| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 675 | Ladies: never forget the “Fox and the Grapes” parable. | LIES MEN TELL | paperbagskirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 401 | Your daily reminder, Queens! | REMINDER 👑 | paperbagskirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 12:17 PM |
| 45 | Is this a red flag? | SEEKING ADVICE | paperbagskirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 01:55 AM |
| 31 | “What do you bring to the table?” | ROAST-A-SCROTE | paperbagskirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:23 PM |
| 23 | Talk me off the ledge | SEEKING ADVICE | paperbagskirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Just remembered something LVM ex-boyfriend said... | LESSON LEARNED | paperbagskirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 49 | 🙅🏻♀️This is a very roundabout way of saying that he cries after sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 70 | Pickme culture is so pathetic. “Act like puppies”? Like pee on the floor in excitement for a trip to Target? 🤮Like wow, you’re giving me permission to go to target and spend my own money? Get a pedicure with my own money? Incredible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:26 PM |
| 12 | Pickme's when they talk about their "HVM"😂yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 38 | They're insulting themselves at this pointBecause single women exist and these men still can’t get laid to save their lives 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 36 | Resisting the urge to send a final text to my ex~~~~he already knows~~~~~**~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:44 AM |
| 39 | Can he find the clit? That is the question.This is addressed in the handbook....you can and should do some light fooling around to gauge his skill and your attraction before committing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:40 PM |
| 17 | Every time you see this image, think about whether the man you’re with would be an asset to your “team” as your go through life. If not... out he goes!We gon need a bigger truck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 13 | SpeachlessJesus Christ has left the chat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:05 PM |
| 34 | I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteemDUMP HIM! You’re doing exactly what you should be doing - vetting him before you have sex - and he is FAILING. You are only 23. Do not try to rationalize a way to make this work. Recognize a red flag when you see one. Dump, block, delete, thank u next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:58 AM |
| 15 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.BASED INDEED 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:23 PM |
| 7 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.ITA 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 10 | What would you do if...Lmaoooooooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 33 | My girl just dropped a LMV thanks to this community!Man down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:38 PM |
| 61 | Written by a man.This. Also, gosh we just need to try harder!/s. Like women don’t already break their backs while men put in the least effort possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:55 PM |
| 13 | How do you know what type of man you want?This is what dating is for IMO. To learn what you want beyond the basics of decency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:33 PM |
| 24 | Men know men are dangerous/women are smart to be cautious.Meh it just sounds like another “poor me” post from a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 66 | “What are you getting out of this relationship?”For a long time I felt like I owed it to a man to stay unless he did something really egregious. It was never enough to just want to be out of the relationship - I needed a good reason or justification. THIS IS CRAP. Eventually I woke up, but I still see this attitude all around me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:57 PM |
| 5 | Stay toxic Kings. Bring the BS at any time of the day, we not going. Your LV contact will never be a sign.Kings, we won’t even know you texted because you’re blocked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:56 AM |
| 119 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultScrotes gonna scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 11 | Unpopular opinion has always been a place to trash talk women, but this insulting garbage takes the cake. We're constantly threatened by a subreddit that is able to say whatever they like because it's 'just their opinion' and calls us prostitutes.Quarantinesarah coming in hot 🍵 🐸 come join FDS queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:31 PM |
| 14 | ‘What should I do?’ Really???“Porn tells lies about women, but it tells the truth about men” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:59 AM |
| 65 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?I 👏🏼 fucking 👏🏼 love 👏🏼 this 👏🏼 sub 👏🏼 and 👏🏼 its 👏🏼 mods 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 48 | Listen up: A few dates, or mere texting is not enough to determine if a man is HVM!Bro I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and the jury is still out 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:50 PM |
| 30 | Another thing I found today - bingo for when to leave somebody. The girl also has a website linked below.Also why warn him? Let him show you who he is 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 151 | there was no need to put other women like that. I guess she just wanted to be all 'look at me, I'm better than you!!1'Ah yes. How dare women have the audacity to have three (3) whole standards. Better dial it back ladies, we’re asking for too much again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:24 PM |
| 35 | Having feelings for a man?? Could never be me.💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:44 AM |
| 22 | Woman finds out dirty dick husband is cheating with his mistress again. She sues the Pickmeisha mistress AND she sues her husband since he bought a condo to use as a love shack. Looks like the condo will be going bye bye.I found it by googling. I’m invested. I didn’t even do anything and I feel nervous, LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 27 | Honestly, how dareThe last time a guy approached me he said “can I ask you a question?” I just stared in disbelief and said “no.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 38 | Woman finds out dirty dick husband is cheating with his mistress again. She sues the Pickmeisha mistress AND she sues her husband since he bought a condo to use as a love shack. Looks like the condo will be going bye bye.LOVE IT! Wish we could sue for alienation of affection in my area. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:56 PM |
| 27 | Woman finds out dirty dick husband is cheating with his mistress again. She sues the Pickmeisha mistress AND she sues her husband since he bought a condo to use as a love shack. Looks like the condo will be going bye bye.Any updates after 9:24 EST? What a cliffhanger! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 30 | I was looking through my blocked contacts and I found this gem. 5'7, 40 year old single father... Y'all ever think that because they are old they'll be mature? But it's not the realityYou lost me at 5’7” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:43 PM |
| 35 | The look on his face was worth every pennyUltimate flex 💪🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:40 PM |
| 19 | Men and women multiple dating are not the same!Can we talk about Freddie Prinze Jr. hitting the wall tho? Holy smokes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 157 | Don't settle for scrotes.“He could own several Applebee’s” Sir, that would be even worse 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:45 PM |
| 53 | I was trying to think of a witty caption... but honestly I have no wordsHonestly, get the fuck out of my hospital room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 12 | That frustration when you realize how most men interpret your interestYeah, you have a point. I was going with desperate because there are so few worthwhile men out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:33 AM |
| 12 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.👑Let’s add this to the handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 129 | That frustration when you realize how most men interpret your interestDeep down, most men know they don’t have much to offer. So when a woman who they haven’t even put effort toward shows interest, they figure she must be desperate. Honestly, she probably is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:58 PM |
| 57 | When an LVM pops out of the wood work with a “miss you” text, this is the only way to respond.Love a classic “who’s this” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:24 PM |
| 22 | I hope this hasn’t been posted before, seen on Instagram and had to share!Very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 78 | “She takes care of me and the kids and provides financially...but I like sleeping with you.” Can we take art supplies away from men?This is so incredibly bad LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 18 | I don't fw grown men who quote Monty Python anywayI hate Monty python. So stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:03 PM |
| 92 | Should I block an ex for the simple fact that hearing from him makes me sad and hinders my self improvement progress?Definitely block him and then read the handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:36 PM |
| 50 | Can't even be bothered to come back to his own apartment to potentially meet me, does he think this is playing "hard to get"??I’m one of the successfully married women on here...I met my husband at a BBQ and he asked me that night if I would like to go on a date. He made sure to clarify the day, time and location before we parted. Going forward, he made sure to clarify our next date before the one we were on ended. I’m sharing this as an example of how a man acts who is serious about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:35 PM |
