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This is very interesting. I have conducted the same kind of research regarding Islam and Quran and sort of came to the same conclusions. The majority of the verses from the Quran that men use to justify the “natural submission to men by women” is plain bullsh*t and was entirely misinterpreted by men. They go as far as depicting Heaven as a place where men will have access to dozens of VIRGIN (of course) women and have orgies literally all the time... while obviously none of this is true. It disg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:53 AM
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I don’t think about N-count too much as I think it’s stupid (because you have to take into account age, how many relationships they’ve been into etc) but I don’t find men desirable if they had ton of casual sex, especially ONS. No judgement but I like to be on the same wavelength when it comes to how I view sex and I don’t think I would get along with them if we don’t see sex the same way, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:09 AM
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It’s a cope lol. Makes them feel good to believe we are all the female equivalent of incels and we sit at home all day, alone and bitter about being single while most of us get attention from several men in one day and the purpose of this sub is literally to learn how to reject them. Lmao sucks to be them I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:04 AM
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I shouldn’t be laughing about violence but the part where she slapped him LMAOOO💀💀💀 Homegirl wasn’t having it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:41 AM
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Honestly I listen to literally all genres of music (going from French opera to American hip hop to Japanese indies metal) but hip hop is one of my favorites so I listen to it A LOT. But the second I’ve started understanding English I’ve also realized most of the lyrics are absolutely disgusting. So yeah, it’s hard to delete half of my hip hop songs from my playlist now especially since some are still favorites so what I do is I literally unplug my brain while listening to those so that I don’t p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:58 PM
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What do you mean by “being stupid” though. Be stupid and have ton of consensual sex with girls if you like. Don’t go around and have whole ass children and expect to face no consequence 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 08:34 AM
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Im not super comfortable writing a whole post about this as I don’t feel knowledgeable enough on the matter but I’d be happy to exchange in private!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:31 PM
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I know this isn’t the good sub for this but have you researched the interpretations of the existence of hoors in Heaven in Islamic studies? I can’t say if there’s any good studies in English because I read it in my first language but you will be extremely surprised. Hoors basically don’t exist. It’s a “mistake” in interpretation. The word is used to describe mortal women when they reach Heaven. And there isn’t such thing as them “becoming virgins again after a man touched them” (honestly 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:36 AM
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Not gonna lie I would say it happens once every... 3-4 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:40 AM
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Have you ever considered the fact that relying solely on another person (aka a man) for income and financial stability is dangerous for a woman because that means she can’t leave if she’s subject to abuse and would end up literally with nothing if the man leaves her or dies? And that’s why women wanted to be able to have their own account and job?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:39 AM
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I would say no, because I mainly base my self-worth on my accomplishments and abilities / skills. Which is also not a good thing because sometimes things happen in your life that make you unable to be productive and your self-worth is gone because you can't function. But then this comes from someone who has actively benefited from pretty privilege so maybe it actually does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:05 AM
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Because y’all are acting like creeps. There’s the “hi babe can I join u in the shower 😏👅💦” to women they barely know kind of guys, and there are men who manage to be honest and upfront while still remaining classy. Best case scenario she also just wants to keep it sexual (not every girl wants a relationship) so you’re both on the same length. Bad case scenario you two don’t want the same thing so you part ways?? Worst case scenario you make her believe you want something else than just sex in or…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:57 AM
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I also ended up thinking like this but in a cynical kind of way. I have been celibate for a long while now exactly for this reason but I can’t help thinking it’s very silly because men whine about being sexless but then create an environment where women are either used as sextoys or shamed for having a sexuality. In results, some women now refuse to have sex “easily” and now more men cry about how sex is so hard to get 😅. Like, literally everyone would win if men were being upfront about their i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:25 AM
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I’ve actually considered this option for a long time (as in, if one day I feel like I want to have a child, I’ll just get a sperm donor and raise my child alone). The only thing that would prevent me from doing it is the thought that I would be their only parent (thanks captain obvious), therefore if something happened to me the child would be alone in this world. I can’t take that risk so I would rather have no children at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:17 AM
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Exactly. The last man I slept with did exactly that. Called me a “living goddess with a magnificent body” the whole time and I’m not settling for anything less now 😂. I have been SPOILED, clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:23 AM
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Yup. That’s why I hated Game of Thrones so much. So many unnecessary rape scenes. Ok women were raped all the time in the middle age so for accuracy we should include rape in the story, but do we need to SHOW explicit rape scenes AND make it SEXUAL?!?!? I haaaate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:23 PM
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People who want to cheat will cheat regardless of their situation. If the woman stays at home and the husband works all day and she wants to cheat, you think she’s gonna wait for his approval?🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:39 AM
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Ah of course having a career makes women automatically cheat but somehow men are the faithful gender no matter what. Top tier logic 👌🏼.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:04 AM
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So by your logic, as a man, if you have a successful career you will regularly cheat on your wife while on a business trip? Projection at its finest I see 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:32 PM
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My last 3 partners always did everything they could in order to give me an orgasm before penetration even happened. And all of them were pretty trashy men in their own way. So if LVM can do it, it should be the norm 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:15 PM
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I think the hardest thing that happened after I started applying FDS strictly (and I didn’t have to force myself, that came at a time where FDS was in tune with the way I think in general) is that I lost several male friends. I became unable to have certain conversations with men because I knew it would disgust me from them forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:31 PM
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Mandatory paternity testing? Lol if I go through 9 months of pregnancy carrying someone’s child and put my life on the line giving birth and the father asks for a paternity test, he can have his results along with my divorce letter. Why have a child with someone you don’t even trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:16 AM
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What you’re supposed to learn from a partner: 1/ things that they know and you don’t because of your different journeys, experiences in life and different hobbies which makes them able to know about things you don’t and introduce you to them. 2/ how to be a better person everyday so that you can both grow as a couple and as individuals. 3/ communication and learning how to decipher one’s love language. If you’re compatible, it shouldn’t be a daily hustle to make the relationship work but for sur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:07 AM
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Nah, y’all just awkward as hell / don’t have any charisma. The man whom I had the best sex ever with would often explicitly look for my consent to do things and it was very hot, simply because he knew how to phrase / express it. And it made me feel infinitely more safe and able to “give in”. If you’re acting like an awkward potato then don’t complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:12 AM
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I don’t think this is an accurate way to describe it. In reality what is happening is that the Senate set the age of consent at 13 years old a few weeks ago. This caused a lot of backlash because many people misunderstood the law. Prior to that, there was NO age of consent, which means that no matter your age, the consent of the victim would be debated during a court hearing for a rape case. Setting the age of consent at 13 means that ANYONE having sexual intercourse with a minor under the age o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:17 AM
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Yup just a snapchat filter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:59 PM
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A year ago I found out the man I was spending a lovely weekend with was about to get married in a month so I texted his fiancée and even sent a video of us together with a filter that had the date + time + location on it so this mf couldn’t lie. A soldier did what she had to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:22 PM
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For women: - After the online interactions and the man asks you out to a first date, what does his asking you out mean to you? What does it signify in your mind? Do you think it means he cares about you or likes you? Do you think it means more than just "interest"? To me, it means that he enjoys our conversation so far and finds me attractive. So I will think the man is at least interested and wants to know me more. I don't know how he would care or like me without having spent any significant a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:31 PM
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You’re giving stupid advices. Carrying a gun / knife etc is only dangerous for the holder if they are not properly TRAINED for it. Not even mentioning most countries actually forbid those? So what are people supposed to do in these cases? Also people having to spent hundreds of dollars to defend themselves instead of addressing the problem regarding toxic male violence just seems like you guys want to shift the responsibility on victims as y’all always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:43 AM
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This a billion times. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I don’t pay any attention to words. Men will promise you every marvelous thing there is on this planet if you let them. But I will wait for the actions to decide. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:52 PM
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“No” “But you know we could—“ “I believe I already responded?” “😞”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:22 AM
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Maybe she medically can’t? Maybe people want to get rid of their period lol why judge based on a situation you don’t know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:21 AM
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I am sorry you had to go through this. IUD insertion pain sucks. That is only my experience but for me the pain lasted 2 months. 60 days. And I’m talking crippling pain, taking painkillers 24/7 and if I forgot to take it before going to sleep the pain would wake me up during the night. I was also bleeding the whole time. I went to the clinic several times but their only option was to take it off, and I didn’t want to have gone through all that pain for nothing so I kept it. Now it’s been two yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:18 AM
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Agreed. I’ve spent wayyyy less time wondering how to explain nicely to men how they wronged me or how they made me feel. Now I just drop them without any explanation. Also I’ve always been the assertive type in the work place and in general but I tended to be gentler to men whom I had a soft spot for. Now I’m treating them the same. You make a proposition I’m not keen on? I’ll straight up tell them “no thank you.”no explanation whatsoever. Saved me so much time and headaches 💕🥰.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:13 AM
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Not obsolete 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:01 AM
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Lol I’m talking about men talking to me in real life, so text isn’t an option. I don’t even respond to DMs online if I don’t know the person. And I didn’t mention being rude upon rejecting men. Doesn’t stop them from getting agressive though🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:17 PM
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I’ve been followed, threatened and groped by random men more times than I got into a car accident. So yes I’m going to be more wary of men than I am of driving? I don’t understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:07 PM
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Obviously does not apply to most of the past year because I was living in a country in a lockdown, but before that, it occurred so frequently in one month that I wouldn’t be able to count it with my ten fingers. And yes. My technic is now to pretend I don’t speak the language of whoever is talking to me. I don’t care if they’re a good person. I don’t care if they had good intentions. I had enough men follow me on the street, yell at me, insult me and my entire family, threaten to hit me, etc to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:05 PM
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You wrote this from the point of view of a man without realizing sex and sexual attention from the opposite sex doesn’t bring the same benefits to women that it does to men. Sexual attention from men often makes women feel unsafe and uncomfortable. We are more at risk of being sexually assaulted, and since we are on average physically weaker and smaller than men, our chances when fighting an assaillant off are pretty slim. Sex has also more risks than benefits for us. Statistically, only 1/3 of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:14 PM
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I don’t think you realize that the type of attention women get most of the time makes them feel uncomfortable and unsafe. Being on my way to go to work and getting men trying to talk to me in an insistent way, making comments about my appearance isn’t privilege. Men following me to my front door isn’t privilege either. Feeling like a piece of meat while all you are doing is minding your damn business isn’t a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:08 PM
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I agree with the part where you say women love sex too. But I also understand where radfems come from when they recommend heavily against NSA sex. The risks to benefit rate is rigged for us. NSA sex means the person has no obligation to you, including not seeing anyone else. If they see other people and get an STD (knowing men are less likely to get STD screenings than us), you might get it too. I’m not even mentioning the risk of being pregnant by someone who isn’t committed to you. Let’s also …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:17 AM
