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| 11 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menThe older I get the more and more I see it. Just today I was talking to a co-worker who was telling me how her ex-husband (who doesn't help with their children in any shape or form) decided after 4 months of no contact "to see his children". So he said he will show up on Saturday. She gave him a 3 hour window and he went on and on to bitch and complain how it's inconvenient for him, texting her for hours while he could've just come and gotten them. Then when she went on with her day he called he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 20 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?It doesn't. Big dick =/= great sex. At all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?Either you're freakishly lucky OR attractive OR you have no self awareness. No, attractiveness has nothing to do with finding the right person. I can drown in options and can go on dates every day. Yet it took me 4 years to find the right guy after I got divorced. And I completely agree - DATING SUCKS! It's a waste of time. I was at a point where my literal thinking was: "What's the point of "dating" or having something short-term if that person isn't even gonna be in my life in a year?" I most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 10:08 PM |
| -1 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?You are trying too hard. When you meet your person it will all make sense and fall into place, until then No, the juice is not worth the squeeze. Take a break from online dating and let things happen naturally. I gave up on dating and decided I was done trying. After 1.5 years met a perfect guy for me and he was just so much different than the rest right from the start. It will soon be a year since we started dating and things keep getting better :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?I think the truth is somewhere in between. It's not so much "ugly" men as much as (I think they refer to) just regular non-top-20% ones that get laid too. It's ridiculous to assume only Chads get all the sex outside of committed relationships. Hook ups happen. A regular guy might not have 100 of messages on Tinder and have a new woman to hook up with every day, but he definitely can get some women to sleep with him here and there as long as he is not a social retard like a lot of men on here are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Opt-in vs Opt-out Subscription == Dating vs MarriageMarriage changes things? Maybe years and years of co-habitation together do but the ceremony and a piece of paper usually don't and I believe that's precisely what you were referring to in your post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 10 | Opt-in vs Opt-out Subscription == Dating vs MarriageRead your post, read your comments. I don't think your view is widely shared amongst married couples. Marriage doesn't change a relationship usually. But in your particular case it did. That's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 05:40 PM |
| 8 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).This is so embarrassing, yet I know a case in real life where a man asked to pay back. And the woman actually did, just because she was so disgusted she wanted no part of that situation. It's like stepping in a giant pile of shit. Save your time and money and go out with girlfriends instead. That's better than wasting time on a man you won't be talking to in a week or a month, invest your time in people that are worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 21 | How to be emotionally abusive 101Lol I love your story! "Disappeared like satan" lmao, I'm totally using it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 60 | How to be emotionally abusive 101So a long while ago a guy (who I wasn't dating or anything like that) told me after a very special event where I looked top-notch that I was "a total 7". I laughed, turned around and walked away. I literally took it as a joke not realizing until years later he was trying to neg. I 100% knew I was a 10 :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:02 PM |
| 25 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendNothing wrong with porn! You are just emotional and irrational because you are a woman /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.Because presence of a penis guarantees parental success. Round of applause! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?Well, I've been around the block for sure and would never date a stupid bro-misogynist either. I wouldn't say my bf judged them on their N-counts, he just casually dated. The very reason I believe he didn't start a serious relationship with them was BECAUSE they were pick mes. This is why it's so important for women to have strong boundaries. I believe if I was to play a "cool girl" and be open and accommodating, he probably would put me in the same box. I told him I wasn't interested PRECISELY … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 12:18 AM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?Idk, my bf used to compete in body building professionally when he was in his 20-s and now lifts nearly every day. He is just my type physically and treats me really well. I don't care how high-T a red-piller might be, I would rather be single for the rest of my life than have anything to do with them. I also think your idea of LVM is much different from mine.. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 11 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?Oh you may call it whatever you wish. I just don't understand what is better about a red-piller for me as a woman? Bring on the "simps"!!! lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?I had orbiters for sure when we first started talking and he didn't like it at all. Made the game more interesting though ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?their good behaviour is often to makeup for their lack of masculinity, low end-genetics and low social status Nope, nope, nope. A man doesn't have to be good-looking to treat you poorly, same way how a fat girl is not inherently nice just to make up for the lack in genetics. Dating down is absolutely not it, I've tried it. I dated good looking guys with "options", they absolutely do "simp" for a right girl, and it's not solely based on woman's looks either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 9 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?My bf is definitely not "leftover". Other than that I don't see why any woman would want to date a non-"simp" or not a nice guy. The fuck I care for red pillers and PUA lol. They are to be avoided at all costs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 10:50 PM |
| 26 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?Exactly! I saw that comment. They don't even care to hide the fact that they are merely not good enough therefore need to take advantage of someone insecurities lol. Before me and my bf met he was playing the field after getting divorced. His very attractive FWB would buy him presents, cook for him, didn't ask too many questions.. Beautiful and accommodating and submissive just the way they want'em, right? Yeah, ok. I told him to fuck off when he first met me and now, less than a year into our r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:06 PM |
| 23 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?LVMs in action lol. Funny how masculinity disappears at the first sign of confidence in a woman. "I think insecurities in women are very very feminine and sexy and I like fucking with them little bit" - negging, putting someone down in order to appear better than them, instead of actually be better or even equal. Disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 06:58 PM |
| 49 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?Manosphere men claim this is exactly how they want women to be but times and times again I've seen men treating confident assertive women way better than pick-me chicks. Sure, they will tell you that's what they want, then start disrespecting you because you lack boundaries, take advantage of you because you are told to be giving, cheat on you because you are understanding of men's biOlOGy aNd EveRybOdY mAkeS mIsTAKes. You want to put a man above you and put up with nonsense - sure, pick me is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 13 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.But you and other men often suggest we SHOULDN'T get degrees because it dries up our pool. You were arguing that up top in the comments. I also disagree with the narrative that a successful man doesn't care about your education/career. HVMs value women for more than hotness. If she is hot and dumb it will only work short-term. Men don't want a blow up doll for a wife, at least not the ones IRL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 19 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.For the 100th time: WOMEN DON'T GO TO SCHOOL TO ATTRACT MEN!!! This is not 1940s anymore, women don't go to college to meet an eligible bachelor so they can be SAHM after graduation!!! WTF?! My degree allows me to have a comfortable life for me and my children, man or no man. Ofc, my partner needs to have a degree and at least similar income as me. If no such man is available, by no means would I trade my degree so I can attract less competent men. OMG can we stop beating this dead horse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is nervousness on a first date a turn off?Hmmm I find it adorable. But then I'm very confident and maybe that's why it doesn't faze me at all. Actually, the more attracted I am to a guy the cuter it is. My bf is very macho in his day to day life. We talked for a couple of months before meeting in person, so he knew me. However, the first few in-person dates I could tell he was nervous even though he tried to cover up lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 09:44 PM |
| 11 | Everybody: what are you doing on Valentine’s Day? I’m sure you have plenty of people you can date. My potential Valentine’s:That possum looks better than 99% of LVMs. But I'm actually celebrating with a bf for the first time in a few years :) Feels very unusual. We are going to a rooftop restaurant later tonight. Ladies, don't settle!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | QUEEN ENERGY 👸🏼 She caught her younger boyfriend lying about being with his coworkerIt teaches to support other women but not in a way that "a woman can do no wrong". I think whenever a woman is getting called out on here, it's usually an example of what NOT to do as a woman. Because a lot of women are confused of what is ok and what is not. While everyone is entitled to live their lives in ways they deem appropriate, this sub (as many others) offers a particular ideology and it's up to an individual to agree with it or not. FDS wants ALL women to raise above being used, abused… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: People nowadays are unhappy in their marriages because they have unrealistic expectations.Marriage was successful because half the population was deemed to be second class citizens inslaved at homes and being told it's the norm to be taken advantage of because of their gender's submissive role. Not because of anyone's expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 05:27 PM |
| 51 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮You know, I actually can't shake a feeling that this is precisely why they kept us "barefoot and pregnant" for this long, easier to take advantage, ya know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 3 | QUEEN ENERGY 👸🏼 She caught her younger boyfriend lying about being with his coworkerOh, I agree wholeheartedly. That's what I love about FDS - it teaches women's solidarity instead of pinning us against each other the way patriarchy has always taught us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:16 PM |
| 165 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮wE jUsT waNt a wIFe wHo knOwS hOw tO cOOk, CleAn aNd bE SubMissIvE. And we all can see right here how much they value and appreciate that (*inserts clown face) lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 12 | Women’s Health Mag publishes “8 Booty Calls Every Girl Can Relate To”. Notice how literally NONE of these “relatable” things are good experiences - Just disrespect and terrible sex. Can someone name 8 GOOD things women can relate to about booty calls or nah?Omg THIS!!! ^^^^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 12 | A man's level of curiosity about you says it all.I've learned that if something doesn't feel natural/makes you uncomfortable about the way a man communicates, don't go through with the date. Exactly. In my experience, whenever I had a decent initial convo through messages it usually ended up being nice and easy in person too. When you start reaching deep to make an excuse why you SHOULD meet ("maybe he will get more talkative in person", "maybe we will hit it off if we met", etc) and feel like talking yourself into why you should meet/give him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:37 PM |
| 12 | Not paying for the date or getting an engagement ring, low value behavior!! But why.A long while ago I met a couple while bartending and the woman had an amethyst engagement ring that was custom made to look good with her other family heirloom piece. Omg was that ring gorgeous!! I still can't get it out of my brain lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:02 PM |
| 36 | A man's level of curiosity about you says it all.This right there is crucial for young women to learn. Also, watch how the conversation is going. Is it bouncing back and forth with questions and sharing relatable experience? Or does it feel like the guy isn't even trying? Some people are shy and it's ok to be a bit nervous, but if there is no genuine interest, spark, attempt to get to know you - chances are he is probably only looking for sex. Trust your gut and intuition. No amount of dates will make up for the initial lack of effort, men tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:44 PM |
| 30 | Got this gem from a guy I used to see in college(my 19-year-old pickme era)Wow. Just wow. "One of the few women who is actually worth something". Damn, is he trying to insult or does he genuinely think it's a compliment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 8 | Man sleeps with over 400 women and it broke his sexuality. I think it’s not just porn that’s the problem...I thought it didn't matter how many partners you have if you are a man and we are the ones with damaged pair-bonding skills if we sleep around. Go figure. Poor poor thing lol, cannot feel any romantic emotions. Too bad so sad lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 66 | Reductress (satire mag) strikes againExactly! They can't stop blaming us for their own actions, behaviors, flaws, shortcomings - you name it. And somehow we have to continue sucking it up and making it work. Nah thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 27 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsYup. Single mothers are shamed and talked badly about "She couldn't get a man to stick around!", "She should've stayed so the kids have a father". Yeah, ok, the man can be any kind of piece of shit and it's still our fault. we are just supposed to stay and make it work no matter what. They complain about shit not being like back in the 50s where women were held hostage in shitty marriages and couldn't do shit because men designed it to benefit them and them only at women's expense. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:32 PM |
| -1 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?That's not common at all, especially nowadays. Also, big companies are rarely proprietorships, which entails there is a lot of bureaucratic levels on how the company is run. A CEO can't just retire and put his incompetent son on the pedestal, the candidate has to have qualifications besides his connections. Also, the way to really maximize your earnings in current market as a white collar professional is to constantly look for new job opportunities. The good ol "I've been working for the company… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?No. You have to be likable. And have good relationships with everybody, that's how you make it to top. There are brilliant people who are extremely introverted, they are not leaders. People up top are also smart but there is definitely more to it than just technical skills and intellect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 55 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsCan't be any closer to truth lol. I've seen it times and times again and again. They ask for more custody to pay less in child support and then don't even show up on their assigned days and eventually completely fade away from child's life. They can't even be decent weekend dads cause they don't give a shit about having a relationship with their kid(s). Then cry how the mother is the one "keeping them away" lol. And MRAs cry how court is not fair for not splitting custody 50/50 as if they want i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Not just bachelors but to move up within company you need great soft skills along with it, definitely possible however | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 03:05 PM |
| 6 | What aspect of the opposite sex are you jealous of? Other commenters, does that jealousy make sense to you?Losing hair too. Yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 03:50 AM |
| 42 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!As if she would ever want his crusty ass lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:29 AM |
| 40 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!Exactly. Dudes stare at me speechless when I walk lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 9 | What is a HVM?I'm a single mom of two who is 33 and an immigrant with no family/support, I make six figures. It's really not hard. Really not hard. I got a degree. That's literally all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:16 AM |
| 129 | I broke up with my boyfriend todayHe used a manipulative technique. Have you hanging, make you feel anxious, breadcrumbing, so that you feel inadequate and beg for his validation. People (unless they are sociopaths) don't do it to the ones they truly love. I had a bf at some point that ghosted me after a small fight. I waited three days and when I realized he was using ghosting to punish me and teach me a lesson I became infuriated. I dumped him and cancelled our plans to see a play the following day that he paid $2,500 for. He … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:22 PM |
| 30 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.Just today I read an update on one of the dating subs to a post a woman made 8 days ago on how she had an exclusivity talk with a man she was seeing for three months. They spent 3-4 nights/week together, had plans for Valentine's Day, a trip planned, were cooking for each other, had personal items in each other's houses which all led her to believe they were exclusive. Comes to find out the man had a long-term FWB who KNEW he was also screwing the OP. Even after she found out about the FWB, she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 35 | Don't befriend men who hold average views on gender.Indifference hurts the most. That's why deleting, blocking and ignoring is the most memorable way to end things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Men like younger women but do many actually attract one?It's life and I can only do what's in my power. Of course, I'll try my best for my kids and that's my main focus. I don't want their dad to be a depressed alcoholic at all. I don't hate him. I wish he could just be a functioning member of the society that could co-parent and be on civil terms with me. Heck, I'd love to split custody 50/50 if he could just be normal, right now the kids don't even want to see him once a week. But I can't change a grown man and I can't save him. Most people are bro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Men like younger women but do many actually attract one?Yes, I have one of each: a boy and a girl lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Men like younger women but do many actually attract one?Welp then it's what it is. I also grew up with a (very successful) single mom, and if anything it taught me to always be able to provide for myself. I don't know if and how it affected me to grow up without a male figure, but you don't miss something you never had so there is that. Other than that, I don't want to be stuck in a relationship that makes me miserable. I highly highly doubt my ex would be a positive influence on my kids. He can't muster to pay child support, lives in horrible condit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Men like younger women but do many actually attract one?I mean there is a lot of gray area there.. See, I got married at 20 to a guy I met when I was 19. You just don't know any better at such young age. I was also an immigrant here in the US so there is also a culture difference factor. When I first started dating my ex I was smitten and thought he was my soulmate. So it was all in good faith. He was very good looking, 6 years older but no ambition whatsoever. I didn't see an issue with him living with his dad as it was the norm for my home country.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Men like younger women but do many actually attract one?My bf is 40 and is really hot for his age and in general. After his divorce he went "sampling" and "dated" women ages 27 - 42. His Tinder profile was set to 30 - 45 age range. We will celebrate our first anniversary in March. I'm 33 and when we first started dating, he said that he was hoping to connect with someone in their mid 30s. He said it's nice to have someone younger and good looking but also said it was hard for him to date way younger women because he couldn't relate. I really don't be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayThe worst, most detached and a manipulator-wanna-be guy I've dated was the least attractive one out them all, and I was waaaaayy above his league. Nope, "nice" non-Chad looking guys do not possess better qualities as partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 7 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?Word? And I'm supposed to assume your credibility somehow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?And? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?So essentially you are answering without answering. Women demanded rights for being mistreated by men since the beginning of time as a class. Much different than just screaming "Men iz bad". I think you threw a one-liner you can't elaborate on hoping that a few snarky remarks will be enough. Got it. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 8 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?Was just gonna ask him that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 0 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?Precisely this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?And which logical fallacy was that if you don't mind me asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 4 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?To pin something on an entire gender and blame them for your misfortunes is profoundly stupid and shows a lack of personal responsibility What you've described it literally the core of every feminist and BP argument So when you are claiming the core of every feminist argument is to pin faults to opposite gender, what are you actually referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?Hmm I guess it's a way to disengage due to the lack of argument on your part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 2 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?So your response is essentially: he was abused as a child, therefore he is an abuser himself? What does it have to do with "women run the world" narrative red-pillers love to indulge in? Most of them don't mention abusive childhood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 4 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?Why? Because women asked for rights at some point in time? As far as I know they now tell women to whore around which benefits men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 09:41 PM |
| 7 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?Yes, let's just dismiss whatever clinical observations this published doctor has made by saying: maybe mom beat them, maybe manager was leaving early (facepalm). Well this comment right here is another prove of above mentioned conclusions. Red pillers come up with whatever lies and excuses to pardon their shitty behavior and cry woe is me because of heartless harpies that women are. I've been through an abusive marriage, I don't sit here and think men ruining my life because they run the show. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 09:36 PM |
| 24 | I’m 39 and for the first time in my life I broke up with someone that I have strong feelings for because they weren’t treating me the way I deserve to be treated.Girl, I've had a difficult life, I'm 33. You know I noticed my greatest accomplishments came after I lost everything. Sometimes difficulties and disappointments are a good kick in the ass to get you going. Think of what you want and how you gonna get it done and move towards it. I have a comfortable life now BECAUSE of all the shit I had to deal with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Both men AND women are failing in today’s society.This is surprisingly good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Why does the man-child seem to be more common today?Thank you!!! As an immigrant I worked two jobs, was pregnant twice and then had two small children all while getting my degree. I had no help from anywhere. I now make 6 figures and have a comfortable life at 33. As long as you try here in the US, you WILL succeed. Americans are born with a silver spoon but they have no idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What proportion of the self improvement you do is solely for purpose of getting opposite sex attention?Dieting and working out. I weigh myself every day. It's essential for women to stay skinny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Why does the man-child seem to be more common today?Do not tell an immigrant why we come here. Opportunity above everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Why does the man-child seem to be more common today?No it's not. "Die trying to make it" is not being a legal immigrant here. I'm an immigrant, there is a huge gap in mentality. We are hungry. Living in the west is like playing a video game on a super-easy mode | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenAnd somehow it is still so hard for them to comprehend... Kindness and respect are a common courtesy in nearly any society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Why does the man-child seem to be more common today?"They outperform because of what you stated- they are going for the path of least resistance" - I'm sorry how does this make any sense? A son of Indian immigrants who busted their asses at a gas station to send him to med school is "the path of least resistance"? While a white American dude eating Cheetos playing video games bitching about how he wasn't born into privilege is not? Immigrants are by far the hardest working class in America and regardless of if it lowered overall wages (that I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | This sub is ignoring the link between income class and promiscuity.Precisely this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 09:50 PM |
| 58 | I agree with men women should not nag them. I would never be a nagging wife. If he cannot measure up to my standards, there will no be any nagging... I'd just kick him to the curb.Ladies, please please please take this advice and run with it. It's much deeper than just: "A grown man should be able to take care of himself". I told on here multiple times how my LVM ex husband was basically mooching off of me our entire 10 year relationship. I was 19 when I met him. He was 6 years older. We were madly in love and when he got laid of a few months into our relationship I thought I'd do anything in my human power to help him because I wasn't a money hungry gold digger but a hel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 59 | Here’s The FactsThose young women pay for their NVMs with the money they make on Only Fans. Truly empowering.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:16 PM |
| 0 | How would you want society to address “sexlessness”?Women still do the majority of housework and child rearing so how is it analogous to a rich person stepping over poor? It's a raw deal for women and they get "divorce raped" just the same as men do when they make more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 07:57 PM |
| -1 | Why does the man-child seem to be more common today?I don't know where you live, nor am I implying. I referred to western population in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why does the man-child seem to be more common today?Look up what fiscally actually means... You keep misusing this pretty basic word and claim to travel the world via your job lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Why does the man-child seem to be more common today?"I can work really hard and rent for life and not retire or I can laze around and play videogames and show up to work stoned and rent for life and not retire" There is plenty of opportunity in the west. PLENTY! That's why immigrants flock here at any given chance. And they get rich and outperform natives. Why? For the exact opposite reason - life is too easy here. Human brain is designed to choose the path of least resistance. Western men's problems are the first world problems: I'm too depresse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sSo you really just confirming that it's extremely rare.. Used to be good looking and still are, added wealth, Uber-rich, charming and sociable. What's the point of talking about outliers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 44 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existOhhhhh how spot on!! How precise! To piggyback on your thoughts this is why every LVM and pickmeisha is losing their shit over FDS. Look at TRP. They say if we are not 19 yo submissive virgin bangmaid we only deserve to be pumped and dumped (in best case) or have our rights taken away and get beaten back into submission (worst case). Any woman that doesn't fit under such criteria deserves nothing from them and won't find anybody. Lol. I'm a single mom of two, post-wall (33), won't pay 50/50, won… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:36 PM |
| 36 | Him: let's just see where this is going! Let's not put a label on things 😊. Me:"Let me use you at my discretion and move on to a new target while you waste your time figuring out what's wrong with you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Him: let's just see where this is going! Let's not put a label on things 😊. Me:I don't think there are any stringent rules on that. At the end of the day you should just ask yourself: "Are we moving at the same pace?" And if the answer is yes then that's all you need. Preferably he should try to see you more than you try to see him, never ever the other way around! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sI mean I'm not hating on him but I don't think he is an example of "fine wine" TRP claims him to be? I'm a woman in my 30s. I personally wouldn't jump on the idea of casual sex with him if I met him at a bar and he was a Joe off the street. I think most women my age would feel pretty much the same, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 05:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sThat an average man looking like them could never afford. Sex for money is possible for any man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sI second this. I'm 33, have two kids, divorced. My bf is 40 and looks very good for his age. If red-pillers on here knew how he treats me and what he buys for me they'd lose their shit yelling about "simping" and "beta-bucksing" lol. Otherwise, I don't even have time/desire for casual sex, unless it's some super hot circumstances that would just make it irresistible (that happened once in my life) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 02:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sMy bf is 40 and went to spin plates after his divorce too. After a few, he met me and now we are planning our future. I think very few men are actually cut out to spend the rest of their lives running around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sYup. Perfect summary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 01:33 AM |
| 15 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sI'd also argue that Pitt aged well.. But my subjective opinion aside: if Clooney and Pitt were your average senior banker or accountant off the street I highly highly doubt they'd have a line of >25 yo women ready for casual sex. Maybe an odd one once or twice but definitely not plates all around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are considered 'Beta' are better off alone.Yeah, but hours of housework and childbearing ain't shit, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are considered 'Beta' are better off alone.She was with him through thick and thin since he was a nobody and did the right things by all your red-pilled criteria. He got mega rich and cheated on her and somehow she is still in the wrong? This is exactly why we needed FEMINISM! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 11:13 PM |
| 7 | Is it common for attractive men to "beta-fy" themselves once they're in a LTR?It's the same with men though. If a woman shows interest and vulnerability right away she ends up getting used and called "clingy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Is it common for attractive men to "beta-fy" themselves once they're in a LTR?My very good looking ex-husband decided it was a good idea to be "laid-off" months on end EVERY FUCKING YEAR. We did last almost 10 years together, 7 of which I didn't realize he will never change his lazy ways. Once I realized it I lost all the respect and fell out of love with him. Other than that, I've had shorter relationships with "Chads" who would start "simping" and become more and more emotionally vulnerable as our relationship would develop. That in itself was never an issue, on the con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 10:30 PM |
| 25 | What in Fresh PickMe Hell is This?Stick with FDS! I've never been cheated on either because I left at any sign of a man not being into me all that much. If his eyes wonder, if his IG is filled with ass and tits, if he is talking to female "friends" that you are not friends with/don't know about, if he is on a dating website saying it's his old profile - he is not an HVM you are looking for. Men's cheating almost never has anything to do with the woman herself but with the fact that he doesn't really love her or is incapable of l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the frustration, anger, bitterness and resentment felt by unsuccessful* beta males boils down to the fact that women have intrinsic value, whereas men don't.Lol they get shocked and tell us our experience is exaggerated, anecdotal or straight-up fabricated. And of course NAMALT. Yet, every woman has been sexually harassed or assaulted at least once since nearly childhood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Home made Tinder experiment: FDS vs simps edition.Welp, at least you admit that it never actually worked... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 219 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.I'm a Russian living in the US. I'm 33 but when I was a teenager the notion of "Woman's job is to be a wife and a mother" was still strong in Russia. It's so ridiculous but in a lot of cultures women's worth is still closely entangled to being a bangmaid-incubator-domestic slave. Sad really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways.Revolutions and civil wars happened over large oppressions such as unreasonable taxation, monarchial injustice, slavery, not simply over someone being born more fortunate than others. "Some people won't settle for their due" - yeah, that's why we all either adapt, either drop out of the race in one way or another. To say it's not fair that we fuck hot guys but hold off for unattractive ones IS not fair lol. You don't act in anybody's interest other than your own, why should we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | It seems like a lot of people view sex as something valuable that women give to men, which men then have to make up for in other ways.Why though? Why is it so upsetting? It's like complaining someone was born into money while you have to work hard for everything. It's just life and it's what it is. Everybody has to work with what they have *shrug | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 06:54 PM |
| 36 | Have you guys read this? "Unattractive women need FDS"Exactly!!! Being beautiful absolutely doesn't guarantee a good partner. Being a woman guarantees you are gonna be bombarded with men trying to take advantage of you though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 22 | Have you guys read this? "Unattractive women need FDS"Awww what a cute little scrote with his backhanded pity! Thank you for promoting FDS though, after all a lot of us ended up here because of how much backlash FDS gets from LVMs and pickmes. I made it up to "Red pill helped me get laid all the time blah blah." First, I wished on so many different occasions that I could make my profile pic on here my face shot so that scrotes can see how unattractive I am lol. Second, even if all of us on here are ugly, old, fat and black so fucking what? Does it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | "Be yourself" and pretty much all dating troubles started with Baby BoomersWhile there is a ton to unpack in this yet another shitty red-pill/incel blame-someone-for-my-woes post, I have to admit the OP made a couple of funny observations ;D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 08:03 PM |
| 14 | NVM stands up forever girlfriend at their wedding and is elated when she says she will never bring up marriage again. Calls her "wife" in public to continue to rub salt into her wounds.Haha!! I know exactly what he was doing by calling her his "wife". He was breadcrumbing. Like hoping she's be happy with him introducing her as his wife instead of actually making her his wife. Sounds like she is finally getting the idea of what is really going on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:24 PM |
