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1

You just didn’t have the opportunity to see this move in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:02 PM
3

My BFFs sister had an ongoing casual relationship with a little wiry guy, no more than 5’4”. Apparently when he took off his pants, it looked like he had three legs. Make of that what you will. 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:13 PM
27

Preferences on every single minute aspect of a woman and her body, you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:57 AM
26

I would get up and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:55 AM
17

Here’s a tip. Most men even with large penises think their penises are average or on the small side. Unless they are being modest. Apparently you need a baseball bat sized dock to actually have a large penis in most men’s eyes. Oh, and big dick men are usually the laziest in the bed when it comes to foreplay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:53 AM
11

Is he buried next to her? I thought she was in a mausoleum. That is so gross, fucking old pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:03 PM
14

I’m sorry you went through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 01:55 AM
4

It was insane. The horrifying part of the whole thing, he wasn’t fired and he didn’t have his medical license revoked until a lot of legwork was done by the two surgeons who worked with him. The fact that those hospitals kept him on as a freaking neurosurgeon because medical misadventures are capped at 250K for medical malpractice is the real story here. The hospitals he worked for made 60k on each surgery he preformed, successfully or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:07 AM
10

He probably barely finished HS and lives with M&D himself! They have sooo much in common!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:15 PM
12

Especially when it comes to music or film. Their word on such things is etched in stone, you better respect. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:13 PM
11

Exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:12 PM
10

I prefer the four year rule. You can’t be four years older than the person you’d like to date, if the younger person is under 18. That would land this winner right behind bars. Where a lot of people would make fun of his musical tastes. Music nerds are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:10 PM
23

So funny, I just watched the Dr Death doc on the TV yesterday. He was a college party boy who managed to graduate with two degrees in medicine from some state Uni in Tennessee. He moves to Texas and is snapped up as a Neurosurgeon immediately. He fucks up every operation he performs unsupervised, kills two people that were in for simple procedures. He effectively decapitates a patient, and more! And doesn’t get his license revoked until he’s fucked up a lot of people. But he thinks he’s the grea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:49 PM
38

Men will usually dump a woman who is this far in debt. Heck, most decent men won’t date a woman who smokes pot, let alone someone who gets mixed up with meth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:39 PM
-2

I agree. If he has a fun personality I’m in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:17 AM
52

Exactly. What I find even more appalling, is they won’t date who they find attractive, they date who their friends find attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:31 AM
-14

I don’t think he’s ugly. That ringer shirt has got to go because he looks like he going to a Star Trek convention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:28 AM
6

The irony of BDSM relationships is the Bottom is the one in control. Not the Top. The Bottoms control the action, so to speak. If you are in a truly safe, consensual BDSM relationship, every time you break out the whips, you have to negotiate what is gonna happen and if you go too far, out comes the safe word. Plus, you have to get all dressed up for ‘sex’. I am far too lazy for any of that crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:50 PM
5

My guess is he provides “counseling” for fellow kinksters There are people out there who are defined by their kinks, and live it as a lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:45 PM
5

I did go to one appointment with a female doctor who was the coldest person I have ever met. She fat shamed me, too. I was 20 pounds overweight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:42 PM
7

Like you wanna see that saggy sack swinging around as he strolls majestically from the living room to the bathroom in his efficiency apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:39 PM
6

I’m pretty sure he counsels people who are into the kink scene. I’m sure that is a total shitshow, but I’d love to be a fly on the wall for a few of those sessions! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:36 PM
28

I’m dyin’ here! 🤣 Speaking as a 63 yo woman, I cannot handle men in my age group. Sadly, the majority are no different than my dad was at this age. I’m a loud and proud cat lady. I’ve never been happier in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:32 PM
12

I used to be acquainted with some people, M&F, who were into all that transgressive stuff. One of them was a guy who was a mooch, the woman he mooched off drank herself to death after working as a DOM for years. These are not well people and life isn’t good to them as they get older. JMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:27 PM
10

They have never grown up past a teenager. This is teenage behavior. Men and women who act like this as adults need to go into the military. I hate the military but it does have a tendency to straighten out childish behavior in pre-adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:38 PM
40

Same. How about men just concentrate their efforts on finding the clitoris and figuring out how it works before making a woman ‘squirt’ or any other ridiculous crap they’ve seen in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:45 AM
37

And really sad. Porn has ruined dating or just friendship with the opposite sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:41 AM
6

I am of the opinion that what passes for porn these days has ruined the sexual experience for a lot of women. I also think men have desensitized their penises from jerking all the time, so jackhammering is the only way they feel anything. I’m too old to care but it’s still sad that women continue to fight this battle with insensitive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:50 PM
11

I’ll be 63 next week. 👋🏼 I have often felt if the Internet had been around when I was a teen/young woman my life would have taken a much different course, as far as men and relationships are concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:46 PM
12

How are you at finding needles in haystacks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:41 PM
11

That is absolutely insane. This pathologically insecure woman screwed up another woman’s wedding celebration, too. Dude is in for one hella crazy ride if he stays with her. Edit — I apologize, I understand why I shouldn’t have said crazy. I still stand by my opinion that this woman’s behavior is out of the bounds of normalcy. He’s not going to kiss the bridesmaid or anything. Sometimes you just have to put your feeling aside for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:05 PM
29

Plus, control freaks love to separate you from your family and esp friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:01 PM
4

She should let the loser cheat. Maybe then he will leave her alone. Or better yet, meet someone he likes more and set this poor young woman free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:41 PM
14

I’d be afraid for my children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:08 PM
22

Where are her parents??!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:07 PM
21

I imagine she went thru mental abuse with her parents as well. She was a sitting duck for this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:05 PM
90

It’s because she went right from her parents house to “Daddy’s” house. She has no real world experiences of her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:01 PM
84

He has her enslaved. I’ll bet he tells her what to cook and how to dress, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:59 PM
10

This made my blood boil. 😡🤬 What kind of parents allows their 19yo to marry some 40yo creeper? A creeper who finds his wife in the house, forces her to drop everything she’s doing so he can use her as a sperm depository. She is this fucker’s slave, whether she realizes it or not. And is this the example she wants to set for her kids? What a mess. This young woman’s parents should be ashamed of themselves. This guy is probably like my ex boss. He was a huge man-baby, but he had his own business a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:56 PM
18

