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17

Those are not kinks, that's abuse 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:44 PM
5

Phone your therapist and ask for an emergency session. Having breakdowns every time smth goes bad in your relationship is not normal nor sustainable. You shouldn't be dating. And you shouldn't be dating this person in particular, you don't want the same things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:30 PM
2

For real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:08 AM
321

And he "considers" to get chocolate and flowers lol. What if you start making your own damn meals and sign up for classes for emotional regulation? I swear some men only have the fucking audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:39 PM
8

Lmao, the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:41 PM
1

Chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:15 AM
33

Glad to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:41 PM
1

I'm not trying to make you change your mind about what you consider trash or not bc that's totally irrelevant for me. In my comment I did say that trashing people about what they read or do with their free time is what men do. If you think that shaming and calling other women pickmes for what they read or watch is gonna help them to stop being pickmes, well, more power to you. Have a nice day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 12:17 AM
2

What in the lord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:07 AM
4

I agree that as a HVW you need to have hobbies that add value to your life, that I 100% agree with. At the same time, I believe you are making a false equivalence about "watching trash tv/reading trashy novels= having trashy mindset". If that was the case, the opposite would be also true and it's not. Listening to classic music and reading classics won't make you a better person. A more cultured one but not better per se. I know plenty of men and women that are well read and cultured, w interest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:05 AM
2

While I get where you are coming from I think it's totally unnecessary to bring down other women with snarky remarks for what they like or read or do with their free time. That's a thing that men do, and I'd rather not see that on this sub. Instead calling what other people read as "trash" or making snide remarks about it, offer titles and authors of books that have helped you in your journey towards becoming the woman you want to be. Trashing what other people read or do or wear doesn't provide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:55 AM
4

That would be the fastest divorce for me. Throw the whole man away and never look back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:49 AM
15

You. I like you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:59 AM
14

Lmao I thought the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:17 AM
7

Lmao girl😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:00 AM
82

A highly technologically advanced country means nothing. The US is pretty advanced and yet women don't enjoy maternity leave. Japan is suuuuper old fashioned and traditional as well as misoginistic af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:59 PM
7

Yeah doesn't surprise me. I knew someone in medicine school who ended up in the hospital bc all he ate was the same frozen meal everyday. It took him a few weeks to recover enough and he lost the semester bc of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:31 AM
3

I'm a good cook but I'm an amazing baker, so I do enjoy cooking for others and spoiling them w something tasty, but I'll be damned if I cook for someone that expects me to cook just bc I'm a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:28 AM
17

While I agree that it might be a biological thing, it doesn't make it less real or valid. This person struggled a lot w fertility and fertility treatments because her biggest dream was to carry a child to term. Well she did, but she found out her dream didn't live to the expectation 🤷‍♀️ so my take on this is that before having kids we need to analize what's our actual motivation to have them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:33 PM
2

She used a donor egg +her husband's sperm yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:29 PM
94

In the other hand, a friend's sister got pregnant w a donated egg and her husband's sperm; she got pregnant w twins. To this day, she doesn't feel they are 'her' kids. She grew them in her womb, she nurtured them, but she doesn't think of them as her kids. She's been in therapy for years (the kids are in elementary now) but she can't just get rid off the feeling she made a mistake. It's so heartbreaking. She treats her kids w love for what I can tell but it's definitely eye opening to hear the d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:32 AM
13

Truest words have never been spoken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:43 PM
11

Lmao girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:41 PM
4

I was thinking of this! That guy is hideous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:11 AM
337

"You'll end up single!" Like if being single, without having to wash the dirty laundry of a guy that can't even give you an orgasm nor wash his hands after peeing, was a death sentence 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:29 PM
12

Pssh. One of my best friends is a guy who's about to propose soon to his gf, he was telling us about how he went to see rings to Tifanny bc he wants something really nice for his gf, he's hiring an event planner bc wants his proposal to be something really special for his gf. When a man want to do it, he'll show it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:36 AM
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I don't care if they grow a third eye, all I want is the pressure off of women to be on bc despite messing w our health so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:32 AM
216

Don't want a kid? Use a condom, dude. Dont like condoms? Push for research so more contraceptives are available for men and stop whining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:53 AM
4

Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:32 AM
25

Not all practices are supposed to be celebrated. Louder for the idiots in the back Traditions for the sake of "bUt it's Ma CuLtURe" like FGM need to be eradicated, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:43 AM
6

Let me guess, your professor was a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:40 AM
16

Sorry to ask but in what field is your thesis that the judges never had heard of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:39 AM
63

A man raped an elderly woman on a ventilator, while fighting covid at the hospital. Garbage like him should have been aborted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:29 AM
1

I agree you. Shows like 'big bang theory' gave them the idea you just have to be 'smart' to 'deserve' a super model looking Penny. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:54 PM
15

Oh girl you are missing on the best sex of your life!! An embrace of 'souls' 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:46 PM
2

They want a masturbating doll, but that doesn't sound as nice so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:40 PM
7

Sounds like it's code for moaning inappropriately when I'm shaking your hand in a business meeting. Gross. 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:43 PM
3

Doing the Lord's work 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:40 PM
20

Oh I saw that one. Pretty sure is a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:31 AM
20

I hadn't thought about it, you right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:02 AM
37

Lmao girl 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:01 AM
30

Entitlement is all they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:53 AM
39

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:52 AM
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hm when is he going to start to describe himself as a goblin' Hahaha sorry! My fav part was the 'I'm tall, cute, sensual, sexy'. In another dimension, pal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:50 AM
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I wonder what all these scrotes mean by "unique". Prolly smth like "I think I'm the best thing after sliced bread, but nobody appreciates me". Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:49 AM
132

I'd be prime Minister of this damn country
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:51 AM
74

100% agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:49 AM
38

Word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:45 AM
45

The most terrifying part of the whole post. He's an educator! Shivers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:02 AM
277

I love to lurk some subreddits because beyond the fun of finding hilarious things like this one, it never ceases to amaze me the creativity of some men. Back in my day I'd have fallen for the words used here 'looking for a kind, nice person'. Nowadays I see beyond that. He's over 40 and looks for someone younger and thinner, the rest of the description is just some bs made to distract of that fact 🤦🏼‍♀️ anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:35 AM
1

Hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:58 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA girl 😂😂 I love your username btw ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:47 AM
17

