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I was also gonna ask if this was me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:28 AM
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Men are really really high maintenance: especially the ones over 40. They’ve never had to look after themselves because they are used to women doing it for them. That’s just in terms of housework, cooking, doctors appointments and in general being their secretary. On top of that men don’t cultivate or maintain social supports so they might have one drinking buddy but that’s it. So their woman has to be everyone to them and fulfil the role of an entire family and friendship group for him. It’s ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:27 AM
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Yeah, marry a “good girl” and then sexually neglect her to beat off to, pine over and cheat with the women they’re actually attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:57 AM
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So true, vaginismus-sufferer checking in 🙋🏻‍♀️ I’m so called out by this comment haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:02 PM
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I’m pretty sure it’s visible on mris since emotional abuse can cause brain changes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:28 PM
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He got so triggered that his little girl was giving suggestions because it just highlighted to him that he was faking/exaggerating. Deep down he knew he didn’t need it (he literally told her he didn’t) so it made him feel guilty he was getting undeserved kindness. So he did what any man would and took it out on her. Yelling at a sweet baby like that is just abhorrent. How will she be able to freely give affection now if she’s getting abuse in retaliation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:09 PM
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Yes as a neurodivergent woman I agree. The bane of my existence is creepy sex offending men who cry autism when challenged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:49 PM
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Hmmm I never noticed disordered eating but my mom definitely called herself fat and ugly constantly in front of me. My dad was a porn addict and I don’t remember him saying anything kind to my mom ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:36 AM
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Ikr I hope I can have a body like Billie Eilish when I’m a mom in my thirties 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:08 PM
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Please have mercy on my diaphragm I can’t breathe 😂😂🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:54 PM
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Hahaha ur way wittier than me. If some guy said that to me all I could muster is a yikes. Also it’s hilarious how bad men are at cold and warm reading women. I actually am a virgin but men around me think I’m some wild sultry slut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:03 AM
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I agree. I think it’s fucked up that men will say and do whatever it takes, throw everything at the wall in the hopes that something sticks, to erode ur boundaries and try and have sex with you. But if you do they’ll lose all affection, interest and respect for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:53 PM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:09 PM
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Does everyone in PPD live in an alternate reality lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:00 PM
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That’s sooo deranged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:07 AM
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I agree with everything you said except that sexual attraction to kids is morally neutral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:15 AM
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In my dark moments I think this too 😢 why are they soooo...evil and dare I say demonic? I see it in my family, in men I respect or used to. Like men in my family making pervy comments about 11 yo girl cousins (she’ll make the boys very happy with those legs 🤮) and nobody calls them out. Honestly the Y chromosome creeps me out, there is barely any information on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:11 AM
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This is horrifying. I don’t have children yet but there are SO MANY TBINGS PURPOSEFULLY KEPT SECRET. I had no idea about the after pains and I thought I knew quite a lot of forbidden pregnancy knowledge. It makes me so scared and angry for myself and women who experience extreme pain in isolation with no support or ability to prepare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:36 AM
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That subreddit is like staring into the void I have to ignore it cos it inflames my depression so bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:13 AM
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There is a breaking dads subreddit I think. They had to set it to private cos everyone was dunking on them for how stupid their gripes were like wahhh wife has stretch masks my life is over 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:17 AM
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Yes. I have Aspergers and was/am very open about it especially just after my diagnosis. I regret it so much. It’s not just men who treat me differently or weirdly after they know, women do it too (and for some reason women are worse). It’s soooo hard to be vibing with someone but then they do a 180 like they found out you’re a serial killer because someone in our social circle tipped them off about my diagnosis. I was so so innocent. If somebody told me they were an aspie/dyslexic/adhd/epileptic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:19 PM
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The pink pill in a nutshell has its origins from the femcel community. It’s basically your access to love and affection from men is solely determined by your looks. It’s just an expansion of lookism
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 02:37 PM
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Yeah but have you ever seen a man block one nostril to shoot out a booger from the other nostril like openly in an outdoor dining area without any shame or compunction? Cos I have 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:39 PM
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Awww 🥰🥺🥺 I need to be telling myself this more often haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:33 PM
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Sooooo true. I was in a group of friends and one of us had an ankle injury. I walked at her pace and had a great time chatting. The rest of the group zoomed ahead together and I thought it was disgusting behavior...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:56 PM
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Glad I’m not alone, it’s so hard to ask them to slow down. Especially when I actually am a legitimately unfit person through my own fault ( I don’t do cardio).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:16 PM
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Men always do this to me: walk super fast to the point I’m doing a weird power walk/half jog to keep up while hyperventilating. If I ask them to slow down they huff and roll their eyes. I honestly thought I was the problem and I was inconveniencing them with my slow walking. This post kinda opened my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:16 PM
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Yes. I’ve tried watching some of his content and I just can’t. Like he’s so disgusting and sleazy he makes me feel sick. Like I’ve literally been put off my dinner by him. He’s kinda what I imagine a sleazy pornographer/guy who flashes women would be like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:51 PM
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The thing is most people wouldn’t let people see their rooms like that, least of all narcissistically demand they accept it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:50 PM
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So then you do admit it’s not caused by women not fucking them: it’s inattentive parents? If it’s caused by inattentive parents then it makes no sense to lay all the blame at picky women’s feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:55 AM
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Then why do they start watching porn between the ages of 8-12? Must be those frigid 10yo girls not fucking them 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:27 AM
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Omg yes. When I have a revealing and cheap fashion nova outfit on with full face make up and winged eyeliner it is the WOMEN that roll out the red carpet for me. It’s made even weirder that it’s even religious girls deep into modesty and purity culture that are most prone to this behavior. It’s bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:35 PM
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Awww girl me too 🥺 are you me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:30 PM
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Not being gainfully employed eroded the male psyche and self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:19 AM
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Yeah I was gonna say he’s trying to make their first date a gas station so he can “romantically” propose in the place they first met swoons sarcastically Like yikes and side note: wtf is wrong with Pam and Jim they are condescending bullies who relentlessly tormented an autistic coded character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:29 PM
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I always just assumed they were growers not showers lol. Or he just got out of the bath 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:15 AM
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This ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:54 AM
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😂😂I’m sorry to laugh but that’s one of the most ridiculous things I’ve heard a man do. Like men are not ok 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:54 AM
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Omg this is so real. The same thing has happened to me but different scenarios. They really throw tantrums when you deviate from their head canon version of you, don’t they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:30 PM
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Ok sis you just blew my mind. I was constantly truangulated with random female peers by both parents. They were always like “so and so is so gorgeous/talented/polite” and “why can’t you be more like so and so”. That explains so much. We are groomed to hate each other. I’m working hard to overcome my jealousy issues too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:32 PM
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Honestly you are the only person here I sort of agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:24 AM
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That really sucks and I feel you but it doesn’t surprise me. Same thing happened with my parents, they divorced, dad embraced by church community, mom marginalized (even though everyone kinda knew he was a domestic abuser). He just told everyone she “cheated”, even people they hadn’t talked to in decades lmao: just popped back in their lives to smear my mom. Religious guys are fucked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:05 AM
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No you don’t understand, the entire church community will happily pitch in and support her and her kids.../s I don’t believe this but that’s their answer to the question of what if their husband dies. I’m also sure most trad women would be uncomfortable being a “drain” on their community the same way single moms are a “drain” on taxpayers and I don’t think they would have the respect of their community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 01:06 AM
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Nah I actually feel a little bad so many people are dogpiling on you. It’s more I get pigeon-holed and type cast as an evil jezebel by insecure women...I was just wondering if maybe those hot party girls are just nice normal girls getting misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:23 PM
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I don’t get on with wallflower girls who spend the whole night stink eyeing me and making sucking lemon faces while I mind my own business dancing 💃🏻 like excuse my beauty 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:01 PM
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OP do you now have random “sex pos” cool girl sex podcasters following you? Cos that’s what happened to me, I once commented about a specific sec podcaster and literally minutes later I got a notification she was following me with like two others 😬 it’s creepy, i mention sex columnists or sex podcasters in a less than brown nosing way and a bunch followed me immediately so was wondering did this happen to anyone else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:56 AM
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Honestly this is why I only say ew if I get a msg like this. Anything else and it just opens you up to abuse. Men can’t argue with an ew, they can only slink away in shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:54 PM
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I’m so glad you and your kids are doing so much better. But damn op you must have legs to die for 😭 like she drew you so leggy 🦵 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:41 AM
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Omg I too have been saying men have no theory of mind for years, great minds think alike huh. Granted I’m autistic so that’s how I learned that term since autistic children are supposed to take longer to develop one, but it fits adult males so well doesn’t it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:17 AM
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Literal toddlers. This is a conversation you have with a toddler to explain hitting other kids is bad because they don’t like being hit lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:09 AM
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I’m sorry but “carnist scum” is such a funny insult 😭 like it’s something an anti-vegan would think up when parodying vegans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:37 AM
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The misandry is coming from inside the house 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:27 AM
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This. Pizza gate was definitely engineered on purpose so that nobody can point out the cultural acceptance pedophilia without sounding crazy. I actually hate the term conspiracy theory, it’s such a smear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:46 PM
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But women can totally control their waist size (just starve yourself and do tight lacing duh), boob size (just get a boob job it’s easy) and hairlessness (spend thousands on lazer hair removal) like it’s so easy, you females are so melodramatic and love life on easy mode and have no idea how hard it is to be a man 😩😭😭😭😩 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:29 AM
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I get this all the time too. I was talking to someone and I mentioned my studies and they ask what high school I went to ?!! (I get asked that a lot lol) And they were genuinely flabbergasted at my age (early thirties), looked at me agog and were like “you look like a teenager...” It’s like my dude I’m early thirties not fucking 83. All I do is I don’t associate with males and I stay out of the sun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:56 AM
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It’s quality time if you are literally a pet cat/dog. I mean my dog really appreciates sitting next to me on the couch while I watch a movie. But he’s an animal. Men really just want to do their own thing while a woman sits on their lap like cat 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:49 AM
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Because anonymous sex for women isn’t appealing. I don’t know about other women but I need some kind of context/framework for sex to fit into, otherwise it’s just a mechanical act. I enjoy being titillated and seduced and the build up of getting to know someone and the excitement of “will he? Won’t he? When will he make a move? Should I tease him?” Etc. Moreover, most women don’t orgasm from casual encounters or stranger sex, they need to feel secure and their partner needs to have some sort of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:00 AM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 12:33 AM
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This sounds good in theory but males can’t read body language in the best of times let alone when they’re horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 12:30 AM
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Yup 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:30 AM
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✨Aqua Tofana✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:10 AM
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Wow you just know her bf is just laughing at her behind her back to his male friends like “hurr hurr I convinced Bethany I was just being body positive when I was really gaming other girls in front of her what an effing r-slur” “I know right bro does she have brain damage or something haw haw”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:36 PM
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Jinx beat me to it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:50 PM
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Fellas is it gay to cuddle your woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:49 PM
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Bdsm is cringe and for ugly people. Like imagine being so shit at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:46 PM
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How do you provide aftercare to someone after you’ve barbecued and eaten their ribs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:43 PM
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I find Trisha a fascinating character and I don’t hate her or Stan her. But holy shit was Jason Nash a disgusting creep. I couldn’t bare looking at him or hearing him talk just everything about him gave me the heebie jeebies. The fact that this middle aged dude is hanging out with kids in their twenties is just cringe on every level on top of being creepy. He’s like permanently having a slow motion mid life crisis and it’s embarrassing. I haven’t followed Trisha recently though so I didn’t know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:21 PM
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Press charges for statutory rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:45 PM
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I cannot relate to any of these people at all: it’s like they are all 14 yos who have just discovered sex and are trying to awkwardly navigate the emotional and social repercussions of their newly found sexuality. Like wtf is wrong with these adults 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:36 PM
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Ugh the term divorce rape. Men love to say women are so melodramatic and paranoid about rape but then they label every minor inconvenience as being raped. Lost a video game? Wahhhh my opponent raped me 🥺 have to pay child support? wahhhh divorce rape 😩 gf asks to be eaten out? Omg my gf is sexually coercing me and borderline raping me reddit pls help where is the nearest male domestic violence shelter holy shit wahhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:01 PM
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When men complain about women do they ever specify “not all women of course! Most women are lovely”? Cos I’ve never seen it. Men will shriek “AWALT” at the same time as lecturing women “not all men”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:48 PM
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Do you know about the subreddit the red pill? It’s basically pua stuff but extra sociopathic. Agree and amplify is a technique they use when women “shit test” them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:42 PM
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It’s better for men to be in a relationship, any relationship: there lives are improved by having a woman in it. It’s better for women to be single than with the wrong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 02:43 PM
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This is why you don’t argue with men. Take a leaf out of the red pill playbook and agree and amplify. If you’re accused of being a man hater just say yep sure am fuck off penis person 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:53 PM
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Omg yes! I have a friend that got engaged and I was so uncomfortable when she showed me the ring and she told me it was his grandma’s: it was a nice ring but it was tarnished, dull and looked like it had been sitting in a drawer for decades. Like wtf the dude couldn’t even take it to the jewelers to get cleaned, polished and whatnot before he jammed it on her pretty finger...I didn’t say anything cos I’m her friend and he does seem to really love her but still. It’s a shame because it was a nice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:27 AM
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This is the one time I actually kinda agree with you lol. Super masculine men want a tomboy in a hyper femme wrapper.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:18 PM
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Omg I remember watching this show and something about it was really niggling me, like why does this portrayal of family feel so different? Then I realized it’s a rare example of a healthy, loving heterosexual marriage...and usually if we get a healthy tv couple they are young, not veterans that have a teen child. So wow isn’t that sad to be so used to dysfunction that it’s a big thing to see healthy relationships lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:40 PM
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I feel you girl 😓 I’ve noticed that the girl sibling is often the family scapegoat and punching bag, even when parents aren’t narcs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:26 PM
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Parents don’t raise boys though. My brothers are literal embodiments of the 4chan tendies greentext meme: piss bottles everywhere, physical aggression, threatening to hit me, temper tantrums from gaming where they are yelling and screaming all night until 6am while my mom was like “awww poor booboo please calm down I have work in 3 hours I need to sleep.” There are times when I’ve almost called the cops because of this. Yet my mom loses her shit at me if I say I’m scared for my safety and acts l…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:20 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 01:02 PM
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Ummmm no? Tbh I really thought this was a male friendship thing: a guy genuinely likes a girl who isn’t “conventional” in some way (maybe she’s fat but he’s into that, or she’s trans, or she’s alt fashion, or whatever) but his friends roast the shit out of him to the point he dumps her or keeps her secret on the side. Like I honestly thought the above scenario was more common but then again I don’t associate with cunty women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 04:50 PM
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Nope, no second chances. The scenarios you describe make me teehee big time though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 05:54 AM
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I’ve gone on dates in short dresses after having not shaved for months...men usually don’t actually care. They still find me attractive. The way men act online about leg hair made me so anxious about going out in public in skirts/shorts without shaving, I honestly thought I’d get accosted by the leg beard inquisition and verbally degraded in public...so far that hasn’t happened lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:44 AM
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What the heck are these guys smoking lmao?? 😭😭😭 It’s all schizophrenic rambling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:42 PM
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I don’t like doing this. I don’t say I want to do something and then add a but. It teaches men to ignore soft no’s and interpret them as yeses. For example if he wants to meet me today I say “ I don’t wanna meet you today I wanna meet you on this other day”. I dunno maybe that’s savage but men seem to respond well to it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:26 AM
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Thank you! I will have a look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:19 PM
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I’m still holding out for the day I can have unexpected guests, I wanna reach that point so bad. But yeah I can’t relate to having people over in a pigsty...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:18 AM
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I think a lot of people don’t realize that a lot of the reasons for being childfree actually have nothing to do with children. Babies, toddler and children are fun, sweet and lovely and taking care of them is rewarding. But they’re not fun when you’re trapped with them in a house 24/7, day in day out, no free time or personal space to even pee or brush you let hair, let alone take a shower or bath, and you can’t even go outside because the the thought of packing diaper bags and wrangling kids in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:05 PM
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I actually think they would be...a lot of red pill parenting is about grooming their daughters to be a submissive sex slave for an alpha
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 11:43 AM
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Where did I say we all think the same?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 05:10 PM
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My mistake, you have a masculine writing voice and I’m suspicious of male larpers...it sounded like when males say things like “don’t have your hair that way, don’t wear so much makeup/wear more makeup, etc” because they assume I look a certain way for their consumption or to try and manipulate them into doing things for me. When all along I was doing what I wanted.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 05:08 PM
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Just smile a sweet smile that doesn’t reach your eyes and then leave without saying a word after paying your half 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:44 PM
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Mental illness and possibly drugs...and being inconsiderate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:29 PM
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Yeah I have a brother who refuses to shower too...he’s actually lost jobs because of his hygiene. He stank so bad that the whole house reeked of his stench...he’s better now but still...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:10 PM
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Oh soz I thought I was replying to another commenter. I agree with your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:02 PM
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Ahem as a woman For some reason I don’t think you are a woman lol
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 02:21 PM
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Bruh...you do realize vaginal lubrication is an involuntary defence mechanism to protect the tissue from forcible penetration. I don’t think you can get conclusive results about what women are attracted to from lubrication alone. Which I’m pretty sure is what that study ended up concluding. I roll my eyes every time that study is cherry picked from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:17 PM
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Fat men and fat women are completely different and not comparable though. Women are designed to carry excess fat to a certain extent so it’s a lot easier for women to wind up that way...fat on men on the other hand is a complete deviation from their natural form and for a man to end up fat he has to seriously neglect himself. Obvs nobody should be fat but for a man to be fat is pretty pathetic when they have all these biological advantages in metabolism and muscle building
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 01:59 PM
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I agree...I read between the lines and could tell this guy was a fuckwit who got so fat he snores, depriving sleep from his already tired wife, and does nothing but whinge for sex and makes messes. But such contempt and verbal abuse isn’t ok and sharing this here and acting like she did nothing wrong looks really bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:19 PM
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I’ve noticed that the women men rag on the most are often the ones they find most attractive... You can find out a lot about a guy’s type just by listening to his misogynist rants: ie “omg girls wear so much makeup I wish they would be more natural” means I’m uncontrollably attracted to women in heavy makeup and I wish I wasn’t. Or “no e-girls, they’re all sluts with thousands of simps” means e girls are hot and I’d love to be the guy to rub it in their orbiters faces that I’m the one that got h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:41 AM
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Omg I remember watching breaking bad as it came out and there was so much hype about it and how “clever” it was cos it made you root for the bad guys 🙄 like omg so cerebral. The trend of hating on Skyler was so cringe, like how she was sooooo evil and such a contwolling meanie how dare she try and stop her poor widdle husband cook meth 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:34 PM
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I can’t wait for this to be cross posted on PPD so they can have a month long tantrum cry-typing about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:52 AM
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They thought it would benefit all men though. They just didn’t factor in women’s preferences which were hithertoo hidden. They saw all men were able to get married no matter how ugly they were and erroneously concluded women must not care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 10:33 AM
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You shouldn’t ask them. That’s the kind of info a man will eagerly tell you if you say how much you love kids. Just sayin’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:49 AM
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TBH I’ve never understood the stereotype that branch swinging is a girl thing, just doesn’t gel with my observations. Sure, women do it but in my experience a lot of women will break up with their boyfriends with the specific intention of being single, whereas men break up to chase another girl and really can’t cope with being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 06:46 AM
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It’s so sad that basement-dwelling degenerate males are almost indistinguishable from pickmeishas...like it’s so cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:42 AM
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Yes, men are insanely clingy and possessive to the point I choose not to date for months because I just don’t feel it’s safe. And they’re only getting worse as they get older. I’ve had men be super sweet and lovey dovey then flipping out in anger at me for not wanting the relationship to progress as fast as they want: not even for rejecting them mind you, for stuff like I’m not comfortable with exclusivity after 3 weeks or I don’t want to discuss how many children we’re definitely going to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 02:12 AM
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So much for “safe, sane, consensual”. Please instituionalize these women. Also I wouldn’t be surprised she’s actually a male larper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:12 PM
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Ikr men would never stand for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:03 PM
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TIL that a 24 inch waist is “chubby”...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:13 AM
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I wanna punch him 👊🏻😾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:43 AM
2

I love your flair too teehee And yeah I too have experienced the former bullies tryna cuddle up and it’s so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:23 AM
4

Well duh. This has to be constantly explained to newbie FDSers: don’t wave your dirty laundry every where like a hot mess by finger snapping and saying NO Fuckboys.... The best way to attract a good man is to act like you’re used to being treated respectfully and wined and dined. Not entitled, but acting as if it’s not special treatment and that it’s so natural and normal that it never occurs to you that you could be treated badly. I don’t know why everyone on PPD has this cartoon version of FDS…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:18 AM
12

This story made me feel things that I can’t really put into words...I didn’t know what the ribbon meant but also knew exactly what it meant. It’s something that literally keeps us in one piece and hides the wounds we receive just from existing as women. It doesn’t mean we are “broken” necessarily, it’s just part of us. Which is why her son was allowed to touch it, because it wasn’t a thing you know? As soon as the kid saw dad make it into a thing and a big deal and pathologized it then something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:42 AM
23

So they look distinguished, intellectual and fancy or sth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:02 AM
5

I relate. I was bullied by girls and boys and then later almost exclusively by boys for being academically gifted, ugly, flat chested and skinny...guys are really offended by “unfuckble” women. Jokes on them I’m a hot girl now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:18 AM
145

I don’t believe in “tests” or playing games. I just think it’s childish and counterproductive. It’s better to go into the date with the presumption he’s gonna pay (with enough money to cover yourself just in case), but split it with a smile if he insists and then ghost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:55 AM
54

My mom marvelled to me about how much easier it was for her after splitting with my dad for this reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:33 AM
1

Yes! I would immediately assume he’s cheating on me. I’d also start questioning how he truly felt about me, as well as his wisdom if he chooses to marry someone he doesn’t trust. I mean I’d let him take the test but I’d probs just clock out of the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:55 PM
27

I’m sorry to laugh but that sounds like a Seinfeld episode: “hey Jerry you should try picking up girls at the Holocaust museum: the heightened emotions really make women more open to being approached” “omg george the Holocaust museum?! Really man...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:38 AM
17

Is this the dumb fox technique? I feel like the tongue emoji lulled him into a false sense of security
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:00 AM
8

In other words: Ahem your internalized misogyny is showing miss. You’re not an empowered woman unless you love sucking dick. You have a lot to learn about feminism young lady 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:21 AM
12

Bruh I bet she spent more than 500 making herself beautiful for his enjoyment (hair removal, makeup, jewelry, clothes, perfume etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:24 AM
7

This reminds me of a q and a shoe0nhead did with her degenerate bf at the time armored sceptic. There was a question about kids and armored sceptic joked about having to commit infanticide on their sons and that he’d only want girls because “we would make cute daughters”....🤢🤢😟😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:20 AM
1

Nah I’m not really a “bro”. It’s more like I’m aware of all their tricks and manipulations to get what they want and know how they think. I also know most men aren’t capable of being friends with women so keep all men at arms length (I’m not mean or anything I just never let them into my inner circle). I can read them too well and can figure out their weaknesses and things they’re trying to hide, I know when they’re bluffing and I know when they’re just doing macho posturing. Because of this I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:01 PM
2

Bruh I’m a girl aspie and it’s my pet peeve that we’re supposed to be the solution to the incel/mgtow problem. And they only think they want us, they really don’t. I understand men but they hate that I do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:30 PM
3

So then why in the original comic did they portray the woman being like “wait no” and begging?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:37 PM
17

The fact that the woman is this cartoon is above average in looks but calling herself average adds to the realism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:53 PM
5

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:51 PM
11

Reeeing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:53 PM
1

Look I know you’re only this heated up because the woman in the photo is white and slim and you desperately want her to be a fat poc to cope and cognitive dissonance is painful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:50 PM
1

I’ve been here for like months, this is my second purge and I barely even register its purge week tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:47 PM
2

My take is that men are supposed to have the advantage when it comes to wrinkles due to their thicker epidermis and more collagen, but despite this they actually end up looking older because of sun damage, destroying their skin barriers with harsh detergents and other bad habits. Also thicker skin is heavier which leads to sagging, and sagging is often what causes one to look old, as opposed to wrinkles. I know there’s this myth that men age better but I’ve never actually seen it. I’ve met a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:51 PM
3

Wait what? Are you saying incels aren’t supposed to be here and this isn’t an incel sub? Holy shit the mods must REALLY suck at their jobs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:32 PM
4

Haha sounds like you have a cuckold fetish but you’re in denial about it so you try to pass it off as just plain misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:26 PM
2

Holy shit the fucking degenerate modern women and their shuffles deck buying tasteful jewelry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:33 PM
3

I get it, you’re clearly this emotional and irrational precisely because you can’t put your dick near women if they respect themselves. That’s why you’re crying about strange women buying rings, it’s not cos it’s sad it’s cos it’s a personal attack against your PP 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:28 PM
1

So you’d prefer your genitals getting injured rather than get beat up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:00 PM
2

I read this in Regina George’s voice 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:54 PM
34

Ikr, I always thought it was baby’s first big girl jewelry...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:59 PM
128

Imagine being thrilled about a Pandora ring in the first place though 😬 That’s a present you get for your teeny bopper nieces first communion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:52 PM
31

Let him go, pretend to be all enthusiastic and supportive and then once he’s gone pull off the ghost of the century. Like keep in contact with him throughout his holiday but only if he contacts first (like a cool girl of course, no “why didn’t you call me” nonsense), so that when he comes back he’s completely blindsided 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:07 AM
2

I don’t see the hypocrisy? Asking someone out isn’t aggression??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:56 AM
1

Are they middle aged/elderly? I’m not looking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:43 AM
7

I’m pretty sure there was a study that suggested men are sexually attracted to traits of BPD.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 11:42 AM
28

I think it’s a little of both. They have a bad experience with a BPD/NPD out of sheer bad luck/coincidence, try red pill tricks but it ends up only working on the very women they were trying to avoid.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/21 05:28 PM
52

Ew couples that post home made porn of themselves always look like they’re extras in the hills have eyes. I downvoted you ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:23 PM
34

I love how this post was supposed to make a profound woman bad point but it’s just going sideways for poor OP because all the men are going “Unga Bunga but she is a average???!!!!!!” Hahahahaha 😹😹😹😹
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:41 AM
18

Where’s the lie? I’ve seen prettier women than this get called ugly and nit picked at by men... Post her on truerateme and she’d be a 4.9 and anything above 5.5 would get you banned for over inflation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:36 AM
0