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I LOVE this post, thank you for writing this. I’ve often considered quitting feminist communities on Reddit, including FDS because of the rampant islamophobia. I grew up in a Muslim household and I am obviously aware of the misogyny in the community, and I will always fight against it. Now, I was also born and raised in Europe, lived in Asia for years. And you know what? Misogyny is absolutely everywhere, and doesn’t exclusively belong to one community or belief. I’ve studied Islam and interpret…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:05 AM
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I actually had a FWB last year and we saw each other for months. Drop dead gorgeous man, wouldn’t have any difficulty getting anyone to like him. When I dropped him suddenly for personal reasons, he went on about how he’s always been considering a relationship with me. To which I said I never asked him for commitment because I didn’t consider him a potential boyfriend. When I tell you he pursued my ass for monthhhssss😂. Men want it casual until YOU want it casual LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:31 AM
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Oh my bad I read that wrong. But yep totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 02:16 AM
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Nah FDS is hAte sPeEcH. Women: gets into relationship with abusive man Society: ah we told you to pick your men better, now you shall suffer. Women: ok let’s vet our men carefully. Men: hOw dArE yOu hAvE sTaNdArDs??!??!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 02:10 AM
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So what you are saying is that you are sympathetic towards women who get abused in a relationship only if she does charity work by settling for an ugly guy? Okkkk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 02:08 AM
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Aww say this to my ex who got upset when I got accepted in one of the best ranked universities in the country for my Masters. Tell that to my father who was insecure about my mom earning at least 5 times his salary. Say this to the women in some East Asian countries who literally have to hide the name of the university they graduated from if they want to be seen as desirable on the dating market. A lot of guys will still go for you if you are more successful than them, sure. But a ton of them wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:15 AM
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That’s what I keep telling everyone. I love HTGAWM and Annalise makes it pretty clear she was victim of sexual assault but that doesn’t mean they had to show the scene to tell us how broken she was. So there’s literally no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:01 PM
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Oh Jesus lord. Not you pulling the “aw you’re not a native speaker so I didn’t understand” card on me. I read what I wrote in my first comment again and it’s perfectly clear. You just have serious difficulties with your reading abilities. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 06:46 AM
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Exactly lol before my mom passed I had a boyfriend and she asked me what kind of man he was. I said he was kind of similar to my father, to which she responded “then why tf are you with him?” LOL GOT IT MOM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:28 AM
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The part where you guys are projecting is that I never once mentioned it was difficult 😂😂😂 I am just giving my actual, factual experience regarding the statement that “since women get so many offers for sex they probably can’t turn all of them down”, and saying that we definitely can, and it’s not even hard because as I said, dick is low value and abundant. Don’t go projecting your insecurities on me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 06:22 AM
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Thank you I’m glad you also pointed it out 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 06:20 AM
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Lol I’m just trying to point out, unlike your people (aka men), we women can think about something else than sex lol so it’s dumb to assume that just because we have occasions to have sex we take every single one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 02:07 AM
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Not everyone lives in a country in a lockdown. Where I live, nothing really ever closed and we are still living normally and even clubs are open lol so it doesn’t really change anything, i could’ve gotten laid around 200 times this year but I didn’t, because I’m not a man who will jump on every occasion for sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 02:05 AM
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You are writing this from the perspective of a man who seemingly has difficulties getting laid which means you can’t understand that: 1/ dick’s value is low because it is abundant lol the amount of offer makes the demand decrease 2/ most women don’t want to just fuck with literally one like men do 3/ you are forgetting the risks sexual intercourse entails for us which are pregnancies, stds, risk of getting assaulted (physically and sexually), and the way society looks down upon sexually active w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:15 AM
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During my regular clubber times I used to stay at the club’s door for several hours to 1/ rest from the crowd and sound 2/ talk to handsome muscular security guys 3/ STOP THESE PERVS FROM TAKING ADVANTAGE OF DRUNK GIRLS. These men are literally scumbags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:11 AM
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Exactly👏🏼 I’m also mixed and my mother’s family is black, but you wouldn’t guess by looking at me. So I just wait til they do one of those disgusting colourist comments and then I tell them I don’t mess with men who are disgusted by the same kind of women who brought them into this world. Bye self loathing trash🚮 Yeah there’s a lot of fetichists among white men as well, it’s just awful everywhere TBH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:53 AM
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I don’t necessarily judge a man by who he’s dated but I will ask about his preferences and the reasons, especially when it comes to race. So if he’s an Asian man (I live in Asia), I will be aware of a man who only goes for white girls for example, he’s probably a fetichist. If he’s black and mentions he doesn’t date black women because he’s not attracted to them I’ll ghost him. If he’s white and only goes for a certain type of women I’ll also pass. Etc etc. It’s mostly because I hate the objecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:52 PM
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Baby it’s okay to dislike anime and talk about the underlying issues that are present in some anime but generalizing an entire industry based on this is ridiculous. It’s the same thing as saying “a lot of movies are misogynistic so the whole movie industry is shit” 🤷🏻‍♀️. Do you not watch movies? There are a lot of indies anime directors and female creators as well. It’s okay to not know about a subject and abstain from giving an uninformed opinion sometimes 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:35 AM
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Yeah you’re the exact kind of person I was mentioning in my comment :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 11:01 AM
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Yeah I had a fight about the matter a few months ago on this sub, it was ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:29 PM
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Oh be careful you may get some nasty comments from the part of FDS who is adamant that ALL anime are bad and portray women badly even though they probably never watched a single anime in their life 😅.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:20 AM
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Never saw him again haha but I guess he got beaten up by the security boys😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:42 PM
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I used to be a huge clubber and got my ass groped many times so at some point I started walking with my hand near my ass and one time that guy groped me but I actually caught his hand. I slapped him and had the security guys (who all loved me lol) take him out from the club. It was peak😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:15 PM
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Exactly. My gyno is the sweetest and the most professional doctor I’ve ever met, but my IUD still hurt me like shit. I don’t understand why men can get an anesthesia for a vasectomy but we have to get our cervix ripped open and endure labour pain and just clench our teeth :))))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:45 PM
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Actually that's a well-known manipulation trick. You give someone a choice which you know they probably won't accept. Then you give them a second choice, which makes them believe they have room to decide and you are willing to compromise, except that the second choice you give them was what they wanted to go with in the first place. Works with pretty much anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:06 PM
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I had a male friend tell something along those lines once and my response was that if men can’t handle rejection then why tf are they trying to pick up women all the time??? If you can’t handle failure don’t do the thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:10 PM
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Interesting question, let’s see! Pretty face but has to have charisma. Not the conventional flawless boring face you see on Instagram. I like someone with a charm. And dark haired (ethnicity doesn’t matter tbh). I love men with full lips and nice hair (long hair is welcome). MUST HAVE NICE TEETH. At least 180cm. Very muscular type. I love men with huge arms, actually it’s the first thing I look at in men. Must have a nice booty, too. A man who only works on his abs and biceps is a turn-off thoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:46 PM
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It’s pure projection lol the incels and PUA community is made of males I wouldn’t touch with a 6 inches wooden stick in the dark with gloves on so they think it’s the same for us lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:35 PM
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I can’t stop thinking that even if they pay for dinner for both of us it’s still a win situation for them. Dinner for two still won’t cost more than what it takes to get a prostitute for an hour, and in exchange they get to spend time in the company of an attractive woman and eventually have sex multiple times. They really see women as low cost prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:25 PM
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That’s just my opinion but if it’s all awkward and weird during sex, it might be too soon into the relationship for you guys to be having sex. I get that being butt naked in front of a man you’re attracted to can be embarrassing, but if you’ve already developed a nice bond, if you like each other enough and if his goal is to please you, it really shouldn’t be that awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:22 PM
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Was on a trip in a foreign country. Lost a bet with my friend. Approached him. He developed a crush on me and took a plane to my country to see me three weeks later (he booked a hotel and all) to spend the weekend with me. I found out he was engaged and about to get married a month later. I contacted the girl. She broke up with him on the phone while I packed my shit and went home. Never again lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:11 PM
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I think that depending on the situation, I would give them a 15-minutes window. Past a certain age and when you're working I get that shit happens. Now they need to have a valid excuse (bad traffic, unexpected event etc.) cause "I forgot about the time and I just got out of the house!" would get his ass blocked. They'd also have to communicate that they are running late and apologize. If they think it's a given that I should be waiting for them then they are clearly trying to waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:52 PM
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OMG yes. My ex was making the worst come out of me. I was irritable and could get really mean at times, because of all the resentment I had built during the relationship. There was also an extreme gap in our taste (in music for example, and music is sooo important in my life) and in our humor. Actually the day I realized I had to break up with him is the day I noticed I wasn't being myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:32 PM
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Yup, that's the woman from Porco Rosso, the Ghibli movie :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:21 PM
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If I may use my personal example to respond, I left my ex one year ago and the first month I was still heartbroken over it although I was the one who broke up. I would cry thinking about him and felt all kinds of way. I couldn't even take off the necklace he had offered me for Christmas. And one day, suddenly, I was good (around two months later). I was traveling by myself and living my best life, thanking myself for leaving this toxic relationship. He came back multiple times, called me crying,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:18 PM
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The comments are funny but on the other hand I can’t help thinking about how sad it is that sex with cis men being disappointing is the norm. I’ve only had amazing sex in the past 2 years so this is my standard now, and I’d rather have zero sex than have disappointing sex. And I am so happy that this subs not only promotes raising our standards for dating but also sexually. There’s no reason we should settle for someone who can’t satisfy us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:47 PM
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You don’t need to have sex with everyone you date. That’s actually what the FDS sub promotes. You vet properly the men you let around you. Because not everyone deserves to get access to your body. Personally aside from the FDS ideologies, I got really into this whole “energies” vibe and I noticed that the last thing I wanted to do was to exchange my intimate energy with someone who isn’t worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:41 AM
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You handled this like a queen. I’ve dated 20 years old college students who knew how to set up a proper, nice formal date: pick me up in the morning, take me to nice places and then to the restaurant for dinner and drop me home. I’ll be damned if I accept less from grown ass 36 year old scrotes 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:52 PM
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Omg this is my ex in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:49 PM
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First things first if he has to ASK if I came he’s doing it wrong 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:59 AM
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Exactly. Your past and the things that happened to you don’t define you. But the way you deal with it does. And you’re dealing with it like a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:51 PM
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Soft enough to avoid real lasting damage??? Bro I would be chewing on that dick like it’s a motherfucking chicken wing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:07 PM
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I agree with you so much. I also get psychotic when I am functioning on low hours of sleep (and I mean that my brain really goes on the worrying side of my thoughts process) and I can’t imagine being in this state for several days, let alone several years. I would literally kill myself if I did that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:00 PM
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me about to ride guy I had been fantasizing on for months Me: do you have condoms Him: I don’t... Me: ok i have one here Him: actually... I don’t like condoms Me: oh? Ok then good night! And I went tf to sleep lol even pre-FDS me didn’t have time for that bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:58 PM
2

