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PICKME CULTUREHipster-Aurora/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:13 PM
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Phillip was the ultimate hvm!! I love naveen but you're not wrong, he could end up a mooch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:28 PM
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Have you watched a disney movie ever? They're based on fairy tales which yes have princes sometimes. Otherwise you seem to seriously be missing the themes of love being powerful, friendship, conquering hardships. I looked up to Aurora and Cinderella and Snow because they taught me I don't need to be a tomboy with a sword to be strong. It's actual pick mes who worship Mulan and Merida who tried to put me and other girls down. Man this thread reeks of misogyny. Let women enjoy romance and magic or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:28 PM
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Her whole motivation literally revolves around a man lol. And then later it's mushu (male) who helps her and the men in the army who help her take down the bad guys. There's a reason male feminists and libfems adore that movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:25 PM
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That's pretty misogynistic. Several of them are abuse victims who did the best they could in life. Cinderella and Snow especially were badass. Pocahontas stopped a war. Aurora found out her life was a lie and still was kind. Tiana got her restaurant. Anna saved her kingdom. The princesses rock and it seems like such a libfem mentality to hate them because... they're feminine and have romance? Also, half this sub wants a man to treat them like a princess but simultaneously hates princesses? I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:24 PM
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They literally called her beautiful and are fascinated by her, so much they give her free books lol I wish someone would "drag" me like that. Which they probably wouldn't if they could read her mind and see all the snotty, self-important things she has say about them. I like Belle ok but she was never a favorite of mine because she seemed to view herself as "above" the villagers because... they have to work? Meanwhile, she has kill time to just sit and read fairy tales all day. Like, that's very…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:21 PM
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He has a sub here and I remember seeing people comb through his wife's old Facebook videos to prove that she was hard to live with. "Durr no it doesn't excuse murder but it's hard to live with a control freak" Stop making excuses for a murderer, he has plenty of his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:30 PM
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"YoU sOuNd LiKe A cOnTrOL fReAk! iT's HiS hObBy!!" Why do video game addicts even get into relationships? To get manipulate some girl into being their new mommy and do his chores for him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:50 PM
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They don't know they can do better or else don't think they deserve to. They should just feel grateful for any man who gives them the time of day, they seem to think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:29 PM
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Ireland, are you ok??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:36 PM
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It's pretty obvious to tell when someone hasn't cleaned. Also, that's barely any dishes for 2 people. I have more to do and I live alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:49 PM
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The last paragraph is what gets me. Women making posts like this KNOW reddit hates women and is ready to blame them for any and every kind of relationship conflict. She readily blames herself for "neglecting" her "wifely duties" for the crime of working to support two people alone, so reddit won't have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:33 PM
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This is why "beauty privilege" isn't a thing. They hate beautiful women just as much as ugly and plain ones and will gladly manipulate and abuse pretty women too. If anything that beauty seems to enrage some of them! It's like they feel so entitled to a hottie and then panic when they actually are given one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:26 PM
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I hope nobody thinks this actually happened lol. They always fantasize that their lame negs always work on women out of their league. Like a woman who knows she's the prize would let his backhanded remark get to her so easily and react that way. It's fanfiction for PUA wannabes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:25 PM
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Hope someone in the comments told him he's the gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:20 PM
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This is why I laugh and laugh when non-Americans try to prude shame us as uptight pearl clutchers who are scared of sex. Have they seen America and our objectification problem, ever?? America (and those countries) would do well to get a little shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:15 PM
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Slightly OT but Midwestern guys (and Canadian ones) are the only decent ones here, I've begun to think. Guys from the coasts are often spoiled rich snobs who are big into sex pozzie culture. Southern guys are into toxic masculinity and usually have the "give me nudes but don't be slutty" mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:12 PM
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I think it helps that American men tend to be a lot friendlier and emotionally open too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:57 PM
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I hear how liberal Scandinavian countries are and that actually doesn't surprise me. Liberal men are just as bad if not sometimes worse in ways. They adore hookup culture and pickmes tout it as "sexual liberation"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:50 PM
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I have an ex friend I'm positive is a narcissist (in addition to her anxiety and insecurity issues) and she would do this. Refuse to talk about anything but her own interests and got mad when I couldn't engage when I knew nothing about them, accused me of wanting to stay in a bubble of my own opinions because I wasn't around 24/7 to talk about hers, would act like me loving other movies and shows was almost a "betrayal". So yeah. Could definitely be a narcissist thing but at least REEKS of insec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:49 PM
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lol they are not pro life, they're just "pro making mini mes and leaving them to the care of my wife"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:45 PM
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"We don't deserve them" You're right. We deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:33 PM
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He touches on a good point on why I hate arguing with men. Most of them arent there to just explain their side and solve the issue. They need to "win" and soothe their ego. It's never about the problem itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:34 PM
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It's shallow and shows they're too lazy to think of something actually pertaining to your personality or interests, which they probably don't care about. To them you're just there for them to talk at and and have sex with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:31 PM
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Their excuse is "I was just being friendly!" Shut up, no you weren't. If you wanted to make a new friend there's plenty of guys around for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:24 PM
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I love Midsommar memes, though I was really disturbed by it! I don't think I could watch it again. I love the setting and Florence is a great actor but it just freaked me out. I really love thrillers but gore and that sort of stuff, I just don't do well with. Though YMMV on the gore. Plus I feel bad for Dani because she went from one inconsiderate boyfriend who barely tolerated her into a whole manipulative supremacist cult :/ Poor girl never got the help she needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:59 PM
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Projection. It always, always boils down to them being too dishonest because their pride and fragile egos refuse to just admit they're the problem. So they project. Also, since so many men seem inherently jealous by nature, they may just assume the same is true of women since they can never be bothered to actually listen to us as people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:13 PM
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Yeah, something about this (and stories like it) never seem real. What established lesbian agrees to this? Who describes their gf as "rad and chill" at age 28?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:10 PM
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They read very little here and it shows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:47 PM
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It's the cowardly way of weaseling out of accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:45 PM
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I agree, though those are not negging. That's just being lazy, sexist and entitled. Negging is backhanded compliments meant to make you feel insecure and prove him wrong. Although I'm a sure a guy like this will do that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:31 PM
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Sounds like a fun day, and he probably didn't even shell a ton of money out to do it. He's just doing something nice like spouses are supposed to do. That guy definitely sounds jealous, and is really one to talk about growing up. What grown man throws such a hissy because their bro spent time and effort into his wife's special day just because nobody does it for him?? I never got a graduation party and haven't had a proper birthday party since I was 12. Don't see me pouting at every celebration …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:54 PM
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Can't speak about astrology but as a Christian, atheist men can be utter bullies. I got trashed, harassed and attacked by so many in the manosphere as a teenager with my love for ideological discourse (I've learned my lesson). They really do have this weird aversion to anything spiritual, even though so much of what they themselves believe is feels, not facts. And mbti, that's not even spiritual or religious, it's just a helpful personality tool and while I've met some who don't hate it, a lot r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:49 PM
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What an absolute crybaby. And here I've been told women are irrational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:42 PM
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Yes, sir, the results just got back. You're diagnosed with demonic posession. Here's then church's number for the exorcism you'll need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:39 PM
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If all did, FDS wouldn't be a dating community. HVM are out there somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:36 PM
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So, he wants some woman to let him be a baby boy again 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:24 PM
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I can't imagine having such an empty, meaningless life. All they do is sleep around and manipulate and bully others. Nothing else. No friends, family bonding, hobbies, no spiritual life, nothing. No wonder incels are so depressed and envious of happy men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:55 AM
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This fool realized after one insecure girl let him get away with nonsense he can do it with others and thinks this somehow makes him seem like a genius to other narcs in the making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:45 AM
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It's not an intuitive thing tbh- anyone can. Although I agree high Fe is probably most likely too. My ISFJ grandma hates telling people no, even her entitled son who kept taking her toilet paper!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:15 AM
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It's implied he raped Scarlett, and they were always at each other's throats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:41 PM
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The Addams are from the 60s. Also more likable imo. I disliked the 90s version because Wednesday was such a brat, and I thought Anjelica's Morticia had snobbish moments where Carolyn Jones' never did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:34 PM
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Poor man. At least he left a very positive impact on a kid who will probably never forget him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:24 PM
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If you're into supernatural romances at all, Hawksong by Amelia Atwater Rhodes was a favorite of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:07 PM
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I never finished p&p because I just couldn't get into it, but doesn't Darcy insult and neg Lizzie and is generally rude to her till much later? I see a lot of fans saying it's just because he's socially awkward but I always thought that sounded like a flimsy excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:06 PM
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To a lesser degree it's also stupid to judge women when most rom coms are written and directed by men, and many romance novels are made by them too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:51 PM
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This gives me some hope for reddit's poor attitude towards dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:49 PM
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But she's probably trying to swindle a free meal out of the poor guy who might not even like her /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:39 PM
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He later explains it's a sunflower field that's popular attraction. But why he worded it in such a serial killer way I don't know 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:37 PM
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Someone on the comments spotted our screenshot of the thread here and called us flaky. Like ok dude, nobody here is begging you to date them. So many offended people in the comments. OP sounds like he is deliberately leaving bits of the story out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:37 PM
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"You dodged a bullet bro, a gold digger almost had you in her long nailed clutches" -the comments, probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:14 PM
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I know! It's always objectively attractive stars they call ugly! It's insane. I always thought Jennifer Garner was really beautiful with or without makeup and has a sweet personality to boot and every single guy but one I've talked to about her said she was ugly, plain, or mannish. I've also seen Kristen Stewart, Drew Barrymore, Gal Gadot, even Rosie Huntington Whiteley and Candice Swanepoel (actual lingerie models!), get called ugly or body-shamed too. I think they're all at minimum basically p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:10 PM
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"DAE have this really unremarkable opinion that most of the world already agrees with? I feel like the only one!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:08 PM
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Oh, same! I have never liked him or really gotten why the movie is so loved. Ferris is so smarmy and manipulative and his sister was so much better. Geez. The 80s just really seemed to love jerky male leads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:05 PM
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Wow, I had no idea. I've always heard it in feminist circles that white women definitely got it before black women... but they always leave out the men. Guess it's a libfem thing to leave that little detail out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:03 PM
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The funny thing is so many anti sjws/anti feminists today insist those suffragettes were the REAL feminists, not these ugly man hating prudish Karens with 4 cats today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:59 PM
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And none of them will even look at him, hence why they're "hoes".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:44 PM