| 16 | The few times I heard about crazy ex bfs stories, the victims were brutally assaulted after they got stalked, their faces were burnt with acid or they were just murdered and their bodies left to rot in a ditch. But scrotes don't ever raise voices against such violence, they think she wanted it.I'm really happy you came out of it alive and so glad you found FDS! You mentioned that trauma doesn't go away and while I agree with that I also want to say it is not your fault you fell for an unworthy scrote that dragged you through the mud. Just remember him and his "gf" are not worth the dirt on the soles of your shoes. Fuck them! Walk with your head high, it's on them what they did to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manYou are missing the point entirely. Would it be great to have a soulmate for a partner - sure, that is any woman's dream. Would it be awesome to be a house slave/mangmaid/second class citizen but be provided for? Hell fucking NO! While I never dreamt about being a divorced single mom I'll take it any day over staying with my ex and I'm happy I had such an option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 3 | How to leave when you don't have a "good" reason?You got a lot of good answers to your question about "reasons" to leave. I want to address the second part: how to deal with the aftermath where a butthurt rejected LVM tries to tear you down. I'm 33 and I've dealt with it so much, I was completely dragged through the mud by my exs. I remember that dreading feeling where you anticipate a wave of shit coming at you because you know the disgraceful scrote will do everything to tarnish your reputation. Anyway, what I found the most helpful is to pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 05:48 PM |
| 6 | "It's more important for a woman I like to be attracted to me than it is that I'm attracted to her" To what extent does this statement hold true for you?I can see that. It's an exact same thing with unattractive men. They don't treat women above their league better than Chads do. That's why "Women need to date ugly men because they will commit/appreciate them more" is a garbage advice often being thrown around on here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Was enforced monogamy unfair to women?Men constantly preach about our incompetence while we were limited the whole human history by childbirth and their coercion. A 100 years ago there was no women scientists/engineers/lawyers. We were deemed incapable and less intelligent. Men scream that we are the emotional gender and prescribe roles to us. We continue proving them wrong yet there is more nonsense they come up with. Now the whole society will fall apart without them doing dirty work. People are designed to find solutions. In this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 04:47 AM |
| 19 | Women who choose to remain single and childless, rather than settle, is a net positive for society.Once or twice a year 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 02:41 AM |
| 8 | Women who choose to remain single and childless, rather than settle, is a net positive for society.Oh not even just that. Nursing homes are a brand new concept even in the west! I come from Russia and I’m only 33. I was shocked that it’s a common practice here in the states to not care about your elderly first hand. Throughout human history that was a common sense that elderly parents lived and were taken care of by their children. Nowadays you are likely to end up in a nursing home children or no children. I have two kids, there is no guarantee I’ll even be in contact with them after they tu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Was enforced monogamy unfair to women?You got pretty much the answer I was gonna give from medlaunicorn. Women did “men jobs” during WW2 all around the world. I’m sure if women can be surgeons we can figure out plumbing 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 12:07 AM |
| -1 | Was enforced monogamy unfair to women?That’s right, whamen!! You need to put out because men have jobs they get paid for!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 08:54 PM |
| 31 | Anyone else seen this self righteous narc on the bachelor?I don’t watch this show but oh boy... I’m glad she stood up for herself and eventually walked away. I just probably would’ve done it way sooner and wouldn’t even say as much as she did, just tell him to get out and leave. And oh, how typical of a butthurt LVM to run after you and scream insults as she is walking away! Classic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Your past is over, so don't let it define you. Forgive yourself and make your future better!Ohhhh how I love this ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 34 | Imagine carrying a pregnancy to term for this piece of shit LVMMy LVM ex went to watch a football game at a bar and then showed up wasted while I was getting induced. But of course, a man deserves to calm his nerves down as his woman is suffering through an agony going through labor to give birth to HIS child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:48 PM |
| 59 | Being with a low value man can make you believe that you are insecure and have low self-esteem. You are not the problem: they are!LVMs go-to technique is to make you believe that the reason they don’t treat you right is because YOU don’t deserve it. In fact, those dirtbags won’t treat ANY woman right the moment her views/feelings are inconvenient to him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 9 | It should be considered child abuse to teach daughters to be "good, submissive wives."My daughter is 7 and I already am thinking what I’m gonna teach her about the romantic relationship dynamics and how to navigate her in dating. My #1 advice will be: do NOT ever depend on a man! Maybe he will have enough dignity to not take advantage of your vulnerability, maybe he won’t. Why gamble? With that being said an independent woman should never be anyone’s maid. Overall my advice will be heavily based on FDS principles as I myself didn’t implement them enough when I was married to my L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:21 PM |
| 4 | The Female Social Matrix - the game women are really playing has evolved to the point where it’s going to destabilize post-modern society to chaotic levelsMarriage is worse for women than it is for men. Always have been. We were always taught to sacrifice ourselves for the happiness of others and be subservient. Now that we don’t need men for survival they are upset we don’t stick around in bad marriages anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:40 PM |
| 0 | The Female Social Matrix - the game women are really playing has evolved to the point where it’s going to destabilize post-modern society to chaotic levelsOh now single mothers are bread winners all of a sudden. Usually they yell how they all sit on welfare and are a burden to the society or some beta bux 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 5 | The Female Social Matrix - the game women are really playing has evolved to the point where it’s going to destabilize post-modern society to chaotic levelsI’ve said plenty of times: women initiating a divorce is not the same as being the reason for a divorce. I divorced my ex, sure, but even when I posted about it here a couple of times even red pillers agreed I should’ve not stayed in that marriage of mine. Usually it boils down to the husband not caring about his wife’s needs and ignoring her for years, when she is finally done it’s always: “I’m a nice guy! Why did she leave me!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:32 PM |
| 5 | The Female Social Matrix - the game women are really playing has evolved to the point where it’s going to destabilize post-modern society to chaotic levelsYeah, okay. Men love conditionally too. The conditions are just different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSo a woman with a partner is automatically self conscious by that logic? A confident woman can be occupied with other stuff and come across a man who’s worth her time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSo you mean to tell me all couples you come across the man in the relationship is an insufferable jerk and the woman is used and abused? I mean I’m 33 and maybe saw a little more but think about your extended family/people at work/neighbors? Every woman you know just gets treated like shit and loves it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 12:21 PM |
| 0 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadHate to be that person but ever thought about that “common denominator” argument? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadUmmm women with healthy self esteem won’t accept “being hurt and being treated as nuisance” as you suggested above. How are you going to build a healthy relationship with an unhealthy person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI have no hate for incels, nor do I sympathize with them. But I want to address your question on why people view incels as a terrorist group or at least a threat. Ummm because of the number of mass shootings they have caused? Just because you are not violent and personally wouldn’t go to that extend certainly doesn’t mean other members of the group don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYou found a long time partner because of your approach. RP guys strive to use and abuse. They don’t realize that confident healthy women see through that shit. The only ones who would allow men to treat them the way RP recommends are emotionally damaged insecure women. Then these men complain there is no love lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadOh so you want an emotionally damaged woman and now are sitting here claiming you’ve never experienced real love. Yeah, no shit dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?I only love GTA and Midnight Club. Vice City being the favorite. Stems from my childhood where I played with a few friends of mine. Other than that video games are just boring to me. Idk how anyone can play hours on end. I’ll much rather go biking or shopping or just hang out with girlfriends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 10:36 PM |
| 11 | A few fb jemsHahahaha!!!! Omg I will have no problem doing either or too 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 10:35 PM |
| 17 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️That’s super common for men. Know a few in person. Reddit guys constantly complain they swipe right on everyone but cannot get matches. It’s a common grievance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:45 PM |
| 8 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️Yeah, we know you aren’t picky when it comes to casual sex. Men don’t value women they don’t have to work hard for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 63 | Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷♀️WOmeN sHouLd PIck beTter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 10:37 PM |
| 38 | Men want a 1950s housewife but can’t do any of the 1950s husbandI cook and clean for me and my kids all the time. I also work full time and pay all my bills. I don’t need a motherfucker to come to my house and expect me to take care of him as he is one of my kids himself. Contribute or get the fuck out. If I’m expected to do shit I’ll make a point not to do shit lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:35 PM |
| 19 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!I slapped a motherfucker in the face once bc he groped my ass as I was getting on the train. He was so fucking shocked he just stood there glaring at me in disbelief. He thought I’d be too scared or embarrassed to respond. He didn’t get on the train after that which is understandable considering everybody would knew he is a disgusting pig at that point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | The fact that an entire gender has gotten away with normalising this disgusting, misogynistic habit is quite chillingOh well it’s just a little kink, ya know /s 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:22 PM |
| 15 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.Exactly this. Yet, men yell how we live off of the childsupport (facepalm) and gEt oUr HaiR aNd NaiLs dOne oN tHeiR dIme lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 15 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.I'll ignore your attempt to insult in order to prove your point and proceed to answer anyways. As a kid my family was dirt poor and there wasn't a choice for my mom: to work or to be a SAHM. She left my abusive father before I was 1. Did I like being in daycare/school? I didn't mind it. Looking back I feel like it benefited me in the long run. You learn discipline, structure, social skills. I wasn't sheltered and I'm glad I wasn't. I don't feel bad for my kids either. As a matter of fact we are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 05:26 PM |
| 13 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.Daycare and school. Like the way I was raised 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 05:05 PM |
| 40 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.I was gonna essentially say the same but you nailed it. I went to school and built a career so that I don’t have to depend on a husband. When my marriage went sour I left it 🤷♀️ To all men complaining: Level up or leave the gene pool. Simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | I bought the berries & chocolate, dipped them myself, a card, flowers, & her favorite wine for < $30. My mom is supporting me during grad school & tonight I’m making her fave dinner + this surprise. I’m a broke graduate & I found the time to do this for the queen in my life😂 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:14 PM |
| 2 | I bought the berries & chocolate, dipped them myself, a card, flowers, & her favorite wine for < $30. My mom is supporting me during grad school & tonight I’m making her fave dinner + this surprise. I’m a broke graduate & I found the time to do this for the queen in my lifeExhibit #1749 how you don’t have to spend a fortune to be HV! Good job, girl 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Is female dating strategy just full of black women? Apparently it isOh we are called that? By who? You? Very creative. Anyway, I don’t mind. Nothing against black women at all on this end. Cheers 🥂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 10:25 PM |
| -1 | Rate this chad's amazing personalityYou heard him talk to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 10:08 PM |
| -1 | Rate this chad's amazing personalityI dated chads/was married to one and at most they will ignore unattractive women 🤷♀️ Never heard any of them talk like that. ESPECIALLY racial slur, they don’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 10:05 PM |
| -3 | Rate this chad's amazing personalityNo, I was referring to the middle one thinking that that single mom pic was the one that was responding to the girl with “the skeleton nose”. Afterwards when I zoomed in I saw it was two shots side to side. If some women are down doesn’t mean the majority would tv be down. I’m white and would actually report that shit. So doesn’t prove anything to me, no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 10:02 PM |
| -3 | Rate this chad's amazing personalityOh guys like that don’t talk like this at all. I’ve dealt with them. They don’t even feel like being nasty and insult cause they can get any pussy they want and are not bitter 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | FDS cooking skillsThe stove isn’t on... These are mans hands lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Is female dating strategy just full of black women? Apparently it isI’m white | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 09:01 PM |
| 6 | Is female dating strategy just full of black women? Apparently it isI’m on there a lot and when women do talk about their backgrounds I see a ton of different nationalities on there. I myself am Russian living in the states 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 09:00 PM |
| -2 | Rate this chad's amazing personalityThat’s an incel created a fakie. It’s very obvious. Anything to prove the point though, riiiiight?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Rate this chad's amazing personalityThat’s an incel created fake profile. It’s very obvious. I’m questioning if the messages are real lol. Like the one in the middle looks like two women messaging between each other? Anything to prove the point though, riiiiight?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 08:48 PM |
| -5 | Rate this chad's amazing personalityThat’s an incel created fake profile. It’s very obvious. I’m questioning if the messages are real lol. Like the one in the middle looks like two women messaging between each other? Anything to prove the point though, riiiiight?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How many women are blue pilled on men's sexuality?Good question and good post. Society “blue pills” women the same way as it does men. I think that subconsciously I could feel something off when interacting with men who wanted to be “friends”, therefore never really had one. I think for centuries society kinda masked peoples true nature due to religion. Like a certain conduct was established and enforced. Sexuality was strictly a tool of procreation and was suppressed by the most part. Now the times have changed and we are still adjusting to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | 'Sex work is work' doesn't prove anythingCouldn’t be said better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 23 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?Just two days ago my former mother in law sent me a message asking what size clothes have my kids been wearing. We are not on very good terms but my question is: “Why not ask your son - their father?” Isn’t he supposed to be the other parent? I didn’t respond to her and told my ex to text her. They are his kids too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Oh I’ve never been asked to split thank god. Especially on first dates? If I’m not impressive enough for a man to even want to pick up the bill what am I gonna waste my time for? Usually men are the most gallant in the beginning and if the bar is that low at where he wants to go Dutch then he is not into you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 03:19 PM |
| 2 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.FDS doesn’t suggest women should not show gratitude. This is where I think it gets misunderstood a lot. It just says that if a man is serious about you he will WANT to invest in you. I know first hand that’s how men operate. When a guy is infatuated he wants to make you happy and show you off to the world. That’s how men show effort! Not by splitting checks and making sure “he is not being taken advantage off” 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Do women actually want to be wives ? Or do they have to pretend in order to Jeep the charade going ?Omg pleeeaaasee!!! Stop writing these fairy-tales!! Your whole first paragraph is straight up TRP fiction story that you guys preach to each other. A woman starts having kids, takes years and years off work, sits on welfare and gets a part-time job at best once the kids are grown and try to marry a beta provider... I just can't.. Go in real world sometimes, will ya? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Do women actually want to be wives ? Or do they have to pretend in order to Jeep the charade going ?Well don't you see how these statistics for people 75+ yo aren't exactly applicable in today's world? I mean you are talking about people that grew up in 50s and 60s, ofc women back then didn't get educated at the rates they do now. As far as young generation of 18 to 24 yo - young men are more capable of performing labor-heavy work, that's where all the difference really is and you said yourself the gap starts closing after that (after women get on their feet and/or get education). Even with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Do women actually want to be wives ? Or do they have to pretend in order to Jeep the charade going ?Anti depressant usage skyrocketed for everybody. I find it funny how men still try to tell us how we were happier home washing their dirty socks by hand and being taken for granted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Do women actually want to be wives ? Or do they have to pretend in order to Jeep the charade going ?That always puzzled me when TRP said that. If I'm making 6 figures at age 32 how is it that I'm gonna somehow go broke as I get older? If anything my salary is expected to increase. My mom was single and reached a great financial status. In general people tend to excel in their income/lifestyle as they get older, not the other way around. Older women are just as poor/rich as older men, it's all very individualistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to datingIf you are Chris Hemsworth your pool is not dwindling from a small pool to a virtually non-existent one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 06:29 PM |
| -4 | Why do few women whop disagree with TRP offer alternatives to it?FDS women don’t try to say anything about themselves. It teaches women not to put up with shit. Teaches them what PUA and TRP tactics are and how to detect and avoid men like that. They call them “scrotes” 🤷♀️ Whats so hard about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 9 | Why do few women whop disagree with TRP offer alternatives to it?Yeah for some reason women are supposed to raise above and be bigger people. Lay down and take the abuse and respond with kindness. fuck no, scrotes lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 02:49 PM |
| 15 | Why do few women whop disagree with TRP offer alternatives to it?Yup. Also choking, anal, facials etc are made to look the norm 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 12:24 PM |
| 12 | Why do few women whop disagree with TRP offer alternatives to it?There are soooo many demeaning gender specific names for women that has been around for centuries! Now they are upset about ”scrotes”😂 Besides HVMs are not considered scrotes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 12:21 PM |
| 7 | A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as ExplanationThat’s just terrible. The way you describe him sounds like he is one of those super narcissistic types to whom nobody would be good enough. I bet the next woman he dates will end up a forever girlfriend too. Maybe he will have a kid with her, but I highly doubt he’d ever get married. Or maybe when he is 50+ he will manage to pull off a trophy wife who will use him for his money 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | What is so wrong with being a gold digger?Men that can afford gold diggers know exactly why those women are with them and don’t complain. It’s the men that CANT AFFORD gold diggers that have a problem with them 🤷♀️ Someone on here argued the other day how buying a coffee for a woman is gold digging on her part 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | The happy single career woman myth.It’s all very very individualistic. No, you can’t claim sahm are happier while corporate women are miserable. It definitely depends on a ton of factors. For example, I know a few SAHM who feel under appreciated and mentally abused by their husbands because the husbands are the bread winners and feel they are in charge. One is in school now and often talks how she’ll leave once she gets her degree if things don’t change. Overall, I believe a good balance of work/family is what makes people the ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 04:37 PM |
| 23 | RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN 🏃🏼♀️Ahhhh it’s always the mothers fault when the dad is not present in his kids’ lives. Sure, yeah. The same way my dad chose to stop coming to see me at the age of 4 because he found out my mom started dating someone. He also never paid any child support and back in the 90s in Russia it wasn’t possible to make him 🤡 lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:28 PM |
| 24 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡Omg sis that hurt to read! I’m so glad you are FDS now. I legit will rather eat with my friends or by myself instead of a man like that. I’m embarrassed for him. Fucking 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 11 | Is romance fun/a goal or is it a chore on the way to better things?You hit the nail on the head here. At my 32 years of post wall age I’ve never really met a man (or made sure I didn’t interact with one) that would just try to skip everything and have sex with the most minimum interaction possible. Even when a guy wants something casual it still entails some level of courtship and getting to know each other. I really do believe most men on here don’t interact with humans irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 58 | Think this fits in hereWow. I read it and just realized the connotation these two almost identical sentences entail. Just how? How is this fair and ok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:25 PM |
| 17 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡It’s definitely a lot to do with the apps!! That’s why scrotes go: “Why should I pay if both of us are trying to find someone?” Being on the app is like an open invitation to be disrespected and taken advantage of. They think just because you are on it you are just as eager to have some cAsUAl sex (aka trying to be their free prostitute) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:13 PM |
| 19 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡I do think it’s more common for younger women because of all the gaslighting. I’m 32 and to me it’s ridiculous. Such a turn off too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Modern women want a man with liberal values who acts conservative - who doesnt actually exist.Right? My bf is a muscle head high T liberal leftist 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 35 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡Truth. I went on hundreds of dates with different dudes - no joke - never been asked to pay by anybody. My current bf is hot af, a total Chad and he never expects me to pay for shit. I sometimes invite him and pay, he always says thank you several times and thinks it’s a treat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:09 PM |
| 8 | I genuinely feel angry for the sake of young women.Omg this is just.... wtf?! Where her parents at? I have a 7 yo daughter. If I find out something like that when she is a teenager all hell will break loose. I will make sure to put the scrote in jail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 45 | I genuinely feel angry for the sake of young women.Ugh I’m 32 I feel genuinely bad for young women. They’ve been gaslighted by our culture and “feminism” to accept bare minimum and even less. It’s a disaster.. I met my ex husband at 19 and we were together throughout my 20s. He was a LVM ultimately but at least we really loved each other and thought we were soulmates. Young women nowadays just get used for sex and thrown out and that’s considered normal and empowering | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 136 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡FDS rules aside, what a turn off to go out with a man who can’t afford your dinner?? Like i would totally lose all the attraction to a guy who’d say that. I can totally pay for the most expensive restaurant myself but a man showing how cheap/incompetent he is would make me want to have dinner by myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 36 | Oops....Yeah. Too bad he will gaslight them into believing the clerk was just an idiot messing up their purchase | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:35 AM |
| 8 | A lot of men can't "be themselves" as women often offer as advice to datingDepends on who you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 04:35 AM |
| 9 | Just got asked what has changed about me by someone I have not seen in a few monthsGood. More women need this confidence. We are queens 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:13 AM |
| 69 | I'm not easily accessible anymore. My energy is something not everyone gets to experience. I feel like a Queen having a say on who I even allow to enter my personal space.Yes!! Goes the same for anybody in your life really. I had a “friend” who was so insecure she constantly needed to feel like she has one on me. I asked myself why do I spend my valuable time doing things with her if she wants to self validate herself at my expense? Fuck that, I have waaay better friends than that! A couple of years ago I dated a guy who was a gaslighting scrote who twisted everything to justify whatever the fuck he was doing. After I dumped him he kept trying to come back and af… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What's something that you are ashamed to admit has attracted you?Steamer works great. I hate ironing too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/20 08:45 PM |
| 21 | Omg Sis, you are so lucky! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 #blessedhunI was thinking that the other day too. I left my LVM ex with two small kids and my bare ass. I made it. I’m 32 and have more going for myself than most men I know. The fuck do I need their “guidance” for? My ex rents a room while I’m buying a house all by myself 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 16 | Omg Sis, you are so lucky! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 #blessedhunOmg lmao!! I love this sub 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:05 PM |
| 23 | Omg Sis, you are so lucky! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 #blessedhunThat’s a spot on analysis, sis 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:03 PM |
| 22 | If you haven’t already, I urge you to watch the movie “The Glorias” about feminist icon Gloria Steinem. Kween shit all the way through 👏🏼Oh cool. I have that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:42 PM |
| 26 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsHookers get paid at least. She got treated even worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:15 PM |
| 7 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsOmg omg what the fucking fuck did I just read??? Is that the sky high standards of hypergamy manosphere raves about??? Pathetic. All the way around. Just pathetic. As for the woman I hope she learned her lesson. We are advocating to women here but I can’t even feel that sorry for her because WTF GIRL?? If she was my friend I’d slap her I swear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:13 PM |
| 6 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisNigerian men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:04 AM |
| 20 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereAwesome post, OP!! I’m Russian and I’ve dated a bit back home before moving to the states. Russian men are awful in their own sexist way but the point about “if you kiss and sleep with each other = you are exclusive” still stands. As far as everything else about most men here you are spot on. Before I started dating my current bf I was single for a year and a half and refused to date because of everything (and more) you described. If things don’t work out with him i know I’m gonna be back to the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it unusual or odd to not know/not care about your partners N count?I’ve never been asked by any men I dated. I might’ve volunteerly told in a course of conversation but I don’t really recall cause nobody gets hung up on it. A lot of people on here don’t live regular lives though, they live the reddit reality and it looks like some grown men never snapped out of a high schooler mentality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 14 | 50/50 is a financial plan, not a relationship!He is incredible. Everything he says is spot on. I sure hope he lives by what he preaches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:05 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Omg how can I upvote this 1000 times? THIS. Everything she said is absolutely spot on. This exact scenario happened with my first bf. I kept breaking up with him, he’d beg to come back. Then he stopped and I was the one to reach out. Started with just me messaging first and him gladly running back, ended with me begging for him to come back and him reluctantly accepting me. You lose all self worth. Your days become miserable with anxiety from uncertainty as he gradually becomes cold and distant.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 13 | Women only gyms need to be normalized so that we don’t have to deal with being stared at, harassed or catcalled while trying to workout🙄🙄Omg this is great!!!!! 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:42 PM |
| 4 | The reason a high N count is impressive in men, but not so much in women:Omg same shit on this sub every fucking day 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 24 | Women only gyms need to be normalized so that we don’t have to deal with being stared at, harassed or catcalled while trying to workout🙄🙄Not to mention women used to be excluded from a ton of men-only spaces for centuries. For the sole reason that they thought we were beneath them. Now that we want some space it’s for our safety and comfort! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:28 PM |
| 23 | From my time online dating. . .Omg lol. These types of posts are my fave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP Shows Men Are AwfulI disagree. It’s extremely rare. I’m in accounting. Maybe there is some bookkeeper who started with a company back in the 80s and got promoted to. Evoke a CFO at a corporate? But how often does that really happen? It’s only a pure luck or extraordinary skills/intellect that might push you to the top without a degree. To even get your foot in the door is a challenge in itself nowadays 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP Shows Men Are AwfulThey can be stupid af and still have a degree and can be smart af and not have a degree, yet the later is not gonna get qualified for a job that requires a degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP Shows Men Are AwfulNot so much inherently valuable because we produce eggs but because men are thirstier. Now, it doesn’t mean every woman is valued equally. Obviously if you are skinny and pretty your value goes up in men’s eyes. Leveling up for a woman is becoming more independent. Now, men often say how they don’t care about women’s status/career/money but guess what... More of the status/career/money of her own she has = less likely she is to settle/put up with men’s bs. Therefore high status women do end up w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | As a woman. What's your opinion on hypergamy?I guess it depends on your social circle... I’m personally not religious therefore not affiliated with a church. As far as waiters... I can see maybe other waitresses getting interested? Women in my circle are all white collar so they do look at what a man does for living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 2 | As a woman. What's your opinion on hypergamy?Maybe when I was way younger.. We are talking a teenager/very early 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | As a woman. What's your opinion on hypergamy?If a man has a menial job how would be considered high status? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadHopefully they will unmute you after a couple of days. If not I’d maybe message an admin or two directly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI’m on the reddit app so in my case I’d have to go to FDS, then click “About”, then scroll down where it says “Moderators” and right next to it there is a little ✉️ sign you click on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYeah idk what they are talking about. I’m a woman also and share the same opinion/experience as the one you described here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYou can message their admins and ask. Did you post/comment on one of manosphere subs? I did once on WhereAllGoodMenAre and got banned from FDS even though I was mocking the former. Messaged FDS admins, they unbanned me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 09:27 PM |
| 22 | Male delusion is realHe is probably into ethical nonmonogamy and looking for a polyamorous relationship 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Women and gynomorphismLol I painted my ex husbands bedroom purple when I moved in with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Women and gynomorphismThe first impression I got from the picture was that the person just moved in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | The combination drugs,dating/casual sex needs to be questionedYou acting like it’s some kind of a modern issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 10 | The combination drugs,dating/casual sex needs to be questionedAnd that works? I never had anyone lean over and whisper in my ear they want to do things to me in the bedroom unless we were dating already. Serious question: have you been slapped by anyone after doing that? Or at least yelled at? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | The combination drugs,dating/casual sex needs to be questionedOh no, alcohol has always been consumed throughout human history. What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Is the most important factor for getting women actually money?I think by the most part young women choose based on looks. I know I did. I was head over heels when I met my ex husband and thought he was more handsome than any actor in Hollywood. After I got divorced I told myself I’ll be dating rich guys. Went on a ton of dates and realized I personally couldn’t do it. Now my bf used to compete in bodybuilding and still lifts every day. I find him very attractive. We make about the same 🤷♀️ So on paper it looks good and smart to just get a rich guy and liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are there seemingly more women who don't get along with other women than men with men???? Completely opposite in my experience. I have a ton of female friends. Just hung out with 8 of them for my bffs bday and we consider it a low key party. Usually there are 20+. Men I’ve dated never hung out with guys. Or very rarely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?Half of what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 5 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?Yes, you are arguing with someone notorious for delusions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 2 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?I’ve yet to meet a woman who receives alimony. But they yell about it left and right. 25% of men who are supposed to pay child support don’t pay it (in the US) lol. TRP needs a hard fact check | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 3 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?Easy. Because TRP hyper exaggerates everything to make it easier to attack. Look how they yell about alimony. I’ve yet to meet a person who receives it in real life. But they claim it’s like the default for divorced women. Or how single mothers are single mothers because they choose trailer trash tatted inmate loser lol. Nevermind that most are just divorced women that did marry in good faith and their only fault is that they didn’t have a crystal ball on the day of the wedding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.Noooooo, my friend. Now I see why “Incel” is an insult lol. Have a good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 2 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.You are so off base I don’t even know where to start.. Anyway, cheers 🥂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | If men want a woman to love them for who he is and not what he can provide, he should go for younger womenHaha! I was one of those who met my ex husband at 18 and fell madly in love with him, got married, had kids, etc. Also, had no problem leaving once I realized he will never live up to me and left him at 29. No, young marriages are not the recipe for success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 3 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.Oh and make better choices sleeping with women that won’t take you for child support and abort instead, okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 01:30 AM |