You did WHAT 😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:54 PM
2

They will even go as far as committing to you (or at least pretend to) if they feel like that’s what it takes to get your poonanny. When I cut off my ex-FWB and he saw I wasn’t going to back off on my decision, he started going on about how he considered a relationship with me because I was great bla bla (even though it was off the table from the start cause I was moving abroad lol). Promises and words are worth NOTHNG, only judge by their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:04 PM
24

I’m heavily against shaming someone for their features so I’d never dare to make a comment but I once went to meet that pretty boy I used to see regularly and he happened to have shaved that day 😭. My poonany was soooo dry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:50 PM
3

Hi do you mind if I DM you with a few questions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:25 AM
3

Projection. They literally wouldn’t keep their legs shut if a woman asked them for sex because they’re so desperate they’d jump on anything with a vagina including a goat sick with terminal cancer. So to them the only possible reason we wouldn’t be having sex is because no one wants us. The concept of saying no to dating / sex is completely foreign to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:21 AM
8

Lmao back in the days I used Tinder for a month with a picture of myself cosplaying that girl from the movie The Ring with the hair in front of my face and that was the only photo. I got a shit ton of matches and dates 😂😂😂. Men will really date anything with a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:18 AM
7

Omg did we have the same ex? My ex also loved throwing debates about things he KNEW made me irritated especially when I was more knowledgeable on the matter. If I have a boyfriend, of course I want to have deep conversations and exchanges that lead us both to learn and grow. But debates for the sake of trying to contradict me and see how I react when irritated? Lol miss me with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:34 PM
2

“IN A COMA ETC” SIS 💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:29 PM
35

Lol if I have 10 guys lining up to date me I would rather put myself in my rice cooker and boil alive than date the one prick that decided to act like a mysterious guy just to get my attention 😂😂😂 Women can literally sneeze and find a new dick to ride, you ain’t special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:23 PM
60

Hot men know what real women look like because they actually get laid. Incels have impossible standards because they’re virgins who only see women behind a screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:40 PM
35

Lmaooooo who is he finna choke with those toothpick arms of his tho 🤣🤣🤣🤣 If I fuck a guy with arms this thin you better bet I’m the one putting it in him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:16 PM
6

I don’t think it’s a good idea to let him know you’re free tonight tbh. In the early days he should mostly be the one proposing to see you and asking you on dates. If he’s not consistent it will prove that you’re just on his waiting list whenever he couldn’t find an easy lay that night. Also I’d say refuse same-day invitations, much less proposals initiated by yourself. That would make yourself too available and you would seem too “eager” to see him. Try to have a girls night out instead? Or go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:04 PM
15

Someone asked the color of my nipples. I replied “well blue obviously.” PS: he was actually serious cause I was living in Asia and apparently most women there have brownish nipples so they find pink nipples “exotic” and are obsessed with it 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:58 PM
3

Imo there’s no need to apply the handbook rules as if it were the Bible like a robot. In certain conditions it’s obviously ok to text first. Actually it’s bad to overthink it. If, for example, we had a conversation during a date about a certain book, movie, whatever and I see an article or blog about it I’ll send it to him without any second thought. Just having normal discussions. Now do you want to text him out of clingy-ness just to check if he’s still into you? Definitely not. So my rule is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:53 PM
2

At some point when you’ve had several dates and commitment is on the table I would suggest to talk about it in a technical way? Of course you have to find the right words to not make it sound weird but I think it is important to mention beforehand that you want the two of you to get tested before anything happens for example. And try to evaluate his stance on BDSM, porn, open relationships etc... at least that’s what I plan to do when (if) I date someone again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:21 PM
2

My IUD experience was not entirely painless (I spent months on painkillers because of it) but it’s still a blessing. I’m not even having sex atm or planning to, but the fact that it stopped my periods and reduced my cramps changed my life. It feels amazing not having to worry about periods. When my IUD expires I’m getting a new one immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:59 PM
4

TBH I still see birth control as a blessing because although it should NOT be the sole responsibility of the women to bear, I still wouldn’t trust a man with this in a million years. Hell, I’m the one who gets pregnant at the end of the day. And it’s horrible to think like that but I still feel relieved to think since I have a IUD, if I get raped at least I can’t get pregnant 😔. Sucks to be a woman tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:54 PM
10