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80s movies in general were particularly awful about this. I grew up adoring John Hughes but looking back... many of his male leads range from entitled creeps to future abusers. A notable example is in The Breakfast Club. John, a punk from an abusive home, is mean to all the kids (except the quiet, odd girl) but especially goes out of his way to pick on Claire, the spoiled popular goody goody. He bullies her, makes fun of her, judges her alchoholic mom, even shoves his face up her skirt while SHE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:40 PM
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Men did that with me online. One creep in his late 30s told me when I was a teen I was like his internet daughter. Once I hit 18 nope! That changed. Suddenly I was free to hit on. Or maybe not so much a change. There was a rumor he had molested his own daughter that always infuriated him to the point that he'd go on a reporting spree of any users who teased him about it. But anyway, point is, I've seen several do this. It's pretty common, unfortunately. Some aren't as dumb as they seem and are s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:29 PM
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The ones who only got married to have a free servant and babysitter, probably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:15 PM
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Thank you! I have, liberally, and several times before actually. I'm trying to make it sink in that his jokes and attitude are inappropriate and probably why he hasn't dated since I was in middle school at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:53 PM
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I can't tell if that guy is being sarcastic or not but there's a looot of people reblogging that unironically 😬 Do not let a guy (or anyone tbh) therapy-zone you. It's not good for them but it's definitely not good for you, especially since so many girls and women get raised to play Molly Weasley and mother everyone they meet while never having emotional needs to be met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:47 PM
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Post his reaction please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:24 PM
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"Dumped me for playing video games all day and having a folder of porn"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:16 PM
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I spent some time with my 50 something dad recently. He has gotten quite annoying with age when it comes to women sometimes, probably precisely because he knows it's annoying. At this gallery we were at, there was a man around his age with what looked like his early 20 something kids and one was a girl in short shorts. He joked to me about saying something to the man basically about how his daughter looked, something stupid he obviously knows better than to really say. I called him out for being…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:14 PM
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Only to the girls though. I really doubt he'd be so controlling over the boys (unless he's upper class and conservative and wants a mini me to uphold the family reputation or something).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:08 PM
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Also, I think it's acceptable too because they look like protective, loving dads to other people. In reality of course it's their egos and sexism. But to outsiders, it's just a wise man looking out for his widdle princess in a world of horny, evil teenage boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:06 PM
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OP claims to be a girl. Surely if that's true then "she" has experienced random men wanting to bother you out in public?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:29 PM
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I thought the same thing! Satire/karma farming seems to be getting wild lately. I can hardly ever believe what I see on places like a/aita anymore because they sound so made-up to get outraged reactions for kicks. Also, most middle aged folk type better than this. Teenage boy is probably right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:45 PM
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I actually think to a degree at least some do. I think some enjoy the power they get from stringing a woman they think is emotionally invested in them and it shocks them when we politely and calmly say "ok, guess we want different things. Bye then, good luck."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:40 PM
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Love this!! Way better than that messed up meme mocking feminists of a smiling guy being corned by 50+ women, because it turns out that loser flashed a bunch of women at an abuse survivor's rally or something. Anyone have a blank template?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:24 PM
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Phallus Daily?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:20 PM
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They probably would if most of them didn't hate religion and being unable to drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:19 PM
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Their marriage sounds great. Reddit guys really gave no clue- they always insist sex is the most important thing in marriage and act like cheating is acceptable (for the husband of course) if the sex isn't as often as he'd like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:03 PM
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They push and push a woman to leave so they don't have to divorce her and look like the bad guy they truly are, instead manipulating it so she does even when she's the wronged party. It's utterly spineless and weak. The strong gender, everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:32 PM
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I hope you did take it seriously (although it sounds terrifying, especially when you're that young). He deserved to be fired. That's not what funny people or even normal ones "joke" about. What do these losers even hope to achieve by saying that? What is our response supposed to be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:51 AM
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Men have started wars, gotten into gang violence where they'll shoot another guy just for looking at him wrong, shoot up buildings because women won't date him. Heck they'll punch drywall or throw stuff when they lose arguments or lose at video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:34 AM
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And yet they also insist their wife is a ball and chain and men make better friends than women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:33 AM
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These are honestly the best suggestions. Your snippy angry responses will have 0 effect on them. They may even enjoy having such an effect on you. But reminding them you're human and as gross as anyone (burping, farting, making a hawking sound) or threatening their masculinity (pretending to be male) will usually work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:25 PM
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They also bravely insta-ban anyone who posts in fds due to it being a "hate sub". But I agree fds is a hate sub. As in, we hate to imagine women settling and begging for scraps like breaking moms do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:59 PM
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I also don't see anything wrong with cats not liking people anyway. They don't exist for our entertainment and validation like cat haters wish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:14 PM
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Dog nutters are also usually a lv red flag imo. Not loving dogs but thinking owning one is a personality and never shutting up about how much better dogs are than cats/children/etc. and taking them to inappropriate places when they're obviously not service dogs. And like your guy FLIP OUT for no reason when it's clear dogs don't revolve around your world either. I do think they can attract narcissists. Side note, that image of the kitten is precious. I'd love to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:12 PM
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Also, it takes no effort to make dogs worship you. You just feed them, throw a ball for them. Easy stuff. They don't like effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:09 PM
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How about situations where they talk over you and start tuning you out like you aren't even there? At a job I had once, a dept manager and my coworker were talking. I gave the manager the information he wanted. He ignored me and my coworker gave him the exact same answer I had. I said, "That's what I just said." But the manager kept acting like he didn't notice me, their conversation continued and I rolled my eyes and left. It was annoying but not worth making a scene over. In my experience with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:36 PM
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Ooh, that should be the nickname for fds users
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:31 PM
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Yep. The trend of those cringy "boys vs girls" memes shows the true age. I can't see anyone over 15 being that babyish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:58 AM
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What makes him think "girls" are lining up to experience his own lack of virginity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:56 AM
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Better to have a loser than no guy at all. Gotta get that sweet validation somewhere. I think seeing other women demand more makes them feel embarrassed for settling for so much all their lives. But instead of just admitting they were too insecure to have standards they pretend having standards is the problem itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:43 PM
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Is he drunk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:36 PM
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That's what happened to these people I ised to work with. They shacked up for 4 years, got married, divorced barely 6 months later. The heck was the point of all that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:39 PM
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What's wrong with the midwest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:50 PM
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We need a gender flipped version badly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:27 PM
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They're afraid the other guy might throw down with them usually. But even the taken card doesn't always work. A random vendor who started acting like we're acquainted once asked when I was gonna let him take me to lunch. ??? That was our second interaction ever. I informed him my boyfriend probably wouldn't like that snd he pretended it was just lunch as friends. 🙄 Or else they'll see it as a challenge to overcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:30 PM
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Actually what I say whenever these losers whine about women. "Women don't think of you at all." Meanwhile they're obsessed with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:26 PM
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Some people's mommies and daddies just told them they were the specialest, magicalest kids ever way too much growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:25 PM
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Oh, they know those women are happy. That's why they're bitter and have to lie to themselves and their incel bros to cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:24 PM
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"Oh, so you just wanna hang out as friends? Cool. I'll ask my friends to come along and you can get to know them too. We can even bring our dogs and play frisbee!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:22 PM
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Quinn is underappreciated. Fans think she's a stereotypical ditzy girly girl just because she's not a sulky hipster like her sister when that's not at all true. I mean yes, she can be ditzy but she was a good character (if anyone was truly the dumb popular girl, it was Brittany, who was still a nice person). She wasn't meant to make Daria seem better, they both had flaws and good points alike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:18 PM
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"Only" be intimate 2 or 3 times a week?? That's completely normal. Throw this guy at a therapist. It's not healthy to act like you'll have a panic attack if you don't do it every hour. And yeah, putting your own selfish desires above anyone else's feelings or health is always abusive. Why did she marry this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:11 PM
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Thank you for calling that out! I hear people trashing girls and daughters almost like they can't wait for an opportunity to. Nobody ever moans about their sons knocking some girl up or getting into fights at school or disgracing the family somehow, even though teen boys do that stuf all the time. Where are all the daughters shooting up buildings? Or watching incest porn? Or getting into gangs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:32 PM
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I think they know it works with pickmes 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:09 PM
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This here is one reason why I'd never have a kid with just a boyfriend. Prove you deserve a place in my life and will have mutual commitment and marry me if you want kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:02 PM
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Next time they say something stupid like that, tell them she's probably not interested in adopting another grandfather. Then I'd go tell them I'm going inside to warn her about them (and do it!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:51 PM
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I would, but a lot of these guys purposely speed by as they do it (like typical cowards, scared of a woman's retaliation). I was waiting at a crosswalk with my earbuds in, wearing jeans and a baggy jacket, not wearing anything provocative. This idiot in a car full of guys honks the horn at full blast and screams "HEEEEEEEEEY!!" at the top of his lungs when he drives by. It was too fast for me to even notice till after the fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:49 PM
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Some guy seemed to be trying that as I walked downtown to get to work. I was absolutely not dressed sexy- carpenter's pants, sneakers and a t shirt plus my purse and lunch bag. Nothing to check out. Old 40 or 50 something guy did it and I decided to look back instead for once. I narrowed my eyes and didn't look away. Finally, he glanced away. It may not work with every guy but it felt good to win the stare down and I do think it has an effect on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:45 PM
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What struck me is he says this so casually and makes it sound like they barely know each other. He certainly doesn't seem to know enough about her or himself to decide if he wants to be with her. Either of them proposing seems way too early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:31 PM
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I would have said "Yeah, obviously" and left it at that. I can't stand this sucking up thing online creeps will do. They expect us to fall for it and bashfully deny our looks because we're only attractive if they tell us so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:22 PM
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They act like there is no other way to correct behavior besides smacking because they're too young to understand it. If they're too young to understand that, it means they're too young to understand why Mommy and Daddy spanked them, genius! And yes, people justify hitting infants and toddlers by "just" giving them a "little pat" on the hand or butt. Do they not know how to distract children or physically remove them from whatever they're acting up over? I'll never forget this quote on tumblr fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:48 PM
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This is why female friends and close relationships with older female relatives are so important. They will see what you don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:41 PM
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Must be why it's overwhelmingly men murdering partners and shooting up buildings for no reason.
/r/AntiFeminists09/09/20 09:57 PM
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What's with the obsession with you cooking for them? How is that flirting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:56 PM
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I think gen z girls have men being much bolder about their predatory, creepy behavior. But for millennials, men were subtler but also... nobody cared. Women and girls get a lot of support now and creep shaming is a pretty fun pastime. But then? Pervs and groomers weren't really something people worried about. Porn was considered normal, although it was less hardcore than it is now. If teen girls didn't like the hateful insults from guys, they should stop being such attention wh0res, get off the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:16 PM
77

