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"Guys swipe right on everyone". Absolutely. I did a social experiment where I created a profile as a woman, set the age to 19, the name to "Anna" and then uploaded two pictures of morbidly obese men for this profile, no text in the bio. 99+ likes in one day. I only saw men that matched with me, no women (I set the profile to interested in men AND women).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:08 PM
42

You're a true gentlewoman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:59 PM
126

Comments like these are the reason I'm on FDS. 👀💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:55 AM
22

They think their sperm ages like fine wine too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:37 AM
7

Men with negative mate value(LVM) will mostly engage in cost-inflicting mate retention strategies to keep their partner (negging, jealousy, lowering her self esteem, "she's a 4.5!!!!"). Men with positive mate value will exclusively engage in benefit-providing (providing, defending her, gifts...) mate retention strategies to keep their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:43 PM
10

You can bet that this wasn't the first time something like this happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:28 PM
259

They see her as a doormat instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:59 AM
85

Or trap a vulnerable young girl with low self-esteem. Get her before she realizes her worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 09:23 PM
9

Lol, they can't just go younger like they think they can: 1)Last week a guy in his late 30s/early 40s followed me on the street, stopped me and timidly asked for my number. I told him no, he got upset and ran away. 2)An old fart approached me at a coffee shop and invites me to join him in his car after I finish my coffee to "have some fun". Initially I was speechless at the audacity, but still rejected him. He also got visibly upset and quickly left the coffee shop. 3)This month on two separate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:43 AM
15

Yes, and being a girlfriend to someone is the same as being single legally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:31 PM
41

They assume women aren't visual creatures and that we don't have a working nose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:49 PM
2

Low self-esteem probably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:49 AM
4

scroteflakes 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:03 PM
94

This is real pickme propaganda right here. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:06 PM
43

And then you’ll be on the breaking mom sub in no time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:15 PM
124

Block & delete him, he's a lazy lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 09:19 PM
83

High pronoun density like this ("I", "me") is a good indicator for narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:36 PM
50

Or Elon Musk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:26 PM
59

Urban Dictionary: "Homiesexual, a word derived from homosexual. But its gayness with and for the homies. Because this gayness is conducted around and in the homies. It is not gay nor will it ever be. Since your homie, is always a homie and only a homie. You and them cannot be accountable for any actions that may sound gay."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:07 PM
36

That's how you enforce a boundary. ☝ He can be friends with his ex all he wants, just without you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:40 PM
24

He got a reality check from you. Good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:38 PM
149

"If you ever want to hang out sometime let me know." Omg, that's a whole new level of lvm laziness. Dating someone like this would turn you into his mommy figure, 100% guaranteed. A big strong mommy, who protects her precious little boy from the big bad world. 🍼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:19 PM
1

A man wrote this. His "success rate" must have increased because he lives in an area with a lot of pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:44 AM
10

Grandpa looking to rob the cradle. 👀 Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:25 PM
147

This is the same as the famous "Can you cook?" question. LVM wanting you to do the pickme dance for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 01:00 PM
24

Those men really want to date lesbians, but since lesbians by definition are only interested in dating other women these men identify themselves as "women". Their logic makes these men lesbians because they like women and they identify themselves as women. It's really predatory and weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:58 PM
205

It's like they don't believe you will ever leave them, no matter how poorly they treat you. Then when you finally do leave they try everything to get you back to prove to themselves that they still have control over you. It's not about you, it's about them. Just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 10:21 PM
28

It's not so much German culture as it is libfem propaganda in Germany that makes LVM like these get away with forever-gfs and going 50/50 ect. Before men would have been at least shamed fot such behavior, but in this new German culture LV behavior in men is widely tolerated (by both men and women). But there really are still good guys in Germany. Just keep dodging low-effort and stingy men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:04 PM
64

Yes, they want a 1950s housewife who's also a 1950s provider, all in one person, while they do ... nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:08 PM
3

This defective sperm will grow into a defective LVM. And instead of a nanobot doing all the work for him, the now adult LVM will use a Pickme for the same purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:25 PM
13

Yes, otherwise he'll contact her again from another number. Changing her number would solve this problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:06 PM
28

Criminal LVM are usually the most fertile out of all LVM, but let's still hope they didn't breed. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:42 PM
45

Sometimes the outside matches the inside, like in this case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:40 AM
42

Probably wearing a big boy diaper too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:11 PM
26

They think women should just love them unconditionally anyway, so them being broke shouldn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:10 PM
6

The mother is a LVW and der son a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 10:56 AM
30

He'll 100% try to hoover her and will act like she should be grateful for him to bless her with his presence again. (After getting rejected by those younger women. Sure, he'll be able to fool a very naive young woman for a while, but she'll dump him eventually. It's just a matter of time before he comes crawling back. ) Block, delete and change your phone number if possible. You dodged a huge bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:31 PM
5

That was a pathetic attempt at negging you. He wanted to bring down your confidence so you would feel just as bad about yourself as he does about himself. It was 100% deliberate and done with bad intentions. Don't take this personally, LVM gonna LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:07 PM
56

Another great reason to say no to coffee dates. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:02 PM
10

Sounds like he expects you to be his sugar mama. Dump him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:46 PM
91

This 100%. He doesn't care about her, but he'll care about losing the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:10 AM
77

Men that do this should just set their gender as 'scrote' and leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:41 PM
52

That's why we say no to cheap dates and going dutch. It weeds out scrotes like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:23 AM
42

Whatever helps him sleep at night. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:32 PM
32

They want you to be miserable like them. You not settling for crap like this gets them upset. It puts a mirror right in front of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:34 PM
30

Common tactics they use include: -negging -qualification/disqualification -trying to make you invest by getting you to pay for stuff (50/50 coffee date)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:06 AM
66

That pedo hasn't even hit his prime yet!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:10 PM
32

They're literally manufacturing drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:22 PM
8

You bet! They always do. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:20 AM
121

She forgot "Wipe/use toilet paper".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:46 PM
230

They will raise their sons to be LVM (just like the dad) and their daughters to be future mommy-pickmes (just like the mom). And the cycle continues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:43 PM
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Task: "Throw out scrote" Reward: Regaining your dignity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:38 PM
123

The only way an old men would be able to get (some) younger women interested in him is by being their sugar daddy. Even then, the woman only likes his money and not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:32 PM
29

He wanted you to be his backup. Good job for valuing yourself enough to reject this bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:44 PM
24

Or say you'll pay next time. Then go home and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:26 PM
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He clearly hates her. He lets his wife live in poverty and doesn't care one single bit, instead he continues to nickle and dime her. Ladies, any man that wants to go 50/50 is just looking to use you and doesn't care about you at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:18 PM
3

Real talk. This all could have been prevented (at least she threw him out).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:05 PM
2

Better safe than sorry! 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:26 AM
28

Also no skid marks on the bed sheets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:19 AM
18

He sounds like a redpill scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:20 AM
33

It's never 50 50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:08 AM
6

He's an opportunist, plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:34 AM
26

He probably doesn't want to lose his live-in bangmaid, so he might say yes (but not because of love of course).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:19 AM
121

This is even worse than getting a shut-up ring from a forever-boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:12 AM
35

Her not being a good enough bangmaid saved her from being proposed to by a LVM. Its a win for her. Playing housewife for a boyfriend doesn't make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:19 PM
54

A real woman cleans her king's colon. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:05 PM
2

It also makes them sound effeminate when they do it. "Yaaas, gurl king, yaaaaaaassss!!!😘"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:09 PM
29

He was 100% shit testing her for for how much bs she would put with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:10 PM
169

He sounds like a redpill scrote. Probably has a scrotum instead of a brain too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:54 PM
15

In the short-term setting boundaries will make them dislike you even more, but you still have to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:50 PM
14

the wife has a hell of a time trying to get away due to her inability to support herself That's the entire point of the tradfem movement. Sometimes they'll admit it too. The author of "F a s c i n a t i n g W o m a n h o o d" (popular tradfem book) has a Youtube channel where she once let it slip that the whole point of discouraging women from pursuing a college degree/career was to make it harder for the woman to leave her husband should things get "tough".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:27 PM
17

Should have left him there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:52 PM
30

I really dodged a BULLET. You dodged that HULA HOOP well. Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:30 PM
3

She's beautiful and looks like she takes care of herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:37 PM
197

He still has hope that her female social conditioning will kick in and she'll feel guilty and want to pay him. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:08 PM
83

Let them be mad. Only broke men themselves (and pickmes) get upset at a woman for not wanting to date broke man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:02 PM
5

Just look at how many times he used the word "I" in his text. Very narcissistic. He won't accept that he's not the main character in other people's life. What a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:55 AM
76

"I'm an ALpHa male!!!!!!" = insecure scrote with mommy issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:50 PM
21

Those men basically want a mother that they can sleep with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:57 AM
57

Right? You can break up or divorce a LVM, but a child is permanent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:16 PM
19

And then standard-shame other women(like the colleague here did) so they too can be miserable like her. Misery loves company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:14 PM
8

So true! Before online classes me and two other girls were the only girls in our CS program at uni and we did just that. Huddle together, avoid the guys. Initially I even tried to interact with the guys but was getting weird incel/anti-social/anti-woman vibes from most so I stopped. Very few were normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:58 AM
1

Omg, thank you for sharing! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:37 PM
68

A wife would do much more for her and treat her better than her current husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:09 AM
11

Better to ignore and block him. Think about your own mental well-being first. Who cares what he is whining and complaining about? 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:34 AM
43

You need some holy water eye drops to un-read this. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:27 PM
51

In ~20 years this girl will have grown up and will be living her best life while these scrotes will be old and crusty, alone in their basements, crying into a bag of Doritos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:03 PM
53

We're already being told that sex work and degrading porn acts are empowering, so this isn't surprising. Nothing new in pickme clown world. 🎪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:09 AM
5

At least it's nice to see that the comments there are not massaging his ego like he probably expected them to. He must be genuinely shocked that people think he's the a**hole. Reality check, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:02 AM
32

Maybe they want to be pegged too, who knows?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:33 AM
38

They are talking about themselves, it's all projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:27 PM
2

A LVM scrote wouldn't date you the way you were being, lol. But keep those standards high and just don't tell certain people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:46 AM
51

Even kids understand this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:08 AM
29

Ding, ding, ding! 🔔🔔🔔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:05 AM
4

He sounds very manipulative. His manipulation attempts are very transparent, but he probably thinks otherwise. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:25 AM
91

He's too busy being the village bicycle to learn about condoms. He would also need to wear a full-body condom 24/7 to keep his sl#ttiness in check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:27 PM
254

Even the worst of LVMs want their dusty LeGAcY to continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:13 PM
2

I swear they all use the same playbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:33 PM
64