Next time please enjoy your free meal after putting your phone on flight mode 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:48 PM
11

TBH I was specifically looking for FWB because I was about to move to a foreign country so I didn’t want to have anything to do with commitment. I agree that it is just not worth the risk 99.9% of the time though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:04 PM
16

My last partner who was a FWB gave me the best sex I’ve ever had in my life and there were several reasons that made it work. 1/ he’s an absolute 10/10, I literally fantasized for months about fucking him at least once so yeah, physical attraction 2/ super good connection as we were good friends and he turned out to do the “friend” part of the FWB deal well 3/ prioritized me in every way (always went down on me for a solid 30 min every time), always asking if I was comfortable, actively looking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:58 PM
44

TBH I’ve worked in women-only places and I had the time of my life. The whole “women can’t be left alone they’ll be jealous and tear each other apart” is such a funny myth lol we were literally spending our time telling one another that we wish we were a man so we could marry each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:00 PM
7

To be honest I’ve managed to get approached less because I make myself seem less approachable and have a resting bitch face all the time BUT I can’t avoid getting hit on couple times a day and at this point I just pretend I don’t speak the language of the country I’m in 😔. I know I should be assertive with men and they should understand that no means no but I am too tired of having to negotiate for basic human respect so I’ll just respond in whatever language I think they won’t understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:15 PM
10

I have extremely long, thick, curly hair that has everyone swoon over it. My narcissist ex response to my hair? “You should cut it short or straighten it” lol 🙄. Be careful of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:43 PM
153

From my experience that actually makes them crazy (if they’re not complete LVM entitled jerks but I do not entertain those to begin with). I enforced boundaries super coldly with men in the past months and not only did they give me immediate, REAL apologies but they also admitted they respected even more me after that and chased even harder although they are the kind of men that have no problem finding women. In conclusion PROTECT YOUR BOUNDARIES it’ll make the trash take itself out and the actu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:38 PM
29

So, in conclusion, you want a sex-doll that will be kind to you and good pedigree enough to look nice when you parade her around, but not actually interesting or smart cause God forbids she's as good or better than you cause that would threaten your masculinity. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:51 AM
13

I am personally more comfortable with a man who is entirely shaved down there and I feel better when completely hairless but it should definitely be reciprocal and I wouldn’t let a man demand it. My ex-bf used to complain about the razor bumps and asked that I go get waxed so that it would be smoother. He wasn’t shaved or trimmed and had long ass pubes 😂. I didn’t do it. I’m considering laser removal lately as I shaving gives me bad irritation and waxing feels like I am getting burned alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:59 AM
16

That should totally be a counter argument though ??? Like, if we can just whistle and get laid it can be more “accidental” for us, whereas for a man they literally have to put in work to get sex so they can’t say they didn’t do it on purpose 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:40 AM
3

They absolutely do not. Statistics are everywhere. Don’t be dishonest like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:22 AM
11

TBH men who DEMAND women to swallow is an absolute deal-breaker for me. Knowingly have a person drink this although it tastes absolutely disgusting and doesn’t actually help them get off is a way to degrade them. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:12 AM
23

My ex boyfriend found out I had been with other men in the past and FLIPPED HIS SHIT (and when I say “other men” I mean 2 lmaoooo) and called me a slut, easy woman, etc. When he calmed down he told me he would “accept me back and forgive me” if I expressed genuine regrets???? Like???? Are you God???? Yeah no thanks. Beside the obvious slut shaming my past is part of who I am and they were experiences that make me learn and grow. None of my sexual partners has been disrespectful, I don’t see a re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:47 AM
150

Backing this x10000000. If he expects you to pay for your food (which is LVM behavior but let’s pretend we’re okay with it for this example) he is EXPECTED to check with you regarding what kind of place you’re going to. You don’t just invite people out to expensive places and then ask them to pay for their meal, that is EXTREMELY RUDE behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:50 PM
13

When he says “don’t worry I’m clean” just say “I tested positive for chlamydia but it was around two weeks ago so don’t worry about it !” and watch him lose composure 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:09 PM
42

I view Onlyfans, premium Snapchat etc. as a form of prostitution so if I hear a man I’m dating has EVER paid for this kind of services I’ll be out of the door faster than he can say “not all men”. Patreon / streamers etc can propose broader content such as gaming / language learning etc so depending on the type of content I wouldn’t mind it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:58 AM
10

Install a what? lmfaoooooooo sis 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 12:29 PM
7

Yup. Except the cases where I genuinely fear for my safety, I always say I’m single but I’m just not interested. Last time I did that the man had the audacity to ask if I was a lesbian. No dude I’m just not interested in your entitled ass 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:38 AM
33

iT's JuSt pOrN, iT dOesN't rEfLeCt oUr SeXUaliTy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:05 PM
46

I see where you're coming from. Tbh it's hard to spot the red flags with narcs but still, let's assume there hasn't been any red flag EVER (which I'm 200% sure there were), this is ground for divorce. I don't see what is there to talk about except whether or not he will want custody on the weekends. He said he didn't want to attend the childbirth. Case closed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:28 PM
19

Not in the 'creepy' way but I've always had a gut feeling that the man I was seeing was cheating and it would awaken exactly at the moment he was doing it. It's never done me wrong and I've busted them every. single. time 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:21 AM
23

Actually the day my toxic ass ex-boyfriend started being all over my ass is the day he was at my house and threatened to pack his shit and go. I sat on the floor as I watched him pack his stuff, and told him the door wasn't locked. He never threatened to leave me again and came back crying when I broke up with him a year later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:46 PM
-6

If I were you I would either try to educate myself about history OR just try not to talk about issues I know absolutely nothing about except one thing a journalist said on BBC News in 2012.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:11 AM
13

Sis I literally replied. You said a fraction of the industry is bad so all of it is bad. I don’t think there’s more to discuss about 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:31 PM
13

Boohoo I got told by supremelyparanoid who knows nothing about anime on a Reddit sub that I am a pickmeisha 😭. Gotta book that therapist appointment ASAP to recover from the burn. Sis’ really said “a small fraction of cinema is pornographic so I’ll just stop watching movies altogether” lmaooooo ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:29 PM
18

Most people are telling you that the issue isn’t anime here, it’s the males consuming it. We all have a problem with the sexualization of women in part of the anime culture. Now, are all animes bad? No. Saying that anime are not deep at all and reducing it to misogynistic crap is actually offensive since anime is considered as something normal and part of the pop culture in the country where it is from. People from various backgrounds and ages watch anime, and it’s not because western people hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:23 PM
22

Your responses clearly show your lack of knowledge on the matter. People are telling you there are anime in the industry that don’t cater to male’s desires, and on the contrary, some of them have strong female leads and feminist morals. If you don’t know about the industry, why don’t you step away from a discussion you clearly have zero knowledge about? We get that most of the anime industry is fucked. You know what else is fucked up by the patriarchy? Pretty much everything 🤷🏻‍♀️. Do you also r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:09 PM
8

I totally agree with your comment. I also see where OP is coming from but overall I think the problem would come mostly from the person’s character, and not from their humor itself. I come from a family where we all have a big sense of humor and my sisters and I are constantly cracking up at each other’s jokes all day long. I wouldn’t want to date someone who can’t laugh with me that much. I’ve dated someone who didn’t share my sense of humor at all (we had different personalities and also were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:00 AM
11

Most guys I have been committed to showed massive insecurities due to my "attractiveness" and kept saying I was likely to cheat, even though I kept expressing that I am extremely against cheating behavior. Those men were all conventionally very attractive but I think they weren't used to date women who attract so much attention and that made them nervous. In the end, one of them was the one to cheat on me (the audacity lol) and the other one was constantly putting me down lol you can literally n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:55 AM
20

Alsooo protein shakes! I only go for fit boys because I like big men and they all had a pretty good diet and exercised A LOT but I think the stuff they drink to get muscle makes their semen taste like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:55 AM
12

"his cum tastes like literal DEATH" sent me 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:53 AM
61

A few months ago I was traveling and met a very pretty guy and long story short he fell heads over heels for me and took a plane to my country three weeks later to visit me for a weekend. During the weekend, I discovered that not only he had a whole fiance, but they were also getting married in a month haha. I found his girl's profile and told her EVERYTHING, including photos of him with the date - hour - location, which got him to get dumped by his fiancee and then I took my stuff from the hote…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:37 PM
14

I'm going to play the devil's advocate here but if I was in his place I absolutely wouldn't know that to do. On one hand, he wasn't there at the one culminant moment of his entire relationship with his wife where she needed him the MOST. That's unforgivable. Childbirth is risky and scary, I think I would have had the same reaction as the wife. On the other hand. I was called two years ago at my workplace to tell me my mom was about to die and let me tell you that if I hadn't been able to be at h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:21 AM
10