Reddit thinks sexual perversion and hating women this much is what humor is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:39 PM
66

He can't afford a house but he thinks he can afford 5 kids in New York?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:28 PM
14

Meninism is a parody of feminism (or how some think it is). They want people to be outraged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:07 AM
16

They're furious that unlike women oppressed in seriously dangerous, poverty stricken countries (the ones they want to marry and abuse), we have rights and are rarely afraid to exercise them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:46 PM
10

Good for you! I love to hear women able to call that out. Not everyone can but it feels good to see stories like this. I honestly might have impulsively walked over to snatch his phone and take off or whipped mine out to record him back and loudly informed him it's gonna go to the police. I can't believe this guy had the audacity to do it when you could easily get ahold of his personal info, ie his business, which you did. They really do feel invincible from the high they get off harassing women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:44 PM
76

I was just at MWW today. Every. Single. Post. I. See. Has a guy complaining that it doesn't belong here, it's not REALLY a male writer being creepy, sexist, or just showing an inability to relate to women. Even when it's blatant sexism. I don't know what they're expecting. They also tend to have TRAs iirc. The thing about BWA really surprises me. I haven't been there for awhile but when I did it was funny stuff. I guess reddit creeps can't leave anything alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:39 PM
14

Just reminds me of what Jareth the goblin king sais to Sarah to try one last time to make her give up on her quest- "Love me, fear me, do as I say and I will be your slave!" If you have to bend over backwards to get the respect and love you deserve in a relationship while some guy pretends YOU are the one getting the prize there... it's not love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:31 PM
42

"Depend on" But a guy playing video games for hours and having a part time job while while his s/o works full time and is a college student who pays most of the bills is 50/50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:13 PM
33

The worst part is with incels, they don't even get rejected a lot of the time. Because they refuse to get to know women and just ASK them out! They sit there doing nothing and blame women for not throwing themselves at the guy. Exactly what happened with Elliot Rodger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:44 PM
159

A man wrote that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:20 PM
14

Women actually put effort into friendships. I tend to avoid frienships with guys because they're never only friendships. The guys consider themselves above nonsexual relationships with women. They also get into drama too easily- starting rumors, lying for no reason, being two sided with you vs their bros, the whole friend zoning nonsense. I don't get drama with women because women actually value your friendship. These guys are too thin skinned and too weak to handle inevitable conflict in friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:13 PM
16

Ironically it's guys who are too sensitive to conflict or even basic disagreement. They act terrified of rocking the boat even a little with their male friends because they know how easy it is for other guys to start drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:10 PM
9

Because in their minds, he shouldn't be spending anything at all. He probably considers this generous as it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:34 PM
13

Funny they used a pic of Jason Statham and Rosie Huntington Whiteley for this. Jason is not actually taller than her and he's old enough to be her dad. And she's a supermodel who's done acting; he's goodlooking I'll admit but she could have anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:34 PM
7

These are women that are truly afraid to be alone and they'd rather settle for less than deserve and destroy their own boundaries than risk the single life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:47 PM
3

He probably wanted to scare/anger you, honestly. Any reaction is better than no reaction. It's in the same vein as men sending you unwanted nudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:36 PM
5

I once read that she actually called up Jacqueline Kennedy letting her know she wanted to marry John (and Jackie was just a queen and simply told Marilyn basically that she could deal with his problems, then). I know she was troubled but this is precisely why I think it's really bad to idealize her celebrities who do stuff like this to themselves or other women. We shouldn't be romanticizing poor behavior or mental illness, we should encourage people to seek help. It annoys me that nobody does t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:35 PM
10

He's mad girls want guys they're attracted to to look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:25 PM
16

It's easy to see their butt and legs. Not defending them but that's pretty clearly why. I would rather just throw some pjs on if I had to pick. Comfort AND no worrying about creepos looking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:24 PM
74

But men aren't the emotional sex...!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:55 PM
9

r/asablackman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:16 PM
8

That's why it ticks me off when libfems act like tomboys are so oppressed. Maybe in parts of Asia and places like that where gender roles are incredibly strict but definitely not in the west. I know some men bully women for being interested in sports or engineering and stuff, but you're not being oppressed for your mom making you wear a dress for Easter when you were 8. They act like femininity is completely praised everywhere and feminine women (in looks and/or hobbies) are rolling in privilege…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:57 PM
21

No, gaslighting is intentionally trying to make someone doubt their own memory, or the definition: "manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity." The movie the name comes from is where a husband makes his wife think she's going crazy to get her thrown in an asylum so he can steal her inheritance. He starts his plan by turning their gas lights off and telling her she's only misremembering them being on. A lot of people here just use it synonymously with abuse, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:49 PM
26

Lying isn't any good. What if you found an anti porn hvm and he thinks you really are into it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:45 AM
143

Even Angela in a way has HV standards. She doesn't care if people like her as long as they're competent. Say what you want about Dwight but he risked his job to run her errand for her and meets HER standards in a man. (I know we're not supposed to like Angela but I do lol. Easily my favorite.) Karen was the best hvw example though, I think. Jim did not deserve her (or Katy!). And Pam was so rude to her for no reason other than jealousy. I loved seeing her call out Michael when nobody else but St…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:33 AM
23

Also, as someone who worked in retail for awhile, I can safely say the vast majority of rude entitled customers are middled aged+ MEN. White and black both. But almost never women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:16 PM
14

I use Kevin and people get irrationally annoyed when I correct everyone who says "male Karen". They pretend Karen is a noun for both genders which... no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:15 PM
8

It's what both libfems/liberal guys and right wing guys can finally 🤝 on. Blaming random stuff that annoys you on middle aged (probably white) women in general. I mean, they have the gall to both be not hot 20 year olds and also have OPINIONS so it's fair /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:14 PM
14

She was rightly embarrassed that you were indirectly criticizing her parenting but instead of apologizing and promising to chew him out for it, she blamed you. Pickme moms never change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:08 PM
3

I think some of them just enjoy the power they get from our disgusted reactions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:04 PM
32

Or be a "real feminist" who is not so secretly an MRA like Christina Hoff Summers who does absolutely nothing to help women's issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:58 PM
102

Don't forget the desperate "Am I the only girl who hates/doesn't do [girl coded thing] but likes [guy coded thing]?" fishing posts to show how unique and special they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:57 PM
30

Lol bra shopping is what other girls do. She's One of the Guys, she hates shopping and doesn't ~get fashion! She'll wear walmart shopping bags for bras, who cares!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:55 PM
117

Almost like their obsession with giving and receiving compliments has nothing to do with "just being nice" and everything to do with sex and ego! Hmm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:53 PM
90

And men pretending to be women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:51 PM
11

Wonder why you never see the genders flipped. Hmm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:53 AM
5