Like grade school? Pluleeze!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:45 AM
58

Is hallucinosis when you take LSD and it gives you bad breath?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:54 PM
18

☝🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:50 AM
28

She sounds young. And most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:29 AM
19

Cuddling and being sweet to each other afterwards was completely off the table, amirite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:31 PM
37

Or different ways to fault the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:28 PM
19

I hoped someone would comment on that one. Just.....yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:25 PM
64

Right?! You’re the damn girlfriend or worse wife and they can’t be bothered to give you the girlfriend treatment a couple of times a week?! And, btw, the wham bams can be hot, too. I had a LTR that went on way too long because the guy knew how to initiate sex in a sexy way! Good sex can stretch a so-so relationship on for a long time, I’ve been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:23 PM
42

I’d have said, “You first, then.” Same thing I say to guys who start hinting around for anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:19 PM
17

This is so disgusting. No woman should ever put up with any of that, most especially the rape part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:17 PM
41

Learn to locate the clitoris while you are at it. And use lube. I refuse to waste my time, especially in this day and age, with men who refuse to bother themselves with learning about women’s basic anatomy. If you don’t know where it is and what it’s for, GOOGLE IT. You all want to be all up in it 24/7, why not learn how it works and how to use it properly. ffs 🤨 Edit- and one more thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:10 PM
8

This argument again??! Louis CK is a creep and a shitty comedian who tried way too hard to be ‘controversial’. He controversialed himself right out of a career, didn’t he? L O L
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:07 PM
82

“You made me hurt my car that I was probably driving too fast for conditions”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:33 PM
10

I would give my left pinky for a president with those qualities right now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:05 PM
11

Is she running for President any time soon? Because she’s got my vote, no matter where she ends up!! 🏆❤️👍🏼❤️🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:12 PM
21

Thanks for making me smarter, Ladies! 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:09 PM
65

You’ll need that hoop skirt after eating all those potatoes! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:42 PM
77

I’d marry him right now! A true HVM! Unless Andy Johnson is some proto Rush Limbaugh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:41 PM
24

He poured over every word with a fine tooth comb! His ego won’t allow him to do anything else. I agree, don’t waste your time trying to educate the willfully ignorant, Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:59 AM
9

Same, sis. I could never pretend to like somebody for the sake of being in a relationship. Or because they have money. That said, I truly believe 89.9% of all committed relationships end in tears. We are on to them, and they are pissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:38 PM
2

No, never been in trouble with the police, thank goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:28 PM
6

I hear you. Toss in that they actually have to bring something to the table intellectually and you don’t have a pond to choose from anymore. It’s more like a half dried up puddle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:26 PM
2

Hey, not all of us who enjoy drugs are complete losers, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:23 PM
1

I still think it’s rude. A date is supposed to be something planned in advance, like calling on Wednesday to see how your weekend looks, not an engraved note delivered by courier weeks in advance. Is he calling wanting to take you out on the town or is it pizza and a rental at your place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:43 AM
12

I think having your own bedroom is a great idea. I can’t stand the thought of sleeping with someone every night ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:29 PM
10

Absolutely! It shows effort on his part. If he calls you last minute all the time, how do you know if he’s already called ten people before you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:25 PM
1

Having this person stressing them everyday is bad for their health. Caretakers often die before the person they are caring for due to stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:14 PM
4

That means they are trying to keep you in the triangulation. Don’t do it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:23 AM
9

Do you mind naming the sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:03 AM
8

If her parents are over 65 this could be considered elder abuse. Your friend should look into resources, and they should hold firm that the sister had to go to rehab and abide by her parents rules if she wants to come back. JMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:56 AM
10

Their mothers had a hand in making their sons who they are today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:52 AM
11

I follow Shaun on Twitter. 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:43 AM
9

I’m too old for him anyway, lol. His fiancé is one lucky woman. She has a rare gem, a man who gets it to his bones!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:15 PM
25

When I see those tiny shoes in a museum is makes me queasy. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:59 PM
31

Exactly. Men are still at the top of the capitalist food chain, tho their perch may be slipping. So much fuckery with men in the workplace compared to women. JMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:57 PM
14

Viking women would go on raids with the men and go into battle!! Why should men have all the fun??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:44 PM
30

This has been going on forever. Google Bride Burnings, it’s a horror show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:41 PM
29

Right? I’m getting verklempt. 😟😢😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:18 PM
17

Preach it to the sky, Sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:15 PM
7

Biden’s wife is a Doctor. I think he understands women’s issues better than fucking Trump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:00 PM
31

I was a kid in the 60s and a teen in the 70s. I can remember when my mom got her first credit card in the mail. She showed it to me, I was around 11, didn’t know what it was. She explained that the Master Card was in her name, only. She was divorced from my dad by then. Edit- explained the card was in her name only and why this was a big deal Edit2- My Mom later worked for Sears from the late 70s thru the 80s. She worked for them and they would not give her a credit card in her name only. My mot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:58 PM
3

I want to marry Domo. He totally gets it. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:54 PM
4

This is a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 09:24 PM
53

It’s because you made the decision to do all those things without a man’s permission. And they’re too scared to get a tattoo themselves. They hate them on men, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:15 AM
34

It’s worse than that. They have this resentment that women can wear makeup and clothes that enhance their god given talents, and all the other girly stuff that most women enjoy.. They feel it gives women an unfair advantage to advance in the workplace (??!) and/or once you ‘catch’ them and you get married they won’t bother to fix themselves up anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:13 AM
25

Are there really men in bars that say stuff like this to women? I still can’t believe that men think all that nonsense is going to get them laid. It’s ridiculous. And a bit frightening, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:08 AM
10

The absolute horror! 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:05 AM
16

Look on Pinterest! There are some gorgeous dye jobs on there. Especially the ‘hidden’ colors. There is one young woman who looks like a beautiful parrot, the way her hair is colored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:03 AM
35

Just like the crying and gnashing of teeth when porn stars get tattoo’d. Sorry, it’s her body. She’s obviously doing what she wants with it, so what’s wrong with a little ink?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:00 AM
15

This is completely disgusting. I thought the French were progressive thinkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:36 PM
4

She is the nicest woman and she ended up with a gross loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:13 PM
2