| 7 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.Oh yeah? I should’ve aborted mutually decided upon children bc I CAN. Otherwise, the participating party should not be bothered with anything after the relationship/marriage falls apart. Yeah, because of people like YOU there is the law! I bet some people also think it’s ok to kill someone driving and drive off because, you know, the person chose to leave the house and cross the street one day. Abortions are NOT an easy solutions to unwanted pregnancy. Some women choose them while THE MAJORITY c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 01:28 AM |
| 2 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.Oh you talk about abortions as if it was a choice of wether you should keep a puppy or not if something inconveniences you. Yes, it’s just a such an easy peasy choice, you stupid whamen! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 01:15 AM |
| 4 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.Oh yeah? Where the fuck is my benefit into raising kids me and my ex had? I should be the responsible one while he gets to fly free because I’m the mom? Yeah, that’s exactly why we have the laws we have, because men are irresponsible and take no accountability otherwise (and even with the laws a big percentage doesn’t 🥴) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.They will absolutely opt out of 50/50. Id love to see if it became mandatory and default. I have endless examples. The funniest one is where the dad threatened to take the kid full time, dragged my friend to court, got 50/50, all so that he can start skipping his days three weeks after the court, and now doesn’t take the kid at all 1.5 years later 😆😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 12:59 AM |
| 4 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.That’s exactly right. My ex husband pays less in child support than what I pay for child care alone (daycare and afterschool). EVERYTHING else is on me. Yet, he screams how I “live off of his money” 🤣. Once the divorce happens men don’t give a shit about having 50/50 custody. They never want it nor fight for it. The ones that do usually get it (my bf got it with no problem even though the mom pushed for 70/30). They use it as a point of complaining. They don’t really care to do any math | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadAnd FDS teaches how to make good choices 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadPeople think single people are lonely because they themselves need to be in a relationship in order to be happy. The reality is: if you are confident, make decent living and have good friends you will much rather be alone than in a shitty relationship. I was single for 1.5 years, didn’t use any apps and was staying away from dating. It was awesome. My current bf is great but if it ever changes I don’t mind going back 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI’m on FDS all the time and what do you mean by “angry”? Cause we talk how shitty most men are? Most of us have been through bad relationships and we realize that women are groomed to be used by men since childhood. We are just simply not ok with that and point it out🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secOne of my ex’s liked to simply ignore any discussion he didn’t want to have. If it was in person he’d brush me off with: “You are too used to o arguing with your ex husband. I will not do this.” If it was via messages he’d just stop responding and then message later like nothing happened. At first I was trying to suppress my concerns but later I realized: if nothing that bothers ME is important to him and he acts like it’s a mere nuisance then why do I even need him in my life? So I can feel uni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Looks isn't everything, but for Most Men, it isOh booo hooo hooo, poor thing had an unsatisfactory sex life. Did he tell you that? Men making up excuses for men. More news at 11 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Provider" males should employ sugar dating strategy by 30s rather than marry women in 30+ range that rode CCAlright then go for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.Well, all I can say is that if I wasn’t sexually attracted to any of my previous partners a relationship wouldn’t happen to begin with. Also, the sex wouldn’t happen unless we had a relationship. So it’s something I make clear from the start, I never understood FWB or any NSA sex, honestly most women regret it afterwards and I don’t know why they lie to themselves. Also, if I’m out and about and happen to notice an attractive man I mentally might make a note of it but It’s never that serious at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.Then you might as well bring up the good old narrative: “All sexual relationships are prostitution”. It gets thrown around all the time. I suppose I’m a prostitute for making sure I’m in an exclusive relationship before having sex. Cool. Cheers 🥂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.Now you are nitpicking. I used both “expect” and “hope” in that comment you quoted as interchangeable. If she is a prostitute for expecting a relationship but not getting it how is it exactly a prostitution? Ultimately the transaction doesn’t happen if it’s in terms of prostitution. To PPD men nearly anything a woman does is prostitution and gold digging. Just saw a comment from a guy saying a coffee date is gold digging if a man pays for it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.No, they don’t necessarily expect but they are hoping for it. And someone on here once used an interesting metaphor saying that a women putting out for a man she likes is like paying an admission price to see if it will go somewhere. I’d say that’s pretty much accurate. However, there are better ways to make sure you are gonna get a commitment than approaching men and sleeping with them in hopes he will want more with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.So expecting more than casual sex, like hoping for a serious relationship is “prostitution”? Most women don’t engage in FWB situations purely for the sex itself, they hope it will go elsewhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadInteresting cause I also live in North America. To each their own I suppose 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 12:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Provider" males should employ sugar dating strategy by 30s rather than marry women in 30+ range that rode CCNo not really. You are not really talking about a sugar baby relationship either, you are talking about straight up prostitution. What an innovative solution to men’s problem indeed. Wonder why it still hasn’t solved anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.Your bike analogy applies to your situation. Men will fuck a woman regardless if she is his Yamaha or Ducati. Going up to a guy there is a good chance you will still be used for sex even if he wants nothing serious with you. These are the situations I as a woman want to avoid. So everyone is trying to maximize their benefit and we all deal with our specific circumstances and use methods that work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 11:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.If you get to pick from women who are approaching you, then sure you can just sit around and wait. It’s just not the reality for most men. My ex husband was my ideal guy looks-wise at the time I met him, however I waited for him to make a move. My current bf is exactly my type - also initiated first 🤷♀️ I used to bartend and I saw good looking guys being hit on by women, it was a rare occurrence but it did happen. However, I really don’t think every girl does it as long as she sees an attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 05:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.Hmmm not true. I, for once, never approached a man. Doesn’t mean I wasn’t attracted to any. Some women don’t approach regardless of their attraction to a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 05:07 AM |
| 4 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.Ok, I’m pretty sure anyone who is aware of TRP already knows that. The problem is just because men become aware of that doesn’t mean women will change their behavior. The post calls for women to start approaching. I honestly don’t think an average men all of a sudden will start getting numbers from strange women if they got embedded in their brains that approaching a man is ok. They will still only approach hot guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI’ve never been asked to split a bill or pay for myself. This is not a cultural norm outside of Reddit. So I don’t know what you are talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWhat do you mean? I have a bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 04:47 AM |
| 10 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.So suppose you are THAT good looking and everything you said is true. So what? That’s not the vast majority of men and such an anecdote doesn’t impact the overall culture significantly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "Provider" males should employ sugar dating strategy by 30s rather than marry women in 30+ range that rode CCHarem of young women you say, huh? Knowing a few women who are onto sugar dating I can tell you usually a millionaire can only afford 1-2 sugar babies cause they cost thousands a month. Also, don’t expect exclusivity on their part. One girl I know who does sugaring took a Chad on a cruise with the money she got from her sugar daddies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Basing your life around sex/power/dominance dynamics and spreading those ideas is bringing the society backwardsI follow FDS and me and my bf compromise. He knows what I expect and like so he acts on it. I know what’s important to him and I act on that. We both try for each other. How else would a relationship work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 7 | Basing your life around sex/power/dominance dynamics and spreading those ideas is bringing the society backwardsI love how men on here love to bring up how unattractive western women have become, yet they are no prize themselves 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 19 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNEExactly. Your bf sounds awesome btw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:06 AM |
| 6 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadOh yeah right. Maybe some really bitter people hate on some random strangers. Most people don’t give a shit about anybody they don’t know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSo? Men call women sluts as an insult and create subs dedicated to making fun of women they don’t find worthy of commitment. Cry me a River | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 87 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNEOmg just listened to her song Only Time. It’s fantastic and so beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Taking females on dates is a waste of time and no real man does it.Yeah, so what’s the plan, buddy? “Hey you over there! You are a virgin? No? K let’s go fuck then.” Is that how women should be approached? Funny how red pillers are so cool and bad online. Try pulling something like this off in real life and get kicked out of the bar and get laughed at 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThere is no right or wrong. He will probably find a pickmeisha who will be willing to go for a walk, while the FDSer will vet for a man who fits her standards. Simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadBecause they are bitter at the entire gender due to their lack of their sexual experience? But to your original point - American women or anybody really doesn’t care. It’s up to incels to become better if they want their lives to be different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadHe beat them in their own game? No, him not taking her to dinner is a clear indication he is a LVM, therefore good riddance. One of my first posts on FDS was an exchange of messages with a scrote that also tried to pull off “drink date”. You can check it out lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadMost American women don’t give a shit what incels do. If they level up and become desirable- more power to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 18 | Can we stop romanticizing Brannifer 2020Men age like fine wine though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 9 | Hates porn because…muh penis!Booohooohoo 😭 Too bad so sad, you poor scrote 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 12 | I wonder if all her male followers fight with each other over her. It’d be nice to pin all those LVMs against each other.Omg this just happened to me a few days ago when I posted a picture of my bf on fb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 0 | In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy.Idk I’m 32 and I never dated older guys when I was in my 20s. I found them gross regardless of money/status. As far as looks: all my men were good looking and around my age, not sure why would I want a good looking 30 yo in my early 20s if I could have a good looking guy in his 20s too 🤷♀️. Don’t really know any women my age married or having a SO much older than them. I’ll say more: I worked in public accounting and dealt with a lot of individual taxpayers. It’s VERY rare to see large age gaps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 7 | Used or new, we will run you overEven if you are a virgin and have no clue, after a couple of years you get the hang of it. And even if you only had one guy this whole time you will crave more if he is inadequate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:14 PM |
| 5 | When all of your opinions about the opposite sex and dating comes from a sample size full of only teens and young adults in their 20s, you’re ALWAYS going to be disappointed, disgusted and angry. But isn’t that obvious?Wow this is one of the most coherent and logical posts I’ve seen on this sub. Unbelievable 🤯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is there so much denialism about the difference in sexuality between men and women?While I usually agree with you, I’m really confused on “women envy men” part. Can you please elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 09:22 PM |
| 7 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.I honestly always found it weird when people said:”I hate cats!” I’ve heard it so many times too. Like tf? What did a small animal did to you that you hate them so much you feel a need to broadcast it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 64 | Before I joined FDS, I went on a coffee date with a man (38M) who told me he planned to buy a Tesla. He asked me to dinner and suggested a place, then asked if we can go to a place of my ethnic cuisine. The next day he asked if the place was $$ bc he was on a budget.. Sigh!Lol I want a Tesla but you onto something here. I went on three dates with a surgeon that drove a Tesla. He was also cheap and boring and tried to come inside my house after date #3. No thanks lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 6 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?Omg I had two Anthonys. Never again!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 36 | Almost 100k Queens!!!It’s getting so popular because it speaks the truth!!! I was lucky enough to have a very strong mother who taught me a lot of FDS principles but looking at modern propaganda I have no idea how young women are supposed to know wrong from right. Intuitively however women know what’s up, that’s why the sub is growing like crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 29 | New Zealand passes legislation granting domestic violence leave!Phew for a sec I thought they are giving the abusers paid domestic violence leave while they go to jail 😅 My ex husband would never have to work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 20 | Why Good Women Are Losing On Dating AppsYup. Collectively I spent 5 days on tinder quickly realizing I was just wasting my precious time. I was “open minded”, read people’s profiles and swiped on men I didn’t necessarily find hot but liked their profile. All the guys regardless of their looks were just looking to pump and dump. The way they’d deliver their intentions went from “Not looking for anything serious right now” to “Why the fuck are you on tinder if you don’t want to come to my house” (yes, I was told exactly that). Being on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...I’m also always late but I’m well worth waiting for 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 11 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Oh I laughed so hard!! Thank you!! 🤣🤣😂😂 I just love this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 14 | If the sex is bad the first time, move on.20-30 in one session?! Jeez and here I thought I came easily | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:36 PM |
| 23 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...I’m banned from all them dating subs 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:50 PM |
| -1 | In terms of social dating, I’ve noticed that guys that already have pictures of themselves surrounded by girls on their profiles , get more girls. What’s the female equivalent to this?Yeah. You don’t date girls from apps or any girls in general actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 02:03 PM |
| 5 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"Your last paragraph is exactly how I feel too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Do men see women as relationship material when they are healthier or thin?Me too! One of my ex bfs was waaaayyy below my league. We were only together for a few months but he was the reason I stopped dating what I thought was “for good”. Negging, no compliments, no flowers, talking himself up all the time, the final straw was when I found out he was still on a dating website and then tried to gaslight me into thinking that was normal and I was the insecure one. Lmao! Now I’m dating a guy who is a fucking smokeshow and worships me like a goddess. Guys below your league… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Do men see women as relationship material when they are healthier or thin?This. Exactly this! They completely don’t appreciate when a hot woman gives them a chance. Instead they get even more insecure and take it out on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Do men see women as relationship material when they are healthier or thin?This is such a misconception! I spent literally 5 days on tinder collectively between the three times I tried the app. Men wanted to pump and dump regardless of their looks. I actually was shocked how some average dudes wasaayyy below my league would tell me: “I’m not looking for anything serious right now, just looking to Netflix and chill”. It was astonishing to me tbh. Like who the fuck do you think you are, bud? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 20 | Excuse me WHAT?!! The way being a “ride or die” is drilled into our heads is scary!!I’m an immigrant in the states and was pretty ignorant about dating dynamic of the black community. FDS really opened my eyes as I saw ladies commenting on here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Is anyone in this subreddit even blue pilled?I agree with u/wtknight. Other than that what normal woman would agree with red pillers? Plus, a ton of them get their “knowledge” from TRP and MGTOW subs and have 0 real life experience 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 123 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.Spoiler alert: he will still date the average girl and use her for sex/emotional labor/support/social life etc etc. Then when the right woman comes along he will dump her regardless of how much time and effort she invested into him. Or if the right woman doesn’t come along he will keep her as a forever gf and constantly neg and complain that she isn’t all that. That’s why throwing yourself at a man is ALWAYS a bad idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:33 PM |
| 50 | One, data is never 100% secure, two, all the pics you send will be SFW and he will be grateful, or he will be erased.Yup. I dated a guy for about 5 months after my divorce. I thought the chemistry was good and we had a ton of fun together. He asked me if he could choke me and slap me in the face during sex. My answer was a HELL NO ( I’ve never been a hardcore pickmeisha). Well after about 4 months he started having trouble getting/staying hard. He told me that if i agree to his kinks the problem will likely go away. Long story short that played into me deciding to dump him. (I wasn’t aware of porn sickness at … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Good for you. I was single for 1.5 years. It was awesome and I really learned how to be happy with just myself. I’ll never put up with bs from my partner and will walk away and be single again if I have to. The right person will find you if it’s meant to be. For now concentrate on yourself and your own happiness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020If he withdrew like that he wasn’t all that interested to begin with. I wouldn’t respond to every single phone call in the beginning, that’s giving too much certainty. Also, yeah try to avoid too much complaining/expressing negative feelings. I wouldn’t recommend to change your persona to be 100% positive. No, still tell about your likes and dislikes just don’t show too much emotion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:09 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Please, don’t ever put all your feeling out there especially when you first start dating. It’s like showing your cards during a poker game. And I get that you get anxious and want more certainty when you like someone. You think you are being upfront and honest about your feelings and are acting in good faith by letting him know. Unfortunately, it’s only showing you as desperate or that he already won you over so he doesn’t have to do much. Men love challenges whether they admit to it or not. Rel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make her drink. If I were you I’d sit down with her and be completely honest even if it hurts her feelings. The truth is: HE DOESNT CARE!!!! That’s what you need to tell her. Her throwing herself at him with that “friendship” bs or screaming matches is just making her look pathetic especially after MONTHS after the breakup. She is a mere nuance to him, crazy ex, an ego boost. And that’s what I’d tell her if I was her friend. She is embarrassing herself… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore?Majority of families have dual income and I live in real world unlike the manosphere you belong to. I don’t know a single divorced woman who got more than half of property and I don’t know any that get alimony. Divorce affects both parties at where they both have to figure out how to run a separate household on a single income. I know first hand. Me and my ex both walked away with a vehicle and that was it. We both struggled to get our lives back in order and it took a couple of years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Why should women even bother to enter monogamous relationships with the average man anymore?No. It’s real life. Most people come out of divorce worse off financially than when they were married. Yes, men and women both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 5 | "The decline" is largely a myth - female promiscuity isn't new.Mimoxs is definitely not a noob here, bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 8 | Do not date "newly single" or "recently separated" men. You are not an emotional support animal.To me I know I’m over someone when I completely want nothing to do with them. The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. I wish nothing ill for any ex I had, on the contrary I wish them well. Do I want to grab coffee sometime or have a casual chit chat on the phone? Hell NO! I don’t have that kind of time and energy, I’ll rather have lunch with my girls. As far as healing: I still beat myself up here and there for sticking around for too long, giving another chance, missing red flags, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:22 AM |
| 8 | The fact that I was in love with this song as a child...I was thinking exactly that a couple of weeks ago!! This is embarrassing they even came out with this shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:12 AM |
| 3 | This reminded me of all you wonderful ladies.. keep being queens! 👸💐I picked up this habit when I was single. Now that I have a bf that buys me flowers consistently I kinda miss buying flowers for myself lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?There. That’s why #metoo exists. I get insulted when some old fuck tries to hit on me or worse yet say something dirty. Feels like you need a shower afterwards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?Haha! Yeah ok. He will be flattered initially, then it will go to his head, then he will become lukewarm thinking he can do even better since he already got approached. Men don’t turn down easy sex. So approaching one is devaluing yourself and setting yourself up to be used. They approach women they really want and take them far more seriously because they actually had to work for them. The end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?No it’s not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 09:55 PM |
| 26 | Reddit in a NutshellI agree with this. My ex husband was 9 inches and the sex was great. Then after our divorce I dated a guy who only had 5 and once we got to know each other in the bedroom the sex was just as good. Now I’m dating a guy who is 6 and it’s absolutely amazing. It’s all about arousal and how a guy turns you on 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 24 | Reddit in a NutshellThe next guy will say “a virgin” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Have you ever actually been asked your N-count, and if so, was the relationship worth it?Same and I second this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Says someone who’s got no idea what it’s like to be a hot girl online. You think guys just drop down trying to be in a committed relationships with you? Looks aren’t everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 12:33 PM |
| 5 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Well if it needs to be spelled out: there is a litany of reasons why people don’t marry every single person they date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 20 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!I’m sorry but how are you jumping to this conclusion? There is a ton of reasons why people’s relationships don’t work out. But no, of course, this is PPD after all! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 11:00 PM |
| 4 | I did it. I cut him off.You did right. It’s like ripping a bandaid off. You can do it quickly and it will hurt briefly but if you pull on it slowly it will hurt tiny bit less at that moment but the suffering will continue until it’s ripped off anyway. No more “friendships” with people you’ve had sex with. Never works, only causes pain, confusion and pointless hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | FDS infiltrates WordscapesLmao i was wondering that. I love that game btw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 73 | So a women looking for love on a dating app is creepy but a man looking for sex isn’t?Oh then they complain that they have 0 matches and the ratio of men to women is like 5-6 to 1 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:18 PM |
| 36 | This scrote is divorcing his wife while she is healing from a broken leg. He hid all the money from her and she is completely financially dependent on him.Oh yeah, that’s why it’s so funny to me how TRP and pickmeishas yell about “women’s role” yet nobody appreciates it when women actually do just that. Back in the day if your husband was a cheater or/and an abuser in any shape or form your only choice as a woman was to suck it up and shut up. That’s why women fought so hard to have some basic human rights. They never appreciated us being at home, raising kids, taking care of the house. We were being used for our labor, yet being viewed as inferio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Saw post earlier about a sis learning day tradingStocks are pretty slow. Now if we are talking ForEx you really can grow 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:02 PM |
| 76 | This scrote is divorcing his wife while she is healing from a broken leg. He hid all the money from her and she is completely financially dependent on him.Oh but the whole manosphere cries about how they want us in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant lol. There. That’s how women had it back in the day: he controls every financial aspect and can discard you at his convenience once he is bored. Oh wait, it’s all HER FAULT for him dumping her with no means to existence, she must’ve been acting up not being a good-enough obedient slave-bangmaid. Yeah, that’s it. Stupid whamen, think their careers are important when they had it so easy being at home with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:57 PM |
| 0 | Men aren't supposed to live like they do in today's societyOmg who are you and what brought you here? You have too much real life experience and common sense for PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersThank you 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 06:07 AM |
| 5 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersI don’t expect or especially ask anything from men. If they don’t want to buy flowers and pay on dates they don’t have to. It’s just chances are I personally wouldn’t want a man like that. Also, it doesn’t always have to be a bougie restaurant. We go to all kinds of places. I’m also 32 and my bf is 39, we are at a stage where couple hundred dollars for a date is not really that much. But when I was 21 I couldn’t dream guys my age being able to afford it. So it’s not all black and white. Also, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 05:40 AM |
| 8 | I—????????????That explains it. I was gonna say the dude isn’t embarrassed to put his name and picture out there after writing this “article” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:09 AM |
| 6 | I—????????????Omg he is actually talking shit about their appearance lmao! I thought it would be at least a step less superficial. And that last picture of him?! He really has some audacity to criticize wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:06 AM |
| 6 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersWell the more a man is into you the more he tries for you. It’s just what it is. I initially just didn’t want to date and then he was doing all those gestures I started thinking: “Wow this guy is serious”. I get plenty of “wyd” messages from guys who I assume want to pump and dump. I don’t respond. Him courting me showed me his intentions were genuine and he was more serious about me than seeing me as casual hook up. And at the end it really did pan out like that 🤷♀️ So people can say what they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 04:32 AM |
| 6 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersWell just to put it in perspective: I didn’t want to date when my bf reached out to me on fb. He saw me briefly on a plane and recognized me from some pictures from mutual connections. So at that time I was really jaded after the previous relationship and told him I wasn’t interested. He was pursuing me hard and that included gifts/flowers/dinners. Had he not done anything like that I’d not even consider him. To me it would be a huge turn off to pay on dates. Lack of flowers would make me feel u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Low effort first dates are basedHe is 7 years older and is hot af. I have a different idea of a SD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 8 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersIf he doesn’t feel loved and appreciated I most definitely don’t want him to stay with me. Yet he does. I’m 100% self sufficient and he doesn’t pay any of my bills. He spoils me when HE wants to, not because I demand it. With that being said I don’t want a man who thinks I’m not worth to be taken out and given flowers to. To add: I’m 32, never once have I been asked to split a bill at a restaurant so I don’t understand why reddit men are so appalled by it when it’s really the norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 03:52 AM |
| 5 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersHe is fairly articulate and actually put thought in his post unlike you did with your unnecessary comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:41 AM |
| 9 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersExcept we’ve been together for 6 months and gasp he spent a couple of grand on flowers/dinners/gifts before he even met me (because of the pandemic). I never asked him for anything, he wanted to do it because he doesn’t view me as a piece of ass that is only good enough for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersIf you don’t want to believe it that’s fine but it’s really that. Plus I don’t see how you derived the conclusion about not loving a man because of that. Like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:24 AM |
| 8 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersWhat do you mean how do I show my love? We are together 3-5 days/nights a week. We do everything together, go everywhere together, have sex nonstop and cuddle/kiss a lot. You know all the normal stuff couples do 🤷♀️ When you are loved and can count on your partner, you know it and you feel it. I get that you are in high school and probably haven’t had a lot of experience but being loved is really not that hard to detect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusers?? Where did I say that? I’m currently in love with my bf 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:13 AM |
| -1 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersWhat is the tactic you are referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersYou give him things other than materialistic. I’m a huge support to my bf. He loves me and knows I’ll always be there for him. Btw he is a good looking guy and can get whoever. Yet here he is, paying for our dates and buying me flowers (poor guy) 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:12 AM |
| -3 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersOf course not! I said bf, not client | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 9 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersFDS was definitely a response to TRP! Modern young women are so confused about what dating is supposed to be they unfortunately do need a handbook. Correction: FDS is NOT libfem! In fact FDS holds libfem responsible for how dating is so terrible for women. I followed FDS before FDS was created. It’s common sense and the fact that it’s compared to TRP is laughable. They don’t teach to abuse and manipulate. Sorry, you paying on a date is a way to impress her, not her manipulating into buying her a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 5 | Low effort first dates are basedBiggest cope? Really? Is that why men of manosphere complain so much about not getting laid. Most women I know have tried it, felt used and under appreciated, stopped having it all together 🤷♀️ Maybe some genuinely enjoy it but most want commitment. My relationship is far from transaction as we both have feelings for each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Low effort first dates are basedYup! My current bf showered me with gifts and dinners during the pandemic lockdown before he even met me irl. If a man doesn’t show effort I know exactly how “serious” he is about me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Low effort first dates are basedNot to mention coffee shops are hectic! People are in and out. There is no privacy as tables are close to each other. Weirdos on their computers camping there for hours listening to your conversation. Awkward to say the least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Low effort first dates are basedSure they do. I’m the living proof. Never been asked to split the bill either thank god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 10 | Low effort first dates are basedI agree with you. If you can’t afford to throw away a nice chunk of cash on a date, impress with a thoughtful date. I don’t understand why guys think low effort and cheap is gonna bring them good results. If anything the woman will be bored and feel like she is wasting her time. I personally wouldn’t entertain any coffee/walk dates even with a Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Low effort first dates are basedOmg this is embarrassing. If my bf invited me to a park for the first date we wouldn’t be dating right now. This is also one of the reasons there is like 3:1 male/female ratio on old. It’s the numbers game for men that are trying to pump and dump at the lowest effort. Just how romantic: let’s go to a park or grab a $2 cup of coffee at a hectic coffee shop and then go home with the cheap scrote! Women are not into casual sex the way men are into it. Why the fuck I’d want to waste my precious time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 11:36 PM |
| 30 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Exactly. They have no desire to better themselves and instead bitch and complain about most basic biological rules. My bf was bullied in high school, had acne and was fat. He started working out in college, went to dermatologist and straighten his skin out. He is a total stud and is super charming. He put in a lot of work into becoming desirable. It’s possible and achievable. But no, it’s much easier to bitch on Reddit how women bring nothing to the table lol. Btw my bf NEVER expects me to pay f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWhat’s dickmaxxing? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 06:19 PM |
| 12 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Aww thanks girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 46 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.I was single for 1.5 years before I met my current bf. I saw absolutely no benefit in dating. I’m wasting my precious time I could be spending on friends/family/hobbies. I just don’t see a point. My current bf tried pretty damn hard to get me to date and he proved himself. Otherwise I have no problem being single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 17 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Facts. Men want women more than women want men. We were forced for centuries to live the way men wanted us to live. Now that it’s free market we really see what’s up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:30 PM |
