| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 21 | You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away.Agree completely! You’re certainly right about the house and the business in Philly. I warmed up to Jim for his devotion to Pam and his genuine interest in her, which we saw in the teapot Christmas episode, and when he encouraged her to go to art school. But both the house thing and the business in Philly would be deal-breakers for me in real life—ESPECIALLY since he went to Philly when she had two babies to take care of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 27 | You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away.Well, he was certainly trash when he was dating Karen. He was never serious about her, and broke her heart. Sure, she was a pickme, but…anyway, that was his low point imho. But he was solid-gold with Pam, I thought. I’d be interested to hear why you thought he was garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 52 | You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away.Think of Jim on The Office. He said he knew he wanted to marry Pam the first day he met her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 09:39 PM |
| 88 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombProblem is, the #1 goal of virtually all men ever is to control women. And overturning the right to abortion is a solid-gold way for them to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:37 AM |
| 41 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?Dick is abundant, and low in value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:44 AM |
| 37 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Or “DO NOT RESUSCITATE.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:53 AM |
| 154 | Being in a good relationship has made me realize how women are being gaslit on a mass scale to ask for lessI’m trying my best to quit using the word “just,” like, “I just wanted…” and “I just thought…” because that one word sums up for me how women are taught to minimize their presence in every way. We’re taught from birth to be small and quiet and not ask for anything for ourselves. Instead we’re taught that everyone else’s needs are more important than ours. Yeah, well, I’m over that. Thanks, FDS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Don’t.do.this ladiesReally wish I could upvote this more than once. 💖💖💖👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierMen get WAY more out of marriage than women, which is why married men are happier than single men. When both spouses work full time, women do the vast majority of the housework and virtually all childcare, as has been thoroughly documented. Married men get live-in, unpaid maids/sex slaves, while married women come home after work to another job. Single women and married men have free time to pursue hobbies and see their friends; married women don’t. This imbalance drives the romanticization of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 16 | Scrote.Same. I’m always shocked to hear somebody say, But Ignition is a bop!!! Like how can you stand to listen to that knowing what POS made it? 😡😡😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:33 PM |
| 7 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsenseThis post is giving me LIFE 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 25 | It’s scary how many of them think like thisPREACH SIS 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:11 AM |
| 81 | Look out for #1, ladiesWe’ve all been there, sis. That’s why this sub exists: so we can learn better and do better. 💖💖💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 05:41 AM |
| 15 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.Both accurate. Any woman dating a cop should know both those facts going in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:07 AM |
| 15 | Look out for #1, ladies😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:10 AM |
| 19 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.Heavily armed trash. 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:33 PM |
| 8 | Relationships are an option, NOT a necessityWildly underrated comment. 💕💖💕💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Hangman!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 10:34 PM |
| 83 | Hangman!Put him in your phone as JG. 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:35 PM |
| 37 | Hangman!Or Bo. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 29 | Take notes male lurkers 💅🏻What a heartwarming post, even for someone like me, whose aorta is hooked up to a lump of coal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:36 AM |
| 3 | When you’ve really had enough 😂😂😂It’s really not that deep. It’s just a funny meme expressing an exaggerated version of the frustration everyone feels occasionally with their SO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Fastest way to collect downvotes? Say something against porn.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 01:00 AM |
| 30 | Fastest way to collect downvotes? Say something against porn.Oh, good grief. Look, I’m a Beyoncé stan, but why on earth she ever got back with that Joe Camel-faced cheater she calls a husband, I’ll never know. #DumpHim2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 40 | Fastest way to collect downvotes? Say something against porn.Mistake?!?! How could cheating ever be a “mistake?!?!” You weren’t sorry until you got caught, just like every other cheating LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 06:00 PM |