"Women can't stand that men are perfectly happy with simplicity" Kevin, that is a hovel you made to crawl into where you wallow in depression. Everyone knows you're not happy sitting on a stained couch friendless and dateless playing video games for 16 hours straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:17 PM
5

And "Chris" for abusers and murderers (because seriously, look into true crime sometime. Lot of Chrises)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:16 PM
4

As old as he is he shouldn't be dating any kind of "girls". Too bad women won't date him either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:12 PM
6

I didn't see a problem with her being skinny since she (and presumably the other amazons) have super strength. I'm actually happy she has smallish boobs instead of the unrealistically big ones cartoons always give her. Naturally fanboys were furious over this and pretended her weight was the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:41 PM
2

At least Mickey treated Minnie right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:21 PM
38

I don't know, I think he just outwardly looks hvm. He's said some side eye worthy stuff, like how on Game of Thrones his character's people the Dothraki got to rape and pillage like it was an awesome thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:03 PM
3

Not only Asian, they're jealous of any man who owns a comb and actually uses it and doesn't wear the same shirt 5 days in a row.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:01 PM
2

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:19 PM
25

It's easier than admitting they keep rejecting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:45 PM
20

They don't want kids because kids are a blessing. They want mini-mes to feed their ego and feel in charge of their own little kingdoms while the wife actually manages those kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:04 PM
14

"I like a woman who can laugh at herself" Might seem innocuous but in my experience that usually means "laughs at my insulting jokes about her because she's too insecure to stand up to me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:50 AM
2

Unfortunately that seems to he nearly all of AITA now. r/relationships too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:44 AM
4

This guy is obsessing over his ex and you being way over yours scares him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:19 PM
0

Pretty sure this is an old satire post..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:47 PM
2

Validation post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:43 PM
2

Why's that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:01 PM
2

Our good uneducated sis here is confusing the bible with the patriarchal cultures thay were the norm when it was written. The bible gave servants and women some actual rights in a time when it was unheard of to, especially in the NT where Jesus elevated women. Also, this concept very much exists today in every culture, including secular ones as waterss said, so not sure why the OP on twitter was trying to blame the book for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:03 PM
10

Forgiving is good. Forgetting and letting them play you again is what you want to avoid. That's what block n delete helps with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:22 PM
13

I actually assumed he meant he was grumpy but he was too full of childish hangry irritation to reply in full sentences 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:21 PM
5

Victim blaming wasn't enough, these lowlifes are pretending she's the crazy one and trying to bring race into it too for no reason other than their inner rapist is feeling defensive https://ibb.co/tbNJ5wN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:25 PM
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She should divorce but why is it her child's fault the father is a nvm freak?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:12 PM
3

That's why I love Crime Junkie's motto- be weird, be rude, stay alive. You don't owe niceness to a stranger or anyone making you feel unsafe or bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:52 PM
19

True, but she treated Ann so badly when she was jealous of her dating Andy. I know she was 19 but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:04 PM
33

Which is funny since her character Karen from The Office was pretty much the only FDS-ish character it had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:03 PM
24

I mean, in theory he's quite right that there's much more to marriage than sex (something I couldn't get male redditors to understand) but coming from him he just means his wife's pleasure isn't important lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:00 PM
50

Dishonest people naturally assume the world is as sneaky and conniving as they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:51 PM
8

"I only get along with guys" is code for "Women can sense my drama a mile away but guys will be too busy forever girlfriend-ing me to notice"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:47 PM
13

Some men are just genuinely clueless that most women hate this (usually grandfather types) but for a lot, it's just the lvm way of hitting on you, a lazy opener, them forcing you to give them your attention. "Do I know you, or...?" while walking away works if you don't want to just ignore them (although that works too).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:41 PM
9

Tom definitely has issues, from divorcing all 3 of his wives (which is troubling alone) at the weirdly specific age of 34 to being into scientology (which mistreats their church staff and has allegedly had some members abuse women sexually). I had no idea Christian was inspired by Tom in that role but I can see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:21 PM
10

Not even Elf? That's a pretty good one imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:16 PM
16

I personally love Star Wars but those fanboys are some of the worst. They harassed the 2 female leads of the new movies off Instagram because they hated how female focused it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:15 PM
29

Can I offer the reverse? Movies a man might say he hates that strike you as red flags? Like- Mad Max: Fury Road (the lead who helps oppressed women overthrow the warlord villain, and who in turn emotionally help him and a former soldier affected by the trauma of their violent society) The Star Wars sequels (I understand its flaws- as the older movies had- but a LOT of people hate it solely because lots of women love Ben as a romantic figure, and the series as a whole caters to female gaze and 0 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:04 PM
2

Sorry but why on earth did they hire you, then?? They clearly have some weird bee in their bonnet about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:52 PM
10

Their excuse is "I'm just being honest". Sme excuse this girl who bullied me for literally no reason used. Ok but 1) nobody asked 2) your opinion means very little and 3) you would lose your mind if random women started telling you how ugly your haircut is, how no woman wants a man with that kind of facial hair, how you'll never get a gf at your height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:43 PM
5

It also doesn't apply to all whites. We're not a monolith either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:37 PM
2

Seriously. Or the wealthy! What cringe. I grew up pretty poor and my grammar and spelling in essays were usually better than my friends'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:00 PM
4

Ten bucks there is no gf and he just wanted people to whine with him about this place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:37 PM
9

They're obsessed with blaming women and gay men for the Victoria's secret ideal (which is subjective anyway- the Kardashian look is still very much in). Right, because it's obviously women who are the target audience for those flawlessly toned women in pushup bras and heels with sensual lips and bedroom eyes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:30 PM
11

It's supposed to be mutually beneficial, not where one party becomes a doormat. Patriarchal society has twisted something that was supposed to be good and make it about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:24 PM
1

Same. They're also super triggered by small chested women loving their size. It's crazy. Like that affects them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:56 PM
-3

If I dated I'd be ok with it on the first date to make sure he doesn't feel entitled to something in return as if the date itself wasn't the prize. Some guys really seem to think a plate of food = hookup for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:48 PM
3

Tell him you charge, and due to lack of resources in the pandemic, you'll have to raise the prices too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:43 PM
13

Rescue mission!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:32 PM
60

Really sad they care more about what their bros think than their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:37 PM
24

They neeeed a break from the energy vampire who leeches his wallet and nags him to do chores. All the old ball and chain has to do is work fulltime to pay for his video games, watch all 3 kids for him so he doesn't have to parent, cook, clean and all that stuff women are supposed to do in a relationship. It's exhausting putting up with her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:34 PM
86

By that "logic" all men need to resemble Chris Hemsworth- gain muscle, work out constantly, have no body fat, viking hair, attractive facial hair, tall, everything women aren't supposed to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:19 PM
107

Truth, only you know most of reddit hates small boobed women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:05 PM
34

And don't let a Peter Pan make a Tinkerbell out of you where you turn i to a pick-me who throws innocent women under the bus to have him for yourself out if jealousy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:02 PM
2

I've always wanted to stuff like this. I hope there are some online classes because even without covid, I don't really have a lot of time to attend long classes regularly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:53 PM
22

Have you tried saying stuff like innocently asking, "what's wrong, dad? Are you thinking of divorce?" "Is mom mistreating you in some way? Sounds like you guyd need some counseling."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:47 PM
2

Is that really what most people think makeup sex is? To me it's exactly like what it sounds like. It should be extra enjoyable if anything. If they use it to channel some rage they're obviously not really making up. The heck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:40 PM
11

Yes. Read the Bible. Find Jesus and renounce your entitled, rapey, hateful ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:52 PM
2

I know fds calls women queens but mras and such calling themselves kings cracks me up for some reason. It comes off as so... fake? Like they're just saying it because they copy everything create ir enjoy. And they look childish doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:22 PM
65

Right wing (I guess they are) millennial/gen z young women do this on tumblr too. One whose blog keeps getting Recommended to me says stuff like "female king" on her bio, "sorry to womanblog on main", stuff like that that's ~just a joke but is really obviously pickme-ing to the alt right losers who feel validated by her casual misogyny. It's embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:50 PM
4

I actually got banned on my newer account I made for a clean slate on reddit for, apparently, saying I didn't think this pop star was someone to admire. Ticked a mod off, I guess. They also blatantly ignored my 2 messages asking why I was banned and muted me both times. So... I love the philosophy, I like several of the followers, but I do not care for all the teachers lol
/r/askFDS15/08/20 11:07 PM
15

Amazing that reddit will gladly side with black guys when the alternative is sympathizing with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:00 PM
28

"Poom poom" Are they three year olds?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:56 PM
15

😭 I've seen her before. She is DESPERATE for a guy. Remember how she gave some bad pickme advice and then admitted she got cheated on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:54 PM
16

😂 He was so hoping you would give him some angry/offended reaction and you gave him barely anything to work with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:53 PM
7

Maybe when they admit it's tough to be a woman first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:59 PM
30

They're very invested in theory. Anyone noticed with all their what-about hypothetical situations? Yeah, there's logically no reason for them to be so offended that a random woman online has standards they don't meet, a woman they very well might not even be into irl. But ThEoReTiCaLLy they could and the fact that anyone is denying them this chance hurts their ego, no matter what a nonexistent chance it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:51 PM
5

I wonder if they'd sing the same tune if it were their own child or sister it happened to. Everyone likes to pride themselves on being tough and incapable of being in a vulnerable position until it happens to them or a loved one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:28 PM
8

