LVM are whiners

saltyandpepa · 2020-02-26T15:51:10+00:00

Seriously! Men have zero understanding of our safety concerns. Plus in their imagination we can just walk up to the hottest guy at the bar and get him to take us home for mind-blowing sex. In reality maybe we could get an average guy for some disappointing sex and then be ghosted after. No thanks!

Radiant_Success · 2020-02-26T15:41:51+00:00

Yes, it would definitely be easier if the only thing that we were seeking was unfulfilling recreational sex with random people.

SaddleUpBucephalus · 2020-02-26T15:41:48+00:00

I'm not sure why men are complaining about this when they can instantly find a guy willing to fuck them as well.

siberiansummer · 2020-02-26T17:21:17+00:00

I also love how they all talk about making you orgasm like 10 times, promise to make you pass out from their oral skills and give you an amazing massage afterwards when in reality they will cum in 5 min if they can even get it hard enough, expecting you to suck them for an hour to wake up his hand polished tool and disappear the moment they nut lol

_anon_throwaway_ · 2020-02-26T17:53:10+00:00

Men also forget that "dating" doesn't end at getting dates. That's just the first part you idiots!

The hard part is weeding through all the bullshit and trash humans, the liars and the cheats, the diseases, the stereotypes and overall hate men have for women, the emotional work that men throw on us and just the overall hurdles that dating throws in your way.

and then after all of that THERE'S THE VIOLENCE.

statistics are not on our side when women are being attacked and manipulated by the person that is suppose to be adding to their lives. The person we are suppose to trust.

letsberealforamoment · 2020-02-26T17:51:49+00:00

Well yeah, a starving person can also eat out of dumpster.

FodderFigureIllushun · 2020-02-26T17:24:38+00:00

Whenever some guy tries to convince you to have sex with him because "What's the big deal? It's just sex--you're putting too much importance on it"...remember: They would be so willing to trade places with us just to have sex. It really IS that important to them. They're hoping you don't realize that.

pinkliquor · 2020-02-26T18:53:57+00:00

I always get told this whenever I’m complaining how awful dating is. “At least you have a lot of options you should have no problems” right, and all of the options are terrible so what is your point?

bearfooting · 2020-02-26T16:41:12+00:00

I know, right! What a privilege it is to have penises offered to you constantly. Women have it so easy.

Why do theses guys think having offers of losers cocks is something to be desired? I would much rather be offered equal pay and be left alone by men who want sex.

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Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-02-26T17:03:00+00:00

Umm, yeah I could find someone like that immediately. BUT I DON'T WANT THAT. I want someone who:

- is honest - is kind - is generous - is loyal - respects me, his mom, my mom, and all women - has a 401k and life plans - has a job and ambition - learns something every day - makes every day an adventure - is funny - is cute - has my belief system - shares my values - cleans up after himself - takes care of himself - is able to be an adult (taxes, doctor appointments, laundry) - has some skill in the kitchen - has some skill in bed - puts my needs first - supports me emotionally, physically - takes care of me when I'm sick, lets me take care of him when he's sick - appreciates me

All a LVM can give me is excuses, overthinking, and a broken heart.

BlueberryOrchid95 · 2020-02-26T19:23:34+00:00

Yeah we can have sex but we want relationships. Do they think hooking up is what dating is

favoritesound · 2020-02-26T21:28:26+00:00

Yeah, we have it "easy" if a woman's goal in dating is to have her body used as a fleshlight. If Greg posted on Grindr offering his asshole for men to use for free, I'm sure he'd have great a pretty easy time finding someone to take him up on that offer.

Ergo, WoW DaTiNg SuRe Is EaSy FoR MeN!!!1!!

Watch a fucking animal documentary for once, in your life, Greg. There's a reason females in nearly every species gets to choose the mate, and males have to compete.

Because in many cases, the responsibility of males is to orgasm.

The responsibility of females is to carry that baby to term/protect the eggs, birth the offspring, then have to shoulder the burden of feeding the babies, raising them, protecting them, and teaching them how to fend for themselves, all the while putting her life in danger as she goes to fetch more food or fend off predators (and other males of the same species) trying to kill her offspring.