I agree, trpers and what not should only date these women but please don’t complain about it to me and cry AWALT when she sets your car on fire/puts your dog down/fishes your condom out the trash
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:11 AM
8

I’m pretty sure that very thing used to be illegal. It was the tort of seduction and women could sue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:49 AM
13

I literally thought this was what all men did, that they used toilet paper after number 1 as well...I got laughed at by both boys and girls in elementary school for thinking this. Why don’t they though...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:14 PM
-4

Thank you! Why is this concept so hard to grasp around here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 06:09 AM
310

Are you serious? Wha- how...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:17 PM
1

No offence but literally everything. I don’t talk to guys on OLD unless they message me first something more creative than hey, then I talk with them nicely and pleasantly but disappear with no explanation if they neg, say anything sexual or ask me to come over to fuck/walk in the park/go for coffee. I ghost if they don’t ask me out within a certain time frame (but I DEFINITELY don’t warn them or say “ask me out within 2 days or get blocked cos I’m a motherfucking Queen” lmao) I ghost if they sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 12:44 PM
1

Why don’t you actually try to engage with her arguments instead of downvoting and being uncivil
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:55 AM
0

This study is completely useless as you didn’t behave like an FDSer, but as a straw man. You’ll never be able to get objective data if you can’t set aside personal bias. FDSers don’t talk about FDS and they don’t make lists of demands. They certainly don’t demand the men they date to read the handbook 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:41 AM
11

Legendary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:52 AM
12

Whereas actual girls in these semi insular religious communities are so woke to this. It’s glaringly obvious when a chronicly single middle aged dude starts sniffing around the church. The men will be polite to him but wary but the ladies will be snickering behind his back, that is if they actually can see him, since most young ladies can only see men they’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:46 PM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:42 PM
1

Channel allhis sexual energy into developing muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:54 AM
1

Thanks, I love yours too 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:37 PM
7

I have a similar life story and after a while I can only laugh and roll my eyes at males who tell me I have never known pain or sorrow. You can tell them in vivid detail all the horrors you’ve experienced but it’s only leading a horse to water eh?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 01:59 AM
21

N-count doesn’t matter to men in real life because if they like you enough they’ll make up in their head whatever number they want you to have. It’s the same way they don’t care about your personality or likes and dislikes and interests: if you’re pretty they just make that up for you and demand you cater to their imaginary personality they’ve manufactured for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 12:28 AM
13

Yeah I’ve noticed how weird it is they have no sense of taste, it’s not that it’s bad taste, it literally doesn’t exist. I learned from a young age that men aren’t visual when my dad insisted on picking out the colors when renovating the kitchen. In his infinite male wisdom he chose to pair warm orange wall tiles with pale cool yellow wall paint and dark cool grey linoleum and got butt hurt when my mom and preteen me roasted the shit out of him. He maintained he couldn’t see anything wrong with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:18 AM
25

Sometimes I forget this subreddit is supposed to be exredpill because it doesn’t seem any different to purplepill debate... Brings up something interesting about women’s experiences: wahhh what about these completely unrelated male experiences that have nothing to do with the ops point 😤
/r/ExRedPill21/12/20 10:44 PM
2

Does he take 45 minute “poops” and does turning off the wifi magically reduce his “pooping” time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:20 AM
5

Nope, it’s a dealbreaker...a lot of people think you can watch it without it having any negative effects but I’ve found it really changes men. Makes them stupid, gives them high time preference (can’t plan for the future or delay gratification), can’t get it up, makes them boring and unimaginative, erodes theory of mind in a creepy way, etc. Also it just destroys my attraction to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 07:17 AM
7

...and he went to the park to do this? Was he ok? Like mentally? Also TIL balloon porn is a thing I’m glad you escaped him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:22 PM
8

Balloon fetish what lmao? Like was he attracted to balloons or sth? Hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:45 PM
27

10 inch coke can cocks: a subreddit celebrating the very rare and special coke can dick. All dick is dick but there is nothing like a long coke can to satisfy a woman. Please only submit pictures of dicks next to cans for scale. We do not accept anything smaller: there is a separate sub for pathetic baby dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:03 PM
36

Exactly. Children learn to respect and care for their mother from the example their dad sets. They’ve probably never seen anyone do nice things for their mom so it wouldn’t occur to them. And gift giving is underestimated as a love language, it requires a lot of advanced EQ and interpersonal skills. To give a good gift you need to listen to the person carefully over a long period and note anything they say that hints at what they want, you need to know them well as a person, think about what kin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:13 AM
1

I think that’s true, now that I have a bmi 20-21 I get a lot of quality male attention. When I had a bmi of 13-15 I was invisible to most men, but here and there absolute freaks would practically stalk me (trpers, mgtows/ incels, dark triad types). Being a little thicc is really helpful for repelling weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:44 PM
75

Omg so you have to share custody with him? When he didn’t even want the kid? Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:04 PM
18

I love how men project: if you were truly free-spirited and open minded you wouldn’t throw tantrums over women not behaving exactly how you want in bed, you wouldn’t need the smelling salts when a woman has some shin stubble or god forbid a fur cooch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:35 PM
48

Men weren’t always like this, we are seeing mankind in their most degenerated state. Compare pictures of young men from the 30s, 40s and 50s with young men of today, it’s astounding. (Not saying everything was better then, just the grooming, presentation and health of men was better: hair styled, beard groomed, suits or sports jackets in public always). My mom and grandmas often remark to me “what’s with all the bald and fat men now, why are teenagers getting receding hairlines, I barely remembe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:06 PM
53

So true, I had a massive glow up in the last few years and have been inundated with love bombing and all sorts of male tomfoolery. Whereas before I would maybe get one lovebomber every few years. FDS is now essential for me...this guy that wrote the article was so close to getting it when he said pretty women don’t need strategies they need a bat to fend off suitors: like omg FDS IS PRECISELY THAT BAT HOLY SHIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:30 PM
187

Honestly men pretend to cry about misandry but secretly love it: thinking men are so effing intellectually challenged that they need to be walked through things even toddlers can grasp is the most man hating shit I’ve ever come across. I respect men too much to believe they need to be told that it’s hurtful to when they do hurtful things. I always assume they know what they’re doing, because men are capable and responsible 🙃 But of course they love it when they’re treated like they have brain da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:52 PM
10

I’ve never been pumped and dumped but I’ve had men invest YEARS into me just to attempt to pump and dump me. They only stop if I tell them I’m a virgin so I’ll get incredibly clingy and will probably self destruct if they pump and dump, or I block them on everything and ignore them for 3 years minimum. It’s crazy the lengths they’ll go to. And I’m not someone who projected an image of being a promiscuous woman: I never used to dye my hair until recently, wore minimal makeup, never showed cleavag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:53 PM
3

I kind of know what you mean. I agree that men should not be allowed to be gynos but it doesn’t mean that there are excellent and empathetic ones, it’s more that the risk of creepiness is too great. I’ve found that sometimes men can be more empathetic/sympathetic when it comes to dysmenorrhea because they don’t have direct experience of it, so they have no choice but to take you at complete face value and believe that it is severe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:09 PM
21

My parents wouldn’t let me watch Home Alone because of the violence. I eventually did anyway and I found it disturbing partly because it plays on one of the biggest fears children have (being forgotten/left behind by parents) but also the level of physical sadism shown and the weird dissonance between it being marketed as a funny, feel good family friendly film and the fact it is actually really disturbing. I agree that the little kid is likely on a psychopath trajectory. It’s just a demented fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:58 AM
1

Haha if you want to see a dumpster fire look at catholicdating. It’s basically all redpill/inc3l content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:02 AM
5

I think it’s insecurity and immaturity. The bullying that virgin/inexperienced girls receive from non virgin girls/women can be super vicious. But I think it’s because it’s the easiest way to feel superior or better about yourself, I’ve noticed the girls who virgin shamed the most didn’t have anything else to be proud of, or felt they didn’t. Also there’s a narrative amongst teen girls that if you don’t “put out” as fast as possible no guy will have you. So if they see a girl who doesn’t put out…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:43 AM
1

I think we are going to see a complete reversal of gender roles. More women are going to fill up the roles in society that men have abandoned: breadwinner, provider, etc. Men are going to disappear even more into virtual lives with porn, video games, and podcast/YouTuber fandoms for parasocial relationships. Heterosexual relationships are going to be a woman financially providing and performing homemaker duties for unemployed men. It will probably be seen as a status symbol or flex for other wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:00 AM
1

I don’t believe in clairvoyants soz. I’m a minimalist anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 09:44 AM
18

I’ve come to the conclusion men aren’t capable of logic or objectivity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:55 AM
73

Umm even women into rough sex/kink don’t usually use such violent and angry language for sex...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:33 AM
1

I don’t want to change men’s lifestyle if he’s perfectly happy eating off paper plates with nothing but a deck chair and tv. Wouldn’t wanna upset his lifestyle with selfish housework habits hahaha. It’s win-win, I don’t see how I’m contributing to unhappiness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:21 AM
1

I don’t wanna force men to change the way they live, I just avoid them? So do most other women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 12:09 AM
3

It was just me they targeted. I lookmaxxed lol: I stopped being dangerously underweight and ended up going from a d cup to G cup, grew out my ugly pixie cut, started wearing makeup, stopped dressing like a 10yo boy Men are nice in that they try to befriend me, buy me drinks, invite me to hang out etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 03:25 PM
7

It’s more from how boys treated me in school, they bullied me for everything so I find being naked/vulnerable with the opposite sex nerve-wracking. Men are now very kind to me in real life but it’s hard to get over the conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 01:59 PM
8

I never said a man has to wait if he doesn’t want to? I agree with you. By your own definition you are straw manning me... “Men aren’t open to dating a virgin because virgins usually need more time before they are comfortable having sex” “So you think men should be forced to wait for a virgin ?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 09:01 AM
10

It’s not a straw man question. Plenty of men say they are open to dating a virgin but are definitely not willing to wait more than a specific timeframe. You’re the one projecting your personal issues from someone you dated in the past. I literally thought there were comments deleted or something because your replies made no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 08:25 AM
2

How did you prove me wrong? I thought it was clear that was what I was originally talking about: did you assume when I meant I was comparing a single woman living alone vs a man living alone when I brought up unequal domestic duties? That’s pretty bad faith. If the family unit would completely change the argument you are acknowledging that you’re anecdotal evidence is a non-sequiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 07:29 AM
2

Handmake a ps5 with paper. I can only conclude his wishlist is just the shapes he wants her to draw/cut out for him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:36 AM
1

You ignored that it’s not possible for a family to do 30 mins per day. Anecdotal evidence doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 05:17 AM
1

I’m talking about families: 30 mins a day is impossible. Besides, is inefficiency selfishness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 04:57 AM
1

That’s not what he’s said. I asked if it was selfish and he conceded it wasn’t selfish so debate over. I guarantee if you only do 30 mins per person of housework per day you are living in a pigsty and not eating healthy.I guess in your fantasy bathrooms never have to be cleaned and nothing ever needs to be dusted, dishes can be left out for hours attracting roaches? The fridge, oven, microwave, stove, counter tops etc never needs to be cleaned either? Because all that is just wanting a pristine …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 04:23 AM
45

You don’t even have to say that it’s evil or even judge it in anyway lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:47 PM
1

Oh ok if most men are happy living in a garage by themselves then “80/20” doesn’t matter and neither does men’s difficulties in the dating market since they are happy either way. I’m glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:07 PM
2

No, you moved the goalposts. You said women are selfish, I countered that with the fact they do men’s chores for them (opposite of selfish). You said it’s their “housewife fantasy” to do chores for men to try and refute that. Either the average woman isn’t selfish or their housework is somehow selfish. You just eliminated the possibility that women’s housework is motivated by selfishness (you just said “no” to it). Which means logically I have to conclude you concede the average woman is selfles…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:52 PM
2

Then why do they stop wanting to live that minimalist life when living with a woman? Why are men upset when a woman only does her own laundry and cooks only for herself while living with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:38 PM
1

What I’m getting at is you said women are selfish, but they do more housework than men out of selflessness because they don’t want their children to live on ramen and you’re arguing that wanting to feed children nutritious food is motivated by selfishness. Which is why men should be perfectly happy if she cooks for herself and her children only but doesnt let him have any and he can fend for himself. Because no husband would pitch a fit over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:29 PM
1

So you would be fine with a “selfless” woman who does no housework to a selfish woman who does housework? Since doing housework for other people isn’t selfless. I doubt you spend half an hour a week cooking: instant ramen isn’t cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:12 PM
3

You’re implying household chores are a luxury and not something that NEEDS to be done. I guess men would never do laundry or cook or buy groceries or empty the trash even when living by themselves because it’s unnecessary? In a marriage if a woman stopped doing his laundry for him and stopped feeding him he wouldn’t notice in your reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 03:42 PM
1

Ok how is the average man a champion of women’s issues? Your baseless claim that the average woman is selfish does not reflect reality when the average woman in a relationship works full time while also doing at least 80% of the housework plus childrearing. (Which is what my original argument was about before m*n started reeing at me about separate issues that had nothing to do with the topic.) You can’t just make an assertion without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 03:29 PM
4

Hahahahaha ah yes trpers are such champions of gender equality they don’t even need to show it! It’s just evidenced by their actions: which are?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 03:15 PM
6

Most women HAVE to work. It’s almost impossible to support a family on one income or just pay a mortgage. Also we are gold digging sluts if we want a man to financially support us. If women all wanted to be SAHMS the so called 80/20 rule would be even worse, as only a minority of men are rich enough to support a SAHM. Dating is difficult for men because they’ve flooded the market with dick, they are so thirsty women have to be selective. Female selective ness is fuelled by male thirst. Maybe men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 02:38 PM
11

Daaaaamn she’s so pretty wth 🥺 She should have just taken her fine ass out and got a new man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:26 PM
711

I love how if you’re a woman but only repeat verbatim what men have already said, suddenly it’s misandry lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:20 PM
21

There’s an army of women who are on board with mra shit in good faith, and will defend men to their last breath. It makes sense as women are proven to have higher empathy. Heck, even feminists maintain that you’re not a real feminist unless you campaign for men’s rights too. When have mras/mgtow/trpers returned that favor? Men are convinced women “live life on easy mode” and any evidence to the contrary is dismissed as “anecdotal”, even if thousands of women have the same anecdote, and these ane…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 01:17 PM
5

This is so hypocritical, if it was a man posting who found out his gf did anal once they’d be singing a different tune
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:03 PM
1

Ew I couldn’t imagine anything more unsexy, negotiating sex like it’s an important business contract. I think this is what happens when men’s only experience is talking to chatbots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:19 AM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 04:25 PM
2

ipus complex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 02:10 PM
48

This is why men are against getting with a virgin woman, they project and assume she’ll behave like this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:50 PM
1

Yeah...and your post got removed lmao what a circlejerk this sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:58 AM
0

The responses are interesting. A man validates women’s experiences and everyone is crying for mods to remove the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:19 AM
20

No offence but you could have expressed all that using only two letters: ew 😂 I don’t like wasting letters on men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:36 AM
169

Omg read the room, amoeba brain. I swear men’s low EQ should be considered a form of mental disability, the same way low iq is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:22 PM
17

I had a dad that would do these kind of things. My mom was always trying to pick up the pieces and solve the problems he caused and I can tell you that you that it doesn’t actually protect kids from feeling rejected. If kids see that if they ask their dad for something and he says “yeah yeah I’ll do it” but then never does it until mom steps up to actually do it, the result is eventually the same. Kids just learn not to bother the dad or trust him or depend on him in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:33 PM
37

I get that, but it’s actually the father that’s punishing in his own child as a sick power play to control the mother. Isn’t it kind of fucked up that the dad can do whatever he wants, use his own child as a pawn in his manipulations, neglect them and fuck up but all the blame still falls on the mother? That she’s the one that somehow responsible? This is how husbands and fathers want to be treated anyway, they say so themselves: they want to be trusted and treated like they’re competent. I’m no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:20 AM
3

Men are not friends. I don’t know why women still have this delusion that men are capable of platonic relationships with the opposite sex. Just because we are doesn’t mean they are too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:07 AM
8

I can just tell this guy is “very deeply religious”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:05 AM
79

This sounds harsh but let him pack and just bring only what he packed. When the kid realizes she has no pjs or toothbrush be like “oh I’m sure he brought those things sweetie, daddy could never forget something so important or mess up so badly, he’s not that incompetent to do something so stupid, I’m sure he has them somewhere in a different bag” then smile sweetly at him and be like “don’t you honey? Why don’t you go get them”. Then wait. Either he remedies the situation: having to go out unexp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:58 AM
3

Omg long conversations into the early hours of the morning with granny or aunties is the best 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:47 AM
3

Wow you look good for your age, especially the no makeup pic. I don’t know what planet males are on either: my mom is in her sixties and has been batting away men left and right for decades. If she wanted she could be remarried within a year. Lol at the men trying to neg you with “wow this proves how desperate men are”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 03:21 AM
-1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:36 PM
-1

You would have a point if you were correct: it’s the other way round.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:33 PM
11

Just transition if you think women have it so good. Boom problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 03:01 PM
120

Yes I hate how little girls are forced to act like middle aged Victorian ladies: no running, no jumping, no playing, just pretend to sip tea quietly with barbie. We aren’t even allowed to be children. I remember being told (as pretty much a toddler) that I wasn’t ladylike, no shit I’m a little girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:44 PM
17

Omg do you make beer with it? Cos that sounds amazing, like a really malty, dark, vanilla beer 😍🍺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:38 PM
1

No I’d rather you type it all out again, I don’t understand how you prove my wrong by just making a claim? What is your evidence besides a book that failed peer review
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:37 AM
7

Even religious movements and nofap aren’t really adequate. Like what’s the point of just quitting porn when you still retain all the damaging messages? People really need to identify what messages they learned from porn, how it effects their interactions and treatment of women, how it effects their sexuality and behavior, etc. So few men do that work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:48 AM
1

I don’t understand how that proves me wrong? Can you explain it more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:43 AM
1

How did you prove me wrong, I think you need to explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 09:48 PM
71

Wait really? This is terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:40 PM
2

I think men would just opt out of society even more than they already do. They’ll either just k*ll themselves or stay unemployed watching porn and playing video games in their mom’s house. They’ll literally just be stepping aside for women, since they won’t work so all prestigious and powerful jobs will go to women. I really don’t think they’ll go on killing sprees en masse, it’ll happen here and there but the majority won’t even have the motivation to get out of their gaming chairs. Men can’t d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:36 PM
27

This is why I think sex education needs to include porn literacy. Like it needs to be shown and deconstructed and analyzed in the classroom like any other piece of media. But I just know that it’s going to go badly somehow but I don’t see any other solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:23 PM
16

Ikr. Nothing gives me such a sense of visceral sadness, horror and hopelessness as porn. No wonder people exist who think love is just brain chemicals when we live in the same world that mass produces porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:18 PM
1

Hahaha wow people still think Sex at Dawn is credible lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 08:10 PM
45

The first time I saw it, I just went on the front page of pornhub or sth and I immediately clicked out cos I was so shocked at the thumbnails showing HD close ups of jackhammering. It sounds dumb typing this out but I was traumatized... I remember thinking “if this is what sex is like then I don’t want to do it.” I was really scared of men and getting a boyfriend because I thought the entire time he’d be trying to do violent rough porn style sex on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:04 PM
8

Hahahahahhaha at men need to feel safe and comfortable during sex oh my lawd I’m laughing out loud hahahahahahahhahahhahahhh wow yes the poor widdle man is the one that feels unsafe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:55 PM
62

Does anyone remember makeapp and how obsessed men got with it? They were all like “omg women are all reeing and having mental breakdowns into their Ben and Jerry’s because they KNOW the jig is up and everyone can see through their elaborate rouse”. (Makeapp was an app that purported to remove makeup from photos). Cos I used it and it was sooo inaccurate but it made me realize that men actually have no idea what no makeup looks like or even what makeup looks like to the point it’s almost an intel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:51 PM
11

Turn your phone off when he goes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:49 PM
117

When I was a teen I literally thought that porn would be like those steamy love and make out scenes in movies but like an uncut version. Like I thought there would be onscreen chemistry, caressing and foreplay like in movies but the scene is just longer. Did anyone else think this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:48 PM
16

That’s what annoyed me about the show Queens Gambit. I was like this is breaking my suspension of disbelief! Where are all the mantrums and table flips?!!! I was looking forward to her first chess tournament descending into complete chaos, chairs and tables flying, male primal screaming, the works. I was disappointed 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:36 PM
11

Ohhhhhhh the sibling thing! I’m filing that away to use, I never thought about that. It’s actually genius, and I don’t know why I never thought of it! so many men wouldn’t hesitate to say “yeah I used to try out pro wrestling moves on my 18 month old brother, cracked his head opened once, it was hilarious”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:22 PM
3

I’m sorry if you were sexually abused at 12-13 (and I don’t mean that in a snarky way). Yes girls grow breasts and pubic hair at around that age and are capable of conceiving, but their skeletons are no where near developed enough. Their pelvises aren’t wide enough to give birth, nor do they have the bone density and vitamin stores to grow the babies skeletons without majorly fucking up their teeth or getting early osteoporosis. Moreover pregnancy is a hormone war between fetus and mother, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 02:43 PM
30

I remember lecturers at college talking about how if women went to the police about their husbands beating them the police would TELL their husbands then send them back home and were surprised that they got beat again. This really shocked me but I’m pretty sure that still happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:06 PM
1

What if all her male tribe members would castrate and kill you for it? Ancient peoples were tribal so you’d think they wouldn’t take kindly to anti social behavior like wanton impregnating. Especially since women produced 70% of their food, they couldn’t afford a gatherer dying at 14 birthing another baby that would just be another mouth to feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 01:57 PM
1

No such thing as birth control? Tell that to ancient romans and Greeks who harvested silphium to extinction and ancient Egyptians and Mesopotamians with their acacia pessaries
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 01:54 PM
3

But teenage girls haven’t reached sexual maturity yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 01:45 PM
8

They are literally one step away from living the breaking mom dream by running away and starting a mommune
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:40 PM
18

I think it’s the young girl’s fault. But technically I think the point of this story is that every character is blameworthy,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:10 PM
1

Thanks for proving my point lmao. What mental health resources do women have access to that males don’t? Is there a law that says males can’t go to therapists? All I ever hear about is male suicide, I hear more about “male suicide” than real suicide. And what statistics? People attempt suicide at a much higher rate than males do and it’s rising, the only reason that it seems like it’s a huge problem is because males use more violent means because they are more violent in general and are more lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 10:37 AM
34

He said “he would never say anything so cruel to me” *Regina George voice”: so you agree, you think you’re really cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:53 AM
16

“Sex is his stress relief”...she’s literally a chew toy for a vicious dog, Jesus Christ we need a second coming or some fire and brimstone sodom and Gomorrah style. It’s so sad, you can really tell she totally thinks she has no choice. Like it hasn’t occurred to her she doesn’t have to do this and can find a real man who’d make love to her properly 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:35 AM
16

Do the same thing back to him lmao. If he’s complaining about his mother in law to someone else, butt into his conversation and tell him his mil wouldn’t do that, he’s probably misremembering his conversation with her, etc. Do this especially if you don’t know his mother in law lmao. Disclaimer: this is probably bad advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:02 AM
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It’s plated up nicely and has colors other than brown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:54 PM
1

If that’s true and women get so much sympathy and support how come me and all my friends never received any? How come my mother, aunts, grandma never had any help and were expected to suffer in silence through extreme mental illness (depression, persistent suicidal ideation etc)? How come when they asked for support they were all dismissed? Yet I’ve seen nothing but male friends and family get coddled and their booboos kissed by society. Honestly I feel like the males here are suffering from sch…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 11:52 PM
2

Bruh. She wanted to give you her number you numpty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 04:18 PM
100

Maybe I’m sheltered af but if someone tells me they have a body count im gonna assume they’re a serial killer or a hitman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:15 PM
11

I don’t want to hate on this woman anymore than she hates herself so I’m going to say something nice. Her shoes are adorable, like so cute. I had the EXACT same pair but in black but the buckle broke on one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:28 PM
16

Ohhh I remember watching an old Trisha paytas video (don’t judge me lol) and she was spilling so much tea on Tyra. I think she was a guest or something on tyras talk show and she said Tyra was weird af. Apparently she had two personalities, when filming she’d be all bubbly and nice but during the ad breaks on her show she’d power down like a robot and refused to interact with anyone, she’d just sit there expressionless and motionless until she was on the air again and she’d be back to normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:07 PM
15

Physically present but emotionally absent father is worse than physically absent by a long shot. Not even mentioning the damage it does to a child from having someone choose every day that tv/golf/video games are more important than you, it models incredibly damaging relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 10:05 PM
0

??? Did I say women harbor all the DNA from every man they’ve ever slept with? Because I don’t think I did...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:56 PM
15

That’s the mark of a winner. He’s probably earning millions as a professional e sports star now amirite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:50 PM
3

The way that they use your fears and dreams against you...is it even safe to let men get to know you? I already tell male acquaintances the wrong love language, personality type and have fake insecurities and backstory lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:01 PM
25

You don’t understand he was in the middle of extremely important ranked games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:53 PM
33

I’ve noticed that a big part of the hostility pickmes have towards non pick me women is the fact that we make them feel like absolute bottom of the totem pole. Like imagine you put so much effort in your pickme dance, every waking moment is male pandering, yet there are women who don’t even “try” and get more male validation than you ever could. It makes them angry to have to consider that all their effort meant actually nothing and that they could have been having fun and living a carefree life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:50 AM
5

Gestating a son causes permanent physiological changes in a woman’s brain as well as her DNA. Also male birthing male babies is harder, more traumatic and leads to more complications as they are larger, so they are probably trauma bonded to their sons as well. There has to be something more than trauma binding though, because little girls are guilted their whole lives if their mothers had a difficult birth, but sons are protected fro that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:44 AM
10

Your second paragraph is so profoundly true omg 😭 I can’t imagine a man unironically bitching about not getting cuddled enough as a baby holy shit that is literally a satirical super villain’s origin story, not something for real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:30 AM
50

It’s because they don’t wash their hands. The only time their hands get washed is in the shower, so once every three days or so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:56 PM
44

Hmmm in my experience they had the same kind of family dynamic as I did and a lot of other millennials had: both parents working full time but mother also doing 100% of the housework/child rearing like a SAHM, and father doing nothing except work and completely checked out from family life and never contributing in any other way. Or their moms were just SAHMs. Except they view the father as the victim in this dynamic for some reason but also have a lot of contempt for him. They view him as some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:46 PM
10