She is REALLY pretty and thin. And he probably works for her father’s company. Sorry, I’m bitter today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:33 PM
7

I used to listen to a local DJ, he used to have people call in his show and tell stories. That days topic was ‘ crazy honeymoon stories ‘ A woman called in, she and her college sweetheart married. They honeymooned down in Cabo or somewhere like it. They decided to go paragliding where the boat tows you. It was her turn, and somehow her lines weren’t set up correctly and she got tanged and dragged on the dock until the boat driver realized there was a problem. She could have been killed. As it wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:26 PM
6

Or they completely check out mentally and emotionally. I used to do home health care for a woman with MS. When she became bedridden, this was the time her worthless POS husband decided it would be okay to hit the bars after work. They had a grade school aged kid who had to prepare all of his own meals because no one else would do it. And feed mommy too. She’s separated from her worthless excuse of a husband, because shes religious and Jesus says no divorce, ever. Her kid is now a selfish asshole…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:17 PM
3

Give your Dad a big hug from me next time you see him. Mom, too. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:11 PM
3

Because part of being a man is being an inconsiderate asshole. Especially when you’re being sad about something other than him. Or your sadness is ruining his good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:10 PM
15

I love her! 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:58 AM
20

That’s how they get the women to strip. The owners bring them in for a few weeks and then the pressure starts. The strippers wave their cash around, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:21 AM
13

I will forever hear her accent in my head when I read that! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:11 PM
2

Heck yeah, Sis! 👍🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:44 PM
1

I’ll admit. I yell. But only if I’m really pushed to the limit with BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:42 PM
1

Was your mom involved in the commercial art field?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:13 AM
1

Condoms work, too. Very effective since who knows when. History of condoms https://wellcomecollection.org/articles/W88vXBIAAOEyzwO_
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:08 AM
4

I personally think they are kind of a horror show for everyone involved, esp depending on how much liquor is involved. Friends don’t let friends go home with strangers. Male or female. It rarely ends well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:06 AM
12

Love you Gran! ❤️🤣❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:30 AM
19

I agree! Better protection against STDs as well. Unfortunately, it’s women who have to bear the aftermath of a pregnancy, so they need to make sure they are protected as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:16 PM
50

My ex LVM was having an affair with a coworker (unbeknownst to me) and she stopped taking her pill and got pregnant to get him off the fence. He came home and confessed all of this and I threw him out. They then married. Their daughter is now an adult and lives three states away, lol. I hope they are both miserable every stinking day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:19 PM
21

And there’s a lot more issues in your relationship if he requests this arrangement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:16 PM
16

Those guys will run for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:12 PM
9

I 💯 know what you mean, sis. It’s not just smooth players, either. Those guys come in every culture and sub culture. I was married to a local, could have been a contender, musician. He was also very attractive and cared very much about his (and my!) appearance. Of course he was a classic narcissist, very little was known about this disorder back in the early 1980s. I could write a book about how stupid I was back then, believe me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:04 PM
112

I saw an interview with Charlie Manson about ten years ago. They showed him pictures of the women who were imprisoned along with him. He looked at each pic for a long time, looked sadly at the interviewer, and said “They got old on me.” You can’t even get old when your one of Charles Manson’s girlfriends. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:02 PM
114

Just a really sad grind, usually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:57 PM
138

Who on earth has the expectations that a woman will stay frozen in time and never age? MEN! That’s who. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:57 PM
129

AGREE! Men think they own you after you’ve had sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:41 AM
25

Not feed, but the word you’re looking for starts with an F.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:08 AM
65

Yah, makeup is expensive. So are decent shoes, clothes and good haircuts. They all expect a beautiful woman, however
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:03 AM
28

And Cheeto stained fingers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:59 AM
68

They mean they want you so independent that you have zero expectations of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:58 AM
20

C’mon over to r/datingoverforty and r/datingoverfifty. It’s a jungle out there. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:51 PM
30

Yeah, and they will be working in nursing homes caring for my generation 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:49 PM
5

God, no shit. 😣 Child abuse and mental health go hand in glove. Neither is taken seriously enough, imo. Thankful that the Internet enables some of them to be caught, a few at a time compared to how many are out there, tragically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:21 PM
26

It’s also a literal shock when that curtain comes falling down and you see M/F relationships for what they are. It’s a sad situation women find themselves in, but knowledge is power, esp when it comes to romance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:45 AM
26

It’s sad, isn’t it? My mom was a single mother because my dad was a verbally abusive rage a holic. She was single for nine years until she met my stepdad. She didn’t want to make another mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:41 AM
15

I always say, the Internet ruined men for me. I couldn’t pretend they were mostly decent, with a few bad eggs. Now I know the reverse is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:20 AM
32

I’m there right now! I only have three years left in the workforce until I can retire. I want the most beautiful garden in town!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:49 AM
2

Aunt Ant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:46 AM
5

I’m that aunt! 🌳🌳🌳🤩🌳🌳🌳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:46 AM
5

I have all of that, except the wine and the money. Life is still good!! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:43 AM
74

Sounds like Dorothy Parker 👍🏼😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:11 AM
97

My old auntie had a cat that did the same. They had a bathroom off the kitchen, my aunt was making dinner and heard tinkling in the toilet. She grabbed a frying pan and waited for the creeper to emerge, out came the cat! 😼🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:10 AM
14

It’s like they never grow up past the age of 14.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:20 PM
15

Jeeze, you did all of that and he couldn’t even give you a golf clap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:19 PM
4

I called my Dad ‘Daddy’ until he died when I was in my forties. It’s traditionally what WASPy girls call their fathers. Tell your boyfriend he watches too much porn and to mind his own beeswax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:14 PM
6

He did get big. I believe he was being threatened with getting written out of the cast if he didn’t lose the weight. Which probably led him back to his relapse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:13 AM
15

He also has been through periods where he gets addicted to pills n booze. He couldn’t even keep his shit together while he was on Friends. I used to feel bad for him, he needs to go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:06 AM
14

Her man has always pinged my gaydar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:01 AM
19

This reminds me of dear old dad. He and my mom had two girls. Mom gave him the boot, he and my stepmom had a son. My dad did nothing with this kid. Neither did my stepmom. My brother had a lonely childhood, he lived in a neighborhood that was mostly old people with his parents. Who literally sat him in front of the TV. He used to watch Little Rascals reruns, those were his friends. 🤨 PS when my sister and I would go on the weekends, my brother was around three. He would go out and talk with my m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:32 PM
2