Maybe he was even older than 28. Some 30+ year-old LVM will shave off a couple of years so that girls in their early twenties might give them a chance. Saying 29 would be too obvious, so they say 28.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:51 AM
55

"Just tell him how you feel! He's not a mind reader! How else is he supposed to know that you don't like being treated badly?!?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:48 AM
6

LVM apes like them can have access to other apes and leave us humans alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:16 PM
9

It's all projection and scare tactics on their part. They want us to settle for some loser out of fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:02 PM
84

100%. You can bet that he didn't just pay out of the goodness of his heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:10 PM
33

Her not getting pregnant by him is a blessing. If she wakes up, she can just leave this LVM without being tied to him for 18+ years because of a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:41 AM
30

They're projecting, as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:52 PM
92

Us 20-something women looove us some alpha grandpa with erectile dysfunction!!!1! Changing a man's diaper can be so sexy!!! 😍 Women aren't visual creatures, so this all makes sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:39 PM
45

He saw your femininity and that's one of the things that attracted him to you. Then he wanted to turn you into a masculine bob-the-builder pickme. It's sometimes more satisfying for LVM like this to break a feminine woman than to just get with a regular pickme from the start. Good job for rejecting this bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:45 PM
139

Him: *tries to make you jealous* You: Ok, bye. Him: *surprised Pikachu face*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:24 PM
21

He's a middle aged man and all he can do is offer her a coffee date (probably 50/50 too)? Let's hope he never gets the opportunity to pass on his loser genes to the next generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:58 PM
85

Just say you'll pay next time. There won't be a next time of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:06 AM
94

They're the "logical" gender, clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:15 PM
133

Giiiiiiiiirl, mine took me to an open field! It even turned out to be a potato field!!! After harvesting potatoes for 2 hours straight he noticed that I had harvested more than him and demanded we split our harvest 50/50. 😍😳😍 His frugalness and sense of EquAliTy touched me deep inside. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:04 PM
27

Gotta protect my $2.50 from those goLd DiGgeRs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:17 PM
10

He'd 100% try to make the new woman the mommy and ruin his chances with her in the process. Giving him custody is the way to go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:07 PM
36

You gave him a taste of his own medicine, bravo. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:54 AM
26

It's safe for them but not for the women providing the services = safe sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:12 PM
58

He's so quirky and unique! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:56 AM
43

And say it was a miscarriage if he or someone else asks. (We don't know just how crazy or vindictive he is.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:29 AM
44

It takes a special kind of audacity to demand applause from your wife for leaving her. That's a whole new level of narcissism right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:27 AM
7

You've outgrown your old self, good job! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:04 AM
206

No need for her to waste her time. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:01 PM
142

She even has her own makeup line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:23 AM
15

And then you block them and they wonder why. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:18 AM
5

Treat that LVM like the peasant he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:12 PM
11

The answer is 5'7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:16 PM
31

If she can't have nice things, other women shouldn't either! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:55 PM
70

Maybe mommy will give me some chicken tendies if I'm a good boy. 🍼🍼🍼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:51 PM
18

So that she can still keep him around. If you and him get together she'll always have access to him through you. Very self-serving. Good for you for rejecting this BS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:15 PM
11

Dresses like he lives in North Korea💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:07 PM
3

I like your approach. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:12 AM
27

LVMs like this could still ask their mommy girlfriend to buy it for them and then give her 50% of the money back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:27 AM
3

Internalized misogyny will make some women do the pickme dance so that they can get some sweet, sweet male validation. Throwing other women under the bus, perpetuating sexist stereotypes etc. It's embarrassing to watch as an outsider but you also feel sorry for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:09 PM
39

They really do make this pathetic content for us.😬 Their entire lives revolve around us and now that women are much more liberated than they were 50+ years ago this is one of their pathetic attempts at controlling us. They should all just marry each other and move to a remote island.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:19 AM
123

They're projecting the way they think onto us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:26 PM
43

Those awful tattoos are an outward manifestation of the abuse he put her through. Poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:56 PM
45

Flashback to an earlier post about butt crumbs 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:10 PM
188

Now that you are seeing me, please ditch your female friends. You don't need them. They were just a place holder until you met a real man like me. 😎 Your life revolves around me now and I need 100% of your attention so your friends are just a nuisance to me (unless you and one of them is bi 🍆💦). They might even try to sabotage our relationship by calling out my lv behavior. 😠 We don't need that. They're just jealous of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:24 PM
57

Was he surprised Pikachu when you dropped him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:00 PM
86

Wow, he sounds like a malignant narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:09 AM
25

She got picked! 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:50 PM
29

That's exactly what her future will look like. But she could still escape this scenario if she would just dump him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:49 PM
289

That 50/50 logic needs to be flushed down the toilet. Men all around the globe will take advantage of a woman who overextends herself like this. Have your job but let him pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:18 AM
63

Like having a food baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:44 AM
36

angry LVMs screaming "REEEEEEEEE!!!" in the background
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:07 PM
42

They thought you would stay regardless. Oops. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:28 PM
9

The men who say that leg hair on women is unHigEniC are the same men who walk around with skid marks on their underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:02 PM
67

Omg, the sheer audacity.💀 Glad you dodged that bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:34 PM
16

He should have had multiple infections by now. It's somehow surprising that he only got one single cyst from being soiled in his own feces. But maybe his body has build up a resistance to sh*t over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:49 AM
60

The real punchline is that she will eventually leave this stingy loser, level up her life and never look back. She might cringe when she remembers how much disrespect she used to tolerate, but she now sees those events in the past for the learning experiences they were. In the end the embarrassment, shame and pain he caused her made her stop being a pickme. She's free now. Meanwhile he's still the same pathetic loser (probably still watches porn too).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:40 PM
86

LVM like this basically want to get sex for as cheap as possible. He knows that an actual prostitute would charge him WAY MORE than $3.75 for anything sexual. And since he doesn't want to pay a sex worker for her services, he hopes he can fool a woman to have sex with him for as cheap as possible. Ideally for free. A man that's serious about you will come correct from the very beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:30 PM
56

Damned if you do, damned if you don't. So we might as well do what's best for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:48 PM
11

They do love themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:20 AM
51

Reminds me of when hip dips were (still are) made to be a problem. They're normal and every woman has them. Yet videos on how to get rid of them with exercise have millions of views on Youtube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:38 PM
145

Never underestimate the damage a LVM will cause if you let him into your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:32 PM
3

Ruthless queen energy. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:33 PM
54

Some people just get triggered when a woman dares to have standards. Any standard will trigger them, no matter how basic (like having a license in a rural area). You can be a materialistic golddigging bitch in their eyes, who cares. You do you and they can play the rehabilitation center for low-life men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:02 PM
163

Remember when Trump said that he'd date his daughter Ivanka if she weren't his daughter and called her "hot". There really are men out there who have these thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:42 AM
60

Just say that the sheet mask is infused with testosterone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:42 PM
8

Right? Why all the downvotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:35 PM
86

"And please don't tell me to break up with him. I need serious advice about my situation." manbaby boyfriend starts screaming and cursing in the background after he lost a game on his ps5 "Strangely the ps5 I bought him for Christmas didn't help him with his depression. What more could I do?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:24 AM
81

More proof that sexuality isn't a choice, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:47 AM
191

That's a LVM mating call.Typical mindset for a broke/stingy LVM. Ignore if you encounter one in the wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:52 PM
67

Yes, he should be the one asking. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:12 AM
13

Your intuition is right. Unless someone has a kid with their ex there is no good reason to stay in contact with said ex. Even if you break up amicably and want to stay friends (= keep them as a backup plan) this "friendship" will never be 100% platonic. Plus there are enough people in the world to be platonic friends with that you never had any romantic/sexual interest in. It's disrespectful and unnecessary of him to still be publicly friends with them on fb. If "it's not him" then he should hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:19 PM
22

Oui
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:14 AM
74

Please mommy have sex with me too 😢🍼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:51 AM
29

Good for you for sticking to your boundaries. They can leave if they don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:56 PM
5

"Hmm, she filed a restraining order against me. Why is she still playing this hard to get game? Can't be me, right?!?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:46 PM
8

She can keep her LVM. 😅 Keep him far away from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:33 PM
202

If he can't even afford a ring, he can't afford to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:33 PM
54

And once we break free we can raise our future daughters so that they will never be pickmes in the first place. Many of us are breaking generational curses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:48 PM
8

You really can't get through to some people, no matter how much you try. She'll have to learn by herself and only then will she understand your advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:13 AM
8

He should have stayed in the middle ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:09 PM
46

A man that belittles women like this and uses sexist stereotypes against them is a "good man", clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:06 PM
20

Classic scare tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:17 PM
11

It's a way to neg their wives. Negging is a LVM mate retention strategy with the goal of lowering someone's confidence so that they will be less likely to look for a better mate. Basically they know their wives can do better than them so they try to subtly knock them down a peg to make sure the wife doesn't leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:25 PM
6

That's so manipulative. Glad he's an ex now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:28 PM
13

She knows the truth but doesn't trust her own judgment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:47 AM
35

Maybe his mom (or girlfriend) will gift him a mirror instead of a ps5 this Christmas so that he can see his true ugliness with his own two eyes. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:37 AM
78

Plus in his last sentence he also mentions establishing control. Classic narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:33 PM
11

Lol! 😂😂😂 Sadly there are people who really give this kind of advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:14 PM
59

He'll try to crawl back to you eventually. Don't let him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:37 AM
120

Make it expensive to waste your time. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:57 AM
10

Good for you! Those who complain about you having boundaries are the ones who benefitted from you not having any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:43 AM
8

Sometimes abusers reveal their true self accidentally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:17 PM
25

Let's hope she grows out of it. She sounds very young. "I only wish you could feel what I feel" sounds like a teen talking about their first relationship. But I might be wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:39 PM
20

Giving men the benefit of the doubt is one of the the cornerstones of Pickmeism. It doesn't serve us and can even get us into dangerous situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:53 PM
259

Many women feel instinctively disgusted by porn but get socialised to see guys consuming porn as "normal" and "healthy". It is so liberating when you finally break free from this conditioning and see porn consumers for the pathetic losers they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:42 PM
8

Find an empty PS5 box and put a large rock inside of it (so it'll weigh something).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:26 PM
29

Of course he wanted to remain "friends" with her after he dumped her. You never know when you need a backup option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:28 AM
32

Lol, he tried to bait you into proving yourself to him with the "I'm going to unmatch, ok? ". They're so transparent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:17 PM
33

The Venn diagram of LVM who want women to make the first move and men who enjoy getting pegged by women is a circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:28 AM
11

Aww, that's a big green flag right there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:44 PM
24