| 12 | Sometimes when men look for "girlfriends," they're really looking for "free hookers." Don't be a free hooker.To men, girlfriend = free on-demand pussy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:53 PM |
| 278 | Imagine....To quote another queen here: “Men realizing that they are disposable is my fetish” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:41 PM |
| 42 | THIS. 👑 👏 (swipe)Pissbaby 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 13 | Dating advice from seniors !LOL!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 614 | Had a conversation with a male friend today that confirmed FDS strategiesGod men are so weird. He had sex with her on the first date but then she called him a pet name on the second date and THAT was too intimate for him. LOLOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 24 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.It’s a no from me dog. Remember that dick is abundant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 16 | Donna Meagle from Parks and Rec should be FDS mascot, in my opinion.🤣 love her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:20 PM |
| 27 | RealisationThe wise women here say that ghosting hurts men’s egos the most. Saying anything to men lets them know that you care and they get off on that. Since he’s shown he doesn’t care about you, I’d hate to see you give him the satisfaction of showing him that you care one more time. For this reason, I’m going to go with ghost him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 129 | Is it strange that potential date sent me an unflattering photo?He’s trying to warn you that he doesn’t really look like his OLD photos. He is heavier now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 50 | When a woman doesn’t value herself enough to embrace being valued by a manThis looks like some made up right wing, anti-Muslim propaganda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:24 PM |
| 53 | HVM has only known me for a month and wants to get married????This is called love bombing. Also after 1 month you have no idea if he’s a HVM and shouldn’t be having sex with him. Read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:22 PM |
| 18 | 🙅🏻♀️👩🏻🎓👸🏻Couldn’t be me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 6 | Would moving in together be a bad idea?There are a ton of resources online, but this is one from childluresprevention.com: How do child molesters gain access to their victims? While some sexual abuse is purely opportunistic, most children are groomed and lured into situations where they are vulnerable to abuse. Common grooming strategies include: -Befriending parents, particularly single parents, to gain access to their children. -Offering babysitting services to busy parents or guardians. -Taking jobs and participating in community … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 06:40 PM |
| 30 | The audacity to “joke” about something as serious as gender violence. I reported his profile anyway because if a man jokes about something as serious as that, there has got to be some truth.He’s not killing anybody with those delicate lil hands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 32 | Negging?Is a bum bag a thing? Or is he just saying your bag looks like something a bum would carry? lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 15 | Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...TY for educating me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 24 | In the absence of your own desire to improve yourself, lie to the allegedly superficial women who want an educated, driven partner. His post, my answer. The comments were a cesspool of twisted validation for him and denigration of her. I had to say something.Sorry homey, you need to have a graduate degree to ride this ride. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:49 PM |
| 620 | Imagine thinking you will ever be in this position and getting to reject her. Imagine thinking she is your option. I just...I am so tired of delusional men interjecting their preferences and opinions of women. No one asked. No one cares. The fact that they think their opinion matters is a sign that the patriarchy is alive and well. And with his comments about her darkness - obviously, racism is alive and well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:58 AM |
| 13 | Would moving in together be a bad idea?None of this is an editorial on gender roles. It’s based on statistical facts on how child molesters gain access to victims. Obviously, I hope you are right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:37 AM |
| 52 | I’d rather grow old and alone with 30 cars than to know my husband settled for me.What a lucky woman. She gets to be a paycheck for this man and look at that face every day 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:17 AM |
| 9 | Would moving in together be a bad idea?1) Has a job or hobby that gives him access to young children though he has no children of his own 2) Approaches an unknown kid and his single mom in public; invites them somewhere; pursues single mom (children of single mothers are 20 times more likely to be molested) 3) Spends crazy amount of time at your place, especially for 6 months in, even though it gives him an incredibly long commute. Why aren’t weekends enough only 6 months in? Why so needy and insistent on together time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Would moving in together be a bad idea?Sis this is giving me BAD VIBES. Pedo vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:50 PM |
| 10 | Would moving in together be a bad idea?Nope, nope, nope. 6 months is way too early to declare him a nvm let alone consider living with him. The fact that he stays over every night and drives 90 minutes to work seems suspect. Jealous, insecure, needy maybe. Keep your eyes peeled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:47 PM |
| 6 | Lvm would rather risk divorce than brush his teeth 👍Yeah. If it’s so small it’s not worth divorcing about, then it’s so small that the dirty ass man should just BRUSH HIS DAMN TEETH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 10 | Lvm would rather risk divorce than brush his teeth 👍My god. Imagine your wife divorcing you because you won’t do something as simple as brush your teeth 🤦🏼♀️ I can’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 7 | Carmela Soprono should be #1 in the hall of shame. Sat idly by and blinded herself with jewelry and expensive gifts while her husband, Mafia boss Tony Soprono has COUNTLESS affairs. But even tho Tony was a serial cheater he was a “good dad” when he was NEVER home unless to shit, shower, or sleep.Yup. Hated this show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 56 | My heart breaks for this young girl, I tried to be as tactful as possible letting her know she should leave that man who’s definitely taking advantage of herWhen I was 19 I would have literally vomited upon seeing 47 year old twig and berries. Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:56 PM |
| 4 | In need of some success stories, losing hope with men lately :(This is really simple: you don’t trust him because he is not trustworthy. Dump. Him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 69 | It’s been over a month & this conversation still makes me want to vomitYeah his hairline is massively receded, I can see in the small pic. By “lots of hair” he means on his back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:58 PM |
| 125 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.Seems to me the best thing is to say “I’ll know it when I see it” so that you don’t show your hand too soon. If he knows you want marriage he can lie and manipulate under the guise that he wants the same when he just wants to bang. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:17 PM |
| 119 | Do you hear the PickMe's yet? 'I don't care if he doesn't get me a ring, I don't care if my proposal is shit; it's the thought that matters! Expectations make you a golddigger' 🤡It’s not a crack house, it’s a crack home ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:09 AM |
| 33 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Amen. A woman swooped in and saved my ass when I was in my 20s and some wrinkly old scrote grabbed me in a bar and tried to kiss me on the lips. I vowed from then on to do the same for other women, particularly younger ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 56 | In need of some success stories, losing hope with men lately :(Hey girl! I just tucked my beautiful children into bed and am about to enjoy a glass of wine and watch the Dirty John Betty Broderick series in my badass house. My HV husband left to visit friends for a couple of days, but not before giving me a bouquet of flowers. I am relaxed and have no fears about strippers, inappropriate texting, or anything of the like while he’s gone. Is he perfect? Hell no. He is a man after all. But I’ve never doubted my value to him and while I can certainly take care … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:43 PM |
| 15 | You guys ever received something like this from some creepers?? It makes me feel weird.No because I have my chat and messages turned off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:50 PM |
| 3 | SupportThis is brilliant advice lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:26 PM |
| 9 | Just blocked the first reddit scroteSettings > account settings > click on your username and disable chat and direct messages | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:08 PM |