'I like women being more feminine, wearing skirts, make up'. Maybe not physical per se but it took me a while to realize it was OK being me. I don't like skirts, I like leggings and jeans and no make up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:43 AM
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What emotional baggage has a man revealed to you way too early on Lost parents in an earthquake, was raised by his uncle and aunt, felt alone in life, wanted his gf be OK w orgies. His brother died in an accident, was diagnosed w bipolar in his early twenties 'but it was a mistake' Spent 5 y working on a website that nobody had asked for, lived in a flat that his parents bought for him, mattress on the living room, the whole house a mess. 44y, claimed to have been abused by previous partners but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:41 AM
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OK this was a wild read 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:35 AM
23

I totally agree. The day I got my abortion I could sleep super sound. Of c you mourn your expectations and after all it's not an easy choice but you bet I was super relieved afterwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:55 PM
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Story time : many years ago when I was young I got pregnant by my then bf. I decided to have an abortion, the idea of having a kid who would be in contact w his family (they were awful) terrified me. Among other reasons ofc. I can just imagine how my life would be if I hadnt had that abortion. I've never regret that decision. Thanks to it I rebuilt my life and did things I couldn't have done w a kid w me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:07 PM
14

Agreed. Some years ago I experienced the worst depression ever when I was w the depo shot. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:04 PM
39

Oh my. And those!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:49 AM
224

Unfortunately there are some scumbags who don't care and will take advantage of this approach bc all they want is to get laid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:54 AM
3

I feel sorry for her but girl, help yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:20 AM
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Nothing. I block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:00 AM
160

It is abuse. Once is not impossible but FIVE FUCKING TIMES?!?! How's an adult able of dropping a baby FIVE FUCKING TIMES???? I'd feel super tempted to smack that mf, hard. 'sorry, it was an accident!!!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:58 AM
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An ex of mine would try to use me as his therapist all the time, when he actually had a therapist. Im all about being supportive to your partner but when he expects you to be available all the time to vent to you without even asking you are in the right head space to do so, it gets tiring af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:54 AM
12

Make your profile private and next time block and delete. No need to entertain him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:33 AM
10

They all lie, that's why I always take w salt any statement they make, especially if I just met them. Some years ago I dated this guy who was older than me (14y or so, eww) and he claimed to be the CEO of a company, etc. It turns out he indeed had a project going on w some IT worker from India, to whom he paid pennies btw. He lived off his parents who were wealthy and had undisclosed mental illness (bipolar). Did I mention the part where his parents left him live in an apartment in a very nice s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:41 PM
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I've met quite a few professional men w a deep lack of interest in any cultural activity. Most of them their fav movies are 'marvel ones', would never go to the opera w me and despise any movie that has subtitles. Sigh If you equal having a degree w having an interest in museums, certain foods, etc you are going to have a bad time, bc it's rarely the case. My 2 cents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:37 PM
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I so want to think that this is someone trolling but experience has taught me there are really crazy people out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:03 PM
17

Oh darling. I'm so sorry. Sending you a huge hug. As you said, your son is a bright kid, he knows who his dad is and luckily he knows that he can count on you. Forgive yourself for whatever mistakes you believe you made in the past and let them go. Yes, it's been hard to be on your own all these years, yes it's not easy that they have all that money while you struggle but you don't have to stand that man as your husband anymore, phew. Work on yourself. Look at how much you have got done, you liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:40 PM
4

It's terrible. That's one of the reasons I stopped talking to that guy, I can't stand prolifers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:25 PM
34

So much this. I used to have a German pen pal who told me that feminism wasn't needed anymore bc women in Germany had it 'all easy'. He also was super pro life🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:26 AM
5

Gosh. Poor woman, poor kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:37 PM
168

Imagine being 31 and being so upset because your amazing partner turned out having the 'wrong' hair color. Nah dude, get lost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:35 PM
99

Gosh I didn't see it but I'm not surprised, sadly. Anyone who suggests to communicate w a relative w clear intentions of incest is a damn moron. What are you going to communicate? 'I'm uncomfortable' well duh that's obvious. Do men really need someone to tell them trying to get sexual w their daughters is gross? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:33 PM
18

I'm sorry for the town that lacks its idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:40 AM
217

Exactly. Sometimes it's difficult to let go of that need of saying the last word, but closure is something you get from your own grieving process, not something someone can give to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:11 PM
51

Religious men are always suspicious until proven wrong, period. It's not possible to subscribe to a religion that has used and abused women during their entire existence and at the same time be an ally to women, that's an oxymoron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:09 PM
160

Your husband was a wise man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:09 AM
5

You go gurrrrl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:07 AM
2

Shudders Why do they keep marrying losers?!? Why?!??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:07 AM
3

Yeah I agree. I cut contact w this dude YEARS ago as well, so I definitely can relate lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:27 PM
2

I find it sad and at the same time infuriating. I know many of us have been there, (making similar mistakes) so, it pains me when I read so many women going 'I'll give him a 135th chance', 'he abuses me but other than that our relationship is perfect', 'he killed my dog and then burned my parents' house down but he has a good heart'. Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:34 AM
3

An ex of mine messaged me around Christmas on a site about a hobby of mine. I have him blocked him everywhere (phone, apps, mail etc) and yet he didn't want to not be read and sent me a msg anyways creating a profile in there. I was like? The dude is mentally ill (untreated bipolar) and an abuser, men don't accept a no I blocked him and deleted the msg but it never ceases to amaze me the lack of logic of certain dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:30 AM
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I only have seen the first pic so I was confused about this post, then I read the comment on the second one and OH BOI It reminded me of this girl that keeps harassing on ig bc I made a prochoice on a very pro choice account. I'm like??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:23 AM
7

What about no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:12 AM
30

Indian men never cease to amaze me. Sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:05 AM
1

The iq of an amoeba cracked me up You are doing the lord's work 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:12 AM
10

Greediness is about wanting more, never having enough. Not every greedy person is cheap, since greediness is not just about money or wealth. Cheapness is about not wanting to lose anything of what you already have. Cheap people can't share or won't share bc they don't want to say goodbye to their possessions. Anyway we are arguing semantics here. My point being, I think this guy is more of a cheap one than anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:54 PM
4

As the frugal person I am, I've never understood why leaving something that you paid for. Tp? Spices? Tupperware? Girl you bought that, take every single item Well done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:13 PM
13

This guy seems more a case of being cheap though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:03 PM
108

Exactly. Rape is one of the only crimes you can't justify. This guy spent 30 y in prison for it and feels no remorse, he will sadly do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:37 AM
34