Until their daughter gets a boyfriend, then suddenly every man is a manipulative rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:10 PM
3

I honestly would have been tempted to pretend to zap him with it then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:09 PM
195

Who has massive mommy issues himself that he projects onto his gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:02 PM
2

Yep. And he blamed his wife for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:35 PM
3

He probably had a crush and was intimidated by your disinterest, honestly. He would have probably negged you and other PUA/red pill nonsense if you had given him the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:36 PM
6

A relative of mine is attracted to women of all races, but is soooooooooo bothered by his ex (they broke up in the 90s) dating a black guy now. Like, he brings it up whenever he can, especially when he drinks. It's embarrassing and he truly has no self awareness. But it seems to transcend race and culture. I've seen men of all colors lust after women of different races but how dare "their" women date outside the race? It is unbelievably entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:30 PM
2

Never had old men hit on me, but if I did (and if you do again), saying "Awww, you remind me of my great-grandfather!" Remind them of their age and make them uncomfortable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:26 PM
4

Careful with questions though. That usually encourages them to continue bothering you. Some weirdo who worked at my job for a couple days smugly told me as I walke by running an errand, "Yoooouuuu should smile more." I'm annoyed at his audacity and pointless attempt to bother me and go "Why?" while walking away. Although it was kind of funny that he did get flustered and sputtered a few answers before settling on "because... you're alive?" like a fool. But yeah, giving them a question is what th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:24 PM
4

Boomer humor is the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:17 PM
7

Also, if she's pretty she probably already knows? It's like telling a fat person they're fat. Like, duh, what were you hoping to achieve with that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:14 PM
5

She could outright say "I'm really into you" and redditors would say "she kept giving me mixed signals. She said she was into me, but what did she REALLY mean, kings? Women are so unnecessarily complicated."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:57 PM
5

Because they themselves would gladly put up with a woman who is creepy or super weird in some way as long as sHe'S hOt and giving him some. They assume we operate the same shallow ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:53 PM
10

This guy never gets dates lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:20 PM
18

Please tell me someone called that out. That is low effort quality time if I've heard it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:44 AM
32

Goose Girl was a great book. Shannon is a good writer and she speaks the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:31 AM
2

Right?? It was a great movie with a really bittersweet ending and THAT'S what he took out of it most? LVM will watch a masterpiece but say it sucked because there were no hot chicks in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:49 PM
5

Reminds me how some men talk about short/petite women- "I want a small girl so I can throw her around in bed". Vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:48 PM
7

Good for you for calling that out. That was probably embarrassing if not annoying for her to hear when she's literally just chatting someone up like she would a female friend. Guys like that need to be put on the spot when they act that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:38 PM
7

The guys insist it's because NOBODY is EVER nice to men, EVER, so the poor things can't help but hold onto any scrap they're given. Yeah, sure. And what's stopping men from showing each other kindness and affection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:37 PM
8

Not the same thing, but when I worked in a grocery store when I think I was 22, one guy a bit older than me asked me where an item was, and I told him. I worked on my cart, going to different aisles. He asks me where another item is and I tell him. I keep working. He finds me again to ask if he can have my number. I politely decline. I mean, he took it well enough, but it was kind of annoying to keep being bothered by this game or whatever he was going for. I think had this happened now when I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:34 PM
5

I think this one is satire. If it reads like the author is trying to make you offended, they probably are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:48 PM
27

Apparently OP is a guy, which is pleasantly surprising. Good to know he knows to be ashamed of such behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:45 PM
7

I don't think Disney is that sexist. With stuff like how obsessed with sexualizing the heroines the 90s animators were, totally. But I think it's good they have a variety of female characters with different strengths who teach kids the importance of love and kindness. I'd prefer that over mopey Bella Swan and half the disney channel stars any day. Most of them are based on centuries old fairy tales anyway. I don't think most filmmakers were trying to be empowering so much as tell stories/make ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:33 PM
2

It really is disturbing how many of them see dating/sex/relationships as a conquest and adventure for them to try to dominate others in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:57 AM
2

Just wanted to say, great username 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:56 AM
3

If you want to figure out why a man is doing something, just think about what his insecurities are. Reminded me immediately of that Sansa quote from Game of Thrones- "Sometimes when I'm trying to understand a person's motives, I play a little game... I assume the worst." Actually good advice. Ask yourself what these people have to lose, to gain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:54 AM
6

And when she wakes up there will be 5 more increasingly getting rude and demanding to know why she wasn't answering at ungodly hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:49 AM
2

They really do project the jealousy!! This loser I had liked when I was in my late teens that I met online wanted me to be jealous and kept pretending i was (and he was a serial flirt who tried to push for nudes and handled my blocking him later after a big fight badly, so, what a mess). All the other LV boys I talked to did the same whenever or another girl hurt their little egos. Do they know how to do anything but project?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:38 AM
17

He's probaby negging, hoping some poor desperate girl won't be able to resist that challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:03 PM
6

Do you have a link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:52 PM
3

Is Buffy worth watching anyway? My best friend adores it and it looks interesting but 90s feminism is... not my thing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:39 PM
11

I hate how Deborah is seen as the bad guy in ELR. Can you imagine being stuck with a guy like raymond?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:34 PM
22

I like book!Arya fine but show!Arya was a little misogynistic. She bullied her sister for no reason and guys eat it up. I don't trust guys who say they're not sexist because they like female characters like her, who are always femininity-hating guys' girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:33 PM
16

Daenerys Targaryen 1000x. The only men she killed for most of the series are cartoonishly evil brown slavers that are easy to hate. She's had multiple nude scenes. She has a womanly figure (which I dislike because Emilia Clarke looks nothing like book!Dany, who is more like Tamzin Merchant). Perfect no-makeup makeup. She enchants every man she meets and dislikes female characters that most men dislike. She "won" over her rapist husband by learning to seduce him (not blaming her, btw. I just hate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:31 PM
11

Not totally sure about that. I know sooooo many LVM/NVM who adore dogs and buce versa, and might even be good with them (because unlike a human woman, dogs will worship you just for feeding them, which can attract narcissists). I would rather trust my cat because they get so much more hate and are picky about who they like. If a guy makes my cat nervous, there's probably a good reason for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:28 PM
6

Sounds like my dad. When I lived with him he'd always come into my room to rant about his whole day, not caring if I was busy or tired or just didn't feel like listening. You need to at least make sure the other person is ready and willing to sit and listen. Otherwise, get a journal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:22 PM
3

I seriously hate when guys on reddit defend that spoiled brat behavior. "MeN dOn'T oWe YoU a ReLaTiOnShIp!" Showing the basic respect , maturity and grace of an adult =/= giving someone a relationship. Trust me, buddy, she wouldn't want one with you after you showing your true colors anyway. It's just a child in an adult's body sulking because he got told "no" and is punishing you for it. This is why I avoid being friends with guys at work if I can. It's not worth the drama and immaturity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:12 PM
30

What he probably meant was "you do all the emotional labor for me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:54 PM
6

It's probably because 1) they repress all emotion but anger 2) refuse to seek professional help for their emotions 3) are constantly trying to dominate others (romantic, familial and platonic relationships) instead of forming healthy relationships with family and friends which leads to isolation 4) feel like they constantly have to prove themselves as the toughest guy in the room which is not only exhausting but makes you always compare yourself to others, which is alone leads to depression. I c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:49 PM
1

Never setting my drink down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:28 PM
30

Someone's mad he got rejected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:21 PM
3

Yeah, I know they have to make sure no creeps get in but this seems like it's been a hassle for a lot of people. I wish there was an easier way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:59 PM
5

It makes people more approachable and less intimidating in their view, IMO. But with women it goes further. I asked my fiance why once and he said it's some men's way of hitting on you which makes weird sense to me. Doing it to another man is even weirder though? Aren't they usually afraid to mess with another guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:58 PM
-18

Not all religion. Sick people just use it as a tool for hurting others like any other ideology. This woman is probably not even religious, I'd bet she's in love with her pastor like all these horrible pickme moms who happily pick their scumbag boyfriends over their own children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:02 PM
73

Misogynists have learned they can be very openly misogynistic if they make it about white women, even if they themselves are white. His insult doesn't even make sense though. White women fake cry because...?? Why not just say crocodile tears like a half educated person would? And no, imo most men have hearty respect for other men, to the point that it sometimes feels like more fearful respect to me. They know most women can't or won't do much for mistreating them, but they very well know another…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:59 PM
6

Lesbians and nuns. Pornsick abusers are turned on by sex with women who fundamentally don't want sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:50 PM
2

😂 did you send it back for him to see and tell him your friends had a good joke over it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:49 PM
45

Like they care about racism. They just prefer showing opposition to it to misogyny because racism affects both genders, and misogyny isn't a male problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:03 PM
29

Must be why incels hate us so much? Great logic, boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:59 PM
11

Men respond to questions not directed at them at askwomen and twoxchromosomes all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:49 PM
14

"Well, I had to get accustomed to your unremarkable looks and lack of personality but here we are."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:37 PM
20

Dove's "real women have curves" campaign did so much more harm than good. I remember when accusing obviously healthy women of being anorexic was the popular insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:35 PM
12

They want a girl who looks like your friend but never primps and has the skincare regimen of a lumberjack. IE nobody that exists!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:26 PM
24

