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| 77 | Most men are just parasites.Agreed 100%. I was ruminating the other day on where there's likely to be the highest concentration of HVM. University? Academia? Corporate offices? What I realized though is the "if he wanted to, he would" mantra is applicable to every corner of society. Because guys are constantly putting in the least effort and trying to get the most benefit. If they cared about doing a good job for their own sake, they would do the damn work themselves. In undergrad, I had guys leaching off my homework and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:23 AM |
| 4 | Grab some popcorn, An entire thread of men in disbelief of expected typical male behavior so much so they’re gaslighting each other. Cognitive dissonance at its finest. 👌Exactly, it's nuts! Guys want to keep around the bad dads and slobs so they can continue to get praise for doing the bare minimum. What they don't realize is when the majority of dads are bad, and the majority of men are slobs, it makes all men look bad. They are trying to keep standards low to look better by doing less, but it's bringing all men down and causing women to generalize bad behaviors in men more often, because the generalizations are becoming increasingly true. Then they get mad whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:12 AM |
| 73 | Grab some popcorn, An entire thread of men in disbelief of expected typical male behavior so much so they’re gaslighting each other. Cognitive dissonance at its finest. 👌Yeah I can't believe "simping" is even a concept tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 235 | Grab some popcorn, An entire thread of men in disbelief of expected typical male behavior so much so they’re gaslighting each other. Cognitive dissonance at its finest. 👌Men hate other men who make them look bad, hence why they don't call out their problematic misogynistic friends, or stop men from hurting women, and so on. As long as they look "good" by comparison, and they don't have to actually do anything to be "good", they will continue to benefit. Then when you show a guy who's actually doing the right thing, they all scream "I call BS" but then flip around and say "NOT ALL MEN!!!!" it's insane Men are constantly trying to get the most benefit for the leas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 9 | Sometimes when men look for "girlfriends," they're really looking for "free hookers." Don't be a free hooker.Hate this misogynistic "do your parents know" bullshit. Same with the stupidass "are you still watching Netflix? Someone's daughter:" bullshit. Weird that they're trying to shame women by implying they're bringing dishonor to their families by being sexual, while also pressuring them to be sexual. You want a woman to feel bad for having sex? Stop inviting her to "Netflix and chill" then. Stop using dating apps looking for free sex. Smh the hypocrisy is unbelievable. Seriously 9/10 times a guy be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:59 PM |
| 20 | IVE FOUND THE CURE TO OLD!Yeah I'm Desi and I know a ton of fellow Desi women, even in the US, who are paired with older LVM through matchmaking and arranged dating. It's a total mess, the matchmaker herself has questionable standards and matches the people who SHE thinks are the best, but who are not necessarily the best for each other. She mostly picks matches to make the parents happy--someone who comes from "a good family," has high earning potential, and is educated are the traits from the men, but someone who is go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:01 PM |
| 30 | IVE FOUND THE CURE TO OLD!I personally would never pay money to find a guy, I dunno but I try to meet guys through natural means like clubs, hobbies, work, volunteering, etc. I feel like if I ever got to the point where I'd consider matchmaking, then I'd need to take a step back and evaluate why I'm willing to pay money to find a relationship. Also, I think that guys who would pay for matchmaking have slightly strange motivations--there are plenty of relationship minded women already available on dating apps, seems like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:57 AM |
| 219 | “We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”"Sexism is fun" sure bud, get back to me when you're denied a job, discredited, disrespected, or attacked by women because of this "sexism" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Yeah it's super disappointing! Thanks for the advice, that's a really good idea!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:44 AM |
| 53 | Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...Exactly, it's nuts!! Guys always say "but you can't change your height!!!111!" Meanwhile they want a woman who's hairless, not too dark, big lips and long luscious hair, specific boob and butt size, etc. Basically things that can't be changed through natural means, and let's be honest, the only reason cosmetic plastic surgery, laser hair removal, and lightening creams exist is because of these shitty male standards I have no problem telling a shorty man that he can go get that Chinese/Russian le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:31 PM |
| 107 | Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...In my experience, typically when a guy says something that targets a specific demographic of women, he's trying to make them insecure so they'll try harder to gain his acceptance or vastly lower their standards. Twitter idiot pictured above wants dark-skinned women to lose their self confidence and lower their standards, because if they think "nobody would ever want a dark-skinned woman as a girlfriend" then they're more likely to settle for the first dusty scrote who comes their way. The reason… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:20 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Struggling with attention from a co-worker who appears like an HVM in person, but like a total loser online. Thank God for social media, I can see all the sleazy things he gets into but for some reason it's not clicking. He's such a gentleman and so put-together in person, it's an insanely stark contrast. I messed up by being too nice to him early on, now he drops by my desk to chitchat and walks with me to and from the lab even though we work in different departments. Hate this!!!! Need to go b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:06 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Congrats Queen! Keep living your best life, proud of you! 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Beware of the pandemic relationshipBig time same. I've been entertaining guys at work with banter who I never would've looked at twice under ordinary circumstances. Doesn't help that we're all wearing masks too so they have the confidence to approach me now that their ugliness is less apparent. I need to go back to being the stone cold laboratory ice queen 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:01 PM |
| 77 | Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...Exactly, they can take their opinions and shove them up their assholes Also colorism/racism is treated as a "vAlId pReFerEncE" but when a woman wants a guy who's 6ft+ all hell breaks loose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 13 | Men performing noises/grunts during s£xGuys who are robotic during sex/making out always creeped me out massively. It amplifies the feeling of them using your body to masturbate, it's like they dissociate and focus on you as an object to get off to instead of viewing the experience as getting each other off Definitely much, much better when the guy is making eye contact, whispering nice things, giving vocal and tactile feedback, and is just generally more present | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 63 | Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...Yep she sure is 😍 everyone thought she and Jared Leto were dating for a bit because they appeared close at a number of events but she's far too classy for him Can't believe some delusional moron on Twitter would think he even has the slightest chance with her smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:29 AM |
| 11 | Why are European men SO INTENSE?I'm an American Asian (Punjabi) chiming in, I think Americans and Desis have idealized European men as being very romantic, suave, and sensitive. I wonder if other nations stereotype them like that as well, so they feel pressure to keep up that image when courting women from other cultures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:26 AM |