I was in the exact same situation long ago. What I did was change my status to "single" as well and make it public so that everyone could see it (don't mention it to him and pretend everything is fine!). He noticed it and timidly asked if we could both change our status to "in a relationship". LVM like this want to appear single to other women and have you as a "safe option" while they look for something "better". Never let them play games like this. Instead block them and let them be single far…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:38 AM
9

This "it's over after 30" idea that they are trying to push is designed to make young vulnerable women panick and settle for a scrote like them before their time "runs out" at 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:09 PM
4

Maybe this pickme wasn't even bi to begin with. She could have just pretended to be bi to attract a new woman for her LVM boyfriend who sent her on a mission to go unicorn hunting for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:25 AM
57

Sometimes they reveal themselves accidentally. Like mentioning how they had a 12 year old girlfriend when they were 19 or commenting on how "slutty" a young girl looks with her skirt. Of course there are others who hide it better, but you'd be surprised how open some are about their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:56 PM
12

Him: surprised Pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:41 PM
124

My ex kept telling me that he was 183 cm (around 6'0") tall while I could clearly see that he was the same height as me (170 cm, around 5'7") while standing next to him. When taking pictures together he would stand on his tip toes to appear taller than me. He thought I didn't notice, but I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:38 PM
38

This guy is exactly the type of LVM we weed out if we decline coffee dates. It works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:14 PM
29

Even Satan would disapprove of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:59 PM
32

Mine just picked up some dirt from the ground and rubbed it on my ring finger. Not everyone can afford a sharpie!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:57 PM
35

He basically thought you wouldn't leave him if he got you pregnant. Sounds very controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:45 PM
4

Always say no to a bean juice date. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:37 PM
107

He gave her a shut up ring and she thinks they are really engaged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:07 PM
102

"But, but ... women degrading themselves is empowering. No?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:06 PM
8

Unable to love = unable to accept low effort behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:30 PM
93

You would think that PiS would worry about other things in times like this. But no. Their first priority during a pandemic is to reduce women's rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:16 PM
31

They consume so much porn and it really shows in their normal everyday conversations. One time I was wearing a short plaid skirt and a LVM came up to me and said that I looked like a "sexy school girl".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:32 PM
17

He also suffers from short-man syndrome and lies about his height. He claims to be 5'9", but when taking pictures of him standing next to others, he is much shorter than people like Ted Cruz (5'8"). A 5'2" woman (Kassy Dillion) even posted a picture standing next to him saying how "super short" she thinks he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:21 AM
14

We can't win either way, so we might as well do what benefits us the most. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ downplaying our attractiveness so we don't offend scrotes < acknowledging our own attractiveness and feeling confident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:11 PM
46

and Lauren Southern
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:35 PM
28

He was trying to flex on you with that table. 👀 Next thing you know, he'll buy a chair too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 01:24 AM
64

We dated the same guy, lol. He's just saying what he thinks you would like to hear. It's not genuine, otherwise he would have treated you well during the relationship. He's hoping those lines will work on you and that you will respond. Don't respond, block and delete. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:28 PM
255

It is better to be called crazy by society for having standards than it is to put up with a coomer and his porn-fried brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:14 PM
63

"She sounds like she's a selfish gold digger. 😢 If she's not able to compromise on little things like mommying a grown man twice her age, will she even be able to change your diaper when you're 82? 😎🍼🍼🍼 Think about it. She'll need to have a lot of CoMmuNiCAtionS with you to make up for her childish behaviors."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:36 PM
22

Some people can't be helped no matter how much you try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:03 PM
57

Woman with common sense: "No" Him: surprised Pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:16 AM
105

Never tell your future partner about the abuse you had to go through in the past. Many men will feel jealous that some other guy got to do a sexual act with you that you won't do with him. Other men will put in less effort into the relationship since "she's used to being treated poorly". They don't need to know about it! As far as they are concerned, you were always treated well by your past partners! This also raises the bar for a potential new partner. Only share trauma like this with trusted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:40 AM
414

Especially if they use "females" and "men" in the same sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:18 PM
40

I also hate how men in relationships often try to talk a straight woman into having a 3some with a bi woman. They just hope that their girlfriend has low enough self-esteem to put up with it. To them it really doesn't matter if she's straight or not. What matters most for them is Muh PeniS, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:47 PM
2

Neither the "4" woman nor the "8" woman would give them the time of day in the real world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:02 AM
195

The egg doesn't swim to the sperm. If some lazy defective sperm won't do it, then the egg won't just swim after it. The egg has standards. If even such a small part of our body has standards and won't chase, why should we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:15 PM
90

It ain't no fun if the rabbit's got the gun. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:10 AM
5

You obviously can afford it and can decide how you want to spend your money. What's her problem with it? Should you have used those $200 to buy a forever-boyfriend a new gaming console?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:04 AM
29

It's even worse if they're not even 30 and already have a "dad bod".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:23 PM
2

Omg, I didn't even think about that. Now it makes more sense. (But some of them will still try their luck with regular women while they're there. 😭) Can you imagine flying across an entire ocean just to have sex? That's just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:09 PM
32

Don't marry a poor man for love. Love will blind you and you'll make sacrifices for him that you shouldn't make. Then 15 years later when he still hasn't achieved his "potential" or has cheated on you, the love you once had for him will be gone and you'll see him for the LVM he truly is. Marry someone that can offer you something else besides love, that way your life won't be filled with struggle and sacrifices and you won't be left with nothing if things do go sour. Plus one of the main reasons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:56 PM
18

While I was living in an eastern european country for multiple years I've had the misfortune of running into some old American and Canadian guys who were doing just that. They were attempting to sexpat in a poorer country so they could get laid. Turns out even young women from "poorer" countries won't just have casual sex with some old scrote just because he's got an American passport. What would she gain from that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:53 PM
3

You can tell that a man wrote this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:28 AM
75

That's so abusive. He was was asking you to harm your own health and life for him. This could have ended badly had you gone through with his request. Nevertheless, good job for breaking free from this dangerous NVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:14 AM
8

It's always touch for them! Always!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:53 AM
7

Lol! 😂 He will regret negging his handler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:37 PM
34

One of many disciplines you'll see at the international Pickme Olympics 👀. Other disciplines include: the 100 m sprint for male validation, (mental) gymnastics and the 1,500 m run towards the nearest field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:13 PM
14

You managed to turn your life around in less than a year. You have gained confidence and found inner happiness. Proud of you! 💕 More proof that we should never lose hope, no matter how bad our current situation is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:01 PM
1

Makes sense. I just always assumed that young women would only find old guys "attractive" for financial reasons. You're different though. If he knew about your preference, he might have kept his young age a secret to keep you interest, lol. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:25 PM
4

Do you think the reason you thought he was older than he actually was was because he had a more mature vibe and dressed better than other 23 year old guys or did he just have an older looking face naturally?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:03 PM
14

There is nothing wrong with having little crushes like this but even a 10 year age gap could easily create a power imbalance in an actual relationship. Not making a move on you was the right thing to do (even if he did secretly like you) and shows that he's a decent guy. I was just talking about old men (old enough to be your father) who think that young women will lust after them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:46 PM
55

The only young women I know who find old men "attractive" are like this because they are looking for financial security. His money makes him attractive in that case, not his looks. There are however older men who will find vulnerable young women and teenagers and groom them. I had a 45 year married scrote pursue me when I was 19 and his wife was convinced that I wanted to steal her man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:28 PM
13

A failed negging attempt on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:12 AM
37

Love how the incel fish is not afraid of the woman in the picture and is just chilling next to her. A human incel wouldn't be this nice to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:04 PM
10

Our brains aren't even fully developed until we are 25 so it makes sense to marry at 28+.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:34 PM
27

Suggesting a cake topper like this to you was so tactless. The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:43 PM
64

He's definitely hiding something: a girlfriend, porn, explicit pictures he took of you while having sex, something else he doesn't want you to know about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:07 PM
7

He gave himself a blowjob (some men really do this) and his superhuman sperm was able to penetrate his brain and cause permanent damage. His brain cells were replaced by sperm cells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:13 PM
4

ZERO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:32 PM
5

You can smell his room just by watching the video. 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:29 PM
5

That's some queen energy right there. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:08 AM
8

Can't say the same thing about him. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:35 AM
37

Same here! My very catholic (no contraception) grandparents had 12 children. My grandmother was 50 when she had her last and that was without modern medicine. Idiots like him are always obsessed with shaving off 15-25 years from a woman's true fertility window to scare us into settling for them out of fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:17 PM
4

They really want to twist your words and argue for the sake of arguing. Yes, the world is superficial. HVM and other women are superficial too. A good appearance will open many doors and not maintaining it will make those doors close themselves again. People even treat good looking children better and are more likely to hire an attractive person. Even a seemingly HVM can switch up on you at any moment and by maintaining your appearance you are helping yourself in the long run. We don't do this o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:09 PM
3

He also looks short. Notice how he didn't include his height anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:03 PM
95

They never expect you to stand up for yourself, but when you do: surprised Pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:15 AM
26

It's like you've been reborn. So proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:13 AM
18

Bet he thought he had her wrapped around his finger at that point so he could finally (slowly) introduce the real him to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:45 PM
17

That's why it's a good idea to have a secret bank account where you deposit some money each month in case he pulls something like this. (Many men already have secret bank accounts that their wives know nothing about.) Then you'll be able to leave more easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:41 PM
59

100% of male colorists are LVM and 100% of female colorists are pickmes. Avoid both if you encounter them in the wild. 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:29 PM
12

A bulb is enough? 😬 The scrotacity! Bet he also doesn't understand the concept of bed frames and sleeps on a mattress on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:30 PM
36

Never trust "I will do this once". My aunt put her husband (who was poor and had no college degree) through university so he could get a degree in mechanical engineering. She worked and took care of their daughter while he was a full-time student. They were both in their 30s. The original plan was that he would be making a lot more money for the family once he finished his studies and got his engineering job. But after finishing his degree and getting a good job he ended up leaving her (and his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:11 PM
10

Then - "I'll drag you into the eternal flames of hell with me. It's warm and cozy, you'll like it!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:39 PM
21

100% solid advice. We have to be ready to walk away at any time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:27 PM
60

"It's not like he's hitting you!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:56 PM
10

The fact that waffle stomping is even common enough to have a name is horrifying. 💀😭 Some pickme's boyfriend is probably doing it right now as I'm typing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:32 PM
35

Pickmes are the backbone of their low-effort lifestyle. Of course they don't want pickmes to wake up. It would only benefit the woman and her future children if she woke up, not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:06 PM
56

They can't wiggle their way back into your life that easily if you block them on everything. That's why they hate it so much; you're no longer an option for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:04 PM
8

Makes sense, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:18 PM
9

If you are not a libfem feminist (pro-kink, pro-porn, promoting casual sex, going 50/50 ...) and someone asks you if you are a feminist should you say no? It seems that libfems have overtaken feminism and I don't want to be in the same group as them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:49 PM
5