Why are they like this?? Their own daughters meet someone they like and the men want to murder the poor boy because "he only wants one thing". Their own sons are every bit the evil perv they view their daughters' boyfriends to be and find it amusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:11 PM
68

But he just didnt do crap and just shrug it of with a smile. So many guys will say women are fake friends but act terrified of showing the least bit of disagreement with their male friends. Like if they show a little defiance instead of obeying like a dog, they'll rock the boat and they know they'll be the ones bullied, and they know most men are worse bullies than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:08 PM
34

They don't think women they aren't related to are important enough to be human beings who deserve respect. Heck, they're probably the ones molesting their own kids/grandkids/nieces and nephews.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:05 PM
5

I was on a movie message forum for all my teen years, one notorious for having trolls and bullies (I never left because it was addictive and I met several cool people there). It definitely left a negative effect on me, took a serious toll on my self esteem, among other things. I met my fiance there but I regret everything else about that site. I had stalkers, bullies, people who harassed me for m o n t h s, because I was quirky and a loudmouthed teenage girl. Other girls got treated badly too. P…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:23 PM
2

People love Sandy's unnecessary makeover that she only did to keep her shallow crush around, but will pitch a fit over the one Claire gave Allison in The Breakfast Club, which was MUCH less a dramatic change and was Claire's way of showing friendship. People are weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:12 PM
9

We're truly the hive of scum and villainy around reddit. Thank goodness we still have rape and abuse subs around to keep this site's good name up!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:10 PM
12

Sometimes they have good discussions calling sexism out but then they'll have threads trashing other women and pulling the whole "I'm not friends with other women because men aren't dramatic like them". Pick a side, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:09 PM
11

Also, for Christians and MOST religions, it's strongly advised to date people of your own faith, which makes sense for compatibility reasons too. But these guys are so entitled they think they matter more than your faith and you should place them above it. It's audacious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:42 PM
7

BuT SeX iS aN iMpOrTaNt AsPeCt oF ReLaTiOnShIpS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:56 PM
9

That, and someone who lacks the ability to tell real jokes and be actually funny. Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. It's on the same level of effort in humor as how every Family Guy joke is just making pop culture references.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:46 PM
11

"Complimenting" us is more about making themselves feel better than us for most guys. They get to pat themselves on the back for brightening some woman's day, since obviously all women have to worry about is how pretty we look for men. It's why they're so offended when we aren't impressed or agree that we're attractive. Beauty is a gift they give us. It's not something we're supposed to already know we have. And if their remarks were so well intentioned, they would say them to other men, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:23 PM
12

Alternatively, "but not as nice as yours, mister!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:19 PM
13

I was messing on my phone waiting for my bus at the depot after work once. Some Eminem looking wannabe keeps trying to stare at me from across the street so I move to go sit on a bench. Eventually he comes over to me to say "you're sexy". (Note, I wore men's jeans and had a baggy jacket on and probably needed a hair washing. Really??) I'm annoyed and very tired so, barely looking up from my phone I snap, "Yeah, I know", not even really thinking before I spoke. He just awkwardly goes "Oh, okay." …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:18 PM
46

Anyone else think Pam from The Office? She stayed engaged to a guy she had no interest in, then cheated on him when she kissed Jim. Watching them pine after each other got old. She never stands up to Michael much either. Also, after they had started out as kind of friends, she got kind of catty to Karen (who is as close to a HVW as you cn probably get on this show) because she was jealous. She couldn't just move on. And as much as I love her as one of the few likable, funny characters on this sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:44 PM
2

This is gonna blow your mind, Christian, but not everything revolves around you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:17 PM
4

Um... biologically it makes sense for women to be the ones "spinning plates", not men. That's how it works time and time again in nature with a large number of species. The female gains little from letting the male screw over by chasing him, then sitting back as he chases other females, sharing his resources with them. It doesn't even really benefit men to chase multiple women when it comes right down to it- that takes time and money (which is why lvm skirt chasers are so cheap and paranoid abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:56 PM
7

Ugh, I remember how the paparazzi would hound that child. Telling stories about her being so spoiled she flushed diamonds down the toilet. There was a really cute video of them trying to talk to her and she shielded her face with her baby doll and ordered them to take a pic of her doll instead! Hope she doesn't get any issues like almost all child celebrities seem to. Or from dealing with Tom as a dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:49 PM
9

It's freaking Orin from Little Shop of Horrors but none of the humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:03 PM
26

What is with athlete worship? They're glorified ball kickers. They're merely entertainers. It takes no moral courage or anything to be one. Yet they get away with rape and murder time and time again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:02 PM
10

But it's women who get easy sentencing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:58 PM
25

That poor woman. Did she survive it? Hope he got justice for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:51 PM
2

This reminds me of a conversation with a male relative I had once. He was saying feminazis wanted to kill men or something. I pointed out that men who hated women were already murdering women, and feminists who hate men don't kill them, they just distance themselves. "But they could some day!" "But they're not." "But they could some day!" They want to believe what they want to believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:55 PM
7

I don't like the idea of shelling out thousands for a ring and I don't like those giant diamond ones on a gold band, so I can understand that. My engagement ring is more modest than the average one you see (it's a citrine with 2 small diamonds on a silver band), and it still cost more than double digits! I've bought shoes more expensive than that. If you're too poor to get a $100 real gemstone ring from a proper jewelry store, how would you provide for a wife and probably kids in the long run? H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:11 PM
53

Putting them first is the default in their minds. So treating them equally instead of above you is the same as treating them below you. Equality feels like oppression and accountability feels like abuse to them. Thanks for the award!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:19 PM
9

I saw a little of it when it was newer but could barely stomach it. It just wasn't funny. It was boring and Barney was so intolerable that I honestly assumed that was the point to his character. Then several years later I see people online saying he's funny and basically he has fans. What?? He has no redeeming qualities whatsoever. Even Michael Scott the racist, sexist idiot has some. What is there to like about Barney? Nothing against Neil Patrick Harris. He seems ok. I just found his character…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:09 PM
32

Men like this think one light layer of red lipstick + blue eyeshadow is "way too much makeup" but their celebrity crush wearing foundation, concealer, powder, blush, shadow, eyeliner, mascara, eyebrow pencil, and bronzer in all nude colors with carefully styled hair is "has natural beauty".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:07 AM
12

Guys did stuff like this to me and other young girls on these message boards I frequented all the time. Feeling entitled to judge a woman's appearance, no matter how irrelevant and unsolicited it is, is what hypersensitive losers do to put you in your place, because the place you're really in is above them, and that makes them feel bad. You know a guy is mad that you aren't ugly so he can't use that against you (since ugliness is a woman's greatest sin) when he "meh"s. Guys knew we were cute, so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:03 AM
12

Pretty sure the same applies to marriage too. I think a lot of the miserable husbands you see (especially boomers) got married because they assumed marriage was about having a doting little wife to make your life easier. Then they found out it's actually work, and supposed to be mutually caring. They act so betrayed when they realize their wives have needs and don't exist to brighten their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:36 PM
7

They all want big families because they assume they won't be the ones responsible for wrangling in 5 rambunctious munchkins all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:31 PM
6

Wouldn't it be domestic labor? I thought the free therapy for his issues was emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:28 PM
3

Did he respond? Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:29 PM
12

Of course not wanting to be interrupted is worse than interrupting 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:28 PM
27

Having an opinion men (and pickmes) don't like makes you a Karen 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:26 PM
21

I actually don't like that and she (and people like her) come off as fundamentally lacking empathy. It's not cute to joke about abuse and it just teaches younger people abuse and red flags don't exist in gay relationships, so they won't see them when they're there. This comes off as a smug concern troll version of "not like other girls" to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:57 PM
67

"Have to realize sometimes" Weird, from their general attitude historically I had thought they already fully believed they were a prize just for existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:05 PM
4

I worked with a girl who said she's "basically a guy". She was a petite girl with a young son, long dyed red hair, wore eyeliner. Yeah, obviously a dude. I should have asked her to clarify if she was transitioning. I can guess the reaction! They don't get drinking or getting tattoos or liking cars or whatever aren't owned by men. It doesn't make you a guy, especially when you have really stereotypically feminine attributes otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:32 PM
15

Hating vegans is what's weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:14 PM
5

And also that they can have meaningful friendships with girls without hoping to get sex or a date out of it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:34 AM
4

What an intellectual. "I can't prove you wrong so I'm doing unattractive creepy man version of sticking my tongue out instead". Some people are too weak to just own they were wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:27 AM
7

We frighten them because their insecurities and flaws are openly discussed and analyzed on how to avoid. They think attacking fds will scare others off when all they're doing is giving it more publicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:08 PM
4

I'm sure that was hard and I'm so sorry they picked the abuser over you. How cowardly. It may not mean a lot from a total stranger but I'm proud you spoke up. Who knows, maybe it lit a small spark and later it will inspire more relatives to do something about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:07 PM
16

Guys in the comments section of a scene from this on youtube kept trying so hard to pretend Rose is equally unattractive and "just as bad" if not worse for "using" him for money. You know, the shallow creep who very deliberately married a woman younger than his daughter and from a poor background so he could control her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:44 PM
29

Men are being dramatic when they say their balls are sensitive and get hurt easily. When they get kicked they're just exaggerating the pain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:41 PM
7

That's what LVM and LVW (the not like other girls pickmes) mean when they say women are dramatic and catty. It's you calling them out on their crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:40 PM
9