| 141 | Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...She's an Oscar-winning actress and she has an amazing sense of style Edit to add her bone structure is like perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:20 AM |
| 15 | I cannot deal with these bad-hygiene posts!Women need to shame these men more often. A guy I dated had shit in his teeth and his breath smelled like a fungal infection, he tried to kiss me and I went off on him. I said "no way man, I don't know what you just ate but I'm definitely not interested in sampling it." We were in public, too. He got so embarrassed that he just kinda nervously laughed and took a big swig of water, then asked me if I had any gum, which I always carry. He chewed on it for the next forty minutes of the date and did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:17 AM |
| 11 | PSA: When exes reach out over two years later, it’s not because they truly care about you.I'm spreading the good word! Like how an old man spreading mayo on a sandwich his whole life would... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:42 AM |
| 7 | PSA: When exes reach out over two years later, it’s not because they truly care about you.Yes!! I'll find the post!! Edit: Here you go!! Shallot boy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:40 AM |
| 35 | PSA: When exes reach out over two years later, it’s not because they truly care about you.It's the funniest thing I've read, omg I love it when people fail at being poetic 😂😂😂 it's got that perfect mix of oblivious stupidity and secondhand embarrassment I really hope it takes off around here, like shallots and Anthony | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:38 AM |
| 18 | PSA: When exes reach out over two years later, it’s not because they truly care about you.LMAO!!! The old man kneading his bread/beating his meat/insert random action here has GOT to become the next big FDS meme!! Like Anthony and shallots 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:37 AM |
| 117 | Well OF COURSE I'd be down for a threesome with 2 randos in the midst of a pandemic!I got a similar message one time, I said I'd only be down if me and the other woman could take turns pegging him lol Dude unmatched so fast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Dummy Wants Us To All Make Her Same Sexual Mistakes by 30. But seriously, why does every single female sex columnist sound vapid, attention seeking, and like her self esteem is too cripplingly low to be doing this job?Yep that's true too, if porn were truly the only obstacle then men who don't go to college would also be resorting to it to make ends meet. The two avenues you mentioned are common choices for men in the same situation, women should absolutely try to do the same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Dummy Wants Us To All Make Her Same Sexual Mistakes by 30. But seriously, why does every single female sex columnist sound vapid, attention seeking, and like her self esteem is too cripplingly low to be doing this job?Yeah it's pretty bad, I have a lot of old highschool classmates who skipped out on college because of depression and anxiety. They also became alcoholics and they smoke tons of weed, because working out, eating well, and college all stress them out. They are all intelligent people and they definitely have what it takes to succeed in college, I wish they could see that. Using depression and anxiety to avoid doing what has to be done for their own benefit is not the solution | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Where’s the lie?Lol thanks it's one of my fave bad date stories 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:53 PM |
| 28 | He know what he's doing.So relatable! The first guy I dated was like this. He was leaving me on read for days, always cancelled last minute for plans, and was just generally very checked-out. I was getting tired of it but I still wanted to make an effort. We agreed to go to a haunted house, I bought tickets a week in advance and he told me two hours before we were supposed to meet that he was going to a friend's house that night. I got annoyed, took a breath, didn't even respond, and went to the haunted house with my l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 20 | I saw this and my first thought is he just wants a “poor you” party and put his gf in the virtual stocks."if the roles were reversed" the punch wouldn't have just "stung quite a bit" with a little blood. She probably would've either broken or dislocated her jaw, and she wouldn't have left him at the station out of fear for her life. Men need to get a goddamn grip on themselves, most spiteful and unempathetic creatures on the planet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:47 AM |
| 19 | A new negging trend on tiktok.I don't have much of a social media presence, so the few times I've been negged it's in real life. Thankfully I've got a real mouth on me so I'm very good at hitting back where it hurts, then I usually get up and leave directly afterward. Always ends with the guy blowing up my phone to beg for forgiveness or insist "it was just a joke", and I respond with complete silence 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Please stop me from sending angry text to LVMHonestly the almost exact same thing happened to me last December! A friend of mine broke up with his GF because he apparently liked me so much, but dropped me like a hot potato and made a Tinder account as soon as he got what he wanted. It was incredibly insulting and dehumanizing, and thinking about it even to this day makes my blood boil. I would love nothing more than to make him feel ashamed and disgusted with his actions, but the sad reality is, as others have mentioned, anything I say pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:39 AM |
| 37 | Where’s the lie?Short story, back in my online dating days I met up with a guy at a restaurant for a date. I was wearing a super cute outfit and my hair and makeup were done to perfection. The guy was about fifteen minutes late to the date, but in the time it took for him to get there, three separate guys all came up to me to tell me I looked really pretty. Then when he got there, he was wearing a stained hoodie with sweatpants and tennis shoes. His skin was so dry that it was coming off in flakes whenever he i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:25 AM |
| 41 | Dummy Wants Us To All Make Her Same Sexual Mistakes by 30. But seriously, why does every single female sex columnist sound vapid, attention seeking, and like her self esteem is too cripplingly low to be doing this job?Never once have I read a convincing argument for how casual sex and oversexualizing oneself is empowering. Ever. And notice how it's all targeted to women and not men! Financial literacy, scientific literacy, financial independence, emotional maturity, etc are all far more important for long term mental and physical health, and are ACTUALLY empowering. But God forbid you recommend a young woman go to college instead of setting up an OnlyFans 🙄 I've been called an intellectual elitist for this in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:11 AM |
| 47 | Dummy Wants Us To All Make Her Same Sexual Mistakes by 30. But seriously, why does every single female sex columnist sound vapid, attention seeking, and like her self esteem is too cripplingly low to be doing this job?Completely true. Time and time again they imply that sex is only good when you focus on the man's pleasure. I find more tips and tricks for satisfying women in men's magazines for God's sake. Since when is it empowering to completely focus on getting the guy off, at your own expense? You are literally getting nothing from that exchange, except wasted time, potential STDs, and disrespect from the guy in question. Ridiculous! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:04 AM |
| 38 | Subtle “dick pick” with a side of “emotional connection”I thought he looked good too until I saw his legs....man skipped leg day, damn shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:12 AM |
| 19 | I’m in my 50’s, and so is this guy. Ladies, tell your moms/sisters/older friends about this subreddit. These scumbags are still doing it when their older. His next message was “I can add you on messenger” when I didn’t respond, he deleted the whole thread.Oh my God, I had to re-read the ages--he's acting more like a 5 year old than someone in his 50s...how embarrassing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 10:11 PM |