| 46 | SupportImagine him trying to text you again (which you know he will) and not getting an answer. He checks his phone for a response. Later he checks it again. And again. After a day goes by he frowns and thinks, “the f, did she block me?” And you are smiling 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 11 | Is It Possible to have an FDS Approved Character Analysis Discussion?Elle Woods goes from pick-me to high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:26 PM |
| 24 | That's all she wroteYou look amazing. I agree with the previous poster who said that texting paragraphs = I care so much, but sometimes you do have to say a few things on your way out. Just block him now. He clearly doesn’t give a shit or else he would have responded. Don’t let him make you a fool anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:20 PM |
| 39 | I just have to share because I’m so proud of myself (story in comments)Seriously this is giving me life. I’m so proud of you internet stranger! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 21 | Brother outright OFFERS sister’s body in exchange for his phone and wallet not to be stolen from THUGS.Lol I’d disown him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:26 PM |
| 124 | I just have to share because I’m so proud of myself (story in comments)GOOD FOR YOU! Handled like an absolute boss. 4 months is about when the excitement begins to wane and their mask falls off so it makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:21 PM |
| 174 | I can’t believe this needs to be a PSA. And I get filthy creatures like him also expect sex on the first date 🤢1) SHE STAYED 2) walk date as though she’s a golden retriever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:03 AM |
| 48 | I hate that this is even on my camera roll.I’m screaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:32 AM |
| 20 | When did your love bomber do his first pull away?Very interesting. I noticed it starting at 4 weeks if I can remember correctly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 8 | could it be possible that there are women diagnosed with BPD (borderline personality disorder) who are simply wayward pickmes?👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:20 AM |
| 37 | Wanted: To be aloneLet them be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 91 | I'm actually fine, thanksFor what???? What do I gain from this? It’s mind boggling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 168 | Woman begs boyfriend to pee in a mason jar with a lid, empty it out, and wash it every morning instead of peeing in water glasses and leaving it sitting out all day.Every time I think I’ve seen it all... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 237 | Spot the guyIf a man doesn’t know something is wrong with his wife mowing the lawn at 7 1/2 months pregnant, he is developmentally disabled and needs to go live in a group home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:58 PM |
| 26 | The texts from this man.... then take a look at the woman he’s saying this to. MindblownThis kills me every time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:06 PM |
| 67 | I’m scared of dating againIf you aren’t excited about it, then why do it? You don’t have to date or be in a relationship! Enjoy being single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 10:52 AM |
| 62 | Butt hurttRIGgErEd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:40 AM |
| 13 | Woman staying with her pedophile boyfriend, still hasn’t gone to the police.I have no words. Usually I have a lot of sympathy for women but she’s just as bad as him at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:56 PM |
| 59 | Slightly creepy colleague. Is this real or in my head? How do I navigate in the midst of LVM colleagues?This is not in your head. No married man should be texting/calling a young coworker and talking about personal things. Is there an HR department that you can notify? Just to put some of his texts and actions on file in case he ramps up. He sounds unstable as he is already texting you way too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:49 PM |
| 79 | Why do guys get back with their ex?He was probably using you to make his ex jealous or distract himself from the breakup. There really is no way to know this, which is why we vet for months and date multiple men so we don’t become too attached. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 02:54 PM |
| 173 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedI noticed that too 🤣🤣🤣🤣 pure comedy gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 02:50 PM |
| 39 | Im learning everyday with fdsOuch. A painful lesson to learn ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:36 PM |
| 22 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?If he’s only in town until Friday and is looking for a pro bono hooker, why is he talking about jiu jitsu and his credit and shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:40 PM |
| 103 | Failing in style I guess?I can’t imagine messaging a man like “what up motherfcker!!!!” There’s a reason a lot of these men are on OLD - they are broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:38 PM |
| 29 | Man complains about lack of variety in sex life, big dick is the only issue in the marriage...judge for yourself ladies.Yes we give birth to whole ass babies, but your 8” dick just won’t fit 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 144 | “Not true! I still do!!! 🙋♀️”How does he know? Has he received a lot of fellatio from members of the Greatest Generation in order to compare? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:44 AM |
| 54 | At least he showed himself out and I don’t have to go through the trouble...I think ok followed by block and delete is the perfect answer. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 15 | Grown man angry that wife did not pack his camping clothes for him. After she packed literally everything else for their trip!I am married and the day I pack my husband’s clothes is the day I die. NO WAY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:53 AM |
| 51 | What’s something that you did with good intention, too early for a man, and now look back in it with so much regret?-Imagining him as my future husband -Thinking about him a lot -Texting him a lot -Sleeping with him -Cooking -Making plans -Paying -Changing or dropping plans to accommodate him And many, many more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:58 PM |
| 15 | What was one of the most infuriating neg comments an ex LVM/NVM said to you?About me: “she’s pretty for a white girl” 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 223 | The last two sentences... I wish I could unreadImagine your taint isn’t even healed and your husband is bitching at you about having another baby already...in addition to cleaning the house... Nah sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 24 | My LVM ex lied about his SAT score being higher than mineHahaha. That is so pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:23 PM |
| 8 | I Need Helpread the handbook, focus as much as possible on life and hobbies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:53 AM |
| 18 | Have men always been this dumb?Homeless cousin of The Weeknd 💀💀💀⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 38 | I feel like a lower value womanIf a man can lower your value by touching you, the problem is not with you, but with his hands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:54 AM |
| 96 | How can I date HVM when I have no career or education?Focus on getting your own self together first - job, place to live, car, some savings. This is really important life stuff. Men are just a distraction until you get your sht together, and you need to be able to take care of yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:43 AM |
| 15 | Push your own needs aside for a man! No, sis. Bye pickmeisha!Nope, literally never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 9 | Just no!No way, those are expensive. Give him some expired Elf or Rimmel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 4 | I think I am dating a NARCISSIST ... am I? Here are my red flagsYa lost me at pageant, lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 241 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.You sound like the epitome of high value. You are amazing. You are single-handedly raising three kids after dropping everything to ensure the abuse of your oldest would stop. Being high value doesn’t mean looks and money. It means having integrity. Maybe you just have too much going on right now and need more time to focus on yourself and your kids before you date, it would be understandable! My ex was bald as hell but he was so sexy to me. He cared about me, he listened to me. He was so manly, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What are y’all’s go to pick-me-ups?Do my hair & put makeup on, do my nails, buy a new book, exercise, bubble bath, go to the mall... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:35 PM |
| 11 | Thank you FDS!Good for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:32 PM |
| 128 | Women these days have it so easy!That’s what I was going to say. Not only do women have to do it ALL nowadays, they don’t even have total commitment from men as 99.9% of men wack off to porn/pay cam girls/go to strip clubs/sext their “friends”/good old fashioned cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 01:23 PM |
| 37 | Where have all the good women gone? Scrote with ex issues laments that he only meets women with ex issues.He says he has two kids who he’s locked in a custody battle for, that translates to “I’m not divorced yet.” Why aren’t the ladies climbing all over him? So odd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:00 AM |
| 44 | Still no mention of leaving him?“Yes this is abuse” 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:58 AM |
| 190 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restWTF did I just read? Is he mentally unwell? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:56 AM |
| 11 | This makes me mad in a weird way that I don’t know how to explainIt’s so fake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:46 PM |