| 61 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Oh then that explains it. Funny, I’m 32 and I’ve NEVER encountered a man asking me to pay for myself. My bf spent couple grand on dates and gifts before we even had sex. I offer to pay sometimes but I’m never expected to. I can’t imagine dating someone who thinks otherwise. I’d rather be single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:26 PM |
| 46 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultYes! Must’ve been the same article | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 190 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultI once read an article that showed pictures of clothing of rape victims. I must say clothing has absolutely nothing to do with a woman getting raped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenI agree that beauty standards have changed at least in mainstream media. However in my personal experience: not really. I’m 32. I’m thin. I’m always on a diet. I work out. I have decent size boobs and have a butt. However, I’m not nearly as curvy as say Kim K or Nikki Minaj or Cardi B. I get plenty of attention and turn heads with no problem 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Women constantly talk about how immoral men can be in regards to their sexuality. Are women generally any better, or are they even worse?And that's where FDS comes in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's?Haha! They really think it happens left and right for us (facepalm). If I go to a restaurant and don't put out immediately after I'm manipulating a poor chap into providing me with resources and attention lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | "TRP and FDS" Concepts are not new. 1987 Eddie Murphy Raw; Marriage, Men and Women, Cheating. Watch the Clips - Lets discuss.I agree with most of what you said. Men who are in love won't cheat. Or should I say MOST men who are in love won't cheat. My ex husband was a total stud, he would have no problem finding someone to cheat on me with. However, I never even caught him looking, I would casually go through his stuff to monitor just in case. My bff's husband had an opportunity to cheat with a very good looking "friend" of ours and he politely refused and never told anyone, we found out from her later on. I can go on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Normalize divorcing ain’t sh*t menWhat about the diVoRCe rApE 😩 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 8 | Normalize divorcing ain’t sh*t menAll religions were made by men to oppress women. God never wanted us to suffer, men did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Tbh the only people online I want to meet in real life, are you ladies.I hope FDS has a convention or something that I can attend. I'd be psyched :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 6 | If you are not a traditional woman do not expect to be treated like one, for traditional dating.They don't commit. They get flattered when are approached, then it goes to their head, then they become lukewarm thinking if HE is being approached he is obviously some hot shit and deserves even better than a woman who approached him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 11:51 PM |
| 2 | If you are not a traditional woman do not expect to be treated like one, for traditional dating.Preferably a virgin too lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 12 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Wowww right on the money.. So sad. Look at TRP, it's all about manipulation! I'll never forget how one scrote on PPD made a comment last week that read something like : "Scoop up a virgin before she learns her value". BEFORE SHE LEARNS HER VALUE. Let it sink in. Nah, bro, forget about putting in enough effort and being good enough, just use young woman's naivete and lack of life experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:26 AM |
| 2 | General dating advice from ANYONE is rubbishWelp, she made a good point when she said her attractiveness has nothing to do with who she finds attractive. Generally, it's like that for both genders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/20 09:53 PM |
| 4 | General dating advice from ANYONE is rubbishAnd hot girls have a much wider range of attraction, you mean to tell me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | General dating advice from ANYONE is rubbishAnd the reason for such assumption is..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/20 09:45 PM |
| 7 | General dating advice from ANYONE is rubbishHot girls are picky af. the hotter = the pickier. Unless she has some kind of mental trauma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/20 09:37 PM |
| 83 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡It’s like: if you are that clueless about what you should get you can always resort to basics: flowers, gift cards, perfume, jewelry, a spa-trip, etc. No rocket science 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 209 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡Cause he doesn’t care. It’s like a calculated move to be a jerk. Spent less than $50, made it a “prank”, deliberately bought “gold” as to say: “oh you wanted silver? Here you go, b”. He is blatantly disrespectful and offensive to her and he is proud of breaking boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating Strategy is the biggest proof TRP-related theory works in many casesFor? I rarely saw it on there and usually the default argument when it comes to FWB is: “Its not worth your time, he is never gonna want more” 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy is the biggest proof TRP-related theory works in many casesFDS is against FWB overall. It’s often discussed why a woman shouldn’t agree to such arrangement. They often say “the only benefit is for the man” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 01:56 PM |
| 11 | Because why admit that you were wrong if you can always gaslight instead 🤷♀️Oh man the “kidding you” is the best of them all 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:51 PM |
| 32 | After they play victim by shedding crocodile tears for putting their pee pee somewhere else, block and delete then never look back! You are your own 1st love, never forget that!I'd never ever ever forgive a cheater. This is nonnegotiable. Point blank period! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:05 PM |
| 22 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?So true, I know a man like that. Just got divorced from his second wife who was a mail-order bride and took a complete advantage of him. Was cheating on him three weeks after moving to the states. He is a friend's friend so that's how I know him. We went on a few cool dates last year that were cool and fun. Now, that he is divorced he was trying to pursue me but 1) I'm dating a guy I really clicked with; 2) Even if I wasn't dating someone I'm just not attracted to this guy like that. It's a sham… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 18 | Typical LVM humorWell, considering how much work it is to be married to a LVM this is not far from the truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.These are exactly my thoughts. Even if I'd decide it would be a good idea to live with a man again (right now I'm definitely apprehensive) I'd make sure I have my back covered in case things don't work out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:59 PM |
| 67 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.Oh girl I will! And he is a sweetheart so far but I won't put all eggs in one basket. He is more into me than I'm into him for sure. I will not alter my plans regardless. I've been through a divorce, I know how it goes. Think of myself first and foremost | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:48 PM |
| 2 | I went down a rabbit hole and.... 🤢nah, I'm good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:13 PM |
| 12 | Reminder: Jealousy is a low-value traitExcellent post. As I got older I really lost that feeling of being jealous. The reason is: we all are under different circumstances, we don't know other people's struggles and how they get something you don't have. I also became extremely confident as I know how bad ass I am, I can do anything. So what my friend lives in $1.4 million dollar house? I graduated college with 2 small kids and an LVM ex while working full time. I know how to survive nearly under any circumstances because of how much … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:20 PM |
| 25 | Ugh!It's actually so weird but I was asked these types of questions before by men. Like when I was still on OLD and I'd go on dates with new people sometimes they'd ask: "Who do you live with?Oh you don't have roommates?" and they'd be surprised at that. I was so confused why it was so shocking that I live by myself? I was in my late 20s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:52 PM |
| 53 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.Another good point. Funny, I got married that young with a 5.5 year age gap too. Was madly in love and thought we were soulmates lol. Left after 9.5 years together and now I'm shocked how could I had chosen such an LVM. All the red flags were there but you don't know shit at 19. I will advice my daughter to wait till at least 27 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 272 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.Wow! I'm beyond impressed seeing this on Reddit! Women are waking up. I started dating a guy a few months back. We were in a cab the other night and I was telling him about where I wanted to purchase a house next year. And he looked at me and said: "Hey, don't rush.. A lot can happen till then, you might not have to purchase.." Implying we could live together or whatever.. It was flattering in a way but when I started thinking about it I realized I really wouldn't want to move in to his place. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 35 | Sums it up pretty wellI think so too. We are not allowed to live the way WE want, we were always told how to live. I often see manosphere and pickmeishas saying "Women were happier in the house!" That shit makes me laugh. I spent a year at home after giving birth, it was the most miserable year of my life! I'm much happier being a corporate slave lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 13 | Sums it up pretty wellI love Cardi but why the hell would she take that cheating scrote back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 12 | Keeping boyfriends secret: why?Listen, I don't feel good about that. I really tried. For a year. But it got toxic and draining. He went to hard core drugs because of his depression. Died from overdose 2 months after we broke up. The dude was an engineer, not some hobo. I think about him every day and wish we never had gotten involved with each other. Maybe the outcome was different... Idk. Depression is a very serious thing and I definitely underestimated how severe it can be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 06:26 PM |
| 8 | Keeping boyfriends secret: why?Actually, have to be honest and agree with this. If you don't know my friends - you are probably a temporary placeholder. Same goes for men though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 14 | Keeping boyfriends secret: why?I dated a guy after my marriage and I kept it on the low for months too. The main reason: I knew deep down he was not the one. He was good looking, but had depression issues and overall was immature (he was younger than me). I was kinda embarrassed to introduce him to my friends as I knew he wouldn't fit in. He was upset that he wasn't on my social media and eventually started demanding to be on it.. It was such a mess. Never again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 96 | Elite vibes 👸The caption on the bottom says: "Catch bouquets the right way, ladies" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL：Does blocking/ghosting make you seem more attractive?That only works with low-self esteem chick. They are banking on it and take advantage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affectionToo much reddit, buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Does it bother you when you dump a guy and he does not seem to care?My very first bf and I (we were together for 3.5 years) were breaking up all the time in our last year of the relationship. At first he'd make a move to get back together. Than it became mixed bag. And then eventually it was always me that was the one to chase him. He started appearing indifferent about break ups and it hurt me to know he didn't care if he was with me or not. It was very hard for me to get over him as he was the one who took my virginity and we were talking marriage and being to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 4 | LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affectionThe racist part was especially obvious during the last purge week when you could say anything you wanted on here. I was actually shocked at how bad it was, I stopped looking at the sub for a while as I was quite honestly disgusted. And yes, I said it above too that all TRP techniques are based on manipulation and taking advantage, not actually building yourself up to be good enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThat’s right! Men who wants casual sex should date each other. I’m actually serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYet here you are at 22 with 0 experience when it comes to either gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 8 | LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affectionAnother technique based on banking on woman’s insecurities. That’s all TRP is really. Just another day one TRP poster on here declared something like: “scoop up a virgin before she learns her worth!” This one is technically: withdraw your affection so she feels the need to put out before she is really ready. Disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 01:45 PM |
| 2 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwash99% of women don't date more than a couple years older. I'm a woman, older men are gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwashMaybe 5 years older... I never had friends esp in their teens-early twenties that went much older. We used to laugh at these guys and call them creeps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 12:53 AM |
| 11 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwashAlso, as someone who worked in public accounting and doing a lot of tax returns it's very rare to see a big age gap in couples. 10 years + is rare and always stands out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 6 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwashYou are lying. Straight up, bluntly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Yeah yeah whatever. Yawn 🥱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Wow nice analysis! Correct. I don't claim to know how to "friendship". It's just how I friendship. I know how people "walk" once you are not of value to them. I became poor/broke at some point. I had people from higher circles help me out. I also had friends who don't have a highschool diploma let me cry myself to sleep on their shoulders. Now years later I'm still friends with all of those people, not minding hitting up a fundraiser with my wealthy friends and smoking a joint with the ones who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.If your friends found out that you were fucking their SOs would they still be your friends? Now you are just twisting hard. Have a good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countRight. It's always the woman's fault. We do it all wrong no matter what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countIf my needs aren't important to my partner I don't really need a partner bc you know what's the point? If getting a job was a lingering issue throughout years and years and wasn't getting fixed was I supposed to shut up and suck it up? (Actually, I did at some point but my resentment never stopped building up). If my "extraneous bitching" was such an inconvenience and nuisance I'd think my ex would've been happy I left.. However, it's quite opposite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Do whatever you want ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Because that's all YOU know how to do, dear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Well if I was a boat owner and went broke and wouldn't be beneficial to a person to a point they drop out of my life, I'd feel our friendship wasn't genuine. I have been down in my life where I couldn't provide "value", my friends stuck around and helped. And I've done plenty for my friends also. I also had people who bounced say because I couldn't party with them anymore - I personally don't consider such friendship being genuine and wouldn't want people like that in my life. If to you friendsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Acceptable motive is to want to be friends because you genuinely like the person, not because you hope to get something from them. If a good conversation and companionship you mentioned is enough of a reason you are friends with the person I'd say that's a pretty good motive :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 46 | Stating facts like they're compliments. 🙄When I was a bartender I had customers hit on me all the time. One time a particular annoying customer said something like: "Your husband is lucky to have you" to which I responded: "I know, right!' To which he responded: "How does he get your big head through the door though?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Ulterior - existing beyond what is obvious or admitted; intentionally hidden. If you are a man trying to be friends with a woman in hopes of future romantic/sexual relationships - you have an ulterior motive. If you are friends with someone because they have a boat but the moment they sell it you don't want to hang with them anymore - you also have an ulterior motive to use them for what they have and your friendship is not genuine . I have a friend that is married to a millionaire. While I grea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 22 | Although women seem to be genuine in their belief that opposite-sex friendships are platonic, men seem unable to turn off their desire for something more.Then if a guy who does way more for a woman than what he does for his male friends and doesn't get sex from her should realize she is not attracted. This narrative that women are evil creatures using men for favors is nothing more than passing the blame. Nobody puts a gun to a guy's head to make him do favors. Usually it's him offering to help and then getting upset that nothing happens beyond that. Welp, helping a friend is a part of friendship but somehow helping your friend move is expected t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 8 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.An absence of ulterior motives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 17 | Although women seem to be genuine in their belief that opposite-sex friendships are platonic, men seem unable to turn off their desire for something more.Women don’t keep you around knowing exactly what you want from them. At least not all. Pretty much the same how not all men realize that when a woman friend zoned him it means she is not attracted. Some men continue being “friends” in hopes to get some, some women are clueless a guy who is their “friend” doesn’t actually want to be one, he just wants to bang. The end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 06:39 PM |
| 17 | *long, exaggerated, justifiable sigh*Oh hell nah!! So not just porn but actually him being with another women AND he yelled at her to continue to watch it???!!!! Even if I was 17 shit like that would never fly. How?! Just how can any woman put up with that? I'd storm out and would scratch his face if he tried to stop me. Disgusting disgusting scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.And yet women attempt suicide more Ahhh you are here to troll I see. Gatcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Very common scenario: guy in his mid-twenties commits to his first girlfriend with a body count of 20+. How do they usually fare?Haha! My bf is a literal chad too and he doesn't give a shit either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Yup, men are incapable of building connections and then cry about being poor lonely depressed souls that commit subsides because nobody cares about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 03:55 PM |
| 13 | Men are not entitled to sex just like women are not entitled to friendship.Did I type both of your comments out? Because these are exactly my thoughts. When I was younger I'd try to maneuver around guys' feelings when I didn't reciprocate. Women are taught to be nice and considerate and worry about hurting other people's feelings. But then nice guys TM rose up to declare it's borderline offensive to be friends with women. Now I just bluntly say no, not interested and some STILL try to stick around in hopes to get in my pants. Mixed gender friendship is nearly nonexiste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!Why not? Pointing something out in someone else while doing the same thing / being the same way is called hypocrisy. Don’t bitch about people driving like an asshole when you are an asshole driver yourself. That simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 02:27 PM |
| 7 | Today I saw my ex had moved on. It hurt. So I wrote a letter to myself. A reminder when I get in my feelings.I liked your last paragraph the most. It sounds cliche to “fall in love with yourself” but in actuality it’s so so true and important. I really grew to love myself once I realized my ex husband loved himself more than me and that it would never change. I started questioning why I was on his team while he wasn’t on mine. I grew disenchanted and realized I should be putting myself first. Girl, once you really get it, your world flips. You never allow anybody mistreat you again. I’m glad you are mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 19 | Every woman customer service workerUgh just yesterday I went outside bc I was expecting some construction guys to cone fix something at my house. There was a guy standing there so I mistakenly assumed he was one of the workers because he kinda looked it. So I started asking him something. Long story short turns out he was my neighbor’s nephew who is supposed to be moving in with her because he is getting divorced. I’m really friendly and extroverted. To me it’s nothing to converse with strangers. So ofc after 2 min of a chit chat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countIn which area do I need to improve considering the fact that I got divorced because my ex was a lazy fuck? I’ve been taking accountability my whole life and paid for my mistakes in full, thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countOh yeah yeah!! "Choose better!!!!" You choose better and shut up about CC and "divorce rape". I met my ex at 19. So there goes your "Women having much more choice when they are younger therefore have more responsibility to choose wisely." He was working a construction job, I was working in a deli. Somehow women are expected to be all psychics and just magically know how the relationship turns out *eyeroll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countWhen you tell the person the same thing throughout years and years and nothing is changing I'm not sure what kind of backflips you need to do to "make sure you are heard" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countA failure to communicate your needs in a way that the other person understands and recognizes is in this situation on her, not him. Sure, yeah. EVERYTHING is women's fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countIt's like they just shut bad memories down and pretend they're not happening Omg THIS! I feel like I'm talking to a dementia patient when I talk to my ex about our failed marriage lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 6 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countMy ex didn't change until after I actually left. Now he technically eliminated the issue but it's too late and I'm simply over being with him. If he did what he is doing now while we were still married (work full time that is) I bet we would still be together. When I cried and asked him to please search for jobs he'd pacify me with "I'm gonna be back to work soon", when I yelled he rolled his eyes and told me I was a bitch, when I would stop talking to him for days he was perfectly comfortable a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 10:34 PM |
| 12 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countOh no, men tend to not take women seriously when we say we gonna leave. And longer you are together = more they ignore all the calls. When I first got together with my ex I was able to influence him, he'd take my opinion and desires into account. Throughout years that wore off and anything I'd say was taken with annoyance and resistance. He was "the man of the house", therefore his opinion mattered way more in his book. I left 3.5 years ago and am much happier without having to deal with him. I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 08:57 PM |
| 23 | Divorce initiation and rates are not valid evidence for gendered emotional attachment differences nor a gendered difference in the effects of pre marital n countThe complaint from TRP men is that the women blindside the men with divorce because the men think everything is going well. Yes, men tend to mute their partners in their head and get dumbfounded once she leaves after getting tired of repeating herself a million times. This is from my today's conversation with another user: " In my relationship I left my ex because he was "laid-off" 4-6 months every year and refused to look for a job, allowing me to pick up his slack every time. That lasted 10 ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!You are talking about women. Women are talking about men. This is not TRP. It's a Purple Pill Debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!I didn't say "it was men's fault". I see it as men fail to recognize or deliberately ignore issues that lead to divorce, then they get shocked when the woman doesn't want to stay anymore. In my relationship I left my ex because he was "laid-off" 4-6 months every year and refused to look for a job, allowing me to pick up his slack every time. That lasted 10 years. I talked, pled, begged, argued, cried, nothing was changing. Same shit every year. When I finally left he was shocked and like a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What makes you valuable?This is way simpler than what people try to attach to it. When dealing with most men: your looks is what brings him in, your personality is what's gonna make him stay. If you are hot and your personalities mesh well it won't matter if you are low or high N count, if you are a single mom, if you don't know how to cook, if you have student debt, etc etc etc other nonsense TRP preaches about. On the other hand you can be ideal partner on paper but if he doesn't find you attractive no amount of posi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!Therefore there is no point of passing the blame on each other. There are shitty people of both genders. Most married people don't start cheating because they are bored, nor do they get divorced because of that. But that's what TRP preaches: "Women up and leave or cheat whenever it's convenient". I'm sure there are situations like that. I'm just saying most divorces aren't initiated simply because of something so absurd. I just think because men are generally simpler in nature they fail to recog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!Oh right right, cheating married men simply don't exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 74 | On a post regarding "marriageable" womenOMG I saw that comment and replied to it that the whole idea of TRP is built upon men hoping women wouldn't know their value. That's all they are banking on. Pathetic. But somehow we are the monsters here lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: Are breadwinner wives emasculating or a threat to stability?That was cute lol. Someone on here was asking what a healthy relationship looks like. I think we have one example here 👆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!But who really just gets divorced because they are bored? Talk to divorce women and hear their reasons. It’s always something way more serious than that. I honestly think it mostly comes from men not realizing the issues or being unwilling to work on them and then when their wife leaves they are dumbfounded and come up with such made up reasons as her getting bored. There are no “finding yourself” or “getting bored” when you have kids and household together. A divorce is a painful thing that fli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!Women ask for divorce more often BECAUSE men think they don’t need to do shit once the marriage certificate is signed. He thinks that no matter how shitty he may be the woman is to stick around and put up with it. Women are not bound by society to stay in failing marriages anymore. So why should they? How many times do you hear a divorced woman saying how much happier she is after getting rid of her douche husband? Why stay if you are miserable?? I just don’t get what’s so hard to understand abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!Oh yeah? Having affairs and divorce because “they need to find themselves” are the only two scenarios for marriage not working out? Gosh, It definitely cannot be mans fault!! Women are to stick around no matter how shitty the husband is! Otherwise she is just not a good woman 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 12:34 PM |
| 16 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!Here we go: “before she understands her value”. The whole TRP ideology is based on men hoping that women don’t understand their value lol. That’s where FDS comes in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 12:28 PM |
| 14 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!The vast majority of men I met are absolutely not marriageable either, buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 12:26 PM |
| 12 | Do RP men want marriage/LTRs or ONS? Pick one, fellas!As someone who married young I completely disagree and will never recommend young marriage to anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Being a "good guy" will not get you laid. As a man you need to have an edge because"morality" means nothingI make six figures and have a decent life for sure. Obviously the people I hang with are on my level or higher. Everybody works out and looks good. I can’t fucking imagine ANY women from my group having sex with a bad ass gangsta drug dealer 😂 Your “geoupies” are drug addicts sleeping for a dose, not women attracted to “alphas’ 🤦♀️ But AWALT, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you?No I’m not. It’s still very hard. You guys think it’s somehow rainbows and butterflies. It’s not. It sucks just as much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you?I have way less attractive friends have good relationships. I don’t see my privilege | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you?It’s such a huge misconception that attractive people have it easy!! We have the same relationship issues as everyone else. Yes, essentially you can attract more attractive people. But so what? I’ve been on a ton of dates throughout my life and I didn’t feel the spark 99.9% of the time. I was married to a Chad who was a lazy fuck and I was busting my ass building my career while he was “laid off” 4-6 months every year. I lost all the respect for him and left. He was dumbfounded and still thinks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Lie about what? Lol. I’ve always looked for “beta” traits which is really love and respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Oh let me guess? Because I post on here, right 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.I get that you do you it your way and that’s all. There is no rights or wrongs. If women agree to do the prelude - that’s cool. I personally have so many friends that to me going hanging out on a group activity with people I don’t know is a waste of time. Actually I stopped even going on regular dates before I met my bf because to me it’s more fun to go do things with friends vs random men. Maybe others view it differently and that’s cool. To each their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 26 | LVM makes gf have sex with his two friends then treats her like shit and manipulates her because of it“Is it normal for a guy to act the way he is acting?” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ An exhibit 34785 why women so desperately need FDS. Modern western women are completely lost when it comes to dating and how things should be. They’ve been brainwashed for so long to accept all kinds of “adventurous empowering sex” that they lost all sense of what’s natural and healthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Had a self-care day after a break-up with a toxic guy, and I'm feeling much better! Even though it was just a manicure and lunch, making myself a priority again is so refreshing!Omg your nails are gorg 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.It’s not weird to me at all. My friends are not my bfs and the dynamic will never be the same. Seems like you treat it more like a hang out when you “date”. Hence, you have a bunch of short term flings from what you describing. I’ve always had 0 interest in those and absolutely have no time for that. I have friends to hang with. If a man is gonna be present in my life he needs to be more than a friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Because it low effort and most likely someone trying to see if they can get easy sex. Waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 01:29 PM |
| -1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Well looks like you found an ultimate way to date. Glad it works. I never asked a man on a date and never would for reasons different than a lack of confidence. Also, to me, if I have to pay for a date when I’m not invested in a guy in any way is a huge turnoff. And it’s not a money thing for me. Me and my friends pick up each other’s tabs fairly often and they usually are a couple/few hundred bucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 03:00 AM |
| 2 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Picking up a bill is a very feminist thing to do though. And if you are being honest about all these rich women dating you and paying for everything you must be a celebrity-looking Chad lol. I don’t see how wanting to pay for a man is enjoyable unless it’s once in a blue moon but to each their own 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.I agree on people valuing different qualities in a partner. I’ve never been asked to split a bill and if it happened I’d definitely pay without any fuss. I’d just never go out with a guy again. And I do pay maybe 1 out of 10 times when with my bf as a gesture but I’m never expected to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 09:47 PM |
| -1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.Welp he must be quite a Chad to pull women behaving like that 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.You mean empowered libfems? Sure. I’m not one of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 09:00 PM |
| -3 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.My bf is confident and dominant and while he usually plans dates/suggests activities he is not going to disregard my preferences, nor will he ever expect me to split costs 🙄 Being a douchebag chameleon doesn’t make you “confident and dominant” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | FDS women more likely to give advice to avoid imperfect men, rather than helping him mold into one.The premise of it is that people don’t change. You marry a “potential” and then he assumes he is good enough and doesn’t need to grow since he’s already got you. Then when you ask for things to improve you become a nagging annoying bitch of a wife and he doesn’t want to listen to you since he is the man of the house lol. Then when you dump his ass he is dumbfounded and tells people how evil his ex is. I was married to a Chad with “a potential” that thought being laid off 4-6 months every year wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.A dominant man with boundaries is not a negging plate-spinner wannabe who refuses to pay for dates 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 3 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.As a woman who has a ton of beautiful gfs I can definitely confirm this is true. Hot confident girls don’t put up with shit (even from Chads). We definitely don’t split checks at restaurants or respond to “Wyd” messages because a guy has a six-pack 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | He bought me a pretty necklace and ring set just because! (Ring not shown, resizing)I love opal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:40 PM |
| 3 | feeling stupidThe reason you are interested in him is because he doesn’t care. It’s deeply integrated in us to seek approval from the opposite gender. It’s like a little devil on your shoulder telling you you are not good enough if he doesn’t want you. It’s not true. If he is failing to see your worth - he is not worthy of your time and energy, sis. Watch after you block him he will probably try to crawl back to make sure you didn’t forget about him. It’s all power games with LVMs: the person who cares less h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Cause there’s absolutely nothing wrong with having to remind an adult to mow the lawn, walk their dog and play with their kid.ShE iS nOT yOurS, iT’s jUsT yOuR turN 🤡 Yeah, no shit motherfucker lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 6 | Why do some men seem to put out no effort in themselves in pursuit of a relationship?Oh for sure. It’s up to us to recognize our worth and not go along with the current of societal pressure. Hopefully if enough women will realize it and one day it will change 🤞 That’s why I love FDS so much, it reminds us of who we are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:35 PM |
| 3 | I love Lizzo's messages. She's an absolute QueenAwesome song!!! Now there will be a bunch of LVMs and pickmeishas screaming that nobody wants her therefore she made this song. But I actually 100% get the energy of this song. If you can be happy single it’s the most empowering feeling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 5 | I feel hopeless for womenWow we have a ton in common besides I actually was married and have 2 kids. Buttttt.. after I got out of my awful marriage I remember talking to this lady at work about it and she went: “Don’t worry, you are a pretty one, you will remarry again”. I was so dumbfounded by such comment I didn’t say anything. Like new relationships and especially marriage was the lastest thing on my mind lol. Then later on when I was single and I’d have similar comments I’d always make a point to say: “haha! I’m not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:19 PM |
| 6 | Have you watched "Indian Matchmaking" on Netflix? Girls allll over the world do it.Thank you girl 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 9 | Have you watched "Indian Matchmaking" on Netflix? Girls allll over the world do it.How is that show btw? I’m finishing up Epstein series and looking for something to watch ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:46 PM |