She deserves so much better than this. It's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:03 PM
111

He's squeezing as much utility out of her as possible. She's the placeholder. But he will not make the woman of his dreams lift a finger and she will never know about the struggles the placeholder went through. She'll just see him, his house and nice career and think he did all of it by himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:52 PM
17

Next thing you know they want to be penetrated with a strap on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:51 AM
3

This study was a giant scare tactic attempt to get more young women using online dating apps (subconscious message: 18 is the prime age for women! You are getting old! You need to hurry! Use our app! Time is ticking! ) as well as lure old men in (subconscious message: Hey, get on our app. You are still desirable and many women want you. Just use our app!).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:58 PM
3

Writing this down in a notebook. You always have the best no-nonsense approach for everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:30 AM
6

Be proud of yourself! It takes so much strength to leave when you are in a bad mental space (in your case being anxious).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:12 AM
0

I'm not giving them excuses. Whether someone is horny or not, they are still responsible for the consequences of their own actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:56 PM
4

It's makes no sense to us women, but some men are ruled by their dicks to the point where they don't care who it is they are sticking their dick into when horny. They just need a hole and are just THAT horny. Sure, those straight men would want a woman but if no woman is around then "a hole is a hole is a hole. Sex is sex.". That's why there are straight men in prison who become "gay for the stay". There are no women around so another man will do. Even outside of prison it's easier to find a man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:56 PM
50

And males nowadays wonder why they can't keep a good woman around.😩 We want our male to not be community dick for other women (or gay men). 😷 That's why y'all males still single!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:06 PM
26

The audacity. He breaks up with you but wants to keep you as a backup ("friend"). You handled this well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:04 AM
24

Your last sentence. I wish I did that! Make it expensive if he wants to come back.💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:01 AM
95

Preach! Sadly many women split the bill because they themselves don't want to feel like they owe the guy anything. By thinking like this they basically agree with the LVM's view of the situation that "money I spend on your food = payment for sex". In reality no amount of money he spends on some dinner entitles him to anything sexual, but LVM see women as prostitutes anyway so he will get upset if you don't put out for his "payment". (Plus a prostitute would charge him way more than one meal and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:34 AM
45

And if he says his ex was a slut, he'll say the same thing about you after you break up (even if you were a virgin). The only true slut is him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:23 PM
51

And that's if he reaches his potential. If he doesn't then you're stuck with a LVM who didn't amount to anything and you'll suffer too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:31 AM
14

This should count as charity work! This poor man can't even afford to buy himself underwear apparently. He'll always remember you for that and in 50 years he'll tell his other bum friends how a generous woman once gifted him underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:24 AM
5

It looks like something a medieval peasant would wear. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:15 AM
25

This reminds me of conservatives who whine and complain that the average woman is having less children now than 50 years ago. They can't wrap their head around the reason as to why this might be. According to them women have a natural urge to breed anyway so why aren't they doing it as much anymore? 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:08 AM
26

Ideally they want a woman to have a low paying job that won't leave her with any disposable income after she pays half for everything. This way she's a work mule for them and dependent on them at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:50 AM
23

This is one step away from proposing with an onion ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:49 PM
7

That's so kind of you. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:48 PM
23

Their presence makes the field dry, just like the women they take on 50/50 coffee dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:15 PM
7

I've heard guys questioning as to why a woman wants someone 6'+ tall when she is for example only 5'8". Their logic is: "You're too picky! You're not even that tall yourself!" My point was that someone that height would be 6'+ as a male themselves. She would not be asking for too much, she's just asking for her male equivalent height wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:43 AM
27

For everyone who was ever made to feel bad about having height requirements: The average height difference between men and women is about 5 inches. This means that the equivalent of a 5'7" woman would be a 6' tall man. It's not unreasonable to want a 6' tall man since many women would be that height or taller were they born male. And it also makes sense for women shorter than 5'7" to like tall men since this would mean taller offspring for her (=good from an evolutionary standpoint). It's simple…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:38 PM
9

While his shampoo is a 4-in-1 shower gel, shampoo, toothpaste and dishwashing liquid he bought for $4. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:48 AM
45

It's a low-effort form of mate guarding. High-effort mate guarding would be something like providing her enough resources so that she doesn't want to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:20 AM
6

Who else found FDS from some scrote's angry comment? 🙋 Keep bringing new people to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:10 PM
21

Wave that Pickme flag loud and proud, and maybe, just maybe, one day, in the near or not so near future someone will pick you. Fingers crossed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:46 PM
70

Sometimes you even find gems like this on those subs: "[39/f] My husband [39/m] of 3.5 years pooped in the shower last night and now I don't know how I feel about him." :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:13 PM
4

Preach! He likes the thought of having sex with you, but not you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:47 PM
16

You really put him in his place with that response. 😂 At 16 you already take no bs. Please don't change!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:44 PM
58

Walk dates are peak LVM. Only the dustiest of LVM would suggest something like this. The appropriate response to this is to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:31 PM
36

I had a 28-year-old bus driver pursue me when I was 14. He bragged about having a driver's license, but even at that age I thought he was a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:15 PM
13

Many of them are Kinkmeishas for sure, but it is even more likely that they are trying to be a "cool girl" for their boyfriend/husband. Like deep down they hate the fact that he wants to have sex with another woman but they want to seem "cool" and "not like other girls" so he'll like her more. Unicorn hunters are delusional and have no shame. They don't see it as gross to request free prostitution services from a stranger. That's why you'll find them there. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:22 PM
12

Reflairing some people from FDS Newbie to Pickmeisha. You made good points with your post but many Pickmes have infiltrated it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:51 PM
15

WTH? He's an employee and should act polite towards any customer. Female or male. Glad he's gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:18 AM
22

A couple (man and woman) who search for a bisexual woman who will have a threesome with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:27 AM
55

People that want 19 year olds to feel insecure about being too "old" for old crusty men think this sub is awful. It benefits them in some way to have women with those thought patterns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:51 AM
3

It's good that you feel safe around him. So far so good. But be cautious that a LVM can pretend to be a HVM in the beginning. That's why it's important that you take your time. LVM are not patient, they just want to get you into bed. That's why we recommend to wait at least 3 months (even if you feel safe around him), so that LVM get frustrated and leave without using you. Regarding him: If you keep seeing him he should eventually build a strong enough emotional attachment to you that he will no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:32 PM
29

Nein
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:57 PM
302

He will bench her until he is 100% sure that no attractive woman wants him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:19 PM
4

Sounds like will eventually pressure you into giving him sex before the 1 year mark is over. He told you waiting for a year is a deal-breaker for him, but he keeps pursuing you and acting "nice": this means that he doesn't take your boundary seriously at all. Don't let him guilt you into having sex with him before your ideal 1 year mark is over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:47 AM
22

Or when you notice how objectively beautiful many women around you are while the men dress like middle schoolers and have beer bellies ... makes you think you might be gay (even if you're not). 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:39 PM
5

It's never too late to level up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:48 PM
91

🍼🍼🍼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:41 PM
20

People like this should get the flair "Kinkmeisha" from the mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:28 PM
9

LVMH, a French multinational conglomerate, owns about 50% of Fenty. They also own (in some cases just partially like with Fenty) many other brands like Make Up For Ever and Benefit Cosmetics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:45 PM
7

Peak pickmeism, really. She's got a martyr complex, is stuck with a LVM but blames and goes off on other women she doesn't even know personally (miLLeNniaL wOmEn!!!). This is what happens to pickmes later in life, they become bitter like her that no one rewards them for their sacrifices. And who do they antagonise? Other women of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:12 PM
33

And never assume a brand is completely owned by a woman just because she's the face of the brand. For example Rihanna only owns 15% of Fenty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:18 PM
26

"Men don't cause drama." >>>> Opening a history book at a random page number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:34 AM
3

The pee bottle should be emptied on his laptop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:18 PM
5

Two birds with one stone. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:00 PM
19

I think so too. LVM gold diggers at my uni also get overly excited when you mention that you are in a STEM major. Like their eyes just light up when they hear you say you major in something like Computer Science. Then they might ask you if you are already working, want to "build" with you etc. Basically he assume you got (or will after you are done with uni) a lot of disposable income for him, in addition to the bangmaid sex services he already expects of all women. But those types are easy to s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:27 PM
10

"Deny the abuse ever took place, then Attack the victim for attempting to hold the abuser accountable; then they will lie and claim that they, the abuser, are the real victim in the situation, thus Reversing the Victim and Offender." Once you know how common manipulation patterns work you are less likely to fall for them. But yes, always trust your gut feeling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:33 PM
68

The day she finally outgrows her pickme phase (let's hope) she'll look back on this and feel like a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:27 PM
28

Those people were trying to make you question the validity of your own boundaries with fear tactics like this ("he will find someone else if you don't do it!!!"). Glad you didn't let them or him manipulate you into doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:19 PM
34

HVM detected. 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:55 PM
4

He's a frugal king. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:22 PM
3

Bold of them to assume that they are getting sex on a first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:23 PM
7

Wholesome content. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:58 PM
48

This is the only time we should care about a man's potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:02 PM
9

One more reason to be grateful for the women who fought for us to have those rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:31 PM
18

If words could kill. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:44 PM
20

The facial expression you make when being confronted with said audacity:👁👄👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:38 PM
118

And dating multiple people at once before committing to one of them helps us not become emotionally invested before it makes sense. Don't focus on one guy exclusively until he has earned it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:58 PM
28

It just makes sense. And you don't even have to be religious to reach a conclusion like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:36 AM
33

Same here, except he (also LV) hid behind me when an angry homeless man approached us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:48 PM
3

SheRaSeven1. She's the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:46 PM
31

Louder for the people in the back. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:40 PM
5

Better safe than sorry! Snooping might save you from ending up in a bad situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:57 PM
4

He really looks like it (marshmellow face), plus the entitlement and rudeness is typical for tech guys 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:42 PM
15

Also pushing the narrative that women in their 30s are desperate. Logically a woman in her 30s would be less gullible than someone younger, so this whole situation seems questionable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:54 PM
17

You sent him back into the void where he belongs. 👋👋👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:36 PM
2

While just blocking them without saying anything would be ideal, I like the phrase "Stay salty, my friend." for when they won't stop pestering you for something, you tell them no and they get upset. Send it and then block them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:31 PM
8

It will take about 50* hours of time spent together for someone to consider you their friend (even if you two click from the very beginning). And by time spent together I don't mean just passively sitting next to each other during a lecture, but doing something together like going to a mall for example. No matter how well your personality fits with the other person's personality, you still need time to build rapport with them to establish a friendship. In the beginning there might be some awkwar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:05 PM
9