| 30 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?Trigger warning: this is really gross but it happens with hairy dirty guys Don't ever Google "pilonidal abscess" because the pics are disgusting, but essentially what happens is the matted hair becomes ingrown at the butt crack and you end up with an abscess, which can lead to a fistula (infected tunnel between anus and skin, like a hole) which causes you to basically leak shit constantly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:52 PM |
| 70 | "The Way I Are" Is probably one of the most Anti-FDS songs out there..."I don't got a huge house, I rent a room in a house" Lmao that song cracks me up but you're absolutely right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 8 | as a black woman does anyone else feel like white men treat you better than other men do?I think white men are just terrified of looking racist in this day and age, so they act nicer to overcompensate for probably being racist deep down. That's how it's been in my experience, but I'm also Pakistani so it's not really an apt comparison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:31 PM |
| 133 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?No joke, I knew a guy who had a carpet of hair in his ass crack and never wiped. Dude smelled like a loaded diaper constantly Meanwhile if women have unshaved armpits and leg hair it's "dirty and unhygienic" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 268 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?Yeah similarly why aren't they visual when it comes to keeping homes clean, doing dishes, doing laundry, etc? Why do they half-ass everything and make a mess, leaving tons of clutter everywhere? It's because this is a lie for men to do what they love best: put in the least effort for the most reward. By lying and perpetuating the myth that men are "visual," they put the burden on women to bend over backwards to live up to their ridiculous standards, even though the logic is completely inconsiste… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 14 | I’ve been trying to date, and this sub has helped me be smarter about it; but also thanks to this sub, I’ve realized I’m in love with someone elseAbsolutely so true! It's a great feeling, I'm so happy to see so many women here expressing self-love and happiness! I always tell guys that they're competing with me when it comes to courting. I don't look as good as I do naturally, it's because I love myself and I take care of myself. If he can't match that (and let's be honest, no man can) then I'd prefer my own company and attention over his lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:05 PM |
| 132 | Get a man who will show you off! If he's not proud to be with you and treats you accordingly, he ain't the one, hun!This is wholesome but like some others have mentioned, it has the potential to be disgenuine--just a way for a guy to brag on social media. In my opinion, posting a pic of your wife/GF on social media and praising her is the absolute minimum. It's a very easy thing to do. Additionally, he's just praising her beauty, which is also very easy. A more genuine display would be sharing a post that recognizes her accomplishments in some way, saying he's proud of her and lucky to have her in his life. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:49 AM |
| 2 | We are Entering an Era of Female DominanceYep gun ownership is working out for me personally, I wish more women had access to resources and training for self-defense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:59 PM |
| 44 | We are Entering an Era of Female DominanceI agree with what you said and your outlook is very optimistic. I'm just afraid that the rise of female superiority will lead to an increase of gender based violence and more misogynistic extremism/terrorism. Although being physically strong is no longer a requirement in society, it can still be used to hurt women and children. I hope the LVM just weed themselves out of the gene pool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Making more money than any of my exes made...Yes!! I love it lol, I've got more degrees and more money in salary AND in savings than any guy I know! My exes all work in similar fields as me so they're always asking me for job recs on LinkedIn and I just ignore them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:35 PM |
| 13 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodged🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 249 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedExactly what I was going to say, the other woman is his hand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:45 PM |
| 3 | r/niceguys: im a really nice guy and if you dont fuck me im going to call you a whore and threaten your life. meanwhile what the scrotes are whining about on r/nicegirls:Same 😭 I loved that song but the lyrics make me angry so I only listen to it when I'm lifting heavy haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:29 PM |
| 35 | r/niceguys: im a really nice guy and if you dont fuck me im going to call you a whore and threaten your life. meanwhile what the scrotes are whining about on r/nicegirls:Yeah I used to be super into LetsNotMeet! But everyone using "they" to talk about the victim (who would always be a woman) and the perpetrator (who would always be a man) just got on my nerves so much! As if it's "completely impossible" to tell the gender of either party smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 37 | r/niceguys: im a really nice guy and if you dont fuck me im going to call you a whore and threaten your life. meanwhile what the scrotes are whining about on r/nicegirls:Reminds me of that song Roses by OutKast. Literally the whole thing is about how a woman is a total b-word because she thinks she's great, Andre raps about how attractive she is but she has a "bad attitude", none of it is really explained in detail. It's just nebulous woman-bashing. Idk why guys dislike it when women are very attractive and have high standards for themselves, they act like being good looking, well-dressed, and put together is effortless or just happens naturally so it's nothing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜You're welcome, I'm glad it helped! Hope you feel better soon! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Ladies be aware of negging! He really thought this would work on me?LMAO 😂🤣🤣 it fits the pattern!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:42 AM |
| 8 | Ladies be aware of negging! He really thought this would work on me?Glad there's a historical precedent! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:31 AM |
| 17 | Don’t ever settle for less ladies. Walk away.So many guys aren't used to being questioned for anything they do, it's really wild. I remember I used to question my ex when he would partake in stupid self-destructive behavior "for fun" and he literally couldn't defend himself, his reasoning would always devolve into personal insults and unrelated rants. Shame these guys for their shitty behavior every chance you get (as long as you're safe, some guys will def lash out with violence) if blocking and deleting is not an option. Put them on blas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 17 | Ladies be aware of negging! He really thought this would work on me?Someone posted a list of LVM names, the general consensus is Anthony is the most LVM name of them all because there's just been so many scummy dudes named Anthony 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:53 PM |
| 19 | What’s something that you did with good intention, too early for a man, and now look back in it with so much regret?I'm like overly polite with an RBF to all guys by default, and super friendly and goofy with women lmao The guys I really, REALLY have crushes on (and who reciprocate), I'll still be icy to them and uninterested/passive because then they try really hard to impress me or get close to me. It's always very obvious, and I like making them nervous/self-conscious around me. Makes them appreciate the little nuggets of niceness haha As a for-instance, guys who like me will try to stand near me or talk t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 11:50 PM |