| 52 | They never change, do they?Because if he’s “chubby” at 30, wtf will he look like down the road? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 07:35 AM |
| 13 | They never change, do they?S.A.M.E. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 07:24 AM |
| 10 | Covid-19 safety tipNo lie detected! Happy cake day, lightningboltx! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:02 AM |
| 11 | Covid-19 safety tip😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 11:05 PM |
| 17 | Status and money don’t make him a HVMMe, too. I feel especially bad for her poor orphaned son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Unless he’s wearing diapers, you can’t change him.PREACH!!! 👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:06 PM |
| 14 | Unless he’s wearing diapers, you can’t change him.👏👏👏 “Nexted” 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:57 PM |
| 4 | And those women were on this subredditSAME 💖💕💖💕 I love how this sub helps so many women who are struggling. We all get it because we’ve all been there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Never let a person get comfortable with disrespecting you!I feel you, Marzipan (a product I adore btw). Sometimes I feel like it’s harder to find a reliable, compatible friend than a romantic partner. Well, maybe it just seems that way because I’ve quit looking for the latter, but still. So many women think friends are free therapists whose advice they can ignore. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Never let a person get comfortable with disrespecting you!Wow, same here, Bella. FDS is really life-changing...in the best possible way. It makes me cringe to look back at what a fucking pickmeisha I was, but it also feels wonderful to leave all that behind. 😃💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:29 AM |
| 16 | Never let a person get comfortable with disrespecting you!I’d like to add that this applies to everyone in your life, not just romantic partners. I just fired my “best” friend of eight years after she cancelled plans at the last minute twice in one week to spend time with her romantic partner. People treat you how you let them treat you. Now she’ll have to find somebody else to treat like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:58 AM |
| 31 | Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line datingYup. No one ever accused LVM of originality. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:39 AM |
| 63 | Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line datingYeah, that part really creeped me out, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 05:06 AM |
| 45 | Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line dating😂😂😂SAME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Save time, energy and emotions. From my experience it usually gets WAY WORSE, not even a little better.Sorry...I AIN’T SORRY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 01:44 AM |
| 14 | One down; millions to goTHIS⬆️⬆️⬆️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 68 | One down; millions to goRikers has Yelp reviews!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:09 AM |
| 147 | One down; millions to goWelp, maybe it will finally dawn on him that actions have consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:46 AM |
| 16 | Woman writes a song using her boyfriend's cheating textsUGH 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:55 AM |
| 7 | The real reason why LVM want to go Dutch and why they prefer drink dates over meal dates.It’s important for your first date with someone to be a meal, and it’s also important to feel safe. A meal date allows you to size up the guy in many ways. What kind of restaurant does he take you to? How does he dress? How are his table manners? How does he treat the wait staff? Does he talk only about himself, or does he make a genuine effort to get to know you? Does he try to get you to split the check or even pay the whole thing? Just because you’re having a meal together doesn’t mean you sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:32 AM |
| 4 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?THIS COMMENT IS EVERYTHING 💖💕💖💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 10:13 PM |
| 34 | Wear whatever tf you want toNot sure that applauding revealing clothing was the point of this tweet. I took it as pushback against the victim-blaming that is standard operating procedure in rape cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | LVM are whinersUgh, no thanks. I believe you. And I don’t need that kind of negativity in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | LVM are whinersWho is a man and a trans right activist? Men aren’t allowed to post on this sub. Report him to the mods! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:15 PM |
| 15 | No means noWell, it’s on her Wikipedia page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:37 PM |
| 28 | LVM are whinersOmg that is so real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 32 | LVM are whinersFor LVM, those two things are the same. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 07:24 PM |
| 54 | LVM are whinersYup. Prisons are full of men, not women, for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 30 | LVM are whinersPREACH!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:57 PM |