Wait is she spending a small fortune on assisted reproduction treatments with a man that isn’t her husband?!? That can’t clean up after himself? I’m old fashioned af but can understand that children out of wedlock happen, but doing it so purposefully and intentionally and with so much effort is just wild....... I don’t know but doing IVF or whatever she’s doing with some guy that won’t even give her a shut up ring is just so...sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:29 PM
1

Aww thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:10 PM
31

The whole “withholding” thing just floors me. It’s like they think having sex is something owed to them and that they own women’s pussies. And it LITERALLY IS ENTITLED as fuck, the definition of withholding is not being given something that you are entitled to. An employer can withhold a check, because their employee is entitled to it, a parent can withhold love and affection from their baby, because the baby is entitled to it. A teacher on the other hand, cannot withhold love and affection from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:23 AM
75

Wait a second... the fact you could understand COLLEGE GUYS having bad hygiene because they are still learning...that...I...it really goes to show how low the bar has sunk for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:14 AM
71

Humor like this is an act of aggression, dominance and humiliation. What men think of as humor is always some form of malice. He doesn’t care that his wife doesn’t think it’s funny, that’s the whole point, she’s not supposed to find it funny she’s meant to be angry and upset. Really makes you think why would men like making their wives angry and upset? Could it be men don’t love their wives?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:02 AM
2

You’re right, because men being into pubescent/prepubescent girls is just heterosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:13 AM
4

I was 13-14. It was a drunk family friend who would show up literally everyday uninvited and often crashed on our couch. His behavior was a running joke in our family but my parents were doormats could never put their foot down and tell him to stop coming over uninvited or overstating his welcome. He would often “accidentally” on purpose walk in on me in my bedroom, the shower, etc, and would leer at me and was even bold enough to ask me pervy questions like “do you know what blowjobs are?” in f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:07 AM
1

That’s why it’s never happened to me, who are you talking to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:12 AM
90

Oh my God. This is me. Why is something so specific such a universal female experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:39 AM
1

Bruh...have you heard of the phenomena of murder, kidnapping, sexual assault, human trafficking, physical assault, and stalking? Not to mention being lied to and pumped and dumped, being emotionally abused so badly you think asking to not be hit is being picky lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:00 AM
19

If you think men on average look better than women without makeup it’s only because makeup has inflated the minimum threshold of attractiveness on women. Women wear no make up makeup looks so when they actually don’t wear any they look comparatively worse. Have you ever spent a lot of time with women who never wear makeup? Have you noticed that they doesn’t seem to “need” it and look pretty, and always get so many comments on how lucky they are that they don’t need to wear makeup? It’s because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:46 AM
2

I’ve heard good things about Schitts Creek but haven’t got round to watching it yet, is it good?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:52 PM
2

Yasssssssss 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:50 PM
4

Omg I love Newt Scamander! I didn’t know he was so criticized...how lame. Just because he doesn’t fulfill the male power fantasy of giant muscles doesn’t mean he’s not manly. Like it is possible to be sweet and caring while possessing male genitalia 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:50 PM
105

Not to derail but I swear this pickmeisha shit is a millennial woman quirk. (Not that women of other generations aren’t: they can be in different ways.) I’m talking about letting men string you along for decades, prostrating themselves and kissing male feet, begging for attention, working your ass off to fund his porn and gaming lifestyle, letting him choke you, and the whole crabs in a bucket mentality that if you want more than a curb stomping from a dude your an evil conniving gold digger. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:33 AM
143

I was having a conversation with a male family member where we were trying to come up with positive examples of masculinity in media, and we couldn’t come up with any besides Gomez Addams, and that was after putting our heads together and wracking our brains. Isn’t that sad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:15 AM
5

It’s been TWENTY TWO years since she passed away. Jesus Christ this guy needs intensive therapy...when I was reading this I assumed it happened like 3-5 years ago and was blown away at two fucking decades. Get some help dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:02 AM
40

The whole “spit or swallow” thing is just a way to trick women into thinking they have a choice in the matter: by presenting those as the only two options it makes it seem like finishing in your mouth is a given and non-negotiable. It stops women considering that they don’t even have to have cum in their mouth in the first place. It’s like when parents ask their kids “do u wanna bath before or after dinner?” The kid is gonna get a bath either way, framing it that way makes the kid think it’s in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:57 AM
7

Same, I’ve only seen one. I wish it was my parents but no, their marriage is like everything that be wrong in a marriage went wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:26 AM
1

This is a dumb question, but what exactly is jackhammering? Like do they take their entire dick out and put it back in multiple times or do they almost take it out but leave the tip in and then immediately go balls deep? Cos both of those sound kinda painful/uncomfortable. Isn’t sex meant to be he moves in and out by like an inch? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:05 AM
75

Pedophiles specifically target single moms for access to their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:31 PM
7

Just agree with them when they say they’re an asshole and thank them when they say they won’t talk anymore...it really shocks them and they usually just go quiet and leave you alone. Because usually when they do pull that crap (boohoo I’m an asshole) the other person starts reassuring them and blowing smoke up their ass about what a great guy they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:54 PM
20

They interested in baking because roosh v said baking is manly because it’s chemistry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:00 AM
26

On exfds they unironically say that not letting men comment is fASciSm I’m crying 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:59 AM
5

Every older guy that thirsted after me when I was teen early twenties was a complete dumpster fire man child borderline incel who clearly swallowed the narrative that the script flips when women hit 30 and that hitherto ignored men will be swimming in barely legal pussy when they’re 30. Even as a dumbass naive sheltered immature 19 yo I saw that these dudes were lame af and didn’t fuck them...the wall is a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:11 PM
1

Tell them: “omg stop speaking about your own mother like that”, or “oh yeah? Like what your mom does online?” it’s how a man would respond to being antagonised that way. Only if there’s witnesses around though and you can be sure he can’t follow you 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:06 PM
248

To redpill and mgtow lurkers: this is why we just wait at the finish line to get with the winners 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:39 PM
20

I had a pickmeisha sex podcaster follow me minutes after I posted a reply to a comment about cringe sex podcasts lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:59 AM
12

I think it’s strongly biological and then socialization augments and cements those differences. I’m not a scientist but we have a chromosomal advantage by having two X chromosomes. Apparently only one X chromosome is switched on at any time but it’s more like the equivalent of one X chromosome, so if one chromosome has more favorable dna that part will be “on”, but if that same chromosome has defects in another section that part will be switched off and the same part in the other chromosome will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:51 AM
11

I feel like this sub is too bigoted and close minded on BDSM relationships. I have a radically kinky proposal that might shock you and change your minds about BDSM: how bout we don’t call it aftercare and it’s not preceded by violent abuse and rape, he just pampers you all the time? So it’s just constant “care”. That’s my kink: I’m into care and I want to be in a 24/7 caring relationship based on dynamic 😎 so don’t you dare kinkshame me or call me a kinkmeisha you bigots 😤😤😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:19 PM
27

Holy shit, I unironically believe this. I’m going to add your argument to my ad hoc “All Men Are Gay as Fuck” dissertation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:02 PM
29

I know FDS is pro snooping but I’m anti snooping: just bail the first time your gut tells you he’s up to something 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:56 PM
10

That facial expression makes me want to fold into myself until I disappear lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:51 PM
25

That’s genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:48 PM
2

Omg 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:06 PM
18

I laughed out loud at that part 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:05 PM
32

Being a loving mom and loving your children isn’t being a pickme wtf, that’s literally the opposite. I agree that most men are just as capable as women at childcare and are pretending to be incompetent, the issue is they are NOT WILLING and just don’t love and invest in their babies the way women do. I’m kinda partial to your arguments but you don’t need to insult women for wanting to mother their children. I WHOLEHEARTEDLY agree that dad’s and single dads need to be dadshamed and shat on with e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:07 PM
12

Do men have no agency when it comes to their own money or something? I’ve never asked or demanded anything from men but they pay for my stuff and buy me shit of their own accord and I let them. Is that using? The yeah I guess I do and I don’t feel bad about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 01:14 PM
10

Ugh are they boomers? I feel this is par for the course for that generation. It’s why you never give men what they want...it’s a just giant shit test: he’ll hate you for it but will let you do it if it’s easy and benefits him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:52 AM
12

Wow I’ve only ever had the lazy male who does nothing but takes all the credit. I have worked with a single mom but she was on the ball and super motivated. Every woman I’ve worked with has been great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:48 AM
9

Child me was the biggest door mat people pleaser that had it ground into her that “ignoring the bullies and not being a tattle tale makes them stop, standing up for yourself will just encourage them” (holy shit my dad must have hated me lmao) So I’d just mutely take years of bullying in the hopes that maybe it would stop one day (it didn’t lol). Even at home I wasn’t allowed to display any hint of emotion, positive or negative: reading alone in my room? Parents would accuse me of having a sulk a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:05 AM
6

Ikr, I read this post and was just like womp womp 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:35 AM
22

If you think about it why would he appreciate her for completely humiliating him? He’s a scumbag for letting her do is degree, cheating on her being an abusive pos but it’s not surprising (definitely not justified though): being a grown man and getting helicopter-mothered by a woman is emasculating and breeds resentment and hatred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:04 AM
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This is so common, I swear to God. It’s ridiculous that universities don’t make a big thing about it and acknowledge it as a problem: that so many male students bully their gfs into doing their assignments. It’s plagiarism and serious academic misconduct. Honestly universities should be side eyeing male students in relationships and automatically comparing their essays to their gfs, but no they don’t wanna do that cos they know they’ll find out that men’s entire academic body of work is pickmeis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:56 AM
11

The fact that leaving children with the wrong gendered parent is seen as a fate worse than death and borderline child abuse/neglect says a lot about our societal expectation and view of male parents lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:09 PM
57

I sort of agree to a point. Apparently the only way to get men to actually pull their weight in parenting is to completely drop the rope and let them figure it out. For example, with a new baby you need to just disappear and leave the baby with him: like go to McDonald’s and play candy crush or read a book for a few hours with your phone on airplane mode. Gradually you tell him sometimes he won’t even have a warning, and start staying out for longer. It’s a good litmus test: if you feel it’s uns…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:54 PM
11

aNytHinG oVer 110lb iS fAt 😡😡😡😡 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:40 PM
5

It’s easy and low effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:43 PM
8

Omg same...are you me? I think it is a boomer thing. Neither of my parents could cook and every dinner was either frozen meals or boiling vegetables until they disintegrated with pasta, ketchup and ground meat, or jar sauce with ground meat and pasta. To be fair on my mother though, she DID know how to cook, it’s just that she was unable. She worked full time and often night shifts, on top of six kids under 10, on top of 100% of the housework. She was barely keeping her head above water so would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:39 PM
65

The most hilarious pm I ever got was a middle aged mgtow mansplaining that it’s not white men fetishizing Asian women, see it’s actually the Asian women who fetishize white men 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:07 PM
16

Did Milo Yiannopoulos write this? Cos I read it in his voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:29 AM
10

BPD is pretty much the modern version of hysteria. Women just get slapped with that label for displaying symptoms that could be better explained by literally anything else...I’m autistic and talked to so many mental health specialists about social anxiety, sensory issues, no social skills, inability to fit in, obsessive interests, can’t read people, and they just told me it’s probably BPD lol. Didn’t even look at a diagnostic manual or assess me for it in anyway. Just pulled it out of their ass.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:41 AM
22

Also his sister and college friends making fun of her posts is disgusting 😡 like get a life pickmeishas 🙄 the fact they had the audacity to do that in front of her husband just shows he’d already set that precedent by disrespecting her. Also he’s totally trying to fuck then by spinning the sob story of “my ugly, cringy, neurotic wife makes pp sad”. But I’d also not be surprised that this is written by a teenage boy... his preoccupation with perfectly normal things being cringe is so gen z. Eithe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:22 AM
161

You also don’t need to touch a woman’s lower back to “guide her”, like we’ll walk into walls without you there lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:55 PM
2

Omg can you make this into a miniseries or anti-romcom movie 🍿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:47 PM
43

Wow even though his views are hypocritical and disgusting I think everyone is missing something. Like trust a man to have the ill-breeding and lack of social intelligence to bring up ONLYFANS AND PORN amongst a mixed company dinner party in front of his mother and other people’s mothers. I would die of cringe if I were there like holy shit men are ✨fucking embarrassing✨ Nobody called him out because they probably just didn’t want to encourage or participate in conversation topics like wanking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:36 PM
21

Lmao, I’d roast the shit out of him for that as well 💀 Also why is it always the “shy” “awkward” “meek and mild” dudes who piss themselves when a woman meets their eye, that are the ones with the intense misogyny and deranged fetishes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:26 PM
3

This sounds crazy but men actually ENJOY being angry, like getting worked up in a rage is a pleasurable feeling to them. So many men have told me this. It’s to do with testosterone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:07 AM
11

Wow this literally nightmare fuel for me. I want children but I’ll be damned if this is my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:58 AM
9

Its my face when there’s a spider in the sink/bathtub 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:48 AM
5

I didn’t read this but everyone here needs to go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:35 PM
92

I’d get the lift but also lose the man so that he doesn’t get the benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:17 PM
13

TIL being attracted to attractive people is a personality disorder I’m honestly pissing myself 🥴😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:08 PM
6

💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:49 AM
2

Yeah that’s what I meant by saying psychopath, the colloquial definition includes cluster b. You’re validating my point that being a bad mother is pathological, whereas being a bad father isn’t: it’s mostly caused by garden variety laziness and lack of empathy that is normal in male psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 02:31 AM
2

Lol no, the only way men can be better parents than women are if the woman is a deranged violent psycho drug addict. The laziest and most inept mom is still better than the average dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 03:32 PM
7

I have the exact same suspicion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:03 PM
1

Did contrapoints write this from a sock puppet account?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:59 AM
11

There’s a quote on humility from the Screwtape Letters by CS Lewis “thousands of humans have been brought to think that humility means pretty women trying to believe they are ugly and clever men trying to believe they are fools. And since what they are trying to believe may, in some cases, be manifest nonsense, they cannot succeed in believing it and we have the chance of keeping their minds endlessly revolving on themselves in an effort to achieve the impossible”. I just realized the irony as I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:45 AM
6

I’ve said this before but from the way men talk I’m convinced they think that we masturbate the exact same way they jackhammer and ignore the clitoris as much as they do...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:28 AM
23

Brittany Venti has made a bunch of videos calling out youtubers promoting only fans to their UNDERAGE viewers. These sex traffickers are glorifying their lifestyles and telling their subscribers to start their only fans careers on their 18th birthdays and to make sure they use their affiliate links. Often these videos are deemed advertizer friendly too. I wish other people talked about it, I’ve only ever seen Brittany Venti call it out. Also I’m convinced she either lurks or posts here, so hiya …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:16 AM
46

This. If you let him down nicely they think it’s the beginning of a negotiation. Also love how they say they only get angry at rejection because they can tell we’re being dishonest and patronizing when we say “you’re a nice guy but”. Because I reject them honestly and they still get just as mad, but at least they leave me alone when I tell them “I’m not attracted to you/I don’t find you attractive” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:05 AM
3

If you have message receipts turned off, turn them on to leave him on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:51 AM
62

If we were to grant him this metaphor, it still doesn’t necessarily hold true. A Hermes Birkin is still valuable if it had 50 previous owners, a family heirloom that has survived 50 generations is valuable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:04 AM
8

Funny how the type of man that incls fetishize and idealize as “Chd” usually isn’t misogynistic nor does he behave like an “alfa asshole” and in fact often does what they refer to as “s*mping” 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:56 AM
2

I’m boutta be roasted for this but I agree with him about Imagine 😬 This was probably the only time Ben Shapiro has been right about something, don’t take it from him lol. Edit: except for the part where he says that “it assumes a goodness of humanity that doesn’t exist [proceeds to shit on indigenous cultures]”. I thought her meant the opposite and that Imagine was denying the goodness of humanity (which I think it does).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:47 AM
10

Don’t you mean Dr. Shapiro’s husband? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:31 AM
39

You know how when you baby-talk to dogs you can say stuff like “who’s a stupid, stinky boy, who’s a bad boy” etc and they’ll still wag their tails and get hyped, but if you yell and growl “I love you, you’re such a good boy” then they’d cower? Men are kind of like this, in that they respond way more to tone of voice, body language and posturing then the content of your speech. You can be irrefutably correct but if you’re in any way “shrill” or appear emotional then you are wrong in their eyes lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:29 AM
1

Well yeah, you don’t have to pay for anything if you don’t want to, and women who don’t want to split the bill don’t have to date you. Nobody is manipulating anyone in that situation as plenty of women are into splitting the bill and plenty of “chads” love buying stuff for women (without expecting anything in return, believe it or not) But I think I understand why you’re so against FDS, you create a lot of covert contracts. (Redpill is wrong about a lot of things but not covert contracts). You t…
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 06:15 AM
3

Pro tip: if you’re super mysterious about it while simultaneously being hot af everyone assumes you’re wild 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:56 AM
51

Yes it’s literally a universal behavior, it’s crazy. Fathers literally sit their sons down when it’s time to become a man and teach them this arcane knowledge. I’ve heard people refer to it as “the husband try” lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:53 AM
27

Also the same kind of woman who gets into relationships with prison inmates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:31 AM
43

So they have an excuse not to pet the pussy. But if their woman dares to ask them to they can slice her up, thus making sure they won’t get asked again. Genius plan 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:29 AM
2

No? You did outright state that women were objects when you called us depreciating assets, whereas I never even implied it: I never said men had to pay for me or buy me, I said pay for dates. Can you not see the difference between paying for dates and paying for a woman? Show me the direct quote where I imply I’m an object. At least be brave enough to own up to what you say instead of backpedaling and projecting. And no, I don’t date stingy, penny pinching men. My love language is gifts so if me…
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 03:03 AM
2

I literally am that good though? It’s not arrogant if it’s an objective fact: as CS Lewis said true humility isn’t an intelligent man convincing himself that he’s stupid or a beautiful woman convincing herself that she’s ugly. Even before FDS when I believed in splitting the bill I never had to pay on a date because the man wouldn’t allow it 🤷🏻‍♀️ Also this is exredpill not redpill or mgtow: women aren’t depreciating assets because we are not objects. But if you want that analogy then we’re appr…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 12:16 PM
6

Posts like this make me ponder a philosophical question I’ve been struggling with for a while: do men have a theory of mind?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:01 AM
20

Getting custody of children they gave birth to and free dinners lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:58 AM
43

I know what you mean...I’ve never slut shamed or even witnessed another person being slut shamed, but boy have I been virgin shamed to oblivion lol, usually by the types that would make these kind of podcasts. Like if they’re so content over their life choices why do they need to throw such shade?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:51 AM
0

Lol no? We’re not dating men who don’t want to pay on dates and forcing him to pay through manipulation. We just don’t date those guys, and date the guys who already are ok with paying...we’re not changing anyone. The biggest rule in FDS is you can’t change men so don’t ever try to...I have no idea how you can interpret “if he’s not your infant son you can’t change him” as “FdS wAnTs tO mANipUlaTe mEn” lmao
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 07:56 AM
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Ew who the fuck goes on a first date and does nothing but bloviate on their exes lmao? I woulda zoned out so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:23 PM
19

Yassss. Might be slightly unrelated but there was a post a little while about how a woman in North Carolina I think was able to sue both her husband and the other woman on the grounds of alienation of affection. Like financially ruined both of them, it was truly heartwarming 🥰 I honestly think that adultery needs to be a civil wrong not just in North Carolina or wherever, but everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:45 AM
1

What is SPH???? I don’t wanna google it and make the FBI agent that watches me through my webcam think I’m weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:32 AM
4

Make it a flair please mods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:12 AM
1

Wait what? There are two versions? Cos I watched the Nicole Kidman Stepford Wives hoping for a good ol’ spookin and was thoroughly confused at the brevity and cheesiness...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:23 PM
50

Ok Patrick Bateman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:07 AM
48

In the real world, if you approach a man he’ll just assume it’s some kind of set up for him to get jumped by a group of guys, or that you’re distracting him so your accomplice can pickpocket him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:34 AM
3

Yeah you’re right, I should have just used “poor social skills” instead of autism. I have a little internalized ableism so will edit my comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:30 AM
3

If they can recognize irony and sarcasm in men but not women it’s their male hubris, if they can’t recognize in both then it’s poor social skills or autism. A lot of men nowadays seem to have a form of self inflicted artificial autism from lack of socialization (doing nothing but porn and video games) and if it’s this then yeah I mean it to be insulting. I don’t mean to be insulting to any women with autism here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 10:39 AM
7

I swear the reason men don’t think women are funny is because their male hubris/poor social skills blinds them to our irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 10:21 AM
19

Woman: “ok I’ll pick better by being selective and having high standards” Men: wait no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:11 AM
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Controversial opinion but the so called “chads” in my experience are all round good guys: kind, chivalrous, polite, caring. Whereas the nerdy ugly guys are rude, unpleasant, entitled, and rapey. I swear the whole “ugly guys are really sweet and will treat you way better than handsome guys” is blatant propaganda. I’ve noticed the better looking a person is (men and women) the better the character which is a super anathema opinion to hold but it’s just my experience 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:08 AM
8

Yeah I only read the beginning and end of the post. Are you saying women offer friendship to suitors, hoping it gets turned down, but then still get offended that men then reject this? 🧐 My point is I don’t think women get upset and offended if guys don’t wanna be friendzoned, it’s more often relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 02:56 AM
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Lol I love getting butt hurt messages, then checking their reddit profile to find they are active in smalldickproblems and incelswithouthate chefskiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:08 AM
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I don’t think women actually wanna be friends when they reject a guy. They just say “we can be friends” to seem nice and so he doesn’t flip out at you, while desperately crossing their fingers he’d say no. At least that was what I used to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 01:43 AM
3

Same...wth lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:19 AM
13

I don’t really have an answer except commiserate that the restaurant industry is degenerate af. The disgusting behavior I witnessed from waitressing as a teen was mind boggling. Imo NEVER under any circumstances date a chef, in fact I think we need to add chef to the list of professions to not date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:03 AM
4

No let’s keep researching space travel so that we can leave the men behind and build a star trek space colony founded on the divine feminine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:39 AM
1

Get some reading comprehension. If women derive a lot more support from their female friendships than from male friends, and men in contrast derive support from their female friends and not from male friends, then logically it follows that women are giving more emotional support in their opposite sex friendships than what they receive. If men were returning the favor then the study would say men derive more emotional support from opposite sex friends than same sex, whereas women derive emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 04:25 AM
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Omg that’s terrifying: feeling your hairs fall out 😧 I hope you’re in a better place ((gentle hugs)) This is why I think men are the cause of all autoimmune disorders lmao. Got fibromyalgia? Your man did it, arthritis? Man. Lupus? Men’s fault 😤 I literally had an extreme flare up of an autoimmune condition as a teen that coincided with my dad forcing me to be his emotional dumping ground when my parents were divorcing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:13 AM
7

Yes, every time my mom left us with our dad he neglected us so much we were frequently injured (leaving babies on high surfaces unattended, leaving us in the bath alone as babies/toddlers, etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:51 AM
4

I wonder what would happen if you sarcastically replied back “Oh no! Please give me another chance, I promise I won’t disappoint you 🥺”? Do you think they’d register the facetiousness or would they interpret it literally? Kinda wanna do this to fuck with them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:41 AM
5

That’s why I said emotional support animal, not “friendship”. The latter implies mutuality, the former does not. The article even states this: “Men, in contrast to women, derived emotional support and therapeutic value more from their opposite-sex relationships than their same-sex friendships.” Which means men get emotional support from their female friends but don’t return the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 10:07 PM
0

Yeah cos we aren’t doing that ish anymore 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 07:35 PM
21

Wow didn’t need a study to tell me men use women as emotional support animals 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 07:10 PM
41

That’s fine by me since I only have sex with men that are special to me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:17 PM
9

Flashback to the middle aged cluster b Peter Pan syndromes guy I dated once. I went to class with my phone off and come back to him breaking up, taking me back and breaking up with me several times, complete with all seven stages of grief displayed in a stream of consciousness clusterfuck 🥴 But no, no it’s definitely the women who are clingy and crazy lmao 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:07 PM
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I don’t think she has a death wish per se, I think she waited to the last minute so she could have the longest hospital stay possible. This is a common fantasy of a lot of mom’s: being in hospital. Because that’s the often the only time in their lives where they are actually being looked after and feel nurtured: they don’t have to cook or clean or worry about doing anything, they get food brought to them, get warm blankets, nurses asking how they’re feeling, if they’re comfortable enough etc, al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:47 PM
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Ikr 😂 To a a man the single most powerful and ego destroying word in a woman’s arsenal is “ew”. Closely followed by “creepy/creepy”. These need to be used more liberally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:33 AM
23

Reminds me of that TikTok: if woman no want sex then , then...wHy bOoBs?????!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:42 PM
6

So basically Matthew 10:16: be wise as a serpent but innocent as a dove 🕊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:28 PM
2

Because AMALT...the men who don’t do the things complained of enable the men who do by encouraging it, turning a blind eye, covering for them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 04:34 PM
1

I never get these hilarious messages, I feel like I’m missing out...all I get is low effort concern trolling and propositions from wannabe sugar (Splenda?) daddies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:16 PM
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This caused a visceral reaction...if a guy talked like that to me there’d be no coming back from it. What an absolute creep. On a more upbeat note her hair is goals, it’s gorgeous lol she could do so much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:56 PM
48

Yeah, that’s a sims 2 job lmao?! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:46 PM
24

Why can’t both parents just each sacrifice a small amount? Why should a woman have to become a shell of herself so that the man isn’t inconvenienced?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:32 PM
12

There’s a lot of 3 foot men on bumble. I think it’s some kind of weird flex or filtering technique: they won’t date girls who actually ask their height cos then that means they’re “shallow”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:58 PM
24

Never share any insecurities, perceived flaws etc with a man. This is very important: have good posture, stand straight and have confident body language. Don’t uptalk, don’t umm and ah a lot and try not to speak in a soft, breathy high pitched voice or baby talk (this is tough if you naturally speak like this but men know baby talking is a sign of sexual abuse as a child and will further victimize you). Appear feminine, submissive and open then watch him immediately show his ass. Take note of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:25 PM
21

I’m dead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:07 PM
22

Don’t argue with men on the internet (at least not in good faith lol). This type of guy has already made his made up that women operate on feelz only, so he already has a way to invalidate everything you say: he doesn’t like your tone? You argue too passionately? You type paragraphs? It’s cos you’re emotionally invested in your opinions thus proving him right. It’s a waste of energy. Plus these types of guys don’t get much female attention so often resort to arguing with women online just to get…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 09:46 PM
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Oh girl so many men do this to me and it’s the worst kind of anxiety...they put you so high on a rickety pedestal so you’re constantly trying to balance and you just know it’s gonna hurt bad when you inevitably fall off. I knew intuitively something wasn’t right but couldn’t put my finger on it, I just felt this crushing sense of doom. Now I leg it at the first sign of love bombing lol. That’s not love because they only love this imaginary shade of you that they created in their mind so really t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:16 PM
47