Preach sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:30 AM
23

I agree. They should throw the whole dude away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:43 AM
5

I feel bad bc I wonder what kind of things she's been through so she thinks a relationship w a man that could be her father is normal. I also feel bad for the kid. Children of geriatric fathers (>40y) have a higher risk of mental illnesses as well as being on the spectrum. She can feed them with the same spoon after he strokes out. That's a very good rare insult I'm gonna admit that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:24 AM
107

'I should rape this corpse' It isn't sex if the person doesn't consent. Last time I checked a dead person can't consent to anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:05 AM
122

Grooming at tee highest level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:59 PM
2

Gosh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:32 AM
29

Totally. And we are the gold diggers! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:06 AM
48

Pretty sure Sweden has an amazing social welfare support so why is this guy begging for money on tinder? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:58 AM
6

Used TP vibes * 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:38 AM
9

Either he has poor social skills or he's lying to try get you to open up and get to know your weak points. So yeah I agree,. Run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:48 AM
10

Exactly. The best part is this guy posting this on his Facebook. Whoever checks his social media hopefully will see the huge red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:34 PM
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Someone who cooks, cleans after him and gives him sex at demand. This guy is delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:23 AM
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While I generally agree I am also all about accountability. No one right in her damn mind should be engaged to someone she met less than 2 months ago. That's being called an idiot, pick meisha or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:27 AM
36

My eyes after I read the first line : OO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:24 PM
80

I love when they say 'dad bod' or 'chubby' and you go to their profiles and they are obese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:17 PM
4

Oh my
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:28 PM
11

Sweden?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:27 PM
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Same here. I was 15 when I met someone who was 37 and he invited me to go 'on a date'. He took me to McDonald's 🙃 and while being there I saw him checking out another girl that couldn't be older than me. Luckily it didn't go beyond that but years later I found he had a daughter w some poor teenager. You can't make this shit up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:50 AM
13

And if you decide to sleep w them for some reason, demand they use a condom and use your own contraception. Raising a kid on your own is no joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:48 AM
9

I'm the less religious person and I'm against porn. But they love to think that only religious fruitcakes are against it. #Mens logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:46 AM
2

My face 😐😐😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:44 AM
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A niece of mine just found out her husband who is living in another city for work is living w another woman and supporting her and her children while his own kids are struggling bc my niece's job pays little bc #pandemic. Tale as old as history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:43 AM
13

Exactly what I thought. What's going on w this silly trend of changing the spelling of names like that? I got a mini stroke trying to read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:39 AM
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If the only thing you had was money, you'd try to hold onto it I guess. Deep down they know they don't have anything else to offer, so they live in this impossible fantasy land where they think they deserve the Ideal Woman TM just for existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:33 AM
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The best break up advice I got was from a male friend who once told me 'you weren't born with him, you don't need him. It's possible to overcome everything, even a loved one's death. Someday this won't hurt anymore' And he was damn right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:29 AM
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I'm proud of you for seeing right through him and dump him. So many guys praying to be 'liberal and feminists' but yet they want bang maids for free. Nah sis, good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:23 AM
2

Doing the lord's work I see!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:51 PM
7

All this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:57 AM
8

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:50 AM
9

Lmao please tell me what you replied 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:49 AM
3

I had a guy telling me that he couldn't date an older woman bc 'wrinkles' lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:21 AM
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. I googled a guy who had asked me out ok a date. He r*ped a 16 year old when he was 38. Thirty eight. He was at a party with literal kids. Wtf. He was not charged at the witness refused to speak . He was a counsellor for troubled kids prior and now works at the Beer Store. O M G
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:51 PM
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I used to love certain anime. When I was 13 🤔 The problem is not the anime per se. You can like anime, but if you make your personality about one thing 'I'm an anime lover/a gamer' etc its a problem for me. I'm not interested in people who are obsessed about the same things my teenager nephews are obsessed about. I like to have deep conversations, imagine you are talking to some animen lover who doesn't watch anything else, what are we going to talk about? The struggles of Naruto?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:23 PM
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I'm very sorry for your loss Maybe reframing it could help you w the grief? It totally sucks to have a miscarriage but almost 1/3 rd of all pregnancies end in miscarriages anyway. While your ex was vile I don't think he had anything to do w that. I'd prefer to think that my baby wasn't ready to be born. Hugs to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:51 AM
12

Mr and Mrs not yet. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:09 AM
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Wtf w that man. Eeww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:07 AM
8

Interesting I'm not interested in artists/musicians Most are broke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:44 PM
183

The worse part is he trying to make it up to you w smth he bought at a video game store. He didn't go out of his way to get you smth, he was there and thought 'oh yeah ill get smth under 10 bucks bc I already spent 200 usd on my new game and that will shut her up'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:35 PM
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Why down voting her post though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:52 AM
13

I think that we women also know right away when someone is the right one deep down. At least from my past experience I knew from the very beginning if the man I was with was good relationship material or not, and sadly often he wasn't but I decided to stay bc somehow I thought that if I wished it enough, if I loved him enough he'd change, that maybe he deserved an opportunity bc why not, right? I always proved my inner self wrong. Even w one of my exes who turned out to have severe untreated men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:47 AM
9

Report him to HR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:13 PM
11

Girl, I spat my drink 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:54 PM
14

Ahh, the typical 'I'm gonna passive aggressive wish you the best while I end w a phrase to remind you how you destroyed my life' Boo fucking hoo. What's wrong w these men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:49 PM
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'he was stressed at work and needed to release his load' masturbate? Why did she let him use her body as a sex doll. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:29 PM
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I'm glad to be able to help. Feel free to reach out if you need a friendly ear 🙂🙂🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:39 AM
2

You start by realizing that we all make mistakes sometimes. Girl, if I told you some of mine, pfft 😂😂 For a long time I've felt ashamed too but if I hadn't had those experiences I wouldn't know what I know now, most probably. Lots of compassion towards yourself is the way, my dear padawan. Life is about the learning, the experience. Reflect on what you have learnt and be kind towards yourself. You did what you could at the time w the tools you had. Nothing less, nothing more. I hope this helps. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:58 AM
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Ooh boy when I read this one I had the most powerful schadenfreude 😂😂😂 thanks for sharing it again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:49 AM
9

Totally agree. I received a msg from an ex from years ago saying stuff like yeah "I know it might not be appropriate but happy holidays, I've been thinking of our time together, you are a very decent person take care". Lol Fastest block I've ever done. He has untreated mental illnesses that didn't disclose to me, was abusive etc. Luckily a short relationship but girl, how on earth do they think it's appropriate to contact you again is out of my darn understanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:22 PM
25