I have enough ‘confidence’ to know that threesomes usually cause the end of relationships. And usually end in tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:09 PM
2

The pornification of our society. I knew it would come to this, when men can look at all kinds of gross shit at the tap of a keyboard. And now apparently a certain subset of women are regular porn consumers as well. Young kids grow up being exposed to all kinds of practices that most of us older folks never knew about until we were older, if we knew about them at all. It’s really disturbing and we have only seen the tip of the iceberg, I’m afraid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:11 PM
3

Right? lol I’m sooo glad I was never attracted to men old enough to be my dad. edit- I had enough problems with the ones that were my age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:03 PM
3

“Stop figuring out that I’m trying to screw you over!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:56 PM
1

I bought birb feeders right after I moved in! 👍🏼 I plan on growing a section of just Native wildflowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:39 AM
5

My parents had a horrible marriage. My mom finally left my dad because she couldn’t take the verbal abuse anymore. They fought every single day of my childhood, I swear. My mom was hospitalized when I was around six. All I could think about was how great it was gonna be, dad couldn’t pick on mom because she was sick. She wasn’t in the door 20 minutes when it started. 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:22 PM
4

It’s funny, I’m childfree and older. I’m closing on the house I’ve been living in soon, and I’m turning my entire backyard into a garden. I’ve wanted to do this for years. I noticed the same in the photos, it made me 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:17 PM
12

It’s funny, I’m childfree and older. I’m closing on the house I’ve been living in soon, and I’m turning my entire backyard into a garden. I’ve wanted to do this for years. I noticed the same in the photos, it made me 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:17 PM
5

Don’t they still have those plugs they can put in your Fallopian Tubes that can be removed if you decide you want kids? I seem to recall that was an option at one time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:13 PM
1

I took up vaping in 2009 and haven’t had an analog cigarette since. It makes me sick these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:01 PM
2

I started smoking as a teenager. (Surprise!) People smoked literally everywhere in those days, hospitals, grocery stores, banks. I think the only place you couldn’t smoke was the library and church. It was disgusting, and I smoked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:38 PM
4

I was a kid in the 60s. I believe we got our first McDs when I was in the third grade. I completely remember going there and getting my sensible hamburger along with a sensible sized drink and small fries. There were cars lined up all the way to the edge of town. We got our second when the mall was completed. The Big Mac was the big deal by that time. Time moved a lot slower back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:15 AM
14

Women had very few opportunities to make decent money in those days. My mom worked as a bookkeeper at a grocery store. She worked double shifts constantly to keep everything afloat. This was in the late 1960s. There were no welfare programs for women with children like there are today. In the mean time, my Dad bought a fucking house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:15 PM
9

I’m kinda like that, too. If I make something that turns out spectacular, I can eat it all week. I grew up poor, and have been poor as an adult. Maybe that has something to do with it. <shrug>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:07 PM
5

You must live in a city. I used to, and had all that great ethnic food at my fingertips as well. I miss that the most about city life, tho it’s a bit better these days. My town has a Thai restaurant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:26 PM
24

And yes, I work in a grocery store. I see what single men buy, and it isn’t pretty. Some guys surprise me tho, and have a cart full of healthy stuff, and it shows! Clear eyes, nice skin, healthy hair, something they all worry bout so much, but won’t do anything about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:10 PM
3

So you are a grazer! I wish I was. I like running up to the trough once a day and stuffing myself. J/K but sometimes....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:07 PM
25

They end up eating canned soup and sandwiches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:47 PM
15

He should hire a cook, ffs!!! wth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:46 PM
43

Amen!!! Young women are sooooo lucky to have the Internet! Teh net didn’t come around until I was well into my forties, and most of the man damage had already occurred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:45 PM
31

I can’t believe they are hounding you about this nonsense in this day and age. Just realize they must have nothing going on in their pedestrian little lives. A woman who does the same work as they do must seem as exotic to them as if you were a beautiful unicorn farting rainbows all over the place. Try not to let them get to you. Advice from a woman who worked her entire career with men. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:39 PM
38

Their projectors are running nonstop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:20 PM
2

Gay for a Day, sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:05 PM
7

And Valarie Solanas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:03 PM
18

Same. I had a new acquaintance approach me for a FWB relationship. He’s nice enough, good looking so I said sure. He was horrible in bed, no foreplay, just wanted to hop on and jackhammer my vag. I gave him two chances to step up his game but he didn’t. So I cut him off sexually. No long dragged out discussion about it, I’m just no longer in the mood, dude. I know it bugs the shit out of him, but he doesn’t dare ask why I won’t fuck him anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:53 AM
22

The fact that none of them care one wit whether you have an orgasm hisses me off to no end. 🤨 PS I like hissed instead of pissed, thanx!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:45 AM
13

Same. Unfortunately the Internet didn’t show up until I was in my forties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:38 PM
6

Are you me? lol I can relate and agree with everything you said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:34 PM
23

My BFF was at Florida State when he was on campus! 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:20 PM
15

She is the best in the true crime genre. 👍🏼❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:19 PM
5

The one who did me wrong ended up with that hairline going back about four inches, and he’s also got the Friar Tuck thing going on in the back. I laughed so hard when a friend sent me a pic from his FB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:00 PM
3

It’s beautiful! And you will always think of your friend when you wear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:21 AM
12

Just....WOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:23 AM
-5

I grew up with a single mother. Boys tend to become too much for single mothers to handle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:14 AM
20

Men on the Internet ruined men for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:25 PM
11

And they refuse to entertain the notion that men are damaged by the patriarchy as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:13 PM
-17

I have wondered if most of the men who become red-pilled grew up being raised by single mothers with absent fathers. There s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:51 PM
4

And if you aren’t willing to do the two summers of mission work, they’ll load you up on a bus and drive you into a city and dump you off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:48 PM
38

I love her. Such an amazing woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:34 AM
3

I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this, but in my experience these types never grow out of it. They don’t debate their male friends like they debate women, because they know there’s a strong possibility of ending up with a black eye. No, they save all that debating energy just for us wimmens. Aren’t we lucky? 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:22 AM
36