LeftistEpicure · 2020-02-26T18:02:02+00:00

Men underestimate the harm of rape and physical violence because they're the ones causing it to happen more than have it happened to them. Thus limiting their already dysfunctional empathy even more.

naamshiko · 2020-02-26T18:15:58+00:00

It's because despite the fact that men are so easy to sleep with, they're also the first ones to whine when a woman has had more than 0,1 sexual partners.

Clowns.

LeftistEpicure · 2020-02-26T19:58:59+00:00

Men having a bad dating experience: “she didn’t look like her instagram pictures” “she didn’t want to hook up on our first meeting” “she told me she has a thing for tall men” Women having a bad dating experience: “he put something in my drink” “he tried to do something i didn’t consent to” “he flew into a rage when i told him no” “he called me 83 times in 2 hours because i didn’t answer right away”

Blondejobs · 2020-02-26T21:10:30+00:00

I remember I was on a date and it was going well, we actually connected and had great effortless conversation. And i was feeling good about it. And then he said

“I bottom out in a Pringle’s can”

I’ve never felt so disappointed and disgusted. He ruined it and showed exactly what he’s thinking of. They really do tell on themselves. they feel confident after you’ve engaged in good conversation.. until you recognize what they actually want.. they count on us to cling onto who we thought they were.

gskneiskenthrowaway · 2020-02-26T20:53:02+00:00

What’s funny is that a lot of these guys KNOW that there are a lot of women out there who are DTF. It’s just that most of them don’t look like insta models. They most often look a little lower than average (not all of them, I’ve just noticed a trend). There’s a lot of freaky women out there. But they like to pretend those girls don’t exist, and whine to/about the women that don’t want them.

gatita111 · 2020-02-26T20:11:22+00:00

DOESN’T MATTER HAD SEX. -some idiot, probably

Blondejobs · 2020-02-26T21:07:19+00:00

Yes it’s so amazing, it’s the driving force of our desire to have men in our life!! we all know that sleeping with a man comes with so many things in return! It provides us with love and emotional intimacy, don’t forget it keeps us with a roof over our heads and a devoted man that wants to have children with us! Hell, Dick even pays the bills! It doesn’t come with pesky std’s and sti’s but even if it does! it’s just cancer, and he will definitely not leave you and will pay for your treatment!

I feel like men who think this way. “Women have it easier!!” Are just outing themselves.. they have no thoughts of any risks.. hell they just lack any basic emotional intelligence. they live their whole lives taxing women’s health/emotions etc until they find the “one” and then they think they are entitled to everything down to that woman’s soul. dating these days comes with so many fucking risks,and you can’t even acknowledge them publicly because you’ll be attacked. And it won’t even matter because they’ll never understand any of it.

CloacaDiddler · 2020-02-26T21:46:47+00:00

Yeah, dating as a woman is like wading through spikes trying to climb to the shiny thing at the top, but also having to avoid being stabbed and poked by little needles of doom.

Hey I guess, wherever you put your hand you’ll land on a dick, but that’s attached to someone who has a high statistical likely hood of either hurting you or giving you the worst, most disappointing experience of your life. It’s sooo easy for me to find a guy that will tittyfuck me and ask if I came. Then slap me if I say no. Yep. Dating as a woman is totally the best.

ivy176 · 2020-02-26T23:24:22+00:00

Finding a guy who's willing to instantly fuck me sounds horrific/bad/scary/unappealing though. That's not what a huge amount of women are interested in. That's like unhinged behaviour to me because I'm so reserved and ultra selective about who I sleep with. A man who's willing to do that with anyone is scary and alien to me.

Radtron3000 · 2020-02-26T23:59:12+00:00

Because that's what we're looking for! That's the height of experience! Getting laid!

Kaykay0708 · 2020-02-27T01:25:00+00:00

Also, dating and fucking are two different and separate things. 🙄

penelopekitty · 2020-02-26T16:57:42+00:00

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LeftistEpicure · 2020-02-26T23:04:53+00:00

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Title	LVM are whiners
Author	LeftistEpicure
Upvotes	1979
Comments	101
Date	February 26, 2020 3:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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