I’m an older millennial and I remember that watching porn was considered pathetic, cringe and embarrassing since it usually meant you weren’t capable of getting a girl if you had to resort to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:49 PM
21

If you define “love” as a merely an intangible and ephemeral “feeling” or “brain chemicals” 🙄 as opposed to a deliberate choice to prioritize the needs of the other over oneself in a way that affects physical reality...then yeah men probably do “love” more. I mean they fall in love quicker and get carried away with their feelings when dating a lot more than women do, so I think they honestly do believe they “love” more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:44 PM
2

Omg you made something click for me...I love certain types of horror (psychological/suspenseful as opposed to schlocky gore) but the one actual narc I dated was the only guy I dated who was into horror. He had shit taste though, just mindless extreme gorey b list movies. He was a total sadistic freak and basically psychologically tortured me for 9 months after we broke up (pretending relatives died and that it was my fault he didn’t get to spend time with them before they died cos he was too bus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:17 PM
1

What if it’s MDLB (mommy domme little boy)? Or part of his bdsm kink? By that logic women who like to be tied up for sex are being unlawfully confined whether they consent or not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:39 PM
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If this is a date with a long term partner (fiancee, husband) I don’t think it’s LV If this is like the first few dates then yeh it’s a step above Netflix and chill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:34 PM
5

Is that really “pursuing” a guy though? Just chatting with some playful flirtation? I prefer men to make the “first move” (as in doing the asking out/ stating intentions) but it doesn’t mean I can’t make a soft landing for him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:27 PM
0

I know what you mean...I get novella sized quasi marriage proposals on fb and reddit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:13 PM
1

Would it really be hypocrisy though? Men provided for women because women actually couldn’t do it themselves, and because women provided other types of labor: bearing children, rearing them, housework etc. Whereas if men aren’t earning as much as women it’s entirely their own fault through laziness, lack of ambition, low discipline. They also don’t provide any other form of labor to make up for it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:41 PM
8

It’s because women are nurturing and some men believe women are their caretakers and that they’re entitled to our mothering energy. Who did little boys go to if they had a booboo? Their dads? Fuck no, they ran to mommy. This is the grown up version of that. Man has any type of booboo (emotional, financial, spiritual etc) he runs to the closest mommy analogue which is usually the most gullible chump lady. Edited: a word
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:36 PM
3

Yeah like babies need eye contact and to be talked to as well, that’s how they learn facial expressions, non verbal communication and speech, not to mention it’s emotionally harmful to not facially interact with your baby. Like they need to feel that they have the undivided attention and love from their caregiver for their emotional development.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:25 PM
2

Wow imagine having a real life baby 😍 and thinking interacting with it is some kind of chore...like I nagged my mom as a kid for that toy baby born and when my brothers were babies I’d carry them non stop and my mom couldn’t get me to put them down. I’d cuddle my cousins for hours on end (my auntie loved this cos she always had a long break when I was around lol). Like they are so much fun 🥺 you can play video games any time but a baby is only a baby for a year or so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:20 PM
3

I’m glad my mom isn’t alone in her experience but feel awful it’s so apparently common. Some of my earliest childhood memories are of my mom crying during the holiday season or her birthday because of homesickness and missing her family. It’s interesting that they were warned by parents...I don’t blame her since I’ve also ignored my moms warnings about guys during my pickmeisha phase. Looking back she was right and I’m going to pay more attention to my mom’s relationship advice in future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:38 PM
2

I mean they dress like 1950s and have their hair in victory rolls and are talk about being red pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:08 PM
2

Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:37 PM
1

He’s objectively handsome but he looks too scary for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:22 PM
17

I’m a little older and I sometimes get a bit scandalized at what the teeny boppers wear too so I kinda know what you mean. I dont judge them or think badly, I’m more jealous like “damn I wish my mom let me leave the house in cute clothes like that when I was a teen” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:18 PM
5

I voted for myself because self love and body positivity 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:04 PM
2

When was this survey? I didn’t know about it. Or did you collate the responses from the original thread? (I never got any hate male cos I think I said smallish-average size lmao). Do you have any data on the threshold length that triggers hate mail? Like does it start at 6 inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:57 AM
2

Care react
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:52 AM
2

You trip over them at church lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:49 AM
2

Based. Get that coint sis 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:12 AM
1

I was severely underweight, I was like 87lbs and I’m tall so I literally looked like an Auschwitz victim or Annaliese Michel before she died of anorexia. I also had a stupid looking pixie cut for years because my hair was so thin and brittle I couldn’t grow it. So no I didn’t just suffer from acne and forget to brush my teeth and hair 🙄 the guys I was into were forever alone types who were 2 or 3 out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:14 AM
1

You could get some self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:01 AM
0

Oh sis he could be depwessed 🥺 so he can’t cwean his widdle wiener 👌🏻 anymore cos it’s just toooo hard for him 🥺 or his mommy and daddy never taught him basic hygiene 🥺 So it’s your wesponsibility to cwean it for him now or your a big judgemental meanie 😤 make sure you also wipe his butt evewy time he goes poopie too 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:00 AM
5

Careful, are you trying to get this subreddit banned? All reddit admins are cat ear wearing mtf trannies in programmer socks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:51 AM
1

Pickmeishas need to be stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:46 AM
1

I have been in that position, but as hideous woman. Men always say that any woman can get a man no matter how she looks, yet I couldn’t despite throwing myself at guys. I’m just telling you this so you get an idea how I used to look. So I know how it feels... I am also painfully aware of lookism: I’ve been on both ends of the looks spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:42 AM
2

Awww he’ll naw I would not swap metabolism. Do you realize that would make all men into fat fuck pigs 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:30 AM
1

Yes but also no. I’m autistic and literally had no friends all throughout highschool, didn’t kiss until I was 23 and woe is me-ed about how easy and natural it was for everyone else. But then I glowed up in my early twenties (which took a lot of effort, years of research and trial and effort in skincare, years of eating right to get to a healthy weight, years of makeup practise, developed a sense of what hair and clothes looked good on me), started leaving my house regularly, showing up to socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:19 AM
2

I’m sorry someone did that too you. What a very male way to phrase that question...imagine twisting your sentences into nonsensical pretzels just to avoid admitting a man can rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:47 AM
2

I don’t understand why women do this (actually I do it’s because they’re pathetic and low self esteem and like the ego boost from orbiters). It’s so mean to the guy as well as dangerous to you: he’ll never be able to get over you with you all up in his grill all the time so he’ll be waiting and biding his time for you to be at your most vulnerable...like a creepy little predator. But it’s weird since it’s always the dudes who are keen on “just being friends” when I turn them down romantically. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:27 AM
11

It’s because there’s a handful of super spreaders
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:20 AM
2

Create asupport group for women with cluster b personality disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:11 AM
27

This happened to my mom, moved country for my dad 🥺 My grandparents even gave multiple dire warnings not to, told her if she did it would be very likely she would never be able to see them again and predicted her future with spooky accuracy: “you’ll be stuck inside permanently barefoot and pregnant with no friends, family, job, or ability to leave”. She didn’t listen cos “love” and surprise surprise that’s exactly what happened. She had a high paying upwardly mobile career in her home country ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:04 AM
5

Blind men still prefer women with a .7 waist to hip ratio what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:54 AM
2

These all look like normal-handsome guys? There are less handsome guys I know who are never single. Like blondie in the green sweater is hella cute and could totally get a woman. The fact that they can’t means they must behave so anti social: rude, unpleasant, downer to be around, no tact, embarrassing etc. Just like Elliot Rodger, he was cute and rich but was so damn odious no one wanted a bar of him. He was born at the top of the totem pole with all the privilege and advantage, yet still manag…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:35 AM
1

You make it sound like the pretty ones are the outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:40 AM
1

And you know that because?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:37 AM
7

Ikr. It’s funny since I never respond the way they expect or want me to when they neg me: this one guy who asked me if I was raped at being turned down, I just looked at him like he was completely loony cos I was so caught off guard lol. Also I’m positive if I did sleep with people on the first date, they’d be like “wow your uncle must have raped you or something that you’re this slutty hurrdurr” 😂 Lmao at the “you’re not empowered” tactic...I’ve never experienced this breed of LVM but I definit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:34 PM
28

This is almost accurate except red pill women aren’t that attractive. (I know a few in real life). It’s sad but they’re always very unfortunate looking, which is the whole reason why they need to larp as a submissive 1950s caricatures. Women who are average and above don’t need to contort themselves into a 2 dimensional porn fantasy to get a nice boyf who treats them ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:44 PM
4

It’s insulting to compare autistic women (who have good hygiene, kindness, useful skills and hobbies, andsocial skills earned through years of practise and suffering unbearable bitchiness from other girls) to autistic men, who are...well...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:34 PM
40

You know what is “super wrong and generealizing”? I get asked if I’ve been violently raped or if I’m psychologically damaged in some way if I don’t wanna have sex on the first date...because not wanting to be as intimate as you can be with a complete stranger can only be explained by pathological sex aversion from being raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:27 PM
4

It’s because they have brain damage from watching hardcore bdsm painal porn every day from the age of 8, plus a degenerating mutant Y chromosome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:34 PM
0

She looks great to me? She’s just thicc and wearing knockaround clothes to take out the trash...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:49 AM
2

Wouldn’t men just end up paying more for other dude’s kids with their taxes? How is that better than paying for your own child?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:11 AM
8

This but unironically ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:05 AM
16

This is what my dad did to my mom. She got sick of his emotionally abusive and thoughtless behavior and dumped him. My dad ended up remarrying a woman who was like a carbon copy of my mom, even in personality to a certain extent (passive, shy, goes with the flow). And I remember being so upset (I still am) that he was able to treat this wife ok: he cared about her feelings, ran things by her, stood up for her. Like if he could have treated my mom like that during their marriage I wouldn’t have b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:38 AM
9

It sounds like they’re middle aged? He’s too old to be acting like this. Also women’s hair can thin when they age so maybe having it short is healthier and looks nicer than trying to hang onto thin, lifeless, straggly long hair? (Not saying all older women with long hair look bad). Also maintaining long hair is a Herculean task. It takes ages to dry, is a pain to style, you need to do weekly hair masks (leaving it in for 45 mins), hour long hot oil treatments before shampoo, braid it before bed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:12 PM
3

Wait so you’ve been fucking a guy “exclusively” for 10 years, you pay for his shit and you’re still nothing more than a fbw lol?! 😬 you honestly deserve better. Don’t you see you’re kinda proving FDS right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:22 PM
48

Because they were too busy being “not like the other girls” to have any girl friends. Which means they didn’t have a group of girls around them that would teach them makeup, or provide feedback on their makeup application, or girls to practise makeup with at sleepovers/girls nights. They also didn’t get invited to parties or to go out clubbing so didn’t have the experience of all getting ready together, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:57 AM
1

Wow that’s so obvious I don’t know why I didn’t make that connection facepalms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:21 AM
5

What is the significance of the colored sticks next to the crayon eater girl? I they glow sticks or sth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:47 AM
11

When men’s self harming behaviors cause boners in other men, the law steps in and says consent is not a defence to grievous bodily harm, such as in r v brown. In r v brown (I’m hazy on the details) there was a homosexual bdsm club where members would nail each other’s genitals to boards (among other things). All of the participants “consented” and didn’t want the law involved but the House of Lords found consent to be irrelevant in cases of grievous bodily harm and the perpetrators were found gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:19 AM
0

I’ve seen several handsome 6 foot plus men identify as incel.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/20 03:22 AM
4

I’ve had this exact same thought. Men painted themselves into a corner by building their worth and utility on quicksand (apologies for mixed metaphors). Like if all men had to do to be valuable, worthy and contributing partners in a relationship, was to bring home a paycheck, then as soon as women could earn pay checks too then what’s the point of men? There is nothing about men that makes the capacity to work and earn money unique to them: the only reason women couldn’t was artificial barriers.…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/20 11:18 AM
68

I’ve said this before but women like this need to be institutionalized for their own safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:06 AM
12

We had a perfectly good institution designed for “sexual mutual aid”. It’s called marriage. Unlike prostitution it is beneficial to society: two people love, support and sacrifice for one another thus they grow in virtue which effects the greater society. Plus children are brought into an environment where their two caregivers love one another and their child. (This is the ideal and isn’t representative of all marriages). Prostitution, casual sex and porn provides no benefits to the wider societ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:41 AM
12

I’m pro sexbot. The type of men that would use them the most are the type that nobody wants to fuck, date or LTR anyway, so nothing much would change except there’d be less incel truck attacks. It would be even better bread and circuses for men than porn and video games are now. Men would perform even worse at all levels of education and employment than they are now, making more room for women to reach the higher echelons of society. This isn’t a unique viewpoint among women, men act like women …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:29 PM
84

If you define “good skin” as just a lack of cystic acne and pustules everywhere (which is how good skin is defined for men) then yeah guys do have “good skin”. They can still have thousands of blackheads, dead skin sloughing off everywhere and enough grease to fry chicken. But male “good skin” would be considered absolutely unacceptable on a woman. Cos women aren’t even allowed to have pores lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:35 AM
60

Me too girl, I’ve never found a man worthy enough to be that vulnerable with. Don’t be embarrassed about being an “adult virgin”. It’s more common than you think, there’s a plethora of virgin women that are still virgins for the same reasons you are. Either that or they’ve been left behind by the rampant hook up culture: they can’t get in a relationship because they aren’t comfortable putting out on the date 1-3 and get dumped for being “prudes”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:27 AM
1

I’m in favor of this, because in practice it would benefit the wife more than the husband. After 3-5 years she could easily find a better man, whereas for the husband, it’s in his interest to renew the marriage, because why would he jeopardize an existing relationship for a chance at a theoretical one that might not ever happen? He’ll have a much harder time finding a new relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 08:03 AM
49

Because a lot of men are actually homosexual/bisexual...possibly the majority of men. Look at the ancient world, it happened in many cultures. Ever wondered why the Bible explicitly condemns sodomy/homosexual practices multiple times? Cos ancient men were obviously constantly sodomizing each other, women,children and livestock like ferals, to the point religious leaders were like “I’m sick of this, no more anal sex or you’ll get stoned and go to hell 😡😡😡😡😡” I don’t really buy the “it’s cos of po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:27 AM
160

Probably the abrupt cut off of the video implies that her response was literally nothing? Cos she blocked him? That was my interpretation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:06 AM
32

I read it as “I’d eventually lie to have sex with you” lol and got confused because that’s such a weird way to phrase that sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:56 PM
4

Yes I work out 5-6 times a week. That’s weird that you find that girls don’t seem as into fitness as males, I thought it was the opposite and that women are more likely to exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 08:29 PM
4

No problem sweaty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:10 PM
36

So basically men hit the wall and then scramble to lock down the closest warm body. Interesting that that’s what they say women do lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:48 PM
5

You are kind of implying that we do have low standards. You’re suggesting we should date the social outcasts that everyone else rightly steers clear from. I’m so sick of incels, weirdos and neets thinking that autistic women should just take one for the team and date them, as if we’re in the same league or equivalent. Like fuck off with that lol (not you personally, the attitude). I naively thought that “an autistic man would understand me and treat me right” lol nope. They are pushy and entitle…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:48 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:36 PM
1

But if I say I’m not fussed about height men still reeeee and call me a liar lmao. Sure I mildly prefer tall men but there’s some gorgeous 5’7 fellas out there that I wouldn’t turn my nose up to. Like I’d prefer a handsome and sweet shorter guy over an ugly 6’3 creep but apparently that means I’m lying about not caring that much about height lol. Also btw I’m not standard shaming women with strict height preferences or trying to sell them on hot short guys lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:14 PM
5

I know the feel, even though I do want children 😓 I think having a son does something to women’s brains that makes them essentially kneecap their sons emotionally. Coddling him, spoiling him, never disciplining, constantly making excuses etc. I love my mom and think she’s a great person but my brothers always got so much leeway, if they were ever having trouble she’d swoop in to save the day, they could do no wrong, even if they were rude to her, whereas I was always held to a higher standard. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:48 PM
5

Ahhh yes “boymoms”. Tangentially, I’ve noticed the most convincing argument against being a SAHM is how men turn out, their moms revolve their life around their son so the boys never learn that women have thoughts, feelings and dreams and don’t notice the Herculean sacrifices she made because it’s just a given to them. Men who had SAHMs treat women with a baffling level of entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:40 PM
83

This man has a mother: there is a flesh and blood woman with thoughts and feelings that bore him for 9 months, nursed him, changed diapers, nurtured him, sacrificed her career, independence and body for him. And he turns out like this: treating women like fleshlights. Imagine that. How cruel and ungrateful could he be towards his mother that he treats her kind like playthings. I dunno, that’s just what I feel when I hear about misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:45 PM
9

Apparently this is a thing more conservative/sheltered girls sometimes do when asked out: they bring a girlfriend with them on the date to chaperone. So it might not be a pickme thing, more a safety thing and to have another pair of eyes on him in the hopes an audience will make him behave. But of course the man just thinks huRr DuRr tHreEsOmE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:47 PM
10

This reminds me of Shoe0nhead: she is literally a martyr of pickmeishaism and should be held up as an example of why being a pickme is suicide. Like she needs to be used as a case study presented to young women. I remember shoe dunking on so called miserable lonely feminists by smugly flashing her forever engagement ring like she’d won at life, constantly boasting about her “Disney Princess waistline”, how her proportions are perfect because she can easily simulate pedophilia in her ddlg relatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:52 AM
10

Awwwww that’s wholesome af
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 11:19 AM
6

I’m dying of curiosity, can I know what he did?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:46 AM
13

They encourage emotional incest, parentification and spousification of their daughters. (Not in those words but it’s what they’re doing).
/r/ExRedPill29/09/20 09:11 PM
16

I can’t figure out which one this is more embarrassing for. I’m leaning towards the man, how utterly emasculating lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:11 PM
3

I don’t believe men are more visual: part of the reason the manosphere is reeing about hypergamy is because society has removed women’s artificial dependence on men, so women are now free to choose partners on the basis of attraction instead of settling for a provider they are repulsed by. The flimsy social fiction that women choose men solely for their wallets and personality has fallen away which is why so many men have the “rage phase” of the red pill where they freak out that they’ve been li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 12:18 PM
291

One guy not only wanted a walk date in the park, but he insisted on a night time walk date. Like ok rapist 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:19 AM
14

Empaths actually do exist and it’s pretty common in the neurodiverse. It’s to do with mirror neurons in the brain and some people have semsitive/overactive ones, or just more of them. For example there are people that will experience the exact physical pain if you describe it to them, so obviously those people keep that very secret otherwise people will fuck with them and describe gore to “test” it. But I definitely agree to be super wary of anyone going around claiming to be an empath, they’re …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:18 PM
30

She still looks Italian? There’s more to being Swedish than having blonde hair, scandinavians aren’t just anime recolors of white people 😒 and plenty of Italians are blonde.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:46 PM
4

Look I’m only regurgitating what redpillers say lol
/r/ExRedPill28/09/20 09:42 AM
2

The Bible is a collection of writings by hundreds of different authors which were influenced by the cultural milieu of the time. I’m not a Protestant so the Bible isn’t that important to me lol. Ephesians 5 is a lot more complicated than people make it out to be and when people have a simplistic understanding then try to apply it like “hurr durr do what I say wife” it ends badly. My opinion is that ignoring Ephesians 5 is the best way to follow it, which sounds counterintuitive; it’s just that i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:59 PM
25

Yasssss! This is literally the secret to popularity, charm and achieving intimate friendships. Ever notice how some girls are just universally well liked? It’s because they maintain their mental hygiene by refusing to entertain jealous, competitive or mean thoughts about other women (either consciously or because that’s just their natural temperament). Once you rid yourself of jealousy you’ll notice that other women start being so kind to you it’s honestly like magic: they’ll go out of their way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:35 PM
8

Men that are into casual sex actually don’t want a woman who’s into casual sex. Their egos can’t handle being with a woman who doesn’t want a relationship with them. They need the woman who wants a relationship so they can have the upper hand and get off on the power differential: a woman who thinks she can fuck her way into a relationship is gonna be down for more degrading sex acts.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 07:59 PM
9

Pump and dumpers ruin it for normal men. The fact that so many men pump and dump (bait and switch by fronting they want something serious until they get sex), is why women are doubtful, standoffish, and flighty when honest men actually are trying to court them. It’s why most men struggle to even get dates now and when they do, they can’t get sex within the mandated three dates anymore. But men will never hold those guys accountable coz they’re too busy sucking their dicks and getting misty eyed …
/r/ExRedPill27/09/20 07:54 PM
1

I just pretended it went over my head and made a mental note not to bother with him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:40 PM
3

The marriages I’m talking about are between highly devout, religious people where the man is still the main breadwinner, the woman works part time and pursues interests and hobbies outside family life but still had periods where she was a SAHM. Yet they clearly view each other as equals and each pick up the slack when the other needs more support, for example the wife works late so the husband makes dinner and leaves her left overs without having to be asked. The husband becomes the main care gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:57 AM
19

I’m not a first mate or second in charge of MY own life. I’m religious too and the only happy and healthy marriage I’ve witnessed is one where Ephesians 5 is ignored lol. On the other hand I’ve seen the application of Ephesians 5 absolutely implode marriages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:06 AM
6

Lol I just got a message from an elderly guy saying Asian women fetishize white men more than the reverse and my fat ass is just jealous 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:43 AM
23

I’d imagine the majority of women don’t involve penetration when masturbating anyway (or if they do it’s not the main thing)? Like I honestly think that men think that when women masturbate they just jackhammer themselves with phallic objects and ignore the clit too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:35 AM
110

White men who fetishize Asian women are absolute bottom of the barrel trash. They’re the guys that white women give wide berth to so they turn to Asian women because they delusionally think that all Asian women are just gagging and frothing at the mouth for a white man, any white man. It’s got so many supremacist overtones.Look at how redpillers and pua guys talk about how to run game in Asia, they tell men they don’t have to cos “you just need to be white”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:12 PM
3

Some women can be incredibly catty, competitive, jealous and can sabotage you out of spite. Some women have been hurt so badly by other women they completely write them off. Ironically these women can also end up becoming the very thing they hate. They think all women are jealous bitches out to get them so treat all women with hostility, even the ones who genuinely want to be friends. I honestly think it’s just a phase that shouldn’t go beyond mid twenties. Late twenties and women in their thirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 03:57 PM
24

Depends if they’re married, if he treats her well and gives her the same effort, and if his family are good people. If any of those are missing then yes it’s pickme. But her posting this screams that she’s single and advertizing herself as wifey so she’s a pickme. Actually just her posting this is pickme lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:12 PM
6

Roid rage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:07 PM
30

That is true, but my fear is I vet a man for years and when I finally feel secure to do wifey things he switches. It’s happened before, men chase me hard and I’m reserved to start with but as soon as I reciprocate their energy they go cold and start verbally abusing me. There were red flags I overlooked in those cases so I’m hoping that I just didn’t vet properly, otherwise I still worry if it’s ever possible to be fully giving in a relationship. Edit: an autocorrect fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:51 PM
6

I think this is 100% real. Source: I am the girl 😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 12:35 PM
1

I’m pro prenup. A lot of women are against them because of the “insult” of it, but they fail to realize prenups can also protect them perhaps even more than it can protect men. For example, when I get an inheritance I’d want to make sure my husband wouldn’t see a dime of it in marriage or the case of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 10:39 AM
205

I know what you mean. I want to be in a relationship where I can relax and safely be my sweet, giving and kind self without being taken advantage of or demeaned and seen as stupid for it. Deep down I want to cook dinners for my man, get him thoughtful gifts, give massages etc, not because I’m desperate and low self esteem but because I genuinely want to make the person I love feel happy. But as soon as I do they treat me with contempt, entitlement, thoughtlessness and cruelty because they think …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:27 AM
3

Yeah, luckily my feelings don’t really get hurt lol, and yeah mbti is amazing, I’m an INFP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:29 AM
13

I wanna hear the story but only if it’s safe for you to do so. This could be the next “I ghosted my boyfriend of 5 years” 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:12 PM
40

The way I interpret Ephesians 5 is that it’s descriptive rather than prescriptive. In that when a man truly loves a woman, cherishes her, protects her, looks after her, then she will naturally be submissive towards him because he’s proven he can be trusted to make decisions with her welfare in the forefront of his mind. If you don’t feel safe being submissive to a man then he’s bad for you, a woman’s submissive behavior requires the utmost trust and safety. Women won’t need to be told to submit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:35 PM
4

It’s basically no different to Jeb Bush’s “please clap” debacle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:05 PM
16

This is my approach. I’m neurodivergent and am quite open about it with most people and will tell anyone if it crops up naturally in conversation, but then I watch them surreptitiously. You’d be surprised how some people immediately show their ass with snide comments, subtle insults and put downs when they think I’m too socially obtuse to notice it. For example, one time I was talking about mbti to my friend’s boyfriend, I told him mine and he sneeringly said “oh yes that makes sense you’d ident…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:50 AM
14

Men leave their wives and the mothers of their children over stretch marks 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:29 AM
3

This is my mom and her close friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:23 AM
5

Maybe they are growers not showers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:24 PM
21

Is this some post sexual revolution thing I’m to Christian to understand? 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:52 AM
7

Unlike those girls who are super bossy, I love sports. Bet you can’t steal this. Why is mine so shit 😭 everyone else’s is hysterical 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:47 AM
13

She literally had QC in her name lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:43 AM
56

This is the most magical thing I’ve seen 😍 Also imagine what this man would do for his daughters they might have, could you imagine the cherished memories they’d have if he celebrated his daughter’s 5th birthday like this? Or Sweet sixteen, prom, highschool graduation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:06 PM
2

So nobody’s allowed to criticize her for swallowing but she’s allowed to shit on everyone that spits or ducks lol sounds like a male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:29 AM
31

I have a gay cousin who told me when we were drinking he’s pretty much given up anal sex cos you have to have an impeccably clean diet at all times on top of fasting and enemas beforehand and he would rather enjoy the occasional fast food lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:10 AM
58

Male sexuality has always been a black hole. Look at Abrahamic religions, most of the rules revolve around curtailing male sexuality: eg no sex when the woman is menstruating, nursing or postpartum, no bestiality, no male homosexuality, etc, it was all considered super taboo. It’s only recently in Christian history that Christian men were allowed to have sex with their pregnant wives. It’s been Christian tradition for centuries that married people weren’t allowed to even experience sexual pleasu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:54 AM
1