| 62 | Ladies be aware of negging! He really thought this would work on me?Anton...seems awful close to ANTHONY 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 206 | Men, on a thread about engagement rings. But women are the gold-diggers, amirite? 🙄This guy is acting like he deserves the inheritance because he did the "hard work" of marrying the daughter and having kids with her......but I bet he doesn't help with child-rearing at all, he talks about his wife like she's a burden Reminds me of the AITA posts where the scummy husband gets all greedy about the wife's inheritance and provides no reasonable explanation for why he deserves any of it. As usual, all they can offer is the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 4 | A real catchOh my God, I know an LVM Anthony who types exactly like this 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:53 PM |
| 7 | FDS 101 👑I just bought myself a brand new rose gold laptop and a vintage Burberry skirt suit for my birthday 😍🥰 Some random low iq dude on social media called me "spoiled" for buying myself gifts, how tf am I spoiled if I buy it myself??? Smh just goes to show how insecure LVM can be when a woman knows what's she's worth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:43 PM |
| 95 | What’s something that you did with good intention, too early for a man, and now look back in it with so much regret?So many thing smh Cleaned up after his nasty ass while he was at work Got him a really nice thoughtful birthday present four months into dating Sexual favors with nothing in return early on ugh I'm a bit of an ice queen to guys now haha, if I slightly like a guy I'm really cold/mean to him and I only show glimpses of kindness at random/unexpected times, it seems to be working well so far 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜Something quick that always makes me feel good is making something. Arts and crafts sorta thing. It doesn't have to be huge, but it's a lot of fun, it requires focus and attention, and you get to be proud of what you make afterward 🙂 plus it helps you develop creativity and artistic skill, which are in low supply these days! Hope you feel better!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:05 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I'm so sorry you're going through that, and fuck that guy for his abuse and assault. I'm glad you got away from him and went no-contact, that's a step in the right direction. He traumatized you and it will take some time to get past, but you owe it to yourself to protect your emotional and mental health from that scumbag. I had the same thing happen to me and I went through the same phase. I eventually realized that by allowing myself to be mentally occupied with him, I'm giving him power over m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 8 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?Just wanted to say, I've been trying and failing to get over a small crush on a guy named Anthony who is definitely an LVM. This post helped so much and gave me a much needed laugh, bless you all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | HVM know the value of a woman they talk to. And they aren't insecure to admit that.Thank you, I appreciate it 😊 and unfortunately I think she has a lot of self-esteem issues, she's still dating him from what I can tell smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 29 | HVM know the value of a woman they talk to. And they aren't insecure to admit that.I knew a guy who said something exactly like this to me after he broke up with his gf. Then he sexually assaulted me, ghosted me, and got back with his gf. I don't believe anything any man says now 🤷🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 33 | There’s got to be a direct relationships between how useless a man is and how much time he spends pussy policing.I don't know any men who can assemble furniture (with instructions), let alone men who can build something from scratch. Most men I know have very passive hobbies, such as bingeing shows, browsing reddit, or playing shooter games (no story-based games). Being able to build something requires creativity and drive. If a guy is so creatively bankrupt that he can't even use his imagination to masturbate, I guess it's unfair to expect him to be capable of making anything. This generation of men is so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Wanting to be a SAHM is apparently immature now lmao. Can’t believe people are upvoting this.My favorite thing to do is tell guys that nothing is more difficult than giving birth (scientists measured how many calories are burned and how a woman's endurance is tested, it's far more taxing than running a marathon or other similar athletic undertakings) You deadlifted 400 lbs? Cool but like pushing out a baby requires more strength You got burned out from working overtime? Okay but your wife just gave birth sooo You have a really bad migraine headache? Hah that's nothing, try being in labo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:45 PM |
| 22 | Epstein & Trump defender Alan Dershowitz says “Statutory rape is an outdated concept” 🤢so disgusting"In nearly half the births (49%) to mothers ages 15-17, the father is 20 or older; fewer than one in five of these births involve fathers under age 18. For the youngest mothers, under age 15, there are few births, but more than half of fathers are over 18 and more than one-fourth are 20 and older." From "Teens and Older Partners," a peer-reviewed paper by Ph.D Michael Males in 2004. Men are constantly trying to justify their predatory sexual interest in underage girls. Just because they're sex-o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:10 PM |
| 39 | Epstein & Trump defender Alan Dershowitz says “Statutory rape is an outdated concept” 🤢so disgustingSeriously, and it's telling that in most cases of teen pregnancy, the father is significantly older than the teenage girl. Disgusting If she wasn't pressured into having sex in the first place, she would never have to choose to have an abortion. Men are sick and self-serving as always | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:07 PM |
| 10 | They placed a giggle button on the space between the legs of a doll designed for girls under the age of four. They will stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia. This is not ok.Yeah liberals are totally out of line with that logic, they compare pedophilia to being homosexual. It's very disturbing, how can you compare something inherently predatory and based on nonconsensual sex to consensual sex between two adults of the same gender??? Ridiculous and homophobic honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Women these days have it so easy!I see what you mean, but I think you can get a feel of cohabitating without buying a place together. That's what I'm referring to when I say "moving in". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Women these days have it so easy!Yeah but you can know that just by spending the night or coming over a few times, not living together in a space with both your names on it is my point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 169 | Women these days have it so easy!Yep, they can't stand body hair, stretch marks, or uneven breasts. Meanwhile they don't even dress nicely or groom themselves like men used to. The beauty standard for women has become more extreme due to porn, but the beauty standard for men has practically become non-existent. It's massively unfair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 322 | Women these days have it so easy!I have read numerous studies and essays about how women still do hours more of domestic labor than men, and millennial men expect women to perform home duties in addition to working full-time. It's ridiculous, and the hours really add up Some of the best advice I've seen around FDS is not moving in with a guy until after marriage, and I fully agree--no woman should EVER do unpaid labor for a guy. If he can't do the basics for himself, then he ain't worth dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:34 PM |
| 26 | Where have all the good women gone? Scrote with ex issues laments that he only meets women with ex issues.I was gonna say, when he starts listing his hobbies it's almost like he's making fun of those people who don't actually have hobbies Browsing, watching, looking = completely passive and not real hobbies smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:21 PM |