| 22 | Whats with this new trend of men trying to be victim? Weren't they criticising women friendships few days ago?My ex husband had a “good high-school friend” that was going through a divorce. I found out through his wife’s fb. It was football season so my ex was on the phone with the dude for 2 hours. After he hung up I asked about the divorce. He shrug and said they didn’t talk about it and he knew nothing lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 7 | Whats with this new trend of men trying to be victim? Weren't they criticising women friendships few days ago?So true. I worked very hard to get good friends but now I truly can say I have quite a few really awesome ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 14 | To you who message me warning about FDSMy ex also wasted money on whatever and he also didn’t like to work. He was laid off nearly 6 months every year and was feeding me promises about things getting better lol. Last year of our marriage he cashed all of his 401k because I refused to support him after his annual lay off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:22 PM |
| 10 | Why do some men seem to put out no effort in themselves in pursuit of a relationship?I agree with you. I’m 32 and I have kids and an ex husband. He was a LVM but I was blind when I was younger and we were together for almost 10 years. Getting divorce was definitely worth it and it put me in much better spot in nearly every aspect but it took time and effort and was super hard. Now I’m dating a guy who I really like and we are enjoying each other’s company a lot. So ultimately yes, being in a good relationship is better than being single, but being single is much much better than… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:19 PM |
| 48 | BeardfishingLmao 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:50 PM |
| 66 | To you who message me warning about FDSMy ex husband definitely was a dead weight for me and I’m about to buy a house now 3.5 years after I left him. I find it funny how a lot of men act like women are the financial burden on the society though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:48 PM |
| 16 | Why do some men seem to put out no effort in themselves in pursuit of a relationship?This is exactly what it is! I’m so happy I wasn’t born “back then” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 29 | Why do some men seem to put out no effort in themselves in pursuit of a relationship?And then they complain how hard it is to be a man and “do all the work”. Both genders have to do the work!! I’ve always took pride in my appearance, I’m very fit and have a good career. I just recently started dating a guy who works out nearly every day, has his own house and a steady career. Obviously none of those things just fell on his head from the sky. So far we are doing really great. Before that I was single for over 1.5 years and wasn’t looking for a relationship. I will much rather be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?Or you know, fuck men that are attractive to you and are willing to commit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 07:20 PM |
| 3 | The "Next Files": Encounters of the Single Kind. Chapter 1 (The Tale of the Guy Who didn't take No for an Answer).tHosE aRe sOMe sImPs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 4 | A perfect example of a LVM and his self-centred thought process 😑MUST be a troll 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?I just don’t understand why things need to be mislabeled and twisted. To sit here and say attraction can disappear after sex is a common occurrence is just a blatant lie. I’m sure it happens 1 out of a million times but it’s not common at all and if a guy bounces after sex it normally means he wasn’t that infatuated with you to begin with. Now it’s up to women to not sleep with men in hopes to get a commitment unless she really really wants just some sex and nothing more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 54 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightSavage 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?She is entitled to do whatever she wants and if it worked out for her - great. He probably was down to date her to begin with though. I personally haven’t seen any FWB situations turn into anything more than that. From women I know most tried it and wouldn’t go there again knowing it’s likely a huge waste of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?We say it cause we see it firsthand. FWB rarely develop into anything more. And the case is usually the woman hoping for more and the man not wanting nothing more bc that’s all he wants from her. That’s why it’s stupid to sleep with a guy unless you can see he is serious about you from the start. If he is lukewarm to begin with sex won’t do shit and that’s all he is gonna want from you and he knows it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.To your first two paragraphs: there is a wide spectrum between being tactful vs. manipulative. When you blatantly lie about your intentions to gain something you otherwise wouldn’t you are a manipulative sociopath. It’s like saying it is socially acceptable for me to lie about having a lawyer’s degree and taking your money to represent you and failing the case because of my incompetence. But hey, I got what I wanted - your money - so what’s a big deal? As far as FDS: it tells women how to detect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?Oh yeah yeah, I must just not know any better 🙄 Sure, just like the rest of women who say the exact same thing. Even the OP is admitting in the comments above that after he magically “loses the attraction” right after sex it’s because he experiences post-nut clarity, not any of the bs on common interests not aligning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.Well clearly not enough women actually do have it because men complain about being sexless all the time. More women are waking up from libfems teachings about casual sex being empowering 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?Shitty sex happens because of the lack of attraction to begin with. How can she be that terrible where you just completely can’t deal with it? I call bs and it simply a man KNOWING there is not enough attention but is still sleeping with her regardless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?Divorce and dumping someone after sex is not even close to being the same thing. With a divorce there was obviously commitment and things just didn’t work out. Also, how often does it really happen where people are that sexually incompatible where it takes total attraction from 100 to 0? It simply means he wasn’t invested to begin with. Men who are fascinated with you will actually try to accommodate your desires. Besides, how many women are really into wack kinks where it’s a complete deal brea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?“Human desires change” is much different than a man who supposedly lost attraction right after banging you a couple of times. It’s simply him wanting to sleep with you and after he gets what he wants he bounces. What could’ve happened during sex that causes a man to instantly realize you are not worthy of commitment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario?I’ll say it over and over and over again: men know from the moment they meet you what your potential is with them. No, sex won’t grow your attraction towards a woman to a point where you will want an LTR with her. Men rarely grow attraction and if they do it’s over a long period of time where sex is not involved (ex. starting to like a girl at work or something similar). All this bs about “let’s see how it goes” and “I’m not ready for anything serious “ is pretty much men knowing a woman is not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 02:40 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.Yup. FDS also describes manipulative techniques and makes it easy to detect if someone is playing games or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 02:13 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.The only plausible explanation 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 01:14 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.It’s not that women don’t enjoy sex is that most men aren’t good at it. Especially casual sex where men only care about their own pleasure to begin with. Casual sex is a shit deal for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:13 PM |
| 26 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.Someone gave a reward to this? 😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Women are almost never used for sex.Oh pleaseeeee!! So full of shit. You sleep with a girl you don’t find attractive as if sex will somehow turn things around and you will fall in love with her. Lol!! Men know within MINUTES if they’d want anything long term with you or not way before they sleep with you. You repackaging lies and call it a decent human behavior lol. Nah, it’s still called manipulation and lies. That’s why every woman should follow FDS is to avoid men like you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 12:01 PM |
| 5 | CMV Being "used" for sex/your wallet is the price of admission.Wow very well elaborated, OP. I have to agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 05:59 PM |
| 14 | Is Red Pill Women still relevant in 2020?As if men display their true character right from the start 🙄 Gimme a break. All men think they are great catches that are overlooked by women who want to date “jerks” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Is Red Pill Women still relevant in 2020?I second that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Is Red Pill Women still relevant in 2020?And if that’s not better then how is she supposed to choose better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What will be the societal changes as more and more women (and men) exit their fertile years with no children?Raising wages will raise the price of goods and services | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why does the Redpill complain so much about the promiscuity of women and its effects on society, when that very same condition helps the Redpill.Women don’t view men who sleep around as high value. It’s just men who are high value have the ability to sleep around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Just because a man can get more than one hot girl doesn’t mean he wants another girl. There is more to relationships than appearance and n-count. At least in real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Men fall in love if you are hot and have personality and your n-count won’t stop them from marrying you. Case closed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Welp to make matters worse I’m 32 single mother who works for corporate America 😁 Literally the worse case scenario you can imagine as a red piller, right? This is how we started dating . My situation disproves everything red pillers cry about. Cheers 🥂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 05:47 PM |
| -1 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?So why is he with me then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Chads invest with no problem if you are hot. Regardless of your n-count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?I don’t give a shit about proving nothing to some random strangers on the internet. I’ve dated Chads my whole life and while “all men want a low-n woman” they don’t give a shit if they actually find you attractive. Facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?There is no identical twin to anybody. You are who you are with your appearance/traits/features/body count. Another person can take it or leave it. I’m just saying that men in real life don’t get so hung up on your body count. If a man wants you he doesn’t give a shit about anything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Chads marry Stacys and don’t worry about their body count because they are hot. Source: dated/was married to a Chad my whole life. If you are hot, men don’t give a shit about n-count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?None of your business | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 10:14 AM |
| -1 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Men with a lot of options actually don’t care about your body count because they are self assured enough unlike people on here lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 10:11 AM |
| 3 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Idk. We both enjoy each other’s company a lot. I highly doubt the body count would be a deal breaker in our particular situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?Hmmm I don’t feel like I’m a bro. But he did tell me from the beginning he wants to be friends with his gf and we do have a ton in common. So there is that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?He works hard on his body and used to compete. He also has a good career. He is very thoughtful, loving and fun. It’s not all about genetics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 01:17 AM |
| 11 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?What does her story have to do with me? Everyone is different. My bf can dated pretty much anybody if he wanted to, even women much younger than him. Yet here he is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 10:20 PM |
| 31 | Do these young men REALLY value virginity and/or a low "N-count" in women, or are they simply afraid of comparison?My bf never had problems with women. He is extremely attractive and good in bed. He hasn’t asked about my n-count once and I know it’s because he doesn’t give a shit. I’m positive he wouldn’t leave if my count was 1 or 100. But of course, he actually wants a partner, not an incubator-slave-bangmaid “traditional” men are looking for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Pursuing the guy????Same. I’m career oriented, very independent, assertive, a decision maker, but extremely feminine in my appearance. My bf is super masculine alpha type. I couldn’t imagine being with a feminine man lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Guess who just ended a 10 month relationship with a LVMYes!! I decided to stop dating completely and was single for over 1.5 years. Wasn’t using dating apps and didn’t go out of my way to meet someone. My current bf found me through FB, was pursuing hard even though I wasn’t interested initially. Now I’m having the best summer, we are constantly out doing things together and we are like the same person but different genders lol. Best thing to do is just be comfortable with yourself and have a fulfilling life without a man in it. Then when a worthy g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:57 PM |
| 6 | Gamers+inherent selfishness of a NVM is clearly evident.After all of this SHE is still the one who is apologizing to him and he is apparently a poor victim 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Do you confirm meetings with your first ODL dates? If yes, when?When I was dating I’d assume the date is not on unless I got confirmation the same day that we are still doing something. I never text first and wait to be contacted. If he doesn’t reach out the same day I make different plans. The most I’ve done was ask: “Are we still on for tonight?” if we are already having a conversation that day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:52 PM |
| 20 | BLACK PILL FOR WOMEN VIA PPD-THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING "ALL MEN LOOK DOWN ON WOMEN WHO..."Because each and every man expects to be the one you break your rules for. They are obsessed with that. Be a prude for everyone else but lose your virginity on the first date with him because he is oh so special. Utter nonsense but that’s what LVMs really want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | It is within "Good Taste" for a man to order for his date.Ive been on so many dates with men from completely different environments with different incomes, the most a man could do is suggest something he really thought was worth trying. I’m no stranger to dating etiquette but a man ordering for a woman is an obsolete technique in our modern world and I personally would at least ask why he’d allow themselves to make decisions for me if it ever happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Do beautiful women realize they get the VIP treatment nearly everywhere they go or do they naively believe this is just how the world works for everyone?I liked how you went through my comment history and chose to ignore what’s inconvenient for you to acknowledge. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Do beautiful women realize they get the VIP treatment nearly everywhere they go or do they naively believe this is just how the world works for everyone?You’d lose your house lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Do beautiful women realize they get the VIP treatment nearly everywhere they go or do they naively believe this is just how the world works for everyone?Men on here are always: “You are just not all that” without any ground to claim so. Dude I know what I look like so your suggestion is not the case. As much as it is not the case that attractive people somehow are privileged and get special treatment 🙄 To support my case let me ask you that: do you talk to attractive people in any way differently than anybody else? Cause I know I don’t. Like when I used to have to deal with customers I wouldn’t go out of my way just because someone looked better… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Do beautiful women realize they get the VIP treatment nearly everywhere they go or do they naively believe this is just how the world works for everyone?There is no special treatment for beautiful women! What a dumb statement. Do you think just because you are pretty everybody trips over themselves to accommodate you? I still have to wait in line at the DMV, grocery store clerk barely says anything to me just like to any other customer, waitress smiles at me just like any other person at a restaurant. Wtf are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 5 | A book EVERYONE HERE should readSure. Not long. About 4 months. He was pursuing me for about 2 months without any physical contact. I probably see him 3-4 times a week. Idk if he is an HVM yet, he displays a lot of traits but he is used to getting his way with women. Not with me though 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:52 PM |
| 15 | A book EVERYONE HERE should readYes, girl. It’s a shame it took years for me to become like that. Im 32 now. I’m just very seriously fed up with dating and my behavior comes naturally now. I won’t accept subpar treatment no matter who the man is. If he is not making my life better why have him in my life? I hope younger women learn from this sub ASAP. I used to be a total pick me for my first bf and he would wipe his feet off me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 9 | A book EVERYONE HERE should readI agree with that they CAN love deeply. My ex husband definitely loved me and still does 3.5 years later. He can’t move on and it’s actually super sad to watch. It makes co-parenting so hard cause he lashes out periodically because of jealousy. And then he sends me long texts reminiscing and begging to try again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 22 | A book EVERYONE HERE should readOh your last paragraph is spot on unfortunately. I’m noticing it with my current bf. I’m very fed up with relationships and am very jaded. I wanted nothing to do with him at first and told him so. Nobody has pursued me harder than him. He must’ve spent a small fortune trying to impress. Flowers, dinners by the door, thoughtful gifts. He warmed me up to the idea of dating so I started giving in. He is a very good looking guy and has a lot of experience with women. But so do I with men. I very rar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:20 PM |
| 97 | And that’s the tea!My ex boyfriend actually asked if he could choke me. The answer was hell no. I’d never let it happen. I knew one woman who’s bf liked choking her and couldn’t get hard without it. I found it extremely weird back then. I didn’t realize how common all this crap was until FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyDid you just call rape a human right?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyI’m from Russia. Similar situation. I’m glad I’m in the states and don’t have to deal with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 01:56 PM |
| -1 | IG & FB are better for getting dates than Dating AppsThat’s how I met my current bf - he DMed me on FB. Mind you he said something very specific from when he saw me in person (we didn’t know each other and I don’t remember seeing him, but he noticed me and found me through mutual connections). He is also really good looking. Otherwise I don’t open 99% of DMs I receive 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.It used to be a thing. Not anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.I don’t have a problem with double standards. I said it multiple times on this sub. I also don’t believe I’m doing anything manipulative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.I don’t have to do that. It’s up to a man to decide if I’m worth it or not. I will bring to the table my 6 figure income if we end up in a relationship like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.It’s what it is. Get over it and compete if you want to. Or drop out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.I don’t use anybody. I make it clear from the start that I’m not a “cool girl” type. They wanna leave - fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Well, I personally don’t see an issue with double standards. I don’t necessarily believe in wage gap. I have a white collar job and I do expect to be paid as much as my male counterparts as long as all the conditions are the same. However if you are working a construction job and I’m in retail I don’t mind you as a man getting paid more. I don’t see my status as a woman and a receiver being privileged however. It’s just what a dynamic is and you as a man have to whooo me into a relationship with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.No. Comes down to my looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Yeah that’s what the dynamic is like. Like I said men don’t have to do it. My bf sees no issue with that so we match our expectations of each other. He thinks I’m hot so he is fine with it. He also comes to me when has a bad day and he is always welcome to my house, stay a night if he wants to, talk to me throughout a day, etc. If he thinks it’s unfair somehow he is not chained by any means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Being available to them to talk/hang out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.I said quite the opposite actually. I said I wouldn’t be comfortable having a person spend hundreds of dollars on me if I knew I didn’t like him as a sexual partner. However me seeing someone as a sexual partner is still not gonna guarantee sex therefore I might explore it with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Why manipulative? Everybody has a free will. If a man doesn’t think I’m worth it then it is what it is. I personally don’t mind being single and think relationships should add to my life, not make it worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 12:12 AM |
| 9 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Yes. And if a man doesn’t think it’s worth it then that’s cool. I will use that time on family/friends instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 11:44 PM |
| 9 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.I mean I won’t get a man gifts unless it’s his bday or something. I’ll cook if I’m dating but not early on for sure. Also, I won’t let a man spend hundreds and hundreds of dollars if I KNOW he has no chance with me. I’d feel bad. This particular guy knew I wasn’t dating period but he really wanted to show he wasn’t a fuckboy and put in a lot of effort to prove it to me. I guess everyone is different and it’s just the matter of meeting each other’s expectations 🤷♀️ I’m sure a lot of men wouldn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.Well the guy I’m currently dating spent two months just getting to know me and bought me gifts/dinners before anything really happened. So..If I go on a date doesn’t mean I’m going to sleep with you. Mind you I thought right away he was hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 20 | Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise.When I lived in Russia it was a common thing for me to get hit on several times a week just going around with my regular life. When I came to the states I realized American men are terrified of approaching. It took me ex husband two months to approach me and he only asked me out because I was explicit about my interest in him. I constantly see men stare but I get approached veeeeery rarely. Also, talking about “simping” and how it doesn’t work - not exactly. It won’t make a woman that doesn’t fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 4 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?Because there is no such thing as women sitting there thinking: “Oh imma choose an asshole!” I bet you probably are an asshole to some woman too. People in general are shitty and selfish. I bet there is not a single guy out there who thinks: “I’m an asshole”. All men think they are worthy and great but for some reasons when two people get into a relationship they have problems. Everyone is in love in the beginning and everything is wonderful. My ex husband wasn’t a lazy alcoholic when I first me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:15 PM |
| 13 | Women shouldn’t be told to get used to mothering grown menThey all pee in sinks too. I got confirmation from multiple men that it’s a thing. Even kitchen sinks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn’t be told to get used to mothering grown menOmg my ex husband would leave dishes on the coffee table after eating. And his clothes all over the floor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 12 | How Can Woman Possibly Differentiate With All The Possible Men?I’m sorry but WHAT? You can say the same about men: every woman you see on the street is your potential mate. This is just such a weird post. But to address some points: men stare all the time everywhere you go but I probably get approached maybe once every 6 months or so. I’m not complaining, I don’t really care. But just to put it in perspective - people think attractive women get bombarded with men approaching them - we don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | The bile!Oooofff damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 01:29 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Oh so she is his mommy too 🙄 Great. I was a mommy too. 10 years later left with my bare ass and two small kids. My mom saw all the red flags and I didn’t listen. Time will sort things out. You won’t talk any sense into her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:30 PM |
| 36 | I chose to leave today“Dick pic sending LVM” 🤣😂😂 I’m dead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:31 PM |
| 0 | When the foul stench of desperation isn’t enough to attract a manLooks as painful as it sounds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:40 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I went though an abusive marriage - this is not a good sign for sure. I bet he conveniently sees her as an "equal" too. Turned a joke into a way to be abusive - nice. I mean, you probably won't be able to do anything, it's not large enough to end the relationship but definitely a major red flag in my eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:29 PM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020You know you throwing yourself at him like that won't really do anything, it will actually make things worse. You will lose more dignity and respect for yourself and it won't bring him back. When a man wants something he will come through over and over and over again. You said he might have a gf and most likely isn't even thinking of you. Chences are you are right about that. Time to let go, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Wow yeah, that's the worst when you don't know exactly what happened. Usually you at least can tell things aren't going well and can feel it coming, but when you don't those are the most painful break ups. Unfortunately nobody will be able to tell you what exactly happened. In your situation I'd just block him on everything, delete all conversations and make it my closure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 14 | Women can have it all, they just can't do it all. In the same way, men have had "it all" for years while doing 10% of the parenting and housework. Women should not have to choose between a family and career because their partner is lazy!If you hear what he preaches you will definitely won't think that that's what he means | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:37 PM |
| 13 | Women can have it all, they just can't do it all. In the same way, men have had "it all" for years while doing 10% of the parenting and housework. Women should not have to choose between a family and career because their partner is lazy!I hate him so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.Men who have regular sex don’t sit there and worry about some stranger’s body count 🙄. This is ridiculous. Plus she said she went on dates every week, not had sex with each and every person. Shocker, right?! I went on more than one date a week at some point. Scary to think what men on here would assume about my body count considering they’d fuck a burrito if they could | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 12 | "I'm looking for monogamous and serious minded but for a girl who's cool to start casual [so I can put in next to zero effort and then easily leave when I find someone I like better]"Yeah, he wants a serious minded girl, not some whore who will be still going on dates and fucking other people. The same doesn't apply to him though. And if you pickmeisha yourself enough for him he might even commit to you after 7 years and becoming to lazy to look for more people to fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.I didn't toss it as an insult. A sexless person is no less of a person in my eyes. It's men who use it as some kind of a benchmark to determine worthiness of themselves and other men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 04:47 PM |
| 12 | The scrodacityMust've had a stressful life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?I feel like men with normal outlook on life would feel at least a bit weirded out by such gap at such age regardless of what people on here claim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer?Rhetoric TRP question and immediate TRP answer provided in the same post (yawn). Both furthest from the actual truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Swallowing the Purple Pill“I have a theory that following TRP guidelines will only attract insecure, low value women.” So spot on. A lot of techniques they promote would never fly with confident chicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?I’m 32. I’d never date a 52 yo man 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?Oh yeah, if that’s what you are after then why not. I don’t see anything wrong with that. As long as you know what it is and not being naive about it. That’s what FDS warns about when they talk about large age gaps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?Boom. Here we go. I just commented about the dynamic being toxic. This doesn’t sound healthy to me at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?I can confirm. If any of my friends dated a 38 at 19 we would probably do nothing else but make fun of her and him. Would call him grandpa and whatever else. I remember I was like 17-18 and there was a 24 yo neighbor who was low key trying to hit on me. And my friends and I used to refer to him as an “old fart” and my mom used to laugh lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?I’m on FDS and the reason they say it is because it usually creates a toxic dynamic. A lot of times a younger woman allows older man to date her because of underlying issues she has/had in her family. Older men take advantage of that and such relationships are never healthy. I personally couldn’t imagine being attracted to a 38 yo at your age. But now I’m 32 and am dating a very hot 39 yo. I guess it’s situational and if you think your desire for older men comes from a healthy state of mind - go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 12:28 PM |
| 8 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.Hot attractive women are usually in relationships. Most of my hot friends got married in their 20s. Women as a whole want a commitment, not just casual sex. Sure, ONS happen SOMETIMES between relationships maybe. But they are rather rare and take really special circumstances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | How much easier do you think life is for good looking people? (in dating, social situations and career/making money)If I messaged him on fb offering sex I wouldn’t be surprised if he called me a slut. You have to understand women often get messages from men and 90% of the time it’s nothing but men trying to get some casual sex. He is a very good looking guy and he is very used to getting women. So by default I assumed that he was after sex 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.Omg that’s all you can get out of her comment 🤦♀️ Sexless men seriously cannot stop obsessing over this shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.I go on there to laugh sometimes tbh. It’s hilarious!! Ugly guys stroke each other’s egos by telling each other they are 5-6-7s and then give the same score to beautiful women that those “looks match” guys would NEVER be able to land in real life. A couple of weeks ago I saw a girl on there who was an easy 9, probably more like 10. She was perfect. She got 5.75-6.5. I’ll never take any of those subs seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:15 AM |
| 8 | Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be.This is lunacy for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Yeah $50 dinner once in a while with someone I might like greatly reduces my bills 🙄 What are you talking about? It makes 0 difference in my life. Flowers and edible arrangements or a gift card to Victoria Secret do nothing for my bills either. Stop listening to TRP nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.How is it helping me with my bills or whatever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.If that was the case Japan should be burning in flames by now but they are not. I predict we will be like them soon: men and women have a bare minimum of romantic interactions. Men not willing to "men up", women not willing to change their standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.And what my realization gonna change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Well what do you want me to say? I mean kudos to you for admitting men are violent by nature and cause more crime and harm. Guess what? You can't do it anymore due to the law. Ok, question. Do you expect women to be grateful for structuring the society not to be violent towards each other as it's the most pragmatic and logical way anyway? What are expectations for women? That I go sleep with incels as a reward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.And with that I completely forget where we even started and what the original argument was. I'm exhausted with this thread. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 10:34 PM |
| 14 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Riiiiiighhht... Cause police officers clearly only defend women and men don't benefit from their service in any way. Who does the female-doctor gets paid by? And who is she paying taxes to? This notion of men being the vast majority of tax payers is another TRP "truth" that got blown out of proportion. The same as majority of women being on welfare lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled."Strength has nothing to do with physical strength in modern times." - precisely. So if you understand that that's how our society works why are you even giving examples of how women had no security during barbaric times? Those arguments are irrelevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 10:13 PM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Not all men, not all women, blah blah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.I don't disagree with that statement at all. We all are extremely ego-centric by nature, nothing wrong with that. We can just empathize with people of the same gender more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Ok, for simplicity of it I won't bring up women participating in legislation and law enforcement. With that logic the strongest male wins. So you can get beat up at any given moment and have your wallet/watch/phone stolen all because you couldn't defend yourself. So don't complain about it. We don't live in tribes that go in war against each other. And even if men decided to collectively overpower women physically, ultimately, you should be ok with your mother/sister/daughter getting raped and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.I didn't say anything about owing sympathy? I was making an argument against men supposedly caring about women getting raped as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:41 PM |
| 2 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.That men care about women not getting raped and assaulted? No. They don't care if women get raped and assaulted as a whole. Otherwise, 99% of rapes wouldn't be men on women. Men are extremely insensitive about rape issues if you follow social media. It's always: "Well what was she wearing? Why dis she go to the party and got drunk?" etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:21 PM |
| -1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.I'm not sure what does it have to do with my previous response? Men don't really care about women getting raped in assaulted. They only care about their loved ones not being raped and assaulted. That's why there are laws - it's a common courtesy among members of society: don't touch mine, I won't touch yours. The same with the law on theft. It's a social contract. Otherwise, the society would be in chaos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 09:07 PM |
| 5 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.If there was no laws in society What does it matter if there was no law? There ARE laws. And nobody owes nothing to each other. Male police officers defending citizens is merely them doing their job to feed themselves, has nothing to do with men being virtuous enough to defend the weak. I'm sure weaker men wouldn't want to go back to cavemen days where they'd have to fight bigger more masculine counterparts. So the law and social structure is not going anywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 08:37 PM |