By not being a coomer with a disgusting diet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:39 PM
-1

Balding is completely avoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:19 PM
5

No please don’t 😭I love bald, fat, pasty men with giant beer guts, birthing hips and rotting teeth 🥰 Bonus points if he never washes his ass and wears the same clothes for weeks at a time gah makes me swooooooooooon 😍😍😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:45 PM
3

Hmm my ideal guy would be over 6 foot, and muscular in a bulky way but not excessively dry or cut, kind of like a bear or a silverback lol, and he can have a bit of gut, but in a way you can tell there’s a lot of muscle underneath. I’m pretty sure this is what dad bod was originally supposed to mean, like still very strong and muscular but has some imperfections. Also hairy chest, like a shag carpet (it only looks good on built guys and impeccable hygiene is a must). Strong jawline and symmetric…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:16 PM
18

No matter how great the guy is, no matter how well he treats you, or how high value he is, if his mother doesn’t like you or doesn’t approve of you RUN. Run for the hills. It’s not worth it. Even if he cuts contact with her I’m not ok with it, im not gonna put anyone in the position of having to choose me or his mom and if it comes to that I think you’ve already lost. My paternal grandmother’s hatred of my mom colored our whole family’s life, even when we cut contact with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:52 AM
1

This is so gorgeous, would it be ok if I use this as a vision board too? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:31 AM
2

Yeah I’m all too aware that smaller chested girls get negged about not being big enough, women get negged no matter what. I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum, super underweight with small chest to thicc and well endowed. And of course when I was smaller I got comments like “taking off your push-up bra would be like opening a bag of chips and finding out they’re practically empty”, “you have no curves” etc, now that I’m bigger it’s “I bet you’re really saggy” lol. First hand experience of both…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:27 AM
8

I’m the TradAssetDisaster 😓 but trying to level up to Demon 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:16 AM
5

I’ve never seen that. In fact FDS says no casual sex/one night stands/FWB period. I have seen several posts from the mods condemning that behavior (sleeping around while other men are courting you), so I’m sure a few rogues have engaged in it, but it’s definitely a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:59 PM
102

Ok so men say stuff like “P shaped girls are 🤮”, “more than a handful is a waste”, “small titties with a big ass is the only acceptable body type in a woman”, “saggy boobs are fucking disgusting”. Do I get offended and suicidal over that? Nope, because they’re complete strangers who I’d probably never cross paths with and if I did I definitely wouldn’t be interested in them. I don’t understand how someone can get offended about a random persons preferences that don’t effect them. Well actually I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:49 AM
79

“hey bromos don’t you hate it how your hubby just roughly grabs your nips, ass and labia randomly when you don’t like it lmao am I right bromos teehee boys will be boys 🤪I ask him to stop but then he starts verbally abusing my toddler for the next few weeks and giving me the silent treatment haha what even is men amirite they’re so clueless 🤪 it’s hard for them to understand basic English though and concepts like not touching ppl when they don’t wanna be touched he’s not abusive I swear it’s jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:16 AM
3

When an autistic virgin discovers r/theredpill the night before and stayed up all night reading the sidebar 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:28 AM
2

Well showing pornography to a minor is sexual abuse/grooming and a crime. So holding porn distributors to that law would be a start. Also prohibiting advertising on pornsites so that it would be impossible to earn money from free internet porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:37 AM
14

Hmmm couldn’t it be argued that all men have a partialism paraphilia? Like so much of what we just accept is normal male healthy sexuality is actually fetish, mental illness and paraphilia. Like so many men fixate and obsess only specific body parts like breasts, buttocks, feet or have extreme preferences about nipple color/shape/size etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:05 AM
2

TIL that an hourglass/curvy body is actually a “stripper body” lol. She sounds like a massive pickme if she refers to other women as thots and strippers just because they have a particular body type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:51 AM
19

To be fair (I’m not gonna defend the movie don’t worry), I feel the subject matter is important and needs to be explored. I feel that there was a greater point she was trying to make but completely and disgracefully failed at. It’s the fact that little girls are “sexualizing” hemselves in complete innocence without the understanding of what they are doing. Like I remember when I was in preschool and elementary school, little girls would choreograph “sexy” dances, imitate the dances they saw in s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:13 AM
27

There are studies that show that women get progressively more attractive throughout the generations, so women today are on average better looking than their mothers and grandmas. Whereas the reverse is true of men, they are getting uglier according to science. Also there is a study that more attractive and fit parents are more likely to have daughters, and one explanation is that beauty is evolutionarily more advantageous to females, so your DNA is kinda like “I have all these pretty genes so I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:54 AM
2

I have also disabled read receipts except my reason is so that I can specifically turn it back on to purposefully leave him on read when he sends me some foolish shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:52 AM
14

One guy literally had a mental breakdown and sent me not just paragraphs, but literal novella texts, like I had to scroll down on my phone like 20 times just to get to the end of the text which detailed why I’m mentally ill, unstable and clearly borderline personality disorder because I didn’t respond to his goodnight text the night before until mid morning the next day lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:49 AM
50

That’s disgusting. If he wants her to have more experience he should just suggest an open relationship and let her have sex with other men lol. Or he could just have more sex with her?? Honestly men front like they all want virgins but when faced with an actual one they run a mile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:26 AM
14

Why don’t dick pics that get leaked ruin men’s careers? Surely sending dick pics reflects worse on their employer than women having nudes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:42 AM
3

So me it’s actually kinda spooky lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:29 AM
5

Ohhh that sounds like me, I’m always trying to make new girl friends 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:28 AM
89

Same girl. They make you feel like an absolute freak. But then the guys that actually do want virgins just assume you’re lying about it 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:23 AM
30

Yes, “atheist” men are unpleasant and funnily enough have the exact same arrogance and pathological need to browbeat, as certain types of fundamentalist religious men. It’s almost as if men just get super fixated on an ideology and it becomes their entire identity and get in so deep they can’t separate the subjective from the objective. That said, there are plenty of sweet, kind, high value religious men, as well as men that just don’t believe in God. But the brand of atheism men have is an ugly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:42 AM
55

No makeup for men means at best microbladed and tinted brows, fillers, eyelash extensions, lip filler and cheek filler, thousands on laser skin treatments, photoshop and Facetune
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:13 AM
16

I’m kinda ignorant of zodiac signs, what are the general feelings/stereotypes about Sagittarius women? Like I hear a bunch about scorpios, Virgo, Pisces, Gemini but it seems nobody really mentions Sagittarius? Is that cos we’re unproblematic so fly under the radar?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:09 AM
49

Hanging out in a car is a date? That’s literally how streetwalkers hook up with Johns wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:21 AM
9

I got two words: Jocasta Complex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:11 AM
11

It’s so weird that people get so tied up into knots over ghosting. I’ve been on the receiving end and it’s honestly no big deal to me? Like if I don’t hear from a guy I’m just like “huh, guess he’s not interested, wonder why, oh well” and then promptly forget about it. I don’t know why men are so fixated on being entitled to know the specific reason you don’t want to continue dating, they clearly can’t cope with hearing “I’m just not attracted to you/you aren’t my type/we have no chemistry/you l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:24 AM
8

Good for them, I bet there’s a lot of male reeeing over divesting lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:25 PM
2

A way to look at it is if another woman has self confidence and thinks she’s a 10 does that make you like her even more or do you resent her? Most of the time it would be the former, so why would you think other women would be the latter when it’s you that is self confident? If they are the latter than they clearly have some personal issues that isn’t your problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:19 PM
342

Ummmmmmmmmmm I’m not a poc but as an outsider looking in, the way black men treat black women is outrageous jfc. Those women are objectively gorgeous and he knows it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:04 AM
33

Look what happened to Lauren Southern. She dedicated her career to the alt right cause then settled down, got married and had a baby. Yet her name is mud and they still pretty much want to burn her at the stake cos she dated a black man as a teen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:03 AM
14

What culture was it? Brb moving there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:52 AM
7

Why not both? Based on the stuff men say to me they clearly need it for themselves. It’s not selfish to ask men to go to therapy for the fact that women will benefit too, dumping on women is damaging to the man’s relationship to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 04:51 AM
11

In the animal kingdom staring is never anything other than a threat or a form of aggression. That said there’s a difference between an admiring glance and full on thousand fap staring. Most men quickly glance at me and move on with their lives and that’s fine, what’s not fine is when they persistently stare at my tits like a salivating zombie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:45 AM
14

I don’t think men need to open up and be more emotionally vulnerable or whatever, if anything they are way too emotional and whiney (at least to me) and they need to stfu. So when I say men use women for emotional labor it isn’t a contradiction. When other women complain about toxic masculinity while simultaneously complaining about men unloading on them it’s also not a contradiction. They want men to be able to talk about their problems, it’s just they want them to talk about it to everyone els…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 04:23 AM
45

I know right swoons he also was basically illiterate. Like his messages were kindergarten tier and it was clear he couldn’t read when I went on the date, he couldn’t read writing on signs etc I had to read them for him (he was “homeschooled”)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:12 AM
131

I have no idea, logic isn’t the strong point of men in general let alone religious men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:57 AM
69

Guys that don’t eat pussy are closeted homosexuals change my mind 😤 (Disclaimer: there is nothing wrong with being homosexual, but there is something wrong with being homosexual but inflicting yourself on a poor woman when you are not attracted to her and in fact are grossed out by her genitals)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:16 AM
154

Funnily enough the only guy I dated that was resistant to the idea that men should pay on dates, was a hardcore fundie Christian, the type that believed in the strictest gender roles ie women shouldn’t be in the workforce, women should never wear pants or makeup or dye their hair (only ankle length skirts and baggy blouses), feminism/modern music/tv was satanic etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:09 AM
43

Wow get rid of friends who can only talk about sex. They are shallow and have nothing going on in their lives and no hobbies or interests to bond over. It’s so boring and very “low-class” behavior as my mom would say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:48 AM
1

That’s amazing! ♥️ There’s no such thing as a spoiled woman as we deserve to be treated really well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:38 AM
15

tHe RAtiOnAL gEnDeR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:28 AM
14

Omg I just watched this video today! Unbelievable they demonetized her, but I honestly think it was because of the skimpy tie up cardigan (even though there was nothing wrong with it). It was the fact she wore it without a bra and you could (gasps and shudders) see the natural contour of her breast! DisGUSTANG /s I love her response though, very maliciously compliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:51 PM
3

I was just looking and I can’t for the life of me find it and it’s really frustrating me. I remember reading multiple times in various articles/studies that the most likely time in a woman’s life to be sexually assaulted is when she’s recovering from childbirth or surgery. I’m literally searching “marital rape post partum” and my results are about female on male rape for some reason 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:23 PM
80

He definitely will rape her, statistically the most likely time a woman will be raped is when she’s recovering from child birth (or surgery or is ill).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:34 AM
9

She wants to see so she can wear the other girl’s skin suit like a body snatcher
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:54 AM
81

Yeah I’ve literally read one where he’s like “my current plate is an Asian qt with an iq of 160, is in stem, a concert pianist and crystallographer who serenades me with Debussy while naked on a leash gargling my balls and refers to me as master” 🤮 but also 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:46 AM
42

I love your last sentence. This poor baby in this video deserved so much better. I cannot fathom the cowardice of this guy. He’s not a man. Man card revoked, he’s spiritually a eunuch as far as I’m concerned. The worst part? When this was shared on other subreddits all the comments were like, it’s not his fault, he had a fight or flight reaction, this was a reflex, he’s still a good dad😤 Women lift cars off their children, if they lose their balance while holding a baby they let themselves fall …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:37 AM
1

Yeah pretty much? Nothing wrong with eating chips as opposed to being violent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 02:11 AM
258

This is gonna end up a field report on the red pill subreddit. Except his version of events will be “cold approached a hb8 at coffee store, asked if she was Russian, she wasn’t but was so desperate to prove she was just as good as a Russian girl she chased me to my car and demanded to ride. I took her behind a dumpster and she bounced on my dick while yelling nyet nyet nyet”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:05 AM
28

Broad shoulders are the bomb though, I love mine and they make it so that clothing drapes in a flattering way and snatches your waist. Men are dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:58 PM
1

So I’m other words men are rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:52 PM
1

I was assuming the stadium was a metaphor for women’s bodies, as that’s how you used it. But now you’re switching and apparently mean literal buildings? Or do men build women’s bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 09:12 PM
3

Yes, if that’s true all men are potential rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 08:20 PM
7

They need to tell themselves those women enjoy it so they don’t have to face the fact they’re rapists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:18 PM
2

You have to be 4’9” though to be considered overweight at 110lb though so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 08:16 PM
3

Nope just regurgitating the male mantra that women are the gatekeepers of sex. We can make up whatever arbitrary conditions of entry we want just cos vagina 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 08:12 PM
6

Hopefully the snake bites and is venomous 😤it really is sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:10 PM
5

I’m sorry for what evil men did to you, hopefully you’re in a better place now though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:08 PM
3

I know right, there’s “hilarious” memes about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:05 PM
4

Because teachers are psychologically on the same level as teenagers because staying in highschool stunts them. So it doesn’t register as abusive to teachers when teen girls date adult men because they view teens as equal to them. That’s my theory anyway. Luckily I never had direct experiences with older men as a teen because late bloomer/ugly duckling syndrome (which is actually a blessing lol cos at the time I was actually a little jealous of those girls with “mature” bfs)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:04 PM
4

Wow I’m sorry. I think a lot of teachers don’t report because they are forever stuck as teenagers psychologically because they’ve never left highschool. So instead just participate in teenage behavior like gossiping. And the fact that teenage girls are adultified as soon as they get their period/whenever grown men find them sexually attractive so that men don’t have to face the fact they’re disgusting hebephiles/ephebophiles (you happy male lurkers lol I used the correct term)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:59 PM
3

Wow poor thing, if there was rumors you’d expect other teachers to report it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:56 PM
3

That’s what should be happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:54 PM
-2

I unironically believe this though, you say it like it’s unreasonable or something! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:37 PM
1

I agree, especially when anything over 110lbs is considered chubby on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:35 PM
25

Cos the inside of snakes mouths looks like female genitalia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:24 AM
10

Bring on the Simp Bot 2000 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:11 AM
131

Does anyone else look back on highschool and remember all the 13, 14 and 15 yo girls who boasted about having boyfriends in their twenties? And how often it was within the earshot of teachers (mandatory reporters) who just rolled with it and probably never reported it? Cos I sure do and it’s so surreal because I never thought anything of it at the time, it’s only now I’m like holy fuck 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:09 AM
93

Purple pill is my guilty pleasure, it’s hilarious. I had an argument with some guy who said men are oppressed cos they make up most of the homeless. I pointed out it’s only because homeless women get sex trafficked and become sex slaves. He legit said that homeless women’s ability to sell their pussy and be sex trafficked is a PRIVILEGE AND THEY ARE BETTER OFF BECAUSE OF IT. They all have brain damage lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:48 AM
55

Incest porn is how you know porn is a psyop. Not to sound conspiratorial but it’s not enough to fuck up romantic love between a man and woman, they need to destroy entire families. They need to ruin brother/sister relationships and parent/child relationships too. If people have no foundation of meaningful relationships and love than they’re more likely to try to fill that void through consumerism. Men who love their wives and children aren’t going to drop loads of cash on luxury items like gamin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:41 PM
21

Omg that “4” girl is uniquely gorgeous, this makes me soooooooo mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:28 PM
3

Do alcoholics serious about changing save images of drinks to use as their phone wallpaper? 🧐 Also he’s into anime and 30, he needs to get in the bin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:51 PM
17

Make sure to screenshot randomly on snap chat to keep them on their toes and psyche them out 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:02 PM
10

Honestly I think all men just wanna crawl back into their mom’s vaginas on a deep psychological level. I mean every time they have a woman in their life they regress back into infancy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:09 AM
7

In the eternal words of reddit scrotes: hAvE yOu tRIeD cOmMunICatInG????????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:01 PM
192

Have you ever seen those posts that are like “parents share most hilarious reasons their toddler had a tantrum” or whatever? Cos this is indistinguishable from those lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:27 PM
21

That doesn’t surprise me. Look at the smallboobproblems subreddit. I looked on there out of curiosity and was surprised at the body shaming (of themselves and other women) and how incel-like they behaved. But apparently that subreddit is run by an incel with a fetish for women insecure about their boobs and strictly controls the comments and it’s mostly male larpers. The real women had to make a private subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:19 AM
29

This is why parents should never have images of their children online, especially facebook. It’s so sad that parents nowadays can’t even do something so innocent as uploading a cute picture of their kid on fb so granny can see because of sickos. Parents literally have to go back to physical photos and only distributing them to relatives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:20 AM
1

Yes and no. I am Catholic but often don’t really practice it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:10 AM
20

If you just use a basic night moisturizer with Vaseline over the top and wear sunscreen religiously your skin will look a million times better than if you spent 100s of bucks on skincare fads but skipped the sunscreen. I see those ads all the time, I’ll be damned if I spend 300 bucks on skincare system that doesn’t even include properly washing your face...seriously the ads have women in full glam makeup “oil cleansing” and but just wiping it off wih a dry cloth, without even using water with it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:52 PM
0

This is a flawless argument, congrats you destroyed me with fax and logic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:08 PM
27

Catholicism. There’s a strong argument to be made that Adam sinned first because he was standing right next to Eve as the snake was tempting her, and he chose not to protect her. Regardless of who sinned first, Adam’s sin was greater and he is the one responsible for the Fall of man. I’ve heard one well respected priest give a lecture where he mentioned that during the Fall, Eve committed five sins, while Adam committed 8. It’s mentioned countless times in the Bible that the sin of Adam is what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:05 AM
2

Plant owning appears to be a hobby more commonly or typically pursued by women in my anecdotal experience, so in other words what I originally said lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:25 AM
2

I see what you mean, women are expected to contribute financially while also doing 100% of the housework and child rearing, while men just have to go to work, come home and refrain from hitting the wife and kids lol. Women’s role in relationships and family keeps expanding while men’s diminishes, at this point as a woman you’re basically paying a man for the privilege of washing his underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:06 AM
126

This is actually the more traditional Christian position, Adam is held more responsible for the Fall of man and actually committed the first sin which was failing to protect his wife. He compounded this sin when he tried to blame Eve when confronted by God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:38 PM
28

Oh god he’s a gamer, swerve him lmao 🏃🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:24 PM
18

Being really into plants is a girl thing right? Could those purple lights be because his live in gf is a plant mom? So when you asked about them he was unable to talk about it so had to steer the conversation somewhere else. I just don’t buy a man being so into plants that he buys special lights for them 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:59 PM
37

This is actually degenerate when you think about it, the same way it’s deviant and degenerate for a woman to propose to a man: She’s performing the role that should be the man’s role in a relationship. No hate on her, because society keeps expanding the role and expectations of women in relationships while diminishing men’s. In 5-10 years time men won’t even be expected to have a job or do literally anything, they’ll just sit in their gaming chairs watching porn and playing games until they phys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:18 PM
53

What’s scarier and the thing that nobody wants you to know or talk about is that most men who rape and molest children ARE NOT actually pedophiles in the technical sense. In that they do not fit the dsm definition of pedophilia: they don’t have pervasive sexual fantasies of children that cause distress or difficulty functioning. A lot of child rapists completely lack attraction to children. This blew my mind, because it means there are just certain men that are so evil that they will choose to h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:04 PM
30

My standard is just uncut and average sized, not small, not big. Circumcized just looks alien and makes me cringe. Also I don’t like saggy wrinkly ballsacks, they need to be big, round and perky. Honestly it’s men that need brassieres for the balls lmao. Also he needs to have pubes, but neatly trimmed. I don’t know what went wrong in society that looking like prepubescent children is considered sexy, and no pubes on men is unnerving and makes them look like Ken dolls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:21 AM
1

Yeah I prefer tall men what of it? Go cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 07:13 AM
39

Yeah is it a pickmeisha thing to wear ill fitting bras? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:47 PM
5

If men improve women’s lives why are married women the most depressed and single women the happiest? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 08:07 AM
12

Awww you have such a strong, deep but very feminine voice. Please keep singing, your timbre is so unique and lovely ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:05 AM
7

Yeah I’m aware of kino and it just comes across as sex pesty and thirsty. It’s so entitled and it’s so hard to firmly say no I don’t want this because the guy is a stranger and you don’t know how he’ll react...will he rage at you? Will he hit you? Will he stalk you for 6 months? And they know women are obliging like this, they bank on you being too shy to stand up for yourself so take advantage even if they know you’re not into it. It’s really sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:56 AM
1

My grandfathers adores my grandmothers and treated them like princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 07:50 AM
196

I think we dated the same guy: feeling up my leg throughout the movie and trying to touch my cookie 😤 I wish I had the bright idea of excusing myself to the bathroom and then legging it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:34 PM
3

I call this reproductive objectification. I want babies and ideally I’d want a lot at this point (obviously I might change my mind once I have one and have a better handle on the reality of motherhood lol). But I’m religious and I’ve talked to so many guys of my faith and the first thing they bring up is whether I want a big family because they want a minimum of 6 kids yada yada, and it icks me out so much. Like they’re taking for granted my reproductive faculties and assume they’re entitled to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:50 AM
5

What I would do is go blonde, start wearing what he likes and start lifting weights. But break up with him first 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:31 AM
12

Were your grandmothers, great grandmas and great aunts all toxic abusive entitled women? Because FDS isn’t doing anything but what our grandmas did. I could go and ask my almost 100yo great aunt about dating and most of the advice wouldn’t be that much different to FDS. Also a lot of people assume FDS is manipulating or twisting a guy’s arm to do what you want. One of the core principles is that women can’t change men so if he’s not what you like or behaves in a way you don’t like, you don’t pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:55 AM
15

Big trigger warning. If somebody is suicidal or self harming the law and society steps in and prevents it even though that person really wants to die, nobody tries to argue that suicidal people should be allowed to kill themselves because they consent to it and they have personal freedom. But when a woman wants to get beaten up and tortured for sexual reasons suddenly that’s ok? I mean self harming because of depression gives temporary euphoria yet society tries to prevent that, so why is it ok …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:28 PM
4

Because women don’t actually get off from casual sex. Men are the most unreliable method to achieve orgasm. If most women just vigorously rubbed the scrotum and ignored the penis, or ended sex when they orgasmed but before the man did, men wouldn’t be so hot about casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 02:14 AM
122

I agree, men could kill over this. You’d have to vet hard by making out and heavy petting but then changing your mind before it gets too sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:37 PM
24

I got one question for you, WHAT ARE THOOOOOOOOOSE?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:07 PM
8

I’ve been on bc for a few months when I was a teen and nothing since then, so I’m not sure if my perspective will be that helpful. I love my body in its natural state. I can eat as much and whatever I want and I don’t really get “fat” I just get curvier or thiccer. Like all the extra fat just goes to my butt and breasts while maintaining abs. It might be partly genetic but I think it’s also related to my natural hormonal state which prevents weight gain around the midriff. The stereotype that wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:58 AM
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I’m with you, since I was a teen I vowed that I wouldn’t have sex unless I was sure the man really loved me. That then slowly morphed into waiting for marriage, as the only way you can be sure a man loves you is if he goes through with marriage (drops 3 months salary on a ring, gets a mortgage, declares his fidelity in front of friends and family). Men will pretend to love you and fake whole relationships, but if you make them drop thousands on you the fakers usually weed themselves out. Boyfrie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:34 AM
1

In Finland I’m pretty sure when a couple gets married they both change their surnames to a new one they made up together. That way parents and children all have the same last name and no one parent has to sacrifice their name in favour of the other’s. Maybe we should do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:31 PM
3

Ummm the Y chromosome has something like 170 genes, most of them unnecessary repeating codes. Pretty much the only thing a Y chromosome does is make a zygote male and make the sperm tails to do spiral motions lol. Whereas the x has tens of thousands of genes that are responsible for all kinds of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:23 PM
40

I’m so glad 2 of the wives had a sort of happy ending and escaped their nightmare marriages. You’re lucky you’re woke about men so young and know what to avoid. Also side note: What the hell is it with complete maniac men and their long raggedy dirty toenails? I wholeheartedly agree that the biggest giveaway a man is a POS is the state of his toenails. Every single abusive man I’ve come across has goddamn green 2 inch talons on his feet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:29 AM
7

Honestly it might be because taste in men is subjective, studies show that women have huge variance in what they find attractive. So these women might actually think their husbands are very attractive even if they are aware they aren’t conventionally attractive. Like Bruce Willis is not handsome or objectively good looking, he looks like an average Joe, yet I still find him attractive and so do a lot of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:01 PM
1

Small penis is like being short. It’s not the lack of inches that’s a turn off; it’s the insecurity and chip on the shoulder that makes you unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:48 PM
4

My parents both worked and had a joint account that was effectively just my dad’s account. He would frequently empty so that my mom would get stranded in the grocery checkout line 😤 My mom’s wardrobe was made up entirely of clothes she had prior to marriage, all of her clothing was older than her children. The only new clothes she got was a packet of granny panties from the supermarket every 3 years or so. She cut her own hair most of the time because we couldn’t “afford” hairdressers for her, n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:40 AM
8

All you have to do is play dota or call of duty to realize men’s emotions are out of control lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:22 AM
25

Ok which one of you ladies wrote this as a parody? 😅Because no one can convince me this post is for real, I refuse to believe this is legit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:52 AM
4

Honestly I can’t help but feel like the OP is a victim of an evil predatory online cult that has prevented him from making authentic romantic connections. I mean he found a nice lady that was super into him and that he was falling in love with and wanted to “simp” (ie take care of her like a man in love does). He said that he felt so happy being with her. He could have settled down with her, had children and lived happily ever after. BUT NO THE WHAMEN BAD MEN ON THE INTERNET WOULD SAY MEAN WORDS…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:29 AM
19

I think that a lot of conventionally handsome men have quite an extensive beauty regime but nobody notices because he doesn’t talk about it, he just looks good. Like the hottest guys I know irl seem to get their hair cut every two weeks and it’s always styled, wear high quality cologne, have permanent baby smooth shaved faces, look like they get their teeth whitened and they dresses well in clothes they get tailored, on top of being built and muscular. Nobody would think to call them metrosexual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:40 AM
30

A lot of people emphasize God’s perfect mercy. But they conveniently like to forget He has perfect justice. Rape, on top of being Prima facie evil to anyone with a working conscience, is also a blasphemy and desecration of a sacrament.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:06 PM
11

Awww you can tell he’s so excited to see her reaction, like her genuine happiness is his reward: he’s not doing it to get something out of it for himself. I love how you can hear the real affection and warmth towards her in his voice 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 It’s such a simple act. I don’t know why so many men feel this is unreasonable. Little thoughtful acts like this done consistently and often mean so much more than a grand gesture once in a blue moon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:52 PM
13