Did you even read the fds book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:53 PM
28

I had a fucking obgyn telling me that 'I was too young to know what I wanted and that I'd change my mind' when I was 24 and said I didn't want to have kids. I'm 10 years older and I still don't want to have kids. That's another reason for why I don't go to a male obgyn again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:01 PM
16

He tried to claim custody later on. What in the..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:54 PM
2

Oooooh that's a burn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:35 PM
3

Yeah, the only kids I'm raising are mine. And I don't even want kids 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:29 PM
6

swoon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:28 PM
5

Bc they are bored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:26 PM
13

Were you as frustrated as I was reading the article? I just kept hoping to read how she had realised it was fake, but no. I totally was. I know we all have made mistakes but I was like 'no no I refuse to believe someone can be this stupid'. Bc I can't call it anything else. She had a good career, a stable relationship, etc its not like she was a broken girl from an abusive home who needed a way out and ended up being manipulated. Like, wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:26 AM
18

Oh boy I read the article about her yesterday and I felt a mix of pity and like schadenfreude? How can someone be that stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:12 AM
10

Fds intervention? Nah sis. That guy is a pos on a whole new level, anyone that willingly relates to someone like him, doesn't deserve any sympathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:44 AM
3

Unfortunately denial is strong. She's young, pregnant, has no network support. She made a post bc she wants to hear some validation that yeah these are bad jokes bc, they are just jokes, right? Right? It's sad. I really hope she gets to leave before he does smth to her or her baby. It's sad but you can't save people from themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:48 PM
6

Who cares about what they think 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:30 PM
113

You are a great mom. I can't even imagine how that woman didn't stand up for her daughter right there. Her husband is bullying her teenager daughter to give her money to that addict. Wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:22 PM
1

You da best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:40 PM
17

In scrotanese: 'me broke, don't have high expectations, no money. Feel pity, send nudes. Unga bunga'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:24 PM
2

Girl show me the way 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:10 PM
2

My sister was w her bf for 8 years, she never brought him for Xmas, he had his own family and although he lived close, they spent holidays apart bc they weren't married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:08 PM
6

she bought over 750 dollars worth of gifts for her boyfriend. She's unemployed Pffft. That's not a love language, that's poor financial management Gifts is one of my main love languages too yet I don't spend huge amounts of money if I can't afford it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:05 PM
1

😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:20 AM
6

Had a bf like this, he was overweight, had a beard to cover his double chin and on top of that had an uncut penis that looked like Jabba the hut, yet he had the audacity to tell me that pubic hair was disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:59 AM
20

Men tend to be as loyal as their options Truer words Have never been spoken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:55 AM
17

He probably doesn't know how to change a tire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:53 AM
21

Community dick 😂😂😂🤣🤣 Girl I woke up my entire neighborhood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:51 AM
4

It do be like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:50 AM
12

Pfft. How can someone be so stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:48 AM
30

Girl no, this guy is trash. Get an annulment like yesterday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:44 AM
7

glosses over all the parts that would make him look like a bad person or about how she might feel about this He wants the feel good Internet points, he's not looking for advice but for validation that what he did was the right thing to do, another post about 'those evil women who use you and discard you'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:48 PM
5

Totally. I've lost the count of times I've had men tell me in shock 'you are so smart / funny / clever' say what 😂 like if they can't really believe women can be that too SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:34 PM
27

What I understand is that he wants to have 2 kids w the side piece. Either way eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:23 PM
24

Yeah, like, who tf doesn't know who Colin firth is? He's an amazing actor and activist, the other dude is like any other avg 'singer' that appears every 5 years but within 20 no one will care about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:35 AM
44

You win this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:01 PM
4

His orthography gave me a migraine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:34 PM
2

Hahaahah I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:38 AM
52

Someone 5 years older than you is too much. Generation gap already so I'd say 5 years is the limit and I've yet to be proven wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:13 PM
35

I love gifts, I love to handmade stuff but my gifts are really delicate and elaborated. I've even had people buy my work and yet if my partner said 'you know I'd like if this year you could get me smth different, here's a list' I'd get whatever is on the list bc he's asking. The fact that this guy is giving poorly made things plus also taking advantage and asking for really expensive things tells you all you need to know. I hope she sees the light bc ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:46 PM
3

You are totally right and the cognitive dissonance about not being judgemental /calling whoever who doesn't agree w his sex demands a prude what stuck out to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:37 PM
2

You are so right. It's terrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:36 PM
1

Hahahaha hahahaha hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:33 PM
1

Hahahaha sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:31 PM
2

But he's well endowed! All that matters!! He doesn't need to do anything else bc he has a big dick 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:30 PM
1

You read between the lines perfectly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:29 PM
15

You re very right! My apologies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:23 AM
23

Someone who's super open sexually! Someone who isn't a prude! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:23 AM
29

Haha sorry r/eyebleach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:05 AM
37

I loved the 'if you aren't a prude we'll get alone fine' and later 'I'm not judgemental' 🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:46 AM
8

Glad to hear that you are OK and also know better know! Hugs on your way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:15 AM
115

She accepted the damn date to the park w a stranger, this guy could have murdered her. Ladies, don't go to parks or isolated places w men you barely know, that's a big no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:00 PM
74

Come on, why you guys are so judgemental! This guy is trying so hard, he clearly doesn't even keep pee jugs!! Or bedbugs!! He's trying!! Did you even try to COMMUNICATE about him trying to live like a decent human being in a clean environment? I bet you didn't. You all are so selfish. Said no one ever 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:57 PM
16

Wtf. Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:44 PM
2

Hahaahah exactly what I was about to write 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:42 PM
5

And rehab!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:41 PM
10

He sounds straight like a character from The Wire 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:40 PM
72

😱😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:32 AM
19

Best description so far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:28 AM
1

Guuurl 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:06 AM
13

'music and netflix' Pack up, ladies, this right here is the ideal man, so unique interests 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:08 PM
112

Am I the only one who thinks that he getting her pregnant 7! Times is an strategy to isolate her and make it difficult for her to leave if she ever wants to do it? Often men keep their partner pregnant because it's way more difficult to leave an. Abusive relationship when you have to consider the lives of your children I have difficulties to believe why someone, anyone would want to have 7 kids just for fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:02 AM
16

I'm in love already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:10 PM
61