Also another thing but if you've already had several dates and want to get a taste of each other cooking (because I genuinely believe that can be fun) or he wants to cook for you, I think that a picnic sounds like a lovely date. At the beach or at the park, on a bench in front of a museum, who cares. Personally I wouldn't mind the fact that it doesn't cost actual money because organizing a truly nice picnic would still require investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:56 AM
17

For me it has been the opposite experience. Average looking men were either insecure or turned out to be downright bitter and creepy. My 10/10s were all fuckboys (can’t have it all I guess🤷🏻‍♀️) but at least they weren’t insecure and didn’t try to put me down. They were always the ones swooning over me and never once making nasty remarks we’ve all experienced from shitty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:25 PM
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Thats why despite it being shallow as fuck I only go for 9/10 men at the minimum. At least if they break my heart I can look back on our pictures with my friends and we can all go “damn this mf was fine tho”. Ain’t no ugly boy gonna make me cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:42 PM
3

a- neither condoms nor the day after pill are infaillible. There is still a risk of pregnancy. b- STD can also be contracted through oral sex or grinding, where most people don’t wear condoms. Condom accidents also happen. Also let’s not forget that a lot of men pressure women into not wearing condoms because it feels better. c- yes and the fact that you don’t understand my statement is beyond scary. It’s not because I find someone attractive that I would want them to fuck me anytime. Consent is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:46 AM
1

If you mean “I can’t be arsed to rise up to the necessary standards to date in my home country so I’ll just try my luck with women who will date me regardless” then go for it but just remember that you will never be liked for who you are but simply seen as an accessory in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:25 AM
3

a- risk of unwanted pregnancy (and most probably the father ghosting you if he finds out and not helping with the consequences) b- risk of STDs who have more risks to develop into cancer for women. (cervix, uterus, ovarian cancer that can leave us unable to procreate) c- risk of getting physically assaulted or raped d- slut shaming directed mostly towards women in our society which makes it harder for them to have casual sex It’s not about libido, it’s about the risk a woman takes every time she…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:20 AM
234

I love that men think that just because more attractive women exist they might have a chance with them. Yeah not in a million years scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:03 PM
3

I have zero problem with masturbation so I wouldn’t complain. But porn would definitely be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:38 AM
11

This so much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:14 AM
3

You seem like you’re not reading what I wrote. I said the three months deadline was arbitrary and could be changed depending on individuals. I also never said sex was some kind of sin, or that physical intimacy wasn’t important. But I also know the risks that come with sexual intercourse (risks of pregnancy, STDs, physical or sexual assault) and I am not willing to take these risks unless I have known a person for enough time to decide we could proceed further. That makes sense, thanks for the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:09 AM
3

I am literally saying that this is personal and all comes down to individual preferences. But at the end of the day, it is certainly not an insane thing to say that I don’t feel comfortable enough to share a bed with someone I’ve known for barely three months. On the other hand, I wouldn’t date someone who can’t spend three months without sex so I guess that our opposite standards will weed out the type of people we don’t desire, which is perfect. But regarding my last question: how will you sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:39 AM
5

Nice, logical arguments based on facts and rationality. 💯👏🏼 Try joining a local debate club in your state.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:30 AM
13

Personally I like this rule. I don’t think people should stay stuck on the “90 days deadline”, it can totally depend on individuals but I definitely don’t think one can know enough about a person in less than a three-months timeline. I would barely consider anyone I’ve known for that amount of time a “close friend”, so why would I want to get intimate with a man so soon? To me, it doesn’t sound like a crazy idea to go step by step and discover each other’s various personalities and lifestyle and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:08 AM
67

Jeez I’ve never gotten so many friends requests and DMs and most of my social media is private and I don’t use OLD. My ex-FWB begged to see me to the point he would pay the fine if he got arrested. Men are like animals in a cage now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:59 PM
99

When men say “women should choose better” they actually mean “choose me”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:37 PM
194

Lmfaooooooo what. This one got me rolling on the floor. Dude’s paying $1800 a month for rent and he wants to make his gf PAY to sleep at his place and probably lay on the bed simulating orgasms while he gives miserable hip thrusts for a grand maximum of 0,53 seconds. I’m logging out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:35 PM
38

I hate that she’s defending him. “But he is very caring usually and we cuddle a lot!”. Yeah when you’re providing him with motherly attentions and being his sex maid. This poor woman is carrying a whole child and her husband can’t be arsed to pick up the groceries WITH A LIST SHE MADE. Fucking bunch of useless life-sucking scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:33 PM
1

I agree with this so much. I also relate with your experience OP cause my main feature is the same as you. Long, thick curly black hair here. The first thing my ex boyfriend told me? “You should try cutting it shoulders length”. Lmao so I spent a shit ton of money to grow my hair to my butt for a toxic boy to suggest I cut it? Nah bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:25 PM
15

I stopped reading when you stated that refusing to fuck someone and hurting someone were equivalent things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:22 PM
5

Am I the only one who is flabbergasted that this isn't taught and written EVERYWHERE ?! Like, this is one of the most important things to learn in sex education and I only learned about this about one year ago. I come from an ethnic group where the hymen is extremely sacralized and it would bring enormous change if we let people know about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:45 PM
27

I swear this is true. Every men I’ve been with who used to accuse me of cheating (even jokingly) for absolutely no reason turned out to be massive cheaters. They’re pointing at you to hide their own culpability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 08:55 PM
48

I swear men knowing literally nothing about female anatomy enrages me every time. They shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near a naked woman until they take courses about reproductive health. The vaginal muscles are literally designed to push a whole baby out of it and they think that Brad’s tiny bee stinger is going to make us looser lmao. Menstrual cycles and arousal can modify the vaginal complexion and the position of the cervix greatly and it should be explained in every school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 08:21 PM
4

Yeah that’s because harassers aren’t going to choose a place full of men who are close enough to hear them harass other women... is what I would say if men even had the decency to do something when they saw women getting attacked. The truth is we all know situations where women were harassed or even raped in front of other people including men and no one batted an eye. I personally was attacked by FOUR men in front of other people and no one did a thing. But sure, keep acting like your mind is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:31 AM
61

Thiiiis though? It's been the same since I came across FDS? Now it's men who are sending me paragraphs to justify their bullshit and me responding with "I see." lmaooo how the tables have turned now. Men really do not deserve our affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:24 AM
3

If a girl walks up to me, whether she looks like a model or a mutant, I am going to respond to them in a kind manor. Why? Because I'm not a stuck up asshole, I am a human being. No. You are going to respond to them because: 1/ You don't get approached by dozens of women in a single day. 2/ You are not as risk of being followed, chased, assaulted, raped or killed by a woman. Enough men represent a risk to us that we would choose to not engage with them if they're strangers. If your little ego mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:14 PM
4

Do you think that the men who assault and follow women on the street walk with a giant sign with red and purple LEDs that says "I assault women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:01 PM
6

If 95% of the men who say "hello" to me on the street end up asking for my number and being pretty persistent about it, chances are I'm not going to be super cheerful about the remaining 5% talking to me. I've had men start off with talking to me about their association or other stuff to get my attention, and then they started following me and asking me private questions. So, excuse me that your ego is hurt because I don't want to give you directions, but I am still going to outright ignore men …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:54 PM
2

1- it’s harder to cut off the man you lost your virginity to, especially if they’re your first real relationship. I don’t even feel like I have to explain why. 2- the more past relationships a person has had, the more they will be able to see through your bullshit. 3- the more sexual partners a person has had, the more they will be able to tell if you suck at sex and aren’t planning to improve yourself. Just say you want an inexperienced woman so that you can get away with being mediocre and go.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:31 PM
36

This this x10000. I’m saving it to send it to friends because sadly it is such a common occurrence. Another thing with the men telling us they were “too drunk” to know what they’re doing: Have you ever slept with a drunk man? Or at least tried? I have and let’s be real ladies, even when they are not black out drunk, it’s nearly impossible for their limp dick to get hard enough to do it. And you’re going to tell me that scrotes are drunk enough that they wouldn’t remember anything but they still …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:46 PM
46

I used to call my ex boyfriend to wake him up every morning because he wouldn’t wake up for class by himself 🤡🤡🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:03 AM
1

Okay so what I am saying is there is a difference between being in a situation where you had sex with someone because you two met and it clicked and blah blah and being CONSTANTLY looking for sexual partners. In both cases I think that as long as you aren’t hurting anyone (by not being involved in adultery, sexual violences etc.), you should be free to do whatever suits you. However; I do have plenty of other criteria when it comes to dating people and sexual addiction is something that would di…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:28 PM
17

Lmfaooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:35 AM
5

Same. What’s up with casual racism on FDS and the pink pill sub lately? I’m super close to delete my Reddit account because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:31 AM
1