Yes, children learn and develop their brains through social play and interaction. We have an entire 2 generations that instead played Nintendo/pc/PlayStation and Xbox and it really shows. I know this is a boomer take but they were right when they said tv rots your brains. I’ve had so many instances when I’ve tried to strike up a conversation with a man (asking him questions about what he studies, does for work, hobbies etc), and there’s like a brain lag when he stares at me like a zombie before …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:05 AM
59

Yeah I’m just so bored of men. They are BORING and incapable of holding a conversation. In real life and especially online. They can barely string a sentence together. I’m so sick of going on OLD and either having the “hi, hi, how are you?, good, how are you?, good” rigmarole over and over again, or they ask me to come over at 2am. I feel like excessive screen time and sedentary lifestyles during important developmental stages has rendered them borderline intellectually disabled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:45 PM
11

Wow I’m so sorry, that is absolutely abhorrent. Women in your position should be able to sue or press criminal charges successfully and ruin his life. Those men are demonic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:09 PM
78

See I have a pet theory/intuition that a lot of women’s fertility problems are caused by scarring from untreated and asymptomatic stds unknowingly caught from male carriers. This also goes for abnormal cervical cells from hpv. Men are literally biohazard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:42 AM
81

Oh god 50 first dates. I watched that movie over and over and over again when I was 12. There’s that one scene when he’s on a date with her and gropes her boobs which she protests because it’s the first date and he’s like “well technically it’s been x amount of dates which means I get boob access now” or something to that effect, my memory is hazy. Even as a child I knew that was effed up. He wants her because he never has to develop a meaningful adult relationship and can just rehash the surfac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:20 AM
13

Yes, they use that line for literally every form of constructive criticism no matter how tactfully and sensitively given. It’s definitely emotional manipulation/abuse but I wish it had a more readily available name...maybe “narcissistic injury?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:42 PM
60

Because then he’d be like “fine be like that, I’ll just never touch you again” and then sulk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:36 AM
6

Does she realize she can do that with a cat or dog? They smell better and are lower maintenance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:18 PM
7

American History X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:10 PM
56

Next time a guy asks me to sleep with him on the first date, instead of just saying no I’m gonna tell him “sorry but that would mean that I have to have sex on the first date with every other man otherwise it’s not fair to them, please be mindful of men’s rights”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 09:06 PM
29

Ugh I hate the piercings=promiscuity myth. I had a bunch of crazy piercings without even kissing or holding hands with men lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:57 PM
28

Rihanna is so strikingly beautiful, the way her round forehead projects outwards in her side profile is so lovely. She makes me wanna embrace my fivehead haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:08 PM
27

Have you noticed how guys openly categorize women using the porn category labels: petite, bbw, big titty goth girl, and ones that are too racist to mention. It’s so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:32 PM
15

Press F for Elise 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:31 PM
12

Keep spinning those hamster wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:39 PM
8

Hmmm I’m talking about LTRs. Men will have sex with anything vaguely resembling a hole, so sure it’s possible chad will plow hambeasts. But not even male hambeasts will consider their looksmatch for LTRs. I’ve only once seen an LTR where the man was better looking, most of the LTRs I observe the woman far outstrips the man by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:38 PM
50

I honestly think a lot of guys are against paying for dates in theory but as soon as they’re face to face with an attractive woman it all goes out the window and they can’t help but open their wallets. So they have to rationalize it as “she manipulated me”. Where I live going Dutch is supposed to be the norm yet I’ve only gone Dutch once (when we were both teenagers). The cheapest man I’ve ever known (the “eats dinner at home before going out to dinner so he doesn’t spend as much money” level of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:54 PM
1

I’m pretty sure the n count of the average woman in her 20s is around 3, 4, or 5. Most have a few long term boyfriends lasting a few years until they find the right guy and settle down. I don’t know where you find all these double and triple digit n count women...I can count on one hand the women I’ve met with high n counts and they were all...obviously not quite right: very below average in attractiveness, had drug issues (alcohol, cigs, party drugs), shoplifted regularly, were highschool drop …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:38 PM
22

Number 3 means let me fuck plates but you have to be ride or die cos muh penis 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:29 PM
34

Both men and women are hypergamous. All men want a woman substantially better looking than themselves and women want a man higher in the social hierarchy. I don’t think it’s necessarily immoral, both parties want to tether their DNA to the best candidate possible. It would be dysgenic af otherwise. What’s unfair is hypergamy is only ever applied to women when men lie to themselves about their own hypergamy. ShE jUsT NEedS tO nOt BE oBEse...bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:25 PM
44

A lot of men make up stories that their exes cheated on them when the reality is they just got dumped and she moved on quickly. They can’t comprehend that women can end relationships to be completely single. It’s easier on the male ego that the woman finds a better man, than the fact she chooses to have no man over him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:25 PM
13

Hmmm he guilts her and throws a toddler tantrum when she occasionally says no to sex, and her sex drive has lowered due to purportedly nebulous mental health reasons. Could those two things maybe be linked? 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:39 AM
13

At the end you can really see the self loathing in her eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:39 PM
10

I love how he said he showed his mates these messages and they’re rolling on the floor laughing. Yeah, at him and what a pathetic cringe creepy he is lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:19 AM
40

Wow that is such projection on their part!! Have you ever seen men’s feet? They literally never cut their toenails, have infections and permanent athletes foot and then walk around in sandals and stab their poor women with their claws when they go to bed 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:00 PM
31

The only way to enhance a sexual relationship is empathy. Like reorienting your mindset into receiving sexual and emotional gratification from pleasuring the other person. Women do this by default so it’s the man’s responsibility to match this mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:19 PM
3

I think he means too many romcoms 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:26 PM
40

Ikr. I hope this doesn’t come across as ignorant and stereotyping but has he ever met a Filipino woman lol!?!? My experience is that they’re sassy and fierce af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:00 PM
15

I don’t know if this is true but practically everyone in media gets a faceflift in their thirties: if you get it at that age it looks like you aged “gracefully” when you hit your 40s and 50s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:00 AM
10

This is similar to love bombing but it’s a little more sinister and subtle. When he tells you how “perfect”, “amazing” you are, how you’re his ideal woman and lays it on thick with compliments right off the bat. A common response to that is to start explaining exactly why you’re not actually perfect because you’re so uncomfortable with these high expectations. It seems rational because you’re just trying to get him to be more realistic. But he wants you to respond that way so that he knows all y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:24 PM
60

“He watches and glares at me while I feed our daughter”...I know this isn’t funny but the image I have in my head of a grown man pouting in the corner in jealousy while his wife nurses is just so absurd and ridiculous like holy shit how does she not burst out laughing at him? What an absolute deviant creep to sexualize mother and child bonding. She definitely should NOT leave him alone with her baby, men are dangerous when they’re jealous. Also he sees his baby as direct competition, which means…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:09 PM
11

Yes...I seem to accidentally give off “easy” vibes somehow even though my profile says I’m religious and attend church every week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:49 PM
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This strategy is even more effective for guys who are into anal. I matched with a guy on tinder and his first message was asking for anal....I sent him a link to grindr then unmatched and reported him 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:45 AM
10

Don’t react the way they want you to with soothing their feelings, instead agree and amplify (as long as this doesn’t make them physically abusive and you’re safe to do this). Like if they say “wow I’m such a bad person I feel so bad” just agree and tell them they deserve to feel bad lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:26 AM
34

Of course his name is Kyle 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:44 AM
4

Isn’t that just called a committed relationship? Like isn’t the whole not cheating thing just a given? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:29 AM
19

Girl, Jesus loves you so much that he would never ask you to let a man beat you for the sake of marriage. You have a Christian duty to yourself to love your body and keep your children out of harms way. The whole reason Jesus preached about no divorce was to protect women: back in his time, men would cheat on their wives or just get sick of them and divorce them, leaving them social outcasts with no way to support themselves. So when he banned divorce it was to prevent the abusive abandonment of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:14 AM
17

Honestly this sounds like the kind of mistake a person would make if their second language is English
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:56 PM
7

By flirting it’s clear he means sexting, also what a massive self roast that he prefers to talk to Snapchat bots and scammers because they let him behave like a pervy creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:26 AM
10

Omg he’s laying it on so thick with the dying duck act 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:28 PM
14

Offered to clean his apartment for him and got him candy, a card and a book for Valentine’s Day (mind you both of these were within days of first meeting him 😬🤡🤡🤡🤡) and no he didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:28 PM
10

Hmm well you’d be the one who has to deal with him so if you think it’s a dealbreaker then go with it. Trust your intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:05 AM
60

I’m guessing the red flags is he’s doing the “you’re not like the other girls” neg? Like he’s saying most girls are vapid with boring profiles unlike you. It’s subtle but I’d consider it an orange flag and proceed with caution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:51 AM
41

Men actually do have a lot of emotional depth, and are very very perceptive with body language. If you pay attention male interaction is very complex and mostly done through subtle body language and subtext. They have no trouble picking up incredibly subtle body language in other men. They just don’t bother with women, they mainly coast by on the myth that “men are simple”, “men can’t pick up subtle signals”, “men aren’t mind readers”. They feign incompetence when it comes to women’s body langua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 10:29 AM
7

I’m literally imagining the female version of that ms paint chad meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:12 AM
7

The relationship this woman has with her mom is just so gosh darn cute I can’t 🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭 What kind of deviant, sick, twisted individual would have a problem with it? A man that’s watched so much mom/daughter incest porn he’s given himself brain damage. He literally said to her “you wet your panties at the thought of sharing a bed with your mom” like how did she not slap him and tell him to fuck off forever 😤😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:54 AM
17

Just tell him you’re way too pretty to wait 3 years for the mere possibility of an engagement 💅🏻 Then dump him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:04 PM
0

“I’m not saying it never happened in the past”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:40 PM
20

Cos now that he’s hit the wall he can’t ride the p*ssy carousel anymore so now wants to settle for (what he thinks) are beta woman bucks...honestly their whole AF/BB theory is just projection as they all think they can play the field but panic and marry the closest warm body when their hairline starts receding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:04 PM
3

Yes, in only the last few years insane dangerous practices like strangulation and anal have become mainstream, almost vanilla and a staple in the sexual script. It seems to coincide with the proliferation of internet porn. Also child on child incestuous sexual abuse is skyrocketing and most psychologists credit this to “step” brother/sister porn. Just look at those askreddit threads asking women about what is something men do in bed that they think is sexy but actually isn’t (or something) and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:45 PM
16

They’ll temporarily identify as women and follow her in to the loo 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:34 AM
1

Reading and studying the red pill and pua made me pink pilled. Basically that men love women firstly for their looks and secondly for having no boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 10:06 PM
7

The Aquarius I dated was honestly cluster b and sick in the head...violent mood swings going from I love you to go kill yourself, had electro shock therapy that gave him amnesia (or so he claimed), told me on the first date he was abused as a 10 yo by female pedophiles, gaslighted me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:37 PM
11

Is it just me or is the band all effed up and asymmetrical?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:01 PM
10

Men are truly the meme gender 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:31 AM
15

I’m also autistic. I’ve watched a few episodes and on the one hand find it a little patronizing like whoa look at these freaks attempt to be normal, and I feel they edit it to make the people look more awkward...on the other hand I think it’s really sweet and the romantic gestures seem genuine to me, like Michael (I think) was really smitten with cos playing bow girl. Also I can’t help but be upset at “socially inept bonobos”...that’s a disgusting way to talk about anyone and I feel that there’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:01 AM
15

Omg I’m dying 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:42 PM
21

Is this supposed to be Beyoncé and Jay Z? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:00 PM
10

It’s because they think that their mother and girlfriend/wife perform the same role...I swear daddy issues is the biggest and most audacious male reversal because it’s men that all want to have sex with their own mothers lmao. There’s a reason the bible commands men to leave their parents and cleave to their wives...having mother in laws in competition with wives is one of the most destructive forces on the family unit. It’s one of the reasons my parents split up: my dad would take his mother ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:29 PM
13

He totally was using that money on sugar babies and/or prostitutes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:16 PM
5

Can I have the link? I’m worried about images taken against my consent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:13 AM
6

Why would I try to change a man? I respect them and their autonomy and trust that if there’s something they need to improve they can take the initiative themselves. Because that’s what men and every other adult does. I’m not going to nag and control him, I like feeling feminine and submissive 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:07 AM
18

I get it really bad, like I’ve never had a baby but I wouldn’t be surprised if labor contractions are similar to my period cramps, and I hope that’s not minimizing what mothers go through. Like I’m on the verge of passing out and all I can do is writhe on my bed in pain. If I take ibuprofen BEFORE cramps start I’ll be ok, but once they’ve started painkillers do nothing. So I have to track carefully and take ibuprofen in the days leading up to my period which can’t be good for me 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:20 PM
18

Pathetic how men are so fragile and hysterical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:45 PM
9

I’m about the same weight as you too and I look reasonably thin... I honestly understand why anorexia is a thing if men believe 120 is chubby, my god men are fucking stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:17 AM
24

Pickmeisha’s will want to prove him wrong...”I can be the one who changes him”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:38 AM
16

I get what you’re saying but even if the Bible isn’t literally true, it still reveals something about how humans perceive themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:26 PM
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This is why I think every teenage boy is a psychopath...so many men have told me they couldn’t feel empathy at all when they were teens and early twenties and that they had to teach themselves to feel it through great difficulty, it’s really disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:18 PM
18

Ugh I was complaining of cluster headaches/migraines(?) that occurred at certain points in my cycle as well as severe cramps, fully expecting the doctor to recommend something like diet changes, or god forbid actually explain why and how they were happening....but no it was LEts gEt YoU oN bIRth cOnTroL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:35 AM
5

He’ll come crawling back within 3 months lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:30 AM
24

Ugh I remember being scandalized and hurt by the way users on smallboobproblems were talking about well endowed women and bigboobproblems, but looking back it was distinctively male-like. They would say things like big boobed women live life on easy mode, getting sexually assaulted and harassed for our boobs was actually a privilege, we don’t know how lucky we are that any man would fuck us, we’re all promiscuous, etc...suspiciously almost the exact same things creepy men say about women 🧐 I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:25 AM
31

We truly live in a dystopia if “spicing things up in the bedroom” leads to a dislocated jaw 🥴 Spicing things up is supposed to mean you buy a scented candle, match your bra to your panties and get a hot oil massage lmao how did that get twisted into meaning trips to the ER 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:06 AM
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mEn aRE pRoTEctoRs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:28 AM
2

I know a few lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 01:12 AM
3

Ummmm if anything standards have gone down...unemployed, fat, balding men who do nothing but watch porn and play vidya can get gfs, heck they don’t even need to wipe their asses anymore...compared to men in the past actually needed to work full time, able to support a sahm, be reasonably fit, be handy (know how to fix things around the house), be well connected socially, have social skills etc. The fact that men have it easier than ever but somehow struggle to get a gf is pathetic and shows how …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:05 PM
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Wait are they implying that the lady is fat? Or that her gorgeous thicc body is analogous to the man...if so I understand why men seem to think women are hypergamous, they are so delusional about who is their “looksmatch”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:37 AM
9

I’m pretty sure cellulite isn’t actually caused by fat or the ratio of fat to muscle, apparently that’s a pervasive myth. It’s actually the structure of the collagen fibres in our skin which is a similar shape to a pocket spring mattress, which is why even low body fat body builder type women can still have it. Whereas the fibres in men’s skin is denser and Criss crossed. I might be wrong though so I’m happy to be corrected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:37 AM
19

She looks gorgeous? Many women want a body like that...men seriously expect women to look like they’re made of silicone rubber lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:28 AM
5

I’m gonna be honest: judging from your comments it’s your personality...you come across like an incel and normie women are actually legit scared of incels since they only hear about them when the media reports their terrorism. Women are probably picking up on the hostility and resentment bubbling below the surface. Maybe the reason why your friend said you were cute and then changed her tune is she got to know you and your vibe/behavior colored her perception of your attractiveness. And you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:05 PM
3

Ummmmm you are objectively handsome. Honestly either this is the male version of a hot girl posting a selfie captioned ewww I’m so ugly to get an ego boost, or you’ve been legitimately gaslit and victimized by incels and their crab in a bucket mentality...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:47 PM
3

Women shouldn’t need game, but the way dating is set up as adversarial and a zero sum game necessitates defensive strategies. Most dating advice geared towards women is designed to maximize men’s access to women and their agenda at the expense of the woman ( eg, women making the first move, letting inexcusable treatment slide because you can’t expect men to treat you nicely unless you’ve cOmMunICaTeD etc) If you think your personality is the problem, but you like yourself and your friends like y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:40 PM
1

I know what you mean, but I would prefer ifJason Momoa cut his hair lol. Somehow it’s always the guys with weak jaws and rat faces rocking the long hair though anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:07 AM
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My mom said my dad appeared super neat when they dated, she would go to his apartment and it was immaculate (he lived alone). She honestly thought he would be doing his share of housework when they got married and there was nothing that hinted he wouldn’t pick up after himself. They get married and he’s instantly a disgusting pig and would only change a diaper if he had an audience so he’d get worshipped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:03 AM
19

Long hair on a man gives me visceral disgust...like it looks unkempt and gives the impression that they have poor hygiene. And long haired men are always so clingy and inappropriate with their emotions. Imo men need haircuts every 2 weeks or they’re slobs 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:14 PM
21

“I browsed the internet in the evening” translation: I watched porn and wanked so when I saw my wife in lingerie I just went huh and got back to my vidya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:10 PM
59

Stay tf away from self proclaimed “INTJ” men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:28 AM
11

I know what you mean, women my age (including me) daren’t even hint we are sexual creatures. For example I get treated like I’ve said something taboo for just pointing out a guy is handsome...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:00 AM
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I’d say a combination of 1, 2 and 4. If it is a problem it’s entirely men’s fault. The woman’s role is expanding (not only does she do the bulk of child rearing and domestic duties, she also earns income, gets educated etc) whereas men have become useless. They can’t provide, do basic menial tasks, keep their offspring alive or adhere to basic hygiene standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:57 AM
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I thought men are supposed to be more “visual” 🥴 The Taylor Swift one sent me though...her eyebrows are pencilled/powdered and gelled af and she’s wearing tonnes of bronzer, not to mention SHE IS LITERALLY ON AN EFFING MAGAZINE COVER!!!! 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:22 PM
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If women collectively stopped entertaining men they’d probably just start driving trucks into us and blowing their own hands off trying to make IEDs for us 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:13 PM
2

Is gainfully employed Showers at least once every day and brushes his teeth twice Doesn’t hit me, rape me or call me names, puts me down, etc Genuinely is happy for my achievements Wants children and takes the role of being a father seriously I find him subjectively physically attractive (doesn’t need to be conventionally attractive, I just need to like his face) Has a productive hobby that requires a valued skill or physical effort, eg not video games or watching tv, more like playing a sport, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:55 AM
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Honestly I think being a pickme is almost a developmental milestone in this culture that presents being a woman and/or “feminine” as lesser and demeaning. Like it’s very hard to avoid that mentality when it’s literally encouraged through mainstream media and peer pressure....so I don’t hold it against teens and very young women since they are meant to grow out of it and it’s not their fault. What is unacceptable and totally cringe is persisting as a pickme into middle age or never growing out of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:44 AM
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Hmm I don’t think a lot of women realize how important their looks are in receiving basic politeness. I was an ugly duckling and would get jeered at in public (by men and women), cow called, sarcastically asked out while onlookers laughed etc. Then I put on a lot of weight (I was dangerously underweight, so I just gained weight to a healthy level), and the new fullness in my face and curvy body literally took me from a 2 to a 5 or 6, and I can scrape a 7 with makeup and flattering hair. The way …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:39 AM
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If she’s fresh out of a divorce I think her behavior makes perfect sense. I don’t know how long she was married but it seems like she literally has no idea how to be single or prioritize herself because she’s dedicated her entire existence to the whims of a male. Look at the way she phrases her question: how can I talk about my basic emotional needs without coming across like a vicious harpy? Her husband must have really done a doozy on her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:49 AM
6

Vaginismus...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:26 PM
7

He looks like he’s about to save Europe with just a phonecall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:21 PM
5

I think the issues were already there, he finds socializing with her “stressful”. If someone said that to me I’d feel like I was a nuisance or a burden and they only humor my company, and I’d take it as a sign he’s just not that into me. If he truly feels quality time with his gf is “stressful” and “work” then he should do her the favor of ending it. Unplugging the console wasn’t necessary, it’s demeaning to herself and puts her in the position of a mommy trying to discipline her obnoxious teen …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:42 AM
14

The love language of touch is so bastardized by men. It’s meant to be warm hugs after a long difficult day, little absent minded caresses throughout the day, brushing the hair out of your eyes just because, stroking your arm while you’re engrossed in telling them a story, passionate kisses that don’t need to be taken further, trying to tango in the kitchen while you’re cooking spaghetti together, etc, etc. But no, men take all this romantic gestures and compress it into MUH PP NEEDS WET
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:54 AM
1

I require commitment from all men though, does that mean I think all men are betas? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:46 PM
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My interpretation of his initial rude behavior was that he overheard Lizzie’s mother pointing him out and loudly saying “he has this much money go snag him” (which is uncouth), and he was offended and assumed Lizzie was in on it. He probably had a similar disposition to Lizzie, in that he wanted to marry a woman that loved him, not someone who only wanted his estate, money and social position but mistakenly thought that Lizzie was shallow and mercenary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:57 PM
51

This has the same energy as Lizzie Bennet’s rejection of that creepy vicar cousin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:47 PM
5

I don’t consciously think about whether a man is alpha or beta, tbh I think it’s bullshit caved in head bro science. But any man who subscribes to the alpha/beta dichotomy is automatically a beta by their own definition ...if they’re that invested in that ideology it’s because deep down they believe they are beta, why else would they go down that path? According to trpers the “true alphas” are completely unaware of all the trper shit because they don’t need it, it comes natural to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:39 PM
1

I’ve read that tretinoin skin thinning is a myth though: apparently it thins the skin initially but long term it thickens it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:43 AM
1

I’ve thought about tanning but actually really love my natural porcelain skin color 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:42 AM
1

That’s actually really helpful, I’m gonna screenshot this comment haha. I’ve actually cut out dairy in the past and did find that my skin looked more opaque, I’ve also heard chlorophyll is good too which I’m guessing are found in large quantities in kale etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:40 AM
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Awww I’m sorry my comment made you feel insecure 😓 Honestly I was always aware of my veins but never thought anything of them until that fuckhead negged me about them, and it’s not like I notice them on other people and think they look “old”...anyway this is why men talking should be illegal 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:49 PM
13

Haha no, his style was more typical gen x slacker/ Peter Pan syndrome: flannels over joy division T-shirts lmao 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄 Maybe the spider vein neg is a line they got from the same pua blogpost or sth 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:43 PM
20

Yeah I’ve had them since I was at least 11, maybe earlier but that’s when I noticed. Honestly I’m not fussed about the ones on my body, I’ve embraced those at least, for me the face is a different story though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:39 PM
17

Did he have lip liner tattooed on to make his lips look bigger? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:32 PM
13

Yeah I’ve definitely been thinking about doing this and probably will do it in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:32 PM
24

Yeah that’s true, but I’m sure that the women who fall for this are a minority, or will be soon. A lot of women are now woke to trp, pickup artists, and I’m pretty sure almost every woman by now is aware of negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:30 PM
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This is why I think that the whole industry of pick up artistry is an elaborate scam perpetuated by charismatic men to eliminate sexual competition by teaching gullible men precisely how NOT to relate to women...I don’t think the guys that run pick up workshops and sell books actually practice what they preach, instead they try to sabotage other men so it’s easier for them to look good by comparison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:22 PM
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I’ve told this story before but a guy said to me “you have a lot of visible veins, are you sure you’re not older than you say you are?”: this guy was in his fifties pretending to be early thirties lmao. I know he was projecting and negging me but I have the type of pale skin that’s super translucent, so every imperfection is very visible, and yeah I do have a lot of spider veins/ broken capillaries despite religious sunscreen use 😓 Since then I feel I need to wear foundation to cover them and ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:02 PM
3

I dunno they could be doing it ironically which is actually kind of funny? Like satirizing weeabu culture 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:33 PM
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It’s the other way round for most “dads” 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:54 AM
32

Yeah I know what you mean. A completely hairless pubic area looks very uncanny valley to me, and it’s especially jarring and looks really incongruous if you’re thicc/have a very “womanly” body. I don’t think the trend of hairlessness it’s overtly pedophilic (although it has a pedo flavor) I think it’s more to do with control by keeping women occupied with pointless time consuming beauty rituals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:58 AM
17

Omg he’s literally Kreacher from Harry Potter 🤣😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:49 AM
4

Yup, obviously the mother didn’t realize until years after, but the guy would boast about it to his friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:03 PM
29

I see you and raise you one: I knew a girl who was named after her dad’s favorite pornstar 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:09 AM
28

Being a female accomplice to serial rapists/murderers is the pickmeisha’s final form. Pickmeisha’s aren’t always poor innocent, wounded lambs, some are downright dangerous and evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:15 PM
11

Sorry if this is a dumb question but how do you send a request to join darktriadwomen? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:11 PM
3

I agree, and I think B.C. pills were one of the biggest mistakes in gynaecological medicine. It’s basically the female equivalent of chemical castration, we’re told it just tricks our bodies into thinking we’re pregnant but it actually creates an entirely new hormonal profile not found anywhere in nature...I think a lot of the so called “true nature” of women can be chalked up to radical hormonal alteration: we’re not seeing women in their true state anymore. I’ve only been on bc a couple months…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:06 AM
6

Absolutely disgusting. How can one even be attracted to such a sexually deviant freak? I have such a visceral revulsion reaction to just reading this, can’t imagine experiencing it 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:08 PM
1

I think it’s leggings...every guy I know has a love/hate relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:44 AM
3

Madonna/whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 10:38 AM
10

I always knew this so never participated in casual sex. My mom explained to me that men will fuck anything, even jars of peanut butter and couch cushions so don’t be flattered if they wanna fuck you. And men can’t go 5 seconds without telling women that 10/10 chads bang ugly 3s and 4s all the time. Honestly this is why you should ghost men who bring up sex within the first few dates, since they’re basically implying you’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:57 AM
3