| 3 | How are you ladies coping with quarantine weight gain?I would say don't stress about it. Stressing raises your cortisol levels and makes you gain more weight, so no point fretting--what's there is there. As others suggested, try to move around more and keep yourself motivated. I've been dancing in my bathroom a lot during quarantine, it's a lot of fun. I will also try to move around or do some bodyweight exercises while watching TV since it keeps me moving and it passes the time. Don't worry about it, you're not disgusting. It happens to everyone, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 101 | Single women are on average happier than single men and married womenMen are seriously incapable of empathizing with women. "Woke" men think single women become unhappy for the same reasons as single men (projecting their sex obsessions onto us) and more conservative men think it's because single women want men to buy them things (aka all women are attention seeking gold-diggers and get unhappy when they aren't being complimented 24/7 or bought expensive things) What all men fail to realize is single women are unhappy because society (men) has brainwashed us into… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:18 AM |
| 32 | This video proves how some men can assault women in broad daylight and no one will do anything about itThis is why I believe every woman should pack heat or know self-defense. Short story, once I was heading back to my car late at night in this hipster bar part of town. My friends (all guys) all ditched me and didn't want to walk me back to my car. Open carry is legal where I live and I have a sweet vintage leather pistol holster that I carry a basic 9mm in. Safety's always on and the gun is never loaded, because showing it alone stops people from approaching me 9/10 times. Case in point, a gang … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:02 AM |
| 31 | I am... appalledHot take: white men have no right to criticize the mandatory military draft because they would've lived comfortable lives before being killed on the front lines Plus they had more privileges than other groups back then so by complaining they're belittling the struggles of others See how stupid it sounds?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Movie description paints woman as unhinged for exacting “revenge” on a man who cheated on his fiancée with herFunny how men are more likely to go psycho and violent when women try to cut things off with them 🤔 the projection is strong in this one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:14 AM |
| 7 | “Things Women DoNt gEt.” Man expresses himself saying he doesn’t know how to express when he’s upset 🙄Wow so like he has problems communicating Wonder if he ever has issues with male bosses or male coworkers? I mean how can you voice your opinions to your peers if you can't communicate right? Oh wait that's because he's full of shit and men have no problems communicating with other men in a normal capacity I'm so sick of the excuses smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:00 AM |
| 3 | This has been a public service announcement - the more you know!Yep, I never accept the excuses people come up with for not texting back. Most guys I see are on their phones 24/7, it literally takes two seconds to send a text message smh It's even worse if you met him on a dating app. He can make a profile and swipe, but can't be bothered to send a message within a day?? Highly unlikely he "doesn't check the app much", guys get so few matches on apps they'd never mute the notifications or messages lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:55 AM |
| 42 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Yeah I've always been of the opinion that men actually age faster and worse than women, which is why they try to spin the "women like older guys" narrative As always, trying to put in the least effort to get the most benefit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:52 AM |
| 134 | Just saw this on TwitterAlways shuddered when she says "I was a child" in the film 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 163 | this makes me so sadShe's literally carrying his child.....I thought men were supposed to provide, not act like spoiled brats who don't wanna share their toys Also whack how guys can recognize boundaries when it comes to clothes and not when it comes to unwanted touching or attention 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 22 | Help I Need Out!I'm so sorry to hear about your situation, it sounds terrible, like a real living nightmare. First what you should do is document EVERYTHING!! If you have a text or written proof that he agreed to pay insurance for your car, hold on to it! Don't let him know you're thinking about leaving, he will try to make your life a living hell. Best to lay low and just pretend everything is fine while you plan to escape. Document his abusive behavior as best you can, try to get in touch with any family or l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 3 | I wish every single women knew about the existence of this subFor sure, best of luck! Always makes me so happy to hear about moms who watch out for their daughters like this, keep up the good work! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 8 | It's OKAY to like yourself!I love myself!! I buy myself nice things whenever I accomplish goals, pamper myself and do whatever I want whenever I want, and I make damn sure men around me know they're competing with me when it comes to who I decide to spend time with lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 9 | I wish every single women knew about the existence of this subProbably when they start to show interest in boys, or when they start to notice creepy behavior from men and boys (unfortunately men are often creepy to even prepubescent girls). It's also important to make sure they realize that idealistic Disney romance is unfortunately not how relationships work in the real world to save them from heartbreak when they find out most men are predatory and useless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:26 PM |
| 22 | Nothing but teaGlad you're here! And glad he's an ex, he sounds like a real dirt bag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 3 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yeah it's the lie they've been telling for thousands of years to make women complacent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 4 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Exactly I like telling LVM that it's possible to conceive and have kids without them too and they get so mad lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yeppp I said this to a guy on an online dating app once and he called me a golddigger, not sure about the logic on that one 🤔🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:12 PM |
| 40 | This makes me sick to my stomach. I hope she broke up with him and got a better boyfriend.Yep that's why it's so important to vet, these guys have the emotional volatility of toddlers but they're bigger and stronger than we are so their tantrums can be super dangerous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep good on your dad for teaching you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"That is such a good response!! Totally saving that the next time some idiot tries to hit me with a stupid "gotcha" question like this smh Yep he sounds like a real piece of work 🙄 the entitlement is off the charts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 3 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Wow what a scumbag! He was mad that you didn't rely on him, typical LVM manbaby! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yes!! Good job for sticking up for yourself, getting a dog is a great idea! So frustrating to deal with these silly cultural expectations. I've heard terrible things about the entitlement and control from Middle Eastern men smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 368 | Nothing but teaIt annoys the shit outta me when LVM use women to masturbate but then complain when a woman is "a starfish" Like bro what difference does it make, you want her to act like she's enjoying being used like an object??? You're still gonna focus 100% on your own pleasure, stop acting like you give a damn They just want women to pretend like they enjoy it without even trying to make it enjoyable tf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 14 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep all facts I'm ethnically South Asian, it's a common occurrence for guys in my culture to be unmarried and in their 30s still living with their parents, and their moms do EVERYTHING for them--cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. Meanwhile these guys shit on single women because "who's gonna take care of them?? Who's gonna provide financially? Who's gonna fix things around the house??" The unawareness is unbelievable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 6 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Exactly, and being aware of this is a great incentive for women to not stress over doing more for a guy than is necessary. No reason to do any extra work for someone who isn't worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 4 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"How dare you not depend on a man for stuff he wouldn't do anyway!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep forreal Meanwhile if their gfs don't do all their cleaning and cooking while also splitting the bill they're "gold diggers" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 4 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep lmao The money I save from not splitting dinner bills and rent with some dusty clown can be used to pay professionals for their labor 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:06 PM |