He could have spent those $5 on an only fans to jerk off but decided to give you an award? swoon 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:06 PM
6

Agreed. Also, I'm not OK with the wording of the post. No one 'forced' her. Leaving everything you know for a guy that surely hasn't showed he's ultra HVM, is a huge mistake, but unless he put a gun to her head it was voluntary. At some point there has to be some accountability. Yes, the guy sucks but why having a second kid with him when he didn't even move a finger w the first one? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:35 PM
13

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:43 AM
10

Thankfully abortion exists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:33 PM
11

Damn this is so horrible. Poor girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:50 AM
5

A car, even if it's a bad car, has use. A bad boyfriend is a drain. Truer words have never been spoken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:28 PM
9

Hahaha sorry. In honor to the truth, she was wasted 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:30 AM
13

I feel ya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:40 PM
31

Oh nooo 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:38 PM
109

Happened to a cousin of mine. Trust me, you don't want that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:02 PM
7

Unfortunately yes. It also reminds me of the story someone posted the other day about this woman who got dumped by her fiance after going to live in India with him and what not. nah sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:53 PM
28

Same garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:37 AM
30

Scary and stupid ftfy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:36 AM
66

Exactly. It's so rare that statistically speaking it's more likely for men to die of absolutely anything else, particularly violent homicides perpetuated by gasp other men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:31 PM
9

Definitely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:16 PM
39

Lol. Dont really need a reminder of how disappointing is to have sex w a man w a small dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:01 PM
3

What? The same photographer hippie guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 02:39 AM
19

I read this and I was like? Wtf? She was supporting him all the time, moving to where he wanted to live, etc nah sis. He's no prize but at some point you have to realise you are being stupid. Doing everything for a man is one of the worst mistakes you can do. Luckily he found someone else to leech off but goodness. What a pathetic reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:38 PM
3

Wtf? Wtf did I just read? Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:20 PM
11

Control that urge. You are not there to teach th em how to date. Use that energy in smth else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:26 AM
33

At least you got rid off him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:11 AM
3

I swear. What kind of man can't even get a date? Or sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:37 PM
1

What the what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:35 PM
9

Seconded!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:03 PM
59

It's awful to realise that the hvm we thought we had found is just another piece of shit, but hey, at least you didn't find out after marrying him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:19 AM
37

Girl lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:45 PM
2

Girl 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:24 AM
39

His son died in the tip of a condom back in 2008. Girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:19 PM
5

Hahaahah I just saw your username!! It's amazing hahahhahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:05 AM
5

No worries :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:55 AM
25

Wtf. Report him everywhere. He's putting patients at risk. If he does this w anyone else during a consult he can get covid and give it to someone else. This man has no business seeing patients. Report him to the local medical board, write a review on Google, Facebook wherever you can. This is a totally unacceptable behavior, including pushing on your psychiatric treatment. Family doctors rarely have a deep understanding of mental illnesses, he had no business in trying to change your medication.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:52 AM
6

You are not an idiot, you are a survivor Many of us have made mistakes, many of us have been manipulated to believe that if we did the right thing someone would love us because, it has to be like that, right? You and me and everyone else are a product of the environment. Look at yourself w compassion. I deal w a few health issues as a result of cancer and cancer treatments and while I don't think I'll ever feel 'healthy' or w the same stamina as others I'm OK w it. This is my new normal and when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:44 PM
28

Girl you left me fucking speechless and you have no idea how hard that is 😶😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:30 PM
40

You are the hero we needed. Thanks for taking one for the team
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:24 PM
2

I was about to say this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:50 PM
11

If I had only 10% of their confidence I'd be president by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:41 PM
8

Right? Same when they go 'I love the Office/any other TV show', liking a TV series or a movie isn't a personality trait! 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:40 PM
9

OpEnMiNdED= I'm gonna ask for anal, I'm a 'Dom', also wouldn't say no to a threesome with your best friend! I expect you to send me nudes taken in every life situation 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:39 PM
17

Sadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:41 PM
9

You'd be surprised :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:11 PM
144

Send bewbs and vagene plz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:07 PM
62

You bet. One of my best friend's husband loves kids, was so insisting to have one, she got pregnant, baby was born in February. My friend does most of the care and she just found out he's cheating on her. They don't care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:05 PM
21

I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:03 PM
1

Girl fr. Many years ago I found my then bf's profile on a site... He said he was younger and leaving messages on girls who were 15. He was 23. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:37 AM
1

So clingy ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:28 AM
72

How was it an accident? The damn moron threw gasoline on a fire 🤦‍♀️ and she was left to pay for his stupidity ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:34 PM
11

Oh okay Anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:24 PM
2

Haha I loved that show the first seasons!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:12 PM
2

Girl I'm so sorry. hug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:46 AM
7

Thank you for the explanation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:53 AM
12

Thanks for the explanation I think I have it more clear now. Outside of biology then it's never appropriate to use female?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:26 AM
9

Can someone explain the difference to a non eng native speaker?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:30 AM
12

As a cancer survivor I offer my ear if you need someone to talk to. You aren't alone ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:17 AM
3

One of the most heartbreaking movies I've ever seen, based on a true story too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:14 PM
3

Norway or Sweden?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:12 PM
1

Is this show like 90 days fiancé or smth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:12 PM
10

Plus, there's research that having kids when the man is older (late 30s) is linked to higher dates of autism and mental illnesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:24 PM
18

Plus, there's research that having kids when the man is older (late 30s) is linked to higher dates of autism and mental illnesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:24 PM
34

You are a queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:12 PM
2

Unfortunately I also know lots of women who are in relationships bc 'their bfs/husbands' don't cheat or hit them. The bar is in the 183th hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:03 PM
77

EatHimToo #DestroyThePatriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:36 PM
7

I'm all for respecting the LGBT community but this is ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:12 AM
9

Oh man I've been told that shit too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:42 AM
13

Catch feelings for yourself before a dude. - my new mantra A motto to live by
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:41 AM
8

Op is not addressing men w mental health issues bc they have mental health issues. Op is addressing how what women go through after birth is nothing men can even remotely relate to because their bodies don't give birth. PPD is a legitimate diagnose which base is biological and physiological, your body goes through a traumatic and exhausting experience, goes from a whole different physiological state (pregnancy to not pregnancy) and that takes a heavy toll on your mental health. Comparing that wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:26 PM
9