I’m sure this is how he gets his jollies. 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:07 AM
1

I have to agree, but man! Some of them are so funny I’ve almost gotten nosebleeds laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:48 PM
5

Sorry, deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:40 PM
6

Do we know the same person, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:47 PM
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Or, they are just argumentative assholes trying to hide behind having a ‘discussion’ or a ‘debate’ I get these types all the time. I like to discuss politics and current events, but I can’t stand being challenged on my opinion or ideas, constantly. I get men who say they appreciate my interest in current events and my (very important) opinions on stuff, but the conversation always turns into a huge argument. It’s exhausting. Apparently they know the PC thing to say is “I love smart women.” When …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:45 PM
2

I hope she stopped drinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:23 PM
4

Empathy is usually not a strong feeling for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:22 PM
6

I met a woman in AA who’s pimp was a gay man, also in AA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:01 PM
7

I honestly believe there is a subset of men who are ‘gay’ just because it’s easier to have NSA/anon sex with men than it is with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:00 PM
14

I think one of the other reasons gay men may be like this with women is we tend to compete for the same types of jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:49 PM
10

Yeah, that woman in the porn goes home and checks her bank account. No tears there. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:46 PM
12

I’ve experienced this as well. I had a fair amount of gay friends when I was younger. Pretty much all of them asked to touch my bewbs and some have tried to get me in bed. Of course, I’ve had girlfriends grab my boobs as well, apparently when you are a C cup and up your breasts are public property, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:45 PM
5

I don’t think straight men care about the extent of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:38 PM
6

Beautiful analogy. 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:22 PM
4

This is the correct answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:21 PM
10

They don’t like the rug being pulled out from under them, either. Women are sick of their shit and are refusing to put up with it just to be in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:16 PM
16

Hopefully you gave her food for thought. Might be the wrong analogy for the visual I now have in my head. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:28 PM
8

My advice, when you are going thru a breakup, get a notebook and every time you get the urge to call, write down what you want to say. Doesn’t matter if you fill pages. In fact, you probably will at first, it’s good to get it all out. After about six weeks, you will probably be done Remember, no contact gets you over the pain of a breakup faster. You aren’t feeding some worthless dudes ego, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:34 PM
5

If I hear the “You’re not listening!” when I actually disagree I’m going on a rampage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 05:32 PM
13

That phrase would look fantastic on a tee shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:53 AM
11

Would you try to get him to wind it up but he would just keep droning on and you’d heard the same freaking story a million times before?! I feel your pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:51 AM
9

I think we know the same person. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:49 AM
49

They are completely clueless, aren’t they? wth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:45 AM
105

That is how I know a man watches too much porn. 😒 How about I treat your dick like one of those punching clowns?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:36 PM
29

I’ll bet if the clit was the size and shape of a beer can they could find it. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:34 PM
24

I can’t stop laughing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:32 PM
19

Because it happens way to often these days. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:56 PM
20

Better never introduce those kids to video games. She will never see them, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:39 AM
4

Don’t forget— “I never asked you to (do really nice thing) for me!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:52 AM
24

Or a nasty little creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:42 AM
16

My Stepmother believed that garbage, that your childhood has no reflection on your adulthood. My own dear Mother believed that people never changed, their personalities were set in stone. My Mom was also obviously depressed, but denied she was depressed. She hated me going to therapy, thought I spent my entire sessions crying about my childhood. I had enough in my adulthood to cry about, believe me. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:45 PM
20

My mother worked for Sears and couldn’t get a CC in her name in the 1970s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:17 PM
13

Same. 😿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:25 PM
56

And what an average sized penis looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:48 PM
5

I’m a Virgin again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:28 PM
8

She dared show an ankle! 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:36 AM
18

I should make a cross stitch of this post and hang it above my headboard, 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:25 PM
6

Oh for fucks sake! 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:20 PM
30

They are all like this these days. It’s due to modern porn, IMO. Teenage boys in the 1970s knew about foreplay, so what the hell. (Disclaimer- I was a teen too) Now they won’t even play with your bewbs, it’s right to jamming it in. Fuck that shit, I will pass, thankyouverymuch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:17 PM
5

I always say, everyone needs a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:27 AM
1

That title is a hoot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:23 AM
5

I’ll just leave this here. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Sand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:49 PM
5

Mozart’s father dragged he and his sister all over civilized Europe to play for the rich and for royalty. Wolfgang was really young, his sister was a preteen, if I recall correctly. The critics of the day claimed she was the true talent, but of course, none of her compositions survive. Their father totally exploited the both of them, W caught the pox and almost died. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maria_Anna_Mozart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:45 PM
3

That happened to the woman who painted those sad eye paintings in the 60s and 70s. Margret (?) Kean, I know her last name was Kean. Her absolute POS husband took credit for all her work, and was an abusive creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:36 PM
191

And then he dumps her for his young student. Story as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:17 PM
15

OMFG, the memes I thought I was gonna lose my mind! 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:14 AM
16

Her husband sure got a taste of all that. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:13 AM
8

Come baaack!!! 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:09 AM
4

I’m older than most Redditors and I finally feel comfortable in my own skin, like my own company, and have given up on Mr Right knocking on my door. I’m happy with me. And my cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:54 AM
2

You are so right! 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:20 PM
12

Are you me? I seem to always end up with women friends who just want to lay around and complain about everything/everyone. Greta Garbo was right, “I vant to be alone!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:29 AM
9

A sense of humor about yourself is an important quality to me. 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:40 AM
5

My ex husband was the same way. He was a local rockstar he had an image to maintain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:38 AM
5

My exe’s brother was like this. Always on the defensive, rarely relaxed and let his guard down. His temper and shitty attitude got him shit-canned from every job he had when I knew him. Edit- He was barely 5’5”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:36 AM
8

Preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:32 AM
8

Agree. Why is it so difficult for men to see this for themselves? It’s as obvious as the tissue box and bottle of Jergens on their desktop. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:30 AM
2

Jane Fonda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:20 PM
3

“Behind every great man is a woman.” Is the damn truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:23 AM
2

They tend to be quite self centered and literally expect you to do the heavy lifting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:09 PM
2

Was he an only child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:30 PM
7

Preach it, sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:23 PM
8

I think they are well aware of what’s coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:17 PM
5