That’s a very sperg way of looking at human relationships...and an attitude that is warped from overconsumption of prostitution (cam girls, porn stars, etc) so that now the attitude of sex as a commodity bleeds out into romantic relationships. Part of the problem is we look at relationships from “transactional” point of view too much. The whole rationalization of paying more for something someone got for free just sounds to me like a jealous men unable to come to terms with the sexually liberate…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:30 AM
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I said something similar to this in your original question, that the fact people are having such vehement, emotional debates about this and clearly have a hard time accepting that the “price” of sex is variable shows that sex has an objective fixed price: love and commitment. Men can’t emotionally cope with a woman that makes them wait but hasn’t made other men wait, because deep down they really want to be the only man to sleep with her and see her past as infidelity on some level. Sex is only …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 09:47 PM
3

Yeah, if it’s making you feel insecure that’s a bad sign, especially if it’s this early in the courtship, this should be when they’re on their best behavior! I’d imagine their comments would just get worse and slowly chip away your self esteem the longer you’re together. I had a similar experience...a guy literally asked me if I even had teeth (!?) because I’m not smiling with my teeth in any of my pictures...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 08:26 PM
1

I agree it’s hurtful to be saving yourself for one guy while at the same time sleeping with others, I also think it’s immoral regardless of how the man feels. I don’t think it’s reasonable to be upset over a woman who wants to wait because she underwent soul searching and moral development after quickly going to bed with guys in the distant past, but everyone is entitled to their unreasonable emotions and no one can force anyone to date them🤷🏻‍♀️ The fact that men can’t wrap their heads around a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:56 PM
2

I would agree with that premise if women’s magazines presented it as “Breaking News ladies!! Revolutionary advice! eating a healthy balanced diet and exercising regularly makes you feel better and makes you more attractive to men! Wow who’d have thunk it, best get that gym membership now sweaty 😍” Except they don’t. Media directed at women take it for granted that women already do this, the advice related to fitness and diet is more specific and geared towards improving and fine tuning diet and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:14 PM
1

Duh it’s unfounded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:59 PM
1

I’m 31, millennials are born about early-mid eighties to mid 90s, gen z is late nineties to mid aughts I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:40 PM
2

I think women are lied to, they just recognize them as lies very early. Like it’s very clear Prince Charming isn’t real when you go to kindergarten and get punched, kicked and insulted by boys all day long. It’s also hard to believe in “happily ever after” when you only see your parents fighting and mistreating each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:38 PM
1

Maybe you need to channel some raw sperg energy. A lot of spergs hate small talk and find it boring, so instead jump straight away into topics like whether aliens exist and/or space travel lol. Sure people might think you’re weird but at least you’ll be interesting. You don’t have to wait until other people to bring up your interests, for example you can ask people what they studied in college and if it’s humanities related you might have an in for talking about your interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:31 PM
2

So true about the echo chambers...my gen (millennials) and gen z men are very gender segregated. Like in any social gathering the guys all huddle together but the women will flit between the men’s group and the women’s group. It’s never a guy that breaks ranks to talk to women. There’s also a vibe I get from guys that women are this alien species that need to be communicated in a completely unique way, instead of just as regular humans...I have 5 brothers and 5 male cousins so never thought the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:23 PM
1

Probably because they read too much mra stuff and now think they can get arrested for saying something a woman doesn’t like...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:15 PM
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Maybe it’s because self-improvement for women is so natural that it’s a given and FDS assumes that if you’re on FDS to improve your dating life you’re probably also trying to improve other aspects of your life 💁🏻‍♀️ The fact that redpillers need to focus on such basic, bare minimum things like: exercise and read books, is kind of telling about the pathetic state of modern man. I mean most women already exercise, eat healthy, have a skincare routine, go-to makeup looks down pat, study, improve ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:07 PM
2

I used to have super oily hair, like I’d wash it in the morning and by mid afternoon it looked like I hadn’t washed it for weeks, like it looked WET from oil, but my hair was still dry and crunchy 😩The only thing that fixed it was slowly adding one extra day between washes and just pushing through the oiliness (dry shampoo and buns). Like washing every second day for a few weeks until hair adjusted and stopped looking gross on the second day, then every three days etc. It took almost a year but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 02:50 PM
1

Nope...protecting and providing is nurture, men are programmed by society to do that. Their natural instinct is to humiliate, beat, rape and murder women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 03:03 PM
5

Feeling creeped out is when you’re subconsciously picking up on signs that the person is dangerous, but it’s not enough to justify fear yet. Like they could be safe but they might not be, so you get the creeps as a warning from your subconscious to be careful. So anyone can be creepy, the most recent creepy person I met was a random elderly lady that was being excessively friendly and talkative...I got an intense creepy vibe from her for some reason so excused myself and got away from her. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 06:21 PM
5

I kind started reading manosphere stuff as a teenager, because I was bullied for my looks by guys and told I would die a virgin etc etc, so I was trying to figure out how to make myself attractive to guys. Men slowly started to be interested in me after highschool, and I did everything right according to what redpillers think the ideal woman should be. I starved myself to maintain a 21 inch waist, bleached my hair platinum blonde and grew it hip length, wore sexy clothes, learned how to do makeu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 06:03 PM
5

I still think being a woman exacerbates their awkwardness, like I’ll ask harmless questions and they straight up go all deer in the headlights and hesitate to answer as if I’ll bite their heads off if they say the wrong thing, and I’m just like...I’m not that scary lol. Hopefully they grow out of it, I was very reclusive and went through a massive phase of just video games too but am making an effort to channel my extrovert alter ego. I’ve heard a lot of men say similar things: they were sociall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 03:14 PM
4

Aw that’s tough, I know how frustrating it is to not be able to find your size. It’s practically impossible to find dd+ cups that are less than a 38 band in physical stores, I never realized there was the same problem with smaller cup sizes. It really is insulting when bra manufacturers seem to think you don’t exist 😒I wouldn’t have thought 36a is a weird size, it’s just that there’s plenty of common sizes that nobody bothers to stock because reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:45 PM
3

This! I’m in between a 28 and 30 band so can wear either and I don’t even bother trying to find my size in brick and mortar stores anymore. I just get my bras from brastop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:34 PM
2

Yeah I didn’t mean to come across so mean, I was more trying to express how extreme their problems are and how hamstrung they are socially...it’s a huge problem, their parents and society failed them and I feel very sorry for them. I’m shy but I try to be bubbly and make everyone feel comfortable when socializing, and I get along like a house on fire with most women regardless of how well I know them, but when I strike up conversations with male acquaintances it’s like trying to get blood from a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:19 PM
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I’m glad some women agree with me, I was very worried I might have come across as body shaming OP which I totally wasn’t. There’s nothing wrong with being slim if it’s healthy and not underweight and she likes being that weight, and it’s not the woman’s fault if weirdos fetishize it. It’s just something slim women have to be careful of. Although unfortunately I don’t really have any solutions on how to filter those guys besides gaining weight, which women shouldn’t have to do if they’re healthy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:06 PM
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Yeah, I was very underweight and CLEARLY unwell, I had a bmi of 14 but the men I dated insisted I was totally fine and that I didn’t need to gain any weight at all. This was in response to me saying I wanted to gain weight to be healthier...they were very verbally abusive and had very sick kinks...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:57 PM
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Yeah, it’s kind of inevitable a woman’s weight will fluctuate in an LTR/marriage due to pregnancy, nursing, aging, lifestyle factors etc. If he’s to fragile to handle 20lbs he’s not going to be kind and supportive during and after pregnancies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:51 PM
8

Yeah and you get to wear cute bras that are inexpensive, instead of spending upwards of 65$ on granny bras 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:03 PM
2

Yeah I’m still not seeing how it doesn’t jive with what I’ve posted?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:53 AM
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Wow....20lbs is barely anything, especially if your clothes still fit you! My weight fluctuates that amount fairly regularly. Are you very very slim naturally? Because my thinking is if you’re really slim, there are a lot of guys who have a very rigid preference for skinny women to the point it’s the most important quality a woman needs to have, so I think he might have been one of those men. I used to be very skinny and all the guys that were interested in me had extreme skinny fetishes. Gettin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:35 AM
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If you ever meet a red piller in real life, it’s easier to dismiss them and their views. In real life they’re socially awkward and pathetic who are deer in the headlights when you force them to deviate from their script or respond to their pre programmed lines in a way they don’t expect. They’re all bark and no bite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:19 AM
2

What about my post history? 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:09 AM
11

I’ve noticed that men in my generation and gen z, a lot of them seem literally autistic and borderline intellectually disabled. They spent every moment of their childhood and adolescent free time playing video games and watching porn. Now when you try to strike up a conversation they can barely string a sentence together, can barely say anything that isn’t monosyllabic grunting...it honestly feels like you’re talking to a toddler or someone functionally retarded 😓 I think their problem is much d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 09:43 AM
8

Pretty sure I read somewhere that men are more likely to have an external locus of control, and women internal. I’ve seen this play out in real life too 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 09:14 AM
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That explains why married men only pester their wives for sex when she’s busy and frazzled, but if she shaves her legs, does her makeup and hair, puts on lingerie he turns her down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:44 AM
5

Greetings fellow autistic woman 👋 I know, I bump into a few girl aspies/autistics here and there so I feel like we’re actually starting to be acknowledged ♥️ I know they’re technically not autistic but it really baffles me how they can be les socially intelligent that people with a condition lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:01 AM
1

You literally just said I chose an asshole over someone who wasn’t. I explained a chose a guy because he WAS nice...and then you deny that you ever blamed me. I’m not naive enough to expect pity or empathy from men I know they’re usually incapable of it. I was ONLY giving that example (many women have had similar experiences) to refute your assertion that I knowingly chose a man that was an asshole. Stop moving the goalposts and contradicting yourself. And I’m not “pretending” men change and do …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:57 AM
7

Can you read? I literally explained that there are things that draw certain people to me...I’m aware and I’m trying to be more discerning. And I don’t choose assholes, I choose guys who are kind to me but sometimes they do a 180 out of nowhere. For example, I went on a handful of dates with a guy that was NOTHING but kind and attentive to me, and I reflected that kindness back. I went to bed early one night because I had an early start, so missed his goodnight text. I wake up the next morning to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 09:28 PM
3

Yeah men can behave as atrociously as they want and can play a game of how many boundaries they can push and it’s up to women to be the goalie. If they fail it’s their fault. If anything it’s men that don’t have personal responsibility because they think their behavior is solely determined by how much women will let them get away with. And it’s true that most of the time assholes masquerade as nice people, only dropping the mask when they deem that you’re in too deep to leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:48 PM
1

Typical male nonsense, taking women out of context to twist their words into the most unfavorable interpretation. Did you not read anything I said before that? Where I said there are lots of qualities that can be worked on that can mitigate attracting or choosing assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:40 PM
12

And getting utis because he takes hour long poops and you really need to go 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:23 PM
44

Yikes, all they’re doing is saying “I’m so unattractive I can only match with bots” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:11 PM
29

I was going to say this...I’ve dated guys for months who seemed sweet, attentive and empathetic and they get worse and worse gradually until they’re verbally abusive and plain mean to me. It’s common for them to pull a bait and switch. It doesn’t mean that there’s nothing I can do to avoid those guys since I know I have traits that are highly attractive to nasty people, like I’m somewhere in the 90th percentile for agreeableness...so I’m easy to take advantage of. In terms of op’s question I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:50 PM
118

All men are autistic...I’m an autistic woman and I’m always shocked how so called “neurotypical” men can get away with extreme rudeness and making socializing embarrassing and uncomfortable for everyone involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:53 PM
62

Report him. His first message where he said you were clean and tasty...I’ve had men say messed up shit like that to me and I usually just hit him with the triple dots, an ew or just this emoji 🤮then I block and report him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:49 PM
1

I’m attracted to “beta” traits because I need a lot of comfort and security to feel attraction. Like I get turned on when men are empathetic, understanding and kind to me. Apparently that makes me weird lol? I’m also a mate-for-life kind of person so I like traits like dependability, responsibility and trustworthiness. I can’t stand stereotypical red pill dark triad behavior like negging and dread game...it just makes me shut down and give them up as a lost cause and move on to different guys...…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 01:19 PM
3

Getting dates isn’t a human right lol, someone not wanting to date a short person isn’t treating them as inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 10:41 AM
13

Although I would prefer a man taller than me, and over 6 foot is the ideal...they aren’t standards, and there a bunch more standards and preferences I have that are weighted more than height. Height isn’t that important to me in the grand scheme of things, in that if a guy has everything I like and is 5’4 I wouldn’t care about his height. What does matter to me is how a guy feels about his height: insecurity and bitterness over shortness is way more unattractive than the actual shortness imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 10:37 AM
7

It’s not degrading or demeaning to nurture, uplift and be agreeable towards other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:12 AM
5

Awww thanks ♥️ honestly I needed a whole FDS SWAT exfiltration team lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:54 PM
17

doO yOu kNoW AbOUt thE sOCraTiC mEtHoD aNd ThE impOrtaNce oF sToiCiSM, sWeaTy cOmE baCk oNcE yOu’vE wAtChed sOmE JorDaN pEterSon vIdEos😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:46 PM
26

Yet men are the ones somehow ashamed of loving women, so much so they can’t even get their wives cards for their anniversary because they’re worried their bros will think they’re gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:00 PM
11

Could you imagine what would happen if women en masse started hitting, slapping and punching their hookups? (I DONT CONDONE DOING THIS AND IM NOT RECOMMENDING IT, ITS A GREAT WAY TO GET MURDERED). It would be the end of the world, men would be flooding domestic violence shelters for their booboos, a national emergency would be declared, parliamentary inquests and royal commissions galore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:20 AM
33

Noooooo my sides 😭🤣😂 And my stomach 🤢 I was bout to eat 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:09 AM
17

Wow disgusting 😡 I really wanna know how the fuck middle aged guys can monkey branch so easily, and to hot young things?! Like why tf are these loser women providing andropausal scrotes the ability to trade up? All married guys have to offer is emotional baggage, wrinkles and saggy balls, it’s not like they’ll have any money if they leave their wives and kids...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:39 AM
11

Lemme guess that way younger woman kicked him to the curb eventually? I hope so. Your neighbors sound adorable haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:34 AM
16

Is your dad’s friend big Ed from 90 day fiancé lmao...but yeah fuck those guys. It’s always hilarious how old dudes think they look like hot shit for snagging a girl young enough to be their daughter, but everyone just thinks it’s pathetic and totally embarrassing. Usually what happens is they’re entire social circle drops him and he becomes a pariah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:28 AM
52

I learned to play a competitive video game with an extremely steep learning curve just so that I could spend time with him because that was the only way he’d interact with me. As repayment he would scream at me until I had panic/asthma attacks, that I was “fucking retarded and should literally fucking kill myself for being so shit at the game” 😢 Don’t date gamers lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:55 AM
49

Is it wrong that I’d be tempted to reply with “and make it DOUBLE” sends picture of Jesse from Pokémon but then again I’m sick of being cute, funny dancing monkey for men with soggy ass potato personalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:38 AM
91

He needs a philosophy, general humanities or shudders an engineering degree to complete the picture though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:31 AM
1

Thanks it’s my favorite whamen meme
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 04:28 AM
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Men who cheat on and dump their middle aged or elderly wives trigger the most intense primal anger in me, it’s such an EVIL thing to do. Like these sweet women usually sacrificed their careers and dedicated their lives to birthing and raising fuckhead men’s progeny (doing everything right according to the patriarchy) and they get left empty handed in the lurch because Nigel is having an identity crisis over his receding hairline and fat fuck beer belly 😤 I hope they all hire the bitchiest most m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 11:56 PM
30

I honestly think they have brain damage, like I’m not joking...they all have cumulative Hypoxic brain injuries from choking. Like they’re making themselves into literal retards. It’s tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:55 PM
2

It’s mainly difficult to figure out if I’m physically attracted or not. And a lot of guys catfish, probably way more than women do. I’ve found that a lot of guys who claim to be between late twenties to late thirties are actually DECADES older, like 40s, 50s and 60s. So many dates I’ve been on with straight up middle aged dudes (I work it out because he’ll say he has 6 younger siblings, I ask how old his younger siblings are and he gives ages that are older than what he told me his age was lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 07:00 AM
4

I don’t know if he was considered hot at the time, but I saw young photos of him and I just thought he was so gorgeous, and if I didn’t know it was him I’d never guess who he was. Honestly it’s such a tremendous shame...I dunno wtf happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:19 PM
9

I’m neurodivergent too (autistic) and I feel this post in my soul. I’ve literally questioned my sanity and wondered if I’ve hallucinated stuff just because of gaslighting. Autistic women are incredibly vulnerable to it too because when you’re autistic, the default is that you’re responsible for every miscommunication and in the wrong in every social situation 😓 Even though I can literally remember entire conversations verbatim and practically have photographic memory, I still will think I just m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:14 PM
49

Omg this is tragic, no woman is capable of hitting the wall anywhere near this hard. I still feel the best example of a man hitting the wall is Joe Rogan though haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:16 PM
96

Arguing for the sake of arguing is just low EQ and socially retarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:33 AM
3

You would think Christian religious circles, but they’re actually the biggest compulsive consumers. The only difference is, is that Christian guys know how bad porn is but keep watching it and then just repeatedly ask God’s forgiveness 😒 It’s really disheartening, but I’m pretty sure the Christian guys that are obsessed with women dressing modestly are usually the porn watchers. They can’t control themselves so it’s easier to try to control women instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:57 AM
36

Jungkook will still never date her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:36 AM
14

I wouldn’t say I’m alpha, I actually see myself as pretty demure, feminine and meek. But have discovered men don’t see me like that...when I talk about things I’m passionate about I get animated and don’t kowtow when men disagree and lots of men interpret that as dominant...which is hilarious to me that they could be so intimidated by little old me. The thing is men are intimidated by any woman that isn’t a simpering, obsequious slave. So I’d say don’t change, if men are intimidated by you then …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:26 AM
3

So reading classic literature causes brain damage? Lmao. Obviously too much porn has permanently damaged your brain if you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:55 AM
91

I’ve heard quite a few men say that they love their wives’ bodies after bearing children, saying stuff like she’s softer, curvier, has an hourglass figure. I hope I get a guy like that. Also have you noticed how men say they love variety? If that’s the case wouldn’t they be thrilled that their wives bodies change? If they need variety so much they can have that easily with one woman: they get pre pregnancy body, pregnant body, post part body, a bunch of different hair colours, lengths and styles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:52 AM
5

Does watching kpop and reading Jane Austen turn the frontal lobe into Swiss cheese and reduce gray matter like porn does? (It might judging on the behaviour of kpop stans lol but so far there isn’t concrete evidence like there is with porn.) Since there’s no evidence it does I don’t think it can be compared to porn. An analogy that would make more sense would be women who willingly give themselves brain damage by letting men choke them: men watching porn and women getting choked both willingly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:45 AM
11

I want someone waiting for marriage too so yes. Also because I don’t want to catch cervical cancer from the hundreds of strains of HPV he’s picked up from being a disgusting manslut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:32 AM
17

It’s why men are always going on about women monkey branching, it’s projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:53 AM
3

Yes, I agree. I dated a middle aged guy (like 45+) accidentally (he said he was mid thirties and I’m faceblind). He broke up with me because I wouldn’t have sex with him within 1 week of meeting him and then pretended that his dad died and it was my fault he didn’t get to spend time with his dad before his death because he was too busy getting blue balled by me and that I ruined his life and his last chance to say goodby to his dad lmao. So yeah I don’t fuck with geriatrics and andropausals (35+…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:35 AM
5

What is it about the eyebrows that gives them away? For me it’s something slimy about their micro expressions...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:19 PM
14

There are ladies out here getting faux apologies? Cos I couldn’t even get those 🥺 So this is actually probs something I need to hear because I’d probably fall for the “sorry you feel that way/got offended” lines because that’s an upgrade to what I’m used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:31 AM
0

Egg doesn’t swim to the sperm and men want us more than we want or need them. If you don’t like being a pursuer then just transition to female lmao, expecting women to pursue men like they’re princesses in a tower is real pansy behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:07 AM
10

Hopefully it’s so she gets a bunch of guys in her dms telling her they’ll appreciate her and treat her better than her current clown so she can monkey branch out of that shit relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:56 AM
2

A lot of women like when men plan dates because most men just text them at 11 to “come over for drinks”, so a man that comes up with a date, time and location, sets himself apart from the crowd. Women might then overcorrect and refuse to plan or come up with suggestions for any dates because they’re afraid of slipping back into the zone of wasting fun date ideas on a guy that just wants a hook up. “Planning” a date is like the most minimal effort ever, all you need to do is ask what kind of food…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 10:56 PM
5

Well I don’t think I can deal with an abortion and I definitely wouldn’t want one, I know myself enough that I would be haunted the rest of my life. My whole life I’ve wanted to be a mom and have thought extensively about what I would do if a surprise happened (I don’t like thinking of babies as accidents), and I think I would accept the child despite bad timing in its arrival in my life, but if the timing was so disastrous and my situation terrible I would want to provide an infertile couple th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:55 PM
21

Always call their bluffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:09 PM
6

Yeah her eyes...she looks like she’s tweaking out on something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:20 PM
2

Being a sl*t is nothing to be proud of, the only women I’ve met who were vocal and proud about it didn’t have anything else to be proud of ie very low socioeconomic status, unable to keep minimum wage jobs, in and out of foster care, did drugs, had a serious mental illnes etc. Also normie women are becoming aware of it, and if not will be soon: most normie women already are woke to redpill/pua seduction tricks like negging, being emotionally aloof, kino etc. If men were smart they wouldn’t sprea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 05:10 PM
2

Women are onto that though, the whole pretending to be non judgmental, sex positive and chill about casual sex to trick her into disclosing. Women do read and study the red pill sidebar too, and then clue other women in. I always point out to other women these kinds of strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 04:18 PM
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👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:02 PM
1

Just don’t be surprised or complain when you end up with cluster B women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:50 PM
2

What kind of women do you hang out with lol? Maybe expand your social circles... I make all men wait does that mean I think all men are betas?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:44 PM
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I’m similar: my highschool experiences mirror yours (didn’t go to prom, publicly humiliated by crush, bullied for looks) except I had an abusive father on top of that. I thought I was so ugly that I had to make up for it through personality and behavior, that I literally had to be a perfect wifey. I thought because I was ugly I was not allowed to have any standards, wants or desires and had to be grateful for whatever I can get. But I still couldn’t get a date let alone a boyfriend despite years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:29 PM
0

Do they though? The way I understand it is women give it up early in a misguided attempt to get the guy to commit, most don’t have ons intentionally. And I think our society is already moving in the direction of bringing those laws back. There’s already movements to bring justice to rape victims through civil courts rather than criminal, so it doesn’t seem that far fetched to me to then expand rape to cases where the guy uses fraud and deception. I don’t think it would be considered “oppressive”…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:12 PM
0

Yeah, I’ve never heard about or personally even come across a man that asks about n count. Maybe it’s where I live but it’s seen as a super cringe/beta thing to do. At most they’ll ask about prior relationships/dates but even that is seen as insecure and most don’t ask me that. So I feel like these discussions don’t really have real world application as most guys that actually date and have relationships aren’t 4chan/reddit spergs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:49 PM
1

Good thing most women have the sense not to tell their prospective husbands about their previous exploits. You act like men can tell, what’s more likely is if she makes a guy wait that guy would just assume she makes all guys wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:43 PM
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The first solution sounds pretty great to me...people who engage in casual sex and ONS are nothing but scourges on society and a social disease. All they contribute to society is the spread of diseases and antibiotic resistance, unwanted pregnancy, mental illness and emotional trauma. And that behaviour should be curbed through women “withholding” sex en masse and publicly shaming dirty fuckboys. What would be better though is bringing back the ability for women to sue men for defloration/fornic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:40 PM
8

Nah just men putting women in psychological double binds lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:48 PM
23

Women aren’t actually allowed to do that though. If they’ve ever slept with a guy on the first date or early in a relationship they have to keep doing that for the rest of their lives. Because if they learn from their mistakes and make guys wait and pay a higher price for something they gave away for free to other guys, they are “withholding sex” and scamming him. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:33 PM
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Personally I think it’s better to avoid being in private areas one on one. It’s a lot harder to say no to sex when you’re in the heat of the moment. Also guys think that you consenting to be alone with them is consenting to have sex, even if you explicitly tell them “just because I’m coming in for coffee doesn’t mean I’m going to have sex”. They just think you’re giving “last minute resistance” or whatever, because actions speak louder than words with guys. So if he invites you in or wants to co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:06 AM
57

Part of me thinks that all this pua/red pill/game stuff is just a manifestation of male intrasexual competition. Like they are purposefully giving bad advice to gullible men to reduce other men’s chances of reproductive success and thereby increasing theirs. Like they can’t be seriously giving this kind of advice on good faith lmao. But then the other part of me thinks men are too dumb to be that Machiavellian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:19 PM
36

Yeah, I’ve seen the porn scenes that get cut out, where she’s crying and asking to stop and all the crew laugh, taunt and hit her. It’s mega effed up. The fact that men think it’s reality just shows the extent of the frontal lobe damage they incur from consuming this degeneracy. They’re giving themselves intellectual disabilities that should get them institutionalized in a sane world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:06 PM
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I can’t believe we live in a world where we have to explain to grown men that the pictures you see on screens aren’t real. That’s a conversation you have with a 5 yo when they get scared by a movie. Absolutely pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:48 PM
52

What’s stopping men from having an Adonis belt, washboard abs and big biceps? Like they literally have no excuse, they are designed to naturally look like that and have all the biological advantages to easily achieve it (fast metabolism, difficulty putting on fat, testosterone to build muscle fast).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:37 PM
19

This might be a controversial opinion but if a man is willing to be violent towards himself to the point of killing himself what’s to say he won’t use that violence towards others? If you know who it is call the police for a welfare check, all suicide threats should be taken seriously and if they’re just being manipulative a visit from the police and cooling down in a mental facility will teach them not to cry wolf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:34 AM
12

Block and ghost him, so that when he wakes up all traces of you have vanished, don’t even let him respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:36 AM
3

You’ve already demonstrated that men are able to view other men in a variety of roles that illustrate a broad spectrum of human behaviour...whereas men can only see women in 3 roles: ugly/unfuckable, fuckable, and fuckable and breedable. Either way, based on your comment men view other people in purely utilitarian ways, it’s just that men have an expanded amount of uses for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:44 AM
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The solution is don’t give him any sexual pleasure until he’s spent at least 25% of his salary on an engagement ring and professed his lifelong commitment to you in front of all his friends and family in his marriage vows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:33 PM
19

The truth is men don’t see us as human the way they see other men as human. Our only value to men is our youth and beauty, we are primarily utilitarian objects to them (either as sex objects or incubators). This doesn’t mean that that is our objective value, we clearly have worth outside of men’s perceptions so it’s useless to try to make ourselves appealing to them as any improvement with the way they treat us is just a facsimile of “good” treatment. Even if you lookmax to a god tier Stacy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:46 PM
15