Bet he thought he was being very slick by indirectly telling you to lower your expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:12 PM
13

We will never know. But at least his version of WAP was funny to watch. That's like the only good thing about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:18 PM
6

Hence why coffee dates or going 50/50 are a no-no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:03 PM
30

Going their way in a circle. 🔁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:24 PM
2

Yes, or at least take a picture of them as proof. And buy yourself something nice after you bring back the game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:30 PM
8

OMG and here I thought you were just being funny. This is a real thing, nooooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:51 PM
38

Often the "hot asshole" type isn't even that bad compared to some guys that look very clean-cut and polite. Those are often the most depraved ones. You really wouldn't expect them to be like this, but they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:42 PM
21

IMO they found someone who will listen to their problems in you. Other people might not even give them the time of the day to listen to them and their (totally avoidable) problems with men. So they unload their emotional baggage onto you without any intention to change their behavior. They talk at you rather than to you and won't take your advice seriously. You are attracting them by being a good friend essentially (caring about them, listening to their problems). But not everyone deserves this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:18 PM
11

Adult diapers 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:55 PM
16

That's such a power move to just pack your suitcase and leave. No begging. No second chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:17 PM
15

Glad you got out early! 💞 And since you don't have any kids with him you don't have to deal with him ever again. Use this knowledge as additional fuel to improve your life even further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:09 PM
8

"I would never watch women's sports. Men's sports is so much better and I'm not afraid to say it!!! ", "Ugh, I hate working with women. They are so catty!!!" or any other phrase that shows their hatred of other women is a clear sign to avoid that person at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:00 AM
13

Get the bag, girl! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:48 AM
26

I guarantee that in both cases the LVM guy knows that he got the girl hooked. He sees her as desperate because she puts up with his bs and therefore disrespects her even more (he knows he can get away with it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:34 PM
7

This sound like a true nightmare. Hopefully she'll wake up from this one day and leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:12 PM
11

Sour grapes mentality. They know they could never get someone like her, therefore she's ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:58 AM
1

It's such a pure feeling to know that you and your friend are genuinely happy for each other. That's when you know your friendship is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:40 PM
9

You are not alone sis! But now we know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:45 AM
3

This comment is gold. Every woman needs to know this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:41 PM
8

Should you find yourself in a situation like this where he is pressuring you for anal because he knows you did it with your ex, just clarify that YOU were the one penetrating your ex (with a strap on) and he will never bring it up again. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:36 PM
124

And that's why we don't help them build.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:49 PM
6

r/AccidentalRenaissance Lvm edition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:42 PM
24

"he doesn't have a history of having fuck buddies..." Yes he does and girl YOU are one of his fuck buddies, but you haven't realized it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:36 PM
17

Maybe they were so insistent because they knew you didn't like it? Some abusive guys always want to do the opposite of what you want just to spite you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:26 AM
15

He has his audacity to offer. Nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:53 PM
2

Do they seriously think a woman will just call them and start chasing them if they give her THEIR number so she can call THEM? This is some true clown world logic right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:21 PM
1

The second example (no hedge words) sounds so much better! I would assume someone confident wrote the second one and someone shy/timid wrote the first one if I was sent those two emails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:16 PM
10

They all reveal their true intentions eventually, but it's still gross that they try to use feminism to go undetected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:46 PM
13

Exactly! Assume he is juggling multiple women at once if he asks you out for coffee. Nice dates are totally doable, be it a dinner date or an activity date, if he is only focusing on one woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:40 PM
4

Maybe I'm biased too (more of a food person than an activity person). Planning an activity can of course be a nice date as well. It all depends on the effort people put into the date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:27 PM
8

It varies from country to country, even region to region. In countries where gender expectations are more egalitarian you'll still find LVM who will use this as a reason why you should go 50/50 (eQuALiTy!!!), accept their low effort or chase them. All you have to do is don't pay them any attention and only entertain guys who treat you right. I don't think you'll have a harder time, just remember to vet the low effort ones from the good ones. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:16 PM
11

Generally pickme culture is much stronger in Europe than in America (I've lived in both). In many places you will get shamed for having high standards and LVM men and pickme women will be offended if they find out you have higher standards than others. But you can still find a guy who will take you out on dinner dates and treat you well. You just have to stick to your standards and not let some European LVM lowball you. If they do try, and some will, just tell them you didn't know they were stru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:18 PM
19

She was wearing a pornhub sweatshirt? 😱 That's just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:03 AM
15

He also went in HARD on Tati in this whole Jeffree Star/Shane Dawson scandal recently. Shane and Jeffree have done truly despicable things and Tati's mishaps were really minor compared to them. He was relatively calm and objective with those two men but really petty and passive aggressive with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:31 PM
15

At my uni I've overheard a fat LVM neckbeard refer to himself as a solid 8 while simultaneously calling an overweight woman (still not as overweight as him) disgusting. I was truly shocked at his perception of reality. They might not think they are a 10, but their ego will give them a 5 point boost at least. So from 3 (reality) to 8. Edit: this happened before covid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:14 PM
25

The only way she would not have to sleep with him is if she paid for her own coffee. /s But seriously, many women go half because they don't want to feel like they "owe" a guy anything. In reality they don't owe him anything regardless of who paid for what. Just shows you how society has conditioned us to see men's wants as more important than ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:41 PM
13

Scrote evasion 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:19 PM
3

That's a good approach as well. They'll be confused after you cut them off anyway. I just like to make those 50-50 LVM extra salty by making them pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:08 PM
3

Good point! There really are mentally unstable men out here who would follow someone home like this. We really have to be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:04 PM
23

You have no idea how common this is! I was this gf for someone once and he put exactly ZERO effort into studying German. Of course he got mad at me because his German skills did not improve one bit. He basically expected me to prepare German lessons for him and spoon feed him information without him doing anything. After 2 years he was only able to say things like "Ich bin ein Apfel." and blamed me for it. He was like a moody toddler that was always too lazy to actually learn the language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:55 AM
6

He can go test someone else. He should test one of his bros that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:45 AM
6

Just tell him you'll pay next time then block him when you get home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:40 AM
13

It stems from the belief that some men have that women must secretly hate each other and are naturally catty/competitive with each other. Those men also can't comprehend two women being best friends over many years or two lesbians loving each other. It contradicts their narrative, so they dismiss it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:06 PM
16

He wants you to compete against those imaginary girls and he thinks you'll eat it up since in his mind women are competitive anyway. (He has a very one dimensional view of women) Ideally for him you'll never ask him to go inside a clothing store since you don't want to be like those other girls you are "competing" against.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:59 PM
42

If you tell him that he might ask you to be exclusive right then and there just so he can have sex with you in that very moment. We still have to put them on a trial period after becoming exclusive, before we even consider sleeping with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:56 PM
89

No straight woman is surprised to hear that lesbians have more orgasms on average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:45 PM
11

Run, girl! Run! If you would have to contribute with your salary you could also get a female roomate, one that will never require you to sleep with her or take care of her on top of you contributing. It's a bad deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:23 AM
8

Why should we care if some LVM attempts to standard shame us at work. Recognize them for the petty losers they are (telling a woman at work she should accept less, really???) and ignore them! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:19 AM
6

The toilet is his throne from where he rules over all the other shitty males that share his mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:55 PM
32

The good thing about Peterson is that he convinced thousands of LVM to clean their room and make their bed. Making their beds in the morning is like the beginning of a path to enlightenment for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:49 PM
8

He's visual but doesn't own a mirror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:15 PM
32

I blame 50 Shades of Grey for normalizing concepts like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:40 AM
22

Did your ex-husband suddenly start acting worse (assuming he read the book at some point)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:04 AM
45

His forehead looks like a field to plant crops in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:46 PM
8

It's a good idea. But what if he turns out to be a good guy and finds out that your dad wasn't a cop after a while? Lie about things he won't be able to verify to weed out sociopaths. Like mention your brother and how he was always looking out for you since you were little (even if that's not the case he won't be able to verify it, but it still scares off sociopaths). Plus if someone abused you in your past DO NOT TELL HIM about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:12 PM
8

Imo it's better to be vulnerable with your female friends. Nothing beats a good support system made out of your closest female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:02 PM
7

Sometimes they just flat out ask you stuff like "What was the saddest moment in your life?" and you are confused because they ask this out of nowhere and it seems so random. It's not random once you understand their motives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:57 PM
11

The last sentence. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:00 AM
9

Tall and skinny guys usually have big ones. Overweight ones usually have smaller ones. But no guarantee here either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:11 AM
18

Agreed. Imagine if she had just walked out right then and there and never spoken to him or his mother ever again. Let his mother have him. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:54 AM
1

Sounds like r/NeckbeardNests . It's hard to imagine that some people really live like this. But they do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:27 PM
5

Aged like fine wine.🍷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:07 PM
21

They could always leave you, but if you make them invest in you they're less likely to do so. Let him take you to nice restaurants for example and don't sleep with him too soon. This will weed out many fuckboys who just want to spend the least amount of time and effort to get you into bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:56 PM
30

Asking for money back for a gift that he bought you? That's so disrespectful! At least he's an ex now. Not having him around must be a treat in and of itself now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:47 PM
167

Yes! If you don't do things for yourself and make yourself a priority other people won't either. And don't let anyone shame you for it. Just treat yourself like you would treat a person you care for and don't be so hard on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:27 AM
20

An onion ring would be fine too!! Anything more means you're a gold digger!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:17 AM
9

I've noticed that too. And it's often gorgeous looking women like the one in the picture who degrade themselves like this. They could do so much better, but don't realize it because they've been brainwashed to expect the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:07 AM
18

"What about breastfeeding?? Have you tried nursing him? Maybe if you would just lend him your boob he would feel better. Don't be selfish!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:41 PM
3

He 100% had ulterior motives as to why he added you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:23 PM
16

Your peers might think of you as shallow, but remember, you're not the one stuck with an adult toddler (man-child) that treats you badly. So you win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:11 AM
19

We're supposed to look over their flaws and give them a chance regardless. But would they give an (in their eyes) ugly woman a chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:06 AM
9

Omg! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:03 AM
12

He was hoping you would do the pickme dance for him. Boy, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:33 AM
6

Why is this so accurate? 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:46 AM
66

"Calm your ovaries, fellow XX chromosome carriers. I am a feMALE as well. Now excuse me, as I go to paint my tampon with nail polish. I'm such a middle-aged man girly girl, hi hi. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:30 PM
47

"Just tell me what to do, but don't expect me to actually do it." 🙉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:01 PM
11

Imagine a Disney-like cartoon version of breaking mom. ~~~ Princess Jasmin marries LVM Aladdin. He impregnates her and proceeds to use her as a domestic servant/work-mule. Anytime she speaks up, he just rolls his eyes because obviously she's being a nagging wife. Why listen? Besides, he already got her so he doesn't even need to try. ~~~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:43 PM
29