I freaking LOVE YOU 😍 You just wrote the world’s shortest, but best, self help book! I’ve given up on relationships, but if I ever decide to dip my toe back in, I’m printing out your post and hanging it eye level all over my place. 👍🏽🏆🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:36 PM
1

Sad for the guy with the shitty homeschooling. Can’t read, but I’ll bet he knows all about Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:00 PM
5

Click on the reply arrow and copy or bookmark it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:52 AM
26

That is really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:49 AM
7

The last comment has me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:47 AM
0

I just Googled 1970s pornography and got some interesting hits. Scholarly and otherwise. Wikipedia has a list of 1970s porn films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:53 PM
4

I honestly don’t know. I’m as vintage as the porn I’m recommending, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:12 AM
42

In the future she could say her gyno told her certain positions are off limits due to her situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:55 PM
29

Just wanted to point out, this year is the 100th anniversary of women’s right to vote. I doubt this amazing post would be possible if this basic right hadn’t passed https://www.2020centennial.org
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:14 PM
36

The sad thing is he probably is, tho now he has to live knee deep in trash and piss jugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:10 PM
5

Brilliant idea converting the teeny tripod into an easel! 👍🏽 And good job on the room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:08 PM
15

Thank you Terrance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:34 PM
23

Yes, it’s true. His dad is Chinese, if I recall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:18 AM
3

I love this photo. And the caption. 😁❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:06 AM
4

Holla! Edit: and thankfully childfree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:56 PM
2

It’s true, speaking as the oldest of three. You are trained to be Mommy’s Little Helper. Studies say that boys who are raised with an older sister become better husbands because they understand women better. Don’t know if it’s true, but my brother is the youngest of two sisters and he’s a chill guy, with his wife and two daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:53 PM
3

Do you have Menare’s ? I think that’s what the unbalanced ear fluid problem is called.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:30 PM
6

I walk down the feminine products aisle occasionally and am very happy I don’t have to buy all that stuff anymore. Edit- not to mention the horrific cramps. 😬😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:27 PM
7

Congratulations to her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:38 PM
40

In this case, I think she put them all in their place! 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:15 PM
24

She’s my new heroine! Keep going girl!!❤️🏆❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:14 PM
30

Sadly true. The good news is most of them are terrible in bed, so they are easy to say no to. I’ve had several women tell me they didn’t miss the guy, but they missed the sex. Myself included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:01 PM
18

I know. They both got what they deserved. And I am single and quite happy with my situation. 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:51 PM
14

Yup. Been thru all of the triangulation as well. The other point of the triangle stopped taking her BC and waited until she was close to five months before she informed the LVM. I threw him out and went completely no contact. He had to move in with his sister, but ended up marrying the other triangle point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:06 PM
80

All men feel that once they have sex with you they can come back anytime they want, like you’ve been waiting for them. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:58 PM
4

I work in a liquor store and all the men call me the sweetest names ever because I’m giving them what they want. I’ve often wondered what they would call me after they drank their bottles, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:58 PM
38

The authorities would take the child now a days, thank goodness. I’d like to think the social workers would try to help the mother, too, but you never know with today’s for profit health system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:17 PM
6

I used to dabble with heroin. All of my friends did, too. When your entire social circle revolves around one thing, and society frowns upon that thing, you can get really entrenched in something that is really bad for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:09 PM
7

People act this way to people who are childfree by choice as well. Esp if you are a woman. You are selfish because you’d rather have a career, you are not fulfilling your womanly duties, it goes against religion, and you just must be an awful person with problems if you don’t want the greatest experiences woman can have! /s I happen to love children, and they love me on sight. I treat them with respect, I listen to what they say, and they seem to like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:42 PM
4

I saw that same doc. It was so brutal and shocking, some of the images are still burned into my brain. 😢 Put me off meat for a while, I currently eat meat but try to also mix in some bean and plant based recipes. I plan on stopping meat again, when I can get a garden going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:37 PM
6

Same with quitting alcohol. Makes soooo many people uncomfortable. Especially men. I had men tell me they would never date a woman who doesn’t drink. I feel the part that was left off of that proclamation was “Because I’d never get laid.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:26 PM
8

And don’t forget the ones that masturbate to her image because of the abused she’s endured. It is enraging. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:19 PM
23

And being generally abusive assholes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:56 PM
6

This happened in the 1970s. My sister’s BFF fell madly in love with this older biker dude. As soon as she turn 18 she headed out to Arizona with him, only to meet a bunch of other women and girls who were his stable, this dude was a pimp. She managed to get away from the house she was to live in, and called MY mother (her family was awful) and begged for money to get home. All my mom could afford was a bus ticket, and a little extra so she could eat (the pimp took all of her cash and ID) She mad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:45 PM
6

S A M E
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:39 PM
17

Yep. Pompeii, where the volcano covered and entire city, was mostly a sex resort for ancient Romans. The mosaics mostly depict sex acts. But the women weren’t being demeaned like they are in modern porn. Same with the Kama Sutra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:37 PM
36

I have never seen that before. It’s a strong commentary about how far our society is falling, isn’t it? Girls from well off families get college, girls from poor families get to work atMcDonald’s or a strip club. ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:26 PM
6

I’m happy that Jenna is telling the truth. She always seemed like an intelligent woman. Shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:47 PM
47

Your Dad is a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:44 PM
12

I have read so many ugly accounts about women in the service. I agree, let them fight their own wars, who needs that chit?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:36 PM
1

Which one of the Kardashians is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:50 PM
7

Ditto. It’s a great feeling. I can do whatever I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:17 AM
3

That sounds like a good guy with some bad habits, probably from the way he was raised. At least he was open minded enough to actually admit he was wrong, and he worked on himself. That’s a successful couples consoling, IMO. 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:45 AM
20

It’s a spin on “Behind ever great man is a greater woman.” ‘Tis true. The number of men who dump the woman who scraped, worked shit jobs, put her education/career on hold to pick up the slack for her “brilliant” husband/boyfriend is sickening. I can’t even image the manipulations they work up to justify leaving. Been there, done that, and there wasn’t even a damn t-shirt at the end. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:29 AM
7

“Yer a Man Hater!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:24 AM
10

So they finally made a film about my ex. His dream came true, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:23 AM
19