I wouldn’t date them. When you are that level of promiscuity I believe it is because you are actively looking for sex partners all the time. That would break the attraction for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:55 AM
1

Mmhh I meant to say that I don’t care about N-count and don’t really understand why one would care about it. I don’t view people who have had casual sex as evil or depraved. It’s a bit different if I learn that the man I’m dating has fucked the whole city. (i.e. I don’t care about body count unless it’s abnormally high to the point I’d suspect the person has a sex addiction). However behavior in past relationships (cheating, abuse, etc.) are extremely important to me and I judge potential partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:50 AM
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Males are so dense they now have the same properties as black holes. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:29 AM
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Sexual history: as long as you and the other person were consenting adults and not involved in shady practices, or adultery, I don’t want to hear about it because I have nothing to say about it nor can I judge. Past relationship behavior: if you cheated or abused a previous partner then this tells a lot about your character in general and you are not a person I want to date. Simple. To me sexual history is not something I would judge someone on (I’m not talking about men who have fucked 30+ girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:21 AM
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savage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:57 PM
11

In conclusion: men's need for sex (which isn't a life-threatening need) > women's lives. lmaoooo and they wonder why we hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:57 PM
3

Lmaooooo drag 'em grandma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:55 PM
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This a billion times. I shot myself in the foot by staying for 1.5 years with my ex-boyfriend even though I was already seeing the huge red flags from the beginning. All of this because 21 years old me thought it would be ridiculous to break up after only 2 weeks of relationship. By the time I realized this wasn't going to work, he already knew me enough to gaslight be and manipulate me into staying until I finally left without explanation. I think another advice that can be helpful is not to te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:50 PM
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If I cooked for you and I hear the slightest complain the only thing you will be eating is the plate shoved directly down your throat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:17 PM
27

Women: don’t give men easy sex. Men: tHat’S HAte sPEecH sHUt iT DoWn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:50 PM
71

The very first man I dated when I was 20 said to me on our first date “when you are with me you don’t need to bring your wallet”. That set the bar for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:53 PM
8

Regardless of his skin, if a man I'm dating only washes his face occasionally I'm getting tf outta here lmaooo nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 11:02 PM
42

Righhhhhtttt. My ex-boyfriend is like "you're too good for me, I was making you unhappy and I see that you are glowing now that we broke up". Also him: *calls me in the middle of the night* I miss you and I love you. Sir please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:19 PM
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I’m sorry for your loss. My father found a girlfriend 6 months after my mom passed away and she’s YOUNGER than ME. I’ve totally lost respect for him as well. Also he has been relying on me for house chores, dinner and taking care of my two little sisters (accessorily his own daughters).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:51 PM
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So happy to help!! 💖 What’s funny is that most of this list is based on my ex-boyfriend’s behavior lolol. You can always work on your fault lines while keeping in mind that you deserve what makes you feel best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 09:56 PM
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I felt that I should’ve elaborated on that specific part because it sounds very classist and snob. So I’ll explain my reasons. I actually wouldn’t apply these standards to people who live in the US / Canada / Australia. In Europe either, but I might want to date someone who speaks at least English beside their first language (I am from Central Europe by the way). I speak three languages fluently and understand five, so I’d like to date someone with the same interest in foreign cultures as well. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 09:54 PM
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I made a list of all my deal-breakers and red-flags and I keep it in my phone. Excuse the formatting but it is organized as a list and I am too lazy to edit every single one of them so I’ll just copy paste it. Deal-breakers❌ - [ ] Smokes cigarettes - [ ] Use of hard drugs even if occasional - [ ] Spits on the floor - [ ] Expresses racists thoughts - [ ] Expresses support toward extreme liberal capitalistic system - [ ] Rude behavior toward waiters / clerks etc. - [ ] Animosity towards feminism -…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:08 PM
1

You say that like a man is something valuable lmaooooo
/r/PussyPassDenied30/03/20 10:00 AM
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What do men bring to a relationship beside blue balls and their entitlement? Jokes aside, I’m smart, educated, and polyglot. I have a good general culture and am pretty funny. I’m a good cook, I am organized and good at planning things. So what I bring to the table is very good company, a loyal and affectionate partner who has her shit together. Then it’s all about personality compatibility and what the other party is looking for. But if you want me you will need to have at least what I have 🤷🏻‍…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:23 PM
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It depends on the woman so I am going to speak entirely for myself. First, if I am walking toward a direction and I look busy or am in what seems like work clothes I don’t want to be approached. If I am wearing headphones either. Most of the time, people on the street are just trying to get from point A to point B and may be in a hurry so you might get rejected because the person is busy. So analysis is important here. At the park, at the beach, at a coffee shop etc. I might be okay with someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:03 PM
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I thought the same. It’s ok though, as long as we know how LVM act and do not fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:02 PM
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I really don’t think you fully grasp the reality of what being a woman involves. I live in Europe but I’ve lived in Asia as well and travelled abroad in plenty of other countries and it didn’t change much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:01 PM
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Incel means involuntarily celibate. How am I involuntarily celibate if I choose not to engage with men LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:56 PM
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And I think that’s exactly why some women are rude to you about rejection. You’re completely oblivious to how the people in front of you feel. Every woman in this thread is trying to explain to you that most of us don’t like to be bothered or interrupted when we are just doing our thing and this can even makes us feel threatened and you respond by saying “I don’t think this is rude” well who cares what you think?? You are not the other side of the story so either listen to our point of view or q…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:16 PM
10