This lvm I used to really like when I was a teen always did that too, loved provoking me with "jokes" and having pointless debates. I called him out on it and he said conflict makes things interesting. I should have told him real life isn't a stupid movie; you don't need to make drama to make drama, and if you do, you're the utterly boring one. And then they all act like it's women who make conflict for no reason 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:36 PM
2

Might be a silly question but anyone have an idea on how to laugh at them without looking like you're laughing with them at yourself? when I'm angry I can't really make myself laugh without it obviously sounding forced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:34 PM
13

this cannot be real Oooof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:17 PM
14

My dad to a degree. He makes sexist "jokes" in front of me to try to annoy me but he obviously isn't thinking of me when he says women are X. I'm his blood and share many of his own personality traits and he knows I'm a fully rounded individual with flaws and strengths, I'm not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:10 PM
15

I hate to say it but I do think racism usually gets put before sexism because racism affects both sexes, so to these guys it's more important. Whereas misogyny is a non-issue to them because it only affects one sex. It's why even anti-sjw conservative types have been getting more into BLM and criticizing police (at least that I've seen) but are by default on men's side in all gender issues and hate any kind of feminism. Logically you should care for both. But some people cannot or will not admit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:06 PM
46

Society would probably assume Jada must have pushed him to cheat somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:01 PM
3

Tbh, I don't think that's even true so much as they've just been conditioned to view big ones as what men are "supposed" to like. I rarely see small chested women not attract people irl. Even in high school all those tiny girls who wore size 00 hollister pants always had boyfriends. It's definitely why they will dump an attractive girl they're compatible and like because she isn't his friends' idea of hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:30 PM
3

Only people with nothing interesting to say say stuff like that. He's probably mad that women aren't throwing themselves at him because he can't offer wit or a fun personality or anything and he actually needs to put in effort, which is "boring" to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:53 PM
157

Yeah, I'm wondering if the OP/tweeter has even seen/read the story? She is pretty famous for being an abuse victim. Making it out on your own is ideal but obviously that was never an option for a good majority of women throughout history. I wonder if people like this even took a history class. And that lady is literally saying living in a freezing attic while your hateful family keeps you in virtual slavery is somehow better than having to never worry about your financial needs ever again as que…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:50 PM
-2

I feel like this may be fake. I know lots of dads are bad parents but nearly everything about this seems sitcom level incompetence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:45 PM
17

I think anytime a woman says anything that isn't ego stroking their minds immediately put up protective walls, and the more she talks the more pieces of it get chipped away, but it's exhausting work and as soon as you finish talking, they're adding more bricks. It's like they actually cannot comprehend words from the opposite sex like a language barrier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:33 PM
14

think he was trying to bait an outraged, angry squirrel reaction from her and she gave him the exact opposite 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:26 PM
222

Again with the red pill comparisons. Call me when fds starts telling women to cheat, be emotionally abusive entirely on purpose, gaslight men into lowering their self-esteem by manipulation tactics, date people too young and too insecure to recognize red flags, ignore boundaries, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:19 PM
16

Male anger is valid by default. Our anger is an overreaction by default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:52 PM
9

Really hope your mom at least felt some shame after that. Parents don't usually apologize though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:51 PM
3

Periods also give us a testosterone rise which is why we have "an attitude". So being male isn't an excuse for having an attitude either. Yet here he is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:49 PM
29

Well at east he is honest, many men think that way. It’s harsh but good to know. Many men are never happy, just saw a statistic that up to 70% of married men have affairs. Which is the dumbest thing. On average, men get everything in a marriage- better mental and physical health, regular and satisfying sex, a maid, a daycare worker, a cook, etc. And some of them still act like it's women who won the golden ticket with our high probability of getting cheated on, bad sex, poor health, depression, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:55 PM
36

The way people usually use that meme is so dumb. This is the only one that bears any semblance of reality considering how many guys do cheat/fantasize about other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:48 PM
7

That was so iconic. We need to make it a meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:40 PM
61

"I really don't like that you do X, Y and Z, especially since I've already begged you to stop literally a dozen times, which says to me that you neither listen to me nor respect me. If you could-" "I don't know what you mean. You can't just expect mento be a mind reader." "But I just clearly explained-" "Women are so mysterious." (After she breaks up with him) "I understand women, bro. She gave me no warning at all!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:33 PM
85

But where would our worth come from then?! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:32 PM
11

Can we please make a sticky masterpost listing all the subs that ban you for this/insta-ban you for having FDS comments in your post history? I'm really tired of this happening and would like to save myself and others time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:28 PM
66

Nobody should have to "communicate" that they want their relationship to actually be a relationship. These people sound like they have never actually been on one before. And it makes me question if they even have friendships, their understanding is so terrible. You shouldn't have to ask to spend time with your bf or husband. That is already a given. If the woman was off spending all her time with her friends and none with him, or addicted to Animal Crossing, or reading juicy novels she can't put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:40 PM
74

Female Family Strategy? That would be great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:35 PM
9

LVM only want relationships for an ego boost. Heaven forbid they get a partner who brings something unique about them to the table and maybe challenge his worldview occasionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:44 PM
56

I think oxytocin and the early stages of love blind many people. Then again, people can be very good about hiding their worst traits too, and once they've snagged someone in a marriage they can finally quit pretending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:28 PM
31

Sometimes I'll see someone pretty but... that's it. I don't fantasize. I don't try to see their junk through their clothing. I don't make flirty eye contact. I can't even imagine wanting to unless your relationship is totally broken. What's the point of having one if you've got the wandering eye? People try way too hard to normalize and pretend this is somehow healthy by jumping through loops. Just tells me they're either 1) not in a healthy relationship and possibly never have been or 2) are ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:23 PM
3

But when the guy does it he's called a cuck 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:19 PM
211

I also love the comments on the original post- "maybe she's bi" "I'm bi and i LOVE to do this with my husband teehee" I didn't know bisexuality and infidelity were synonymous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:50 PM
97

I honestly didn't either till I started seeing people say how surprisingly cute it was for a boomer comic. Funny how it's always the wife supporting her husband's wandering eye and never the other way around though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:23 PM
20

Then let them marry each other and live in mutual misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:01 PM
5

I thought negging was when he gives you a backhanded compliment to see if you'll deny it/get riled up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:00 PM
10

I hope since this is on tumblr she's just young and naive :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:26 PM
41

I'm positive the story like most of tifu is fake, but the comments read like 18 year old boys who have never dated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 12:36 PM
117

I thought I'd like r/breakingmom because a lot of what I'd heard about it reminded me of the issues my best friend is facing in her marriage and I wanted to see if they had relevant advice she could use. Nope. FDS users are banned by default and when I asked a mod about that, she said it was for being a "hate sub". OK, pickmeishas, enjoy your sour grapes while everyone else isn't settling for toxic relationships I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:13 PM
14

I hope he still gets in trouble for it. 16 is still nasty but 13 is horrific. I'm so tired of this casual pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:51 AM
42

I think people that say that are lazy parents who are mad they actually have to put in half the level of discipline they use on girls onto boys now. Empathy, teamwork, good listening skills, emotional intelligence, all those "woman skills", are gaining more value and simply being dominating, overly confident and aggressive are losing theirs. Now more people are being pressured more to hold their sons accountable and not let them run wild because it's easier than trying to control all that energy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:13 PM
2

Troll account
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:01 PM
77

That kind of date is fine if you're already in a relationship. If you're not willing to spend a few bucks I'd assume he's seeing multiple people and isn't interested in seriously courting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:43 PM
13

I had to leave this group making fun of sjws on Facebook (yes I was like that years ago) because they were sounding more and more misogynist and when this KID said women were letting themselves be oppressed by not fighting for rights sooner, that was enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:37 PM
0

Can you provide some sources? Not saying it isn't true but I just don't take people at their word when it comes to celebrities who have been accused. Otherwise, please don't downvote people for caring about rape accusations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:47 AM
2

Do you have a source? Not saying you're wrong but I'd love to know it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:44 AM
3

Why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:30 AM
4

(Ariana voice) and what about it? So is he, but only one of them is upset by the fact of ageing. She'll be happier and he'll feel bad no 20 year old model wants him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:47 PM
5

Women are socialized to put others' feelings above our own. Men are socialized to be aggressive. It ain't women who are raised catty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:44 PM
2

Tbh a lot of people are mistyped due to introvert and intuitive bias on those tests. Best way to tell is to study the cognitive functions and analyze people based on what motivates them, how they make decisions. Many NJs are often SJs and SPs in my own experience. Although I'll say my guy is INTP. Easygoing, good student, intelligent, family oriented, defers to me (ISFP) a lot because I'm better with people and am usually more confident in my decision making. He wants to provide and is frugal bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:36 PM
64

I’m so happy that the two of you found each other and that your song about me has remained so incredibly relevant. In comparison, all I have is my job at NASA, my satisfying friendships, my involvement in my community, and the love of my child. Pathetic, I know. Burn! I say good for her. And I admire the whole time she called Avril out, she never personally attacked her the way Avril did to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:46 PM
28

Ten bucks a man wrote that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:19 PM
11

How many of these men respect their wives, I wonder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:09 PM
6

My dad may have some chauvinistic opinions but thank God he was never like this. Even if I had wanted to date in HS I think he knew I was smart enough to make my own decisions. Unfortunately my best friend's husband acts like this with their five year old. A kindergartner!!! He himself has a long history of flings and cheating so he's a quite the hypocrite. I don't say much because it's not my business but it's obvious the girl only pretends to care about boys because her dad overreacts to it an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:07 PM
13