| 10 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep, absolutely. So many LVM think they bring far more to the table than they actually do. They use these stupid hypotheticals to scare women into relationships or dependency on men, but the reality is there's nothing they do that we can't do. In fact women do way more for LVM than we really ought to Glad to hear he's an ex!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:40 PM |
| 49 | This makes me sick to my stomach. I hope she broke up with him and got a better boyfriend."worth" in the same way an object is worth something, seems like he views her as an object for pleasure and nothing else imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 148 | This makes me sick to my stomach. I hope she broke up with him and got a better boyfriend.Exactly, he wanted to show her that she's worthless to him unless she can get him off, and how dare she say no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:26 PM |
| 37 | Impart a nugget of FDS wisdom on every young woman you meet. They are being groomed. An experience with Radio Disney...Yep absolutely, she was under the impression that the man should get to pick the house for some damn reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 328 | This makes me sick to my stomach. I hope she broke up with him and got a better boyfriend."I don't know why I did it" fake ass He is an adult human being with a brain. He knows exactly what he was doing. It was completely intentional. He exposed himself for what he truly is-- a sick piece of shit who values getting off more than he values his girlfriend's feelings and emotional and physical well-being. Fuck that guy, hope she leaves his dusty ass and tells everyone about his degeneracy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:22 PM |
| 3 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"For sure it is!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 9 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep, neither did any of my exes. And yet they acted like they were sOoOoO indispensable when I brought way more to the relationship and put in way more effort. Losers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 81 | Impart a nugget of FDS wisdom on every young woman you meet. They are being groomed. An experience with Radio Disney...I told a woman at work that I have my own house and she said "but what about when you get married??" I said "nah I'm not gonna get married, I like doing whatever I want whenever I want 😎" Wish more young women would realize that being in a relationship puts a lot of unnecessary stress and limitations specifically on women, especially nowadays where we're being shamed for having basic standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 10 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep! That's what I do. It's because there's a pressure seal created between the lid and the inside of the jar, loosening the edges causes some air to leak out which gets rid of the pressure seal. That's why unopened jars have lids that look like they're being "sucked in" with a little concave slope at the top, due to the vacuum pressure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:06 PM |
| 4 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Good!! Glad to hear you got rid of that dead weight Nothing feels more rewarding to me than fixing things haha. Love reading tutorials on the weekend and doing small house projects | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 7 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"I just use a knife 🔪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:52 PM |
| 10 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Fair point, but from my experience of having this conversation multiple times with men IRL, it usually ends with them realizing they ain't shit and men actually rely on women far more than they realize. I think it's important to dispel the myth that "women are useless" every chance I get. Cleaning, cooking, emotional labor are all very undervalued by society, especially by men. When I respond with "who's going to clean for you? Who's going to cook for you?" these LVM realize they don't actually … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 16 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Of course, I'm referring specifically to all the (imaginary) manual labor LVM think they're useful for. It's all stuff that can be done with tools or figured out with a quick Google search, using a man to do manual labor around the house is inefficient | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 15 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Of course, but they're playing into sexist roles in the first place by implying that women can't do manual labor. It's a direct comparison that highlights how stupid their assumptions are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:37 PM |
| 34 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep same, I do all my own automotive maintenance and repair, drywall repairs and patching, yard work and gutters, etc. There's really nothing we can't do ourselves. Crazy how obsolete men are these days smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:36 PM |
| 53 | LVM be like "who's gonna do your yard work, who's gonna clean your gutters, who's gonna open jars for you?"Yep 💯 Guys don't do chores and they have the audacity to demand women to split rent and bills...smh Most guys don't even know or can't even be bothered to please women during sex I'm running out of reasons to start actively trying to date again 🤔 lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 16 | What Seemingly HVM have you dated? What were his HV traints and his LV traits?A big mistake I often make is thinking guys are HV when they have stuff in common with me. Like shared interests, similar sense of humor, similar diet and lifestyle, etc. I realized you only truly know a guy is HV based on how he treats you, which is impossible to determine from hobbies and interests alone. That being said, every guy I thought was HV was actually LV hence why I'm no longer dating them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:09 PM |
| 58 | MEN KNOW THEY ARE SHALLOW AF-THEY JUST BANK ON BEING ABLE TO HOODWINK US-PPD GEMS (EYE ROLL)"knowing you can get a much hotter girl" yeah right bro, you can't get shit. The entitlement is off the scale Any attractive woman would be dating down if she ended up with this piece of work smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:01 PM |
| 35 | Scrot justifies cat catting and a wild Pickmisha appears on que!If you smile, they think that means they've got the green light to talk to you. If you talk to them, they think you're flirting. If you're flirting, they think you want to date them/have sex with them. Give LVM an inch, they take a mile. Best to just walk by and pretend you didn't notice. Then again, men have killed women for ignoring them, so play it by ear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:59 PM |