When I go out for a full day I know I’ll get approached by about a dozen guys during the day. Some will holler at me from their car, some will approach me and ask for my number, some will catcall. 99% of the time, their way to approach me isn’t respectful enough that I want to even engage in a conversation. If anything, it feels dehumanizing. I never take off my headphones whenever I’m outside even when I’m not listening to music, just so I can pretend to ignore the guys who try to talk to me. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:08 PM
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Something similar happened to me once but I had nowhere to run so they guys all came out of the car (there were 4 of them) and screamed at me while everyone watched and did nothing. Luckily they didn’t get violent. When I told my male friends some of them said I shouldn’t have given them the middle finger in the first place 🤷🏻‍♀️. It’s always our fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:36 AM
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They will never be our allies and they will never believe what we go through because of male depravity. Stop trying to persuade men, they DON’T care about us. They don’t want to be held accountable and they refuse to see the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:34 AM
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I’m a good ol’ R&B lover and I swear by “Destiny’s child - Cater 2 u” but now I try not to focus on the lyrics too much because gosh 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:13 PM
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I usually tell them they don’t have the right biceps diameter for me to even give them the time of the day. Usually calms them down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:07 PM
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This is hypocritical as fuck because by “fucking sluts” you become a “slut” to us as well LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:02 PM
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I would try to contact her if I were you. If he tried to cheat on her he will try again if he hasn’t already cheated. Scumbags like this never stop being trash and women deserve to know. If you do message her though, make sure to be extra gentle, introduce yourself (or if you wanna be kept anonymous just say how you met her husband etc; e.g. keep context and don’t appear out of nowhere), and say you have information about her husband that you thought she might want to know and if she doesn’t wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:49 PM
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It’s okay. The world has known many pandemics, some way worse than the one we are currently going through. There were two world wars in the last century and a Cold War during which we thought countries were going to annihilate each other with the atomic bomb. Many economical recessions and natural disaster. Humans rebuild. I’m not belittling the suffering people are or will go through, or the impact it will have on many lives, economically or health-wise. But the world is definitely not going to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:09 PM
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I don’t want to sound crazy but I get borderline stalkerish on social media if I’m dating a man. I’ll look him up on everything I can: the classics Facebook, twitter, Instagram. Try to find out if he uses Reddit and other known social media. Then I’ll check out his LinkedIn, look him up on Google etc. I will also go through every single photo I can find. The reason I do that is that it helps to know rather quickly whether his stories match what you’ve seen on the internet. And above all I want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:41 AM
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So he was ready to knowingly put you in a risky situation as a “test” to know if you value your safety? What if you had taken the train and something had happened to you? Was he planning to take responsibility for it? Smh man sounds like a jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:17 PM
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This exactly. No matter how super incredibly handsome you look at 40, there will ALWAYS be another man in his 20’s looking better. I don’t understand why they are so deluded. If 20 years old women are going for you, it’s not for your physics, Charles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:29 PM
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It might be an unpopular opinion here but I wouldn't be able to trust a man who doesn't have ANY female friends at all. To me, that would signify that he cannot see women as his equal and doesn't want to have anything to do with them unless he's fucking them. Having a healthy friendship with a woman proves that he can behave. If homeboy needs to stay away from all temptation to keep it in his pants I'll take a pass. In this particular case I'd recommend trusting your gut feeling with this girl t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:34 AM
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My FWB and I text almost everyday and it always goes this way: I don’t text first unless I have a reallyyyyy good reason to do so. if he takes centuries to answer then conversation is over for me, he’s gonna be left on read. I will have lost interest in the conversation we were having so I see no point in continuing to entertain this. Especially true in this era of quarantine, bruh what were you doing all this time? Jogging in your bedroom? if his response doesn’t invite an answer (e.g. an emoji…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:18 PM
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I grew up in an Arabic household and that’s exactly how it is. Luckily my grandmother divorced my grandfather since he was beating her but this was the reality of so many women. What makes me mad is that this isn’t talked about to the men in our families. The voices of women are silenced, and the hardships we go through are shamefully passed down to the younger generations of women and mostly spoken about implicitly. The men from our generation keep complaining about how the women in their mom’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:31 PM
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Personally I’ve got a list of absolute dealbreakers and drugs is one of them. Smoking cigarettes will get you an instant “nope” from me. Hard drugs like cocaine / meth / LSD / whatever the fuck are absolutely out. The only exception is weed if it’s suuuper occasional. Alcohol consumption is okay only if he doesn’t get WASTED every weekend and can behave himself. Note that I’m a regular clubber myself so I like the nightlife but if I can behave and never did hard drugs then I expect my SO to do t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:15 PM
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Exactlyyyyyy. Always wonder if he would do the same for you before putting his needs before your own. On the other hand though this has always been my philosophy and will always be: do whatever feels right to you. If I am in a serious relationship I will take care of my partner when needed and I will stay faithful because that is what I believe is right. If he doesn’t return the favor or turns out to be a cheater, then he will be out before I can bat an eyelash but at least I can sleep at night …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:55 PM
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I was a Virgin™️ until two years ago and that didn’t prevent me from dating men. At that time I was absolutely not looking for a boyfriend (spoiler alert: I have, in fact, never been looking for one) so I was just dating for fun but it was quite easy to set boundaries. To be very honest, I would say it was way easier than after “losing” my virginity. I would go on crazy dates that lasted all night but I would always shut things down when things were getting sexual. Funnily, the few ones to whom …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:49 AM
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Annnnnd this is why men go around saying they don't want women who've had a lot of partners in the past. They're afraid we're gonna compare them. And they SHOULD BE. Only a man who's confident in his ability to make a woman happy wouldn't feel insecure about her past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:24 PM
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Queen move. 👏🏼 If I feel the slightest competition I'm automatically OUT OF HERE. Not because I feel like I can't compete, but because I feel like I shouldn't have to. I ain't proving my worth to some stranger lmao. Also girls who knowingly go for guys who are already taken are so lame. Where's the pride in being the second office for a cheater? You lose them like you get them guuurl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:00 PM
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Lmaooooo definitely doing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:46 PM
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Don’t, DON’T, DO NOT. My ex boyfriend expected me to move from my favorite city in the world to the capital (which I’d never want to live in). I thought that my favorite city brought me comfort and happiness and it was necessary for my mental health. A city can never wake up and turn its back on me someday. When I talked about my choice to not move to my ex, I explained to him that I didn’t want to go live in a city where I don’t know many people and don’t have a good network because living abro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:04 PM
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1/ Don’t ever force yourself to date multiple men if you feel it’s unlike you, or that’s just not what you want to do. 2/ if you do and he asks, just say that you had a nice night out :) no one is entitled to get all the details and you’re not lying while saying so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:54 PM
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I don’t hang out with ugly men anymore because 9/10 of the time they have an old grudge against women and the superiority complex you’re talking about. They’ll go on about how women are shallow for selecting a partner based on their appearance yet they’ll only go for women who are out of their league. As I always say, most men are gonna be trash anyway so the least he can do is entertain my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:19 AM
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Thissss. I now have a resting bitch face all the time whenever I’m walking outside but I can’t help thinking about how enraging it is that we have to do that. Why the hell can’t I smile publicly without the risk of a creep mistaking that for attention. Yet, I know that I can’t just tell some random man to just fuck off because male’s ego is fragile and it might turn ugly. I’ve done it a few times because I was having a bad day and almost got my ass beaten up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:56 AM
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I 100% agree with you there. But now imagine this: you are married and you and your husband are having unprotected sex because you either want to have children or use birth control. What guarantees you that he isn’t cheating and caught STDs from the woman he’s cheating with? I actually know a few women who were married with children and who got an STD from their cheating husband. One of whom actually developed into a cancer because of the STD (scary...). What I want to say is: living a life with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:37 PM
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I see where you’re coming from. Personally, when I said that I don’t want to waste my 20’s being sexless it’s mostly that I don’t see myself in a serious relationship for the next 5 years at least but I still do enjoy sex very much and I don’t want to abstain from having a sexual life just because I’m not dating. Doesn’t mean I’ll be going around giving out free pu$$y to everyone though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:43 PM
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My point is: everyone should do whatever suits them best. Sex with men is trash and risky 99% of the time and women should definitely NOT go for it just because everyone else says they should try it. I don’t think having casual sex makes you “cool” or “uncool”. For the record, I actually strongly believe that it is not possible to have good sex without sharing a strong emotional bond with your partner. And most of the time this requires romantic feelings. I simply don’t agree with the narrative …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:10 PM
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Omg one time I had a crush on this guy I had met like two months ago and Valentine day was approaching and he told me he was expecting chocolates (giving out chocolate to men you like is a huge thing where I lived at that time). So I went out and got him a big, heart-shaped box of chocolate cries at my younger self for being so stupid. Then I ASKED HIM when we could meet (to give him his present) and he kind of ghosted me? Lmaoooo so on valentine day I called a friend to my place and we ate the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:17 PM
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TW: men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:46 AM
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My advice would be to shave / epilate / trim if that’s what makes YOU feel comfortable. Absolutely no one else has a right to tell you what to do with your body hair. Wax has been practical for me even though it hurts like shit the first time (I even bled lmaooo). Otherwise, if you don’t want to epilate but shaving causes you irritations, you can use depilatory cream but be careful about how your skin reacts to it. I’m considering getting laser removal within this year. But this is mostly a matt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 02:02 PM
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Nah. If I'm not feeling it when I wake up in the morning I'll just cancel. Most of the time when I feel this way, I wasn't really interested in the man anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:55 AM
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Because their narcissistic asses can't take no for an answer and they're planning to hit you with a text a few months or even years later when they eventually run out of options. As if time was gonna make you forget that they have the charisma of a chewing-gum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:56 PM
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When a guy asks about my cooking skills or if I'll "cook him something some day ;))". INSTANT. TURN. OFF. I'm a pretty good cook and I like to do it when I'm in the mood but in the name of WHAT should I be cooking for a man I'm not gonna get married to? This also turns me off instantly because I assume the boy is looking for a mommy-wife who will cook and clean for him and that is absolutely not what I am signing up for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:21 PM
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They say women aren’t funny because we don’t laugh at their low key rapey jokes full of sexist bullshit and that makes them mad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:16 AM
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I'm in the exact same situation. It would already be exceptional if I met one man who caught my interest, so meeting SEVERAL of them would be as probable as winning a million at the lottery. I already vet men before they even approach me and I judge depending on their approach. I also value my alone time so much that I don't feel like giving it up unless the person has already proven themself to be interesting enough. Or I'd rather just have fun times with my lovely friends. Now I'm a busy perso…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 11:34 PM
5