Let's hope that FDS and other platforms like it grow, so more women will know what's up. Unfortunately many women never had their parents or anyone else teach them. But times are changing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:26 PM
17

Yes, it's like a law of nature for them to come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:21 PM
18

Not today, Satan. Not today. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:16 PM
85

But how will men like this get a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, ...., ∞-th chance to do the same exact thing again and again if we don't cOMmUnicaTe? Telling women to communicate just gives men like this enough wiggle room to convince us that we're wrong for not understanding their behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:57 AM
19

Watermelons! 😂😂 But he also has his sparkling pErSOnaLiTy so the watermelons and his living situation are just the cherry on top!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:15 AM
85

If you are still living with him I'd recommend making your exit plan without him knowing. Don't announce that you are leaving him. Just find a new place and one day while he's out of the house pack all your things and LEAVE. Block him on everything too. That way you won't have to deal with his whining and him gaslighting you, it's also a queen move to just leave and not tolerate bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:34 AM
10

"Sexual value". You met a RP scrote in the wild. No normal human with basic social skills talks like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:09 AM
15

Divide and conquer. It's easier for them to get away with bad behavior that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:06 AM
211

Whenever a man gets upset about your standards you automatically know that he can't meet them. This is a quick way to spot LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:19 PM
12

Bingo. This is the reason they do this. They know they ain't shit, but they don't want you to see it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:18 AM
40

By month 8 he will start leaving his fecal matter on the floor too because he just can't be bothered to use the toilet anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:17 PM
10

Surprisingly he didn't lie about his height... or maybe he did and he's even smaller than 1.67 m.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:47 PM
6

Handbook material!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:45 PM
33

Just make sure you let them pay for dates and many LVM will weed themselves out QUICK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:52 AM
40

BuT YoUr MaiD SerViCEs sHOuLD bE FRee!!! 😢 ExPEcTinG mEn tO ProViDe iS Sexist!1!! 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:47 AM
111

Sometimes they don't even believe you when you say you have a boyfriend and will ask you details about him to catch you in a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:12 PM
19

Sounds like he was enjoying a power trip at work (you would never pay attention to him if it was not for work and he KNOWS that). But at least he's not your boss anymore, so yay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:57 PM
4

It's cool if you don't like the title, I'm just trying to clarify. 🙌 So a recovering Pickme reads the title "LVM and Pickmes belong together 💞" and this makes her think that she deserves her past bad treatment? The title just says that LVM and Pickmes go together. Do they not? Just because someone in a relationship treats his partner bad does not mean the other person deserves it. I was a recovering Pickme too, and questioning why I attracted LVM made me dig into my own issues, research codepend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:28 AM
14

Yup. Never satisfied but they'll use her until she has had enough and decides to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:55 AM
7

How does this post make a recovering pickme feel like she deserves bad treatment? It just shows how LVM look to the rest of us. If she feels like she deserves bad treatment then seeing LVM for the leeches that they really are is a good first step to build some self-esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:39 AM
57

When you block a LVM ex on all social media. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:53 PM
94

Plus many women are conditioned to see choking as "sexy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:31 PM
27

She's stuck with a 50/50 "conservative" who wants to squeeze as much utility out of her as possible. In a Fireside chat with Dennis Prager, Ben talks about his father being a stay-at-home dad and his mother being the breadwinner. He expressed zero concern about his mother being overworked, but felt bad for his dad for not being able to "feel manly". He also defended his 50/50 relationship to which Dennis Prager (a conservative who believes a man should provide for his wife 👏👏👏) gave him the side…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:48 PM
12

LVMs love to ride the coat tails of a woman that's more successful and ambitious than them while at the same time demonizing career women. And his own father was a stay-at-home dad while his mother was the breadwinner. The apple really doesn't fall far from the tree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:33 PM
10

You came out on top. Good job! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:27 PM
63

He might still use you to build himself up until he is established. Then he will leave you for his dream woman that never had to provide for him in any form. Don't be a stepping stone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 01:16 AM
6

Chipping in will eventually turn into 50/50. Give an inch and they take a mile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:19 PM
7

Added and updated! Providing emotional labor is such a ridiculously common expectation that it doesn't even register as an expectation for many (it's a given) and I even forgot about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:01 PM
35

And only believe his actions. What comes out of his mouth is irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:00 AM
495

Imagine if you would put all that effort and energy into yourself? Where would you be in 5 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:49 PM
12

He's a covert narcissist, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:50 PM
16

In that case society would say that it was your fault for ChOOsiNG wROnG!!! They try to blame you either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:22 PM
1

That's a much simpler and better explaination actually. Usually the simplest explaination is the right one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:13 PM
17

She's been successfully programmed by society to not expect too much from men while giving all that she can to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:01 PM
14

Procreating with men like this would lead to devolution. Humans evolving back to apes. We've come too far as humans to let this happen! 🚫🙉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:56 AM
23

Those men also have an IQ equal to that of a fetus. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:33 PM
71

My theory as to why many men are against women having abortions: Women naturally don't want to procreate with bottom of the barrel men. The only way those men would be able to pass their genes on is by using force(rape) or coercion against the woman. Once impregnated she would have to carry his seed and give birth. But in a world where every woman has the option to get an abortion, the woman would still be able to 'reject' those men's genes after getting pregnant. This gives her power and denies…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 08:33 PM
3

You're right. Sometimes you get unlucky and encounter someone that just hates other women. There is really nothing you can do about it. Their issues are not your problem. You'll just have to look somewhere else to find genuine female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:08 PM
25

A woman who purposely has no female friends and isn't interested in making any is a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:29 PM
69

Serves him right. But somehow you never see the opposite, it's always entitled loser men (never women) who want to kill others for rejecting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:13 PM
96

If he doesn't come build, send him back to the factory! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:09 PM
175

Fine wine from the dollar store with mold and a dead rat floating in it. Served in a plastic cup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:02 PM
4

Words to live by. 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:10 PM
7

Yes! Real self-love is the first line of defence against predators. And real "self-love" is not face masks, bath bombs and other treat-yourself goods (💸), but the sense of respect for yourself that you carry with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 04:19 PM
13

And he didn't waste unnecessary money her, he's so frugal! 😍😍😍 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:18 PM
1

Those low-lifes are just angry that you are exposing them. They don't want others to do better. You are helping others level up with your posts and they don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:13 AM
5

He's attempting to neg you or just mentally challenged. Or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:00 AM
6

Tales from the dark abyss of "sex-positivity".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:55 PM
6

Him - "You can get the next one." 😎 You - "Okay, sure. Next time we go out I'll pay." 😇 And then there will be no next time!!! 👻 Agree, go home and block him. He has shown you that he does not value you much by insisting that you pay. Don't waste anymore time on him. Bonus: When he asks you to spit the check during the date (🤡), you say you'll pay for the next time as you find it awkward to spilt the bill on the date. Of course there won't be a second date. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:00 PM
38

Of course he wouldn't pay her for giving birth, she should be honored to serve as a vessel for birthing his future offspring. He would however charge her for his biohazard sperm before she gets pregnant. 100$ a pop. His children also would have to pay him, 30$ for every 10 minutes of playtime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 06:44 PM
4

That's some vintage queen energy right there! 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:19 PM
13

Now imagine a world where all women had high self-esteem. That's what heaven must be like. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:25 PM
66

Good job for blocking him and not wasting anymore time with him! Those predators are so predictable once you recognize the patterns they use. All their tactics only work on approval-seeking women with low self-esteem. Pickmes. That's why once you are no longer a Pickme all their weak manipulation tactics ("game") stop working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:03 PM
12

Pretending he doesn't know how to do it so you'll do it for him in the future. Classic LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:38 PM
12

Or they think: "Well she's used to much worse, so it's okay if I put in minimal effort."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:24 PM
8

Sagging ballsack 😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:20 PM
21

Yes! Don't let your (lvm) boyfriend keep you from finding your (hvm) husband. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:19 AM
32

One more reason we shouldn't care if men call us gold diggers, when they themselves are beauty diggers. But men on dating apps are EXTRA entitled about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:32 AM
9

It really is ironic. So many people here found FDS through some scrote complaining about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:06 PM
3

Wow, that's so rare to see a female Republican with a male Democrat. Usually it's the other way around (or both have similar views). Maybe he gets emotional because he would like you to believe as he does? Whatever it is, he should respect your opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:22 PM
2

If you're still interested, I'm here. I live in a conservative country just like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:01 PM
3

Another way to break more of her boundaries. He'll continue until there is nothing left of her other than an empty shell of a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:43 PM
7

Yes! Plus many of them loooove to gossip about women and use more foul language while doing it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:39 PM
21

Let's hope someone finally picks them. They are clowning themselves too much not be picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:39 PM
20

At least we can learn this from them. Also when negotiating salaries, a mediocre man would never ask for less than he thinks he is worth. But many women sell themselves short. Take note.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:58 PM
4

His well has run dry, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:49 AM
76

Even in my darkest Pickme days I would have never dreamt about proposing to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:42 AM
4

She really dodged a HUGE bullet with this one. She would have had a miserable life with him, but instead she had enough self-respect to break up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:14 AM
10

Awesome that you made it out of Russia! Any country that treats women this badly, doesn't deserve them. If they hate women so much, they should be happy whenever a woman leaves Russia for good. Also in western countries, Russian women are known to be beautiful and there is a certain mystique about them, while Russian men are known to be ... meh. This is a stereotype, but it's a true stereotype from my personal experience. It's like the misogyny in their home country artificially inflates men's e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:02 AM
34

They put themselves first and expect us to put ourself last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:34 PM
42

They usually see the bs straight away, but stick around for citizenship (if they are dealing with a LVM).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:35 PM
3

Or better, send a nude of an old man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:07 PM
22

You probably saved her from being blackmailed by him. Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:05 PM
9

He would have claimed that it was just "BDSM gone wrong" in that case and (probably) gotten away with murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:11 PM
20

LVM literally never forget who owes them 0.25$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:02 PM
27

HVW getting their rent paid by men (💅) while Pickmeisha is paying a dude's mortgage (🤡). We really live in two different dimensions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:20 PM
27

Proof that being book-smart alone is not enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:22 PM
31

Isn't it sad that she had to force him to propose? In the future whenever they have an argument he can always say that he was forced into their marriage by her. And he would be right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:19 PM
137

She also drives him to work, gives him sponge baths, brushes his five remaining teeth and potty trains him. Whenever he remembers to use the toilet and not crap on the floor she gives him good boy points for it. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:56 PM
96