I once read that the problem with marriage/couples counseling is usually one partner has already left the relationship, metaphorically. So that leaves the other partner still in the relationship, thinking things can be worked out. Usually the dissatisfied partner will go to counseling out of guilt, or as a way to ease out of the relationship and they can say they ‘tried’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:39 PM
109

What a charmer. 😒 But if a woman said, “I only love your money.” the world would go up in flames. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:11 PM
13

Cuz we are still in the talking stage....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:16 PM
12

You talk so goooood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:15 PM
9

They are sick in the head. So terrified of committing. Something better is right around the corner! r/bitter_sarcasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:39 AM
1

The damn truth. Funny, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:35 AM
2

Same as men, a lot of them. Then you get the women who have had enough of men’s bullshit. Or worse, abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:29 PM
3

There are a lot of lonely single women out there as well. Men are usually single for a reason— obese, unkempt, nasty tempers, porn addict and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 09:15 PM
1

Marry him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:51 PM
1

The world is their oyster if they are also intelligent and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:49 AM
2

The patriarchy oppresses everyone, but men benefit from it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:05 PM
2

You picked the right genre. I loved product photography and being a photographer, but I hated the doubt in the eyes of new clients, both male and female, that I was qualified to photograph their crappy product. And my asshole boss who owned the studio treated me like a rank amateur, even tho I was the best photographer in the place, including him. But I the only one without a wee-wee. The official signifier that you are qualified to do anything, apparently. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:57 PM
0

She must have pissed off the Queen Bee of the group. I’ve been there. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:39 PM
19

Oh, yes. Men always have superior taste in music and movies (films!) too. You could always be onto the newest tip and your taste would still be questionable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:54 PM
20

I was a commercial photographer for 30 freaking years. I can count on one and a half hands how many times my work was complimented. I went on portfolio go-sees and had men doubt to my face that I was showing my actual work. And this was before digital. Yeah, buddy, I stole all of these mounted 8x10 transparencies. 🤨 You gotta develop the hide of a rhino in that industry, believe me. I miss it but I’m glad I’m out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:47 PM
22

These guys just want to keep their toes in your pond. They keep in close contact because they hope you won’t go looking for anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:18 PM
1

need to prepare for an ass-kicking intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:51 PM
2

Do you not care to have an equally intelligent partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:48 PM
66

She may still require medical treatments that wouldn’t be paid for if her income changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:12 PM
9

Amen ! 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:06 AM
21

Or, you could really stick it to them and continue to see other men. Flagrantly and openly. Believe me, they cant handle the FWB if it’s truly a two way street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:03 PM
32

Because if they fuck over a man, there’s a good chance of an old fashioned ass-kicking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:51 PM
7

This is so true! 😆 I HATE the HM channel, what an absolute load of shite those shows are! All featuring major house porn and ridiculous expectations of what a relationship entails. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:11 PM
23

Its almost like they are so porn-sick they get more excited by a picture of you than seeing you in person. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:27 PM
2

How right you are! I’ve come to terms with the fact that I will probably never marry or have an LTR again. I was mad for a long time, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:15 AM
-1

All I ever wanted was a fair and equal relationship, respect of your partner being number one value you both share.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:10 AM
57

Reading men’s comments online has really ruined men for me as well. I am glad to have an explanation and a better understanding as to why most of my relationships went south, however.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:09 PM
13

Same...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:07 PM
6

Those last comments. 😳 Just.......w o w. I have no words for that level of rage, w t f? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:06 PM
1

Men’s problems are caused by the patriarchy, just like women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:06 PM
5

Don’t forget “and spend all their money” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:44 PM
34

This is my ideal. The musician Todd Rundgren lives in a house that’s divided in sections. He has one section, the wife has another, and there’s a communal area. I always thought that would be great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:55 AM
1

My Dad worked construction and always had a six pack when he was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 05:15 PM
3

Men in the past worked jobs like construction, farming and the like. And then they ate the lunches their wives or moms packed for them rather than fast food, which really wasn’t readily available before the 1960/70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 04:55 PM
11

😂 Live at home Louie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:39 PM
9

Is it at least a fixed up van? Some of those are really nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:10 PM
6

Because they are men, they will instinctively know what needs to be done. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:08 PM
15

Broke Bob, Delusional David
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:05 PM
9

The Dunning Kruger effect in action. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:58 PM
3

Why would anyone want to have sex with a person that’s young enough to be their kid?! I can’t imagine a lot of quality conversation. But that’s my thing, I want a partner that I share things in common with, first and foremost. Sex usually takes care of itself if two people connect on a deeper level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 05:18 PM
1

I just assume the man is immature and can’t carry on an adult conversation. As an older woman who still attracts men, tho I’m not sure how, I’m not interested in taking my clothes off in front of some 25 year old dude. They have to be in my age ballpark.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:19 PM
5

I’m always baffled by men who don’t want an equal partner, who shares the same values, interests and goals. No wonder the US has such a high divorce rate. 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 04:12 PM
8

If a woman’s career achievements don’t mean anything to a man, he is NOT high value. High value men don’t just value a woman for her sexual desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:54 AM
2

I wouldn’t want to be a man. Waaay too much self-imposed pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:41 PM
3

I, too, was told I was a “hard person to love”. Do they all have the same playbook?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:51 PM
6

I am very happy for you! Good luck with your future! 👍🏽❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 05:12 PM
5

I don’t think that’s a great idea. A lot of men get really angry if they feel like you are looking at them with disdain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:48 PM
14

I love it! This is the best proof that one of smallest words in the English language is also a complete sentence. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:35 AM
16

Your dad sounds like one of the good ones, that he was willing to help this poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:51 PM
13

Have my wage slave gold 🏆 ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:46 PM
163

Men are the worst gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:24 PM
33

Were his kids there? 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:24 PM
1

Try again. Immature, narcissistic parents will blame the child for putting them in a situation they don’t want to be in, rather than rising to the occasion and doing what is best for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 01:21 PM
10

Except women feel like the asshole just asking for fair and equal treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:41 PM
12

Dandelion stems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:35 PM
9

Exactly this. 👍🏽 Fortunately the LVM are fairly easy to spot at this age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:22 PM
21

I completely understand. I haven’t been in a committed relationship since the early 2000s. When I get lonely, I recall the shitty ways I have been treated by men in my past and try to imagine what my life would be like if I were still hanging onto these turds posing as life rafts. Not good..😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:40 PM
36