Reframe your mindset. Getting a hvm is not the prize. You are the prize. You need to be happy on your own, independent and enough on your own first. Yeah having a great partner can be amazing but a woman who is happy on her own knows that if she doesn't find a hvm is not the end of the world. If you find an hvm and for some reason you two break up its not the end of the world either You need to work first and foremost on feeling complete by yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:50 PM
19

I agree. I dated a Norwegian. The amount of xenophobic comments he made was oO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:55 PM
22

One would think he actually chose his wife knowing she's not fluent in English and he's not willing to Learn Spanish bc he doesn't want to communicate w her. Probably his wife is used as an in bangmaid. Pff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:52 PM
5

last guy I seriously dated told me he wanted to go to brunch, but wouldn’t tell me the name of the place bc he wants to show me his favorite spot. I think that’s super cool and romantic...tell me why we pulled up to a fucking Denny’s?? Girrl I had a flashback! 😂 Long story short, I flew to meet some guy (don't do it) I didn't pay for my ticket but he picked me up at the airport, I barely slept bc my flight got super delayed the day before so I was hangry af. Just minutes before meeting this guy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:02 AM
4

dramatic music background
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:58 AM
12

Maybe I'm too harsh but... If you have a kid, your kid should be your priority. Meeting strangers you met online, flying to meet them after not even facetiming... I mean... Why??? What if you get murdered? Who will take care of your kids then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:09 AM
3

Exactly yyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:07 AM
6

I swear. I read that and was like... Why?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:06 AM
7

No wonders why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:36 AM
12

Tell your dad to not allow this man anymore at the house. Be clear why and what had happened What would I have said? 'are we friends?' 'what an odd question' Let him be uncomfortable. A grown up man doesn't ask stuff like 'are we friends?' Read the book the Gift of fear so you learn to identify unappropiate behaviors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:32 AM
10

Agreed. I as a woman know I have the responsibility of taking my own birth control and demand he gets a condom on if I don't want kids. If he refuses to put a damn condom in... Next him. If you know you can't provide for a kid for whatever reason consider abortion or adoption too. Way too many women keep kids that aren't ready to provide for or raising with or without the support of losers like this guy. The outcome? Abused and neglected children who will repeat that poverty pattern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:14 PM
13

7 kids? The fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:49 AM
3

I've had a mastectomy and God, the recovery was so damn awful. I can't even imagine having a double mastectomy AND a reconstruction. People seem to think that once you get a mastectomy to get a reconstruction they just put an implant there and nope. It's a whole ass process that includes having a pump to help you create the skin bag where the implant is going to be, and it's painful. The recovery for the reconstruction is also painful and not free of bumps In the road (infections, scars, risk of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:54 AM
1

swoon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:42 AM
10

Word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:48 PM
1

You. I like how you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:45 PM
3

Same to you sis! Lots of love 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:37 AM
7

Omg noooo I killed a sister?!!! Heeeeelp!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:36 AM
6

I see. Thanks for answering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:33 AM
7

Mwahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:19 AM
13

But the ego... I'd rather die alone w 10 cats than dating an artist again. Nah sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:45 AM
76

When I have time and I'm bored I troll them and go w stuff like 'I'm so constipated. I just farted and it smelled really rancid but I think i might go take a dump soon' 'eeew nobody asked' 'nobody asked about your horniness either, Kyle'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:41 AM
44

FDSers from India, is this the common man behavior over there? Please tell me thus guy is the exception
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:36 AM
3

Hahahahahaa what a come back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:28 AM
38

Gonorrhea ft Syphilis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:33 AM
14

Well at least you made money w them, many women send them for free 🤷‍♀️ Nothing to be ashamed of, you are not a bad person for this. If your face is not on them then breathe in, who's going to recognize you anyways? Even in the remote case someone did you can always deny it. You did what you considered you had to do to survive, so be it. Many people do worse things (even killing others...) selling nudes is really like the least worse thing I can think of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:34 AM
21

Imagine fighting for a man that's also a cheater... Nah sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:18 PM
18

Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:12 PM
2

Why doesn't he just buy a fleshlight? He gets a whole and no woman has to put up w this... Whatever thing he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:36 PM
9

As I said if before. It's 32... In Jupiter years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:35 PM
3

Wtf. Even if he's not w his baby mamma he should be either working to provide for his baby or taking care of said baby. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:29 PM
112

They call it internalized racism bc that's easier Than assume there's a serious issue w mysoginy. You do you and if you need to date outside your ethnicity to find someone who deserves you, go for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:59 PM
69

The struggle is unfortunately real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:51 PM
6

Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:56 PM
23

Me neither 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:34 AM
4

Yeah there are just too many wild stories. I think agreeing to live together for 2 years and then get married is a good idea, but getting married without living together scares the shit out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:53 AM
7

“too shy to go into a building” 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:05 AM
21

Exactly this. A friend of mine married a guy who seemed hvm, they didn't live together until married. Oh boy. It was a shit show. A shit show!!! She literally had to leave running w her wallet and the clothes she had on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:17 PM
24

Ladies, remember that every time you stay w a worthless man, a ladybug dies. Protect the ladybugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:06 PM
29

Ray Charles could see that avalanche of rejection coming. 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:50 PM
13

But but what did broccoli doooo?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:48 PM
4

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:47 PM
97

Chicken nugget on legs 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:40 PM
11

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:58 PM
12

If he truly loved you, he'd put effort into whatever you wanted as a proposal. Like if you want a car instead of a ring, it'd be so obvious how shitty/good he was if he proposed with a used, super old car, against a brand new high end model. Say it louder for the pickmeshas in the back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:15 AM
1

You are very true, the thing is to not let them talk. I keep interrupting them over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:50 PM
6

Fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:36 PM
31

More like 66. Eeww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:15 AM
10

Hahaha you are welcome 😅😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:14 AM
107

36 y? In Jupiter years 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:28 AM
10

Over my dead fucking body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:26 AM
2

Who has time to go through someone else’s post history The same people who have the time to make a collage asking for a pat on the back bc wants to belong somewhere and that someone tells them they are worthy. I rest my case. Best of luck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:10 AM
2

?? My comment wasn't addressed towards you bc I dislike YOU as a person or whatever you post, I simply got tired of seeing this stuff posted all over the subreddit because makes it feel like I'm browsing pinterest and I'm not interested in that. I could have posted this on anyone else's post, it happened to be yours but it's not personal. I didn't 'shit' on you or your post. Re read my comment bc you take everything as an attack and that's a you issue, not mine or the subreddit's. This is a subr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:30 AM
3