Society needs women to think like this, otherwise Skid-Mark-Jake and Negging-Mark would remain single. Literally no sane woman would consider them. If the bottom percentile of men don't have access to women, they are far more likely to behave in harmful ways (violence, crimes). Society wants us to be a free rehabilitation center for those men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:03 PM
17

Since LVM are so adamant about splitting it must work on some Pickmeisha or Cool Girl from time to time. The less women tolerate this behavior, the less we will see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:01 PM
22

Me three. Stingy men and women who don't want you to do better than them (crabs in a barrel) will use terms like "gold digger" to shame us. u/eltrajeazulito don't listen to people who want to shame you into a mediocre life. They can't do better and want to keep you down with them. You were able to get a guy who paid for everything and you can get another one of those if you want to. Don't settle for a "normal" guy. Normal guys are NOT less controlling than generous well-off men. Might as well on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:00 AM
38

He really aged like fine wine. Fine wine from the dollar store with mold in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:23 PM
12

Wouldn't be surprised if he sees her as a ticket to being debt free. He and his mother (assuming he didn't lie about her) are both low value people. She should RUN!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:07 PM
11

Should you find yourself in a similar situation again just tell him that you'll pay for the next date, as you find it awkward to split the bill in front of people. (Of course there won't be a second date. )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:22 PM
385

Also beware of the shut-up ring, a tactic used to string the forever girlfriend along even further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 08:50 PM
193

If he likes you, he'll make it painfully obvious. Anything else, like when he is playing hot and cold (push pull), and you're fooling yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:00 PM
22

100%. If you set the bar low, they will still find a way to crawl under it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:01 PM
22

They are projecting their fear of dying alone onto us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:38 AM
69

The article doesn't even sound like a woman wrote it. More like a frustrated male trying to convince women that serving as a human fleshlight is necessary for a healthy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:49 PM
84

Good job! He was expecting you to panic and apologise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:59 PM
6

Yes! Get that bag, girl! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 09:27 PM
69

I would avoid bi men like the plague. Plus I would strongly advise to never tell men that you are bi yourself. Straight men might use that information to push for a FFM threesome and bi men might use that information to gaslight you into accepting them chasing after dick. You gain nothing from telling them. Another one of my theories is that bi men know that women are conditioned to put themselves last, unlike men. That's why they go to women for the convenience and to men for fun/love. The aver…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:40 PM
30

LVM's love language: ✊🍆💦💦💦😎😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:42 PM
28

Right? Makes you wonder what he will do next to humiliate her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:16 AM
33

He (a foreigner) didn't bother to learn the local language of the country we were studying in. I (also a foreigner) did and made many friends. He didnt make any friends, was angy about it and complained that the people here were awful and superficial. No idiot, you have to learn the local language, they won't just learn yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:47 PM
1

Smegmoids! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:31 PM
45

Because they don't expect women to fight back. Like when Eminem dissed Mariah Carey and said truly nasty things about her on some of his songs and was overall just very disrespectful towards her. Only when her then husband Nick Cannon threathened to fight him did Eminem sheepishly apologise. Classic LVM behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:15 PM
58

Sometimes you wonder how people like this even exist. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:43 AM
10

You can also use your phone as a tool to better your speech. Record your voice, listen to the recording and notice when you use filler words. This gives you a better representation of how other people will perceive your speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:42 PM
8

Sounds like you need a hazmat suit to enter the bathroom after him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:21 AM
12

Dog spelled backwards is God. Coincidence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:10 AM
5

Wow, that's beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:02 PM
43

Why is the bar so low? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:55 PM
23

If you date multiple people at once you will care less. That way you won't get emotionally attached too fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:28 PM
41

Sounds like he used triangulation and blame shifting on you. That's typical for narcissists. He wanted to make you jealous, so you would not notice how truly undeserving he was of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:40 PM
106

Once a fuccboi acquires enough STDS, his dick will be so diseased that it might as well look like an eggplant. Purple and swollen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:21 PM
11

She, SheRaSeven1 and other female youtubers are changing lives. This is a growing movement for women worldwide. Stay dust free, always! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:15 PM
78

She's so right about needing to cut things out when you feel overwhelmed. Even just decluttering your house and getting rid of all the unnecessary clutter in your physical space will help you think clearer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 10:07 PM
43

Of course the comments tell her she needs to CoMmuNiCAte with him!!!! Any variations of "You need to communicate with him" are a nice way of saying "Shut up, listen to what he wants and accommodate him."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:16 AM
59

He called her childish for having those impressive dancing skills? Lol. He's clearly intimidated and embarrassed that he can't keep up with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:57 AM
23

Write down your boundaries, things you are not willing to tolerate. Also write down what would most likely happen if you let other people walk over each boundary (past experiences maybe) and what would happen if you would stick to each boundary. Whenever you feel weak, just reread what you wrote down and picture the two scenarios in your head: one where you stick to your boundaries and one where you don't. This will make it easier to not fall back into old patterns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:30 AM
7

Sometimes the explanation really is this simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:05 PM
18

They don't care about women's accomplishments because to them all women are interchangeable anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:59 PM
41

Notice how pick me chicks want to drag other women down to their level. "I don't have nice things happening to me, so other women shouldn't have nice things either!!!" Crabs in a bucket mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:29 AM
6

It is my business as I was brainwashed by kink-positive, porn-positive people like her to believe that certain depraved sex acts are normal. I used to be a subscriber of her and she herself talked about her disease, her ostomy bag, "the benefits of porn" and mentioned how she can't put her butt plug inside of her anymore because of her disease (in a sex toy declutter video). She puts all of this information out there herself. Plus she glosses over all of the risks of various sex acts and present…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:46 PM
26

This could even happen in her mid 20s. There are plenty of Freakmeisha female sex-positive youtubers who end up getting an ostomy bag themselfes in their 20s. You just KNOW most of them have done anal regularly, otherwise they wouldn't have this problem. Example: Hannah Witton.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:11 AM
19

She will have to walk around with an ostomy bag if she continues to ignore her doctor's advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:56 AM
27

She's a Bob the Builder chick to him. He will squeeze everything he can out of her and dump her. His real dream girl will think he did everything by himself. That's the plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:24 PM
13

Men know right away and will propose within 1 year if you are the one. Otherwise you are just being strung along as a placeholder or forever girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:18 PM
12

Burn!!! 😭👂👂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:24 AM
9

There really are good men out there. But if you give one of those bums a chance, you will miss out on the good men that will treat you well. Don't settle for low effort. You are worth more than being a 50 50 chick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:45 PM
87

It's funny how gossipy men get when it comes to women they had a hookup with. On one side they want hookups, but on the other hand they gossip about and shame women who do casual sex. Which one is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:26 PM
39

It's messed up, but that's really how narcissists think about you. They also abuse you as a way of keeping you under their control. And if you do manage to break free, they see it as a betrayal because of their entitlement issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:20 PM
68

Her deciding to leave him for someone better and leveling up would be the cherry on top for this story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:20 PM
99

And they were like: "Ew. You?" when he approached them for a hookup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:03 PM
20

They want women to be rehabilitation centers for broken men. And they try to shame us into that role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:37 PM
40

Don't call him. He's clearly interested since he gave you his number TWICE, but wants you to do the chasing. Don't give in. Right now he's playing a waiting game to see if you will give in. Don't do it. If he's a HVM he will pursue you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 08:57 PM
112

"She": Has come to find that her beliefs weren't true Feels like she's not enough for him Accepts that men want many women Gaslights herself Is desperate to please him Is learning how to adjust to this situation (like the good Pickme she is) Has extremely low self-esteem and literally sees herself as an access point for sex 😷 This sounds like a RP reject fantasizing about how women should behave in relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:50 PM
14

She wants other women to not have those rights, her being the exception of course. After all she's not like other females!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:21 PM
77

This is such an inspirational level up story! You are practically a different person now. And you are so right about the power of being confident. Other people will literally size you up to see where your confidence level is at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 12:07 AM
3

But why is this so common? It's really frightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:50 PM
3

Did you just laugh at the "dad"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:48 PM
38

How would he have felt if she did this to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:32 PM
29

Or split everything 50 50, because EquALitY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:17 PM
41

Never "pitch in" for a man. If he is serious about you he will never ask you to pay. But if he does not really care about losing you, he might ask you to "pitch in". After all, you are not that special to him anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:13 PM
24

Anger is a totally legitimate emotion to have when someone is mistreating you. It can set you free, if you just allow yourself to explore the feeling. Maybe other former pickmes can attest to this, but once you get to the point to where you feel angry about how you are treated instead of just accepting it, things change. Something in you just clicks and you start to question everything. You start a path of self-discovery, your self-esteem increases and eventually you get to a point to where you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:56 PM
12

Scrotes getting hit with that male pattern baldness, while still thinking they look like they're 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:14 PM
59

We need a pickmesha exorcist for this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:02 AM
9

Now that you say it, it really makes sense. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:47 AM
12

Dying of laugher, lol. But come to think of it, they would probably do it if asked.😷 They would wipe their captain's dirty butt too. It's a great way to prove how submissive they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:39 AM
58

Yes!!! Society wants us to believe that other women are our enemy, that we have to compete with other women for men. That's like an egg swimming to the (lvm) sperm and fighting other eggs on the way there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:21 PM
75

"a 7/10 at best" really gives it away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:51 PM
1

I never even mentioned radfems. I was equating women in general as enslaved people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:39 AM
0

What would that adjective be? Just curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:34 AM
10

The sheer audacity of some people. You are trying to raise your standards and they try to pull you back down by questioning your reasons for bettering your life. Just to plant doubt in your mind. Like crabs in a bucket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:23 PM
17

Words to live by. 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:31 PM
20

0,1 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:52 PM
70

With coworkers like this you don't need enemies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:37 PM
76

Even women are now starting to use the word porn where it doesn't belong. That's how normalized it has become. Example: r/PanPorn is a community of mainly women who share their progress on using up makeup products. Which has nothing to do with pornography, but it's still in the title.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:28 PM
17

It was probably meant as a "He should love you more than you love him." But forcing yourself to love someone would be a bad idea indeed. Plus he has to earn your love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:24 PM
22

Knowing this is a game changer for women who dont know why they always attract abusers. Never reveal your vulnerabilities to a stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:48 PM
302

A prostitute would charge him more than $23. Men who do this "casual" thing are really trying to get sex for as cheap as possible. (Ideally for free.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:37 PM
8

You did the right thing. Stay unbothered and focus on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:12 PM
11

They recruit women by using fear tactics. Remember the OK cupid study about how women peak at 20? They want women to be afraid of being past their prime and flock to OLD apps out of desperation. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:04 PM
15

Surprised he didn't use "Females" instead of "Women".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:14 AM
9

They probably asked for nudes in the first place because they plan on blackmailing you later. Or to have some kind of power over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:11 AM
24

You are the kind of woman I aspire to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:47 PM
5