| 102 | An article normalizing the rape culture idea that men can’t control their impulses and simply need sex. Um, no. These NBA athletes are adults and should be able to contain themselves for a few months while quarantining in Florida.I've yet to hear about women going on rampages or throwing tantrums due to a lack of physical or sexual contact. The article says "humans need it," guess that means women aren't human? 🤷 Side note: if hugging and touching reduces stress and cortisol then why don't they just hug and touch each other? Why do women have to solve all men's problems?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 9 | Don't know how to date in a city where men put no effort.Yeah my comments are more about dropping hints to guys in real life when they are active on dating apps. They're content with swiping on women and going on low effort dates so naturally they are apathetic to IRL approaches, that's what I was referring to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 78 | Don't know how to date in a city where men put no effort.Agree and sad to say that it seems like that in most major metropolitan cities where the number of educated and financially stable women appears to vastly outnumber the quantity of good available men. Guys start to get the idea that they are rare and they have plenty of women to choose from, especially with the online dating mindset--they don't put any effort into maintaining the interest of any women because another potential match is just a swipe away. Even IRL I've dropped serious hints I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 92 | To all my sisters here: please don’t compare yourself to facetuned and photoshopped pictures of celebrities. It’s all a lie. Love yourself 👸🏻❤️Y'all should check out r/Instagramreality, really opens your eyes to the BS out there on social media!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 18 | “Did you meet someone already from this app?”Haha reminds me of a question they ask on interviews. "Do you have any other offers currently?" It helps them see how 'in demand' you are and what amount of salary they should offer you. I think a guy asks this to determine how much effort he should put in to maintaining your attention and interest. If he knows you're talking to ten other guys, he may think you're not gonna give him the time of day. If it's 1 or 2 other guys, he may think he needs to fight for your attention. If it's zero guys, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Is it bad to like attention from men?See the thing is we know from a logical point of view that attention from men is worthless. We also know this from an emotional point of view, because oftentimes the reality of attention from men does not feel that great--in fact, it can really hurt emotionally. Which means then that attraction to men and enjoying their attention is a biological response. And there's no way you can logically or emotionally close yourself off from enjoying their attention, it's literally part of who we are as hum… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 6 | Oh boy, play the cancer card but tell me more about how you’re “always the smartest guy in the room” and how “you’ll give us a chance” 🙄Yeah science and math are always touchy subjects for men, I think it's almost impossible to NOT sound like a jerk when explaining the higher level stuff because people always act like women had "attitudes" or "audacity" when we end up being better than men in male-dominated fields. You know your stuff! Go off on those annoying engineers and pickmes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Oh boy, play the cancer card but tell me more about how you’re “always the smartest guy in the room” and how “you’ll give us a chance” 🙄😂😂😂 I completely believe that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 19 | Oh boy, play the cancer card but tell me more about how you’re “always the smartest guy in the room” and how “you’ll give us a chance” 🙄LMAO guys looove talking about relativity and time in stupid pretentious philosophical ways but they just shut down when the math is rolled out 😂 That's awesome!! I did some work with BECs during undergrad, mostly just modeling spin-orbit coupled wells in MatLab and I got so much shit from guys who had nothing to do with physics trying to ask me "gotcha" questions about my models Like some MechEng dude was trying to apply classical mechanics to tell me I'm wrong about where particles are allowed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 41 | Oh boy, play the cancer card but tell me more about how you’re “always the smartest guy in the room” and how “you’ll give us a chance” 🙄Yesss queen!!! I did my MS in Physics and guys get so pissed off when I know more about physics than they do lol Plus when I get into the actual technical math I can see their eyes glaze over, they just care about the easy philosophical stuff (like the concept behind the uncertainty principle or like quantum tunneling) but they don't give a shit about any of the serious math and theorems smh Best of luck with your PhD!! That's so exciting!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:46 PM |
| 88 | Oh boy, play the cancer card but tell me more about how you’re “always the smartest guy in the room” and how “you’ll give us a chance” 🙄"Talk general relativity to me" Most guys who use these physics buzzwords don't know anything about actual physics, they just like quoting pop science documentaries and acting like watching Interstellar makes them an intellectual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 43 | Shower thought: men tell us we’re stupid for not vetting chumps hard enough & blame our pOoR cHoIcEs & not men’s behaviour....but once we start getting wiser to men’s lies & vetting them harder they call us stuck up, superficial & paranoid.Yeah, it's incredibly manipulative and creepy imo. Especially because a lot of times men "play dumb", like they'll pretend they "don't know" when they're being mean or saying mean things, and they "didn't realize" when something is abusive or controlling. Take Woody Allen, who, when accused of being predatory, said something to the effect of, "I can't even remember what I had for breakfast the other day, how am I supposed to remember if I made a woman uncomfortable at one time or another?" And y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:49 PM |
| 54 | Shower thought: men tell us we’re stupid for not vetting chumps hard enough & blame our pOoR cHoIcEs & not men’s behaviour....but once we start getting wiser to men’s lies & vetting them harder they call us stuck up, superficial & paranoid.They want to keep women in the dark about the true nature of LVM. They want to trick us into believing that only a few men are bad, so we can't stop entertaining men "just because of a few bad apples". They want us to always be available for them; being wise to the BS makes it harder to take advantage of us, which is what LVM want to do at the end of the day. So they have to keep us in the dark, in a constant state or second-guessing ourselves and giving LVM "a chance". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:44 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Hmm, interesting concept but I feel like a lot of ugly "nice guys" would flock to this app and then blame women for being shallow once they realize the guy they've been talking to is ugly. LVM are pros at pretending to be nice and sincere, one thing you can't fake is your looks though. And I'm talking about hygiene and styling in addition to bone structure and height. Idk, I'll give it a whirl to see how it is, but I'm going in with some caution!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Absolutely, you're completely right! I need to move on, talking with other guys even over text will help a lot with that. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020True, thanks! I agree that reaching out would be weird and uncalled for. And like another person mentioned, if he hasn't formally expressed interest by now then I should probably move on. We did match on Tinder a few weeks ago and he just kinda said "haha hi there", I said hi back and made a humorous comment about our shared hatred for dating apps before unmatching. He seemed a lite nervous around me afterward IRL. Probably thinks I'm not interested at all after that exchange. Idk, I'll move on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Thanks for the reality check, I really appreciate it!! It's difficult for me to date at the moment because, like him, I vastly prefer real time interactions to online dating. Currently the only social circles I have are close friends from college and coworkers, haha. I'll wait until COVID is over to go out and date, I think I'll take a pass on this guy like you mentioned though. Thanks a bunch!