Could we consider to start a different subreddit to share collages instead posting them here? It's awesome to see what you ladies are up to but I kinda feel I'm surfing pinterest now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:49 PM
1

Before pandemics, in my country we used to greet w a peek on the cheek so I've got lots of someone else's make on myself and I can see how that could be annoying It depends a lot of the voice tone he uses to tell you this but I'd say it's rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:46 PM
10

I haven't had to put up w this since the pandemic but before I used to pretend I'm a conspiranoic. Picture your craziest conspiracies than even a conspiracy theorist would think it's stupid and go for them. I had this guy approaching me and negging w an 'your mouth is curious but kinda cute'. I stared at him w crazy eyes and started talking about how the global warming was a hoax to hide that unicorns exist and are the product of alien rape towards horses. The dude laughed a bit but tried to kee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:43 PM
11

Yeah nah, I'm not your therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:38 PM
14

Could we start a subreddit for this exclusively? I'm all about leveling up but I'm tired of having to go through all these vision board posts to find the things that interest me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:35 PM
47

No. He's 27, he's a grown up, on this day and age its simply unbelievable he can't go to Google to get this info. Let's stop blaming women for every man in their family who grew up to be an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:44 AM
10

Omg I love your user nameee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:21 AM
2

You can continue to vet the man of c, that's a given whether he's Christian or believes in the spaghetti monster. My point is that generally speaking religious men rarely are good partners, especially because most religions are mysoginistic and have been used as a tool for the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:09 PM
3

Yeah as I said, a legitimate reason to be late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:06 PM
51

Pro tip: don't date religious dudes, they tend to be huge hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:26 AM
3

It does seem like you are already leveling up. You are working on your trauma w a therapist, you are working on your goals one day at a time, etc. No one has everything 100 % figured out so let go of that expectation and be more compassionate towards yourself. You have gone through a lot and my heart goes out to you but you are doing your best and that's enough. Take It one day at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:17 AM
50

I agree w all that you said and I'm also aware things happen. I lived more than 10 years in a really big city (like millions of people) and even though I did my very best to be always on time (for a date and yes even for a job interview once..), there were situations where it just wasn't possible... Like that time someone killed themselve in the subway train I was in and I got late to one of my final exams in university... I'm not saying wait for him an hour but my rule is 15 min and a legitimat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:13 AM
1

Umm I haven't thought of this. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:02 AM
9

I'd honestly be surprised at the flexibility and pimp him up In a circus or smth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:15 AM
7

Or dick size. I've never got tired of saying dick size matter. I've been unfortunate enough to sleep w guys with small dicks and trust me it's awful. You don't feel anything. I'd rather be single that endure one of those again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:13 AM
27

'sorry if you felt harassed' 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:00 PM
7

Yeah he was low key negging you. Before fds I'd have fallen for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:49 PM
11

Larger and thicker *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:41 PM
24

Prehistoric sperm 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:22 PM
2

This somehow reminded me of when my ex told me he didn't wash his hands after peeing bc 'it didn't make sense' Oo. I sometimes still cringe at how low my bar was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:16 AM
18

Or adults who are trying to cheat :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:03 AM
1

Bubblegum Buddhas 😂😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:01 AM
2

You'd be surprised about how much and how often some doctors drink. Alcoholism is a thing in the health field, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:29 PM
1

It's not like you are going to find better matches in certain professions but I can talk from what I've seen in my work environment and personally I wouldn't date a doctor again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:28 PM
1

Thanks for sharing! ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:22 PM
2

Hahahahaha I was thinking of this too. Why can't they text like adults?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:18 PM
5

Gosh! I'm so glad you listened to your intuition. Have you read The gift of fear? It's an amazing read we all women should know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:09 PM
2

Holy fucking fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:48 PM
43

I'm with you but I wonder how are you gonna find out if he can't keep an erection or is selfish in bed before marriage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:27 AM
3

Thank you so much ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:26 AM
9

I'm still shaken and heartbroken about this. I survived cancer and had a relative die of the same type of cancer, I know what it feels to go through all the treatments while trying to survive at the same time, yet this guy managed to put up w the insane training that a movie like black panther requires... Just wow. On top of that he made time to visit children and other people battling cancer while he did it in silent. I hate this fucking illness. Wish his family and friends all the light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:47 PM
17

Doctors: huge ego, God complex, never have time, high divorce rate, they usually cheat w residents and or nurses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:29 PM
30

I agree w the artist guys, my dad was one, mad respect but no Thanks. Same w doctors. I'm a health professional and I've done it before, never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:20 AM
2

Someone w high functioning autism but yet he can't pay his bills or plan ahead who's going to take care of his dog? You are kidding. One of my best friends has asperger, and ADHD. This woman is a damn ER doctor who has two dogs. She might lose her wallet in lots of places but she has never ever forgotten to get a sitter for her dogs even if she's sleep deprived. You are being fooled on a whole new level w this guy. Please, for the love of all that's holy, get in therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:40 AM
0

Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:31 AM
26

Am I the only one that thinks he's short too? Because generally tall men mention their height bc it's an asset in old world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:26 AM
15

Yeah like what did we just read? 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:23 AM
0

I get what you say and at the same time I think OP has the right to set whatever standards she chooses to, same for everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:56 AM
5

The difference is that you have worked on healing while many men who grow up in abusive or bad families don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:32 AM
16

So, aside the fact that you still keep him in your house, why do you entertain him? He can demand to know why you closed the door but you don't have to engage. 'It's a bathroom, bathrooms are supposed to be closed'. Stop entertaining this Morón
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:20 AM
8

That book is a really eye opener
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:29 PM
17

A happy ending at least. I have a friend who has a friend who was murdered some months after she got married to a guy who insisted in her putting all in his name. She was pretty wealthy, had successful businesses, many bank accounts abroad etc. She was fully smitten by this guy who happened to be younger and attractive. Apparently she was at one of her businesses and some guys got there, saying it was a robbery. Shot her in the face and funnily enough didn't take anything? The guy took everythin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:23 PM
10

So you have the money to gift a super new bf something that's not a necessity but you can't find a sitter once a week to get a therapy session? I tell you this w all the love is in my heart, you should be in therapy, not dating. Your boundaries are non existent and that's a danger for you AND your children. Break up w this guy who is only using you and get in therapy like yesterday. Seriously, no more dating for you until you get your stuff together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:08 PM
13

Wtf? Is he in high school? Did his dad drop him on the floor when he was a baby and he landed on his head?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:47 PM
62