So a woman has to bust her ass working full time and doing all the housework to support a useless unemployed couch potato for the rest of his life otherwise she’s a selfish callous bitch? Ahaha do you have an intellectual disability?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:09 PM
16

What the actual eff...that’s like making child porn illegal but distribution and consumption of it legal 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:14 PM
1

I think you missed my point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 03:13 PM
1

If men have given up resources early to women in the past (paying for dates, buying gifts etc) but then decides that that’s not working for him anymore, then he is withholding from the women he dates in the future. It means he sees her as lower than him and all the other women who got his resources for a lower price. Why should a woman then have to work for his resources if he gave them away to thots so easily? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:19 PM
25

She better keep her pets (and his) away from him...I wonder if she could report him for animal cruelty. I mean I’m sure shelters/breeders/pet stores won’t want to let guys like this adopt from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:13 PM
2

Where do I get these ideas from? My brain... I’m not sexually attracted to guys that don’t make me feel secure and loved so it’s not an arbitrary condition, I genuinely am not interested in loveless sex. And even if women don’t want to have sex for a purely “arbitrary”condition that’s their prerogative, you don’t get to decide what’s a legitimate reason and what isn’t when it comes to a woman’s body, the fact that you think you can just proves my point that it’s outrageously entitled. Why is it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 10:54 AM
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Unrelated but Rihanna is so gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:34 PM
23

Yikes, yeah I feel like the most compatible thing might just be guys that don’t get any interactions or matches, so hinge tries to hook them up with matches in a bid to stop them deleting the app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:48 PM
8

Is it really “withholding sex” if you don’t sleep with a guy the first 90 days or whatever it is? Withholding implies that it’s something the guy is entitled to, and if you’ve only known a guy a couple weeks he’s not really entitled to much. Also I don’t think it says anywhere to completely ice him out and show no affection at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 09:27 PM
8

You know how the manosphere claims that women are sexual deviants because they get aroused by videos of animals mating? It’s the same sources that they use, but the manosphere leaves out the part where they explain that it’s a defence mechanism: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0956797610394660
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:07 PM
10

I think responsive sexual desire is a real thing, but that it’s a hold over from a time in early human history where women got raped all the time. Like women will get physically aroused and lubricated as a defence mechanism so that they’re less likely to be injured. So I don’t think it’s something to be celebrated or exploited, because sometimes our body and mind is out of sync. I mean if mentally you don’t want to have sex but your body is aroused, then that just means you don’t want to have se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:07 PM
8

Good, I don’t want men figuring out that sunscreen is the secret to graceful aging. I don’t want them to be able to date decades younger 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:28 PM
4

I don’t usually emit laughter from just reading stuff but this comment just hit my funny bone real hard 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:25 PM
6

If they were abused as children and use it as an excuse, then that makes them a million times worse than somebody who wasn’t abused but goes on to be abusive. Because if they were abused, they know exactly how damaging it is and how much it hurts but they choose to inflict that same pain on others. It also creates a misplaced stigma on abused people because now everyone thinks they will repeat their abuse on others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 01:55 PM
15

Spider eviction services
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:08 AM
13

They state their preferences because they think it portrays the image that they can actually attain the women who have those traits, and are therefore in your league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:06 AM
54

Pickmeisha: demeans and degrades herself in the most depraved way possible Men: demeans and degrades her Pickmeisha: surprisedpikachuface.png
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:03 AM
58

Red pill women be like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:58 PM
12

Yes, the man is supposed to leave his parents and cleave to his wife. Which means the marriage is the most important relationship. So many marriages are ruined because of mama’s boys. They also use their extended family as a weapon mistreat their wife indirectly because they are too cowardly to do it themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:23 PM
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Don’t give up your exclusivity without making him work hard for it, be willing to say no if they ask you to deactivate your account because most of the time they won’t deactivate theirs. Men like to think they gatekeep relationships, but we are the gatekeepers of relationships AND sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:22 PM
12

When you talk to them in real life they’re kind of like NPCs, like they’re just spitting out pre programmed dialogue options. And they mildly panic at innocuous things you say because they’re trying to figure out if it’s a shit test or not and how to respond correctly. It actually makes me sad for them because they’re just unable to socialise like a normal person, too busy thinking about the conversation in the meta to be in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 01:22 PM
12

Yeah they’re kind of like friends of friends of friends so cross paths sometimes. Nothing much happens, they’re mainly just cringy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 08:48 AM
3

I was clearly talking about two days different types of men? Learn to read and comprehend...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 08:44 AM
18

Yasssss same. It’s even funnier when you meet them in real life, just hint to them you’re aware of trper stuff and they crumple
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 12:38 AM
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I can understand why you think that if your sole basis of female knowledge comes from porn. I’ve literally never come across or heard of a woman in real life who were into that...my experience of women in their twenties is that they have 2-3 long term boyfriends where they engage in relatively conventional sex, and at most they might have a couple drunk one night stands in between serial monogamy, but even then ons’s seem pretty out of the ordinary. I could be wrong though, I tend to hang out wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:02 PM
14

I kind of have a similar thing, I can tell when a man is handsome but can never tell if I’m attracted to him. It’s like looking at a piece of art, I can see that it’s beautiful but I’m not sexually attracted to it. Whereas I can also tell when a man may not be considered conventionally attractive or even ugly, yet I like his face and am attracted to him visually. That’s not to say I’m not attracted to handsome and only prefer “ugly” it’s more like I can be attracted to both but can’t quite figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:49 PM
17

I feel you, I’ve done worse though...went to a guys apartment which was an absolute pigsty and immediately offered to clean it for him 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:25 PM
26

Just be like “oops this is obviously a bad time for me to come over” pointedly look shocked and slightly judgemental of the mess and then leave lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:17 PM
60

Where do they all learn to do this? Do their fathers pass it down to them during a coming of age pep talk? Because every woman I know talks about the whole do the job incompetently to get out of housework
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:27 AM
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That’s true, they are sometimes willing to pursue if they realize you’re not going to play their game. It’s still pretty obvious though, they ask seemingly harmless questions but in the most unnatural and conspiratorial way, like “how’s your relationship with your father/did you get enough physical affection as a child, etc” lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:28 AM
2

Both, they are just cuter in personality and looks. Also they trigger some nurturing instinct in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:01 AM
9

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:34 AM
14

Which means their skin is heavier so it sags. Wrinkles don’t actually contribute much to the perception of aging, but sagging does. Also doesn’t explain why most men years younger than me have deep wrinkles yet I don’t even have fine lines 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:29 AM
4

I prefer men between 7 years younger than me and 3 years older than me, but if I had to choose I’d pick maybe 5 years younger than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:16 AM
12

Lol since when, men 10 years younger than me already have deep crows feet and crags across their cheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:10 AM
34

I’ve wondered this too. I’ve heard that red pill women specifically avoid their male counterparts because red pill women tend to want to be housewives in a traditional marriage, whereas the men just want sluts. (A digression: I find it funny that trpers select for women with low self esteem who put out as soon as possible, and then seem surprised that all the women they date have BPD/toxic personality traits and just conclude AWALT). But you don’t have to date them, they are VERY easy to avoid (…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:08 PM
3

One time a guy I was messaging in OLD legit asked me if I actually had teeth, and that I wasn’t toothless? because I wasn’t smiling with my teeth in my profile (I actually was though lmao)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:12 AM
2

No, it’s possible to have a relatively flat stomach and thick bottom and thighs if that’s where you carry your fat (most women do) without being fat as in overweight. You can be well within a healthy BMI and healthy body fat percentage and be thick without being muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:42 PM
1

Beat me to it, on the wax lol. Seriously I tried it once and it was the single most excruciating experience of my life, and I have a HIGH pain threshold, like I’ve spilt boiling water on myself and didn’t react at all, broke bones and felt fine etc. I can’t imagine loving a man so much I put myself through that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:09 PM
14

Bruh do you live in a parallel universe where men are the visual peacocks lmao? Way more women invest in healthy diets (learning recipes, researching about nutrition and developing cooking skills), they workout more (they might not go to gyms, just follow along at home to YouTube videos), nourish and take care of their long hair (which is time and money consuming), develop skincare routines that take years of trial and error and research, ie reading papers on dermatology and specific ingredients…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 09:40 AM
5

I empathize with the wife but I think her behaviour is demeaning to herself. She should just withdraw completely from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:33 AM
1

I’m similar... I was also super insecure about being a virgin and thought no man would want me because I’d be bad at sex. And I was worried because I knew I had low self esteem and would be susceptible to pressure. But the older you get, the easier it is to stay a virgin, especially once you realize men often won’t pleasure you anyway. So we really aren’t missing out on much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:28 AM
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I’ve read snippets of that book. What was eye-opening for me is when abusers “lose control” and smash/break things, it’s never his own possessions. It’s coincidentally only things that are special to the woman 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:48 AM
1

Ewwwww. This guy is so bitter, seems like he’s the one who can’t balance his volatility and has burnt through a string of abusive relationships (with him the abusive one obvs).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:33 AM
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Personally my green flag is a guy that can discuss different and opposing viewpoints without turning it into a debate, a heated argument or stonewalling you. Like a guy whose eyes light up when you express yourself because he’s genuinely interested in hearing your unique viewpoint. Another is he doesn’t let other men interrupt you. I’ve had conversations in a group of men and when I get interrupted another one says: “hang on, I want to hear what she was going to say.” He doesn’t speak badly abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:28 AM
1

That’s you prerogative, nobody’s forcing you to date women that don’t split the bill. But you don’t think women spend literally thousands and thousands a year to find a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 06:10 AM
170

He “blacked out” my ass. This was something he did totally cool and collected, he could have stopped himself and reconsidered anytime. It must have took him ages to load all those plants into his truck, he really wanted to hurt her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:20 AM
31

Hmmmm I think I am high libido but I don’t really tell anyone that because I feel everyone would assume I’m easy and guys would feel entitled to sex, and it would make me a target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:30 PM
16

I agree, also I like your username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:55 PM
156

Ah yes teaching little boys not to make fun of or hit little girls is so abusive! Don’t you understand you’re just demonizing them for perfectly normal male behaviour????? 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:13 PM
147

Bruh if you’re 4 inches you have no excuse not to get good at foreplay and oral
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:59 PM
1

Yeah, but men shouldn’t pay because they expect sex, they should pay because they’re auditioning a woman for the role of wife and mother, and if she does that then she’s going to be sacrificing a lot of earning opportunities due to childbirth and childcare. But I don’t “expect” it per se...like I don’t go on dates and rudely demand that he pays (I have manners and social grace). I always prepare that I might have to pay for myself. It’s just that I’ve literally never had to pay for dates even be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 01:17 PM
17

Sometimes when I was a teen I would make my mum a coffee so that it was ready as soon as she got up, I’d listen for her alarm and I know she presses snooze once so I can time it so it’s ready when she wakes up. She would almost be in tears of happiness and say stuff like “in decades of marriage I’ve never been woken up with coffee, it’s always me that does it, this is a momentous occasion, you’re the nicest person ever 😍” and it made me sooo sad and angry on her behalf....like my mum is soooo sw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:44 AM
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“Omg I love it when my DH husband remembers to trim his toenails and sometimes brushes his teeth, such a romantic and affectionate gesture” 😍😍😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:38 AM
2

Yeah, I think it might be vaginismus but I’m hoping it’s not and that maybe it’s to do with lack of tenting? I’m hoping it’s to do with that, since tampons aren’t really natural but piv is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:15 AM
2

Yeah, I think it might be vaginismus but don’t plan on piv in the near future so don’t feel it’s urgent to get checked, or endometriosis but the always wanna put me on birth control if I bring it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:12 AM
0

So if women started using what FDS teaches then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 08:56 AM
42

Wow it sounds like you’re majoring in something more prestigious than him, he’s clearly insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 09:04 PM
21

Yeah, when you remember that men can usually only project...makes you wonder whether they should be allowed to have pets 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:53 PM
6

I think the second one is the lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:50 PM
27

Yeah they all think white women have sex with dogs and that the Snapchat dogfilter is a secret handshake for dogfuckers to identify each other...which is why they think you should only date Asian women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:47 PM
26

Hearing these stories makes me so glad I’m a virgin but also absolutely effing terrified of piv. I can’t imagine the type of pain this girl is in, I almost cry from tampon attempts and am sore for at least a day...but a whole entire man pounding you? Excruciating. (Sorry if tmi 😓) I feel so bad for this girl, she’s also physically abused and verbally degraded throughout the act, that’s not love, that’s hatred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:38 PM
9

Ghost him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 10:02 AM
34

Thankfully I did years ago, haven’t seriously dated since then to focus on self esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:50 PM
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Ugh me: “could you not yell at me into I’m in tears and having a panic attack, or if you do can you at least apologise after” Him: “no, it’s your fault for making me angry so I won’t stop and I don’t need to apologise” 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:44 PM
10

I saw an ad for a similar game, but it was much worse and I thought pretty racist...the African American husband ends up impregnating the ELDERLY babysitter, and the dilemma was to try to make it work or kick him out...It was totally portraying the trope of the sexually aggressive black man that effs anything... I was pretty disgusted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:42 PM
27

traumatic flashbacks of childhood memories*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:34 PM
23

Yes, never tell men the reason you’re leaving or ghosting them: don’t help them upgrade their machine learning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:01 AM
5

Oh dear did gramps escape from the nursing home again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:49 AM
25

This is genius! I hope her husbands friend was handsome too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:45 AM
21

Yes, sometimes I almost feel like the men that have come into my life are demons that God has allowed to mess with me to test my mettle or teach me something...I know that sounds extreme or delusional but one was a cluster B I’m pretty sure...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:38 PM
3

I love this so much...I don’t think any body type is inherently better than any other one and don’t get bitchy over other body types/diets/exercise, so I wish other people would extend the same courtesy to me. I’m kind of busty and sometimes I get glares from women at my chest so intense it’s like they’re trying to burn me with laser vision (I don’t wear anything lowcut or show cleavage).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:20 PM
10

It also could be that men don’t really develop deep understandings of things because they can get by solely with bravado.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:07 PM
18

Yes, I’m incredibly autistic and for this reason I love hanging out with the average male because it makes me feel less socially impaired by comparison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:05 PM
46

I always thought it was cringe to watch porn, it’s like admitting you see a prostitute: it’s embarrassing...I would have thought most guys would play dumb and pretend they’ve never heard the pornhub music out of fear of losing social capital. But HOLY SHIT no, apparently MEN ARE FUCKING EMBARRASSING 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:01 PM
16

I mainly come across tall johns and mugshot mikes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:22 AM
74

How do you do fellow females 🤠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 04:35 AM
2

They’re usually spoilt and privileged men too prissy for manual labor and too dumb for stem. They are usually painfully mediocre intellectually but think they’re geniuses and for some reason they’re usually very misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:44 PM
1

Anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:38 PM
1

This isn’t mgtow? Lol I know and I don’t care that hardly anyone wants to fuck the average man 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:36 PM
1

I’m pretty sure homeless women don’t want to be sex slaves any more than homeless dudes want to be fucked in the ass lol? You are pretty delusional if you think being a victim of human trafficking is a privilege, or that homeless women are somehow in a position of power and manipulating men when they have to use sex to get food and shelter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:31 PM
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Religion, especially Christianity and even more so Catholicism, allows one to find meaning in their suffering: suffering is seen as a privilege because you can identify and feel closer to Jesus in his suffering. They also believe the more they suffer on earth the greater the eternal reward. So it makes perfect sense that women in unhappy marriages flock to Church. There’s also the fact that Jesus is the Eternal Spouse, and death and going to heaven is when you join with him in marriage. Obviousl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:19 AM
4

Homeless men could still get fucked in the ass or suck someone’s dick for money...but they don’t do that so clearly they deserve to be homeless by not even attempting to pull themselves up by their bootstraps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:41 AM
3

Wow how rude of that guy, imagine asking someone “what’s up with your face?” and being an adult, that’s something a child does when they don’t know any better. I have pale transparent skin too and I have a lot of broken capillaries on my legs and face, I don’t think it has anything much to do with aging since I’ve had them since a young teenager, and my mum is prone to them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:38 AM
11

Creed colognes drive me wild...every time I’ve felt prompted to ask what cologne a guy is wearing it’s always creed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:28 AM
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I’m so proud that Rose walked away from this loser, also she has a YouTube channel now (Rosemaria Vega) we should support it (apparently she didn’t get any money from 90 day fiancé, I think they can only legally pay the American citizen and usually the American one gives half to the other person or something and Ed didn’t do this)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:16 AM
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I think I’ve only had to pay for myself ONCE on a date, and it was when we were both late teens. Every single date I’ve ever been on the man has paid, and it’s not like I’m a supermodel or anything, far from it... Even the stingiest guy I ever met paid for me...he bought me a drink and when I said I was hungry and going to get some chips he snuck off to pay the bill for them by pretending to go to the men’s room...(previously this guy’s idea of a date was walking around lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:03 AM
4

Don’t have joint bank accounts, my parents only had one joint bank account and my mum would get stuck in the supermarket checkout frequently because my dad would empty the account w/o telling her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:14 AM
7

The only reason there’s more homeless men than women is because homeless women immediately get trafficked...I guess being sold into sex slavery is just female privilege 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:13 AM
7

Omg did we date the same guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:11 PM
36

Omg I have the best one...a guy I was seeing said to me “wow you have a lot of visible veins on your eyelids, are you sure you’re not older than you say you are?” First of all, I’m pale af so yeah I have visible veins, and secondly this dude was 50 pretending to be 30 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 It didn’t even offend me or make me insecure, it just made me super confused because I don’t think visible veins are anything other than a completely neutral trait lmao. I was like what is wrong with this guy that’s such a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:25 AM
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I wonder how many of the girls he thirsts over and comments to are actually children...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:37 AM
1

Ummmmm his grandma probably does use recipes...she might not necessarily write them down but she probably has her own recipes memorized in her head...even if you know how to cook intuitively or from memories you still have some kind of recipe in your head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:34 AM
2

Omg like how Stefan mollineux (or however you spell it) claims to be a pHiLOsoPhEr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:51 AM
12

Yikes philosophy major tells you all you need to know...also if anyone has to claim they’re honest or nice or whatever it means they’re the opposite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:49 AM
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What the heck is with “walking” aimlessly as dates? So many guys suggest it that I feel like it’s coming from somewhere. I mean I thought meting for coffee was pretty casual and minimal fuss but I’ve been told by these “walking date” guys that coffee is too intimidating and serious for a first meet LMAO. My advice would be ghost this guy, his idea of a date is pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:15 AM
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I used to be like that too...luckily not in real life, more in my thought process, so hopefully it didn’t actually negatively impact any women. If men alway side with other men, and women are taught to also side with men, then who is in women’s corner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:06 AM
12

Seriously what the FUCK is up with grown men NOT WASHING OR WIPING THEIR POOEY BUMS!!!!!!!!?????🤮 Like even toddlers can do this, are they all cognitively disabled????? I mean I have a theory, you know how personal hygiene stuff is usually handled by the same sex parent? I think fathers in general are neglecting the basic care of their sons and not teaching them that they need to wash. And I also think boy children are not potty trained properly, they shit everywhere and don’t wipe and piss ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:40 AM
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This is promoted in mainstream Catholic culture, men are encouraged to snub women with degrees because they have debt and also because they’ve been infected by feminism from going to uni..also women over 25 aren’t marriageable because they can’t have 12 children. Women are expected to work minimum wage jobs and use their savings to move all across the country and uproot themselves multiple times just to search for a spouse...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:28 AM
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Open minded is code for open legged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:51 PM
7

Omg “I can see myself falling in love with you”, I’ve had that exact line used on me during a first date where he also told me about how he was sexually abused by women when he was a child lmao (yeah he was a narcissist I’m pretty sure). I swear narcs/sociopaths/psychopaths must be npcs or just have a hive mind because they use the same lines verbatim...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:24 PM
10

Just leave him on read for a few hours so he gets nice and panicked, then hit him with an ewwwwwwwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:03 PM
1

Honestly if a man acts indifferent to me in sexy lingerie I’d suspect he was a closet homosexual, or needed to get his t levels checked. Maybe this woman should sit down with him and be like “honey, I don’t think you’re being completely honest about your sexuality, I think you might still be in the closet and this marriage is a sham, I just want you to be yourself and admit that you’re gay, I’m here for you...straight men don’t react like that to a woman in lingerie, but gay men will be like Yas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:58 AM
14

Yeah I have the same experience, for how much they complain about not getting any matches or dates they sure are nonchalant when they actually get a woman lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:05 AM
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Omg yes...when I go out barefaced I don’t really get treated differently by men (they still open doors for me and move out of my way) but I get rudely ignored (hospitality workers and retail assistants pretending not to hear me etc), hostile glares and the nastiest stink eyes and sometimes snickering from women when I’m barefaced...but they’re smiley, helpful and polite when I have makeup lol. I even notice a difference with women acquaintances, sometimes they’re cold or try to avoid me when I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:52 AM
9

Yeah he was running “dread game” on you (red pill trick)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:04 AM
10

I was 20 I think the first time I watched porn, which is very “late” for a millennial on the younger end...A guy I liked thought I was a weirdo for not watching porn so I kinda thought I should watch it? It was just “vanilla” piv but it just looked so violent and aggressive and totally devoid of any tenderness and love, and it really scared me. Just seeing it presented as a mechanical going through the motions type act just disturbed me on a visceral level. Like something that in my mind is mean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:56 PM
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Yes! It’s men’s biggest and deepest fear: a woman laughing at them. Like sure being beaten and raped is bad but it only lasts a few minutes, being laughed at inflicts PERMANENT psychic damage, which is so much more powerful than physical damage, look at Pokémon, psychic types are one of the most powerful. There’s a reason for that: there are hidden truths in media that try to warn us about the true nature of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:11 AM
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Ah that makes sense. But that’s such irrational behaviour lol, like so much risk for little reward, like they either completely delete their chances of dating you (and it’s hard for men to get dates) or they end up with someone with low self esteem and poor boundaries who eventually wakes up to the emotional abuse and leaves...either way the relationship ends, either immediately or in the future. Like why put so much effort into manipulation tactics when they could put that effort into building …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:05 AM
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Ahhh yes, men might rape and beat women, but what about the women who giggle at people wearing cargo shorts with socks and sandals 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:27 PM
35

Wow what a sweet woman, men don’t deserve angels like this🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:24 PM
22

Omg number 1 makes my stomach churn. Does he also need his tummy wubbed so he can go sleepy 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:21 PM
42

Omg this is a documented phenomenon? And do they literally do it on purpose to test how compliant you are? I’ve had men make plans for a date on a specific day, I hear nothing on the day, then the next day he was all like “oopsies we were supposed to go out yesterday teehee I forgot”. I let this guy do the same thing to me 3 times before I just blocked and ghosted, I just assumed he wasn’t that interested since he couldn’t be bothered remembering our dates that he organised. But is it a delibera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:14 PM
2

Wow he seems mentally unstable and his responses are completely disproportionate, very weird. Sounds like someone who would wear a fedora and watches “Ben Shapiro DESTROYS leftists” compilations on yt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:03 PM
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I feel like this is someone satirising incels...it also confirms my fan theory that all incels are gay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:44 PM
2

Thanks, I’m working on my self esteem and confidence and not really fussed about dating atm, I’m mainly trying to nurture beautiful female friendships 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:30 PM
5

Besides the age gap, the worst thing is that HE YELLS AT HIS POOR 12 YO....that he has full custody of. Meaning that that little boy only has his dad, and no mum to escape to. It’s abusive. My dad did nothing but yell at us and it did sooooo much damage. No offence but this guy is a complete piece of shit...And since when is good hygiene a HVM trait? The fact you needed to include hygiene just shows he can’t have that many HVM traits in the first place....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:54 AM
5

This might not seem related but you know in the fifth Harry Potter book, when they’re in the department of mysteries and this big burly death eater gets zapped by something that turns his head into a baby head but he still has a muscular man body and he starts flailing around and crying and smashing things??? That’s the image I have when ppl here talk about LVMs and manchildren...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:35 AM
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Luckily I was spared the sexual harassment because I was ugly. What they did do was throw shit at me, reverse cat call me, tell me I was going to die a virgin, make sure I never had any friends by bullying anyone that was nice to me, and stick chewing gum in my hair😤Honestly I think that’s preferable to being borderline raped, taught to engage in self destructive sexual behaviours and learn to accept disgusting, demeaning treatment in relationships. Sure I have crippling insecurity in regards to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:00 AM
11

Go look at greenteaapplepie69’s recent post about insults for men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:06 PM
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Jesus Christ, those poor ladies 😓 how the fuck is this guy not cancelled and blackballed and why didn’t I know about this before 🤬 Like he didn’t get me too-ed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:03 PM
11

Ah 😅 I don’t drink lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:35 PM
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I could never wrap my head around one night stands, or what kind of person you need to be psychologically to be able to do it...I honestly don’t mean that in a judgmental or superior way, I just can’t fathom the extroversion and personality traits you seem to need to have to go through with it. I mean I assumed that it was only something done by super attractive, confident outgoing people who were made of tougher stuff than me. Like the thought of being seen naked by a stranger, let alone allow …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:04 AM
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I kind of know what you mean...I once had a guy WHO HAD NEVER EVEN MET ME IN PERSON BEFORE telling me I’d make a great mum for his kids and to start taking prenatal vitamins 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:44 AM
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They think that women try to trap men with babies because THEY are the ones that trap women with babies. Anything men accuse women of is just them telling on themselves because they don’t have a theory of mind. Anytime men talk about what women do/think I just hear it as “this is what I do/think/“.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 11:23 PM
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Hmm yeah I noticed that too. But then when guys wanted a relationship with me, I found myself using the same excuse, like “im not in a good place for a relationship right now” when I thought he was a bad match or I wasn’t attracted. So I figured it was just a tactful way to let someone down, and one of those phrases that everyone should know is a lie but we just roll with it to avoid conflict. I think as long as people are made aware about the implicit meaning of it I don’t think it should be do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:44 PM
2

Awww I’m sorry you lost your little furry friend 😓I’m glad he had a lovely life with you. That’s really awesome of you to adopt an elder animal. Dogs really can be super affectionate with everyone and are capable of unconditional love. I was more making fun of the dog people who don’t love their dogs back unconditionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:19 PM
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Yeah, I don’t like how some “dog people” view dogs as something closer to a machine that you can program to behave in a certain way, instead of a sentient creature with in born personality traits who is dependent on you and has needs. Most dog people are cool but the type that sees them like objects definitely lack empathy and purely like the animal because it’s sycophantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:16 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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