| 21 | Being creeped out is perfectly validTHANK YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:17 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, leave him well before your relationship turns into this 🙅♀️👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 10:38 AM |
| 133 | My LV husband impregnated my daughter 🤡 Watch out ladies, never let a LVM around your kids.“She has been sleeping with her stepfather” Edited for factuality: “Her stepfather has been raping her” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 28 | LVM Manipulation Caught Just in TimeJesus Tapdancing Christ the things men will do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:38 PM |
| 36 | Being in a relationship does not make you an expertCoaches don’t play | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 12 | Seeing someone new and we’re keeping things open. Any advice for trying not to move too fast??Um. Read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:05 AM |
| 11 | Found my ex on Facebook Marketplace todaySeems overpriced | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 21 | “I’ve been trying to get a hold of you for a while...We met on Tinder”A good example of why we don’t share our fears and insecurities early on. Some men will go out of their way to make them come true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Letting go of resentmentMan have I done the thing where I’m so attention starved in my relationship that I begin to think I’m undesirable to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:40 PM |
| 35 | “I’ve been trying to get a hold of you for a while...We met on Tinder”I would never, and I repeat never, use online dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 07:28 PM |
| 14 | I think I did the right thing.. ? Help. TLDR.Your “forbidden Nigerian prince?” Is this for real? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:25 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone just lost faith in men altogether?R/WGTOW is a good place if you decide to give up romantic relationships with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:23 PM |
| 10 | Tbh I read “someone who can take my sarcasm” on dating apps as “imma be an asshole to you. Accept that” Is it just me?100% accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 69 | She has sex every single day with her husband for 10 years. He still cheated.She spends a lot of time criticizing the women around her when she’s just like them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 35 | Am I TA for leaving my wife because she can’t be my incubator? 🤨When I read it I thought that it’s telling that he got a call from the ER that she drove herself there in searing pain. She didn’t even tell him she was in pain and was on her way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 154 | Am I TA for leaving my wife because she can’t be my incubator? 🤨Every time I think I can’t see an example of a worse man, I am proven wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Thomas had never seen such bullshit beforeYour title made me lol 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Don’t give them a single inchI was referring to the fact that he is laying in bed with the covers pulled up LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 9 | Don’t give them a single inchGirl his picture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:06 PM |
| 35 | Out of all the terrible OLD openers I’ve received, this one is definitely up there.Ooh it even comes complete with a neg! Stunning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:28 PM |
| 17 | UPDATE: Scrote is dumbfounded when I treat him the same as he had treated me, resorts to threats.I remember your previous post, what a scrote LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:54 PM |
| 260 | Women are more likely to stay in marriage when their spouse is ill, yet men are more likely to leave if their bangmaid is too sick to put out anymore“I hate myself for getting cancer” God, I have no words. This poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:50 PM |
| 60 | I finally did it. I broke it off with him.Perfect responses! 👑 I can’t believe he called you dude and couldn’t spell out the word really. You clearly made the right choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:55 PM |
| 67 | Watched and learned!That’s so nice! Spend more time with these people if you can, meet more of their social circle. J might have some single friends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 9 | Only Self Love Will Ever Truly Fulfill Me. Romantic Love, Simply Put, Is The “Icing on the Cake”.I had this epiphany at one point too. I had always heard it, but I really FELT and BELIEVED it. Cheers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 3 | I am a recovering alcoholic and I sometimes post to a forum for people like me for support when I’m feeling low. Today I received this in my DMs. I am disgusted beyond belief.Thank you for reporting him and thank you for the sisters who stepped in to assist :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 104 | I am a recovering alcoholic and I sometimes post to a forum for people like me for support when I’m feeling low. Today I received this in my DMs. I am disgusted beyond belief.This man is a complete and total predator. Please tell me you reported him... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:20 PM |
| 36 | So women can’t have friends? Or a life?I love it when people write “no scammers” like scammers are going to read it and think, oh he’s not interested, I’ll move on to the next 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Scrote Wont Leave My Apt and Im SUPER DepressedThis was what I was told by my police department when I inquired in a similar situation (years ago). Even though I had established residency years before and was the only one on the lease, since he put the address on his driver’s license he established that he lives there and there was nothing they could do to get him out. I’d have to go through the eviction process or end the lease. Word to the wise, ladies: be careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 12 | Lol nope.🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 70 | Can you imagine doing this to a stranger, let alone your SO? The scrote walked to the kitchen, didn’t see any blood so thought she was ‘fine’. He went to his bedroom AND SLEPT when his gf was still unconscious on the floor. Thought she ‘had it coming’.He clearly despises her. It goes to show that a man will keep you around if you make his life easier - even if he hates your guts. Note that she was up before him making coffee when she passed out... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:58 PM |
| 9 | Lol nope.My husband would not have proposed with a ring less than $20k (he could afford it). Create, communicate and hold to your standards and they will be met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:54 PM |
| 11 | What happened when I invested all my time and energy in myselfLollllllllllllll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 39 | Scrote Wont Leave My Apt and Im SUPER DepressedIt’s a smart idea. I hope everything goes smoothly ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 19 | Today I told my bf some of thing things he do bothers me and he responded with the fact that I tell him he gutted me hurts himreminds me of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:54 PM |
| 11 | What happened when I invested all my time and energy in myselfAmazing 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:50 PM |
| 13 | Going home. I'm through letting a man dictate my life.Congratulations!! 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 98 | Scrote Wont Leave My Apt and Im SUPER DepressedThis. Is. So. True. I have been in a similar situation and it was truly one of the worst experiences of my life! I’m glad you have another place to stay. Is the landlord going to have to kick him out in a month because the lease is done? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 25 | And I oop...👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼I’m glad there’s at least one out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:32 PM |
| 8 | how can women use their beauty to their advantage?So many of us have had our spirits trampled by NVM and LVM. I am sure you are more beautiful than you give yourself credit for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | how can women use their beauty to their advantage?Aww love 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:22 PM |
| 64 | I fucked up and became too emotionally vulnerable too quickly, and I’m not sure if I should cut my losses and move on or continue.You may have shared too much too soon. It’s ok - you are human. All you can do is continue to vet ruthlessly. If and when he begins treating you differently, FOR WHATEVER REASON, block and delete. There are other men out there, and you will have this knowledge for next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 33 | Why do I need to give you my name?That is some serious audacity. I’m so glad you stood up for yourself and didn’t tell him your name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsAmen to ALL OF THIS I think we are soulmates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 13 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?I too have helped one move. bows head in shared shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:56 PM |
| 215 | This post boiled my blood. Don’t EVER shrink your success for a man!! Especially for a man with no job!!!“Stop breaking yourself down into bite-sized pieces. Stay whole and let them choke.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:53 PM |