Pretty sure he makes 40K 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:47 AM
8

I think you are my cosmic sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:42 AM
14

Pfft I bet they'd answer w 'you women are gold diggers' Well Matt, do you have any gold to dig? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:42 AM
6

Ex bf was like this 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:57 PM
5

Girl, if Lupita farted in my general direction I'd feel honored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:33 PM
3

Hahaha so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:18 PM
8

Or he's in the military and not even an officer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:54 AM
13

That's the most terrible part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:53 AM
10

Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:46 PM
33

I hate how we are taught to be 'polite' by society. Back in OLD days, I met this guy who claimed to be 6 and in shape. I'm 5'6, picture my face when I see this guy who is 5'8 tops and overweight (he showed me old photos). What pissed me off the most was that I stayed to be 'polite'. I should have left there ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:36 PM
36

Omg wtf? Hahahahah he sat on your lap? I can't even 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:15 PM
1

Lmao girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:32 AM
7

I needed to read this. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:26 AM
6

You are a rock star!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:49 PM
5

This is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:45 PM
11

I love this idea lol. I also read about picking your nose. I did that once w some guy. I was on a bus, sitting and reading a book, next to me sat this dude and started talking to me over and over despite me giving one words replies. I dead stared at him while picked my nose. He changed seats 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:34 AM
1

I think i was quite lucky in that regard. I took therapy many years ago when I was 21 or so. My therapist told me lots of stuff that are fds, unfortunately I didn't listen and well. Here we are. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:17 AM
6

Bc they prefer to imagine they are so irresistible that they don't need to pay for a prostitute. 'have sex w me w no attachment no expectations and be prepared to not even orgasm'. Nah sis ill pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:56 PM
30

Their brains produce a chemical that drowns out the sound of our voices. 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:00 AM
30

I hear you but I also understand that many people choose not to change their minds even w evidence. Look at antivaxxers and pro trumpers. Many people don't care about evidence, they want to feel right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:00 PM
26

Exactly my thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:43 PM
2

So tempting indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:37 PM
3

Good to know bc I'd be tempted to say 'I dare you' lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:46 AM
13

Didn't he say smth like 'nobody raised me to be a feminist'? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:25 PM
39

It bothers them bc they live in a fantasy world where they can get any woman they want just by existing..lol I love your username!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:12 PM
161

I read a comment that said this subreddit is actually run and made by incel men pretending to be women, bc there's no way actual women are 'like this' 🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:00 PM
4

I aspire to be like you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:31 AM
8

My first bf, the very first one never let me pay. Like ever. Mind you, we were both students, he worked to pay for his studies (dentistry, which is super expensive bc of the materials) he never let me pay for anything. We broke up for different reasons but if him, a student, could treat me like I deserve I don't see why I should have to put up w anything less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:28 AM
6

The fetish thing is real. I'm tired of how many times I've heard the 'oh I love latinas' like?? ¿¿ Not everyone is Sofía Vergara
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:26 AM
12

I'm on a Facebook group for my neighbourhood and I saw some lady posting something similar... Like imagine having to get him a job? Nah sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:39 AM
6

What in the ever loving name of the cookie lord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:56 AM
2

Pretty sure that OP is a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:54 AM
6

Hahaha I had a shitty day, thanks for the laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:32 PM
5

I'm speechless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:57 PM
2

Woah What in the ever loving name of the cookie lord! This would make me super paranoid too, I don't blame you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:09 AM
3

I remember some research that I read a couple of years ago about how indeed toys are needed for children development. If those toys are teddy bears or cars made out of cardboard is not important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:55 PM
9

It's pretty sad. Even when I understand these people come from deep abandonment issues i cant comprehend on which universe is ok to put a man above your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:50 PM
2

I see myself in this comment and I don't like it 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:03 AM
3

Exactly what I was thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:01 AM
4

This is why so important to eventually see him at his place (never on the first date though, stay safe!). I still shudder at the thought of this guy's place I dated briefly: mattress in the living room, super dirty kitchen, ultra dirty bathroom etc etc. Nah bro, tell your mom to raise you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:50 AM
8

Yeah i was like is it made of gold? Does it cure cancer or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:29 AM
17

Also, never date someone who clearly didn't finish high school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:19 AM
3

The only gf this guy deserves is his hand. Throw the whole man away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:14 AM
2

This is amazing, thanks for sharing <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:41 AM
9

Thank you for sharing your story. I think almost all of us have made mistakes when meeting someone or even staying too long w someone. I'm glad you are now in a better place. Virtual hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:08 AM
13

You. I aspire to be like you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:05 AM
2

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:58 PM
11

Omg. I'm so sorry you went through this. How are you doing nowadays?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:51 PM
9

My opinion about him is so low now it found oil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:16 PM
2

And a pic in a kitchen 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:06 AM
2

Yup. I'm a health professional myself and one of my golden rules is to never date doctors. I don't like to generalize but working more than 10 years w them side to side I can tell you that most lack emotional maturity and while it's not a Grey's anatomy type of situation where everyone fucks everyone... It's almost like that. I already lost the count of the number of attendings who cheat with residents or even interns while their wife does all the child work. Nah. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:02 AM
3

Being a health professional myself I can tell you that most men in the field are like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:58 AM
20

He complains about having to use the correct pronouns w queer/trans people. She's telling him to please stop saying that bc she 'knows' he doesn't mean to be a transphobic person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:50 AM
59

You'd think that by turning 50 you'd know how to use a condom...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:40 AM
26

Nah they don't value a match bc they believe anything that inconvenience them from getting the fastest and easiest pussy is not just an annoyance but something they don't fully understand bc they believe they are owed a match, nudes, sexting etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:39 AM
2

Nah sis hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:18 AM
9

The garbage took itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:24 AM
1

Yeah i wonder if they think we are blind or what? Or simply just idiots? Like, dude, I can tell on your pic that you are at the very least 20 y older than what you claim to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:43 PM
2

This reminds me of a website I used to use couple of years ago, mainly to make friends and pass time because #boredom. I had set my settings so no one over 40 could contact me because I don't think I have much in common w someone 10 years older than me.. Anyways I digress but many men would contact me and say they were in their mid thirties but their pictures said 40's or even 50's. I've already forgotten how many times they used the 'age is just a number' phrase. And schizophrenia is just an il…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:25 PM
1

He meant born in 1941
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:09 AM
8

Yeah t hi s post is super sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:23 AM
6

Loool I just looked at the dog and I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:22 AM
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