| 13 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Men don't owe me anything and I don't receive anything from any man. If you referring to something like a police officer defending a woman - he is doing his job for a paycheck, the same way a female dentist fixes cavity for a male-patient | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 08:20 PM |
| 10 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.It's immoral to have sex with people you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 26 | If she cheated on him, I'm sure he'd be just as understanding. I mean, no one's, invincible right? (/s) My patience is thinner than a contact lens right now.Haha! There are countless stories like that. You lose him the same way you get him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 06:25 PM |
| 26 | If she cheated on him, I'm sure he'd be just as understanding. I mean, no one's, invincible right? (/s) My patience is thinner than a contact lens right now.I remember when Tiger Woods got caught cheating on his wife people were saying: "Welp, nobody is perfect!" Lmao. As if he was just leaving his dirty socks on the floor. Cheating with countless women is a little flaw, ya know, just an imperfection women should be accepting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...Just because they can, doesn't mean they do. Lots of women do actually prefer celibacy instead of casual sex with men out of their league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Reuters: "Sexual activity among young American men has declined sharply since 2000, with nearly a third reporting no sex with a partner in the prior year...I think a lot had to do with the fact that women used to be viewed inadequate if they didn't have a partner. Therefore, they tried harder to find a bf and a husband later in life. Societal values have changed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/20 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.Well, Cinderella wasn't exactly jobless.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:27 PM |
| 129 | Another woman faces possible infertility due to disgusting male cheating on her before their wedding.And yes, chlamydia, if not caught right away, causes scars on your uterus which leads to infertility in a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:24 PM |
| 78 | Another woman faces possible infertility due to disgusting male cheating on her before their wedding.And a lot of them actually accuse the woman even when they cheat. It happened to a couple of my friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 29 | « Men having to pay for dates is unfair because it doesn’t even guarantee pussy » as if women were supposed to be the ones paying to be used as a sex objectHe needs to up his body count to prove to himself and other men he is worthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:08 PM |
| 33 | « Men having to pay for dates is unfair because it doesn’t even guarantee pussy » as if women were supposed to be the ones paying to be used as a sex objectWomen are boring though and have nothing to offer but a used up pussy with miles of cock on it /s No, thanks. Not even a free dinner is worth to waste my time on a person like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Don’t put love before your financial success and education 💅Yup. I spent my twenties married to a LVM, having two kids, working at least one full time job, and going to college. It was extremely hard and looking back I don't know how I did it. I wouldn't wish it on anybody | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:48 AM |
| 70 | I can't help but laugh, look at her contact name though.I'm surprised he friendzoned her. Usually they take everything they can... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:31 AM |
| 11 | Q4W: If the burden of approaching, persistence and courting was on you, how would you handle it?The thing is women will usually say no to a man they don’t find attractive. Men will still say yes anyway as they don’t mind using women for casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 11 | You've got to be kidding me. The scrotiest of scrotes are going to teach us how to be women?Pffft they are organizing a pickmeisha convention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:37 AM |
| 12 | Q4W: If the burden of approaching, persistence and courting was on you, how would you handle it?They get flattered when you pursue them, get an ego boost, then think they don’t need to do anything at all since they already got you, and then become lukewarm. I love how men complain about not getting approached, yet they don’t appreciate it at all when it happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 09:49 PM |
| 3 | How would women react to an erotic fantasy book/film in which an ugly man rapes/kidnaps a woman?How does that saying go? “An Attractive man hitting on a woman is flirting, an ugly man hitting on a woman is a harassment”. Definitely true. I get offended when an ugly/old guy tries to hit on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: 'Game' Is Easy for Psychopaths and SociopathsI’m sorry but why would you go on Craigslist to find a man 😱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | TRP is high beta fuckboy game. They only get pussy without commitment because they lie about their intentionsWell I guess if you are indeed a Chad as your username suggests maybe it’s possible? As far as I’m concerned I’ve never seen it before and I’m sorry I’m not taking this anonymous exchange at face value. I’m a woman and I’d never be ok with an arrangement you describing but whatever. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | TRP is high beta fuckboy game. They only get pussy without commitment because they lie about their intentionsSo you suggest you are not gonna do anything but have sex with a woman and she would be down to just come over, fuck you really quick and leave right after so she don’t get any idea of a relationship? I mean if you can pull it off good for you. I’ve never heard of anything like that. If it goes beyond one night stand most women do hope it will turn into a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | TRP is high beta fuckboy game. They only get pussy without commitment because they lie about their intentionslol so women just line up to you to be your free prostitute. No nothing, just fuck really quick and go. I’ve yet to meet a man who can pull something like this off irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Define Chad?I was gonna say... No fucking way. I’m not saying that it never happened in human history but cmon now. It’s not that easy for anybody unless maybe you are a movie star or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Happy birthday, girl!! This sub is truly awesome and I'm glad you joined <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:45 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I went through a rebound. Got it out of my system and stayed single for a while after that. Whatever you feel like doing, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:43 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I just randomly looked at the sidebar and have noticed there is a link to the FDS YouTube channel!!! I'm psyched. There is no content uploaded yet but does it mean it's in the process of being worked on?? Does anybody know anything about it? I subscribed of course and will be waiting impatiently to get my first notification! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:41 PM |
| 10 | How common is Becky-Bucks? What is your experience with it?Same story except I was married to mine and had two kids with him. Stayed together for 10 years. Same shit with unconditional love, trying to help, thinking he'd grow up. Nope. Left with my bare ass and two small kids. My second best decision ever after deciding to go to college. He, on the other hand, started making decent money and 3.5 years later thinks there is still a chance of us reconciling. Lol never ever ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Was patriarchy a sexual strategy?Omg this, once again, wOmeN lIVe oFF Of gOVErnmEnt. No they fucking don't!!! The majority of welfare recipients are veterans. And welfare in itself (including all programs) only accounts for 20% of government spending. TRP picked a very niche group of people and keeps referring to their lifestyle as if it was the norm for the majority. You guys contradict yourselves. Claiming we live off of welfare but at the same time somehow it's easier for us to get a career. Let me burst your little bubble. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 03:38 PM |
| 10 | Don’t grab your purse when the bill is comingI'm so glad it doesn't even cross my mind to grab my purse. But if you need something to occupy yourself with: continue sipping | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:42 PM |
| 21 | Hello, r/RedPillWomen. 🎉GOOD NEWS🎉 After 9 years of dating, my Captain finally gave me a promise ring! 😊 I've never been happier in my life😊She'd post it to her FB too lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Was patriarchy a sexual strategy?So if they are not useless to the society but useless to women on individual level then why do they deserve marriage? The fact that he is an engineer doesn't automatically make him attractive on any other levels. He is not high-tier to women based solely on his job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Sexless men are in that situation because they provide little to no value and expect high value in returnCats are cute and cuddly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Who do you think is more likely to cheat, the guy you invested in as a young woman or the guy who you picked up at the finish line?Oh why, of course the guy number 1 will be unconditionally infinitely grateful for your virtue and would never even look at other women. Yeah, okay. Like someone else said it doesn’t matter when in life you start a relationship. It depends on a person and their moral compass, not on whether you “gave him youth” or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/20 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Attractive men have always had it easierThere are women who do that however it’s not the majority. It’s not common for middle class and up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | On average, are sluts better looking than non-sluts?In my experience prettier women are harder to sleep with; hence, less slutty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Attractive men have always had it easierWell I guess it depends on what a woman wants. Not every women wants to have sex with a new Chad every night. All I'm saying Chads do chase and settle just like betas do if you are hot and play your cards right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 03:57 PM |
| 8 | Why are males always the ones who end up isolated and lonely in society?I was single for over 1.5 years and I never felt lonely because I have friends. But as a woman I feel like we put more effort, thought and time into developing networks. I actively try to stay into my friends' lives. From my observation men just don't do it. My ex husband wasn't interested in talking to other men about anything other than football. When his "best friend" broke up with his wife my ex didn't even bother to find out any details. Now I just started dating a guy and he doesn't seem t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 03:52 PM |
| -1 | Attractive men have always had it easierMost men don't want to settle in their early 20s. Can you imagine a 21 yo saying: my dream is to start working at a steel factory so I can struggle to provide for my 19 yo wife who is gonna start popping out kids 9 months into the marriage. That is absurd. TRP is glamorizing it because they can't get women and that was a way to ensure every man gets a woman. I spent my 20s married and I wish I didn't. 20s are for fun and growing up. And if it involves sleeping with people so what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Attractive men have always had it easierNot necessarily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Attractive men have always had it easierI’m a woman and I agree lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 01:32 PM |
| 13 | Attractive men have always had it easierYes! I wish more women knew this. Chads absolutely do chase too if you don’t put out right away. A lot of times they will chase even harder cause they are not used to rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 01:22 PM |
| 5 | Attractive men have always had it easierBeing attractive doesn’t guarantee you will find what you are looking for. Good looking men look to settle too, very few choose to sleep around their whole life. Sure, they may have more sex and more women to choose from but that absolutely doesn’t guarantee happiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 22 | Damn straight! Cheating is the ultimate sign of disrespect - dump them immediatelyOh completely. I will never believe a man is “just looking”! If he is “looking” at other women he is window shopping already. The funny part is that he was waaaay below my league too. You’d think he’d worship and adore me but no. So much for “give a regular guy a chance”. Lol. Luckily for me I had good looking guys who’d never allow themselves such audacity so I didn’t want to hear his nonsense for a sec. This disgusting scrote was shocked though. It was hilarious. The story aside, girl, there i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:56 PM |
| 57 | Damn straight! Cheating is the ultimate sign of disrespect - dump them immediatelyI've never really had a guy cheat on me but one decided it was a good idea to create a Tinder profile. When I found out he told me I was being insecure and there is nothing wrong with him "just looking". He was dumped on the spot. Tried to come back multiple times for a year. Nope. Never will I ever ever forgive a cheater | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Unmatched, hard pass, NO!!!What I don't understand is why are they acting that they are some kind of a prize to be won? Like what do you get out of it? Some dick that you can get literally anywhere? Go fuck off with your "open marriage". It doesn't do shit for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:24 PM |
| 21 | Unmatched, hard pass, NO!!!It's like an epidemic right now with this "open marriage" shit on OLD. Interesting, I don't know a single one IRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 10:49 PM |
| 9 | The downvotes I get for saying that grabbing you gf's ass and saying you'd like to fuck her isn't foreplay. Guess what? Apparently sex doesn't require foreplay every time! I'll know in ten years when I've had more sex. Honey, I've had more than 10 years of bad sex, that's why I'm saying this 🤣Yeah, I just read the post and there are so many details that point towards it, it's not even funny. Weirdo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 10:46 PM |
| 60 | What kind of man gets off on beating his wife until she’s unconscious? A pornsick one.How hard do you have to whip someone to a point of them passing out?? What normal human being enjoys their SO's pain? How sickening... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:03 PM |
| 19 | Imagine having nothing else in your life besides porn and killing yourself if you couldn't get access to it. We need Darwinism and Feminism"If PornHub was to shut down, tens of thousands would take their lives because they'd have no reason to live" Omg lmao !! Some high life-goals right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:58 PM |
| 46 | Scrotes be scroting: the tale of yet another NVM'This wouldn't have happened if you had just listened to me and stop being a child.' That right there says it all. "Listen to me, woman. I clearly know better than you." I'd dye my hair on purpose if a man told me No. Ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Man loses respect for a woman because her feces was on his finger after her put his finger in her assOmg lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:18 PM |
| 8 | Weird situationI mean I don’t know. I like being upfront with people. I get you don’t want an awkward situation but that would piss me off so much. I have always been a target for those weird couples. I have been asked to be the third wheel more times than I care to remember. My answer has always been: “What’s there for me though?” Gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Using the language and terminology of economics to describe romantic or sexual relationships is self sabotaging behavior, and a foundational cause of rage in the gender slap fightI get what you are saying but actually there are some aspects of economics that I personally had implemented in my dating life. To me it the cost/benefit analysis. Whenever relationships start sucking I often ask myself: is it worth it to me? Am I putting in more than I’m getting out? If the answer is no then I subconsciously and consciously start withdrawing.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | The reason FDS justifiably deserves more derision than TRP is because it has unrealistic goals that only benefit one party while the other has realistic goals that could benefit both parties.Everyone's takeaway on a sub consisting of 73k members is gonna vary drastically (I'm talking about FDS). From reading people's thoughts on what FDS represents I see a lot of misconceptions and oversimplifications. I was single for over a year and a half after my last relationship. I found FDS about 5-6 months ago and was blown away by how similar their concepts are to what I'd already believed. My summary is: don't sleep with a man who is not committed, learn how to recognize fuckboy behavior, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 11:14 PM |
| 49 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?Lol I didn't wanna say it but thought exact the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 10:35 PM |
| 6 | LOL what a load of crap. Who comes up with this stuff?Let me excuse my disgusting body from your generous offer to fuck it. I just simply cannot accept it knowing how grossed out men must be with it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 02:54 PM |
| 2 | If tinder and online dating are so great for women, why aren’t more using them?30 min? You are being generous lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceUgh it's overrated. You are not missing out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceI wouldn’t say I jumped to relationships as I had 4 throughout those years. I was cool by myself and it was actually nice. I just started dating a guy who was pursuing me hard. Otherwise I wasn’t even on any apps or whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceI know I know. It sounds like not whole a lot. But I’ve been in relationships since I was 15 and haven’t been single at all for longer than a couple of months so 1.5 years is pretty long to me 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 11:39 AM |
| 1 | The worst thing a man can do if he wants to attract women is be fat.Nobody should be fat if they want an attractive partner. My neighbors are both fat (a couple), they found each other and are happy (I guess), so that's good. I never felt any attraction to a fat guy. Men constantly say they don't want a fat woman. I believe, keeping weight down is essential for both genders and actually is not that hard if you get into a routine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 03:03 AM |
| 58 | I knew trash could take itself out, I didn’t anticipate it running down the streets in groups though.Ladies, change the locks! Quick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:27 AM |
| 11 | expecting basic chivalry disqualifies you from a second dateYeah, he will have no problem having sex with you on the first or second date though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 5 | expecting basic chivalry disqualifies you from a second dateSo I see a LOOOOT of men complain about it online.. It's the primary complaint about FDS and they constantly say they's never date a women like that. But then NOBODY has ever asked me to split. I never offer either unless it's a serious relationship and I decide I want to treat him. I've been on a ton of dates too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:15 AM |
| 55 | If he wants to marry you... HE’LL ASK!Don't forget to buy him the biggest diamond you can afford!!! Better yet - FINANCE IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:00 AM |
| 8 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageYeah, the layout is a bit confusing. I knew right away there was a confusion lol. 'Couch selfies", "tractor model" - girl, I'm dying lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:51 AM |
| 29 | Ppppiccckkk meeee. This is disgusting. Who told this woman she needs a man this badly? TRIGGER WARNINGOmg I wish I didn't read this... This will haunt me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:44 AM |
| 4 | If "Chad" is stealing "your" women, why are you angry at women instead of attractive men who fuck them or yourself for not being able to compete?If a woman wants to come to an average men after riding the CC it means that's where their SMVs reached equilibrium | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 0 | If young women are marrying guys your age, why are you angry at younger women instead of yourself for screwing up in life?I guess it depends how big the gap is.. I mean the larger it is - the bigger the chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 11:55 PM |
| 2 | If young women are marrying guys your age, why are you angry at younger women instead of yourself for screwing up in life?Right.. There was a post from a 20 yo woman yesterday who "dated" a 60 yo man who was into BDSM. Her farther found out and was losing his shit even took her to a psychiatrist. The dad said he will kick her out if she doesn't end it and her and the grandpa decided to keep it on the low instead. Like he couldn't even take her in. Sounds pretty healthy to me. Funny, how men don't want their daughters to date old men. To address "coping mechanism" comments: I was married for ten years and have two k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 11:54 PM |
| 2 | If young women are marrying guys your age, why are you angry at younger women instead of yourself for screwing up in life?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | If young women are marrying guys your age, why are you angry at younger women instead of yourself for screwing up in life?Because a large age gap usually indicates an unhealthy controlling or sometimes abusive relationship. It also indicates that the woman grew up in an unhealthy environment and is searching for validation she didn't receive from her parents. I've said it a million times already: 20 yo women are NOT attracted to older men's appearance. It's usually her self esteem that's lacking and she thinks she doesn't deserve better. FDS is looking out for women not to get used and abused and warns them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 11:28 PM |
| 2 | As a white guy you should be thankful I give you attention...Omg! Did he really just say that?? Whoa. I love her last response and I'm stealing it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 10:40 PM |
| 14 | The best thing in life...My life got so much better once I got a degree and found my first professional job! It eliminated a lot of stress out of my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceAh ok, good. I was like: this is our kinda girl. I was obsessing with FDS when I first found it lol. I still comment on there just not as frequently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 10:08 PM |
| 6 | How men rationalize their attraction to 15 year oldsRight. You don't deserve to have a life, you woman. Serve your sole purpose of being a slave-incubator ASAP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceYou are so right about that once you start trusting them they turn on you! That's exactly what I'm afraid of. It's hard to know in advance if the risk is worth the benefit (assuming there is one lol). My last ex was way below my league (lOwEr yOuR StanDardS, right). He was completely smitten with me in the beginning. Once he got used to me negging started. Then 5 mo into our relationship I realized he downloaded tinder and then tried to tell me I was insecure and he was just swiping cause he was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceAre you me? You speak my words!! I was single for over 1.5 years after my last relationship and my last bf killed all the desire to even try. I refuse to have unfulfilling cAsUaL sex also. Becoming completely single was such a freeing empowering experience I really thought I was gonna stay single forever. Over quarantine I had a guy reach out on FB and I told him off. He kept pursuing and was kinda love bombarding me. So we just met IRL after talking for 2 months due to the quarantine. So far se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceWomen opting out is so true. I have quite a few gfs that are gorgeous and not even trying to date. Neither did I until very very recently, and to be fair that was completely unintentional on my part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceI'm a woman and I have 0 problem with sex-bots. If it helps some men who are not getting laid maybe it can help with mass shootings or whatever. If you look around irl plenty of men want more than just sex. If the ones that only want sex are gonna weave themselves out why is it a bad thing? It will be better for everybody | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | How much easier do you think life is for good looking people? (in dating, social situations and career/making money)I can definitely confirm that I myself am very suspicious of good-looking men and definitely take my time to start trusting them. Over the quarantine I started talking to a good-looking guy on FB. I was actually rude to him the first time and called him a fuckboy.. As I got to know him I definitely see he is not. We just started dating in real life after talking for two months because of the quarantine.. And with gay men - my ex husband used to get so pissed off. One time he even complained to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 07:32 PM |
| 3 | How much easier do you think life is for good looking people? (in dating, social situations and career/making money)Spot on about average guys trying to bring you down for feeling insecure dating a good looking girl!!! That was my last bf who was way below my league. He was smitten by me in the beginning but then started negging the shit out of me. I eventually dumped him and will never date down again!! And yeah, they think those techniques work and teach them to each other. In reality, if you are good looking no amount of negging will work. They think you are gonna chase their validation when you can practi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | How much easier do you think life is for good looking people? (in dating, social situations and career/making money)"...the great powers that rule the universe, are kinder to them" Amen to this!!! I mean even if you look on here there is so much delusion about the benefits of good looks it's ridiculous!!! People make up all kinds of shit up and then sit and try to prove to you they are right (facepalm) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 05:42 PM |
| 71 | Man grooms a 17 year old for a year. Moves her in after she turns 18. Tries to get her pregnant by poking holes in condoms. Also is 11 years her senior.Further proof that women who "like" older men are women who didn't grow up in healthy families.. So sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 09:52 PM |
| 23 | Girl dating scrote 12 years her senior has him begging to fuck other girls while telling her he wants a monogamous relationship. She feels guilty for feeling uncomfortable 🙄"...we made a decision to be exclusive". And here I had this stupid misconception of that an exclusive relationship implies neither partner sleeps with other people. Got it now though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:35 PM |
| 31 | These men shouldn’t be allowed on Bumble. I feel bad for his wife, not sure how involved she is in this so called “open relationship”But then men sit and wonder why male/female ratio on OLD is 4:1. I mean back three years ago it was all "I'm not looking for anything serious" (that was enough for me to stop using apps); now in addition to that it's this "Open relationship" shit. I mean what women would want any of this?? I'm not surprised men have such trouble on OLD. What do they expect? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:44 PM |
| 13 | Mark my words; in 5-10yrs, we’ll have a new set of words for, “simp”, and “pick-me’s”, and they’ll mean the exact same thingsNo, no. Pick-Me or Pickmeisha is a female version of a simp, not a slut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 06:35 PM |
| 51 | Sis, you can’t make this up.I'm sure it's all gonna work out fine. He just doesn't have much time due to COVID and he is just a private person. She should send some more nudes to retain his interest /s. Young women have no idea what's normal anymore! So sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:31 PM |
| 93 | Sis, you can’t make this up.'dOesN't hAVe muCH tiMe" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 14 | 20 year old female with a 60 year old males. Into BDSM. Still lives at home and relies on her parents for financial support and not this scrote 🤡Yeah, her dad needs to take a deep hard look at himself and both of them should go to therapy. Also, what's with the psychiatrist that said nothing is wrong with her and the issue lays with the dad? I remember myself and my friends being 20 and no way in hell this is normal. Really old man, practically her grandpa, doesn't even provide for her, BDSM. I mean that's pretty much life-time worth of trauma for her. Very sad actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:20 PM |
| 24 | 20 year old female with a 60 year old males. Into BDSM. Still lives at home and relies on her parents for financial support and not this scrote 🤡Not sure why this is getting downvoted cause that's probably exactly what happened. A lot of times those women look for a validation from an older man due to not receiving it from their fathers. If she says her dad is abusive and controlling she is probably not lying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:05 PM |
| 20 | 20 year old female with a 60 year old males. Into BDSM. Still lives at home and relies on her parents for financial support and not this scrote 🤡Funny how men defend large age gap relationships until it comes to their daughters. That aside, the girl is sick in the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:56 PM |
| 3 | How much easier do you think life is for good looking people? (in dating, social situations and career/making money)I struggle to recognize benefits. Like I said my confidence is probably my biggest benefit. Other than that, I don't see how good looking people have it so much easier than average/not so good looking ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 03:43 AM |
| 3 | How much easier do you think life is for good looking people? (in dating, social situations and career/making money)How about being hated for being good looking? People also underestimate you/assume things about you automatically based on your looks, it's very unfair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Really hoping that this is a jokeOh even if he did he'd get deleted and blocked so no, he is not on here giving anything out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:05 AM |
| 40 | Some HVM aren't compatibleAnd not only that, YOU may not have chemistry with an HVM. I've known one for almost a year and we went on 4-5 dates and even kissed but I unfortunately did not get "the spark". I thought multiple times about dating him but I just don't think that would make me happier than being single. He has a good job, average looking, VERY VERY thoughtful and I genuinely enjoyed hanging out/talking to him. He put a lot of effort in planning the dates. He sent me a Mother's Day gift and gave me something nic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:44 AM |
| 5 | How much easier do you think life is for good looking people? (in dating, social situations and career/making money)Good-looking people have the same issues as everybody else. Chad and Stacy have the same issues in their relationships just like everybody else. You have more options but to actually really click with someone it takes a lot of people to filter through. Yes, you have that effect of people staring at you, people acknowledging you more, people remembering you better but I wouldn't say it impacts your life drastically. I guess if anything your looks may provide you with more confidence and that's th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 02:21 AM |
| 65 | BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childishWhen they care about you your birthday becomes an opportunity for him to show his feelings. This “we don’t celebrate in my family “ is pretty much an equivalent of “I’m just not looking to date seriously right now” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:56 AM |
| 7 | If he says he doesn’t want a relationship, the “with you” is silentAbsolutely. Don’t ever think he needs time to figure out if you are good enough. Men pretty much know from the start if you are the one. My ex husband was talking marriage 2 months into dating me. A guy I met two months ago and only met yesterday for the first time told me that ever since we’ve been talking he lost all the interest in everybody else and wants a relationship with me, not “let’s see how it goes” and was asking me if I’m on the same page. So far seems genuine but I’ll test him more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:49 AM |
| 15 | Being unable to get commitment is not comparable to being unable to get sex.I’m a woman and I second this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 11:58 PM |
| 4 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?I mean you can’t help attraction. And I highly doubt it’s so black and white. Majority of my friends are bickering and complaining about their husbands/bfs. Relationships are tough and not worth the hassle really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 6 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?I don’t think I’m picking wrong. I have a strong character and sooner or later there are disagreements that happen. Once they start outweighing the benefits of a relationship I leave. Like initial excitement and butterflies are not worth the ending. At least in my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 09:25 PM |
| 23 | Man amazed that his FWBs call him the “nicest guy they’ve ever met” because he exhibits bare minimum respect for the woman he’s having sex with 🤦♀️. The bar is so low the devil can step over it.Nailed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 08:46 PM |
| 9 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?I’m 32. I was in four relationships. Somehow looking back I don’t think good times were fulfilling enough to make up for bad times.. Right now a guy that I like is pursuing me hard but I’m very very jaded due to my negative experience in the past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 08:42 PM |
| 2 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?I do like one of them but I started talking to him during the quarantine and we haven’t met yet.. So we will see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 08:39 PM |
| 11 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?I mean looking back at all my relationships none of them were worth it. And all my men were pretty attractive. It’s a lot yo deal with when you date/live with another human being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Q4W Do women today feel pressured into having sex?I won’t do anything I’m not comfortable with. If I don’t want to have sex by date #3 he can walk, I don’t care. I currently have a few guys that like me and they invite me to hang out here and then. I’ve known them for months and haven’t had sex bc im just not into them. They still invite me out and text me 🤷♀️ I said from the beginning I’m not into dating, so far they’ve respected my boundaries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 08:13 PM |
| 27 | Male friends? What are your thoughts/ experiences? + little storyThere is no such thing as male friends. If you are attractive to him = he will try to fuck you, if not = you are invisible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a large number of millennial and gen z men will end up without a life partner and chance to reproduce?Awww so sweet, kind redditor ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Is there a problem with the marriage and birth rate dropping so low?Economics was my favorite class in college actually. I get what you are saying but decades of consumption of existing consumers is not gonna have as big of an impact as generations of consumers to follow. People by nature are selfish and won’t alter their lifestyles as a mass. Resources are scarce and it’s only a matter of time when the population will start suffering from the lack of them. We might not get affected but future generations most definitely will be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 05:22 PM |
| 11 | 90 Days Fiance: Pickmeisha Emily and LVM SashaWowwww “My parents think he is gonna leave me for a wife #4 but I know he’s made mistakes and married those mistakes where WE have something real together and have a perfect relationship “ lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Is there a problem with the marriage and birth rate dropping so low?Still better than producing more consumers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 03:23 PM |
| 8 | Is there a problem with the marriage and birth rate dropping so low?Less people = less consumerism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you think a large number of millennial and gen z men will end up without a life partner and chance to reproduce?I mean. I decided to stop dating completely like 2 years ago and I still have men reach out nonstop and go on dates whenever I want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 4 | I was going to block, but I wanted to see how far he'd take thisOLD is traaaaaaaaash! They don't feel any shame because they are behind the screen therefore say whatever they feel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 12:57 AM |
| 5 | For young girls who think it’s fine to send nudesThey actually save them by folders. I saw it in one guy's phone. All the folders were named after women who sent nudes and he'd create a folder for each one of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 12:51 AM |
| 4 | I was 12 when he started grooming me. He was 16.Damn, I'm very sorry to read your story. I just pictured all of it and one of the things that came into my mind: he will most definitely carry a memory of you in his depraved brain as some sort of a trophy for the rest of his pathetic life. He will never see himself as a monster that he is but he will rather baby a thought of a young beautiful girl that he got to manipulate and abuse. Fortunately, this creature won't get to reproduce from what you are describing. I hope you get the support you n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | No-neck Ed being swarmed by tons of female fans... I just can’t 🤮WHAT????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 17 | Prepare to be Shocked 😱: Young adult women who read 'Fifty Shades of Grey' are more likely than nonreaders to exhibit signs of eating disorders and have a verbally abusive partner, finds a new study.I didn't know that. I just couldn't believe what everybody saw in it.. Kinda made me lose a bit of respect for those who praised it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:41 PM |