I’m 61 and would rather be alone than deal with that chit, thank you very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:23 PM
124

He needs to have a little chat with HR. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:17 PM
2

Was I happier after my parents divorced? Hell yeah I was, but I was only nine years old and it took me a while post divorce to realize I wasn’t being screamed at, or listening to my parents fight all the time. ‘Staying together for the sake of the kids’ is bullshit, in most cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:04 PM
1

I watched my mom struggle with her grocery store accounting position, so yeah, I knew she was right. Being a housewife was never an option for me. My sister went that route, however.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:20 PM
28

My mother divorced my father because he didn’t treat us well. She pounded into my sister and I that if we were able to earn our own living, we wouldn’t have to stay in a bad relationship because of money. She was 💯 correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:19 PM
34

He’s talking about himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:17 PM
29

Um, roommates split the bills in half. Not married people. Wasn’t this one of the subplots of ‘The Joy Luck Club’?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:39 AM
4

Exactly the same. 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:12 PM
10

I don’t mind paying either half, or I get dinner, you get the movie, whatever, after we have been dating for a while. But to demand it straight from get-go, and come to your house and mooch? Fergedabouit 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:37 PM
19

I had a girl in junior high who harassed me for two years over a guy who didn’t even like her. Just because he stopped me in the hall between classes because he liked my Alice Cooper t shirt. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:16 PM
4

Wow. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:09 PM
20

He was testing you in a very clumsy manner. Or he’s feeling guilty. I used to be the ‘cool girl’ who didn’t mind if my boyfriend had female friends. Turns out it takes a great deal of maturity not to end up sleeping with their ‘friends’. Maturity that my ex lacked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:08 PM
46

This is an amazing comment. You mean he didn’t pout the entire time she was preparing for her presentation, stay out all night with his bros the night before and mope around the day of and decide without mentioning until the last minute before she leaves that he’s going to stay home??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:42 PM
13

Write it down for yourself, and don’t give it to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:05 PM
16

This makes me disrespect the men involved as well. 🤨 Whatever happened to professional behavior in the workplace?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 02:45 PM
60

Wondered the same. Wouldn’t surprise me. Career women have a difficult time finding HVM for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:44 PM
17

She sent nudes to her coworkers?! What the hell...😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:40 PM
92

Your quote was a show stopper for me! I always took for granted all of the effort I put into being an attractive, desirable partner, while men did not bother with much at all. Congrats on the quote! 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:11 PM
24

This advice right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:11 AM
84

Have my wage slave gold. 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:52 AM
65

Let me guess, IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:49 AM
34

You can develop an actual caring personality and get some interesting hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:50 PM
10

Care to share some war stories? How did you meet these guys? My only chance of dating is via dating sites, and I’m pretty sure I don’t want to go there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:57 PM
18

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:17 PM
60

Look at all the famous single women out there! The vast majority are either divorced or single. And adopting children. Men with just the slightest thing going on have too many women throwing themselves at them, at least when they are young. Of course they don’t want to settle down, their lives are one big exciting adventure. I don’t know what the answer is. I’m middle aged, and frankly, I’ve given up. I embrace my solitude, and whenever I get lonely, I think about my past mistakes, and imagine h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:15 PM
18

I worked for 30 years as a commercial photographer. No one was interested in me, either. Probably for the best, judging my past man mistakes. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:31 PM
53

Agree with the second comment 💯! I always say, I wish Reddit had been around when I was a teen/young woman. Sure would have made life so much easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:19 PM
2

It really, REALLY helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:27 PM
9

Words to live by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 06:10 PM
11

I suppose the money helped, but getting dumped like that still must have stung.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 04:35 PM
8

Yours too?! 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 04:32 PM
13

When you feel the urge to call, get a notebook and write out what you want to say. Much more productive than giving some loser attention. Or ammo for talking shit about how crazy you are. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:36 PM
9

All they want is for you to shut up and go back to focusing all your attention on them and their issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:29 PM
135

As if the ugly manbaby community is so sensitive and caring towards women online they deem unacceptable. 😒🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:41 PM
9

Exactly!! LOL The POV of the photo is we observers are about waist high, if we are lucky, to this absolute giant of a man! Need I add, /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:33 PM
12

At least he showed you his ass right away. And look who’s calling arrogant, his profile photo says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:28 PM
10

How utterly terrifying! I’m glad he left you alone. I, too, was a teenager and young woman in the pre cell phone years. There were some seriously scary creepers running around back in those days. I wonder if the advent of cell phones has driven them back under their collective rocks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:41 PM
4

You are cool under pressure! Good thinking there! 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:35 PM
12

Exactly THIS!!!! Done supporting moochers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:19 PM
24

Right? Presuming to know what’s best for the little lady. Double fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 05:35 PM
6

If you are a therapist, why don’t you explain why it seems that NPD is an epidemic in the US?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 07:00 PM
7

Same and was married to a couple of them as well. My whole family is narcissistic, my dad had it really bad, hence my issues with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:32 AM
2

Not necessarily!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:30 AM
4

I wish the internet had been around when I was a young woman. Would have saved me a bunch of time, money and heartache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:50 PM
5

This guy is using her as a fuck buddy. Nothing more. She should stop expecting anything more than sex from him. If she likes the sex, no judgment, just don’t mistake it for a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:54 PM
4

Ain’t that the fucking truth. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 01:07 AM
17

I can’t stand that licky licky lizard tongue thing they see porn guys doing. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 04:30 PM
11

Red flags shoot up for me if a man proclaims himself to be a feminist. I prefer men call themselves feminist sympathizers. I don’t believe men can be feminists because they are men. The patriarchy is too strong for men not to be influenced and entitled. Sorry men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/19 08:58 PM
12

I can give him some advice. Stop being an annoying, pestering tick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:32 PM
27

Always keep condoms in your nightstand, you won’t have to listen to excuses. Be careful tho, I once had a dude slip the condom off in the middle of the action. I was furious, jumped out of bed, and told him to gtfo. He tried giving me shit and I upped the anti and told him I would be calling my (male) roommate and he and his friends would see to it that he left. He left. Fucking asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 09:14 PM
3

Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 02:21 PM
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