Sadly I can get out of here but my sisters will just have to wait it out until they graduate and they can leave the house like I did...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:07 PM
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Exactlyyyy. Plus, the thing with Japan is that once you’re no longer freshly graduated or in the company, it’s hard to find a company that will hire you with the perspective or letting you climb the hierarchy later. Which means that you’ll bust your ass for a miserable salary. So even if a woman gets a degree before being a housewife and divorces later, she’ll still have more difficulties than if she hadn’t married at all. It really is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:05 PM
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Japanese men are the woooooorst. I mean I hate generalizations especially when it’s based on ethnicity but most of them are just downright man-children. They see it as obvious that you’re going to drop your career to carry their children and wash the dishes for them. Sexuality is pretty much based on porn. Most of them have a lolicon complex: they want a perfectly hairless body (while their balls aren’t even trimmed lmaooo), not too much fat, and the woman must be a Virgin (or at least act like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:49 PM
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There are so many perks of being single I don’t even know where to start. But I just really like the freedom in general. I can go on last minute trips by myself to another country and go out at night and ain’t nobody gonna complain about it. No more clocking in at work in bad mood because my boyfriend has been MIA for hours or went off on me for no reason. All my life decisions are entirely based on how ~~I~~ feel about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:12 PM
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I can relate. My father is a NVM. Like he literally adds negative value to our life. My mom passed away last year and me and my little sisters feel better when he’s not at home. He just adds bad energy to the house and increases the amount of chores for us because he can’t clean behind himself to save his life. He doesn’t cook or clean, he leaves me, the only adult in the house, alone with my little sisters who are still middle schoolers for days because he’s too busy with his new girlfriends. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:02 PM
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Then I am shallow 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:47 PM
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Is it really shallow to care about looks though? In my case, I honestly do care. I'm more inclined to feel attraction toward a man if he has features that I like, which I don't think is crazy at all. In my case, I like guys with nice teeth (important), taller than me and I have a weakness for big arms and muscular guys in general. In terms of face, I don't have a particular type but I prefer someone who has a charm? It is hard for me to explain this but I generally dislike the perfect Instagram …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 08:44 PM
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I LOVE that energy. I take myself out to the restaurant or nice coffee shops several times a week, go to the opera alone and bike to the seashore and sit by the sea to read on my free days. I follow my favorite bands across the country whenever they throw a tour, and go on short trips abroad by myself whenever I have enough days off. There's nothing I love more than those moments and I feel extremely fulfilled the way my life is constructed right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:17 PM
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Oops thank you I’ll do so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:18 PM
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Y’all know that most women don’t orgasm from heterosexual sex with men, right? Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 10:55 PM
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She was obviously super upset but then she thanked me for opening her eyes and we ended up messaging each other for a while and eventually became Instagram friends so yeah 😂 So happy to see this queen live her best life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:51 PM
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Agreed. I usually send the person all the screenshots and other proofs I have. If they wanna stay with a cheater then that’s another issue but not my problem anymore 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:01 PM
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Most males are going to treat you like shit anyway, so if he’s going to be crap, the least he can do is not damage my eyes further more by not looking ugly. To the men saying that it’s always the nice guys who don’t get anything: BEING A DECENT HUMAN BEING IS NOT A QUALITY. ITS A BASIC REQUIREMENT. And it doesn’t guarantee you free puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 08:28 PM
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I just have too little tolerance for bullshit 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:40 PM
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I LOVE going to lunch / brunch dates! Meeting during daytime means you can actually do some activity after that (museum, visit a monument, go to the beach, whatever) so that's the moment to see if the guy's got creative ideas. It also lets the guy know to not expect any sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:25 PM
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Lmao you dodged a bullet here OP. Two months ago I was traveling and met a very pretty guy and long story short he fell heads over heels for me and took a plane to my country three weeks later to visit me for a weekend. During the weekend, I discovered that not only he had a girlfriend, but he also was getting married in a month hahah. I found his girl's profile and told her EVERYTHING, which got him to get dumped by his fiancee and then I took my stuff from the hotel and went back to my hometow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:16 PM
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Good for you that you ended up not having to go out and meet him, he would've been a waste of your time. It happened to me ONCE, it was the very first guy I dated in my life, and he asked me to change the day of our date and I said yes. Ended up getting stood up 🤷🏻‍♀️. Now it still happens that men try to ask cautiously if I'd be ok with a change of plans and I just say "no." I don't even give explanations. Strangely they always manage to make it to the date when I appear inflexible. Men are lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:12 PM
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That reminds me of that time when I was on my first date with my ex and I casually mentioned being interested in Ancient Japanese history. And he proceeded to mansplain a part of history I have read about 200 books and watched hundreds of hours of series and documentaries about. So I told him the names, places and exact dates these events took place in and that I knew better than him and that made him shut the hell up. I am a very curious person and I will be a great listener if the person in fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:53 PM
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Agreed. I also find this wording better because by saying "Sorry but I would rather have you take me to dinner", you are basically handing him the answer on a silver plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:00 PM
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Absolutely not in Japan. First there are too little child care facilities for the amount of children in Japan, so the mother often has to stop working to raise them. Second, it is widely expected that women are going to take care of the house in general, and they are often shamed into doing so. Finally, it is also hard to return to work after a maternity leave because you’re considered an inconvenience the second you take leave days. Not even elaborating on the working culture in japan that make…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:57 PM
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Y’all aware that women going to host clubs is an extreme minority, right? Beside, it’s super expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:04 AM
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I believe there are way too many factors here that contribute to the fact that people remain single in Japan. First of all, this is not only a woman thing. The working culture there makes it extremely hard to date or found a family. Second, getting married as a woman in Japan means quitting your job to start making children and then being a housewife for life with a non-existent husband. Having kids in japan and marriage ceremonies are also extremely expensive, hence why many people “choose” to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:02 AM
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Because they think they’re “the better choice” and freeze when they realize our standards don’t include them. “Nice guys” telling you that you deserved this for choosing badly are probably not as nice as you think anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:47 AM
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Now I put two fingers inside my mouth and simulate a gagging motion. Usually makes them look away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:50 PM
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I got 4 of my friends into FDS in the past two weeks and I am so looking forward to having a friend circle full of queens who take no shit from stupid men. 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:47 PM
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Same here. I saw my father being violent and rely on my mother for everything while having three kids to the point she literally died from it. Now 99% of the men simply disgust me and I cannot feel safe around most of them. I also get irrationally angry whenever I hear men do victim-blaming or justify domestic violence, sexual abuse etc., which is, unfortunately, the case of most men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 10:44 PM
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I mean in some way it's a good thing because then they probably won't be able to reproduce which means the termination of their shitty genetic line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:49 PM
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I mean it is 100% logical if we look at it from a biological point of view. If we are going to mate with someone, not only we will want our offspring to have the best genes, but we also want someone with attractive features in order to get sexually aroused to do the deed. ((I am NOT saying EVERYTHING should be based on physical appearance btw)). Thought that was common sense. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 01:44 PM
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Oh funny. He messaged me, too, this morning. This was my response. "Hi beautiful. Thank you for taking the time to message me. Unfortunately, I do not talk to incels. Hope you have a wonderful day ahead. Kind Regards."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:54 PM
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Okay so the funniest part in this is that the whole thing blew up on French Twitter ((I’m French)) and the debate there got ridiculous. A lot of people have started saying that discriminating against people who don’t change underwear everyday was “classism” and not everyone can afford to have many underwear / do laundry often. The same survey was conducted for women and almost all of them change underwear everyday while we all know poverty strikes women more because of the gender gap etc. Soooo …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:25 AM
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My ex-boyfriend asked me to not go for a PhD (I was applying for grad school at the time) because it would make us unable to live together for longer and he wanted someone to "take care of him" while he works. Then he said he was upset that I wanted to be a student for a long time because if we had children past 30, that means his parents may not see their grand-children graduate university. He said that a few weeks after I'd lost my own mother. My father found a new 20-year-old girlfriend a few…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:21 PM
21

THIS. From my experience, all the clowns I've dated and who turned out to be cheaters had almost only cheaters in their close friends' circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:31 PM
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From my experience though, I think that once you’ve started catching feelings, it is already too late to notice the red flags, or to make a rational decision upon seeing them. This is why the vetting method taught by the FDS is the most important rule to me. The first three dates are extremely important. Trust your gut instinct. If you notice ONE single red flag you need to be out of here. Don’t give men second chances thinking it was maybe just a mistake. Because it wasn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:02 AM
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It's because despite the fact that men are so easy to sleep with, they're also the first ones to whine when a woman has had more than 0,1 sexual partners. Clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:15 PM
12

Says a lot about males that to them, not giving them sex just because they have shitty character is the same as centuries of sexual assault, physical and psychological violence. They literally do not see us as humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:25 PM
7

Exactly. I used to write 90 lines worth of text (and in Japanese, which means a shit ton more stuff than I could've written in English) to my ex boyfriend of 1.5 years and would only get a 3 words response about the last paragraph. Boy did you even read that shit?! So one day I finally got tired and dumped him, without an explanation. I just said I didn't love him anymore and that was it. He still says he doesn't understand my choice but meh, I don't owe him an explanation. Now I'm DONE over exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:00 PM
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I do agree that we, as women, should and have every right to call each other out for our bad choices in men because that’s the only way for us to level up. However, it always annoys me when it’s MEN commenting on issues women have had with men with the classic line “she should have chosen better”. Like, victim blaming isn’t exactly going to make you sound like a better choice, Steven. Also it’s like blaming women for trying to avoid trash, knowing 99% of them ARE actually trash soooo...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:42 AM
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It depends on how much time he's planning to spend with you. My ex told me he would come to pick me up at 11 AM for our first date. He drove to a city that's about an hour from where I lived to show me around and then took me to the aquarium and various known spots of the region. Then he treated me to dinner and dropped me home and asked me to be his girlfriend. That, in my opinion, was a high-value date. ((He ended up cheating on me so he was fucking trash tho))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:23 AM
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