| 15 | Rose Ditches Ed! | 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 DaysShe acted so high value too!!! Good for her all the way. Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:25 PM |
| 46 | Prepare to be Shocked 😱: Young adult women who read 'Fifty Shades of Grey' are more likely than nonreaders to exhibit signs of eating disorders and have a verbally abusive partner, finds a new study.I remember when that book came out it you couldn't get away from hearing about it from EVERYBODY!! I was skeptical but I picked it up thinking I need to find out for myself what it was all about.. That was BY FAR the most disappointing book I've ever read. Even if we don't take into account its cheesy superficial "plot" the book is so poorly written, a 5th grader could do better. Scenes are repetitive and the language is so poor. I never finished it but I'm sure she kept blushing and getting lec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:18 PM |
| 16 | Ugh. And some people really believe this is okay.How is it worth it though? How is it better than being single? What did I miss? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 09:35 PM |
| 14 | Do you think a large number of millennial and gen z men will end up without a life partner and chance to reproduce?Definitely. We already observe it with Japan. When women have their own resources being married is no longer a necessity. So if they are gonna marry it might as well be someone of quality to them, not just someone. I don't see it as a bad thing either. The Earth is overpopulated and is being destroyed by humans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Sluts mean more to men than non-sluts ever will.Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The Hypocrisy of FDSI had a guy ask me once if I mind being choked. I thought he was crazy. Never heard of anyone liking it but I don’t sleep with women so.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 12:45 PM |
| 1 | The Hypocrisy of FDS???? Who asks for that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 12:25 PM |
| 1 | The Hypocrisy of FDSWhat exactly you find abusive about FDS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 11:49 AM |
| 19 | Some men say that Pick Mes are most desirable but what are men doing to reward Pick Mes so more girls go down that route?Just a quick story: I used to work with this guy who had a crush on a girl who worked in the same building. He was pretty good with ladies and even was "spinning plates" from time to time. He started a dating a girl who was a complete pick-me. She bought him gifts, cooked for him when she was over, bought shit for his son, etc etc. She was a good looking girl but a bit insecure. So their relationship was ok from what I could observe. They were exclusive but I don't think they had a relationship … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 09:54 PM |
| 2 | I LOVE the PurgeOMG lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | FDS needs to accept that if they can't get resources/commitment from men, they are the ones that are low value.Oh sure sure. It's solely "me" issue. Got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | FDS needs to accept that if they can't get resources/commitment from men, they are the ones that are low value.That's what I observe. Yet, they all think they are "good ones" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 09:12 PM |
| 3 | FDS needs to accept that if they can't get resources/commitment from men, they are the ones that are low value.Every single guy thinks he is a good guy when in the reality all people are selfish therefore act in self interest. There is no "pick a good one" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 09:11 PM |
| 4 | I don’t know how to deal with this lossOh man, I don't know if this sub is a good place for this post as most people on here are delusional and insensitive. But I sincerely emphasize with you as I had an ex bf who took his life after our break up and his family still blames me for it. He also had depression and our relationship became impossible. I still think about him nearly every day 2 years later... It's only been a few weeks for you.. You will learn to live and cope with it.. Takes time. We will all meet up there one day... My d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Theres hope for pajeets.I know a Pakistani guy who is pretty hot actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Is this how an alpha displays dominance?Ultimate alpha! Can I have his number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Men’s Pockets are Bigger to Help Carry Their Audacity"I was just joking!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | This monstrosity got married, cheated on his wife and is about to marry a hot filipina. Whats your excuse incels ??He is 4'11 btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 10:32 PM |
| 13 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄FDS waHmEN aRe aLL ObeSE feMSelS whah whah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 10:20 PM |
| 8 | Just a PSA: underage boys who get raped by adult women get punished with an 18 year sentence of child support if the rapist gets pregnant.I think it's largely due to men themselves not taking it seriously. Like whenever it's some scandal where a female teacher sleeps with a student most men on social media go: "I wish I had a teacher like that!", "I want to be "traumatized" and "molested" by her! Hahaha!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 11:30 PM |
| 3 | I think men and women perceive attractiveness differentlyUhhhh hate to disagree with the fellow-woman on PPD but I like the guys that men think are attractive to us. Between my four ex's only one didn't look like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 11:22 PM |
| 9 | Are HVM even worth it tho?Thank you, girl.. I decided to listen to my gut feeling. It's been a month of us talking and I definitely feel like he is into me. He is very sweet and thoughtful in his actions. He keeps reassuring me there is no pressure and if I decide I don't like him he would let go. Idk. I want to at least meet him in person before I make a decision. I will keep you ladies updated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Are HVM even worth it tho?He is yeah. And yes, overall people's advice was to stop talking to him. It's just so far he's been awesome and I don't want to say by yet.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseI'm not thicc and have classic figure. I work out and am normal skinny. I have some curves but nothing like Kim Kardashian or Nikki Minaj | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 10:49 PM |
| 11 | Are HVM even worth it tho?Oh yeah, he said that "I'll prove to you blah blah blah" too, it was a long conversation. And I don't know if he is an LVM or not. I'd have to hang out with him to see I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Are HVM even worth it tho?That's funny, he sent me a few of Brene Brown's videos! lol Yeah, I so agree with your last paragraph. I'm letting my guard down but very very slowly. It's hard because he is good-looking and if I met him 10 years ago I'd probably be all over him. But at 32 after a terrible marriage and a couple other bad relationships I thought I'd never date again. We will see, it's only been a month or so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:30 PM |
| 75 | You can never convince a man to love youNo science to it, you should be able to tell from how bad he wants you. There will be no mixed signals. He will be texting you often because he is thinking of you. He'd have no problem paying on dates. He will compliment you. He will make it known he desires you and doesn't have other women he is talking to. You will be his priority. Like if he has free time he will want to hang out with you. He is thoughtful in his actions. Like for example, a guy I'm talking to at the moment does all those thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:14 PM |
| 8 | How do I stand up for myself?Keep doing it. You will master it eventually. People only treat us the way we allow them to treat us. It damaged me at some point. But I'm glad I can say I definitely overcame it and there is no way back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Can you imagine being a female ppd user?I second that. I used to have 0 friends until I became cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?Me too. That's where I found FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 41 | How do I stand up for myself?I went from a quiet nice girl who was afraid of conflicts to assertive unapologetic woman. It takes nothing but practice. There are no shortcuts really. I had a job where I was bullied by everybody. When I left I told myself: never again will I let people treat me like that. My next job - I would speak up. Even if it's awkward quiet remark - you need to say it. It gets better as you start doing it more. People choose the path of the least resistance. When you become an obstacle they will rather … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarSame to you :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarYour comment made me laugh lol. Well, yeah there is stuff like that too. Afterall, I doubt FDS would even exist if all women on there had a positive dating experience. So they are venting and generalizing. There is 70k members and we are all on different levels of FDS spectrum as individuals. My take away - dating should be classic (man pursues), no casual sex, don't put up with disrespect from a man, leave when a relationship is toxic to name a few. I don't think all men are bad. It's up to us … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarWell you were young obviously. Young relationships almost never work out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 08:01 PM |
| 48 | Are HVM even worth it tho?I was having a similar discussion with a guy I'm talking to.. He's been bombarding me with gifts and attention and we talk a lot. I haven't hung out with him yet due to the quarantine. I don't know if he is worth my trouble even with everything he is doing for me. I've had so many bad experiences that my guard is extremely high. So I expressed it to him in a nicer way. To which he made an interesting point: "Vulnerability is not a weakness, it's a strength. Strength that shows you are not scared… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarSee. You prob fucked up because you didn't appreciate her enough. Men don't appreciate anything they don't have to work for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarThat's the point. Fuckbois will be spinning plates with any women available to them. FDS teaches how to recognize and avoid them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarWell that's refreshing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarWhen a woman pursues a man he is flattered at first, gets an ego boost, starts looking down on her for chasing him, and then becomes lukewarm at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarDon't understand your point. I have a hot guy pursuing me right now.. How is it supposed to make me bitter and sociopathic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarWell they do at least distinguish between LVM and HVM. Here ALL women are obese CC riders apparently according to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:35 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarTo you maybe. There are however men that pursue women, believe it or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:34 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarOn subs like this certainly feels like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarLeave generalizations out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:28 PM |
| 4 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarMen are supposed to pursue you, that's the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | What is your favourite accent?Omg I loooove Irish accent! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | FDS should be on the PPD sidebarYes instead of chasing fuckboys. How is it a bad advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Why is every guy on this server obsessed with Lillithofbabylon?She says things they don't like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 06:10 PM |
| 30 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?Exactly. Never once did I DMed some red piller to tell him how much I hate him. Yet, I get "fan-mail" all the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 06:08 PM |
| 67 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?Oh there was one girl on there yesterday where she even had a pic of her in one of unrelated posts. All these men were losing their shit trying to prove to her she was just average. She was definitely above average. She got so much shit. I don't understand why do you need to go out of your way to try to make someone feel worse about themselves? (not that they succeeded, she was not bothered). Really tells you about men on there and their looks. Plain old negging | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 06:05 PM |
| 63 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?Oh that's undoubtedly true. Especially older men, they are really delusional. Hence, fINe wiNE fallacy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:55 PM |
| 37 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?Yeah, right now they have "purge week" and 90% of posts are a pure hate/making fun of women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 190 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?Lol over on r/PurplePillDebate whenever a woman claims she is good looking there is at least 5 men trying to tell her she is average/ugly lol. It literally happens EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. But if a man claims he is a Chad nobody has shit to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:43 PM |
| 195 | You can never convince a man to love youOh that was a tough read, my friend. But you made all the classic mistakes women make trying to prove their worth to a man. Repeat this with me: NEVER and I mean NEVER try to prove your worth to a man. Unlike women men know almost instantly if you are the one or not. When it starts off lukewarm it will never get hot. You only are setting yourself up for a heartbreak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | The truth about sex dollsWell, that was enough internet for me for today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:19 PM |
| 5 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverse32 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:08 PM |
| 4 | colored men are way more obsessed with white girls than the reverseIdk I'm white and I definitely attract white and Latin guys the most. I rarely have black guys hitting on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:03 PM |
| 13 | People that force talking everyday.I mean why respond to begin with? You are not gonna be "friends" with a guy who lives 3 hours away (or any guy really, man will always want to sleep with you). And if you don't want a relationship with them to begin with why even bother? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | It is funny that the second you remove the rules, this sub becomes a male dominated place.And very very hateful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | "I want a guy with a sensitive side"Oh wowwww. Damn. That was a disturbing read. What a shame. She is very immature, I feel so bad for this guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Why are the majority of woman on purplepilldebate black?I'm white | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:21 PM |
| 35 | Before FDS, women tend to think that the men they’re dating are the exception to the rule. With FDS, they realize that most men are the norm.This. You totally nailed it. I remember when I was on OLD wondering what happened to dating nowadays and why men act the way they do. I thought it had something to do with me. Until the same exact shit happened to all my friends trying to date. I saw someone talking shit about FDS on some other sub. When I clicked on it, it was like me finally coming home from roaming around getting lost | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Purge week exposed PPD for what it really is, a big mental asylumNever seen anything even remotely close to such comment. You are just justifying your hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Purge week exposed PPD for what it really is, a big mental asylumWelp, nearly every single post on here right now is making fun/hating on women... Oh but misogyny is absolutely a made up concept and doesn't exist. Disgusting to read really. Imma go take a bath and will be back in a week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Youre not entitled to my money.Abuse kids? By a man paying child support? What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Youre not entitled to my money.Why do you make such an assumption? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Youre not entitled to my money.Because it's only fair. Do you even realize how expensive and life-changing it is to have a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Youre not entitled to my money.And a man is responsible for who he sleeps with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Youre not entitled to my money.Oh of course. Let a woman be responsible for everything. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Friendly reminder you're still not entitled to sex.Women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Youre not entitled to my money.What exactly does it have to do with child support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Youre not entitled to my money.Why should a man not have to pay anything for a child he helped to create? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 09:33 PM |
| 5 | Youre not entitled to my money.That's why FDS makes perfect sense - if he is not spending money on you = you are not that special to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Youre not entitled to my money.When a man likes you he WANTS to spend money on you. Proven over and over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Who else literally doesn't care about COVID19?lmao! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Who else literally doesn't care about COVID19?Well now you are a superhuman and don't even need a mask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Who else literally doesn't care about COVID19?You most likely had it. My friend went through the same in January before it got all crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Who else literally doesn't care about COVID19?This is a fucked up post and you are a messed up person. Wtf. I don't like these purge posts. When is it gonna be over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | All of your thoughts/issues dealing with race.... GO!Who cares? They are insanely rich! I'd be a damaged good all day if I had money like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | All of your thoughts/issues dealing with race.... GO!I think they are geniuses tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | All of your thoughts/issues dealing with race.... GO!No, actually. I don't think I fit their standards having big booty and being thicc.. I have a very classic figure and am skinny. I have some curves but not anything like Kim Kardashian. It's black women I'm talking about. Like I sit at a doctor's office and a black woman starts talking to me. Or in line. Well, I should note they are usually a bit older, not like young girls. But even with young ones I make friends easily if we somehow come across each other at a closer setting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:24 PM |
| 0 | All of your thoughts/issues dealing with race.... GO!Racism sucks and needs to go already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:14 PM |
| 1 | All of your thoughts/issues dealing with race.... GO!Why do you think that? I actually am not sure why but I think black people like me. Like they always talk to me at random places when I go about my business. My work friend is black and we hang out outside of work too. And after the pandemic I'm supposed to go to a lounge with one black girl I met at a party. She posts a ton of pics on Instagram and I'm pretty sure I will be the only white chick there lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How many dates should I wait before farting in front of my new boyfriend?Omg I'm dying right now!! Thank you for this! However, I advice against it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.Lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.Me too. It was funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:46 AM |
| 16 | Future HVM! Kudos on Whoever Raised Him Right (It Sure as Hell Ain't the Dad)Awwww cute lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:31 AM |
| 3 | I would just leave the sheets and himYeah that would be it for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes?Seriously. Like wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes?Irl a lot of men are loyal regardless of their options believe it or not lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes?The fuck is wrong with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 11:09 AM |
| 0 | Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes?Helping sex workers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?You don't think it's true that men take women for granted once they get them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?Omg lol. You quoted my comments. Listen, I really did give a guy way below my league a shot and he was like the worst. The point I was making is that lowering your league is not gonna get you a more loyal guy at all. My Chads were not allowing themselves such behavior. You justifying him by saying "AMALT" when I know it's not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?Just got done listening to your vid, liked and commented. You sound rational even though you have some biases cause you are a man lol. With that being said why you post under Blackpill? You are not bad looking (clicked on your other video) and seem pretty eloquent. So why blackpill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?Listening to your video right now. Why do you have an issue with self-improvement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?I mean he maybe posted? Not anything that I know of though. I'm sure there are more lazy Chads out there than just my ex lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?Oh so now a Chad is only a Chad if he is an actual model. Why do people on here have to discredit everything with some nonsense made-up reasons? Every single good-looking person is a model? Mind you my bestie is at least a 9. Women hate on her, men obsess with her. If she is not a Stacy I don't know who is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?Stalker. Joking lol. What do you think of FDS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?Ooooo you know I'm Russian, huh? He is American. Russian men are ugly usually actually lol. He is like a mix of Italian, Irish and Lithuanian. He is still hot at 37. And yes, the kids are all blue eyes blond hair. But obviously to every mom their kids are good looking lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?I'm sorry that completely doesn't apply in my case. My "Chad" was very faithful (I tracked it throughout our 10 year marriage). He was extremely lazy/unambitious, to a point where I stopped respecting him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 09:52 PM |
| 11 | College and acceptance of prostitutionSick shit is the right term.. It's not good, nor is it normal. I hope FDS wakes up at least someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?I already divorced him. He was extremely lazy, was laid of for months every year letting me take care of bills. I lasted 10 years and then I couldn't anymore. I don't need a grown ass man sitting on his ass not doing shit. My friend's husband while being really good looking successful smart man somehow has a substance abuse issue that's been on and off. To address the second part: if my ex wasn't lazy I'd stay with him with no problem, I thought he was my soul mate for years after marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 8 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?Good-looking people have issues in their relationships just like everybody else. Being good looking doesn't guarantee anything. You attract more people, more shit to filter through and then you still don't know how it's gonna be 1,2,5,10 years down the road :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?So you think looks are a sole reason people should be happy in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Is this a red flag?Thank you, girl! I'm trying not to fall for it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:13 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] What would your dating life be like if you were born a man?Don't do what exactly? I was merely answering a question about what I think my dating life would be like if I was a man. I find it fascinating how many people are reaching out to discredit my view of myself though. What is it exactly? Negging? Lack of personal confidence? Trying to discourage a stranger for thinking highly of herself? What was your reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 7 | College and acceptance of prostitutionOf course it does! I'm 32 and it was much much different even 10-15 years ago. Women need to wake up to this nonsense and stop going along with what libfems are pushing on them as there are whole a lot of other issues too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:13 PM |
| 11 | College and acceptance of prostitutionI find it to be a common dynamic in a large age-gap relationships. When I went out with those dudes it mainly ended up being a fun friendly conversation, everybody was always nice and polite. I don't know how things would unfold if I actually proceeded with dating one. I feel like I personally would get traumatized from a "relationship" like that.. I don't judge women who go for it, just hope it's not the same for them as it would be for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:04 PM |
| 12 | College and acceptance of prostitutionFrom what I hear unfortunately yes.. I do believe it's due to female "empowerment" and "sex positivety". Young women listen to that trash talk and go: sure, it doesn't do me any harm to sleep with old men for money.. Sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:40 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] What would your dating life be like if you were born a man?Well, I'm sorry but I think I'll take years of real-life experience over an opinion of a stranger on the internet making claims about my appearance formed from my usage of Reddit. But you can certainly believe whatever you'd like. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?Ehhh you live you learn. All good now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 06:58 PM |
| 17 | College and acceptance of prostitutionThis is devastating... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:56 PM |
| 12 | Can a Stacy expect a Disney happy ending with a chad?What is a happy ending though? Chads absolutely do marry. My best friend who is totally gorgeous is married to a total Chad that also makes 200k+ a year. I was married to a Chad that looked like a freaking underwear model. Marriage with Chad is not a happy ending though. I dumped my ex and my best friend periodically tells me she is about to divorce her husband. Once you marry a Chad the question is: are you actually gonna be happy for the rest of your life? Looks are definitely not everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 06:40 PM |
| 22 | LVM story time!!Awww nice seeing a young woman getting it! Stay on the right path, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:32 PM |
| 37 | College and acceptance of prostitutionFor 20 euros?!!! What?? Do women themselves price their bodies so low? What is it influenced by? That's just crazy. Here in the states you could find like a crackhead for $20, but that's it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 24 | College and acceptance of prostitutionI want to add: I'm in the states and what is becoming normalized here is sugar dating. I was actually on one of the sites myself about three years ago. I went out on dates but never actually became a sugar baby (nor did I really intend to, I just wanted men to take me on nice dates). Statistically there is 3-4 women for 1 man on those websites. They give you like a prime membership if you are a college student. From talking to those men I went out with the common trend was: she is in college, ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What would your dating life be like if you were born a man?If my my looks and personality transitioned into the opposite gender I'd be a total Chad. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 06:09 PM |
| 2 | People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided.Oh please! As if men love unconditionally? SOME people create that really close bond but it's very specific to particular individuals, not gender. And don't downgrade issues like "he got a bit chubby; lost his job". My ex was "losing his job" every year and sat home for months at a time. I lasted 10 years with him because I loved him. After a while my lazy ex lost all of my respect. He let me work two jobs, go to college and work, have kids and work while he sat at home. If that's not enough of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 05:48 PM |
| 0 | People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided.I'm absolutely not talking about extremes like that. For instance, my ex husband decided it was a good idea to be unemployed for months each year. Some men get completely out of shape. Some stop even listening to their wives. The last one is classic: nagging wife, annoyed husband. Maybe if he paid attention and address problems some issues could be fixed. Women get fed up and leave and husbands are shocked cause the whole time they didn't care to pay any attention to any problems. They just thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 04:56 PM |
| 22 | If you’re dating during a pandemic, you’re letting him know right off the bat that you’re desperate.I completely don't understand either. I have been home for over 2 months and there is nothing out there that will make me risk my health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:49 PM |
| 5 | People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided.I don't see a problem with "it's just your turn". Wanna keep your turn - work on it. They think they can just get married and become lazy pieces of shit and women are just supposed to stick around no matter what. Yeah, right. It's not the 50s anymore, my friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 03:28 PM |
| 9 | I hope this hurts a man's feelings 😂😂Precisely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 04:16 AM |
| 54 | I communicated my standards but nothing changedHe lost interest in you. Most likely: someone else got his attention. When a man is really interested he will always find a min to text, even if it's: "I'm so busy at work today, can I please talk to you later tonight?" So yeah, block and forget. Nothing will come out of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:56 AM |
| 5 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenYup!! Some men literally threw money in my purse for absolutely nothing! I'd always be like: "No no, you don't have to". But they didn't care, a few hundreds of dollars is pocket change to them. It was quite a crazy experience. I rode in Lambos and Bentleys and been to the most lavish places. Funny thing: men who don't have a problem with women think nothing like men on Reddit lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 02:48 AM |
| 17 | These Wish ads always crack me up 😂😂Omg lmao! Then they say: "bUtt wOmeN wEAr maKeUp" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Great video about the dangers of stingy LVMOoof that last story hit close to home for me. I started dating and then married a 25 yo when I was 19. He was living with his dad. We both had low-paying jobs, but then he lost his. I was a supportive loving partner (lol) and got a second job to cover the bills. I think he quickly realized that I would pick up his slack if I had to so it became a common theme in our relationship. He was "laid off" months on end each year. I was understanding and thought that one day he'd grow up. HAHA!! I went … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 11:55 PM |
| 6 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenOr it's their distorted perception of themselves. I got divorced in my late 20s. Right after the divorce I wanted to explore around a bit but didn't really have the money. I got on one of those sugar dating websites and had rich men take me out to really nice places at least once a week. Obviously, they were all older. Their profiles often didn't have a picture (for obvious reason) but a lot of profiles would say "I'm good-looking". Let me just tell you: I was just shocked most of the time after… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 10:11 PM |
| 10 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?It's absolutely a pick-me trait! And the funniest part of it - it usually comes from a hot woman herself. I feel sorry for these girls though, like how low your self-esteem must be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:51 PM |
| 55 | Don’t follow your Heart or Lady Parts 😂 they get you in trouble every time (Sidenote: she’s hilarious)Omg this was so much better than I thought it would be lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:40 PM |
| 4 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenLol no, I’m not shaming you. Just don’t believe you really. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 06:31 PM |
| 9 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenI’m early 30s. I haven’t noticed any difference either. If anything dates became nicer at much nicer places too. And yes, being attractive totally helps. For women the main thing is to not have extra weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 06:25 PM |
| 4 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenHmmm sounds like an incel revenge fantasy episode 10347 but whatever lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 06:20 PM |
| 2 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenSleep with other women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 05:45 PM |
| 3 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenSo you will dump her if she does the same thing you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenWhy not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 05:34 PM |
| 2 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenIs she also allowed to sleep with other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 05:30 PM |
| 5 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenYou love your gf but sleep around with other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 04:24 PM |
| 4 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenYou have t been on here long enough then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Do ugly woman even hit a wall?Lmao ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Do ugly woman even hit a wall?Interesting. I’m objectively good looking and I’ve worked my whole life 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 02:06 PM |
| 10 | Dumps girl, when she won’t take him back goes on mass shooting kills her and others. Entitled misogynists = NVM scrotes = incels = porn fried brainsprecisely. That's why I always say it's a concept of PATRIARCHY, not biology as they claim. Compete for females like any other specie, you scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:40 AM |
| 24 | I wish I was born a lesbianI do but when I complained to my lesbian coworker she said it's not easier by any means. Just different challenges. She is single btw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 3 | It’s the little thingsThat's right, gf!! Proud of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:15 AM |
| 70 | This piece of shit sent me two videos of women he was fucking from behind, telling me I should have been in their places. He probably filmed them without their consent. Absolutely disgusting.He actually gives out this creepy energy through the screen even ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:11 AM |
| -3 | Do ugly woman even hit a wall?Ok ok, I'm sorry, I'm not trying to invalidate your words. But to be honest I've never seen a girl that couldn't be up-done with make-up and hair to be at least being a 5 (unless you are fat, then you'd have to deal with that first). With that being said, while being an objectively attractive woman, I've never had a relationship that I could call "good" so i'm still wondering what my looks have ever done for me really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 01:04 AM |
| 4 | CMV: An adherence to a lack of not-sex-related value for women is much less about reality, or even really dating strategy, and more about protecting yourself from hurt.You know, I roll my eyes every time some red-piller brings up "wAhmEN hAVe nO vaLUe". Value to who? To men I don't give a fuck about? Ok... How sad lol. I'm valued as an empployee, as a friend, as a mother, etc. etc. I don't care some man sees me and says: "She is not putting out for me, she has no value". Do you see how ridiculous that sounds? I, too, don't exactly see any value in passers by - men or women - so who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Do ugly woman even hit a wall?And beautiful women don't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 11:29 PM |
| -7 | Do ugly woman even hit a wall?I'm sure you are not ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Men having bigger mass and muscles is not the only reason men are stronger than womenLmao you flair!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Women believing they have the powerToo bad because now they have too rage online about the evil women’s nature. What would I do? Everything to survive I guess. But I have a luxury of living in a society where I can do as I please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 07:37 PM |
| 3 | What acts do you count as sex?I mean, I never just gave someone a handjob or just oral. If I’m having sex I’m having sex. It’s kinda black and white to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 04:04 PM |