| 31 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Love this post. I have done so many, long ago. As someone else mentioned, splitting checks and then paying completely as a surprise too 🤡 cooking and cleaning when I wasn’t even his wife 🤡 taking his dog to vet appointments for him, paying and not even asking for reimbursement 🤡 planning dates & vacations 🤡 considering his taste in terms of my clothes, makeup & hair 🤡 acting as an unpaid therapist sooo many times 🤡 being “cool” with him watching porn 🤡 watching porn with him 🤡 faking orgasms ins… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:32 PM |
| 12 | what ways can i test a man to know he would never rape/hurt/attack me?My mom dumped my dad when they were dating to make sure he would leave her alone. This was after dumping a NVM who continued to stalk and harass her. She wanted to make sure my dad wasn’t that type. I thought it was pretty clever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 45 | I stood a LVM up tonight and I'm having mixed feelings about it.My concern is what if you run into him in the area again? Do you carry pepper spray or any kind of self defense items? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:03 AM |
| 113 | Where OP is scared of his familyGuess what loser, your sperm determined the baby’s sex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:54 AM |
| 19 | Ladies, I need some guidance. Should I give him a another chance or unmatch?Good idea to ask yourself if this is how he’d treat Beyoncé. That’s my new standard from now on, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:53 AM |
| 3 | WTF, this is funny?!Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 12:03 AM |
| 12 | Men lack everything but the audacity.Here here. HARD PASS and that was pre-FDS, too. I just can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 21 | Men lack everything but the audacity.His tiny lil hands 😩😩😩😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 89 | WTF, this is funny?!As someone who has given birth: she put it on for 5 seconds for a photo and then ripped it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:28 PM |
| 7 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationNo you’re right, she should pick him up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 26 | What qualities do you deem high value? For men or women?Financially responsible (rich not necessary but knows how to operate comfortably on his income), intellectually curious (reads, takes classes, watches documentaries etc) has boundaries and respects the boundaries of others, takes good basic care of themselves (super fit not necessary - just good hygiene, eats vegetables, walks or bikes), kind and polite, knows what they want and like, takes pride in their job, doesn’t watch porn or follow “insta models”. Last but not least, if they have children… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:37 AM |
| 18 | Just saw this on TwitterI always wondered why I didn’t like this, and so so many mainstream movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 82 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationHe’s glad they live only 3 miles apart so he can ride his bike over 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 07:59 PM |
| 248 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsI feel the exact same way as you. Know that you’re not alone and I for one am proud of you for standing up for yourself and dumping him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:18 PM |
| 57 | Dating Coach Publicly Negs His WifeThe best part is he is SO ugly and she’s gorgeous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:19 AM |
| 30 | Dating Coach Publicly Negs His WifeHe is garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Ashley asked a scrote running an advice column. Who she really needed to ask was r/FDS.Yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 25 | Ashley asked a scrote running an advice column. Who she really needed to ask was r/FDS.This scrote is so annoying. I feel deeply sorry for his wife after having read some things he’s said about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:48 PM |
| 99 | Blocked my LVM boyfriend with no explanation. He doesn’t need one right?You’re all set. The message was clear; you don’t owe him any more. And good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:47 PM |
| 203 | Cool Story BroTell that to the 52 American women who are shot by their domestic partner every month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 68 | Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for themWomen are shamed for being unwilling to take on a project and help a man reach some guesstimated potential. Then they’re also blamed when they marry and/or have kids with a guy who ends up being a bad husband/father/provider/human. The game is rigged. The fault is always placed on the woman for either: A) not giving him a chance or B) needing to have chosen better. Which is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:11 PM |
| 23 | Cmon really😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:45 PM |
| 10 | Article: ADVANCED CALCULATIONS FOR WOMEN IN HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIPSOuch. That got me right where I live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 37 | Her husband wants to get her pregnant despite her objections, and her poor soul thinks that he might “just be curious”This 👏🏼 right 👏🏼 here 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 66 | Have no wordsThrow him away 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:47 PM |
| 56 | Her husband wants to get her pregnant despite her objections, and her poor soul thinks that he might “just be curious”JFC, I would get a restraining order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 86 | When do guys start taking dating seriously?Imo they start taking it seriously when they meet their “dream girl” and not a moment sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Simple stock trading/how to read👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:12 AM |
| 23 | AOC taking down a republican male colleague who called her a “f**king b**ch” to the press. Give this woman a medalI thought the same thing, but I think it was in direct response to Yoho saying he had a wife and daughters and would nEvEr... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:12 PM |
| 16 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!Ugh. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:42 AM |
| 26 | Unbelievable. This is only his third message to me.THANK 👏🏼 YOU 👏🏼 FOR 👏🏼 COMING 👏🏼 TO 👏🏼 MY 👏🏼 TED 👏🏼 TALK 👏🏼 Drop the online dating, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 74 | Basically 🙄I love that his skull is literally missing the brain lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:22 PM |
| 50 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you thisLOVE to see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:52 PM |
| 28 | Why are the FDS stalkers so obsessed with us and what we do with our sexualities and love lives lmfao5 minute erection? Someone told on himself 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:41 PM |
| 13 | Anytime I would bring up our issues my ex would go silent and ignore me. I wish I’d had this attitude this time last year!Cheater!!!!! Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:26 PM |
| 21 | Anytime I would bring up our issues my ex would go silent and ignore me. I wish I’d had this attitude this time last year!That was exactly what he deserved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:49 AM |
| 37 | Anytime I would bring up our issues my ex would go silent and ignore me. I wish I’d had this attitude this time last year!I literally ended a relationship this way! We just never spoke again. I was pretty badass back in my day 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 10:57 AM |
| 12 | Current Kanye saga - stay clear of men with narcissism, severe mental health issues, especially if untreated.SO TRUE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:26 PM |
| 9 | After having joined FDS a few weeks ago and memorising the Handbook...I could NEVER imagine myself ending up in this situation!!OP join us! My heart breaks for you...you can do better than this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:25 AM |
| 8 | If I were to get divorced for a second time, what do i gain from a third marriage?Nothing that I can think of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 64 | Dating and online profiles for LVM in a nutshellYou should’ve heard the last scrote I spoke to balk at my reluctance to date him since he “never wants to get married.” I was supposed to just be happy with whatever crumbs he decided to give me. My audacity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 06:54 PM |
| 82 | Dating and online profiles for LVM in a nutshellSince their world revolves around their dick, they probably think our world does too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 06:38 PM |
| 410 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?Same way they want women who have the hair and the nails and the makeup but don’t want to date a woman who invests the time or money into it. In a nutshell, they’re delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 21 | Some clownery I found in the wild on Insta. If you were in this situation, would you stay or not?LOLLLLLLLL 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:52 PM |
| 8 | Maybe means no. Men will move mountains if you're important to them. Don't settle.By “everything” did he mean heartburn? JFC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 94 | Maybe means no. Men will move mountains if you're important to them. Don't settle.Lmaooooo 🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:56 PM |
| 444 | Maybe means no. Men will move mountains if you're important to them. Don't settle.And to think my ex literally thought he was “doing the most” (his words) when he bought a bottle of wine and a candy bar for us to share. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:49 PM |