Much of it is (wrongly imo) connected to the social justice movement, and Gen Z is all over this ideological stuff. When I was that age it was only common with the kids my mom wouldn't have wanted me to hang out with. Now if you don't support polyamory you're a dumb vanilla Karen bigot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:40 AM
21

Found the pedo 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:33 AM
219

Also, people will seriously compare the two. As if Darcy or Teddy Laurence making romantic gestures to their lady loves is remotely similar, anywhere in the same galaxy, as the abuse in porn. They desperately want women to be as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:31 AM
2

I don't. I love the classy older princesses. They taught me I don't need to be "one of the boys", I don't need to swing a weapon or be snarky to be strong, that there is nothing wrong with wanting love or enjoying girly stuff. I mean, I like all the DPs but Aurora is in my username for a reason. I prefer heroines with soft power, hidden strength, who own their femininity to libfem fantasies where the heroine is basically a man in a Victoria's Secret model's body. And as an abuse survivor myself,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:26 AM
3

Belle refused to have anything to do with him until he shaped up. Which he did. Not my favorite couple but so far from being anywhere like Ana x Christian, the latter of whom got groomed and as a result gets off on abuse. The beast literally gave her a library to show his appreciation and saved her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:21 AM
55

But some men won't even acknowledge the existence of women they're not attracted to, much less befriend them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:10 PM
37

A lot of Mulan fans hate this sequel and say this is "out of character" but I suspect they're the shallow fans who havent watched any disney since they were 5 and think Mulan is this hardass NLOG who hates femininity. In reality she was very obedient to her parents, had no problem with an arranged marriage if it helped her family, uses a fan (a very feminine object) to fight the bad guy, and chooses a dress over armor in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:07 PM
9

He's intentionally trying to get outrage. Ignore. He knows she'd be out of his league at age 70.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:58 PM
9

Tell me he got dragged hard for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:22 PM
40

Only boring people are bored. And only boring, unintelligent people without a real sense of humor can't tell a joke without bullying you would think this. Also, they're so hypocritical. When women dish it back, they sob and weep about how mean women are!! She took it too far!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:19 PM
36

Then they scream "MeN dOnT OwE YoU a ReLaTiOnShIp". They really do view this as a transactional thing, and if you aren't willing to present your half of the deal (ie sex/dates) then you are worthless and the transaction is terminated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:14 PM
90

It's true. This is why even men of different races, classes, and on different sides of the political spectrum can 🤝, because hating women is something they can all agree with. These types will gladly set aside their differences to side with another man over a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:04 AM
2

This is why he's single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:59 AM
6

Smells like another troll post. "Bored" of quality designer shoes? Only a guy who doesn't know women would write that. Casual mention of getting rid of obviously depressed wife's belongings? Waiting for the predictbly angry posts. Hasn't replied to anyone in the comments that i can see of either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:41 PM
34

Like they've ever waited for our permission to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:59 AM
2

Oh, he's one of those people. Ignoring the rest of that hot mess of a bio, I've been studying mbti for several years, and people who never miss a chance to tell you they're an INTJ (supposedly the second rarest personality type) almost never are real ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:24 PM
6

Also, this reminds me of a stupid post I saw a LVM "king" make on tumblr the other day- "Wmen don't like the idea of men being attracted to tomboys because it means sharing multiple interests with your partner and being physically fit and active which is something modern wmen refuse to do." What?? We make fun of men for obviously wanting a bro to sleep with. The only people I have ever seen hate tomboys (not the Megan Fox sexily fixing a car type) are conservative, because those girls must be yu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:08 PM
4

I really admire women who do this look. My style is more Isabel Lucas (not to mention, I'm very into grandmacore & cottagecore, so sweaters and jeans are staples), in part because I don't like how this classy style attracts a lot of male attention usually. I don't know how those ladies put up with it, but kudos to them. They look good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:06 PM
13

But if we don't wear any makeup then we look sick and are letting ourselves go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:01 PM
3

Ask them if they tell men they're shallow for caring about looks too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:09 PM
65

Even as a kid when I thought it was catchy, something felt off about it. Now as an adult it ticks me off. She comes off as so bitter about it. Why? YOU got the guy, Avril! Why are you so threatened by this girl you keep telling us is a loser? Why are you picking on this poor single mom who didn't do anything wrong but dump a guy she wasn't compatible with? Which, BY THE WAY, seems she was very right to do, considering he ended up telling his next gf an extremely one-sided story about how evil an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:05 PM
3

Always a pleasant surprise to see men do these clapbacks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:56 PM
24

Luckily r/popularmaleopinion makes fun of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:43 PM
10

This, and libfems and LVW who say beauty privilege is a thing (they're the ones who act like catcalling is a compliment 🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:31 PM
7

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:25 PM
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I used to think she was great too, but apparently she raped some girl a few years ago :( She was one of my favorite musicians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:24 PM
25

Wish people taught their daughters this instead of teasing them about when they need to get married or get boyfriends. They push and push girls to settle for any guy and then act astonished that their daughter is trapped in a bad relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:08 PM
9

...Age 70??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:05 PM
9

No generation is perfect, which very much includes Gen Z, but I do think a good portion of the kids will have a better grasp on egalitarian relationships than their parents and even some millennials. Yes they have their incels but for the most part they seem to be doing ok. Also, love the definitions: Simp = guy who treats women with more than the bare minimum of respect King = guy who demands the very best while offering nothing in return because his weener entitles him to it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:18 PM
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Who said it was supposed to be emulated by girls? It's 101 *Dalmations*, not an American Girl book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:16 PM
12

do they? I honestly can't name a single one besides Gothel and Frollo who do. Always one-dimensional, simple goals like taking over the world/kingdom and no other side to their personalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:15 PM
16

they literally abused or tormented children out of greed or pettiness lol There is nothing to defend. Maleficent especially goes after a baby for no good reason. And I'm not much of an Ariel fan but people somehow forget she was in the human fandom long before she met Eric. That was pretty cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:14 PM
40

Alternatively, we could stop peddling this choose-my-choice libfem rhetoric of pretending terrible women's choices are all valid girl-power ones, in addition to demonizing women who are kind despite the abuse and hardships they've faced. Which, by the way, is actual strength, and I've seen so many self-proclaimed feminists (especially male ones) hate on survivors of trauma like Cindy, Aurora and Snow just because they didn't go out swinging like an idiot it's appalling. Cruella was a greedy rich…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:11 PM
1

are *any* stories on RA or AITA real anymore? bad partners have always existed and always will of course but the amount of outrageous stories popping out now is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:57 PM
12

Someone post this to inceltears, it's too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:05 PM
15

That's what happens when you have too much free time from women not dating you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:02 PM
12

I'd love to see a bunch of women try this as a social experiment. Like that post on tumblr where some girl responded to the generic compliments she got on dating sites by agreeing with them and the guys kept getting angry. Let's see women immediately ditch getting to know the guy to tell him her job or something and why that entitles her to a Hemsworth looking guy with a HV personality and interesting hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:51 AM
10

Yep. Moms no doubt do the coddling but it's the dads who set a terrible example to begin with, who pass on their bad values and teach their sons they deserve the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:47 AM
7

Wow, my best friend could have written this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:50 PM
1

Because people who make a lot of noise about how logical they are never are. Think of Tywin Lannister's king quote... logical people don't need to constantly assure anyone of that. They're also emotionally unintelligent. Because they think emotions are inferior, their own are totally underdeveloped and that's why they act like five year olds when stuff doesn't go their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:39 PM
1

Look at his username. Fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:24 PM
5

No kidding. Mine is small and round, like Kate Hudson if I had to pick a body match, and I've been told it's both too small and too big!! (Even by my own best friend. Make up your mind, woman!) People are NEVER satisfied. They will always find something about your body to pick at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 02:49 PM
3

Not surprised some guys like him but I have seen women and girls crush on him. Why?? Sure he's attractive but he's an entitled, arrogant psycho. Like... how do you reconcile that? He pretty obviously doesn't actually love any of those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:56 PM
1

I know some women really are like this but I think it's definitely a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:28 PM
9

Did the thread get deleted? I can't find it at RA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:53 PM
1

I've never understood that comment?? Doesn't everyone have those, theoretically...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:18 PM
2

Don't even give them the satisfaction of a negative reply. Just say you're already aware. These types hate to see you confident in your looks. They think their attention and lazy "compliments" are a gift they give you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:17 PM
10

Someone didn't get hugged enough from Mommy growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:15 PM
1

Maybe you'll learn when you get over this seething rage towards the opposite sex, stop acting like you're oppressed, and actually meet women instead of being spoonfed what teenage MGTOWs and incels with no dating experience tell you. Don't whine about feminists or libs generalizing men and do it to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 05:56 AM
1

If making a happy environment for him (which isn't her job, but rather requires the work of two in a marriage) doesn't bring a smile to his face, he's not the one. And no, if he's half a real man, he will treat you right regardless (and vice versa) because relationships don't work because only one party puts actual effort into it. It isn't the woman's job to "earn" her husband's affection.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 05:35 PM
-4

*because she's 40
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/17 08:34 PM
4

It's not hard to lie through your teeth, honestly.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 01:48 AM
5

And then the whole bus applauded.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 01:46 AM
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