you need to cultivate 2 BB Questions (bye boy Qs): take it from me, I’m religious so these weed them out fast 1: where do you go to church? 2: what is God doing in your life? Say you are political: Q1: what’s your biggest concern for our nation? Q2: what are you doing to promote/ support said cause? LVM will dare rise to the occasion, but HVM are secure to answer with ease and interest- enough to know that wow, she knows what s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:31 AM
26

Military man I assume? Lol. Nothing against the men who serve our country but some of them be cheating when married up too. Like he thought you were beautiful when y’all met? Ask him, you want to be with someone who rejected you since the day we met?Nope, he’s crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:17 AM
1

Can we talk about their use of the word ‘VaLiDAtiOn’ as if human dignity is something we have to earn? (Women post pic for-validation, women want friends for-validation, women want more success for-validation, women ask me question for- validation). Okay, okay, so by that logic, you are beating off to a stranger who is held against their will because you think so low of your own self worth, appearance, passion, and dreams that you don’t just need validation, you need to feel entitled to somethin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:09 AM
2

True for AM what about PHVM- potential- because let’s be honest, once we know they are not HVM they demote to LVM cause AM implies we gotta be the ones to change em again and I’m not gonna be they Mama
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:35 AM
5

What’s this? He pumps my gas (swoons). He owns and uses a vacuum. He cooked me a salad and tacos (oh goody!) He lets me keep my stuff at his place. Oh! And even better, he lets me steal his shirt for the night; give me a break: he should buy you some pjs and makeup wipes for the bathroom, he should clean before you come over, he should be cooking food that didn’t take 10 min to throw together. They’re so easily impressed Lord help them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:31 AM
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HVM do exist though, but I completely feel ya. Realized I have spent more and done way more for myself in the past year than all my exes combined! Got a ring, got a second job, new tech, new professional clothing, tried a couple new hobbies, traveled, new yoga gear and I treat myself to eating out cause ex had to be all EaTinG OuT iS ExPenSive. I do wear the ring on my wedding finger just so I can listen to guys behind me joke ‘oh I hate when people are married’ sucks for you guys (it ain’t a we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:16 AM
2

Run! I will never understand this, men can watch naked women all day but, oh no, don’t dress in shorts for your own comfort and dignity because... my peepee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:57 PM
2

I’m crying right now reading this. Yes, and this is where I finally see clearly what happened. My recent ex: I was bawling over him ending things with me. I had moved there for him and for a job nearby and was temporarily staying with his family until I could move in with roommates (literally only 2 weeks). It was LDR before so obviously I still needed to finish training for work and couldn’t drive home to lose my job. I was willing to pay $400 for a month to live there and he said no, letting h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:47 PM
1

Yes for the Love of God 10X was my max Per Week in honeymoon phase and I could barely sustain it without feeling pain after. Girl, get out of this, you can, I believe you deserve far better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:30 PM
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100 times Yes. The few HVM’s I’ve encountered make me miss them, the differences they had from the LVMs were: 1. Would have knowledge on current events, not just opinions 2. Would take an interest in things I do and learn with me, instead of just playing video games in the same room and ignoring me 3. Would take me to eat at new places instead of eating at the same boring places all the time 4. Knew a different language and encouraged me in learning a new one as well, instead of looking down on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:37 PM
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