| 13 | And men aren’t trash (with a bunch of overused Future memes in the comments)Spot on 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?That’s fine. I don’t like TRP. FDS is not here to please men 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?Well, I can’t talk for all 70k members. I speak on how I view the sub and what I get out of it 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?I think you are missing the point where it's usually some dating profile where a guy says disgusting things and women start picking on him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/ 61.6k members | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?When said guys demands are through the roof while he himself has nothing to offer. Why? I don't see anyone here complain about r/WAATGM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?Suit yourself. I have no interest in playing guessing games. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?And what is the core? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Do men value companionship?Men can get better from men. Women can get better from women. I'd definitely help my bestie bury a body. Like seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 07:29 PM |
| 37 | And men aren’t trash (with a bunch of overused Future memes in the comments)wOmeN sHOulD chOoSe bETTer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?" Yet as much as these women wanted a take-control man, at the same time they wanted a man who was vulnerable to them, a man who would show his colours and open his doors, someone expressive, intuitive, attuned." Pretty much, yes. Besides, an interesting break down and a disturbing read at the same time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 06:55 PM |
| 14 | Just stumbled on this sub.. Oh Lord!The man is supposed to be in his 70s. Lmao!! This is his post: " As mentioned before, it's the on again offf again Spanish teacher of my grandson. To any new members, I'll give you the rundown of my recently rubdown. She's a solid 6.5/10, kind loving teacher. Really fiery. Recently hooked up with ex wife (divorced in 95) few years after second wife died. I had to call that off though. I wanted the teacher more. She's a bit more tech savvy than me. Talking to a girl, I'm an experienced veteran. M… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:12 PM |
| 25 | Dude thinks being sex trafficked into porn is a privilege females have, is mad that men don’t get the same “opportunity”Absolute WOWWWWW... Is he serious? How can any normal human being say something so horrendous? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?Except quite a few have bfs and husbands. You are entitled to think whatever you please. Cheers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?If a young man receives something beneficial out of red-pill ideology I'm all for it. To me FDS is not: how to use a man as an ATM machine. TRP says don't commit, FDS says don't have sex without commitment. Therefore, it's obvious why I'm not interested in following TRP ideology and wouldn't find a red-piller to be high-value for my personal preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?Ok, and FDS says don't fuck men without commitment. Comprende? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 05:42 PM |
| 12 | Can't wait another month for her to be available because of a pandemicOnce inception is born, action will follow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?That's not what I see but to each their own. There is a ton of good advice for young women on there. Examples of horrible posts from FDS: some screenshot from a dude on OLD asking for nudes (of course). FDS: "Ew, he is a scrote, don't respond". Red-pillers: "FDS are men haters obese feminists!" Meanwhile same red-pillers hate women for being sluts lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 4 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoYeah, they really think they are "unique" in their demands and desires lol. What else is new, my dude?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:08 PM |
| 84 | And men aren’t trash (with a bunch of overused Future memes in the comments)Hahaha! And then they complain about single mothers ruining the society | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Let’s Talk About How to Discuss High Value Men On This SubYeah, that's a great idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?Not really. HVM to an FDS women is not a millionaire Chad of what people on here perceive it to be. FDS advocates to finding a man who will care, appreciate and want to be on the same team, as oppose to "spinning plates", manipulating, negging you, etc etc . FDS warns about such behaviors and helps women identify them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?"Scrotes" describes a certain type of men with certain attributes and behaviors that FDS warns women about. It teaches not to fall for their techniques and not to accept a certain type a behavior. I don't understand why is it so bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 04:13 PM |
| 14 | Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket?Unless they are looking to control that person cause that's usually the dynamic in a relationship where one partner is significantly younger than the other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket?Ha! I think you are spot on with that statement. Never thought of that myself though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 03:55 PM |
| 21 | Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket?Because Reddit is not real life. I'm a woman and I can say the same. At 22 I though men in their 30s were unacceptable to date and I was not attracted at all. Now I'm 32 I view men in their early-mid 20s as kids.. And overall people marry/date within the same age group (in my circle at least) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?Precisely. Are you implying it's a bad advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 15 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?I'm on FDS a lot and the core of it is really filtering through fuckboys and not letting men use/manipulate you. Dating is a joke nowadays and FDS just helps women to navigate through it. I personally came up with a lot of their ideas on my own before even finding out about FDS. Men are fine; however I have a strong resentment towards red-pillers, but it doesn't make me hate them, just avoid at all costs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Women believing they have the powerSo man's power is physical power over women. Got it. Agreed. Men are physically stronger indeed. Too bad we are not cavemen anymore (too bad for men that is) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 12:00 AM |
| 7 | If you're bored at home and want a good laugh (or cry), watch this. Imagine dating or being married to one of these "winners"Omg that show is so gross and funny. Too bad I got rid of cable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | A basic question?Hmmmm, tough call, girl. I mean if he does come back and really shows he wants you back maybe he is worth another shot and yours will be an exception to the rule.. Once again, intuition, let it guide you. Good on you for not reaching out yourself, that's the worst thing you can do. He will pull away more, that's just how it works. And yes, dating is terrible overall, it's rare to meet genuine people, so it's not just you.. I wish you all the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | A basic question?Doing good lol, same to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | A basic question?I think I know who you are talking about lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | A basic question?Oh boy... Hate to say it but these on and off relationships usually just cause more heartbreak. I don't like how he said he wants to reconcile. It's like stringing you along in hopes of having a relationship with him. In reality, he just wants to have you as a safe harbor to come back to in case he decides he wants you back. And even if he does come back and you take him back subconsciously he will think it's an ok thing to do and will probably do it again. I'd save myself a future heartbreak tb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 06:52 PM |
| 1 | A basic question?Some men do, some men don't. it makes a difference to me personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | A basic question?From your post I think he was definitely serious and you kinda ruined it (sorry). I had a similar issue when I was younger (i'm 32 now) and would be jealous of my ex husband's exs. I outgrew it in my mid 20s, hopefully you will too. At the end of the day it's a confidence issue. Build yours up and it won't bother you anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 06:02 PM |
| 7 | A basic question?Like someone else said - it can go both ways. Butttt... if a man DOESN'T spend any money on you he is most likely not serious (probably a red-piller of some sort). Generally, use your intuition, money is definitely not a sole indicator of his seriousness. Right now I have a guy pursuing me and he spent hundreds on flowers/gifts so far just to impress me in just like three weeks or so. He's only seen me in person once and we didn't even talk. When a man is interested he will go to great extents f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | 😳lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 11 | Men are perverts and they know itOMG this was so gross! And people are laughing? At what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:45 PM |
| 53 | LVM want you to stay in the mindset of competing against other women. The only way to win their games is not to play.It took me a lot of analyzing and self-reflecting but I came up with that exact theory about 5 years ago.. Ever since the world just changed for so much better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:33 PM |
| 43 | This sub is about a specific way of dating, if you disagree with it make your own dating sub.They should create How to Find an LVM (Strategies for Pickmeishas) dating sub. Oh, wait. There is like 56 of them already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 02:15 AM |
| 24 | Why do you think it’s wrong to have a man invest in you?There is a man who knows what's up. I love him. All of his videos are good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:43 PM |
| 14 | The lack of shame and inability to recognize they are low lives.I'm 32 and was married for 10 years. Left my LVM ex 3 years ago. The quality of dating dropped significantly!! It's ruined. All I see is a bunch of LVMs trying to whore around and pickmeishas are ready to serve. I dropped the idea of "dating" a couple of years ago. I have men pursuing me and I go on dates and stuff. I noticed when you act disinterested some will shape up real quick and start doing more. If all women acted like that it would benefit everybody collectively | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Do men honestly think young women live carefree perfect lives?Ahhh, it's all online where there is so much obsession with it. I'm in my early 30s and have men pursuing me nonstop. If you look good you are in demand no matter what age. Men IRL actually care about your personality too. Shocker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 09:39 PM |
| 15 | Save yourself the timeOh yeah!! This is so true. Dumped every single guy I was with myself, never took one back no matter how hard they tried | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:42 PM |
| 110 | Ex went on VacationYup. I won’t accept a lukewarm relationship ever again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:29 PM |
| 54 | anddd... blocked!!!“Keep his pride” lol. But wants you to give up yours by showing “at least your boobs”. Disgusting LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:24 PM |
| 50 | Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children.Oh this is soo annoying to even read 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 15 | The reason you've been negged explained hereThe worst part is that a lot of women with low self esteem really do fall for these "alphas" acting that they are not interested. Lol. Everything he recommends men to do doesn't work on a woman who is secure. I personally would just shrug. Not chasing no man. Never met one that would give me an idea I wanna chase him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 11:01 PM |
| 15 | Is the happiness and fulfillment of bottom tier men dependent on the suffering and misery of women?So you figured from a single post every woman is gonna live a life of misery if she doesn't get married? Also, she clearly says she let the idea go and became fine with "dying alone". The desire to get married stems from old-fashioned values. People (men and women) are not as eager anymore in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 10:29 PM |
| 8 | Is the happiness and fulfillment of bottom tier men dependent on the suffering and misery of women?Most welfare is collected by veterans.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Update from mods on FDS endorsed Youtubers in the sidebarOh and that Selena comment.. I watched that video and the said YouTuber was just telling the truth. She might've been a little insensitive, but comparing to what men say about celebs it's not even close to being as offensive. She was mostly concerned. And everybody in the comments (on YouTube) were losing their shit. So stupid. Well, gained her a subscriber (me) lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women How many times have you hooked up with a guy that previously hooked up with a friend of yours?I have never done it.. Not sure why anyone would seek out a guy your friend previously hooked up with? That's kinda weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Is this a red flag?Interesting you mentioned it. He actually did say she was very introverted/wouldn't address issues. I'm more on a loud side and I don't hold back with opinions of mine. I kinda enjoy messing with men especially when I first meet them. So I think a large part of it was that he got amused by my bitchiness... Nonetheless, his behavior is still a lot to take in... I guess I will fill you guys in later as I find out more about him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Is this a red flag?That’s exactly what I’m asking myself..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Is this a red flag?It definitely blurred my radar. Also, when I talked to him on the phone last night I brought it up that I might talk to his ex and he started encouraging it. He said I should make an appointment with her (she is a beautician) and nonchalantly bring it up and ask what happened between them two to get her version. So I might just do that... So far everything he's been saying adds up I guess, but yeah I totally shouldn't trust a man like that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 11:41 PM |
| 10 | Do you think men rate themselves higher?Omg lmao! What a great experiment! This alone makes me wanna get on OLD and start asking them too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)Oh yeah, lucky you, you know everything at 19-20 lol. Also, why did you decide I'm looking for anybody? I live comfortably and have kids, at least now at 32 I have a decent life and don't stress over anything anymore. We won't agree on privilege thing. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)pICk bEttER mEn! Why sure, cause you definitely know how things will turn out at the end. Pick better so you don't get divorce raped, how is that? I did everything right according to TRP. Married when I was 20, fell for a guy who was sweet and nice, didn't go for a man for his money. Now, he worked when we got together, then lost his job. So wasn't I a supportive wife who is helping her husband to get through bad times cause she loves him? I busted my ass through my 20s, not on CC like you are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Is this a red flag?I know.. I'm not thinking with the right head lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)So I suppose you refer to the fact that women gained some rights in the past few decades and consider it privilege. You know they say to an oppressor equality feels like oppression. I deeply agree with that statement. Individually, however women DO NOT HAVE IT BETTER THAN MEN. Let me tell you about my life. Met a guy when I was 19, married him, was working two jobs, husband constantly gets laid off, I bust my ass, go to school, still work full time, get pregnant - still go to school and work, ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)I have two kids and I’m a single mom who has a full time job. Again, I want to know what my privileges are? Cause I want them. And when I went to that social security office there were a ton of men sitting there as well as women. Actually, statistically the biggest portion of welfare goes to veterans. You can look it up yourself. TRP took the whole “welfare queens” out of proportion and blew it out! Now all of you sit there and preach about some mythical fEmALe prIVilegE and I want to fucking kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)Oh here we go. So what exactly happens when the stop working in the middle of their lives?? Oh yeah, I forgot. Government just starts throwing money at them. Can you please point me to the right place where I can collect the money since I’m a white woman living in the states (a pretty one too)? I want my goddamn privilege you guys constantly talk about! I want free government money!! Wtf? You know when I was getting divorced and finishing up school I was working part time and was getting close t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Is this a red flag?I really really want to hear what she has to say but barely know her and don’t wanna be invasive as it didn’t seem like she wanted to talk about it when I reached out the first time. And yeah, I really really don’t know what to make out of it. He has women commenting on his pictures that are obviously interested in him.. He told me he wants a relationship and he wants me. I’ve never been in a situation like that. I don’t know what to think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Is this a red flag?Wow, damn. I really am not sure if I like him anymore after reading everything. I’m honestly scared | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 01:39 PM |
| 7 | Is this a red flag?I think I'll stop accepting the gifts for sure. And since we can't meet anyway (which is good) I need to decide how to proceed.. Thank you. All the responses here are bringing me back to my senses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:24 PM |
| 9 | Is this a red flag?Thank you so much. I never experienced so much attention right away. So while vaguely recognizing something is off I still got interested. I'm sure he has a lot of experience with women and it probably worked for him in the past cause somehow he always knows the right thing to say... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:21 PM |
| 14 | Is this a red flag?OMG, your last sentence made my skin crawl... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:51 PM |
| 16 | Is this a red flag?Woww thank you. Yeah, the way you put it, it does indeed sounds like sooo many red flags :( You are right, I'm like intoxicated cause he is good looking too and knows what to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:47 PM |
| 14 | Is this a red flag?That's what I'm wondering too. He is probably getting laid so easily and here I dared to be a bitch to him. If that's the case I'm probably not even his genuine interest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:43 PM |
| 15 | Is this a red flag?Yeah... Honestly, I think if he wasn't good looking I'd freak out.. Urgh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Is this a red flag?So what he told me is that he started feeling something was off, like she was detached, on her phone a lot. So he looked through their phone bill and investigated the numbers she was interacting with and turned out she was mainly chatting with her personal trainer. He confronted her but she won't show the texts but says they didn't have sex. He confronted the trainer and said he could sense the guy was lying, saying they were just friendly chats... I'm sorta glad we cannot meet right now. This w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:34 PM |
| 11 | Is this a red flag?She was polite but short. I could tell she didn't want to talk about it and I didn't want to be intrusive. I would so love to hear her side of the story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What do women have against men who speak elegantly?So I used to work with a guy who was English major when he was in college. So he'd speak like the man #2 in your example. He was actually cute and I liked him and though he was just so smart at first. We used to flirt and even went out for drinks once. Then I slowly stopped liking him because once I got to know him more I realized he was a racist and he said pretty vulgar and condescending things... Once I stopped liking him the manner of his communication appeared pretentious, arrogant, contemp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for men to be into dominant sex?He doesn't sound high value to me at all. Disgusting fuckboy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 6 | Why do some guys think they’ll get matches by talking like this?Just look at the stupid face he is making lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Why do some guys think they’ll get matches by talking like this?"Full time single dad", "I will not make time for you while I have her" ummmm.. Oh yeah, forgot... mEnz aRE lOGicaL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal for men to be into dominant sex?lol see? Nearly every porn video has it nowadays. It's disgusting to me. I get so turned off if a dude brings it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for men to be into dominant sex?Ewww. It's normal to porn-sick disgusting pervs. The fact that you are not dating and he talks about sex is due to him looking for free sex and nothing more. If that's what you are into then go straight ahead. I bet he is gonna ask if he can choke you, go anal on you and give you a facial as it's the current trend among porn-sick men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 42 | They start young...Oh he is definitely a demon-psychopath! Wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 70 | They start young...OMG!!! This is outrages!! She should punch him in the face!! How is this even possible?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:20 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areOh, I promise you, they absolutely do. Chads chase with no problem. I'm a bitch but an objectively good looking one. I'm rude on purpose sometimes and they suck up. No lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 03:12 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areYeah yeah because women only go to school so they can get a man. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 03:08 AM |
| 17 | Just ☠And you are also an idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:50 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Men don't really love women for who they areThey absolutely know within DAYS if you are the one. Mostly because of looks. I can be a total bitch, they still chase. I've experienced it so many times, they only like your other traits once they are into you. On top of liking you for your looks they become intrigued at what you do in your regular life. But if your looks didn't catch his eye - forget about it, your achievements mean nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 02:45 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with depression from male depravity?I don't disagree at all. They probably are still sexist in one way or the other... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:15 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with depression from male depravity?Yeah, I honestly wanted nothing to do with men on any level before I started my new job a few months back. And they all seem to be your regular blue pilled type... I think I'd sense if something was off by now. I'm not claiming they are all HVMs over there but don't sound like misogynists either. I don't sense any hostility or resentment towards me or other women, every one of them is friendly, chatty and nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:03 AM |
| 25 | How to deal with depression from male depravity?I was at your stage when I discovered red pillers and MGTOW. I was repulsed. I started resenting men pretty bad but then I realized those are the angry minority. Well, at least normies don't show it and I honestly don't think they think like that. Like I socialize with a lot of guys at work and they seem fine. Most are married with kids. Some are single. But they all treat me with a lot of respect and we go for happy hours and socialize on a more personal level. They stop by to talk to me or ask… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:36 AM |
| 26 | Some weird man pretended to be a witch who cast a spell on me just to get my snapchat. Yep.Oh so they now have computers at mental treatment facilities? Nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?High value is not black and white, my friend. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?My ex husband wanted to marry me after 1.5 months. No lie. My first bf waited 7 months to have sex. I haven't been out in 6 weeks now, my fb is exploding from messages from men. I get a message a couple of weeks ago from a man my acquaintance used to be married to. The guy is a total stud, 100% my type. We are facetiming and messaging all day every day, he writes me paragraphs. Says he's always been hot for me (we never even talked, but he's seen me). After 4 days he sent roses. 3 days later bro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?Then if you can say "next" she is not that special to you and she indeed shouldn't be sleeping with you. Puzzle solved! We can go home now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?Well like I said before - I rely on my intuition and it never failed me so I don't need a time frame, I will know when it's time. But for a younger inexperienced woman - maybe she needs that time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?And now you decided to start calling very regular dating prostitution. I guess you never paid for dinner. Suit yourself. Far a 100th time - men complain about it so much but I've never been asked to pay or split the bill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?You are missing the point entirely but I'm tired of typing at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?Well, in real life it's not that hard to tell in which direction things are moving. I at least need to know his primary goal is not to just fuck me. If I'm liking him - he will know. Same with when I don't like a guy - he'd know, but some men chose to ignore when you say no and continue perusing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?Well, I said below I trust my intuition and it never failed me. If I don't feel crazy chemistry and attraction from the start chances are - sex is not gonna happen after neither 2 dates nor 90 days.. I will go on one date and that's probably it. However, if you are really vibing with a person and feel that he is in it with good intentions then I probably would want to have sex sooner before 90 days. With that said it happens extremely rarely lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?Hmmm okay, let's rephrase it. If he is serious about you and has good intentions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 5 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?It's the principal! That's right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 11:25 PM |
| 8 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?See, people on here love to oversimplify. I remember your username. I'm pretty sure you mentioned before you are in your 50s, correct? So, have you ever been with a woman that you really liked? Not just wanted to fuck? And didn't you actually want her to like you back? You never wanted to impress her, be nice to her? If I'm a prostitute I can go on seeking arrangement and make waaaay more money than a price of dinner. And as much fuss as you guys make out of it, I've yet to come across a man who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 11:08 PM |
| 8 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?Exactly. As much as men on here complain about paying I've never encountered it IRL. Never once did someone asked for me to pay or was explicit about not wanting to pay, they usually pick up the bill and don't look twice at it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 10:43 PM |
| 7 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?I think intuition is the biggest friend when it comes to knowing when is the "right" time. I have never personally been led on and dumped after sex (thank god) because I can tell men's intentions and it's hard for men to fake openness when they are actually not feeling it. Also, I think if you are both into each other and wait too long feelings might fizzle out.. But if other women feel like it's a good tool in their dating toolbox - sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?How do you know it's unlikely? To me personally it's a way to show me he cares and adores me if he brings me flowers. To me it definitely makes a difference. If I'm not attracted to guy I won't accept it as I don't want to lead anyone on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?Money, time, feelings. And by money I really mean paying on dates, flowers, like regular stuff like that. FDS really comes down to dating being like it used to be, before the internet and all this nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:47 PM |
| 9 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?My summarized takeaway: don't sleep with a man if he doesn't commit to you and doesn't invest in you, no casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:43 PM |
| 29 | Redpillers, and FDS. What are the ideas that you disagree with when it comes to your own community?FDSer. 90 day rule. I couldn't wait that long if I like the guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Haha! Well thanks :) I mean honestly, most women don't want to steal all man's money lol, it's not the right takeaway. I'd never intentionally have someone spend money on me just because. If I accept gifts/dates it means I'm interested. I have a guy who contacted me during this quarantine and since we can't hang out he sent me flowers, wine, food. This morning I told him to slow down. The attention and generosity is nice but it makes me a bit uncomfortable when it's too much too soon. So anyway,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Well, don't pay attention to hate. Everything gets generalized and exaggerated. In reality nobody really talks like that (or even thinks as radical as they present themselves to be). I mean, I had a convo with a total red-piller once who was attacking me at first but as we continued talking actually ended up being a positive exchange :) Everything is a LOT more individualistic IRL and everyone's situation is different. But here we all are. Arguing online lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?We all get desensitized on here. I don't take the internet too seriously and nobody should, it can be pretty damaging otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 09:07 PM |
| 2 | A Word on Shallon LesterI saw a post about her on here and I'm now on her third video. And here I didn't realize we basically do have like an FDS minded speaker, I only saw Pickmeishas giving out dumb dating advice on YouTube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Your post history contradicts your claims... But good luck to you. I mean it, not trying to be sarcastic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Lol pictures are not enough to be considered HVM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Totally believable. Was it your sparkling personality that got them to message you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?That’s fine. It would most likely be mutual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 08:43 PM |
| 2 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Not really. Women on there are advocating to healthy relationships and a lot do have bfs/husbands. Young women learn from there. And they only make fun of LVMs. If you are a normal man you have nothing to worry about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 08:42 PM |
| 2 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Low value? Because it tells you not to sleep with men who are not committed to you and not let them manipulate you and gaslight you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 8 | Just blocked a guy after he said he’s not loooking for something seriousThat’s exactly why I posted. Because I want women to know that men that really want you WILL go to an extent for you. And they don’t have to be ugly or rich. They just have to want you. And that’s nice he flew you out. Definitely a good sign. We shall both see where it goes with these guys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)So what is your solution? Crackheads and racists of both genders will continue to exist and foster system is not and answer as it is horrible. Men who care and are worried about their children's well being have to step up. My former brother-in-law had a kid with a woman who moved to a different state and broke their custody agreement rules. What do you think he did. Bitch and complain for years and years. I kept telling him to take her to court he's agree and do nothing. And that's what I genera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:33 PM |
| 8 | Only a year, he' already an abusive NVM and she blames herselfIt will get worse. Been there done that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?Ok.... FDS doesn't have an opinion on prenups. Better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)How is it meaningless? My state's default custody agreement is 50/50. Men don't want it. My friend's ex completely dropped out after the divorce, doesn't pay child support, doesn't pick up the kid. My ex is welcome to have the kids any time and all he does is one night a week and sometimes skips it. My bff's husband has a daughter that he had a full custody off. Guess what? She grew up with his parents. I have tons of examples around me. Men just use it as an excuse to bitch and complain. When t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:14 PM |
| -1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?What does it have to do with extracting as much as possible? FDS doesn't have an opinion on prenups but I personally would sign one if a man wanted to keep the assets he earned prior to marrying me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 04:00 PM |
| 29 | Just blocked a guy after he said he’s not loooking for something seriousThat's right. I'm glad women are waking up to this nonsense. I got off all the dating apps a couple of years ago. I was so done with this "I want something cAsuAL! I'm not looking for a serious relationship! FWB would be nice!" Fuck that shit. I still go on dates here and there and when you act high value - men do invest. When they realize they don't get to have you after a fun date their wheels start spinning - what else should I do so she likes me more? I currently started talking to a really … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | What are some ideas that both sides can agree on?FDS doesn't tell women to extract as much as you can. At all. You are missing the point completely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)Oh this is just so much red pilled "knowledge" in one comment I just can't even... Where the fuck do you see women stop working when they turn 30? You don't see any women past 30 working anywhere? Where did TRP get that nonsense from? You should see my female bosses and tell them how they are shitty workers lol. Handouts? Sir, please let me know where I find these famous handouts red pillers constantly are talking about? I keep asking and nobody seems to be able to point me in the right directio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | About the double standards of Reddit (the "what if we reversed the genders" case)I dumped him 3 years ago and he is hoping to get back. I'm dating relly hot guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partnerI'm not getting advice. I'm agreeing with FDS theories cause women lost all senses to what dating is supposed to be. The guy I'm talking to is a former bodybuilder who was competing, he works out every day. I think he is hot. So I can't wait for pandemic to be over so we can hang out. I've dated Chads all my life, i don't know what you are carrying on about. Do you. Go pump and dump if you are all that. I don't need you to believe anything I say. I'm a stranger on the internet bored out of her m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partnerWhatever. I'm just drinking a $75 bottle of Malbec a guy just sent me XOXO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 02:37 AM |
| 30 | Blackmailed as a 13 year old.Men are disgusting. You sound young and let me just tell you something: people like that feed off of your fear. Don't ever show it! Obviously, that was a good lesson, so hopefully you won't send more nudes. But if anyone ever tries to blackmail you say: "Yeah? So. Go the fuck ahead. I'm not afraid of you" I've done it in different situations and people definitely back off. With your situation you could've mentioned police too, that would shut them up real quick. Don't be embarrassed. It's life. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partnerI don't have a celebrity crush, my friend. I'm 32 and a little old for that. I always dated hot guys and was married to a Chad. I don't need your stupid red pill theories | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 02:22 AM |
| 0 | What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partnerThat's fine. Do whatever works for you. I will continue doing what works for me. I don't need some low-effort man and his dick at all lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partnerYes. A hot one too 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 12:50 AM |
| 20 | I'm screaming lmao6 months to a year to get commitment from this scrote? lol! Yeah, you, my friend are definitely fucking HVWs over there and shaming other men for dating s luts (eyeroll emoji) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:32 AM |
| 11 | Advice you would give to younger selfNudes - yeah... Never!! And actually I'm talking to (seems like) an awesome guy and he's been sending me flowers, food, and gifts, and we haven't even hung out yet. When he asks for pictures he says "Send your beautiful face" and never asks for any nudes. Normal men don't ask for that shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:15 AM |
| 21 | Dating a man with trust issues is a fucking nightmare! Refuse to suffer for another woman's mistakes.Some will also cheat on you because they are afraid you gonna do it to them so they try to "beat" you to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partnerI was 19 and with my ex bf for 3 years and we were constantly fighting. So I ended up hooking up with a guy that was a friend of my gf's bf... Yeah, not proud of that one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 10:56 PM |
| 0 | What excites women sexually is in direct opposition to what makes for a good LTR partnerWhy shameless? I mean yeah, I'd never cheat again but it happened and I can't change it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 10:52 PM |
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