| 127 | Wife finds a strangers hairs on shower wall multiple times, husband pretends he doesn't know where they came from. Predictably, half the comments side with the husband, saying that the hairs are obviously from the air vents/street/a stranger secretly living in their attic. Full post in comments.Some man is really trying to convince her that the hairs might be coming out of the vent, lol 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:35 PM |
| 43 | “It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.”This is me to a T. I thought I was the only one on earth 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:15 PM |
| 26 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!Awww he wants a therapist!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 03:52 PM |
| 6 | "Thank you for your time" - my new high road approach to dating thanks to FDSNice work!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 66 | Saw this posted on insta by some roided up gym grub. They really think we are that despo for them.Seriously - like anyone wants to ride that mustache for life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:45 AM |
| 74 | Scrot justifies cat catting and a wild Pickmisha appears on que!Taught by her pickme mom... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Is this a red flag?Very interesting. Thanks for your thoughts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:58 AM |
| 47 | TIFU (M28) by ignoring my wife (F28) in lingerie after not being intimate in months. There are some real troglodytes in the comments. XIt goes to show that scrotes don’t really see you. Every human being deserves to be looked at when spoken to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:53 AM |
| 34 | LMAO Sounds like she's awakeningHe is being eviscerated in the comments and I’m here for it 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 23 | Did I overreact?Another vote for he was testing the waters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 12:59 AM |
| 21 | Is there a way to know if you’re on track to be a placeholder/forever girlfriend early on?This is a great list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 187 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedRead: I’m looking for an unpaid prostitute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:54 PM |
| 34 | Your insecurity about him watching porn is valid, and reason enough to expect a no-porn in your relationship.They have imaginations. The whole “men are visual” argument is just an excuse they use to treat us like sex objects - do not buy into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 38 | Your insecurity about him watching porn is valid, and reason enough to expect a no-porn in your relationship.I did this with my ex-husband too - had him watch porn documentaries with me - and STILL found (new) porn stashed away a couple of years later. Hence the term ex-husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 01:49 PM |
| 164 | Your insecurity about him watching porn is valid, and reason enough to expect a no-porn in your relationship.This whole thread needs to be required reading/a sticky. I’m so tired of women being told to doubt themselves about their feelings on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 01:38 PM |
| 26 | TruthOoohhhh isn’t this the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:06 PM |
| 82 | excuse me.... what? He never got a response.How charitable of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:54 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else down to read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft and do a virtual bookclub discussion each week to process the content/discuss? Details here!!!I’m in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:05 PM |
| 10 | Finally Left the Coomer NVMYou might like r/wgtow if you haven’t discovered it already. Enjoy your newfound peace, you deserve it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 16 | I only have problems with Excel now 💅🏾💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:47 PM |
| 34 | Would it be okay to take him back in this specific scenario?I wouldn’t reach out to him anymore. But if he reached out again to ask me on a date, and I could verify the death of his grandfather with an online obituary, I’d consider going out with him a third time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:06 AM |
| 67 | Saw this in a Facebook group, girl was asking for advice on how to respond*you’re | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:16 AM |
| 18 | How do I trust men againThat was my thought exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 06:24 PM |
| 53 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekWhy should you be sensitive toward someone you haven’t even met? The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:17 AM |
| 15 | I can't even join a professional group without Men showing their porn inspired depravity.Sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:14 PM |
| 11 | LVM never change.He sounds extremely desperate for attention and validation. I think that’s why most cheaters cheat in the first place. Clearly he has not changed and I’m very glad you’re moving on, though I know what a mindfck it is when someone looks you right in the face and lies like that. Take a little bit to get your bearings. So glad you’re doing the right thing long term by leaving him in the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 12:07 PM |
| 21 | LVM never change.I wish you an easy divorce process and peace from here on out ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 12:03 PM |
| 86 | I don't even know where to start...🤦♀️So he’s looking for a chef, a personal trainer, and a hooker who is effortlessly beautiful and is willing to live with his parents. Sounds solid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:57 AM |
| 55 | When can I relax?I liked this. “If we embrace healthy boundaries for us, we don’t need to be hypervigilant because we can relax and enjoy our relationships and experiences, safe in the knowledge that when we experience discomfort, we’ll act, and that when how we see things isn’t how they turn out to be, we’ll adjust and learn from it.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 12:52 AM |
| 46 | Don’t level up to bring more to the table. BE the fucking table.I AM THE TABLE! I AM THE TABLE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:48 PM |
| 28 | When they care more about their penises than they care about your wellbeing, RUN!Sir, do you believe there is a sphincter we can hold and release at our cervix? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 106 | In the words of Amy Schumer “ I’m a 160 pounds and can catch a D whenever I want” Seriously though- it’s ok to have preferences but men can be so shallowThe article is British so when they say they won’t date a woman size 8 or larger, that translates to size US 4. That’s even crazier than the usual bullshit men dish out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Third marriage, blames everything on ex wives, willing to leave kids. One big red flag.Why is his head shaped like a vertical football | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | I’m breaking up with my boyfriend this week, thank you all for your advice and wisdom!Damn I’m so proud of you. Everyone else has covered the advice I thought of. Let us know how it goes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:41 PM |
| 82 | Do you ever just wonder why you still like men...As someone who got pregnant on the first month of trying at both 36 and 38, this fool is so full of shit. It’s all fear mongering in an effort to control, per usual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 27 | People are so harsh on r/relationship_advice, at least when the poster is a woman!That sub is a dumpster fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:12 PM |
| 9 | For whoever needs it👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:00 PM |
| 4 | I hope he picks youDumb like a fox 🦊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:48 AM |
| 8 | Man steals wife's shoes after she get injured and loses weight. Then complains about her housekeeping. But is he TA?Ding ding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:26 PM |
| 35 | We’ve see a bunch of examples of NVM barely existing for their partners’ labour and birth experiences, but don’t settle for that- here’s how a HVM would act.My husband was standing by my side for both long labors, he felt bad even leaving to use the restroom. He’s not perfect human being, just one with enough empathy and respect for me to participate in the birth of his children. Expect no less! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:31 PM |
| 23 | He just has a few standards for women...Most likely a thumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:27 PM |
| 72 | How do you detect creeps when you look younger than your age?The red flags I would look out for: compliments about my youthful look in particular, a history of dating very young women, preference for childlike hair and clothing on women, and porn use. This is the kind of thing you often need some time to determine, which is why it’s always smart to vet like hell and wait a while to get attached or have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:24 PM |
| 37 | Help me make sense of this predicament I’ve faced for almost a decade now.Personally, I think it’s because guys are almost always wanting women out of their league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:21 PM |
| 33 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsSame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 01:46 PM |
| 64 | Man steals wife's shoes after she get injured and loses weight. Then complains about her housekeeping. But is he TA?Well she let herself go, you know. She’s had a whole year to recover from being paralyzed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:34 PM |
| 50 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsWHAT A COPE lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:33 PM |