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I think that's a good strategy! Lots of annoying LVM keep women's numbers for months if not years so they can breadcrumb them down the line. It's annoying AF and I've had it happen to me recently, a guy who I had a terrible date with sent me 4th of July well-wishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020The best advice I can give is don't give him husband privileges!! It's tempting for women to want to spoil their boyfriends when they become exclusive, don't go out of your way to cook, clean, or invite him to spend the night for too many times a week. He'll take you for granted otherwise! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I've been talking to a guy IRL for several months. Coworker, works in a separate department. He looks good on paper--tons of hobbies match mine, same sense of humor, very kind and respectful. We are friend at this point, but I can kinda tell that he's attracted to me. He's keeping distance out of respect, it seems. He's on a few dating apps but has mentioned that he prefers face to face interactions when assessing potential partners. He's a few years older than I am, and he's not super active on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 39 | Reminder: Male desire is both abundant and low value. They're out here screwing McChickens. I honestly feel like I'm taking crazy pillsUgh this just reminds me that LVM's concept of sex almost seems like....inherently degrading and creepy More like they're using you to masturbate than actually being intimate/romantic or whatever. It's gross and creepy. Ughhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:27 AM |
| 76 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.The funny thing is, when you call guys out who insult women and expect you to play along, they go full DARVO: Deny: "I didn't mean it like THAT!" Attack: "What, you don't think it's true? I expected you to be different, you're not like other girls!" Reverse the Victim and Offender: "You really think I'm a misogynist? That hurts my feelings...I can't believe you think I hate women, I thought you were different from those other crazy b*tches..." Their little "jokes" and flippant remarks, and expec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:21 AM |
| 29 | You don’t get a trophy for doing the bare minimumYeah I know a gay man who calls me "bitch" like every time he talks to me, and touches me without consent. They don't seem to give a shit about women's rights on average either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:53 AM |
| 40 | Lol the 'nice guy' approach of men way below your leagueI swear to GOD I've read this exact same profile like thirty times across seven thousand different dating apps in multiple alternative universes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:42 AM |
| 30 | A woman leaving an attractive man for a schlubby weirdo are basically fairytales for menA+ 😂 I need to listen to her songs again, so many FDS bangers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:40 AM |
| 49 | Men Know They are Meant to Chase. That's Why Slut Shaming is a Thing.I like shaming men for being unable to form healthy emotional relationships, in addition to shaming them for promiscuity. "Uh-oh guys, here comes Instable Ian, looks like he gaslit his girlfriend again and she finally left his emotionally abusive ass" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:55 PM |
| 5 | And this is where “the wall” comes from!Poor sleep, high stress levels, and depression are the main side effects from watching porn that can lead to premature baldness. Anything that puts stress on your body causes you to age prematurely--that's why people who work in high-stress environments have premature gray hair, bad skin, and so on. Watching porn leads to stress because men are often dependent and addicted to it even if they don't realize it; they have intrusive thoughts about pornography during their waking moments, they can't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:40 PM |
| 10 | And this is where “the wall” comes from!Fun fact: excessive porn consumption leads to premature balding in addition to brain rot. So not only does porn give men brain damage, it also: makes them ugly makes them terrible in bed makes them less empathetic to women makes them lose motivation and focus makes them lose their ability to keep erections And I should date a man who watches porn why??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:08 AM |
| 20 | My Level Up Plan. What's yours? (This will keep me busy!)Your reading list is awesome!! Same with the plan to save up 6 months worth of living expenses, I want to do that too! Such a great idea especially in times of crisis. My main goals are as follows: Squat 275 lbs this year (currently at 225 🥰) Grow my hair out to my shoulders (I like it longer but had to cut it due to damage from bleach smh) Continue growing my crystal skull collection Get a raise at work!!! Start waking up at 5 AM again Get invisible braces for my crooked lower teeth Finish writ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:47 AM |
| 13 | BlockingYeah tbh I wish I could block people IRL like in that one episode of Black Mirror. Would be great 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:41 AM |
| 13 | PornHub pretends to give a shit about racism on Twitter while simultaneously hosting videos such as "Skanky N--r gives a blowjob" and "Black Slave Girl Brutalized" and gets rightfully dragged for filth by Fight The New Drug.How can liberals say "representation matters!!!!!" on the one hand, and celebrate movies that show POC and women in powerful roles, then turn around and defend this sick shit?? Because of how many men watch porn, and how ubiquitous porn consumption has become, men spend more time seeing women in a sexual context than as a human beings. I guarantee you men have spent more time jacking off to women than having normal conversations with us. How can you expect a man to NOT harass or sexualize women,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:38 AM |
| 60 | Men🙄🙄Imagine constantly being inundated by intrusive sexual thoughts like this. LVM really are slaves to their biology smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Thanks for the reminder! That sounds terrible, those men are unbelievably shameless. I'd rather be single and happy than miserable with some creepy loser! I'll take a break from the apps for now, thanks again for your advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:28 PM |
| 120 | Gee, I wonder why r/Incels is banned and we’re not? 🤔This is what happens when you have too many entitled men in a society. Women have more power now than ever to choose who they want to date or IF they want to date. And unfortunately, 9/10 times you're better off being alone than dating because of how low quality most men are. And yet, all men still feel entitled to not only a girlfriend, but an extremely attractive girlfriend. I'm just glad this sick freak can't hurt anyone else. Serves him absolutely right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020That's great advice, thank you! I definitely agree that there must be something wrong with a man if he isn't married by 35. The issue is I live in a really huge metropolitan area, I just bought a house, and I currently make six figures at my dream job haha. I'll be patient, I get lonely from time to time so I'll just take up more hobbies to occupy myself in the meanwhile. Thanks again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020I started online dating again for the first time in 1.5 years, and it seems like the quality of guys has just gotten way worse. Tons of ugly ungroomed men who have hobbies like "getting blackout drunk" or "binge watching TV". I'm specifically using the Hinge dating app. Haven't matched with any men since I've had it for three weeks. The only HVM I can find IRL are in their early 30s, I'm in my mid twenties atm. I feel like I should just wait until I'm older to start dating again, but the guys wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:51 PM |
| 132 | Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliamsI'm Pakistani and it's true. Pakistani men in the US, even the so-called "Westernized" ones, have no respect for Western women or Westernized Pakistani women. They will sleep around, manipulate, gaslight, and emotionally abuse these women, then want to "settle down" with a super traditional Muslim Pakistani wife--most likely because she'll be less experienced and more likely to put up with their BS. It's terrible. Edit: also wanted to add that most Pakistani guys are losers who vape a ton, idoli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:07 PM |
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