Men who do this fundamentally view women as subhuman. They want to build their own harem rotation, but each woman in it should only be his. Like a closet full of shoes: You own them and no one else gets to use them. Women are objects to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:41 PM
10

Sometimes they will even ask you if you are bi. Probably to see it they can squeeze a threesome out of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:20 PM
29

How would they try to gauge for how lonely/desperate/vulnerable you were? Asking out of curiosity. Did they just use push-pull methods to see if you would chase them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:50 PM
17

Absolutely. Men never use it to refer to someone in a positive way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:20 PM
82

By not liking high maintenance girls he actually meant women who dont tolerate his bs. A high maintenance girl won't put up with certain things, so he will have to do MORE to "maintain" a relationship with her. A girl can be beautiful, wear makeup and like expensive things and still not be high maintenance because she tolerates bad behavior from men. There are Pickmes that put a lot of effort into being beautiful for their LVM that treats them like trash. He was telling you the truth when saying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:15 PM
24

One day she will look back at her cringy Pickme-behavior and be ashamed that she willingly humiliated herself like this. This, or she will stay a Pickme forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:02 PM
61

She's crazy about him...after only 3 dates.😬 Guaranteed he doesn't feel the same about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:57 PM
110

Why do they all think women will just timidly wait around as a backup plan for them? And then they are SHOCKED when the woman values herself enough to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:40 PM
30

"And they used protection while sharing a room and having accidental platonic sex, so it doesn't even count as cheating."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:30 PM
1

That's the right attitude to have. You are doing them a favor as a customer, not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:14 PM
34

Aww, that's really sweet. There really are kind people in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:13 AM
41

Sounds like he really took you for granted if he can't even be bothered to text you "Happy Valentines day". There are HVM out there who will treat you better. He's not a HVM, clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:10 AM
19

Your bf still made the effort. That's how a man that cares about you acts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:41 PM
27

100%. It's sad to think of it, but we'll never know the full story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:36 PM
30

No, he just asked me if I wanted them and gave them to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:51 PM
18

Honestly, the ones that get upset about women here having higher standards than themselves shouldn't be here to begin with. Hopefully the content of this sub won't get watered down because of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:31 PM
87

"Believe it or not, A woman with less friends makes a good target for abuse." There, that's what he really meant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:14 PM
3

Yes to being unapologetic about having standards! If you give them an inch, they take a mile. So offering to pay part of something from time to time can quickly turn into 50/50. True masculine HVM will even be turned off by you paying. Plus it makes you look desperate. If he wants someone to contribute financially, he needs a more masculine woman. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:38 PM
3

Just think about how much time you save by not shaving for fuckboys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:25 PM
11

You're right. That's a classic case of sour grapes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:28 PM
62

That's why we should NEVER even consider giving a LVM a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:18 PM
77

"Pick me! Pick me!!! I'm so low-effort and you won't even have to spend much money on me! I'm not like other girls!!1!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:24 PM
5

It's really important to not double down on something that doesn't work for you. Many people do this because they fall prey to the sunk-cost fallacy. So it's really awesome that you're not one of them and are willing to be uncomfortable now in order to change the direction of your life. That's a HVW mindset right there.💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:38 AM
2

Truer words have never been spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:13 PM
14

Ah yes, the fake breakup. Seems to be a common LVM manipulation tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 06:06 PM
35

I've lived in an eastern european country for a few years and was shocked by how many beautiful women there walked around with a chain on their brain. Feeling like they are not whole without a man, needing to split everything 50/50, being flattered by LVM asking them on a coffee date. And the men felt entitled to beautiful women acting desperate like this. A true LVM paradise. And the funny thing is that an "average" eastern European woman can easily score a partner from a wealthier country. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:54 PM
15

Low self-esteem + female Pickme socialization did this to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:20 PM
7

That's so true. Apps like this wouldn't make money without the promise of women being on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:45 AM
8

● is a grown man, but dresses like a middle/high school kid ● unkempt toes ● nose hair ● bad smell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:46 PM
5

Savage! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:12 PM
6

Savage! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:11 PM
2

It's bad enough if one parent is distant, but both of them? Plus a toxic environment? It's no wonder you have low self-esteem now. As children our parents are supposed to give us approval and validation. This in turn makes us understand that we have internal value and that we matter. Your two emotionally distant parents could not give this to you and now you suffer as a consequence. What you could do: - Understand why your parents are like this. It is highly likely that they themselves grew up i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:44 PM
14

That's some good 2020 energy right there. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:44 PM
20

And that's where societal female conditioning comes into play. Brainwashing girls from an early age will later turn them into grown women who will do anything for male validation. There really is no real benefit in being a bang-maid girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:42 PM
15

Yes, the forever girlfriend is just a stepping stone for him. After he got where he wanted to be he will discard her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:33 PM
2

Because playing the martyr is the secondary gain they get out of those situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:26 PM
3

He keeps texting you even though you ignore him because it worked the first time. He's hoping that he will eventually catch you in a weak moment (like when you were in a bad state of mind and wanted someone to show you your value) to get something out of you. He even demanded you to come down to him at 11 pm? Boy, bye. 🚮 He sounds very disrespectful and low value. Seriously, how would someone like this even benefit you in any way? But the real problem here is why you tolerate direspectful people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:09 PM
6

Still don't just tell him what you are looking for. There is a high chance he said this because that's what he thinks most women want to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:40 PM
3

100% solid advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:35 PM
3

Let them feel entitled then, that's not your problem. If he feels like you owe him for one dinner he sees you as nothing more than a cheap prostiture. Drop him immediately. And going Dutch will not only not stop men from feeling entitled to you, you won't be able to filter effectively against LVM. Since you happily paid 50% of the date they will see you as a bargain priced woman they can use to extract resources from. "Hey, this one even pays for herself. She must really want me. Let's see what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:50 PM
8

They are used to women having low standards. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:28 PM
8

They were shocked because they expected you to just take it. But you put them in their place. Queen move. 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:10 PM
4

He uses emojis like a 13 year old, but he's 31.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:04 AM
30

He was able to extract resources from you in the past, so once he runs into some problems with his wife he will try to see if you are still available to him. Don't let him. Did he try to "remain friends" after the break up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:43 PM
8

You handled this like a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:27 PM
29

This 100%!!! He wrongfully assumed that he had her wrapped around his finger (like many men do) and wanted to trigger an emotional response from her. Instead she thought rationally and moved on. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:29 PM
16

Guess James wasn't expecting you to have firm boundaries. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 06:42 PM
5

That's peak LVM behavior right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 04:15 PM
31

Exactly. Friends don't have sex with each other. He should just use one of his bros as a flesh light if he really believes in the FWB concept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 10:52 PM
94

A free prostitute, but only for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 10:47 PM
2

North Carolina. The south is the best area in the US in my opinion. I participated in a high school exchange programme there for 1 year, but am back in Europe right now for uni to avoid going into debt due to the high tuition cost in the US. While you get your master's try to also apply for the diversity visa lottery. It's 100% free. There is only a small chance of winning, but if you do you will get a green card. I do it every year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:14 PM
13

Yes, born and raised in Bolzano. I had a similar experience as you: got bullied for my pale skin + dark hair/eyes. Even got compared to looking like a corpse by some male high school teacher. In my region of Italy there are quite a lot of blonde blue-eyed women, however many of them are not proficient in Italian (this region used to be part of Austria = ~60% of people there today are native German speakers). And the funny thing is Italian guys will prefere a woman with fair features and intermed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:31 PM
28

Sounds like Italy to me, especially the part about worshipping blonde blue eyed women. 😅 God, I'm glad I don't live there anymore. And as someone who has lived in both America and multiple European countries I can tell you: YES, Europeans generally are cheaper than Americans and more likely to pull that 50/50 bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:04 PM
32

What a classy and sophisticated man, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:24 PM
18

The source is deranged men who think the world owes them for simply existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:14 PM
24

Yes she will. He will gaslight her some more and make her think she was overreacting and being irrational. Then SHE will apologise to him and stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:57 PM
3

When people show you who they are, believe them. At some point their mask will slip, even if it's just for a moment, and they will reveal their true self/intentions to you. He showed you his true self with this "You're an angel.." comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:25 PM
76

"[...]releasing the information because Ashley Madison had lied about the male-female account ratio[...]" Of course sites like this lie about their male to female ratio to attract more men. OLD apps like Tinder even claim to have a 50:50 ratio of men and women. Sure. There is an overabundance of men on all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:06 PM
17

He really thought he could get away with it, but you didn't let him. Good job! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:23 PM
22

Yes, of course! We just have to learn how to be more submissive and give wife privileges to men who are not our husbands. And MAYBE one day they might bless us with a beautiful shut up ring like Lauren's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:33 PM
38

Deep down inside women with a forever-fiance know that they got a shut up ring. Looking at you Lauren Chen. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:06 PM
28

And this is why we make them pay for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:43 PM
229

Scare tactic. He wants to discourage women from subscribing to/applying FDS, so he tries to make it seem like any potential boyfriend would be "horrified" to find his girlfriend on here. Yawn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:49 PM
13

Why does he think a young woman would willingly sacrifice her womb for him? Where's the logic in that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:04 AM
30

And change his diapers 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:59 AM
13

You're a ruthless queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:12 AM
53

Pickme behaviour is often a generational curse. By breaking those patterns you have also helped your future generations (should you decide to have children in the future).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 10:43 PM
6

"Cocky Af" by Megan Thee Stallion. Instant confidence boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:57 PM
29

Bravo! You grew as a person and left him where he belongs, in the past. 🚮 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:12 AM
44

If humans weren't wired for monogamy, then men would not care if their partner sleeps with other people besides them. But they do. They just want to have their cake and eat it too. Humans are wired for monogamy. LVM will try to convince you that's not the case, so that you will put up with them cheating on you. Pickmes will do the same because they have low self esteem and don't think they alone would be enough for their man. They are the ones being delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:26 AM
50

And yet he wishes SHE had been more mature and realized HER mistake? 😂 God, the projection. I have seen this fake breakup tactic being promoted by male dating coaches on youtube. The goal is to make the woman more submissive and to install fear in her mind so that he will have more control over her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:43 PM
13

The "woman" who posted this is most likely a 32 year old NEET himself, with an old car and still living with his parents despite being in his early 30s. He's describing himself in a weird attempt to convince any women reading this, that there are other women who would not only put up with LVM males like him, but also be "extremely turned on" by this. Boy, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:16 PM
60

The sky truly is the limit once you get rid of all the negative programming that kept you in such a low place for so long. You also start to realize that other people were benefiting from you not seeing your worth. Much love 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 10:12 PM
27

You just blew my mind! FDS is really light years ahead of the standard dating advice women are given nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 09:57 PM
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