| 22 | Women risk death and permanent damage to our bodies when we birth children for men and this is our reward.Jesus Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:58 AM |
| 116 | Ladies if he refuses to follow basic instructions take out the whole man. I commented "dump him" and got harassed by several different people it's a joke, get the stick out of your butt, you're a karen, etc. Also recieved sexual advances🤡 This is man child and a lvm. It's not funny its pathetic.I literally wouldn’t touch that man if he was the last man on earth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:18 AM |
| 179 | Don't build a Man ladiesNah I don’t like the notion of damaging you for the next man. Fck the next man, I’m concerned about my mental health for my sake alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:14 AM |
| 14 | I gave in and texted him, turns out he has a girlfriend now. What should I do? 😭I can understand that sinking feeling you’d get when he told you that, and it sucks. I’m sorry. Just another reason we block and move on. Not trying to make you feel bad, just saying. I’ve made the same mistake. I bet neither you or I will make it again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 53 | Guy is mad the girl didn’t offer to pay or split the bill by their 3rd date, he complained and she dumped him. Now he’s whining lmaoIf the queen in this story is reading...well done 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:50 PM |
| 13 | Boundaries versus standardsYES! Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Nooo, she’s getting so much bad, pie-in-the-sky advice to “go for it!” She’s in for a world of hurt if she does. She needs to listen to that bad feeling her gut’s trying to tell her.Yeah he’s soooo in love with her that he brought it up after they accidentally ran into each other 🤣🤣 sure, Jan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:23 PM |
| 96 | Dating in college - a waste of time?HUGE WASTE OF TIME. focus on your studies, your goals, your friends and yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:11 PM |
| 8 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Men are so incredibly thirsty. Like dude, we have never met. You don’t even know what I smell like, how do you know you want to cuddle? Oh that’s right, you don’t care. You’d Fck anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 67 | All hail Queen Ashlee 🙌🏽Where 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 the 👏🏼 lie 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:31 PM |
| 33 | Ladies, please destroy me with your wordsYou don’t need to justify ending things with him. Not to us, not to him, not to anyone. You don’t need our validation to end things with him. You don’t need a good enough reason for ending things with him. Don’t feel guilty. You have every right to do what you did and keep leaving him on read. You don’t owe him, or any man, anything. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:28 PM |
| 5 | My mind is exploding - so many things wrong with the post and comment. LVM leaves his trimmings to be cleaned up. Someone comments that OP could GENTLY ASK if hubby can buy a cleaning appliance so SHE can still do this shit for him.Lolllll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:39 PM |
| 42 | I might be falling for him🚨 Girl it’s way too early to be falling for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 55 | When you call him out and he calls you crazyThis is why you just block instead of telling them that you’re going to stop talking to them and why. Anything that comes out of their mouth after you tell them that is manipulative garbage anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:52 PM |
| 40 | Share your WORST date story.This is a fantastic idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 71 | I'm honestly speechless...🤮🤮🤮The bar is in hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 32 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.I used to get harassed to no end when I lived alone. I had a dog (RIP ❤️❤️❤️) who would bark like crazy when they approached my front or sliding door (yes they did!!!) but when I was without her, like out near my car when I was going to work or taking the trash out, they were all over me like flies on shit. I couldn’t even relax in my own home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 147 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:I am SURE that the gentleman with a paralyzed face is approaching women with facial deformities, physical handicaps and/or any other condition similar to his own. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:14 PM |
| 41 | Middle aged man angry that his young fwb is dating other guysWhen the party’s over for methuselah 💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:51 PM |
| 24 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.Creepy as HELL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:47 PM |
| 16 | This woman is so deep in the fog. What can we do to help?PM her and invite her to FDS? Suggest she read Why Does He Do That? I’m not sure either will get through, she sounds like she’s in complete denial... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:26 AM |
| 43 | The double standards 😒. He can masturbate everyday, but she can’t even though he can’t make her clim*x🙄Lollll the hypocrisy of these idiots is astounding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:25 AM |
| 76 | So I just signed up for okcupid and got this 2 seconds after I signed up, before I could even upload a picture or write a bio. Funny how this copy pasta scrote “read my profile” when I literally had no profile 🙄🙄🙄Lol he is so thirsty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:28 AM |
| 19 | This is why its key to vet and follow FDS. this is why you run at the first red flag. Imagine being in labor and your man plays video games. So many pickmes were saying lol and I dont mind, hes bored and waiting on the baby. Pickmes are defending this. Dont have kids with LVMNope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 11:13 PM |
| 17 | Men and farting/burping.something about this comment and the comma at the end, girl I am s c r e a m I n g | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 08:21 PM |
| 15 | I Did Everything Wrong. LITERALLY. Everything.Been there sis! I’ve made all the same mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 08:00 PM |
| 5 | All women should read this book: 'Every Man Sees You Naked' by David M. MatthewsWell, that’s dark. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:27 PM |
| 65 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂LOLLLLLLLLLLLLL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:31 PM |
| 56 | Self respect must always come first, never stand to be treated like this!Proof that men will have sex with anyone who is willing, even if they’re not attracted to her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:13 PM |
| 156 | Why vetting who you are allowing into your life is so important – They can turn into a literal threat to your very life. Be extra cautious if you have a health condition that makes you more vulnerable.This is 100% attempted murder of her and her unborn child. I hope it does not turn into murder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:41 PM |
| 33 | How do you walk away strong?We’ll be your support system! ❤️❤️ you can PM me any time you feel lonely, want to chat, or feel tempted to contact your ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:18 PM |
| 12 | 2 questions that completely changed my outlook on datingI think about this one ALL the time. If I wouldn’t want someone treating my daughter this way, it’s an automatic no for me too. It’s such a helpful, quick rule. I decided a couple of years back that I deserve the same love and care that I give my kids :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:07 PM |
| 52 | I deserve to maintain my dignity.When they say they don’t want a relationship or marriage, they leave out two very important words at the end: “with you.” I’ve learned this time and again. The woman they do get into a relationship with or marry is in no way better; in my experience the man knows he can’t operate on your level and give you what he knows you demand and deserve. They pick someone “easier” with lower standards to commit to. And having a restaurant job is in no way low value. You handled this one like a boss! I know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 11:55 AM |
| 15 | Ghosted him👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Got a DM In response to my post about a dude saying fast food is a hangout "date". Imagine having to turn to reddit to pickup men and still getting no responsesThe “Anyone” followed by absolute crickets has me 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:21 PM |
| 75 | To whomsoever it may concernThe idea that we have the right to choose who we date based on their treatment of us is hate speech, apparently 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:41 PM |
| 12 | IT IS TIME TO #BLOCKANDDELETE REDDItDumb question bc I don’t know anything about Discord: how do we know they won’t do the same thing to us there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:00 AM |
| 62 | I wish I was illiterate (x-post from r/AreTheStraightsOK)“No bashing!” 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Is it weird to have never had a boyfriend at 24It may be unusual - I’m not sure of the statistics, but anecdotally most of my friends and I had a relationship by 24 - but that doesn’t mean that it’s weird or bad. I think it’s a good thing and while I did wait a long time to get married and have kids, I do wish I had waited longer to have a boyfriend. You’re not missing anything, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 51 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.Very well said. Do you ladies think that WGTOW is going to be banned too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:38 AM |