| 54 | No means noI LOVE HER SO MUCH!!!! 💖💖💖👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 123 | LVM are whiners😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:46 PM |
| 25 | He’s Counting On Your StupiditySis, we are all here for you. We’re here for you because we’ve all been there, and we know how much it sucks. Your past does not define you. When you know better, you can do better. 💖💖💖💖💖💪💪💪💪💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 02:25 AM |
| -154 | We need men for what, exactly? All the help they offer us?I don’t think so. When he say, “I ain’t shit,” I believe him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:08 AM |
| 34 | This sub makes me want to die a virgin“Most women are good. Almost no men are even decent.” Madame, you have hit the nail directly upon the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:20 PM |
| 22 | No lies detected. Block. Delete. Move on.“You need to be sad in their absence for them to feel important.” SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE BITCHES IN THE BACK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:08 PM |
| 47 | We don’t date based on potential. Who is he TODAY, sis?We all did, sis. We all did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 20 | Looking for a New Year's Resolution? Here ya go!Only if you used them on someone who’s wasting your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 04:53 AM |
| 5 | Hey, at least you get a side gig out of it 😂Offset did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 06:05 AM |
| 15 | Time to cut down on my houseplants!And that they do so CONSCIOUSLY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 01:51 AM |
| 25 | Man Blames Women Rejecting Him for Why He Violently Threw a Little Boy from Mall BalconyBut WE are the emotional ones. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 09:41 PM |
| 20 | Made a mistake agreeing to meet fuckboy again. I feel terrible.We’ve all been there, sis, except most of us jumped back in the sack with fuckboy. But look at you, with the backbone and self-awareness to avoid that bad decision! Don’t beat yourself up—pat yourself on the back for not giving fuckboy the only thing he wanted. 👏👏👏💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | PicturesHigh-value men and low-value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 07:58 PM |
| 3 | How do we feel about practice dates?OP wanted to know if it was “immoral” to use this guy for practice, and of course it isn’t. But she also said 1. She knew she wasn’t interested, and 2. He was insistent about going out with her. That combination kinda made my skin crawl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 3 | How do we feel about practice dates?Nothing to lose...except the time you’re wasting with a low-value man you already know you’re not interested in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:58 PM |
| 83 | FDS GUIDE. Non-mainstream opinions and strategies held by this sub.Here’s the thing: Dick is plentiful and low in value. High-value women are rare and worth making an effort to date. Men can express their effort in several ways, but money is the best because it’s more important to them than anything else. It’s the clearest thermometer for their feelings that we have. What they say we should largely ignore. If they’re telling you how great you are while you’re paying for half the dates, the money aspect is much, much realer than all that blah, blah, blah. And th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:20 PM |
| 17 | Rant: Stop making excuses for dusty ass losersWhen I hate men the most is when they make it clear that they’ve lied just to get you in bed. I am so, so sorry you’ve ended up in a such a shitty situation. The good news is, calling him out on his bs and dumping him for it will make you feel a million times stronger; more powerful, and proud of yourself. 💖💖💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:08 PM |
| 10 | Rant: Stop making excuses for dusty ass losersYeah. We’ve all been there. It’s very sad to realize that your hopes for a relationship are based solely on you, not on mutually discussed and agreed-upon goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 02:50 PM |
| 28 | Rant: Stop making excuses for dusty ass losersI’m not seeing any reason in what you wrote to keep deluding yourself that you’re in a relationship with this guy. It sounds more like a situationship to me. From your description, dude sees you as a booty call or FWB. If you were OK with that based solely on the D, fine, but you’re looking for a relationship, which this clearly is not. So continuing to fuck this guy occasionally is going to break your heart. It looks to me like a good time to buy a Magic Wand and dump dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 02:38 PM |
| 36 | Rant: Stop making excuses for dusty ass losersIt might be helpful to remind yourself that men will have sex with...well, anybody. That’s 100% not an indicator of how they feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Feeling confused about this high value man (36M) that I’ve been on 5 dates with...All posts that begin, “Feeling confused about this man...”mean the same thing: he’s that not into you. If he really cared about you, you would not be confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 04:22 AM |
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