| 55 | Is it just me or do older men (35+) on apps really make no effort.After reading what I do here, the only thing I know is that if my marriage ends I will not try OLD. It sounds like a nightmare. Is it just the only way to meet men now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:37 AM |
| 25 | Should I drop him for making this comment on a first date?Could be negging. Do you like him? If he’s just meh, I wouldn’t bother talking to him again. If you like him, watch his language and behavior VERY closely and look for more negging going forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:04 AM |
| 42 | “Men find me attractive” is not a compliment.Wish I could go back in time and internalize this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:47 PM |
| 16 | I will never ever give up my career and depend financially on a man.Agreed! So many people asked if I was going to quit working when I got pregnant with my first. NEVER. 1) I need to be able to take care of myself and my kids in case the worst happens - divorce, husband’s death, etc. 2) I want my daughters to see an example of a working mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:45 PM |
| 51 | Boys trips and Bachelor partiesYeah, no. My husband knows that strip clubs, strippers and breastaurants are all out of the question whether it’s his party or someone else’s. I don’t care. I will leave immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:43 PM |
| 19 | SeNd mE bOoTiE pICs oR iLL DIEWish she said “my now ex-boyfriend” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:15 PM |
| 31 | The delusional standards of some menMan when I was in my prime, this 80-ish year old man approached me at the grocery store and asked me on a date. And the sad part is I was too “nice” to outright turn him down and hurt his feelings. I felt bad for the dithering old man. No longer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:54 PM |
| 22 | There are few things less attractive on a dating profile than a man whose "About Me" is just a list of demands and feature requests.LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:32 PM |
| 51 | If a man is this stingy, I don’t see the point in staying with him.Guess it’s time to charge him for sex 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:18 PM |
| 45 | New blog post from Lundy Bancroft: Do you ever wonder why your abusive partner hates you?I feel like Lundy Bancroft may be the only man alive who I trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:49 AM |
| 43 | Men expect women to change their religions and their personality for them, we just ask them to change the sheets. Somethings gotta change here 👑They will hardly change their underwear, judging by half the shit I read on /relationshipadvice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:54 PM |
| 11 | A friend of mine’s ex cheated on her and she hasn’t decided whether to stay with him or not and he’s making no effort to admit he did wrong, it’s been months. She keeps talking about it. I don’t know what to do, it’s starting to make me aggressive.I told her that I respected her decision to stay with him but I didn’t want to talk about him or his cheating anymore unless/until she decided to leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:51 PM |
| 10 | A friend of mine’s ex cheated on her and she hasn’t decided whether to stay with him or not and he’s making no effort to admit he did wrong, it’s been months. She keeps talking about it. I don’t know what to do, it’s starting to make me aggressive.I went through a similar thing. 5+ years later and she’s still with him. I just don’t entertain any conversation about the dude. Idk what else can be done in this situation. It’s really frustrating, I know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:29 PM |
| 30 | Woman cancels date with stranger, entitled guy has tantrum over itDid you read his post history? Dude has issues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:18 AM |
| 32 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsI’m so sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:19 AM |
| 151 | 😒 Oh yeah we're jumping at the chance to be taken advantage of by an older, cheating, scummy power-hungry LVMcrickets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:35 AM |
| 3 | The mercury retrograde crawl backNo thank god, my name is way too common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 7 | The mercury retrograde crawl backYou know you can change your insta handle right? I change mine once in a while so that no one can find me. And I don’t think I’ve emailed a man since 2011 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 11:00 PM |
| 26 | The mercury retrograde crawl backI wouldn’t know, all of mine are blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:44 PM |
| 48 | I’m sorry they feel this way but it’s not like women don’t acknowledge men, we obviously know they are humans. But they do need to be called out for their crappy behaviour because women can’t always tolerate their crap attitude.Who will think of the men 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:43 PM |
| 271 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsIt’s pathetic. Also, when their wives die they replace them ASAP. My FIL was on dating websites and had a girlfriend within 6 months of my MIL’s death, after 50 years of marriage. No big deal, just find a new one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:42 PM |
| 90 | I feel bad for because HE'S the one who wants to leave instead of her realizing she needs to leave his nasty ass behindOh my god. She actually said “I don’t know what I did wrong :(“ WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:30 PM |
| 11 | Bf used to splitting the billYep just throw the whole man away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:24 PM |
| 17 | Man wants to "nuke" marriage so he can fuck younger women. Shocked when people call him out.My god this is funny...if anyone knows where it is, please link it.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 17 | Man wants to "nuke" marriage so he can fuck younger women. Shocked when people call him out.That commenter dragged him straight across the room, lol 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:04 PM |
| 177 | 30% of men are now sexually inactive but please do tell us all about how all that sex would be waiting for you out there if it weren’t for your wife 🙄Whoever runs the twitter account is a queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:25 AM |
| 22 | Thank youSo he’s tried all of the coffee in your area and determined that the coffee in his area is superior? Lmfao. He sounds like a huge prick, good luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 14 | What’s worse, seeing this on a new parent support subreddit or the women giving him advice 🤮If she’s 2 months pregnant, that means this has been going on at absolute maximum 1 month. These men are so damn fragile. They aren’t built for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Recovering Pickmeisha looking for advice from you QueensIgnore men completely. Pretend they don’t exist in a romantic or sexual way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Woman asks if she's an asshole for wanting her husband to support her during a miscarriage instead of hanging out with his friends .JFC. She needs a divorce ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Scrote believes men are victims because women sadistically enjoy refusing to have sex with them.Lol. Stay mad, hoe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Men not understanding how it’s creepy for a woman to just be approached randomly on the street, at dusk!It says a lot that this is his “worst experience ever” while women’s “worst experiences ever” involve being groped, raped and otherwise assaulted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:13 AM |
| 35 | Men subtly joking you do little workThis is called negging. You say he is respectful, but this is definitely not respectful behavior. Dump him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 12:09 AM |
| 3 | NEVER have a NVM's children: NVM red piller impregnates wife three times and complains that she is now hideous and that he has been "cucked by mother nature"To those who have said this is why they don’t want kids, don’t let fear of men disapproving of your body stop you from having children. I say this as someone who used to be worried about the same thing. A few reasons: 1) having kids is not a guarantee that your body will be destroyed. I’ve had two kids and while I did temporarily look rough postpartum, you cannot even tell I had kids now. I’m just as pretty as ever. My boobs are still pretty great. One of my kid’s was even born via c-section and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 06:37 PM |
| 21 | My former friend's decent into madness.Keep this for HR in case you need it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:46 AM |
| 8 | Oh, honey. I could barely read past the title. NINE YEARS?! AND NO RING?!?!? relationship_advice is full of this crap. So sad.She just needs to cOmmUnCAtE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | I don’t see the problemI thought the same thing when I saw this meme. And the problem is...???? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠Amazing, thank you for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:43 PM |
| 7 | M*le wondering if he's an asshole for subscribing to an OnlyFans account behind his wife's back (the woman in the account also looks 15 years old at a push)Word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 11:58 PM |
| 137 | M*le wondering if he's an asshole for subscribing to an OnlyFans account behind his wife's back (the woman in the account also looks 15 years old at a push)I hope she divorces him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 5 | In honor of Fathers Day: HVM Father Qualities vs. LVM QualitiesButthurt orange 💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 02:26 PM |
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